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The Tube Changes Everything · Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad

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  Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,
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  Speaker 1: we are scrubbing it from.
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  Speaker 2: Bahamar in the Bahamas. Do we sound better today?
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  Speaker 1: Do we sound like we got more than two hours
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  Speaker 1: of sleep?
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  Speaker 2: Yes? We do. But we're really excited. It's our second
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  Speaker 2: day at Bahama. We're in the brand new podcast studio,
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  Speaker 2: the studio at Baha Bar, and we're about to do
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  Speaker 2: the ribbon cutting. So we're a little bit giddy and.
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  Speaker 1: Excited, beyond excited.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, I was telling Becca earlier today,
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  Speaker 2: just like thirty minutes ago, this is really special because
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  Speaker 2: I feel like I don't get to spend a lot
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  Speaker 2: of quality time with you and Haley. Oh yeah, Like
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  Speaker 2: as we get older and we are starting these new
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  Speaker 2: seasons of life, it's really weird because like we used
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  Speaker 2: to spend I used to come to your apartment every
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  Speaker 2: single day after work. Every single day, I would go
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  Speaker 2: to your apartment and we would like spend the whole
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  Speaker 2: day together.
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  Speaker 1: We lived in the same building by way, that was
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  Speaker 1: next door. She wasn't driving anywhere driving.
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  Speaker 2: No, Yeah, that would be crazy. You would never would
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  Speaker 2: never do that, but like our lives are so different now,
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  Speaker 2: you know, and like they're going to continue to get different,
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  Speaker 2: and we're going to go through different seasons and so
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  Speaker 2: these times are not as often, but they're so special
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  Speaker 2: when we get to have them. And it's just been
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  Speaker 2: really nice them and I feel very grateful.
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  Speaker 1: It's been so much fun. Like even yesterday the travel
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  Speaker 1: and like how tired we were, Haley was like, I'm
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  Speaker 1: having the best time, Like I like, and I obviously
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  Speaker 1: Haley loves you. We've always known that Haley loves you.
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  Speaker 1: But I think because it's we're getting so much of
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  Speaker 1: you because obviously when when you're a couple so much
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  Speaker 1: on a couple's trip and it's like you do your own,
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  Speaker 1: like you don't really like without us on this trip,
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  Speaker 1: you're not going and doing anything by yourself, right, So
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  Speaker 1: we're getting to have you by yourself, which obviously we
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  Speaker 1: miss robbing. We love Robby, but it's been really fun
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  Speaker 1: just having like the girls and like the girls and
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  Speaker 1: the giggles, the giggles and the gals, the gals and
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  Speaker 1: the giggles. Yeah, but we had the same we had
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  Speaker 1: the same chatless.
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  Speaker 2: It like really kind of got me emotional and like
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  Speaker 2: nostalgic and just kind of like like how we're growing
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  Speaker 2: up and how like relationships show how like relationships shift
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  Speaker 2: in life. But like you know, in like your twenties,
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  Speaker 2: you're so carefree and you don't have you know, I mean,
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  Speaker 2: we didn't have significant others, so we were like young
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  Speaker 2: and free, and like now we're it's like any.
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  Speaker 1: Now we got ball and chain.
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  Speaker 2: Now we got balls and chains and more to come.
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  Speaker 2: But like they're all so exciting and they're all so
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  Speaker 2: beautiful in their own way. But it does like change
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  Speaker 2: your relationship. And I don't know, I just feel like
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  Speaker 2: very grateful that we've remained so close.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know me too, telling ya we should
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  Speaker 3: do a trip, Like we should do just a trip
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  Speaker 3: where like girls like even obviously it's it's kind of
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  Speaker 3: complicated sometimes being with a woman because every every.
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  Speaker 1: Trip is a girls trip for me. It's the beauty
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  Speaker 1: of it. Every it's like a slumber party for everywhere
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  Speaker 1: we go. But it is nice to have like the
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  Speaker 1: time with you with her, and then I also I'm
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  Speaker 1: like it's so important to have time with you and
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  Speaker 1: just me, you know, and and like my friendships and
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  Speaker 1: even on the way here our second flight, Tanya and
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  Speaker 1: I I think accidentally we're next to each other.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, we both just and I didn't know where you
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  Speaker 2: were sitting. So that's just like the stars. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: so we had the best part is is I was
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  Speaker 2: checking into the fight. I was like seven am and
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  Speaker 2: I texted back and I'd be like, what seat are you?
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  Speaker 2: So I gets the next one and I was like,
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  Speaker 2: she's not waking up for like three more hours, so
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  Speaker 2: I'm not waiting that. I just like got my seat.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't have a sea yet. I didn't, but Hailey
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  Speaker 1: was a few roads ahead of us, and Tanya was like,
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  Speaker 1: do you want me to switch with you? And it
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  Speaker 1: was like that moment where I was like, wait, do
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  Speaker 1: I need to switch to Haley? And then I was
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  Speaker 1: like no, like this is and Haley didn't care. She's
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  Speaker 1: like I'm gonna eat my burger at nine a m.
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  Speaker 1: And her sake and shake burger and yeah, it's just
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  Speaker 1: been really fun. I'm happy to be here with you
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  Speaker 1: and you and you.
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  Speaker 4: We're having a great time here the first ever resort
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  Speaker 4: based podcast studio. Did you guys get down to the
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  Speaker 4: beach at all yesterday? Did you go in the water.
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  Speaker 2: No, but you know what we did do yesterday, which
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  Speaker 2: was luxurious and decadent. We got massages.
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  Speaker 1: We did and.
