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Journals From The Mansion with Trista Sutter and Daisy Kent · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost famous podcast
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Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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Speaker 2: HII everybody, It's Trista and I'm jumping in here for
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Speaker 2: an almost famous podcast. I'm so excited because I love
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Speaker 2: our guest today. She's a fan favorite, of course, and
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Speaker 2: she's one of my favorites too, Daisy Kent soon to
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Speaker 2: be soon to be Daisy? What what were you? Will
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Speaker 2: you change your last name?
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Speaker 3: Yeah? What will it be here?
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Speaker 2: How are you beautiful? It's so good to see you.
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Speaker 3: I am so good. It's so good to talk to you.
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Speaker 3: I've missed you.
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Speaker 2: I know I miss you too. So if you guys
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Speaker 2: don't know this, I'm sure you do because you are
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Speaker 2: almost famous fans. And all of our almost famous fans
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Speaker 2: know all about our like spinoff podcast, and Daisy has
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Speaker 2: one of those. It's called Dirty Rush. How are you
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Speaker 2: are you loving the podcast? Are you loving doing it?
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Speaker 3: I am loving it. It's so much fun and it's
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Speaker 3: crazy hearing all of the stories. We just recorded one
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Speaker 3: where it was like completely anonymous, so we didn't even
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Speaker 3: talk to the people that are going to be on it.
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Speaker 3: So I'm excited to hear that because they wanted to
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Speaker 3: keep it like very anonymous. So it's interesting because everyone
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Speaker 3: on it is usually anonymous, and so they're saying all
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Speaker 3: this like very like all these things that in a
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Speaker 3: sorority you're like not supposed to talk about. So it's
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Speaker 3: been really cool.
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Speaker 2: Oh you see, I want to listen. Yes, I know
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Speaker 2: I've talked about We've talked about me being on it.
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Speaker 2: I did talk to Jen Fessler I don't know last
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Speaker 2: week and love her so much. Fun. You and Gia
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Speaker 2: and Jen are such a good trio. It makes me jealous,
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Speaker 2: Like I'm like, why didn't you guys ask me to
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Speaker 2: do it? I want to do it.
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Speaker 3: We'll have to have you on.
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Speaker 2: Well, you know, and Blakesley will be graduating high school
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Speaker 2: next year.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, is she going to be in a sorority?
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Speaker 2: Well, I don't know, that's what I mean. So if
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Speaker 2: you're if you're still doing the podcast, which you will be,
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Speaker 2: I will definitely be having lots of feels and feelings
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Speaker 2: and thoughts about the sorority rush process.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, yeah, I will.
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Speaker 2: I will. Okay. So Ben and Ashley recently read some
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Speaker 2: of their journals from their time in the mansion, and
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Speaker 2: this episode will be you and I reading from our journals.
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Speaker 2: Which is so funny. I don't. I know, I have
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Speaker 2: multiple journals, but I only I only looked for one
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Speaker 2: of them. It was this one. It is it was
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Speaker 2: actually what we gave guests at our wedding. So it's
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Speaker 2: a little picture of Brian and I and it says
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Speaker 2: dream on it.
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Speaker 3: Thank you.
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Speaker 2: It's it's pink, of course, and it was like I
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Speaker 2: was like, oh, I love a journal. So we gave
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Speaker 2: everybody journals. Everyone else probably threw them away, but I
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Speaker 2: of course kept mine.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that. That's so cute. What a great idea.
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Speaker 2: I mean, you know who doesn't love a journal? So
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Speaker 2: so I found mine and you found yours. Do you
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Speaker 2: have one or multiple? What was your journal experience like
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Speaker 2: on the show?
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Speaker 3: I just have my one, and it's like, comeful, amazing.
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Speaker 2: I mean that's what you want from a journal, right,
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Speaker 2: like they're actually this one. Well I do have more,
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Speaker 2: but there is another. I have another one of these.
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Speaker 3: Yah know.
