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"It's too early to be cute" · The Casey Clarke Show

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Speaker 1: It will else would be a really cool job, as
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Speaker 1: the one Casey had many moons ago being a host
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Speaker 1: of CMT.
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Speaker 2: I'll go with you on that one. That one was
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Speaker 2: a lot of fun totally.
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Speaker 1: You get to meet everybody who is anybody in the industry,
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Speaker 1: and it would be so cool.
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Speaker 2: That one crushed this job.
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Speaker 3: And then the life skillet taught you was the life skill.
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Speaker 3: You can count backwards.
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Speaker 2: I can count hang on only from forty though, go
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Speaker 2: to forty one. I go to forty one. Things getting
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Speaker 2: really mixed up.
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Speaker 4: Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 2: Hi, if you just popped in, we're asking you, would
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Speaker 2: you ever hire family to do anything for you, whether
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Speaker 2: that be you know, a mechanic or yard work, renos,
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Speaker 2: a lawyer.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's like a full on service. It's not
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Speaker 6: just a little favor. Hey, I'm over at your house
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Speaker 6: on a Saturday afternoon. Let me help you with this.
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Speaker 6: This is actually hiring them to provide a service, and
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Speaker 6: then you hey them, would you actually do that?
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Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't think i'd do my family. I would
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Speaker 2: do in laws in a heartbeat. Yeah, right, like in
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Speaker 2: a heartbeat.
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Speaker 6: Okay, your most of your family are like bus drivers.
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Speaker 2: Right, two of them are? Ye six Yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 3: I think that's a pretty good percentage.
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Speaker 6: It is.
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Speaker 2: Actually out of six kids, two of them are bus drivers.
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Speaker 2: I would think so.
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Speaker 6: So like you, I'm sure you would be okay with
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Speaker 6: your family driving you somewhere.
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Speaker 2: Driving me, like, hire them as a driver, like a
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Speaker 2: personal driver. Right, Do I have to talk to them?
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Speaker 3: No?
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Speaker 2: See that's the problem. See, because their family, the expectation
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Speaker 2: on their end is we would interact the expectation on
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Speaker 2: my end we would not.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, right, so as long as you lay out
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Speaker 6: the groundwork first of all.
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Speaker 2: You know, when they're driving me around and he asked
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Speaker 2: me questions like that has a like listen, I don't.
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Speaker 2: I don't mingle with the hired help. I just try
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Speaker 2: to keep it, you know, pretty professional. So you know,
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Speaker 2: eyes on road. Okay, do that.
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Speaker 3: Too, moms later.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, by the way, you're you're trying to pick up mom.
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Speaker 2: But that's that's as personal as I'm going to. Yeah.
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Speaker 3: No, I guess it's tough.
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Speaker 2: Joline. You said you, yeah, you would hire family to
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Speaker 2: do certain things. What about what about being your doctor?
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Speaker 7: Uh No, I don't know how my doctor.
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Speaker 8: Might be kind of weird.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I what what about a friend to be your doctor?
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Speaker 9: I don't know.
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Speaker 7: I think maybe, I mean, there might be some pluses
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Speaker 7: in a friend or family being your doctor, only in
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Speaker 7: the fact that they would maybe know you a little
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Speaker 7: bit better to the know things. But then there's other
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Speaker 7: things that maybe you wouldn't want them to know.
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Speaker 2: I guess.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, there we go.
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Speaker 2: And do you want a friend poking you? You know
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Speaker 2: what I mean, like sticking fingers and stuff. You know
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Speaker 2: what I mean? Probably not right.
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Speaker 6: And then you can't lie to your doctor friend either,
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Speaker 6: like how many drinks a week do you have?
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Speaker 10: Oh?
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Speaker 3: I only have a couple. Are you sure? Because I
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Speaker 3: saw you on Sunday?
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Speaker 2: Well, I see my doctor is a friend of mine.
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Speaker 2: And so when he asked me that question, we both
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Speaker 2: just laugh.
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Speaker 3: That's cute.
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Speaker 2: It is cute. He goes, you know, I'm gonna have
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Speaker 2: to ask you. I'm like, I know, it's it's it's
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Speaker 2: it's on the chart. I get it, and.
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna have to lie to you. And it's a
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Speaker 3: fun game we play.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we just lie to each other and we just
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Speaker 2: move on with our lives. If you just hopped in
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Speaker 2: we're talking about hiring family to do anything, or family
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Speaker 2: or friends to do anything for you, whether it's cleaning
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Speaker 2: your house, being a doctor, mechanic, what about a lawyer?
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Speaker 2: Oh no, no, I think that would be one of
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Speaker 2: the things I would lean into a family or friend.
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Speaker 6: Maybe go to them for some legal advice and pay
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Speaker 6: them if you have extensive conversations A.
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Speaker 2: Friend of ours did our family will.
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Speaker 3: Okay, that's good? Yeah, and you paid them?
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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, okay good. I've used friends for real estate, Yeah, transactions.
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Speaker 6: I think a lot of people do. I think that's
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Speaker 6: something that we're all very comfortable with.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's friends with real estate. Isn't that weird
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Speaker 2: that we're okay with that? But we're not, in your case,
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Speaker 2: okay with somebody looking at your teeth? Oh? Man? You
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Speaker 2: know what I mean?
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Speaker 6: I think that is the worst thing to have a
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Speaker 6: family or friend be your dentist.
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Speaker 2: Really, Like, you're okay with somebody taking care of the
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Speaker 2: biggest purchase you'll ever do in your life, but you're
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Speaker 2: not okay with somebody looking at your teeth. Nope.
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Speaker 6: I have a cousin who's a dental hygienist, and I
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Speaker 6: would I would never want her to stick her fingers.
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Speaker 2: Why No, I don't know.
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Speaker 3: It's so weird.
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Speaker 2: That is weird.
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Speaker 3: I don't like it.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't kidding? Uh, Kat, would you be okay hiring family?
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Speaker 7: Yes?
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Speaker 2: You would.
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Speaker 3: You don't think it's important to keep it separate?
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Speaker 7: No, so of course there's that mine, but only because
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Speaker 7: I was my mother's cleaning lady for decades.
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Speaker 11: Oh really absolutely?
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Speaker 2: And she paid you?
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Speaker 8: Ah, yeah, darn you and she did.
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Speaker 2: She did she tip you?
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Speaker 7: No?
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Speaker 2: Oh sounds like something mom would do, yes, right, Yeah, okay, interesting,
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Speaker 2: I think that would be.
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Speaker 6: I don't know if i'd want family to clean my
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Speaker 6: home because I just don't want them going through my stuff.
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Speaker 2: Like why, what's wrong with Yourself's something wrong with it?
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Speaker 6: And I don't have anything weird. I just I don't know.
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Speaker 6: It makes sense.
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Speaker 2: Sounds like you have something weird.
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Speaker 11: That's kind of what I'm thinking.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Cat, right, Like it sounds like you're hiding something.
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Speaker 12: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
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Speaker 2: Now, okay, let's play thirty second name game thirty seconds
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Speaker 2: on the clock, and Heather, here's the thing. You got
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Speaker 2: to name ten different items inside that time frame. But
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Speaker 2: you just don't know what the topic is until just
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Speaker 2: before the timer begins. Okay, okay, all right, okay.
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Speaker 6: Here we go, Heather, we need you to name ten
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Speaker 6: things you might hear while at the beach.
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Speaker 13: Go, get off my blankets. Content, let's put it in
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Speaker 13: the water. Why is your dog running?
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Speaker 2: Free?
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Speaker 7: Cooler?
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Speaker 2: Where did you put my towels? The baby's crying?
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Speaker 13: Can we go home now?
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Speaker 7: Oh it's too hot?
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Speaker 13: Can let's let's uh, let's let's go for a nap
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Speaker 13: under the tree.
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Speaker 2: Lady you can't sleep? Yeah, that was so good. A lady,
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Speaker 2: you can't sleep here? Come on moving along.
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Speaker 14: Some We're so good, Heather, easy, feasy, right, I gotta
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Speaker 14: go back to bed.
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Speaker 11: That was dressful.
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Speaker 2: No, you're fine.
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Speaker 4: You're Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 2: If you just popped in. We're talking about our family
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Speaker 2: going from a three car family listen, because our oldest
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Speaker 2: goes university and works and now we're going to be
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Speaker 2: a four car family. Which listen, I never thought we
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Speaker 2: would ever be a four car family. Right now, we're
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Speaker 2: going to be a four car family.
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Speaker 3: What did you think was going to happen before? I
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Speaker 3: don't know, you were like crossed?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I was just in denial. Yeah, I know,
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Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I just I really thought
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Speaker 2: a lot of my friends are that have two kids
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Speaker 2: us their four car families, and I'm like, wow, that's crazy.
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Speaker 3: That just seems like a lot.
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Speaker 6: I don't know a lot of homes that are equipped
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Speaker 6: with being able to fit four cars driveways or garage it.
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Speaker 6: So that's why I'm like, that just seems like a
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Speaker 6: lot of vehicles.
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Speaker 2: It's a lot of vehicles. It's like I have a
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Speaker 2: mini car lot. I don't disagree with you on that
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Speaker 2: of any of those things.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, And I'm just I just think, why can't your
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Speaker 6: daughter's carpool like my sister and I.
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Speaker 2: Had to in high school? Yeah, you were an adults yet.
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Speaker 3: But we were all still living at home.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, like when I when I moved out and my
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Speaker 6: sister moved out, that was when we fully got our
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Speaker 6: own vehicles.