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  Speaker 2: Let me tell you what a massage does when you're
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  Speaker 2: on two hours of sleep.
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  Speaker 1: They both went to sleep up to slip over. Haley
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  Speaker 1: said she woke herself up twice snoring, and the girl
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  Speaker 1: told her, she I'm not I can't sleep in a massage.
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  Speaker 2: You also can't sleep bent over.
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  Speaker 1: I literally can't sleep unless I'm in my bed. But
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  Speaker 1: we I've talked about this on the podcast. But I
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  Speaker 1: dropped that mirror my leg and you saw the bruises.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, they're pretty narly.
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  Speaker 1: They're quite intense. And so I'm getting ready for the
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  Speaker 1: massage and I'm like, oh my gosh, if she if I,
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  Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta let her know these are off limits.
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  Speaker 1: So I showed her and she's like, oh wow. She's like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: didn't make me feel better about the parents of them.
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  Speaker 1: But she had to stay away. But the massage was amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really nice. It was in perfect yesterday.
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  Speaker 1: But then we made the decision of going back to
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  Speaker 1: the room and we all laid down on the bed
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  Speaker 1: and because we had a dinner reservation, and we were
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  Speaker 1: texting each other like I don't know how I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get back up.
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  Speaker 2: I was like sitting down with a very bad choice.
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  Speaker 1: Cause yeah, but we went to dinner, and then I realized,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I've always thought that Tanya Haley is a Tanya,
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  Speaker 1: Tanya is a Haley.
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  Speaker 2: We are.
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  Speaker 1: It is so crazy how similar like both of them.
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  Speaker 1: We went to dinner and we ate so much. We
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  Speaker 1: ordered everything on the menu of the I don't think
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  Speaker 1: it was that much, Okay, it felt like I felt
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  Speaker 1: like a lot.
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  Speaker 5: Like they kept bringing out plates, plates, and we all
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  Speaker 5: kept eating like no, We'd be like, we're so full,
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  Speaker 5: and then it's like, oh, can we see the dessert mini?
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  Speaker 1: You know, there's no stopping. And then both of them
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  Speaker 1: after is anyone else's stomach hurting?
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  Speaker 2: I feel I ate too much, too much.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, y'all are the same. Like when I eat
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  Speaker 1: too much, it's just I'm like, oh, man, to myself,
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  Speaker 1: I eat too much.
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  Speaker 2: But the announcements, multiple announcements until it stops hurting.
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  Speaker 1: Which might be yeah, because they both have gun issues.
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  Speaker 2: It is like, sometimes I feel bad for you, like
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  Speaker 2: when I'm in like one of my moods and I'm
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  Speaker 2: like kneeding from you. I'm like, oh, I forget that
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  Speaker 2: she's in a relationship with the me and that could
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  Speaker 2: be very tiring at times. But I feel like you
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  Speaker 2: have a new appreciation for me.
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  Speaker 1: I know how to handle both. Like I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I anything you come at me with, I'm prepared, Like
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  Speaker 1: nothing you do, even when you're pouting or you're acting
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  Speaker 1: because I'm not giving enough attention. I'm like, I know
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  Speaker 1: how to deal with this. I don't feel stressed. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just like, okay, you know what Tanya does? Okay, what
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  Speaker 1: does Tanya do? I was thinking about this this morning
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  Speaker 1: because I naturally I run late. I'm always barely giving
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  Speaker 1: myself enough time to get to where I need to be,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm still probably late even if I get myself
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  Speaker 1: enough time. Tanya will text me as I'm getting ready right,
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  Speaker 1: she knows she's going to see me, but she'll be
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  Speaker 1: can I have a sprits of perfume? And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: in my mind, I'm like, I don't have time to
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  Speaker 1: answer to have this conversation.
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  Speaker 2: I'm prepping you to know that I'm ready, well right,
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  Speaker 2: and it's time to be ready.
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  Speaker 1: Ten fifteen and it's ten, and she goes, I'm almost ready,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, great, see you in fifteen. Ready like
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  Speaker 1: my planned last night.
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  Speaker 2: I I think if our podcast time is ten thirty,
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  Speaker 2: that Beck, it means Beck and I need to be
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  Speaker 2: on the couch starting to record at ten thirty. Becca,
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  Speaker 2: I think things ten thirty means on our way walking
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  Speaker 2: at ten thirty.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I said ten fifteen.
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  Speaker 2: I know, but we also wanted to get coffee, and
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  Speaker 2: I knew there was going to be a line. I
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  Speaker 2: knew we were going to be late for the ten
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  Speaker 2: thirty start, right, so I was trying to imagine we checked.
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  Speaker 1: I was trying, okay, we are respectful before we stopped
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  Speaker 1: and got coffee, and I said it was fine and
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  Speaker 1: surely happen.
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  Speaker 2: And I will tell you I have to fight my
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  Speaker 2: type a personality when I'm with you, because I'm like,
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  Speaker 2: I can't push her too hard because what's the point
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  Speaker 2: in me leaving my room at ten am still be
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  Speaker 2: waiting for her, you know, down there.
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  Speaker 1: But if you last night said I think we should
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  Speaker 1: be ready at ten am, I would have said, okay,
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  Speaker 1: then that's so that then I would have played at
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  Speaker 1: ten am. No, he said, we agreed to him fifteen.
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  Speaker 1: Oh we did.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I'm gonna blame attired because I would not
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  Speaker 2: have agreed to.