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Speaker 2: I had a bunch left over that I kept stuff
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Speaker 2: about Max when he was a baby, and I filled
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Speaker 2: probably like ten pages. So it makes me sad because
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Speaker 2: I'm like it's all blank, you know, so filling up
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Speaker 2: your entire entire journal is very well done, girl, Yeah,
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Speaker 2: very well.
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Speaker 3: I was like, because I feel like when you're on
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Speaker 3: the show, you don't. I mean, you have producers and
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Speaker 3: like the friend or like the girls that you make
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Speaker 3: friends with, but a lot of the times you're like
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Speaker 3: alone with your own thoughts. I used to journal all
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Speaker 3: the time, so the show actually got me back into journaling,
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Speaker 3: which is fun because like this whole crazy life experience
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Speaker 3: I've had since the show, I have it all journaled,
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Speaker 3: which is really fun to look back on it.
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Speaker 2: And honestly, it's therapeutic for me. Like that's why I
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Speaker 2: journaled during the show when I was on the Bachelor,
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Speaker 2: and I'm pretty sure I journaled during the Bachelor too,
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Speaker 2: But it was very therapeutic to be able to just
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Speaker 2: write my thoughts down. And also, like, I wrote a book,
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Speaker 2: and I'm not bringing this up because I'm like, you know, saying,
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Speaker 2: go read my book. But in my book, I want.
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Speaker 3: To read your book.
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Speaker 2: Oh thanks. It's about gratitude and and one of the
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Speaker 2: like scientific findings I found was that if you write
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Speaker 2: things down, if you're if you're having hard time with something,
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Speaker 2: if you write something down, and really if you throw
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Speaker 2: it away. But in this case, just the journal, just
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Speaker 2: writing it down and getting it off your mind so
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Speaker 2: you can actually focus on the present. I felt like
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Speaker 2: was very therapeutic for me in a way, for me
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Speaker 2: to like deal with my feelings and feel like I
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Speaker 2: was talking to someone even though I wasn't talking to
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Speaker 2: another sermon.
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Speaker 3: But you know, I feel like it makes you like
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Speaker 3: comprehend things more.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally agree. I agree. Okay, do you want
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Speaker 2: to go first or do you want me to go first?
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Speaker 3: I don't care.
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Speaker 2: I can go first, Okay, go for it. So Daisy
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Speaker 2: is going to read her journal entry well else he
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Speaker 2: was on the Bachelor, So.
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Speaker 3: I thought it'd be fun to read the first journal
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Speaker 3: entry that I did, because yep, I feel like everyone's
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Speaker 3: always wondering, like what's it like like when you first
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Speaker 3: show up? And I feel like this really shows it
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Speaker 3: and like what I was thinking. Okay, So this was
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Speaker 3: on September fifteenth, that's so two years ago. I think
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Speaker 3: I just have somethime, okkay, and I like titled each
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Speaker 3: of the journal entries and so I see it did yeah,
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Speaker 3: and so I said, and so it begins. That was
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Speaker 3: the title of this. Willie picked me up in a
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Speaker 3: black suv. The driver's name was Willy. He had a
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Speaker 3: lot of sacks and I ate butterscotch candies the whole
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Speaker 3: way there. The drive took four hours because there was
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Speaker 3: so much traffic in la. He told me about marrying
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Speaker 3: his wife and how it was so unexpected. We arrived
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Speaker 3: at the hotel and it was really fast. Everyone brought
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Speaker 3: my bags up and gave me some info and left.
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Speaker 3: They took my phone the second week gone inside, which
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Speaker 3: I wasn't expecting. I asked them if I could call
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Speaker 3: my mom, and so I called her and my dad
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Speaker 3: and said goodbye. But it was literally so fast I
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Speaker 3: thought I would have longer to talk to them. It
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Speaker 3: hit me then now that this process is really starting.
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Speaker 3: I met Steph, my producer, which made me feel a
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Speaker 3: lot more calm. And it's really cool because I'm still
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Speaker 3: like super super close to Steph. Tomorrow they said I
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Speaker 3: do promo shoots. I don't even know what that means
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Speaker 3: and I don't have a frim key. They let me
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Speaker 3: out in I can't go anywhere. I wonder what is
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Speaker 3: going through my family's minds and my friends. I have
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Speaker 3: a good feeling about this. I have a good feeling
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Speaker 3: about how this is going to go. But I just
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Speaker 3: wonder what they all think about me right now. I'm
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Speaker 3: feeling like I haven't caught my breath since I got here.