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Speaker 2: But we felt that when your sister moved back in,
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Speaker 2: did she get rid of her car? No, she was
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Speaker 2: at home.
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Speaker 3: I'm not saying like my plan is foolproof. I also
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Speaker 3: don't have.
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Speaker 6: Kids, so it's at the end of the day, do
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Speaker 6: whatever you want.
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Speaker 2: No, I know, but it was one of these things
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Speaker 2: where you like, well, if there was a better way, listen,
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Speaker 2: if we were living in Manhattan, a.
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Speaker 3: Little different, totally right?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but we're not. Yeah, but it is right, Sam,
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Speaker 2: this is a little different. What do you think.
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Speaker 11: Absolutely not everyone needs a vehicle?
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Speaker 2: Hmmm?
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Speaker 3: I just think.
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Speaker 6: Okay, here, I'm gonna say it. It must be nice
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Speaker 6: to have all that money. That's that's it. I'm just
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Speaker 6: gonna say it must be nice.
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Speaker 3: It's great.
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Speaker 2: She's weaponizing wealth.
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Speaker 11: I hate that because you could have a too session.
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Speaker 6: Well, there was a point in time where my partner
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Speaker 6: and I were thinking of becoming a one vehicle family.
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Speaker 2: Can I ask something from the back? Can I ask
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Speaker 2: something from the back?
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Speaker 3: Sure?
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Speaker 2: What years are your both your vehicles?
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Speaker 3: They're both pretty new?
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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you? Okay, my kids are driving used vehicles. Okay, okay,
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Speaker 2: so it must be nice to have two brand new vehicles.
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Speaker 2: How will we play that game? Hey? Sam? Okay, I agree.
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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm mine the twenty eighteen right now that I'm driving,
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Speaker 11: and i'd.
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Speaker 2: Love I bet you my my kid would love a
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Speaker 2: brand new vehicle. She's driving at twenty seventeen.
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Speaker 3: She'll get there.
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Speaker 2: See you got time.
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Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
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Speaker 2: Okay, earlier today, Sasha was vehicle shame and me because
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Speaker 2: we're going from a two to three. Well, we're already
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Speaker 2: a three car family. Now we're going to a four
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Speaker 2: car family because of our children going into post secondary,
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Speaker 2: they're going to university, they're adults now, they need their
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Speaker 2: own wheels.
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Speaker 3: Okay, got it all right.
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Speaker 2: You're like, why can't they carpool? Why can't they take
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Speaker 2: public transit? Why can't they you know, do d dud duck.
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Speaker 6: I just think that a lot of families have to
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Speaker 6: make it work and they aren't able to just you know,
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Speaker 6: slap down money, sorry for four vehicles, Like that's a lot,
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Speaker 6: a lot. And you constantly make fun of my upbringing. Yeah,
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Speaker 6: but like my sister and I we toughed it out
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Speaker 6: with one vehicle. And I say tough it out loosely
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Speaker 6: because we were still a three vehicle family at that point.
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Speaker 6: But my sister, when she was in college and I
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Speaker 6: was still in high school, we carpooled. She drove me
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Speaker 6: to school and we had this little, like tiny, tiny
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Speaker 6: car where the heater didn't work very well and it
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Speaker 6: was very cold where we grew up, and we had
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Speaker 6: to just sit in the car and wait for it
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Speaker 6: to heat up. She would go to college, she would
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Speaker 6: drop me off at high school, and she had soccer,
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Speaker 6: I had volleyball. We were running around to all sorts.
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Speaker 2: Of So when you were adults, did you steal carpool together? No?
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Speaker 2: Is the answer.
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Speaker 3: Well, because I moved out very quickly.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so no, it's still the answer.
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Speaker 6: I see what you're saying, because I was still in
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Speaker 6: high school and.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yea, yeah. My kids and when they were
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Speaker 2: in high school, they didn't have their own car.
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Speaker 3: But they're still at home.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, like you're all congregating to one spot where the
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Speaker 6: cars are, right, So that's.
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Speaker 3: That's kind of why. I'm like, why don't why do
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Speaker 3: you need four?
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Speaker 2: Why do you need two cars? Because you're you're better
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Speaker 2: have works from home?
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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I do more things. Remember he's an indoor
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Speaker 6: kid exactly.
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Speaker 2: So he's not going outdoors and not doing that.
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Speaker 3: I've got places to be.
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Speaker 2: I know there, you need one car.
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Speaker 6: We thought about it, you really did, I know you did.
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Speaker 6: But could you imagine if we were like a three
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Speaker 6: car family? Like, come on, that's that's excessive.
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Speaker 2: There's only two of these.
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Speaker 3: So then it really is. It just doesn't make sense.
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Speaker 2: It doesn't mathematically, it doesn't Kristen, what do you think?
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Speaker 15: You know what?
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Speaker 14: I also have three children and two of them have
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Speaker 14: cars as well, So I don't think it's too much.
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Speaker 15: Yeah, right, Because here's what happens is that we we
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Speaker 15: are going to move studios, but before we moved, is.
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Speaker 2: Like, well, we're gonna go down to one car family
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Speaker 2: because I can walk to work and my partner works
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Speaker 2: from home. I'm like, okay, it might work.
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Speaker 14: For some, but for our family, we have to have
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Speaker 14: multiple vehicles.
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Speaker 2: So that I'm sorry, thank you.
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Speaker 6: I like how bad you feel for signing with Casey.
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Speaker 6: That's my favorite part about all this. Honestly, I don't
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Speaker 6: care that you side with.
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Speaker 3: Him, that you feel bad about this.
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Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
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Speaker 2: Good to have you along, and we want to thank
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Speaker 2: our friend Chelsea, who listens to the show. She dropped
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Speaker 2: off a note about her and her sixteen year old daughter.
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Speaker 6: So the daughter is working had a camp this summer. Nice,
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Speaker 6: I guess she's scheduled to be a counselor for another
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Speaker 6: three weeks or so. Chelsea says, my daughter absolutely hates
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Speaker 6: this job. She says her bosses are weird, and the
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Speaker 6: same with the people she works with that she doesn't like.
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Speaker 6: The sleeping arrangements, the kids she's working with are just awful.
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Speaker 3: Do I let her quit?
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Speaker 6: Or is this a good opportunity for her to just
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Speaker 6: learn to push through. It's three more weeks, maybe everything
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Speaker 6: will be okay.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I get it, because you want to
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Speaker 2: show and teach adversity and you don't always throw the
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Speaker 2: towel in all the time. But at the same time,
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Speaker 2: you're only sixteen once. You're only going to have the
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Speaker 2: sixteen year old summer once. Exactly, why are you wasting
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Speaker 2: your time with people that don't make you happy?
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Speaker 3: Yeah?
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Speaker 6: Yeah, there is part of me too. I remember when
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Speaker 6: I first worked at Starbucks. Actually I think I started
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Speaker 6: working in the summer, and I loved that job so much,
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Speaker 6: but I hated it in the first I remember going
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Speaker 6: over to a friend's house and being like, girls, I
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Speaker 6: can't do this.
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Speaker 3: Wow awful.
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Speaker 6: A shift supervisor that I worked with her and I
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Speaker 6: just did not get along. And then she ended up
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Speaker 6: being like one of my best friends. Oh wow, Like
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Speaker 6: after I'd worked there for a couple of years. So
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Speaker 6: part of me is also like maybe you would like
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Speaker 6: it if you just push through. And when it comes
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Speaker 6: to this sort of situation in particular, like working out
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Speaker 6: a summer camp, there's people coming and going. Yeah, you know,
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Speaker 6: so maybe you don't like the people that are at
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Speaker 6: the camp right here, right now, but next week it'll
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Speaker 6: be a whole different crop of people.
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Speaker 3: Some of the staff is probably going to.
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Speaker 6: Be similar, but like if you can't stand some of
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Speaker 6: the kids, they'll be gone. Yeah, so maybe maybe it'll
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Speaker 6: end up being the best summer ever if she just
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Speaker 6: gives it more of a shot.
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Speaker 2: Maddy, what do you think Am I going to try.
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Speaker 8: To stick it out for another week and give her
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Speaker 8: a few suggestions. Yeah, I'll get along with other people.
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Speaker 8: But then if she just can't.
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Speaker 7: Do it, then yeah, you got to cut you off.
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Speaker 8: Okay, I may not be all on her to be
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Speaker 8: much quite a.
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Speaker 10: Bit on the other part.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's a good point.
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I like that idea to give her some coping
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Speaker 6: mechanisms and tips on like how to work things out
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Speaker 6: and interpersonal relationships. But then if it does work, then okay,
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Speaker 6: then then we're done here.
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Speaker 8: Yeah, give it a little, give some advice and see
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Speaker 8: if she can make it work and if not, yeah, nope,
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Speaker 8: Like why keep.
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Speaker 2: No, No, you're right, yeah, no, I do. I do
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Speaker 2: like that. We went through something similar with our oldest
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Speaker 2: I think she was around sixteen at the time too,
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Speaker 2: and it was like, Okay, if you're if you gave
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Speaker 2: it your best shot, yeah it's time just to cut
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Speaker 2: and go. Yeah, yeah, okay, I like that too.
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Speaker 4: Casey Clerk's show.
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Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 2: Our friend Chelsea, who listens to the show. She dropped
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Speaker 2: off about her sixteen year old daughter who wants to
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Speaker 2: quit her summer job as a.
