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Upright Christian Parenting - Treehouse Storytelle... - Protecting Our Kids, Saving Our State | Victor & Eileen Marx · Christian Mix 106 On Demand

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Hey friends, welcome to season five of Upright Christian Parenting Podcast,
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I'm your host, Hannah Pru, author, homeschool mama, and fellow parent.
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Hey guys welcome back to upright christian parenting today i have a very very
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important conversation that i am having with you know people very close to home
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um this is especially for you colorado listeners if you love the state of colorado
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especially if you live in the state of colorado you are absolutely going to
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want to listen to this in its fullest,
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so today i have with me victor and eileen marks oh my goodness welcome today
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to the treehouse both of you thank you hannah thanks for having,
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us you guys are founders of all things possible ministries and we'll we'll touch
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on that you guys are devoted parents of five like if we just stopped right there
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you're already amazing uh passionate
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advocates for protecting children strengthening I mean, families,
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Victor, you are, you know, you look up and it's like, he's a former U.S.
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Marine. It's like, no, once a Marine, always a Marine, right?
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You guys are both authors. And, you know, I'm a little terrified of you,
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Eileen. You are a second-degree black belt. Don't mess with mama.
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Well, and it's only against the bad people, right? Right. Well, there's bad people.
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Women, we stick together. That's right. That's right.
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Oh, my goodness. That's so good. But, you know, we're going to bring that mission
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closer to home and talk about our lovely state of Colorado that we're going
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to lose if we don't make some big changes.
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And so, you know, I really wanted to bring you guys on today and really just,
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you know, for parents to hear your guys's heart, to hear a little bit of your
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story, your why behind what you're doing.
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And, you know, I think it's just so critical that we have this conversation
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as we are shaping the next generation of our state.
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So, you know, first off, I really would love to hear you guys' heart behind
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this mission. And, you know, you're not politicians. I'm not a politician.
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But I think we both care about God's word immensely. And that brings us to step
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forward and be bold in the public space. And so I just I would love to hear,
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here. How'd you get into this? Why did you answer this call?
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Amen. Well, over a year ago, when,
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we had some things happen to our family personally, it was our daughter,
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who was assaulted in a parking lot here in Colorado Springs.
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Supposed to be a safe place, right? Yeah, yeah.
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And this person who assaulted her was well known to the police department.
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He had been, he had done this many times before.
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And when my daughter had called the police, it took him 45 minutes to respond.
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Now, that's no attack on the police department. It's really,
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it shows what's happening with our state and how little they provide for the
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police department to do their job.
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So because of that and because of this person who was already a convicted predator,
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And they couldn't catch him.
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And actually my husband and our team caught him twice in one day We just said
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we need to do something because this state is
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falling quickly And it's about safety So both of us are martial artists We teach
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women especially how to defend themselves And I'm so glad our daughter has this warrior spirit in her.
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She was able to capture the license plate of the guy that did that.
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So here we are today, and we're looking at, if we do not step in and do a course
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correction on this state, this state is going over the cliff.
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So that's what Victor and I said Listen, we either leave And find another state
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that's friendlier That is for the protection of his people Or we stay and fight
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And Victor's a fighter And we said,
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He's a fighter. So here we are today. We are 21 days away from a super critical election. Yeah.
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And to me, there's only one decision, and we hope that Colorado wakes up and
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sees that. It is now or never.
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Yeah, that's right. That's right. All right, what about you,
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Victor? Well, you nailed it.
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Neither one of us are politicians.
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We've been at this a year campaigning. I cannot stand the political realm.
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Sure, sure. And for people who, just to give insight, I won the gubernatorial GOP side. Yeah.
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I'm a nominee. But I'll tell you, the Republican Party, it's a dumpster fire.
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I'm going to say it like it is. Of course. Uh, we've probably been attacked
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more by people on the Republican side than we have Democrats,
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which makes me understand why people move toward the unaffiliate position.
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It makes me understand why people do, I don't want to be part of either party and.
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Um, you know, we're, they're just so discouraged. But here's what I would say.
