Latest / Mini Scroll / Touching Grass with musician Ben Lee
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- 0:00Welcome to Touchgrass, a miniseries where I chat with
- 0:03creatives about staying sane while being chronically online.
- 0:07I'm your host, Lauren Meisner, and Touchgrass is a miniseries
- 0:11brought to you by Britta, where we explore the implications of
- 0:14being chronically online with the creatives who can't escape
- 0:17it. One thing that keeps coming up
- 0:19in these conversations is how important small grounding
- 0:22routines are offline. And for me, one of those
- 0:26routines is drinking enough water.
- 0:28Whether I'm refilling my water bottle for a long walk or taking
- 0:31a break from scrolling my For You page, Britta makes it easy
- 0:34for me to stay hydrated and grounded with pure, fresh
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- 0:40Thank you to Britta for supporting independent media and
- 0:43helping us take better care of ourselves, one refill at a time.
- 0:46Today I'm chatting with my friend and musician, Ben Lee.
- 0:50Ben and I chat about social media and the music industry,
- 0:53how being chronically online helps him be a better parent,
- 0:57and his philosophy behind his status as a public to do good.
- 1:01Thank you so much. And this is Gus.
- 1:03He's my personal handler. He's my favorite guest that
- 1:06we've ever had. Recently cleared of any
- 1:09involvement with the Epstein files.
- 1:11There were rumors going around. But he is not.
- 1:14It was not him. It was a different Gus.
- 1:16Yeah, OK, I'm going to let him wonder.
- 1:17I'm so excited to have you on Touch Grass.
- 1:20You are well, you're the first musician that we've had.
- 1:23You're also the first parent that we've had, but we have
- 1:27known each other for maybe like a year now at this point.
- 1:30Well, I've been aware of you for long.
- 1:31I've been a fan. I, I, I've, I listen to Mini
- 1:35Skull for probably like 2 years maybe.
- 1:37And then I started following you.
- 1:39And then we. Yeah.
- 1:40When we. Yeah.
- 1:41We met each other. Yeah, I love that.
- 1:43OK, so we start every interview by asking guests the same
- 1:47question. Do you consider yourself
- 1:49chronically online? I suppose I do.
- 1:54I suppose I do, but I also think of that as being within a larger
- 2:00sort of construct of being involved in culture.
- 2:04Right. So when culture moved online, we
- 2:09went online. But we're not there because we
- 2:13love being online. We're there because we love
- 2:15culture. Yeah.
- 2:17Yeah, no, I love that. That's a perfect way to put it.
- 2:20Because I everyone that we've spoken to so far in this series
- 2:23has to be chronically online for their job for one reason or
- 2:25another, and all of them desperately wish they didn't
- 2:28have to be. Yeah, I mean, it's quite funny
- 2:30because I was thinking about, I was thinking about this subject
- 2:33coming here today and I was thinking about how I used to be
- 2:36obsessed with music magazines and particularly like the
- 2:40British ones that were like they used to come really slowly.
- 2:44So you'd get them like female, so like the news would be really
- 2:47old, but. But I was obsessed with them and
- 2:51St. Press, like, you know, like in
- 2:53New York, the Village Voice, so the LA Weekly, like wherever
- 2:56culture sort of located itself, I was always obsessed with.
- 3:00So I, I think for me, obviously the online thing has gotten much
- 3:04more immersive in the amount of time we spend on it, but I was
- 3:08always thinking about it 24 hours a day, wherever it was.
- 3:12Yeah, Yeah, that makes sense. OK.
- 3:14So I wanted to talk to you about your career because you
- 3:17obviously hit it really big when you were really young and pre
- 3:20social media, correct? Yes, true.
- 3:22True. So tell us a little bit about
- 3:24that experience and I would love to hear how that's how your
- 3:28experience, I suppose, with your career has evolved as social
- 3:31media has come into the picture. Yeah, well, the whole model of
- 3:35being a rock star or whatever success in music, it was all
- 3:39very like otherworldly when I was growing up.
- 3:41Like, so I was born in 78, so I sort of most of my sort of
- 3:46formal, kind of like the the fantasy of what it meant to be
- 3:50in music was formed in the 80s. Yeah.
