Latest / The D.L. Hughley Show / DLHS Hour 2 | Women lets ex-boyfriend drive new boyfriend’s car
Transcript
- 0:00Speaker 1: It is the DL you we show you a twenty
- 0:01Speaker 1: twenty six editions and if you're going to be in
- 0:04Speaker 1: or let excuse me a Fort Lauderdale, Florida. I'm going
- 0:06Speaker 1: to be at the Dannya Beach Comedy Club Dannya Beach
- 0:10Speaker 1: in Perhaps will come check me out if you take
- 0:11Speaker 1: a notion. Here's the scenario. So a woman uh lets
- 0:17Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend bar her core current boyfriend's car.
- 0:20Speaker 2: Here's take a listen.
- 0:22Speaker 3: Well, I was having problems with my car today, so
- 0:25Speaker 3: my boyfriend let me use his car. While I was out,
- 0:28Speaker 3: my baby daddy called and asked if I could pick
- 0:30Speaker 3: him up from work, and I said cool. I've been
- 0:34Speaker 3: driving since six am, so at this point I'm tired.
- 0:37Speaker 3: When I get to my baby daddy, I told him
- 0:39Speaker 3: to drive. While I'm in the car with my baby daddy,
- 0:41Speaker 3: my boyfriend faced timy and noticed that I was in
- 0:44Speaker 3: the passenger seat, so he started questioning me. And first
- 0:47Speaker 3: of all, I ain't married, so mfa K questioned me
- 0:50Speaker 3: about nothing. Anyways, I told him that my baby daddy
- 0:53Speaker 3: was driving because I was tired. This dude proceeds to
- 0:56Speaker 3: get real disrespectful and goes off on me.
- 0:58Speaker 2: Because I allowed my baby dadd need to drive his car.
- 1:01Speaker 3: I hung up on him because I have a good
- 1:02Speaker 3: baby daddy and ain't no m F FORR gonna trip
- 1:05Speaker 3: on me for looking out from my baby daddy.
- 1:08Speaker 2: Was I wrong? Do you think she was disrespectful? Skip?
- 1:11Speaker 2: What do you think she lost her damn mind? Come
- 1:15Speaker 2: on now and her privileges? Oh no, yeah, yeah, yeah, boyfriend?
- 1:19Speaker 2: Now you have two ex boyfriends? Because I'm out.
- 1:22Speaker 1: About to say, I'm sure one more ex baby, you'll bitch,
- 1:25Speaker 1: you'll be a game of tiktak.
- 1:26Speaker 2: Too or a porn movie. I just yeah, and get
- 1:32Speaker 2: this baby seat out the back. That ain't mind either.
- 1:34Speaker 2: I just like your little baby. No way, I just put.
- 1:39Speaker 4: That's really disrespectful, for sure, and I'm sure it probably
- 1:44Speaker 4: you know, caused quite a bit of questions to the
- 1:47Speaker 4: current boyfriend about the ex, like, are y'all still how
- 1:51Speaker 4: did he even reach you to talk to you about
- 1:53Speaker 4: using Michael exactly?
- 1:54Speaker 2: How did y'all have they got if they got a
- 1:56Speaker 2: child together. I understand them having conversations.
- 1:58Speaker 4: Yeah, my car, right right? You shouldn't be selling about
- 2:02Speaker 4: my car today? Seven cars kids? And did you come
- 2:06Speaker 4: over here and pick it? Up or did I bring
- 2:08Speaker 4: it to you?
- 2:08Speaker 2: It's a lot of questions, did you up? Did you
- 2:10Speaker 2: put gas in?
- 2:13Speaker 5: Oh?
- 2:13Speaker 2: Gosh?
- 2:14Speaker 1: Especially why would I let a dude without a car
- 2:16Speaker 1: drive my car?
- 2:18Speaker 2: M h A dead be driving my car?
- 2:22Speaker 4: Yeah?
- 2:24Speaker 5: I mean?
- 2:24Speaker 1: And and if you would borrow another man's car, that
- 2:27Speaker 1: says a lot about you too.
- 2:30Speaker 2: Well, maybe he didn't know it was I'm sure he
- 2:31Speaker 2: didn't know. She ain't got one. You know, she ain't
- 2:34Speaker 2: got one.
- 2:36Speaker 1: All this time together, we never, first off independent What
- 2:40Speaker 1: kind of car is?
- 2:42Speaker 2: I mean, you were old.
- 2:45Speaker 6: Car?
- 2:47Speaker 2: If it's a hoofty, both of y'all be quiet. I
- 2:50Speaker 2: don't care, I don't care. No, Okay, Here.
- 2:53Speaker 1: The question we're asking ladies, gentlemen, A woman h lets
- 2:56Speaker 1: her baby daddy drive her current boyfriend's car.
