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What is 180 Degree Dating? · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: 180-degree dating.
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  Speaker 2: What is that? Any guesses? Any guesses in the room?
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  Speaker 3: I want to guess.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, go.
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  Speaker 3: The type that you go for hasn't worked, so you
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  Speaker 3: do something that's totally against your type. Ding, ding, ding.
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  Speaker 2: Literally.
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  Speaker 1: It's a new trend called 180-degree dating. So after a breakup,
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  Speaker 1: you intentionally date someone who's the complete opposite of your
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  Speaker 1: normal type. So basically, this is my theory.
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  Speaker 2: It's like your.
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  Speaker 1: Type is actually your problem. So if your last four
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  Speaker 1: relationships ended the same way and all four people are
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  Speaker 1: basically the same person in different fonts, you need to
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  Speaker 1: switch it up. So if you usually date athletes, date
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  Speaker 1: the nerdy dude. If you're always dating an extrovert, date
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  Speaker 1: the quiet guy. If you want a tall guy, give
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  Speaker 1: short kings a chance. They know how to throw it down.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you.
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  Speaker 1: All right.
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  Speaker 2: Always try harder.
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  Speaker 1: They really do okay like if you always date bad
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  Speaker 1: boys like just try something.
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  Speaker 4: Else it makes sense because john jay you've told the
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  Speaker 4: story a lot about how your sister said she would
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  Speaker 4: never date this this and this and then she ended
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  Speaker 4: up marrying that that that's exactly.
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  Speaker 2: Right she she was dating she was going to ucla
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  Speaker 2: and she was dating like gq models and stuff it
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  Speaker 2: was great george clooney's hairstylist so wild yeah i know
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  Speaker 2: all these and then she was like Well, I will
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  Speaker 2: never date a guy with tattoos who's missing teeth or bald.
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  Speaker 2: And that's who she's married to. He's bald. He's missing teeth.
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  Speaker 2: And he's got covered in tattoos. And they've got such
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  Speaker 2: a great marriage. They've been married 20 years, over 20 years.
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  Speaker 2: Opposites truly attract. That's crazy. Macy, are you familiar with
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  Speaker 2: this 180 dating trend?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? Tell us about it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Full flip upside down like Harry Styles is talking about.
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  Speaker 4: If you're listening to the lyrics, they're upside down.
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  Speaker 3: Right?
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  Speaker 4: Right. And now they're back. Like 180. They worked it out.
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  Speaker 4: Am I right?
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  Speaker 2: Are you going somewhere with it? I have no idea
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  Speaker 2: what you're talking about.
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  Speaker 4: Does this relate to your story?
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  Speaker 2: It's a 180 flip.
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  Speaker 4: It's a 180 flip. Like they were backwards. Things weren't
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  Speaker 4: working out. And now 180. It's all better.
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  Speaker 2: What Harry Styles song is that?
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  Speaker 4: It's the circles. They're running in circles.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, I know post Malone circles.
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  Speaker 4: We will.
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  Speaker 1: We need to listen.
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  Speaker 2: We're trying to win those tickets.
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  Speaker 4: I think that's what I think 180 dating is, right?
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  Speaker 3: No?
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  Speaker 1: Close? Yeah, I mean, yeah, you got it.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, see? Okay, so I won something, right? I win, like,
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  Speaker 4: the pride of winning.
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  Speaker 3: Sure.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, take that.
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  Speaker 4: Do you want to, do you need to hear about
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  Speaker 4: how horrible my dating life is?
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  Speaker 2: Sure.
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  Speaker 4: Because I feel like you need to know. Okay, so I'm, I... Admittedly,
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  Speaker 4: I'm kind of like a dumpster fire dater person. I
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  Speaker 4: just have a horrible picker. My radar for anything is
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  Speaker 4: totally off, especially according to my friends because they see
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  Speaker 4: life clearly, I guess. Um, cause I had my third
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  Speaker 4: breakup with like basically the same exact man in a
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  Speaker 4: different body.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: So my girlfriend staged an actual intervention for me. They
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  Speaker 4: took my hinge, changed my preferences and made a rule
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  Speaker 4: that I wasn't allowed to swipe for myself for 30 days. Um,
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  Speaker 4: And I was, like, freaking out. I'm like, are you
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  Speaker 4: kidding me right now? Like, I have no say at all.