- 3:52In which bands just seemed like gods, you know what I mean?
- 3:57Like the idea that we went Mötley Crüe.
- 3:59My first concert I really went to is Mötley Crüe, right?
- 4:01Sydney Entertainment Center, 1988, probably.
- 4:05I was 10 years old. The idea that there would be any
- 4:09kind of acknowledgement from an artist would just be like, it
- 4:13would give you heart palpitations.
- 4:15It was like, whereas now it's so different because people, if you
- 4:19don't respond to comments on Instagram, like access is an
- 4:22assumed thing. So the inaccessibility was a
- 4:25massive part of the fantasy actually.
- 4:28And that's really, I guess, tied in with glamour, that things you
- 4:31can't touch seem much more glamorous.
- 4:35So there was a lot of escape in that fantasy of what it meant to
- 4:39be in music or movies or media or whatever.
- 4:42You felt like, oh, you were going to enter this other world
- 4:45that was essentially like inaccessible to ordinary people,
- 4:49you know? So it's very different.
- 4:50I was always interested in the mechanics of how it all worked.
- 4:53And when I started, it was like making demo tapes, making a bio,
- 5:02having going to Kinko's, doing Flyers and making a package and
- 5:05sending it to record labels and you know, all that kind of
- 5:07stuff. It was very like DIY.
- 5:08It was a lot of time at Kinko's, but in a sense, I think punk
- 5:12rock and indie rock like prepared me for online life.
- 5:18How so? Because it was all about it
- 5:22being fast, cheap and out of control.
- 5:24It was not about doing things perfectly.
- 5:28Like in a sense, in indie rock, the fantasy was that you were
- 5:32going to be constantly creative, have a constant stream of
- 5:36output, and sort of bypass the gatekeepers of major labels that
- 5:40would keep you on this sort of like formal schedule of release
- 5:44and all that. So the indie rock fantasy was
- 5:46like being in your friends bands and playing in lots of gigs and
- 5:49doing like compilations and seven inches.
- 5:51And in a way, what the Internet became is sort of the punk rock
- 5:56fantasy. Take out the corporate overlords
- 5:59to it. But the idea that you would have
- 6:01a direct channel of communication with your audience
- 6:04was sort of what we wanted through fanzines and tape
- 6:07trading and all of that. Yeah.
- 6:08Yeah. So it was kind of interesting
- 6:09because I came up like, I started really young, so I got
- 6:13signed when I was 14. And what was so wild about it
- 6:17was that like my peers, the bands that I started playing
- 6:21with, like Pavement and Sabado and Sonic Youth, the Beastie
- 6:24Boys, they were in their late 20s.
- 6:26So they were actually from a different generation, even
- 6:30though we were musically in the same scene.
- 6:33They grew up through, like, hardcore and college radio and
- 6:37all this stuff where I think a lot of those artists have had a
- 6:39harder time adapting to online life than people my age did.
- 6:45There was almost closer to like, the streaming generation, you
- 6:48know what I mean? So, yeah, so it's just a really
- 6:50wild thing to live through that transition, I guess.
- 6:53Yeah, that's really cool. First of all, I need to say that
- 6:56you're only one year older than Jax Taylor.
- 6:58Did you know that? I didn't know that, but I hope
- 7:01that in my emotional maturity levels exceed more than 12
- 7:05months. You know, it's like that's.
- 7:08Wild, I know he's, but he really got.
- 7:10It's funny because, yeah, he really got caught in that like,
- 7:13arrested adolescence type thing, which I could have too.
- 7:16A lot of musicians do too. But I guess his immature
- 7:20behavior was lauded much more than mine was.
- 7:24And that's one of the dangers of media persona, branding, all of
- 7:28that is that what you get praised for gets sort of
- 7:31validated and you can end up in a bit of a cycle of like forming
- 7:34an identity around it. Some noise, some ways.
- 7:36I think, like, I look at the kind of career, this is a bit
- 7:40bit of a separate point, but I look at the kind of career I
- 7:42sort of wanted and it would probably be more conservative
- 7:46than the 1 I actually got. And then you look at someone
- 7:49like John Mayer who probably got the kind of career I thought I
- 7:53wanted, and even he got bored with that.