- 3:01Speaker 2: Do you think that was this? Well?
- 3:02Speaker 3: Let you hear well, I was having problems with my
- 3:05Speaker 3: car today, so my boyfriend let me use his car.
- 3:08Speaker 2: While I was out.
- 3:09Speaker 3: My baby daddy called and asked if I could pick
- 3:11Speaker 3: him up from work, and I said cool. I've been
- 3:14Speaker 3: driving since six am, so at this point I'm tired.
- 3:18Speaker 3: When I get to my baby daddy, I told him
- 3:19Speaker 3: to drive while I'm in the car with my baby daddy.
- 3:22Speaker 3: My boyfriend faced Timy and noticed that I was in
- 3:25Speaker 3: the passenger seat, so he started questioning me. And first
- 3:28Speaker 3: of all, I ain't married, so mfa K questioned me
- 3:30Speaker 3: about nothing. Anyways, I told him that my baby daddy
- 3:34Speaker 3: was driving because I was tired. This dude proceeds to
- 3:36Speaker 3: get real disrespectful and goes off on me because I
- 3:39Speaker 3: allowed my baby daddy to drive his car. I hung
- 3:42Speaker 3: up on him because I have a good baby daddy
- 3:44Speaker 3: and ain't no mf for gone trip on me for
- 3:46Speaker 3: looking out from my baby daddy.
- 3:49Speaker 2: Was I wrong? Judie's what do you think?
- 3:51Speaker 7: She was wrong and a half? That is crazy, That
- 3:55Speaker 7: is past disrespectful. That shows bad decision making. So I'm
- 3:59Speaker 7: with the rug. Yeah, Wollman, that would be her as mistake.
- 4:02Speaker 2: Yeah, that'll do it right to go the grand opening,
- 4:05Speaker 2: grand call, then we get the keys. Yeah right.
- 4:11Speaker 1: You know what I wished, I wish they were somewhere
- 4:13Speaker 1: far away where they had to walk from wherever they were.
- 4:17Speaker 2: I wish they were fun. Wish you took, I wish
- 4:22Speaker 2: they were all.
- 4:23Speaker 1: I wish they were all like seventy miles from where
- 4:26Speaker 1: they had to go and it's dark.
- 4:27Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, but another dude driving.
- 4:31Speaker 2: That's not right.
- 4:32Speaker 4: I'm talking about the fact that that you did she
- 4:34Speaker 4: did that, and he must have been at work right
- 4:37Speaker 4: or out of town.
- 4:38Speaker 2: I'm gonna send he Can I borrow your car? You're trifling? Ass?
- 4:43Speaker 2: Can I borrow your cat? What you mean? Can we
- 4:45Speaker 2: borrow your because.
- 4:47Speaker 1: We're going on the date? That's crazy? That's crazy and
- 4:50Speaker 1: we usually change you keeping ass straight? What put gas
- 4:54Speaker 1: in it?
- 4:55Speaker 2: Can't drop French fries in the sea. Oh my god.
- 4:57Speaker 1: We had a lot to this scenario. It's more it's
- 5:01Speaker 1: more better to hand crack the window.
- 5:03Speaker 2: Oh my goodness. All right, do you think she was wrong?
- 5:07Speaker 2: We'll go right to the phones.
- 5:08Speaker 8: Oh okay. So the audacity, what if that man would
- 5:13Speaker 8: have been in an accident in this other man's feel cole,
- 5:16Speaker 8: Neither one of them who don't have a car will
- 5:19Speaker 8: not be able to pay for that because that man
- 5:21Speaker 8: insurance or whatever could have been affected. And now this
- 5:24Speaker 8: man is now walking because of you two. It's the
- 5:28Speaker 8: audacity of people to think that the access that they
- 5:32Speaker 8: have is granted for them to do whatever they will
- 5:35Speaker 8: and want to. Bottom line, since wrong as hell, and
- 5:38Speaker 8: if he found out he needs to dump her because
- 5:41Speaker 8: these a liability carriod.
- 5:44Speaker 6: There's more than trifling, that's beyond trifle. And the due
- 5:47Speaker 6: who driving the car, man, wow, what a dude. If
- 5:51Speaker 6: she she's still fooling him. And if I was the
- 5:54Speaker 6: guy and then giving advice to the gentleman that uh
- 5:58Speaker 6: dating her or with her, man, get your stuff and
- 6:00Speaker 6: leave right now, because at the end of the day, man,
- 6:04Speaker 6: she don't give a crap about you, and she's gonna
- 6:06Speaker 6: get you in the situation that's gonna get your hurt.