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You can be discouraged with the politics, the parties, but you cannot stop fighting
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for the people and your family because this matters.
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Her oldest daughter just sent me a little...
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Cartoon it's a it's a dad standing in front of a ballot box and his little girl's
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behind him and she says who are you voting for dad and he turns around and says you,
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i love that and that's why we're doing this um again.
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Look it's i'd even take it a stepfather hannah and i mean you're married to
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a warrior, Cody, and congratulations on him reaching that incredible level of
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Lieutenant Colonel in the main corps.
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We're fighters. We're providers. We're protectors. And that comes more natural
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to us than about anything.
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So we look around our state, and I spoke to a bunch of men last night,
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and I just said, Look, if for no
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other reason, fill out that dang ballot regarding three ballot measures.
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Like, forget about me. Forget about all the craziness.
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Three ballot measures protecting children. Each one is about where if a person,
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if an evil, wicked person trafficked a child for sex, they're going to spend
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the rest of the life in prison. They won't get out.
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Hey, they can convert to faith. They can get help in prison. They can stay in prison.
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It's just like the fellow who tried to kill me on our own property,
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shoots through a window of a trailer, misses me by two fingers.
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I could have smoked him, but look, I didn't know who was in the trailer,
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and police came five and a half hours standoff.
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By the way, it was a 20-minute delay for the first officer to arrive.
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Wow. It's, again, I'm not blaming the sheriff's department. It's the state,
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of absolute chaos of crime that we're in and guess who's the top cop in the state it's my opponent,
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uh he's the attorney general how are we going to let him move from failure in
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his job as attorney general into a governance position good lord,
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no way so it's,
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you know that fella ended up being charged with second degree attempted murder they let him bail out.
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And then he ended up murdering the very girlfriend who bailed him out we don't
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live in a safe state and again like eileen said we spent a lifetime,
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training teaching equipping uh women helping children and right here in our own state,
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if we don't have harsher penalties for people abusing children,
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this is a pedophile state i'll tell you right now yeah your listeners may not
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know this but 70 about 70 percent of those who either rape children or abuse them get probation,
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in our state so those three ballot measures really matter 133 134 to keep boys
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out of girls sports because that is traumatic if a boy goes into a girl's locker
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room because he identifies as a girl,
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well what about the girl what about all those young ladies it's traumatic it's
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nonsense i literally can't believe people would even allow this yeah um and then the third and final.
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Remember when a double mastectomy,
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would be used for a woman in a health crisis yeah to try to save her life from cancer well my opponent,
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the attorney general,
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is fighting for federal funding our taxes to allow,
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children underage children to be able to get double mastectomies yeah this is there's a sickness,
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there's a perversion there's an evil yes that's going on yeah that's right we
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have to fight it and yeah and that third ballot measure 135,
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is to keep children from being allowed to have life-altering surgeries on their body And listen,
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I recently had a trans person come up to me.
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It was at a tailgate party at the game, and people were like,
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oh, my, here we go. And I was like, what's up?
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And he goes, my name is Jessica. I'm a trans. I'm like, check.
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He goes, you know, you hate gays and trans. I said, oh, time out.
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Show me. show me where that's been written or said I've never said that like that I said,
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and then I said look Jessica you're grown adult you didn't you can dress how you want do what you want,
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um that's one of the reasons I'm running for governor to allow people freedom,
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but I said The only part where we might have tension is regarding kids.
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That's just a lot. I'll ask you direct.
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Do you believe it's okay for a child to have things chopped off?
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They're bought to be mutilated. Well, he said, no. Okay.
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21 has got to be the minimum age with a lot of counseling beforehand,
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because it's a mental health issue.
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This is coming from an honest intellectuals of trans.
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Yeah. And I can respect that. And end up being, he was a veteran.
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He believed in the Second Amendment rights. I mean, we had this whole list of what we agreed on.
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And I was like, so when children are going through, you know,
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a mental health crisis and we have to love them, support them,
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but keep them from doing damage to their bodies for a lifetime.