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  Speaker 1: Ten text until I'm almost ready. So then I'm I'm
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  Speaker 1: stopping what I'm doing looking at my phone. It's not
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  Speaker 1: something I need to respond to. And it's like I
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  Speaker 1: need air to perfume. I'm like, Okay, ask me that
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  Speaker 1: when you get here and need the perfume. And I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: it's so funny because when I'm getting ready, I'm in
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  Speaker 1: like I need to be focused because if I start
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  Speaker 1: texting on the the side, it's going to distract me.
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  Speaker 1: It's gonna throw me off. So I noticed you do that.
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  Speaker 2: I do do that. I do do that. I'm also
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  Speaker 2: very I could be very passive aggressive.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, yes, are.
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  Speaker 4: You texting while you're getting ready? Is that something you do?
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  Speaker 1: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: I know you're ready at this point.
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  Speaker 2: But I was ready. And the thing is I wake up.
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  Speaker 2: I think I woke up earlier than her because I
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  Speaker 2: like to I don't definitely, I don't like the stress
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  Speaker 2: of like I need every minute like I like to know. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: it takes me, like, let's say, all in thirty five
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  Speaker 2: minutes to get ready forty minutes max. I give myself
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  Speaker 2: a full hour so I can like get up, I
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  Speaker 2: can take my time on the toilet, I can like
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  Speaker 2: text a little on my phone, you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like to be so like to the minute
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  Speaker 2: because that would stress me out, right, So I give
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  Speaker 2: myself I awake earlier on the back end, right right, right,
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  Speaker 2: Well two types of people in the world.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, and we are then, Yeah, we represent it.
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  Speaker 2: I even do it, like when I get ready for work,
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  Speaker 2: Like if I wanted to, I could wake up probably
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  Speaker 2: half an hour after my alarm. But I don't like
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  Speaker 2: to have that rush in the morning. I like to
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  Speaker 2: like drink my bone broth. I like to write my letters.
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  Speaker 2: I like to step on my vibration plate if I can.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, this is introducing a bigger thing that we don't
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  Speaker 4: have to get into. But have we had the ADHD conversation?
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  Speaker 1: Oh? I think we haven't. But I myself have had
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  Speaker 1: it with myself.
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  Speaker 4: Because I don't see a lot of the symptoms in you.
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  Speaker 4: But also that's me. Maybe no, But like that's the
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  Speaker 4: thing that people who have this is like that they
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  Speaker 4: if there's like a deadline and it's coming up. That's
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  Speaker 4: when they work the best, you know, Like yeah, and
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  Speaker 4: I'm kind of that way.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and ah.
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  Speaker 4: I that re means to be seen.
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  Speaker 2: Yea as of now.
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  Speaker 4: We'll see what happens later. But I don't know. I
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  Speaker 4: just I was thinking about that with you because like,
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  Speaker 4: I know that because you always get here, I mean
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  Speaker 4: you look amazing, like.
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  Speaker 2: Everything always get here, get here. But does she get
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  Speaker 2: here on time?
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  Speaker 4: Not super late, I mean not hours, It's like ten minutes.
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  Speaker 2: Right all the same time every week. That's what I
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  Speaker 2: don't understand. I'll look at no, I m I at
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  Speaker 2: like eleven fifty five, and you're still at your studio.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what, nothing enrages me more than
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  Speaker 1: when I make the effort to be there ride or twelve.
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  Speaker 1: I walk into you all in a meeting. So I
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  Speaker 1: purposely am never there at twelve because I loathe walking
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  Speaker 1: in and then having everyone stares at you. It's the
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  Speaker 1: worst feeling.
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  Speaker 4: I understand completely, thank you, and I would do the
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  Speaker 4: same thing.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I do think there might be a tinge
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  Speaker 1: of ADHD just some I have some of the thing
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  Speaker 1: the tendencies, yea, of like knowing my time and then
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  Speaker 1: pushing it and then.
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  Speaker 4: The other thing I noticed from the story is the
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  Speaker 4: oh god, there's a name for this executive function or something.
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  Speaker 4: But like you're getting ready, you're seeing the text from
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  Speaker 4: tany coming in. I can't switch easily from one to
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  Speaker 4: the other. If I if i go text her, I'm
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  Speaker 4: gonna start scrolling or something like that. That's interesting.
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  Speaker 1: But yeah, I have the thing which I hear people
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  Speaker 1: that have ADHD that this is the thing where a
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  Speaker 1: notification or like a text on their phone can just
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  Speaker 1: or email that you need to respond to can like
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  Speaker 1: overwhelm you. Oh yeah, And it doesn't make sense, like logically,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like I just responded to the email or I
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  Speaker 1: just responded to the text. But for whatever reason, that's
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  Speaker 1: why I would. I think that's also a reason why
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  Speaker 1: when you text me like just like how are you
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  Speaker 1: feeling or things like that, and it's not something that
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  Speaker 1: I'm like immediately needing to respond to that, I just
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  Speaker 1: shut it off and then you feel ignored nothing.
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  Speaker 2: And enrages me more like a therapy and yeah we're
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  Speaker 2: at the Bahamas and couples therapy. Nothing enrages me more
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  Speaker 2: than when I'm being a attentive, wonderful friend when my
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  Speaker 2: friend is sick and I'm checking out her daily, like
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  Speaker 2: I'm like her mother, Hey, how are you feeling today, honey,
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  Speaker 2: like every morning checking in, I will wait hours for
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  Speaker 2: a response, and then I'm in three other group chats
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  Speaker 2: with her and she's pink pank pin and in the
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  Speaker 2: group chat, yeah, get tonya. Still how are you feeling?
