Latest / Romeo & Friends / Romeo In The Morning 6-22-26
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I was going on as Romeo. We made it back
- 0:01Speaker 1: from the weekend, and how do your father's day go?
- 0:04Speaker 1: We talked a little bit about that, and of course cheating.
- 0:06Speaker 1: Have you caught a cheater? What do you do about cheaters?
- 0:09Speaker 1: How does that work? Let's go and uh oh, this
- 0:12Speaker 1: is the guy who said our women into chunky guys
- 0:14Speaker 1: at gordepos nowadays. And I said, no, they're just in
- 0:17Speaker 1: a good men. They don't look at body type. Most
- 0:21Speaker 1: women look at men who are going to treat them. Right, then,
- 0:23Speaker 1: why do I see and these text me back then,
- 0:25Speaker 1: why do I see so many see good looking women
- 0:27Speaker 1: with Gorditos romp? Because there are far a lot of
- 0:31Speaker 1: good looking women out there. The thing is that, here's
- 0:35Speaker 1: the thing. The thing is you have all these You
- 0:37Speaker 1: have a lot of women now who are good looking.
- 0:42Speaker 1: People stay healthier and fitter today, especially women, you know,
- 0:46Speaker 1: so they look good into their thirties, forties, I mean
- 0:49Speaker 1: their fifties, some sixties. Right, They're staying healthier, they're staying fit,
- 0:53Speaker 1: they're doing you know, they're working out there and they.
- 0:56Speaker 2: Want after all of the.
- 1:00Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'd like to know before I answer your question,
- 1:03Speaker 1: I'd like to know what age group you're looking at.
- 1:05Speaker 1: What do you see when you see a good looking,
- 1:08Speaker 1: good looking woman with a bigger guy. How old do
- 1:10Speaker 1: you think that woman is? Okay, because women in their
- 1:13Speaker 1: twenties are looking for prince charming with a six pack
- 1:16Speaker 1: and a million dollar house, okay, and they want them
- 1:20Speaker 1: to treat them, respect them and all that stuff.
- 1:23Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:24Speaker 1: Well, men in their twenties aren't like that, Okay, not
- 1:28Speaker 1: a lot of them out there. So these women are
- 1:30Speaker 1: looking for prince charming that doesn't exist in their twenties.
- 1:34Speaker 1: Then they go out with a couple of guys who
- 1:36Speaker 1: don't really treat them. Well, they go out with a
- 1:38Speaker 1: couple of guys who are a little selfish and insecure,
- 1:41Speaker 1: so they're more into themselves than they are into her.
- 1:44Speaker 1: You know, they're more into their abs and biceps than
- 1:47Speaker 1: they are into her. So then she gets into her thirties,
- 1:51Speaker 1: she can't find a guy. She's starting to go, wait
- 1:52Speaker 1: a second, I still want to look good. I still
- 1:55Speaker 1: want a man that's gonna love me and take care
- 1:57Speaker 1: of me. Well, I shouldn't say, you know, respect me
- 2:00Speaker 1: and all that stuff. I mean, So when you start
- 2:02Speaker 1: to look at that, you have to look at what
- 2:06Speaker 1: the age of women. And women look good older and
- 2:10Speaker 1: are stand in shape. So once a woman goes through
- 2:14Speaker 1: you know, maybe she goes through divorce because she marries
- 2:16Speaker 1: a young guy when they're young. She gets married and
- 2:19Speaker 1: think her future is going to be great and it
- 2:20Speaker 1: doesn't work out. So now she's smarter, more educated on men,
- 2:24Speaker 1: she starts to look at things differently. Okay, there are
- 2:29Speaker 1: very few men out there who look at things the
- 2:33Speaker 1: way women do. Women look at things of Okay, I
- 2:36Speaker 1: can date a guy or marry a man who's got
- 2:39Speaker 1: fifteen twenty extra pounds on him, But my god, the
- 2:43Speaker 1: guy loves me. The guy wants to be with me,
- 2:45Speaker 1: He wants me in his life. He wants to make
- 2:48Speaker 1: sure I'm okay.
- 2:51Speaker 2: Okay.
- 2:52Speaker 1: So that's why I ask you, what are these age
- 2:54Speaker 1: rains of women that you're seeing out there? Men, on
- 2:58Speaker 1: the other hand, still look for a hot peace say,
- 3:00Speaker 1: you know, they just do. They're a little more superficial
- 3:04Speaker 1: than women are. Women are smarter when it comes to
- 3:06Speaker 1: what they want for themselves. They send tend to set
- 3:09Speaker 1: the bar a little higher. Once they get a little smarter,
- 3:13Speaker 1: once they get a little more how do I.
- 3:16Speaker 2: Say it.
- 3:19Speaker 1: A little more, you know, as far as dating and
- 3:22Speaker 1: marriage and relationships. Once they get a little more, a
- 3:24Speaker 1: little more I can't think of the word I'm thinking
- 3:26Speaker 1: of right now. But once they get a little more
- 3:28Speaker 1: experience under their belt, they start to realize, Hey, this
- 3:33Speaker 1: guy over here is going to work every day, he
- 3:36Speaker 1: wants to be with me, can't wait to see me. Okay,
- 3:40Speaker 1: I'll accept a couple extra pounds on them. Men, on
- 3:43Speaker 1: the other hand, are still a little bit more superficial
- 3:46Speaker 1: and you know, not as smart.
- 3:52Speaker 2: They don't.
- 3:52Speaker 1: The more experienced men get under their under their belt
- 3:56Speaker 1: with relationships, they don't normally learn anything women do. So
- 3:59Speaker 1: I got I was asking me if women were into
- 4:01Speaker 1: fat guys basically, and he says, well, how come, And
- 4:04Speaker 1: I said, no, they're not necessarily and no, woman's going
- 4:07Speaker 1: you know what I need me a dad bod. Women
- 4:09Speaker 1: are going out for men that are going to treat
- 4:12Speaker 1: them right for you know, just to generalize it, treat
- 4:16Speaker 1: them right and want them.
- 4:17Speaker 2: They're really not looking at body.
- 4:20Speaker 1: He goes, well, then how come I see all these
- 4:22Speaker 1: hot women with these guys roam that are big.
- 4:24Speaker 2: Well, because women.
- 4:28Speaker 1: As they go through a dating history and learn more
- 4:31Speaker 1: about men and learn more about themselves and what they
- 4:33Speaker 1: want out of a relationship.
- 4:34Speaker 2: They get smarter.
- 4:36Speaker 1: Guys don't, so they start to realize body type is
- 4:40Speaker 1: less important than the way they're being treated. Guys aren't
- 4:45Speaker 1: like that, you know, Guys still look for a hot
- 4:47Speaker 1: piece of a no matter how they get treated. Because
- 4:49Speaker 1: you know, I've only you know, I've only met one
- 4:51Speaker 1: guy in my life, one guy I met my entire life, millionaire, right,
- 4:56Speaker 1: one millionaire.
- 4:57Speaker 2: I know a lot of millionaires.
- 4:58Speaker 1: One millionaire who actually looking for somebody that didn't want him.
- 5:03Speaker 1: He didn't care what she looked like for the most part,
- 5:06Speaker 1: just as long as she was a really good person
- 5:08Speaker 1: and wanted him for him and not for his money.
- 5:11Speaker 1: He didn't want some superficial whatever.
- 5:14Speaker 2: And he found about it.
- 5:15Speaker 1: But the idea is that's not normal for men, especially
- 5:20Speaker 1: men with multi million dollars, But for women it's different.
- 5:25Speaker 1: Women just want to be treated right, and it takes
- 5:28Speaker 1: him a little while to figure it out. Which, like
- 5:30Speaker 1: anybody who gets smarter after years of experience, you you
- 5:34Speaker 1: should get smarter and change and focus on what's right.
- 5:37Speaker 2: And women do that for the most.
- 5:39Speaker 1: Part already four two four or seven to seven rom
- 5:42Speaker 1: I'm thirty eight. I just want a man I can
- 5:44Speaker 1: make lunch for. I take care of myself and my kids.
- 5:47Speaker 1: But dating is more of a hookup culture nowadays. I
- 5:51Speaker 1: hate it out here. Yeah, you're right, you ain't lying.
- 5:54Speaker 1: You are not lying. Hey, ro, Like you said, these
- 5:57Speaker 1: women get smarter, they want to fat sugar daddy who
- 6:00Speaker 1: nobody else wants.
- 6:01Speaker 2: No, that's not true at all.
- 6:04Speaker 1: That's just an You're an idiot for saying that. That
- 6:08Speaker 1: couldn't be further from the truth. And you have no
- 6:11Speaker 1: idea what a sugar daddy is, and you have no
- 6:13Speaker 1: idea what a gold digger is. And you're an idiot
- 6:16Speaker 1: for saying that, for making that statement, because it's just
- 6:19Speaker 1: blatantly wrong. There's a lot The woman that just texted
- 6:23Speaker 1: says she can handle her own, She just wants a
- 6:25Speaker 1: dude to be with her, you know, to take care of.
- 6:28Speaker 2: But that's that's the point.
- 6:30Speaker 1: You guys don't understand that, you know, so anyway, Yeah,
- 6:37Speaker 1: so that's why you see it, bro, That's why you
- 6:39Speaker 1: see these hot women, and women stay hotter longer nowadays,
- 6:43Speaker 1: into their forties and in their fifties because, you know,
- 6:46Speaker 1: whatever reason, they work out more they take care of
- 6:48Speaker 1: themselves more so they stay hotter longer. And you know,
- 6:54Speaker 1: they just want guys that are gonna that want them,
- 6:57Speaker 1: believe it or not.
- 6:58Speaker 2: You know, it's funny. I have a a.
- 7:02Speaker 1: Friend who's uh, getting out of a relationship, long term relationship,
- 7:06Speaker 1: right and I said, ah, I made a joke to
- 7:09Speaker 1: her about someone will get to pick you up, someone will,
- 7:11Speaker 1: someone will swoop you up. You're good looking, cool girl,
- 7:14Speaker 1: you'll be fine. And she goes, well, I'm not looking
- 7:16Speaker 1: for that right now. I said, yeah, you're not looking
- 7:18Speaker 1: that looking for that right now because you're coming off
- 7:21Speaker 1: you're coming off a guy who didn't want you. But
- 7:25Speaker 1: once you find a guy that wants you, oh, that
- 7:27Speaker 1: attitude will change real quick. Because whoevery person wants to
- 7:31Speaker 1: be wanted, Every human being wants to be wanted, right,
- 7:35Speaker 1: makes you feel good, makes you want you know. So yeah,
- 7:41Speaker 1: so that's why that's what's going on. And it's not
- 7:43Speaker 1: a sugar daddy, it's not you know, it's.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Just what's going on, Joe wrong.
- 7:48Speaker 3: We should tell that guy to get himself a uls
- 7:50Speaker 3: to God.
- 7:51Speaker 4: That would change his mind real quick.
- 7:57Speaker 1: Yeah, that's funny, man.
- 8:03Speaker 2: That's good, brother, that's good. Thanks for calling.
- 8:07Speaker 1: All right eight four two four seven eighty four to
- 8:10Speaker 1: two five four seven seven that's the phone number.