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  Speaker 4: And they were like, no, girl, sit down. Like, they
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  Speaker 4: picked my dates. So they send me out with this
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  Speaker 4: guy that I would have never, ever chosen. Like, no shade,
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  Speaker 4: but he's bald. Okay. A little baldy.
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  Speaker 1: 5'7.
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  Speaker 4: Basically my height and owns Crocs in multiple colors, works
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  Speaker 4: in IT. So total tech nerd, you know, and his
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  Speaker 4: idea of like a wild Friday is Costco and watching
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  Speaker 4: date light. And my friends were like, he's perfect. And
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  Speaker 4: I came home from our first date and I was like,
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  Speaker 4: He's terrible. Like, absolutely not. Zero butterflies. And my best
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  Speaker 4: friend was like, good, because your butterflies are messed up. Like,
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  Speaker 4: my butterflies have historically been a warning from my nervous system, apparently.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know. So she's like, well, sit down. I'm choosing.
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  Speaker 4: This is your guy. Anyway, fast forward. It's been two years.
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  Speaker 4: We're engaged.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, you're engaged to Costco?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Yes. Well, guess what? He proposed to me there at Costco.
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  Speaker 4: Like freaking Costco.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So right next to the registry tickets, they're like going
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  Speaker 4: around in circles. And my toxic ass said yes.
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  Speaker 3: Cute.
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  Speaker 2: I did not see that coming.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that was not the ending we were looking for.
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  Speaker 3: So the 180 for you.
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  Speaker 4: What?
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  Speaker 3: The 180 for you worked out.
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  Speaker 4: 180 for me, yeah. I was like the little rotisserie
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  Speaker 4: chicken just going in circles.
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  Speaker 2: That's what they say. Try the 180 routine. It's not
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  Speaker 2: working for you one way, so go the other way.
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  Speaker 2: It worked. It worked. That's great.
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  Speaker 3: I swear.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Same thing with like bedding. Like if I think bed
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  Speaker 4: on red, it's black. If I think it's going up,
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  Speaker 4: it's down. So just like don't trust my instincts.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, thank you, Macy, for sharing that 180 rule.
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  Speaker 2: It works. The trend works. Circles. Christina, we're talking about
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  Speaker 2: the 180 rule. You're dating someone totally different. Is that
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  Speaker 2: what you're calling about? Yes, I am. Okay. Tell us
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  Speaker 2: your story. Face tattoos. What?
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  Speaker 4: I am a conservative girl and I'm dating a guy
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  Speaker 4: with face tattoos.
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  Speaker 2: How did he even get your attention?
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  Speaker 4: It's Facebook dating.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 4: I was just on there for fun.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So you look at his profile, you see face tattoos.
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  Speaker 2: What made you follow through?
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  Speaker 4: Curiosity.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. And how long have you been with him now?
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  Speaker 4: 10 months.
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  Speaker 1: Cute.
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  Speaker 2: All right. And where are the tattoos and what are
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  Speaker 2: they and how much of his face is covered?
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  Speaker 4: He has two under his, one under the left eye
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  Speaker 4: and one under the right eye. And it's Arizona.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, good. I thought they were going to be like teardrops.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'm glad they're not teardrops.
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  Speaker 2: You said it's Arizona. And what's the other one?
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  Speaker 4: It's the wildcat paw print.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, wow.
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  Speaker 1: Wow.
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  Speaker 2: It's a weird place to put that.
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  Speaker 3: I mean, he loves his Arizona.
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  Speaker 1: He's a proud fan.
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  Speaker 2: Wow.
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  Speaker 4: It's just like having the black mark.
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  Speaker 1: Underneath your eyes.
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  Speaker 3: Why didn't you put him a little lower on his body?
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  Speaker 3: Why in his face? I hope he went to U
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  Speaker 3: of A.
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  Speaker 2: He's like, what's that?
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  Speaker 3: U of A, what's that?
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  Speaker 4: It's a prison tattoo.
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  Speaker 2: Was he in prison?
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  Speaker 1: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: It actually was. Oh, it's a teardrop cover-up. Whoever gave
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  Speaker 2: it to him went to you.
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  Speaker 4: All right, Christina.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, man. All right. That's so funny. Sounds like you
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  Speaker 2: got yourself a keeper. Yeah, thanks, Christina. Thanks for sharing
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  Speaker 2: that one. That's a big one.
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, guys.
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  Speaker 2: All right. Nobody can beat that. She's so cute.