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ICU to Med Spa Founder, Hypnotherapy & Women Building Something Different | Still Nova & Co. · Here's to You

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It's it's initially like it's just the first part, like they
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But we have a really special person.
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Again, we're in location #2 in Oklahoma City, we're midtown
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Oklahoma, OK, we're midtown. We are getting ready to cheer
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someone who can literally save your life at in the ICU and then
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also hype you up in the locker room 20 minutes later.
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Yes, it did. She is a nurse practitioner.
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She is the founder of SIL Nova Studio and Co.
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She's a mom. She's a wife, a professional
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white hype woman, someone who doesn't strive to be well known,
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but someone worth knowing. Kathy Spiegel.
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Oh my. God, OK, I like that.
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Yeah, it's. Going to choke.
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You if we use the cow sound, I appreciate that you grew.
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Yeah. And you and you can choke him
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because he can't move. You know what I mean?
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That's true. Like we're at your mercy right
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now. We need you like.
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You. Can't move or.
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Like I'll just hold you down and then you.
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Know you have a lot of pillows? I would choke you and you grew
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are two sentences that I would welcome from any woman.
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Fucking Dusty. Hey, you're married.
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It's. Fine.
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You're like I said what I said, I have a gift for your wife.
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Oh, oh, that's how I get through all of you guys.
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Like many women like skin care and like.
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The. Question.
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Oh yeah. Question.
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Hey, why do people say that when they do their like the what
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should they say? Yeah, they're, no, I hear like,
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Oh yeah, that's what does that mean?
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So it's like a technique where you basically like move the
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fluid and move it down. It's really nice.
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I do it at home but I I have the.
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Blade. No, I decided to just do my
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knuckles. You can I just use my knuckles?
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Yeah, you're. Advanced kind of sometimes and
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then but like I I saw it from an Instagram and it was like, and
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you're supposed to yeah, no. You can't push, like move all
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that fluid. Like it really just sits there.
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Like I went, actually last week I went and got a consult for a
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surgeon because I was just like, I, you know, I'm trying to like
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promote a Med spa and like, you know, there are some days where
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I look, you know, a lot extra puffy.
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And so she said no, like if you're, if you're fluctuating
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fluid, she said no like this. She she couldn't cut it out.
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She just said. It's more, you know, she'll cut
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it out and then the fluid will like build up no matter what.
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So sorry this. Not the what?
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This is not boring. OK, I'm trying.
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I'm texting them over there to shut up.
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Ashley, shut up. You guys are loud.
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I'll say I said that. But I really did.
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I was so excited because I thought she would just like,
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like cut all this shit out and like fix my problems.
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And she was like, no, babe, like if you are like having more like
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inflammatory days, then I can cut that shit out.
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But it's still going to build up, you know?
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And so I was just like, OK, well, fuck, fine.
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So next month I'm going to another place and we're going to
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do like RF migraines. We don't do that here.
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I wish we did, but there's been like some like hot water about
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it, like back and forth. So I want to test it for myself.
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But but that's what I've been proud of is we test everything
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out before we really push it to people.
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And so, you know, we might be behind, but maybe we might be a
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little slow. But I really like personally,
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yes. Oh no, he's watching.
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Oh, OK. You're supposed to clap.
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Do not come here unless you're clapping.
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Thank. You.
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That's a live studio audience. Yeah, we have a live studio
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audience. You guys can come and check us
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out. Thank you.
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Thank you. I'm here.
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All day, but let's So let's kind of start.
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From let's back up a little bit, right, because you were an ICU
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nurse for a while and then 2017 is when you switch over to
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opening up still Nova. About 2017 is when you leave.
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So I I would not be able to give you the times but I know I left
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OU we OK COVID fucked everything.
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Up of course, Of course. So I was finally like, OK, I'm
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going to go to another hospital. I, I loved where I was.
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It was amazing. It was an academic hospital.
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They they and still do great things, but like after COVID,
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they kind of like, so this is where I get emotional and like
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we cut some things out. Sorry, sorry.
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No, you don't have to. Like they really gutted the
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people that really gave a shit about patient care.
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And so we like there was such a different political system with
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hospital care anyway, So I went to Baptist.
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I'm not supposed to say that either.
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Fuck. So I went to a different
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hospital and I was on a a night shift.
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They paid great, it was amazing. I met a lot of good people.
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But in fact working 7P to 7A did something to you.
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Have you guys worked nights before?
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No, but I've heard from a lot of people that working nights it.
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It tears you up, but there are some people that like function
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really well working nights. I don't know what it is, but I
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just couldn't like I couldn't sleep it like during the day.
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And maybe that would have helped a little bit better, but I just
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couldn't. How long did you do that for?
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Two years? Two years, yeah.
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And so finally, it's just like, OK, we're gonna do something a
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little more slower. So now I'm at a Cancer Center
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and I love it. It's great.
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But I like, we opened this place.
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And so where I'm trying to like pour a little more energy in
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here, you know, a lot of great people who brought.
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You guys here? Yeah.
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Wait, so you're still, so you're not just at Still Nova, you're
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also at another Cancer Center. So you're still splitting your
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time. Yes, yeah, yeah.
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Which is hard too. It is.
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So in a way, you're still like 7:00 AM to like 12 AM, You know
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what I mean? It's really hard, but, you know,
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like you, I I love this place and I want to keep it open.
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And I love the girls that are here.
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And Ashley's, like, really inspired me.
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I'm, I don't know. I mean, she brought you guys
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into my life. So, you know, like, I just,
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it'll be fine. I just have to, like, believe in
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it. We'll keep going with it.
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We'll, we'll figure it out. Yeah.
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There's been. Yeah.
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Yeah, no, I mean, I, I imagine so like tell us a little bit
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about like, you know, when maybe the first moment when you
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realize that nursing was super intense.
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COVID, COVID. Yeah, OK Yeah.
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Like being in the ICU was fun. I mean, you.
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I loved taking care of sick people.
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I loved. I loved it.
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Like, you knew exactly what to do.
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You had like. But after COVID, it was more
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political. And I don't know if this is like
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anything that we could post but. Oh yeah, it just fucking we talk
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about politics. Sorry Van.
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His eyes done. You're fine.
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I mean, but you're fine but bad. This is so much fun.
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I know, I'm just loud. Are you mocking?
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Me, my liquid, my liquid empty. I've consumed all the Ivs.
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It's. You're dehydrated right now.
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You are. What did y'all do last night
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bro? Dude, you can see how drifted as
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fuck yeah. Partied hard last.
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Night and with his. Monotone.
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With his monotone, I'm fine. Meanwhile he's dripping.
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How? That's probably why I feel.
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Did you like? That yeah.
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How? It's another noise I like.
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I'm clipping all this he's definitely need.
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Fluid. How did you know you did?
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You did Like he's like so calm, but he's obviously like the most
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dehydrated one because look at her.
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Her bag is still going. She got started like 20 minutes
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after me. No, it's not a.
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Competition. Yeah.
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Do you think you can do it from that side?
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Do what? Take that off from that side.
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We have the cameras right there. Stick my arm over here for you.
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This is going to be so much fun. Editing for you.
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So what? What what what made you want to
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start Still Nova? What?
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When I was working nights, I sorry, no, you're good.
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I was. I was working nights.
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I'm not like AI was an adrenaline junkie and then I.
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Here I'll set it up for you. I was kind of crazy y'all like
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7P to 7A makes you a little wild like you just you're just
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unstable. And so I literally, it was
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indeed, that sounds really like weird, but indeed kind of saved
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me a little bit because I was like, oh, there's this job where
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I can maybe like start doing Botox and stuff.
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And it kind of opened this door where I was like, I can make
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other people feel a lot better about themselves where they're
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not trying to die. So I had a little bit of a
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balance at the time. So, you know, I was working my
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little, you know, night shift job.