- 6:08Speaker 6: So now only that trifle man, I think that's a
- 6:11Speaker 6: deadly game that she's playing with his life and her boyfriend. Like,
- 6:15Speaker 6: she's still fooling with him and that's why she's doing that.
- 6:18Speaker 6: But the dude that's driving the car next work for
- 6:21Speaker 6: you trifling too, because you all are playing a deadly,
- 6:24Speaker 6: deadly game. Get your stuff and leave, bro, that's a
- 6:26Speaker 6: trifling woman.
- 6:27Speaker 9: You're dealing with.
- 6:28Speaker 3: I think he's highly disrespectful, regardless of what's your baby
- 6:31Speaker 3: that needs.
- 6:32Speaker 10: Were taking him somewhere as one thing.
- 6:33Speaker 11: But letting him use the car, you don't do that.
- 6:37Speaker 11: That's just all the way disrespectful to the new boyfriend
- 6:40Speaker 11: he should never let her use the car ever.
- 6:42Speaker 9: Again. Well, I was in a similar situation when I
- 6:46Speaker 9: was younger. I was with a woman and she let
- 6:51Speaker 9: me drive her car to and from work and everywhere
- 6:53Speaker 9: I had to go. One day, I stopped at my
- 6:57Speaker 9: kid's mother's house and she had to around go pick
- 7:01Speaker 9: up the prescription, and my current girlfriend at the time
- 7:05Speaker 9: seen her, and she actually pulled when she followed her
- 7:09Speaker 9: to the pharmacy and used her spair key to take
- 7:13Speaker 9: the car. And then she called my baby mama's house
- 7:18Speaker 9: and cuts me out and told me I don't come home.
- 7:20Speaker 9: So yeah, I was totally wrong and she was totally wrong.
- 7:23Speaker 9: So yeah, I can get I understanding being wrong on
- 7:27Speaker 9: that one, but she was totally wrong. It was his car.
- 7:31Speaker 9: Baby baby daddy had no business driving, just like my situation,
- 7:35Speaker 9: I was wrong, So yeah, she was wrong period. There
- 7:39Speaker 9: you go. I think she losing her mind because she
- 7:43Speaker 9: has a significant other at home and the ex wants
- 7:46Speaker 9: part of car.
- 7:48Speaker 12: No that is a no, no no way, no have
- 7:51Speaker 12: no no no. Note Now she's single and got kids
- 7:55Speaker 12: mind and he wants to bar a car. That's different.
- 7:58Speaker 12: But when you got somebody living with you is totally disrespectful.
- 8:01Speaker 12: It's out of line.
- 8:03Speaker 2: So here is the scenario. Take a listen.
- 8:06Speaker 3: Well, I was having problems with my car today, so
- 8:08Speaker 3: my boyfriend let me use his car.
- 8:11Speaker 2: While I was out, my baby.
- 8:12Speaker 3: Daddy called and asked if I could pick him up
- 8:14Speaker 3: from work, and I said cool. I've been driving since
- 8:17Speaker 3: six am, so at this point I'm tired. When I
- 8:20Speaker 3: get to my baby daddy, I told him to drive.
- 8:22Speaker 3: While I'm in the car with my baby Daddy, my
- 8:24Speaker 3: boyfriend faced timy and noticed that I was in the
- 8:27Speaker 3: passenger seat, so he started questioning me. And first of all,
- 8:30Speaker 3: I ain't married, so m F a k questioned me
- 8:32Speaker 3: about nothing. Anyways, I told him that my baby daddy
- 8:35Speaker 3: was driving because I was tired. This dude proceeds to
- 8:38Speaker 3: get real disrespectful and goes off on me because I
- 8:41Speaker 3: allowed my baby daddy to drive his car. I hung
- 8:43Speaker 3: up on him because I have a good baby daddy
- 8:45Speaker 3: and ain't no MF for going trip on me for
- 8:47Speaker 3: looking out for my baby daddy.
- 8:49Speaker 2: Was I wrong? Do you think she was wrong going
- 8:52Speaker 2: right to the phones.
- 8:53Speaker 11: I think we all know that that's twice and that's
- 8:56Speaker 11: dirty and she shouldn't she shouldn't have never done it.
- 9:00Speaker 11: But the thing is, it'll be somebody that would call
- 9:02Speaker 11: in that to justify that type of behavior.
- 9:06Speaker 6: That's the part that's gonna be something.