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Speaker 6: Camp counselor Yeah, she only has like three more weeks left,
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Speaker 6: but the daughter's been like, Mom, I can't, like, I
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Speaker 6: can't send anyone I work with. The kids that I'm
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Speaker 6: you know, dealing with are awful, the sleeping arrangements are terrible.
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Speaker 6: So I'm assuming she has to like stay at this camp, right.
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Speaker 6: So Chelsea's just like, you know, do I tell her
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Speaker 6: to tough it out, do you know, put your big
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Speaker 6: girl pants on?
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Speaker 3: Or do I let her just up and quit?
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Speaker 2: And half of me, I'm with Chelsea on this one.
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Speaker 2: Half of me says, yeah, you got to persevere. Through this.
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Speaker 2: The other half is like, you're only sixteen once. I know,
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Speaker 2: like it, this is your summer as much as is
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Speaker 2: my summer, and you're only going to be sixteen once
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Speaker 2: in the summer, So why are you spending it where
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Speaker 2: you don't want to spend it? You know?
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Speaker 3: But not all jobs are fun all the time.
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Speaker 2: No, no, absolutely not. And it really will depend on
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Speaker 2: the level of unkindness that is going on within the workplace. Oh,
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Speaker 2: totally right. So but yeah, I think a bit more
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Speaker 2: digging needs to be done on this one, Tia. What
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Speaker 2: do you think you know?
17:45
Speaker 8: I mean, I'm taking the mother perspective. I think life
17:50
Speaker 8: is always easy, so it's really important to figure out
17:54
Speaker 8: how you, as a human being can work through these
17:56
Speaker 8: moments that aren't your ideal or you're perfect. And I
18:00
Speaker 8: think it just builds character. And so it's it's short,
18:05
Speaker 8: even though when you're in it it feels long. Yes,
18:07
Speaker 8: And I just say push yourself through it, because then
18:10
Speaker 8: if when you're faced with this a similar situation next time,
18:14
Speaker 8: you know you can get through it because you've.
18:15
Speaker 12: Done it once.
18:16
Speaker 6: Yeah, And that's the thing is not to be too
18:19
Speaker 6: negative about it.
18:21
Speaker 3: But this will likely.
18:23
Speaker 6: Not be her only bad job, like it could happen again, right, Yeah,
18:28
Speaker 6: so it's good that.
18:29
Speaker 3: She learns how again.
18:31
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, no, it will no, I guarantee, almost guarantee.
18:38
Speaker 2: We're just a bunch of judging people, aren't we. We're
18:40
Speaker 2: talking about judging people's homes, and it's natural. I think
18:44
Speaker 2: it's totally natural instinct. You go over to somebody's home
18:47
Speaker 2: and you are judging everything.
18:50
Speaker 6: It doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad thing. You could
18:52
Speaker 6: just be taking in information of like you could just
18:55
Speaker 6: be like I would never do that in my home,
18:58
Speaker 6: or maybe you'll get some good.
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Speaker 2: Yeah I like that. Yeah, you go into Sasha's home,
19:03
Speaker 2: she has this motif on two giant walls in her
19:08
Speaker 2: place of rolling hills. Yes, it's you fall. But you'll
19:11
Speaker 2: never ever see a picture up of anybody, your loved ones, nothing.
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Speaker 6: I think part of where that comes from is I
19:20
Speaker 6: want my home to always look like I can show it.
19:24
Speaker 6: You know, there's that old realtor trick. I don't know
19:27
Speaker 6: if it's a trick, but you shouldn't have a lot
19:29
Speaker 6: of personal pictures up when you're trying to sell your home,
19:33
Speaker 6: because you want people to be able to picture themselves
19:35
Speaker 6: in it right.
19:36
Speaker 2: So you want to do that, I come over to
19:38
Speaker 2: your house. You want You're going to sell it. Any
19:40
Speaker 2: moment you get an offer, it is gone.
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Speaker 6: Yes, we do have some personal pictures on our fridge,
19:46
Speaker 6: but we don't really.
19:48
Speaker 2: On your fridge. On our fridge of all places.
19:51
Speaker 6: Of all places. But yeah, we don't have a lot
19:53
Speaker 6: of personal pictures hung up. That's for art, that's for decor. Wow,
19:59
Speaker 6: I know I'm a very cold person.
20:03
Speaker 2: You have these rolling hills.
20:05
Speaker 3: They're beautiful.
20:06
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you're right, it is bizarre. It is bizarre. Joline,
20:13
Speaker 2: same thing. What do you secretly judge people on at
20:18
Speaker 2: their homes?
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Speaker 7: Probably the cleanliness, Yeah, that's true.
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Speaker 3: Do you expect I would.
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Speaker 7: Say that's probably one of the big ones.
20:27
Speaker 3: Do you expect it to be spick and span?
20:29
Speaker 7: No, I that's hopeful than kang for most. But I
20:32
Speaker 7: feel like I feel like just clean in general. Not
20:37
Speaker 7: I mean, everyone wants a sick and fan home, but
20:39
Speaker 7: I think that's unrealistic.
20:40
Speaker 3: I think so too.
20:41
Speaker 2: It's the toilets, you know, it's it's the bathrooms for me.
20:45
Speaker 11: Yeah, that's a good one.
20:46
Speaker 2: You know what, you could have crap on your counter.
20:48
Speaker 2: I don't care. But if I go into your bathroom,
20:52
Speaker 2: particularly the one that everybody uses, like the powder room,
20:55
Speaker 2: hold on the main floor, right, yeah, yeah, I agree.
20:58
Speaker 2: We got to have a tight game in there, like
21:01
Speaker 2: if Joelane, if we don't have a tight game, then
21:04
Speaker 2: what are we doing?
21:05
Speaker 3: Yeah?
21:05
Speaker 14: Like, yeah, there you go.
21:07
Speaker 2: I can't I can't come over to your house ever.
21:08
Speaker 4: Again you're listening to the Clarks.
21:12
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's talk about judging people's homes. I love this, Yes,
21:18
Speaker 2: I love this. So you go over somebody's home and
21:20
Speaker 2: you're like, you know, what's the first thing you hone
21:22
Speaker 2: in on? Is it the front lawn? Is it the garage?
21:25
Speaker 2: Is the driveway? Is it as soon as you walk in?
21:29
Speaker 2: Is it the kitchen counters? Is it the paint that
21:32
Speaker 2: they've chosen.
21:33
Speaker 8: Oh?
21:34
Speaker 6: I definitely judge people on their decor.
21:39
Speaker 2: You don't like a lot of wall hangings. I don't know.
21:42
Speaker 2: I don't.
21:42
Speaker 3: I'm very minimal ast.
21:44
Speaker 2: And it's interesting because you have a mural in your home.
21:49
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
21:50
Speaker 2: Lots of pictures, That's what I mean. Like it's so
21:52
Speaker 2: ironic is that you don't like pictures, but you have
21:55
Speaker 2: this motif that is nine feet tall.
21:59
Speaker 3: I would have that than a bunch of pictures.
22:03
Speaker 2: Like like, what is it like it's a mountain scape
22:05
Speaker 2: or something.
22:05
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a bunch of hills. It's roll hills.
22:07
Speaker 2: That's what I mean. Yeah.
22:09
Speaker 3: Right, But it's like, but don't you dare hang pictures?
22:13
Speaker 2: Don't you dare put it like a two by four,
22:16
Speaker 2: you know, minimalist little picture of loved ones. I would
22:21
Speaker 2: rather have that. I would rather have a non descript
22:24
Speaker 2: descript rolling hill motif, which is fine.
22:28
Speaker 3: It spans two walls.
22:30
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
22:32
Speaker 3: Hey, I didn't put it up.
22:34
Speaker 6: It was there when we bought it, but it was
22:36
Speaker 6: like a nice feature that we enjoy having.
22:38
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, I know. That's that's what I mean.
22:41
Speaker 3: I find it very very bizarre.
22:43
Speaker 2: No, you're right, yeah, wow, Lauren, same same question. You're
22:48
Speaker 2: into somebody's home, what do you kind of judge them at?
22:52
Speaker 14: I would probably say like cleanliness, Yeah, like general, like
22:57
Speaker 14: if it's just gross clutter, because I'm really bad at clutter.
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Speaker 2: Clutter. Yeah, okay, do you judge yourself on the clutter?
23:09
Speaker 13: To you, yes.
23:11
Speaker 2: That's what you do.
23:12
Speaker 6: You walk, you get in every day at your own
23:14
Speaker 6: home and you're like, oh I gotta change.
23:16
Speaker 2: You're like Lauren, you got to keep it together here girl,
23:18
Speaker 2: like you gotta. This is ridiculous.
23:21
Speaker 16: Yeah, that's the Casey Clarks show.
23:24
Speaker 2: Another round be easy Trivia. Five questions on the board.
23:29
Speaker 2: It is Steph versus Sasha. Steph. This is how we
23:33
Speaker 2: play easy trivia. I'll ask you a question. If you
23:36
Speaker 2: know the answer to the question, use your name as
23:39
Speaker 2: your buzzer. Buzz in with your name answer, and then
23:43
Speaker 2: if you get it wrong though, we'll let Sasha steal
23:48
Speaker 2: and vice versa. Okay, all right, yay, easy trivia. I
23:57
Speaker 2: put in easy trivia. Uh Grade six Social studies, science
24:06
Speaker 2: and stuff.
