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Are you a conservative girlie man incel? Take the test! · Honey Badger Radio

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  Speaker 1: The morning, good afternoon, good evening, where you may be
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  Speaker 1: and welcome back to honey Badger Radio. My name is Brian,
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  Speaker 1: I'm here with Allison and this is maintaining frame. Are
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  Speaker 1: you conservative? Girly man in cell? Take the test where
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  Speaker 1: we'll be looking at a couple of different medium blogs
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  Speaker 1: but like sort of like where they connect, I guess,
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  Speaker 1: or how they how they really each other?
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  Speaker 2: How do you want me to explain my madness? Okay,
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  Speaker 2: So what we have is, on the one hand, the
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  Speaker 2: first article seven red flags for where you know.
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  Speaker 3: The guy could be a conservative. You have a woman.
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  Speaker 1: Oh wait, wait, wait wait wait a conservative. That's a
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  Speaker 1: that's a that's a danger. That's like a problem.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, well yes, of course, because he's not presenting progressive values.
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  Speaker 4: But here's the thing, Okay, I have done a deep
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  Speaker 4: dive into how things are defined and when they say
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  Speaker 4: progressive values.
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  Speaker 3: They mean don't be a man.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, guys, and I know there are progressives in our
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  Speaker 4: audience who are saying, what the hell what are you
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  Speaker 4: talking about?
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  Speaker 3: The problem is.
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  Speaker 4: That they have made a political position, and by they
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  Speaker 4: I mean the psychology of men of masculinities, where a
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  Speaker 4: lot of this toxicity has been leaching into our society.
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  Speaker 4: They have decided that being a man is a political position.
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  Speaker 4: So even if you're progressive, if you are a progressive man,
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  Speaker 4: you are still a conservative, right You got to not
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  Speaker 4: identify with being you're still a man. You got to
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  Speaker 4: not identify with being a man. You can't accept that
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  Speaker 4: there are any positive male traits. And in fact, if
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  Speaker 4: you think the things that you do are neutral, you
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  Speaker 4: have to constantly be abjuring, like a repenting of your sin,
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  Speaker 4: of your masculinity, sins. That's the only way to be in.
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  Speaker 4: Well you're not even in. That's the only way to
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  Speaker 4: orbit the good people who are not you right now,
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  Speaker 4: I don't I say that, okay, But anyway, getting back
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  Speaker 4: to the madness of these two pieces. On the one hand,
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  Speaker 4: we have a woman who's essentially saying, don't be a man. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: that's how you date me, because a lot of the
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  Speaker 4: things that she terms conservative are actually just things that
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  Speaker 4: men do. And I know there's gonna be people that
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  Speaker 4: are like, oh my god, you're bioessentializing. The honest to
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  Speaker 4: god truth about all of this is that men do
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  Speaker 4: have a nature, and they have a nature as a
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  Speaker 4: behavioral expression of how they bond, which is different than
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  Speaker 4: men than women. Women bond through oxytocin. Men bond through vasappressing.
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  Speaker 4: Vasappressing creates behavioral differences, and the psychology of men and boys.
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  Speaker 4: Field has made vassti bonding the types of behavior you
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  Speaker 4: engage in because you have vast oppressing a political position
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  Speaker 4: that is also bad. Okay, that's what's happened. And she
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  Speaker 4: is essentially saying that if you have if you bond
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  Speaker 4: through vast oppression, and you have the behavioral profile of
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  Speaker 4: someone who bonds through vas oppression, you are bad and
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  Speaker 4: you need to stop doing that.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, that's what that's what.
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  Speaker 4: This article is about. I know that sounds a little
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  Speaker 4: bit confusing. Does it sound confusing, Brian?
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  Speaker 3: Did you get that?
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  Speaker 1: No? I have been I've actually been saying it myself
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  Speaker 1: for a long time, because yeah, I mean, I've also upset.
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  Speaker 1: I guess some are many progressives that watch our content
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  Speaker 1: because I've said that the problem is is that the
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  Speaker 1: entire progressive leftist movement is inherently anti mail because it's
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  Speaker 1: a against masculinity. Is the obstacle, That's just what it is.
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  Speaker 1: And I've been saying this forever, and you can call
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  Speaker 1: it whatever, partisan, whatever, But I'm partisan against people who
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  Speaker 1: hate me for what I am. So yes, call me partisan,
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  Speaker 1: you know, but like that. Yeah, that's the reality. And
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  Speaker 1: the thing is is that essentially it could be a
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  Speaker 1: legitimate position to hold if it weren't basically just run
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  Speaker 1: by women who are afraid of their own shadow and
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  Speaker 1: paranoid of all men because they've had fear of men
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  Speaker 1: instilled in them. And that's why they turn the fear
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  Speaker 1: and hatred of men into a political cause. And it
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  Speaker 1: basically informs every worldview, every belief, every initiative, every policy,
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  Speaker 1: every vote that they casts, all of it is revolving
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  Speaker 1: around like how do I protect myself from the scary
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  Speaker 1: men and free myself from patriarchy? So yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 1: when they say the word and I was saying this,
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  Speaker 1: I remember remember Kevin Logan, You guys remember Kevin Logan.
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  Speaker 1: I formed it very interesting. Yeah, this is this is
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  Speaker 1: how old this is. Kevin Logan used to accuse us
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  Speaker 1: constantly of being right wing conservatives. He didn't even like
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  Speaker 1: explain why that's bad or pejorative. I mean, at the
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  Speaker 1: time I didn't think it was accurate. So I basically
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  Speaker 1: like said, no, that's not true. But now I look
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  Speaker 1: back and I realize what he was actually doing was saying,
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  Speaker 1: you are bad. This is what bad is described as.
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  Speaker 1: These are the descriptors for bad. You are bad. Therefore
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  Speaker 1: you are right wing conservative right. So that has basically
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  Speaker 1: taken on a life of its own as a label.
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  Speaker 1: It is a thought terminating cliche. It's like calling someone
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  Speaker 1: a misogynist. It's like calling someone a racist or a bigot.
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  Speaker 1: It's the same thing. It just means, shut up, you're
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  Speaker 1: not allowed to have an opinion on this thing. You
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  Speaker 1: are not one of us, or you are not in
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  Speaker 1: the in the social web part of the network. You
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  Speaker 1: are you know, persona non gra Yeah, you're a black
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  Speaker 1: category exactly. And this is what Kevin Logan was doing.
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  Speaker 1: And he used to call on our show. I mean, gosh,
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  Speaker 1: this was so long ago. This was like when we
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  Speaker 1: used to have Fair and Meyron regularly. Who you know
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  Speaker 1: Fair and Meyer was a trans woman, but they didn't
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  Speaker 1: matter with Kevin Logan because she was associating with us.
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  Speaker 1: So she was also a right wing conservative right even
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  Speaker 1: though it was literally Farren Meyer was a trans woman
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  Speaker 1: from Canada. Yeah, so yeah, I mean that that's kind
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  Speaker 1: of like the I'm explaining the logic behind it. It's
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  Speaker 1: just you know, it's just no, and that's what this
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  Speaker 1: article is too, I think.
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  Speaker 4: But go ahead, Yeah, yeah, no it is. And I
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  Speaker 4: have myself, you know, I'm I don't identify as a conservative.
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  Speaker 4: I don't identify as right wing. I don't identify as
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  Speaker 4: a Republican. I'm not even American, right, I'm I just
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  Speaker 4: don't even resonate with a lot of this stuff that's
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  Speaker 4: that's said by those, especially the Republican Party.
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  Speaker 3: No offense, but.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I am just like, yeah, there's politicians and corporatists
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  Speaker 4: and everybody else. But regardless, I went into this and
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  Speaker 4: I came from a liberal background, a liberal feminist background,
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  Speaker 4: and I had concern about racism and all of this
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  Speaker 4: other stuff. And I noticed the connection between how particular
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  Speaker 4: narratives would treat black men and men generally, right, So
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  Speaker 4: that's sort of my part of where I came from.
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  Speaker 4: And and I just I was like, well, I don't
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  Speaker 4: think it's fair to treat white men like this. I
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  Speaker 4: don't think it's fair to treat any men like this.
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  Speaker 4: So that's that's, you know, like I'm not. I didn't
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  Speaker 4: come from this from a conservative angle. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 4: that conservatism is bad, just saying that's not the angle
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  Speaker 4: I came at to this from.
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  Speaker 3: And then I'm like, doing this.
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  Speaker 4: Research into this field of progressivism and how progressivism frames masculinity,
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  Speaker 4: and it's absolutely toxic. They have turned being a man
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  Speaker 4: into a political position, yep. And then they have said
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  Speaker 4: that this political position is wrong. And I know, like,
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  Speaker 4: you get into this these arguments about bio essentialism, but
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  Speaker 4: you cannot argue with the endocrine architecture.
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  Speaker 5: You can't.
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  Speaker 4: Men and women have different hormonal profiles. Women bond through oxytocin.
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  Speaker 4: They probably also bond through v one A cross activation,
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  Speaker 4: but that's a detail. Men bond through vacippression. These have
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  Speaker 4: behavioral differences, and you just if you're gonna argue with that,
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  Speaker 4: you're gonna have to argue with all of biology. And
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  Speaker 4: then you get into the whole Oh, reality has a
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  Speaker 4: left wing bias.
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  Speaker 5: No it doesn't.
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  Speaker 4: I'm sorry it doesn't, especially not when this very much.
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  Speaker 4: And in the documents themselves that I'm looking at, they
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  Speaker 4: are literally calling out conservatism as masculinity.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 4: They know the connection between wanting to protect and provide
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  Speaker 4: for your family, and having an environment in which you
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  Speaker 4: can do so. They understand that connection. I know conservatives
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  Speaker 4: don't often make that connection, but there is a strong
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  Speaker 4: connection between those two things. And it's not like men
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  Speaker 4: are necessarily conservative. It's that what they want to do
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  Speaker 4: in the world requires freedom. It requires having an external
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  Speaker 4: standard to hold yourself to. It requires being able to
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  Speaker 4: work and earn the material necessary to support your family.
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  Speaker 4: It requires being able to protect your family. Like these
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  Speaker 4: behavioral adaptations that men have require a certain suite of
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  Speaker 4: rights and environmental factors to be able to be manifested,
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  Speaker 4: which tends to have men run along certain political lines. Now,
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  Speaker 4: in the past, there was like the old Union men
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  Speaker 4: could maybe express their masculinity through that particular political axis.
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  Speaker 4: But that's gone. It's been it's been cannibalized by intersectionality
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  Speaker 4: and feminism. So you're just left with this one way,
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  Speaker 4: and it's not healthy because it can be exploited too.
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  Speaker 3: Like it anyway.
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  Speaker 4: That my overall point is that what I'm looking at
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  Speaker 4: now is that the field psychology, the psychological uh, the
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  Speaker 4: psychology of men and boys, which itself is a derivative
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  Speaker 4: a descendant of feminism. So it is it is a
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  Speaker 4: it is a something that feminism and women's studies spawned
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  Speaker 4: in the seventies late seventies, is this masculinity of men
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  Speaker 4: and boys, which honestly, it's not masculinity. It has nothing
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  Speaker 4: to do with men and boys. It's just basically, this
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  Speaker 4: is what men and boys have to be in order
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  Speaker 4: for feminist conjecture to be correct. Let's let's uh, let's
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  Speaker 4: grade men and boys on the feminist conjecture scale of
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  Speaker 4: men and boys. That's it's it's just it is a
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  Speaker 4: purely political artifact. It is basically saying that men are
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  Speaker 4: a political position and that that political position is wrong
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  Speaker 4: as right there in black and white in a in
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  Speaker 4: a field that was is derivative of feminism. That is,
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  Speaker 4: has influence over developmental banks, like we're talking about the
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  Speaker 4: World Bank, which is like the US Treasury has a
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  Speaker 4: controlling interest in the World Bank and the European Bank
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  Speaker 4: of Developed in Bank, and it crosses the entire world.
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  Speaker 4: So these people are influencing how masculinity is taught, how
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  Speaker 4: funds get appro apportioned throughout the world. Right, their version
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  Speaker 4: of masculinity with which is nothing of the sort, right,
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  Speaker 4: it's basically just saying men are the bad people and
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  Speaker 4: they're political, so you know, and yeah, like having being
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  Speaker 4: a person bonding through vassuppression and having the very real
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  Speaker 4: effects of that is a political position to them. No,
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  Speaker 4: and it's not legitimate. It's not a legitimate political position.
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  Speaker 4: It's something that needs to be eradicated. So men aren't
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  Speaker 4: willing to uh to repent of their sin, of their
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  Speaker 4: biological nature. And again they'll I'll say something like this,
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  Speaker 4: and they'll go and they'll say, well, you think that men,
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  Speaker 4: You don't think that men could be better? Right, Because
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  Speaker 4: they then they do the next thing, which which is
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  Speaker 4: associate masculinity with rapings and beatings and authoritarianism. Right, But
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  Speaker 4: what actually is associated with it is just the way
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  Speaker 4: the type of behaviors that men have the desire to
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  Speaker 4: protect and provide mate guarding. Right, Okay, that kind of stuff.
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  Speaker 4: That's just a set of behaviors that comes out of
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  Speaker 4: their endocrim biology and how they bond. And they've turned
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  Speaker 4: it into a political black category. Right anyway, So the
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  Speaker 4: point is that this is a in the wild expression
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  Speaker 4: of what the uh the psychology of men and boys
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  Speaker 4: Field has created this political divide and she's just perpetuating it.
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  Speaker 4: So she is taking and she probably doesn't even know,
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  Speaker 4: like this is the what's the name of the the individual?
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  Speaker 4: The seven flags of your conservative individual?
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  Speaker 1: Uh Dana dB.
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  Speaker 4: She probably has Yeah, she probably has no idea of
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  Speaker 4: the providence of any of this. She just picked it
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  Speaker 4: up from school.
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  Speaker 1: Now this is NPC talking points. Is just responding to
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  Speaker 1: the programming. There's nothing, there's nothing.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, And she probably has no idea that when you
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  Speaker 4: look at it through the lens of endocrine architecture, what
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  Speaker 4: she's asking men to be is not men mm hmm, right,
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  Speaker 4: And she's asking them to do things that are not
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  Speaker 4: native to how they think about the world. And essentially,
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  Speaker 4: what she's asking men to be is a bunch of
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  Speaker 4: social paths to virtue signal, and she has no idea
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  Speaker 4: that she's doing. And the second part of my madness
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  Speaker 4: is we're gonna look at somebody who's actually part of
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  Speaker 4: the men hemisphere who recognizes that this is what women
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  Speaker 4: are expecting of men. They're expecting men to hollow out
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  Speaker 4: the custodial impulses that are part and parcel with the vasappress.
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  Speaker 3: And bonding system.
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  Speaker 4: So hallow themselves out and then virtue signal right, and
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  Speaker 4: then have no uh because of all this, have no
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  Speaker 4: actual custodial investment in women, right because they there's all
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  Speaker 4: kinds of other stuff. And she's looking at these impossible
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  Speaker 4: standards that result from this, and he's saying, well, this
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  Speaker 4: is how you live up to these impossible standards men,
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  Speaker 4: And it's like, so you got the feminist who's promoting
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  Speaker 4: this whole being a man is politics, So stop that men, right,
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  Speaker 4: this the bad politics. It's the bad category in the politics,
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  Speaker 4: the black category. So you've got to stop that. And
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  Speaker 4: then you've got the man on the other side, the
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  Speaker 4: manisphere man who's saying, Okay, well, this is the dating
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  Speaker 4: landscape that what that's created by the psychology of men
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  Speaker 4: in masculinities field. This is the dating landscape that has
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  Speaker 4: been created. How you know, with all these impossible standards
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  Speaker 4: that women want, like hot ice, how do you live
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  Speaker 4: up to that?
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  Speaker 3: Men? Here's your guide.
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  Speaker 5: It's like.
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  Speaker 4: The answer is you can't. But men still want to
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  Speaker 4: be desirable to women. It's still a desire. It's like
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  Speaker 4: it's it's something that drives them. And of course it does,
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  Speaker 4: because if it didn't drive them, we wouldn't be here
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  Speaker 4: as a species, I'm sorry to say, Like you imagine
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  Speaker 4: if men had.
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  Speaker 3: Been easily evolved to simply be like.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't care about being desirable to women, right,
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  Speaker 4: there's that that doesn't happen because then we don't have
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  Speaker 4: a future generation. So there is a drive for men
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  Speaker 4: to be desirable to women. And what this guy is
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  Speaker 4: doing is he's inducing fear, you'll never be desirable. Look
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  Speaker 4: at how impossible these standards are. And then he's buying
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  Speaker 4: or he's selling the solution to that fear. And the
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  Speaker 4: fear is not wrong because he can see it in
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  Speaker 4: these women's standards that are contradictory and basically amount to
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  Speaker 4: hollow yourself out as a man. Right, become not you,
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  Speaker 4: become a thing that isn't you, because we don't want that.
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  Speaker 4: We don't want the behavior that is a emergent property
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  Speaker 4: of bonding by a vacidpressant. So hollow yourself out. And
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  Speaker 4: he's saying, well, this is how you hallow yourself out, guys,
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  Speaker 4: you know, buy my course. I don't know if he's
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  Speaker 4: said he's probably just got to substack or something. And
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  Speaker 4: I'm not saying that he's it's like it's an intentional
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  Speaker 4: thing on his part, because I think there's a lot
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  Speaker 4: like this wall for men that women will say, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: I want these dozen impossible things, and guys are like, okay, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: all right, fine.
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  Speaker 3: I'll go try do that.
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  Speaker 4: There's a wall about questioning what women demand. And again
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  Speaker 4: that's like it makes sense evolutiontionarily because the woman is
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  Speaker 4: responsible for taking care of a ten pound slug that
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  Speaker 4: has no mercy, so you know, presumably some of the
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  Speaker 4: demands that she's making and end up the offspring survives,
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  Speaker 4: so being able to question them doesn't isn't probably evolutionarily
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  Speaker 4: selected for. But really we should be questioning these things
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  Speaker 4: because women don't know what they want. Okay, I'll start
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  Speaker 4: shall we begin?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're gonna start with h Yeah, it was.
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  Speaker 1: We're gonna start. We're starting the stream now. Seven. This
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  Speaker 1: is from Medium seven dating profile tells that mean he's conservative,
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  Speaker 1: which I guess means avoid him. Reading Dating profiles is
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  Speaker 1: a translation exercise. Here's the decoder. This is obviously a
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  Speaker 1: woman is gonna try and.
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  Speaker 4: Relational web right there, remember yeah, yeah, right off the
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  Speaker 4: bat that the big thing is decoding the gap between
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  Speaker 4: what people show and what people say. No, I can,
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  Speaker 4: I can immediately if there's any woman who's actually watching
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: this to determine how to determine if a man is
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: a conservative, he's going to tell you.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: You can just ask him, just ask him. He probably
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: if he yeah, he probably doesn't want to waste his
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: time with someone who doesn't share.
