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Johnjay is Gold Status Baby · Johnjay & Rich On Demand

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  Speaker 1: Today is National what, Rich?
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  Speaker 2: It's National Love People Day for those of you people who.
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  Speaker 3: Feel like, you know, you like Animals more than people. Today,
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  Speaker 3: you have to love people. It's National Chewing Gum Day.
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  Speaker 3: National Hot Mold Apple Cider Day. Hot mold?
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  Speaker 4: Mold.
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  Speaker 3: It's like spicy spider mold would be the spices. It's
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  Speaker 3: a very aggressively autumn for here, I feel like. National
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  Speaker 3: Mud Pack Day, you know, the old school facial treatment.
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  Speaker 3: And it's International Podcast Day. You should download the John
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  Speaker 3: Jane Rich podcast available wherever you get podcasts. And thank
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  Speaker 3: you guys for all celebrating with me. It's National Orange
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  Speaker 3: Shirt Day. Thank you for wearing your orange shirts today.
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  Speaker 2: Yesterday was National Coffee Day. And I got this text.
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  Speaker 2: I was obsessed with the text. It was like, you
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  Speaker 2: can get free coffee at Starbucks all the time. And
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  Speaker 2: then Chanel was telling me how. And I'm like, Chanel,
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  Speaker 2: please explain how you get free coffee at Starbucks.
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  Speaker 5: So what you do is you have to be a
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  Speaker 5: gold card member. And how you can do that is
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  Speaker 5: you go to your app, the order app, and it
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  Speaker 5: says if you're a gold card or green card or
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  Speaker 5: whatever have you.
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  Speaker 6: Green card is something else.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, you have to buy the first cup of coffee
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  Speaker 5: or tea, and then you can get unlimited as long
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  Speaker 5: as you're staying in the store and working. It's not
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  Speaker 5: like you just.
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  Speaker 3: Roll up and get a free cup, though, for nothing.
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  Speaker 5: No, but I did send a hack to get, like,
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  Speaker 5: a $ 3 really iced, really good drink, which is really good,
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  Speaker 5: and it's a good hack.
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  Speaker 1: But you can get unlimited anything, though.
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  Speaker 5: After you get your free, like, get the least amount
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  Speaker 5: that you can spend on a coffee or whatever, the
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  Speaker 5: least amount thing. So if it's, like, a regular black
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  Speaker 5: cup of coffee, fine. Get that, but then you come
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  Speaker 5: back and just get a refill of an iced coffee
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  Speaker 5: or iced tea. You don't have to keep doing the
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  Speaker 5: same thing. coffee oh I.
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  Speaker 4: Thought you had to do the same drink for sure
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  Speaker 4: because I've definitely seen like the stay here coffee cups
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  Speaker 4: at Starbucks like they're all tucked away really cute for
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  Speaker 4: the people that do stay and work there but I
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  Speaker 4: didn't know that that's actually kind of genius.
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  Speaker 2: So where does it say if you're a gold I
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  Speaker 2: just opened up my app where to see if I'm
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  Speaker 2: a gold club person Oh, gold status. Look who's hanging
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  Speaker 2: out at Starbucks today.
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  Speaker 5: Gold status.
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  Speaker 6: Gold status. I could walk in and be like, step aside,
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  Speaker 6: gold status.
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  Speaker 4: That's right.
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  Speaker 5: Look at this, gold status.
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  Speaker 6: So I still got to buy my first cup.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, but you don't have to do the little cute
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  Speaker 1: coffee cups there when you're working there. You can just
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  Speaker 1: do a regular like, you know, I know it's like environmental,
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  Speaker 1: not safe and whatever. You have plastic cups, but You know,
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  Speaker 1: that's how you get your, like, you know, your coffee.
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  Speaker 5: And then you can go get your ice. But they don't,
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  Speaker 5: you know, frown on you for getting a different beverage.
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  Speaker 5: It's unlimited, but you just got to purchase your first.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, that's interesting. Okay. Well, Chanel, let me ask you something.
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  Speaker 6: Do you make your bed every day when you get
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  Speaker 6: out of bed?
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  Speaker 2: I do.
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  Speaker 6: You do? You know, I just had this. Check this out.
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  Speaker 2: People who make the bed the moment they get out
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  Speaker 2: of bed, even in hotel rooms, usually share these nine
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  Speaker 2: traits that show up everywhere else in their life.
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  Speaker 6: OK. OK.