- 8:13Speaker 2: Ay, ro Dad Boughts for the win me need me eater.
- 8:18Speaker 2: You're you're You're right.
- 8:20Speaker 1: Women don't technically look for looks and body types. It's
- 8:23Speaker 1: about caring and taking care of each other exactly. And
- 8:26Speaker 1: that's why I say, you know, but they're not all
- 8:30Speaker 1: like that, okay. You know when you start off like
- 8:34Speaker 1: everybody should. Okay, you guys should all start off when
- 8:39Speaker 1: you're young, when you're in the best shape of your life,
- 8:42Speaker 1: when you're in the you know, twenties, you should be
- 8:46Speaker 1: reaching for the stars. Oh, I'm gonna go get me
- 8:48Speaker 1: a husband that has a six pack and that makes
- 8:51Speaker 1: a million dollars a year and he's gonna just love
- 8:53Speaker 1: me to death and I'm gonna be his world. You
- 8:56Speaker 1: guys should be looking for that supermodel that all she's
- 8:58Speaker 1: gonna do is want to just you know.
- 9:01Speaker 2: Gush after you.
- 9:02Speaker 1: But then reality kicks it, okay, and then you start
- 9:06Speaker 1: learning more and more about human beings and about dating
- 9:09Speaker 1: and about relationships, and you start to and women get smarter.
- 9:14Speaker 2: Men don't. Women do.
- 9:15Speaker 1: And that's why you see hot women with bigger dudes,
- 9:20Speaker 1: you call them fat if you want Gorditho's, it's okay.
- 9:23Speaker 1: But dad VODs is a term that was created for uh,
- 9:30Speaker 1: you know, marketing for the for lack of a better term. Okay,
- 9:34Speaker 1: the reason these dudes have dad VODs is not because
- 9:36Speaker 1: they're running around going you know what, I'm gonna get fat.
- 9:38Speaker 1: I want to get fat because they all hot women
- 9:40Speaker 1: want fat. No, they got they got other things going on.
- 9:43Speaker 1: They don't have time to go spend four hours at
- 9:45Speaker 1: a gym. You know, they don't have time to meal prep.
- 9:49Speaker 1: They got work to do. They got to get to work,
- 9:50Speaker 1: they got things to handle, they got business taking care of.
- 9:53Speaker 1: You know, they just don't have the time to do it.
- 9:57Speaker 1: And it's hard once and especially once you got get
- 10:00Speaker 1: a little older. You boy, You guys and girls know,
- 10:02Speaker 1: when you get a little older, it gets a little harder.
- 10:04Speaker 2: Life gets in the way.
- 10:05Speaker 1: Of you sitting at a gym for two hours a day,
- 10:08Speaker 1: unlike when you're in your twenties and have nothing else
- 10:11Speaker 1: going on. Okay, So alrighty four to two, seven to seven. Oh,
- 10:21Speaker 1: that's a long email. I'll get to that in a second.
- 10:24Speaker 1: Good morning, Row good women will make men gain weight.
- 10:27Speaker 1: I used to get used to be super fit. When
- 10:30Speaker 1: I first met my girl, she fattened me up like
- 10:33Speaker 1: a Thanksgiving turkey, so no women would hit on me.
- 10:37Speaker 2: Well, women do that as well, and it's funny.
- 10:40Speaker 1: A lot of women do that and they still stay
- 10:42Speaker 1: fit and they still stay hot.
- 10:44Speaker 2: But hey, it is what it is, you know, Ron,
- 10:49Speaker 2: what are you talking about?
- 10:50Speaker 1: What happened was some guys said, do women like fat
- 10:54Speaker 1: guys basically?
- 10:56Speaker 2: And I said, no, women like guys who treat them right.
- 10:59Speaker 1: It just so happens that the big boys treat these
- 11:03Speaker 1: women good. And then he said, well, Roan, why do
- 11:05Speaker 1: I say all these fat guys with hot chicks? Well,
- 11:09Speaker 1: because hot chicks figure it out that they don't want
- 11:12Speaker 1: to be with some insecure, selfish, into himself dude with
- 11:17Speaker 1: an ego that doesn't care about them. Women want to
- 11:19Speaker 1: be cared about. I mean, men want to be cared about.
- 11:22Speaker 1: Humans want to be cared about. But women just figure
- 11:26Speaker 1: it out after dating a few, you know, a few frogs,
- 11:28Speaker 1: and they figure out, hey, this clown's not going to
- 11:30Speaker 1: treat me the way I want to get treated, so
- 11:32Speaker 1: let me go find this other dude, that's gonna treat
- 11:33Speaker 1: me just so happens.
- 11:35Speaker 2: The other dude that's going to treat.
- 11:36Speaker 1: Her that way might have a bigger belly because he's
- 11:39Speaker 1: more worried about working and taking care of, you know,
- 11:43Speaker 1: taking care of his family than he is about, you know,
- 11:46Speaker 1: hitting the gym.
- 11:48Speaker 2: So here's what it is. And you got to understand.
- 11:51Speaker 1: Let me tell you one other thing, and that is
- 11:54Speaker 1: this the guy who said, well, why do I see
- 11:57Speaker 1: all these fat dudes with hot women. Women stay hotter
- 12:03Speaker 1: longer nowadays. Men have the option to stay hotter longer.
- 12:07Speaker 2: Nowadays. It's just they have to.
- 12:08Speaker 1: They're more worried about going to work and making say that,
- 12:12Speaker 1: making sure their family can have whatever they want, so
- 12:16Speaker 1: they don't have time. A lot of women have time
- 12:18Speaker 1: and they make time. But let me tell you this, okay,
- 12:21Speaker 1: and I want everybody to listen to me, especially idiots
- 12:23Speaker 1: out there. Well, the one idiot that keeps telling me this,
- 12:27Speaker 1: she is not staying hot for her man. Okay, when
- 12:31Speaker 1: you see these fat dudes with these hot chicks, she's
- 12:34Speaker 1: not staying hot for him. She's not working out for him. Okay,
- 12:40Speaker 1: She's doing it for a hundred other reasons. Society she's
- 12:44Speaker 1: doing it because her co workers, or she's doing it
- 12:47Speaker 1: because of her friends or family members, or that women
- 12:51Speaker 1: do not stay hot, and physically very few me. There's
- 12:57Speaker 1: always exceptions, but most women stay hot out of competitiveness
- 13:02Speaker 1: for other women.
- 13:04Speaker 2: Okay, not for their husbands, not for their boyfriends. Now
- 13:08Speaker 2: they might they.
- 13:09Speaker 1: Might stay hot or get hot to get the guy,
- 13:13Speaker 1: and then you know now that they find out they
- 13:15Speaker 1: have the right guy. But that's not why they stay hot.
- 13:20Speaker 1: They don't stay hot for their men. They stay hot
- 13:23Speaker 1: for all the other factors in their life that will
- 13:27Speaker 1: actually bring them down already. Four two five, four seven seven,
- 13:33Speaker 1: Big Rome, it's Big Joe, good morning. I'm always glad
- 13:36Speaker 1: to send my truck. Listen to you on the way
- 13:37Speaker 1: to the office. As far as the chubby guy, I
- 13:39Speaker 1: agree with you one hundred percent. Me on the other hand,
- 13:43Speaker 1: I've always been into older women. I'm in my mid fifties.
- 13:47Speaker 1: My wife's in her sixties and she used to be
- 13:49Speaker 1: a size five or seven. She's the twelve and thirteen
- 13:52Speaker 1: and I love it. My mom says, if I don't eat,
- 13:55Speaker 1: I lose my figure. And I tell my wife for
- 13:58Speaker 1: the dog and meat for the dog, and meet us
- 14:01Speaker 1: for the man.
- 14:03Speaker 2: Oh okay, you have a good day, brother, love your show.
- 14:06Speaker 1: Well, thank you. I appreciate that. A bonus for the dog,
- 14:09Speaker 1: meet us for the man when I met okay, Well,
- 14:12Speaker 1: I just heard a comedian the other day say she
- 14:16Speaker 1: made a joke about dad bods. Ah, dad bods are
- 14:18Speaker 1: in he goes because women we figure it out, right.
- 14:21Speaker 2: If he eats, we all eat. And you know what, some.
- 14:26Speaker 1: Validity to that, Roan, what are you talking about. You
- 14:30Speaker 1: can't say you don't got time. Everyone has time.
- 14:33Speaker 2: Hit the gym is just not at the top of
- 14:35Speaker 2: the list. Everyone has time, Romeo.
- 14:37Speaker 1: Everyone has time to do some sort of exercise.
- 14:42Speaker 2: Yes they do.
- 14:46Speaker 1: But a lot of these guys out there working their
- 14:49Speaker 1: asses off eight, ten, twelve hour days, you know, they
- 14:55Speaker 1: don't have time.
- 14:55Speaker 2: They don't want to go hit the gym. You're right
- 14:57Speaker 2: about that.
- 14:57Speaker 1: Everybody has time to exercise, okay, but that doesn't mean
- 15:04Speaker 1: you're gonna be you're gonna be super fit with abs
- 15:07Speaker 1: and muscles and everything like that.
- 15:11Speaker 2: So so yeah, you're right and you're wrong, but I'm more right.
- 15:16Speaker 2: Good morning, Romeo.
- 15:17Speaker 1: I'm calling BS. My brother is forty years old. He
- 15:20Speaker 1: works in the oil fields. Let's see, he works in
- 15:22Speaker 1: the oil fields, works long hours, he makes sure he
- 15:26Speaker 1: makes time to work out, and is he married.
- 15:30Speaker 2: But you also have to understand.
- 15:33Speaker 1: That I I'm talking about the majority of people. I'm
- 15:36Speaker 1: talking about probably ninety percent of may Okay, you're talking
- 15:39Speaker 1: about a select few percent. And how much time does
- 15:45Speaker 1: he have to work and how much time does he
- 15:47Speaker 1: work out? So and this is the other thing that
- 15:50Speaker 1: you guys are missing the point at when you say, oh,
- 15:54Speaker 1: my brother has time to work out at forty and
- 15:57Speaker 1: this and that. How much time is he spending with
- 15:59Speaker 1: his wife and his kids. You know a lot of
- 16:03Speaker 1: these good men, these dad bods, they don't want to
- 16:06Speaker 1: take away from their wife and their children. So that's
- 16:10Speaker 1: another reason why they skip a workout, Because when you're
- 16:14Speaker 1: working ten hours a day in the oil fields and
- 16:17Speaker 1: you come home and you want to see your wife
- 16:20Speaker 1: and kids, you don't want to go work out. You
- 16:25Speaker 1: just spend ten hours away from them. Longer than that
- 16:29Speaker 1: because of sleep time, but you just spend ten hours
- 16:31Speaker 1: away from them. So when you get home you want
- 16:34Speaker 1: to Oh, well, Ron, they can do it on the
- 16:36Speaker 1: weekends when they're not working. Why no, guys like that
- 16:39Speaker 1: want to do things with their family or with their women.