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  Speaker 2: Has been left on red for five hours and she's
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  Speaker 2: yapping away in the group chats. Nothing infuriates me more.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like to. Like even when I was sick
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  Speaker 1: at home growing up, and when my mom would check
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  Speaker 1: on me and ask me how I was feeling, it
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  Speaker 1: made me feel like it's just like not great. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know, I'm just like not great. I don't need
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  Speaker 1: to be checked on when I'm sick. But I here's
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  Speaker 1: the thing. I appreciate the sentiment of it because it
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  Speaker 1: makes me feel loved that you care. But I don't
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  Speaker 1: want to feel inclined to respond, especially when I'm not
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  Speaker 1: feeling well. And if it's a group chat and it's
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  Speaker 1: like fun and like light and I'm not having to
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  Speaker 1: talk about how I feel, That's why I it.
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  Speaker 4: Seems like if the group chat was But I think
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  Speaker 4: if you text her and said how is Wuthering Heights?
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  Speaker 4: You would get a response yes, but.
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  Speaker 2: That's so frivolous. I don't care about that she's ill.
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  Speaker 2: I want to make sure she's feeling better on the
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  Speaker 2: men on the up and up. Yeah, I don't know
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  Speaker 2: what for this is really Yeah, it's interesting because so
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  Speaker 2: but it's interesting that you say you don't care about
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  Speaker 2: me asking. So that's like a good note for me.
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  Speaker 2: I can take that and run with it because after
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  Speaker 2: my surch dream, I'm also like you. I'm like, I
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  Speaker 2: don't need anybody checking in on me after my surgery.
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  Speaker 2: I will Sophia was the most on me friend that
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  Speaker 2: I could have ever asked for. And I loved it
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  Speaker 2: so much, like it made me feel I loved it,
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  Speaker 2: and I was like, I like cried to her because
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  Speaker 2: I was like the way that you handled this situation,
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  Speaker 2: I've never felt like more loved or cared for in
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  Speaker 2: her friendship. And I was like, and I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I've never been this good of a friend to you,
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  Speaker 2: like or to you or to her like I said,
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  Speaker 2: I was saying this to her, like I've I haven't
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  Speaker 2: been that good of a friend to you like you've
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  Speaker 2: been to me, and so it made me want to
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  Speaker 2: be like that for all my friends. And so even
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  Speaker 2: when you were sick, I'm like, I'm gonna do the
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  Speaker 2: Sofia thing and I check in.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I don't want to be Sophia. Yes, so
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  Speaker 1: I can be more. I can be more the way
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  Speaker 1: that you were to me, and you can be less
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  Speaker 1: the way you were to me. Yes, yes, because if
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  Speaker 1: you just I like distraction. So if you're like, oh
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: my gosh, like blah blah blah happened at work or whatever,
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: it is, like.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Distract me.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: Okay, I mean, it's like knowing each other's love language,
• 16:08
  Speaker 4: but to what degree do you need?
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: Thats a.
• 16:16
  Speaker 2: She is And like I'm not even kidding. It was
• 16:18
  Speaker 2: so crazy, like I and like it's so weird because
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: I have Robbie and he's so attentive and so wonderful,
• 16:28
  Speaker 2: and like, I'm so grateful to have people around me
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: that like take care of me, and I don't need
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: you know what I mean. I was like, I I
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: didn't need anybody checking in, But just the way she
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: was checking in and like the way she handled the
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: whole situation made me feel like I haven't been like
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: that to like my friends, and it made me want
• 16:43
  Speaker 2: to step up and be better.
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: I'll get some notes for her, see what she did
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: be like, what was your I.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: Didn't feel slighted. I'm telling you, I didn't feel slighted
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: or I didn't feel like any of my other friends
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: weren't there for me at all. But it was just
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: this like it it's like a five star like.
• 17:03
  Speaker 4: Realizing, Yeah, what makes you feel loved and cared for you? Yeah,
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: it's just such an interesting thing to learn about yourself
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: at thirty eight.
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: But I've also never and I've also never been that vulnerable,
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: like I've never had surgery. I've never you know what
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: I mean, Like I've never been like.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: It was your first time going through something anything like that.
• 17:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, good to know.
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: It's good information for both of us.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it is good.
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: Something I'm really needing from Tanya on this trip and
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: she's refusing to do it that we're going to talk
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: about when we come back. All right, we are back.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: We're back.
• 17:51
  Speaker 2: We are back. I don't know if you heard Becca say,
• 17:53
  Speaker 2: but we're back. We are at the brand new podcast
• 17:55
  Speaker 2: studio at Baha Mar celebrating the grand opening. We are here.
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: We just had couples therapy.
• 18:05
  Speaker 4: And progress.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's feeling good.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Okay, So first of all we mentioned but this resort
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: has endless activities. There's pools everywhere, there's a water park,
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: And I have this vision of watching both Haley and
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Tnya go down to slide at some point, yes, and
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: I'm begging for them to do it because I just
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: know the content is going to give in maculus and
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: both of them are saying they don't look Hailey's a
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: little more willing, but Tonya's like, nah, she's poo pooing
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: it down.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I'm trying to stay away from plastics. No, I feel
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: like I'm gonna get some sort of like rash on
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: my butt cheek. And you're in a tube floating, Yeah,
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: you do that.
