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Why Successful Women Struggle To Find Love But Broke Chicks Win · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: Yo, hey, Google. Hey, Google. Stop music, please. Hi.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not saying please to Google.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to be killed by no AI.
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  Speaker 1: Wouldn't they go back? This nigga was always polite. This
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  Speaker 1: nigga was nice to me. He was always nice.
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  Speaker 3: Skip him.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, that's great.
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  Speaker 3: The fear of the Google Terminator is insane.
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  Speaker 1: Yo.
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  Speaker 4: It's getting realer every day.
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  Speaker 1: Have you not seen what's going on out there? Every
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  Speaker 1: week they're coming out like, yo, this shit about to
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  Speaker 1: kill us.
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  Speaker 4: They starting to blackmail people in a test.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: The developers came out and said it.
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  Speaker 5: That's insane.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I find this fun. Yo, for one, welcome
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  Speaker 2: back to So Shameless.
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  Speaker 1: I'm excited.
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  Speaker 2: I got some of my favorite people in the building today.
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  Speaker 1: Right? My cousin here. Yes, sir. My long, long, long friend,
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  Speaker 1: time friend, Chris.
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  Speaker 5: With a Y.
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  Speaker 1: And Marcus.
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  Speaker 5: Man, I'm happy to be back.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 3: Oop.
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  Speaker 1: Because the last time you came, I didn't know who
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  Speaker 1: you were. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: My producer put you in here.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay, okay.
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  Speaker 2: And then I followed.
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  Speaker 1: You know what happens when you follow people on Instagram? What?
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  Speaker 2: When they're under your posts, you see them. Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 1: Yesterday. Do you know what I'm talking about right now?
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  Speaker 1: I know exactly what you mean.
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  Speaker 2: This nigga is interesting.
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  Speaker 1: For sure.
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  Speaker 2: Did you follow us before we followed you?
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  Speaker 3: When she hit me, I started following you.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: So let's play the video tape, right?
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  Speaker 1: I've never seen nothing like this. The woman is texting
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  Speaker 1: her guy. She's texting her sneaky link, right? Her husband's
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  Speaker 1: at home.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, yo, stop playing with me. I'll come jump
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  Speaker 1: on that right now. To a sneaky link. To a
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  Speaker 1: sneaky link. Sneaky like, yo, pull up. It's whatever. She's like,
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  Speaker 1: all right, I'm about to send you a cash app
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  Speaker 1: right now. $ 75. He's like, what's this for? She sent
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  Speaker 1: him a list of groceries.
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  Speaker 2: She said, I want you to go pick up these
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  Speaker 2: groceries because I'm going to go tell my husband I'm
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  Speaker 2: going grocery shopping.
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  Speaker 1: So when I come to your crib, I already got
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  Speaker 1: the groceries.
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  Speaker 2: We got the 30 to 40 minutes it would have
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  Speaker 2: took me to pick up the.
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  Speaker 1: Groceries to knock this fucking... Oh. You know. Yo, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Fair women. Yo.
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  Speaker 6: Son.
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  Speaker 3: That was so intelligent.
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  Speaker 1: It was intelligent. It was extremely intelligent. Professional move.
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  Speaker 2: Very professional move. Marcus, had you heard that story before?
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  Speaker 5: Yo, they stole it from me. Yo, you know it's funny.
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  Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no.
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  Speaker 2: I go and look at my comments. So, you know,
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  Speaker 2: I have this pin to my page. It got maybe
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  Speaker 2: a million views or some shit like that. So, I go,
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  Speaker 2: you know, when you're just scrolling through your shit, you're just,
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  Speaker 2: you know, loving the attention that your page is getting.
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  Speaker 1: You're like, oh, this is great. It's got a million followers.
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  Speaker 1: I move different. Anybody know who that is? I know
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  Speaker 1: who that is. Marcus, do you know who that is?
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  Speaker 5: I do know who that is. I'm very familiar with
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  Speaker 5: that guy.
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  Speaker 1: Under my post, I move different says... Y'all always capping.
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  Speaker 2: So everyone, capital everyone, got this same story, huh? Capital S-M-H,
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  Speaker 2: I said this. I. My jokes, and to other people
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  Speaker 2: in a capital bunch of people ran with it.
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  Speaker 1: Man, go sit down. Pinocchio knows. Oh, shit. Facts. Facts.
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  Speaker 1: That's how you was moving?
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  Speaker 3: I realize a lot of people take things from me,
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  Speaker 3: but because I'm not as famous, quote unquote.
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  Speaker 1: Popular.
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  Speaker 5: Popular. Okay, let's say popular. They use it to their.
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  Speaker 3: Advantage of how they want to use it. And you're
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  Speaker 3: not built like that. It'd be like, oh, come on, man.
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  Speaker 3: But that's how they do a lot of things and
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  Speaker 3: a lot of people.
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  Speaker 1: So they just hilarious-ed you. Basically. You see how I
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  Speaker 1: just do it?
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  Speaker 5: I know that young lady she stole it from.
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  Speaker 2: I put you on my platform. I put it on
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  Speaker 2: my platform and then I bring you on.
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  Speaker 1: Come on.
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  Speaker 3: Little nigga.
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  Speaker 5: Tell everybody my husband.
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  Speaker 2: Marcus, actually, Chris, happens to be one of my favorite
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  Speaker 2: people on the internet. This is no glaze. This is
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  Speaker 2: no just boosting it up because he's on the show today.
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  Speaker 2: I really enjoy your takes.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. It's very rare. Because men are so
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  Speaker 1: scared to be themselves.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Everything has to be like, I'll.
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  Speaker 1: Knock that nigga.
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  Speaker 3: I'll kill that nigga.
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  Speaker 1: What, nigga? Testosterone. Everything is what another nigga thinks is cool. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Marcus don't give a fuck about nothing. My nigga on
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  Speaker 2: there making jokes. He is hilarious. Please follow I Move Different.
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  Speaker 1: Facts. I appreciate you. Yes, you do.
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  Speaker 5: Because his takes, he's like, you know, he does the
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  Speaker 5: talking head.
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  Speaker 1: Over the videos. That's my favorite. Yeah. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: And, yo, I really love your takes, man, for real.
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  Speaker 2: I appreciate that. I've been asking you to pull up,
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  Speaker 2: but you got a job. I didn't know you had
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  Speaker 2: a job. You had a Lamborghini last time you was here.
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  Speaker 2: I didn't know niggas with Lamborghinis went to work after that.
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  Speaker 1: Wake it up.
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  Speaker 4: It's like a hobby.
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  Speaker 3: I got a, you know, everybody got to have a
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  Speaker 3: hustle and something else and something else and something else.
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  Speaker 1: So, yeah. No, a hustle is something that you do
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  Speaker 1: because you want to. That means you can leave.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: So when I be like, yo, you can come, you
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  Speaker 1: be like, I can't.
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  Speaker 3: Yo, but you know what you do? Yo, they been
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  Speaker 3: hitting me the day off. Like, yo, can you pull up?
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, no, I can't pull up because I'm outside already.
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  Speaker 1: Producer, what did the producer say yesterday?
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  Speaker 6: Cap.
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  Speaker 1: What did the producer say? Cap.
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  Speaker 3: Cap.
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  Speaker 1: Got him.
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  Speaker 5: That's a fact.
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  Speaker 1: Got him. That's a fact.
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  Speaker 5: That's a fun fact. And you know what it is?
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  Speaker 3: The last time I was supposed to pull up on schedule,
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  Speaker 3: that's my fault. Because I thought I could be in
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  Speaker 3: and out and et cetera, et cetera.
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  Speaker 1: Because you was at work.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I was at work. So it threw me off.
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  Speaker 3: So that was my fault. That's how you keep the Lambo.
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  Speaker 3: That's how you keep the Lambo. That's one thing to get.
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  Speaker 3: But then I just... He don't like going past a
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  Speaker 3: certain time. So let's talk about that.
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  Speaker 1: I'm old, bro.
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  Speaker 5: I say, yo, can you push it back an hour?
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  Speaker 5: They said no.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. Absolutely not. I'm like, an hour? He wanted
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  Speaker 1: to push it to, what you said, 830? No.
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  Speaker 2: That's a baloney phony. I'm asking, what time was it?
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  Speaker 5: It was 630.
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  Speaker 1: Baloney. Baloney phony. Yo, this nigga's a movie. 630.
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  Speaker 4: He's a movie.
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  Speaker 1: I said, I'll get there at 630.
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  Speaker 6: All right.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I said. Welcome back to, look, 7 and 7.30. 7.30,
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  Speaker 1: the producer said. And she loves screenshots. She loves screenshots.
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  Speaker 3: Because I have it on my phone as well.
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  Speaker 1: Welcome back to So Shameless, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Yo, I go on TikTok. You know they have me
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  Speaker 1: doing TikTok now. Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Lives. Like, they had me set up the whole camera system,
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  Speaker 2: and I'm in there. And, nigga, we had over 100
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  Speaker 2: people in there. On my second TikTok, the Discord is like, yeah,
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  Speaker 2: we're going to show up. So we're having a great time.
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  Speaker 2: Shout out to the No Shame gang that is keeping
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  Speaker 2: 10th year doing this podcast.
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  Speaker 1: That's super.
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  Speaker 4: Congratulations.
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  Speaker 1: Fire. 10th year doing this podcast.
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  Speaker 2: And we have our live show, our one last pod
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  Speaker 2: with Dodger Bell coming soon.
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  Speaker 1: November 27th. Yes, sir. There will be a homie court.
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  Speaker 2: There will be a question and answer segment for me, Dodge, yesterday, Trom,
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  Speaker 2: and our co-hosts. You know, we have other co-hosts now.
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  Speaker 2: We have Chris. We have Lola. We have Tasia. Try
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  Speaker 2: to get this nigga on the show.
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  Speaker 1: You'll get me on the show. Look.
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  Speaker 4: But you got to let him know early in the day.
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  Speaker 1: You'll get me on the show. Yo, for now on,
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  Speaker 1: let me tell you something.
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  Speaker 3: For now on, I'll lock out all the days that
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  Speaker 3: you leave me on here.
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  Speaker 1: I'll lock them out.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that we have a panel of amazing
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  Speaker 2: talent that help us look at things from different... Yo,
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  Speaker 2: you smoked through that episode. I don't even like it.
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  Speaker 4: Oh man, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 2: Nigga, you way too intelligent and like... What is it?
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  Speaker 2: He was scratching his head, bro. He was sweating next
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  Speaker 2: to her. I hope you got some of that eloquence
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  Speaker 2: and funniness you got today.
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  Speaker 1: It's me. That's you? That's his name.
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  Speaker 4: That's your name?
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  Speaker 1: Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas. All right, let's do this.
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  Speaker 2: November 27th, we will all be on stage at different
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  Speaker 2: periods of the night for the So Shameless live show.
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  Speaker 2: It is Black Friday. You will have been in town.
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  Speaker 5: That's where we at.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: All right, Merry Christmas.
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  Speaker 1: We lit. Black Friday. It's Thanksgiving. It doesn't matter.
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  Speaker 5: It's Merry Christmas every day for me.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 2: It's Saturdays the next day. Sunday's the day after that.
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  Speaker 2: You can come out and drink and celebrate so shameless.
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  Speaker 2: 10 years potting out here with the best, the Reed,
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  Speaker 2: the Friend Zone, horrible.
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  Speaker 1: We've been here the whole goddamn time. What'd you say, bro?
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  Speaker 5: I'll probably do like a little 15, 20 minute set
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  Speaker 5: up there.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Comedy.
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  Speaker 1: You got comedy?
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  Speaker 5: You know I'm a comedian first.
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  Speaker 1: I do know. I just thought you was an immigrant.
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  Speaker 1: But you could do it on stage?
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  Speaker 2: The stand-up?
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  Speaker 1: You get busy.
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  Speaker 3: I'm a beast.
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  Speaker 1: I love that. I believe it.
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  Speaker 5: I'm a beast.
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  Speaker 1: I believe it.
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  Speaker 5: Stand-up wise?
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  Speaker 1: Let's set that up. All right? That's a fact. Opening.
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  Speaker 3: All right?
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  Speaker 1: Shamelessly.
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  Speaker 5: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: Kelly G hosting. I move different. Marcus.
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  Speaker 1: Marcus. Marcus. I know he's so tired of hearing that.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 3: But it's a classic.
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  Speaker 5: It's classic. It's classic. Girls be like, oh, I think my...
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  Speaker 5: husband's like, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Ugly ones, I'll be like, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: Good looking ones, I'll be like, yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Marcus actually is a professional side dude.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, okay. He actually wrote a book, How to Be
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  Speaker 1: a Professional Side Dude.
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  Speaker 4: I love that because I think there's a professional way
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  Speaker 4: to do it.
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
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  Speaker 5: Come on, somebody.
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  Speaker 1: What are some of the tips that you would have
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  Speaker 1: for people to be.
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  Speaker 4: A professional sidekick? I need to read the book and
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  Speaker 4: highlight some things. I want to give advice.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to walk the walk.
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  Speaker 2: Without giving us the whole book, what do you think?
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  Speaker 2: Some of the tips in being a professional sidekick?
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  Speaker 1: Just be chill. Don't catch no feelings.
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  Speaker 3: Definitely. You understand your position, period. You understand who and
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  Speaker 3: what you are. You can't really get too emotionally involved
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  Speaker 3: to where it alters your decision making. and would bring
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  Speaker 3: any type of turmoil to her life.
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  Speaker 5: You know what I mean? Your job, first off, is
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  Speaker 5: to be her peace. I'll give you that. That's part
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  Speaker 5: of the book. That's number one.
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  Speaker 1: Be her peace. Be her peace.
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  Speaker 2: So you can't be like tight, they didn't hit you back.
