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Do The Right Thing... · Billy & Lisa in the Morning: The After Show

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  Speaker 1: Hello, friends.
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  Speaker 2: You're listening to the After Show podcast and I am
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  Speaker 2: justin Hi, guys. It's a Thursday. Today is March twelfth.
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  Speaker 2: Kind of gloomy outside. If you are listening to this
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  Speaker 2: podcast around this time earlier on a Thursday, you know
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  Speaker 2: what I'm talking about. But you know, people consume this
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  Speaker 2: podcast at later times, later days, sometimes even months down
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  Speaker 2: the road. So yeah, it's gloomy outside today, looks like
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  Speaker 2: real like shit, but it's okay. It's not that cold outside.
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  Speaker 2: Actually it's twenty eight degrees so oh man. We had
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  Speaker 2: a couple of good days this week. But vacation's coming
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  Speaker 2: up next week. Looking forward to it. Been talking a
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  Speaker 2: lot about it, because yeah, it's vacation, you know. And
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  Speaker 2: it's not just a vacation. It's I mean, it's a vacation,
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  Speaker 2: but it's a go away vacation, you know. I Mean,
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  Speaker 2: most times we don't go anywhere. I do a lot
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  Speaker 2: of staycations, but this time we are going somewhere.
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  Speaker 1: We're going to Aruba.
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  Speaker 2: So we got the itinerary from the airbnb yesterday. I
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  Speaker 2: was so excited that when I wrote back to the person,
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  Speaker 2: I had a little bit of a typo there which
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  Speaker 2: I haven't in front of me here, I'll read it
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  Speaker 2: to you so I don't have to add libit.
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  Speaker 1: So they sent details.
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  Speaker 2: Now now mind you you know this was a highly
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  Speaker 2: rated airbnb I did, we did some research on it
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  Speaker 2: before just booking it. But still, you know, we paid
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  Speaker 2: a lot of money, thousands of dollars months ago. I
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  Speaker 2: think we booked it in September, and all they say
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  Speaker 2: is thank you, You're all set. They take the money
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  Speaker 2: and then they say, okay, we'll reach out to you
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  Speaker 2: the week before. But I started having thoughts, you know,
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  Speaker 2: in January, like what if it's a scam, what if
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  Speaker 2: I don't like get the message, you know. But we did,
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  Speaker 2: of course, and they were very nice. They give all
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  Speaker 2: the details and they're awaiting our arrival there. So I
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  Speaker 2: responded back right away. When the message came in, I said, hey, blank,
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  Speaker 2: we are so sorry, excited, thank you, And I didn't
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  Speaker 2: even notice it. I sent it, and then right away
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  Speaker 2: my wife and my friend who are also on the
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  Speaker 2: aaronba Me immediately messages me in that like you're sorry,
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  Speaker 2: You're sorry, You're going to a rub Oh my, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, what's wrong with me? So I had to
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  Speaker 2: write back to them and say I'm not sorry. We're
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  Speaker 2: actually very excited to come. We're very, very, very excited.
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  Speaker 2: So that's good.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway we can get some talkbacks in here from you guys.
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  Speaker 3: Hey, justin I just had a question. If you weren't
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  Speaker 3: in radio or you lost your job, let's say next week,
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  Speaker 3: what career would you look into. Do you think you
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  Speaker 3: would stay in the media space or would you go
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  Speaker 3: into the recovery part of your life? Yeah, just kind
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  Speaker 3: of curious. I think every once in a while we
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  Speaker 3: all consider a career change. So I was just wondering
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  Speaker 3: what your thoughts were.
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  Speaker 2: You know, I think about this all the time all
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  Speaker 2: the time because I work in a business that it's unpredictable.
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  Speaker 2: You don't know what's going to happen. You just got
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  Speaker 2: to keep showing up and working hard and hope that
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  Speaker 2: you know your time doesn't come. But it is media,
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  Speaker 2: and that's not not just radio, that's any media, right,
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  Speaker 2: that's TV radio. I mean, people get let go all
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  Speaker 2: the time. So I think about that, and yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not sure. Possibly recovery, that's definitely a road I could
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  Speaker 2: go down. Also, maybe fitness too, Yeah, maybe be a
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  Speaker 2: trainer or maybe something else in media. The thing is
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  Speaker 2: that I have a lot of experience now in media.
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  Speaker 2: I've worked here for seventeen years, in radio, in producing,
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  Speaker 2: in you know, being on the radio.
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  Speaker 1: So I don't I don't really know.
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  Speaker 2: I try not to stress myself out and think, like
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  Speaker 2: what if something happens, but it's definitely a reality. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: look at Winnie, you know, when he was here for
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  Speaker 2: several years and then boom gone. You know, it sucks.
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  Speaker 2: It really does suck. So I just have faith that
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  Speaker 2: it'll be okay.
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  Speaker 1: You know, I don't know if I was saying this
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  Speaker 1: to somebody on the pot.
