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Another 'London boy' ruined Abby's fun night out! · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's best music is Magic Jazz ninety four nine.
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Speaker 2: It's Scotty Abbey unfiltered. There's a lot of stuff to
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Speaker 2: unpacked because whenever you come after a weekend and it's
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Speaker 2: just so many things have happened each and every night.
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Speaker 2: Here's where I want to preface, because I was cracking
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Speaker 2: up and I woke up Sunday morning. I was refreshed,
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Speaker 2: the sun was shining through the window, and I go
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Speaker 2: to look at my phone and I.
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Speaker 1: Say, I have a text from you, Abby.
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Speaker 2: Yes, at three in the morning, Abby texts me, She's
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Speaker 2: like you up, Yo, you up.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, hell, no, I'm not up.
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Speaker 2: I was like, what in the world did you get
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Speaker 2: yourself into? And I'm so excited because I don't know
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Speaker 2: what we're about to talk about. All I know is
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Speaker 2: that you had a really good friend in town and
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Speaker 2: you guys hit the town. What Friday, Saturday, Sun Sunday.
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Speaker 2: What the heck happened?
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Speaker 1: Yeah?
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Speaker 3: I was about say, I'm really glad me and your
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Speaker 3: lady have a good relationship, because if anybody else texted
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Speaker 3: you at three am saying what are you doing at
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Speaker 3: three am? I think if I was your girlfriend, I
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Speaker 3: would have a connipsho oh.
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Speaker 1: Absolutely, yeah, So who's texting you at that time? Abby?
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Speaker 3: I was like, where Scott's out? Like, where do we
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Speaker 3: go next? To three am? We shut down this bar
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Speaker 3: and I'll give you just the full story, because yeah,
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Speaker 3: we had We met lots of characters, We had a
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Speaker 3: lot of fun dancing. That to me is the fun
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Speaker 3: way to have a weekend is to meet interesting people
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Speaker 3: and to listen to good music. And we had all
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Speaker 3: of that this weekend.
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Speaker 2: So when they got here on Friday, what was because
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Speaker 2: this is also cool? Is this their first time? Like
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Speaker 2: visiting you in Tampa Bay haven't been here before.
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Speaker 3: Since my friend Taylor. Taylor's been here before. Taylor and
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Speaker 3: I met in Atlanta. She lives in Nashville now, and
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Speaker 3: literally Taylor's always down for a good time. She said
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Speaker 3: that she wanted to come down to Tampa for a weekend,
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Speaker 3: and I knew that I was going to have a
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Speaker 3: free weekend this go around. It's also my birthday week
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Speaker 3: so I'm like, I'm sure I'm gonna want to go
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Speaker 3: out and do things.
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Speaker 1: Of course.
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Speaker 3: So I texted her like a month ago and I
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Speaker 3: was like, Hey, I think the weekend of the seventeenth,
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Speaker 3: eighteen nineteen, is going to work. Do you want to come?
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Speaker 3: And she goes, Okay, I just put my flight. I
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Speaker 3: was like, okaye, see then high.
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Speaker 1: I love a friend that does that.
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Speaker 2: Like I'm the worst when it comes to being a
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Speaker 2: friend because I have friends that live in Boston, I
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Speaker 2: have friends that live in Seattle, and I have friends
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Speaker 2: that live in Colorado. I never is it ever? Yeah,
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Speaker 2: I'm that bad of a friend. Where I'm like, I'll
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Speaker 2: get to it. And it's like three years go by
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Speaker 2: where Taylor sounds incredible. You're like, hey, I have this weekend.
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Speaker 2: She books it right then and there.
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Speaker 3: That's what me and Taylor are friends is we both
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Speaker 3: just like to have a good time. Whether that's laying
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Speaker 3: on the couch scrolling or going to a new bar
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Speaker 3: or trying a new restaurant. We just want to have fun.
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Speaker 3: We just want to giggle, we want to hear ahahu,
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Speaker 3: and I love that we both can do that. So
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Speaker 3: she's very easy to travel with. So she comes in
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Speaker 3: on Friday, and the way I planned out this whole
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Speaker 3: weekend is that on Friday, I was like, that's our
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Speaker 3: Tampa Day. Saturday, we'll be our Saint Pete Day, and
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Speaker 3: then we'll play it by a year on Sunday, which
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Speaker 3: everyone will we like better. We'll just go out on
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Speaker 3: so Friday, I take her to Solid Core. Well we're
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Speaker 3: in Saint Pete for this, but so take her to
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Speaker 3: Solid Corn Saint Pete. We bop around and then we
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Speaker 3: got ready and went to dinner at the Pearl. Oh,
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Speaker 3: finally got to check out the Pearl. We had. I
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Speaker 3: had a good meal there. My grilled cheese was a
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Speaker 3: pair and squash and gorgonzola. Situation is very good.
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Speaker 2: See that's how you know it's a fancy ast girl cheese.
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Speaker 2: It wasn't just cheese on bread.
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Speaker 1: No, we had a pair in it.
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Speaker 3: It was he's on bread with with pairs which.
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Speaker 2: He makes a drink. Because like, this place is so nice.
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Speaker 2: It's downtown Tampa. It's right by Benchmark International Arena and
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Speaker 2: anytime you go, the bar looks beautiful. But they also
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Speaker 2: have these cool like exclusive booths. Where'd you guys sit.