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  Speaker 5: You got to be her peace. And that means whatever
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  Speaker 5: that is.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a Pisces.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think I'd be a good side dude. Because
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  Speaker 2: the minute you don't answer, I'm going to be like,
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  Speaker 2: you could have texted.
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  Speaker 1: That's why he's saying. You could have texted. He wasn't
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  Speaker 1: that busy. I got an attitude. Now you call, I'm like, uh-huh.
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  Speaker 1: So do you date seriously or are you just side-piecing?
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  Speaker 1: I do.
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  Speaker 3: Last time I was here, I was in a relationship.
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  Speaker 5: I'm no longer in that relationship.
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  Speaker 1: Damn.
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  Speaker 5: I was serious.
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  Speaker 1: Sorry to hear that.
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  Speaker 5: But no, she messed up.
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  Speaker 1: Well, of course you're going to say that.
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  Speaker 3: No, no, no.
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  Speaker 5: It's real.
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  Speaker 3: You could turn... My default, I had this conversation with her.
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  Speaker 3: My default, because she knew my life. I was honest
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  Speaker 3: about who and how I was prior to, like, when
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  Speaker 3: I'm not in a relationship. A lot of times your
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  Speaker 3: honesty could, like, kick you in the throat. But if
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  Speaker 3: I can't be honest with who I'm with, what's the
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  Speaker 3: point of being with them?
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  Speaker 5: You understand what I'm saying? Like, I don't want to
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  Speaker 5: live a lie.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
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  Speaker 5: I don't want to do that.
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  Speaker 1: For sure. So, she.
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  Speaker 3: my default is to be a good dude.
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  Speaker 5: I used to be married.
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  Speaker 3: So, you know, and it goes, I guess it goes
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  Speaker 3: to your history too. Cause like prior to me, I
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  Speaker 3: was fat my whole life for the most part, et cetera,
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  Speaker 3: et cetera. So I guess it goes to your history.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't always a quote unquote player.
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  Speaker 1: Do we have tissue? I'm telling you what it is.
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  Speaker 1: It's about the violence. I feel it. He was fat,
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  Speaker 1: broken up with, what does she cheat? She cheat?
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  Speaker 5: No, she ain't cheat, but she does what a lot
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  Speaker 5: of women do. And she, um, Lies.
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  Speaker 3: It did involve another dude, but it wasn't to the
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  Speaker 3: extent of cheating.
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  Speaker 5: But it depends on what you consider cheating.
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  Speaker 1: And you stood on business.
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  Speaker 5: Absolutely. And I gave the opportunity.
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  Speaker 1: How long we had to give her?
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  Speaker 5: About a year, some change. And I tell everybody this.
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  Speaker 1: This is my advice.
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  Speaker 5: I do relationship coaching too, FYI.
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  Speaker 3: I got a certification and all that. My advice is
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  Speaker 3: put a mental limit on what you're going to allow
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  Speaker 3: and where the person needs to be in order for
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  Speaker 3: you to keep going or cut it off. Too many
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  Speaker 3: people in the situation now, years down the line.
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  Speaker 2: You've been past your point.
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  Speaker 3: It needs to be six months to a year. It
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  Speaker 3: don't take somebody that long to get it. You either
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  Speaker 3: slow or you don't care.
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  Speaker 1: Or you don't have no boundaries. Or you're comfortable.
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  Speaker 3: They don't care about you.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm talking about the other person.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 5: That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: They don't care about you or they're not getting it.
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  Speaker 1: Either way.
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  Speaker 3: That's growth that you need to work on. It ain't
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  Speaker 3: got nothing to do with me, and I got to
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  Speaker 3: disassociate myself from you.
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  Speaker 5: And that's how that works.
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  Speaker 1: You're a person that knows how to follow their own advice. Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You looked at it from afar. You said, okay.
• 13:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I know what it is. I've been there before.
• 13:44
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? I know what it is thoroughly.
• 13:46
  Speaker 3: And a lot of that comes with experience, too. That's
• 13:48
  Speaker 3: why I become professional. When you're professional, it's because you
• 13:50
  Speaker 3: got the experience.
• 13:51
  Speaker 2: Do you give grace to the fact that you kind
• 13:54
  Speaker 2: of have bad karma coming your way?
• 13:57
  Speaker 5: Why do we feel I have bad karma coming my way?
• 13:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, where'd that come from?
• 13:59
  Speaker 2: If you're a professional side dude, that means you're creating
• 14:03
  Speaker 2: bad comments somehow because you're not living in a.
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: Yo, and I'm not judging.
• 14:06
  Speaker 5: No, no, no, come in.
• 14:07
  Speaker 2: I'm potting right now. I don't give a fuck what
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: you do.
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: No, no, go do your thing.
• 14:10
  Speaker 2: Just stay away from my... I'm never.
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: Introducing you to my girl.
• 14:14
  Speaker 2: And she shouldn't be watching this right now.
• 14:16
  Speaker 4: No, no, no.
• 14:16
  Speaker 1: I trust my girl.
• 14:17
  Speaker 5: I trust my girl.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: But if you out.
• 14:20
  Speaker 2: There kind of playing the field in one way, where
• 14:22
  Speaker 2: you're sneaking around with somebody's wife behind their back for years.
• 14:27
  Speaker 1: When somebody do you a little dirty, you don't look
• 14:29
  Speaker 1: at that like, all right, you know what? I earned
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: that one.
• 14:33
  Speaker 5: No, because here's the thing.
• 14:35
  Speaker 3: First of all, I got cheated on before I was
• 14:37
  Speaker 3: doing all this side dude, professional side dude stuff.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Oh, so you was the victim. I feel like he
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: does it with integrity. He does it with integrity.
• 14:43
  Speaker 4: I feel like he does it with integrity.
• 14:44
  Speaker 1: How do you know? Like, well, he wrote a book
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: on it. That's integrity? And there's rules.
• 14:48
  Speaker 2: Imagine a nigga that knows it was him and he
• 14:51
  Speaker 2: wrote a book about how he.
• 14:52
  Speaker 4: Was cheating with his girl.
• 14:54
  Speaker 5: She's unfamiliar, but.
• 14:58
  Speaker 3: The woman that taught me how to be a professional
• 15:03
  Speaker 3: side dude, it's not nothing I came in on my player.
• 15:06
  Speaker 3: She lied to me at first and told me that
• 15:08
  Speaker 3: she was separated from her man, her husband. But I
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: ended up falling in love with her and it was
• 15:12
  Speaker 3: too late by the time. So it had been three
• 15:14
  Speaker 3: years of me messing with her and all that. So
• 15:16
  Speaker 3: we already spoke about that. But I'll give you a book.
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: I got a book in the car.
• 15:20
  Speaker 5: Rob Markman You know what, Whitefeet?
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: Can I interject real quick? Just to keep it going.
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: If you want to hear more from Marcus, follow him
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: and his story.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: Follow him. I move different on Instagram. Buy the book.
• 15:35
  Speaker 2: The information is in the book.
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: Follow him. DM him.
• 15:39
  Speaker 2: Maybe he'll start going live with y'all, teaching y'all about
• 15:42
  Speaker 2: y'all shit.
• 15:42
  Speaker 1: Because I don't see you be going live too much.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to start going live. And I want
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: to start in as far as somebody, they keep telling me,
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: so I'm gathering a bunch of people for a podcast
• 15:52
  Speaker 3: as far as the interviews.
• 15:53
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: And stuff like that. All right. Now, Chris, you keeping
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: up with all of this? I'm keeping up.
• 15:59
  Speaker 4: I'm here.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: All right. I'm ready to.
• 16:01
  Speaker 2: Wifey sent me one of them Facebook stories.
• 16:03
  Speaker 1: Okay. I don't know what it is.
• 16:05
  Speaker 6: Facebook?
• 16:05
  Speaker 1: It's one of them long Facebook stories. I was like,
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: you believe this shit?
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: There's some fucking Nigerian dude in Africa acting like he's
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: a her chick. But fuck it.
• 16:13
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: It's a good story.
• 16:14
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: By the way, I didn't finish.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: If you want to get tickets to the live show,
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: Go to citywinery.com. Citywinery.com. Make sure you click on NYC.
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: It's here in New York City. November 27th.
• 16:28
  Speaker 1: Search So Shameless.
• 16:31
  Speaker 2: The pod will come up. There are VIP tickets and
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: there are general tickets. They are selling. Shout out to
• 16:37
  Speaker 2: y'all for that, though, bro. Because me and the people
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: working on the show are working so hard to make
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: sure that you guys enjoy what we have coming up.
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: that seeing the tickets sell like that, that's fire.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Love. All right. Wifey sent
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: me this story. Are y'all ready? Yes, sir. To hear
• 16:57
  Speaker 1: this story.
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: I had to walk away from my boyfriend of six
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: months because he couldn't respect my boundaries when it came
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: to my home. Throughout our entire relationship, I never allowed
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: him to come to my house. He didn't even know
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: my address. I explained to him that my home is
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: where I live with my children, and until I'm engaged,
• 17:19
  Speaker 2: I don't feel comfortable allowing a man into that space.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Another reason is because some men get the wrong idea
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: when you invite them into your home and automatically assume
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: you're going to be intimate with them. We haven't been intimate,
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: and I don't want him thinking that coming to my
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: house means I'm ready to take that step with him. Well,
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: he started accusing me of being secretive and even questioned
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: whether I was living with another man. That made me
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: even more uncomfortable because why are you so pressed to
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: come to my house? He told me, Sean Lavelle.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That name is Sean Lavelle.
• 17:56
  Speaker 6: What?
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: Sean Lavelle. Sean? Sean Lavelle James.
• 18:01
  Speaker 6: Oh.
• 18:01
  Speaker 2: You come to my house all the time and you
• 18:04
  Speaker 2: even spend the night here, but I can't even know
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: where you live.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: I explained my reasoning again.
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: But he told me he couldn't continue being with a
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: woman who didn't trust him. He said he's never given
• 18:15
  Speaker 2: me a reason to believe he would harm me, disrespect me,
• 18:18
  Speaker 2: or put my children in danger, and he refuses to
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: continue being treated like he's some type of threat. He
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: said after six months, he should at least know where
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: his girlfriend lives, especially when I've been welcomed into his
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: home from the beginning. I told him that I understand
• 18:33
  Speaker 2: how he feels, but I'm not changing my boundaries to
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: make him comfortable. If that means we have to end
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: our relationship, then so be it. I refuse to compromise
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: when it comes to my home and my children.
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's six months.
• 18:51
  Speaker 5: They ain't been intimate.
• 18:52
  Speaker 4: Is it really a relationship or y'all just getting to
• 18:53
  Speaker 4: know each other?
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm a whore. I feel like both
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: people are right. Yeah. You serious? Both people are correct.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 19:01
  Speaker 5: They've been together for six months?
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: That's what he said. Supposedly. That's what she said.
• 19:04
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: They've been together.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: They ain't fucked. She comes to his house, spends the night. She.
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: She does not allow him to go to your house.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: Hold on. So she stayed at his house multiple times.
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: And he never cracked.
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: And he never cracked. Never cracked. Okay. I think both
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: people are right.
• 19:29
  Speaker 6: How?
• 19:30
  Speaker 7: Because I think he has a right, I think if
• 19:32
  Speaker 7: you're dealing with somebody for six months and you've been
• 19:34
  Speaker 7: to their house, and he's not, I don't think he's
• 19:36
  Speaker 7: pressing to go over. I think it's just like, yo,
• 19:38
  Speaker 7: I can't know the address. Like, I can't send you something.
• 19:41
  Speaker 7: And I think it's more of a trust thing. It's like, yo,
• 19:43
  Speaker 7: you don't trust me enough to not even just, I
• 19:45
  Speaker 7: just know it. Like, so I think that's fair. That's
• 19:48
  Speaker 7: a fair take. And for her, I feel like if
• 19:50
  Speaker 7: you don't want a man that's not your fiance or
• 19:54
  Speaker 7: husband around your kids and that's your stance, that's fair too.
• 19:58
  Speaker 7: But sometimes I just think those things just don't line
• 20:00
  Speaker 7: up when people are together. So I think both people
• 20:02
  Speaker 7: are correct.
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: Everybody's allowed to have their boundaries. But also, she's not
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: sleeping with him.
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: And I can understand.
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: She's like, I'm not sleeping with him, so why he
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: need to be over here with my kids?
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: Why he need to be in my face? Stop calling
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: me your man then.
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: That part.
• 20:13
  Speaker 4: They both a little confused on that.
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: Y'all bugging out. They both a little confused. Y'all a
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: little retarded. She's staying over there. I'm confused. I don't know.
• 20:19
  Speaker 1: Stories feels a little complicated. And y'all are bunching in.
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: Hold on. Mark is going. He want to finish this
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: off for us.
• 20:24
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm waiting for y'all.
• 20:27
  Speaker 5: I got stuff to say.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I just feel like, why are we packaging.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: the kids, like people throw their kids out there as
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: like a protective, because you can't say nothing about nothing
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: once they mention their kids. You can't say nothing. Once
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: you mention your kids, you can't say shit. Listen, I
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: bought you some fucking something from Amazon. I can't send
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: it nowhere.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: This is some bullshit.
• 20:49
  Speaker 5: Marcus, Marcus, what you got? All right, cool.
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: Now, when you're in a relationship with somebody, depending on
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: the seriousness of what you're getting into and with, as.
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: Far as Sex is concerned.
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: I think, I don't know. I know that sex is
• 21:08
  Speaker 3: one of the most important parts of a relationship. It's trust,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: then sex. Everybody going to put the finances in there. That's,
• 21:14
  Speaker 3: of course, that's universal. Trust and sex. If you ain't
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: got that, you ain't got nothing. You're going to mess
• 21:19
  Speaker 3: around and get married to some person without having sex
• 21:22
  Speaker 3: and realize it's doodoo.com.