24:08
Speaker 3: Oh, I can't wait to hear about the stuff.
24:10
Speaker 2: Yeah, Easy Trivia. Question number one, Steph versus Sasha? What
24:19
Speaker 2: term describes an animal? An animal that eats both plants
24:23
Speaker 2: and meat? Sash, Steph go herbivore?
24:31
Speaker 1: No?
24:31
Speaker 3: What may I steal?
24:35
Speaker 2: Yes? Omnivore, omnivore for both. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's all right,
24:41
Speaker 2: that's all right. Okay. Question number two along which famous
24:46
Speaker 2: African river did the ancient Egyptian civilization develop?
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Speaker 17: What?
24:53
Speaker 2: C eazy trivia?
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Speaker 13: I don't even know how to spell civilization.
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Speaker 2: I mean a river?
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Speaker 6: Oh, Sasha, Yeah, is it the Nile River.
25:05
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, yeah, right, like I don't know how
25:08
Speaker 2: many other rivers do you know? In Egypt? I don't
25:11
Speaker 2: know what?
25:11
Speaker 3: Well, and that's all.
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Speaker 6: But then you added a lot of other words like civilization, which,
25:16
Speaker 6: to Steph's point.
25:17
Speaker 3: Is too long. Okay, okay, get it together, man, this
25:23
Speaker 3: is tough.
25:24
Speaker 2: Eight all right, Steph. Question number three easy trivia? How
25:29
Speaker 2: many planets are in our solar system? Yeah, staph, give
25:45
Speaker 2: it a shot, eight nices? Get what there you go? Okay,
25:56
Speaker 2: you're on the board. Trivia Steph versus Sasha. Question number four,
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Speaker 2: what is known as the basic unit of all living things?
26:11
Speaker 3: You asked this last week.
26:12
Speaker 2: You all know this. You all know this. That's what happens, Steph. Steph,
26:17
Speaker 2: this is what happens in my classroom. Nobody listens to
26:19
Speaker 2: me at all, ever, at all, Steph.
26:22
Speaker 10: Go ahead, an education assistant the cell.
26:27
Speaker 2: Yes, get on there you go, there you go. Last question,
26:33
Speaker 2: tie game. What is the world's largest hot desert? Steph?
26:46
Speaker 2: So Harry desert?
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Speaker 18: Yeah, yeah, everybody, all right, you got some game there, Hey,
27:06
Speaker 18: you got some games?
27:07
Speaker 2: You got it, all right, Steph.
27:11
Speaker 4: Hank Ty It's the Casey Clarks Show from.
27:15
Speaker 2: The pages of Redded. They're asking, what is something people
27:18
Speaker 2: romanticize over that actually kind of sucks in real life
27:22
Speaker 2: being very very tall. Yeah, they put here the beach.
27:26
Speaker 2: I don't know. I love the beach.
27:28
Speaker 6: I love the beach too, but I can also see
27:31
Speaker 6: why people are like it's just dirty, you know, or crowded.
27:35
Speaker 3: Like I kind of get it.
27:36
Speaker 2: They also listed road trips with friends.
27:39
Speaker 3: Totally agree. I would much rather just really do my
27:43
Speaker 3: own thing.
27:43
Speaker 2: Yeah. I love road trips with friends. Yeah.
27:46
Speaker 3: Do you take a lot of road trips with friends?
27:48
Speaker 2: Not a lot.
27:49
Speaker 3: But friends are either pilots or are private jets.
27:52
Speaker 2: Hey, am I wrong? What?
27:56
Speaker 3: I'm not wrong? So you're not road tripping.
28:00
Speaker 2: When we do what We did the golf weekend together
28:02
Speaker 2: and we drove that was I call that a road trip.
28:05
Speaker 3: Went like forty minutes up the hill, doesn't matter.
28:07
Speaker 2: We had so much fun, stayed at a cabin on
28:13
Speaker 2: the course. That was good. I didn't have to go
28:15
Speaker 2: to private jet. Couldn't yeh that helicopter.
28:18
Speaker 3: Pa, I know there's a bat there.
28:21
Speaker 2: It was really busy that weekend. Things like uh oh yeah,
28:27
Speaker 2: being on your own for the first time. Yeah, I
28:31
Speaker 2: remember getting my first apartment by myself, and I was like,
28:34
Speaker 2: this sucks.
28:35
Speaker 3: What am I supposed to do?
28:37
Speaker 2: Yeah?
28:38
Speaker 6: Yeah, another one? And I noticed it today. You came
28:42
Speaker 6: in here and I was like, do you want to
28:43
Speaker 6: I didn't offer you a coffee, but I think I
28:45
Speaker 6: just said I was getting a coffee and you were like, oh,
28:47
Speaker 6: I'm on tea now, Like okay, big shot.
28:50
Speaker 3: I find when.
28:51
Speaker 6: People switched to tea or tea drinkers, it's just it's
28:57
Speaker 6: just dirty water.
28:58
Speaker 2: Like that's you can say that about coffee though, too.
29:01
Speaker 2: You know, it's kind of the same process.
29:03
Speaker 3: It's going special a lickxir.
29:05
Speaker 2: It's going through some sort of fabric of some sort.
29:11
Speaker 3: St cheesecloth.
29:14
Speaker 2: I think we're being both.
29:16
Speaker 6: Yeah, actually, now that you really peel back the layers,
29:19
Speaker 6: I don't know.
29:20
Speaker 3: I've just never understood.
29:21
Speaker 2: Tea like it. Yeah, I get that.
29:24
Speaker 6: I mean I get it, and I'll have tea once
29:25
Speaker 6: in a while and I'm not feeling well. But I
29:28
Speaker 6: just find people get this like attitude when they're tea
29:31
Speaker 6: drinkers that they're like better than coffee drinkers.
29:34
Speaker 2: It's not that I want to be one of those people.
29:36
Speaker 3: Then, yeah, you've started, well.
29:38
Speaker 2: I started only because I'm getting a tickle.
29:41
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I thought you want to start acting like
29:44
Speaker 6: maybe I should you do that anyway?
29:46
Speaker 2: Yeah, so maybe I should drink tea. Then maybe I'm
29:49
Speaker 2: so lowbrow I should give up coffee. I don't give coffee.
29:53
Speaker 3: I know you just can't can't kick it.
29:55
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well I'll try and go to school for
29:58
Speaker 2: that or something. Shelby, what is? What are things that
30:00
Speaker 2: are highly overrated?
30:02
Speaker 13: People like just like really want to get their licenses
30:05
Speaker 13: and go driving. But once you've been driving, You're like,
30:07
Speaker 13: I would rather be drove.
30:09
Speaker 6: Yes, oh yeah, I love being a passenger princess. I
30:13
Speaker 6: totally agree. Or like when people are stressed out, they're like, oh,
30:15
Speaker 6: I'll just go for a drive and take my mind off,
30:18
Speaker 6: And I'm like, why that sounds so stressful.
30:21
Speaker 14: It's very stressful.
30:22
Speaker 13: I don't have the capability to do that.
30:25
Speaker 2: It's so funny because I love driving. Yeah, you can
30:29
Speaker 2: drive us? Well, yeah, and I've I've driven Sash a
30:34
Speaker 2: couple of times. True, that's true, so uh, the reverse
30:37
Speaker 2: could not be the same. I don't think I want
30:40
Speaker 2: to drive with Sasha.
30:44
Speaker 4: The Casey Clerk Show.
30:46
Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
30:50
Speaker 2: Yeah, man. That's the goodt This is where we celebrate him.
31:00
Speaker 2: Amazing things people are doing inside.
31:02
Speaker 4: Their little communities.
31:04
Speaker 2: We call us the good stuff. Let's shine the spotlight
31:08
Speaker 2: on twenty three year old Josh Carter when he first
31:12
Speaker 2: suited up a spider man in Beaumont, alberta small town
31:14
Speaker 2: outside of Edmonton. He did this during the pandemic. His
31:17
Speaker 2: goal was simple, bring little joy to his hometown. Love
31:21
Speaker 2: that he would just go to the park do some backflips.
31:24
Speaker 2: Kids would like it, okay. Born with global developmental delays
31:29
Speaker 2: and severe ADHD, Josh found a community that didn't just
31:35
Speaker 2: want to see him do flips. They actually rallied behind him.
31:41
Speaker 2: His mom, Patricia, watched him evolve from entertaining at just
31:45
Speaker 2: birthday parties to earning local community service awards. And it's
31:51
Speaker 2: been awesome.
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Speaker 17: It's incredible actually to know, you know, you have a
31:56
Speaker 17: specialist child, and I mean you worry about any child,
32:00
Speaker 17: you know, one that has special needs, and this community
32:03
Speaker 17: has rallied around him.
32:05
Speaker 2: Oh yeah. And then Josh is like, you know what,
32:07
Speaker 2: I'm not stopping there. Uh. He enrolled in Prime taekwond
32:12
Speaker 2: Do School five years of discipline training. Oh wow, he's
32:17
Speaker 2: hurted himself officially his Black Fountain. Yeah, man, that's the gist.
32:27
Speaker 2: And for Josh's mom, this is one of the best
32:29
Speaker 2: things to ever happen to her son.
32:31
Speaker 17: It's been amazing for him and he's always loved. The
32:34
Speaker 17: kids are always so excited to see him and that's amazing.
