151 They Say They're Not Ready...should you believe them?

Violet Lange's Pleasure Path · May 21, 2026 · 32m

What does it actually mean when someone says they’re “not ready” for a relationship? In this episode, Violet explores the difference between desire and capacity, why readiness is a spectrum, how to recognize embodied cues instead of just words, and why mutual choosing matters more than fantasy. A nuanced conversation about dating, attachment, sovereignty, vulnerability, and the messy beauty of becoming ready for love.

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