• 21:24
  Speaker 5: And now you're going to end up having a messed
• 21:25
  Speaker 5: up life.
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: And a lot of things you cannot train. Or like
• 21:30
  Speaker 3: get to what you want and how you want. I
• 21:32
  Speaker 3: feel like intimacy in that portion, y'all should get rid
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: of that ASAP. Let me tell you something. When it
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: comes to a dude and having sex with a woman,
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: it don't matter if they do it today or three
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: months from now. They either going to be with you
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: or they not. I had sex with one of my
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: girlfriends before. Not one of my girls like that. She
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: was my ex-ex-girl. We was together for three years.
• 21:50
  Speaker 5: First night. Three years. It got nothing to do with
• 21:53
  Speaker 5: that portion of anything.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: You took notes? Yeah. You was taking notes? Absolutely. Okay.
• 21:59
  Speaker 5: When it comes to your kids.
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: I.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Told you that was.
• 22:04
  Speaker 5: When.
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: It comes to your children, you want... Before you get
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: engaged sounds insane. You want the person around your kids
• 22:12
  Speaker 3: before you commit to anything. That doesn't make any sense.
• 22:16
  Speaker 3: You want to know how they are around children. This
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: dude could have a crazy background that you don't know about.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: You need to understand how and what that is. But
• 22:25
  Speaker 3: I do understand not having... a type of seriousness around
• 22:28
  Speaker 3: your kids. Six months is too early for.
• 22:30
  Speaker 5: Anything, for real.
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 22:32
  Speaker 5: Six months is too early for anything.
• 22:33
  Speaker 3: My ex-ex-girl that I talk about that we've been together
• 22:35
  Speaker 3: for three years, quote-unquote, I realized that early in the
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: game that she wasn't eligible to be around my kids.
• 22:44
  Speaker 3: And this was when they were young. So she's never
• 22:48
  Speaker 3: met my children. Because until she had a certain.
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: In three years?
• 22:52
  Speaker 5: Yeah, until she had a.
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: Certain growth thing that I was waiting for, You can't
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: be around mines.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: She was cool with that. Was she your side? No,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: she was my main. You can't tell me you was
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: with somebody for three years.
• 23:04
  Speaker 5: My baby was about five, six at that time. You
• 23:06
  Speaker 5: got to understand.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Three years?
• 23:08
  Speaker 5: When you're about five, six years old, you can't meet my...
• 23:10
  Speaker 5: You got to have.
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: And I explained to her, though. I said, yo, you
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: got to grow with this and that. I didn't just
• 23:15
  Speaker 3: dangle her on. I let her know what she needed
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: to grow with. You understand what I'm saying?
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Let me ask you a question.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: You said earlier.
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: Yo, if you're going to clip this, make sure you
• 23:25
  Speaker 2: go back to the point where he said, it don't
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: take that long.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Six months to a year.
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: That's what he said. This person. This is when I
• 23:33
  Speaker 3: was immature with it. I was immature with it at
• 23:36
  Speaker 3: the time. I grew since then. This was like, It
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: don't take long for you to grow and catch an
• 23:43
  Speaker 3: epiphany and understand what you need to be doing and
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: how to, you know what I'm saying? Sometimes one day
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: you're like, what the hell?
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: So you realize that you was on some bullshit.
• 23:50
  Speaker 5: Yes, absolutely.
• 23:51
  Speaker 3: But sometimes depending on who you are, you'll hold on
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: longer to what you need to. Once you realize you
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: do that, you grow from that. Everything is a growth process.
• 24:01
  Speaker 5: You understand what I'm saying?
• 24:02
  Speaker 3: So you grow from that. So when you're dealing with,
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: That portion you want to introduce... If you're uncomfortable introducing
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: your kids, you can say that. Like I said, six
• 24:10
  Speaker 3: months is too early, so I get it.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I'm not waiting around for three years for somebody to
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: accept me.
• 24:14
  Speaker 5: I feel like it should have been had sexual contact, though.
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: At least that... Hold on. Hold that point. Yeah, I
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: see it. But I'm not waiting.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: You're not going to tell me I'm not good enough
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: and I got to assert myself more for years.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Like, that means you don't fuck with me. Years?
• 24:29
  Speaker 6: No, no, no. I don't agree with that.
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: It means you don't fuck with me. But he said
• 24:32
  Speaker 1: he felt like... Years? Years? Six months? If you don't perform... Hey, look.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: I finished the project. The group project. Look, I finished it.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: What'd I get?
• 24:39
  Speaker 3: Yo, take it back to the board. This nigga got
• 24:41
  Speaker 3: high in summer school. I'm assuming that's what you were saying, right?
• 24:43
  Speaker 3: You was like, yo, until a certain thing happened. Until
• 24:46
  Speaker 3: I seen and I expressed it, until you are at
• 24:49
  Speaker 3: a certain way of being, you can't really meet my kids.
• 24:53
  Speaker 6: Now.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: But you can fuck her.
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: Hold on.
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: She ended up.
• 24:57
  Speaker 5: I'm lying to you. She ended up.
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: At this point, they were a little bit older than...
• 25:03
  Speaker 3: And I feel like their mother had them around somebody else.
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: So at that point, it was cool for you to
• 25:09
  Speaker 3: get a glance of who she was. My story is
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: different because when I was locked up.
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: Wait, what? Hold on, hold on.
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: I'm going to tell you. My story is different.
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: It's different. That's why you said you moved different. No, no, no.
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: Let me tell you.
• 25:21
  Speaker 5: So I was married to their mother.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: You were who?
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: I was married to their mom.
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: Okay. My daughters. Okay.
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: Still married.
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: Twin daughters. I'm just trying to understand.
• 25:34
  Speaker 3: I was married to their mom, so I had to
• 25:36
  Speaker 3: respect enough to not bring nobody around until I was
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: sure that this was my life partner.
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: Do you understand what I'm saying?
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, that makes sense. You respected that partnership.
• 25:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, right.
• 25:45
  Speaker 3: But when I got locked up, that's a whole gap.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: When I got locked up and I was locked up
• 25:49
  Speaker 3: for a year, I was in Ohio. Their mother told
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: them about this girlfriend that I had.
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: I don't even know how she knew, you stalker.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: And i haven't listen don't come at the show this
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: is him.
• 26:02
  Speaker 3: No she told him about her and so now i
• 26:05
  Speaker 3: had to be honest with them and like it killed
• 26:09
  Speaker 3: me i'm like why you but i realized she told
• 26:11
  Speaker 3: him because she was moving a dude in she so
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: she wanted to soften the blow yes but you know
• 26:18
  Speaker 3: boom so at that point i was able to kind
• 26:20
  Speaker 3: of bring her around but it was only for like
• 26:22
  Speaker 3: a like one day She was around, I think around
• 26:25
  Speaker 3: Christmas time or whatever, whatever. But I really didn't have
• 26:28
  Speaker 3: her around around because it wasn't that serious.
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: How long until when y'all broke up when she met
• 26:33
  Speaker 4: the kids?
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: It was about that year that we broke up, she
• 26:37
  Speaker 3: met them. It was like kind of toward the end,
• 26:40
  Speaker 3: if it makes sense.
• 26:41
  Speaker 5: I came home. She kind of held me down.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: I came home.
• 26:44
  Speaker 3: And then, you know, it was Christmas time. You can
• 26:48
  Speaker 3: meet whatever. And then we ended up breaking up in
• 26:51
  Speaker 3: like February.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: Damn.
• 26:53
  Speaker 5: We broke up in February of 2020.
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: I met the wife that told me I ought to
• 26:59
  Speaker 3: be a side dude in August of 2020.
• 27:00
  Speaker 5: It was like a COVID pool party.
• 27:03
  Speaker 1: Damn. It was like a transformation.
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's wild. My life is different. So that's how
• 27:10
  Speaker 5: that worked out. But, you know, I get it.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Everybody that's listening right now is like, what the fuck? Chris,
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: what do you think about this whole thing that he's
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: talking about.
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: Right now?
• 27:26
  Speaker 2: He waited till she introduced for him to introduce.
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: Disclaimer, right? He did say he had to grow and
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: realize maybe later.
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: Three years of growth?
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: I think it's... You maybe didn't like her like that, really.
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: Because there has to be a reason.
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: He didn't like her. I did care about her and.
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: I liked her.
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: You cared, but you didn't see her integrating into your life.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: In that way, so you didn't do so.
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: Hell no, not when the baby's that young.
• 27:49
  Speaker 3: My daughters is teenagers now. They grown. I can choose anybody.
• 27:54
  Speaker 3: They be like, dad, which one is this? Or dad,
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: which one is that? Or something more. One of my
• 27:58
  Speaker 3: daughters be like, is this one of your hoes? And
• 28:00
  Speaker 3: I'm like, yo, first of all, I don't bring that
• 28:01
  Speaker 3: many people around you.
• 28:02
  Speaker 1: What are you talking about? It's one of my hoes.
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? But she's got jokes like me.
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: They kind of act like me. You know what I'm saying?
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: She act like me. So, it's cool.
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: But, you know, both my dudes in college right now,
• 28:13
  Speaker 5: they 18. But they was six, five then. They 18
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: right now.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: So, wait.
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: I find this as an example. Like, men and women
• 28:21
  Speaker 4: just live different lives, right? Because the thing about it
• 28:24
  Speaker 4: is he can go his whole life without nobody meeting
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: his kids.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: He got time.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: Like, women, you know.
• 28:30
  Speaker 3: And if they don't, the best thing about having kids
• 28:32
  Speaker 3: is that you can use them as an excuse all
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: the time.
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: I can't do it with my kids.
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: See, you know what he was doing.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I do that all the time.
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: I hate when niggas do that.
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Why? Because niggas throw shit.
• 28:44
  Speaker 7: Like when you have a wife and kids, niggas can
• 28:46
  Speaker 7: throw anything on your wife and kids. And niggas can't
• 28:48
  Speaker 7: question niggas.
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. Now you look good. Oh, I use
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: Sinead for everything. I know. I use her for everything. Oh, no,
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: my kid. Yo, I got the boys. What's somebody going
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: to say? Nah, I don't know. It look crazy, like,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: when you're fighting it.
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: You can't say, fuck them kids. You can't say, fuck
• 29:01
  Speaker 5: my kid.
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: I mean, you can, but.
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: Oh, Jesus. But let's keep it real.
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: Meeting the kids, it's a little... It's a very sensitive
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: topic for both parents, father and mother, because the reality
• 29:11
  Speaker 4: is mad, weirdo stuff happening. You can't just let anybody
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: have access to them, but you should let... If you're
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: serious enough about a person, you should let your kids
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: meet them, because what if they don't like them? What
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: if they sense something that you're blind to? You know,
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: and I can say that from... Agreed. Because I had
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: some parents that definitely dated questionably.
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: And I was like, um, do I see that? Yeah,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: I do agree with Marcus.
• 29:33
  Speaker 7: I think bringing the kids around when you are already
• 29:36
  Speaker 7: engaged or married, I think.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: That's super tough. It's way too late.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: It's too big of a risk. You know what I'm saying?
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: I think that's a little further down the line. So
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: at six months of dating, you're over here.
• 29:47
  Speaker 5: Six months is too early.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: Marcus is right. You should have been fucking by then.
• 29:50
  Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely.
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: Am I wrong? Chris?
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: I feel like people just need to be honest about
• 29:55
  Speaker 4: their expectations, what they're willing and not willing to do.
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: That sounds like six months of fuckery of them not
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: discussing their goals, their boundaries, and whatever, and just saying, hey,
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: let's see what happens. Oh, wait, I'm kind of not
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: cool with this. And we have to stop doing that.
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: My sex conversation is the second day we go on
• 30:10
  Speaker 5: a date.
• 30:11
  Speaker 1: You're talking about.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: It's a conversation, though. It's not about what I want
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: to do to you. It's about What do you like?
• 30:18
  Speaker 5: What do I like?
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Oh, you bringing it up over the chicken? Yeah, like
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: the second. Before the food comes out? Over the appetizers?
• 30:23
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know at what point, but the second thing,
• 30:25
  Speaker 3: we're having at least a sex talk. Because I need
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: to know what you went to compared to what I'm
• 30:29
  Speaker 3: into before I waste my time. Because if you ain't
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: into the same things, I'm not even going to stay here.
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: So you have that talk before you even realize if
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: you even into them on some other level, same things?
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: You're already talking about sex.
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: Before you reach some of the sex? Well, I'm an
• 30:40
  Speaker 3: energy type person, if that makes sense, right? So I
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: go with energy. If I feel like the energy.
• 30:44
  Speaker 5: Is there, cool.
• 30:45
  Speaker 4: Energy is voltage, too.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: I hear the talk.
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, Merry Christmas.
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: But what I'm trying to say is, I need to know,
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: because I know I've been, a lot of people ain't
• 30:55
  Speaker 3: been and had the experience and the history that I've had.
• 30:58
  Speaker 5: I've been married. I've been, I know I've been through
• 31:01
  Speaker 5: wild marriage counseling.
• 31:02
  Speaker 3: I know what it is to have a sexual marriage,
• 31:03
  Speaker 3: what a relationship really is, what makes sense, why you
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: should really get married, opposed to why people really get married.
• 31:09
  Speaker 5: I know a lot of stuff.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: You understand?
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: Like I said, I do the counseling.
• 31:13
  Speaker 3: So I'm just, all right, once we get here, I
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: know if I'm not, I don't have nobody sexually compatible,
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: I'm not even wasting my time with you.
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: From there, we could keep going on.
• 31:23
  Speaker 5: I understand.