- 16:43Speaker 1: That's why I'm telling you, you guys are not listening to
- 16:45Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You could try to contradict me with
- 16:48Speaker 1: a very small percentage of men to do that, and
- 16:53Speaker 1: you'd still be wrong. Because if your brother's working ten
- 16:57Speaker 1: hours in oil fields and then he's come at home
- 17:00Speaker 1: and going to work out, how much time is his
- 17:03Speaker 1: family or his wife or his kids, or I don't
- 17:05Speaker 1: know what situation he's in, what type of religion. That's
- 17:08Speaker 1: what these women are trying to stay away from. That's
- 17:11Speaker 1: what these women. The majority of women who are staying
- 17:15Speaker 1: hot because they want a man. They're staying hot for
- 17:18Speaker 1: their reasons, not for their man. But they're not worried
- 17:21Speaker 1: about their man's body because they know when he's done working,
- 17:24Speaker 1: he wants to be with them. He's not coming home
- 17:27Speaker 1: to grab a protein shake and go hit the gym.
- 17:30Speaker 2: They dated that guy and they didn't like it. That's
- 17:36Speaker 2: why they got this guy.
- 17:38Speaker 1: Father's Day was Sunday. I hope you dad's had a
- 17:41Speaker 1: good time.
- 17:42Speaker 3: Man.
- 17:42Speaker 1: Some of my boys, ooh, some of my boys look
- 17:46Speaker 1: like that had a good time. Some of my friends
- 17:48Speaker 1: who were fathers who got together with their fathers, their
- 17:50Speaker 1: families barbecued by the pool. They send me some photos
- 17:53Speaker 1: of their you know, some chickens or rib eyes.
- 17:58Speaker 2: Ribs were on a.
- 18:00Speaker 1: Couple of try tips I saw, but I got a
- 18:02Speaker 1: It looks like a lot of you guys had a good, well,
- 18:04Speaker 1: at least my friends, some friends I know, had a
- 18:06Speaker 1: lot of good uh a good time for Father's Day.
- 18:09Speaker 1: It looks like you guys got to hang out by
- 18:10Speaker 1: the pool with your friends and your family or your
- 18:12Speaker 1: family and your and your own dads.
- 18:14Speaker 2: It's like everybody was together, so that was pretty cool.
- 18:18Speaker 2: Looks like a lot of you threw down on the grill.
- 18:20Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 18:22Speaker 1: I don't know how your father's Day was. Was it
- 18:24Speaker 1: a good one already four two.
- 18:26Speaker 2: Five four or seven to seven?
- 18:28Speaker 1: Or was it about you know, Father's Day does not
- 18:31Speaker 1: seem to me like seeing those days where dads get upset,
- 18:35Speaker 1: if like they just don't seem It seems to me
- 18:39Speaker 1: like a lot of fathers don't aren't as concerned about
- 18:43Speaker 1: how they're treated on the same way that women are
- 18:45Speaker 1: concerned of how they're treated On Mother's Day. It seems
- 18:48Speaker 1: like that dad's just kind of go with the flow,
- 18:51Speaker 1: you know, kind of they want to do their own thing.
- 18:53Speaker 1: I mean, they want to stay home and barbecue and
- 18:55Speaker 1: they want to hang out in their families.
- 18:57Speaker 2: They don't really want to go out to lunch or.
- 18:58Speaker 1: Brunch or things like that unless she got a you know,
- 19:00Speaker 1: unless you're one of those dads out there with where's
- 19:02Speaker 1: the fancy shoes and where's the suit to work? But
- 19:05Speaker 1: I think most dads really just want to want to
- 19:08Speaker 1: hang out. I don't want to do.
- 19:10Speaker 2: A whole lot.
- 19:11Speaker 1: I mean I saw a lot of guys on the
- 19:13Speaker 1: golf course yesterday. Oh my god, I can't believe how
- 19:15Speaker 1: many guys I saw on the golf course. But uh,
- 19:18Speaker 1: probably playing with their kids, fathers and sons playing, So
- 19:21Speaker 1: that's cool. But how was Father's Day?
- 19:25Speaker 2: What happened? What'd you do? Was it good? Was it bad?
- 19:28Speaker 2: I'm gonna find it. I find it hard.
- 19:30Speaker 1: I will find it hard to believe that any dad
- 19:32Speaker 1: will call me or text me and tell me, oh no, roll,
- 19:35Speaker 1: my father's day suck. Nobody even talked to me. I
- 19:37Speaker 1: find that hard to believe because I don't think dad's
- 19:39Speaker 1: care like that. But maybe you do already four two
- 19:43Speaker 1: four seven to seven.
- 19:46Speaker 5: Hey, what's up, Roamy man?
- 19:48Speaker 6: Man, We had a beautiful Father's Day. But let me
- 19:51Speaker 6: tell you how it started off. I had to go
- 19:54Speaker 6: out with that work at five am in the morning
- 19:56Speaker 6: at Tangino. What's texting me asking me be sure you
- 19:59Speaker 6: don't want me to make something to eat? I know
- 20:00Speaker 6: you're at work, and baby girl, I'll be home. I'll
- 20:04Speaker 6: be home around three four o'clock at the lady, fire
- 20:08Speaker 6: up the grill, jump in the shop and walk the
- 20:09Speaker 6: woodburns down, you know what I mean. The track gets
- 20:12Speaker 6: already pre marinated the day before. I got them all
- 20:14Speaker 6: ready to go. Yeah, I'm like, I got all this
- 20:17Speaker 6: baby girl, like, like, I know you're out there and
- 20:19Speaker 6: to eat what he.
- 20:21Speaker 2: She crazy?
- 20:24Speaker 6: Hey ro Mo, I'm like, as long as I got
- 20:25Speaker 6: an icept full of beer, I'm good. So yeah, but
- 20:30Speaker 6: it was. It was a good dinner. Had to have
- 20:31Speaker 6: some of the kids over, had the grand baby over,
- 20:34Speaker 6: and uh, it was a good time, you know what
- 20:36Speaker 6: I mean. We hung out and like I said, we
- 20:38Speaker 6: grubbed down some bomb ass try tips and some ribs
- 20:42Speaker 6: and it was a good day.
- 20:46Speaker 2: Well, that's good, room, that's good.
- 20:49Speaker 1: Tell you to stop, tell you to stop trying to grill, man,
- 20:52Speaker 1: Just stop.
- 20:53Speaker 6: She was just trying to grill. She was trying to
- 20:55Speaker 6: gotta eat that with the red socause she was trying
- 20:59Speaker 6: to make me without a good too. I understand what
- 21:01Speaker 6: you're coming from, but she got to understand where her
- 21:04Speaker 6: man's coming from. It's been twenty fife and you know
- 21:06Speaker 6: I don't like so oh.
- 21:08Speaker 2: That's all alright? Alright, Hey did you see Hey, did
- 21:12Speaker 2: you see what big boy had?
- 21:14Speaker 1: Yeah, big boy one messing around on Father's Day?
- 21:18Speaker 6: Damn, yeah he put it down.
- 21:21Speaker 1: Yeah he did, all right, big boy had, Big Boy
- 21:26Speaker 1: had had had. I didn't know big boy had a
- 21:29Speaker 1: lot of a lot of Ribby's stacked up. I mean
- 21:33Speaker 1: big damn yeah, big boy, big Boy had some Ribby's
- 21:38Speaker 1: and they look good.
- 21:39Speaker 2: All right. So Father's Day, man, how was your Father's Day? Good?
- 21:42Speaker 1: Bad?
- 21:43Speaker 2: What what happened? All right? Father's Day was yesterday? How'd
- 21:46Speaker 2: you guys handle it? How was it? Do you guys
- 21:48Speaker 2: have a good Father's Day? You guys get anything good?
- 21:50Speaker 1: Or you're not get any prizes for Father's Day or
- 21:52Speaker 1: they fourteen ft four seven seven your roam Father's Day
- 21:58Speaker 1: was pretty funny for me. My wife and kids told
- 22:01Speaker 1: me on Saturday night. They were going to get up
- 22:03Speaker 1: and make me breakfast for Father's Day. Well, they all
- 22:06Speaker 1: stayed up late, stayed up late watching movies and having
- 22:09Speaker 1: a good time. So I was the one that got
- 22:11Speaker 1: up earlier before all of them and made breakfast for them.
- 22:16Speaker 1: They were so upset. I thought it was absolutely hilarious.
- 22:20Speaker 1: We had breakfast together and then barbecued, sat by the pool.
- 22:23Speaker 2: It was a great time. Rome That's how fathers they
- 22:26Speaker 2: should be.
- 22:28Speaker 1: There is some fathers out there about, you know, because
- 22:32Speaker 1: I was having a conversation with Big Boy over because
- 22:36Speaker 1: he did all the cooking, all the barbecuing on Father's Day,
- 22:39Speaker 1: and he was talking about what how you know, how
- 22:41Speaker 1: much hard work it was, you know, working over the grill.
- 22:46Speaker 1: And he's got a pretty big family, so they you know,
- 22:49Speaker 1: do a big and I was laughing. I said he
- 22:52Speaker 1: was laughing. He said, yeah, he goes up. But that's
- 22:54Speaker 1: what dads do. And part of the thing I think about,
- 22:57Speaker 1: what part of what I think about Father Thursday, is
- 23:00Speaker 1: that fathers really don't.
- 23:02Speaker 2: Want you to do anything for them. They just want
- 23:05Speaker 2: to do stuff for you.
- 23:06Speaker 7: You know.
- 23:07Speaker 1: It's not like Mother's Day where mothers want to be
- 23:09Speaker 1: catered to. I don't think dads want to be catered to,
- 23:11Speaker 1: you know, they want to still do the catering, at
- 23:16Speaker 1: least a good father.
- 23:17Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 23:17Speaker 3: You guys been talking about bother's day?
- 23:18Speaker 2: Yeah, what's going on?
- 23:20Speaker 6: Oh?
- 23:21Speaker 3: I worked into a build okay, and I was not
- 23:25Speaker 3: working on futher day?
- 23:28Speaker 2: Okay, Well, sometimes you gotta.
- 23:29Speaker 3: Work, exactly. I don't mind it. My family was camping
- 23:37Speaker 3: up north, but that something enjoying the lake and everything. Well,
- 23:42Speaker 3: you're working, and I don't mind it.
- 23:45Speaker 2: You know, hold on, they didn't even stay. They didn't
- 23:48Speaker 2: even celebrate with you on Saturday.
- 23:52Speaker 3: Because I came to work last week, work worked seven day. Okay?
- 23:59Speaker 2: Did they call? Do you want to say Happy Father's Day?
- 24:02Speaker 3: They did? I gotta I gotta say every Happy Father's
- 24:06Speaker 3: Day and stuff for my family who was enjoying. So lay.
- 24:13Speaker 6: Over the.
- 24:15Speaker 3: Field, working thirteen hours, working night. But I'm good with that.
- 24:21Speaker 3: That's that's what we do, right.
- 24:23Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't disagree with that. I think you're absolutely right.
- 24:27Speaker 3: But you know what, sometimes you can forget a holiday
- 24:34Speaker 3: just because life is happening. You don't have to always
- 24:38Speaker 3: like comment earlier, like dad, don't need acknowledgment moms do.
- 24:43Speaker 2: I don't.
- 24:44Speaker 8: I mean like.
- 24:47Speaker 3: You're doing your thing. I'm good, I'm not dead.