• 20:49
  Speaker 4: His values exactly, So he doesn't want to waste his
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: time with you. So don't even think that there are
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: just these conservative men sneaking around trying to get to
• 21:00
  Speaker 4: your pants. I mean, I'm sure they are, but I mean,
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: if you look good and you kick him out the
• 21:06
  Speaker 4: next day, what does it matter?
• 21:07
  Speaker 3: Is politics?
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: Right? Well, that depends on what the purpose of the
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: you know date is. But like m M, I don't
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I don't think that conservative men want one night stands generally.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: I don't think most men want that. I think most
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: men want a pair bond, and but they want a
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: pair bond with someone who shares their their values, Like
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: why would you want to be with someone who you
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: disagree with on so many fundamental things? So this is
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: I think this is just more mate suppression. This is
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: Dana trying to sabotage her audience, basically ruin their chances.
• 21:42
  Speaker 4: So a conservative man will probably tell you yeah. And
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: if he's not telling you, he's probably just once a
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: one night stand, Like, what do you think he's going
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: to spring it on you in year sixteen of your relationship. Oh,
• 21:55
  Speaker 4: by the way, I've been conservative this entire time. Ha ha
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: ha oh I thought you were gay. No, I've been
• 22:02
  Speaker 4: in the conservative closet, like yeah, yeah, right after that.
• 22:07
  Speaker 3: This is completely illogic. Okay, go ahead, no.
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: No, no, I got okay, I got a couple of
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: super Chow, some super Chows and a Rumble rant, so
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna just read those and then get into the article. Okay.
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: So dark Kigi Morris sent a super Chow yesterday related
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: to the Patron Show, but I'm just gonna read it anyway,
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: and he says, for five dollars, I like this game
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: better when it was called Cooking Mama. We played a
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: game when the Patriot Show called a little demo for
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: a game called Woman Simulator pretty hilarious. So that was
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: his respond to that. And if you wanted to see that,
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: you'd have to become a member, So go to feed
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: thebachel dot com Ford that subscribes. You can check that out.
• 22:44
  Speaker 1: I also got a compliment from v for Vernon Vernon Meeks.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: He also said that he thought that was hilarious the
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: after show. But anyway, Roboto one, two, three, four, five
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: sixty seven gave us a dollar and says, society requires
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: a villain they can point at blaming men solve that problem.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: So far as times changes, so will more get revealed.
• 23:04
  Speaker 1: One day slavery will be come to an end, and
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: then progress can happen. Thank you for that. And then
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: Anonymous gives us fifty dollars, thank you so much and
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: says women are wonderful. Is bullshit. I'd rather trust a
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: single dad taking care of his kids. All right, thank
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: you for that. Yes, it's true, it is bullshit. Unfortunately
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: a lot of people, especially men, are still buying into
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: that line. So that's part of the reason why we're here,
• 23:32
  Speaker 1: all right. Now back to this reading Dating profiles is
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: a translation exercise. Here is the decoder. I'm going to
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: help you, ladies figure out no matter what he says
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: to you, I'm going to tell you what he's actually saying.
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: I live in Seattle. Well that's what that boils down to.
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: Don't listen to what he tells you, listen to my interpretation.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: I'm just I'm just like cringing, Like all of my
• 23:56
  Speaker 4: cringe organs are currently.
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah engaged, Okay, yeah, they're engaged. The dating pool. Oh,
• 24:08
  Speaker 1: I live in Seattle, which means I live in a great,
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: big blue bubble by choice. The dating pool here excu's
• 24:13
  Speaker 1: liberal enough that I can afford to be choosy about politics,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: and I am. Your mileage will vary if you're swiping
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: in Boise or Birmingham. The codes are different, the baseline
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: is different, and some of what reads as a red
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: flag here is just Tuesday somewhere else. I just want
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: to point out too, the writer of this article, Dana dB.
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: She is gen X, which means she's like in her
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: forties and fifties, so still dating. I'm just saying that
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't. That seems to immediately disqualify her from being
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: listened to, but I'll listen to her anyway. Maybe she's
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: had a relationship in a marriage and her husband died
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: tragically and she's a widow. I doubt that, though she
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: seems to be someone who's single by choice. I'm sorry,
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: living in Seattle by choice, not single by choice.
• 25:03
  Speaker 4: Uh, okay, even matter because she's choosing the dark side.
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I've been doing this long enough to
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: have developed a reliable internal translator. Most men won't tell
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: you their conservative They figured out that the math doesn't
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: work in their favor, and the math is real. Women
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: age eighteen to twenty nine are now fifteen points more
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: liberal than men the same age, and women among the
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: under thirty five crowd, the progressive gender gap runs as
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: high as twenty one points. Young women have moved left. Yeah,
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: go ahead, go ahead, It's okay.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: I know, I gotta shut up. I gotta let this okay,
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: all right.
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: Yes, let's remember as I before I get into this more.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: This woman is in her fifties, probably because I'm gen
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: X and I'm fifty two. She's gen X according to
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: her own confession, so she's either in the late forties
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: or fifties, and she is talking about women between the
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: ages of eighteen thirty five, So she's commenting on women
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: that are much younger than her. Tell me, this isn't
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: her trying to sabotage other women's relationships. But anyway, young
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: women have moved left faster than any group in decades,
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: largely after Dobbs, and they have done so for the
• 26:15
  Speaker 1: entirely rational reason that they would prefer to date people
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: who believe they should have authority over their own bodies.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: So conservative men have learned to go quiet. They don't
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: lie exactly, they omit. These are the tells. So this
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: is her like getting y'all set up? All right? Do
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: you want to say anything about this so far? Or
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: should I just keep going?
• 26:36
  Speaker 4: We went through We went through this extensively. Right, Conservative
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: men aren't gonna lie about it. What do you think
• 26:42
  Speaker 4: they're there for? They're tired to have a relationship with you,
• 26:47
  Speaker 4: and they know that you are not somebody they can
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: have a relationship with. This only makes sense, honestly, Like
• 26:54
  Speaker 4: I was like listening to this, and I was thinking,
• 26:56
  Speaker 4: this only makes sense. Is if what she's after is
• 27:00
  Speaker 4: is masculinity itself? Mm hmm, right, what she's what she
• 27:05
  Speaker 4: wants to exclude is masculinity itself. Because I think the
• 27:09
  Speaker 4: paranoia here is that she is trying to discover, trying
• 27:16
  Speaker 4: to uncover, if men are hiding the fact they're men.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: And I can tell her and her audience that one
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: they are not hiding the fact that they are men.
• 27:27
  Speaker 4: And two, if you are wanted date a man, eventually
• 27:31
  Speaker 4: you will have to confront the fact that he is
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: a man, okay, yeah, Or alternatively, you will have to
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: confront the fact that you are not attracted to him,
• 27:44
  Speaker 4: right yeah. And this is this is the funny thing,
• 27:46
  Speaker 4: because there are plenty of feminist articles who that essentially, oh,
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: confess the fact that they are not attracted to men
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: who are not who do not act like men, And
• 28:00
  Speaker 4: in fact, most feminist men and I'm not talking about
• 28:03
  Speaker 4: the psychos, the sociopaths who do the feminist ally thing
• 28:07
  Speaker 4: because they want to be able to, you know, get
• 28:10
  Speaker 4: a rus Security number, the Social Security number, the kidney
• 28:15
  Speaker 4: and also does this does this rag smell like chloroform?
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Not those guys, Not those guys.
• 28:22
  Speaker 4: I'm just talking about the gormless, like I don't know
• 28:25
  Speaker 4: what the hell they're doing. Think that they're just being
• 28:27
  Speaker 4: good guys.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that they genuinely think that if they
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: ascribe to these beliefs, that they'll gain favor with their peers,
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: which includes women, or be a good person or they
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: think that's what it means to be a good person,
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: So they're just.
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: Doing that even those guys. Eventually, the the feminists will
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: have to either recognize that they're dating a man or
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: that they don't aren't attracted him. And like I said,
• 28:52
  Speaker 4: I've seen lots of feminist articles asking are actually I'll
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: say that the first one that I saw was like
• 29:02
  Speaker 4: fourteen years ago. It wasn't from a woman named Clarissa
• 29:05
  Speaker 4: I don't remember the rest of Clarissa Thorn or something,
• 29:08
  Speaker 4: and she basically said, how do I reconcile the fact
• 29:14
  Speaker 4: that I want men to be feminists? But all the
• 29:17
  Speaker 4: feminist men I have ever met have left me as
• 29:20
  Speaker 4: dry as the Sahara?
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, how do I How do.
• 29:23
  Speaker 4: I manage this circle? How do you square that circle? Well,
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: my dear feminist political theory wants a man to stop
• 29:36
  Speaker 4: being a man, wants him to basically hollow out his
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: essential nature. But get this, he is that way because
• 29:46
  Speaker 4: billions of increasingly less furry female hominids selected for just
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: that man, and you are just another generation of those
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: female hominids. So you are not just fighting against his nature,
• 30:03
  Speaker 4: you are also fighting against your own nature. Right, you
• 30:08
  Speaker 4: don't want that you are the product of all of
• 30:13
  Speaker 4: that selection to want that man who you are now saying,
• 30:17
  Speaker 4: don't be the man that I want? Good luck to us, Like, seriously,
• 30:22
  Speaker 4: this is where we're at as the human race.
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: Women are not allowed to.
• 30:25
  Speaker 4: Want what they want, what they have evolved to want,
• 30:28
  Speaker 4: and what they have selected through millions of years of evolution,
• 30:32
  Speaker 4: and men are not allowed to be the thing that
• 30:33
  Speaker 4: women have evolved to want. And then we get feminist
• 30:36
  Speaker 4: articles with feminists saying, well, why am I not attracted
• 30:40
  Speaker 4: to feminist men?
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: Like why you do this? Human race?
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Why?
• 30:48
  Speaker 4: Like, what do you need the po you need? Do
• 30:53
  Speaker 4: you need the gigantic brained aliens from alphasentire to come
• 30:56
  Speaker 4: down and take over for a bit.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's just it's just the time of sodom
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: and Gomorrah. There's gonna be a great a flood's coming
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: and then we'll we'll be reset again, all right. I
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: got a well, yeah, yes, of course I got another
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: rumble rant No Robato one two, three, four, five, six
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: seven gave a dollar and said they can date AI men,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: body pillow boyfriends and or husbands as well as just
• 31:22
  Speaker 1: go full lesbian and bring suffering to all the lesbian
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: community only to buy a bunch of cats. Okay, thank
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: you for that. We gotta continues. Let's get into the list.
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: So number one, God, country, family, any of them, but
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: especially all of them in that order. So there it is.
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: So basically, okay, let me just read the thing. A
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: man could be devout and progressive. They exist, I've met them,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: doubt it. But here's the thing. A liberal man of
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: faith almost always says so because he knows the word
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: Christian in the dating bio reads as a political signal
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: and he wants to head off the assumption. So if
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: the profile invokes Jesus, faith, God first, or family values
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: with zero counter signaling, no progressive Christian, no rainbow, no anything,
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: assume the default reading is the correct one. The men
• 32:13
  Speaker 1: who are the exception know they're the exception and tell
• 32:16
  Speaker 1: you the silence is the answer. So yeah, go ahead.
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: What the hell is she even on? The conservative man
• 32:26
  Speaker 4: leads with the fact that he is a Christian. I
• 32:29
  Speaker 4: will decode this for you, ladies.
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: He is a Christian.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: No, no, she's saying, a liberal man will will will
• 32:37
  Speaker 1: admit that he's a Christian, and then because he has
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: to get ahead of that, because she is admitting that
• 32:43
  Speaker 1: saying you're a Christian comes with a bunch of like
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: baggage already that women like her are gonna recoil at.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: So you have to say, I'm a Christian, but unlike
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: everything that Christianity is, I am nothing like a Christian.
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: And here's why. Here's here's all of that. I want
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: you to kill your babies, I want you to trans
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: your kids, I want you to do all the things.
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: I'm all about the Pride flag, I'm all about all
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: the things that Christianity is normally saying. You know, that's
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: not quite right. And you so you basically have to
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: be a Christian in name only in order for her
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: to count you as one. So that's what she's saying,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: Like she's she's actually admitting that if you're a man
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: that's dating or looking to date someone and you happen
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: to be a Christian man, you literally can't tell people
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: that's what you believe because it will kill your chances
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: with liberals. That's that's she's baking it in. See Christian
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: equals conservative.
• 33:43
  Speaker 4: What you want to kill your chances with liberals?
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Come on, well yeah you do. But I'm just saying
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: I'm going.
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: To circle for the rest of you. But my point
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: was this my point. Okay, let me tell you my point. Right,
• 33:55
  Speaker 4: she's saying that a man simply saying that she's christ
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: they're Christian, is hiding something from her. Right, Well, he's not,
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: because she's already saying that in order to differentiate himself
• 34:10
  Speaker 4: from the average Christian, he she he has to do
• 34:13
  Speaker 4: with this other stuff. Well, if he's not doing it,
• 34:15
  Speaker 4: he's not hiding anything. Right, He's saying, I'm a Christian,
• 34:19
  Speaker 4: just a vanilla Christian. Okay, that's it. I'm a vanilla Christian. Right, No,
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: no other stuff, no other beliefs. Well, he's already being
• 34:28
  Speaker 4: clear about what he is. I'm saying that she's create
• 34:31
  Speaker 4: she's inventing a conspiracy about a guy being clear about
• 34:35
  Speaker 4: being a Christian. Yeah, that and this is this is
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: the insanity here. She looks at that and she cannot
• 34:45
  Speaker 4: accept that that is just he's just plainly telling you
• 34:49
  Speaker 4: what he is. She has to invent the whole other
• 34:53
  Speaker 4: category to make this some kind of deceitful maneuver that
• 34:57
  Speaker 4: she has to, uh, you know, get out her microscope
• 35:01
  Speaker 4: and determine the truth of this. He said he's a Christian.
• 35:04
  Speaker 4: Does that mean he's a Christian? Does that mean it's like, lady,
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: at no point did a person just plainly say they
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: were a Christian mean that they also were pro LGBTQ
• 35:16
  Speaker 4: plus or pro abortion or pro you know, making your
• 35:22
  Speaker 4: kids trans.
• 35:24
  Speaker 5: Right, or pro pre pre eighteen puberty.
• 35:29
  Speaker 4: Blockers or anything like that. Nowhere was that ever packaged
• 35:33
  Speaker 4: in with Christianity. You are applying a bunch of additional
• 35:37
  Speaker 4: things to pretend that a man is saying he's a
• 35:39
  Speaker 4: Christian is a conspiracy against you? Like, this is what
• 35:44
  Speaker 4: she's constructing. She's constructing this conspiracy of conservative men who
• 35:49
  Speaker 4: are trying to get with radical liberal women. Right, not
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: just liberal women, but women who will construct their entire
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: lifestyle around being liberal. That there's this fleet of invisible
• 36:00
  Speaker 4: conservative men after them to do. What is the question,
• 36:06
  Speaker 4: because at some point the conversation has to happen, right,
• 36:09
  Speaker 4: unless there's conservative men are out his fleet of invisible
• 36:13
  Speaker 4: conservative men are out there to hit it and quit it.
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: No, eventually, all the invisible conservative men that live in Seattle.
• 36:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, all the visible conservative men that live in Seattle
• 36:23
  Speaker 4: and are apparently after this woman audience.
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: Oh, okay, just keep reving.
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: Okay, okay, yeah, so I think did I get another
• 36:33
  Speaker 1: super chat? No? I thought I saw something, all right?
• 36:36
  Speaker 1: So that was number one? Uh number two. He uses
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: words like traditional or feminine. Okay, traditional, you just use
• 36:46
  Speaker 1: that word? Are you a red flag? The person wrote
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: this article, You've written this a couple of times. Traditional
• 36:52
  Speaker 1: what it's never specified, and it doesn't need to be traditional.
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: Does a lot of quiet work here, And the work
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: is I have ideas about who cooks, who earns, who defers,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: and whose career bends around who's same goes for feminine
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: and nurturing deployed as the headline qualities. He's seeking a
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: man who leads with what he wants you to provide,
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: softest care, traditional womanhood, without a word about what he's bringing.
• 37:18
  Speaker 1: Has told you the shape of the arrangement he has
• 37:21
  Speaker 1: in mind. Believe him. This woman's trying to ruin the
• 37:25
  Speaker 1: lives of other women. I'm just saying, but go ahead.
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: But again, he is completely honest about what he wants,
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: and she's reading some kind of covert conspiracy into it, Like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: how do you do this? You imagine this guy writing
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: this profile. Yeah I'm a Christian, Yeah, I want a
• 37:42
  Speaker 4: traditional wife feminine. Right, Okay, Chris, Christianity already has the
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: whole provide and protect baked in. But let's just ignore that,
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: and we don't know, actually, let's not ignore that. That's
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: part of being of Christian manhood is to provide and
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: protect rights also of just manhood period. But we'll just
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: go with he's signaling what he is and he says,
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: I want a traditional woman in traditional relationship. Fine, right,
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: everything is fine. She is reading into that that she's
• 38:13
  Speaker 4: hiding himself somehow he secretly wants her. I think that's
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: the real issue here.
• 38:19
  Speaker 5: Yeah, she's constructing.
• 38:21
  Speaker 4: A narrative where this fleet of invisible conservative men secretly
• 38:25
  Speaker 4: want her, like what? And I swear to God this
• 38:30
  Speaker 4: is because these women cannot just go out and say, yes,
• 38:33
  Speaker 4: I want a man, Okay, I want a guy who
• 38:39
  Speaker 4: can reach things on the top shelf and open pickle
• 38:41
  Speaker 4: jars and maybe take care of an intruder. You know.
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: I just want a guy who you know has greater
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: risk tolerance than me, more muscle mass, you know that
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: kind of thing.
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: I just want a man.
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: She can't say at and she knows that the man
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: lives in the conservative somehow, and she doesn't realize. It's
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: because she believes in a political schema in which men
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: are are a political category and they just call it
• 39:13
  Speaker 4: conservative because that's their that's their word for everything.
• 39:16
  Speaker 3: Bad, right, right.
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: She knows that men live in that political cast, and
• 39:20
  Speaker 4: she knows she wants them, so she's inventing this fleet
• 39:23
  Speaker 4: of conservative men who are after her. Good lord, lady,
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: just like, go of your liberalism. It's making you very
• 39:32
  Speaker 4: unhappy and strange. Yeah, maybe not even you don't even
• 39:37
  Speaker 4: have to like go of your concern for like the
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: trans kids. Maybe don't don't promote things that are unethical,
• 39:44
  Speaker 4: but you know, or you're concerned about kids, it's starving
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: in Ethiopia, whatever. You don't even have to let go
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: of this incredibly female nature. I mean, that's sort of
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: where we're at, right, Yeah, just let those of parts
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: that don't let you have a man. You'll be a
• 40:02
  Speaker 4: lot happier. Then you don't have to go on medium
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: and invent a fleet of conservative men who are after
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: you and your audience.
• 40:12
  Speaker 3: Okay, let's keep going, all.
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: Right, all right? Number three Moderate a political and I
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: don't really do politics. This is the big one, and
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: it operates along a sliding scale of confidence. Moderate usually
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: means conservative, but aware of the room he's read the
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: same gender gap data I have moderate is camouflage not political,
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: or I keep politics out of it is in a
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: liberal city a near certainty genuinely a political people exist.
