Latest / Crime Stories with Nancy Grace / Kentucky Moms' Bahama 'GIRLS TRIP,' RAPED & SODOMIZED BY STAFF, BLEED, VOMIT, Tell Their Story
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- 0:05Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Greace, raped, assaulted, bloody. One of
- 0:23Speaker 1: the swimsuit twisted around so much the victim's breasts were
- 0:31Speaker 1: hanging out. That's the rape. Nurses words, not mine. On
- 0:37Speaker 1: the floor of an office far far away from home,
- 0:47Speaker 1: two ladies, beautiful ladies, moms from Kentucky, childhood friends, they
- 0:55Speaker 1: met at four H Camp, lifelong friends. They go. It
- 1:01Speaker 1: was one of their first girls trip ever away from
- 1:05Speaker 1: their children, their first cruise, the first time one of
- 1:12Speaker 1: them had ever been on a plane. Can you identify
- 1:15Speaker 1: that because I identify with that? Because I can. They
- 1:20Speaker 1: go on a carnival cruise, and yeah, I'm putting it
- 1:23Speaker 1: out there. It's Carnival. And you know that there are
- 1:27Speaker 1: port adventures, right. I love taking the twins on Disney
- 1:33Speaker 1: cruises and going on port adventures. It's the best part
- 1:36Speaker 1: of the cruise. These two ladies go on a port adventure.
- 1:41Speaker 1: They are drugged and raped in the Bahamas and everybody
- 1:49Speaker 1: acts like nothing happened. Something did happen. I want justice
- 1:58Speaker 1: in joining me today the two ladies from Kentucky that
- 2:03Speaker 1: go on their girls trip and come home bruised, leading
- 2:10Speaker 1: and raped. I Nancy Grace, this is crime Stories. Thank
- 2:16Speaker 1: you for being with us here at crime Stories and
- 2:18Speaker 1: on Serious XM one eleven. I don't know why even
- 2:24Speaker 1: the law did this. For years, in years, decades, the
- 2:31Speaker 1: law required corroboration for a rape case to go forward.
- 2:36Speaker 1: Couldn't rely on just the women's account. Why you don't
- 2:41Speaker 1: need corroboration for a bank robbery or an agassault or
- 2:44Speaker 1: a murder? Right? But why rape? Why are rape victims doubted?
- 2:52Speaker 1: But they are? There was an angel. It was a
- 2:57Speaker 1: rape nurse who was there on vacation. I want you
- 3:03Speaker 1: to hear what a completely impartial observer had to say
- 3:07Speaker 1: was she tried to help these two ladies. This is
- 3:10Speaker 1: what she told me last night.
- 3:12Speaker 2: Listen, don Gayla, which was the one in the floor
- 3:14Speaker 2: closes to the door. She was in a one piece
- 3:17Speaker 2: bathing suit, but it actually appeared to look more like
- 3:19Speaker 2: a two piece bathing suit because it's one of those
- 3:21Speaker 2: one pieces that are cut out. Her clothes were very
- 3:24Speaker 2: messed at. Her breast was hanging out, she was not covered.
- 3:29Speaker 2: She was coming in and out of consciousness, puking, crying, screaming.
- 3:37Speaker 2: She looked in a very bad shape. I absolutely knew
- 3:41Speaker 2: that they had been assaulted in some form of fashion,
- 3:44Speaker 2: by the way that they looked, the way they appeared
- 3:46Speaker 2: to me.
- 3:47Speaker 1: This is Lodonna Batty, very very experienced nurse practitioner who
- 3:54Speaker 1: happened to be on this trip and was called in
- 3:57Speaker 1: to help the two ladies from Kentucky. Did you hear
- 4:00Speaker 1: what she said? She doesn't have a dog in the fight,
- 4:03Speaker 1: no skin of the game, and she describes them. Can
- 4:06Speaker 1: you imagine your mother on the floor of some office
- 4:12Speaker 1: in the Bahamas, all bloody and messed up, vomiting in
- 4:18Speaker 1: the floor, with the swimsuit exposing their private parts. Yet
- 4:26Speaker 1: apparently officials there didn't believe them. Listen to more of
- 4:31Speaker 1: what the nurse practitioner told us last night.
- 4:34Speaker 2: I was trying to get her to focus on me
- 4:37Speaker 2: and stay with me. So I was asking her questions,
- 4:40Speaker 2: what her name was, how old she was, give me
- 4:43Speaker 2: your birthday, where are you from? In and out? And
- 4:47Speaker 2: then she would repeat herself, and then she would scream
- 4:49Speaker 2: out that she had been raped, she'd been assaulted, you know,
- 4:51Speaker 2: please help me, Please help me, don't leave me, please
- 4:54Speaker 2: help me, you know, those kind of things. And I'm
- 4:56Speaker 2: trying to keep her calm down, trying to get her
- 4:58Speaker 2: to focus to give me some details.
- 5:00Speaker 1: This is really bringing me flashbacks of all the rape
- 5:02Speaker 1: victims that I have dealt with over the years of
- 5:05Speaker 1: investigating and prosecuting rapists. As I mentioned earlier, very often
- 5:12Speaker 1: the law will require and some jurisdictions steal corroboration to
- 5:18Speaker 1: the woman's account. Well there's corroboration. They were bruised and bleeding,
- 5:25Speaker 1: according to this witness.
- 5:27Speaker 2: Listen, yes, kneecaps, their knees, and their shins looked the worst.
- 5:32Speaker 2: There was bruises on their knees, down their little sins,
- 5:35Speaker 2: you know, little scrapes and abrasions own both of their
- 5:38Speaker 2: knees and stuff like that. I was doing my best
- 5:41Speaker 2: best to try to assess them. I just felt like
- 5:43Speaker 2: this was going to be a bad situation that wasn't
- 5:46Speaker 2: going to be taking care of property.
- 5:48Speaker 1: Now, that's from an experienced nurse practitioner. Joining me right
- 5:52Speaker 1: now are the two Kentucky ladies to whom I've been referring,
- 5:58Speaker 1: Amber Sharer and in Dongela Dobson Lifelong for instance. For
- 6:06Speaker 1: h Camp ladies, thank you for being with.
- 6:08Speaker 3: Us, thank you for having us for sure, for sharing
- 6:11Speaker 3: our story.
- 6:13Speaker 4: For believing that the gay I do in this culture, nobody,
- 6:19Speaker 4: nobody seems to believe when you say something like that
- 6:21Speaker 4: happens to thank you.
- 6:23Speaker 1: I believe you. I believe you, and I want justice
- 6:27Speaker 1: for you because I know right now your heads are spending.
- 6:33Speaker 1: But in the years to come, you're going to look
- 6:35Speaker 1: back and you're going to want to know that the
- 6:39Speaker 1: rapists are in jail, and not only that they are
- 6:44Speaker 1: being punished, but that other women like you are not
- 6:49Speaker 1: being raped in vomiting with your breast exposed on some
- 6:55Speaker 1: floor of some office in the Bahamas, Because really, you
- 7:00Speaker 1: really think this was their first time doing this. No way,
- 7:04Speaker 1: I don't know.
- 7:05Speaker 5: Their first time, because when they came in the office
- 7:09Speaker 5: and we were forced to identifide them, and they walked
- 7:11Speaker 5: in as if nothing was wrong, and we fly freaked out,
- 7:15Speaker 5: they screaming, asking them, begging them to get up out,
- 7:19Speaker 5: and they just they acted like nothing is wrong, as
- 7:23Speaker 5: if they've done anything.
- 7:24Speaker 1: So, you know, think about what you're saying. Amber If
- 7:27Speaker 1: you were charged with felony and you were brought in
- 7:30Speaker 1: and somebody said, oh, yeah, she's the one that shot me,
- 7:32Speaker 1: you'd freak out right. These guys were like mmm, They.
- 7:36Speaker 5: Even smiled when they came in the.
- 7:38Speaker 3: Room they did.
- 7:39Speaker 1: Let me start at the beginning, because there are so
- 7:43Speaker 1: many advisories. Don't travel to uh Syria. Let's don't go
- 7:50Speaker 1: to Syria. Okay, let's don't go to Gaza. Just just
- 7:55Speaker 1: right now. Let's don't travel to Kazakhstan. Why let's still
- 8:01Speaker 1: go to Iran. There are reasons that there are US
- 8:06Speaker 1: Department of Justice advisories not to go to certain parts
- 8:12Speaker 1: of the world, and there is an alert regarding the Bahamas.
- 8:17Speaker 1: I know everybody goes to the Bahamas for reasons, just
- 8:21Speaker 1: like this. Let me start at the beginning. I'm putting
- 8:23Speaker 1: the cart before the horse. With me are two beautiful ladies.
- 8:28Speaker 1: They're beautiful, not on the outside only, but on the
- 8:32Speaker 1: inside too, and I want you to get to know
- 8:36Speaker 1: them and hear their story. Doug Gela Dobson, How did
- 8:42Speaker 1: the whole thing start?
- 8:45Speaker 4: The beginning of our vacation was an absolute dream come true.