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It's not a little job. It's not a little.
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It was it was really stressful and I loved it, but I found a
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lot more joy when I was making people feel good about
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themselves too. Are you OK over there?
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It's just tape. He just has a lot of hair.
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It's literally just tape. He's just a wimp.
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Yeah, I mean, most men are. Yeah, Yeah.
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But you were saying that you were like, OK, I'm at a point
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where I have a little bit of down time to take something on.
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Yeah. And you're, you're wanting to
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help people like live. Longer I went.
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Well, I, I went. I had to back off a little bit
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because it was just like, you know, night shift with our
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family was really hard and I, you know, my husband was picking
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up a lot and like 7P to 7A. Like some people can do it.
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That's fucking amazing. But we were just, I think it was
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because I couldn't sleep during the day.
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And so and it's like, OK, I'm up all night.
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I don't sleep during the day. And then I'm like, mad at you
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anyway. You.
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Know, and so we, you know, I found another job where I found
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a little more validation and like feeling like making people
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feel a lot better about the way they look.
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And I know that seems superficial for a lot of people
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and that's OK. But I've learned to live with it
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because it's just like, you know what you like.
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Do you like? It's fine.
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Everyone has their own happiness.
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Yeah, what are all the services at Still Nova?
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We do Botox, we do filler, we do micro needling.
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Everyone should do micro needling.
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What's micro needling? The like the little needles that
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like poke alt like your entire face?
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I think you want to do it. We should do it now on camera.
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We should like everyone after 30, like loses all over their
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collagen. So you just have to like, you
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literally have to like attack your face to make your face
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react and make more collagen to be like, actually, no, I don't
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want to be old. Wait, So what does it do that
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that happens? So yeah.
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Explain. It's like, it's literally like a
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reaction to like inflammation. So you like, you like attack the
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skin and then the skin's just like no stop.
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And then like it's trying to heal and then it like produces
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all of these like extra. So sorry.
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You're good. And then like so, yes.
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Interesting. But you also bring in a lot of
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like, I know you bring in a lot of medical knowledge, but I was
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looking at your guys's website and like what you bring in too.
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I saw that you do like weight loss treatments.
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You're, I mean, of course we have the liquid Ivs that we're
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getting done right now. You know, I don't.
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I think I'm kind of always kind of dehydrated.
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It's also kind of a slow burn, you know, always kind of
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dehydrated. No, I try to stay hydrated.
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Yeah, I didn't show you, but I have like my hydro jug.
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I like drink. Three, I saw that I was
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wondering whose huge ass. That's model.
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That was. I'm just so used to it now,
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yeah. No, there are there are a few
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electrolytes that just don't absorb as well in your gut.
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So it's kind of nice to just like have it like hit you
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circulatory, like just give it to me like I won't, I'm going
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to. Dehydrate to me, yeah.
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And then it'll hit you and then whatever you're low on, we have
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Andy back there. We can check labs if you really
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needed like if you. We're going to check Dusty's
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lab. Have you been having diarrhea?
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That's a question. Within the last 48 hours.
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So you probably need some magnesium maybe?
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How, How do you not know if you've had diarrhea in the last
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48 hours? Like you should know that right?
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Like a guy, guys, I like poop. Twice a day.
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That's not diarrhea, that's. Actually really good.
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Though I poop three times a day. Wow, good for you.
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It's not a competition. It's a competition.
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She only poops twice. Yeah.
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Fuck you, you loser. Such a loser.
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Fucking two times. Jesus.
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Get them embarrassed. I told you, you are not
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hydrating enough. Yeah, and you didn't even know
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if you had diarrhea? Yeah, was it okay?
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Did you poop well today? Did you struggle?
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Was it watery? Was there any blood?
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No, it was. It was more of a.
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Struggle. As long as there's no blood, I
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don't care. More of a struggle today, but
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we're also like on the road, like away from home.
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Don't make excuses. No, he makes a good point.
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He makes a good point. I mean, I'm not pooping the
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same. I mean, I'm sure you you just
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came from Italy. Italy, Italy.
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Italy. Takes you a day and a half to
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get over there. How many times did you poop?
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Was it 3 times? Did you poop on the plane?
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Are you one of those? People, I hate pooping on the
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plane. It's so annoying.
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You're literally in a box. How do you poop in a box?
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Gross. You're literally like.
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Oh, you can't wash my hands? Am I being judged for this?
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You guys? OK, I I understand that a lot of
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people don't poop in public restrooms and will be like, I'm
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going to wait until I get home. I'm not doing that.
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No, I'm not doing that because I'm not going to tell my stomach
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that I can't, that you can't poop.
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If I need to go, I need to go. Yeah, we should probably stop
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saying that word, but you know what I mean.
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No, I completely would that then agree.
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Like who could you want to free poop?
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Sometimes. Poop for free.
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Wait, I said that backwards. The drink.
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Setting the drink setting. Have a preference?
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So can't can't have a. Yes, you can.
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I think there's some left, right, right, right there.
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Yeah. I just can't pour for you right
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now. We're at the mercy of Kathy like
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we can't do. Shit, how did this happen?
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Being at the mercy of our guests.
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I know. Please pour yourself stuff like
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it. Please be self-sufficient.
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But you so. Because for your sessions, you
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kind of have to like, control everything.
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And now I'm over. I'm in control, you are in
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control. There's nothing we can do.
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This is so much fun. Do you drink it?
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Jingle, Jingle, Jingle. She's really good at this and
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she was so nervous. This is so good.
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There's stuff left. OK, fine.
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You're a pussy. It's fine.
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I work with a lot of pussy men. I can't open my throat that
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much. That's embarrassing.
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I don't have the training. Perhaps you could show us?
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Yeah, show us. But Speaking of being women's
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women, because we got to hype each other up because who else
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is going to do it for us? I understand you're just like
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the biggest hype woman ever. Like you just are always like
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cheering people on. You're giving some of the.
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Ashley. It's like the biggest, she's the
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biggest. But you're being modest.
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I hear that you're like one of like you again right now.
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We were just hearing you get emotional about like, I just
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want people to feel good about themselves.
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I do and I and I'm I'm trying to work on it, but OK, so whenever
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we bring Linnae Linnae and I think that we can kind of touch
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on that, but it makes me it makes me feel good when other
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people feel good. That's probably like an like a
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internal like fuck up bullshit, but like.
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Like I just. You know, this is where it
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started. Like I didn't have to be, we
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didn't have to be here. It was just see this race top.
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No. Oh, you're getting emotional.
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I know, dude. You're such a sweet person.
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No. I'm not, actually.
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I'm kind of an asshole. Me too.
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Do you want to see the splits? Yeah, OK.
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This is you're ADHD shit, right? God, yeah, That was really good.
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That was really good. That was all on camera hell.
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I can't watch it. It did.
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It made sense in this yes. Wow.
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Do it again. Do it again.
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Let. Me use my other leg.
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OK, do it. OK.
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Oh wow, no. The other leg was better.
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This is really professional this.
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Is good, right? This is good.
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Sorry, you literally you, you literally did the thing where
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where like we're in the middle of a conversation and then the
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little kid comes over and then he was like, hey, you want me?
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You want me to show you a really cool trick?
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And then he just like jumps around and then you're just
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like, that was so cool. But also, stop showing me up.
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You want to come here and show your splits too.
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Is that, is that what you want to do?
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You just want to like embarrass me?
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Come on. Do you want to show us your
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splits? Yeah, he does OK.
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Please. We love kids on the show, guys.
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Hey, that's good, that is good. That's good.
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Get out of here. Get out of.
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My shot, get out of here. Where's your mom?