• 19:01
  Speaker 1: No, I don't need you to do this straight down.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Oh I thought you wanted me to do that one though,
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: like my ass is on the tube or my ass
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: is on the slide.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: I don't like that one either.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: And I was like I could see myself coming out
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: with like scratches and like.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: No, because those when the slides that go straight down,
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: water gushes up your body and like the last thing
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: I need is you having like a uti because I
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: forced you to do it on the slide. But but
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: the tube one you get in a tube and you
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: go down and you like like kind of go like
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: slide side to side and then you go down like ah,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: I think okay, I could do the tube.
• 19:35
  Speaker 4: Okay, would you do a double tube with Haley?
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: Yes, changes everything, Okay, okay, Yeah, there's a layer between
• 19:42
  Speaker 2: me and the plastic.
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: I need this, so fingers crossed, I can get what
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: I need. But we're also at the ribbon cutting today.
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: They're gonna bring flamingos.
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: I love flamingos.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: I've never been around them.
• 19:56
  Speaker 2: They're regal.
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they're stunning. Yeah. I don't think we're so used
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: to I think we're so numb to animals. And like
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: you think about the zebra and like it's pattern and
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: how wild it is, and then you see a I'm
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: going to freak out. See if you're gonna go I
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: r L.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I know the selfies are gonna be really cute.
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: There's a little like flamingo area over here the sanctuary,
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: and there's a science saying meet the mingos, and I'm like,
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: I'm gonna.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Be saying that a lot a few years ago. Yeah,
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: just me, I was the only one to v I
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: how am iconic?
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: Wow? So yeah, today will be our day of like
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: splashing around water water parks.
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: We got the therapy out of the way. Yeah.
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like once you get the therapy out of
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: the way, it's time to play.
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: That's what they say.
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: We were by the Traders last night. I'm just gonna
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: ignore that one. We watched The Traders finale, which was
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: really fun. I have never watched a show that was
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: airing live on TV at like I watch. I'm saying,
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: I've never been So what's the word like committed to something?
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: And so Sonya and Hailey are very committed.
• 21:19
  Speaker 2: If there's nothing about me, if there's something about me, yeah.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: I don't think you're saying these Yeah there's.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Something about me. I'm committed you are, and like it's
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: it's it's really my love language, because you'll even when
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Rob and I are like on vacation, like we're like
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: in the south of France and we're deep into a
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: Love Island season, we will come home and put our
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: VPN on and watch that bad Boy every single night
• 21:43
  Speaker 2: when we get back from whatever we're doing.
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask Kaylee if that's something she would like
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: for me, because I don't get so sucked into TV shows,
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: but she does.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: So I'm going to say it's like the comfort of
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: like your routine from home, do you.
• 21:55
  Speaker 6: Know what I mean?
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: But like whilst whilst away, it's like, well you put Traders.
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: On last night, mind you. I'm like needing toothpicks to
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: hold my eyes open. I'm so tired. You would have
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: thought Tanya got like a thirty minute nap curled up
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: in a chair at the airport and somehow that sustained.
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: No, it was my nap during the massage.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: Oh that's right.
• 22:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, fifty minute nap really got me good.
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: Both of y'all had that, and you bud down a
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: little more energy than me, which makes sense. But can
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: we just get into Traders?
• 22:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah you must, Oh my gosh, Oh that's okay.
• 22:35
  Speaker 4: I work on a Traders podcast, so by osmosis, I
• 22:38
  Speaker 4: kind of know what's going on.
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, therapist, you can help be the middle manager anybody
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: that's something that maybe does not watch the Traders. Yes,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: So the episode started off with like the final killing.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: Let's just say spoiler alert, spoiler alert, but this is
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: this You should have if you're watching the show, you
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: should have watched it by now. But if you haven't,
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: there are there will be spoilers.
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: There will be spoilers. So they the first kill right
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: off the bat. I was expecting it to be Johnny
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: or Tara. You were expecting it to be Maura.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna be Maura, but in fact
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: it was Mark. It was Mark, which was actually a
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: really good choice because in my opinion, out of Mark,
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: Tara and Johnny, I felt like Mark had the most
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: leadership that people would follow his opinion, like he could
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: convince Maura, and well he could have thought he was
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: convincing Eric.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: My thought process was it was really smart that they
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: didn't kill Johnny or Tara, which I thought that they would,
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: because then how is he going to convince Maura that
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: Tara is a trader if she just killed Johnny her
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: best friend, How's she gonna How's he gonna convince Maurraa
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: that Johnny's a trader if he just killed Tara his
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: best friend.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Now, you can spend that either way, because that would
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: be the perfect crime. Like this whole time, it's like
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: they would never do that to each other.
• 23:57
  Speaker 7: But Tara.
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: The whole thing was, I know Johnny's they were both
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: saying how they were both faithful.
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I know, but that's the game, like they with how
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: Rob was able to convince her of anything. I think
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: he brought up could have easily said, don't you see
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: this is like the perfect way to play the game.
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: That the whole time she's saying they both know they're
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: faithfuls and then she kills him. Yeah, so either way,
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: I think you could have made a defense for anyone
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: they killed as a good option.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: So going into that last roundtable, I really thought they
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: got Maura. Like I thought Maura was in it with
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: the with the girlies and she was gonna go with
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Tara and they were gonna vote off Eric, and I
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: was like convinced.
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: When she turned the sign. First of all, it went
• 24:40
  Speaker 1: to break. I had a video and Tanya's leaning up.
• 24:44
  Speaker 1: We were watching on Haley's computer, and Tania's leaning up
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: like almost face and face with the screen and maras
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: about to turn her board, and then it goes to
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: break and she's like no, what. She grabs my leg
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: where my bruises and squeezes it. One thing you need
• 24:59
  Speaker 1: to know about to here she is heavy hand and
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: I was like, not the froot. So it comes back
• 25:06
  Speaker 1: and I was like, that's all dramatic. Of course she's
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: gonna choose Eric, Like she basically told Tara like I'm
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: with you, yeah, and she chose Johnny And at that
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: point I was like, we've.