- 8:49Speaker 4: It was something we couldn't even begin to imagine. The
- 8:54Speaker 4: waters were crystal clear. We were having the best time
- 8:57Speaker 4: of our lives. We were checking them on and our kids,
- 9:01Speaker 4: but at the same time we weren't fully responsible for them.
- 9:06Speaker 4: For just a few days. It was great we went
- 9:10Speaker 4: and we did a dolphin excursion where we got hugs
- 9:15Speaker 4: the dolphins and they gave us a kiss and we
- 9:18Speaker 4: got pictures plug them and we played. We hung out
- 9:22Speaker 4: on the beach there. This was in Nassall the last day,
- 9:27Speaker 4: day four, we were supposed to stop in Freeport. So
- 9:31Speaker 4: when we stopped in Freeport, we are assuming that we
- 9:36Speaker 4: are safe, like we tell them we want to go
- 9:40Speaker 4: to the beach. Carnival step as well as all kinds
- 9:43Speaker 4: of like people at the dock, like staff members at
- 9:45Speaker 4: the docks, and they were telling us that, okay, if
- 9:49Speaker 4: you want to go to the beach, this is the
- 9:51Speaker 4: table you need to go to.
- 9:52Speaker 3: There's a pirate's code, and there were pamphlets on the
- 9:55Speaker 3: Carnival proofs for pirate cove.
- 10:11Speaker 1: Time stories with Nancy Grace. You're hearing don Gela Dobson
- 10:17Speaker 1: and Amber Shearer. These are the two Kentucky ladies that
- 10:23Speaker 1: were brutally assaulted on a Carnival cruise land excursion. So
- 10:31Speaker 1: you're telling me that, first of all, which one of
- 10:34Speaker 1: the Carnival cruise ships. Was it Carnival Elation, right, Carnival Elation.
- 10:40Speaker 1: That's a huge ship, and was this you're saying that
- 10:44Speaker 1: there were pamphlets on the elation about where you went.
- 10:48Speaker 1: It was Pirate's code. Correct.
- 10:49Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a whole guest services desk to as pamphlets
- 10:53Speaker 4: and excursions and things that you can do while you're
- 10:56Speaker 4: down there. And then when you get off the boat
- 11:01Speaker 4: you've cruised before, you know, they have all the little
- 11:03Speaker 4: tables and all the little lines, and you just sell
- 11:06Speaker 4: them where you're trying to go, and they point you
- 11:08Speaker 4: to the line and you're on this shuttle with other
- 11:13Speaker 4: people from your boat that want to go to the
- 11:15Speaker 4: same place exactly.
- 11:17Speaker 1: And I've always felt so safe doing that. With David
- 11:21Speaker 1: and the twins, We've been to a coffee plantation, and
- 11:25Speaker 1: an orange plantation, and a monkey with reserve, just all
- 11:30Speaker 1: sorts of land. They call them port adventures. Port adventures.
- 11:36Speaker 1: So you found out about this Pirate's cove. I've seen
- 11:41Speaker 1: photos of it where there's like a tiki bar, there's
- 11:45Speaker 1: a zip line, there's a beautiful beach. Really looks fun.
- 11:49Speaker 1: And so you get on I guess a bus.
- 11:55Speaker 3: It was that bus taxi and it.
- 11:57Speaker 1: Takes you to Freeport.
- 11:58Speaker 4: Well, we were already in Freeport. It took us from
- 12:00Speaker 4: where we docked in Freeport to the beach. It was
- 12:04Speaker 4: like maybe a fifteen twenty minute ride to pirates Cove.
- 12:07Speaker 1: Okay, then what happened?
- 12:08Speaker 3: So we paid our taxi fees and we paid to
- 12:12Speaker 3: get into Pirate's Cove and then immediately John Gala and
- 12:16Speaker 3: I just kind of went off to the left. We
- 12:18Speaker 3: were away from everybody. We wanted to take, you know,
- 12:21Speaker 3: qute pictures. We're on vacation. We were both gastric sleeve patients.
- 12:26Speaker 3: We've reached our goal weights. We wanted to look sexy
- 12:29Speaker 3: for our boyfriends, for our husband. We you know, we
- 12:33Speaker 3: we wanted to feel like sexy women.
- 12:37Speaker 4: I just lost this is on Gala. I just lost
- 12:41Speaker 4: one hundred and thirty five pounds. I'll just met my goal.
- 12:47Speaker 3: The week Beport we.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Went wait is this Doug Gala?
- 12:50Speaker 3: Yeah?
- 12:50Speaker 1: You lost one hundred and thirty five pounds. Holy moly, Okay,
- 12:53Speaker 1: I got to write that down on my fact sheet.
- 12:55Speaker 1: You need to celebrate woman and this was that? Have
- 12:59Speaker 1: you got? Is is it Ambers? Is this Whose first
- 13:03Speaker 1: girl's trip? Is this?
- 13:04Speaker 3: It was not Amber? This is me. It was my
- 13:07Speaker 3: first girl's trip. And I'm actually the one who encouraged
- 13:10Speaker 3: on Gala to get the gastricsleave because I started I
- 13:15Speaker 3: was working in the operating room and doctor Tran, a
- 13:18Speaker 3: wonderful friend of mine, did my gastric sleeve. I started
- 13:21Speaker 3: out at four hundred pounds and I now weigh one
- 13:24Speaker 3: hundred and fifty pounds.
- 13:25Speaker 6: And Nancy, this is Nick Gershon And one thing I
- 13:27Speaker 6: want to add or comment.
- 13:28Speaker 1: Guys you're hearing, Nicholas Gerson is a high profile lawyer
- 13:32Speaker 1: for these ladies, practicing out of Miami, and you can
- 13:35Speaker 1: find him an injury attorney FLA for Florida dot Com.
- 13:39Speaker 1: Go ahead, Nicholas sure.
- 13:40Speaker 6: I just wanted to add to what my clients were
- 13:43Speaker 6: telling you about how they learned about.
- 13:45Speaker 7: This excursion in the first place.
- 13:47Speaker 6: And not only did they learn about it.
- 13:49Speaker 7: On Carnival shit.
- 13:50Speaker 6: Not only were they taken away on a shuttle at
- 13:53Speaker 6: the pier, not only were they not only did they
- 13:57Speaker 6: see the pamphlets, but Carnival actually markets this specific excursion
- 14:02Speaker 6: on their website. They published it and you can purchase
- 14:06Speaker 6: it on their website. There were even reviews about the
- 14:10Speaker 6: excursion on Carnival's website. So any suggestion that these these
- 14:16Speaker 6: women my clients just into as Carnival stated and a
- 14:21Speaker 6: statement independently went on an excursion as if they just
- 14:29Speaker 6: kick this excursion out of a hat is not well taken.
- 14:34Speaker 1: Hey, Nicholas, I hear you. Every time I've taken the
- 14:38Speaker 1: twins on Disney cruises. By the way, they're sixteen, I
- 14:42Speaker 1: still haven't had a girls trip. FYI that said Nicholas.
- 14:47Speaker 1: Every time I've taken them on a Disney cruise, I
- 14:50Speaker 1: go online, just like you're saying. I can see Amber
- 14:53Speaker 1: and on Giela doing this because you're looking forward to
- 14:56Speaker 1: the trip. You know, it's kind of like a mill
- 14:58Speaker 1: escape from all the work and everything you do every day.
- 15:01Speaker 1: And so you look at what you're planning your trip,
- 15:05Speaker 1: and they have these beautiful excursions port adventures, and they
- 15:09Speaker 1: encourage you to book them online ahead of time so
- 15:14Speaker 1: you're not shut out of it because they're very sought after.
- 15:17Speaker 1: So this was an official trip offered by Carnival Cruise.
- 15:22Speaker 1: It was one of their port adventures that they advertise
- 15:25Speaker 1: for you on which you can go. So I think
- 15:28Speaker 1: was talking to Don Giella Amber. What happens is that
- 15:31Speaker 1: you guys get there, you've lost all this amazing weight.
- 15:36Speaker 1: It's amazing and you want to take pictures of you
- 15:40Speaker 1: at the beach in your swimsuits, and then what happens.
- 15:44Speaker 3: We were taking these photos and then we decided to
- 15:48Speaker 3: change bathing suits. So the bathing suits that you've seen
- 15:52Speaker 3: that we were raped in, the black bathing suit Don
- 15:55Speaker 3: Gaelo was in the orange one that I was in.
- 15:57Speaker 3: Those were shooting bathing suits I got for my bourgeoiirs
- 16:01Speaker 3: shoot for my thirtieth birthday for reaching my goal weight.
- 16:04Speaker 3: So we thought we wanted really sexy bathing suits to
- 16:07Speaker 3: send back home like pictures, you know, in the Caribbean,
- 16:10Speaker 3: like Valentine's Day, my home, Like we were gonna put
- 16:13Speaker 3: these up, these were going to be like, right, what
- 16:15Speaker 3: did you say?
- 16:16Speaker 4: I Love said, I really wanted these for Valentine's Day
- 16:19Speaker 4: for my husband. But now I can't even bear to
- 16:22Speaker 4: look at them.