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That's why I have zero respect for doctors or politicians like the fellow I'm
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running against who don't care for children like that.
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Yeah, it's incredible. And I just am always thinking that, you know,
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the good saying that we have, that bad things happen when good guys do nothing. Right. Oh, that's true.
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Yeah. And we've got to step up against the evil.
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And I commend you for seeing this and taking action. And, you know,
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it'd be easier to just move. It'd be easier to, you know, just kind of close
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off and go, hey, we're going to buy land further out and do this thing.
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You know, that's the easy route.
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Out. Um, but, but like you said, like we're fighters and, and you're going in,
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head first, like a true Marine. And I mean, honestly, gosh, it's just, it's.
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We, we personally live in Jefferson County and I, I say that all the time.
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And, you know, my viewers are like, stop talking about Jeffco.
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But I mean, it is such. It's the rough one.
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It, so we, we know it firsthand. I mean, every couple of days we've got another
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story, right? And it's, it's so much. We've got, um, uh, you know,
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lawsuits with, with Denver public schools. We have all sorts of things.
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And it is very very near to especially where i am uh really kind of an epicenter
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of the epidemic that we see with kids um and,
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we just on top of that it's like you think people are going to start waking
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up and i think some people are,
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but then evergreen uh parks and rec just put at one of their,
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rec centers, they just put a big sign basically like, hey, whatever gender you
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feel like, use that bathroom.
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And so now you've got a bunch of mamas up in arms. And I think,
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you know, whatever party you land with, I think all of us as parents can be
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like, no, let's protect our kids. Yeah.
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You know, we can side there. We can shake hands on that. And we can go,
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yeah, let's fight for that.
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Yeah, a party of common sense. Yeah, that's what I'm representing.
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It's we have to go back to common sense.
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If I just had a common sense, good visit with a trans person.
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Man, why can't more people just go, oh, and what it takes, because trust me,
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Democrats are not the enemy.
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They have some craziness, but I'm talking about old school, good,
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moderate Democrats. They can't believe it.
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Yeah. And people said, you'll never reach the Democrats.
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I said, I'll reach the common sense, moderate ones.
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Someone held a fundraiser for us in downtown Denver at her hotel.
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And a bunch came out and they're just like, one, this state isn't sustainable
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financially any longer.
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And two, they do have positions to protect children.
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And of course, they want safety. So look, this is a time that,
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just like you're in the epicenter, Jeffco is. I mean, that's crazy, Bill. If people rise up.
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If people rise up, and especially men, just with common sense and go,
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no, that's stupid. We're going to fight that.
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And keep pressure. The key is pressure.
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It's pressure. If you let off, they get a little ground. If you put pressure,
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oh, man, we'll back them up. So that's what we're doing.
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And it's pretty exciting.
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The people that are surrounding us, even some of the polls that are coming out.
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My opponent just had Barack Obama do an endorsement video for him.
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With 21 days out for him to do that, that says they're nervous.
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So it is a fight for our children. It is a fight to make it affordable.
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And look, you talk about parenting.
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Man the average parent out there struggles to make ends meet.
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You know they're going to buy school supplies the kids are going to make school
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clothes groceries fuel man lord help you if you drive a diesel,
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my husband does see and it's,
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I think the intentionality to try to destroy our state well we're reaping the
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consequence but we can stop all this in about 21 days but can i just mention
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something of course yeah parenting,
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for the parents out there who have a special needs child.
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I want to just tell you i hear you we see you you know the pain you're going
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through And I mean, they have normal challenges,
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and the majority will...
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You know, they're all heroes to me, but the majority struggle. And I want to say this.
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I just sat in a transition team meeting for the new governor. It was at the Capitol.
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They brought me and my team in.
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Because they're preparing. There's only one of us of the two is going to win governor.
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And they gave us a briefing on the budget. And look, Medicaid,
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it's not only out of control, it's not sustainable.
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Yeah. And what I want to tell parents out there who this last budget crisis,
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their hours for being the primary caregivers at home were cut by 50%.
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It's insane. And I want folks to know I'm on it.