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Speaker 3: They're sitting in a booth. You got the booth, you
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Speaker 3: got a booth. And the bar looks really fun. It's
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Speaker 3: like one of those U shaped bars. And I was
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Speaker 3: I will say I was horrified at the prices on
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Speaker 3: the menu and listen like, I'm not a cheap gal,
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Speaker 3: Like I knew I was ready to pay a little money,
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Speaker 3: but I almost looking at the menu, I'm like, oh
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Speaker 3: my god, sixty dollars for an entry. Oh I know,
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Speaker 3: I was horrified, and my owh these are Channel Side prices.
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Speaker 3: But I didn't expect it from The Pearl, because the
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Speaker 3: Pearl is a new American Southern restaurant. I thought that
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Speaker 3: was Bulon pricing. So anyway, you know me, I talk
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Speaker 3: about Boolon all the time.
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Speaker 1: As if it's something they just got another mention, it's
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Speaker 1: some midp No.
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Speaker 3: I know, it's some mythical creature. But I told Taylor,
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Speaker 3: I am, I go, let's just keep it kind of
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Speaker 3: low key tonight. Let's not do anything crazy. It was like,
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Speaker 3: let's just bop around Channel Side and grab bez at
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Speaker 3: cocktail bars. And so Bulon is kind of the perfect
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Speaker 3: place to do that, because I know, I keep saying,
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Speaker 3: they have this really great bar where there's just a
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Speaker 3: lot of interesting characters. It's sugar daddy vibes. It's the
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Speaker 3: richest people in Tampa because it's very facey, sugar babies
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Speaker 3: it's just it's just interesting. So we luckily get a
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Speaker 3: seat at the bar where people watch you. It's a
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Speaker 3: good time. And I told her was like, listen, we
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Speaker 3: both love country music. I've heard raving reviews about this
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Speaker 3: bar called Sunset Rodeo. Apparently it's more people our age,
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Speaker 3: it's country music. Why don't we end the night there,
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Speaker 3: go home by midnight? Call today? So we uber on
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Speaker 3: over to Sunset Rodeo. And I think it was Tampa
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Speaker 3: Terrence that said that it was almost too old sometimes.
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Speaker 2: Because you have to be it's one of those bars
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Speaker 2: where it's like you have to be at least twenty three. Yes,
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Speaker 2: like they don't take anybody that's like in college still,
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Speaker 2: like you got.
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Speaker 1: To be a little grown.
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Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't know. I think that the fakes are
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Speaker 3: getting better because we walk in and me and Taylor,
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Speaker 3: and we're doing this new thing where we're trying not
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Speaker 3: to call each other old because we're I'm turning twenty
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Speaker 3: nine this week, she's thirty, and we're trying not to
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Speaker 3: do this thing that girls always do when we hit thirty,
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Speaker 3: we go, oh my god, we're so old old or
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Speaker 3: so old. She was raving about this this podcast from
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Speaker 3: Tinks recently, where I guess she was trying to rephrase
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Speaker 3: what it's like to be this age where it's like
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Speaker 3: we're so young, Like, you just have to rephrase how
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Speaker 3: you feel about your age.
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Speaker 1: I absolutely very young.
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Speaker 3: Thirties, relatively young. I'm like, you know what, in ten years,
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Speaker 3: we are going to look back and go, we were
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Speaker 3: so young.
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Speaker 1: How dare we call ourselves old?
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so just because we're getting older doesn't mean we
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Speaker 3: don't need to exacerate that feeling of we're so old.
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Speaker 1: I love that.
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Speaker 3: Yes, I think it's better to rephrase your opinion on
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Speaker 3: your age and look back and go, oh my god,
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Speaker 3: we're so young.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I don't want to be college age anymore.
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Speaker 2: Like those years were fun, but I feel much better
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Speaker 2: now because obviously you're better in a career, you're more mature.
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Speaker 2: I was just talking about this with Melady about it's
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Speaker 2: exciting stepping into this new like dating relationship, because I
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Speaker 2: looked at her, I was like, we're just so much
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Speaker 2: more mature because of our past experiences. When there's something
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Speaker 2: that's to come up, because we know there's something, we're
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Speaker 2: gonna be able to handle it so much better now
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Speaker 2: that we're older and we've gone through a couple of
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Speaker 2: the ringers that suck.
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Speaker 3: And you're a little bit more established. You're not in
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Speaker 3: that phase where you're building your life and your life
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Speaker 3: feels chaotic. You two are just in a good place
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Speaker 3: to date exactly.
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Speaker 1: So it's like, we're not at this age.
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Speaker 2: And I don't know what age you are listening, but
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Speaker 2: I never love when people just continuously put themselves down.
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Speaker 2: Yeah I'm so old, I can't do this, So I'm
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Speaker 2: not old enough, Like no, no, no, no. The age
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Speaker 2: that you're in, like what a beautiful Every single age
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Speaker 2: has that beautiful chapter part of it, and so this
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Speaker 2: is like a new one for us. Yeah, late twenties,
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Speaker 2: early thirties, like how exciting everyone always said. Our boss
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Speaker 2: literally just said, like the thirties is about to be
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Speaker 2: one of your favorites.
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Speaker 3: Exactly, And everyone says that that's what the people are saying.
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Speaker 3: So I walk in, and you know, we were definitely
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Speaker 3: feeling a lot older than the nineteen year olds that
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Speaker 3: we're in. Sunset Rodeo, which is supposed to be like
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Speaker 3: the national bar. Everyone's wearing cowboy hats. By the way
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Speaker 3: I walked in, I was like it's like, is this
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Speaker 3: just like Cowboy Cosplay Hour? But it's just looks like
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Speaker 3: your typical dive bar. There's neon light, and there's a
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Speaker 3: bunch of different rooms and pool tables and outside patio.