32:37
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's so good. I love it, Josh. You should
32:40
Speaker 2: see this. This guy. Man not only can he do
32:43
Speaker 2: the backflips, but because of his taekwondo training, right, he
32:46
Speaker 2: does all sorts of stuff.
32:47
Speaker 3: Well I can't imagine.
32:48
Speaker 2: He kind of does look like Spider Man.
32:50
Speaker 3: Just so light on his feet, right, it's so good.
32:53
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. He is so so good. And of course
32:56
Speaker 2: the Marvel film coming out right now. Josh is very
32:58
Speaker 2: excited about it. So way to go, Josh Carter from Beaumont.
33:02
Speaker 2: That's awesome, Casey Clarks, go listen. We're going to talk
33:09
Speaker 2: about the old saying of when you stop looking for love,
33:14
Speaker 2: that's when love happens. I don't know if that's.
33:17
Speaker 6: True, and I always found that when I was single
33:20
Speaker 6: that was a really annoying thing to hear from my
33:24
Speaker 6: friends that were in healthy, great relationships. They'd always be like,
33:29
Speaker 6: you know, what, Sasha, You know what, you just have
33:32
Speaker 6: to stop looking and then it'll stumble on you or
33:35
Speaker 6: whatever and it I mean, I guess it kind of
33:38
Speaker 6: worked out in that way, but that's not always helpful.
33:41
Speaker 6: And I do think there are times where you do
33:44
Speaker 6: have to put in a.
33:44
Speaker 3: Little bit of effort.
33:45
Speaker 6: You have to try a bit, You've got to put
33:47
Speaker 6: yourself out there and be available for those opportunities.
33:51
Speaker 2: Right. The universe needs to know that you're looking for love.
33:54
Speaker 6: I think so, Yeah, in all the wrong places, but
33:58
Speaker 6: love anyway.
33:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, I love his love.
34:00
Speaker 3: Man, Yep, that's it?
34:01
Speaker 2: Yeah?
34:02
Speaker 17: Right?
34:03
Speaker 2: Were you on what is it? Grinder? Bubble or I.
34:07
Speaker 6: Did bumble for a bit? That was not good. I
34:11
Speaker 6: did plenty of fish, plenty of fish. I was of
34:13
Speaker 6: the time, okay. And then I think Tinder had just
34:17
Speaker 6: kind of started right when I met Tyler.
34:21
Speaker 2: Right, but you didn't meet him on an app no, right? Yeah?
34:26
Speaker 6: And he came along when I least expected, right. So
34:28
Speaker 6: that's what I'm saying is that it does work out,
34:31
Speaker 6: but I do think you have to be open to it, right, April, what.
34:35
Speaker 2: Do you think?
34:37
Speaker 10: No, I believe that when you stop looking and it'll find.
34:40
Speaker 3: You, Okay, and has that been your experience.
34:44
Speaker 10: Yep, definitely. I moved to a town when I was eighteen.
34:48
Speaker 10: I was like, I'm going to go have some fun
34:51
Speaker 10: and you know, go to school and do those things.
34:54
Speaker 10: And I met my husband two months.
34:56
Speaker 2: Later and he locked it down.
34:57
Speaker 9: Did Yeah he did the.
35:00
Speaker 6: Old ball and chain oh man ruined everything years later? Yeah, yeah,
35:07
Speaker 6: So you were focusing on other aspects of your life,
35:11
Speaker 6: but along came your hoppy.
35:13
Speaker 2: Exactly and again ruins everything. All my dreams, hey aproll
35:19
Speaker 2: all your dreams down the toilet gone.
35:22
Speaker 10: It's been a perfect life. Our kids are grown now
35:24
Speaker 10: and we get to enjoy ourselves again.
35:28
Speaker 3: Well again, stop it, stop it.
35:30
Speaker 2: All those dreams poof like just right in front of
35:33
Speaker 2: your just like way to go, mister handsome, way to go,
35:37
Speaker 2: mister charming, way to ruin everything. Mister.
35:43
Speaker 12: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
35:47
Speaker 2: Looking for love and all the wrong places looking for
35:50
Speaker 2: love and too many places. I don't know this is
35:55
Speaker 2: right or not, but if you just slid into the show.
35:58
Speaker 2: We're talking about that old saying that once you stop
36:02
Speaker 2: looking for love, it finally happens.
36:05
Speaker 6: And I found as a when I was single, that
36:09
Speaker 6: was the most annoying thing to hear because everyone that
36:12
Speaker 6: tells you that are people that are already in relationships.
36:15
Speaker 6: So it's just kind of yeah, and it's like, well,
36:17
Speaker 6: that's not helpful.
36:19
Speaker 3: I want to I want to know.
36:20
Speaker 6: I like can work towards something instead of just you know,
36:24
Speaker 6: walking around like a bumbling idiot just waiting for something
36:27
Speaker 6: to hit me in the face.
36:28
Speaker 2: I do like that term. I'm working towards love. What
36:31
Speaker 2: are you doing today? I'm busy working towards love? Yeah,
36:35
Speaker 2: what are you doing about it?
36:36
Speaker 3: All sorts of things, Yeah, just manifesting.
36:39
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm manifesting. I'm doing some baking. Yeah, I'm doing
36:43
Speaker 2: some burpees.
36:44
Speaker 3: I'm working on me first.
36:45
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm working on on love today is what
36:48
Speaker 2: I'm doing. I like, thatsh that's you're so busy. I
36:51
Speaker 2: wish we could meet up, but I'm busy. I'm choker
36:55
Speaker 2: block full right, working on love.
36:57
Speaker 3: See, but then you're missing those opportunities.
36:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a jagged little knife.
37:05
Speaker 6: It's a balancing act, right, Yeah, because you have to
37:09
Speaker 6: be I understand the idea behind it, like it'll come
37:13
Speaker 6: when you least expect it, but you do have to
37:15
Speaker 6: just keep your eyes open at the same time, right, exactly,
37:19
Speaker 6: keep your ear to the ground and be ready.
37:21
Speaker 2: Yeah I feel that, Lauren. What do you think?
37:24
Speaker 14: Oh man, you're asking the wrong person because I am
37:27
Speaker 14: so over it.
37:29
Speaker 2: Oh no, meaning what meaning that you're just you're giving
37:35
Speaker 2: up on love?
37:36
Speaker 14: I mean yeah, meaning that I've been very much messed around,
37:42
Speaker 14: taken advantage of, and I'm kind of just over it.
37:45
Speaker 2: You're over loved, like it's love is highly overrated?
37:49
Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, very.
37:50
Speaker 6: And you have you done both as in like you know,
37:53
Speaker 6: you've worked at, you know, putting yourself out there, but
37:56
Speaker 6: then also you've tried the Hey, you know what if
37:58
Speaker 6: it comes, it comes, and it's just not working either way.
38:02
Speaker 2: Yeah.
38:02
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's frustrating.
38:06
Speaker 2: You know what I get you. I'm feeling your vibe
38:09
Speaker 2: on love is overrated.
38:14
Speaker 14: Especially coming from someone that's very happily married.
38:16
Speaker 2: Right yeah, yeah, well there's that. Sure you want to
38:20
Speaker 2: throw that in my face.
38:22
Speaker 4: I mean you talk about her all the time.
38:25
Speaker 2: You know, if you want to throw that, Lauren fair.
38:28
Speaker 6: But but other than that, you take that out of
38:32
Speaker 6: take that element out, and I feel your says.
38:35
Speaker 16: Yeah, it's the Casey Clark Show.
38:41
Speaker 2: So this mom online has taking some heat. Saw us
38:44
Speaker 2: on Reddit, people commenting that she decided not to hold
38:48
Speaker 2: a birthday party for her one year old. Instead, heerner hobby,
38:53
Speaker 2: got a sitter and went out for a nice dinner
38:57
Speaker 2: on baby's one year birthday. Oh boy, so now I
39:04
Speaker 2: understand why a lot of people would be upset by that.
39:07
Speaker 2: And some of the comments were like, you make a cake,
39:11
Speaker 2: invite some family members and perhaps friends, serve hot dogs
39:13
Speaker 2: and hamburgers, and let the kid try to eat the cake.
39:17
Speaker 2: That's the party. Yeah. Maybe, yeah, And it really got,
39:22
Speaker 2: you know, kind of nasty. One person posted, just sad
39:26
Speaker 2: and a bit pathetic. Lady, you can go to a
39:29
Speaker 2: restaurant any day of the year. Your son is only
39:31
Speaker 2: going to have a first birthday. It's about him. It's
39:34
Speaker 2: about his milestone. You don't have to have food trucks
39:38
Speaker 2: or petting zoo clowns, magicians. But you should have centered
39:42
Speaker 2: him as the center, not yourself.
39:44
Speaker 6: Oh that's nasty. And I don't think you should ever
39:48
Speaker 6: tell anyone what they should or shouldn't do. I think
39:50
Speaker 6: that's awful.
39:52
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't feel that this is awful.
39:57
Speaker 6: I don't either, And like these first birthday parties are
40:00
Speaker 6: becoming pretty excessive.
40:03
Speaker 2: I know.
40:04
Speaker 6: I read a survey about the average parent will spend
40:07
Speaker 6: anywhere from two to three hundred dollars on their kid's
40:09
Speaker 6: first birthday. Again considering like, yes, of course it's a milestone.
40:13
Speaker 6: You want to get great pictures and do it for
40:16
Speaker 6: the family. Okay, okay, but your kid is obviously not
40:20
Speaker 6: going to remember that whatsoever.