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  Speaker 2: I was off the air, off the podcast. I was
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  Speaker 2: talking to Billy, and I forget it. I wasn't talking
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  Speaker 2: about losing my job. I was just talking about about
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  Speaker 2: life in general. And you know, since I've been in recovery,
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  Speaker 2: things have just worked out because this is what I believe.
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  Speaker 2: I continue to do the right thing as best as
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  Speaker 2: I can, and that means, you know, not hurting anybody,
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  Speaker 2: treating people good, just living a godly life, I guess
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  Speaker 2: is a good way to describe it, right, because we
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  Speaker 2: know what's right and what's wrong. You know, That's what
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  Speaker 2: I tell my son all the time.
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  Speaker 1: You know, he's learning.
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  Speaker 2: You know, he's a kid, so he doesn't know, but
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  Speaker 2: you know he is learning what's right and what's wrong.
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  Speaker 2: You know, Like when you do something one time, you
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  Speaker 2: get a pass because maybe if you did not know
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  Speaker 2: what it was. But if you do it again and again,
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  Speaker 2: then it becomes a problem and that's when consequences come in,
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  Speaker 2: punishment comes. But if it's the first time, that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you learn. So you know, life is about
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  Speaker 2: doing the right thing. And I feel like since I've
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  Speaker 2: gotten clean, I've done that consistently, and my life has
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  Speaker 2: been okay. Like I've never found myself in a hole
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  Speaker 2: big enough that I couldn't get out of. And you know,
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  Speaker 2: it doesn't mean it's all sunshine and rainbows and that
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  Speaker 2: every day is great. That's listen, it's life. There's peaks
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  Speaker 2: and valleys, you know, in family, in my life and
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  Speaker 2: career physically, there's always things going on. But overall I've
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  Speaker 2: been okay. I've always had a job, even when it
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  Speaker 2: wasn't making a lot of money, I was always able
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  Speaker 2: to make it through. You know, So if I lose
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  Speaker 2: my job, then I'll find something else to do and
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  Speaker 2: I'll be okay. The world's not gonna end. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: going to pick up, I'm not gonna get high, I'm
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  Speaker 2: not gonna drink, I'm not gonna do anything crazy. I'm
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  Speaker 2: not going to commit a crime. I'm gonna deal with it,
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  Speaker 2: and I'll be very sad. Let's be honest. You know
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  Speaker 2: I said that to Winning, you know, when she left.
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  Speaker 2: I said, I can't imagine what you're feeling right now,
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  Speaker 2: because I'd be feeling emotional too. I'd be upset too.
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  Speaker 2: It sucks, So I try not to think of it
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  Speaker 2: in a negative way. I just just know and I
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  Speaker 2: have faith that it'll be okay, I guess, is what
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  Speaker 2: I have to say. So, uh, speaking of Winn, a
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  Speaker 2: lot of people hitting me up about her podcast in
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  Speaker 2: getting my thoughts on it. Yeah, I mean, listen, I'm
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  Speaker 2: so far removed from that, but if you are, and
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  Speaker 2: I know a lot of people are interested in the
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  Speaker 2: whole story of all that stuff, definitely go listen to
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  Speaker 2: it because you know she says it all which you
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  Speaker 2: know she's telling the truth. I mean, like you know,
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  Speaker 2: she's just telling it how it is. She's not tied
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  Speaker 2: to here anymore, she's not tied to anybody, so you know,
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  Speaker 2: she can say whatever she wants. So if you're interested,
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  Speaker 2: definitely go check it out. I mean, yeah, it's a
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  Speaker 2: crazy place we work, you know, and I feel like
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  Speaker 2: we alluded to it a lot, you know, especially in
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  Speaker 2: this podcast, Like we didn't come out and say exactly things,
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  Speaker 2: but we alluded to there were issues, I mean, and
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  Speaker 2: that was the biggest thing I always used to say
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  Speaker 2: when people were like, what happened? What happened with Matt
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  Speaker 2: and Bill? You know, and it's like, just put two
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  Speaker 2: and two together. I know, we don't have to explain
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  Speaker 2: it all for you. There were issues going on. You know,
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  Speaker 2: it's a very complex situation. But I'm more moved from
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  Speaker 2: that stuff. Man, I can't be caught up in all
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  Speaker 2: that bullshit. Like, you know, it is what it is.
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  Speaker 2: It really doesn't have anything to do with me. I
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  Speaker 2: was obviously I was involved, and I was here through
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  Speaker 2: it all. But we're talking years later. Man, this is
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  Speaker 2: years later. But but I do know on the other end,
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  Speaker 2: and I did say to some of you that DM
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  Speaker 2: me on this, I know that a lot of people
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  Speaker 2: were left in the dark, the listeners, So it's easy
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  Speaker 2: for me to say I don't care because I know
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  Speaker 2: the whole story. But there's so many people everybody that
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  Speaker 2: doesn't know the whole story and wants to and have
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  Speaker 2: sat in the dark for all the all this time.
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  Speaker 2: So yeah, it's your your chance to hear what went
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  Speaker 2: on the raw truth. So go check it out for sure.