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Speaker 3: It's also crazy because I've never met this person before
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Speaker 3: and he could possibly be my husband. I want to
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Speaker 3: send pictures to my family about everything going on. It's
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Speaker 3: crazy and I won't be able to tell my family
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Speaker 3: and friends all of this until the end. But I
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Speaker 3: could just go home tomorrow. We don't really even know
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Speaker 3: it's day two tomorrow.
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Speaker 2: And wow.
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Speaker 3: Also, picking out outfits is really hard without all your friends.
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Speaker 3: I'm figuring out good night. I guess I'll let you
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Speaker 3: guys know how tomorrow goes.
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Speaker 2: That's so cute. Oh my god, it's so true because
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Speaker 2: I feel like you. I mean, even if you've watched
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Speaker 2: the show, you really don't know like how it all
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Speaker 2: goes down. And those little moments are like you learning
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Speaker 2: about how, oh you think you're going to be able
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Speaker 2: to have this long journ up conversation with your parents
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Speaker 2: and say goodbye, and I'm you know you really just
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Speaker 2: basically they're like, Okay, here's the phone, Okay, say goodbye. Okay,
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Speaker 2: maybe now we need the phone. Back.
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Speaker 3: It's literally like so fast and there's nothing like it too.
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Speaker 3: That's why I think a lot of times people don't
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Speaker 3: understand because you literally I remember when I was in
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Speaker 3: like at the finale and I had to turn on
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Speaker 3: my phone because they needed some like information from something,
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Speaker 3: and so I had to turn on my phone to
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Speaker 3: like get it. But they were like had it in
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Speaker 3: like the envelope sealed and then they open it handed
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Speaker 3: it to me and I turned it on and all
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Speaker 3: I saw was a text for my mom, and it
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Speaker 3: was like, I miss you so much, thinking about you
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Speaker 3: every day. I love you, and I'm remember just seeing
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Speaker 3: that I like popped up right when I needed it,
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Speaker 3: and I was like, oh my gosh. But besides that,
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Speaker 3: I didn't see my phone at all.
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Speaker 2: So how are you feeling reading that back? Does it
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Speaker 2: put you back into that space?
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Speaker 3: Honestly, it's like I just think about I had such
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Speaker 3: a positive experience. At times it was like really hard,
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Speaker 3: but I think like reading it it just makes me
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Speaker 3: think that like everything happened for a reason and kind
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Speaker 3: of just like validates it. And like last night I
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Speaker 3: was like going through like reading some of it and
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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my gosh, even all the stuff
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Speaker 3: that I haven't about, like learning about myself like a
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Speaker 3: ton I write how like all the producers and everyone
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Speaker 3: told me that I was like kind of pushing like
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Speaker 3: things that have happened to me in the past, whether
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Speaker 3: it was like medical or like in a relationship, like
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Speaker 3: pushing it aside and being like, oh, like this is
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Speaker 3: like totally okay that this happened. And they were all like,
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Speaker 3: it's not okay that that happened, Like you need to
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Speaker 3: start understanding that, like this doesn't normally happen to people.
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Speaker 3: And so I think they helped me like accept like
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Speaker 3: a lot of things and realize like the purpose kind
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Speaker 3: of behind like everything that had happened in my life.
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Speaker 3: So it is really cool to look back at that
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Speaker 3: part too.
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Speaker 2: What would you say to her now that that younger Daisy,
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Speaker 2: if you had the.
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Speaker 3: Chance, I would tell her to feel everything. I think
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Speaker 3: I think I've well, I think I've always felt everything,
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Speaker 3: but I think I know I didn't. I think I
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Speaker 3: like numbed a lot of it. And I was like
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Speaker 3: I was like, this is okay that this happened, and
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Speaker 3: like it just happened to me because but then like
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Speaker 3: realizing like no, it's not okay like that certain things
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Speaker 3: happened and it's okay to be mad and angry about
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Speaker 3: them and like work through that.
