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- 0:05Speaker 1: If I passed the hour third hour morning show with
- 0:08Speaker 1: Preston's Guy Good Morning Show five four and ten. But
- 0:13Speaker 1: who's counting that would say it's Studio one A. I
- 0:18Speaker 1: am here in Studio one B. My guests joined me.
- 0:22Speaker 1: When his last book was released, Jackie Public, Private, Secret,
- 0:28Speaker 1: it was a best seller on every bestseller list that
- 0:30Speaker 1: there was. If there is an expert on the Kennedys,
- 0:35Speaker 1: it is this gentleman author, Randy Terra Borelli. Randy, welcome
- 0:38Speaker 1: back to the show.
- 0:39Speaker 2: How are you, sir, I'm good, Preston. How you doing? Man?
- 0:42Speaker 1: I am terrific.
- 0:43Speaker 2: I have been.
- 0:44Speaker 1: I have been thrilled to have this book in my
- 0:47Speaker 1: hands for a few weeks now, and I figure we
- 0:52Speaker 1: might as well break it up. We got three segments
- 0:54Speaker 1: to chat here, so let's talk Public, Private, and Secret.
- 0:57Speaker 1: But I'm curious. JFK. By many is considered the first
- 1:01Speaker 1: public president because he came in in the television era.
- 1:06Speaker 1: How did you begin to find things with a man
- 1:10Speaker 1: so public so written about that filled in the space
- 1:15Speaker 1: for I mean, this book's huge.
- 1:18Speaker 2: Well, Preston, I made a decision when I started this
- 1:21Speaker 2: book two and a half years ago that if I
- 1:24Speaker 2: couldn't break new ground. I just wasn't going to do
- 1:27Speaker 2: it because I know what you're saying. I'm looking on
- 1:30Speaker 2: my bookshelf right now at about one hundred JFK books,
- 1:34Speaker 2: and they're all really good books, you know. But what
- 1:39Speaker 2: I do, what I specialize in is family as well
- 1:43Speaker 2: as in politics. And you know, what I found is
- 1:47Speaker 2: that most of the other writers were so consumed by,
- 1:51Speaker 2: you know, the important politics at the time. And the
- 1:53Speaker 2: politics was definitely, you know, right all at that period,
- 1:57Speaker 2: in this period of time, with the civil rights movement, Vietnam,
- 2:00Speaker 2: I'm Cuba, Castro Cuban missile crisis, the Bay of Pigs,
- 2:05Speaker 2: all of which I wrote about. But I used the family,
- 2:09Speaker 2: not only his but Jackies as a backdrop. And I
- 2:12Speaker 2: think the death's where this book is different. For instance,
- 2:15Speaker 2: whoever thought about writing about JFK's relationship with his mother
- 2:19Speaker 2: in law, right, I mean, you would never think to
- 2:21Speaker 2: do that, But man, what a powerful relationship that is.
- 2:25Speaker 2: And that's kind of what this book lands on. My
- 2:30Speaker 2: brand is really about family, and that's what this book
- 2:33Speaker 2: is about.
- 2:34Speaker 1: I'm curious did Jack Kennedy have a choice in becoming
- 2:39Speaker 1: who he became, because it seems as though boy Dad
- 2:43Speaker 1: called a lot of the shots in that family.
- 2:47Speaker 2: Well, you know, you're right. I mean, the dad was
- 2:50Speaker 2: a very powerful figure in the family, and Joe Kennedy,
- 2:54Speaker 2: the older brother, was really the man who was supposed
- 2:58Speaker 2: to become president. I mean, that was the goal ever
- 3:01Speaker 2: since Joe Kennedy entered Harvard. But then he was killed
- 3:06Speaker 2: in the war, and next up was JFK. But you know,
- 3:11Speaker 2: a popular sort of fallacy has been that, you know,
- 3:14Speaker 2: JFK really didn't have much say in it, But in fact,
- 3:19Speaker 2: he was already very invested in politics by the time
- 3:22Speaker 2: his brother was killed. No doubt his brother would have
- 3:25Speaker 2: been next. But then I think it would have been
- 3:27Speaker 2: JFK's turn, because he really wanted to be a public servant,
- 3:32Speaker 2: and he believed in he believed in his country, and
- 3:36Speaker 2: he believed in democracy, and from a very early age
- 3:40Speaker 2: he was very invested, and so I think he would
- 3:43Speaker 2: have been next had his brother lived.