- 24:50Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking for Yeah, but women are different. If
- 24:54Speaker 2: you can try and forget, try try going to work
- 24:56Speaker 2: on Mother's Day. See what happens.
- 24:58Speaker 6: Oh, I do.
- 25:01Speaker 3: Holiday where the type of family work like Christmas about
- 25:08Speaker 3: and I'm gonna work. Christmas week celebrated the week before. Okay,
- 25:12Speaker 3: celebrated the week before. Because you can't crawl in in
- 25:16Speaker 3: the ok field. I got it. And you know earlier
- 25:19Speaker 3: I heard, oh you work in the ole field. If
- 25:21Speaker 3: you worked in an hour, if you work in oldfield,
- 25:23Speaker 3: you don't worked an hour, you worked twelve.
- 25:27Speaker 2: Oh good man, all right, all right, well I appreciate
- 25:30Speaker 2: phone call. Wait are you working right now?
- 25:34Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I just went to the store to give
- 25:36Speaker 3: me some groceries, and I'm gonna go to bed, so I'll.
- 25:39Speaker 9: Go back to work.
- 25:39Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, thanks for coming.
- 25:45Speaker 1: Oh and the reason I asked him I was trying
- 25:46Speaker 1: to figure out is yeahs he called me from work
- 25:49Speaker 1: right now. Oh no, you want to get groceries. He's
- 25:51Speaker 1: going to He always said he worked nights. Okay, so
- 25:54Speaker 1: he's probably just getting off work. But I mean that's
- 25:56Speaker 1: I just think Father's Day is, there's not Most good
- 26:01Speaker 1: fathers don't want a whole lot of acknowledgment. They'd like
- 26:05Speaker 1: you to say Happy Father's Day to them, But I
- 26:08Speaker 1: don't think they need a present. I don't think they
- 26:10Speaker 1: need you to do anything for him except acknowledge say
- 26:12Speaker 1: Happy Father's Day.
- 26:13Speaker 2: I think that's all good fathers really need. Or talking
- 26:15Speaker 2: about Father's Day?
- 26:16Speaker 9: Right?
- 26:17Speaker 2: Are day four?
- 26:17Speaker 1: Two four or seven to seven year rome? My ex
- 26:20Speaker 1: wife and my kids lived down in San Diego. I
- 26:23Speaker 1: live here in Bakersfield. My kids didn't even call me
- 26:27Speaker 1: to say Happy Father's Day. I did see some photos
- 26:33Speaker 1: though on their Instagram page of them at lunch with
- 26:39Speaker 1: their stepfather, so apparently they looked like they were having
- 26:43Speaker 1: a good time. But they didn't even call me to
- 26:45Speaker 1: say Happy Father's Day to me. Well, maybe that's a
- 26:50Speaker 1: sign that you're a bad father, right, Maybe you should
- 26:53Speaker 1: drove down to San Diego to see them. What maybe
- 26:58Speaker 1: that's a sign you're a bad father. Okay, all right,
- 27:00Speaker 1: so we're talking about Father's Day. How was your Father's Day?
- 27:04Speaker 1: Do you guys enjoy it with your family with your kids?
- 27:06Speaker 1: What went down already? Fourteen five four seven seven.
- 27:10Speaker 2: Hey, Romeo, let.
- 27:11Speaker 1: Me ask your opinion about this. I hear you talking
- 27:14Speaker 1: about Father's Day. Well, me and my axe have been
- 27:17Speaker 1: split up for a couple of years now. She's the
- 27:20Speaker 1: baby mama. We have two kids together, and I started
- 27:24Speaker 1: dating somebody new. So yesterday for Father's Day, she said
- 27:28Speaker 1: the kids couldn't come see me. They were going out
- 27:31Speaker 1: of town. So she took the kids out of town
- 27:35Speaker 1: on a trip on Father's Day weekend because she was
- 27:38Speaker 1: upset about the fact that I have a new girlfriend.
- 27:42Speaker 2: So she was using the kids against me. I was
- 27:45Speaker 2: pretty upset about it. I didn't know what to do.
- 27:48Speaker 1: I did get to talk to my kids and just
- 27:51Speaker 1: they said Happy Father's Day. But I wish I could
- 27:54Speaker 1: have spent the day with him. Rome What do you
- 27:55Speaker 1: think about that? Sounds like a Bakersfield love story right there?
- 28:03Speaker 1: Women are vindictive? What do you want me to tell you?
- 28:05Speaker 6: Bro?
- 28:05Speaker 2: After two years? Why did you guys split up?
- 28:08Speaker 7: Was it her?
- 28:08Speaker 8: Was it you?
- 28:09Speaker 1: I mean, she obviously is just being vindictive and using
- 28:14Speaker 1: the kids against you, you know, as a weapon now
- 28:17Speaker 1: as a weapon against you, And there's not.
- 28:20Speaker 2: What are you gonna do? I mean, there's nothing you
- 28:22Speaker 2: can do about it. That's that sucks.
- 28:24Speaker 1: You didn't get to see your kids yesterday, But you know,
- 28:28Speaker 1: what are you gonna do? Women are vindictive? That's all
- 28:32Speaker 1: I could say about that.
- 28:34Speaker 2: What did you got to say here? Oh? About the guy?
- 28:36Speaker 2: Guy just texted and apparently his uh, he's been.
- 28:39Speaker 3: Uh uh not with his X.
- 28:42Speaker 1: Him and his X broke up a couple of years ago,
- 28:45Speaker 1: and I guess he's got a new girlfriend. The ex
- 28:47Speaker 1: was being vindictive and didn't let her his kids see
- 28:50Speaker 1: uh she took the ex took the kids out of
- 28:52Speaker 1: town for Father's Day or for the weekend, I guess
- 28:56Speaker 1: for Father's Day. So he didn't get to see his
- 28:58Speaker 1: kids because his ex is being indictive because he's got
- 29:01Speaker 1: a new girlfriend. Which it happens right now. This guy
- 29:04Speaker 1: sent me this already four two, five, four seven to
- 29:07Speaker 1: seven year rome for the guy that just that didn't
- 29:10Speaker 1: get to see his kids on Father's Day. Tell him work,
- 29:14Speaker 1: Welcome to Bakersfield. I don't know if he's from here
- 29:16Speaker 1: or not. My ex wife did that to me the
- 29:19Speaker 1: first couple of years after we separated, because I started
- 29:24Speaker 1: seeing somebody new and she said that she didn't want
- 29:27Speaker 1: my kids or her kids around a new woman. Now
- 29:33Speaker 1: that I am married to that woman, the kids come
- 29:36Speaker 1: around a lot. Now my wife is backed my ex
- 29:38Speaker 1: wife is backed off a lot.
- 29:41Speaker 2: But what are you gonna do? Rom That's just the way,
- 29:43Speaker 2: It's just the way it goes down. I mean, I
- 29:46Speaker 2: don't know something you can't I don't know.
- 29:52Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, all right already four two, five, four,
- 29:55Speaker 1: seven to seven am?
- 29:57Speaker 9: What am I.
- 30:00Speaker 3: Out your campaign?
- 30:00Speaker 6: Because they see their for what? Because they couldn't be
- 30:04Speaker 6: get them to Wait?
- 30:06Speaker 2: What your your phone keeps cutting out?
- 30:08Speaker 6: But that your picture? Wait?
- 30:10Speaker 9: What?
- 30:10Speaker 2: Say that again?
- 30:12Speaker 6: I said, all these dads out here grianing, groaning and
- 30:16Speaker 6: moaning that they couldn't get their kids on Sunday so
- 30:19Speaker 6: they could post that once a year.
- 30:21Speaker 10: Inst Is that what they're doing out here?
- 30:26Speaker 6: Hey, they got all they gotta do is remember, you
- 30:30Speaker 6: chose her. You could have you could have pulled out.
- 30:35Speaker 2: That does not sound like what these guys are saying.
- 30:37Speaker 1: They're saying that their exes are being vindictive because they
- 30:41Speaker 1: these guys got new girlfriends so they wouldn't let their
- 30:44Speaker 1: kids be around them on Father's Day.
- 30:47Speaker 4: But I heard that.
- 30:50Speaker 6: I heard that part also.
- 30:51Speaker 11: But hey, at the same time when the girl put
- 30:54Speaker 11: a new man, how does the kayak?
- 30:57Speaker 4: I Am not gonna be dead, but what it happens is,
- 31:00Speaker 4: you know, it's like, hey, come on now, just because
- 31:02Speaker 4: you're gonna get that one that you're picture that today.
- 31:07Speaker 7: Sure those guys are out there too, all right, brother Lane,
- 31:12Speaker 7: I mean, uh yeah, already four two, five or seven seven.
- 31:17Speaker 1: There's those dead beats out there that want that Father's
- 31:19Speaker 1: Day photo for Instagram.
- 31:20Speaker 12: I get it.
- 31:21Speaker 1: There's also those uh those women out there who uh
- 31:28Speaker 1: throw their kids in the in the photo with their
- 31:30Speaker 1: new boyfriend just to spike their baby daddy. It works
- 31:35Speaker 1: both it works all, it works both ways. Already four
- 31:40Speaker 1: two five, four seven to seven?
- 31:42Speaker 8: Good morning Romeo.
- 31:43Speaker 6: Hey what else?
- 31:44Speaker 8: So my baby daddy? All he does is just steal
- 31:47Speaker 8: my pictures short of my kids off my social media
- 31:50Speaker 8: and post it. I'm not a bitter baby mama, Like
- 31:54Speaker 8: I'm just like, can you please come get your kids?
- 31:56Speaker 8: But his excuse now is that our kids are grown,
- 31:58Speaker 8: because our baby just turned eighteen.
- 32:02Speaker 2: So I'm just like, hold on, hold on. So instead
- 32:07Speaker 2: of actually seeing the kids.
- 32:09Speaker 1: Are spending time with them, he just takes your photos
- 32:11Speaker 1: and repost them.
- 32:13Speaker 2: Oh yeah.
- 32:14Speaker 8: My kids will tell me, Hey, mom, look, dad just
- 32:16Speaker 8: posted a video of the baby, which is my youngest,
- 32:21Speaker 8: and he just graduated high school and we're looking through
- 32:23Speaker 8: the through the video and I'm just like, hey, wait
- 32:25Speaker 8: a minute, that's my social media name on there.
- 32:29Speaker 2: Wow, that's what a dirt bag.
- 32:33Speaker 8: Yeah, it's been here and put out there.
- 32:37Speaker 9: How good of a dad he is but won't do
- 32:39Speaker 9: a daancing for his kids?
- 32:41Speaker 1: Wow?
- 32:41Speaker 2: That is that sounds about like some people in Bakersfield.
- 32:46Speaker 2: Okay him.
- 32:49Speaker 8: The cut off line to you know, taking care of
- 32:52Speaker 8: your kids, I guess is eighteen, even though I've we've
- 32:54Speaker 8: been d worked for about five years now, so you know,
- 32:57Speaker 8: my youngest was thirteen. He never took care of my
- 33:01Speaker 8: son within that, neither my youngest my daughter, so those
- 33:04Speaker 8: two were still minors, so he never happened. And then,
- 33:07Speaker 8: like I said, eighteen, he's now. So yeah, whatever, bro,
- 33:10Speaker 8: grow up, Well grow up.