40:22
Speaker 2: Not at all. Kristin, you said you wouldn't do it
40:27
Speaker 2: with your kids, or didn't do it with your kids.
40:29
Speaker 2: You said you would have too much mom guilt. And
40:31
Speaker 2: even if you went out for dinner and didn't do it,
40:34
Speaker 2: you're thinking the mom didn't even have a good time
40:36
Speaker 2: because of that exactly.
40:38
Speaker 14: She might just be thinking about the baby.
40:40
Speaker 11: And like there's mom guild for everything.
40:43
Speaker 2: Oh well there is. And if we got that as
40:45
Speaker 2: the rule of thumb, we wouldn't do anything.
40:47
Speaker 3: That's true.
40:48
Speaker 10: It is so true, so.
40:50
Speaker 2: True, Like we'd never leave the house.
40:52
Speaker 14: Yeah, like that is so fair. Yes, it's true now,
40:56
Speaker 14: and I understand.
40:58
Speaker 2: I understand too if it's the first child wild versus
41:01
Speaker 2: child number two, three, four, Like after the first child,
41:05
Speaker 2: everybody else's kind of falls in line.
41:08
Speaker 13: Yeah, you know what It's true.
41:10
Speaker 14: Everything gets a little easier with each child.
41:12
Speaker 2: It does, it does, and it's not. I'm not going
41:15
Speaker 2: to say the word the term as important. I'm just saying,
41:18
Speaker 2: let's say the enthusiasm is diluted.
41:22
Speaker 14: Okay, that's fair.
41:24
Speaker 8: You know.
41:28
Speaker 2: You're laughing because you know it's true.
41:31
Speaker 3: It is true.
41:31
Speaker 18: It is true.
41:32
Speaker 14: It does change with each child you have. I have three,
41:35
Speaker 14: I get it.
41:35
Speaker 16: Yeah, it's the Casey Clark Show.
41:40
Speaker 2: Thanks you again for popping in and chiming in as well,
41:43
Speaker 2: with his mom taking some heat online on Reddit not
41:46
Speaker 2: holding a birthday party for their one year old, even
41:50
Speaker 2: though everybody around them said, hey, you should, even the daycare.
41:54
Speaker 3: But why should the daycare?
41:56
Speaker 2: That weird? Well they're just saying, hey, you haven't a
41:58
Speaker 2: party for filling the blank. Ah No, I don't think so.
42:01
Speaker 2: What you know that kind of reaction.
42:03
Speaker 3: Maybe the daycare should hold a party.
42:05
Speaker 2: It probably did. To tell you the truth, I would
42:07
Speaker 2: I was, actually, yeah, I think you're probably right on this.
42:11
Speaker 2: But instead they decided to go out and celebrate on
42:15
Speaker 2: their own. And God has set her for a little
42:18
Speaker 2: little so I'm telling you a lot of people did
42:23
Speaker 2: not like that last part.
42:25
Speaker 6: Yeah, the fact that they weren't with their baby on
42:29
Speaker 6: its first birthday.
42:30
Speaker 3: Yeah.
42:30
Speaker 2: Well then, and Cindy, you said, well, okay, I get that,
42:33
Speaker 2: but you can still do the photo option the next
42:36
Speaker 2: day with the cupcakes and the candles and the blood,
42:39
Speaker 2: the blood to have the memory because the day isn't
42:43
Speaker 2: really that important at this point.
42:45
Speaker 8: Exactly.
42:46
Speaker 2: Yes, it no matter what day it is, it doesn't.
42:49
Speaker 6: And I do think that we don't celebrate enough like
42:53
Speaker 6: becoming parents, you know what I mean.
42:55
Speaker 3: Like as much as it's.
42:56
Speaker 6: A milestone for the kid to have a birthday, it's
43:00
Speaker 6: also like, oh my gosh, you've been a parent for
43:02
Speaker 6: a year to celebrate.
43:04
Speaker 2: And the kid's still alive.
43:06
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like why.
43:10
Speaker 2: Are we celebrating.
43:12
Speaker 17: That's right?
43:13
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, Cindy. When you have your first child and
43:18
Speaker 2: you get through that first year, man, they should hold
43:20
Speaker 2: a parade for you, right, like never mind a cheap
43:25
Speaker 2: old dinner.
43:26
Speaker 13: Yeah gosh, well yeah you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, it.
43:33
Speaker 2: Is re that's is right. We should spend more time
43:37
Speaker 2: celebrating that fact alone.
43:40
Speaker 4: The Casey Clerk Show.
43:41
Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
43:45
Speaker 2: If you just popped in. We were commenting on how
43:48
Speaker 2: it's already the end of July and unofficially half our
43:53
Speaker 2: summer's now gone.
43:54
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, and I am someone I remember talking about
43:59
Speaker 6: this last year. Around this same time, you can get
44:02
Speaker 6: like the August Scaries writer August anxiety. And I am
44:07
Speaker 6: definitely one of those people, because I love summer so much,
44:11
Speaker 6: and as soon as it hits August, I almost get
44:13
Speaker 6: stressed out.
44:13
Speaker 3: Like I'm like, I have so much stuff I need
44:15
Speaker 3: to do.
44:16
Speaker 2: We were running down our summer bucketless and yeah, there's
44:21
Speaker 2: a lot of these items you just won't do.
44:25
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that's fine, exactly, Like why do something that
44:28
Speaker 6: I don't.
44:28
Speaker 2: Exactly discover a new small town.
44:32
Speaker 3: Oh that's actually really cute.
44:34
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, for sure, you and like go to a
44:37
Speaker 6: gross little dive bar at a small town I've never
44:41
Speaker 6: been to before.
44:41
Speaker 2: Yes, berry picking, Yes, I need to do that. Okay, Okay,
44:46
Speaker 2: eat dinner outside, love it, done it. Okay. Visit a
44:49
Speaker 2: new winery silary, love it.
44:51
Speaker 3: I've also do that a lot.
44:54
Speaker 2: Try a new patiole restaurant.
44:56
Speaker 3: Love that I've done that.
44:57
Speaker 2: Yea, she's we finally found stuff. Uh, spend a day
45:02
Speaker 2: without wearing jeans.
45:04
Speaker 3: I do that every day?
45:05
Speaker 2: Okay, good see, I was I just actually just made
45:08
Speaker 2: down last.
45:08
Speaker 3: Time, so that's something I need to work on.
45:12
Speaker 2: I don't know. I was just, you know, I was
45:13
Speaker 2: just trying. I felt guilty because before we didn't we
45:16
Speaker 2: couldn't find you anything here that you like to do.
45:18
Speaker 2: So I felt like we needed to find stuff.
45:20
Speaker 3: I do a lot of stuff I do. No, it
45:22
Speaker 3: happened to not be on that list.
45:24
Speaker 2: I know, I don't know. This is crazy. Make homemade lemonade.
45:27
Speaker 2: You see, this is what I'm saying. Who has the time, Adrian?
45:33
Speaker 2: Your summer going well and things getting checked off, you know, when.
45:37
Speaker 1: It's still to come. We bought a little travel trailer,
45:40
Speaker 1: so we're we're going to take it up for its
45:42
Speaker 1: second voyage this weekend. So yeah, I know it's a
45:45
Speaker 1: summer is a really busy time for me. Of course,
45:47
Speaker 1: you know, with work and stuff. We get away when
45:49
Speaker 1: we can.
45:50
Speaker 2: Oh that's nice.
45:51
Speaker 6: Do you find most summers you're able to do everything
45:53
Speaker 6: that you want to do?
45:55
Speaker 1: No? No, I wish by the time I get home,
45:57
Speaker 1: I'm so tired. I could, you know, sleep for two weeks?
45:59
Speaker 10: Yeah?
45:59
Speaker 2: Yeah, right, yeah, I feel that to Clerks show.
46:04
Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
46:08
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're almost unofficially through at least halfway our
46:12
Speaker 2: summer right now, say it isn't so my kids do
46:16
Speaker 2: a summer bucket list and I would have to say
46:18
Speaker 2: it's about half done.
46:20
Speaker 6: Okay, so they're on track. Really, if we're halfway through,
46:23
Speaker 6: not bad.
46:24
Speaker 2: Trying to do a summer bucket list for Sashi and
46:26
Speaker 2: it's uh, it's it's a little light.
46:29
Speaker 6: That's okay. No, Yeah, I think I get a lot
46:32
Speaker 6: out of summers. I thrive during this.
46:34
Speaker 2: Te love you do love summer.
46:37
Speaker 3: Love summer so much.
46:38
Speaker 2: And there's things though that we're trying to find for you.
46:43
Speaker 2: So your summer bucket list is a bit more full
46:46
Speaker 2: than golf and soccer. No, I know, that's that's good.
46:51
Speaker 3: I also just like standing outside and like, yes, just
46:55
Speaker 3: standing there, I know, and letting the sun just hit
46:58
Speaker 3: my face.
46:59
Speaker 2: What's that, lady, she's just standing honey.
47:01
Speaker 6: I do do that, honestly, Like I just the feeling
47:05
Speaker 6: of warm sun on my skin.
47:07
Speaker 3: There's no better feeling.
47:08
Speaker 2: Picnic in a park. Yeah yeah, there's bugs, bugs yeah
47:13
Speaker 2: yeah yeah. Sleeping in your uh I do that.
47:22
Speaker 3: I do that all the time. I love napping on
47:24
Speaker 3: my patios.