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I'm watching it. We're going to change it. We're going to find the waste,
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the fraud that is out there.
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And we're going to return the money to the parents who actually have the need,
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people who are eligible.
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And there are people moving to the state just for Medicaid who actually aren't
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even eligible, but they know they can work the system.
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It's almost 40% of our budget. And that's why the bean counters were telling me.
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It's not sustainable, Mr. Marks, if something isn't done.
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So I just want families to know that God bless y'all.
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We have families that have special needs children, and y'all are heroes,
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and we love y'all, and we're fighting for y'all.
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That's so good. That's so good. Eileen, I want to back up a sec and,
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you know, really just talk about, you know, kind of the mom vote and the mom responsibility.
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You know, Victor called out the men and said, hey, men, stand up,
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do the thing, do, you know, do the right thing for your family.
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Let's talk to those moms. What do you have to say to them?
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Well, it's interesting. A poll just came out, nationwide poll,
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that said women are going to decide the vote.
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So that is, that's pretty important.
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And the influence that women have, not just in their homes, but in their communities,
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and now we're looking at it nationwide.
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This is something that we have to take very seriously and look at it with a sober mind.
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Because if that's true, and women are not using their God-given opportunity
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and role in this election, and this is nationwide, then we can't say anything.
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We need to be the ones that are standing up, taking our rightful place.
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You know, I look at like, how do we get here? How do we get here as a nation?
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How did we get to this point where the government is stepping in and telling
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us how to parent our children, telling us what we can and cannot do.
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And I will say that started with the church. I think the church abdicated their
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role and the influence they have over our communities, over our families.
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We were told to be nice and just love everyone. And there's nothing in the Bible
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that says we are to be nice. That's right.
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We are to be kind, but kind is speaking the truth in love.
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So for women, we have an opportunity to turn our country around by stepping
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into the role that we've been given and doing what's right.
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Not what we want, not what we like, not what we think that we should be doing,
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but we should be stepping in and making our vote count because we are not only
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is Colorado at a tipping point,
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our nation is at a tipping point.
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You know, when we talk about doing self-defense, we have it right here.
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I've been in countries where women do not have the right to defend themselves.
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Yeah. We still have that right.
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Yeah. And we as women should be doing everything we possibly can to preserve
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that right before it's taken away from us.
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And that's not exaggerating. Look, we're talking about why are we even talking
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about Sharia law in these different states?
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And the women who are for that, they have no idea what they're doing. Yeah.
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They think that they're part of a movement that, you know, our country's ruled
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by this patriarchal men. It's like, you have no idea what you're talking about.
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Ladies, you need to step up and do what's right before our rights are taken away from us.
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That's right. That's right. Oh, my goodness. You hit on so much there that we
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could talk about for a long time. Yes. Yes.
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Yes. Come through that. Oh, my goodness. Wow. No, it's so good.
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From our very first days, America has been driven by the idea that hard work
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could lead us to the life we always envisioned.
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And today, honoring.
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To the opportunities that were out there for me. Our model of providing a Christian
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liberal arts education to those facing economic hardship hasn't wavered since 1906.
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Our students graduate debt-free through our work education program.
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They learn how to live a life guided by their faith.
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And as they begin their careers, they've learned how to take their seat at the
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table of influence and open the door of opportunity for others.
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Being an assistant principal has allowed me.
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You know, I think about, you know, you talked about our right,
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our God-given right to vote.
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And, you know, 100 plus years ago, we couldn't do that. Like,
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you know, well, more than that. But, you know, you look back in history and
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we haven't always had the opportunity to vote.
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We have that opportunity. Women are wanting all the opportunities,
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all the freedoms. It's like use the ones you have, first of all.
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But, you know, moving past that, you know, we have a legacy to leave.
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I love the idea of legacy and we have a legacy as parents that we get to choose
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how we want to pass that down.
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Yes, we do. And our choices that we make, one of that being how we vote and
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how we speak in the public square, that really matters.
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And I love that you talked about the idea of being kind and not nice because
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I think what us nice Christian people have done for too many years is that we
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have equated nice with silence.