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: But a man secure in left leaning views in Seattle
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: generally doesn't feel the needs of firewall. The topic a
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: being political is socially frictionalist for him. The man who
• 40:56
  Speaker 1: needs politics off the table is the man who knows
• 40:59
  Speaker 1: his politics are the problem. He's not above the fray.
• 41:02
  Speaker 1: He just knows he can't get laid if he's honest,
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: so he's decided not to be. And anyone in this
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: plain no, let me just finish the sentence. It's just
• 41:11
  Speaker 1: one sentence. And anyone in this political climate who opts
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: out of thinking about politics is letting his privilege show
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: not a okay.
• 41:20
  Speaker 4: So you can't even be moderate, you can't even be
• 41:22
  Speaker 4: moderate different, and can't be indifferent. You have to take
• 41:27
  Speaker 4: a position as a man, and that position has to
• 41:32
  Speaker 4: be one in which when the government says I'm going
• 41:36
  Speaker 4: to make it harder for you to protect and provide
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: for your family, you're like, yes, sir, that's exactly what
• 41:42
  Speaker 4: I want. I want a climate and I want an
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: environment where it's literally impossible for me to fulfill my
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: role protecting and providing my woman. Like that's that's essentially
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: the politics that you have to embrace. Okay. But also again,
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: moderates are conservatives. The indifferent are conservatives, and they're clearly
• 42:08
  Speaker 4: listing what they are. And she's inventing more conservative men.
• 42:13
  Speaker 4: Another more, she's adding to the fleet of invisible conservative
• 42:16
  Speaker 4: men who really want to nail her, not have like
• 42:20
  Speaker 4: and they're okay, they just they want to have sex
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: with her, and they're what.
• 42:24
  Speaker 5: Are they gonna do after that?
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: Like, presumably some of them are after a relationship, but
• 42:28
  Speaker 4: apparently I guess they're all just after one night stance. Again,
• 42:31
  Speaker 4: I don't understand the problem here. Okay, if it's a conservative,
• 42:38
  Speaker 4: if this if one of this fleet of invisible conservatives
• 42:41
  Speaker 4: who's honing in on her ass actually gets to crack, right, Okay, Yeah,
• 42:50
  Speaker 4: and then it's just a one night's stand. What does
• 42:52
  Speaker 4: it matter, Right, you can have a good time that's over.
• 42:57
  Speaker 4: I'm not sure if that's exactly what conservatives are trying
• 42:59
  Speaker 4: to do here, but regardless, all right, and if he
• 43:03
  Speaker 4: is a conservative and he says it on the date, Okay,
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: it's over because you're incompatible. So what is what is
• 43:12
  Speaker 4: her word?
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: Why is she.
• 43:13
  Speaker 4: Inventing this fleet of conservative men who were like this
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: constant swarm after her? Is what I'm getting at, Like,
• 43:20
  Speaker 4: there's no outcome here that's really that bad? Like, so
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: you had sex a one night stand with a conservative man,
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: that's the worst outcome. Well, you had one one night
• 43:33
  Speaker 4: stand with a conservative man. So he's more likely to
• 43:36
  Speaker 4: have a custodial disposition. So unlike the sociopaths you usually
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: give it up for, he'll actually let you use his
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: bathroom before you leave, Like why, he'll actually be nicer
• 43:46
  Speaker 4: to you? Like, what is what is the problem here?
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: I swear to God, The actual, the actual payload for
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: all of this is her and her audience imagining there
• 43:59
  Speaker 4: is a literal, like a literal like like a like,
• 44:03
  Speaker 4: I don't know, battalion of invisible conservative men.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: Conservative brigands, like the ones the from the Supergirl the brigands.
• 44:12
  Speaker 4: Yes, but they're after her, right Yeah? No, No, I
• 44:17
  Speaker 4: don't even think it's that. I think it's just literally
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: they Well maybe it is, maybe it is sort of
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: like a little bit of a Gorrean fantasy in her mind.
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got this like you know, you know what
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: was it Mad Max Fiery Road and the Morton Joe
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: was like the warlord and he had like women that
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: were just like for breeding purposes, and that to her,
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: that's what a conservative. That's your typical conservative guy right there,
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: like like you know, guys with harems, even though yes,
• 44:45
  Speaker 1: those some of that does exist, but it's not not
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: really predominant in this country. But yeah, this is I
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: don't know, it is.
• 44:54
  Speaker 4: Kind of like convative men.
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: I think that she Yeah, I think that she is
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: getting a little bit aroused writing this stuff. I mean,
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: that's just what I imagine because a slutter. But I
• 45:06
  Speaker 1: just I just want to point out, like we've gone
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: through three of these things, and there's absolutely nothing about
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: these any of them that should be in any way controversial.
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: And in fact, if you excluded men for those things,
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: you would like eliminate more than half of all men
• 45:25
  Speaker 1: before we even got to any men that might meet
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: your you know, your actual like let's say, affirmative standards
• 45:31
  Speaker 1: like height and their ability to earn and maybe whatever
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: the age range is. And the thing is too, is
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: that as men get old, as anybody gets older, they
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: typically do become more conservative. Like they kind of like
• 45:43
  Speaker 1: back down from some of the more radical ideas about
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: changing the world. They're they're just less into that. They're
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: more like willing to settle in to the groove and
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: figure out the best way to exist because they have
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: lived a life and they're just sort of like, this's
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: just the way that the people work. As we get
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: get older, we tend to calm down. We tend to
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: be more you know, take it easy. We tend to
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: be a little bit more let's say old school in
• 46:09
  Speaker 1: our beliefs. I mean, even if you just carried the
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: beliefs you had from youth, they would be considered conservative
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: beliefs when you're old anyways, Like I haven't changed much
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: from the guy I was in the eighties, but you know,
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: people would probably think that I was way behind the times,
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: you know, old man boomer. So, like, she's in her
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: fifties and she doesn't want to grow up as what
• 46:28
  Speaker 1: I've That's what I'm getting, and she is a problem
• 46:30
  Speaker 1: with other men who have who have grown up, who
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: have basically been like, yeah, I just want like a
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: woman that's gonna be like, you know, helping me out,
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: that's gonna be nurturing, gonna help me raise my kids.
• 46:41
  Speaker 1: I want kids, Like wanting kids is a conservative position now,
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: just wanting to have a family, which, by the way,
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: you need families in order to perpetuate the species so
• 46:52
  Speaker 1: that we can have a human race. So these people
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: are a death cult, like they want they they they
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: think that any thing that moves the world forward in
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: terms of like, you know, people liking each other, people
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: like seeing I don't know, like appealing to a higher
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: power to keep themselves humble, wanting to have kids, to
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: start families and build community together so that they can
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: they have like a network of other people who also
• 47:18
  Speaker 1: have families that want the best for them. All that
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: is a problem for these people. They don't want any
• 47:23
  Speaker 1: of this. They think it's all bad. Their their brains
• 47:26
  Speaker 1: are rotted out. They're they're they're rotted out. I don't
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: know what else to say anyway, but I'm just saying
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: this is where we are. If you're just a guy
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: who's like, yeah, I don't really I'm not political, She's like, oh,
• 47:37
  Speaker 1: yes you are. That is political, Yes you are. You
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: are my enemy I.
• 47:42
  Speaker 4: Didn't know she was fifty.
• 47:44
  Speaker 1: Well she's she's she says she's a gen xer. So
• 47:48
  Speaker 1: if she's gen X, then she's got to be like
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: around fifty.
• 47:50
  Speaker 4: And this is destroying the prospects of younger women.
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's sabotaging others.
• 47:56
  Speaker 4: Honestly, Yeah, we are sabotaging the other way.
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: You think she's helping me, Like I imagining that, go ahead, go.
• 48:04
  Speaker 4: Ahead, while imagining this fleet of conservative men honing in
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: on our ass. I actually had another thought while you
• 48:11
  Speaker 4: were talking about you're right, because the other thing they
• 48:15
  Speaker 4: have is they have they probably have providership expectations. I mean,
• 48:21
  Speaker 4: there's another there's another article I can I can talk
• 48:26
  Speaker 4: about briefly, but it's in the same train where she
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: blames on patriarchy men who are not providing sufficiently somehow,
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: and so there is there is still this providership expectation.
• 48:41
  Speaker 4: But if you have a providership expectation, but you want
• 48:45
  Speaker 4: it to come from a man who isn't custodial like you,
• 48:48
  Speaker 4: doesn't have those masculine political traits, I'm just gonna call it.
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: I'm not evenna call it conservative anymore, because I'm gonna
• 48:54
  Speaker 4: call it what it is, masculine traits, right, that's what
• 48:59
  Speaker 4: they're ast, that's what they are against. You can call
• 49:02
  Speaker 4: it right wing, far right, conservative, Bernie bros. Whatever you
• 49:06
  Speaker 4: want to call it, because they got them. They got
• 49:08
  Speaker 4: words for the left side of the Ledger. Two, if
• 49:12
  Speaker 4: you're a man thereafter masculine political traits, right, she's she
• 49:18
  Speaker 4: want how do you square that? Because if you want
• 49:21
  Speaker 4: a man who makes money but doesn't have the custodial
• 49:26
  Speaker 4: orientation of like somebody who has proper working vas suppression,
• 49:32
  Speaker 4: then what are you actually asking for. You're asking for
• 49:34
  Speaker 4: an extractor, Like you're asking for somebody who basically rent, seeks,
• 49:41
  Speaker 4: and extracts from other people. This is what she's selecting for.
• 49:48
  Speaker 4: So not like and again, this is more than just
• 49:51
  Speaker 4: made suppression. She's actively cultivating these young women as a
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: sexual resource for the worst type of men in society,
• 50:00
  Speaker 4: which are the men who have constructed this fat burg,
• 50:03
  Speaker 4: this financial fat burg, so they can extract, so they
• 50:06
  Speaker 4: can feed on it. Right, And and those men don't
• 50:10
  Speaker 4: have a custodial disposition, because a custodial disposition wants to
• 50:14
  Speaker 4: build something. That's what we had like a like prior
• 50:17
  Speaker 4: to the eighties, Like, there is a there's a bit
• 50:20
  Speaker 4: of a demarcation in how we approached business when they
• 50:24
  Speaker 4: deregulated stock buybacks. So before, if you wanted to make
• 50:31
  Speaker 4: money as a CEO, you would improve your product. You
• 50:35
  Speaker 4: would make it cheaper, or you would increase its reach. Right,
• 50:39
  Speaker 4: that's how you made money.
• 50:41
  Speaker 5: Both of all three of.
• 50:42
  Speaker 4: Which are are a manifestation of a custodial mindset, a
• 50:47
  Speaker 4: mindset that wants to build, wants to improve, wants to benefit,
• 50:53
  Speaker 4: wants to make a good product. After this, they deregulated
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: the buybacks. A CEO can come in, take a cheap
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: fed loan, buy up his stock, increase his personal income
• 51:08
  Speaker 4: through this kind of chicanery, and then fluck off when
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: the bill comes due because the stock is now worth
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: way more than the actual revenue comes in because they
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: didn't invest in making more revenue. Right. So it's a
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: little more complicated by that. But there's two different mentalities here,
• 51:24
  Speaker 4: and what she's doing by being anti masculinity is selecting
• 51:28
  Speaker 4: for the extractive mentality. What a surprise that over like
• 51:32
  Speaker 4: the last fifty years, as women like this infiltrate how
• 51:38
  Speaker 4: we talk about ourselves and infiltrate a corporate language, like
• 51:43
  Speaker 4: as CEO pay has rocketed up to like two hundred
• 51:47
  Speaker 4: to three hundred times the average worker, Like I think
• 51:50
  Speaker 4: the I think the estimate is that it's gone up
• 51:52
  Speaker 4: one hundred thousand or one thousand percent, or as the
• 51:55
  Speaker 4: average worker has gone up like twenty five percent, while
• 51:59
  Speaker 4: CEO pay is skyrocketing. Because of all of these extractive processes,
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: women like these have saturated the corporate landscape with DEI
• 52:08
  Speaker 4: and ESG bullshit, which literally selects for the men who
• 52:12
  Speaker 4: extract versus the men who built. Yeah, right, and that's
• 52:17
  Speaker 4: what she's doing right now. She is taking a new
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: generation of women and saying, you know the type of
• 52:24
  Speaker 4: men you want. You want men with no court custodial
• 52:29
  Speaker 4: orientation who nevertheless have money. Well, who are those men?
• 52:34
  Speaker 4: And you want to give it up to those men?
• 52:36
  Speaker 4: You want to be a sexual convenience for those men.
• 52:39
  Speaker 4: She's like constructing a fucking harem for the psychopaths on top. Yeah,
• 52:44
  Speaker 4: this is like Ghislaine Maxwell lighte mmm mm hmm, thick
• 52:50
  Speaker 4: fucking shit. All right, let's keep going.
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: All right, I got another roomal Ram from Roboto for
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: a dollar. And he says are you stating the musical
• 52:57
  Speaker 1: cats is coming true and the cats in the ali
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: are actually prophecy about human people? All right? Anyway, so
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: let's do the next one. But yeah, remember she is
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: in her fifties and she's giving advice to women in
• 53:12
  Speaker 1: their twenties. Number four, the country music plus tank top
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: plus flexing trifecta. Any one of those alone is nothing.
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: Liking country music is not a worldview. A gym selfie
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: is not a manifesto. But the combination country music as
• 53:28
  Speaker 1: a stated identity paired with sleeveless gym photos paired with
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: the BSET flex is a cluster, and clusters means something
• 53:36
  Speaker 1: that individual data points don't. It's a whole semiotic package,
• 53:40
  Speaker 1: and the package is rarely wrong. You already know that
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: what it's telling you. So again, we're just judging books
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: by their cover.
• 53:48
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 53:49
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: Number five the guns anywhere in the profile, a handgun, rifle,
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: a photo at the range, a holster. As a personality,
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: I don't care about the Second Amendment debate in the abstract.
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: In my dating pull, a gun in the grid is
• 54:03
  Speaker 1: a values flag and it points one direction. But it's
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: more than politics. Every time a woman meets someone from
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: an app, she's getting into a car or a bar
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: with a stranger she can't fully verify, and she's done
• 54:15
  Speaker 1: the math before she walks out the door, told a
• 54:18
  Speaker 1: friend where she'll be kept, her location on planned the exits.
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: That's the baseline cost of dating white wild female. So
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: when a man leads with a firearm, he thinks it
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: reads as capable and protective. What it actually does is
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: puts the exact thing, the exact thing I'm already afraid of,
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: right there in the grid and asked me to find
• 54:38
  Speaker 1: it attractive. A man who can't see why that lands
• 54:41
  Speaker 1: differently from my side of the risk has told me
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: something more disqualified than his politics. Out he threw away
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: his shot at least with it.
• 54:49
  Speaker 4: Okay, all right, guess jen X fifty year old pussy
• 54:52
  Speaker 4: has told you you're not getting any mm hmm, good lord.
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: You can't have none of this. Honey smoking it takes
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: another drag from her cigarette. I bet you want some
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: of this, but you can't. It's not for you. You
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: have too many guns. You're too conservative for me.
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 55:16
  Speaker 4: I think doctor girlfriend wouldn't mind that, but regardless, Yeah,
• 55:20
  Speaker 4: she's closing her legs.
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: Don't mind the echo in the cathedral.
• 55:26
  Speaker 4: God, damn, you're overvaluing herself. And the truth is that
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: she's doing this, she's trying to convince young women to
• 55:35
  Speaker 4: do this, discover their chances to But also I can't
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: help but notice that every every single step of these.
• 55:44
  Speaker 5: Has been her describing a man being very.
• 55:49
  Speaker 4: Clear about who he is and what he values or doesn't.
• 55:55
  Speaker 5: And her saying these are secret, these are.
• 55:59
  Speaker 4: Concerns of it, of dog whistles.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so the man goes you.
• 56:03
  Speaker 4: Guys, if you are a if you're a conservative, and
• 56:06
  Speaker 4: you want to start a dating profile, just realize that
• 56:10
  Speaker 4: if you say I'm a conservative, that is a dog
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: whistle that you're a conservative.
• 56:18
  Speaker 3: Like, what the hell?
• 56:20
  Speaker 4: Like do you see this? Like so far, everything one
• 56:23
  Speaker 4: of this has been a man clearly clearly stating who
• 56:28
  Speaker 4: he is.
• 56:28
  Speaker 5: And his values.
• 56:29
  Speaker 1: It's almost always that, isn't it. They always they tell
• 56:32
  Speaker 1: they say, oh, I'm going to talk about something, nothing
• 56:34
  Speaker 1: in particular, just some ideas I had, and it gets
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: really specific. You're like, wait, this is this is personal?
• 56:40
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 56:41
  Speaker 1: There's some history in this? What's the lore?
• 56:43
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, there is some law here. But
• 56:46
  Speaker 4: my overall point is that she promised a conspiracy and
• 56:52
  Speaker 4: she's showing us men who are being completely honest on
• 56:55
  Speaker 4: their bios. Right, you see what I'm saying, Brian, Yeah,
• 56:59
  Speaker 4: the very at the very most, maybe she maybe she
• 57:03
  Speaker 4: might be able to squint and see that that fleet
• 57:06
  Speaker 4: of conservatives who are gunning for her butt, in the
• 57:11
  Speaker 4: moderate and in like the the guys who are like,
• 57:13
  Speaker 4: I don't want to say, but maybe they are genuinely indifferent.
• 57:17
  Speaker 4: Like it's It's one of the things that I find
• 57:20
  Speaker 4: so amusing about women as they're constantly trying to figure
• 57:24
  Speaker 4: out what men are thinking. And I'm like, listening to
• 57:28
  Speaker 4: the their increasing like batshit conspiracy theories, I'm like, what
• 57:33
  Speaker 4: he's probably not. He probably just told you. And this
• 57:37
  Speaker 4: is exactly what this is happening. These men are telling
• 57:39
  Speaker 4: her exactly where they stand and what they believe and
• 57:42
  Speaker 4: what's important to them. And she's like, how is this
• 57:46
  Speaker 4: what what is the secret message?
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: And the hilarious thing is they're saying, where I'm a conservative, and.
• 57:53
  Speaker 4: She's saying, what's the secret message?
• 57:55
  Speaker 5: This isn't the secret message?
• 57:56
  Speaker 4: Again?
• 57:58
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 57:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, what is he really saying he says he's a conservative?
• 58:02
  Speaker 5: Is he saying he's a conservative. Like about this, I
• 58:09
  Speaker 5: think when you're.
• 58:10
  Speaker 4: The being old, I think she's insane.
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: Well, yeah, she's unhappy, that's for sure, all right.
• 58:18
  Speaker 3: Like why would you? Why would you?
• 58:21
  Speaker 4: And again I think the payload for her and her
• 58:23
  Speaker 4: audience is that, for some reason, there's this stupid, sexy
• 58:28
  Speaker 4: fleet of conservative men that are secretly after them and
• 58:32
  Speaker 4: trying to get in their pants. But they don't want that.