47:24
Speaker 2: I'm good with that. But nothing to do with sand
47:27
Speaker 2: or water. Yeah, not really. I'm good. That's not you.
47:31
Speaker 2: Todder's more of a your partners, more of an indoor
47:33
Speaker 2: kid too. So he is so pale, Yeah he is.
47:36
Speaker 3: That's the other thing is we need to get that
47:38
Speaker 3: guy outside more.
47:40
Speaker 2: Well, probably good for his complexion, I would think so.
47:43
Speaker 2: I think so too. We'll get about that, poor fellow,
47:47
Speaker 2: poor fella. Uh checking in with Tiya. How's your your
47:51
Speaker 2: summer going so far?
47:52
Speaker 8: Then always goes way too fast for sure, but certainly
47:59
Speaker 8: have had moments of enjoyment. And it's a bit of
48:02
Speaker 8: a different summer for us. Our oldest starter is getting married,
48:05
Speaker 8: so there's been a lot of stuff going towards that celebrations.
48:11
Speaker 6: Yeah, yes, is she getting married this summer.
48:14
Speaker 8: She's getting married October third.
48:16
Speaker 6: Okay, but you're definitely doing a lot of preparations during
48:20
Speaker 6: this summer.
48:21
Speaker 14: Yeah, you bet.
48:22
Speaker 8: And I mean that's the time to capture our beautiful weather, right,
48:27
Speaker 8: have some of the bridal showers.
48:29
Speaker 2: Oh, I love, I just love a fall wedding.
48:33
Speaker 11: Oh yes, isn't that true?
48:35
Speaker 2: Yes, it's so yeah, pro move to you, that's just
48:38
Speaker 2: a pro move.
48:40
Speaker 8: Such a such a cozy time. So why not bring
48:42
Speaker 8: in some some love in it?
48:44
Speaker 5: Right?
48:45
Speaker 2: Yeah? Absolutely, the Case Clark Show, A Minute to Win
48:53
Speaker 2: it all? Right, question sixty seconds? I think we're going
49:00
Speaker 2: to play the possible version. Yeah's today, Mike. H So
49:05
Speaker 2: what that means is, if there's a question that you
49:08
Speaker 2: don't automatically have the answer for, use the word pass
49:12
Speaker 2: and we'll move on to the next question. We'll go
49:15
Speaker 2: back to those questions if we have enough time. Remember, though,
49:18
Speaker 2: the first answer you give us is the answer we
49:21
Speaker 2: must take. Okay, Mike, Nope, hang on, there you go. Okay, Mike, Yeah,
49:28
Speaker 2: there you go.
49:29
Speaker 3: Okay, Mike.
49:30
Speaker 6: Time w Well, start after I finish reading the first question?
49:34
Speaker 6: How many years are in four decades?
49:38
Speaker 4: Four forty?
49:40
Speaker 6: Name the game where you spin a wheel to determine
49:43
Speaker 6: what dots you put your hands and feet on. What
49:48
Speaker 6: institution has a bunch of books that you can rent
49:50
Speaker 6: out a library? Name the actor in movies The Revenant, Titanic,
49:55
Speaker 6: and Wolf of Wall.
49:56
Speaker 9: Street Leonardo DiCaprio.
49:58
Speaker 6: Parchment, loose leaf, and construction are types of what What
50:04
Speaker 6: is your job title? If you hold that little stick
50:06
Speaker 6: and help keep time with an orchestra.
50:09
Speaker 11: Conductor?
50:10
Speaker 6: What was the scarecrow in search of in the Wizard
50:12
Speaker 6: of Oz.
50:15
Speaker 9: My brain.
50:15
Speaker 6: How many nichols are in two dollars forty? How many
50:21
Speaker 6: CFL teams are located in Alberta?
50:25
Speaker 9: Two?
50:26
Speaker 3: What is the capital of Spain?
50:30
Speaker 11: Oh?
50:32
Speaker 3: What is the capital of Spain?
50:34
Speaker 2: Is your last one?
50:35
Speaker 3: It's your last one?
50:38
Speaker 9: Uh?
50:41
Speaker 17: For pe.
50:43
Speaker 8: For pizza?
50:44
Speaker 2: Okay, So that was at the buzzer. What did you
50:47
Speaker 2: think it was?
50:48
Speaker 9: No Madrid?
51:01
Speaker 2: They Mike can never do it the easy way.
51:04
Speaker 17: Yeah, you just.
51:06
Speaker 2: Got to do it the hard way.
51:07
Speaker 3: Mike, who is with you?
51:11
Speaker 2: Okay?
51:11
Speaker 6: I think your wife did most of it.
51:15
Speaker 3: Can you say that?
51:16
Speaker 7: Is that fir?
51:17
Speaker 3: Which is okay?
51:18
Speaker 2: She's fine.
51:18
Speaker 9: Yeah, she's way smarter than me.
51:20
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll get it.
51:24
Speaker 12: You were listening to the Casey Clark Show.
51:28
Speaker 2: They are called micro joys throughout your day. You might
51:31
Speaker 2: have the crappiest job ever, but if you place these
51:33
Speaker 2: micro joys throughout your day, that job's not so bad. Yeah.
51:36
Speaker 6: You might bring in like a favorite food that you
51:38
Speaker 6: can snack on at some point during the day. Maybe
51:41
Speaker 6: there's a coworker that you really enjoy chatting with and
51:43
Speaker 6: you like block off a time of the day it is.
51:47
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, what.
51:50
Speaker 3: You said that with attitude.
51:51
Speaker 2: Well, no, I just like the way you position that
51:54
Speaker 2: if there is a particular person you work with, you
51:56
Speaker 2: like to block off a part of your day to
51:59
Speaker 2: interact with them, like a meeting.
52:01
Speaker 3: Yeah.
52:01
Speaker 6: No, honestly, so Emily that we work with her and
52:05
Speaker 6: I watch a lot of reality TV. I don't think
52:09
Speaker 6: we've done this together, but I know one time. Oh
52:12
Speaker 6: I hope this doesn't get her in trouble. No, because
52:14
Speaker 6: it was with our boss. Anyway, she blocked off like
52:17
Speaker 6: a half an hour meeting with our boss Chen to
52:21
Speaker 6: talk about I think it was love is Blind.
52:23
Speaker 3: Or something like that.
52:24
Speaker 2: She did. Really, she's so busy.
52:26
Speaker 3: Oh we love Emily. We love Emily.
52:28
Speaker 6: But I think that's kind of a fun way to
52:31
Speaker 6: get through your workday too, is you don't necessarily.
52:33
Speaker 3: Have a block off time.
52:34
Speaker 2: I love that time.
52:37
Speaker 6: If you know someone like watches the same TV shows
52:41
Speaker 6: as you, then you can be like, oh, I can't
52:43
Speaker 6: wait till they come in. We can talk about the
52:45
Speaker 6: episode that aired yesterday.
52:46
Speaker 2: So good isn't it? Yeah?
52:49
Speaker 3: Wow, I can learn a thing or two from it.
52:51
Speaker 2: I think. So I got to start reorganizing my day, man,
52:54
Speaker 2: because then when you look at my calendar, you're like,
52:56
Speaker 2: oh my god, look at it's all blocked, so busy
53:00
Speaker 2: doing I don't know, man, but he's it's blocked. She's
53:04
Speaker 2: so smart. She is so smart. All right, Chris. Your
53:08
Speaker 2: micro joys throughout the day, what are those?
53:11
Speaker 11: Coffee break?
53:12
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, I like that. If I know that
53:15
Speaker 2: I have leftover pizza in the fridge for lunch, what
53:21
Speaker 2: you know? That just makes my day. It isn't that though,
53:24
Speaker 2: Like I don't have to make lunch. It's waiting there
53:26
Speaker 2: for me. If you really want to disappoint me, or
53:29
Speaker 2: if you really want to hurt me, Chris, all you
53:31
Speaker 2: got to do is eat my leftover pizza and I'll
53:34
Speaker 2: be so hurt.
53:35
Speaker 3: That's the worst thing you could do to someone.
53:36
Speaker 15: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that would be That would be
53:40
Speaker 15: pretty rude for sure.
53:41
Speaker 2: Yeah. You can lie to me about anything you want.
53:43
Speaker 2: I don't care. But if if you eat that pizza.
53:49
Speaker 3: That's it.
53:50
Speaker 2: I fall apart.
53:52
Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark Show.
53:53
Speaker 2: If you just popped in. We were talking about these
53:58
Speaker 2: micro joys that you have throughout the day. Forget about
54:00
Speaker 2: trying to get that dream job. If you have a
54:02
Speaker 2: crummy job, just get a job that you basically have
54:06
Speaker 2: these little joys that you plant on your own throughout
54:09
Speaker 2: the day. Yeah, is that more like distraction.
54:13
Speaker 3: I think it.
54:13
Speaker 6: Gives you something to work towards, maybe like a healthy distraction.
54:19
Speaker 6: Destructions aren't always necessarily a bad thing, right Yeah. It
54:22
Speaker 6: just breaks up the monotony and it gives you something
54:24
Speaker 6: to look forward to, to motivate you and sets you
54:28
Speaker 6: up for the day. And I would think makes your
54:30
Speaker 6: day go by faster too, because then you just think, like, oh,
54:33
Speaker 6: only two more hours before I get to have my
54:36
Speaker 6: ice cream cone, that ice store, a company freezer or
54:40
Speaker 6: something like that.