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: I know what I got and how I'm built, et cetera,
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: et cetera. Then I could keep going as well. But
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: I know from there, the conversation, all right, cool. The
• 31:32
  Speaker 3: first date, the first date we've discussed a lot.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: How do you introduce your second date? Y'all have not
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: had sex, right? Because I'm, I'm trying I ain't going
• 31:42
  Speaker 2: first date I'm trying to be But fuck it We
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: get to the second date I know we fucking tonight
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Cause if not You just don't like me That's how
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: I be thinking I'm not saying it's a thing I'm
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: not saying it's a thing But like Yo I'm trying
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: to give Respect for yourself No Yeah I'm trying to
• 31:55
  Speaker 2: give pheromones Like this not working I'm.
• 31:57
  Speaker 3: Trying to give pheromones You know my dick Yeah Exactly
• 32:03
  Speaker 3: Yo How do you introduce the Yo How you like
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: sex over the food It's casual It's like what you
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: So you know What you into As far as sexual
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: is concerned Chris, that's working?
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: That's working?
• 32:15
  Speaker 5: What's your likes and dislikes?
• 32:16
  Speaker 4: It depends on the person.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 32:18
  Speaker 4: He said energy is energy, so he's going to attract
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: someone that's on that energy. Personally, you talk to me
• 32:23
  Speaker 4: like that, I'm looking at you crazy. But nobody talks
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: to me like that because I don't give off that energy.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: So then how does it get there? There you go.
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: I don't give off that energy. So what he said
• 32:31
  Speaker 4: was right. Energy is energy.
• 32:35
  Speaker 5: Mind you, I'm not violating their energy. Like, if she's
• 32:39
  Speaker 5: on some.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: He's reading it.
• 32:40
  Speaker 5: Excuse me.
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: Damn, Jesus. To the mic?
• 32:42
  Speaker 5: That's crazy. If she's on some extra.
• 32:45
  Speaker 3: Like, stern whatever, I realize I can't have that discussion
• 32:48
  Speaker 3: with you right now.
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, true, true.
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: And we're not in the midst of having that conversation,
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: so I'm not really going to do it.
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: Do you consider yourself stern, Chris?
• 32:57
  Speaker 4: I mean, I protect a lot of my energy.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? So, am I stern? No.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: I mean, if people want to take it that way, sure.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: It's my life.
• 33:04
  Speaker 4: I got to look at myself in the mirror and
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: be cool.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: That's right. You know what I'm saying?
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: So at the end of the day.
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: That's okay. And exactly.
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: Because I don't knock nobody in their decisions. Because my
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: thing is, because I know girls that do all types
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: of stuff. But I also knew a girl that used
• 33:15
  Speaker 4: to do hoe shit and cry about it. And that
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: shit used to piss me off. Because it's like, do
• 33:18
  Speaker 4: it with your chest.
• 33:19
  Speaker 3: I can tell she stands on certain things.
• 33:22
  Speaker 5: And she is.
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: So you got to come at her in a different manner.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: You can't just come. You got to come correct. She
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: demands correct. So you got to come correct.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: You can't run the same place.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? You can't come with no ignorance.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: So it's a way to talk to her and a
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: way to discuss and a way to be. So that's fine.
• 33:37
  Speaker 5: At the point of where we, let's say when it's
• 33:40
  Speaker 5: like the energy is there.
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: Whenever you allow the energy.
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: To be there, a discussion happens.
• 33:46
  Speaker 4: Absolutely.
• 33:47
  Speaker 5: A prior to, not only do a discussion happen about.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: They saying you a little long winded.
• 33:51
  Speaker 5: Yeah, always.
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: What'd she say?
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: A hora?
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: Yo, she said Tahoe Segway. A hora. A hora. Look,
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: four minutes later, transition.
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: He ain't talking about it still.
• 34:04
  Speaker 4: That's five.
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: Yo, what's wrong with y'all? Y'all can't do that to
• 34:09
  Speaker 1: the guest.
• 34:10
  Speaker 5: I get that sometimes.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: You do that?
• 34:12
  Speaker 5: I be passionate. I'm passionate about it.
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: He wants to make sure you understand, you overstand.
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: Yes. All right. I'm transitioning now. We can. I missed
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: the transition moment. My bad. Okay.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: I have a lot of videos and shit. There's some
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: serious shit I want to talk about. Obviously, I love
• 34:31
  Speaker 2: talking about politics. I don't want to make it too
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: stern in here, as Marcus said. But I kind of
• 34:41
  Speaker 2: go in between Twitter and Instagram with these topics today.
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: So I'm going one off, one on. All right?
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: One Instagram, one Twitter. The last one was wifey. That
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: was a free. That was a scrimmage. I'm going to
• 34:54
  Speaker 2: talk about.
• 34:57
  Speaker 1: What's this guy named? Gilbert Arenas? You saw it.
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: Gilbert Arenas and his wife is a content creator or
• 35:05
  Speaker 2: his girlfriend.
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I know him. What's her name? Melly?
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: The basketball player you're talking about.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Yes. And he has this sports show. They have a
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: show together. Girls Arena. And they have their own show together, right? Yeah.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: They were talking about whether he's going to jump in.
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: Like to hear it? Here we go.
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: Jump.
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: Do you jump in and fight too? If I'm getting
• 35:27
  Speaker 4: jumped by ladies, by bitches. So it's three against one.
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: I'm on the ground. They're getting dragged. Whooping my ass.
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: You're not fighting?
• 35:36
  Speaker 1: I'm going to get you up out of there. Like, yeah, baby,
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: come on.
• 35:39
  Speaker 6: And, you know, then to get you out of there.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: So in that moment, you're thinking about yourself and not
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: about your wife that's on the ground bleeding.
• 35:46
  Speaker 6: If you get your ass whooped by one up, first
• 35:49
  Speaker 6: of all, I'm dragging you in. Hey, hey, let's get
• 35:52
  Speaker 6: on up out of there.
• 35:53
  Speaker 1: But you in the fight with three women. One, you're brave.
• 35:56
  Speaker 1: He's brave. You know what I mean?
• 36:00
  Speaker 6: I'm getting you. I'm not going to be sitting there
• 36:02
  Speaker 6: pushing women and punching on women with my male muscles.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: I can't do that.
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: I'm so disappointed.
• 36:10
  Speaker 6: You should be disappointed that I'm out there and there's
• 36:12
  Speaker 6: a girl right there and I half hook.
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Her and all that. Yeah, yeah, she's hitting me.
• 36:17
  Speaker 6: But what I'm saying is a man who's going to
• 36:20
  Speaker 6: hit a woman still has the urge to hit a
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: woman still. If he can hit this woman, what changes
• 36:25
  Speaker 6: the circumstances?
• 36:26
  Speaker 4: Maybe they're killing me. I'm going to grab my wife and.
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: We're just, we're going to be out.
• 36:32
  Speaker 1: It becomes to a point where.
• 36:34
  Speaker 6: A guy who can hit a woman at the end
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: of the day, you still got to be careful with it.
• 36:53
  Speaker 6: I had friends, them and them girls got them two-on-twos, and, like,
• 36:55
  Speaker 6: the girl jumped him, and he's sitting there knocking him out,
• 36:57
  Speaker 6: and they go, thank you, baby, you saved me. Two
• 36:59
  Speaker 6: weeks later, you know, knocked her ass out, too.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: Oh, shit. What do y'all think about that? He dead
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: ass right. You think he's right?
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because he didn't say I'm going to let her fight.
• 37:12
  Speaker 4: He said I'm going to grab her up out of there.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: Nah, it's tough.
• 37:15
  Speaker 4: No, it's not tough.
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: Some of these women are heavy handed. Yes.
• 37:17
  Speaker 4: I didn't say the women are fucking him up.
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: You don't want no Crescent. You don't want no Crescent.
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: Listen, listen.
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: If you want to get to one of the Matrixes,
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: you liable to get one of these.
• 37:24
  Speaker 4: You got to defend yourself. You got to defend yourself.
• 37:26
  Speaker 4: But there's a couple of things here, too. Again, your partner, right?
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: That part.
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: Like, why are we getting into a fight with three women?
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: You know, is this just some random.
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: Thing that happened? What's happened? Did you start it? You
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: got beat? Were you drunk?
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: What happened? Are they attacking you for no reason?
• 37:42
  Speaker 1: What do I got to do?
• 37:43
  Speaker 4: And then it's like, okay, if he can grab her
• 37:45
  Speaker 4: out of there, then fuck it, he did what he
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: needed to do. Now, if they're attacking him, yeah, throw
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: some haymakers.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: If a nigga hit you, should I wonder what you
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: did to make him hit you?
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: If a dude hit me?
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: If it's my girl and a nigga hits her, should
• 37:58
  Speaker 2: I be like, oh, well, she was drunk. She shouldn't
• 38:00
  Speaker 2: have did that.
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: No, see, that's two different things.
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: No, it's the same thing. It's three chicks hitting her.
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: You saying, yo, maybe she drunk. Maybe she, what did
• 38:07
  Speaker 1: she do to get herself there?
• 38:08
  Speaker 4: What I said was you should know your partner. You
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: know what kind of partner you have.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: You know if you have a wild ass partner. I
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: know that's my partner. Yeah.
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: I'm not saying, I'm not saying do not defend her,
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: but I'm saying why are you beating up other women?
• 38:20
  Speaker 4: If he's able to get her out of it.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Why are you beating up other women?
• 38:22
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is if he said what he said,
• 38:24
  Speaker 4: successfully was able to get her out of there, no issues,
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: then it's done.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: How?
• 38:29
  Speaker 4: If he's trying to get her out of there and
• 38:31
  Speaker 4: they're jumping on top of him, then he has the
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: right to defend himself. I'm not saying none of the
• 38:37
  Speaker 4: options are true. What I'm saying is what he said
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: wasn't wrong. At the end of the day, he's saying
• 38:40
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to go in there and beat up
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: women if I can get her out. He didn't say
• 38:43
  Speaker 4: if they're jumping me, I'm not going to do nothing. Nah,
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: if them girls is on top of you, do what
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: you got to do. Because women, why are you attacking
• 38:51
  Speaker 4: the men? You deserve it after that.
• 38:53
  Speaker 3: I'm definitely trying to grab her out. But if after
• 38:59
  Speaker 3: I say stop like three times and you're continuing, I'm
• 39:02
  Speaker 3: just going to give you a Spartan kick. don't we
• 39:05
  Speaker 3: guys bond and then that's it is a cadet phone
• 39:07
  Speaker 3: throw you back and I'm gonna get up out of
• 39:09
  Speaker 3: there you know I'm saying we'll discuss what happened after
• 39:11
  Speaker 3: clearly I wasn't around because if you don't know what
• 39:14
  Speaker 3: happened right I wasn't around I don't know what's going
• 39:17
  Speaker 3: on oh she in a butt whip stop stop I
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: ain't playing with us and that's that yesterday what you
• 39:26
  Speaker 3: doing yeah like he said this can't happen while I'm around.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: So if I come back and it's a handicap match, again,
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: I'm going.
• 39:33
  Speaker 5: To try to stop the situation.
• 39:34
  Speaker 1: But if I'm unsuccessful, I'm going to be a woman beater.
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I'm not letting... Nothing's happening to the mother of my kids,
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: to my wife. Yeah, I don't see that coming.
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: I got a responsibility. Her dad's not here. This is
• 39:54
  Speaker 2: my responsibility. If it was my daughter, I'm not going
• 39:56
  Speaker 2: to let a bunch of chicks jump my daughter.
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I guess the question is.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: I'm looking at it as if something bad.
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: could happen.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: She could hit her head on the floor and that'd
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: be it.
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but what I'm saying is this after the failed
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: attempt of not getting her out. I'm not saying after
• 40:09
  Speaker 4: a failed attempt. If you're able to get her.
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Out, then it's done, no? So here's the thing.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: I think you could rib cage them. Here's the thing.
• 40:16
  Speaker 1: Here's my thing.
• 40:17
  Speaker 5: And then get them off her.
• 40:18
  Speaker 2: Why do three women have to jump her?
• 40:20
  Speaker 5: Because women are always jumping people.
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: So there's the thing.
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: If she violated somebody and they scrapping, maybe I might just, yo,
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: all right, break it up.
• 40:28
  Speaker 1: Yo, stop.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: But it's three of y'all on her. So the fight
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: is already uneven. Y'all are already doing too much.
• 40:35
  Speaker 1: There's no fight at that point. So at that point,
• 40:36
  Speaker 1: I don't care about the rules. The rules already been broken.
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Now we even in the
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: score and I'm getting my wife out. I'm not like
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: getting busy with them. I'm not getting busy. But I'm
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: slapping somebody's wig off.
• 40:49
  Speaker 4: And that's okay.
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: Somebody's shit is going. You know what I'm saying? I'm
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: making sure y'all not going to do this. Because I
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: got to.
• 40:58
  Speaker 5: Make sure she gets home. The throat chop is always effective.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but what I'm saying is, guys.
• 41:03
  Speaker 5: They think they're going to die.
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: Now, facts.
• 41:06
  Speaker 4: Defend your peoples. You know what I'm saying? Nobody's saying that.
• 41:08
  Speaker 4: And you know what danger is and what you need
• 41:10
  Speaker 4: to do to get out of it. Ain't nobody saying
• 41:12
  Speaker 4: you can't, you know, toss a couple of, smacking a
• 41:14
  Speaker 4: couple of girls on a slanting wig, getting them off of.
• 41:16
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 41:17
  Speaker 4: Going in there, trying to knock jaws out. We got
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: to remember, too, they can get killed, too. And then
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: now we have a case.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: I have a question for you, Chris.