- 3:46Speaker 1: The book is JFK Public Private Secret? I'm with the
- 3:49Speaker 1: author Randy Terra Borelli. Randy, you've written five books on
- 3:53Speaker 1: the Kennedys. Obviously, we want to walk this fine line
- 3:56Speaker 1: of enticing people to pick up the book, but given
- 3:59Speaker 1: him a little bit of information and not crossing the
- 4:02Speaker 1: line into spoiling. I'm curious what percentage of the public
- 4:06Speaker 1: portion of this book was new to you as a
- 4:10Speaker 1: researcher and someone that knows the Kennedy's as well as anybody.
- 4:14Speaker 2: Well, Preston, I have to say a lot of it
- 4:16Speaker 2: because you know, my previous Kennedy books were really focused
- 4:19Speaker 2: on Jackie. You know, I did Jackie Ethel Joan twenty
- 4:22Speaker 2: five years ago, which was about Jackie and her relationships
- 4:25Speaker 2: with her sisters in law Ethel and Joe Kennedy. And
- 4:29Speaker 2: I did Jackie Janet and Lee, which was about her
- 4:32Speaker 2: and her mother and her sister. And I did Jackie
- 4:34Speaker 2: Public Private Secret, which was about Jackie sort of Cradle
- 4:38Speaker 2: the Brave. But you know, it's one thing to write
- 4:42Speaker 2: about the wife during the Cuban missile crisis and the
- 4:45Speaker 2: Bay of Pigs and you know, the beginnings of Vietnam.
- 4:49Speaker 2: It's another thing to go into the Oval Office, you know,
- 4:52Speaker 2: where Jackie wasn't and deal with JFK and his decision making.
- 4:58Speaker 2: And a lot of this was new to me. And
- 5:00Speaker 2: I have to say that, I think if you really
- 5:03Speaker 2: want a primer on the Kennedy years without being sort
- 5:07Speaker 2: of overwhelmed. You can kind of dip into this book
- 5:11Speaker 2: and really get a sense of what was going on
- 5:13Speaker 2: in the country at that time as I did. I
- 5:16Speaker 2: mean for me, basically, it was homework every day for
- 5:19Speaker 2: two and a half years as I learned about these
- 5:23Speaker 2: the Bay of Pigs and the Cuban missile crisis and
- 5:25Speaker 2: Castro and the Berlin Wall, you know, and Kruse, Jeff
- 5:30Speaker 2: and all of the players of that time. So I
- 5:34Speaker 2: just a lot of it was new for me, you know,
- 5:37Speaker 2: and I think it will be hopefully for the reader too.
- 5:45Speaker 1: Back with you with author Randy Terraborelli the book JFK.
- 5:49Speaker 1: Public Private Secret. Randy, I don't want to assign what
- 5:54Speaker 1: I think, but I've got this picture of you as
- 5:57Speaker 1: you're researching this book and the way you break it
- 6:00Speaker 1: down with Public Private Secret. You come across these anecdotes
- 6:03Speaker 1: and I figure you're pitching them into one of the
- 6:05Speaker 1: three cyclos. How did you define which where a given anecdote,
- 6:11Speaker 1: story or fact would go.
- 6:14Speaker 2: Well, you know, for me, if it's well known history,
- 6:19Speaker 2: then that's public. I mean, some things will not change, right,
- 6:23Speaker 2: The Cuban missile crisis is always going to be exactly
- 6:25Speaker 2: what it was, and there are very few secrets left
- 6:29Speaker 2: to the Cuban missile crisis. People have written entire books
- 6:31Speaker 2: about that, right and so that's public. Private is you know,
- 6:37Speaker 2: along the lines of medical records and you know, presidential decisions,
- 6:44Speaker 2: you know, maybe between him and his brother and his cabinet,
- 6:48Speaker 2: and and there's a lot of that obviously. In this book.