- 16:22Speaker 1: Okay, wait a minute, Okay, I'm just having a moment here.
- 16:28Speaker 1: Let me bring in a shrinks Sadie Whitelocks. I'm getting
- 16:31Speaker 1: to We have an incredible travel editor for d email
- 16:34Speaker 1: dot com who had her own personal experience of danger
- 16:40Speaker 1: in the Bahamas. Scott Johnson, forensics psychologist, joining US out
- 16:44Speaker 1: of Minnesota thirty two years dealing with sex predators and
- 16:49Speaker 1: their victims. Scott, I don't know if you can relate
- 16:52Speaker 1: to this, but if you can't, you need to get
- 16:54Speaker 1: plugged into this.
- 16:56Speaker 4: You get.
- 16:59Speaker 1: You know, I have hair make up before I go
- 17:00Speaker 1: on camera, and you get all fixed up, and what
- 17:04Speaker 1: you think? You know, Hey, this is as good as
- 17:07Speaker 1: it's gonna get. And you take the photo. Right, that's
- 17:10Speaker 1: very important to ladies. You know that they look good
- 17:13Speaker 1: in those pictures because you want to. I like showing
- 17:17Speaker 1: pictures to my twins, right, and just thinking of these
- 17:19Speaker 1: two ladies. They lose all this weight and they get
- 17:23Speaker 1: to the Bahamas and then they want to put on
- 17:25Speaker 1: the perfect swimsuit, the orange and the black for the photo,
- 17:29Speaker 1: and this happens. Did you hear her say she can't
- 17:31Speaker 1: even look at the picture anymore? And did you hear
- 17:34Speaker 1: what she said? Hers was orange and mine was black?
- 17:37Speaker 1: You know what I remember right now? I remember what
- 17:40Speaker 1: I wore to my fiance's funeral. I've never worned again.
- 17:45Speaker 1: I can't stand to even look at it, but yet
- 17:46Speaker 1: I can't throw it away. They remember I had on
- 17:50Speaker 1: the orange when she had on the black one. HOWE
- 17:53Speaker 1: are those things? Those details stick in your head? At
- 17:56Speaker 1: a moment when you get raped, but you remember that detail.
- 18:01Speaker 3: It's the nious details that we remember.
- 18:04Speaker 1: What is that, Scott Johnson, what is that phenomena?
- 18:06Speaker 8: I mean, it just gets etched in your brain. It's
- 18:08Speaker 8: a very very important memory and it just is etched
- 18:13Speaker 8: in the brain.
- 18:14Speaker 1: You can't not think of it.
- 18:16Speaker 8: And even you know, though you'd like to sometimes forget,
- 18:20Speaker 8: forget it, it's it's there in live, vivid color, and
- 18:24Speaker 8: it's simply a part of part of the brain that
- 18:27Speaker 8: it's going to stay.
- 18:27Speaker 1: Alive forever, forever. I wish I could forget some of
- 18:31Speaker 1: those details here. Yeah, please jump in.
- 18:35Speaker 4: So I just when I say like it, I think
- 18:39Speaker 4: more time around Amber's rapist because he was the resort
- 18:44Speaker 4: work or you come of pox this into everything and
- 18:48Speaker 4: to get out only remember the face of my rapist. Yeah,
- 18:53Speaker 4: but I barely seem drugged.
- 18:57Speaker 3: I was able to identify both rapists.
- 18:59Speaker 1: You know what's interesting about rape victims making identifications and
- 19:03Speaker 1: drawing composites, you are also seeing them at a different angle.
- 19:08Speaker 1: I was just talking to a sketch artists about this
- 19:10Speaker 1: yesterday and another rape that turned into a murder where
- 19:16Speaker 1: the victim is very often looking up at the rapist
- 19:22Speaker 1: and it distorts the way their face really is because
- 19:26Speaker 1: of your angle. And I'm just very grateful that there
- 19:30Speaker 1: were two of you together to make an accurate id.
- 19:35Speaker 1: Let's see where what they're going to do about it
- 19:37Speaker 1: down the problems. Brace yourself, I doubt very much. Okay,
- 19:41Speaker 1: so you're taking the pictures. Let me get back to
- 19:43Speaker 1: the beach. You're taking the cute photos. God bless you.
- 19:47Speaker 1: Losing one hundred and thirty five pounds. Yes, So then
- 19:50Speaker 1: what happened?
- 19:51Speaker 3: We were taking these photos we had so we had
- 19:55Speaker 3: our phones out, we were taking photos, and we noticed
- 19:59Speaker 3: one of the resort workers was avidly staring at us,
- 20:04Speaker 3: and we were like, okay, well we're getting attention because
- 20:06Speaker 3: we're wearing these sexy bathing suits. That's you know, we've
- 20:10Speaker 3: been wearing cheeky suits the whole time we were out
- 20:13Speaker 3: because it was our mom cation.
- 20:15Speaker 4: We looked that it's the first time we've ever felt it's.
- 20:18Speaker 3: The sometime whereever felt sexy or confident in our own body.
- 20:21Speaker 1: Well, I mean you keep saying sexy swimsuits like you
- 20:24Speaker 1: were doing something wrong. I mean you had all your
- 20:28Speaker 1: body parts covered up the other day, my daughter said, Mom,
- 20:31Speaker 1: is this dressed to short? I'm like, no, there's nothing
- 20:34Speaker 1: wrong with wearing. I mean, I hear this in every
- 20:38Speaker 1: rate case. Why was she out jogging in a sports bra?
- 20:42Speaker 1: Why did she have on short a short skirt that
- 20:45Speaker 1: it's the same thing. Yes, you had on sexy swimsuits.
- 20:49Speaker 1: It doesn't. This is not your fault.
- 20:52Speaker 3: They hate comments we get often say well, if they
- 20:55Speaker 3: look that good, we would rape them too, We would
- 20:57Speaker 3: get them like savage animals. Those are the things that
- 21:01Speaker 3: people are saying that over that we were action for.
- 21:05Speaker 1: Okay, first of all, you got to quit looking at
- 21:07Speaker 1: social media. If I read everything on Twitter, I would
- 21:10Speaker 1: be hiding under the bed right now. True, some of
- 21:13Speaker 1: it is completely accurate.
- 21:14Speaker 3: But on social media, I mean, it's not just on
- 21:17Speaker 3: our feed, it's people private messaging us, right.
- 21:21Speaker 8: And there's people out there that, you know, the power
- 21:24Speaker 8: assertive rapists, who are these two rapists believe that they
- 21:27Speaker 8: have a prerogative to do what they do and that
- 21:30Speaker 8: the victims and they're in the sick perverted way that
- 21:34Speaker 8: the defenders thinking the victims provoked or asked for this,
- 21:39Speaker 8: and yet there's no truth to that. And yet you've
- 21:42Speaker 8: got a whole society who want to continue to blame
- 21:46Speaker 8: the men who do this and blame the victim, who
- 21:50Speaker 8: if you personalize it, if it's your wife, your family member,
- 21:54Speaker 8: your daughter, that's a victim. You certainly see what we're
- 21:57Speaker 8: saying here about how long it is. But if if
- 22:00Speaker 8: you're not relating to it, you continue to defend the
- 22:04Speaker 8: rapists for their justification for how they felt they were
- 22:09Speaker 8: needing to or had the right to do a rape.
- 22:13Speaker 8: Everybody has a right to look good. We all have
- 22:16Speaker 8: a right to show off our bodies when we work
- 22:18Speaker 8: damn hard to get them to a place we want them.
- 22:21Speaker 8: But that's not asking for a damn thing. But the
- 22:25Speaker 8: rapist believes this is a provocation, this is justification, and
- 22:30Speaker 8: there'll always be the sick bastards out there who support
- 22:33Speaker 8: that site Dog.
- 22:34Speaker 1: Guil and Amber. So you're out there taking photos, what
- 22:37Speaker 1: happens then?
- 22:38Speaker 3: So next we.
- 22:39Speaker 4: Were approached by a resort worker who actually ended up
- 22:43Speaker 4: being Ambers rapist.
- 22:46Speaker 1: How did you know they were a resort worker.
- 22:48Speaker 4: They were wearing resort.
- 22:51Speaker 3: Cloathing the uniform and this.
- 22:54Speaker 1: Was pirate's cove, correct.
- 22:57Speaker 4: Yeah, they all had green T shirt polos on those.
- 23:01Speaker 3: One of the pictures that I took of my rapist
- 23:04Speaker 3: when we thought he was just a friendly staff member.
- 23:08Speaker 3: It looks different because I use a tan filter on Snapchat,
- 23:13Speaker 3: but it's actually a bright green shirt. So the man
- 23:19Speaker 3: approached us and asked us to do promotional photos because
- 23:22Speaker 3: we would make great promotional photos for Pirate's Code.
- 23:27Speaker 4: We were like, no, it was some new something that
- 23:30Speaker 4: they was doing, some thirty six y We politely declined.