• 41:24
  Speaker 7: So if you're with your man, you're out, and some
• 41:27
  Speaker 7: dudes start jumping on him, Are you jumping in that
• 41:29
  Speaker 7: or are you calling one dude or multiple dudes?
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: Let's say three. Let's say three dudes.
• 41:33
  Speaker 4: Well, it's a dangerous situation, but I'm not going to
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: sit there and let shit happen because you're right. You
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying?
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: But also, I'm a female.
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: Women get down.
• 41:40
  Speaker 4: It's not too much that, you know, I'm going to
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: go harder than a.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Man is going to go on a bunch of females.
• 41:44
  Speaker 5: Is that what I'm saying?
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: So again, I don't think he was wrong. But again,
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: the context is what's happening. Is he successful? And if
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: you're not successful, absolutely defend your people. Get in there.
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: I ain't going to lie. Fuck what he's talking about.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: I'm going to go super hard because as she was saying,
• 42:02
  Speaker 2: I'm getting beat.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: I could get killed.
• 42:05
  Speaker 2: You worried about your masculine strength hurting the bitches that
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: are trying to kill me.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: Fuck what he's talking about. I'm real on that shit.
• 42:12
  Speaker 1: Fuck what he's talking about. My job is to get
• 42:15
  Speaker 1: her home. First. That's the first thing.
• 42:20
  Speaker 3: I'm with you in the sense of it starts with
• 42:23
  Speaker 3: the sparring kicks.
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: If you continue to come back Then I'm going to
• 42:28
  Speaker 5: hook off.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Because if you're hurting my.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: Baby, and I know I hit hard, so I don't
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: want to hit.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: You ever see somebody get hit and the bruise don't
• 42:35
  Speaker 2: go away for that long? I remember I had a fight.
• 42:38
  Speaker 2: I had a knot on my head for like three years.
• 42:41
  Speaker 5: The years is wicked.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: The shit was right here. And then one day I
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: woke up and it was gone. I cried. I swear
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: to God.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: One day I woke up and I don't even know
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: what day it was because it was a part of me.
• 42:49
  Speaker 1: It was just a part of me. Not left me. Yeah.
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: And one day I just woke up and I was
• 42:55
  Speaker 1: brushing my hair and I was like... Sean, where you go?
• 42:58
  Speaker 6: I was like.
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: yo that.
• 42:59
  Speaker 2: Shit gone yo that's wicked I'm not come on that's crazy.
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: That's crazy and also I think he's talking from a
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: perspective of someone who has a lot to lose got
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: a lot to lose you know what I'm saying so
• 43:10
  Speaker 4: also if it comes into if I send her over
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: there across the shit best believe that's gonna cost me
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: a couple mil you know what I'm saying and you
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: have to assess the situation you know what I'm saying
• 43:18
  Speaker 4: so again it's a lot of things I'm saying I
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: don't like cookie cutter blanket situations because every situation is
• 43:24
  Speaker 4: different you can assess the situation and know what's going
• 43:26
  Speaker 4: on you gotta do what you gotta do at the
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: end of.
• 43:28
  Speaker 3: The day I kind of pride myself in dealing with
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: women who don't get themselves in that position.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: But shit happens sometimes.
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but okay, gangster. She just said, I'll pull out
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: if you bitches act stupid. Yeah, that would be annoying.
• 43:42
  Speaker 3: If you have a girl and she's like, hold on,
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: I got some ops. We can't go over here.
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, no, that's crazy.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: We can't pull up to the spot because you got problems.
• 43:49
  Speaker 4: But what Tahoe said too, sometimes it don't even be
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: like that.
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: It just be just. Regular shit.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: Regular shit. You know what I'm saying? Hating that shit.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Look, we live in a.
• 43:56
  Speaker 4: Crazy world right now.
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: People are losing it. You know?
• 43:58
  Speaker 4: Like, you're seeing people getting sapped up in Times Square
• 44:01
  Speaker 4: and they don't even know the person. So, there's a
• 44:04
  Speaker 4: lot of stuff.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: He got money.
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: That was Instagram.
• 44:10
  Speaker 2: Let's go over to Twitter.
• 44:13
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: Mr. Move Different. You ready? Let's do it.
• 44:19
  Speaker 2: I can't believe some people don't see the problem with
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: having their boyfriend over every weekend while having a roommate. No,
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: I don't want to see your boyfriend in our apartment
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: every fucking weekend. Are you crazy? Go to his place
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: once in a while, too.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: The fuck?
• 44:36
  Speaker 5: Man, listen. You signed up to be a roommate. Go
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: get your own place. What are you talking about? Stop
• 44:42
  Speaker 5: hating that somebody got somebody that they want to share
• 44:44
  Speaker 5: their life with, however which way they want to do it.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Mork.
• 44:48
  Speaker 3: Out here out here hating cuz yeah out here just
• 44:52
  Speaker 3: man over here you live with somebody else get your
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: own place brokey you know I'm.
• 44:57
  Speaker 2: Sorry so wait I don't think there should be some consideration.
• 45:00
  Speaker 4: No because we are adults she said weekend and they
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: pay rent.
• 45:04
  Speaker 3: Right yeah both of them yeah okay so.
• 45:07
  Speaker 1: Everybody got a separate room I guess. Okay. I don't
• 45:10
  Speaker 1: know what the problem is. So what do you mean?
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: He can't come to my.
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: What, did he smash it too loud all day?
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: Probably. All right, well, go take a walk. You got
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: to do something. Find you something to do.
• 45:20
  Speaker 3: I'm loud.
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: So this... Wait, what? Don't drink no more. Tell me
• 45:28
  Speaker 1: what to do in here. Water. If it's a roommate.
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: But what about the fact that this is my crib, too?
• 45:34
  Speaker 2: And I want to walk around without having to put
• 45:36
  Speaker 2: all my jeans on and shit like that.
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: First of all, you should be putting some on anyway
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: because you have a roommate.
• 45:41
  Speaker 4: Well, roommates should talk about what their boundaries are, just
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: like it's another relationship.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want to see both. What do you mean?
• 45:47
  Speaker 5: It's not a contract.
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: But also, there's a common area. You should have your
• 45:50
  Speaker 4: own personal areas. What else is taking place other than
• 45:52
  Speaker 4: him just being there for a weekend? He's not there
• 45:54
  Speaker 4: every day.
• 45:55
  Speaker 2: Every weekend.
• 45:56
  Speaker 4: So what?
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: That's her boyfriend. She pays rent.
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: What are you doing these weekends? Do you have somebody?
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: You're not in my room, so what the matter to you?
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: Now, if they having sex in the living room every weekend,
• 46:05
  Speaker 4: that's a different situation.
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: But why are you obsessed with me?
• 46:09
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Why are you so obsessed with me? I'm sorry.
• 46:17
  Speaker 5: All right.
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: All right. All right. What's going on? Yeah, but don't
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: be you.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: You hate him.
• 46:26
  Speaker 5: It sounds like you can't get nobody.
• 46:28
  Speaker 7: I was not seeing it this way, though. I was like,
• 46:32
  Speaker 7: why are you over here every single weekend?
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: No, bring your friend. Bring your friend. You know, I
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: ain't got nobody.
• 46:37
  Speaker 3: I'm not concerned. Bring a friend. I like women who
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: really don't got the friends like that.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: You like the ones that don't got the friends.
• 46:47
  Speaker 5: Because they extraterrestrial. The friends be wild sometimes.
• 46:51
  Speaker 3: You got whole Keisha.
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: You're trying to isolate.
• 46:53
  Speaker 5: You got throw it back Tisha.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 46:55
  Speaker 3: You got the one that's standing there. She got a
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: stripper pole. She like a monkey.
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: It's ridiculous. She don't want you to pull out the bag. Yeah.
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: Have one friend.
• 47:03
  Speaker 5: So you don't like them with friends?
• 47:04
  Speaker 4: You like them lonely?
• 47:05
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: No.
• 47:07
  Speaker 5: They got other women friends who got their shit together.
• 47:10
  Speaker 4: Oh, so they should be taking job applications for their friends.
• 47:12
  Speaker 4: So you're saying birds.
• 47:13
  Speaker 5: Of a feather flock together. Sometimes it's too much.
• 47:15
  Speaker 4: So you interview their friends?
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: No. I don't do anything.
• 47:19
  Speaker 5: They got friends you ask them what type of friend
• 47:22
  Speaker 5: they got?
• 47:23
  Speaker 6: I see.
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: I don't ask for any friends you got. I see
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: how you move and if your friends dictate how you move.
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: That's how I move.
• 47:32
  Speaker 5: If your friends dictate how you move, I can't be here.
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: Can she be a good girl and still have hoe friends?
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 47:38
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: Exactly.
• 47:40
  Speaker 5: That means you got hoe friends.
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: Yes, I do.
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: You got that nasty Keisha. Listen, I let people do
• 47:47
  Speaker 4: whatever they can do to look themselves in the mirror
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: at the end of the day.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: That ain't my business.
• 47:52
  Speaker 4: That ain't my business. I just don't want to hear
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: you cry about it after you did some hoe shit.
• 47:56
  Speaker 1: Do you ever judge your friends for being hoes?
• 47:58
  Speaker 6: No.
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: It depends on what it is. Some shit is not
• 48:03
  Speaker 3: up to quality. I don't care about the whole shit.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: I usually just say, are you good with that?
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: I got to talk one at a time.
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry.
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: We need to, everybody got to talk one at a time.
• 48:12
  Speaker 5: Why are you friends with them though?
• 48:13
  Speaker 1: Marcus, yesterday, Chris, Tahoe. Sorry.
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: We all need to have our one moment because it's
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: hard for the listeners. You don't judge your friends for
• 48:24
  Speaker 2: being whores when you find out they've done some whore shit.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: Fuck your other homegirl's man.
• 48:30
  Speaker 4: No, I don't care. Like y'all gotta live with that.
• 48:33
  Speaker 4: But again, you know what I'm saying? Like we all grow, right?
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: I mean, I've had friends that have done that many
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: years ago, but like I ain't getting involved in that.
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: But also, I also know if you type of girl
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: to fucking get home girls, man. You're going to have
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: some boundaries with me. I treat you accordingly.
• 48:49
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I like that. I treat you accordingly.
• 48:51
  Speaker 5: But why hang with them?
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: So that's judging.
• 48:53
  Speaker 4: I don't hang with them.
• 48:54
  Speaker 5: But why even have them as a friend, I'm asking.
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: Because there's probably.
• 48:56
  Speaker 4: Other values and they probably know how to make money.
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, well, I'll talk to you about this.
• 49:00
  Speaker 4: It's okay to have friends in other pockets.
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: I respect that.
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: It's like you don't have to be, do everything with ho, Keisha.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying?
• 49:07
  Speaker 4: Like, Hokesha might have the keys to the city.
• 49:09
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
• 49:11
  Speaker 4: So at the end of the day, it's okay to
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: expand your friend group. You don't got to take every
• 49:15
  Speaker 4: part of the people that you collect.
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I.
• 49:20
  Speaker 2: can fuck with my homie that fucked my other homie's wife.
• 49:23
  Speaker 2: And we're still homies. I'm judging you for that. Like, damn, niggas,
• 49:28
  Speaker 2: all these chicks out here, why you fuck.
• 49:30
  Speaker 4: I will say a lot of my people don't tell
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: me certain things because they probably assume I'm going to
• 49:33
  Speaker 4: judge them. So I don't get the crazy wild stories.
• 49:36
  Speaker 4: But my thing is live and let live, man. Because
• 49:38
  Speaker 4: at the end of the day.
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: No.
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: No, live and let live. Some people got to die.
• 49:41
  Speaker 4: But I'm not saying that you don't get to say, yo,
• 49:44
  Speaker 4: I'm going to adjust how I deal with them.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: That's the judge part.
• 49:46
  Speaker 4: But you know what I will say is this. I
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: have cut off somebody because I was like.
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: You know what?
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: I can't really get with this and I can't vibe
• 49:53
  Speaker 4: behind you. So it depends on what they do. You
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: know what I'm saying?
• 49:55
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: Horror shit.
• 49:59
  Speaker 4: I'll give you an example.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: So, ho shit is not being sexually free. That's not
• 50:04
  Speaker 2: ho shit. Whole shit is doing something that goes against
• 50:06
  Speaker 2: morals and values.
• 50:07
  Speaker 4: I agree with you. Against morals and values, I'm against that.
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: Because I stopped being a poor homeboy that was doing
• 50:13
  Speaker 4: the worst shit. It was like, I can't condone this.
• 50:15
  Speaker 4: As a female friend to you, watching you do stuff
• 50:18
  Speaker 4: to certain women, I can't really get with that. You
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: my homie.
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: So you judged him.
• 50:22
  Speaker 4: I didn't judge him. I didn't judge him.
• 50:25
  Speaker 5: It was like, yo, you wildin', bro.
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: You said morality. That's not judging. That's me assessing what
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: I can deal with. Because I got to look at
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: myself in the mirror, too.
• 50:33
  Speaker 5: I tell you like this. I had a friend... who
• 50:36
  Speaker 5: I found out be beating on girls, I stopped fucking
• 50:38
  Speaker 5: with him.
• 50:39
  Speaker 1: Immediately. Like, I can't do this. He tripping. He puts
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: his hands on them? Yes.
• 50:43
  Speaker 5: He has a problem with putting the hands on girls.
• 50:45
  Speaker 5: I was like, I can't do this.
• 50:46
  Speaker 1: That's tough.
• 50:47
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 50:47
  Speaker 5: I left that nigga right alone.
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: I ain't speak to him since, really. He tried to
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: check in with me every now and again.
• 50:53
  Speaker 5: This was years.
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I can't do that, my nigga. Yo, yo, yo, whole friend,
• 50:58
  Speaker 1: whole cousin. Do you judge your friends? That was crazy.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: Do you judge your friends for being whores?