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Speaker 3: But we go straight to the back because we want
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Speaker 3: to hear music and we want to dance, and so
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Speaker 3: we walk in and they're playing some remixes of some
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Speaker 3: country music and we're like, oh, perfect, this is exactly
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Speaker 3: where we want to be. We want to dance to
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Speaker 3: La Langley Choose in Texas. And then this band gets
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Speaker 3: on the stage and they proceeded to play every song
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Speaker 3: no nineteen year old in that bar was gonna know.
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Speaker 3: They played like Nickelback and Blink one eighty two and
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Speaker 3: all these like random alternative songs that me and her know.
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Speaker 3: But we also didn't go to Sunset Rodeo to listen
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Speaker 3: to alternative, Like this is the one country bar in Tampa.
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Speaker 3: We want to listen to some country music. So we
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Speaker 3: just had such a flop night. So going into Saturday,
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Speaker 3: we were like, we are fien in for a good time.
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Speaker 3: So we have ourselves a day in Saint Pete. We
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Speaker 3: go to dinner Juno and the Peacock another great Spot,
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Speaker 3: Greatest Special Routini, and I take her to Welcome to
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Speaker 3: the Farm. There's a theme here. We both have country
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Speaker 3: music where like we want to listen to.
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Speaker 2: And it makes me wonder, like what are her thoughts,
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Speaker 2: because when you're again, I've never been there Nahville, but
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Speaker 2: I do know it's like honky talk after honky tong,
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Speaker 2: after dive bar after country music, and every place has
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Speaker 2: live music, is what I hear.
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Speaker 3: But she loves that. We love that like I could
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Speaker 3: spend honestly every weekend and Broadway in Nashville. Okay, maybe
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Speaker 3: not every weekend, but like a couple of weekends in Nashville,
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Speaker 3: like back to back. I love those bars. Those are
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Speaker 3: so fun. And she feels the same way, like even
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Speaker 3: though she's now a Nashville local, she's like, I still
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Speaker 3: love Broadway, like it's still fun. Just because it's cliche
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Speaker 3: doesn't mean it's not great.
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Speaker 1: Exactly, It's there for a reason.
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Speaker 3: So we go to Welcome to the Farm and we
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Speaker 3: have another similar situation where this guy that's up on
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Speaker 3: stage with his guitar is just playing like the most
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Speaker 3: niche country music you've ever heard, and we're like it's
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Speaker 3: nine pm on freaking Saturday. Get up, We're going to hide.
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Speaker 3: So I look at her and I said, this is
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Speaker 3: my last chance to try and help us have a
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Speaker 3: good night. I was like, I've heard rave reviews about
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Speaker 3: this other bar down the street. It's called the good
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Speaker 3: Night John Boy. I'm pretty sure we can dance there,
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Speaker 3: because all we want to do is dance. We have
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Speaker 3: are we got our full eight hours of rest. We
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Speaker 3: were in early last night from Friday. Get the fuck up,
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Speaker 3: we're going to hide. Good night john Boy. We walk
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Speaker 3: in and the second we walk in, I hear like,
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Speaker 3: do you remember I start just involuntarily pop and I'm like,
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Speaker 3: oh my god, what is happening? Taking over my body?
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Speaker 3: So I walk in and I look at Taylor and
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Speaker 3: I do that thing where I do I do clock
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Speaker 3: it and I go, Taylor, let's get a drink, Taylor.
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Speaker 3: So we get our drinks and we head straight to
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Speaker 3: the dance floor and it's seventies disco. That's the theme
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Speaker 3: of the bar. It feels very old school. There's TVs
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Speaker 3: playing old seventies music videos and everyone's dancing, everyone's and
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Speaker 3: it's people our age, it's older people. Yes, it's just
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Speaker 3: so so fun. So we get on the dance floor.
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Speaker 3: We're having a great time. And then this is where
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Speaker 3: our boys saga started. So I will say Taylor and
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Speaker 3: I both single, good music, good people. That is the
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Speaker 3: recipe for a good night. So we both look super cute.
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Speaker 3: We're feeling ourselves, we're dancing. We're just I mean literally
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Speaker 3: the most uninhibited, unhinged dance moves out on the floor.
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Speaker 3: I'm feeling the rain on my skin. No one else
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Speaker 3: can feel it for me, no one else can let
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Speaker 3: it in like they're playing dancing queen. And the DJ
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Speaker 3: was so nice. He was taking requests. We were like
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Speaker 3: play Abba and he played abb before us. It was just, oh,
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Speaker 3: it was so much fun. I can't say it enough.
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Speaker 3: Good things about the music and the vibes.
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Speaker 1: What are your go to like when you're out there.
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to envision it, like do you have because
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Speaker 2: I have the most goofy dance moves when I hit
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Speaker 2: a dance floor.
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Speaker 3: Oh, it's just I'm just feeling the music like whatever
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Speaker 3: the seventies gods are not put it flowing in my
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Speaker 3: repertoire like I'm just I'm just flowing and put my
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Speaker 3: hands up, I'm dancing like I a night, A good night,
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Speaker 3: John boy. I think healed me, honestly, just because I
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Speaker 3: love to dance. It's the one time when I'm not
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Speaker 3: in my head and I'm not anxious or thinking about things.