- 7:55Yeah, yeah, yeah. He joined the Grateful Dead.
- 7:57He must have been bored to tears, right?
- 8:00So, so, so, so I mean, like it's kind of interesting to realize
- 8:04that like you do get a more interest if you stick it out,
- 8:08you get a more interesting and dynamic relationship to the
- 8:14industry than the one you first seek.
- 8:17I don't know how that's connected to Jax Taylor, but I'm
- 8:20sure he was not trying to get sober and now he's going to
- 8:22have. To, you know, exactly.
- 8:23Well, he definitely just wanted to be famous.
- 8:25That was like his one goal, I feel, you know?
- 8:27Yeah, I mean that, that that I mean, we we don't have to go too
- 8:30far off. That's the fun of talking to
- 8:32you. But like, but I think like it
- 8:35was so interesting because that right before he got fired from
- 8:38Vanderpump, when he referred to Vanderpump Rules as his show.
- 8:41Oh my God, that was actually a really interesting moment in
- 8:46terms of media ego identity. Because he wasn't wrong.
- 8:52Like, like we were tuning in primarily because of the
- 8:55wreckage of his life. But there's a difference between
- 9:00commanding people's attention as a freak show and actually having
- 9:05power behind the scenes in an industry.
- 9:08And I think that's what Lisa Vanderpump knew was like, no
- 9:12matter how much you still focus through chaos, it's not your
- 9:15show. Yeah.
- 9:16Yeah. And I think that's very
- 9:17interesting. I think we, a lot of people,
- 9:18learn that in media and in the industry that chaotic people can
- 9:23come and go, yeah, but the ability to leverage power and
- 9:27make things happen, yeah, is a whole different skill.
- 9:30OK, well I wanted to talk about Annabelle's favorite TikTok that
- 9:34she found from you, OK, where somebody assumes that you were a
- 9:38Tik Toker trying to make it as a.
- 9:40Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. That was flattering, wasn't it?
- 9:43That's like, I know, just another Tik Toker trying to make
- 9:46it in music. I'll tell you what I found
- 9:47flattering about that. OK, so that was like some young
- 9:50person who just discovered me on TikTok, and then I was talking
- 9:53about a new single coming out, and they're like, oh, another
- 9:55Tik Toker putting out a single. I think what's interesting about
- 9:57that was it reflects how fully committed I am to whatever I'm
- 10:02doing. Like, I generally don't wink at
- 10:06my audience. Yeah, when me and Ionia are
- 10:09doing our podcast, I don't, I don't wink at the audience to be
- 10:12like, I'm a musician with a podcast, you know what I mean?
- 10:15I'm like, hey, we're doing this, let's do it.
- 10:17I think what people really want to connect with is just people
- 10:20who are present in what they're doing.
- 10:22And that can be positive or negative, It can be creative or
- 10:25destructive. But even if it's like, take the
- 10:28most chaotic example, like Gabby Hannah, right?
- 10:31I'm just. Because I talked about her.
- 10:32Today, OK, because she's having a, you know, obviously like
- 10:34you're like, I have a 16 year old.
- 10:36So I'm on top of Gabby Hannah's comeback and they're the re, you
- 10:40know, this taking it up with Trisha Paytas and all these.
- 10:43But Trisha Paytas is another person who is fully present in
- 10:48the chaos of the exploration of who she is.
- 10:52And I think that is something that the Internet very much
- 10:55rewards. It rewards commitment to the
- 10:58present moment. And I think that when you show
- 11:02up doing Tik Toks and you're not, you don't have an agenda of
- 11:06I'm actually trying to sell concert tickets or I'm actually,
- 11:08but you're actually just being present and sharing.
- 11:10Yeah. That I think that's I, I take
- 11:12that as the most flattering thing on the on the downside of
- 11:15it is it is kind of crazy how marginalized the parts of our
- 11:22careers as musicians. Like the centerpiece used to be
- 11:27the thing we were making the music and even touring was
- 11:32essentially done to promote the album sales.
- 11:35Whereas now album sales don't really have any, you know,
- 11:38there's no real income from that.
- 11:39So it's flipped and it's, you use albums to promote tours
- 11:43basically. So, so the whole thing has been
- 11:45inverted and that is kind of harrowing, I guess.