• 51:07
  Speaker 7: No, but I do think the quality sometimes for me.
• 51:11
  Speaker 7: I don't care about the whole act, but the quality sometimes.
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: Niggas don't care about shit. Yeah, come on, bro. That
• 51:18
  Speaker 1: was just bad work. Niggas don't give a shit about nothing.
• 51:20
  Speaker 5: Yeah, niggas don't care about that. I guess they feel like, oh,
• 51:24
  Speaker 5: my niggas ain't shit.
• 51:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah, nah, I believe it. Like, I think morality is
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: definitely a thing to take. Well, like, your decisions on
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: how you, like.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: I'm the only nigga that don't live.
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: I'm the only nigga that don't change his mind.
• 51:33
  Speaker 1: Yo, yo.
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: My ears is going crazy. Y'all gotta respect the mics
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: in here.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: Please. Okay. Back to Instagram.
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: Something that Marcus said triggered something that I wanted to
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: talk about.
• 51:46
  Speaker 1: Y'all ready? What is a relationship hot take that you have?
• 51:51
  Speaker 6: Most relationships aren't successful because people don't have hobbies.
• 51:55
  Speaker 1: Woo!
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: Explain.
• 51:57
  Speaker 6: I think that people get in relationships and their identity
• 52:01
  Speaker 6: becomes their relationship and not necessarily, like, who they.
• 52:05
  Speaker 1: Want to be and who they are. And therefore, like,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I'm in.
• 52:08
  Speaker 6: Your business because I don't have any other business.
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: To be in. So if I have things that I
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: can connect with.
• 52:13
  Speaker 6: Other people, I can spend time with other people, I
• 52:15
  Speaker 6: have things I cared about, I may not be as.
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: Like, controlling or demanding on this one relationship to fill
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: all my needs. Hey!
• 52:24
  Speaker 4: He ain't say nothing wrong.
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: He kind of smoked that. You ever been with somebody
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: that didn't have their own life? Yes. Marcus look triggered.
• 52:32
  Speaker 1: I'm triggered. You are? Yeah. Why?
• 52:35
  Speaker 7: I've been in that situation before and I've heard from
• 52:40
  Speaker 7: the person that they've said it. Basically, they don't have
• 52:43
  Speaker 7: that many friends.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: They don't have... You good?
• 52:48
  Speaker 5: Get your shit together, bro.
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: It's iPhone. It's AI. It's AI.
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: It's AI.
• 52:54
  Speaker 3: The phone just starts winging on you, bro. You can't
• 52:57
  Speaker 3: do nothing. What were you saying? I was saying I've
• 53:01
  Speaker 3: been in that position before. Shit, I forgot what I
• 53:04
  Speaker 3: was saying. I fucked my head up. We were talking about,
• 53:07
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, my memory is bad.
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: Being with somebody that doesn't have hobbies. Oh, yes, yes.
• 53:12
  Speaker 7: So I've been in that position before where I felt
• 53:13
  Speaker 7: like because they didn't have hobbies or outside things that
• 53:16
  Speaker 7: they were doing, every minute, everything is focused on me.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: And I don't like that feeling personally. Pressure.
• 53:23
  Speaker 7: It's too much were they obsessed with you was they
• 53:25
  Speaker 7: obsessive yes over everything every little even every little thing
• 53:29
  Speaker 7: like the talking on the phone the texting not texting
• 53:32
  Speaker 7: back in a certain time not calling back in a
• 53:34
  Speaker 7: certain time.
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: Why do you why are you going out here why
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: are you.
• 53:36
  Speaker 7: Doing life no and it's like it is literally like
• 53:38
  Speaker 7: yo if you have or if they have something to
• 53:40
  Speaker 7: do or let's say they do something with family or
• 53:42
  Speaker 7: something i won't hear from them you know i'm saying
• 53:44
  Speaker 7: for the day and i'll be like yes but it's
• 53:47
  Speaker 7: like that's only because you know i'm saying that's but.
• 53:49
  Speaker 2: Then you get in trouble because you ain't hit them
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: all day Not even.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: No, no.
• 53:53
  Speaker 7: To me, that's the part that's frustrating because you realize
• 53:55
  Speaker 7: that they have the ability to be away, but they
• 53:58
  Speaker 7: just don't because they don't have shit going on.
• 53:59
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Because with family, it's like, okay,
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: you know, I've been around. I had to go here.
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: I had to do this.
• 54:03
  Speaker 7: They was pulling me here or there. But outside of that,
• 54:07
  Speaker 7: it's like, no, what you doing? Yo, you didn't text
• 54:10
  Speaker 7: me back in 27 minutes.
• 54:11
  Speaker 1: What you doing?
• 54:11
  Speaker 7: What you got going on over there? You like, nigga,
• 54:14
  Speaker 7: can you go fly a kite? Keep building some Legos
• 54:17
  Speaker 7: or something. Find something to do.
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: The moment's having an exhibit. Bro, find something to do. Marcus,
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: you said you was triggered by that. What did you think?
• 54:25
  Speaker 5: First of all, you said that.
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: Second of all, I've experienced that because I got a
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: lot of shit going on.
• 54:32
  Speaker 5: So what I try to.
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: Get is a woman who that's about something.
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: Right? Even....
• 54:42
  Speaker 3: Even though that's the same thing, but like even in
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: their careers or their jobs, be too occupied to worry
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: about what I'm doing.
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: So that's, you know, because if you're not, you worry
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: about what I'm doing.
• 54:58
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying?
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: And then already I interact with people. I interact with women.
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: I interact with males. I interact with everybody. But you
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: see that I interact with and I'm honest about what
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: I'm doing. I'm honest about I'm transparent, again, with my
• 55:14
  Speaker 3: partner about whatever I got going on.
• 55:16
  Speaker 5: So if a chick send me.
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: A vaginal pic or a vaginal thing.
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: How we get here?
• 55:20
  Speaker 5: I'm showing you.
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: Okay. Okay.
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: You understand what I'm saying? I'm letting you know. So
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: that's what it comes to. So it's true, though. You
• 55:29
  Speaker 3: got to realize who you're dealing with. And then my
• 55:32
  Speaker 3: thing is I don't like dealing with chicks that's in
• 55:35
  Speaker 3: the same circle, so to speak, because a lot of
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: people already, you know what I'm saying, and, well, I
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: don't need you in my business.
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: They already know about some shit you did.
• 55:43
  Speaker 3: So, you know, most of the time I deal with
• 55:46
  Speaker 3: a chick that's unfamiliar with my circle. So when I'm
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: showing them things, it's like new to them.
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: So you don't want them to have no friends. You
• 55:53
  Speaker 1: don't want them to know nobody. No, no, no.
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: They don't want to have access to the ocean.
• 55:58
  Speaker 1: Let's go.
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: Take a note.
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: Yeah, just take a note. I want you to have friends.
• 56:00
  Speaker 2: But the right friends.
• 56:06
  Speaker 3: I'd rather you with the right friends, but I can't
• 56:08
  Speaker 3: determine who your right friends are.
• 56:10
  Speaker 5: I still watch how you move, though. You know what
• 56:12
  Speaker 5: I'm saying? It doesn't matter.
• 56:13
  Speaker 1: You know, whatever.
• 56:15
  Speaker 5: It's different. They say, oh, your friend.
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: What's that saying about your friends and how you in
• 56:20
  Speaker 3: the same image or whatever?
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: Birds of a feather flock together.
• 56:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah, Merry Christmas. Birds of a feather flock together. But
• 56:27
  Speaker 5: that's not how I consider it. I don't see it
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: because I got friends that ain't shit. And I love
• 56:31
  Speaker 5: them niggas just the same. So I get it. You
• 56:35
  Speaker 5: know what I'm saying? It's not all the same. It's
• 56:36
  Speaker 5: just how you're going to move. Your character. Everything is
• 56:38
  Speaker 5: about character.
• 56:40
  Speaker 1: How do you.
• 56:40
  Speaker 2: What if you like somebody and you realize that they
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: don't have nothing going on? Is there a way to
• 56:47
  Speaker 2: coax them into getting hobbies? Is that something they should
• 56:51
  Speaker 2: already have on their own? How do you deal with that?
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: Liking them but then realizing.
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: You got to evaluate why you like them.
• 56:58
  Speaker 2: Well, you can't like a person as a person without
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: them having other things going on?
• 57:02
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah. Did you like them? I don't have many hobbies.
• 57:05
  Speaker 4: Well, I mean, again, everybody is relative. But some people
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: like people who don't have hobbies because then they're focused
• 57:10
  Speaker 4: on them. And then until they don't want the attention
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: no more.
• 57:14
  Speaker 7: Chris is actually right. There's a lot of people that
• 57:16
  Speaker 7: don't like people with shit going on. It's like, yo,
• 57:18
  Speaker 7: why you have all this shit going on? Why you
• 57:19
  Speaker 7: not focus on me?
• 57:20
  Speaker 4: And I'm going to still do what I'm going to do.
• 57:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got mad shit going on, but you need
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: to not.
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: You're my girlfriend, but I'm not your man.
• 57:27
  Speaker 5: You know what I explained?
• 57:27
  Speaker 4: Psychological warfare.
• 57:28
  Speaker 5: Listen, this.
• 57:30
  Speaker 3: Most of the time I move, I move because it's
• 57:33
  Speaker 3: to the benefit of profit or my advantage of longevity.
• 57:39
  Speaker 3: I don't do nothing just to be doing it. It
• 57:41
  Speaker 3: don't make no sense. I'm not just outside to be outside,
• 57:43
  Speaker 3: which a.
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: Lot of people are. What you did there was outside,
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: and then what happened?
• 57:47
  Speaker 5: Went back to Family Dollar.
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying? I make it make sense,
• 57:53
  Speaker 3: and I help them to understand that I make it
• 57:54
  Speaker 3: make sense, and then that's that.
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: But how do you coach them into getting a life?
• 58:00
  Speaker 3: I think you have to slowly do it. There's nothing
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: you can do about that. Because at a certain age,
• 58:05
  Speaker 3: that shit's just your character.
• 58:06
  Speaker 4: I think everything's a conversation. One, yeah, it's your character.
• 58:09
  Speaker 4: But it's like if you notice it, maybe, I don't know,
• 58:11
  Speaker 4: maybe they are a little obsessed with you.
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: Just say something.
• 58:13
  Speaker 5: And if they still on.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: That type of time. I bring one person with me, though.
• 58:17
  Speaker 4: You have a life.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: I don't have hobbies.
• 58:19
  Speaker 2: You don't need hobbies.
• 58:21
  Speaker 3: You got enough going on, brother.
• 58:22
  Speaker 1: You were heard. What are you talking about?
• 58:24
  Speaker 5: You got shit going on. You want a croquette? Pickleball, baby.
• 58:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 58:29
  Speaker 5: You got enough going on, player.
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: I think we're talking about the person that has absolutely
• 58:32
  Speaker 4: nothing going for them.
• 58:34
  Speaker 5: But I bring that person with me to everywhere I'm going.
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: Like, yo, come.
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: If I'm dealing with somebody, come with me.
• 58:39
  Speaker 6: No, no.
• 58:40
  Speaker 2: I think that's annoying. You need to be able to
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: have your own space, too.
• 58:42
  Speaker 5: Nah, it depends. But not for me. I want a
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: partner I can bring with me.
• 58:46
  Speaker 4: You want them to have hobbies, but you want them
• 58:48
  Speaker 4: to drop everything and come with you when it's time.
• 58:50
  Speaker 5: I didn't necessarily say I want them to have hobbies.
• 58:52
  Speaker 5: That's what they said. I'm just talking about that.
• 58:53
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 58:54
  Speaker 1: No hobbies. I was with somebody before. No hobbies, no friends.
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: I don't want you stalking me with nonsense, though. Don't
• 59:00
  Speaker 3: give me no bullshit.
• 59:02
  Speaker 1: What if you're her hobby?
• 59:03
  Speaker 7: But what if they pick something that you don't like?
• 59:05
  Speaker 7: That's happened to me before. So I've been in the
• 59:06
  Speaker 7: position that you're saying. you mean were you saying like
• 59:08
  Speaker 7: yo you're trying to help them so you realize that
• 59:09
  Speaker 7: you like them and you realize like okay this person
• 59:12
  Speaker 7: they need some motion they need something going on let's
• 59:14
  Speaker 7: let's try to have the conversation so it's like you
• 59:17
  Speaker 7: know what let me try to figure out what they
• 59:19
  Speaker 7: like not like what you should do but what do
• 59:21
  Speaker 7: you like let me just let's start there And that
• 59:24
  Speaker 7: conversation be hard.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: Because when you ask most people what they like, a
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: lot of people don't know. They have no idea. They
• 59:28
  Speaker 1: know what they don't. They have no clue.
• 59:30
  Speaker 5: So now you got to be their therapist.
• 59:31
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 59:31
  Speaker 7: So now you like. So I had a conversation with
• 59:34
  Speaker 7: a person. So this was like, you know, over a
• 59:35
  Speaker 7: couple weeks. So I was like, yo, come back.
• 59:37
  Speaker 1: You know, come back.
• 59:38
  Speaker 7: We're going to come back in like two weeks or so.
• 59:39
  Speaker 7: And we're going to decide on something. She came back
• 59:41
  Speaker 7: in two weeks. She was like, yo, I know what
• 59:43
  Speaker 7: I want to do.
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: So I was like, yes. I was hyped.
• 59:46
  Speaker 7: Like, yo, I'm like, this is going to be a movie.
• 59:48
  Speaker 7: I'm like, so what is it? She's like, I want
• 59:51
  Speaker 7: to get into vending machines.