- 33:12Speaker 2: Thanks for calling me.
- 33:16Speaker 1: Wow already Bodor seven to seven, Good morning Romeo. A
- 33:22Speaker 1: lot of us act surprises if we don't know how
- 33:25Speaker 1: the women or men choose, how we don't know how
- 33:29Speaker 1: the women or men we choose to have kids with
- 33:31Speaker 1: will act in case of us split or divorce. If
- 33:34Speaker 1: you know how it was in the relationship, you know
- 33:37Speaker 1: the odds of the outcome. Best advice, choose wisely who
- 33:42Speaker 1: you will parent with, and avoid yourself drama, be mature,
- 33:46Speaker 1: just don't have kids at all. Yeah, Oh my god,
- 33:52Speaker 1: I can tell you. I could do a week of
- 33:56Speaker 1: shows on all of the people I know, or the
- 34:01Speaker 1: people I've seen, or the people I've met.
- 34:03Speaker 2: In Bakersfield that should have never had kids. I don't
- 34:06Speaker 2: know what they think about. I just don't know what
- 34:09Speaker 2: they were thinking about. They just.
- 34:12Speaker 1: I don't know, all right, all right, A fourteen pop
- 34:14Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. Well, I hope Father's Day
- 34:17Speaker 1: worked out for you.
- 34:18Speaker 2: I really do. This was kind of funny.
- 34:20Speaker 1: Yesterday I opened up a page I was looking through
- 34:23Speaker 1: some websites, and one of the stories was Giselle bushin
- 34:27Speaker 1: I guess praised the father her current husband is. She remarried,
- 34:32Speaker 1: I think, to the jiu jitsu guy, and she praised
- 34:35Speaker 1: him for being such an amazing person, dad whatever, but
- 34:40Speaker 1: didn't say nothing to talk about Tom Brady.
- 34:42Speaker 2: And that was what the story is about.
- 34:43Speaker 1: How she snubbed how Tom Brady's ex wife Giselle Bush
- 34:47Speaker 1: and snubbed him on Father's Day? Does she really need
- 34:51Speaker 1: to say something about her ex husband? I mean, how
- 34:55Speaker 1: many of you cared about your baby daddy yesterday, especially
- 34:59Speaker 1: if you got an you probably didn't, right, you didn't
- 35:03Speaker 1: text him or highlight him on social media.
- 35:05Speaker 2: I don't know if she has to.
- 35:07Speaker 1: Maybe because she's so public, she should, and they were
- 35:10Speaker 1: such a public she has an obligation to do that.
- 35:12Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. Alreadie fourts ot for
- 35:17Speaker 2: seven to seven. I saw the story.
- 35:19Speaker 1: There were obviously it was just headlines, you know, to
- 35:23Speaker 1: clickbait for Tom Brady because Gisellebush and I guess didn't
- 35:26Speaker 1: acknowledge Tom Brady as the father of her children, didn't
- 35:31Speaker 1: say anything nice about him on social media, said something
- 35:35Speaker 1: nice about her current husband and baby. I guess she's
- 35:37Speaker 1: she's currently married with a new guy and they have
- 35:40Speaker 1: a new baby, right, so she got her own new family.
- 35:43Speaker 1: So apparently she praised her husband for being a great
- 35:48Speaker 1: father or a great person or whatever.
- 35:49Speaker 2: Right. So I was thinking about this, and I guess
- 35:54Speaker 2: I was thinking, does she.
- 35:56Speaker 1: Since her and Tom Brady had such a publicized refe relationship,
- 36:00Speaker 1: such a high profile now that she's moved on, does
- 36:04Speaker 1: she need to say anything about him? I don't think
- 36:08Speaker 1: she does. I don't think. I mean, it's just like
- 36:11Speaker 1: any of you out there right now, any of you
- 36:13Speaker 1: out there, they got more than one baby daddy. Maybe
- 36:15Speaker 1: you had an ex husband and kids with an ex husband,
- 36:18Speaker 1: and now you've moved on, and now you have kids
- 36:20Speaker 1: with a new husband or a new man.
- 36:22Speaker 2: Or are you supposed to acknowledge your ex? I mean,
- 36:25Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think so.
- 36:28Speaker 1: I don't think you need to already four two five
- 36:31Speaker 1: four or seven to seven. Hey, Romeo, she doesn't need
- 36:35Speaker 1: to say anything about Tom or her ex.
- 36:38Speaker 2: She just needs to drop the kids off and let
- 36:40Speaker 2: it be that.
- 36:42Speaker 1: I have two baby daddies, one with my ex husband
- 36:45Speaker 1: and one with my current husband.
- 36:47Speaker 2: They're both still in grade school. So all I did
- 36:51Speaker 2: yesterday was drop the.
- 36:52Speaker 1: Kids off with him and went and spent went and
- 36:56Speaker 1: spent the day with my husband and his kids.
- 37:01Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I yes, right there you go. I guess
- 37:05Speaker 2: that's uh.
- 37:06Speaker 1: You don't have to acknowledge your ex baby daddy, do you.
- 37:09Speaker 1: I don't think so, even if you got even I mean,
- 37:13Speaker 1: especially if you got a new baby.
- 37:14Speaker 2: Daddy, right.
- 37:15Speaker 1: But now with to find his phone app, or find
- 37:17Speaker 1: your phone app, find my phone app, whatever it is.
- 37:19Speaker 1: It's easy to find out where your man is right
- 37:21Speaker 1: or where she is if you could tell if you're
- 37:23Speaker 1: lying you or not already?
- 37:24Speaker 12: Fourteen five four or seven to seven?
- 37:27Speaker 1: How have you caught a cheater? What's the best way
- 37:29Speaker 1: to catch a cheater nowadays? I'm gonna tell you something
- 37:30Speaker 1: kind of funny.
- 37:31Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, yeah, how what's going on?
- 37:33Speaker 13: Hey, Romeo? I'm with you against them cheaters?
- 37:35Speaker 1: Man?
- 37:36Speaker 12: Oh well, nobody should be cheating on anybody.
- 37:38Speaker 6: Exactly.
- 37:39Speaker 13: I got married and I got cheated on, and I
- 37:41Speaker 13: didn't like that.
- 37:43Speaker 4: What a fact.
- 37:44Speaker 13: I never cheated on a girl, so when she cheated
- 37:47Speaker 13: on me, when I used to catch him cheating, I
- 37:49Speaker 13: never broke up with them. I just walked away and
- 37:51Speaker 13: never spoke to them again.
- 37:53Speaker 2: How did you catch them?
- 37:55Speaker 3: Simple?
- 37:56Speaker 13: I'd go to a party, or I tell him I'm working.
- 37:58Speaker 13: I go out, Yeah, right here there the party going on,
- 38:02Speaker 13: finding a girlfriend there and you know, friend of mine
- 38:05Speaker 13: v looking and you know, to be all stone down
- 38:08Speaker 13: in that look.
- 38:08Speaker 4: I said, hey, she's your girl, and.
- 38:11Speaker 13: He's like, why said because she used to be mine?
- 38:14Speaker 4: She's now your problem.
- 38:18Speaker 13: That's simple.
- 38:19Speaker 8: Just walk away.
- 38:19Speaker 4: Why are you white fight about it? Like my dad
- 38:21Speaker 4: used to say, you're not married to her? Walk away?
- 38:24Speaker 12: All right, man, thanks for calling.
- 38:25Speaker 1: All right, irty poorts you five four seven to seven
- 38:29Speaker 1: rom since she ain't cheating so much.
- 38:31Speaker 12: You've ever been cheated on?
- 38:32Speaker 2: Yeah, we've all been cheated on.
- 38:34Speaker 1: I know you idiots think that you've never been done dirty.
- 38:37Speaker 1: But if you've been in a few relationships, oh you've
- 38:39Speaker 1: been done dirty.
- 38:40Speaker 2: You just may not know it.
- 38:41Speaker 12: So, yeah, we've all been cheated on. That's why I
- 38:43Speaker 12: think it's so pathetic that people do it, not because
- 38:47Speaker 12: of me.
- 38:48Speaker 1: I don't have it harbor any ill will towards it
- 38:50Speaker 1: because you know, I'm kind of a sensible guy. I'm
- 38:53Speaker 1: not caught up in my emotions and feelings like.
- 38:54Speaker 12: You guys are. But I mean, it's just there's no
- 38:57Speaker 12: need for it. My thing is, there's no need for it.
- 39:01Speaker 1: Not only can you devastate somebody to the point of them,
- 39:05Speaker 1: you know, emotionally devastated.
- 39:07Speaker 12: The rest of their lives. There's no need to cheat
- 39:10Speaker 12: on anybody.
- 39:10Speaker 1: You just have a conversation, even if it's a hard conversation.
- 39:14Speaker 1: Already four two four or seven to seven?
- 39:17Speaker 12: How have you caught in a cheater?
- 39:19Speaker 6: Oh?
- 39:19Speaker 12: This is old school, writer. Somebody just texted me this
- 39:22Speaker 12: is old school.
- 39:23Speaker 1: Hey, one time, you remember three way calling? I had
- 39:26Speaker 1: my girlfriend call up my man while I was on
- 39:29Speaker 1: the other line, hit on him, found out he was
- 39:32Speaker 1: cheating on me. See, well, that's old school, that's the
- 39:36Speaker 1: original find my phone. By the way, you'd just have
- 39:39Speaker 1: that three way calling, or you'd be on the other line.
- 39:41Speaker 12: Why you use some chick to set up your man? Already?
- 39:44Speaker 12: Four two by four or seven to seven? You ever
- 39:47Speaker 12: caught a cheater?
- 39:48Speaker 2: Talking about cheaters?
- 39:48Speaker 12: Right, somehow you caught one with this find my Phone app.
- 39:52Speaker 1: That's got to be the easiest way to find out
- 39:53Speaker 1: where that other person's at, you know, just by looking
- 39:56Speaker 1: at their phone. They say they're one place and they're
- 39:58Speaker 1: another place based on their phone. Right, So i'd that's
- 40:00Speaker 1: cheater already four two, seven and seven?
- 40:02Speaker 2: Good morning? How what's going on?
- 40:04Speaker 11: Hey?
- 40:04Speaker 6: Good morning Romeo?
- 40:05Speaker 2: What's going on? Brother?
- 40:06Speaker 8: Not a lot?
- 40:07Speaker 3: Hey, I got one for you.
- 40:08Speaker 13: I recently had suspicion that my girl was cheating on me,
- 40:13Speaker 13: and I was over to Buddy Couch and the guy
- 40:16Speaker 13: that she cheated on me with left.
- 40:18Speaker 9: His phone on the couch, fight, snagged his phone and
- 40:20Speaker 9: got hold of the info from his phone.
- 40:28Speaker 6: Back after I got what I needed.
- 40:30Speaker 12: Wow, So what did you do after that?
- 40:32Speaker 2: You confronted her? Or what what did you do?
- 40:34Speaker 13: Yeah?
- 40:34Speaker 3: I kept front of her and we've got a kid together,
- 40:36Speaker 3: so trying to work it out.
- 40:38Speaker 9: But that's how I got my income.