• 25:18
  Speaker 2: Lost her, lost her. But they did a really good job,
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: I will say, of making me feel like Mara was
• 25:23
  Speaker 2: turning every step of the way. Every vote Maura had,
• 25:27
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, yeah, she's she's hit with it.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Now she's gonna get it. She's gonna get him in
• 25:31
  Speaker 2: every vote. It was like I was like, damn.
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: But even even Rob was like the way Morris talking
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: to Eric is how she talks to me, right, which
• 25:44
  Speaker 1: is like she's lying to me.
• 25:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I was like, maybe she's smarter than we're giving her,
• 25:49
  Speaker 1: Like maybe she.
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: Knows so she in fact is not the way.
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: My whole stomach dropped when she voted for Tara because
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh my gosh, they're taking her out.
• 26:01
  Speaker 2: Once it was the four, then once it was Maura, Tara,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: Eric and Rob, I was like, Okay, Mara's got it.
• 26:06
  Speaker 2: She's gonna vote with Tara. They're gonna get Eric. It's
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: gonna be a tie two to two. I don't even
• 26:11
  Speaker 2: know what they would do with that, And then she
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: voted Tara out and I was like, damn.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: But man, I mean when Eric realized also that Rob,
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: Maura and Rob were teaming up against him, I felt
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: it was a really sad ending in the sense of
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: like watching everyone realize the betrayal, like Eric's face when
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: it happened in him, like seeing them by each other.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: And then I don't know that I've ever seen a
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: more devastating reaction than when.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: Maura Rob was a trader. I knew it was gonna
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: be bad, but it was very bad.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: And Haley was getting so upset.
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: She was like so mad, she was so sad.
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, he played a perfect almost a perfect game.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: But I get what she's saying, because like, okay, Bean Steel, Yeah,
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: like the whole game is to like and he did
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: I cheat and steal. But I get what Hailey's saying.
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: There's something so icky about the fact that he like
• 27:10
  Speaker 2: globbed on to this innocent, like petite girl.
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean?
• 27:16
  Speaker 2: I say petite because she's just like this little like innocent,
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: like being and he just like use her as this
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: like pawn in the game. I know, I will just
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: like it with everyone I know. I know, but there's
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: something so I don't know. It's like the hot guy wins,
• 27:33
  Speaker 2: like of course, the hot guy wins, like they win
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: at everything, do you know what I mean? Like it's
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: a little bit like that. Like I I was seeing
• 27:40
  Speaker 2: how Haley was getting upset, and I understand because it's
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: just like such a metaphor in our world. But like
• 27:47
  Speaker 2: the hot guys, we just believe the hot guys what
• 27:50
  Speaker 2: they say because they get away. They can get away
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: with it whatever they want. I hate that.
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: I totally understand her being like, oh, like disappointed.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but yeah, it's a game. It is the game.
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: So that's what like I kept.
• 28:04
  Speaker 2: Coming that day.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: You zoom out, and it's like it's this game show
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: that he's literally picked to do exactly what he did right,
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: and he did it right.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: And it's interesting because like we watched a little bit
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: of the reunion. I had the grandmas wanting to go
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: to bed, so I had to leave, Oh my god,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: So but I watched a little bit of it and
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: I found it interesting, Like some people take it so
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: personal and like get so upset about like the lying,
• 28:30
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, that's so you lied to she I'm like,
• 28:34
  Speaker 2: you all lied to everybody, Like it's the whole game.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: That's like what you're supposed to do.
• 28:38
  Speaker 4: It's the game. But then I also think a lot
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: about like sometimes when I watch like The Bachelor and
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: I see people reacting to stuff that I'm like, this
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: is a game show, Like why like when you're like
• 28:45
  Speaker 4: away from home and you're this is all you're doing. Yeah,
• 28:48
  Speaker 4: I can kind of see how people would be like,
• 28:50
  Speaker 4: oh my god, I've been so betrayed.
• 28:52
  Speaker 6: You know.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: It was interesting for me to see like how some
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: people took it and then how some people kind of
• 28:57
  Speaker 2: just like took it on the chin, like Maura. I
• 28:59
  Speaker 2: thought were Maura. I would be so pissed at Rob
• 29:03
  Speaker 2: and she's like on Instagram saying like congrats Rob and like.
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: But but also a lot of time has passed.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: Two months, not so much time.
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I hung out with her at the what was
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: that Dancing with the starspinel?
• 29:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah that was like in December, Oh wasn't it.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, either way, it's been some time. Two months is
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: a long time to recover the grudge like that for
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: two years. I guess my thing is like I think
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: the ego gets bruised because you're in and of course
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: people come are coming at the faithful. It's like are
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: you all idiots? Like how do you not see this?
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: As we're like sitting on the couch watching it all
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: play out right, And so I think there's like the
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: ego of it all, and I think it's like do
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: I not trust? Like can I not trust myself and
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: my instincts with people? And I think that's what upsets
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: people more than like the game being I do.
• 29:51
  Speaker 2: Hope that Maura like takes an inner look at herself
• 29:54
  Speaker 2: a little bit, just no, because of like what she
• 29:57
  Speaker 2: was saying, like she picks men who like cheat on her,
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: Like she chose Rob as like her trustworthy guy in
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: the game and he ended up being like a total liar,
• 30:07
  Speaker 2: you know. Like I'm hoping that she like listened, like
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: it is like maybe my gut or like my instincts
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: aren't leading me in the right direction, and like she
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: can start leading in the right direction.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Do we think Rob? Rob disclosed that he's in a relationship.