• 59:53
  Speaker 1: Yo. wifey came to me with that one time.
• 59:57
  Speaker 5: I said, vending machines, it's too.
• 59:58
  Speaker 1: Much out there.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: Yo.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 7: No, it wasn't nothing wrong with it, but that's why
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 7: I asked, like, what if you do that and they
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 7: pick something and you.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: Like, hmm. But what's wrong with vending machines? Nothing, there's
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it. That's some money. They make money. Okay.
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 5: It's not enough to consume their time.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 1: No, no, no, it's not even that.
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 7: Is it? To me, vending machines is something that you
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 7: have to be on top of and it's the business
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 7: that you have to grow.
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 7: Because you came from, and I want to say came from,
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 7: but you're of the custom of not doing anything on
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 7: a consistent basis. I don't see you picking up something
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 7: that is a super consistent thing and a growth thing
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 7: and that being your thing out the gate.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 1: So it's like.
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but picking it, you know what I'm saying? You
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: made her think about it. Like some, I think a
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 4: little prejudgment, but then there comes a conversation, right? Because
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: you want them to get the hobby. You're like, okay, well,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: do you know what this entails?
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 7: And we had the conversation and I said, yo, all right, listen.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 7: We're going to come back in a week.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: We're going to talk. You'll bring to me your... Business plan?
• 1:00:53
  Speaker 7: Not the business plan, but just your ideas of what
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 7: you feel like you would need, what you feel like X, Y,
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 7: and Z.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying? Just to get started on
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 1: the idea of it. She never came back to me. Yeah.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 1: And then, obviously, when we broke up, that was one
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: of the things that came up when we broke up.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 5: She had to go to the bathroom.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 7: Nah, she had to go to the bathroom, but I
• 1:01:10
  Speaker 7: just think the motivation and the self-discipline it takes to
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 7: do certain stuff.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: A lot of people don't got that motivation. Yeah, that's
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: a fact.
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 5: A lot of people don't got that.
• 1:01:17
  Speaker 2: Some people are not good at choosing shit. Like, I
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 2: don't know what my favorite color is. Do you have
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: a favorite color? What's your favorite color?
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 1: You have a favorite color? Yeah. Do you have a
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 1: favorite color?
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 2: I used to.
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 1: My favorite color is red. What, you ran out of it?
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 3: I feel like at the time, I just picked what
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 3: everybody else wanted to pick. But I got a red car,
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 3: and I like red a lot, so I think it's
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 3: a red. But I might throw some pink on and
• 1:01:41
  Speaker 3: some violet, and I'd be like... I look good, and
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 3: I like violet at the time. So I don't know
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 3: what's favorite.
• 1:01:47
  Speaker 2: Those are close to red.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: I'm not an archivist. Is that a thing?
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: A colorist.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: I don't know. I just made it up just now.
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think some people don't do that much introspection
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: into those type of things.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 4: There's things that certain people think of, and there's certain
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 4: things that people never think of.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: Let me see something. What does it mean if I
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 1: don't have a favorite color? Busy.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: Not him.
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 1: What does it mean if I don't have a favorite color?
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 1: You don't have a favorite color at all? I thought
• 1:02:14
  Speaker 1: your favorite color was like oatmeal or something. But also.
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 5: He already said his favorite color. What'd you say?
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 4: Someone said.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: Some people. It was like tan or something. Favorite color.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 5: I'm into red though.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: I like red.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 6: Red.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: I'm into red.
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: Not having a single favorite color simply means you do
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: not feel a strong permanent attachment to it.
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 1: I thought it was going to be some other shit.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: You bitch ass fucking. Okay. Emotional balance or neutrality. You
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: may experience your.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 2: Emotions evenly rather than gravitating toward the intense psychological pull
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 2: of one particular shade.
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: Well, that's not true. That's cat. I'm a Pisces.
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 4: It means nothing.
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: I go crazy. It doesn't mean anything? It doesn't mean anything.
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: It means you open. I don't have a favorite food.
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 5: That's okay. I think that's... You have a favorite food?
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 1: I don't know that I do. I think normal people
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: have favorite foods.
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 5: I feel like my favorite food is chicken.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: That's fair. That's a take. That's a food. That's a take.
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: That's a take. You have a favorite food, Chris?
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 4: Stuff changes for me.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 1: I love chocolate. I have a favorite food.
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 5: I'm a chocolate lover.
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: So, yeah, I'm just trying to say like people don't.
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 5: I don't know if that's my favorite food.
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 1: I like chocolate. Chocolate chicken? Maybe you just like shit
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: that starts with C.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 5: I'm just talking about chocolate.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 4: I think people are willing to stand on the hill
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 4: that they're willing to die on.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: That's pretty good.
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 5: That's like a bar right there.
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: All right. Let's go to back.
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: Where was I at? Was I at Twitter? I'm back
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 2: to Instagram.
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: Instagram. Was I? No. We got to go back to Twitter.
• 1:03:42
  Speaker 3: To X.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 2: I've noticed the brokest women somehow end up with the
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: most successful men. Meanwhile, women with careers, ambition, their own money,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 2: and a life they built themselves are fighting for their
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: lives in the dating pool.
• 1:03:57
  Speaker 1: Can somebody explain why? Humility.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 3: Appreciation.
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: Integrity. Patience. Please explain, Chris. Humility.
• 1:04:08
  Speaker 4: Yeah, because the girl that's broke, and whoever wrote that, Eyes,
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 4: knows she's operating from broke. So there's probably more humility.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 4: There's probably more gratefulness. There's probably more that she's willing
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 4: to do because she understands and is aware of her situation.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 1: Whereas.
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 4: unfortunately it is in a little bit of an epidemic
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: we can be feminine and powerful but sometimes we forget
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 4: to be feminine you know because again that's survival mode
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: i'm a boss i'm doing this i'm doing this so
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: some women don't know how to come home and let
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 4: that go and be soft at home so essentially men
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 4: you know sometimes get tired of that so the humility
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 4: is there you know you can be a boss but
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 4: it's also are you a woman in your relationship are
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 4: you the boss of the relationship But then do you
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 4: have a partner that likes that? Because it's not about
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 4: that being wrong. It's that did you choose someone who
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 4: likes a strong woman at home or did you choose
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 4: someone who is a strong man and you're trying to
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 4: control him?
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 2: I don't want no chick that doesn't know how to
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: be feminine.
• 1:05:06
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't give a fuck how successful you are.
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 4: I think most men know.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 6: Facts.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: I don't. I don't even want a chick that doesn't
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 1: want to have humility.
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 5: Like how do you forget that you have a vagina?
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: Bragging and boasting and Like, I'm this and I'm like that. Yo,
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: where do I rest in this? Like, where am I
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 3: in this equation?
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: It's feeling cuckish. Yeah. It's feeling like I'm in the corner. Yeah,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 1: I'm in the corner just watching you do you. Like,
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 1: what happened? Yeah. Catching it through. Yes, what did you
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 1: say the reason was? I said integrity. Integrity?
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 7: Yeah, because I think the women that are successful in
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 7: that way, I think women in general have just a
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 7: lower tolerance for niggas and bullshit. But I think women
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 7: that are super successful or that have their own thing,
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 7: I think that the threshold is damn near at the floor.
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 7: And I think that's good, right? Because I think, I
• 1:05:52
  Speaker 7: don't want to say that broke women tolerate more stuff,
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 7: but I think, yeah.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 5: It's true, though.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 1: I'm not trying to be funny, but I'm just saying,
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 1: so I think women.
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 3: At that level, I think your room for error is
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 3: just very, very, very low.
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 2: But isn't tolerating part of being in a successful relationship?
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think the toleration sometimes, I think... Wait,
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 1: do you agree with that or are you just saying
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: yes because I said it?
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 5: What do you mean?
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: You just said it. Do you think that tolerating some
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: shit that you might not agree with is a part
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 2: of being in a successful relationship?
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 1: To a degree. You have to pick your battles. Yeah,
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 1: to a degree.
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 4: You have to pick your battles.
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 1: That's what I think.
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 4: Toleration should never be used in a relationship.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 1: Period.
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 4: Toleration. you know like I'm tolerating you.
• 1:06:37
  Speaker 3: Should be able to compromise I agree with you you.
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 7: Know cause once you're tolerating something it's already like it's
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 7: like it's going down exactly like that's how I.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 4: Feel and the quote unquote broke woman that is tolerating
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 4: that behavior is doing so with an outcome.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 2: My lady I was about to say something remember the
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 2: topic that we spoke about that happened in the bedroom
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: that I said is not feminine right that I don't
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: like yeah it has to do with eating and what
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: happens after you eat Mm-hmm.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 1: Do everybody get the drift?
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 5: No, not really, but okay.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 1: Merry Christmas. The drift.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 1: Okay. Relieving themselves? I'm tolerating this, even though I don't
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 1: enjoy it.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: Hold on. You don't enjoy it on her end or
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 5: your end?
• 1:07:22
  Speaker 1: On her end.
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 5: Meaning that she's doing it?
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 6: Yeah. Oh, okay.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 2: Well, we almost at a dime now. We going on
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 2: eight years. She ain't holding none of that back no more.
• 1:07:33
  Speaker 2: That'll be tough at this point to be like, yeah,
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: you got to go off the room.
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's nasty.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 2: But so now I'm like, but she's, I would assume
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 2: she's been tolerating it because I don't stop. I let
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 2: it go.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: So we're saying tolerate.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 6: Accepts.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: Accepts.
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 2: There are things that you tolerate.
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 1: Compromise on.
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 2: There are things that you compromise on.
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 4: I think tolerate is the wrong word. Let's say accept
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: because you accept.
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 1: I don't accept it. Well, you do. You do. No,
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: I'm still mad. That's the first thing I thought about
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: when I thought of this.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 5: At this point, you're being tortured. So I don't know.
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 1: Exactly. Call the cops. Maybe I like it. Maybe I
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: am being a cuck. Now, I said appreciation. To the farts?
• 1:08:11
  Speaker 5: I feel like, you know.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 1: A fart cook. Oh, God. This is horrible.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: Oh, my God.
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 3: I feel like the women, and I guess that are
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 3: not as successful, appreciate what they're getting and what the
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 3: person is giving. So they are, you know what I'm saying,
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 3: they act a certain way. Whereas the women that are.
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 3: Fight two for nail or be the boss, so to speak,
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 3: it's not about appreciation. It's like, hey, you matching my energy?
• 1:08:45
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? You matching my strap size,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 5: so to speak? They got that energy like, yeah, what's up?
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 1: What you got?
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 5: It's like a battle.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 3: Not a battle, but it's it seems like it for
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 3: the for the man if a man and women don't
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 3: get that if if you if you come at it
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 3: like oh i don't need a man they don't like
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 3: that type of woman they want you to be so
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 3: they want a woman that needs them for something they
• 1:09:08
  Speaker 3: want that type of woman in a sense you can't
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 3: be challenging a man to be if now he's gonna
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: be with another man you know what's another man but
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 3: they're gonna be you know If that's your realm of things.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 1: But they need a woman. You do that in there,
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 1: of course. What happened? What's going on? What just happened?
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: You just said, all right. Why did you say that?
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 5: Because they want a woman, in other words. I need
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 5: somebody that's feminine.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, if we don't have, yeah. If I don't get
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: that from women, then I'm out.
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 3: I need somebody that's feminine and of softness and of
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 3: that character. I don't need you to act like a nigga.
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 5: I don't want another dick. I want another woman.
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 1: You understand?
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 5: I need a vagina in my life.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 3: I don't need you to be as tough as me.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 3: I want you to be soft and no matter what,
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: be the head of that character.
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: Chris is so amused.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 2: That's it.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 3: That's how men feel. I feel like that's what they want.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 3: You want somebody to challenge you all the time? You
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: want to compete with your partner?
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: No, that's peace.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying? What you want?
• 1:10:05
  Speaker 3: I get the toot up thing, Merry Christmas, but I'm
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 3: just saying, you don't want, you need that sense of
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 3: a woman needing you somehow, some way.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: I do, but I also don't like the idea of
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: how transactional relationships have become. And the lack of a
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: transaction for women becomes a lack of a need for you.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: Men are service animals in relationships most. What can you
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 2: do for me? It's where women are, it's how women
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 2: have presented that they're dating now. And this is not
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: something that I.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 5: I agree with that.
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 2: I didn't realize that this was a thing until women
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 2: presented these notions that everything is transactional, everything is transactional.
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 7: But why would it not be, though, at this point?
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 7: Because I see you're arguing from the other side, but
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 7: for women at this point in time, why would it
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 7: not be transactional for them?
• 1:11:02
  Speaker 1: What? What are you doing? Why are you doing it?
• 1:11:05
  Speaker 1: I'm just asking. What do you mean? What did it
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 1: not be? I mean, it's just the oldest profession. I
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: got you.
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 6: Hold on.
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 1: The oldest profession is prostitution. You heard? Jezebel.
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 2: I didn't know that's what we was doing. Now, you
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 2: see- I'm finding different forms of currency to buy my lady?
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 7: No, you see, I think, no, no, no, because I
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 7: don't want us to do that because I think when
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 7: we say transactional, you don't just mean the money portion.
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 1: You just mean overall, correct? What have you done for me?
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 2: Somebody said I don't know what comedian said it when
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: men ask their friends you know what the girl how
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 2: does she look right when women ask they say what
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 2: does he do.
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 1: Right it's transactional for women.
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 7: But I think for a long time women have been
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 7: on the other end of the constantly giving giving giving
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 7: giving giving giving giving so at some point at some
• 1:11:53
  Speaker 7: point where is it's like alright the women that are
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 7: coming to it like hold on I need something in
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 7: return we've always been here giving but There hasn't always
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 7: been a reciprocation.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 1: You can't use both. I'm sorry, Chris. One second.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: You can't use both. Women have said that they want
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 2: men to be traditional. Men used to take care of.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: Men used to protect, provide. You can't say that we
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: used to do this and be like, oh, well, we've
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: always given. If that's the case, then we've always protected
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 2: and provided.
