Latest / Bible Chat Devotional / May 30 - Strength in Patience
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- 0:02Welcome to Bible Chat, where we have devotional conversations
- 0:06rooted in Scripture and relevant for today.
- 0:10May 30th Strength in patience. Here's a question that might
- 0:14surprise you. What does it actually take to be
- 0:16strong? Because we usually think of
- 0:19strength in terms of power being the loudest, the most dominant,
- 0:23the one who wins the argument or gets their way.
- 0:26Culture rewards that kind of strength.
- 0:29It looks impressive, but Proverbs chapter 16, verse 32
- 0:34completely redefines the whole concept.
- 0:37Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty.
- 0:40And he who rules a spirit than he who takes a city, ruling your
- 0:44own spirit, that is harder and greater than military conquest.
- 0:49The person who can stay calm when they're being provoked, who
- 0:53can hold their tongue when everything in them wants to
- 0:55react, who can choose patience when frustration is boiling.
- 1:00That person possesses a strength that is genuinely rare and
- 1:03genuinely powerful, and God calls that better than being
- 1:07mighty. Think about that.
- 1:10Verse 31 frames this in terms of a life well lived.
- 1:13Gray hair is a crown of glory. It is gained in a righteous
- 1:17life, a long life shaped by consistent righteousness.
- 1:21By choosing well repeatedly over time produces something you
- 1:25can't fake or rush. It's the kind of character that
- 1:29only comes from 1000. Small decisions made faithfully,
- 1:32not flashy, not viral worthy, but real, lasting, and
- 1:37honorable. Ephesians chapter 5 verse 8 then
- 1:41gives us our identity as the foundation for all of this.
- 1:44For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord.
- 1:49Walk as children of light. You are not who you used to be.
- 1:53Whatever was there before, the patterns, the habits, the ways
- 1:56of responding that came from a place of fear or self
- 1:59protection, that is not your identity anymore.
- 2:02You are light, and light doesn't blend into the darkness around
- 2:06it. It shows up differently.
- 2:08It changes the room. Verses 11 and 12 make the
- 2:13practical implication clear. Take no part in the unfruitful
- 2:16works of darkness, but instead expose them, for it is shameful
- 2:21even to speak of the things that they do in secret.
- 2:24The call isn't to be judgmental or self-righteous, it's simply
- 2:28to not participate when the group chat starts circulating
- 2:32something harmful. When the pressure is on to go
- 2:34along with something you know is wrong, when it would be easy and
- 2:39socially safe to just stay quiet and blend in.
- 2:41Being light means you don't. Not with a big speech
- 2:45necessarily, but with the quiet, consistent choice to not give
- 2:49your participation to what tears people down or dishonors God.
- 2:53That takes patience. It takes self-control.
- 2:57It takes being willing to stand slightly apart from the crowd
- 3:00sometimes without making a big deal of it.
- 3:03And here's what nobody tells you about that.
- 3:05It's actually freeing when you stop chasing the approval of the
- 3:09loudest voices in the room and start living from a place of
- 3:13genuine conviction. There's a settled Ness that
- 3:15comes with it, a piece that doesn't depend on whether
- 3:19everyone is clapping for you. Patience and self-control aren't
- 3:23weakness. They're the daily practice of
- 3:25the strongest kind of character there is, and they're being
- 3:29built in you right now, one small faithful choice at a time.
- 3:33Let's pray. Heavenly Father, thank you for
- 3:35redefining strength in a way that is actually attainable and
- 3:38actually real. Help me to be slow to anger and
- 3:42quick to choose patience, not because I'm suppressing myself,
- 3:46but because I am genuinely submitted to you.
- 3:49Where I've been walking in darkness or going along with
- 3:52things I know are wrong. Redirect me.
- 3:55I want to walk as a child of light.
- 3:57Consistently, humbly and honestly.
- 4:00Shape my character in the quiet moments that nobody sees, and
- 4:03let that shape everything else in Jesus name, Amen.
- 4:08What if the battles hitting your family are not random and your
- 4:11home can become a place where darkness loses every right to
- 4:14stay? The Secured Home is a powerful
- 4:17six book prayer series for believers who want to guard
- 4:19their households with biblical authority, peace and confidence
- 4:23in Jesus Christ. Book 1.