- 6:53Speaker 2: Secret for Me is sort of the hidden personality of JFK.
- 7:00Speaker 2: You know, the journey of this man who was raised
- 7:04Speaker 2: entitled and privileged and with sort of a distinct lack
- 7:08Speaker 2: of empathy to grow into a leader and to grow
- 7:12Speaker 2: into a man who was accountable for his actions not
- 7:17Speaker 2: only to his wife but to the country. That's kind
- 7:20Speaker 2: of the secret thread, if you will, in this book,
- 7:25Speaker 2: because I found, you know, that hit and personality with
- 7:29Speaker 2: JFK to be very very very interesting and something I
- 7:35Speaker 2: really didn't know a lot about. I mean, I knew
- 7:36Speaker 2: that he cheated on his wife because I wrote about
- 7:38Speaker 2: the wife, sure, you know, but I didn't know why,
- 7:41Speaker 2: you know. And in this book I really learned a
- 7:44Speaker 2: lot about the whys of a JFK.
- 7:47Speaker 1: At what point do you as a researcher and an author,
- 7:51Speaker 1: decide that this is just too private. I don't need
- 7:56Speaker 1: to share this.
- 7:58Speaker 2: That's such a good question, And no one ever asked
- 8:01Speaker 2: me that question. And I got to think about that.
- 8:05Speaker 2: You know, I think for me, and I believe me,
- 8:07Speaker 2: there's a lot like that. A lot comes across my
- 8:10Speaker 2: desk and I'm like, you know what, no, not really,
- 8:12Speaker 2: let's let's not do this. And and a lot of
- 8:15Speaker 2: it has to do pressing with the act, with the
- 8:18Speaker 2: feeling that there's not enough context. You know, it's because
- 8:21Speaker 2: I wasn't there, and and and that might be a
- 8:25Speaker 2: decision that was made to do something that I really
- 8:27Speaker 2: think is was not a great decision. But I don't
- 8:30Speaker 2: know all the reasons why the decision was made. And
- 8:34Speaker 2: I always tell my researchers. I have a staff of
- 8:38Speaker 2: people who helped me with my books. Just because something
- 8:41Speaker 2: is true doesn't mean it needs to be in the books.
- 8:45Speaker 2: You know, it needs to move the story forward in
- 8:50Speaker 2: a way that is empathetic and dignified. If it's just
- 8:56Speaker 2: going to be something that's in there for titillation purposes
- 8:59Speaker 2: or or because maybe it might sell books, now, that's
- 9:03Speaker 2: not what I do you know, and so I guess
- 9:06Speaker 2: really to answer your question, it's my own moral compass
- 9:09Speaker 2: and the way that I was raised and how I
- 9:13Speaker 2: feel about people and wanting to just be fair. You know,
- 9:17Speaker 2: as a biographer and as an historian, you know, being
- 9:21Speaker 2: fair really matters.
- 9:23Speaker 1: We got one segment left with me, Randy Terri Borelli,
- 9:25Speaker 1: author JFK Public Private Secret. Well, you know what's left.
- 9:28Speaker 1: We're going to talk about secret here in the Morning
- 9:31Speaker 1: Show with Preston Scott. Twenty three plus years of doing
- 9:35Speaker 1: this show, I probably interviewed eight nine thousand folks, and
- 9:41Speaker 1: I can tell you with all honesty, Randy Terri Borelli
- 9:44Speaker 1: is the only author that's given me three perfect segments.
- 9:49Speaker 2: Well two so far. So let's wait and see how
- 9:51Speaker 2: that works out.