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That was so good. This is a live show right now
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you guys we should have recorded this live and or you know what I
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mean like post YouTube live right now.
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Oh shit this is so hilarious. I love this.
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OK. Girls, girl, Yeah, yeah.
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Don't let your dad either. Your dad don't he don't dance.
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He doesn't dance. Yeah, he doesn't dance.
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He does. Were you?
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Were you a dancer? No.
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Wait what? What?
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So tell us about the splits. We heard that you do love to do
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the split. Do you even have this on your
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website? I mean on my website it is on
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your website. But I mean but but either way it
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doesn't matter. You just did the split like 3
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times whenever. So my.
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Only So what's the story with the splits I.
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Don't know what it is, I just feel like I would keep my youth.
23:56
Yeah. If I could just like just one
23:59
day, I'll just like go all the way down to the splits.
24:01
I would just like do the cartwheel and then just split.
24:04
Like I'd split and then everybody would be like, Oh my
24:07
God, Oh my God. I'm like, yeah, I'm young, you
24:10
know, And then I would just totally no, if you're.
24:13
Fine, and they did it. Can you do the splits you?
24:15
Weren't like a cheerleader or. Anything I wasn't.
24:17
No, I actually that was really good though.
24:20
That's very. Flexible gymnast No.
24:25
Splits for fun. Splits for fun.
24:27
I mean, like, what did I say that like sparked the word, oh,
24:32
I got to do splits right now, like.
24:35
I think I saw like a drag queen and, and I was just like, I want
24:38
to be just as free as her. And then I couldn't.
24:40
And then so I'm, I'm going to keep trying, yeah.
24:44
That's an important thing is that we keep trying.
24:46
I really want to do a backflip and a front flip, but I'm I'm
24:49
not. How many flips can you do?
24:51
Like, none. Yeah, that's like me.
24:54
I can't. I can like do like a kind of a
24:56
split banana split. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I see that.
25:02
I see that cause like in the banana split, like it's like,
25:05
you know, the there's one, what do I call it?
25:08
The leaf, the peel. One of the, the pieces of the
25:10
peel is kind of like a little slanted.
25:13
So that's that is what you did. Actually, we need to call Zay.
25:20
So Zay said that if you are not fully doing the split, she said
25:25
you were a. Were old.
25:29
Yeah, I think that's what she meant to say.
25:32
But you're not old. You look fucking amazing.
25:35
You look amazing. You guys look.
25:36
Better. You look amazing too.
25:38
Thank you. Yeah.
25:40
I have age. I think it's kids do not have.
25:43
I mean, have kids if you want to.
25:45
I don't think I will, yeah. Or I don't know.
25:47
I mean. He could say it do.
25:50
You want kids? You want kids?
25:52
I don't know. It's I'm losing interest in it.
25:57
Oh, you are. What do you mean you're losing
26:00
in your life? Really.
26:02
Yeah, the more kids that are around like.
26:04
How many kids you got? I have zero.
26:07
I have. Oh.
26:10
I thought you had like a million kids.
26:12
No, yeah, he's a whore. I mean that.
26:17
That was totally but. Wait, what?
26:21
I was going to be really surprised, but also like, hey,
26:25
pound it. I'm safe.
26:29
You're. So dumb.
26:31
You're safe as in like you're. I I no no no.
26:36
Like condoms? Oh yeah, what do this look like?
26:43
You only have one kid. I, we, I we have two.
26:46
Oh, you have two? Where's the other one?
26:47
Somewhere. That's what that was.
26:54
I know. Dear, you're a really good.
26:57
Mom, Yeah. Yeah, you do a good.
26:59
Job. I got lucky.
27:01
Yeah, with great kids or yeah, husband or both.
27:05
Actually great husband. The kids are great and but the
27:08
husband is really good. He he has been but he also told
27:11
me that he knows how to pull out.
27:14
That's why. But did he lie because you have
27:16
two kids? After we got married, yeah
27:21
because my mom even was just like why?
27:23
Why aren't you pregnant? You guys have been dating for
27:25
like 2 years and I was just like, I think, I think, I think
27:30
he's fine. And then when we got married, he
27:35
stopped. He's not pulling out, you know?
27:38
Yeah. I mean, that would make sense.
27:41
Yeah, but also, but also try saying pull out in Laos or what
27:47
are you, what was your language? You're allowed to.
27:49
Yes. Are you Laos?
27:50
He's yeah. How do how do you say pull out
27:52
in Laos? How do you?
27:53
Say pull out in Laos. How awk?
27:57
How awk? Yeah, what else am I going to
28:00
say? He.
28:01
Literally said get it out. How did you say it again?
28:07
He said get it out. No, but.
28:09
What was so you could say din awk?
28:11
What? Din awk.
28:14
Dung. Because Din is poor.
28:16
Oh. Dung dung log.
28:19
How? Dung dung Ogg.
28:23
Dung Ogg. I don't know.
28:26
No, it's not. It's not.
28:28
Better. I don't have what I said.
28:29
Pull out. How do I say pull out in
28:30
Spanish? Yeah, get that thing.
28:34
Is it get that thing? No, no, that sounds way better
28:37
it. Doesn't mean get out of like,
28:39
get out of the way. Like, no, like it's like get
28:42
out, Yeah, get out. Like get out of the way.
28:44
Yeah, yeah, get out like that. But no, you would not say that
28:48
while you're having sex. You wouldn't be like, get that
28:50
day. You would not say that.
28:55
How would I? I don't.
28:56
I'm blanking. Pull out.
28:58
In Spanish you might have to. What the what the heck?
29:03
How would I say that extra? Fuck no, I wouldn't be like
29:06
Cesarvis extra here so. Sexy.
29:09
I don't know what you. Said but.
29:10
Extra means like, like, like. It's a fancy.
29:14
It's not a fancy word, but it's more professional.
29:17
You wouldn't say that. Yeah, sex is not professional or
29:20
sexy is not formal. So.
29:22
You would. That's why sexy is not formal.
29:23
So you would. Say, get that they?
29:26
No, you're literally. Kicking these specks away.
29:30
Pull out I. Mean Spanish because you're
29:33
you're like this and then you're like, get off me.
29:38
But you, But no you. I mean, like in the middle of
29:41
sex, you're not going to do that 'cause you're already in, you
29:44
know what I mean? You wouldn't do that.
29:46
What are you kicking off? Kicking off you're.
29:48
Kicking did. Like you wouldn't kick him off,
29:50
No. And and she wouldn't kick.
29:52
Well, yeah, she would, you know, whatever.
29:54
Wouldn't. But like, he would not be like
29:59
that either, No. I don't know man, I don't know.
30:02
I'm pretty sure I've pulled out of more people than you 2 have.
30:05
That's fair. He is a he is a professional.
30:09
He's a professional. Puller, you're right.
30:13
But I'm trying to act offended because, yeah, I think that I
30:16
can win some way. I'm just trying to win some way.
30:18
Hold on. How How do we make this better?
30:22
Yeah, there is no way that we could win this.
30:24
Really. How did we?
30:25
Get here. I don't know how we got this is
30:29
the POD. So guys please comment.
30:33
How would you say, pull out in Spanish or pull out language?
30:38
Yeah, any language. How would you say that?
30:40
Cause does that slang translate? Because I don't think it does.
30:43
Or I'm a poor Mexican and they're poor Laos.
30:46
Yeah, 'cause I know, I know what happens in English.
30:48
She's like, oh. Wow, she's like, wow, you're
30:52
bobbin. She's like plow like.
30:55
She said plow. Like she's like, yeah, She's
30:58
like, 'cause I'm like, oh, I'm going to explode here as soon as
31:02
she's like, don't do it inside me.
31:05
Yeah, so like I'd be like no longer salventro than me.