- 4:25Guarded Thresholds fortifies every doorway, room, and entry
- 4:29point with prayerful protection. Book 2, Cleansed Rooms, helps
- 4:34reclaim spaces marked by fear, unrest, and spiritual
- 4:38defilement. Book 3, Closed Breaches, exposes
- 4:42hidden access points and severs every agreement with darkness.
- 4:46Book 4, Broken Assignments, confronts oppression, torment,
- 4:51and attacks against your family. Book 5, Consecrated Walls,
- 4:56dedicates every space and rhythm of the home to God.
- 4:59Book 6, Abiding Peace, shows how to maintain spiritual order,
- 5:03rest, and holy presence every day.
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- 5:11Now I invite you to spend time with God in today's three-year
- 5:14Bible reading plan. Proverbs Chapter 16, verses 31
- 5:19to 32 World English Bible Gray hair is a crown of glory.
- 5:25It is attained by a life of righteousness.
- 5:28One who is slow to anger is better than the mighty one who
- 5:31rules his spirit than he who takes a city.
- 5:34Ephesians chapter 5 World English Bible Be there for
- 5:38imitators of God, as beloved children walk in love, even as
- 5:43Christ also loved us and gave himself up for us.
- 5:46An offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet smelling
- 5:49fragrance. But sexual immorality and all
- 5:52uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among
- 5:56you as become Saints, nor filthiness, nor foolish talking,
- 6:00nor jesting, which are not appropriate, but rather giving
- 6:04of thanks. Know this for sure, that no
- 6:08sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man
- 6:12who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of
- 6:15Christ and God. Let no one deceive you with
- 6:19empty words. For because of these things the
- 6:22wrath of God comes on the children of disobedience.
- 6:25Therefore don't be partakers with them, for you were once
- 6:29darkness, but are now light in the Lord.
- 6:32Walk as children of light, for the fruit of the Spirit is in
- 6:35all goodness and righteousness and truth, proving what is well
- 6:38pleasing to the Lord. Have no fellowship with the
- 6:42unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them.
- 6:46For it is a shame even to speak of the things which are done by
- 6:49them in secret. But all things when they are
- 6:52reproved, are revealed by the light, for everything that
- 6:55reveals is light. Therefore he says, Awake you who
- 7:00sleep and arise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.
- 7:03Therefore watch carefully how you walk, not as unwise but as
- 7:06wise, redeeming the time, because the days are evil.
- 7:11Therefore don't be foolish, but understand what the will of the
- 7:15Lord is. Don't be drunken with wine, in
- 7:18which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit, speaking
- 7:21to one another in psalms, hymns and spiritual songs, singing and
- 7:26making melody in your heart to the Lord, giving thanks always
- 7:30concerning all things in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ to
- 7:34God, even the Father, subjecting yourselves to one another in the
- 7:38fear of Christ. Wives, be subject to your own
- 7:41husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of
- 7:45the wife, as Christ also is the head of the assembly, being
- 7:49Himself the Savior of the Body. But as the assembly is subject
- 7:53to Christ, so let the wives also be to their own husbands in
- 7:57everything. Husbands, love your wives, even
- 8:00as Christ also loved the assembly and gave Himself up for
- 8:04it, that He might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the
- 8:07washing of water, with the Word, that He might present the
- 8:11assembly to Himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or
- 8:15any such thing, but that it should be holy and without
- 8:18defect. Even so, husbands also ought to
- 8:21love their own wives as their own bodies.
- 8:24He who loves his own wife loves himself.
- 8:27For no man ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and
- 8:31cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly, because
- 8:35we are members of His body, of His flesh and bones.
- 8:39For this cause a man will leave his father and mother and will
- 8:42be joined to his wife. The 2 will become one flesh.
- 8:46This mystery is great, but I speak concerning Christ and of
- 8:49the assembly. Nevertheless, each of you must
- 8:53also love his own wife even as himself, and let the wife see
- 8:57that she respects her husband. Thanks for joining us on Bible
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