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Speaker 2: Totally feel everything, because you can only get better by
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Speaker 2: feeling it, you know, even the bad stuff. That's how
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Speaker 2: I think.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, when I was reading my journal, I this fell
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Speaker 3: out of it and I was like, oh my gosh.
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Speaker 3: So my dad wrote me this and he like sealed
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Speaker 3: it with wax and he was like, open it like
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Speaker 3: when you really need it. And I remember I was.
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Speaker 3: I opened it right before I was like going in
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Speaker 3: and walking out of the limo because I was like
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Speaker 3: freaking out. I was like, okay, I'll probably read it
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Speaker 3: like later on. But I opened it and he just
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Speaker 3: said Daisy Bob because they called my dad calls me
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Speaker 3: Bopper because when I was like little, that was my nickname.
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Speaker 3: But he said, he said, Daisy Bob, you have all
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Speaker 3: you need with and all things are possible through love.
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Speaker 3: Thank cute.
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Speaker 2: That is really sweet.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I forgot about that until last night when
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Speaker 3: I like opened it up and I was like, whoa.
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Speaker 2: Oh, that's a treasure you need to like hold on,
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Speaker 2: like frame it or yeah, you know right, that's such
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Speaker 2: a treasure. How have you changed since that moment, since
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Speaker 2: writing that passage.
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Speaker 3: I think like so much. I'm definitely the thing that
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Speaker 3: the show helped me the most with, I think is confidence,
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Speaker 3: because not that I was very insecure before, but there
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Speaker 3: were definitely a lot of things like I was insecure
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Speaker 3: and like worried about, especially regarding all my medical things.
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Speaker 3: And I think the show, like it really helped me
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Speaker 3: like become confident and also showed me like to trust myself,
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Speaker 3: because I think so often when you're like in relationships
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Speaker 3: and when you're doing anything, you always look from validation
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Speaker 3: from like your family and your friends because they're the
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Speaker 3: people closest to you. But I think it really taught
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Speaker 3: me like more so to trust myself and understand myself more.
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Speaker 3: If that makes sense.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, completely, completely makes sense. And I love that you
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Speaker 2: that you experienced that because you should feel confident. You're
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Speaker 2: a beautiful, powerful woman, and yeah, you should feel all
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Speaker 2: of those feelings.
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Speaker 3: Thank you. I can't wait to hear yours.
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Speaker 2: Oh boy. Okay, so this was and it says October
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Speaker 2: question mark. So we have no idea and this is
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Speaker 2: two thousand and two.
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Speaker 3: Okay.
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Speaker 2: I did a lot of writing and you know what's funny.
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Speaker 2: The title for this is the beginning of our love story.
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Speaker 2: I love that this was just I think I just
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Speaker 2: wrote about Ryan in this one. I might have even
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Speaker 2: if memory serves me right, I feel like I might
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Speaker 2: have taken the elements that I wrote in my other
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Speaker 2: journals and just like wrote one specific journal about me
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Speaker 2: and Ryan in this one.
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Speaker 3: So that's cool.
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Speaker 2: Okay, So this says my day with Ryan could not
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Speaker 2: have been better. We started at the firehouse, meeting his friends,
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Speaker 2: sliding down the poole, writing in the track and bucket,
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Speaker 2: then moved to the wedding deck at the top of
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Speaker 2: Veal Mountain for sunset, and onto his house to meet
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Speaker 2: Barb and Bob, my in laws now and Natasha, his
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Speaker 2: husky at the time the fire station started. The started
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Speaker 2: the kisses in the top of the bucket with Jake,
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Speaker 2: his friend Jake's verbal suggestion. And then at sunset and
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Speaker 2: Ryan met one of my number one criteria good kisser.
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Speaker 3: That is key.
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Speaker 2: That's day. We toasted at sunset. I said to a
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Speaker 2: beautiful day with a beautiful man, and he said to
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Speaker 2: living life and taking chances. And actually that so my mom.