31:07
I'm like, you know, I mean like, don't do it inside me.
31:11
Damn, I'm like, all right. But sakalo?
31:13
I would not say Sakalo either. What does that mean?
31:17
Take it out. But it's because it doesn't
31:21
sound sexy. Like I wouldn't be in the middle
31:23
and I'd be like. Sakalo.
31:25
At that point. You're, I mean, that sounds
31:26
really sexy. Are you trying to sound sexy at
31:29
that point? You're just trying not to get
31:30
pregnant at that point. So you're like Sakalo, sakalo,
31:32
sakalo. That's where.
31:35
That's where. That's Sir.
31:36
That's Sir. No, no, no, no, no, no.
31:38
None of this is getting cut out. What?
31:42
Just so you know this, yeah. I just wanted to say.
31:50
We're we were talking about hype woman activities though, 'cause
31:52
we're here, we're talking about. Hype woman how you pivoted it?
31:55
No. I'm, I'm you.
31:57
Don't worry. Thank you.
31:58
Thank you. I know how to get the guests
31:59
back. No, yeah, they're back.
32:01
They're back. But I will say, OK, so my kid
32:04
who's 13, he's 13. You found him.
32:06
He's a no I, I made him. You did, but I mean like, you
32:10
remembered him. Oh yeah, I don't remember
32:13
earlier. And.
32:14
He, so we brought him to Lunar New Year's fest.
32:19
He's not, he's just not Asian. He hangs only with Hispanics
32:24
because he's, he plays soccer. He's such a, he is a really, I,
32:29
I hate to be like a cocky mom, but that, that boy is good.
32:33
He is a fucking, he's so good. He's so good.
32:37
And all of his friends are Hispanic and so all like, so
32:42
when, where is he going with this?
32:46
That he's the really best soccer player out there.
32:49
He is gonna, he's a poor little, not good Asian boy, but like as
32:54
an Asian. But he is a great soccer player.
32:58
He is, he's so good. And but I was, I was trying to
33:02
like bring something back and I, I didn't.
33:05
I'm trying to remember doing it backtrack.
33:07
That's a good thing that that's a good thing the hubby didn't
33:10
pull out, 'cause you made you got to make it.
33:12
Yeah, yeah. See, between the two of us,
33:17
between the two of us, we're really.
33:20
You forgot. You forgot.
33:24
Yeah. Yeah, yeah, there.
33:26
We. Go you've.
33:30
Been behind a little bit. That was really similar producer
33:34
I was. Thinking about your baby batter,
33:36
that's why. My baby batter.
33:39
Your kids, your. Kids.
33:41
Yeah, I have a. Baby batter.
33:43
You're like your kids are your baby batter.
33:45
They are, I love them so much, thank you.
33:52
Kathy. Can we cut that out?
33:58
Fucked up. OK, so get Kathy some water.
34:01
I need some water. You have some water right there.
34:07
OK, Lynne, right there. The other side.
34:11
Over there. There you go.
34:13
There you go. I do.
34:17
Are you for? Are you for real drunk?
34:19
Should we should we take a break?
34:20
Because we can take a break. No, we're good.
34:22
No, we're. Good.
34:23
Are you sure? Yeah, maybe that'd be a good
34:28
idea. Don't touch the mic.
34:29
You're good. Yes, yes this is so good Oh my
34:48
God. Drink your glass of water
34:49
though. Drink your glass of water.
34:53
I can't tell her if she just has ADHD type of OK OK, OK, OK good
34:59
good. OK.
34:59
I just wanted to make sure that this will make us look bad too
35:04
if we got guess super drunk. So please finish that water.
35:11
I like it when people tell me. What to do?
35:14
Yeah, you're welcome. OK, so, so we we do take breaks
35:22
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35:24
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36:17
break. Took our potty breaks because I
36:21
was dehydrated and sucked all that Ivy bag in the quickness.
36:25
What did you suck? I sucked in.
36:30
General. And yeah, now we're back from
36:34
the break and we've got an extra yes on the couches with us.
36:39
Yes, got Lynnae. We got Lynnae with us who is
36:43
about to tell us about a bunch of beautiful things, and I'm
36:46
going to fix your hair real quick.
36:48
There we go. Yeah, right there.
36:49
Thank you. Can you get that?
36:51
There we go. OK.
36:52
Beautiful. Sorry, girls.
36:55
Girl over here. You know what I mean?
36:56
You know what I mean? We got to make sure that we all
36:58
look at you. Yes.
36:59
Yes. I love that.
37:05
During the witch's laugh I love. It Yeah, Yeah.
37:09
Earlier you were talking about all the amazing things you do.
37:11
And I was like, you're a witch, aren't you?
37:13
And then early and then Right. And I was like, and then
37:16
earlier, too, we were talking about like whether or not Emory
37:19
was going to tell you something. And you're like, wait, what is
37:21
she? What's her sign?
37:22
Yeah, yeah. So you're also very like into
37:25
astrology? Oh, I love astrology, OK.
37:27
It's so much fun and I love talking.
37:30
I come here and I'm like, OK, I remember people's charts more
37:33
and more, more their placements. So I'm like, oh, that explains
37:36
it. This is Kathy's Aries is coming
37:38
out right now, so we're seeing her be aggressive.
37:41
That's the Aries. What are you?
37:44
So I'm a Taurus son, Cancer rising and Leo moon.
37:47
OK, yeah. So her and I share Leo moon
37:49
placements and that's how you experience your energy like
37:53
that. You're emotional.
37:54
OK, Yeah. So what do you think we are as
37:58
you've been observing? So.
37:59
Let. Me think about this.
38:02
I mean, I probably need some more time to really, really
38:04
observe, but I feel like there's some Virgo in there somewhere,
38:07
there's some Gemini in there somewhere in between.
38:10
Either of you let me think, Maybe Capricorn possibly.
38:18
Did I hit on? Any of that, Yeah, I'm a Virgo.
38:26
Yeah. Yeah.
38:29
You like got that quick? Holy shit.
38:31
OK, so I don't think I have any of those.
38:34
I don't remember the rising and the stuff.
38:36
So is the pod podcast spot No Snapchat Snapchat does the whole
38:42
they do like your birth chart. So anyways, I'm a Libra.
38:45
Oh, I love that that's my son. My moon is really.
38:50
Are very colorful like like especially like in women like
38:54
you can see like they typically like their homes are decorated
38:57
in a lot of color and whimsical and or like very feminine and
39:00
like pink and. I don't like pink.
39:02
Oh, OK. That's your Libra Sun though,
39:04
right? So my I'm a sun in Libra, my
39:07
moon is in Capricorn and rising is Sagittarius.
39:10
Sagittarius, that OK? OK.
39:13
The Capricorn is what like probably why you don't like pink
39:17
as much because like if there's Libra with some other different
39:20
energies, you tend to gravitate towards pink.
39:22
But I can see that with Libra and Capricorn, yeah.
39:25
That makes sense. OK.
39:25
I was curious. I wanted to test you.
39:27
Yeah. I like that I said Capricorn
39:30
though. I did.
39:32
You're good. You're really good.
39:34
We were going to talk about hypnotherapy, though.
39:36
Yeah. So like, what are we learning
39:39
about hypnotherapy? You guys do this here at Still
39:40
Nova. You are a hypnotherapist.
39:45
Educate us. What is this?
39:47
What does that mean? Hypnotherapy is a tool for the
39:51
subconscious mind. It is a tool you can use for
39:53
healing. So when we are born, we come to
39:56
this world just as a free spirit that's all pure love.
40:00
And as we grow up, we learn these.
40:04
Things, these conditions, you know, that tell us that we're
40:07
not perfect and we learn them from our parents, from our
40:10
ancestors, you know, and those different inherited things that
40:13
tell us we're not worthy, we're not good enough.