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: He's been in the relationship for two months. They were
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: kind of trying to make Mora and Rob like a thing.
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: Like you felt like they were trying to be like,
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: is there any chance? And then he was They were like,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: are you single?
• 30:32
  Speaker 7: Rob?
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: And he said no, I'm not. And they said how long?
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: And he said two months?
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: Can we trust that?
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: I was thinking, if I'm this new girl I am,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: it's studying him on that show.
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: Really?
• 30:44
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know.
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: I watched him on Love Island. I don't think he's
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: a bad guy. I really don't. I know, he like
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: did some a lot of dirty things in this game,
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: but it is that is what the game is. I
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: don't think I think he's like innately a bad guy,
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: and I wouldn't personally, like if I was his girlfriend,
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: think that he was like an aligned cheat and steal
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: from me.
• 31:10
  Speaker 1: I don't think he's a bad guy, but I also
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: think he is adored simply. I mean, I think he's
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: probably not. I'm sure he has is charming and nice,
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: but I think he's so good looking that he can.
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: Get away with it everyone.
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I mean, look the way that people were just like
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: whatever you say, Master, because it was.
• 31:31
  Speaker 4: Like it's like it's a game, Like if there was
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: a game where you had to like destroy a children's playhouse,
• 31:38
  Speaker 4: like and someone does it really well, It's like, okay,
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: this is the game. But also the fact that you're
• 31:41
  Speaker 4: so capable.
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: I know, like me and traders. And I was a trader,
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: I would be caught immediately.
• 31:48
  Speaker 6: I would be I think you might slip under people's
• 31:52
  Speaker 6: tradar because you're so bad that they're like I've played Mafia,
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: like Robin, I went to a game night and we
• 31:58
  Speaker 6: played Mafia, and I was like the doc R or
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: something like.
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: I was not whatever, and no, I was the investigator.
• 32:03
  Speaker 7: I don't know.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: I was somebody that was trying to like get like
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: trying to help the faithfuls. And because I was acting
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: so weird, I was killed like the second round because
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: Robbie's like she I know her and she's acting weird.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Was like, well, yeah, it's like that he killed me.
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: And I was like, dang, but I don't know. I
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: I uh oh wait. I wanted to pivot to the
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: the Donna Kelce of it all. So Donna Kelsey's like,
• 32:31
  Speaker 2: bless her heart, she was the first one out gone to.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: She was like trader, yeah, which I think they made
• 32:37
  Speaker 2: up just for her, but.
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: They just wanted her on the show.
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: I the like literally, like the second question she gets
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: asked is did Taylor watch? Yeah, And like I could
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: see it on her face that she was just like
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: h And I like felt bad for her because I'm
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: just like I would be so scared. But it's his
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: her mother in law, so she kind of has the
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: upper hand.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's the thing. Obviously. The Kelsey brothers are
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: entity of their own selves. You know, you bring Taylor
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: Swift into it all and it just explodes them and
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: their family name and Donna Kelcey, and it's like, of course,
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: I'm sure it is annoying that everything that is involved
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: around them is Taylor Swift, and at the same time
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: you have to just accept it and embrace that. People.
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: It is interesting Taylor does Taylor watch The Traders? Like
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: I know, I have a show.
• 33:32
  Speaker 2: The fact that she said all of her family watches,
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my god. If I was on the
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: season of The Traders, I'd be like Taylor Swift and
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: her mom and her dad and her brothers sit around
• 33:42
  Speaker 2: their TV and they're watching me Mark ballas play Traders?
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? That's what I'm saying.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's just it's sometimes I it.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: Does humanize them a little bit.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: I feel like it would be if if someone asks
• 33:55
  Speaker 1: this is like the smallest scale ever, But I'm putting
• 33:58
  Speaker 1: my own self in there. If someone and asked about
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: The Bachelor and I was like, can we just not
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: associate with that with me anymore? Because I like, I
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: that's a part of my past.
• 34:09
  Speaker 6: It's like, that's why people, that's why you're here, That's why.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: I get it.
• 34:13
  Speaker 1: I get it.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: And I feel like if they didn't ask her that,
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: all the tweets and stuff would be like why did
• 34:19
  Speaker 2: you ask Donna Taylor?
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was the most innocent question.
• 34:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah right.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: She wasn't like who was she rooting for?
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: Right?
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: It was just like did she watch right? It's as
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: basic as you can get, as basic as you and
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: I'm sure Donna was like I don't care if she
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: watched or not, and she just wants to be sure. Yeah.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they make a big thing of popcorn and watch
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: it down and.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: She's like, did I say too much? That's what I did.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: I say too much. All she said was like, yeah,
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: she watches I thought this was really.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: It was a really great season. So I just want
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: to say to all the contestants and.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: Traders, faithfuls, all of the producers, editors, like, y'all crushed.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they crushed.
• 35:00
  Speaker 7: Shit I've heard and I don't.
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: Know if this is accurate, that they're doing the next
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: season will be like All Stars. Oh I heard it
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: was normal, just like regular people. Civilians.
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: Oh, I heard all Stars, and I'm really fast to
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: see if there's potentially a Traders All Stars.
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: Wait, so are they doing both a Civilian and All
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Stars Civilians?