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Speaker 2: I don't know if you've heard of sticks furniture, It's
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Speaker 2: like this furniture that you can get like like they
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Speaker 2: will put quotes into the wood, like burn it into
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Speaker 2: the wood and like kind of created. However, you it's
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Speaker 2: like kind of like whimsical and hand painted anyway, So
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Speaker 2: living life and taking chances is actually burned onto one
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Speaker 2: of the pieces of furniture. After we had our sip,
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Speaker 2: he wanted to risk something he had been dying all
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Speaker 2: day to kiss me, and they would kill him his
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Speaker 2: friends if he didn't. So we kissed our first real kiss.
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Speaker 2: Because at this point it was just like like a
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Speaker 2: peck or you know whatever.
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Speaker 3: It wasn't like a kiss really, and you were at hometowns.
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Speaker 2: We were at hometowns.
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Speaker 3: And you would only like each other on the cheek.
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Speaker 2: I mean, so he had kissed me like on the lips,
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Speaker 2: but it wasn't like it wasn't real, Like it wasn't
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Speaker 2: it was just like a not an afterthought. But I
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Speaker 2: feel like he felt like, oh, but you know, I
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Speaker 2: just have to do this, or I felt like, oh,
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Speaker 2: I'm coming in for a kiss, but he wasn't really ready,
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Speaker 2: and you know, laying the groundwork going into the show,
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Speaker 2: I was called every name in the book because I
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Speaker 2: was the girl like choosing the guys and the first
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Speaker 2: person who had done it, and so every you know,
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Speaker 2: I didn't want to look like a slut and like
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Speaker 2: going in and kissing all these guys, So I was
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Speaker 2: very conscientious about not kissing everybody. Yeah, okay, so and
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Speaker 2: at that moment everyone else disappeared. I didn't want it
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Speaker 2: to end, although I also didn't want to go too fast.
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Speaker 2: It was picture perfect, the stuff that dreams are made of,
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Speaker 2: and who could forget it was on the wedding deck
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Speaker 2: after our first After that moment, I bonded with the family,
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Speaker 2: including Natasha. What a beautiful dog. We joked in the
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Speaker 2: car that my pants looked similar to something he could
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Speaker 2: see his mom in. It couldn't have been a more
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Speaker 2: foreshadowing beat because we walked in and Barb and I
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Speaker 2: were practically twins. It was hilarious. They seemed genuinely impressed
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Speaker 2: and satisfied that Ryan was happy. But not until they
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Speaker 2: left it Ryan and I really get to connect. We
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Speaker 2: cuddled on the couch and the best part we had
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Speaker 2: our first passionate kiss.
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Speaker 1: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: I could have stayed in that moment forever. He was
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Speaker 2: the best kisser ever. Those lips, I can hardly stand it.
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Speaker 2: The day was absolute perfection, even without the note. Ryan
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Speaker 2: handed me a letter under the table, explaining his feelings
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Speaker 2: and telling me that he was falling in love. I
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Speaker 2: read it to Lisa, who was my exec producer. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: she cried the fact that he didn't watch the show
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Speaker 2: endears me to him even more. He asked me what
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Speaker 2: I would do with my last name after I got married,
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Speaker 2: and said, Trista Setter sounds pretty good, too cute.
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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's so cute. Do you still have
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Speaker 3: the letter he wrote you?
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Speaker 2: Oh? Yes, Oh yes, that's in my safe.
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Speaker 3: That is so special.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, have the letter. I have all of his poems,
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Speaker 2: I save everything. So yeah, yeah, I mean it just
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Speaker 2: brings back the best memory is like, you know, obviously
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Speaker 2: it was such a weird way to meet my husband,
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Speaker 2: and he is so not the person to be on
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Speaker 2: the Bachelorette. Yeah, so not the person. I love that though, Yeah,
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Speaker 2: totally so Like reading my words just takes me right
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Speaker 2: back to it. And I cherished this cherishing.
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Speaker 3: I love that. That's so cool that you documented all
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Speaker 3: of it.
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Speaker 2: I mean I tried it. Actually, it's funny because I'm
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Speaker 2: pretty sure that oh it's funny because I kept reading.