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Speaker 3: I can just let loose and vibe and have a
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Speaker 3: little drink and be with my friends. It's my favorite
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Speaker 3: thing to do. It's very healing.
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Speaker 1: I like that because also that place and I noticed this.
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Speaker 2: With bars, especially when you're younger, like nobody dances like
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Speaker 2: That's why I love what I get to do, because
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Speaker 2: I'm like, I will kick off that dance floor, no problem,
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Speaker 2: you'll judge dance, but I good night John boys. Since
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Speaker 2: everyone's like slightly older, everyone's like I don't give a fuck,
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Speaker 2: like I'm on dance, and so the whole place is
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Speaker 2: backed like you're bumping into each other. But then you
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Speaker 2: bump into each other and it's not like you're twenty
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Speaker 2: and you're trying to fight. It's like no, no, like awesome,
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Speaker 2: and you sing together with a random stranger.
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Speaker 3: It's just the best good social vibes. So me and
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Speaker 3: Taylor like once year we'll have one night that heals
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Speaker 3: us both where just everything kind of goes right in
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Speaker 3: the sense that you're just constantly bumping into people or
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Speaker 3: hearing the best music, and you just go the rest
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Speaker 3: of the year chasing that high. And so this was
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Speaker 3: that night for us. So we're hanging out, we're dancing, dancing.
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Speaker 3: Queen's on earth Wind and Fire is on, all the
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Speaker 3: good groovy beats, and then all of a sudden, this
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Speaker 3: guy rolls up and dands next to us and kind
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Speaker 3: of breaks open our dance circle and starts dancing with us.
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Speaker 3: I mean and Taylor look at each other and we're like,
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Speaker 3: it's game time. Here we go. We're reving ourranges. We're
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Speaker 3: like racers, sorry your engines, and so we're like, yes,
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Speaker 3: finally something to shake up the night. He's a cute boy.
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Speaker 3: He's tall, he's well dressed. The best way for me
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Speaker 3: to describe what this guy looks like. He looks like
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Speaker 3: a young Hugh Grant, which is very ironic because not
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Speaker 3: only does he look like a young Hugh Grant from
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Speaker 3: Nodding Hill in his nineties early two thousands, Prince William
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Speaker 3: button down and jeans, the guy is British.
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Speaker 1: Oh good lord, he's.
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Speaker 3: Wearing glasses, he's got a baseball hat on, like it's
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Speaker 3: full on nineties fine vibes. Okay, So he's dancing with
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Speaker 3: us and we're having a good time, and then he
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Speaker 3: looks over and he has a friend, and we're like
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Speaker 3: perfect one for the both of us. And not only
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Speaker 3: does he have a friend, the friend is also super
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Speaker 3: cute and tall. Literally, I was like, there is a god.
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Speaker 3: So Taylor and I are dancing and the guy, young
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Speaker 3: Hugh Grant is looking over at his tall friend, also
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Speaker 3: with another baseball cap and a button down on. He's
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Speaker 3: just standing there like a goober. And we're like waving
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Speaker 3: him over, like come dance with us, calm, dance with us.
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Speaker 3: So we're giving him all the vibes. We're like come on,
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Speaker 3: we like we want you. There's guys, there's your ghost.
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Speaker 3: So he comes over and then this is where his
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Speaker 3: shit got weird. So there no, no, no, we're not We're
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Speaker 3: not in the very beginning of the story. So just
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Speaker 3: buck Buckle and Scott. This is this is a saga.
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Speaker 1: Click.
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Speaker 3: So Taylor and I are dancing with young Hugh Grant
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Speaker 3: and his tall friend, his tall goober friend. I wouldn't
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Speaker 3: call him goofy. Oh yeah, he was acting roll goober ish.
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Speaker 3: So we're dancing and we're trying to break bring them
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Speaker 3: into our dance circle. We're making eye contact, we're trying
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Speaker 3: to dance with them, and they're just looking at each
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Speaker 3: other and dancing, and so for like a song or two,
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Speaker 3: Taylor and I are like, ugly, is are we the problem?
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Speaker 3: Are we? So we're trying to we're trying to get
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Speaker 3: their attention, We're trying to dance with them, and at
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Speaker 3: some point I just look at Taylor. I'm like, where
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Speaker 3: does this is fucking weird? Like I turn around, I'm like,
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Speaker 3: let's okay, let's just dance with each other. So me
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Speaker 3: and her dance with each other and they eventually go away,
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Speaker 3: and I look at her and I was like that
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Speaker 3: was so bizarre, Like we were giving them. It's like
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Speaker 3: almost guys want to be victims.
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Speaker 1: With literally, It's like, how much more obvious could you be?
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Speaker 3: We're so obvious. We're literally waving goober guy over there,
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Speaker 3: being like, come dance with us, come dance with us.
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Speaker 3: We're looking him up now, being like dance with us,
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Speaker 3: and they just won't dance with us. So Taylor and
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Speaker 3: I go back to dancing, we're still having the best time,
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Speaker 3: and then they come back again, and I'm so upset
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Speaker 3: because they were so cute, both of our types, and
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Speaker 3: I was like, they literally just fumbled the bag for
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Speaker 3: no reason. But I had told Taylor. I'm like, maybe
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Speaker 3: we read it wrong. Maybe they're like that's his boyfriend.
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Speaker 1: I don't know, because you're.