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah? See, okay, okay, so season five will be Civilians
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: and the season six will be All Stars. And I
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: what I was so happy that I was correct. What
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: I was reading about the All Stars is that like
• 35:54
  Speaker 2: they're going to bring back They're looking at Lisa, Rinna,
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: They're looking at Rob, They're looking at Souri and Ari
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: from the first season. They're looking at Rob from Survivor.
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: They're looking at Pilot Pete.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: These are all expected most didn't have a fair chance.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Who's gone first?
• 36:15
  Speaker 6: Right?
• 36:16
  Speaker 7: So sad?
• 36:17
  Speaker 2: I would be devastated if I was like one of
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: the first two or.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: Three to go. Yeah, that would be sad. Yeah, I'm
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: excited for the Civilian season because I like watching without
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: no like you don't know anyone strength.
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: There's like alliances like the Housewives and like Love Island
• 36:34
  Speaker 2: and all that. Ice skaters, ice skaters, yeah, Olympians, Olympians.
• 36:39
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: But yeah, it was a really fun season, great finale,
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: but like devastating breaking for the television.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Like so nobody here watches Beast Games. I'll make it quick,
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: but please please make the Beast Games finale air this week.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: The Ters finale aired this week. The Survivor season fifty,
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: it's a three hour premiere episode aired this week. I'm
• 37:08
  Speaker 2: get I get to watch it. My family's waiting to
• 37:10
  Speaker 2: watch it with me. So when I get back. Yeah,
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: so I'm excited to watch that when I get home.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: I mean, TV is popping right now.
• 37:18
  Speaker 4: If I were.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: Three hours for premiere is.
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: I know. But Robbie said he's been hearing from people
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: he trusts that like it was a really good premiere
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: because Survivor has kind of gotten like a little I
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: don't know what the word is. It used to be
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: super gnarly, like they were like out in the woods
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: and like they would have like all these bug bites
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: and they were like in like the same clothes Now
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: they give them like all kinds of clothes, like they
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: barely look like they just got manicures. It's not as
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: like rough and tough. Yeah, it's not as rough and
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: tough as it used to be. And like I'm hearing
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: that this season. It's like back, I hear the.
• 37:54
  Speaker 4: Jeff props is gonna participate in a little.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: Bit of it at Yeah.
• 38:00
  Speaker 4: I saw that headline the other day and people are
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: saying like, oh, I bet he's just gonna be like
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: in a challenge or something. He was saying like, I'm
• 38:07
  Speaker 4: a contestant this year. Don't quote me. I just saw
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: a headline. I did not investigate it further.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: You could play the game.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: So I imagine him being in his trailer and then
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: being like, all right, Jeff, come out from the I'm excited.
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: I'm excited for you. Thank you anything to get home too.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's something to be excited about. Yeah.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I think that's all because we have a ribbon to cut.
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: Vote do we have a ribbon to cut? It's time
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: for the ribbon cutting ceremony for the studio at Baha Maar. Yeah.
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: We really just want to say thank you so much
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: to everybody. Here at Bahama, the studio Baha Mare. Congratulations,
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: thank you for having us in our podcast and choosing us.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: If you guys want to make this your luxury resort destination,
• 38:54
  Speaker 2: it is Bahamar. There are three iconic hotels here. There's
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: the Grand Hyatt, which is where we're saying that slus
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: and the Rosewood. They offer more than two three hundred
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: rooms and forty restaurants and lounges. The spot was amazing,
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: which we talked about. There's golf courses, there's tennis, there's
• 39:14
  Speaker 2: retail shopping, there's gambling. I mean there's literally a.
• 39:18
  Speaker 4: Jet ski shaped like a Lamborghini saw.
• 39:21
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this would be a great vacation with the kids,
• 39:25
  Speaker 2: without the kids. Something for everybody.
• 39:28
  Speaker 1: And by the time we're back, you guys will have
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: a new Harry Styles album.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, yes, Oh my gosh. Can I tell you
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: guys something really quickly before we leave please. So we
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: booked this trip and we've had this trip planned for
• 39:43
  Speaker 2: a while. I got invited to listen to the new
• 39:46
  Speaker 2: Harry Styles album before it came out.
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: Wow where.
• 39:52
  Speaker 2: I don't know where, not with him songs him okay,
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: but nonetheless listened to the album and it was when
• 39:58
  Speaker 2: we were already here. It's like happy as we speak.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Well you know, maybe someone can send
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: you a link.
• 40:04
  Speaker 2: Well, no, no, I just have to listen.
• 40:06
  Speaker 4: With the rest of the world that listened. Can you
• 40:10
  Speaker 4: get like a secondhand, like is there someone else that
• 40:13
  Speaker 4: went your place?
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah? No, not in my place. But there are a
• 40:16
  Speaker 2: couple of people from Kiss that went.
• 40:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, consistent to say like it's good.
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I think Ronnie went to yeah, we just need
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: like what are the highlight Like, what are the songs.
• 40:25
  Speaker 1: The vibes?
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: I wonder if they signed n d as it would
• 40:27
  Speaker 2: be very.
• 40:28
  Speaker 4: Funny if it was bad. I'm just gonna say it
• 40:30
  Speaker 4: would be very funny.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I would not I feel like no one will say
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: if it's bad. He's one of those artists.
• 40:37
  Speaker 2: Say the internet is ruthless these days. People will be saying.
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, not his real fans, though his real fans are
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: They're it's amazing.
• 40:46
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Like he could like say that Encyclopedia and I'd be like.
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: Okay, let's go hang with the Flamingos. Okay, cut the ribbon,
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: love you all, Love you All by He