- 11:49And that is what that there's a gallows humor to that TikTok,
- 11:54right, which is that we've all essentially been turned into
- 11:58content creators. And I don't know, I've talked
- 12:01to, I've talked to other musicians about this and there
- 12:04are some musicians who they Rage Against it.
- 12:08They Rage Against the term content.
- 12:11They Rage Against the idea that we're all content creators.
- 12:13They're like, they're nostalgic from another era.
- 12:15Well, I mean, I think part of the reason I've survived and
- 12:19that I have a career over 30 years into what I'm doing is
- 12:22that like, I don't spend 2 seconds crying over what was
- 12:25left behind because you're going to drown if you do that.
- 12:29You have to keep agile, keep adapting, and step into the
- 12:32world that you're really in. Yeah.
- 12:34I was going to say, do you feel like in your industry, marketing
- 12:39is the product now as opposed to music is the product?
- 12:42Because I kind of feel that way in media.
- 12:44And I mean, I guess media is slightly different because the
- 12:47medium is usually the product. But even as a founder, like
- 12:50trying to navigate my own founder content, same thing.
- 12:53It's like trying to strike that balance between of course, I'm
- 12:56trying to like raise awareness for Centennial, but I'm also
- 12:59trying to build, I suppose, my own audience of what is it
- 13:03founders that people that will listen to the podcast like.
- 13:06Trying to navigate that has been really interesting and I often
- 13:09feel like marketing is the product at the end of the day as
- 13:12the founder. Yeah, I think that's probably
- 13:14true. I mean, I, I don't think of it
- 13:16in terms of marketing. I think of it in terms of like
- 13:19the monetizable aspect of my career is highly unknown from
- 13:25year to year. Like I think of it in terms of
- 13:28the phones ringing or it's not like that's show business, you
- 13:32know what I mean? That's Shirley MacLaine in
- 13:34Postcards from the Edge. I'm still here.
- 13:36You know what I mean? That that's like, like basically
- 13:40I try and give and give generously and give
- 13:43authentically about things that I care about and I find funny
- 13:47and I'm interested in. And I believe that if I add
- 13:50value to my smaller and wider community, the phone will ring
- 13:57and someone will offer me money to do something.
- 14:00That's basically how I think about it.
- 14:02I think even in terms of marketing, it's like, I don't
- 14:05know what the business is like we all have, you know, whatever
- 14:09what's, we're all making God laugh with our plans.
- 14:11You know, it's like we all have these ideas of how we're going
- 14:15to essentially keep paying our rent or our mortgage or, you
- 14:18know, whatever, you know, supporting ourselves.
- 14:22The only way I can look at it is that we are involved in a
- 14:25continual value exchange and we give and we give a lot for free.
- 14:32And often the things we've put the hardest work into, they lose
- 14:36money and then something we're not expecting connects and then
- 14:40you get paid for something completely unrelated.
- 14:42So that's why I kind of really ascribe to the idea that success
- 14:48in media or show business is like hacking your way through a
- 14:52jungle with a machete and as soon as you clear the path, it
- 14:56closes behind you. So no one can follow you because
- 14:59there are no two people that can take the same path.
- 15:02It is not repeatable. It is not duplicatable.
- 15:05You have to find your own way through the jungle and that's
- 15:09that's the way it is. Oh my.
- 15:10God I love that visualization. As somebody with really bad
- 15:13imposter syndrome, I'm constantly like comparing myself
- 15:16and I'm going to use that now. I'm you know who I stole that
- 15:18from, not stole who I got it because I'm open about.
- 15:20I actually heard the creator of Modern Family describe use that
- 15:25description on a podcast about getting ATV show made.
- 15:28He's like, there's no two people do it the same way.
- 15:31Media arts, entertainment. They've always been highly risky
- 15:35careers, right? But lo and behold, they were
- 15:39also kind of prophetic in that every career seems risky.
- 15:42Yeah. No, really, is there any career
- 15:46that seems secure? I mean, honestly, like, tradies.
- 15:48Yeah. Like when you meet like an
- 15:50electrician or plumber and you go like, OK, you're good for a
- 15:54decade. Yeah, yeah, you are good for a
- 15:55decade. I don't.