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Speaker 3: In Saint Pete. Saint Pete's very LGBTQ friendly. So we're
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Speaker 3: hanging out and they come back over and I go
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Speaker 3: to tall goober guy and I said, so, are you
14:25
Speaker 3: two like gay for each other?
14:27
Speaker 1: Like said that yes.
14:28
Speaker 3: I mean this is also after like eight box shotas
14:30
Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So I look at it
14:31
Speaker 3: and I'm like, what's your what's your problem? Like why
14:33
Speaker 3: don't you want to dance with us? And then he
14:35
Speaker 3: turns to his friend, young Hugh Grant and he goes,
14:38
Speaker 3: they think we're gay for each other. I'm like, well,
14:40
Speaker 3: you guys just like won't dance and hang out with us.
14:42
Speaker 3: So then they eventually get the message that we want
14:44
Speaker 3: to hang out with them, and they start dancing with us,
14:47
Speaker 3: and I'm like, finally they introduced themselves to us. I
14:50
Speaker 3: think the British guy is visiting from somewhere. But I'm like,
14:54
Speaker 3: oh my god, classic and other. I don't know what
14:55
Speaker 3: it is about the Britishmen, but they always find me
14:58
Speaker 3: no matter where I'm at. They they just flock to
15:01
Speaker 3: me like a duck to water.
15:02
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, the times that we've gone out,
15:04
Speaker 2: it's always been somebody that has a British accent.
15:06
Speaker 3: There's always a British Man that finds me. And I'm
15:08
Speaker 3: sitting there, I'm like, oh god. So I find it
15:10
Speaker 3: very triggering because I had a very heinous experience with
15:12
Speaker 3: a British Man and they just find me wherever I'm at.
15:15
Speaker 3: They find me in Nashville, they find me in Saint Pete,
15:17
Speaker 3: just like the most random.
15:17
Speaker 1: Place is it's destined to be with a brit.
15:19
Speaker 3: But the British guy is like all into me, and
15:22
Speaker 3: so he introduces himself. He's like, I'm visiting my friend
15:24
Speaker 3: who I work with. I think his name is James.
15:26
Speaker 3: I'm James. I think the other guy's name was Morgan.
15:30
Speaker 3: Morgan's Morgan's American. Morgan lives in Saint Pete. So Morgan
15:33
Speaker 3: is tall, goober guy, young Hugh Grant is James. I'm
15:37
Speaker 3: pretty sure, I don't remember his worry. And so we're
15:39
Speaker 3: hanging out with them and then we're dancing. We're having
15:42
Speaker 3: a good time, and then they leave again and I
15:44
Speaker 3: look at Taylor and I'm like, what are we doing wrong?
15:47
Speaker 3: And so they finally come back, and then this is where,
15:51
Speaker 3: this is where things got a little bit more romantic.
15:53
Speaker 3: They come back over and I look at tall goober
15:55
Speaker 3: guy and I go, you guys done jacking each other off?
15:58
Speaker 3: Like what's going on?
15:59
Speaker 2: Leave it to Abby to be just right forward and
16:03
Speaker 2: say it how it is.
16:04
Speaker 3: Well, this is when it got fun. Tall goober guy
16:06
Speaker 3: slung it right back. He goes, oh, yeah, we'll be
16:08
Speaker 3: done if you can be next. And then I look
16:10
Speaker 3: at him and I go, that's totally fine, as long
16:12
Speaker 3: as you're okay with my dick being bigger than yours.
16:15
Speaker 1: Oh my god.
16:16
Speaker 3: And then I could tell. Tall goober guy goes, okay,
16:19
Speaker 3: here we go. So all of a sudden, I'm like, okay,
16:22
Speaker 3: I'm done with young Hugh Grant. I think I love
16:24
Speaker 3: this man. I think I love tall guber boy. So
16:26
Speaker 3: we're kind of dancing, and I can tell that we're
16:28
Speaker 3: all sort of in like this weird ancestual flirting circle
16:31
Speaker 3: where we're all kind of into each other. But I'm
16:33
Speaker 3: really into tall goober guy. Oh. But I'm trying to
16:37
Speaker 3: play it, play it right because I also have my
16:39
Speaker 3: friend Taylor here, and I'm like, I want her to
16:41
Speaker 3: still feel like she's getting her flirt on. So I'm like,
16:43
Speaker 3: I can't tell if she's hitting off with Young Hugh Grant,
16:45
Speaker 3: is tall goober guy hitting on her. I'm trying to
16:47
Speaker 3: figure out what the vibes are, so I'm trying not
16:48
Speaker 3: to like cling on to one of them at all.
16:50
Speaker 3: But I'm standing next to tall goober guy and I
16:53
Speaker 3: look at him. I was like, why are you wearing
16:54
Speaker 3: that hat? Because they're both wearing these ball caps and
16:56
Speaker 3: this disco and so I pull his hat off and
16:59
Speaker 3: he has the most glorious head of hair.
17:02
Speaker 1: I did not know that. I was like, what the
17:03
Speaker 1: heck is under the cap.
17:04
Speaker 3: It's tall, it's curly, he's brunette. Young hu Grant takes
17:07
Speaker 3: his hat off. He has nineties boy band hair, and
17:10
Speaker 3: we're both looking at them, like, what do you You
17:11
Speaker 3: guys are fumbling? You guys come over here. You don't
17:15
Speaker 3: look at us in the eye, you don't want to
17:16
Speaker 3: dance with us, and you're also hiding your beautiful head
17:19
Speaker 3: of hair. And so then tall goober guy puts his
17:21
Speaker 3: hat on me, and I was like, oh, so, like
17:23
Speaker 3: maybe tall goober guy likes me, because I know guys
17:26
Speaker 3: are very protective over their hat.