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: You can't use both. It's got to be one or
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 1: the other. I don't know.
• 1:12:22
  Speaker 2: It's got to be one or the other.
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 5: Let the young lady speak. She has something to say
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 5: on the ice cream.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: It just went so many places.
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 1: I'm like, wait, where am I? It did. It did. Okay, wait.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 4: Yes, things have become transactional, right? But I want to
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 4: talk about the sociology of it all, right? There's a
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 4: lot of things that are happening that we didn't necessarily
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 4: have to deal with. The generation is changing. And I'm
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 4: just giving you an example of just watching my 14-year-old
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 4: niece and talking to a couple of 21-somethings. You know
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 4: what I'm saying? One, I know a handful of 25-year-olds
• 1:12:52
  Speaker 4: that actually have never been in love and have never
• 1:12:55
  Speaker 4: had a boyfriend. And when you ask them why, it's like, well,
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 4: it was just never an available option. So the whole
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 4: hookup culture took over love. This is literally the actual
• 1:13:04
  Speaker 4: generation of no love right now. So going back to
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 4: my 14-year-old niece, because obviously a lot of them are
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 4: experimenting at a younger age because it's being heavily promoted.
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 4: And I'm watching her on a chat, like a FaceTime chat,
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 4: and they're talking to boys. And I'm talking about like
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 4: these 14-year-old boys were so aggressive, so disrespectful. So not kind.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 4: I'm talking about I've never been spoken to at 14
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 4: that way. It came to me as an epiphany all
• 1:13:27
  Speaker 4: of a sudden why they choose to experiment and also
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 4: become transactional. They're like, I don't like the way this
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 4: person is treating me. I don't know what love is.
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 4: They're not offering me courtship. They're not offering me dates.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 4: They're not offering me a future. They're telling me, yo,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 4: I'm going to whip it out. What the fuck are
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 4: you going to do? So socially transparent. sexually, things have
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 4: changed so much where they're literally at the floor. So
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 4: when you're talking about transaction, you're talking about transactional in
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 4: terms of our morals and what we've been subjected to,
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 4: but not what the current generations or the generations under
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 4: us are going through. Because remember, that COVID lack of
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 4: socialization messed them up big time. And before that, they,
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 4: I mean, it was just open season for sex. So
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 4: with that being said, if it's open season for sex
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 4: and I'm not getting love, I'm not getting courted, I'm
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 4: not getting these other things, I don't know what a
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 4: good man is, yeah, I'm going to ask you for things.
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 5: This generation is jacked up, though.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: She hit it right on the head, too. You think
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 1: that was Danielle?
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 7: When she's talking, because I'm thinking about it, because you
• 1:14:27
  Speaker 7: know I work, you know what I'm saying? So I
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 7: was thinking about it, and I told you I had
• 1:14:30
  Speaker 7: this conversation. It was like an assembly one day, and
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 7: we had obviously the boys and the girls come in.
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 7: And without telling them, they sat in separate spaces by themselves.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 7: We never told them. There was no direction on the sitting.
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 7: But just naturally, they sat boys on this side, girls
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 7: on this side. And the two people that was like cross-referenced,
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 7: not to be funny, it was a gay girl and
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 7: it was gay boys on the other side that were
• 1:14:53
  Speaker 7: sitting with their friends. But me and my coworkers are
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 7: just sitting there looking like, yo. There's not even a mingling.
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: You know how it is. It's always been like that.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: It's not like that. It's always been like that. I'm
• 1:15:04
  Speaker 1: talking about on their own fruition.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 4: You'd have to separate them.
• 1:15:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Remember, you'd have to separate the people.
• 1:15:10
  Speaker 2: Boys have always liked being around boys the same way
• 1:15:13
  Speaker 2: girls have always felt safer around girls.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 7: But when you get into a school setting, there's always
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 7: been the mingling. The boys want to be around the girls.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 7: The girls want to be around the boys. Now when
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 7: you go in the mix and you ask like, yo,
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 7: why y'all don't be hanging out?
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 5: They don't even like each other.
• 1:15:25
  Speaker 1: The girls, they don't want nothing to do with them.
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: They think they're weird. They're immature. I'm serious. That's what
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 1: they say.
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 4: No crushes. No puppy love.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no. That's over. All of that.
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 3: It's different.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 5: Back in the day, I loved being around women.
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: The girls.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: Nice to always be around the girls.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 5: And I always used to be around the boys.
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 3: The dancing comedic. That's why I learned how to be
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 3: the comedy dude. Because I might have been heavy set,
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 3: but I might be heavy D with it.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: Make them laugh.
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 5: But I make you laugh and I have a good time.
• 1:15:52
  Speaker 7: There's more female on female relationships where I work than
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 7: regular relationships.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 4: And you have to ask yourself why. And after watching
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 4: their interaction, it was a safety choice.
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: I understand. Think about it.
• 1:16:03
  Speaker 4: 14, 15 years old, you're really thinking about it. I
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 4: say that to the boys every day. You're really saying, okay,
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 4: I have all these feelings. Do I make out with
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 4: this boy that's going to treat me horribly? Or do
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 4: I experiment with this girl where I actually get to
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 4: feel some emotions?
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 5: She was saying this crazy thing.
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: I don't like what y'all did to this conversation. Sorry.
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 5: I don't know who y'all is.
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: The reason I don't like it is because, Chris, you
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: took it to adolescence. when we're talking about people in
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: the dating world today.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 4: Yes, but that adolescence is what shaped how they are
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 4: interacting with each other. So I'm not just talking about
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 4: this one 14-year-old. I'm talking about even me having a
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 4: conversation with a 21-year-old five years ago who says, yo,
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 4: I've never had a boyfriend.
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what?
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 4: Not at 15?
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: Not at 14?
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 4: You wasn't in love? You never like fake loved someone?
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 2: But it's just not the 21. It's the 35 and
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 2: the 40-year-olds too.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 1: Yes. That have had a previous... relationship with other people
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 1: before COVID.
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 2: They've dated, they've had kids and they're now saying it's transactional.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 4: Okay, but I'll say that. So you're right. 35, 40
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 4: year olds acting like it's transactional. It's not no different
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 4: than us learning for the game from these younger people
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: on the streaming and all these other stuff that they
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 4: make in money. We gonna try it too. The thing
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 4: about it is they going to get theirs. They're like, yo,
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 4: I've been doing it right all this time. And that's
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 4: bitterness too. Like, yo, I've been doing it this way
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 4: and I've been doing it. I'm not getting nothing. I'm
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 4: dealing with all these dudes. I'm wasting my time. Yo,
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 4: shorties young doing this. Like, man, I'm gonna live like that.
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 4: But that's bitterness and that's lack of healing.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: But Chris, it works for men way more. That's the
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: silliest thing in the world now that I think about it.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 2: Transactional works for us way more. We have more money.
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: And it's like we don't even need the relationship like that.
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: We just want some pussy and some companionship. And we
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 2: don't have to give y'all what y'all need, what y'all
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 2: want from it. If all we got to do is
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 2: be transactional here, what does it take to get what
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 2: I want from you?
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 1: But that's my point. Basically.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 4: But that's my point. Everybody learned to be transactional. And
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 4: because the men are more transactional and it's more successful
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 4: for you, the women had just caught on and said, yo,
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 4: since you're bartering with me, I'm not even going to
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 4: lie to myself.
• 1:18:08
  Speaker 1: Oh, shit. You're right. Men have always been transactional. That's
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 1: the point I was making in the beginning. That's why
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: I said men have always... I don't like it. The
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 1: women like it now. Yeah, they said, I'm going to
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 1: play too. That's what it is.
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  Speaker 5: Especially the funny looking dudes.
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 2: We've always tried to figure out what we had to
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 2: do to get them. It's the fact that they know now.
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 1: All right, so now here's my list. And they're saying
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 1: it to us. Right.
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  Speaker 4: Here's my list.
• 1:18:32
  Speaker 1: Oh, I don't like that.
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 5: That's my list.
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  Speaker 4: Because you're not offering me anything else. You offered me
• 1:18:36
  Speaker 4: the transaction.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: And once they started being able to make real money.
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 5: I don't leave with transactions.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 7: Once they started being able to make real money off
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 7: of the sexual stuff, past the men, it was over.
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 7: So that even ding of where men used to be like, oh,
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 7: but you're this. but you're that, it's over. We make
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 7: more money than you now. So now that. that's not
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 7: even there for you no more. But it still doesn't
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 7: work for them.
• 1:18:56
  Speaker 2: Like, yo, we can still bottom barrel our way through
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 2: getting mad pussy.
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 1: It's like, so what?
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 4: And they can offer them.
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: Something more, man.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: And that's when you differentiate, you know, who paid for
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 3: it to who don't got to pay for it. Because
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 3: if they like you a certain way, they ain't got
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 3: to go through all that. And then they still be
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 3: able to, they going to rock with homie. You going
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 3: to go ahead and do what you want to do.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 3: But they're going to rock with home because they like him.
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 3: They like his energy.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: But he's still doing things.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 5: He's not doing what you're doing.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: No, you're talking about money. Transaction isn't just money.
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: Access.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 4: But also, access is the best one you said so far.
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 5: What you mean as far as doing what?
• 1:19:32
  Speaker 4: We're living in a different time, too, where it's not
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 4: just the circle guys of transaction. It's not just the
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 4: people I interact with. I can go look at any
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 4: one of my followers and be like, you know what?
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 4: Let me just DM this person. Access. And people who...
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 4: We'll probably never even talk to these type people. There's
• 1:19:49
  Speaker 4: so many things that can happen due to technology, knowledge, access. So, yeah,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 4: it's transactional because the men don't mind it to be transactional.
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 4: And when y'all stop, then maybe it'll stop. Just like
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 4: when women stop certain things, maybe certain things will stop.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 5: The problem is niggas is thirsty.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 4: And someone's always willing to make something transactional.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 5: Niggas is thirsty.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 3: They fuck a tree if you got a fat ass
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 3: and titties.
• 1:20:10
  Speaker 7: And before, I feel like everything used to be about money.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 7: Now it's about money and clout. So I don't have
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 7: to get the money no more. If I just get
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 7: the clout off it, I'm good. We're going back to
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 7: the original piece of this, right?
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: Let's do it. This is the last. We're about to
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: go to break in a second.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: The women are noticing that the broke chicks are winding
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 2: up in relationships.
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 5: Yes, because they require less.
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 4: They don't require less. It's not about requiring less.
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: I feel like they're willing to put up with more.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 5: I feel like they require less and we give more.
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: They're willing to put up with more. That's it. I
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: don't think that. I don't think that.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:20:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'd say that.
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 5: I think it's a thing of appreciation. I personally feel
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 5: like it's appreciation.
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: You can appreciate it. Two things, both can happen.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 3: It is probably two things. I think like if you're
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 3: a woman, when a man does something, let's say, you
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: know what, because men are stupid and I see this
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 3: all the time. You got this bad joint who this
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 3: dude taking on a trip here. And you got the
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 3: next nigga that got money that want to overpower this nigga.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 5: And let me take you to Mars.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 1: And in this way, like, you know what? Let me
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 1: take you to Jupiter.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 5: And they'd like to challenge the stupidity.
• 1:21:18
  Speaker 3: Whereas you got somebody who has not experienced anything. And
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 3: they're just so in awe. And they like that appreciation
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 3: and gratefulness. from that and they're willing to do that
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 3: and they got a good personality and they got good
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 3: character etc etc and they more or less they you
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 3: know they stick around that's what I feel you know
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying like that's my opinion on that and
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 3: that's how a lot of what.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: I see I gotta close this out I still have
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 2: pushback but we ran out of time um Chris please
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 2: tell these people where they can find you we're going
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 2: into part two right now anyway.
• 1:21:54
  Speaker 4: But you know you can find me on Instagram Chris Childs.
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: Chris with a Y. C-H-R-Y-S for those.
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 5: That it confuses.
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: Childs.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: Chris Childs. Yesterday, I don't know if y'all have found him.
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 2: He's following. I don't like that. Yesterday, Triple S on
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 2: all platforms. Yesterday on everything.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: Follow me. Come show some love. See what I got
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 1: going on.
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 4: Who are you texting?
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 5: I was looking at your Instagram.
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 1: What's good with you, play?
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 5: I was just looking at your Instagram.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 1: What are you looking at?
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 5: No.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: Chris. Oh, okay. You went right to it. Yeah.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 5: I checked it out.
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 1: All right, cool. Yeah. Just two seconds. She fired. Marcus,
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: where can she find you? Okay.
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 5: I'm just spread out on the couch.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 3: That's why.
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 1: See how he do? See how he do? That's crazy.
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 2: He didn't even wait until the second day.
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: I got you. I got you.
• 1:22:49
  Speaker 3: You can find me on Instagram at imovedifferent on IG. Also,
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 3: my other IG is MarcusHood. Marcus here to help. It's
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 3: a relationship one. I move differently than the other one.
• 1:23:00
  Speaker 1: Ladies and gentlemen, spread out on the couch.
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 5: That was making like Mufasa's wife.
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 1: She fight. I'm telling you.
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 5: She's tough.
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 1: Don't play like that.
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 2: More men should check their friends when they bugging.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 5: I check all my niggas if they bugging.
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 1: But you didn't check your search.
• 1:23:24
  Speaker 2: We'll be back in three seconds with part.
• 1:23:29
  Speaker 1: Two of So Shameless. Peace. I got to pee too.
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: Thank God. Jesus Christ.