- 15:56Think that is your job? Not for the moment, not for the
- 15:58moment. So they seem like the most
- 15:59secure jobs, but everyone else, it's like we're all just
- 16:03surfing, dancing, scrambling, whatever we're doing, you know?
- 16:06And I just don't think there's no two people doing it the same
- 16:09way. OK, so I wanted to talk about
- 16:11how you use your social media platform because obviously you
- 16:14are pretty vocal about social commentary where you land in
- 16:18politics. And I don't think that's super
- 16:21common when it comes to public figures and even podcasters.
- 16:24You know, like I try and be really open about where we fall
- 16:27in my opinion on things because I think that's important.
- 16:29I think it's important that people know who they're
- 16:31following and what they're. Consuming.
- 16:32I like how you do it though, because you, it's almost like to
- 16:37a casual listener, they wouldn't be alienated by your politics.
- 16:42You have to listen for a while to actually see the continuity
- 16:47in your viewpoint. And I think that's, I think you
- 16:50handle that quite subtly and quite delicately.
- 16:54Thank you. Thank you.
- 16:55Well, tell me about your approach to that.
- 16:56Or do you have an approach to speaking out?
- 16:59Social pressure is really interesting.
- 17:01There are certain inflection points in social dialogue where
- 17:08we hit a point where you do have to pick a side with things.
- 17:12And I'm kind of, I'm becoming increasingly tolerant of
- 17:17allowing that moment to come organically because I think
- 17:20sometimes for things to change it's important to speak at the
- 17:23right time. Just jumping in with your
- 17:27opinion on every single thing is not necessarily the way to be
- 17:30most useful, particularly as I've become more and more of an
- 17:36advocate for the arts, particularly Australian music,
- 17:41and not not in a nationalistic way.
- 17:43This is a way that something some people really don't
- 17:45understand this though, because there are people, there are kids
- 17:48and young people who have grown up in an online world that go,
- 17:52who cares where it came from? Why do we have to?
- 17:55And I'm sympathetic to that viewpoint because in a utopian
- 17:59sense, I agree with them. But I also believe in scenes
- 18:02have power. I believe in scenes and I
- 18:06believe in the mutual support that comes through scenes.
- 18:08That's why I connected with you. I knew you were working in
- 18:10Sydney and you were doing interesting work in media and I
- 18:13was like, this is an ally of mine.
- 18:15This is someone who I want to support what she's doing.
- 18:18You know, in some ways I can just like put my money where my
- 18:21mouth is and support artists that have interesting
- 18:26viewpoints. It's not my place to say why
- 18:29it's important, it just is important to me.
- 18:32So I want to listen to music from people that have different
- 18:37outlooks cuz I don't know that's that's why I enjoy art.
- 18:41OK, So what is it like having a teenage daughter?
- 18:44I imagine it's actually probably in some ways easier for you to
- 18:48relate to her because you are so chronically online.
- 18:51Yeah, well, in some ways I found that like I I kind of got on
- 18:56TikTok because my daughter and my stepdaughter were on it.
- 19:00And I really like being able to have commonality in our
- 19:05dialogue. I like to know, I like to
- 19:09understand the jokes. I like to know the references.
- 19:12I think that yes, while I'm sure that sitting and reading
- 19:19together would probably be in the grand scheme of things, a
- 19:23healthier trait than sitting looking at Tik Toks together, I
- 19:27think that there is when you look at the big picture of
- 19:31connecting with your kids, you know, I'm a big fan of like punk
- 19:34rock and Malcolm McLaren. And like, like there was this
- 19:38whole idea that like you have to speak the language of your
- 19:41generation if you want to be in media.
- 19:44You can't put yourself in an ivory tower.
- 19:46You know, you have to be in dialogue.
- 19:48And I think for me, it's helped with not only my career but also
- 19:52my parenting. Our friend Nomi Fry from The New
- 19:54Yorker, she said she was talking about she's raising a teenager,
- 19:57too. And she said, I don't know, Are
- 19:59we just becoming addicts together?