• 58:34
  Speaker 4: They just really want to imagine it in great detail. Okay, yeah,
• 58:39
  Speaker 4: all right.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: Number six, the dead animal that isn't a fish. The
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: man holding a dead fish is in his dating app
• 58:46
  Speaker 1: is already a trope, and for good reason. It's a
• 58:49
  Speaker 1: universal dating app cliche that's become its own joke. I'm
• 58:52
  Speaker 1: not a fan. I'm not a fan. She a vegan,
• 58:55
  Speaker 1: but it's not a giveaway for MAGA, simply because it's
• 58:58
  Speaker 1: too common. Ah. So there it is. Now we know
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: what what she really means when she says conservative.
• 59:03
  Speaker 4: Mans guys, it's just, you know, it's just a faux
• 59:07
  Speaker 4: pas to have a fish.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but a dead buck. Oh sorry, she's saying the
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: fish is bad, but this is worse. But a dead
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: buck or bird or anything held up by the antlers
• 59:19
  Speaker 1: or wings or scruff. Then he's conservative near certainly. Okay,
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: I'll be honest that sometimes even the fish in concert
• 59:27
  Speaker 1: with everything else completes a picture. But the deer, the
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: deer is not ambiguous. Yes, do you hunt? Do you hunt? Well,
• 59:35
  Speaker 1: guess what you hunt? You know, some people if they catch,
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: they catch fish and they throw them back, like they
• 59:41
  Speaker 1: just catch them to see if they can do it,
• 59:42
  Speaker 1: and then they throw them back in the ocean. They
• 59:44
  Speaker 1: don't even kill them sometimes.
• 59:46
  Speaker 4: Also, yeah, I guess there's a rural manhood out but
• 59:52
  Speaker 4: because this is but then again, this is Seattle. How
• 59:54
  Speaker 4: many times does she see a deer in in a
• 59:58
  Speaker 4: profile in Seattle?
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: I would imagine almost never.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 1:00:02
  Speaker 1: Well, I don't know. I don't know how big Seattle is,
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 1: but I mean it is like it is. There is
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 1: a lot of wildlife out there. Like she's probably for
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: the environment. That's probably why she's upset about this.
• 1:00:15
  Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, well, I mean honestly, there's not like if
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: you're a hunter, you still have to abide by the
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 4: rules of what you can take, so it's not really gonna.
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, right, there's laws and all that.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, there's laws and there's also conservation. I don't see
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 4: necessarily how hunters are pacting the environment, especially in places
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: where deer and everything have become a nuisance.
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 3: Because there aren't enough wolves.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 4: But regardless, like this is really feeling like when she
• 1:00:46
  Speaker 4: says conservative, she means man like anything that is remotely
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: on the scale of manhood. Even indifference to politics can
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 4: be very masculine. It's just like, I don't care. I
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 4: just want to do my thing, you know. And she's
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: like this, this is a this is a bad like this.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is this explains this kind of undercurrent
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: of attraction.
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 3: That I'm picking up.
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: She's thinking really hard about this, and she's inventing this
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 4: fleet of conservatives aka masculine men who are after her,
• 1:01:25
  Speaker 4: and she's got very she's got very specific ideas of
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 4: what they are and what they have. And it's like
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 4: you were saying, what's the lore, Well I think more like,
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 4: uh uh, what is the tell like here? And well,
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 4: let's do the next one, Okay, all right?
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: Next one number seven. This is a last one. The
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 1: oh so straight gentleman doth protest too much. This is
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 1: the worst one, and it's the only one. That's not
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 1: a read, it's a confession. When a profile announces up
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 1: at the top that quote only real slash women should
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: message me end quote. He's not responding to a live problem.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 1: I highly doubt trans women are flooding your inbox, Chad.
• 1:02:09
  Speaker 1: He's telling you loudly where he stands on LGBTQ plus rights.
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: That's not a dog whistle, that's a foghorn. That's a
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 1: man who organized his entire opening line about exclusion. And
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 1: here's the thing, a man who doesn't respect queer people
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 1: doesn't respect women either. The tell is the same tell.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 1: There's no translation needed. He did the work for you.
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 1: How About I want to have children and dudes can't
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 1: do that. How about I like pussy, I don't like cock?
• 1:02:38
  Speaker 1: How about that? Is that? Is that wrong to have
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: that preference? Is that? Is that all wild concept? Yeah?
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: Now she's also a well you know what she's doing
• 1:02:49
  Speaker 1: there When she says I highly doubt trans women are
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 1: flooding your inbox, Chad, she's signaling to any trans people
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 1: that might watch it. They might read this. You go, girl,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 1: you know I wouldn't do that, you know, so I
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 1: just I.
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 4: Find it very hilarious. That a woman who has spent
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 4: however many words describing this invisible fleet of conservatives who
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: are trying to sneak into their dms is like saying
• 1:03:17
  Speaker 4: that about trans women sneaking into these conservatives dms.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 3: Right, Like, yeah, that's just it.
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: I just find that sort of a funny juxtaposition. All right,
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 4: so are we?
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: Are we done?
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 1: I mean there is this is just like her wrap up.
• 1:03:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, okay, the line, okay, fine, the throw line
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 1: on all this is omission. Almost none of these men
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 1: will type the word conservative or Republican oor maga. They've
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 1: internalized that the label costs the matches.
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: They just Christian.
• 1:03:50
  Speaker 1: No, I mean yeah, saying your Christian is like she
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: she's gonna say that that by it's it's not saying
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 1: you're Christian. It's not saying your Christian. But like maybe
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: it comes out in other ways because she's saying that
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 1: a person who admits that they're Christian but is progressive
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 1: will admit they're Christian in a day profile, but then
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 1: get ahead of it and say I am Christian, but
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: I am not, you know, like I'm one of the good.
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is that the saying that you're Christian,
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 4: doesn't need to be get coded. It's simply you're the
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 4: playing Christian who has the playing Christian values. So that's
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 4: the conservative values. She's trying to say that that's a conspiracy.
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: Someone's saying, I'm a Christian is a conspiracy. Oh, they
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 4: could secretly be a conservative. No, it's a it's a
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 4: good guess that they are.
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: Conservative to a degree. Yeah, I think I think.
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 4: There are more conservative religions than Christianity, my friend, but regardless.
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 4: But my point is that this is like, this is
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 4: imagining a conspiracy, and most of this is just men
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 4: simply saying And of course she's also saying that men
• 1:04:55
  Speaker 4: who hunt are conservative. What's the likelihood that a man
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 4: with a buck or with guns in his bio is
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 4: a liberal? Right she He's probably said he's a conservative.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 4: So she's constructing, she's constructing this idea that conservatives are
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 4: so enticed by her and other women in her political
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 4: block that they're pretending to be moderates or indifferent or liberal.
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 4: And they're pretending they're not saying they're conservative, but they say, yeah,
• 1:05:31
  Speaker 4: I got guns. They're not saying they're conservative, but they're like, yeah,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 4: I hunt I hunt animals. They're not saying they're conservative,
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 4: they're just saying, yeah, I'm a Christian. And she's constructing
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 4: this idea that they're hiding who they are, that that
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: that that they're gonna they're gonna secretly jump out and
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 4: be like yeah with a sack and be like, she's gonna.
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: Wake up the night. The morning after, he's like, aha, gotcha,
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: you just banged a conservative. Now get out of here anyway,
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 1: let me finish this last thing.
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 5: I just want to get through it.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 1: Okay. They've internalized that the label costs them matches, so
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 1: they've gotten fluent in saying it without saying it, which
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 1: means the skill you develop is reading the gap. The
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 1: thing that's conspicuously not counter signal, the identity assembled out
• 1:06:22
  Speaker 1: of parts that each individually mean nothing and collectively mean everything.
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 1: None of this is full proof. This is her doing
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: the you know, plausible deniability thing. People are more than
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 1: their bios, But a profile is a document a person
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 1: built on purpose. Choosing every photo and every word, and
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 1: the things they choose to put in it and the
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 1: obvious things they choose to leave out are information. The
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 1: whole point of a profile is to tell you who
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 1: someone is before you've met them. The good ones are
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 1: telling the truth, so are the rest. You just have
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 1: to know the language. Well, I guess at the very
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 1: least she's she acknowledges that men are telling the truth,
• 1:06:56
  Speaker 1: but I don't know. Okay, they're just hiding only.
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, the only men who could possibly ever date these
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 4: women are ones who just well also they you know,
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 4: who are okay with having sex with trans women. Okay,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 4: all right, let's be on this there, right, you gotta
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 4: be okay with with that, you know, the penis, and
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 4: presumably not femboys trans women, right, because femboys are probably
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: too conservative for her.
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 3: But anyway, so this is this.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 4: You have to you have to be you have to
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 4: be okay with trans women, not not just okay with
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: yeat you live their life whatever. You have to be
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 4: willing to have sex with trans women, Okay, you have to.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 4: You cannot be a moderate and you cannot be a noncommittal.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 4: You have to commit to every single one of her
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 4: virtue signaling political positions. You cannot hunt, right, that's a
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 4: non starter. You cannot have guns and you if you
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 4: are a Christian, you you can't have you you can't
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 4: have Christian values.
• 1:08:01
  Speaker 3: You have to have her values.
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 4: Okay, all right, So essentially what she wants is either
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 4: a man who is well, she wants a man who's
• 1:08:13
  Speaker 4: not custodial, but she wants one who signals all of
• 1:08:17
  Speaker 4: her concerns, like he virtue signals everything and shows absolutely
• 1:08:24
  Speaker 4: no indication that he has any custodial masculine qualities whatsoever.
• 1:08:29
  Speaker 4: He can't value God, faith and country which God, family
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 4: and country, which is basically like for men, God is
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 4: what God is a set of external standards, you know,
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 4: like it's an ethic, and it's like Brian said, it's
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 4: an it's something higher than yourself to keep yourself humble.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 4: So it's a focus on an action and an ethic.
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 4: And country is being able to defend a territory to
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: provide for your family, and family is of course protection
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: and provision of the people you love.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 3: Are all custodial orientations.
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 4: And she's like, Nope, that's he can't signal that, or
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 4: he can't say that that's what he wants, or if
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 4: he does say that, then he's a secret conservative.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 3: Don't don't date him. Like so he he.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 4: Disqualifies himself for having an ethic for wanting to protect
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 4: and provide for his loved ones and wanting to do
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 4: it in a country that's intact, so he can you
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 4: see what I'm saying. This is basically just saying a
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 4: man wants to be a man that's bad.
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 3: Don't date him, okay.
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 4: And also a man can't uh can't have want custodial complementarianism, right,
• 1:09:44
  Speaker 4: and she reads into that that he doesn't isn't even
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 4: though he wants a traditional relationship, he doesn't want to
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 4: provide his half of it, which that's reading into it,
• 1:09:57
  Speaker 4: and you know, and then that's not actually specifically calling
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 4: him a conservative, it's basically calling him a grifter or
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 4: not a grifter, but a parasite. So he just wants
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 4: a what do they call it? A bang made right
• 1:10:10
  Speaker 4: in so anyway, But that's like not wanting the other
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 4: half of this whole complementarian relationship. And then country music
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 4: plus sleeveless gym photos, blessed bicep flex is physical capacity display.
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 4: It's partly custodial, partly you know correl, you know, wanting
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 4: to be attractive to women. So if he displays, you know,
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 4: the thing that has been selected for by female female home,
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 4: and it's for the last however, many million years, which
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 4: is mass you know, a man's physical capacity, And there's
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 4: some interesting things behind why men have that capacity and
• 1:10:48
  Speaker 4: why it is what it is, because it's quite a
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 4: bit distinct from chimps, which are supposedly our closest genetic relatives.
• 1:10:57
  Speaker 3: Oh God, I'm about to go into a rabbit hole.
• 1:10:59
  Speaker 5: Guy.
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 3: Maybe I shouldn't. I shouldn't, Okay, I should.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 1: Not to get through here. So I just I just
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: want to say one thing that I noticed about this
• 1:11:11
  Speaker 1: that's interesting to me. Men don't generally on dating apps.
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 1: I used to be on a dating app, like a
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 1: long long time ago. I was on some and I
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 1: even got a couple of dates. Back then it was
• 1:11:24
  Speaker 1: on Plenty of Fish and okay Cupid. But men generally,
• 1:11:29
  Speaker 1: and maybe the life things have changed, but men generally
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: don't put anything political on their dating apps. They just
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 1: put things that they think, like what it would get
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 1: them the attention of a woman that potentially wants to
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 1: date them for you know, whether it's short term, I
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 1: think most of the time it's long term. With when
• 1:11:50
  Speaker 1: men so like women, they I think women are way
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 1: more likely to put out all of their beliefs in
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 1: their and their I don't know what it is that
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 1: they care about the most, you know, or whatever their
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 1: their their belief system out there. But men don't. They're
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: more like, you know, I want I want kids, and
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: I want to you know what, I'm working towards a relationship. Oh,
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 1: I want to see where this is going. I want
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 1: to go on an adventure whatever it is. Just but
• 1:12:18
  Speaker 1: not nothing like when she says that they're not saying
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 1: anything about their politics, It's like weird, because I don't
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 1: think men do that generally, Like they don't like they
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 1: they don't talk about because that's not important. Like at
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know, you're just building
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: your life in your little part of the world, like
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 1: your tiny slice of heaven whatever it is, and so
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 1: like all the other stuff that's happening around you, you
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 1: you don't have that much control over And men like
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 1: to operate in the realms that they have the most control.
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 1: So that's like the smallest orbits, right this woman, And
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 1: it's something I notice about women and liberals more broadly.
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: They want you to care about everything, everywhere, all the
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: time at the same level, like they want you to
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: care about that's why they're you know, like space rocks
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: and and bacteria like there. It's it's on the same level.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 1: It's like the you know, every animal is as is
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 1: just as precious as every human being. And and uh,
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 1: I think that if you don't And first of all,
• 1:13:23
  Speaker 1: it's a it's an impossible standard to meet. Nobody can
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 1: do that. It's not the way we work. And it
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 1: just doesn't plan out that way anyway. They just say
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 1: it as a sentiment, but it's not even true, not
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 1: even for them. So when but it's it's a sentiment, you.
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 3: Know, it's a sentiment.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 4: It's it's about having the sentiment. It's not about doing anything.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 1: No, it's just about it's just about signaling. It's uh,
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 1: that's all it is. It's uh, you know, I remember that.
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 1: It was at the video we I saw a clip
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 1: from with doctor Hannah Speier, who has been doing interviews
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 1: with MRA. She talked to Janis and Tom Golden and
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 1: James Nozo and she was talking with another woman whose
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: name I can't remember, and she said that, you know,
• 1:14:09
  Speaker 1: like Goad said. If you don't know who Goad said
• 1:14:12
  Speaker 1: is but I don't know, he's like an evolutionary biologist
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: or a psychologist or something. But he wrote a book
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: about suicidal empathy, and we've talked a little bit about
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 1: it on the news show, and I think on HBr
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 1: talk because we disagree with the idea that this is
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 1: suicidal empathy. It is not. It is And this is
• 1:14:33
  Speaker 1: how this guest described it. She said, it is homicidal
• 1:14:37
  Speaker 1: virtue signaling, and that's what it is. Yeah, it is
• 1:14:40
  Speaker 1: not suicidal empathy because there is no empathy there. It's
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 1: not for anyone else. The person is just saying what
• 1:14:49
  Speaker 1: they think is gonna get them more kudos, what's gonna
• 1:14:52
  Speaker 1: get them more like, you know, likes on social media
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: or favorability or people will think of them five. It's
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 1: for them. It's selfish. It's selfish, but it's presented as
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: you know, empathetic to to Yeah, but it's it's suicide.
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 1: It's homicidal virtue signaling, and it doesn't actually mean anything
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: good at all. It's it's completely hollow and there's Yeah,
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 1: so that's what this woman is doing. She's like, if
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: you don't care about these things, but she's literally saying
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 1: all this stuff and actively trying to sabotage any woman
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 1: that's younger than her, that has prospects that might even
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: be seeing someone. She trying to sabotage that person out
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 1: of a healthy relationship by using this list of of
• 1:15:41
  Speaker 1: of red flags or whatever.
• 1:15:43
  Speaker 4: But go ahead, Yeah, well, I mean yes, I think
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 4: I think at this point it might have changed.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 3: I think men might.
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 4: Be actually clarifying their politics, but who knows. The thing
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 4: that I want to point out is that that homicidal
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 4: virtue signaling, Yeah, sort of what when we were talking
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 4: about the the string the string theory woman, the string fingers,
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 4: rememberinism feminism woman, Yeah, I remember, I talked about the
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 4: moral circle analysis that she was doing, which is the
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 4: the you know Martian space rocks. The function of that
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 4: is to create the largest possible out group. So homicidal
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 4: virtue signaling is exactly right, because what it enables is
• 1:16:33
  Speaker 4: hostility and aggression to the maximal amount of people.
• 1:16:40
  Speaker 3: Right, That's that's what it does.
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 4: It's actually weaponized empathy or not weaponized virtue signaling.
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not even empathy. Like I said, there's no
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 1: there's no them, there's no love.
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 4: It's weaponized virtue signaling. And here's how it's incompatibile with
• 1:16:59
  Speaker 4: like a mass orientation. Right, So vacipression is very specific,
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 4: this specific woman, these specific children, this specific community, this
• 1:17:12
  Speaker 4: specific nation, you know, that kind of thing, this specific company. Right. So,
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 4: when when men bond, they want to protect and provide
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 4: for specific people, and that is often incompatible with this
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 4: let's all give our love to Martian rocks, right, let
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 4: us let us let us love all things equally and
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 4: none of them. And it's incompatible because that kind of
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 4: mentality wants to be able to protect and provide for
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 4: something constrained and doable because it's focused on action. It's
• 1:17:51
  Speaker 4: focused on saying, this is how I protect and provide
• 1:17:54
  Speaker 4: for my people. And in order to actually say, oh,
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: let's let's let's feel love for Martian space rocks or
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 4: cyber organisms of the future or or all of this
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 4: other stuff, you have to decouple your empathy and your
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 4: desire to protect and provide from an action. Because you
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 4: can't take any action for space rocks. You have to
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 4: turn it entirely into a signal with no action component.
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 4: And if you ask men, we are very much about
• 1:18:26
  Speaker 4: having an action, having an external standard, knowing that action
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 4: is affecting a positive outcome in the world, no building, maintaining, protecting.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 4: You're asking them to act.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 3: Against their nature. Do you see what I'm saying, Brian, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 3: because men want.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 4: To see like they want concretes. Okay, how do if
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 4: we're gonna help the Martian space rocks, what are the metrics?
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 3: You know, how do we do that?
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: How do my actions benefit him?
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 1: They don't actually want to do.
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 4: They just want to say, And that is against what
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 4: I'm saying, is that is against that kind of masculine,
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 4: custodial nature. They want to know how to They want
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 4: to know where does what are the metrics? Like, what's
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 4: the action?
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah, It's like when I was talking to Nanny and
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 1: I and I was just like, what do you want
• 1:19:19
  Speaker 1: us to do? And she didn't want to answer the
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: question because it wasn't about that. It was about like
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 1: are you saying the right things? Are you not even
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 1: believing the right I can just say the things that
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 1: she wants me to say, and I be in the clear,
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 1: except that I don't want to say it because I
• 1:19:36
  Speaker 1: don't believe it.