- 23:34Speaker 4: We were like, no, that's okay, maybe later, you know,
- 23:37Speaker 4: just pushed him off. But the same worker just continues
- 23:42Speaker 4: to hang around and he's chatting, and we think he's
- 23:44Speaker 4: kind of, you know, like concierge, making sure we're having
- 23:47Speaker 4: a good time, making sure that we don't need anything.
- 23:50Speaker 4: He offered to take one of the pictures of us.
- 23:54Speaker 3: He took a couple of pictures of us in the water,
- 23:58Speaker 3: and then his friend comes up and offers us a
- 24:00Speaker 3: drink and she's like okay, so this drink is like
- 24:05Speaker 3: thirty dollars and we're like, oh, yeah, no thanks, we're.
- 24:08Speaker 4: Not drinkers anyway, we're drink.
- 24:10Speaker 3: And then she's like, i'll give you a drink or
- 24:14Speaker 3: twenty dollars, and we're still like yeah, I think. So
- 24:16Speaker 3: She's like to tell you this, buy one and give
- 24:18Speaker 3: one free, and we were like, okay, you got it.
- 24:22Speaker 4: It'll make a cute picture. We're here for a few hours,
- 24:25Speaker 4: and so.
- 24:26Speaker 1: You take the pictures holding the drinks up right, let
- 24:29Speaker 1: me guess, yes.
- 24:30Speaker 3: I had a coconut, don Gela had a pineapple.
- 24:33Speaker 1: The friend that came up with the drinks wasn't a
- 24:35Speaker 1: man or a woman.
- 24:36Speaker 3: It was a woman. And she later messaged out to
- 24:39Speaker 3: me telling me that we hurt her business. I won't
- 24:42Speaker 3: say her name publicly, I don't know if I'm allowed to.
- 24:46Speaker 4: But she reached out to us both telling us that
- 24:48Speaker 4: we needed to take our postil and we were.
- 24:50Speaker 1: Hurting her business and hurting her coconut pineapple drink business?
- 24:55Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Did she work at Pirate's Cove? Also?
- 24:59Speaker 4: Yeah she did?
- 25:00Speaker 1: Oh man, Nicholas gersh and you better be coconut a
- 25:03Speaker 1: big fat lawsuit right now. Back to the ladies. So
- 25:08Speaker 1: she's obviously working with the man. Then what happened? So
- 25:13Speaker 1: you're out in the water. One's got a pineapple, one's
- 25:15Speaker 1: got a coconut. You're taking the cute pictures. Did you
- 25:17Speaker 1: say you live chatted with your family.
- 25:20Speaker 3: Let's back up before we finish. I would like to
- 25:22Speaker 3: explain that these drinks were brought to us before we
- 25:26Speaker 3: even agreed to.
- 25:28Speaker 4: Her ide of them. That's all they did on carnivals,
- 25:30Speaker 4: so we thought it was normal.
- 25:32Speaker 1: Joining me is Sadie white Locks, assistant travel editor dailymail
- 25:37Speaker 1: dot com, who had her own brush with danger in
- 25:41Speaker 1: the Bahamas. You can find her at Sadie whitelockx dot com. Sadie,
- 25:45Speaker 1: thank you so much for being with us. Is that
- 25:48Speaker 1: normal because I've never Maybe it's because I'm on a
- 25:51Speaker 1: Disney cruise. I've never had people walk up and try
- 25:55Speaker 1: to give me hard liquor already in the coconut and
- 25:57Speaker 1: the pineapple.
- 25:58Speaker 9: Sometimes they'll be if it's like a from cups, Like
- 26:01Speaker 9: they'll bring them the cups.
- 26:02Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, Like they'll show you the cup and
- 26:05Speaker 1: it'll say I was at the Muhama Pirate cover something
- 26:08Speaker 1: and then you say, y'all have it, and they bring
- 26:10Speaker 1: you back the drink. I've never heard of them pushing alcohol.
- 26:14Speaker 1: I mean, what if it's a person that can't have
- 26:17Speaker 1: alcohol or for whatever reason exactly, So that's unusual, Sadie
- 26:22Speaker 1: white Locks.
- 26:22Speaker 4: They didn't really push it. They would ask if you
- 26:24Speaker 4: want to buy it, but it was already in those
- 26:26Speaker 4: pre made carnival cups you're talking about. They had it
- 26:29Speaker 4: togad there. We had to show them more id but
- 26:32Speaker 4: they came around the polar area as soon as we
- 26:34Speaker 4: got on, and it could have been a lot because
- 26:37Speaker 4: the bars and stuff were not yet open, because the
- 26:39Speaker 4: sweet rooms weren't ready. I just remember Amber and I
- 26:43Speaker 4: both paid thirty three dollars apiece for these drinks, discussing
- 26:48Speaker 4: that we poured down the sink just so we could
- 26:51Speaker 4: keep the cup.
- 26:51Speaker 1: So then what happens. You get the drinks, Then what happens.
- 26:54Speaker 3: So we get the.
- 26:55Speaker 4: Drinks, the pineapple drink and the coconut drink at Pirate's Cove.
- 26:59Speaker 3: Right, So this is Amber. So we get the drinks
- 27:03Speaker 3: and we're taking pictures with the drinks. We take a
- 27:07Speaker 3: picture with who later becomes my rapist, and then we
- 27:12Speaker 3: decide to get on Facebook Live. Yeah, so we're in
- 27:15Speaker 3: the Caribbean. We're on Facebook Live. We're stumbling around like
- 27:21Speaker 3: we're showing everybody, and you know, like we said, just
- 27:25Speaker 3: twenty minutes prior we were, we had just talked to
- 27:28Speaker 3: our family and friends. We had just facetimed our kids
- 27:30Speaker 3: through Facebook Messenger.
- 27:32Speaker 1: I mean, you think this is only a four day cruise, right, Yeah?
- 27:35Speaker 1: Well you know you think what can go wrong in
- 27:37Speaker 1: four days?
- 27:38Speaker 7: Yeah?
- 27:38Speaker 1: Five days, four nights, gotcha. We were on.
- 27:41Speaker 3: My Facebook Live and Don Gaela and I were in
- 27:44Speaker 3: the ocean and we were She like fell in the
- 27:48Speaker 3: water and I was like, oh my gosh, she's had
- 27:51Speaker 3: she's had one too many.
- 27:53Speaker 1: You know, but you only had one.
- 27:54Speaker 3: But we had only had one.
- 27:56Speaker 4: But as gash sleet patients, when Wednesday we've had a
- 27:59Speaker 4: drink to many, we've literally.
- 28:01Speaker 3: Mean at a drink.
- 28:03Speaker 4: Too many, not a beverage.
- 28:05Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what you're what
- 28:07Speaker 1: you what you mean by that?
- 28:08Speaker 3: Like literally, when we say a drink too many, we
- 28:10Speaker 3: mean one drink, like we have to gotch it, We
- 28:13Speaker 3: have to sit, we can't hug, we have to drink
- 28:16Speaker 3: very slowly. When you say you've overeaten, we say a
- 28:19Speaker 3: bite too many, because it's literally one bitees the difference
- 28:23Speaker 3: between being okay and vomiting.
- 28:26Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, now I understand. So these this drink
- 28:30Speaker 1: really affected you?
- 28:31Speaker 3: Yes, so essentially gastric sleeve is part of what saved
- 28:35Speaker 3: our lives because we had to volmit so much.
- 28:37Speaker 4: And my Sonach only holds a cup right now.
- 28:40Speaker 1: And even so, even with the gasic sleeve surgery, you
- 28:46Speaker 1: still had enough in you to completely black out. Yes,
- 28:52Speaker 1: that must have been a very very powerful drink.
- 28:55Speaker 4: Okay, so let's go back to that drink.
- 28:57Speaker 1: Yes, let's do it.
- 28:58Speaker 4: Turns out drinks, We'll just say they contained very little,
- 29:05Speaker 4: if any alcohol. That's and I'll leave it at that.
- 29:08Speaker 1: There must have been something very powerful in those drinks.
- 29:11Speaker 1: Do you believe Amber and on Gala that the drugs
- 29:16Speaker 1: were in the drink?
- 29:18Speaker 4: Most certainly. That's the only thing that we had to
- 29:21Speaker 4: eat or drink the whole entire day. It's the only
- 29:24Speaker 4: besides the coffee that we got before we left it.
- 29:27Speaker 4: I mean, I felt fine.
- 29:29Speaker 3: I agree. We had a coffee. We were fine, we took.
- 29:32Speaker 4: A video, we were fine.
- 29:34Speaker 3: We were fine until we had those drinks. Within minutes of.
- 29:38Speaker 4: Drinking, probably fifteen twenty minute those.
- 29:41Speaker 3: Drinks, we were suddenly in the ocean on Facebook live,
- 29:44Speaker 3: and our family and friends were messaging.
- 29:46Speaker 4: Us and calling us like, are you sure you're okay?
- 29:49Speaker 3: Are you sure you're house drinks. If you really had
- 29:52Speaker 3: like there's there's no way, let me.