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It's like, well, if I don't have anything nice to say, then I'm just not going
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to say anything at all when really we are called to be bold and speak out in
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the public square and speak truth like you mentioned.
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And so kindness is that speaking truth in those spaces.
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And it's not loving if we don't speak truth to people and let them know what
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truth actually is and and so thank you for bringing that up um yes oh my goodness,
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but what yeah what are what are we,
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Um, you know, I don't want to be fearful because we're not called to be fearful,
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but what's at stake if we do nothing? What's at stake if us parents and us mama
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bears don't actually stick up for anything?
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What are we going to, what are our kids going to suffer from?
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You know, what's at stake is our freedom.
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Our ability to be able to, first of all, worship God.
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They are trying this movement, this insurgency that has come into our country
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is trying to take our God-given right and the ability to worship God, our God, away from us.
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So if they get that opportunity, then we're silenced. Then real persecution
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comes in like we've never seen before in our country. Other countries are doing
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that, but that's what we're facing.
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So yes, this whole idea of women just be nice, that is a lie that we have believed
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and that our church has promoted.
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And it's time to repent and say, God, we're sorry. We have got this wrong.
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We are supposed to be truthful. We are supposed to love people.
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We're supposed to love him first and then people.
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But how we do that is by speaking truth, being bold and courageous and not caring
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what people think about us.
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I don't expect us to have the applause from people when we stand up and do what's right. Yeah.
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So, yes, I would say we must stand before that right is taken away from us.
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I mean, think about this.
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Honey, it's such a good point. Yeah.
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The alternative is what we're seeing.
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Women fired up for the wrong cause. Yeah.
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Women applauding legislation that passes when you can end a baby's life at full term. Yeah.
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You're going to be an activist for good or you're going to be an activist for evil.
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Mm-hmm. But there is no middle ground. Yep. Period.
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And you take a stand because if you're silent, the only people you're helping,
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is those that are against what we would believe is the kingdom of God.
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And look, we're called to love our enemies, and we do, but we're supposed to
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stand for righteousness, be bold.
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And I mean, this is, look, we've been in places and countries where.
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You know, decisions had to be made to
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help a child or woman who was in ISIS-controlled territory or a war zone.
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And we could have prayed all day.
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But the answer to that prayer was us, our team, our associate team.
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So we had to make a choice.
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Are we going to live our faith out where sometimes you are the answer to that
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prayer or you just hope somebody else takes care of it i got a dear friend john,
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oh yeah and he's a friend of mine too see love that guy uh i know i was just
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texting him because he's saying, hey,
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pray, you know, pray for us. I'm going in.
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And I'll tell you what.
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We got to raise up the men. Hannah, you gals have done a good job in standing in the gap.
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But when you think about John, he's one of the first men.
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And, man, dude, big old.
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Warrior. He's a warrior, this dude. He gets in there. He terrifies people by his presence.
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But more than that is conviction.
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He's one of the godliest brothers I know.
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He's a man of God, and he has a fire got him. That's what I want to see.
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I like to see 100 men show up at these school board meetings and go, hell no.
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Absolutely no. It stops here. And,
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so it's one of the influences Eileen has had on me is making me believe that
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I can do far more than sometimes my own desires may lend themselves to.
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And it's been funny because, I mean, babe, remember we're in Iraq,
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and there's a mission, possible mission.
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And I'm like, shoot, this one's something else.
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And I had to ask her, I go, babe, if we do this, you could become a widow.
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I mean, this is no joke, and we got to go deep into enemy territory.
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And I said, I said, I just need to know, are you okay with, you know,
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becoming a widow for the cause of Christ?
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Because ultimately this is what we're doing. Yeah. And she said.
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Said a couple of things, but one was, you know.
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I'd rather be a widow than married to someone who people think he's a coward. Yeah. Wow.
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And that's just perception, right? Because she knows I'm going to do the deal. But.
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I mean that's a level of sacrifice that shouldn't be extreme it should be the
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norm yeah and maybe we've done
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extreme things in our life but we want to encourage the everyday parent.