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 4: So you know, you don't want to believe it, but
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 4: you don't want to say it because you don't want
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 4: to believe it because you want the things that you
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 4: say to be consistent with the things that you do.
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they want it to be consistent with reality, like masculinity.
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 5: Like literally that is being a man.
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 4: Yeah right that that right there.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 3: Is being a man.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 4: So when this woman says, the only way that men
• 1:19:59
  Speaker 4: are going to be datable is if they start spouting
• 1:20:02
  Speaker 4: off virtue signaling that they know as men, because this
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 4: is the mentality, this is the mentality that passes the
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 4: waterline test, right, they know as men is completely divorced
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 4: from reality. Then either they're liars or their sociopaths actually both, honestly,
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 4: either they have don't have this custodial or this custodial orientation,
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 4: which is to say, they want to know what they
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 4: need to do, Like how do you help the Martian
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 4: space rocks? If there's nothing operational in that, it's just
• 1:20:41
  Speaker 4: a virtue signal. I don't know how to It's like exactly.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 3: What you said.
• 1:20:45
  Speaker 4: It's like, what, Naddy, what are we supposed to do?
• 1:20:49
  Speaker 4: How do I relate this to my actions? She doesn't
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 4: understand it because.
• 1:20:52
  Speaker 5: She's a woman.
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 4: She thinks such a saying the thing is enough.
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 5: Men don't.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 3: They're like, no, we have to do the thing.
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 4: And what this woman is doing is she's constructing a
• 1:21:03
  Speaker 4: landscape where the only people who are datable are not men.
• 1:21:10
  Speaker 5: Yeah you see what I'm saying.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they're they're guys who can be like, well, I
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 4: want you, I want you to give up, you know,
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 4: kiss the kiss this Martian Martian space rocks. I want
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 4: you to virtue signal about the Martian space Rocks. And
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 4: then the guys who will say sure whatever, who are they?
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 4: They're the ones who don't have a custodial orientation. They
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 4: can't they don't have to operationalize their their empathy. They
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 4: don't have to know what to do right for the
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 4: Martian space Rocks before they can say that they feel
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 4: empathy for them. The custodial orientation, they don't care. They
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 4: don't have that. So men without a custodial orientation they
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 4: don't care about anything. They don't really care about anything.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: So it's just words to them, or men who are
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 4: lying and just willing to you know, vomit out so
• 1:22:00
  Speaker 4: virtue signaling because they think they can crack right like
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 4: and or or you get the progressive men who just
• 1:22:08
  Speaker 4: don't I don't know. They're just not very attached, not
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 4: progressive men, but you know what I mean.
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 3: Yeah, let these.
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 4: Hugo Schwartzer Schwartzers of the world, you know, and it's like,
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 4: what are you selecting for, lady. You're literally putting up
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 4: a firewall and the only people who can go through
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 4: it are sociopaths and narcissists and and men you don't
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 4: find desirable. I mean, they might be completely harmless because
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 4: they're not actually like sociopaths are narcissists. They're just guys
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 4: who really think compassion is about virtue signaling and crying
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 4: on command. But you're not going to find those men
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 4: attractive because they don't act like men, and to be honest,
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 4: they're probably happier with another man. So what are you doing?
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 4: I mean, this is the frustration that these women are
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 4: creating for them. They have evolved to want to particular
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 4: type of mentality. It's that being seen thing that they
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 4: constantly talk about. Well, where who's gonna see them? Who's
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 4: gonna see the specific person they are, a man who's
• 1:23:13
  Speaker 4: emotionally bonded to them, So they're constantly saying, I want
• 1:23:17
  Speaker 4: to be seen, Aka, I want a man who loves me.
• 1:23:21
  Speaker 4: And then they're putting up firewalls in which any man
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 4: with the required nature to do that what they want
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 4: can't get through. And then they're they're just like frustrated
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 4: because all they get is narcissists and sociopaths and men
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 4: they're not attracted to. Like, and she's setting this up
• 1:23:43
  Speaker 4: for another generation of women, Like she probably ruined her
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 4: own life with this, and now she's like, she's she
• 1:23:50
  Speaker 4: is delivering the curse to another generation of women. And
• 1:23:57
  Speaker 4: then that's really and this is exactly what this field,
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 4: the psychology of men and masculinities is built. It's built
• 1:24:04
  Speaker 4: this firewall. Women now are giving men a ship test
• 1:24:10
  Speaker 4: that is essentially, are you a sociopath? Or are you
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 4: undesirable to me? You are the only two categories that
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 4: can can't get through the door.
• 1:24:22
  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh god, should we move on?
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 4: This is just this is some serious level of fuckery.
• 1:24:28
  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, let's move on.
• 1:24:32
  Speaker 1: Let's move on. Okay, so we're gonna do well, that's
• 1:24:34
  Speaker 1: the end of this article. So I should do the
• 1:24:36
  Speaker 1: eight eight things men say and their dating profiles. Is
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 1: that what you want to do?
• 1:24:41
  Speaker 3: Or yeah?
• 1:24:42
  Speaker 4: Sure, no, no, no, not that one, the weak men one,
• 1:24:47
  Speaker 4: that's the female.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 1: Weak men. I thought this was the one that you're
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 1: going to use as a I don't know, like the
• 1:24:57
  Speaker 1: anchor for the other two.
• 1:25:00
  Speaker 4: No, this is this is the next one? Is the other?
• 1:25:02
  Speaker 4: Like the eight The eight one merely indicates that she's
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 4: capable of understanding the difference between virtue signaling and actions.
• 1:25:10
  Speaker 3: But I don't know.
• 1:25:11
  Speaker 1: This is the same This is the same woman.
• 1:25:14
  Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah.
• 1:25:16
  Speaker 1: TV yeah, all right, let's go to the female test.
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 1: This is somebody else. But uh, okay, this is a
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 1: long one, and I hate the way it's written. But
• 1:25:27
  Speaker 1: I do have a summary. But let's let's look at
• 1:25:29
  Speaker 1: some of it. Look at how this is written. Look
• 1:25:31
  Speaker 1: at these spaces. It's like a children's book, all right,
• 1:25:35
  Speaker 1: It's like where the wild things are, but no good
• 1:25:39
  Speaker 1: art to admire. The female test that exposes weak men.
• 1:25:44
  Speaker 1: So that's interesting. Right off the bat, we have the
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 1: the is it the flip side of the other one? Uh,
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 1: most men believe attraction. It's the flip side. All right.
• 1:25:55
  Speaker 4: This is okay, So literally, this is what's happening, guys.
• 1:25:59
  Speaker 4: She has been trained and this has come down from
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 4: feminism through the psychology of men and boys Field and
• 1:26:08
  Speaker 4: all of their influence, and they have a lot of it, right,
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 4: They got fingers all the way up Pedagoguy's ass. But
• 1:26:17
  Speaker 4: is this woman has been trained to select for men
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 4: who are not custodial like you do not bond And
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 4: it's more than just this article. And she's a feminist,
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 4: so she believes that heterosexuality is the site of female oppression.
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 4: What does that mean? That means that the only thing
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 4: a woman can max right is who she is oppressed by.
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 4: She is not going to choose an average man in
• 1:26:45
  Speaker 4: that circumstance. She's going to choose the best man she can,
• 1:26:48
  Speaker 4: or she's going to completely avoid it entirely. Thus the
• 1:26:52
  Speaker 4: constantly moving target that keeps getting smaller. And that is
• 1:26:57
  Speaker 4: a direct rational response to being told that men oppress
• 1:27:02
  Speaker 4: women and that the sight of heterosexuality is the side
• 1:27:04
  Speaker 4: of oppression.
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 1:27:06
  Speaker 4: The idea that men's commitment is a net negative, that
• 1:27:11
  Speaker 4: when a man commits to you you are being made
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 4: a fool of creates a situation where men can't commit right,
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 4: so they can't actually build a relationships because they have
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 4: to constantly induce fomo fear of missing out in any
• 1:27:26
  Speaker 4: relationship that they.
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 3: Have with a woman.
• 1:27:30
  Speaker 4: All right, So these these are factors that women like
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 4: this are constructing. These are the firewall be being developed
• 1:27:37
  Speaker 4: in dating that men have to somehow deal with. And
• 1:27:41
  Speaker 4: then there was a third one that covers hypergramy, that
• 1:27:45
  Speaker 4: covers the the fear of missing out, et cetera. But anyway,
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 4: they construct this firewall. Women like this construct this firewall
• 1:27:52
  Speaker 4: based on things that they've learned and been trained into,
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 4: and then men have to deal with this firewall to
• 1:27:58
  Speaker 4: try to continue to perpetuate the human race. And men
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 4: like Kieren are trying to tell men how to deal
• 1:28:08
  Speaker 4: with being this man that this woman is selecting for,
• 1:28:12
  Speaker 4: and she's telling other women to select for because this
• 1:28:14
  Speaker 4: is like she's beyond her prime. She's fifty years old
• 1:28:17
  Speaker 4: right now. What she's doing is she's trying to put
• 1:28:20
  Speaker 4: this curse on the next generation. Anyway, So this is
• 1:28:24
  Speaker 4: Kieren explaining how men can overcome, not overcome, but just
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 4: become hollowed out so that they can appeal to women
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 4: like the women that this woman is tainting. Me is.
• 1:28:41
  Speaker 3: Yes, I think so, although his writing style is.
• 1:28:44
  Speaker 1: Pretty okay, well yeah, okay, so this might be a
• 1:28:49
  Speaker 1: man Kiaren Brown the Man Manual. So yeah, I'm guessing
• 1:28:53
  Speaker 1: it is all right. Well, here we go more cringe.
• 1:28:56
  Speaker 1: But on the flip side, most men believe attraction is
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 1: one loss by saying exactly the right thing. They obsess
• 1:29:02
  Speaker 1: over opening lines, text messages, body language, whether they smiled
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 1: too much, whether they waited too long before replying, whether
• 1:29:09
  Speaker 1: they complimented her too early. But after spending years coaching men,
• 1:29:13
  Speaker 1: approaching thousands of women myself, and interviewing people from every
• 1:29:16
  Speaker 1: walk of life, I've become convinced that one of the
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 1: biggest killers of attraction has almost nothing to do with
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 1: what comes out of your mouth. It has everything to
• 1:29:23
  Speaker 1: do with what happens after she says something that makes
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 1: you uncomfortable. See every man has experienced it. A woman
• 1:29:29
  Speaker 1: laughs at him, questions his confidence, teases him, makes a
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 1: cheeky comment, says something that on the surface almost sounds rude,
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 1: and immediately he starts wondering that she just reject me.
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 1: Maybe but maybe not. During one of my recent interviews,
• 1:29:45
  Speaker 1: I ended up explaining a concept that men ask me
• 1:29:47
  Speaker 1: about constantly inside my coaching program. Some call them shit tests,
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 1: some call them confidence tests. Some don't even believe they
• 1:29:55
  Speaker 1: exist regardless of what label you want to put on them.
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 1: Understanding this one psychological pattern could completely change the way
• 1:30:01
  Speaker 1: you interpret your interactions with women, because once you understand
• 1:30:04
  Speaker 1: what you're actually looking at, you'll stop sabotaging yourself. In
• 1:30:08
  Speaker 1: the interview above, I explain exactly what happened during a
• 1:30:11
  Speaker 1: real conversation I had with two women several years ago.
• 1:30:14
  Speaker 1: At one point, one of them looked at me and asked,
• 1:30:16
  Speaker 1: how many social media followers have you got? I told
• 1:30:19
  Speaker 1: her I had around a thousand without missing a beat.
• 1:30:22
  Speaker 1: She smiled and said, what that's rubbish. Now, if you
• 1:30:25
  Speaker 1: only hear those words, it sounds like she's trying to
• 1:30:28
  Speaker 1: embarrass me. But that's exactly why I want you to
• 1:30:30
  Speaker 1: watch the video. Pay attention to her imagined delivery, pay
• 1:30:34
  Speaker 1: attention to the smile, pay attention to what I explain afterwards.
• 1:30:37
  Speaker 1: The words aren't the story of the psychologic god. Why
• 1:30:39
  Speaker 1: is it written like this? I hate this? See Jack run, run,
• 1:30:44
  Speaker 1: Jack run. This is this is an AI. This is worse.
• 1:30:50
  Speaker 1: Most men completely misunderstand what's happening in moments like these,
• 1:30:53
  Speaker 1: and because of that, they react in exactly the wrong way.
• 1:30:57
  Speaker 1: That's what destroys the attraction itself, the reaction. Are you ready,
• 1:31:03
  Speaker 1: here come the pain? You mean? Here comes the pain?
• 1:31:07
  Speaker 1: All right?
• 1:31:09
  Speaker 4: Keep yeah, yeah.
• 1:31:13
  Speaker 1: Most men think every challenge is rejection. I know I
• 1:31:16
  Speaker 1: don't think that's true, but whatever. One of the biggest
• 1:31:19
  Speaker 1: mistakes I see men making is assuming every uncomfortable interaction
• 1:31:22
  Speaker 1: we means women a woman dislikes them. She teases him,
• 1:31:26
  Speaker 1: He assumes she's rejecting him. She questions him, he thinks
• 1:31:30
  Speaker 1: he's failed. She gives him a little bit of attitude.
• 1:31:33
  Speaker 1: He immediately begins trying to convince her that he's actually
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 1: a good guy. The conversation turns into an interview. Now
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 1: compare that to what I asked during the interview. I
• 1:31:42
  Speaker 1: don't see the video, but I'm not gonna worry about it. Whatever. Uh.
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 1: I said something to the line along the lines of
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 1: have you ever been out with your friends and some
• 1:31:52
  Speaker 1: bloke comes over trying to impress everyone, and one of
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 1: your friends says something like I don't date short guys,
• 1:31:58
  Speaker 1: or you're too old, or why don't you buy me
• 1:32:00
  Speaker 1: a drink? Almost every woman has witnessed something like that.
• 1:32:04
  Speaker 1: The important thing is that these comments are often delivered
• 1:32:07
  Speaker 1: with a grit. They're playful, cheeky, almost theatrical. They're not
• 1:32:11
  Speaker 1: necessarily trying to get rid of them. They're seeing what
• 1:32:13
  Speaker 1: kind of man they've got standing in front of them.
• 1:32:15
  Speaker 1: That's completely a completely different interaction. She's interested, but she's
• 1:32:22
  Speaker 1: not sold. One thing I explained in the conversation is
• 1:32:26
  Speaker 1: that people misunderstand why these.
• 1:32:28
  Speaker 4: Do you notice? What?
• 1:32:29
  Speaker 3: Do you notice? That there's something going on here?
• 1:32:33
  Speaker 4: There's no back and forth, right, Like, the man isn't
• 1:32:37
  Speaker 4: actually judging whether or not the woman is worthy of investment.
• 1:32:42
  Speaker 1: And being approached in the first place.
• 1:32:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, well, not just being approached, but that her behavior
• 1:32:47
  Speaker 4: needs to be judged as well, like that that he
• 1:32:51
  Speaker 4: has a right to not necessarily warm to her immediately.
• 1:32:57
  Speaker 4: So what he's what he's creating is a situation where
• 1:33:00
  Speaker 4: men have no right to or not no right. But
• 1:33:03
  Speaker 4: he's basically saying, if you're reserved, if you're judging her behavior,
• 1:33:08
  Speaker 4: if you're determining whether or not she's worthy of your attention, right,
• 1:33:13
  Speaker 4: that that's not the way that you want to go, right,
• 1:33:17
  Speaker 4: He's what's happening here is there is a certain type
• 1:33:21
  Speaker 4: of behavior that women engage in a sort of challenging
• 1:33:25
  Speaker 4: behavior to women to men, and if they have the
• 1:33:29
  Speaker 4: ability to do this, because they're judging whether or not
• 1:33:31
  Speaker 4: the man is worthy of anything, and men themselves don't.
• 1:33:36
  Speaker 4: You cannot behave in any kind of standoffish way or
• 1:33:40
  Speaker 4: any kind of discerning way. You have to basically be
• 1:33:44
  Speaker 4: entertaining right and roll with the punches. And I guess
• 1:33:48
  Speaker 4: that's fine. That's fine if that's what you want for
• 1:33:53
  Speaker 4: the rest of your life.
• 1:33:54
  Speaker 3: But let's keep going, all right.
• 1:33:55
  Speaker 1: I got a super chat zariin scales five and said
• 1:34:00
  Speaker 1: the Errand's opener would probably work if you read it
• 1:34:02
  Speaker 1: as though he was in the middle of an action
• 1:34:03
  Speaker 1: sequence before the scene cuts to a languid interaction. All right,
• 1:34:08
  Speaker 1: thank you for that. She's interested, but she's not sold.
• 1:34:12
  Speaker 1: One thing I explained to the conversation is that people
• 1:34:15
  Speaker 1: misunderstand why these tests happened in the first place.
• 1:34:18
  Speaker 4: Oh okay, I got it, I got it, I got it,
• 1:34:19
  Speaker 4: I got it.
• 1:34:20
  Speaker 3: She's interested, but she's not sold. So the assumption here is.
• 1:34:23
  Speaker 5: That we're not having a meeting or a interview.
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  Speaker 4: We're not having a date where the man also has
• 1:34:32
  Speaker 4: to be sold.
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  Speaker 3: Do you see what I'm saying? M Like sold on
• 1:34:38
  Speaker 3: this woman who she is.
• 1:34:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, So the presumption here is that you
• 1:34:44
  Speaker 4: are there to simply provide whatever it is she wants,
• 1:34:48
  Speaker 4: as opposed to discern whether or not she's a good partner.
• 1:34:51
  Speaker 4: That's not actually, that's not actually the that's not a
• 1:34:55
  Speaker 4: situation where you're constructing the foundation for a relationship. You
• 1:34:59
  Speaker 4: see what I'm saying, like if if if this first date,
• 1:35:05
  Speaker 4: she's doing this bullshit and I guess just seeing if
• 1:35:10
  Speaker 4: you'll roll with the punches, right, what is that? Like?
• 1:35:16
  Speaker 4: What what are you constructing here? Right? She's saying that
• 1:35:21
  Speaker 4: she's just discerning whether or not.
• 1:35:22
  Speaker 5: You're worth well?
• 1:35:23
  Speaker 4: Where does where is the room for him to discern
• 1:35:26
  Speaker 4: where they're not she's worth it?
• 1:35:30
  Speaker 5: Height?
• 1:35:31
  Speaker 4: Like, I think that's the I think that's the big
• 1:35:34
  Speaker 4: problem with what you know, like Peter Wright talks about
• 1:35:36
  Speaker 4: romantic love, is that it completely omits the man's right
• 1:35:40
  Speaker 4: to be discerning too, at least the modern iteration of
• 1:35:45
  Speaker 4: it does, like you know, the the the previous iteration
• 1:35:49
  Speaker 4: of it, you know, with Christians, the Northern European Christian societies,
• 1:35:54
  Speaker 4: there would be discernment, right, there would be some element
• 1:35:59
  Speaker 4: of she has to you know, be past the bar
• 1:36:03
  Speaker 4: of the family, you know, and she has to have
• 1:36:07
  Speaker 4: bring something to the relationship.