- 29:54Speaker 1: Go to your lawyer, a high profile lawyer out of Miami,
- 29:57Speaker 1: Nicholas Gerson, injury Attorney, Florida FLA dot Com Nicholas. What
- 30:04Speaker 1: they're saying can easily be verified with receipts on those
- 30:10Speaker 1: cruise ships. They know what you charge to your room,
- 30:14Speaker 1: they know what buffet you went to. They know everything
- 30:17Speaker 1: because it's all computerized. When you get a drink or
- 30:21Speaker 1: anything at those resorts, there is a digital record of everything.
- 30:27Speaker 1: So if they had coffee before they went to Pirate's Cove,
- 30:31Speaker 1: a Carnival sponsored port adventure, and they get there and
- 30:36Speaker 1: all they have a drink, there's evidence of that if
- 30:39Speaker 1: it's not destroyed. Nicholas.
- 30:41Speaker 7: That's correct.
- 30:42Speaker 6: Typically on a cruise ship, you're given something called the
- 30:45Speaker 6: sailing sign card, which is used to document everything that
- 30:49Speaker 6: you purpose purchase on a cruise ship. In this particular scenario,
- 30:54Speaker 6: I don't believe that the sailing sign card would have
- 30:57Speaker 6: any information as to what.
- 30:59Speaker 7: Was used at the resort. But what we do know.
- 31:03Speaker 6: From our preliminary investigation is that there was a toxicology
- 31:08Speaker 6: investigation conducted. There was a year analysis taken, there was
- 31:13Speaker 6: blood obtained, and we've actually asked for that information from Carnival.
- 31:17Speaker 6: We've asked Carnival to provide us with the lab work,
- 31:21Speaker 6: with the reports, and the response that we've received essentially
- 31:26Speaker 6: is none. They told us via letter just the other
- 31:30Speaker 6: day that they received our preservation of evidence letter, which
- 31:33Speaker 6: is a letter that we typically sent out in any
- 31:36Speaker 6: sort of cruise ship incident, especially involving rape or sexual assault,
- 31:41Speaker 6: and we've asked them to not only preserve whatever evidence
- 31:44Speaker 6: they have, but to provide us with copies of the
- 31:46Speaker 6: records that they possess for our clients. They're not entitled
- 31:51Speaker 6: to just withhold the information, and more often than not,
- 31:54Speaker 6: what lawyers like me are required to do would be
- 31:57Speaker 6: to actually file a lawsuit just to obtain some of
- 32:00Speaker 6: the preliminary information because they don't or they won't provide
- 32:05Speaker 6: it to us voluntarily. So, to answer your question, we
- 32:10Speaker 6: believe that there is going to be forensic evidence that
- 32:13Speaker 6: will not only corroborate what my clients are telling you
- 32:16Speaker 6: what happened to them, but there will also be forensic
- 32:19Speaker 6: evidence and reports that document what drugs.
- 32:22Speaker 7: Were in their system.
- 32:24Speaker 6: And it should also be noted that when the toxicology
- 32:27Speaker 6: was conducted.
- 32:28Speaker 7: I don't believe that it was conducted.
- 32:30Speaker 6: We're still trying to find out what time all this
- 32:33Speaker 6: information was when the investigation took place, but it was
- 32:37Speaker 6: many hours after the incident. So in cruisive crime cases,
- 32:44Speaker 6: there's often a delay in reporting, and there's a delay
- 32:48Speaker 6: in the cruise lines investigation into what happened, and they
- 32:52Speaker 6: just use that to their benefit as a strategic advantage
- 32:56Speaker 6: to try to discount what passengers or people on their vessels,
- 33:01Speaker 6: or in this case, what my clients say happened to
- 33:04Speaker 6: them in the Bahamas didn't take place.
- 33:07Speaker 1: You know, another issue you're going to have to battle,
- 33:09Speaker 1: Nicholas Gerson is lack on witnesses in that on cruise ships,
- 33:15Speaker 1: when everybody gets off that boat, they're gone. You can't
- 33:19Speaker 1: put Humpty Dumpty back together again. You can't find all
- 33:22Speaker 1: those people, Which makes these toxicology reports that more important
- 33:27Speaker 1: because you're going to be relying on them. And I
- 33:28Speaker 1: can tell you one thing from trying more cases than
- 33:31Speaker 1: I can think, and I can count the fact that
- 33:33Speaker 1: they haven't handed it over pronto. There's a reason they
- 33:37Speaker 1: haven't given it to you. Of course there is I
- 33:38Speaker 1: can only imagine why. Guys with me is Nicholas Gerson,
- 33:42Speaker 1: who is the lawyer for Amber and Doniela. Okay, so
- 33:46Speaker 1: you're out in the water, you're facetiming live with your
- 33:48Speaker 1: family and they're like, what is wrong with you? Mom?
- 33:51Speaker 1: And they notice something is wrong. What's your next memory?
- 33:57Speaker 4: I remember we decided we needed to get out of water.
- 34:01Speaker 4: We had to get out of the water.
- 34:02Speaker 3: Both here that something's going to happen, because if we
- 34:04Speaker 3: can't even stand up in this water and like, we're
- 34:06Speaker 3: gonna die.
- 34:08Speaker 4: So we get out of the water and we decide,
- 34:09Speaker 4: you know, let's go look for shells for our kids.
- 34:13Speaker 4: Let's see if we could find any of the cute
- 34:15Speaker 4: little clunch shells or whole pieces. And I did actually
- 34:18Speaker 4: find a small piece of a broken cunch shell that
- 34:23Speaker 4: is absolutely beautiful. And so the resort worker, he's still
- 34:27Speaker 4: with us at this time, and he's telling us, Oh,
- 34:31Speaker 4: I know exactly where to find them. They're just right
- 34:34Speaker 4: over here. Come follow me and I'll show you.
- 34:37Speaker 1: Oh that's just hurting me to hear it say the whitelocks.
- 34:40Speaker 1: You are a travel editor for dailymail dot Com, one
- 34:44Speaker 1: of the biggest websites in the world. I mean, this
- 34:48Speaker 1: is so obvious, asking them do you want to pose
- 34:52Speaker 1: for a commercial? For Hey, I know where some shells are.
- 34:58Speaker 1: Follow me. It's so obvious. They give the ladies the
- 35:01Speaker 1: drink and then they lure them away.
- 35:03Speaker 9: It's so hot though, like when they're dressed in a
- 35:06Speaker 9: uniform as well. You put your trust in workers and
- 35:09Speaker 9: you're at a resort, so it's obvious in hindsight, but
- 35:14Speaker 9: at the time it's difficult.
- 35:17Speaker 1: Yeah, so obviously a ploy. And this is one of
- 35:20Speaker 1: the red flags travelers, ladies especially to watch out for you.
- 35:25Speaker 1: Hear Amber and Don Guilla, the guys saying, hey, do
- 35:30Speaker 1: you want to be in a commercial? Do you want
- 35:32Speaker 1: to be in a promo? Shoot bs B s? And
- 35:38Speaker 1: then hey, I know where some really good shells are. Okay,
- 35:42Speaker 1: So then what happens, ladies?
- 35:43Speaker 3: The next thing we know, I wake up to being raped.
- 35:49Speaker 4: This is Amber talking.
- 35:52Speaker 3: I wake up and I'm being raped, and I grabbed
- 35:55Speaker 3: the tree in front of me. I pulled myself up
- 35:57Speaker 3: and I run. I'm just running.
- 35:59Speaker 1: Okay, wait a minute, what do you mean the next
- 36:01Speaker 1: thing you know, you were being raped. You're outdoors. You
- 36:04Speaker 1: said you reached up and grabbed a tree. You were
- 36:06Speaker 1: raped outdoors? This is reminded me of Natalie Holloway so much.
- 36:11Speaker 3: Yes, ma'am, we were.
- 36:12Speaker 9: At the beach was still in view.
- 36:14Speaker 3: There's a little bushy area with trees that's right, like
- 36:17Speaker 3: the tree line of the beach. We were right there
- 36:20Speaker 3: and I woke up to being raped.
- 36:22Speaker 1: What was the first thing you saw?
- 36:24Speaker 3: The first thing that I could see was the ocean
- 36:26Speaker 3: in front of me, so I know I wasn't far
- 36:28Speaker 3: from where I started.
- 36:29Speaker 1: Was the perpetrator on top of you or behind you?
- 36:32Speaker 1: He was behind me, so he was raping you from behind?
- 36:36Speaker 1: Did you see his face when I got up?
- 36:41Speaker 3: Yes? I did.
- 36:42Speaker 1: You got up, you turned around and you looked at him.
- 36:44Speaker 3: Correct before I ran away? Yes, I did.
- 36:46Speaker 1: Is your rapist the same guy that first approached you
- 36:50Speaker 1: wearing a resort uniform?
- 36:53Speaker 3: Yes, ma'am.
- 36:54Speaker 1: He the one of the same. The same was that
- 36:56Speaker 1: in the picture that you took, Yes, ma'am.
- 36:59Speaker 3: Were you I was screaming for don Gaela. I wanted
- 37:02Speaker 3: to find her. I was screaming Doug Gala Gaiter, which
- 37:06Speaker 3: is my nickname for her, is gaitor, and I was
- 37:09Speaker 3: looking for she was coming around a vand on the
- 37:11Speaker 3: beach and I found her, and we've got to run.