17:27
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is so flirty. It's ridiculous.
17:29
Speaker 3: It's so flirty. So I'm dancing with tall gouber guy
17:32
Speaker 3: and I kind of have this moment where admittedly I
17:36
Speaker 3: do have a little bit of an avoidant attachment style,
17:38
Speaker 3: and I think I have these childhood wounds of not
17:41
Speaker 3: getting romantic attention growing up to where I think I'm
17:44
Speaker 3: afraid to show too much interest and get my power
17:46
Speaker 3: away because I don't want to be shamed or humiliated. True,
17:49
Speaker 3: and also I'm a little toxic. I kind of wanted
17:51
Speaker 3: to make tall guber guy jealous. So I'm standing next
17:54
Speaker 3: to tall goober guy. And also admittedly I'm thinking, I
17:57
Speaker 3: don't know if Taylor is getting attention from young huge Grant,
18:00
Speaker 3: I might need to like open up the floor for
18:01
Speaker 3: her to flirt with tall goober guy. So I start
18:04
Speaker 3: making eye contact with young Hugh Grant. I start kind
18:06
Speaker 3: of dancing with him. Tall goober Guy flips his position,
18:09
Speaker 3: start talking with Taylor, start talking with some other girls,
18:12
Speaker 3: and then I start to have a little bit of
18:13
Speaker 3: instant regret. I'm like, fuck, no, I miss. I was
18:15
Speaker 3: like miss miss, Tall goober guy like come back over.
18:17
Speaker 1: You're like, come back.
18:18
Speaker 3: So we're all hanging out. We're still having a good time,
18:20
Speaker 3: and this is when stuff goes down. This is when
18:24
Speaker 3: the cigarette ruins my love life. So we're all hanging
18:26
Speaker 3: out and this is I mean, we probably dance with
18:28
Speaker 3: each other for like an hour, hour and a half,
18:30
Speaker 3: maybe two hours, like we're having a committee.
18:32
Speaker 2: It needs to be like some smooching. I'm like an hour.
18:34
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the heck if you're not locking lives
18:37
Speaker 2: with me? Yeah, what are we doing?
18:39
Speaker 3: But they also keep like leaving the dance when coming back.
18:41
Speaker 1: It is very hard.
18:41
Speaker 2: I think what y'all have done so far, at least
18:43
Speaker 2: from what I have heard, I'm like, it literally doesn't
18:45
Speaker 2: get more obvious than that.
18:46
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm making it so obvious that I'm
18:48
Speaker 3: into you.
18:48
Speaker 1: Yeah.
18:49
Speaker 3: So finally we're all hanging out and we're gabbing and stuff,
18:52
Speaker 3: and then tall goober Guy goes, I'm gonna go get
18:54
Speaker 3: you guys drinks. What do you want? And we're like, finally,
18:56
Speaker 3: you've been dancing for like two hours, buys a freaking drink.
19:00
Speaker 3: You know, literal should have been twenty minutes. THEI like,
19:01
Speaker 3: I don't know how much more obvious we could make it.
19:03
Speaker 3: So tall goober guy goes over, and I think to myself, Abby,
19:07
Speaker 3: you need to do something you've never done before, and
19:09
Speaker 3: you need to go and tell that guy that you
19:10
Speaker 3: think he's cute. I've done that before, but not with
19:12
Speaker 3: the guy that I'm like into. I'll say you guy's cute,
19:15
Speaker 3: or I'll be blunt and straightforward, but I'm like, oh,
19:16
Speaker 3: this guy has a personality that I'm really into, and
19:18
Speaker 3: I think he's hot, and he lives in Saint Pete.
19:21
Speaker 3: Just go tell him you think he's hot. So I'm
19:22
Speaker 3: standing there with young Hugh Grant and my friend Taylor,
19:24
Speaker 3: and I tell my friend Taylor when I shouldn't have
19:26
Speaker 3: said this, but I lied. I said I'm gonna go
19:28
Speaker 3: to the bathroom.
19:29
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I.
19:30
Speaker 3: Shouldn't have said that. I should have just said I'm
19:32
Speaker 3: gonna be right back. So I go to the bar
19:34
Speaker 3: and I stand next to tall goober guy and he
19:36
Speaker 3: put his freaking hat back on. I'm like, dude, got
19:38
Speaker 3: gorgeous head, Dude, take your hat off. So I stand
19:41
Speaker 3: next to him, I take his hat off, I put
19:43
Speaker 3: it on me, and I look at him and I know,
19:46
Speaker 3: I'm telling you I have I have great games.
19:48
Speaker 1: We're just so smooth.
19:49
Speaker 3: So I'm standing next to tall goober guy and he's
19:52
Speaker 3: ordering the drink and then I look at him, and
19:54
Speaker 3: then he looks at me, and I'm just kind of
19:56
Speaker 3: kind of like give him in the eyes. And then
19:59
Speaker 3: he puts in his order for the drink, and we're
20:00
Speaker 3: both looking at each other, and then he pulls me
20:02
Speaker 3: in by my belt straps.
20:04
Speaker 1: Oh my god, what the god bless America.
20:08
Speaker 3: And I'm like, oh my god, he's in me whoo.