40:15
All the things, you know, So when we're around age 7 is when
40:19
those things are kind of like solidified into our brain.
40:22
We're a lot less, more spongy and then by the time we're 25,
40:27
our frontal lobe is fully formed anyhow.
40:29
So hypnotherapy is a tool that works with your subconscious
40:33
mind and it that's how you unlearn those things because
40:37
those things that I was talking about, the conditions, that's
40:39
where those are stored is in the subconscious mind.
40:42
So do you do this through therapy?
40:44
Do you get what I'm saying? Like, what's the mean to say
40:47
that you're a hypnotherapist? Like someone who practices
40:50
hypnotherapy but you're not an active therapist.
40:53
Like a psychologist. Correct, correct.
40:55
So I did not go to like a college for this.
41:00
So it's a certification that I received hypnotherapy
41:03
certification, but it is teaching the tool of how to tap
41:07
into the subconscious mind and the frequencies that it
41:10
requires. So have you ever meditated
41:12
before? Yeah, we're so like now we're
41:13
getting into like not metaphysical, but a little bit,
41:17
and we're talking more about energy transfers.
41:19
Yeah. Well, so when you are, when you
41:22
are in I. Just got a boner.
41:26
I love it. We're speaking Kathy's
41:27
languages. Venus in the 12th.
41:30
I'm going back out. I see your Venus.
41:31
In the 12th house, you're like, so it's similar to the way that
41:36
you should feel. Experiencing hypnosis is feeling
41:41
like a deep meditation where you are, you feel almost asleep.
41:47
Sometimes a lot of clients do fall asleep.
41:49
Actually, most of the time my clients fall asleep.
41:51
And, and that's normal because your subconscious mind never
41:54
goes to sleep. Your conscious mind does.
41:56
And that's our bodies, you know, shutting down.
41:58
But our subconscious mind is always awake and alert and
42:00
absorbing everything around us. So when you come to bring that
42:04
intention to your hypnotherapist, like you want to
42:07
work on your confidence, you want to increase that, or you
42:09
want to quit smoking, or you want to lose weight, or you want
42:13
to become a multi millionaire, whatever your goal is, you bring
42:17
that and you bring that strong intention to your
42:19
hypnotherapist. They develop a script and then
42:21
they take you through that process where they lower your
42:25
awareness. So ideally you would have your
42:28
client in a Theta state of consciousness.
42:30
That's where the Theta state is where right before you go to
42:34
sleep or right when you wake up, those two times when you're
42:37
still like sleeping kind of like, you know, not fully alert.
42:41
You're not in your beta state where you're functioning and
42:43
doing all of the things that is your most amiable state where
42:47
you're just like a little sponge soaking up everything, the
42:50
messaging that's being laid upon you.
42:52
So if you've ever seen those hypnotherapists, maybe so some
42:55
of them have these interesting techniques.
42:57
I don't have this technique, but it's, it's just cuz I don't
43:00
resonate with it personally. But some of them will be like,
43:02
they'll do this and then have like yank you and then all of a
43:05
sudden you're like this. I mean, I think, I mean I think
43:08
that people can. It's just not my style.
43:11
You know, I wasn't trained, you know, during that.
43:13
So mine literally feels like going into a deep meditation and
43:17
then you may fall asleep. Right.
43:19
How do you start it? How do you start it?
43:20
So, sorry, my headphones are slipping.
43:25
So I go through an induction process and then that induction
43:28
process is just like I'm speaking to you very softly,
43:32
very slowly. Voice is everything.
43:37
I feel like it could be a hypnotherapist.
43:42
I think you. Could you could hypnotherapy?
43:45
Yeah, a lot of people have commented about that.
43:50
Seriously. It's just, it's just all about
43:53
slowing down. Let's be very relaxed.
43:56
Where are we going to go? Where do we want?
43:59
To go to the beach. We're in the beach, we're
44:02
smelling the sand and. The feel the sun on your skin.
44:07
So. This is so sexual.
44:10
On your. Feet.
44:13
That's all I know. I don't.
44:15
Kathy's boner. I have a big.
44:23
OK, so this is all through talk therapy in a way.
44:26
And then and so you're, you're having someone lay down.
44:30
Yes, they're laying down. So I have a client chair and I
44:32
can have them recline as much as they want and I will ask them if
44:35
they want a blanket so that we do.
44:37
They just feel very secure and like not like someone just
44:39
peering at them. And then so I just literally
44:43
like talk them down, you know, And then I have a countdown that
44:46
I go through. And then once we're at one, it's
44:49
like, OK, you're telling the subconscious, it's time for you
44:52
to be the star of the show. Your conscious mind can rest.
44:55
So I'd go through that. And then at that point, I start
44:58
the messaging, which is all of the things that the focus areas
45:01
that we want to work on, whatever my client wants to work
45:03
on, we're walking through that. So like say, say I wanted to
45:06
work on my confidence, how would you walk me through that?
45:09
So I have a script that I custom make for every single client for
45:13
every single session. So even if they're coming back
45:15
and they want to touch on the same focus areas is a different
45:18
script every time because I I customize it to whatever I feel
45:22
like based on previous sessions. Like, OK, what do we want to
45:25
like, you know, dive into a little bit more, you know, make
45:28
it hone in on things, certain things now that I know a little
45:30
more. Yeah.
45:31
Yeah. So confidence is, I mean, that's
45:33
another thing that honestly, I feel like everybody kind of
45:36
needs just a little bit of, you know.
45:38
Should I do an easier one? What's something easier?
45:41
I want to be a millionaire. How would you work me through
45:42
that? Dan.
45:44
Is that easier? Well, it's.
45:46
I'm kidding. Shoot, like I, I literally I
45:48
just. So.
45:52
There's always nervous system work, There's always nervous
45:56
system work involved in every session period, even if it's a
45:59
rapid session or whatever the goal is.
46:01
So I really have a little bit of focus in on that because if
46:05
you're coming to me and wanting to be a millionaire, that means
46:07
that your nervous system has not yet prepared itself to be ready
46:11
to receive millions of dollars, otherwise you would already be
46:14
there. So yeah, so I work, so it's so.
46:18
So the reason I'm not rich is because my nervous system is
46:22
being a bitch to me. Yes, ma'am.
46:24
Wow, that's. What?
46:27
That nervous system will get it ready?
46:30
How do I, How do I can I get my nervous system to be ready to,
46:32
to go into dating? You know, like I think like
46:36
that's a. It's such a good one.
46:38
That's a hard one. I think for me, I mean, it's you
46:42
could have some history there, you know, with maybe
46:44
relationships with men or whatever it is, whoever, just
46:47
you. Choose Do I look lesbian?
46:48
No, I was think, I was thinking man, but you know, sometimes I
46:51
assume incorrectly. I did that a week ago.
46:54
I assumed incorrectly. I asked because.
46:57
Oh, sorry, I. Get told I'm lesbian.
46:59
Oh. Yeah, ma'am.
47:00
Do you feel like you? That was a ma'am.
47:03
I love ma'am. You're so ADHD.
47:08
I love you. No.
47:13
Well, no. Yeah, right.
47:14
Sometimes. Yeah, there was something being
47:17
said. Oh yeah.
47:18
Because she said that she figured out you're a Libra
47:23
because you're a hair. And I was like, Are you sure you
47:25
didn't think she was gay? That's why that's what that's
47:30
what most people think. Most people look, really.
47:33
Kind of. Libras are very known to be very
47:36
flirtatious with, with men and women.
47:42
With men and women usually. I mean for the women, you know,
47:44
I mean men. I think it's maybe a little
47:46
little. Possible.
47:47
I do. I do flirt with a lot of our
47:49
guests. I haven't.