- 37:14Speaker 3: We've got to run, We've got to run, We've got
- 37:16Speaker 3: to go. We got to get to the bathroom. I
- 37:17Speaker 3: remember there was an attendant in the bathroom.
- 37:20Speaker 1: Wait a minute, did you still have on your swimsuit?
- 37:22Speaker 3: Yes, it was half to the side. I didn't care, so.
- 37:26Speaker 1: He y ain't your swimsuit to the side so he
- 37:29Speaker 1: could rape you vaginally?
- 37:31Speaker 3: I had vaginal and anal penetration.
- 37:33Speaker 1: So you take off running with your swimsuit all twisted
- 37:37Speaker 1: around you. Yes, I mean right there. What woman would
- 37:43Speaker 1: run out on the beach in that condition. Now you're
- 37:47Speaker 1: telling me that you were screaming for don Gela as
- 37:52Speaker 1: you call her Gaiter, and then you.
- 37:54Speaker 3: Saw her, Yeah, I seen her. I grabbed her arm,
- 37:56Speaker 3: and it was one of those where we were so
- 37:59Speaker 3: drugged you can't think. You have to make yourself think,
- 38:03Speaker 3: you have to make your body move, you have to
- 38:06Speaker 3: make yourself do anything, because you have no control over anything,
- 38:11Speaker 3: I mean none.
- 38:12Speaker 1: Then what happened.
- 38:14Speaker 3: We forced ourself. I'm basically dragging Gator to the bathroom
- 38:17Speaker 3: where we had seen the attendant because I knew there
- 38:20Speaker 3: was another staff member there. And then I remember both
- 38:24Speaker 3: of us vomiting and the toilet, and then I don't
- 38:29Speaker 3: remember anything. They said, Don Gaela was blacked out on
- 38:31Speaker 3: the floor and I was still vomiting when they arrived.
- 38:34Speaker 1: You mean that the nurse the.
- 38:36Speaker 3: FNP, La Donna, Apparently she had taken care of the
- 38:40Speaker 3: attendant earlier in the day and she had had a sprain,
- 38:44Speaker 3: ankle or a stept at me. I can't remember what
- 38:46Speaker 3: Lo Donna had told me, but she thought La Donna
- 38:49Speaker 3: was a doctor, so she went and got Lo Donna.
- 38:51Speaker 1: The nurse practitioner who was on the trip. Yes, ma'am, okay,
- 38:54Speaker 1: hold on, let me back up, Don Guiella, I don't
- 38:58Speaker 1: know where the second perp, where did he come from?
- 39:01Speaker 1: Tell me what happened from your perspective. After you guys
- 39:05Speaker 1: were kind of falling in the water, what happened with you?
- 39:08Speaker 4: So, like we has said, we decided we're going to
- 39:11Speaker 4: get out. My mom had a message to me that
- 39:13Speaker 4: she was extremely concerned about hers, but I told her,
- 39:16Speaker 4: I think, you know, we just didn't drink. The alcohol
- 39:20Speaker 4: must be hitting this a little harder, but it's okay, mom,
- 39:22Speaker 4: We're going to get out of the water. We're just
- 39:24Speaker 4: going to kind of lay on the beach, kind of
- 39:26Speaker 4: take it easy. We're not going to be doing too
- 39:28Speaker 4: much more today, like we're this has got the wear
- 39:31Speaker 4: off because we can't feel like this. And then I
- 39:35Speaker 4: remember this guy, he's showing us where the conch shells are.
- 39:39Speaker 4: I wanted to so stupid. I just wanted them for
- 39:43Speaker 4: my kids to take them back home, shells from the Bohmbers.
- 39:46Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, you are now hearing Don Gela Dobson.
- 39:51Speaker 1: You've heard Amber. You're hearing Don Gela and Hey really quickly,
- 39:56Speaker 1: Nicholas Gurson before I forget not that I have to
- 39:58Speaker 1: tell you this. You're the high profile lawyer, but you
- 40:01Speaker 1: have saved all of those emails, texts, video that your
- 40:07Speaker 1: clients were sending back and forth home, because I find
- 40:10Speaker 1: it very probative that even their families are like, what
- 40:13Speaker 1: is wrong with you?
- 40:14Speaker 8: Mom?
- 40:14Speaker 1: I've never seen you like tripping over like this? Right
- 40:18Speaker 1: you preserved all that.
- 40:19Speaker 6: Of course right now, and I don't want i'll'll just
- 40:24Speaker 6: to add is that we're collecting as much evidence as
- 40:27Speaker 6: we can from parties and non parties to help pursue
- 40:31Speaker 6: our clients.
- 40:32Speaker 1: Kep Okay, of course you have and that's why you've
- 40:35Speaker 1: got a great sterling reputation. You're gathering at all all
- 40:38Speaker 1: as I like to call it, the amo that you're
- 40:41Speaker 1: going to fire right at Pirate's Cove and specifically the
- 40:46Speaker 1: rapist back to Don Giella Dobson. And you know these ladies,
- 40:51Speaker 1: you think they like sharing their rapes and their humiliation,
- 40:55Speaker 1: their embarrassment when they look back on what happened. No,
- 41:00Speaker 1: are doing it because they don't want it to happen
- 41:03Speaker 1: to other women. Time Stories with Nancy Grace Don Gel. Okay,
- 41:22Speaker 1: so you're out in the water chipping around. You're then
- 41:25Speaker 1: what happens, and.
- 41:26Speaker 4: We decide we're gonna get out. We draw off, We're
- 41:31Speaker 4: gonna go look for some seashells. So I put my
- 41:35Speaker 4: bag up at the top of the like there's like
- 41:41Speaker 4: a table area, and I leave my bag there while
- 41:44Speaker 4: we go look for shells because I don't want to
- 41:46Speaker 4: drag my tails and everything. We're not gonna be gone
- 41:49Speaker 4: that long. We're just going to look for a couple
- 41:50Speaker 4: of shells. Yeah, And I remember we get over to
- 41:54Speaker 4: that side, and I remember seeing a couple of other tourists,
- 41:58Speaker 4: not very many it, I mean, it's February. It's not
- 42:04Speaker 4: necessarily peak season right now. And then I remember seeing
- 42:09Speaker 4: two other guys in uniforms, staff members in their uniforms
- 42:15Speaker 4: walking the beach. They weren't walking like side by side
- 42:19Speaker 4: that they kind of were walking, you know, just up
- 42:21Speaker 4: and down. And I didn't think of anything of it.
- 42:24Speaker 4: I mean, I thought I was normal that they would
- 42:26Speaker 4: be patrolling the beach. And the next thing I know,
- 42:30Speaker 4: I'm waking up to sternalm rubs in the security office.
- 42:34Speaker 4: I don't even remember the bathroom.
- 42:36Speaker 1: What do you mean by sternam rubs?
- 42:38Speaker 3: So, sternal rube is what we do to a patient
- 42:41Speaker 3: to kind of bring them to when a patient is fading.
- 42:44Speaker 3: So what you do is you make a fifth and
- 42:47Speaker 3: you use your knuckles, you place it in the middle
- 42:50Speaker 3: of the sternum and you rub as hard as you can.
- 42:54Speaker 3: And that's what they kept doing to Donela and I
- 42:57Speaker 3: to keep bringing us back because we kept fading away.
- 43:00Speaker 1: Were such bad shape. What are you are you, guys, nurses.
- 43:04Speaker 3: I'm in the medical field.
- 43:05Speaker 9: Donela is not.
- 43:06Speaker 1: I'm just trying to take in everything you're saying. So
- 43:10Speaker 1: don Gela, you come to, for lack of a better phrase,
- 43:15Speaker 1: you're lying in the floor. Are you still in your swimsuit?
- 43:18Speaker 4: Yes?
- 43:20Speaker 1: And how do you know you were raped?
- 43:25Speaker 4: I have a brief, very brief recollection of being pushed
- 43:33Speaker 4: down and then face for I'm sorry, face forward, and
- 43:41Speaker 4: remember a glimpse of his face. But he just had
- 43:45Speaker 4: this distinctive face.
- 43:47Speaker 3: He was he was.
- 43:48Speaker 4: An older gentleman, and he had like a goatee, and
- 43:51Speaker 4: it's I don't know how I remember this, but I
- 43:57Speaker 4: thank God each and every day I was able to
- 44:00Speaker 4: remember that.
- 44:03Speaker 1: So you saw his face.
- 44:05Speaker 4: I saw his face in daylight, in daylight, and you
- 44:10Speaker 4: were not.
- 44:10Speaker 1: Wearing glasses or any type of corrective contacts. No, how
- 44:16Speaker 1: close was he to you when.
- 44:18Speaker 4: You saw his face, maybe two foot.
- 44:21Speaker 1: Well see in front of you or behind you? Did
- 44:24Speaker 1: you have to turn to look at him?
- 44:27Speaker 4: I know that he was behind me at some point,
- 44:30Speaker 4: but when I saw his face, he was in front
- 44:32Speaker 4: of me.