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  Speaker 2: So I wonder if this is you, because this is
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  Speaker 2: very much my my wife, Blake. So if you make
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  Speaker 2: your bed the moment again, Rich, you've talked about it.
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  Speaker 6: You do that.
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  Speaker 3: In fact, even when Stacy's in it, I still make
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  Speaker 3: my side.
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  Speaker 6: My wife, we were in a hotel. My wife always
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  Speaker 6: makes the bed in the hotel when we go.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to come back and see it
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  Speaker 3: all messy.
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  Speaker 2: So one of the things they do, so tell me
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  Speaker 2: this is you. They need to start the day with
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  Speaker 2: one completed task. A woman with curly hair wearing a
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  Speaker 2: black dress smiles while placing a teal pillow in a
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  Speaker 2: neatly made bed with white linen surrounded by curtains. The
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  Speaker 2: bed's the first task of the morning, and they close
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  Speaker 2: it immediately. Before the day is asked anything of them,
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  Speaker 2: it's done. They've done something. So does that make sense?
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  Speaker 4: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: They compartmentalize naturally. Sleep is one mode. The day is another.
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  Speaker 2: And the maid bed is where one ends and the
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  Speaker 2: other begins. I can see that mentally too.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: They use the environment to manage their mood. A maid
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  Speaker 2: bed changes the room. The shift follows them, shaping how
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  Speaker 2: they walk back at the end of the night. They've
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  Speaker 2: learned probably without even naming it that the state of
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  Speaker 2: the space around them affects the state of their mind.
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  Speaker 6: So I guess messy bed. I agree.
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  Speaker 2: They take care of the future self. That's what they're doing.
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  Speaker 2: The bed isn't made for now. It's made for tonight
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  Speaker 2: when they walk into the bedroom tired and they see
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  Speaker 2: a clean surface.
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  Speaker 6: Makes sense. They create structure before the day asks for it.
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  Speaker 2: By the time the first email arrives or the first
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  Speaker 2: kid needs a ride, they've already.
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  Speaker 6: Built a foundation. Makes sense.
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  Speaker 5: Exactly.
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  Speaker 2: They register unfinished tasks in their body. They register unfinished
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  Speaker 2: tasks in their body. An unmade bed doesn't bother them
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  Speaker 2: the way a mess bothers a neat person. It bothers
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  Speaker 2: them the way an open parentheses bothers an editor.
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  Speaker 4: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: They're hard to knock off the routine. They process stress
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  Speaker 2: by working with their hands. They know the difference between
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  Speaker 2: control and order. Control is anxious. It's about making the
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  Speaker 2: world behave and it tightens when anything resists. Order is personal.
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  Speaker 2: It's about keeping your own corner steady. Does that make
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  Speaker 2: sense to you guys?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, it totally does.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, totally makes sense.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: And in fact, with a hand thing, you know, that's
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  Speaker 5: so important to be hands on with your like significant other.
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  Speaker 5: A massage for each other, like at nighttime, like with
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  Speaker 5: the seat and stuff. I don't know what it is,
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  Speaker 5: but puts you to sleep, knocked out.
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  Speaker 6: But if you're the one giving the massage, it keeps
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  Speaker 6: you awake. You get excited. You get aroused.
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  Speaker 5: No, no.
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  Speaker 1: Just me?
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  Speaker 5: No, if you lay upside down, like, you're at their
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  Speaker 5: feet and the feet are his. You know what I mean?
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  Speaker 4: I just did that the other day.
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  Speaker 6: That's nice.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh.
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  Speaker 5: That is so good. Knocked out. That's the only thing
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  Speaker 5: I miss about my ex, by the way.
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  Speaker 6: So, your way, you're saying his head is by your feet,
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  Speaker 6: massaging your feet. We're like at.
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  Speaker 5: The same time doing it.
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  Speaker 2: You know what's funny is the same hotel I was
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  Speaker 2: in last weekend with my wife where she made the bed,
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  Speaker 2: I tried to do that and she tooted.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, my. And I go, did you just? And she goes, yes.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, hey, all right, well, this is done.
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  Speaker 6: You got to real relax. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 5: You got to relax.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I might have been hitting that part on her
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  Speaker 6: foot that causes that. Oh, yeah. That's reflex. Reflexology. Yeah,
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  Speaker 6: that's important. Chanel, thanks a lot for the hacks and
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  Speaker 6: thanks for calling in.
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  Speaker 1: Hey, no problem.
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  Speaker 6: I love you guys.
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  Speaker 4: Thank you.
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  Speaker 6: Have a great day.
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  Speaker 3: You too.