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  Speaker 2: And uh, yeah, you can let me know how it
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  Speaker 2: is if you want to send a talk Well not,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not going to play a talk back, but you
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  Speaker 2: can shoot me a DM if you will. So, Uh,
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  Speaker 2: Bill's got his food show coming up. I tried to
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  Speaker 2: get him on this podcast like when he joins, but
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  Speaker 2: he's in there doing his hair in the office and
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  Speaker 2: I walked in and asked them, Hey, you want to
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  Speaker 2: come on the podcast and he said, no, I can't.
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting ready for my food show. And I said
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  Speaker 2: to him, but your food show is radio, it's not
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  Speaker 2: on TV. But you're doing your hair. Makes no sense
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  Speaker 2: And he just looked at me while he was brushing
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  Speaker 2: his hairs. So but I'll blame him. Man, he needs
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  Speaker 2: he deserves a break. He just did a four five
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  Speaker 2: hour radios four hour radio show. He's been here since
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  Speaker 2: four am, so he can take a break. It's all good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it.
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  Speaker 2: I'm going to go to class today at Drive. I
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  Speaker 2: got a class at twelve. It's a lift class, a
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  Speaker 2: little chest, a little back, so that should be fun.
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  Speaker 2: I did post a picture on my Instagram, quite thirsty,
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  Speaker 2: thirsty pick.
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  Speaker 1: Of my legs in the sauna.
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  Speaker 2: I wanted to show off the sauna, so I was
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  Speaker 2: in there and I took the picture and then my
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  Speaker 2: legs look super veiny. And I know, if you're not
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  Speaker 2: into that stuff, it looks very weird and very gross,
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  Speaker 2: you know. But to someone like me or somebody that
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  Speaker 2: works out, it's into like muscle and legs and all that.
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  Speaker 2: Like I did get DMS and people were like, oh
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  Speaker 2: my god, that's great. But I've said it before and
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  Speaker 2: I'll say it again.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: As weird as it is, my leg development is one
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  Speaker 2: of my proudest things in my life.
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  Speaker 1: So sometimes I like.
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  Speaker 2: To show it off. That's all. It's what I like
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  Speaker 2: to do. It's very hard to build muscle and legs.
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  Speaker 2: Most people skip their legs because it hurts. It's painful.
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  Speaker 2: It's tough mentally, not just physically, there is a lot
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  Speaker 2: of pain physically but also mentally. To show up and
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  Speaker 2: push your legs to that limit. That's why people only
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  Speaker 2: do upper body. Upper body day every day. They do
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  Speaker 2: arms and chest and biceps, because you know, you can
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  Speaker 2: wear pants and no shirt and you look fine, or
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  Speaker 2: you can wear longer shorts and taller socks. You know,
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  Speaker 2: so I get proud of them and I show it off.
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  Speaker 2: So I just want to say, I know it's weird.
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  Speaker 2: I don't live in a fantasy land or like I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna show my legs off. Oh my god. Everyone is
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  Speaker 2: just gonna be like wow, justin amazing quods. I know
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  Speaker 2: that's not how it is. I know the vast majority
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  Speaker 2: of people are like, what the fuck is this?
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  Speaker 1: You know, I'll never forget.
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  Speaker 2: When Jay Cutler, the bodybuilder came in, I booked them
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  Speaker 2: because I used to say it to Maddie back in
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  Speaker 2: the day. I'd say, I get one selfish booking a year,
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  Speaker 2: and he was like, what do you mean, I go
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  Speaker 2: one booking where I don't have to run it by you.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just gonna book them, and I'm only doing it
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  Speaker 2: for myself because I want them on the show and
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  Speaker 2: I want you to interview them. And he said one
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  Speaker 2: a year, fine, I want to ask any questions. So
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  Speaker 2: one year it was Jay Cutler, the bodybuilder. He you know,
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  Speaker 2: he's a couple of shows here in Boston a couple
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  Speaker 2: times a year, so he came in. Obviously, Jay's retired now,
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  Speaker 2: but he's you know, was mister Olympia. He's still wicked jacked.
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  Speaker 2: And I remember Matt. The first question he asked him
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  Speaker 2: was the girls like it? Like the girls like the
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  Speaker 2: big muscles and the you know, gorilla look, And Jay goes, Nope,
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  Speaker 2: absolutely not. He goes, the vast majority of them I
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  Speaker 2: think it's creepy and weird and are actually.
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  Speaker 1: Scared of me.
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, that's crazy, crazy, crazy. So
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  Speaker 2: you know, it's not lost on me that it looks weird.
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  Speaker 2: So anyway, that's it for the after show today Tomorrow's Friday.
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  Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna I can't promise they'll be an after show.
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  Speaker 2: I'm very busy wrapping things up, but I'm almost positive
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  Speaker 2: I'll jump on and say goodbye, because you know, we'll
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  Speaker 2: be off for a week. But if by chance, I
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  Speaker 2: don't have a great week, and I'll have the full
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  Speaker 2: recap of everything about vacation and the check in on
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  Speaker 2: the after show and I get back, but i'll say
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  Speaker 2: hi bye tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: Don't worry, I won't leave you hanging. Love you, guys,