- 44:33Speaker 1: In front of you, standing on top of you.
- 44:36Speaker 4: Yeah, like walk walking past me, like as we were
- 44:40Speaker 4: looking for shelves, and then like then I remember him
- 44:45Speaker 4: pushing me down. So I seen him in front of me,
- 44:48Speaker 4: but I by the time he pushed me down, like
- 44:50Speaker 4: I no longer could see him. And I don't. I
- 44:55Speaker 4: don't know any anything else, like I said, until we
- 44:58Speaker 4: get to the security office at pirates Co. I don't
- 45:02Speaker 4: have any recollection of Amber finding me. I don't have
- 45:06Speaker 4: any recollection of being in the bathroom. I don't recall that.
- 45:13Speaker 1: And that is exactly why rapists hues things like Ruth.
- 45:16Speaker 1: You think about Bill Cosby, Those women come over for
- 45:20Speaker 1: an interview or to get mentory, and they wake up
- 45:24Speaker 1: and their underwear on backwards, and they have no memory
- 45:26Speaker 1: of what happened. No memory. So let me ask you this,
- 45:32Speaker 1: Don Gila. Was your swimsuit in place or was it
- 45:36Speaker 1: out of place?
- 45:37Speaker 4: I don't know, but I do know Lodonna had told
- 45:41Speaker 4: me my swimsuit was extremely out of place. I was
- 45:45Speaker 4: the one that she was describing as completely exposed on
- 45:49Speaker 4: the bathroom floor when she walked in.
- 45:51Speaker 3: So this is Don Gayla's swimsuit was exposed.
- 45:54Speaker 1: What do you mean by that? Just tell me straight out.
- 45:58Speaker 3: So the bathing suit itself was a.
- 46:00Speaker 4: Cross pod, and my boobs were all out, but it had.
- 46:03Speaker 3: A crosstop, and her breasts were exposed because the cross
- 46:07Speaker 3: top had come off of her.
- 46:08Speaker 4: Breast and slid up, and I was spent.
- 46:11Speaker 3: Her breasts were literally hanging out, one hitting the floor,
- 46:14Speaker 3: and one just want.
- 46:17Speaker 1: What about the bottom part of the swimsuit.
- 46:20Speaker 3: Her vagina was exposed as well.
- 46:22Speaker 4: I do remember feeling the burning sensation inside of my
- 46:30Speaker 4: vagina when I woke up and knowing something terrible has
- 46:34Speaker 4: happened to me. And then I still seen in and
- 46:41Speaker 4: bodily slipped running down my leg And there's no denying,
- 46:48Speaker 4: there's no there's no.
- 46:50Speaker 3: Doubt in my mind.
- 46:50Speaker 4: I know exactly what had happened to me at that point.
- 46:56Speaker 1: Then what happened? What do you recall happening next?
- 47:00Speaker 4: I recall us going into a well being in the
- 47:05Speaker 4: security office, and I remember I kept coming in and
- 47:10Speaker 4: out of it, and Amber would come in and out
- 47:12Speaker 4: of it, kind of almost at different times. It's we
- 47:17Speaker 4: kind of just took turns going in and out of it.
- 47:19Speaker 4: But I remember the lady, one of the security members
- 47:23Speaker 4: at Powarto, pulled up security footage and she was able
- 47:29Speaker 4: to find the man that attacked Amber. And it just
- 47:35Speaker 4: so happens that I was able to give a good
- 47:37Speaker 4: enough description that my perpetrator just happened to walk to
- 47:43Speaker 4: go into the security office at the same time as
- 47:49Speaker 4: I was explaining him to her and Lea Donna actually
- 47:55Speaker 4: seeing him outside and she was like, that's him, that's him,
- 47:59Speaker 4: And so they brought on me and I was able
- 48:02Speaker 4: to identify his face in person, been in there and
- 48:06Speaker 4: say that for sure is him, that that was him.
- 48:09Speaker 3: Had seen this is Amber. Donna had seen the man
- 48:12Speaker 3: that had been following us all day long, the man
- 48:15Speaker 3: who had raped me. So she she immediately knew who
- 48:19Speaker 3: he was. And then with a description done gaela gaze,
- 48:21Speaker 3: they were able to see who he was to.
- 48:24Speaker 1: Was he also in a resort uniform?
- 48:26Speaker 3: Yes?
- 48:27Speaker 1: Did you later learn that they did in fact work there.
- 48:30Speaker 4: Yes, one Amber's rapedists had started one a week.
- 48:35Speaker 3: Less than she said that, the lizard said, and he's
- 48:39Speaker 3: been here less than a week. This is what gives
- 48:41Speaker 3: us Bohemians a bad name.
- 48:43Speaker 4: And then the other one. I don't know how long
- 48:47Speaker 4: that he has been there, but I know that he
- 48:49Speaker 4: works there for certain, because I have been in contact
- 48:54Speaker 4: or people will just kind of reach out to me
- 48:57Speaker 4: and let me know, especially from the reason that's seen
- 49:00Speaker 4: us in that situation, the lifeguard, and let me know
- 49:04Speaker 4: that he indeed was a staff member. He did in
- 49:07Speaker 4: deep work there and he had worked a zipline area,
- 49:10Speaker 4: which is nowhere near anywhere where we were.
- 49:14Speaker 1: He was there predating, as experts say, looking like hunting
- 49:20Speaker 1: for a victim, who said, Hey, this is what gives
- 49:24Speaker 1: us all a bad name. He hasn't even been here
- 49:26Speaker 1: a week. Who said that the lifeguard? Okay, Sadie Whitelocks,
- 49:32Speaker 1: first of all, let me just say to Amber and
- 49:34Speaker 1: Don Gala, I feel right now the same way I
- 49:38Speaker 1: did so many many times trying a rape case. I
- 49:43Speaker 1: hate putting the victim through the retelling and the reliving
- 49:49Speaker 1: because very often they then will have renewed nightmares or
- 49:53Speaker 1: daymyares or night terrors because of having to relive it.
- 49:59Speaker 1: But I want you to know I'm just we live
- 50:01Speaker 1: them often. I'm just so sick for you and so
- 50:05Speaker 1: sorry for what happened, because it's going to be with
- 50:10Speaker 1: you the rest of your life. To you, Sadie Whitelocks,
- 50:16Speaker 1: you had a brush with danger in the Bahamas. In
- 50:20Speaker 1: your capacity as a US travel editor for deal email
- 50:25Speaker 1: dot com. What is your reaction and your advice after
- 50:31Speaker 1: hearing Amber in Don Gala's story. And I believe what
- 50:36Speaker 1: they are saying completely because I have an impartial witness
- 50:41Speaker 1: telling me facts that corroborate everything they're saying, what happened
- 50:48Speaker 1: to you in the Bahamas, Sadi, Well.
- 50:51Speaker 3: It's something completely different.
- 50:52Speaker 9: But I think I just learned from a very young
- 50:55Speaker 9: age that basically I was on vacation with my family,
- 50:59Speaker 9: was around eleven years old, and we spent a good
- 51:02Speaker 9: few days on this stretch of beach and it seemed
- 51:05Speaker 9: really idyllic.
- 51:06Speaker 3: It was like paradise.
- 51:09Speaker 9: There was this guy who came along. We called him
- 51:11Speaker 9: Coconut Joe, and he had a machette and he'd like
- 51:13Speaker 9: served fresh coconuts.
- 51:14Speaker 3: On the beach and we felt safe.
- 51:18Speaker 9: I was with two children, similar age, and we went
- 51:22Speaker 9: off alone and our parents didn't worry, you know, we
- 51:24Speaker 9: were playing in the sea and things like that. We
- 51:27Speaker 9: got home back to the UK and on the news
- 51:31Speaker 9: the same week we were there and the exact location
- 51:35Speaker 9: two women had been murdered and their bodies were found,
- 51:39Speaker 9: and it was like the lady was saying, in the
- 51:42Speaker 9: Bahamas is kind of just stepped back from the beach.
- 51:45Speaker 9: There was a tree line and that's where right they
- 51:49Speaker 9: were found. But it was very unnerving as a child,
- 51:52Speaker 9: thinking that we've been in this apparently safe environment.
- 51:57Speaker 1: Well, you know, I just can't help but think about
- 52:01Speaker 1: to Sadie Scott, Nicholas Dungila and Amber about Natalie Holloway
- 52:09Speaker 1: because she was drugged by a local at carliston Charlie's
- 52:18Speaker 1: near the cruise ship. She was taken out on a
- 52:21Speaker 1: beach near the tree line where she was raped and killed.
- 52:28Speaker 1: And even in light of this horrible thing that has
- 52:32Speaker 1: happened to you, I got to tell you, I praise
- 52:36Speaker 1: God that you're alive.
- 52:38Speaker 3: Thank you so much.
- 52:40Speaker 1: How are you getting through your days now? Amber? How
- 52:45Speaker 1: has this? I know you're getting horrible, horrible hate mail
- 52:49Speaker 1: and nasty comments. I'm not quite sure why, but how
- 52:53Speaker 1: has this whole thing affected you and your family?