47:50
Are you a Libra? Yeah, he's a Libra, did you say?
47:55
Flirt. That's something that.
47:56
Somebody would say just. Get it?
48:00
That's true, that's true, that's true.
48:01
The amount of times I say I'm a lesbian, I'm.
48:04
No, I'm not. No, you're like a fucking
48:07
beautiful beast, like. So Libras just embody a lot of
48:11
like the so I was telling Tim earlier, like the Libra, other
48:14
Libra in the room, but Libra embodies the it's the scales.
48:17
That's what represents your Zodiac.
48:19
So you know, it's all about the balance of masculine and
48:22
feminine energy. So like, I could see how people
48:25
could possibly interpret you, you know, embodying maybe a more
48:28
masculine energy or something like that to where?
48:31
Say she's a handsome woman. I'm saying I got a Kathy Boehner
48:35
right now. I'm a handsome woman, my.
48:41
Dick is really big, I'm sorry. And it is.
48:45
It's really huge. I just try to like pull it back.
48:48
It's the area, That's it. Yeah, yeah.
48:50
I'm just, I'm gonna, I'm gonna pick it.
48:52
Up, Pick it up, Pick it up, Pick it up, pick it up, Pick up the
48:57
truck. Yes.
48:59
So when you get people into these like hypnotic States and
49:02
stuff like the like they having like dreams or like seeing
49:08
things. Yes, oftentimes, yes.
49:12
So I always do a debriefing after every session and be like,
49:16
OK, how did you experience that? Do you feel calm?
49:18
What, what, what was your experience?
49:21
So I've had people, you know, go back to their childhood.
49:24
I've had people, you know, look at their parents.
49:27
I've had people I'm trying to think I don't.
49:30
Know why does that have anybody relive their alien abductions?
49:33
No, but I want that. I want a client that'll you're
49:36
going to be my first client. Like really fun.
49:39
Have you ever seen the movie The 4th Kind?
49:41
No. Oh, it's about.
49:42
That, but I love it. Yeah.
49:44
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've seen that one.
49:46
There's another one that's really, really good.
49:47
It's where the kid is abducted. I mean, he's like 13 years old.
49:50
Have you seen that one? What?
49:52
Is it called? That one is so good that.
49:54
Alien movie is good, I don't remember what it's called but.
49:57
You know what I'm talking about. His parents like go to New York
49:59
or something trying to get help. OK, different movie, different
50:04
movie. Wow, this is.
50:05
So mean OK so you haven't met someone who has re encountered
50:08
their alien abductions? No, unfortunately, not yet.
50:12
But now that you've brought that up, it's probably going to help
50:15
me manifest that. So we're going to do this.
50:18
OK. So you're also like at the
50:19
center section of where we get into neuropsychology, right?
50:22
Like you're big in this. I love it.
50:24
Yeah. You're always like mine.
50:27
Thank you, thank you. She's.
50:28
The witches, the healer. I love witches.
50:32
I love witches. Yeah, I love witches.
50:38
I love witches. You know, we do these things
50:41
called Olympia, which is like a Mexican spiritual cleanse.
50:45
And so I'm always looking for someone who can do that.
50:47
My grandma used to know how to do that.
50:49
She did know how to do that. She passed away.
50:51
And so ANYWAYS, it's, I feel like I really need to cleanse my
50:55
energy, you know, the evil lie and everything like that.
50:58
And I like, I think in my culture, Mexicans were very, we,
51:03
we do believe in a lot of energy stuff, you know, like that's a
51:06
really big thing. And yeah, I think about that a
51:10
lot. Like it's like, oh, someone,
51:11
it's like, oh, I got sick. Someone gave me an evil eye.
51:15
Or like, or the saying or the saying of like, Oh, my ears are
51:21
ringing. Someone's talking bad about me.
51:24
Yes. Yeah, yeah, right.
51:25
Yeah, yeah. OK.
51:26
Where's? That or, or it's confirmation.
51:28
I, so for me, I have built that into like confirmation or just
51:33
an alert of something. So like if I'm doing something
51:36
and then my ears are ringing, I'm like, I pay attention to
51:38
what I'm doing right at that moment.
51:40
And I'm like, I kind of seal that, that moment in time in my,
51:43
you know, brain. And I'm like, OK, I'm going to
51:45
come back to this because it's probably relevant for something.
51:48
I think I'm still going. We were talking about, OK, so
51:53
like the, you know. When you when you hear, when you
51:56
hear your ears ringing, you stop and you pay attention to what's
52:00
going on around. Yes, or it's confirmation of
52:03
something. So if I'm like making a decision
52:05
or contemplating something and then it's like I'm like, OK, so
52:10
whatever's kind of going on, but I may like seal that moment in
52:13
time, like, OK, I'm kind of coming back to whatever that is.
52:16
And I understand that that's probably something that might
52:19
come up for me later. Yeah.
52:21
Gotcha. OK.
52:22
Have you heard of that eye twitching thing?
52:25
No. Tell me about it.
52:26
If one of your what do you mean? What does that?
52:28
Mean if one of your eyes is twitching, depending on which
52:31
side like something good or bad might happen.
52:34
Oh, I've not heard of that. I.
52:35
Can't be the only one here. Yeah.
52:38
Tell us. Yeah.
52:39
No, that's it. That Oh, OK, that's it.
52:44
Dependent on different cultures depending on which eyes like a
52:48
good eye to twitch. Which one is bad?
52:51
It's. Interesting.
52:53
Because there is one side of our body that is considered the like
52:57
our left side is considered our feminine energy and everybody
52:59
has that male and female. We all have masculine and
53:02
feminine energy. Our left side represents the
53:04
feminine and then our right sort of a seating side and then our
53:07
right is our masculine side. So if you have different
53:11
ailments on different side of your body, so literally you can
53:13
Google like the metaphysical reason for certain conditions
53:16
that you may have or experience and you'll find some interesting
53:21
things. And then you can even like even
53:24
on whatever side of the body it's occurring on, like you'll
53:26
find a different answer sometimes because of that.
53:29
So do you believe in Western medicine?
53:31
Like are you that far into it or, or like that you're don't
53:34
believe in it or you're you're in the balance between both?
53:38
I think we've been so conditioned to believe we need
53:43
it. And I say that with all the
53:45
respect for the people who've gone to school and who are
53:48
doctors and nurses, because I respect that and I think there's
53:52
a place for it. But I also think that it dulled
53:57
our innate power to heal ourselves.
53:59
I genuinely believe that we can heal from most if not all
54:06
conditions. I just really believe that I
54:08
think we have the power to bring ourselves to homeostasis from
54:11
anything. It sounds crazy.
54:13
That's just my personal belief. It's a personal belief.
54:16
Thank. You so much like this, all of
54:19
this, all of this is spinning. It is a you you have like really
54:24
made it. You don't.
54:27
You don't I. Love you.
54:29
Thank you. But now I, yeah, going back to
54:32
that, I, I think so. I was just having conversations
54:35
earlier about I think we're shifting into a matriarchy.
54:38
I believe that wholeheartedly. I think it's already starting to
54:42
happen. I think with that, we're going
54:44
to see more going back to what life looked like 10,000 years
54:48
ago. It'll look different because
54:49
we're, you know, ahead of that time.
54:52
But I think we're going to have some of the same things where
54:54
we're going to be consulting Oracle, so to speak.
54:57
You know, we're going to go to women who are the witches, you
55:00
know, they're going to have herbs and, you know, different
55:03
things to remedy for whatever elements that are occurring,
55:06
things that are drawn from the earth.
55:08
You. Know Wait, you actually believe
55:09
we're entering A matriarchy right now with everything that's
55:12
happening? Yes, it's a collapse.