- 40:40Speaker 12: WHOA, you're staying with her even though she cheating on you.
- 40:43Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm for the kid's sake, you know. Okay, I
- 40:48Speaker 5: set some spitulations to wherever they talk or whatever. You know,
- 40:51Speaker 5: I'm moving on and she can leave with nothing.
- 40:53Speaker 12: Gotcha?
- 40:54Speaker 2: All right?
- 40:54Speaker 9: Man?
- 40:55Speaker 1: All right, all right, there's going well there you go,
- 40:58Speaker 1: Hardy four two five four seven to seven?
- 41:01Speaker 12: How did you catch a cheater? How did you catch some.
- 41:04Speaker 2: Of you are being cheated on?
- 41:05Speaker 12: You don't even know it, right, but once you have suspicions,
- 41:08Speaker 12: you got to catch them somehow. Already four two five
- 41:10Speaker 12: four seven seven? Like I said, how'd you catch you cheater?
- 41:12Speaker 12: It's already four two five four seven to seven?
- 41:14Speaker 2: Gordion? How what's going on?
- 41:16Speaker 8: Hey? From me?
- 41:17Speaker 10: Hey?
- 41:17Speaker 2: How are you?
- 41:18Speaker 4: What's going on this morning?
- 41:20Speaker 10: And then just sat in the car and heard you talking.
- 41:23Speaker 12: Sorry about I call them like trying to catch cheaters.
- 41:27Speaker 11: No baby cheater, tell on a damnself.
- 41:31Speaker 8: If you smart, if you got somebody you think it's cheating,
- 41:36Speaker 8: just give them time.
- 41:37Speaker 9: They tell on a damn self.
- 41:38Speaker 2: What do you mean they'll tell on themselves.
- 41:40Speaker 9: They always tell on themselves on accident, really, and they
- 41:44Speaker 9: don't realize that they do. If you're smart, you'll ask
- 41:48Speaker 9: a person a question.
- 41:49Speaker 8: Wait a while, not like a couple of hours, wait.
- 41:51Speaker 9: A couple of days, about a couple of weeks. Okay,
- 41:53Speaker 9: them again, I bet you they don't come up with.
- 41:55Speaker 3: A different line.
- 41:58Speaker 12: That's pretty clever or or the best way, the best way, men, women,
- 42:02Speaker 12: anybody out there, if you want to know if your
- 42:04Speaker 12: person is cheating, nine times out of ten, they're gonna.
- 42:07Speaker 13: Accuse you of doing it first, Okay, okay.
- 42:10Speaker 9: If they're accusing you every time you turn around, they
- 42:12Speaker 9: steady accusing you of cheating, You got one or two choices.
- 42:16Speaker 9: Leave at cheating that person alone, or go ahead and
- 42:20Speaker 9: do it.
- 42:21Speaker 8: If they're accusing you, go ahead and do it, and.
- 42:22Speaker 4: Go ahead and do it.
- 42:23Speaker 10: So okay, all right, that's the way I did.
- 42:25Speaker 9: They're gonna either tell it that a tell on they said, Remember.
- 42:28Speaker 8: They're telling themselves, or they'll accuse you.
- 42:31Speaker 9: If they're constantly accusing you, they're doing it.
- 42:33Speaker 8: Okay, yo, I'm sorry, but if your dumb ass can't
- 42:36Speaker 8: figure it out off, but then yeah, you just like Romeo, say,
- 42:39Speaker 8: you're a Raider fan?
- 42:41Speaker 4: Why rum.
- 42:43Speaker 12: Talking about catching a cheater?
- 42:44Speaker 6: Right?
- 42:45Speaker 12: How'd you do it? Goringing out?
- 42:46Speaker 2: What's going on?
- 42:47Speaker 8: Hey?
- 42:48Speaker 2: Hey, what's up?
- 42:50Speaker 9: I just I had to think about something. If you're
- 42:52Speaker 9: gonna cheat, why even be in a relationship.
- 42:57Speaker 12: I can't answer that question because I don't think people.
- 43:00Speaker 3: Look, this is what it is. Look, I don't want
- 43:02Speaker 3: to just me with you.
- 43:04Speaker 10: I want to be you know, frans Abnity's ain't that's
- 43:07Speaker 10: what they call it.
- 43:08Speaker 3: Franz abnity what they call it.
- 43:10Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know what.
- 43:14Speaker 9: So nobody can say you're cheating on?
- 43:17Speaker 12: Yeah, you know what? And you'd be surprised. I bet,
- 43:20Speaker 12: I bet nine out of ten men and women right
- 43:22Speaker 12: now would be surprised.
- 43:23Speaker 1: If they went and asked their girlfriend or boyfriend right now,
- 43:26Speaker 1: maybe even their husbands and wives, Hey i'd.
- 43:28Speaker 12: Like to do this, they'd probably.
- 43:32Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly can't do that exactly hard.
- 43:37Speaker 3: You never know what it's like a box of chocolate's like,
- 43:40Speaker 3: what's the name same, it's box tocolis.
- 43:43Speaker 4: You'll never know what you don't get, all right?
- 43:49Speaker 12: Are they four two, five, four or seven to seven?
- 43:52Speaker 1: Yeah, when it comes to cheating, I want to talk
- 43:54Speaker 1: about catching a cheater because and I gotta say this
- 43:56Speaker 1: very delicately, because they.
- 43:57Speaker 12: Don't want to sound vulgar.
- 44:00Speaker 1: Her. I don't know if somebody told me this, if
- 44:03Speaker 1: it was a listener, or it might have been one
- 44:05Speaker 1: of these one of these, uh you know, shows where
- 44:08Speaker 1: these women are married to rock stars or athletes or something.
- 44:12Speaker 12: But I want to say that. A woman said one time.
- 44:16Speaker 1: She could tell if her man was cheating on her
- 44:21Speaker 1: based on when they had sex. She said, I think
- 44:24Speaker 1: if maybe it was one of those shows that she said,
- 44:26Speaker 1: whenever her man comes home and she'll have sex with him,
- 44:30Speaker 1: she could tell had he been cheating based on the
- 44:34Speaker 1: fluid that comes out. I don't I don't know if
- 44:37Speaker 1: that's true. That's what this woman said, that's how she
- 44:41Speaker 1: could tell if her man was cheating on her. Now,
- 44:44Speaker 1: I don't know if that's true or not, but it's
- 44:47Speaker 1: very very interesting. Maybe it was just for show purposes.
- 44:50Speaker 12: I don't know so, and I don't really remember. I
- 44:52Speaker 12: wish I could remember why I heard that already? Four
- 44:54Speaker 12: two five four or seven to seven eight? Row caught
- 44:57Speaker 12: my ex cheating with his blood aunt.
- 44:59Speaker 1: Disgusted, I slashed his tires on his truck and slept
- 45:02Speaker 1: with his cousin.
- 45:03Speaker 12: Good for me catching a cheater?
- 45:05Speaker 2: How do you do it?
- 45:06Speaker 12: Gornian? Hot?
- 45:07Speaker 6: What's up?
- 45:07Speaker 3: What I'm wrong?
- 45:08Speaker 4: What I'm inn So clarifying is if they put their
- 45:12Speaker 4: phones face down every single time.
- 45:15Speaker 2: It's cheating. Okay, that's how you know.
- 45:18Speaker 1: Huh, face down if they have nothing to hide, they
- 45:22Speaker 1: don't care which way the phone goes, but they always
- 45:24Speaker 1: made sure the phone is face down when they put
- 45:26Speaker 1: it down.
- 45:27Speaker 2: All right, all right, hopefully everybody's listening to that.
- 45:30Speaker 12: Thanks for calling, man, Yeah, what's going on?
- 45:34Speaker 10: Okay?
- 45:34Speaker 9: So it is true, but it's not the slewi. You
- 45:37Speaker 9: can't just cheat her from the way he's moving like scally.
- 45:40Speaker 5: There's always a different rhythm, it's always a different vibe.
- 45:44Speaker 9: That's how you can get some mess, cheat and.
- 45:46Speaker 8: All your woman.
- 45:48Speaker 9: They want to bring into what you learn from those
- 45:50Speaker 9: theater really.
- 45:52Speaker 1: So you can tell if a guy he's cheating on
- 45:55Speaker 1: you based on how he has sex with you.
- 45:57Speaker 6: Yes, you can.
- 45:58Speaker 8: That's how I stopped mother a couple of times.
- 46:04Speaker 12: Wow, all right, well thanks for calling.
- 46:09Speaker 1: Wow, that's pretty perceptive. Already four two five, four seven
- 46:13Speaker 1: to seven. A rom his iPhone is synced with his
- 46:17Speaker 1: iPhone is synced with his iPad. His social media signed
- 46:21Speaker 1: into it as well, and I went through the Instagram,
- 46:23Speaker 1: told him I seen the messages between him and his X.
- 46:25Speaker 2: Never told him how.
- 46:27Speaker 1: He thinks the ex sent me screenshots. Oh all right,
- 46:32Speaker 1: already four two five, four seven to seven. Realm, have
- 46:35Speaker 1: you seen that Facebook group here in Bakersfield that women
- 46:37Speaker 1: are posting their men to see if anyone.
- 46:39Speaker 12: Else is talking to him?
- 46:41Speaker 1: That's a great way to catch a cheater. I have
- 46:43Speaker 1: seen that, by the way, but I think that's a
- 46:45Speaker 1: great way to catch a cheater. You guys forget I'm
- 46:49Speaker 1: against cheating. I think cheating is despicable.
- 46:52Speaker 12: Aerom.
- 46:52Speaker 1: You can't tell by the fluid, because what if you, oh,
- 46:58Speaker 1: pleasure yourself often, well, then she knows that you're doing something.
- 47:05Speaker 1: She doesn't necessarily know if you're cheating, but you might be,
- 47:08Speaker 1: you know, by yourself but hey, that's another Then that's
- 47:15Speaker 1: another situation unless she's okay with you doing that as well.
- 47:17Speaker 12: Already four two five some people think that some women
- 47:20Speaker 12: think that's cheating. By the way, just so you know,
- 47:23Speaker 12: already four two five, four seven to seven.
- 47:26Speaker 2: All right, we're talking about cheaters, right, Do you ever
- 47:28Speaker 2: catch a cheater?
- 47:28Speaker 1: Doesn't necessarily have to be you catching somebody cheating on you,
- 47:32Speaker 1: But have you ever caught, like somebody, you know, cheating
- 47:35Speaker 1: on somebody else, cheating on.
- 47:37Speaker 2: Their spouse, their partner.
- 47:38Speaker 1: There whoever? Already four two five, four seven to seven. Hey, Romeo,
- 47:44Speaker 1: I caught my girl cheating on me. I told my
- 47:46Speaker 1: girl I was going I was going out of town
- 47:50Speaker 1: with some friends, but I had a guy. Uh, but
- 47:53Speaker 1: I had but I had for I had forgot my wallet.
- 47:57Speaker 1: So I went back and I seen her, but asked
- 48:00Speaker 1: naked riding some guy in on my bed.
- 48:05Speaker 2: Wow, she didn't even wait for you to leave town.