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Speaker 2: On November twenty second, I said, wow, has time passed?
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Speaker 2: The one moment in life when I should have recorded
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Speaker 2: every step is left to my memory. I'm like, damn it,
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Speaker 2: I didn't. You know, you get so busy as the
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Speaker 2: lead that you like it, you just don't have a
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Speaker 2: lot of time to write. Yeah, even though I wanted
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Speaker 2: to write all the time, I just I was bad
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Speaker 2: about it. So anyway, I love that I have. I
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Speaker 2: have that moment at least, you know.
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Speaker 3: That is awesome. That's like so special.
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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, I mean really and and you know, like
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Speaker 2: looking back, it all worked out clearly and it always
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Speaker 2: does as it should. And I feel like I wish
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Speaker 2: because my biggest regret from the show is not telling
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Speaker 2: him when I was actually developing feelings because I didn't
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Speaker 2: want to show all my cards because of what had
19:38
Speaker 2: happened to me on The Bachelor, Like I got to
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Speaker 2: the you know, the final rose ceremony, thought he was
19:43
Speaker 2: legitimately going to propose and got my heart broken, and
19:46
Speaker 2: so when I became the lead, I was like, well,
19:48
Speaker 2: I don't want to show all my cards because what
19:51
Speaker 2: if he says something that like is a total deal breaker,
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Speaker 2: like the last day. Because we've only known each other
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Speaker 2: for six weeks, you know, so I really were not
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Speaker 2: opening up as much. So I wish I if I
20:03
Speaker 2: could go back and tell that Trista, that version of
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Speaker 2: myself and anything, it would be to just feel all
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Speaker 2: the feelings and express those feelings, especially to him.
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Speaker 3: So anyway, that's so special. Well you can have you
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Speaker 3: like gone, But has he read your journals of like
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Speaker 3: what you wrote about him?
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Speaker 2: I feel like possibly, maybe, but I don't know that
20:29
Speaker 2: we've ever like sat down. Yeah, you know, yeah, maybe
20:35
Speaker 2: he'll just watch this. He'll just listen to this podcast
20:37
Speaker 2: and be like, oh I got to I got to read.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, he just got Did he watch the show when
20:42
Speaker 3: it was airing?
20:44
Speaker 2: He started to He had like viewing parties in bail
20:48
Speaker 2: with like, you know, a bunch of people, and I
20:54
Speaker 2: think the first episode he was like, Okay, I can't
20:57
Speaker 2: do this. I can't watch her like with other guys.
20:59
Speaker 2: You know, we were engaged at the time, so he
21:01
Speaker 2: was like, I really don't need to watch this at all.
21:06
Speaker 2: So he watched like I think maybe the first maybe
21:09
Speaker 2: the second episode, and.
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Speaker 3: Then yeah, he didn't watch the rest.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, not necessary. I feel like there is something to
21:19
Speaker 2: these journal entries. We need to do more of this,
21:22
Speaker 2: like have more people come on the show. I would
21:25
Speaker 2: love to do like a little spin off of just
21:28
Speaker 2: having people come and really reconnect with the person that
21:33
Speaker 2: they were on the show and like what they would
21:35
Speaker 2: tell that person because I feel like people learn, you know,
21:39
Speaker 2: from their experiences. That would be so cool to learn
21:43
Speaker 2: about what everyone learned, you know, and what they, you know,
21:47
Speaker 2: truly were feeling in the moment, because once you get
21:52
Speaker 2: off the show, I feel like, you know, it kind
21:55
Speaker 2: of gets jumbled up in your mind, like it gets
21:57
Speaker 2: recreated because of what other people are telling you they
22:00
Speaker 2: saw and you know that sort of thing. So I
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Speaker 2: love just getting into that moment with everybody. Anyway, thank
22:08
Speaker 2: you so much for sharing your journal entry.
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Speaker 3: It was so fun to hear yours too.
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Speaker 2: Thank you. We love having you on. Daisy Please come
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Speaker 2: back and everyone continue to listen to Almost Famous. Thanks
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Speaker 2: for listening.
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