• 1:36:09
  Speaker 3: But here the assumption here is that he is simply
• 1:36:12
  Speaker 3: there to.
• 1:36:15
  Speaker 4: Entertain a woman who likely has had a way too
• 1:36:19
  Speaker 4: comfortable life, has no v one A activation, so her
• 1:36:22
  Speaker 4: bonding is already impaired. And then she's got warm tongue here,
• 1:36:26
  Speaker 4: what's her name, Dana whispering in her ear, And then
• 1:36:31
  Speaker 4: a man has to go to that and be like, Okay,
• 1:36:33
  Speaker 4: I gotta I gotta be entertaining to this person, like okay,
• 1:36:40
  Speaker 4: let's keep going, all right.
• 1:36:43
  Speaker 1: So one thing I explained this conversation is that people
• 1:36:46
  Speaker 1: misunderstand why these tests happen in the first place. Imagine
• 1:36:48
  Speaker 1: you meet Leonardo DiCaprio or Brad Pitt or whoever women
• 1:36:51
  Speaker 1: collectively decide is irresistible this week. You're already sold. You
• 1:36:55
  Speaker 1: don't need any more information. Likewise, if a homeless bloke
• 1:36:59
  Speaker 1: who hasn't showered in two months starts chatting you up,
• 1:37:01
  Speaker 1: you're probably not interested either. Again, no test, the interesting
• 1:37:05
  Speaker 1: place is in the middle is the middle. She's intrigued,
• 1:37:08
  Speaker 1: she likes you, but she isn't completely convinced yet. That's
• 1:37:11
  Speaker 1: where uncertainty lives, and uncertainty naturally creates testing. It's exactly
• 1:37:16
  Speaker 1: like a job interview. If an employer already knows you're perfect,
• 1:37:19
  Speaker 1: they don't interview you. The interview only exists because they're
• 1:37:22
  Speaker 1: gathering information. Dating works remarkably similarly. The difference is that
• 1:37:26
  Speaker 1: instead of asking can you use Microsoft e cell attraction,
• 1:37:30
  Speaker 1: ask questions emmodally, emotionally, can this man handle pressure? Does
• 1:37:35
  Speaker 1: he believe what he's saying? Or is his confidence only
• 1:37:37
  Speaker 1: skin deep? Should I keep going?
• 1:37:41
  Speaker 5: Eh?
• 1:37:42
  Speaker 3: No, because you need to discuss this.
• 1:37:43
  Speaker 1: Okay, go ahead.
• 1:37:44
  Speaker 3: We're talking about.
• 1:37:45
  Speaker 4: A date, right, That's not what he's she's gonna discern
• 1:37:49
  Speaker 4: from this. What she's gonna discern from this is whether
• 1:37:52
  Speaker 4: or not he gives a crap about it, right, And
• 1:37:57
  Speaker 4: what she's gonna find is men who passed these stupid
• 1:38:00
  Speaker 4: tests don't. They'll just say whatever takes. They don't have
• 1:38:06
  Speaker 4: anything on the table, they don't have anything to risk,
• 1:38:09
  Speaker 4: So they're not going to be worried if she starts
• 1:38:12
  Speaker 4: behaving in an erratic and nasty manner, because they're just
• 1:38:16
  Speaker 4: willing to say whatever it takes to hit it and
• 1:38:18
  Speaker 4: quit it. So she's pre selecting for this. This particular
• 1:38:23
  Speaker 4: interview in a date context does not select for men
• 1:38:27
  Speaker 4: who are custodial or competent, and only selects for men
• 1:38:31
  Speaker 4: who are fluent verbally. I want people to think about
• 1:38:35
  Speaker 4: that men who are fluent verbally often don't have a
• 1:38:40
  Speaker 4: custodial channel. Right. So the way that you might want
• 1:38:44
  Speaker 4: to look at this is if you imagine your mind,
• 1:38:47
  Speaker 4: you know, with an average man who has a normal
• 1:38:52
  Speaker 4: level of vacippressing things like situational awareness, proceptive awareness. So
• 1:38:58
  Speaker 4: that's the readiness, the billity, be ready to deal with
• 1:39:01
  Speaker 4: anything that comes through, like any kind of any danger,
• 1:39:04
  Speaker 4: being aware of the exits, that kind of stuff, you know,
• 1:39:07
  Speaker 4: just the custodial monitoring that men engage in. I've recently
• 1:39:10
  Speaker 4: watched a skit maybe you saw this one too, Brian.
• 1:39:14
  Speaker 4: It was a it was a comedian who was saying
• 1:39:17
  Speaker 4: talking about the mental load that women have and he
• 1:39:19
  Speaker 4: was a father and he has to imagine the seven
• 1:39:22
  Speaker 4: hundred and fifty thousand ways that his kids could be harmed.
• 1:39:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah, and always be aware of.
• 1:39:29
  Speaker 4: The have sight lines to all of the exits and
• 1:39:32
  Speaker 4: potential egre you know, entrances that brigands could use to
• 1:39:36
  Speaker 4: come in effect that kind of thing like this is
• 1:39:39
  Speaker 4: this is this is this is a male thing. If
• 1:39:42
  Speaker 4: you have working vassuppressed and you were probably more aware
• 1:39:45
  Speaker 4: of your surroundings than any potential threats and any potential
• 1:39:48
  Speaker 4: vectors that threats could come in on. And if you
• 1:39:51
  Speaker 4: have if you are, you know, if you have dependents, you're.
• 1:39:54
  Speaker 3: Gonna even be more aware.
• 1:39:56
  Speaker 4: That's a like, imagine it like a super highway. If
• 1:40:00
  Speaker 4: a man has these this this full fully equipped with
• 1:40:03
  Speaker 4: a vast suppress and poormonal system, he's got a super
• 1:40:07
  Speaker 4: highway when it comes to monitoring threat making sure that
• 1:40:11
  Speaker 4: he's ready on a like a on a like a
• 1:40:13
  Speaker 4: subconscious level for potential threat.
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 1:40:16
  Speaker 4: So that's that propriceptive sense, you know, making sure one,
• 1:40:21
  Speaker 4: is there anything here threatening someone?
• 1:40:23
  Speaker 3: Too?
• 1:40:24
  Speaker 4: Can I cause problems by inaction? So does anybody need
• 1:40:28
  Speaker 4: my help? And and three am I actually causing harm
• 1:40:32
  Speaker 4: to anyone?
• 1:40:33
  Speaker 3: Physical harm?
• 1:40:34
  Speaker 4: So that's monitoring his own physicality. His manners are fairly
• 1:40:38
  Speaker 4: substantially stronger than everybody else in society. Right, that's a
• 1:40:42
  Speaker 4: super highway of information.
• 1:40:45
  Speaker 5: That is not verbal.
• 1:40:48
  Speaker 4: Right, So if a man has that normal amount of
• 1:40:51
  Speaker 4: custodial information, you know that that that line of custodial
• 1:40:56
  Speaker 4: information going through his brain. He's not gonna have as
• 1:40:59
  Speaker 4: much room for the verbal channel, especially like not in
• 1:41:04
  Speaker 4: a stressful situation, which meaning of the stranger usually is
• 1:41:09
  Speaker 4: that's gonna even have less. He's gonna be even more
• 1:41:11
  Speaker 4: inclined to be monitoring potential threats. Right so, and right
• 1:41:16
  Speaker 4: by this super highway, which is custodial information, Okay, there
• 1:41:22
  Speaker 4: is the dirt lane track, which is the verbal channel.
• 1:41:28
  Speaker 4: All right, Now, what this woman is selecting for in
• 1:41:32
  Speaker 4: this instance is a man with those two things reversed
• 1:41:37
  Speaker 4: if he even has a dirt lane track devoted to
• 1:41:40
  Speaker 4: the custodial instinct. So, in other words, what she's selecting
• 1:41:43
  Speaker 4: for is a man whose verbal channel is five lane
• 1:41:48
  Speaker 4: super highway, and his custodial channel, if he even has one,
• 1:41:53
  Speaker 4: is a fucking deer path through the woods that you
• 1:41:56
  Speaker 4: can't even find on a map. What do you think
• 1:42:00
  Speaker 4: the two the difference between these two men is, Okay,
• 1:42:05
  Speaker 4: one is a man who is going to protect and
• 1:42:06
  Speaker 4: provide for you. One is a man who's gonna give
• 1:42:09
  Speaker 4: a crap about you, right One is a man who
• 1:42:13
  Speaker 4: might take a bullet for you in the case that
• 1:42:15
  Speaker 4: that's some extremely horrific thing happens. The other is a
• 1:42:19
  Speaker 4: man who has a huge facility with verbal He can
• 1:42:23
  Speaker 4: say whatever he wants because he's and he's not particularly
• 1:42:27
  Speaker 4: nervous about the fact he's meeting somebody who could potentially
• 1:42:31
  Speaker 4: take a gigantic shit over every custodial instinct he has.
• 1:42:35
  Speaker 4: That's because he doesn't have any. He's got nothing to lose. Yeah,
• 1:42:39
  Speaker 4: giant verbal channel, absolutely nothing to lose. Of course, he's
• 1:42:44
  Speaker 4: gonna pass these freaking tests. He's gonna jump these hoops.
• 1:42:49
  Speaker 4: And let me tell you, as long as this is
• 1:42:51
  Speaker 4: the deciding factor for women, men with a giant verbal
• 1:42:56
  Speaker 4: channel and absolutely no custodial channel are gonna win us down.
• 1:43:04
  Speaker 4: And these guys who they these people call the natural alphas.
• 1:43:07
  Speaker 4: You know why they have a giant verbal channel because
• 1:43:11
  Speaker 4: half of what makes them a man is gone in
• 1:43:14
  Speaker 4: their brain. They don't have vast oppressing or they don't
• 1:43:17
  Speaker 4: have a normal amount, so everything reroots into the female channels.
• 1:43:23
  Speaker 4: That's their big strategy is to look to act like
• 1:43:25
  Speaker 4: a woman, and for whatever reason, women are really attracted
• 1:43:29
  Speaker 4: to that. A verbally fluent man who just does the
• 1:43:33
  Speaker 4: whole like a romantic comedy thing. You know, the back
• 1:43:36
  Speaker 4: and forth, the banter of the verbal fluidity. That's what
• 1:43:40
  Speaker 4: they're selecting for. A guy who's half a man. Are
• 1:43:45
  Speaker 4: alpha everyone, mm hmm, And he's not gonna he's not
• 1:43:51
  Speaker 4: gonna know what, you know, the custodial dude who's sitting
• 1:43:54
  Speaker 4: there being like, why are you asking me? Why are
• 1:43:56
  Speaker 4: you saying? Why are you making fun of my height?
• 1:44:00
  Speaker 4: Because he has something to lose, he doesn't want to
• 1:44:02
  Speaker 4: invest it in a woman who's casually mean. You know,
• 1:44:06
  Speaker 4: some dude rushes through the door with a gun, he
• 1:44:10
  Speaker 4: might actually do something about it. The guy with the
• 1:44:12
  Speaker 4: giant verbal channel is gonna ride behind her, run off,
• 1:44:16
  Speaker 4: fissing himself. These are not alpha dudes. And this entire
• 1:44:22
  Speaker 4: freaking shit test is degrading the species because she is
• 1:44:27
  Speaker 4: selecting for the guy whose big contribution to the human
• 1:44:34
  Speaker 4: race is being able to emulate a woman's mind.
• 1:44:38
  Speaker 5: And he's able to emulate a.
• 1:44:40
  Speaker 4: Woman's mind because he doesn't have a man's mind. There
• 1:44:46
  Speaker 4: you go, mm hmm. Right, Okay, let's let's jump this hoop.
• 1:44:52
  Speaker 4: Let's let's let's let's all.
• 1:44:54
  Speaker 5: Become the men that these women want.
• 1:44:57
  Speaker 4: And again, if you still have a custode like, if
• 1:45:00
  Speaker 4: you have your custodial super highway, right, you're always gonna
• 1:45:04
  Speaker 4: move slower on that dirt road than the man who
• 1:45:07
  Speaker 4: has the verbal super highway like a woman, the man
• 1:45:12
  Speaker 4: who has a woman's mind, you're never gonna view as fast.
• 1:45:15
  Speaker 4: You're always gonna be slower. So he's always gonna win
• 1:45:18
  Speaker 4: the verbal sparring match that this guy is talking about.
• 1:45:22
  Speaker 4: As long as this is how we make our decisions,
• 1:45:26
  Speaker 4: like women make their decisions on how they want the
• 1:45:29
  Speaker 4: men that they want to have sex with, or they
• 1:45:32
  Speaker 4: want to be partnered with, or they think they want
• 1:45:33
  Speaker 4: to be partnered with, they're gonna end up with the
• 1:45:36
  Speaker 4: guys who can talk a good game. But if anything happens,
• 1:45:43
  Speaker 4: they expect her to pick up the check, and you
• 1:45:45
  Speaker 4: know that's not you know what, if that's what women want,
• 1:45:48
  Speaker 4: that's fine, but you're never gonna be loved.
• 1:45:52
  Speaker 3: This man's never gonna give a crap about you.
• 1:45:55
  Speaker 5: He can't.
• 1:45:56
  Speaker 4: He doesn't bond like men don't bond like women do.
• 1:46:00
  Speaker 4: If you want a man to bond with you, you
• 1:46:02
  Speaker 4: have to accept how men bond, right, this guy's never
• 1:46:05
  Speaker 4: going to bond with you, So he'll talk a good
• 1:46:08
  Speaker 4: game he'll do the verbal back and forth, the sociopathic style.
• 1:46:12
  Speaker 4: He's got that down path sociopathic style. Might as well
• 1:46:15
  Speaker 4: just call it woman brain. He's got the woman brain
• 1:46:17
  Speaker 4: down pat, He's never gonna give a crap about you.
• 1:46:23
  Speaker 4: This is what this is selecting for with women. It's
• 1:46:25
  Speaker 4: why every single one of them have those sociopaths or
• 1:46:27
  Speaker 4: narcissistic x because they're selecting for it. And the dude
• 1:46:32
  Speaker 4: who's just like, why are you insulting me? Is left
• 1:46:36
  Speaker 4: behind because he doesn't have that verbal super highway to
• 1:46:41
  Speaker 4: fall back on. And again, if this is how we
• 1:46:45
  Speaker 4: are structuring our mating landscape as humans, we're devolving. But fine,
• 1:46:52
  Speaker 4: let's see how Kuren tells us to deal with it.
• 1:46:56
  Speaker 1: Uh yeah, Confidence isn't what you say. This is the
• 1:47:01
  Speaker 1: bit most dating advice completely misses. Confidence isn't saying I'm alpha.
• 1:47:06
  Speaker 1: Confidence isn't speaking loudly, Confidence isn't acting dominant. Confidence isn't
• 1:47:10
  Speaker 1: emotional stability. When that woman laughed at my follower count,
• 1:47:15
  Speaker 1: I imagined I'd replied, what the hell, why'd you say that?
• 1:47:18
  Speaker 1: That's really rude? What would that communicate? It tells me
• 1:47:22
  Speaker 1: that one sentence completely knocked me off balance. Now, compare
• 1:47:26
  Speaker 1: that with what actually happened. I simply laughed, Yeah, I joked,
• 1:47:31
  Speaker 1: nobody likes me. I've basically got no friends. Then I
• 1:47:34
  Speaker 1: carried on talking. Notice something I never defended myself. I
• 1:47:38
  Speaker 1: never explained why my follower account didn't matter. I never
• 1:47:40
  Speaker 1: tried proving I was successful because the followers were never
• 1:47:44
  Speaker 1: the issue. The issue was whether I could stay relaxed
• 1:47:46
  Speaker 1: under pressure. And that's a lesson that extends far beyond dating.
• 1:47:52
  Speaker 1: Should I keep going there?
• 1:47:54
  Speaker 4: It's not bad advice, but what it requires is not
• 1:47:58
  Speaker 4: caring right, and to treat this entire situation not as
• 1:48:03
  Speaker 4: the foundation for discovering whether or not you can have
• 1:48:05
  Speaker 4: a relationship, but just you don't care, like you don't
• 1:48:09
  Speaker 4: care which her opinion is right? When do you start
• 1:48:14
  Speaker 4: to care? And here's the problem is if you don't care, now,
• 1:48:17
  Speaker 4: when do you start to care? And if you do
• 1:48:19
  Speaker 4: start to care about the opinion of your woman, is
• 1:48:23
  Speaker 4: that the moment the relationship ends.
• 1:48:26
  Speaker 3: Do you see what I'm saying, Brian.
• 1:48:30
  Speaker 4: Like, how do you transition from this these initial stages
• 1:48:34
  Speaker 4: where she can say whatever she wants and you just
• 1:48:37
  Speaker 4: either ignore it or lob it back at her. With
• 1:48:39
  Speaker 4: your five lanes of verbal super highway, And when does
• 1:48:44
  Speaker 4: it switch to you actually get the opportunity to say, Hey, no,
• 1:48:48
  Speaker 4: that actually hurts stop it.
• 1:48:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, do you get to say that?
• 1:48:55
  Speaker 3: Do you get to say that at any point?
• 1:48:58
  Speaker 1: Right?
• 1:48:59
  Speaker 3: Or how about don't do that to our kids it
• 1:49:03
  Speaker 3: hurts them.
• 1:49:04
  Speaker 4: Mhm do you get to say that? Huh? Okay, let's
• 1:49:11
  Speaker 4: keep going right the part almost everyone misses.
• 1:49:16
  Speaker 1: Here's something I've noticed after coaching countless men. The men
• 1:49:19
  Speaker 1: who struggle most aren't usually lacking techniques. They're lacking self belief.
• 1:49:23
  Speaker 1: If deep down you already think you're not good enough,
• 1:49:25
  Speaker 1: every playful comment confirms your fears. You're short. You're short,
• 1:49:30
  Speaker 1: that hurts. You're bald that hurts. You're older that hurts.
• 1:49:33
  Speaker 1: You're broke that hurts. Every joke feels personal because you're
• 1:49:36
  Speaker 1: already fighting yourself. That's why self esteem matters so much.
• 1:49:39
  Speaker 1: The more secure you become internally, the less external comments
• 1:49:42
  Speaker 1: have the power to shake you. It's like water rolling
• 1:49:45
  Speaker 1: off a duck's back. That's the exact analogy I used.
• 1:49:49
  Speaker 1: Not because you're pretending not to care, because you generally don't.
• 1:49:52
  Speaker 1: Before I explain the biggest lesson, watch this next section.
• 1:49:55
  Speaker 1: I don't have the video here, so I mean, do
• 1:49:58
  Speaker 1: you have is it?
• 1:50:00
  Speaker 3: Is it just the article? You don't have the video?
• 1:50:02
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just the article. It doesn't show the video.
• 1:50:05
  Speaker 1: I don't think we need it, right, No, I don't
• 1:50:08
  Speaker 1: it because he basically tells you what's in the video. Anyway,
• 1:50:13
  Speaker 1: So go ahead, go ahead.