55:13
It's the collapse of the patriarchy.
55:15
You really think it's 100%? But like, it chills every time I
55:18
talk about. It but I just feel like
55:20
everything that's happening is like still this, this counter
55:23
intuitiveness of like I mean it has.
55:25
A. It's a system structure
55:27
collapse. Everything's collapsing.
55:28
We're going to experience it's a financial collapse too.
55:31
This. This this year, it's happening.
55:34
Hopefully he gets like. Impeached or?
55:36
Something it's going to happen. I mean.
55:39
Whether, whether, whether that happens or it's something else,
55:43
we're shifting away from it. So we're seeing the worst of the
55:45
worst right now, before that structure and bullshit
55:49
collapses. We are going to a different
55:52
system. And.
55:52
It's going to be a system where everyone's cared for and loved
55:55
and. I mean, like if we go back to
55:57
like this whole male loneliness epidemic, I mean, which it was.
56:01
A patriarchy it is because of patriarchy, because patriarchy
56:04
taught men to cut off a part of themselves.
56:06
It's so biological, and to hate the emotional part of their
56:10
beings. So it taught them to hate
56:12
themselves. You know, their emotions, that
56:15
they're human and so it's inhumane.
56:18
And then of course, it caused a result to, you know, a trickle
56:21
down effect to men and women and children.
56:25
I mean, if we go back to what you were saying, even at the
56:27
beginning of like we have both feminine and masculine energy,
56:31
you know, in the middle of us, you know what I mean?
56:34
So like, yes, as as a growing boy that goes into adolescence,
56:38
that goes into into grown up man, Yeah.
56:43
I mean, you're taught to not do this or not do that or it
56:45
doesn't matter. Even if like you were taught to,
56:48
I mean, didn't have these words of like feminine versus
56:50
masculine energy. Like at home, they didn't use
56:53
those said words. But they did teach you as a as a
56:56
son to how a male, how to express your feelings.
57:01
You still went out into the world where that was still
57:03
imposed on you regardless of where you're at and wherever you
57:07
are in the world. Because the patriarchy stuff
57:10
like I know that sounds like so mean or cliche or like, you know
57:15
what I mean? But like, if we really break
57:16
down to what the patriarchy is and like what that actually
57:20
means, like it is to some degree a little hurtful, but it's also,
57:24
but also like, it's also like, you know, something that's
57:28
always been around. So how do how do we explain
57:30
that? You know what I've been around
57:32
for 10,000 years. We've I don't know how long
57:34
humans have been in existence, but way longer than that.
57:38
So it it was time for a shift. The way that patriarchy is
57:41
constructed, it's literally a ladder contract.
57:44
So only the people at the very top are thriving and even then
57:49
they're still dependent on everybody at the bottom could
57:51
further control and you know, whatever.
57:54
So they're shitting on everybody else.
57:56
So only the people at the 1% are benefiting from everyone beneath
58:01
them. A matriarchy is a circle.
58:03
The power is centralized. There's still men in leadership
58:07
roles. It's it's everybody's cared for
58:10
and everyone's allowed to be authentic.
58:12
Their authentic expression is encouraged.
58:16
When you describe the matriarchy in that way, I see what you're
58:19
saying. Yes, that we're starting to see
58:21
this come back. We are.
58:22
Yeah, so we have to see all the dark before the light.
58:25
So it's always darkest before the dawn.
58:27
Yeah. So that's what the fuck we're
58:28
seeing right now is like the collapse of all of the stuff,
58:32
the pedophilia and all of that was allowed to occur because if
58:35
you think about patriarchy, it's just a, it's a ladder contract.
58:38
So it's somebody over somebody else.
58:40
The haves and the have nots, the, you know, the gosh, we
58:44
could just go down like racism. I mean, religion, everything's a
58:48
hierarchy, you know? Everything's control.
58:52
Everything's control and and patriarchy is unnatural
58:55
otherwise it wouldn't require violence or control to uphold
58:59
it. It wouldn't require those things
59:02
if it was natural. Are you, Well, I don't, I don't
59:04
know this. And so I'm asking this in in
59:06
case you know, because I'm curious, do you know where it
59:09
started? Like the Patriot?
59:11
OK, I don't, I don't either. I really doubt.
59:12
I was just curious. I think people have theories
59:14
about, you know, I've heard other spiritual leaders talk
59:17
about it where they say his started probably with some boy
59:21
that felt inadequate and just decided he was going to go off
59:25
on his own and hit, LED his ego, LED his heart and whatever.
59:29
And then that just began like this, whatever, you know, And
59:32
then it turned into this monster, you know, and then it
59:34
just became an ideology, you know, thoughts end up becoming
59:38
beliefs over time. And and then that just became
59:41
this energy that got pumped through a society.
59:44
And here we are 10,000 years later.
59:47
But I'm like, I can see it crumbling.
59:49
But we also like, that's why we're all seeing it like because
59:52
we're collectively awakening. That's the only reason why we're
59:55
all like seeing it. It's been going on for 10,000 a
59:59
year like these other think the pedophilia, all the the
1:00:02
monstrosities that's been going on this whole time.
1:00:05
It's but we're all seeing it because we are awakening.
1:00:09
Is this a true conspiracy? Because it's starting.
1:00:12
To feel like that, you know what I mean?
1:00:14
Yeah, we're going through conspiracy realm to that degree,
1:00:17
right? I mean, I feel like all of the
1:00:20
conspiracies that we've ever talked about in the world have
1:00:22
all like, true if you think about it.
1:00:25
I mean like, think about it. Yes, no, you're.
1:00:27
Absolutely. You know, pizza gate.
1:00:29
I mean, we're talking about pizza gate Wayfair, what, 10
1:00:32
years ago, like selling children and stuff like that.
1:00:34
That's all come to fruit, you know what I mean?
1:00:36
Like been confirmed all the things like that's true.
1:00:39
I never thought we'd be talking about eating babies, but.
1:00:42
That's fair, that's fair, that's fair.
1:00:46
So I want to kind of circle back into like, you know, Kathy, you
1:00:51
start Still Nova, you bring in this amazing person.
1:00:54
You have other people amazing here in your studio.
1:00:57
You have more people. I imagine how many people are in
1:01:00
your space? You might want to get a little
1:01:02
closer. Yeah, get a little closer.
1:01:14
Where? Where's your little?
1:01:18
We need your little? Your shot.
1:01:21
The Shop. The little the music.
1:01:24
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, like Kathy said, you've
1:01:27
been slacking. Yeah, it's really.
1:01:29
He did just play the little. Yeah, yeah, I played the spooky
1:01:33
music now. I mean, it's OK.
1:01:35
I mean, you know you sometimes it's OK to be, to suck.
1:01:39
It's fine, but suck. Less.
1:01:41
Yeah, suck. Less do better.
1:01:43
Yeah, do better. I finally punched you back.
1:01:51
He usually. Punches me, he punches you.
1:01:55
I I love it that everybody has this reaction.
1:01:57
See how much they care. About you should not punch her,
1:01:59
ever. Yeah, Kathy might punch you.
1:02:01
He's talking about that sound. No, he would.
1:02:05
He would never punch you. Yeah.
1:02:07
Not the real life. Not the Yeah, coming through,
1:02:13
Yeah, yeah. Is it really happening?
1:02:15
Really good to. Like.
1:02:19
Feeling better? Yeah, really feel better right
1:02:22
now, do you feel? Better after doing that.
1:02:24
Yeah, bitch. Don't be a bitch.
1:02:29
Don't be a. Bitch.
1:02:30
Though you're doing a great job. You're doing a great job,
1:02:37
sweetie. OK, so how many people do you
1:02:41
have in the studio with you in the pictures?
1:02:45
How do you? Have the pictures.