20:11
Speaker 3: And then I feel my ball cap get taken off
20:14
Speaker 3: my head and I turn around and it's young Hugh
20:16
Speaker 3: grant mother and I felt as though he caught as
20:21
Speaker 3: fucking like That's how it felt. It felt like such
20:22
Speaker 3: an intimate moment. I was like, oh my god, put
20:24
Speaker 3: your clothes back on, Young Hugraen is in front of you,
20:28
Speaker 3: and Taylor is trailing right behind him, and I go,
20:30
Speaker 3: oh my god, now Taylor knows that I've lied to
20:32
Speaker 3: her because I wanted to go make a move on
20:34
Speaker 3: this guy that I wasn't sure that she was into,
20:36
Speaker 3: and I didn't want to make it a thing. But
20:37
Speaker 3: I'm like, he lives in Saint Pete and I think
20:39
Speaker 3: he's really cute, and and she would have been fine
20:43
Speaker 3: with it, like if I if I had made a move,
20:44
Speaker 3: she's very cool, she would have.
20:45
Speaker 1: Okay with it.
20:46
Speaker 3: But I was like, I think I wanted to make
20:48
Speaker 3: sure she had a good time too, and I didn't
20:49
Speaker 3: want to make it a thing. But slowly I was
20:52
Speaker 3: kind of getting a crush on toll Gooper, and I
20:53
Speaker 3: was like.
20:54
Speaker 1: Obviously, the way he pulls you in like that, Yeah.
20:57
Speaker 3: I'm standing there and I'm like, I don't know what
20:59
Speaker 3: to say. I'm so embarrassed. This is also ruining a
21:01
Speaker 3: moment where I was like about to open myself up
21:03
Speaker 3: very vulnerably and be like I think you're really hot
21:06
Speaker 3: or whatever, and like say, I'm really into you, and
21:07
Speaker 3: I just don't know what to do. So I grab
21:09
Speaker 3: my drink and I walk to the dance floor. Taylor
21:11
Speaker 3: comes back over and she goes, they're gonna go have
21:13
Speaker 3: a cigarette, out back. They said they'll be right back,
21:14
Speaker 3: and I go, okay, all right, and then Taylor and
21:17
Speaker 3: I go, oh my god, no, they don't know how
21:19
Speaker 3: long the line is about to get at good Night
21:21
Speaker 3: John Boy. It's like midnight at this point. Oh yeah,
21:23
Speaker 3: if you leave good Night john Boy to go out
21:26
Speaker 3: of smoke, you're not getting back in. And so Taylor
21:28
Speaker 3: and I will like, maybe they'll come back. So we're
21:29
Speaker 3: still having a good time, Like, of course we're not
21:31
Speaker 3: leaving good Night John Boy, We're not leaving. We're having
21:33
Speaker 3: the best time. But it's getting progressively more and more packed,
21:36
Speaker 3: and we both realize like we're never we're not going
21:38
Speaker 3: to see these guys again, especially if we stay here.
21:40
Speaker 3: And also I think we got to the point where
21:41
Speaker 3: it got so crowded that we were like, we need
21:43
Speaker 3: to go somewhere else. Yeah, Pa, it was getting insane,
21:45
Speaker 3: and they were like, we've seen what we needed to see.
21:47
Speaker 3: We had so much fun, let's go do one more
21:49
Speaker 3: bar and have a good time. And admittedly I was
21:52
Speaker 3: really bummed. I was really.
21:54
Speaker 1: Obsessed, so bummed for you.
21:55
Speaker 3: Right, Well, I can think you're hot and not have
21:57
Speaker 3: a crush on you, correct, But actually, if I think
22:00
Speaker 3: you're hot and you're in my age bracket, and you
22:02
Speaker 3: can kind of like sling some zingers at me. I unfortunately,
22:06
Speaker 3: I'm gonna start planning our wedding even though I'm only
22:10
Speaker 3: I'm on you for twenty minutes and I'm showing you
22:12
Speaker 3: middling interest.
22:14
Speaker 1: He would have.
22:15
Speaker 2: Definitely, like you think he was probably gonna go in
22:16
Speaker 2: for the kiss for sure.
22:18
Speaker 3: But here's the thing. I think he was very flirty.
22:19
Speaker 3: He was talking to other girls, but so I was
22:21
Speaker 3: kind of trying to like guard myself a little bit too. Also,
22:24
Speaker 3: my friend is there. I can tell that my friend
22:26
Speaker 3: is into him.
22:27
Speaker 2: I'm so disappointed in his friend, because that's like the
22:29
Speaker 2: definition what it sounds like. He took off your hat
22:31
Speaker 2: and was like, should up a cock block? If your
22:33
Speaker 2: friend is into me and he lives here, don't be
22:35
Speaker 2: a douche. I know, save your friend and me a
22:37
Speaker 2: lot of time.
22:38
Speaker 3: So I kind of wonder because when they left the
22:40
Speaker 3: dance floor, I wonder if they had had like a
22:42
Speaker 3: talk like, hey, one of them lives here, one of
22:44
Speaker 3: them doesn't. Why don't you go hang out with the
22:46
Speaker 3: one that doesn't live here, and I'll hang out with
22:48
Speaker 3: the one that does live here.
22:49
Speaker 1: It only makes sense people.
22:50
Speaker 3: Because when they came back, tall goober guy stood next
22:53
Speaker 3: to me, and so I think I got a little
22:56
Speaker 3: bit nervous, and I think when a cute boy is
22:58
Speaker 3: showing interest, I kind of don't believe it. Does that
23:00
Speaker 3: make sense?