• 1:50:15
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean just okay, So you are supposed to.
• 1:50:22
  Speaker 4: Not care, how do you how do you fall in
• 1:50:26
  Speaker 4: love if you don't care?
• 1:50:32
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:50:33
  Speaker 4: Like, how long can you sustain this not caring? Can
• 1:50:38
  Speaker 4: you sustain this not caring while you fall in love
• 1:50:40
  Speaker 4: with a woman? Is that? How does that possible?
• 1:50:44
  Speaker 3: I don't know. I'm not a man. Does that seem possible? Brian?
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 4: So not?
• 1:50:48
  Speaker 1: No, No, I think I think men want Well that's
• 1:50:53
  Speaker 1: the thing too, This thing is seemed this guy's I
• 1:50:57
  Speaker 1: don't know, man, he's missing like he's.
• 1:51:01
  Speaker 3: Okay, he's not okay.
• 1:51:02
  Speaker 4: I'm sorry to contradict you, but he is accurate about
• 1:51:06
  Speaker 4: what men need to be.
• 1:51:07
  Speaker 1: No, I know, but that's not the part I'm saying
• 1:51:10
  Speaker 1: that he's wrong about what I'm the problem is is
• 1:51:13
  Speaker 1: that this stuff is all useful if you are engaging
• 1:51:16
  Speaker 1: with a woman that is worth that time, because this
• 1:51:19
  Speaker 1: is actually a lot of work. So why would you
• 1:51:22
  Speaker 1: do that if the woman is of low quality? Why
• 1:51:25
  Speaker 1: would you do that if you don't know whether or
• 1:51:27
  Speaker 1: not the woman is worth the time and effort, and
• 1:51:30
  Speaker 1: so like this article just like basically most dating male
• 1:51:34
  Speaker 1: dating coaches, the the Alex Sykes of the world. They
• 1:51:38
  Speaker 1: basically operate under the presumption that all women are worthy
• 1:51:42
  Speaker 1: right off the bat, and that they're like you don't like,
• 1:51:44
  Speaker 1: you don't need to vet them. You need to know
• 1:51:46
  Speaker 1: what their values are. You need to wonder do you
• 1:51:48
  Speaker 1: have daddy issues? You need to wonder you know, are
• 1:51:52
  Speaker 1: you in a cult? Are you a radical feminist? You
• 1:51:56
  Speaker 1: know whatever? Right, how many babies do you have? Like
• 1:51:59
  Speaker 1: you have kids with a men? Like?
• 1:52:00
  Speaker 4: What? Like?
• 1:52:01
  Speaker 1: Do you like whatever?
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 1:52:02
  Speaker 1: None of that seems to be a part of this.
• 1:52:04
  Speaker 1: It's all just like the woman is there. You have
• 1:52:07
  Speaker 1: to earn that, like right off the bat. That's what
• 1:52:09
  Speaker 1: I mean when I my issue with this is that
• 1:52:12
  Speaker 1: all this is useful, useful if you're gonna be like
• 1:52:15
  Speaker 1: using it on someone that that actually like has a
• 1:52:19
  Speaker 1: heart and isn't just going to try and like, you know,
• 1:52:21
  Speaker 1: abuse you in front of her friends to like score
• 1:52:24
  Speaker 1: some points, you know, So that's what I mean.
• 1:52:28
  Speaker 4: And and my my question is when does it switch?
• 1:52:31
  Speaker 4: Like if you're just supposed to roll with the punches, okay,
• 1:52:35
  Speaker 4: fair enough, is there a point at which this stops?
• 1:52:40
  Speaker 4: And that seems to be the most dangerous point of all,
• 1:52:43
  Speaker 4: Like if you can as a man, if you can
• 1:52:45
  Speaker 4: manage to work that that dirt road into like a
• 1:52:49
  Speaker 4: maybe like a paved highway, and you you manage to
• 1:52:53
  Speaker 4: do this, and again, you're competing against men with absolutely
• 1:52:56
  Speaker 4: no custodial interests, so they're they're working off of full
• 1:53:00
  Speaker 4: super lane five lane highway. If you do that, and
• 1:53:07
  Speaker 4: then you get to the point where you actually start
• 1:53:10
  Speaker 4: to care about her opinion, doesn't that sound like it's
• 1:53:14
  Speaker 4: a really dangerous point mm hmmm, because you you have
• 1:53:19
  Speaker 4: attracted her because you don't care about her opinion, and
• 1:53:25
  Speaker 4: you are able to do this verbal jousting even when
• 1:53:28
  Speaker 4: she's mean. What happens when you do start to care
• 1:53:32
  Speaker 4: about her opinion? What happens to the relationship when you
• 1:53:36
  Speaker 4: start demanding that she not be an asshole? Do you
• 1:53:40
  Speaker 4: keep are you able to keep that relationship? Does she say, oh,
• 1:53:44
  Speaker 4: you've become boring or oh, I don't know the blove
• 1:53:48
  Speaker 4: you've changed. Yeah, you see what I'm saying, Brian, Like
• 1:53:52
  Speaker 4: what happens when when you you have something to lose
• 1:53:55
  Speaker 4: with this woman, when what she says does hurt? Do
• 1:53:59
  Speaker 4: you just doing this for the rest of your life?
• 1:54:04
  Speaker 4: Like Vine is saying, it's it sounds like it's really tiring.
• 1:54:09
  Speaker 4: Or somebody who doesn't ever really care about you, somebody
• 1:54:14
  Speaker 4: who would never say if you said, hey, that hurts,
• 1:54:16
  Speaker 4: she'd say, oh, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it that way, right,
• 1:54:19
  Speaker 4: who'd actually take responsibility for her effect on you? So
• 1:54:25
  Speaker 4: and again like, how do you transition from being ah,
• 1:54:31
  Speaker 4: I don't know, a quip monkey to being an actual
• 1:54:35
  Speaker 4: husband who has to have some standards for his wife's behavior.
• 1:54:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, just keep going, Okay, the more secure you become internally.
• 1:54:48
  Speaker 1: And I read that part in the video above. I
• 1:54:51
  Speaker 1: also explain something that gets ignored. Ful Far too often
• 1:54:54
  Speaker 1: pay attention to how we discuss whether these tests are
• 1:54:57
  Speaker 1: even conscious. The woman I'm speaking to openly admit she
• 1:55:00
  Speaker 1: can't remember deliberately testing men, and that's precisely the point.
• 1:55:04
  Speaker 1: These behaviors are often subconscious. People love imagining dating as
• 1:55:08
  Speaker 1: some elaborate chess match where everyone has a secret strategy.
• 1:55:12
  Speaker 1: Real life isn't like that. Human beings respond emotionally long
• 1:55:16
  Speaker 1: before they analyze logically. That's why attraction often appears irrational.
• 1:55:20
  Speaker 1: People don't consciously decide every tiny behavior. Much of it
• 1:55:24
  Speaker 1: simply happens. The difference between a test and a rejection.
• 1:55:29
  Speaker 1: Now here's where men get really get themselves into trouble.
• 1:55:32
  Speaker 1: They hear one thing, yeah.
• 1:55:36
  Speaker 4: Okay, so, and the other thing is that this situation.
• 1:55:39
  Speaker 4: This is why I say that the dating landscape is
• 1:55:42
  Speaker 4: not not it's not constructed. It's basically a giant handicap
• 1:55:48
  Speaker 4: for men m because it's expecting them to display the
• 1:55:53
  Speaker 4: way women do, and it's expecting them to engage the
• 1:55:55
  Speaker 4: way women do. Right, and she he's saying that these
• 1:56:00
  Speaker 4: shit tests determine if a man is competent.
• 1:56:02
  Speaker 3: No, they don't.
• 1:56:04
  Speaker 4: They determine if he has access to woman brain, you know,
• 1:56:07
  Speaker 4: the giant four lane highway of verbal repartee. What would
• 1:56:14
  Speaker 4: test if he's competent is actually him being competent, like
• 1:56:20
  Speaker 4: him demonstrating skill or a technical craft, or being reliable.
• 1:56:27
  Speaker 4: None of that comes through a dating landscape. Like the
• 1:56:30
  Speaker 4: current dating marketplace, the men don't have the opportunity to
• 1:56:36
  Speaker 4: demonstrate that and attractive attraction, Like again, attraction is much
• 1:56:44
  Speaker 4: more about like MHC compatibility and kin selection than it
• 1:56:50
  Speaker 4: is about any of these other factors, which are also
• 1:56:53
  Speaker 4: you don't get through the dating landscape. I don't spend
• 1:56:57
  Speaker 4: like I don't know, a couple hours smelling your potential partners.
• 1:57:01
  Speaker 4: And and then there's all the social factors against a
• 1:57:06
  Speaker 4: woman selecting for her kin selection.
• 1:57:07
  Speaker 3: So what that means is.
• 1:57:10
  Speaker 4: People will tend to be attracted to a person who
• 1:57:14
  Speaker 4: looks like their kin but smells like they have a
• 1:57:18
  Speaker 4: different like a compatible immunal propile immunal profile.
• 1:57:22
  Speaker 3: Which means that they have a different one.
• 1:57:25
  Speaker 4: But if a woman does that selects on those factors,
• 1:57:29
  Speaker 4: she runs the gamut of the sisterhood telling her that,
• 1:57:32
  Speaker 4: oh he's not attractive, he's boring, right of undermining who
• 1:57:38
  Speaker 4: she has selected. Okay, none of this is none of
• 1:57:42
  Speaker 4: this like all of this is a handicap that men
• 1:57:45
  Speaker 4: have in the current dating landscape, and none of this
• 1:57:48
  Speaker 4: is addressed by what he's saying.
• 1:57:50
  Speaker 3: And again, if a man can actually.
• 1:57:53
  Speaker 4: Jump over these bars, what does he get at the
• 1:57:55
  Speaker 4: end of the day from all of this. And this
• 1:57:58
  Speaker 4: is this is something that I've seen a lot of
• 1:58:00
  Speaker 4: young men saying they're exhausted because if they even manage
• 1:58:05
  Speaker 4: to get a woman, it never ends because if he
• 1:58:10
  Speaker 4: if he starts to soften towards her, you know, which
• 1:58:13
  Speaker 4: is sort of inevitable for men. You know, they hang
• 1:58:16
  Speaker 4: around a woman, you know, they do sexual things with her,
• 1:58:21
  Speaker 4: eventually they're gonna sort of soften towards her and not
• 1:58:25
  Speaker 4: be able to do all this like hard edge verbal
• 1:58:28
  Speaker 4: repartee and I don't give a fuck about you. You know,
• 1:58:32
  Speaker 4: get your get your things and get out. Your hour
• 1:58:34
  Speaker 4: and a half is over that kind of thing. To
• 1:58:37
  Speaker 4: induce her foot fomo so that she feels like he's
• 1:58:41
  Speaker 4: worth her time, we can inevitably soften towards. What happens
• 1:58:46
  Speaker 4: then what happens when he can no longer induce the
• 1:58:49
  Speaker 4: fomo And even if he manages to keep it, what
• 1:58:54
  Speaker 4: does he got at the end of the day. Yeah,
• 1:58:57
  Speaker 4: somebody who's gonna bounce the moment she realizes that he
• 1:59:01
  Speaker 4: has made a genuine emotional commitment to her, that he's
• 1:59:04
  Speaker 4: in any way vulnerable to her because he's become boring.
• 1:59:13
  Speaker 4: All right, Okay, let's keep going. I know it's a
• 1:59:16
  Speaker 4: fairly long article.
• 1:59:18
  Speaker 1: Yeah. The difference between a tests and a rejection, now
• 1:59:20
  Speaker 1: here's what men get really get themselves into trouble. They
• 1:59:24
  Speaker 1: hear one sentence and immediately assume every woman is testing them. No,
• 1:59:28
  Speaker 1: sometimes she genuinely isn't interested. So how do you tell.
• 1:59:31
  Speaker 1: One of the biggest clues in emotion is emotion. During
• 1:59:34
  Speaker 1: the interview, I explain my genuine that genuine rejection usually
• 1:59:37
  Speaker 1: doesn't come with warmth. If she's genuinely offended, you'll know
• 1:59:41
  Speaker 1: if she wants you gone, you'll know. There's very little playfulness,
• 1:59:44
  Speaker 1: very little smiling, very little curiosity. If she's smiling while
• 1:59:47
  Speaker 1: saying something slightly provocative, that's completely different. The words might
• 1:59:51
  Speaker 1: sound harsh, the emotion doesn't, And emotion always tells the
• 1:59:54
  Speaker 1: bigger story.
• 1:59:55
  Speaker 4: Okay, fair enough, he's explaining how flirting works.
• 2:00:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Sure. The six foot Yeah, the six foot nine
• 2:00:05
  Speaker 1: analogy explains everything. One of my favorite examples from the
• 2:00:09
  Speaker 1: conversation had nothing to do with dating. I asked the
• 2:00:11
  Speaker 1: woman to imagine we're walking down the street. A man
• 2:00:14
  Speaker 1: who's six foot nine, built like a brick wall, walks
• 2:00:16
  Speaker 1: over and slaps around the backside. How do I react?
• 2:00:20
  Speaker 4: Or no?
• 2:00:20
  Speaker 1: How do I react? Probably anger or fear. Now imagine
• 2:00:24
  Speaker 1: the same exact thing happens, only this time the bloke
• 2:00:27
  Speaker 1: is three feet tall and built like a stick insect.
• 2:00:30
  Speaker 1: Same action, same intention, completely different emotional response. Why because
• 2:00:34
  Speaker 1: I don't perceive him as a genuine threat. I laugh,
• 2:00:37
  Speaker 1: and everyone around me would probably think Kieran's got dis handled.
• 2:00:41
  Speaker 1: This is That is exactly how confidence works, not forced,
• 2:00:44
  Speaker 1: not performative, relaxed. That's how you should treat playful tests,
• 2:00:47
  Speaker 1: not because you're acting, but because you're emotionally unaffected. Stop
• 2:00:54
  Speaker 1: looking for the perfect Oh, I got a super chat.
• 2:00:56
  Speaker 1: Hold on, let me just read this albatross.
• 2:01:00
  Speaker 4: Zero?
• 2:01:01
  Speaker 1: How long? What do I do?
• 2:01:02
  Speaker 4: What for? How long do you do this?
• 2:01:04
  Speaker 1: For it? Like you don't just dance?
• 2:01:05
  Speaker 3: Okay?
• 2:01:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, with all these hoops to jump through, I think
• 2:01:09
  Speaker 1: I'd be happier just failing the shit test. Well, maybe
• 2:01:13
  Speaker 1: feeling the shit test is actually winning the sixth the
• 2:01:16
  Speaker 1: shit test. Stop looking for the perfect comeback. Men constantly
• 2:01:21
  Speaker 1: ask me, so what do I actually say? The truth?
• 2:01:24
  Speaker 1: Almost anything? Seriously, there isn't one magical sentence. Sometimes agreeing works. Yeah,
• 2:01:29
  Speaker 1: I'm ancient. Sometimes exaggerating works. I'm literally your granddad. Sometimes
• 2:01:33
  Speaker 1: playful disagreement works. I'm four years old. I'm still wearing nappies.
• 2:01:37
  Speaker 1: The actual words matter far less than the feeling behind them.
• 2:01:40
  Speaker 1: What matters is that nothing she said knocked you off center.
• 2:01:43
  Speaker 1: That's what people respond to authenticity, not rehearse one liners.
• 2:01:48
  Speaker 1: Now's the perfect time in the video above. Don't just
• 2:01:51
  Speaker 1: listen to what I'm saying. Watch the rhythm, Watch the smiles,
• 2:01:55
  Speaker 1: watch the pauses, Watch how humor completely changes the emotional
• 2:01:58
  Speaker 1: tone of the conversation. Those are the things articles can
• 2:02:01
  Speaker 1: never fully capture. It's about or sorry. You can read
• 2:02:05
  Speaker 1: about confidence, but seeing someone remain calm, playful, and relax
• 2:02:08
  Speaker 1: in real time teaches a completely different lesson. That's why
• 2:02:12
  Speaker 1: I always encourage people to watch the interview after reading.
• 2:02:14
  Speaker 1: You'll notice things you didn't even realize you were looking
• 2:02:17
  Speaker 1: for final thoughts. This guy's really selling himself by the
• 2:02:21
  Speaker 1: way he does sell himself literally, So one of the
• 2:02:24
  Speaker 1: greatest lessons I've learned after years of studying attraction is
• 2:02:27
  Speaker 1: that confidence isn't about impressing people, It's about remaining yourself.
• 2:02:31
  Speaker 1: When somebody tries to shake you. Sometimes that challenge comes
• 2:02:34
  Speaker 1: from life. Sometimes it comes from another man. Sometimes it
• 2:02:37
  Speaker 1: comes from a woman you're attracted to. The source doesn't matter.
• 2:02:40
  Speaker 1: Your response does. If one playful comment completely changes your
• 2:02:43
  Speaker 1: emotional state, then perhaps the work isn't learning better lines.
• 2:02:47
  Speaker 1: Perhaps the work is becoming a man who no longer
• 2:02:49
  Speaker 1: needs validation from every stranger he meets. Ironically, those are
• 2:02:53
  Speaker 1: the men who tend to attract people most easily, not
• 2:02:55
  Speaker 1: because they're trying harder, because they're trying less. They're comfortable, rounded, playful, authentic,
• 2:03:01
  Speaker 1: and those qualities can't be faked for very long. If
• 2:03:05
  Speaker 1: you haven't watched the full interaction yet, do that now,
• 2:03:08
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, this keeps going. In the interview above,
• 2:03:11
  Speaker 1: you'll see far more than a conversation about dating. You'll
• 2:03:13
  Speaker 1: see body language, timing, humor, natural reactions. Yeah, get coached
• 2:03:19
  Speaker 1: by these right there at the bottom, and you'll notice.
• 2:03:22
  Speaker 1: The biggest lesson has nothing to do with social media followers,
• 2:03:24
  Speaker 1: short men, old men, or clever comebacks. The biggest lesson
• 2:03:27
  Speaker 1: is that attraction often reveals itself in the smallest moments.
• 2:03:30
  Speaker 1: Most men never notice them. Now you will excelsior curt Okay,
• 2:03:36
  Speaker 1: that was kind of that was kind of painful just
• 2:03:39
  Speaker 1: saying it.
• 2:03:40
  Speaker 4: Was Also I think that if she's engaging in a
• 2:03:44
  Speaker 4: flirtatious back and forth, I assume you're past the stage
• 2:03:50
  Speaker 4: of actual initial conversation.
• 2:03:53
  Speaker 3: Right, So this is this is pretty advanced. I don't know.