54:41
Speaker 2: Right, your micro you don't do I think you do
54:45
Speaker 2: it micro weeks.
54:47
Speaker 3: I micro joys throughout the week. I totally do.
54:50
Speaker 2: Yeah.
54:50
Speaker 6: I set up my week in a certain way, and
54:52
Speaker 6: it doesn't always work out this way. But my Wednesdays
54:57
Speaker 6: are always very light, ye, and I save those for
55:01
Speaker 6: my middays, so I get caught up on like paperwork.
55:04
Speaker 2: Tuesdays though, to be trick, okay, they might actually be
55:09
Speaker 2: lighter than Wednesdays.
55:10
Speaker 3: Actually, Tuesdays are light for me right now.
55:14
Speaker 2: Well, they're light because you got a lot of extra
55:16
Speaker 2: stuff you want to do.
55:18
Speaker 3: But it's all about balance.
55:19
Speaker 2: No, I know, no, I get it. Listen, I am envious.
55:23
Speaker 6: My full life like with work and other stuff, is
55:27
Speaker 6: very busy on Tuesdays, which is why it's crazy ladies
55:32
Speaker 6: Gulf night.
55:32
Speaker 3: I know, I got a tea time.
55:34
Speaker 2: I gotta get there too.
55:35
Speaker 3: I'm really tired from soccer on Monday.
55:37
Speaker 2: Monday nights are disaster.
55:39
Speaker 6: Yes, exactly. So Tuesdays are actually very jam back for me.
55:42
Speaker 2: Technically, take you know, a lot of Mondays off, so
55:45
Speaker 2: then when you come back Tuesdays, you come back Tuesdays.
55:49
Speaker 2: It's also a light day and Wednesdays you just coordinated
55:51
Speaker 2: stuff so you can be on light on Wednesdays. So
55:53
Speaker 2: now I got it.
55:55
Speaker 6: Okay, My week is very backloaded. It is not by design,
56:00
Speaker 6: and that is work obligations. Yes, so to prepare for
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Speaker 6: the like I am.
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Speaker 2: It's a build up, Okay.
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Speaker 3: I work a lot on Thursdays and Friday.
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Speaker 2: There it's light. You're here those two days of the week,
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Speaker 2: just jam day.
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Speaker 3: So anyway, my micro joys are of the week. I
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Speaker 3: love Wednesdays so much.
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Speaker 2: You load up, you preload your micro joys. Yes, during
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Speaker 2: the week, and it's not even.
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Speaker 3: Like I do anything in particular to look forward to.
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Speaker 6: It's just I know, Wednesdays are just kind of my
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Speaker 6: chill days and I get caught up on stuff and
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Speaker 6: I love it so much.
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Speaker 2: Oh it's brilliant, really, it is, Ashley micro Joys. What
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Speaker 2: do you look forward to?
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Speaker 13: Oh, that would be baking cookies or just taking a
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Speaker 13: walk through the park.
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Speaker 3: I love both those days.
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Speaker 17: Yeah.
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Speaker 2: Yeah. May I ask how many times you bake cookies
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Speaker 2: in a week?
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Speaker 13: Oh well, usually all my days off, So it's like, uh, once,
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Speaker 13: maybe even twice.
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Speaker 3: No way, And do you make it for scratch?
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Speaker 10: Oh?
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Speaker 13: Yeah, that's the only way to do it.
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Speaker 2: Like I like, actually like, oh yeah, what other way
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Speaker 2: is there? What a silly question?
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Speaker 4: It's the Casey Clark show.
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Speaker 2: Cute or cringey from a woman on TikTok who invited
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Speaker 2: a first date or over to help her paint. She
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Speaker 2: didn't have time to get a proper I guess, a
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Speaker 2: proper first date together, so she said, Hey, wouldn't this
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Speaker 2: be cute if I ordered pizzas some beers. We sit here,
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Speaker 2: we get to know each other, and we just paint
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Speaker 2: a little. He ghosted her.
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Speaker 6: Oh no, I have heard of I think there's a
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Speaker 6: term for it, like time maxing. Or something like that,
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Speaker 6: where you know, we are very busy people. So if
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Speaker 6: you are in the dating world, if say you have
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Speaker 6: a bunch of laundry piling up, if you're okay with
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Speaker 6: people looking at your dirty clothes, like some people have
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Speaker 6: dates like that.
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Speaker 2: Oh you go to laundry, Matt.
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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, maybe not your first date.
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Speaker 6: No, but you know, you might have someone over and
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Speaker 6: fold some clothes or whatever. And it's just a way
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Speaker 6: to like make the most of your time and still
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Speaker 6: get some stuff done.
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Speaker 3: But chat with somebody.
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Speaker 2: You're short, short ordered cook you come buy for a
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Speaker 2: cup of coffee? Yeah? Why not? Yeah? Eggs high up?
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Speaker 2: Like wowid you have a really deep voice. Hey, at work.
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Speaker 6: It's just a really good way to make the most
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Speaker 6: of your time, right, and still get some work done.
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Speaker 6: So I see what this lady's up.
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Speaker 2: To, Jackie Jackson Ham hold the sauce, okay, well yeah, yeah.
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Speaker 2: You know, when you really get to know somebody that way,
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Speaker 2: I think.
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Speaker 3: So you get to see them in their own.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a little different, Brad. It's is cute or
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Speaker 2: is it cringe?
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Speaker 9: It's too early to be cute.
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Speaker 11: No, that's cringing to me.
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Speaker 2: Too early to be cute.
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Speaker 3: What does that mean?
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Speaker 11: Yeah, it give it a couple of weeks, give it
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Speaker 11: a month.
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Speaker 2: Okay, I see, then I can help do your chores.
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Speaker 2: But not until then.
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Speaker 13: Yeah, Like, man, I want.
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Speaker 6: To say that about everything, anything that I don't want
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Speaker 6: to do. I'll just be like, it's too early to
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Speaker 6: be It's.
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Speaker 2: Too early to be this cute. But for Sasha, she
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Speaker 2: would be like, it's like too early in the day,
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Speaker 2: truly in the week, Yeah, truly.
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Speaker 3: In the month, too early in my life, in the.
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Speaker 2: Year, Like she's going to block it off somehow. Yeah,
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Speaker 2: too early to be cute. Way to go, Brad, you
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Speaker 2: just give her another superpower. Okay.
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Speaker 4: The Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 5: This is the Casey Clerk Show.
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Speaker 2: Lady on TikTok came up with this idea of a
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Speaker 2: cute little date first date. Because she could make time
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Speaker 2: for the date, she suggested that the guy meet her
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Speaker 2: over at the place that she was working. She's doing
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Speaker 2: a reno and she's painting. She says, you know what,
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Speaker 2: I'll buy some pizza, I'll have, you know, a six
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Speaker 2: pack of beer. We'll sit there and we'll get to
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Speaker 2: know each other and we'll paint and you know, we
1:00:08
Speaker 2: won't get distracted. Isn't that cute?
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Speaker 3: Yikes? And he ghosted her, right, he ghosted her?
1:00:13
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was that was the whole thing. Guy didn't
1:00:15
Speaker 2: even get back to me.
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Speaker 6: So I feel like I'm just picturing this painting situation.
1:00:22
Speaker 6: As you know, she's in some rental unit. Yeah, and
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Speaker 6: it's the whitest white, boring paint.
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Speaker 2: I don't know if I would trust anybody to do
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Speaker 2: what you're asking them to do on a first date though.
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Speaker 6: Oh like a huge mirror. Yeah, yeah, I know, I
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Speaker 6: do understand.
1:00:39
Speaker 2: That complexity of that. I'm like, I don't even know
1:00:42
Speaker 2: who you are, man, I don't know what you're gonna
1:00:45
Speaker 2: drawer might come in here and going, what are you
1:00:47
Speaker 2: guys doing? Like you know that would I? I would like,
1:00:54
Speaker 2: you don't have a creative bone in your body. I
1:00:55
Speaker 2: guess you. I guess you would find out quickly exactly true. Okay,
1:00:59
Speaker 2: that's not bad, and maybe.
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Speaker 3: You can start with a pencil, work your way up
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Speaker 3: to paint.
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Speaker 2: This is going nowhere fast. This is the worst decision
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Speaker 2: I've ever made. I can buy my own pizza.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't need to paint for this and draw millions.
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Speaker 2: Of Yeah, drawing millions in the in the kids bedroom.
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Speaker 2: What am I doing? Yeah? I get that, I get
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Speaker 2: it shall be cute or cringey.
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Speaker 13: I think the date idea is cringey because she's getting
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Speaker 13: paid and she's just like using him for labor.
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Speaker 2: That's what it is. It's cheap labor.
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Speaker 5: No wonder he bailed free labor.
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Speaker 3: Actually yeah, well, let'sten.
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Speaker 2: He could have turned out to be just a lump
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Speaker 2: of a painter, and so she doesn't know.
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Speaker 14: He could have ruined it for her.
1:01:52
Speaker 2: So it was a gamble either way. But yeah, you're
1:01:54
Speaker 2: not wrong. I think she was trying to get some
1:01:56
Speaker 2: free labor out of it.
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Speaker 6: And she just thought it was cute for some reason.
1:02:00
Speaker 6: And well hold on, it's worse.
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, but no, that's cute at all. Low key,
1:02:05
Speaker 2: I kind of, you know, admire that hustle.
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Speaker 13: Yeah, yeah, we got to give it to the girl.
1:02:11
Speaker 2: Yeah.
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