- 20:01Is that what parenting is now? And that may be true, but there
- 20:06is something about the willingness to sit in hell if we
- 20:10are in hell with your kids and go, I'm not abandoning you in
- 20:14hell. I'm gonna sit next to you in
- 20:16hell, and I'm not gonna say, oh, you're on your own in there.
- 20:20Yeah. So I kind of think of it like
- 20:22that, Like maybe we are in hell, but you know what I'm gonna
- 20:25stand by you for? It I'm interested to hear a
- 20:27little bit more. I know you already touched on
- 20:29it, but a little bit more about your work within Australian
- 20:33music. Can you talk about, I suppose,
- 20:36why you're so passionate about that and the work that you've
- 20:39been doing? Well, I guess it stems from the
- 20:41idea like my first opportunities came from other artists.
- 20:47So I got signed my band. We had like a, you know, lofi
- 20:51band in the 90s and we got signed to Sonic Youth's label
- 20:55and the Beastie Boys label. They were artists, run labels.
- 20:57So I came into the industry with a belief and a lived experience
- 21:07that the end goal of getting a platform was using it to share
- 21:13it with young artists you believed in.
- 21:15I just was like, that's the point.
- 21:18Yeah. And then I don't know.
- 21:20That's just like a punk thing. And it's, it's like, and but
- 21:23it's not just punk. Like even like, you know, it
- 21:26came from folk music, like Joan Baez bringing up Bob Dylan and
- 21:29like, and Bob Dylan turning people onto Woody Guthrie.
- 21:32And you know, just like the whole there was just like a
- 21:35constant idea of like, let me show you like Nirvana going.
- 21:39But do you know the Pixies? Do you know Daniel Johnston?
- 21:41Do you know Shannon Knife? The idea was that all culture
- 21:46could be any, any particular point of culture could be an
- 21:49entry point to a life changing exploration.
- 21:53That's how I've always viewed the music industry and culture.
- 21:58I started this kind of like when I was young, like I would like,
- 22:00we'd have a show and I'd always be like, wow, who were the cool
- 22:03bands I can get to open? Who can I share on my Myspace in
- 22:08my top 8 or whatever it was on Myspace.
- 22:10Like that. That idea of like having a
- 22:12platform and using it to turn people on to cool shit was
- 22:16always the dream. But yeah, I just always assumed
- 22:19that that was the point. And as I've gotten to meet more
- 22:23people that like, Oh no, they actually want to gatekeep their
- 22:26own success and their audiences. And like, I look at artists and
- 22:31how little they share other people's work on their social
- 22:34media. Like, OK, I get it.
- 22:36Not the main grid. I get it.
- 22:37I get it. That's why you have a story.
- 22:40Share singles that come out by your friends, share their tour
- 22:44dates. Like, why wouldn't you like
- 22:46share the wealth? The more it's like, you know, a
- 22:49rising tide type thing. It's like we really can.
- 22:52Like, I mean, this is like just a punk thing.
- 22:54It's like you rise together. So anyway, as I've gotten older,
- 22:57I sort of started to realize that my platform is like a real
- 23:01thing now. It's not the biggest in the
- 23:03world, but to be honest with you, I've never tried to make my
- 23:07platform the biggest in the world.
- 23:09I've just tried to make it really cool.
- 23:11Like, I've always cared more about how cool my audience were
- 23:15and how like, like who they were rather than how many they were.
- 23:18And so it just very organically happened.
- 23:22And then when we were living in LA, around the early 2000s in LA
- 23:26was a really interesting time because Aussies, we, I don't
- 23:31know, we, it's sort of like everyone started like this
- 23:35network of people supporting each other really banded
- 23:37together. So every weekend there would be
- 23:40barbecues and it would be like Keith Ledger and Rose Byrne and
- 23:44Joel Edgerton and then Missy Higgins and like all the bands
- 23:47and Sarah Blasco and everyone was coming through.
- 23:50And it really was like, you had a few people's numbers.
- 23:53You called when you got to LA and you were brought into the
- 23:56fold. It was assumed that if you were
- 23:58there, you needed community. And then online almost like
- 24:04dissipated that like it stopped being as much a thing because
- 24:06you didn't have people's numbers anymore.
- 24:08You were just like D Ming and all that kind of stuff.