- 9:09Speaker 12: My brother borrowed my car because his woman and he
- 9:15Speaker 12: ran a bar, and the deal was I would take
- 9:19Speaker 12: the bus to work at night and he would pick
- 9:21Speaker 12: me up in the morning. But the problem came when
- 9:26Speaker 12: they decided the teenager in the house could borrow my car,
- 9:31Speaker 12: and he wrecked it, so I had to get to
- 9:34Speaker 12: work at night without a car, plus buy a new
- 9:39Speaker 12: one because they didn't pay for it. Unfortunately, I don't
- 9:43Speaker 12: have enough survival skills or I would have said no
- 9:48Speaker 12: in the first place. Hell to the not to the no,
- 9:52Speaker 12: no no he got.
- 9:54Speaker 9: Oh my god, bro, I'm about to lose my mind
- 9:56Speaker 9: because if she feels that way talking smack to the man.
- 10:00Speaker 2: He imagined with other stuff, she's giving up.
- 10:03Speaker 10: If I didn't know any better, I think we were
- 10:05Speaker 10: being pumped, because I can't on what planet is that? Okay?
- 10:09Speaker 10: You know you must think that you have some serious
- 10:12Speaker 10: game to do something crazy like that and think that
- 10:15Speaker 10: she can get away with it. That is just so tacky.
- 10:19Speaker 10: That's extremely tacky and just stupid. And you know sometimes,
- 10:24Speaker 10: you know, sometimes women need to learn how to be
- 10:27Speaker 10: by themselves so they know how to treat themselves so
- 10:31Speaker 10: they can let people treat them well because they Apparently
- 10:34Speaker 10: she doesn't love herself to be playing games like that
- 10:37Speaker 10: with somebody else's ride.
- 10:39Speaker 2: For real, that boy Tracy lives.
- 10:48Speaker 1: So what life is like in an HBCU with that
- 10:50Speaker 1: My Life on the Yard?
- 10:58Speaker 5: I CC, what's good job? This is that boy Trey
- 11:12Speaker 5: back game with another episode of My Life on the
- 11:14Speaker 5: Arm inside look at HBCU life.
- 11:17Speaker 2: This last week was the week to be a morehouseman.
- 11:22Speaker 5: It just was. And you know why. It was our
- 11:24Speaker 5: Founders week and something about Founders weeks on HBCUs hit Hella.
- 11:29Speaker 5: Different vibes turned up to one hundred the whole week
- 11:33Speaker 5: Monday to Friday, I mean the school week, but you
- 11:36Speaker 5: get my opponent. Yeah, it was just Hella festive on campus.
- 11:40Speaker 5: It was a different kind of energy flowing through everybody.
- 11:42Speaker 5: For one, we had Hello alumni just coming back roaming
- 11:46Speaker 5: the campus, walking around with their families and whatnot, trying
- 11:49Speaker 5: to introduce their sons to you know, the greatness some
- 11:53Speaker 5: morehouse trying to produce the next generation of men and
- 11:56Speaker 5: more House that all good stuff. He saw a lot
- 11:58Speaker 5: of my fellow classmates just walking around in suits in
- 12:01Speaker 5: their Sunday's best looking like dapper Dan, you know, just
- 12:05Speaker 5: because that's like the Morehouse stereotype, clean count business professional.
- 12:10Speaker 5: Definitely the Moralse stereotype. But you know what it fits us.
- 12:15Speaker 5: We look good in them suits. See veeel me. Yeah.
- 12:17Speaker 6: Man.
- 12:18Speaker 5: There was a whole bunch of stuff going on. Hello,
- 12:20Speaker 5: reasons to miss class. They canceled the classes like all
- 12:24Speaker 5: day on Thursday, because not only was it our Founder's
- 12:30Speaker 5: Day week whatever, it was also the presidential inauguration for
- 12:34Speaker 5: our school. We got a new president this year.
- 12:37Speaker 2: Shout out President Bowman.
- 12:39Speaker 5: Had been moving around Moreouse like Obama was making change
- 12:43Speaker 5: and whatnot.
- 12:44Speaker 2: It's been greatness.
- 12:45Speaker 5: It was such a cool ceremony, had all the classes
- 12:50Speaker 5: packed in the King's Chapel, representing the student body and
- 12:54Speaker 5: just really showcasing and embodying what the message and mission
- 12:59Speaker 5: of Morehouse is and it's pouring into these black men
- 13:03Speaker 5: so they can go out into the world and make
- 13:04Speaker 5: the change that we need. It's a very comforting feeling
- 13:08Speaker 5: to know that your institution cares about you and what
- 13:13Speaker 5: you are going to go out and do like having
- 13:17Speaker 5: that in the back of your head as a student
- 13:19Speaker 5: makes you want to go harder.
- 13:20Speaker 2: I love more House for that. Anyways, That's all I
- 13:24Speaker 2: got for you all today.
- 13:25Speaker 5: So next time, there's been that boy Tray And this
- 13:27Speaker 5: has been my life on the yard and so I
- 13:29Speaker 5: look at HBC life