23:01
Speaker 1: So well, for sure, I literally still do that now.
23:04
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, really, you're actually into me? Damn.
23:06
Speaker 3: I know.
23:07
Speaker 2: Okay, So you guys go and leave, they never make
23:11
Speaker 2: their way back in.
23:12
Speaker 3: They never make their way back in. You guys go out,
23:14
Speaker 3: We go out to another bar. I mean, that's a
23:16
Speaker 3: whole other side. I mean, I have like another story
23:18
Speaker 3: about that next bar, but I don't know how much
23:20
Speaker 3: time we have for this.
23:20
Speaker 2: I was like, we might have to put that one
23:22
Speaker 2: on pause because I'm like sales mean, I'm so just so.
23:24
Speaker 2: No numbers were exchanged, no Instagrams were exchanged.
23:28
Speaker 3: I don't know a thing about him except his name.
23:30
Speaker 3: I think because this is because Taylor got his name,
23:32
Speaker 3: I didn't. I think his name is Morgan. I know
23:35
Speaker 3: he lives in Saint Pete. I'm assuming he's single, because otherwise,
23:39
Speaker 3: why would you grab me by my belts?
23:40
Speaker 1: Draps?
23:41
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, like that would be the last
23:42
Speaker 2: thing I would want to know is like, were you
23:44
Speaker 2: so stand office because you're in something?
23:46
Speaker 3: No, he I saw him talk to other girls. If
23:48
Speaker 3: he has a girlfriend, I want nothing to do with him,
23:50
Speaker 3: because that's not oh.
23:51
Speaker 2: Yeah not But here's what's so crazy. Like now somebody's
23:55
Speaker 2: going to hear this and be.
23:56
Speaker 1: Like mission fine Morgan, I.
23:58
Speaker 3: Was really bummed.
23:59
Speaker 2: Here's what's exciting though, And I will say, like, it's
24:01
Speaker 2: still exciting to feel like that feeling.
24:03
Speaker 3: It's so I never get to feel like that, And
24:05
Speaker 3: I think that's why it was such a bummer, not
24:07
Speaker 3: so much like because again I don't know this guy.
24:09
Speaker 3: This guy could be adude, she could have cheated on
24:10
Speaker 3: his last girlfriend. I think it's important not to romanticize
24:13
Speaker 3: people you don't like know.
24:14
Speaker 2: Especially someone to hit on all the things of Like again, tall,
24:18
Speaker 2: dark hair, curly throws a zinger at you. Yeah, like
24:21
Speaker 2: those are all things like at least that I've learned
24:23
Speaker 2: from you.
24:24
Speaker 1: Abby.
24:24
Speaker 2: It's like, oh wow, this dude's like check check check
24:26
Speaker 2: check right, know, Like that's so exciting here again, I
24:30
Speaker 2: will give it to credit, Like, first off, that move
24:33
Speaker 2: that you made, rov, Oh.
24:36
Speaker 1: I had a great Gabe holy craft.
24:38
Speaker 3: If we had had two more minutes.
24:40
Speaker 1: At that bar, it would have been done.
24:42
Speaker 3: It would have been done. We would have been making
24:43
Speaker 3: out one literally.
24:44
Speaker 1: At the bar. Good Night, John boy, Oh my.
24:46
Speaker 3: God, it would have been good night Abby, good night
24:49
Speaker 3: Tall Gooper boy.
24:50
Speaker 1: That's right. Well now I'm so curious.
24:51
Speaker 2: Okay, so I want to dive in, not right now,
24:54
Speaker 2: but to then what happened afterwards.
24:56
Speaker 3: Because that's also a tale and there's a this that
24:59
Speaker 3: will be a saga.
25:00
Speaker 1: Well, oh my god, Okay.
25:02
Speaker 3: Taylor needs to come in too top more often.
25:04
Speaker 1: Honestly.
25:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, there needs to be more girls' nights out because
25:07
Speaker 2: that's that's a special night that does not happen to everybody,
25:11
Speaker 2: and not every weekend. Okay, with that, I'm gonna go
25:13
Speaker 2: do my research. I'm trying to find Morgan over in
25:15
Speaker 2: Saint Pete and we got I don't even know.
25:16
Speaker 3: If that's his name. I'm just going on, Taylor could
25:18
Speaker 3: have given me a fake name. Be like, that's my man.
25:20
Speaker 1: She's like, actually I got his number, but you didn't.
25:22
Speaker 3: His name is David or something.
25:23
Speaker 2: God, I'm sure you'll Maybe we'll see him again. Maybe
25:25
Speaker 2: we'll see him at our sinko Corona Splash prost party.
25:30
Speaker 3: Maybe so, maybe he's he actually doesn't even live here,
25:33
Speaker 3: but he just lied to me on the.
25:34
Speaker 1: Lot of a gun.
25:35
Speaker 2: Oh the mystery. How can we not exchange Instagrams? I
25:38
Speaker 2: feel like it's the first thing we do well with that.
25:40
Speaker 2: Let's go into this meeting, Abby, what is your social media?
25:42
Speaker 3: At the Abbey?
25:43
Speaker 2: Murphy at Scott Tablin, his mind at Magic ninety four nine.
25:46
Speaker 2: For the rest, we got to get to this other
25:48
Speaker 2: saga though, what happened with the rest of the night.
25:50
Speaker 2: We'll get to that in the next Scotti and Aber
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