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Folks living the life your battlefield is your home your town your district,
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hey fight it's okay it's okay to stand to fight. It's okay to risk.
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So she has encouraged me, her influence, man.
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Well, and I would say we've always had this healthy perspective of why we're here.
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When we both got saved, God turned our hearts and our eyes towards Him.
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So this year is like 30, almost 38 years of marriage. Oh, congratulations.
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Thank you. There's a lot of history there.
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Oh, I know. I'm so sure. Parenting, I mean, marriage is hard. Parenting is hard.
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How did you get me, honey? That's what. Well, that's what we'll talk about.
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Yeah, well, she said it's a calling. It is a calling. But I think because. My husband tricked me.
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Did he? Power of prayer. Well, whatever it takes, right? Right.
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I think if we as parents have this perspective that, number one,
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this is not our home. Yeah. We're not home yet.
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And whatever we do between now and then, everything matters.
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And the opportunities that we have, they matter.
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That's right. Even if they're small or they seem insignificant,
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raising our family today for the Lord is super significant. The most significant
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thing we can ever do. Anna, let me ask you something.
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Is it true? Is your brother Lucas? It is. Yeah, he is.
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Wow. He's a wild man. Tell me about y'all's parents.
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Oh, man. Well, there's three of us kids, and, you know—,
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they, they really, really, you know, my dad rededicated his life to the Lord
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in college, um, right around the time that my parents are dating and the timeline's
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a little fuzzy for me, but I wasn't there.
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Um, and you know, my mom really went seeking in every possible religion,
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every possible church building, um, known to man.
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And she, you know, really rejected the whole Christianity thing for a long time
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and then and really found the Lord and they kind of came back to the Lord or
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to the Lord at the exact same time late in college,
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and so they raised us,
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you know kind of as baby new Christians,
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and really discipling themselves while they discipled us but they made God the
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center of our home from day one and it was very intentional very intentional parenting.
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And I'm really blessed that, you know, we grew up, they've been married now 51 years.
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So I'm very, very thankful that we grew up with such steadfast,
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solid parents. And, you know, really that's a testimony in and of itself to
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the Lord's goodness. And it was hard.
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And my dad had his own business and my mom helped with that.
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And they had to understand marriage and co-working together and there's a lot
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and so you guys understand that and yeah so.
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I love the word you said intentional intentionality and I would encourage couples out there,
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And everybody does it different, you know, but some pretty big landmarks in
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our relationship is when she really, I don't know, she lowered her expectations of me as a husband.
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On one hand of going, well, you know, you're you can't provide everything I need.
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And I remember when she started going to the Lord on a whole different level,
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daily spending time with him.
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God, you went to a counselor for...
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Day one day she went to counselor and she got squared away here I am I had to
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go for months and I was like it takes longer for you guys oh my gosh Marines counseling,
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but you know like I was never good at leading devotions in our home.
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Well and it's interesting because I married him and he had been a youth pastor.
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So my expectations are, well, we're going to have devotions every day.
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You know, he's going to be doing Bible studies. Break bread,
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have communion. Yeah, right. Every Sunday. Pray together.
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Right, pray together. And when that didn't happen, it was a letdown.
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But then I realized he's not my savior. Yeah, that's right.
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He is, my husband, we're helpmates, right?
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So that, what he's talking about, But I let him off the hook to be something
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he's never was supposed to be.
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Because it looks different. It looks different.
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But I think for women who go into their marriage thinking that this is how it's going to be,
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they're disappointed, and then they start getting resentful towards their husband
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because he's not meeting their need and being that person that they have set up to be.
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That I encourage ladies let your husband off the hook yeah he is the leader
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of your home and he is he is to provide this covering,
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yeah he is not your lord and savior he's not the holy spirit how many times
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do people go into relationships with the mental contract,
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uh they're like okay yeah this is what I expect you to be and when No.
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Maybe that's not how you're made to be. I mean, we tried family devotions. You know, my gosh.