1:02:53
Yes, 8. 9 It's a lot of you guys then.
1:02:57
Yeah. And the whole space house is set
1:02:59
up then because we didn't even get a full tour.
1:03:01
We just came in running. You guys would come in.
1:03:03
We're in. We're in your space.
1:03:05
Yes, come in. I mean, we're in it.
1:03:08
We're recording. It I just we should, we should,
1:03:12
we should just come in. We are in, are we not?
1:03:15
Is this not the space? Are you in?
1:03:16
Like walk around? I mean, we can't do that now.
1:03:20
We can after. We do that later, but we invite
1:03:23
everybody listening and watching.
1:03:24
You have a Really. Deep voice, It's really nice.
1:03:26
It makes me feel very soothed. I'm telling you, a lot of people
1:03:29
say that, yeah. You better tell your wife that.
1:03:33
I think she knows. But so again, you have about 8
1:03:38
people who are here in the studio with you and how's it set
1:03:44
up? Yeah, then go.
1:03:52
We have different like areas and everybody has OK, like everybody
1:03:57
has like the different things. And you know, like the Botox,
1:04:01
the fillers, that area, the aestheticians, the massage
1:04:06
therapist, Lynnae, it all comes together so perfectly.
1:04:12
And it's, it's like an environment that's it's, it
1:04:16
comes together and I don't know, it's the energy and.
1:04:23
I'm not. I appreciate you like.
1:04:26
It's I'm not a lot person for words.
1:04:28
I do the Aggies and you know, I like to do like the treatments
1:04:31
and all that, but you know, it's the whole environment together
1:04:36
is it comes together so perfectly and it's amazing and
1:04:40
it I can't explain the energy because it is like very amazing.
1:04:46
It's. Like how we all come together
1:04:48
and yeah, she. Literally I was just like, I
1:04:51
can't fucking poke anyone, can you fucking stop those little
1:04:55
fuckers? And I can't.
1:04:57
And she just did it. But you know, I mean she.
1:05:00
Was like my friend. Yes and so it's it's the energy
1:05:04
like that everything comes together like the love like the
1:05:08
love that we have for each other, the supports it's it
1:05:12
can't even explain it It's very. I don't.
1:05:16
Know I don't have a lot of words, but it's.
1:05:19
How long have you guys been knowing each other?
1:05:21
For all three of you, it feels like it's been a while.
1:05:26
OK, well us, it's been since I was like 19, I'm 42 now.
1:05:33
And Lenae, she just came into all this, but she feels like
1:05:38
home. The minute like, you know, like
1:05:42
the minute like we even like, met like it.
1:05:46
Like soul sisters, Yeah. I don't know.
1:05:50
It's, it's, it's hard to explain, but it's like the
1:05:53
feeling that we get, like when we come together and just
1:05:57
support each other and. Which is so crazy cause fun
1:05:59
doesn't really. I don't talk.
1:06:01
I don't talk at all. So we're just think right now
1:06:03
I'm just thinking it. Would be a lot because you know
1:06:06
what, like I just I do the procedures I do the Ivsi do you
1:06:10
know like I like the quick procedures that make you feeling
1:06:14
good. So like, you know, after his IV,
1:06:18
he felt. Good.
1:06:20
Yeah, exactly. How's your IV?
1:06:21
How do you feel? Exactly.
1:06:22
Yeah, that's great. How do you feel bro?
1:06:25
Dusty, How are you feeling, Dusty?
1:06:27
I'm feeling. OK.
1:06:32
Very lower so this is very uncomfortable for me right now
1:06:34
but. No, let's let's switch to
1:06:36
something, Let's switch to something that that we where we
1:06:40
start to wrap up the rest of the show.
1:06:42
So we do this thing called Lightning Round and we're just
1:06:45
going to ask like some quick questions and then you want to
1:06:48
say like what you're kind of just like quick responses to
1:06:53
this week. Yeah, first, whatever comes to
1:06:54
mind first, you know? You're.
1:07:00
Going to be at this yes. So no, you're not.
1:07:05
No, you're not. What?
1:07:06
A sweet vodka drink or a tequila shot.
1:07:10
Tequila shot. Vodka drink tequila shot OK, I
1:07:15
love you're like fuck that yeah, all the all the.
1:07:20
Alcohol, I mean all, every tequila, yeah.
1:07:23
Both. Both.
1:07:24
Everything. Out of it a skin care product
1:07:29
you would fight someone over. Color science.
1:07:35
It's it's color science in my life.
1:07:37
So my God. Yeah, yeah, it's.
1:07:39
Been my amazing like I love it. Tear tear Milky skin toner.
1:07:47
OK, OK, a skin care product or just skin care like myth that
1:07:52
you're like just tired of fucking hearing.
1:07:56
Fuck. OK.
1:07:58
If I say the one that I want to say.
1:07:59
They'll be. Please say it.
1:08:01
No, no, no, I don't like. Sunscreen.
1:08:05
I'm anti plastic. I hate it.
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I hate it. What do you do though?
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You're so. You're so white though, like
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you. My people, that's clean.
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Not this girl. No, no, no.
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It must be my. It must be my native.
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I don't know. Wait.
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Because I live a peaceful, amazing skin, though.
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Did I go down? No, no, you're oh, it's OK, OK.
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No, I think, I think this might be better because it gets all of
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you guys still perfect, OK. No, I haven't used it in a long
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time and look. I don't do look amazing.
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Thank you. It's.
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Because of the peace in my life that I've I have created, I do.
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I have two. I have a 25 year old and a 21
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year old. That's so crazy.
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Thank you. See.
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And no sunscreen. I'm sorry, it's crazier that is
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crazier that is where did that? Bird come from.
1:09:08
Fuck that bird. Fuck you bro.
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Fucking die on a Cliff. I believe like everybody like is
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different and you know what sunscreen does well.
1:09:21
Yeah, that part's crazy, that part.
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'S crazy. Fuck your bird.
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OK, what is? What's a text you send your
1:09:30
friends way too often? I love you.
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Lol. This bitch.
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Yeah, I like that. I love you.
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That one's good. That's so tripped.
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That's sweet. Yeah.
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Love. You I can't think of 1.
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I guess I. Love to, very good night.
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So much I can't think of 1. Something you're weirdly
1:09:59
competitive about doing the splits for Kathy?
1:10:04
Tug of war I will fuck a bitch up.
1:10:07
I will like be of everything and die.
1:10:11
I learned that recently. I used to be competitive at
1:10:15
lifting weights. Like if somebody was next to me
1:10:17
and lifting weights. I'm going to outlift that
1:10:18
person. Fuck that person.
1:10:21
That's fair. That's fair, yeah.
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Those are the two things that come to my mind.
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Yeah. I'm not committed at.
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All oh, watch me, watch me. What, are you going to drop all
1:10:29
that job? Kathy, that's amazing.
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And with that, we got to end the show on the splits.
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You know what I mean? Wow, she is so flexible.
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That is so. Flexible.
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I'm so flexible. You're so flexible, you're so
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young. I am so young.
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You are so young. So young.
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So young. She uses sunscreens.
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Glutathione. I have to.
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Glutathione, glutathione. Damn it, I keep doing that.
1:11:07
OK, so with the we've now heard about all of your guys's amazing
1:11:15
interests, passions, your skills.
1:11:17
Tell us and our listeners how we can find you and support you
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guys. Come on down to Midtown Oklahoma
1:11:27
City. Why are we like this?
1:11:31
We're right here on what, 7th St.
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We're on 7th St. Still, Nova and Co.
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Still Nova Co it's not going to be in the shop, but thank you so
1:11:40
much. This was great I.
1:11:44
Was waiting on Captain answer. I was.
1:11:46
Waiting on a cat. I was like wait.
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What's The.