- 24:11And so I really like when bands started coming, I started being
- 24:14like, oh, you know what, let's have some people over Cub sport
- 24:17are coming to town. Let's throw a little pool party
- 24:19for them. And then it became like, oh,
- 24:22this young producer Nina Jirachi's coming.
- 24:24Let's let's throw a little party in her house and she can DJ and
- 24:28Amel and the sniffers are coming.
- 24:29And we, we just started doing it and it started having these
- 24:32really like tangible effects where like Amal and the
- 24:36sniffers, it was like their first tour of America.
- 24:38And like Beck came to our house and Reggie Watts and Nick Zenner
- 24:42from the airs and everyone watched them play.
- 24:44And you kind of went like, oh, this is like actually helpful.
- 24:48And so I just started realizing like this is a thing, you know,
- 24:52and, and honestly, like the last Aria awards for people
- 24:56internationally, I know we have a, we have a big international
- 24:59audience and that's our Grammys type thing.
- 25:01But the Arias are like a, it's like a traditional kind of
- 25:04thing. So there's like the old world
- 25:06and then there's all the young bucks, you know, coming in.
- 25:08And I was like the only artist standing between the two worlds.
- 25:12And it was the year of Amel and the sniffers and in a Gerachi,
- 25:15who were both artists that I put a lot of energy and love into
- 25:18supporting and sharing and I experienced it.
- 25:21It's so funny. There's a Yiddish word, Nachus,
- 25:24And it's like, I actually got like the joy of other people's
- 25:28success. Like, really.
- 25:30Like Nina said to me, you know, after she won all her awards,
- 25:33we're having a little moment on the side.
- 25:35And she said, Ben, you know that session because we did a little
- 25:37recording session. She's like the session at your
- 25:40house where we write the song All I Am.
- 25:41She's like, that was the start of my album.
- 25:43And that session made me feel ready to make my album.
- 25:46And this is the album that did so well.
- 25:48And she's like, thank you. I genuinely mean that.
- 25:50And I said, listen, I have never been tangentially involved with
- 25:55a project that had this much undeniable momentum.
- 25:59Thank you for letting me bear witness to this because it has
- 26:01blown my mind. Like, once you see that happen
- 26:04and it's real and you realize how much hype there is in, like,
- 26:08you're trying, like, a lot of show business is like talking up
- 26:11success and like pretending it's happening when it's not.
- 26:14And then you see it really happening.
- 26:15You're like, oh, and so that you'd, like changed my life.
- 26:18But that night of the Arias, I realized like, oh, this isn't in
- 26:22my imagination. Like I can be part of.
- 26:24And I don't want this to sound like, I don't want to be like A
- 26:27and I'm not trying to be like a king maker where I'm like
- 26:30selecting, Oh, you're good, You're not you're.
- 26:33But the stuff I like, I want to throw my weight behind it
- 26:36because it's meaningful. And so anyway, in a broad sense,
- 26:40that's really all I'm doing. But some of that is also now
- 26:45starting to look at the functioning of the industry
- 26:47because I don't know how much you know about all the
- 26:51conversations going on about Spotify.
- 26:54Spotify has had a very interesting effect on
- 26:58international markets. Non-english speaking markets
- 27:02have seen their music, domestic music skyrocket because to the
- 27:08ear of people in that country, it's identifiable on their
- 27:12streaming services. So they go, if you're in Sweden,
- 27:15you want to hear a Swedish language music and you'd be
- 27:17like, I'm going to listen to Sweden.
- 27:19And then one artist leads to another.
- 27:20If you're in Australia or England, you don't know whether
- 27:23you're being fed Australian music, American Music, or
- 27:26British music. And basically in Australia and
- 27:28in England, our music industries are being completely
- 27:32marginalized as we are being bombarded with American Music.
- 27:36I love American Music. Obviously, American Music is
- 27:40like the best music has ever been made.
- 27:42But we don't realize what we're losing, right?
- 27:45So I've gotten a little bit more involved in that.
- 27:48And again, to come back to that Gen.
- 27:50Z argument of, well, what's the difference?
- 27:53Yes, when you're listening to Spotify, what's the difference?