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There were times we needed bear mace or tasers. I mean, our family, we're.
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All pretty driven and trained. But he'd be like, calm down, you know.
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And it's like, watch an odyssey. Listen to an odyssey. Oh, good old odyssey. Yes.
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Good old Odyssey Which I worked at Focus on the Family I didn't know that I was an assistant to Dr.
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James Dobson Wow He was a boss who became a mentor And before he died he was
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my friend This week I'm speaking,
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At his event They have an annual Supporters Big shindig at Broadmoor It's the
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first year he won't be there And I'm humbled to be able to be one of the speakers. So, you know. Great.
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I wouldn't just, and then dads. Uh-huh.
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But to that point, Hannah, here we are, you know, kind of the way we did things
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weren't great, but our children knew we were for the Lord. Yeah. Imperfect.
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I talk about, and I want to encourage men. Of course, people try to use it against me in the campaign.
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And I go, I don't care.
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I'm not changing. But, you know, there were moments where I couldn't use my words. I chose not to.
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And, you know, I'd be pretty driven. I was back before I really,
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I still struggled with PTSD in the day.
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But, you know, boom, put my fist through a wall. I remember the last one was,
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gosh. You're lucky you didn't hit studs.
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I've always thanked God for that. That's a good point. I'm like.
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Do you measure before you punch? I know you would think so. Right here.
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Sixteen inches. Right. I remember one time punching a door, but I knew it was
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thin. I was like, okay, you're just cheap man's therapy.
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But, you know, something that was very good is, you know, I only was like,
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oh, I'll put a picture over it.
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And remember that one's by the door. We had a new baby. Gosh, was that 21 years ago?
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And I said, honey, don't cover it. No, I said, I've got to be able to get, you know.
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I've got to be able to use my words and communicate under stress versus just, ah.
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Yeah. And, you know, I never. And that hole was a reminder to you.
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You didn't want to cover it up. People would come in our house and look, oh, I go, that was me.
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And so it really kept me in check. But here you have imperfect parenting,
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and I'd always apologize to my kids or something. And I go, that's not a good
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example of God, our Heavenly Father.
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He is perfect. I'm not. But yet, here we are one year.
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We brought our kids to Iraq in the middle of a conflict in a safe house,
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bringing kids in that we had rescued or were helping who were affected by a lot of orphans.
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And whereas people would go, oh, my gosh, look, I didn't see many pastors or
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super saints over there doing the deal.
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God uses each one of us. And I just want to encourage the men out there,
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look, there's no such thing as a perfect parent.
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But intentionality matters where you just go, gosh, Lord, help me.
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You know, help me. And look, for people who don't know, my mother was married six times.
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I came from an abusive background, and my father didn't claim me as this kid,
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and it's the goodness of God that helped me.
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This is still one of the greatest things I've ever done, is be married to my
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bride, 37.10 years, and have five children, five grandkids.
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And to get texts from my kids all the time, proud of you dad,
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I love you, is such a, I just tell them, don't give up.
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But yet, remember we walked into the library all those years ago?
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Longer than that, that was, that was probably closer to 30 years.
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But here in town, we walk in, that's when they had the computers,
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and there was a guy looking at pornography. Wow.
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I walked in with my family. I was working to focus.
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Wow. And I remember stopping. I couldn't believe it because you walked by them, you could see it. Yeah.
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And I had Eileen and the kids go to the other side. I said, stay right there. Eileen goes, honey.
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Oh, I know.
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I said, I'm relying on the Lord for strength and wisdom. But I went back to
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him and popped him on his back. I said, hey, man.
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He goes, what? I said, you shut that down. Get out of here. There's kids and
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women here. He goes, leave me alone.
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It's a public place. I can do what I want.
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And I'm kind of slow on sometimes. I thought about it for a second. I said, no.
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Popped him again. He goes, leave me alone.
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I said, man, why don't you have the decency just to go home if you're going to look at that stuff?
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Well, you're a pervert, man. He goes, I have every right to be here.
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It's a public place. So I just stepped back.