- 48:08Speaker 1: Oh, she deserved to get caught at that point. I mean,
- 48:11Speaker 1: she didn't even wait for you to You got to
- 48:14Speaker 1: give me a little more context on that. You forgot
- 48:17Speaker 1: your wallet, So how far away were you from your
- 48:21Speaker 1: house where you left your wallet before you turned around
- 48:25Speaker 1: and came back, because that's interesting. That's interesting. She didn't
- 48:31Speaker 1: even she didn't even wait long. I, hey, roam, drove
- 48:35Speaker 1: past my girls one night when I got uh, when
- 48:38Speaker 1: I got the cheater vibe. Seeing a dude walking out
- 48:42Speaker 1: the front door instantly became an.
- 48:44Speaker 2: Ex There you go, all right, A four, two, five, four,
- 48:48Speaker 2: seven to seven? You ever catch a cheater? So you
- 48:51Speaker 2: ever catch a cheater? Already? Four, five, four or seven
- 48:54Speaker 2: to seven?
- 48:54Speaker 6: Good on?
- 48:55Speaker 2: You know what's going on?
- 48:56Speaker 9: Hey, Rome, I caught my dad with the other woman.
- 48:59Speaker 2: Your dad.
- 49:00Speaker 9: Yes, actually, I was on my way to school. This
- 49:02Speaker 9: was back in the nineties. I was in junior highing.
- 49:05Speaker 9: I was on my way to school walking and I
- 49:07Speaker 9: turned the corner and sure enough it was my dad
- 49:10Speaker 9: and the other woman. He hurried up and let her
- 49:13Speaker 9: hand go, and he was trying to call me. I
- 49:15Speaker 9: was like, oh no, oh, no, I gotta go to school.
- 49:18Speaker 1: With this on my mind.
- 49:19Speaker 4: I got to go home and tell my mama, like damn,
- 49:23Speaker 4: I didn't get to how old were you again?
- 49:26Speaker 12: I was in junior house at that time.
- 49:28Speaker 9: I was, I believe twelve thirteen.
- 49:32Speaker 2: Okay, okay, so smart enough to know old enough to though, okay, Dad.
- 49:37Speaker 8: I was like, I want to go home and tell
- 49:38Speaker 8: my mom. Now that's not going to be, that's not
- 49:40Speaker 8: gonna set Well what happened?
- 49:44Speaker 11: I told my mom my dad did not even come
- 49:46Speaker 11: home no more.
- 49:47Speaker 9: I didn't see my dad from the age of like
- 49:51Speaker 9: I said, thirteen fourteen or twelve thirteen until I was eighteen.
- 49:55Speaker 2: Mother didn't even come home to face the music.
- 49:59Speaker 8: No you didn't.
- 50:00Speaker 9: I'm home no more.
- 50:01Speaker 13: Like.
- 50:01Speaker 4: I was like, man, wow, that it was.
- 50:06Speaker 9: It was all bad.
- 50:07Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, are you devastating? Were you devastated by it?
- 50:10Speaker 2: Or did it mess you? Are you still messed up?
- 50:12Speaker 9: How would you feel if you turned the corner you
- 50:14Speaker 9: see you're you're Oh my god, yes I would. I
- 50:16Speaker 9: couldn't even go to school.
- 50:17Speaker 3: I was just like, I cried.
- 50:19Speaker 6: I had a long walk, so going all.
- 50:22Speaker 9: The way to school.
- 50:24Speaker 2: Wow, you're still mad at your dad? Are you good?
- 50:26Speaker 1: Oh?
- 50:26Speaker 9: I wish I had my dad still, Okay, I'm not
- 50:31Speaker 9: no more.
- 50:32Speaker 4: I wish I could tell.
- 50:33Speaker 3: Him I.
- 50:35Speaker 9: Forgive you?
- 50:37Speaker 2: Did your mom forgive him?
- 50:39Speaker 8: Honestly, I don't know.
- 50:41Speaker 4: I don't think.
- 50:41Speaker 9: So it still comes up. It's still a conversation that
- 50:43Speaker 9: still comes up.
- 50:44Speaker 2: That's awesome, Yes it is. Wow, Wow, thanks for calling.
- 50:49Speaker 2: That's funny. All right, yeah, all right, talk to you.
- 50:52Speaker 2: That's devastating. Oh, so have you ever caught a cheater? Already?
- 50:56Speaker 2: Four two five, four seven seven.
- 50:59Speaker 1: Hey, my ex wife's working nights, caught uh and caught
- 51:03Speaker 1: me cheating by planting our kids iPad in the trunk
- 51:08Speaker 1: of the car. And I pulled up on my Uh.
- 51:12Speaker 1: I pulled up, caught me red handed on her lunch break.
- 51:16Speaker 1: Huge scene, blood was shed, cop showed up. They got ugly.
- 51:21Speaker 1: Uh sorry, cheeters. I gave your spouse a good idea
- 51:24Speaker 1: to catch you. Wow, that is a good idea. Find
- 51:27Speaker 1: my phone app?
- 51:29Speaker 2: What's going on?
- 51:30Speaker 4: Hey, what's up here?
- 51:31Speaker 2: Yeah?
- 51:32Speaker 4: This one time I was getting this girl right. Goes
- 51:35Speaker 4: out to Arizona for school to become my emt whatever,
- 51:39Speaker 4: her baby daddy take her kid up there, and that
- 51:41Speaker 4: whole day, well the two days that he was up there,
- 51:43Speaker 4: she wasn't texting me back nothing.
- 51:45Speaker 3: And then when she came back.
- 51:46Speaker 4: She just raight up piling herself that he's supposed to
- 51:48Speaker 4: be took advantage of her, and I believe her. But
- 51:51Speaker 4: then she wanted to work out of the shirt bo.
- 51:52Speaker 4: So I was like, yeah, that ain't crude.
- 51:55Speaker 2: Why so she sits on herself?
- 51:58Speaker 4: And her mutual friends told me that, yeah, she's pretty
- 52:02Speaker 4: much uh hat jack with dam to try to get
- 52:04Speaker 4: the custody back.
- 52:05Speaker 6: Of her kids.
- 52:06Speaker 2: Wow, that's uh, well she stitched herself out, that's all right.
- 52:10Speaker 4: Yeah, but she tried to tell me that he took
- 52:13Speaker 4: advantage of her or whatever, and I believed her. And
- 52:15Speaker 4: then well she worked Now she works at strip club,
- 52:18Speaker 4: So if you got raped, why would you be working
- 52:19Speaker 4: at a strip club? And then I told her fresh
- 52:21Speaker 4: charges on him, and she doesn't want to She's like, no,
- 52:23Speaker 4: it's fine, Oh, mama, karma. She just thinks about karma.
- 52:26Speaker 4: I was like, no, definitely lying all right, alright, man,
- 52:30Speaker 4: thanks for calling.
- 52:31Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, just because she works at a strip
- 52:34Speaker 1: club doesn't mean she's lying to.
- 52:35Speaker 2: You already four two five, four seven to seven. You
- 52:39Speaker 2: ever catch a cheater? All right? Catching a cheater? Have
- 52:41Speaker 2: you ever caught a cheater before?
- 52:43Speaker 1: It doesn't necessarily have to be someone cheating on you,
- 52:45Speaker 1: but just in general already four two five, four seven
- 52:49Speaker 1: to seven. Like I was telling you, I caught three
- 52:51Speaker 1: before three in my lifetime, not on purpose, accidentally wrong place,
- 52:56Speaker 1: wrong time, right place, right time.
- 52:57Speaker 2: I don't know, but yeah, I was there. What should
- 53:00Speaker 2: happen already?
- 53:01Speaker 1: Four two five, four seven seven, Hey, Romeo, Should one
- 53:06Speaker 1: snitch out a person cheating? Yes, I will always, always, always,
- 53:12Speaker 1: always snitch on you. If I know you and you're cheating,
- 53:19Speaker 1: I will snitch you out only for one reason. The
- 53:24Speaker 1: last time that I caught somebody cheating on accident, purely
- 53:28Speaker 1: by accident, I was thrown in the middle of it
- 53:34Speaker 1: and for not saying anything. So that's why I've always said,
- 53:37Speaker 1: have I ever catch anybody cheating on my watch? I'm
- 53:41Speaker 1: snitching already?
- 53:42Speaker 2: Four two five, four seven seven.
- 53:44Speaker 1: I live in de Lano, but I was almost to
- 53:47Speaker 1: Bakersfield when I flipped it to see she had time
- 53:50Speaker 1: to call. Oh, I see okay, So this is the
- 53:52Speaker 1: guy that said he caught his girl cheating, caught his
- 53:55Speaker 1: girl on top of some dude in bed because he
- 53:58Speaker 1: forgot his wallet, so he lived in Delano. Got was
- 54:00Speaker 1: almost a Bakersfield flipped around. Boy, she didn't wait long
- 54:04Speaker 1: to get somebody over there. That girl has some stones.
- 54:08Speaker 1: That girl had some stones right there already four two five,
- 54:11Speaker 1: four or seven seven. Like I said, do you ever
- 54:14Speaker 1: catch a cheater. Yeah, because when you know about cheating,
- 54:20Speaker 1: somebody cheating and you don't say anything, all of a sudden,
- 54:24Speaker 1: you're just as guilty as the cheater.
- 54:26Speaker 2: So hell yeah, snitch them out. You catch a cheater out.
- 54:28Speaker 2: What's going on?
- 54:29Speaker 5: Hey, I got that whole cheating situation.
- 54:31Speaker 2: Yeah, what's up?
- 54:32Speaker 5: So I got my Sorry, So I was with my cousin.
- 54:36Speaker 5: He was starting to be shady or why not? Well
- 54:39Speaker 5: his smart person since you know everyone says there's up
- 54:42Speaker 5: on Google, but back up to the computer home and
- 54:45Speaker 5: how to tract everything where you're doing, where you're at,
- 54:47Speaker 5: give you a time spance.
- 54:49Speaker 3: Well, one day he was.
- 54:51Speaker 5: Acting really weird, and you know, what are you cheating?
- 54:53Speaker 4: And what's going on?
- 54:54Speaker 5: Because I've already had ankle. We've been together for ten years,
- 54:57Speaker 5: ready for seven? Okay, likes something that's up and he
- 55:00Speaker 5: won't know nothing, nothing, nothing. He was going to work early,
- 55:03Speaker 5: leaving late, goett to take a.
- 55:05Speaker 3: Work coworkers home.
- 55:07Speaker 5: One n quote, well, time to find out he was
- 55:10Speaker 5: messing with someone. Not only did I find out how
- 55:12Speaker 5: he was using using snapchat, So the alerts were telling me, hey,
- 55:16Speaker 5: he's using snaptot when I was at work what. He
- 55:19Speaker 5: would screenshop conversations and it would be on the camera
- 55:22Speaker 5: roll and it would back up into our family computer.
- 55:26Speaker 5: Anything he was receiving, Like she was sulding some pictures
- 55:31Speaker 5: and he was sending pictures as well, So it was
- 55:35Speaker 5: all on our family computer, I know. And then I
- 55:38Speaker 5: found out where she lived. So then I was like,
- 55:41Speaker 5: you know what, this is just Parma.
- 55:43Speaker 12: So I was just there.