- 27:56Who cares? But when you're 16 and want to
- 27:59go and jump in a mosh pit for the first time and want to like
- 28:03get all your aggression out and want to go buy AT shirt from a
- 28:06band that has to be a local artist.
- 28:09Yeah, That's not going to be Chapel Rd.
- 28:11Yeah, yeah. That's going to be a band called
- 28:13a gang called Speed playing the like the local hardcore show or
- 28:17RMFC or like one of these younger bands.
- 28:19So like, so I just, I feel that we are in danger of losing a
- 28:24very hands on tangible cultural touchstone if we don't support
- 28:30our local scenes. Also for the artists themselves,
- 28:34they need to be able to see, you know, that they can make it and
- 28:37not have to move to the US, right?
- 28:38That's. Right.
- 28:39Yeah, yeah. And and also there's so many
- 28:41industries like, look, what we're doing right now is
- 28:47theoretically trickle down effect from people spending a
- 28:50lot of money at corporations that give you content to talk
- 28:54about, right? You know, so like there's from
- 28:57nightlife leads to like restaurants and bars and buskers
- 29:02and Uber drivers. And like there's to keep a city
- 29:05vibrant, which, you know, Sydney has really had like the
- 29:09nightlife beaten out of it over the last two decades.
- 29:12And now there's a real effort to bring it back.
- 29:15And you know, I'm hearing a lot of people saying like Sydney's
- 29:19coming back, like they're investing a lot of money in
- 29:22nightlife, but you got to have local, local passion, local
- 29:27talent, local opportunity and all the local industries that
- 29:29come along with it. Yeah, I love that.
- 29:31OK. Well the last question that I
- 29:33have for you is tell me how you touch grass.
- 29:36How do I touch grass I feel? Like you're always touching
- 29:38grass. Yeah.
- 29:39I mean, OK. So I guess I'm going to be a
- 29:41little more macro and say that when I was younger, I was really
- 29:47obsessed with spiritual practices like meditation and
- 29:51psychedelics and retreats and all this stuff.
- 29:54Because I used to believe that like you had to touch grass in a
- 29:59very literal way in order to counteract the very literal way
- 30:04we lose ourselves to modern stress and everything and
- 30:08whatever. And I think my personal belief
- 30:12is that nowadays the way I think about spirituality, say, is that
- 30:17the practice is life. There's no separate thing,
- 30:21right? I'm not sure if thinking about
- 30:25touching grass as something that happens outside of our
- 30:28relationship to technology or anything is that useful anymore.
- 30:33Because in a way, all aspects of our life are part of the same
- 30:38dance. So for me, it's more a moment to
- 30:40moment thing. Like I saw a really, you might
- 30:45have seen I put on my Instagram story the other day that I got.
- 30:47So it's great TikTok, you know, that one going around of like
- 30:49the girl saying hi, hi to people, like liking their
- 30:53Instagram stories. Like that's touching grass to
- 30:56me. Yeah, OK.
- 30:57Touching grass is actual connection.
- 31:01And that can happen in the digital world.
- 31:02It can happen in the analog world, it can happen in nature,
- 31:05it can happen in the city. It's saying that like, I see
- 31:09you, do you see me? I see you, hi, you know, and
- 31:13just the very simple human to human thing of saying hi to each
- 31:17other, to ourselves, making that fundamental to the way I use the
- 31:23Internet. That is kind of what it's all
- 31:26about for me. And then a separate thing is I
- 31:29play live music generally two or three nights a week.
- 31:33My phone is my clock. So it is down there on the floor
- 31:35next to my sailors, but I'm not picking it up.
- 31:37I am sweating. I am singing.
- 31:41I am in an athletic, transcendent moment with an
- 31:45audience who want to be together in a room.
- 31:48They don't want to fucking live stream it through beeps.
- 31:50No shade on beeps. Good on beeps.
- 31:52But I don't think that can replace live music.
- 31:56Something that happens in a room.
- 31:58I love that. And those things like live
- 32:00music, sex, food, laughter, these things are like they're
- 32:06innate to who we are. And I think that realness of
- 32:09feeling, of being a human who feels, just remembering, that's
- 32:13who we are. And that's the name of the game.
- 32:16That's an amazing place to live. All right.
- 32:20Thank you so much. Thank you.
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