- 52:56Speaker 3: So my children and I temporarily moved in with Don
- 53:04Speaker 3: Gala because Don Gela and I don't feel safe unless
- 53:07Speaker 3: sort together and where I'm not married, it's easier for
- 53:11Speaker 3: me to pick up and move and we can just
- 53:13Speaker 3: transport my kids. Even one of us are able to work.
- 53:18Speaker 3: It's just too stressful, it's too much. We feel overwhelmed.
- 53:22Speaker 3: We can't be around people. We have panic attacks and
- 53:24Speaker 3: we're going to Walmart anything day to day, like we
- 53:29Speaker 3: can't go get groceries. We can't. Little noises fear us.
- 53:33Speaker 3: Anytime we close our eyes we see a rapists.
- 53:36Speaker 1: Scott A. Johnson joining me out of Minnesota, renowned forensic
- 53:41Speaker 1: psychologist at Forensic Consultation dot Org. Scott, when victims go
- 53:48Speaker 1: through traumatic episodes when they are attacked, when they witness
- 53:56Speaker 1: a murder, when I can't really explain, they continue to
- 54:03Speaker 1: have nightmares, night terrors, flashbacks. I believe for the rest
- 54:10Speaker 1: of their lives. A crime like this can completely change
- 54:17Speaker 1: the course of your life. And I'm speaking from personal experience.
- 54:22Speaker 1: I've had many, many people I knew in my youth
- 54:27Speaker 1: tell me they don't know each other, that my personality
- 54:32Speaker 1: completely changed after my fiance's murder. I don't know that
- 54:39Speaker 1: they know it. I mean, it affects you the rest
- 54:43Speaker 1: of your life.
- 54:43Speaker 8: Scott, Yes, absolutely, because again the brain doesn't forget traumatic events.
- 54:49Speaker 8: But as you talk about it, as you experience, you
- 54:53Speaker 8: can hopefully come to a point where the impact is
- 54:56Speaker 8: lessened over time. But it does not go away, and
- 54:59Speaker 8: they will allow always be that bad day, even when
- 55:02Speaker 8: things seem to be going good. But the biggest and
- 55:05Speaker 8: most important part to focus on is talking about it.
- 55:09Speaker 8: When it's occurring, so you're not keeping it in your
- 55:12Speaker 8: head and isolating yourself.
- 55:15Speaker 1: You know. I noticed that Amber and don Giella say
- 55:17Speaker 1: they quote don't know why, but they have to be together.
- 55:22Speaker 1: They don't feel safe. That is actually very common amongst
- 55:27Speaker 1: ripe victims.
- 55:28Speaker 10: Absolutely, explained, Absolutely, And it's because of the number one
- 55:33Speaker 10: people that have gone through same, similar experiences have a
- 55:36Speaker 10: connection that others don't.
- 55:38Speaker 8: And secondly, it's just simply who does that particular person
- 55:42Speaker 8: feel the most safe with. And so in this case,
- 55:46Speaker 8: both of them have been through same similar and experience obviously,
- 55:51Speaker 8: and both trust each other and feel safe with each other.
- 55:55Speaker 8: Plus they know each other understands. They don't have to
- 55:59Speaker 8: explain to each other what the hell happened or what
- 56:02Speaker 8: they're going through. When they have a day mayre or nightmare.
- 56:06Speaker 8: They can simply talk to each other, but they get
- 56:08Speaker 8: it because they both likely experienced similar things, so it
- 56:13Speaker 8: feels safer to be together.
- 56:15Speaker 1: Amber. A question in the Bahamas, was a rape kit
- 56:19Speaker 1: performed on you or donk Yella?
- 56:23Speaker 3: A rape kit was not performed on us until we
- 56:26Speaker 3: were on the Carnival cruise ship.
- 56:28Speaker 1: How many hours later was that?
- 56:31Speaker 3: That was at about two o'clock. And I remember LaDonna
- 56:36Speaker 3: having to get on she kip saying she had to
- 56:38Speaker 3: leave at eleven forty five to get on her bus.
- 56:41Speaker 3: See it back to the Elation. So our rapes. I
- 56:47Speaker 3: don't know the exact timeline when our rape happened, but
- 56:50Speaker 3: somewhere between nine thirty and ten, so that to two o'clock.
- 56:55Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so sperm would still exist at that time.
- 56:58Speaker 1: It is arning to break down.
- 57:01Speaker 3: But the Bohemians made us your innate, right what they
- 57:05Speaker 3: made us your innate and collect toilet tissue and they
- 57:08Speaker 3: said that would provide evidence, and that would be enough
- 57:12Speaker 3: evidence for a rape test. And I was like, that's
- 57:15Speaker 3: not that's not true.
- 57:17Speaker 1: Did do you get a rape kit on the ship.
- 57:19Speaker 3: We got a rape kit on the ship, But they
- 57:21Speaker 3: kept telling me that toilet tissue would suffice, that that
- 57:24Speaker 3: seaman would suffice to identify our rapist. And I said, no,
- 57:28Speaker 3: that's not enough. We still need the rape kits. And
- 57:31Speaker 3: Loadonna will testify that I had asked for a US
- 57:35Speaker 3: physician a crew position, I'd ask for rape kit toilet paper.
- 57:39Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 57:39Speaker 1: I mean, when you go abroad, you are a lull
- 57:42Speaker 1: into a false sense of complacency. You're on vacation, you're
- 57:46Speaker 1: having a good time. Your defenses are down. Can you
- 57:50Speaker 1: hear me? They told these ladies are just te te
- 57:53Speaker 1: and the toilet paper will be fine. That's a rape kit?
- 57:57Speaker 1: What I mean? It's almost as if they're actively engaged
- 58:03Speaker 1: in the cover up. But ladies, what is your message
- 58:08Speaker 1: to women listening today?
- 58:12Speaker 3: Don Gala likes to tell people that two is not enough.
- 58:15Speaker 3: Two is not safe. You need to travel in pairs
- 58:18Speaker 3: of four or more. We both encourage people to drink
- 58:24Speaker 3: drinks if they want to on vacation, but make sure
- 58:27Speaker 3: their drinks are sealed. You cannot always trust staff members.
- 58:33Speaker 3: You must be vigilant. You must be your own advocate
- 58:37Speaker 3: and speak up, speak out if something doesn't feel right.
- 58:41Speaker 1: Amber, what is your response to all of those trolls
- 58:46Speaker 1: sending you these hateful messages after what you and Dong
- 58:50Speaker 1: Guiella have already survived.
- 58:53Speaker 3: It's funny you say that, because just yesterday Don Gala
- 58:58Speaker 3: and I went and we felt we didn't feel ourselves
- 59:02Speaker 3: after our rapes, and we both cut about seven inches
- 59:08Speaker 3: or more off of our hair, and we both posted pictures.
- 59:15Speaker 3: And these trolls are even sharing our pictures somehow on Facebook.
- 59:21Speaker 3: But you know with my message, I said, I'm trying
- 59:25Speaker 3: to live day by day, smile by smile, And that
- 59:28Speaker 3: is so true because it's these small victories that I get.
- 59:33Speaker 3: The smallest victories are the biggest victories for us, because
- 59:36Speaker 3: it's everything is hard, everything is complicated, actory like what
- 59:42Speaker 3: we were talking earlier about, you know, being haard for
- 59:45Speaker 3: family members when you come back. Do you know how
- 59:48Speaker 3: hard it was when we came back and our children
- 59:52Speaker 3: tried to jump on us or touch us, and we flinched.
- 59:56Speaker 3: Those are our children, our children, and we.
- 1:00:01Speaker 11: Push them away.
- 1:00:04Speaker 3: We was in way because automatically in our minds we
- 1:00:08Speaker 3: are backing that.
- 1:00:08Speaker 9: Place and we know that we love our children.
- 1:00:12Speaker 5: We know that.
- 1:00:14Speaker 4: There are babies.
- 1:00:15Speaker 11: But in those moments, it is herebytus for all of
- 1:00:23Speaker 11: you listening and watching.
- 1:00:26Speaker 1: If you know or think you know anything about the
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: identities or the circumstances surrounding the rapes of these two
- 1:00:39Speaker 1: American ladies, please call toll free one eight hundred two
- 1:00:46Speaker 1: two five five three two four. It is the Elatian
- 1:00:52Speaker 1: cruise ship with Carnival Cruise Lines eight hundred two two
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: five two four. I'm not sending you a Carnival Cruise
- 1:01:04Speaker 1: Line tip number. I'm sending you the FBI tip number
- 1:01:08Speaker 1: if you remember anything from that day at Pirate's Cove.
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: The date of the offense was February four, twenty twenty four.
- 1:01:21Speaker 1: Were you at Pirate's Cove? Eight hundred two two five
- 1:01:28Speaker 1: five three two four And to Amber and do Gela,
- 1:01:36Speaker 1: you are a beacon. You are a light to other
- 1:01:41Speaker 1: women that have been raped and are too afraid or
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: embarrassed to speak out. Our prayers for you continue and
- 1:01:56Speaker 1: now we want justice. Thank you so much, Yes, Ann, Goodbye,