- 9:52Speaker 1: No, listen, you can't make it up. JFK. The book
- 9:56Speaker 1: is JFK Public Private Secret. When we get to the
- 9:59Speaker 1: sea secret portion of this, how much of the secret
- 10:05Speaker 1: is his personal private life? How much of it is
- 10:10Speaker 1: his work as a member of Congress or President of
- 10:14Speaker 1: the United States.
- 10:16Speaker 2: Well, President, the secret really is a private life, you know.
- 10:20Speaker 2: I mean, it really does have to deal with the
- 10:23Speaker 2: private decision making. And you know what it was that
- 10:27Speaker 2: led him to be, you know, such a terrible husband
- 10:32Speaker 2: to his wife. And you know, throughout history, it's always
- 10:36Speaker 2: been blamed on the father, you know, it's the common
- 10:40Speaker 2: sort of trope has always been, you know, the father
- 10:44Speaker 2: Joe Kennedy cheated on the mother, Ruis Kennedy, and so
- 10:48Speaker 2: JFK then cheated on Jackie. And I always thought that
- 10:51Speaker 2: it is such an easy leap and such a sort
- 10:54Speaker 2: of you know, not really smart way of looking at it,
- 10:58Speaker 2: but sort of like the way of looking at.
- 11:00Speaker 1: It that's a cop out.
- 11:02Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I did a lot of research, and
- 11:05Speaker 2: I found that it's partly true, but it's not entirely true,
- 11:09Speaker 2: because the rest of it is the mother. It's the
- 11:15Speaker 2: mother's sort of complicity and the father's cheating, and even
- 11:22Speaker 2: more than that, the mother and father hiring somebody to
- 11:25Speaker 2: live in the house with them. Joe and Rose hired
- 11:28Speaker 2: a woman named Janet de Rose. She was twenty four
- 11:31Speaker 2: to live in the house with them to service the
- 11:34Speaker 2: father not only sexually but also emotionally, because Rose didn't
- 11:38Speaker 2: want a lot to do with him. And so I
- 11:41Speaker 2: interviewed this woman, Janet de Rose. She was one hundred
- 11:44Speaker 2: years old, when I interviewed her a two years ago,
- 11:47Speaker 2: A great woman, a great memory, and she told me
- 11:50Speaker 2: the story of how she was brought into the family
- 11:55Speaker 2: as sort of Joe's secretary, but also somebody to service
- 11:59Speaker 2: him actually, and also to be somebody to do to
- 12:05Speaker 2: traffic in emotionally, because the whole point was for Rose
- 12:10Speaker 2: Kennedy to distance herself and travel the world. She could
- 12:14Speaker 2: not leave her marriage because of their religion, you know,
- 12:18Speaker 2: being Catholic, divorce was out of the question. So this
- 12:20Speaker 2: was a way that they figured out a way forward
- 12:24Speaker 2: by bringing Janet into the family. And I think that
- 12:29Speaker 2: this is a long way of saying that if you're
- 12:31Speaker 2: raised in a family where this is going on, then
- 12:34Speaker 2: how are you supposed to be a husband to you know,
- 12:39Speaker 2: to a wife. No if that, if your influence was this,
- 12:44Speaker 2: you know, your parents hired somebody to live in the
- 12:47Speaker 2: family sleep right down the hall, to serve with your father.
- 12:51Speaker 2: Of course you're not going to be the best husband
- 12:54Speaker 2: in your own marriage. And so JFK, you know, had
- 12:58Speaker 2: a lot to work through, and so did Jackie in
- 13:02Speaker 2: their marriage to sort of overcome this really really bad influence.
- 13:07Speaker 2: Not only as I said of the father's influence. But
- 13:11Speaker 2: the mom who you know, who allowed this? When Joe
- 13:15Speaker 2: hired Janet wrote, said what do I get out of it?
- 13:19Speaker 2: And Joe's response was freedom? And Rose said, fine, let's
- 13:24Speaker 2: bring her in and that's what they did.
- 13:27Speaker 1: I'm curious. I mean, I think I know the answer
- 13:31Speaker 1: to this. But but JFK and Jackie that that relationship
- 13:34Speaker 1: would never have survived in this era, would it.