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Take a breath, clap my hands. I said, hey, everybody, can I have everybody's attention?
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Everybody stop. It's a library. You're supposed to make an announcement?
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This fellow right here is a pervert. He is an absolute pervert looking at horrible stuff.
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And while I'm talking, boy, he grabbed his bag.
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He ran out. People were clapping, babe. the place was,
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exploded with so look i tell men be different you know it's it's all package
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up and down if you wait till you're perfect in christ,
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outwardly yeah man we'll be in heaven already yeah exactly exactly yeah you're
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daily the dollar short but you're in heaven game over yeah and same with moms.
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Look, I'll close with this because I know we only have a few minutes.
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Yes, yes. To the women.
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There is some type of evil spirit that it's a coordinated effort on women,
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moms to abuse, to neglect.
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To pimp their children out, and to kill them.
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So women and you can't blame them on anything else it's it's a choice,
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it's one thing to snap it's another to intentionally just start killing your
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children yeah or stabbing them or it look this is evil and i'm gonna tell women um,
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Satan went to y'all first. Yeah. That's why the Bible refers to you as the weaker vessel.
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But it doesn't mean you're weak. Right.
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It's just meaning you got to take every thought captive. You got to be careful
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what you watch and listen to on that social media.
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It's propaganda. Yeah. You got to be careful what you read.
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And you know what? You stand. Man, you're the warrior, the precious warrior,
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the queen warrior of your home.
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You're the best prayer warrior. Plead the blood of Jesus over your home, your children's minds.
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Be that warrior.
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And that's what Eileen is. And I've seen it. I've seen her live it out unbelievably.
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And don't give up. And if you've got teenagers that are sideways, we've been there.
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Don't give up on them. set boundaries that's right i can't tell you how many
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times i told our teenagers i love you i don't like you right now yeah uh my gosh,
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but well and i'll say as moms we are told that we're supposed to be doing something
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right significant and value and our value is not in something but i'll tell
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you the most important thing we can be doing,
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as a mother as a wife is to protect our home,
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is to set those boundaries.
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That is in our jurisdiction.
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No one else is going to do that.
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So we're the ones that say this can come into my home or this cannot come into my home.
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That is the most important job that we have.
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Yes. Dads, back them up. It's not about being best friends. It's about being parents.
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I'll say this.
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Reverend Billy Graham. I never got to meet him.
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I went up that way. I was able to meet probably more importantly his wife, Chris Graham. Yeah.
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And I was attending a deal. I'll never forget. She was walking to her car.
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She was elderly. They were helping her. And I went right up to her.
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I said, ma'am, my name is Victor.
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I said.
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Would you mind, my wife couldn't be here today because she's back home with her kids and a newborn.
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I said, I have a camera. I think it was back when they were big.
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Yeah. And I just said, could you just say something to her?
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And she goes, I sure can, Victor. I turned it on and she said this.
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But Eileen, you're doing the right thing.
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I've been with your children. She said some other nice stuff,
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but I did so well. That is it. It was so powerful.
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Women are the life givers. Yeah.
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Man, there's nothing better than that. And we also, it's proven they can suck
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the life too. So you've got to make the choice on which one that's going to be.
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It's so good, guys. Thank you so much. I have a sign in my home that says the
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most important work you'll ever do is in the walls of your own home.
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Big go. Yeah. And it's on, it's right there. I see it every day and it's that
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chat because you have that drive.
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Women have that, like, I've got to, I've got to do the things.
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And I, I have had a very, very strong career. I was going to be an architect
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and I was halfway already there. And, um, and I, I just had to.
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Not that we always have to say no to those things, but the priority of my home has to come first.
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And the reality of that and the humility it took for me to do that.
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And man, I will never regret making that choice.
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So thank you for that word and encouragement. And guys, thank you so much for
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being with us today. And you have stories for days.
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I was not a podcaster.
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And, you know, the Lord told me to do it. And I said no for about a year.
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And, you know, finally he just really said, nope, you don't have a choice here.
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And so I answered that call. And man, it's one of the most fruitful things in my life.
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