- 55:44Speaker 8: I was like, hi, hell else, Wow?
- 55:50Speaker 5: Yeah, I took kids and everything. So I was like, hey,
- 55:51Speaker 5: I mean, if you want to be set on more party,
- 55:53Speaker 5: just you know, here you goady. There's my kids in
- 55:57Speaker 5: the car.
- 55:58Speaker 2: That's awesome. So you're not with him anymore?
- 56:01Speaker 5: No, not with him anymore. He filed for divorce, right
- 56:04Speaker 5: because you know he has a new girl. But it
- 56:06Speaker 5: didn't last, right, there's only three months that's from the
- 56:08Speaker 5: honeymoon life.
- 56:10Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 56:10Speaker 5: Yeah, he doesn't want to finish a avorce. So well, really,
- 56:13Speaker 5: come on, you're did indeed, I'm not gonna get back
- 56:16Speaker 5: with you three years later.
- 56:18Speaker 2: Jay, What a dumb ass. That's funny. Hey, all right,
- 56:21Speaker 2: thanks for calling. Appreciate it.
- 56:23Speaker 1: Okay, all right, alre they four, two, five, four, seven
- 56:26Speaker 1: and seven. I'm gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna
- 56:28Speaker 1: tell you right now, if your partner is on Snapchat,
- 56:32Speaker 1: you're getting cheated on. You're getting no instands butts about
- 56:37Speaker 1: if your partner's on Snapchat, you're getting cheated on. Oh man,
- 56:40Speaker 1: catching cheaters nowadays, I don't know if it's harder or easier.
- 56:43Speaker 1: First it was easier, right because everybody had them find
- 56:46Speaker 1: your phone apps or live three seventy or sixty or
- 56:49Speaker 1: what is it?
- 56:49Speaker 2: So I don't even know what it is because I
- 56:50Speaker 2: don't have it.
- 56:51Speaker 1: But now with AI and the fact that with these apps,
- 56:55Speaker 1: what you can do with photos, how you supposed to believe?
- 56:59Speaker 6: Right?
- 57:00Speaker 2: Already? Four two four seven to seven room, A dude.
- 57:03Speaker 1: Took a picture of a guy at work standing next
- 57:06Speaker 1: to him and told chat GTP to make them kiss,
- 57:11Speaker 1: to make them kiss. Dude got home, his wife's seen
- 57:14Speaker 1: it caused a big fight. She was crying, saying if
- 57:18Speaker 1: he was gay. But then when they called the coworker,
- 57:21Speaker 1: he said it was AI.
- 57:23Speaker 2: Dude was mad. Well, that's what I'm saying. I mean,
- 57:29Speaker 2: how do you know? Nowadays? You know what I'm saying.
- 57:32Speaker 2: What are you supposed to do? If you could set
- 57:34Speaker 2: somebody up.
- 57:35Speaker 1: I mean now that I'm thinking about it, as I'm
- 57:38Speaker 1: telling you this story earlier about the guy, this guy
- 57:41Speaker 1: I know his.
- 57:44Speaker 2: Supposedly he was with another girl or another woman.
- 57:49Speaker 1: His wife's friend caught them, took photos, sent him to
- 57:53Speaker 1: the wife. He came home and said, it's fake. It's ai.
- 57:58Speaker 1: Now you gotta wonder, right because some of your friends
- 58:04Speaker 1: don't like you. Some of your wife's friends, or your
- 58:09Speaker 1: your your girlfriend's friends don't like you. They could set
- 58:11Speaker 1: you up, you know, good morning? The hell?
- 58:14Speaker 2: What's going on?
- 58:16Speaker 1: Bro?
- 58:16Speaker 6: I really had seating palms, and you know I love you, man.
- 58:19Speaker 7: I just couldn't help him.
- 58:20Speaker 2: Hear that last call, Yeah what's up?
- 58:22Speaker 4: But what does he mean? He stayed with her?
- 58:24Speaker 2: He took a dud boom. Yeah. I don't know.
- 58:34Speaker 4: What they doing nowdays, Bro, I don't know.
- 58:37Speaker 2: What they're doing all day?
- 58:40Speaker 6: What do you do?
- 58:41Speaker 2: He's in the front seat.
- 58:45Speaker 6: Telling her, how about good morning?
- 58:50Speaker 7: All right?
- 58:50Speaker 3: Man?
- 58:51Speaker 2: I just I don't That's the point. I don't know
- 58:53Speaker 2: what's going on. What I mean, it's getting wild out there.
- 58:57Speaker 1: You know, how many like, let me be honest with you,
- 58:59Speaker 1: how many of you try to break up your friend
- 59:03Speaker 1: and her man, maybe before they got married. And you
- 59:08Speaker 1: know how easy it can be. Like the story that
- 59:10Speaker 1: just said, you know, chat GPT, chat GP, what is it?
- 59:14Speaker 2: Whatever? I don't use AI, so I don't know, but
- 59:16Speaker 2: chat whatever it is?
- 59:17Speaker 6: Right?
- 59:18Speaker 1: They could, uh, you know, make these fake photos set
- 59:24Speaker 1: you up. I mean I don't know already four two
- 59:28Speaker 1: pop four or seven to seven? Are they four two
- 59:31Speaker 1: pop four or seven to seven? E?
- 59:33Speaker 2: Good morning, roam. That lady that just called is right?
- 59:36Speaker 1: Send her a hot ninety four point one hat is
- 59:39Speaker 1: she's always on her phone or always has it silent
- 59:42Speaker 1: if she turns it upside down or turns it off
- 59:45Speaker 1: when you're chilling with her.
- 59:47Speaker 2: With that being said, if.
- 59:48Speaker 1: She's gonna cheat, she's gonna do it either way. If
- 59:51Speaker 1: you think she's cheating, leave asap. No woman is hot
- 59:56Speaker 1: enough to risk your life because the dude she's cheating
- 59:59Speaker 1: with my be in love and get crazy over her.
- 1:00:02Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll be honest with you. Ain't no, ain't no,
- 1:00:06Speaker 2: Ain't no woman or man we're staying with. You know,
- 1:00:09Speaker 2: if you're going to be in a bad situation, you
- 1:00:12Speaker 2: know there's always hotter and better out there.
- 1:00:14Speaker 11: You know, well, ma, you know how you could check check.
- 1:00:18Speaker 10: How how you if he's by his check stubs, because
- 1:00:23Speaker 10: if he's cheating during work, he's going to use his
- 1:00:26Speaker 10: vacation time or he's going to be using his sick time,
- 1:00:29Speaker 10: and it's gonna show up just so he can.
- 1:00:31Speaker 4: Replace that money.
- 1:00:32Speaker 11: He's not gonna like be you know, using his time
- 1:00:35Speaker 11: and not trying to replace it, because then the wife
- 1:00:37Speaker 11: for the girlfriend's gonna know the check's not coming out right.
- 1:00:41Speaker 2: Well, okay, so here would be my question for that.
- 1:00:45Speaker 1: Now, how do you see his check stuff because now
- 1:00:47Speaker 1: it's all done electronically.
- 1:00:50Speaker 11: Yeah, but I mean you have their pathwordf they if
- 1:00:53Speaker 11: they're not hiding anything, they're gonna give it to you,
- 1:00:55Speaker 11: like be like you could say, oh, hey you need
- 1:00:59Speaker 11: it for I don't know, something for the kids. They
- 1:01:02Speaker 11: need like school's coming up. They're gonna need your check
- 1:01:05Speaker 11: stuff just to confirm address or something like that.
- 1:01:08Speaker 4: Okay, just make something up.
- 1:01:10Speaker 11: Or you can also check the bank statements. Bank statements
- 1:01:13Speaker 11: are always gonna show like if they're cheating, they're gonna
- 1:01:16Speaker 11: have to use money to like, you know, stuff that
- 1:01:20Speaker 11: is not normally spend. Yeah, okay, not just wow, I
- 1:01:26Speaker 11: never okay, money the money troll is always gonna be there.
- 1:01:29Speaker 11: More money is gonna go out if something is. They're cheating,
- 1:01:32Speaker 11: more money.
- 1:01:33Speaker 2: Spend money never lies. Huh they all right? Thanks.
- 1:01:39Speaker 1: I was watching that Spider Spider Noir whatever, that Amazon Prime,
- 1:01:44Speaker 1: the the New Nicholas Man's Show, and that's what the
- 1:01:47Speaker 1: that's what the bad guy said. People lie, money never lies.
- 1:01:52Speaker 1: My ex room was a supervisor for his company. We
- 1:01:57Speaker 1: both shared locations. He will be hooking up with one
- 1:02:01Speaker 1: of his coworkers in the back of his well he
- 1:02:04Speaker 1: was at work. Or he will leave his phone at
- 1:02:07Speaker 1: work and take the company truck, leave his phone at
- 1:02:12Speaker 1: work and take the company truck down the street to
- 1:02:16Speaker 1: the hotel and hook up with the girl and then
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: go back to work and get his phone when it
- 1:02:20Speaker 1: was time for him to get off. He didn't know
- 1:02:23Speaker 1: that for iPhones it saves deleted messages. And that's how
- 1:02:30Speaker 1: I found out about it. I reported it to HR,
- 1:02:33Speaker 1: sent him screenshots and everything. He lost his supervisor job,
- 1:02:39Speaker 1: and the girl got fired, and he also got homeless.
- 1:02:43Speaker 1: He also got homeless the same day because I put
- 1:02:46Speaker 1: them out and never went back. My ex was a
- 1:02:49Speaker 1: supervisor for this company. We both share Okay, Okay, well
- 1:02:54Speaker 1: that's how you caught him up.
- 1:02:56Speaker 11: I just.
- 1:02:59Speaker 2: How hard is it nowadays?
- 1:03:00Speaker 6: Though?
- 1:03:00Speaker 2: Really?
- 1:03:01Speaker 1: I mean you you would think remember back in the day,
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: for some of the old school cats. You remember back
- 1:03:06Speaker 1: in the day, if you were going to catch somebody cheating,
- 1:03:08Speaker 1: you either had to go with that three way calling,
- 1:03:11Speaker 1: you know, where somebody was listening to set them up,
- 1:03:15Speaker 1: or you'd have.
- 1:03:16Speaker 2: To you know, get in the car and follow them. Then.
- 1:03:20Speaker 1: Okay, now all of a sudden, you got phones with trackers,
- 1:03:22Speaker 1: you can track them.
- 1:03:23Speaker 2: That makes it so much.
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: Easier to know if they're lying to you or where
- 1:03:25Speaker 1: they're at. Right, and now with Ai, that's a game changer, man.
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: You could just say that's Ai.
- 1:03:35Speaker 2: No, that's not me.
- 1:03:37Speaker 1: Your girlfriend, your your friend just don't like me. She's
- 1:03:39Speaker 1: been trying to break us up forever, right, So she's
- 1:03:42Speaker 1: sending you doctored pictures to try to get you to
- 1:03:45Speaker 1: break up with me, making you think I'm cheating, right,
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: I mean, I just don't.
- 1:03:50Speaker 2: It's crazy. Now, what do you do the morning?
- 1:03:54Speaker 10: Every morning?
- 1:03:54Speaker 9: Morning?
- 1:03:56Speaker 1: One