- 13:38Speaker 2: Well, you're absolutely right, because women today are a different
- 13:42Speaker 2: breed of powerment right number one, when most women would
- 13:48Speaker 2: not put up with this, right and number two, in
- 13:52Speaker 2: the public eye, this would have this would have been
- 13:54Speaker 2: all over TMZ, right. I mean, there's no way that
- 13:58Speaker 2: you know, JFK would have been able to get away
- 14:00Speaker 2: with the infidelity that he got away with as a
- 14:04Speaker 2: public figure. Today today, there would be no way it
- 14:09Speaker 2: would be all over the newspapers. And back then in
- 14:12Speaker 2: the nineteen sixties, there was sort of a gentleman's agreement
- 14:14Speaker 2: with the press, you know, that you don't write about
- 14:17Speaker 2: a person's private life. And that all changed with Watergate
- 14:22Speaker 2: in the seventies. Yeah, you know, and Richard Nixon and
- 14:26Speaker 2: people started really thinking, okay, you know, does character matter?
- 14:29Speaker 2: You know, by the time Richard Nixon was impeached, people
- 14:33Speaker 2: were wondering, Okay, now let's think about this in a
- 14:36Speaker 2: different way. And I'm not saying that character matters even
- 14:40Speaker 2: today in politics. I'm not saying that do.
- 14:43Speaker 1: We know better.
- 14:45Speaker 2: I'm just saying that people at least are wondering about it.
- 14:49Speaker 2: Right back in the sixties, we didn't even wonder about it.
- 14:52Speaker 2: We just let it go. You know, there was a
- 14:54Speaker 2: time in our country, believe it or not, when people
- 14:57Speaker 2: really don't care what the president was doing. He just
- 15:00Speaker 2: kind of assumed he was doing the right thing because
- 15:02Speaker 2: he was the president. Right.
- 15:03Speaker 1: Well, how much you were well, let me just ask you.
- 15:06Speaker 1: We've got about a minute left here. How much of
- 15:09Speaker 1: this at that time? Was the media looking the other way?
- 15:13Speaker 1: They kind of they had to know something was going on.
- 15:18Speaker 1: They look the other way because the media largely loved JFK.
- 15:22Speaker 1: They loved him, and the public loved him because of
- 15:25Speaker 1: the whole Camelot thing.
- 15:28Speaker 2: Well, there's a lot of that going on, Kristin. But also,
- 15:31Speaker 2: you know, Republicans weren't that crazy about JFK. You know,
- 15:36Speaker 2: I mean, they love him now they would have. So,
- 15:41Speaker 2: I mean, I just think that the climate of the
- 15:44Speaker 2: Times was that we don't really get in we don't
- 15:47Speaker 2: get into this, you know, no matter what your political affiliation,
- 15:51Speaker 2: let's just stay away from this. And you know, and
- 15:54Speaker 2: it worked to JFK's vantage because I don't know that
- 15:57Speaker 2: he would have been able to even get into office
- 15:59Speaker 2: of a lot of the had been known.
- 16:01Speaker 1: Randy, great stuff. I can't wait to get through the
- 16:04Speaker 1: rest of the book. I appreciate your time this morning,
- 16:06Speaker 1: and best of success.
- 16:08Speaker 2: I appreciate it very much.
- 16:09Speaker 1: Thank you, Randy. Terri Borelli is the author of the
- 16:12Speaker 1: book JFK Public Private Secret. It is a big, hefty read,
- 16:18Speaker 1: and the chapters are broken down in a way that
- 16:22Speaker 1: makes this a really good nightstand book because you can
- 16:25Speaker 1: go through and then put it down, then pick it
- 16:28Speaker 1: right back up, and it really is well done, as
- 16:32Speaker 1: was the book Jackie and all of his books. And
- 16:36Speaker 1: appreciate having him on the program. Twenty eight minutes past
- 16:38Speaker 1: the hour