• 2:03:59
  Speaker 4: It just feels like, yeah, it's good to understand the
• 2:04:05
  Speaker 4: difference between teasing. But if the counseling is that you
• 2:04:10
  Speaker 4: just don't care, at some point, you're gonna care, right
• 2:04:14
  Speaker 4: what happens then? Like I understand that the writer that
• 2:04:22
  Speaker 4: we read before this, Dana, she's basically saying men don't
• 2:04:26
  Speaker 4: have a custodial nature. Just destroy it, like, get rid
• 2:04:30
  Speaker 4: of it, don't show it, don't have it, don't have
• 2:04:35
  Speaker 4: the politics that a custodial nature would have. Like, no
• 2:04:39
  Speaker 4: matter what, men who have that custodical nature, they want
• 2:04:44
  Speaker 4: an environment where they can protect and provide for their families,
• 2:04:47
  Speaker 4: whether that's being an old union man or being somebody
• 2:04:50
  Speaker 4: who wants to be able to run his business, right, Like,
• 2:04:53
  Speaker 4: they still share that quality of I want to have
• 2:04:56
  Speaker 4: a wage and I want to be able to protect
• 2:04:58
  Speaker 4: and provide for my family. Of course, all that is
• 2:05:01
  Speaker 4: all just conservative masculine politics now, and she's saying, don't
• 2:05:07
  Speaker 4: be that. Just hollow it out. Virtue signal, virtue signal,
• 2:05:12
  Speaker 4: care about the Martian Rocks.
• 2:05:14
  Speaker 3: Don't care about being able to afford a family.
• 2:05:16
  Speaker 4: Guys don't be able to care about protecting your family.
• 2:05:19
  Speaker 4: Guys don't care about a nation that allows you to
• 2:05:22
  Speaker 4: protect or provide for your family. Those are conservative politics
• 2:05:26
  Speaker 4: aka masculine politics, all right, Just care about the Martian Rocks.
• 2:05:33
  Speaker 4: Virtue signal about things you can never do anything about.
• 2:05:37
  Speaker 4: That selects against men with any custodial nature who need
• 2:05:42
  Speaker 4: to know what to do. Like Brian was talking about
• 2:05:44
  Speaker 4: with that argument with Natty, or that debate with Natty, like.
• 2:05:48
  Speaker 2: He was like, what do I do?
• 2:05:50
  Speaker 3: That's a man speaking what do I do?
• 2:05:53
  Speaker 4: Right? What do I do for the Martian Rocks? How
• 2:05:57
  Speaker 4: do I How do I protect and provide my for
• 2:05:59
  Speaker 4: my face in a society that's falling apart? Right, Maybe
• 2:06:04
  Speaker 4: the older values where the society wasn't falling apart, we
• 2:06:07
  Speaker 4: should go back to that.
• 2:06:08
  Speaker 3: That's the entirety of it.
• 2:06:11
  Speaker 4: That's the entirety of men's political perspective. And again, it
• 2:06:16
  Speaker 4: used to be that the left had some room for
• 2:06:18
  Speaker 4: the old union guys who wanted a good job so
• 2:06:21
  Speaker 4: they could provide for their families, or even the freaking
• 2:06:26
  Speaker 4: freaking communists, the Bernie Bros. Who just wanted a society
• 2:06:29
  Speaker 4: where they had something that they could do that made
• 2:06:33
  Speaker 4: sense to them, and they think communism is going to
• 2:06:35
  Speaker 4: give them a job. That's the big difference between communist
• 2:06:38
  Speaker 4: men and communist women. By the way, let mean not
• 2:06:40
  Speaker 4: all communists men. The communist men are communists because they
• 2:06:43
  Speaker 4: want to get a job.
• 2:06:45
  Speaker 3: They want the state to give them something to do
• 2:06:48
  Speaker 3: a purpose.
• 2:06:49
  Speaker 4: Communist women want the state to give them stuff, which
• 2:06:53
  Speaker 4: I don't know why they have a problem with the
• 2:06:55
  Speaker 4: current state because it is already giving them stuff, but whatever,
• 2:06:57
  Speaker 4: they want more stuff.
• 2:07:00
  Speaker 3: Big difference.
• 2:07:01
  Speaker 4: That's why communist men are in the front lines getting
• 2:07:03
  Speaker 4: her freaking noggins pounded in, and the women are in
• 2:07:06
  Speaker 4: the back saying, women hold up half.
• 2:07:10
  Speaker 5: The sky.
• 2:07:12
  Speaker 4: Except when it matters, right, because that's that's a man.
• 2:07:18
  Speaker 4: What do I do?
• 2:07:20
  Speaker 5: How do I do it?
• 2:07:21
  Speaker 4: How do I protect my family? And then this woman
• 2:07:25
  Speaker 4: is basically saying, no, don't do that. You got a
• 2:07:28
  Speaker 4: virtue signal, your empathy and your desire to protect and
• 2:07:32
  Speaker 4: provide has to be completely divorced from taking any kind
• 2:07:34
  Speaker 4: of action. It just has to be a word. And
• 2:07:37
  Speaker 4: she doesn't even realize that she is selecting four men
• 2:07:41
  Speaker 4: who don't have a connection between the things that say
• 2:07:44
  Speaker 4: and the things that they do, either because they don't
• 2:07:48
  Speaker 4: do anything or because they don't feel like they need
• 2:07:50
  Speaker 4: to be consistent in that way.
• 2:07:52
  Speaker 5: So she's selecting.
• 2:07:53
  Speaker 4: Against men with any kind of custodial center, any kind
• 2:07:57
  Speaker 4: of custodial being, just to say, get rid of that.
• 2:08:00
  Speaker 4: And this dude is saying, well, this is how you
• 2:08:03
  Speaker 4: demonstrate being a man with no custodial center who doesn't care. Now,
• 2:08:10
  Speaker 4: you know, to a degree, you know, recognizing flirtatious teasing.
• 2:08:15
  Speaker 4: He's probably a skill that's worth pursuing. But the way
• 2:08:19
  Speaker 4: that he frames it is you don't care, right, I
• 2:08:23
  Speaker 4: don't care? Well, how long do you not care? Can
• 2:08:27
  Speaker 4: you not care for the entirety of the time that
• 2:08:29
  Speaker 4: you're married to a woman for like thirty years?
• 2:08:32
  Speaker 5: Like I don't care?
• 2:08:33
  Speaker 4: Yeah, you can just walk off into traffic, it's splattered,
• 2:08:35
  Speaker 4: I don't care. Yeah, Like, how long do you maintain that?
• 2:08:40
  Speaker 4: And how do you maintain that? Realistically? If you have
• 2:08:44
  Speaker 4: a custodial nature. At some point you are going to
• 2:08:47
  Speaker 4: care very deeply, and this woman will now have the
• 2:08:52
  Speaker 4: ability to do a lot of bad things to you.
• 2:08:56
  Speaker 4: And you will have selected for a woman who's chosen
• 2:08:59
  Speaker 4: you becase you didn't care, because you gave the perception
• 2:09:02
  Speaker 4: of not caring. And I don't know if this is
• 2:09:04
  Speaker 4: something that men can fix, because again it's Diana warm tongue,
• 2:09:08
  Speaker 4: Dana warm tongue here whispering into women's ears. You want
• 2:09:12
  Speaker 4: men who don't look like they care. If they look
• 2:09:15
  Speaker 4: like they care, run away really fast. Like what we
• 2:09:21
  Speaker 4: really need is the you know, like the old aunts
• 2:09:25
  Speaker 4: and like the old aunts, and like War and Peace
• 2:09:27
  Speaker 4: who took Natasha's side and slapped her a few times
• 2:09:30
  Speaker 4: and said and it totally doesn't give a crap about you.
• 2:09:36
  Speaker 4: And this is what you need to look for if
• 2:09:39
  Speaker 4: you want a man who's actually gonna care about you,
• 2:09:41
  Speaker 4: who actually has that custodial five lane highway.
• 2:09:45
  Speaker 3: Like you can't just you.
• 2:09:47
  Speaker 4: Can't just just follow the tingles. You actually have to
• 2:09:51
  Speaker 4: know the signs. And the funny thing is is that
• 2:09:58
  Speaker 4: not only any honestly, the best outcome is that these
• 2:10:01
  Speaker 4: women just get pumped and dumped by a psych you know,
• 2:10:03
  Speaker 4: a sociopath who you know wants to crack and also
• 2:10:08
  Speaker 4: wouldn't mind stealing some stuff from their bank account, you know,
• 2:10:13
  Speaker 4: maybe get a kidney, Like that's the best outcome. The
• 2:10:16
  Speaker 4: worst outcome is they find a sociopath who shoots them
• 2:10:19
  Speaker 4: in a parking lot because they wanted to leave them,
• 2:10:23
  Speaker 4: like he that she wanted to leave him. Because that's
• 2:10:26
  Speaker 4: the other thing, the other type of man that this
• 2:10:28
  Speaker 4: woman is getting these women to select. When she says,
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  Speaker 4: you don't want a man who looks like he cares,
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  Speaker 4: if he cares about anything, if he shows any desire
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  Speaker 4: to protect and provide, you want to run like yeah, okay,
• 2:10:45
  Speaker 4: so that and again like sure, this guy can tell you,
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  Speaker 4: as a young man how to pretend to look like
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  Speaker 4: you don't care, but at some point you are gonna
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  Speaker 4: care a great deal and then what well you're gonna
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  Speaker 4: you're gonna experience one of the horrible horsemen of the
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  Speaker 4: apocalypse that we talk about on here. Because he's got
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  Speaker 4: you to select women who select men who don't care.
• 2:11:09
  Speaker 4: In the moment they do care, the women are like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you're boring out. I've just the reason for divorce I
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  Speaker 4: just lost that feeling. I don't know, I just don't
• 2:11:20
  Speaker 4: feel attracted to him anymore, feeling bored. We grew apart
• 2:11:26
  Speaker 4: reason for taking half his stuff and giving him a
• 2:11:29
  Speaker 4: week and a month with his children, we grew apart.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I just didn't feel it anymore, like.
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  Speaker 4: At all. Because he's she's been told at the moment
• 2:11:41
  Speaker 4: that he commits to her, she's a fool, So she
• 2:11:45
  Speaker 4: puts no value on his commitment. She doesn't see it
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  Speaker 4: as a positive thing. Like a man who's stepped up
• 2:11:52
  Speaker 4: and been there with her for years, that is a
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  Speaker 4: good thing. That means he cares, And he's about the
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  Speaker 4: only person who's going to care that much for her
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  Speaker 4: that she will ever have in her life, except maybe
• 2:12:05
  Speaker 4: your dad. If she had one, right then she just
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  Speaker 4: throws it away. Why because worm tongue feminism has told
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  Speaker 4: her that a man committing to her is making a
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  Speaker 4: fool out of her. That's the sight of her oppression.
• 2:12:19
  Speaker 4: She's a handmaid. Pick me if she wants that, if
• 2:12:24
  Speaker 4: she values that. But at the end of the day,
• 2:12:27
  Speaker 4: when you know you're in year ten of your relationship,
• 2:12:31
  Speaker 4: that's the thing that's the value that keeps it going.
• 2:12:34
  Speaker 4: The man stayed, he stepped up, he continued to be there,
• 2:12:42
  Speaker 4: and feminism tears down that value. So like it's like
• 2:12:47
  Speaker 4: this guy is like, Okay, lads, this is how you
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  Speaker 4: jump this bar. But doom is what I really want
• 2:12:54
  Speaker 4: to ask all of this is do men really want
• 2:12:59
  Speaker 4: to jump that bar? Right? Do they really want for
• 2:13:03
  Speaker 4: the rest of their lives to pretend that they don't
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  Speaker 4: care or try to not care?
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  Speaker 3: Right?
• 2:13:11
  Speaker 4: And it's not even like I understand why you're doing it,
• 2:13:15
  Speaker 4: but is.
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  Speaker 5: This really the bar you want to jump?
• 2:13:21
  Speaker 4: Like? Is the is the is the fruits of jumping
• 2:13:23
  Speaker 4: the bar? This bar that fantastic? And I know that's
• 2:13:28
  Speaker 4: like I'm really blackpilled. But the alternative perhaps is to
• 2:13:34
  Speaker 4: ask or to perhaps try to correct the record on
• 2:13:38
  Speaker 4: men that feminist worm tongue has been whispering into women's
• 2:13:42
  Speaker 4: ears right to start saying, hey, that's wrong, that's that's
• 2:13:51
  Speaker 4: not actually the way men do, and are you're doing
• 2:13:54
  Speaker 4: what we do correcting the record on men?
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  Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, did you have anything to add to that?
• 2:14:03
  Speaker 3: I know I had a little rent there.
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  Speaker 1: No, I mean, I'm yeah, sure, a little uh No,
• 2:14:09
  Speaker 1: I'm kind of like looking at the time but I
• 2:14:13
  Speaker 1: did get a super chat from Polaris and superubel rant
• 2:14:16
  Speaker 1: from Nova fan, so I want to read those really quick.
• 2:14:20
  Speaker 1: A Nova fan gave us a dollar and said, I
• 2:14:22
  Speaker 1: know this goes beyond the intended scope and intent of
• 2:14:24
  Speaker 1: the article, but I have a monkey rent that is
• 2:14:26
  Speaker 1: far too common. She films you and falsely accuses you.
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  Speaker 4: Uh.
• 2:14:31
  Speaker 1: And then Polaris uh five eighty nine gives us five
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  Speaker 1: dollars and says half of communists want to be poets,
• 2:14:38
  Speaker 1: the other half want to be the secret police. All right,
• 2:14:42
  Speaker 1: thank you for that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, but if they're a man, they still want a job. Yeah, okay,
• 2:14:51
  Speaker 4: keep going.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, that's it. That's it. I read all the
• 2:14:55
  Speaker 1: super chats and stuff.
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  Speaker 3: So yeah, I had I had.
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  Speaker 4: Other stuff I wanted to talk talk about, but I
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  Speaker 4: don't know. I just I thought it would be interesting
• 2:15:04
  Speaker 4: to juxtapose these two because on the one hand, you
• 2:15:07
  Speaker 4: have the feminists saying that men need to act like
• 2:15:10
  Speaker 4: they don't like, they need to be not men, right,
• 2:15:14
  Speaker 4: So they need to be able to virtue signal without
• 2:15:18
  Speaker 4: translating that into action, which is not how men work.
• 2:15:23
  Speaker 4: Like that that five lane custodial highway that's there to
• 2:15:28
  Speaker 4: translate things into action and to reality. Right, It's why
• 2:15:34
  Speaker 4: men see past the waterline test, because they take the symbol,
• 2:15:38
  Speaker 4: they translate it into reality, and they see how the
• 2:15:42
  Speaker 4: symbol interacts with reality. Women stop at one step. Not
• 2:15:47
  Speaker 4: all women, but a lot of women stop at one step.
• 2:15:49
  Speaker 4: They just see the symbol. So they think that if
• 2:15:52
  Speaker 4: you say, yeah, I too feel very passionately about the
• 2:15:55
  Speaker 4: plight of the Martian Rocks, they think that you are
• 2:15:59
  Speaker 4: genuinely a passionate man. Can you freaking believe that I
• 2:16:02
  Speaker 4: think about that? Brian? Yeah, just he just a man,
• 2:16:07
  Speaker 4: just says it, and oh, yes, that's a that's a
• 2:16:11
  Speaker 4: true progressive man.
• 2:16:13
  Speaker 3: Look at him.
• 2:16:14
  Speaker 4: He's virtue signaling all the virtues I have, none of
• 2:16:20
  Speaker 4: which have any kind of custodial component.
• 2:16:23
  Speaker 5: But I don't.
• 2:16:24
  Speaker 4: That's not a red flag to me because I don't
• 2:16:27
  Speaker 4: understand men for shit.
• 2:16:30
  Speaker 3: Okay, damn.
• 2:16:33
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  Speaker 4: Well maybe maybe it's gonna be in like a month
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  Speaker 4: our endeavors to correct the record on men.
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  Speaker 3: I know that guys are like.
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  Speaker 4: They want something, a thing to do to fix things.
• 2:17:58
  Speaker 4: And this is a really tractable problem because people like
• 2:18:01
  Speaker 4: Karen will tell you that the way you fix things
• 2:18:04
  Speaker 4: is by hurdling the bars that women are setting up
• 2:18:10
  Speaker 4: but do you really want to like, is encouraging this
• 2:18:14
  Speaker 4: situation the best way to go? And furthermore, what do
• 2:18:19
  Speaker 4: you get if you actually hurdle that bar? Right? You know,
• 2:18:24
  Speaker 4: if you need an external standard to live up to,
• 2:18:28
  Speaker 4: I'd like to offer a possibility, and maybe Brian can
• 2:18:32
  Speaker 4: chime in, Ash he thinks I'm full of shit. The
• 2:18:35
  Speaker 4: reason why every man is here now is because he
• 2:18:41
  Speaker 4: was selected for by a billion you know, increasingly less
• 2:18:47
  Speaker 4: furry hormand females. Right, So, you're here because you were
• 2:18:52
  Speaker 4: chosen and your nature and your physicality evolved because you
• 2:18:59
  Speaker 4: were chosen repeatedly, generation after generation after generation after generation.
• 2:19:06
  Speaker 4: What women are doing now or selecting for the standards
• 2:19:10
  Speaker 4: that they're holding men to are a result of a
• 2:19:13
  Speaker 4: completely artificial landscape of in comfort that has never been
• 2:19:17
  Speaker 4: seen in human history, comfort to the point where they
• 2:19:21
  Speaker 4: are basically deprived of certain inputs that hormonally prime them
• 2:19:26
  Speaker 4: for pair bonding, to want to pair bond. And then
• 2:19:30
  Speaker 4: in addition to that, we have feminist worm tug whispering
• 2:19:34
  Speaker 4: in their ears that men's commitment makes a fool of
• 2:19:38
  Speaker 4: them and that heterosexuality is the sight of oppression. Right,
• 2:19:43
  Speaker 4: so the only thing you really can do is maximize
• 2:19:46
  Speaker 4: who oppresses you. So go for Christian grady and not
• 2:19:49
  Speaker 4: shoe the premer. You know, so we have this situation
• 2:19:52
  Speaker 4: where their demands are beyond absurd, they're impossible, but they
• 2:19:59
  Speaker 4: will all also destroy the earth and cause the human
• 2:20:02
  Speaker 4: race to evolve backwards. So maybe we don't want to
• 2:20:06
  Speaker 4: set them as a guidelines for anything. We just want
• 2:20:10
  Speaker 4: to set them aside and ignore them. But I know
• 2:20:13
  Speaker 4: that men still want a standard to live up to.
• 2:20:17
  Speaker 4: Will consider that standard to be what you are already,
• 2:20:21
  Speaker 4: what you were selected to be, and maximize that hominid
• 2:20:25
  Speaker 4: max right, Maybe that will work better than trying to
• 2:20:29
  Speaker 4: jump through this hoop, this insano hoop that is destructive.
• 2:20:34
  Speaker 4: And again, if you want to support actually correcting the
• 2:20:38
  Speaker 4: record of men, which might counter feminist worm tongue whispering
• 2:20:42
  Speaker 4: in the voice of in the years of women, because
• 2:20:45
  Speaker 4: the alternative is, you know, tell the women what men
• 2:20:48
  Speaker 4: actually are, what they're actually like, what they actually do,
• 2:20:52
  Speaker 4: how they love, how they think, so that women understand
• 2:20:56
  Speaker 4: how men express love and prote event realize that they
• 2:21:02
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• 2:21:39
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