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Dirty Little Secret:My Wife Is Secretly Paying For Her Ex! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: This is Dirty Little Secret.
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  Speaker 2: NIX one or two point nine hopefully having a good morning.
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  Speaker 3: What is going on?
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  Speaker 4: So it's kind of been eating me up for some
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  Speaker 4: days now. My wife and I we've been married for
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  Speaker 4: a couple of years now, and this is her second marriage.
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  Speaker 4: She has a four year old son with her ex husband,
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  Speaker 4: and honestly, the reason they got divorced is because he
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  Speaker 4: cheated on her, you know. And he's honestly kind of
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  Speaker 4: a mess of a guy, you know. I mean he
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  Speaker 4: can't keep a job. I mean he's had legal problems
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  Speaker 4: since he was a teenager. And it always seems like
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  Speaker 4: there's some kind of new drama with it, you know. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: I mean he's not the worst dad in the world,
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  Speaker 4: but he's definitely not like winning father of the Year either,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it.
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  Speaker 2: So he's involved, he's doing his thing, but he's he
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  Speaker 2: has some issues, right.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm not one of those husbands who's like spying
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  Speaker 4: on my wife or whatever. But a few days ago,
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  Speaker 4: we were sitting on the couch and she got up
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  Speaker 4: to go into the kitchen and her phone lit up
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  Speaker 4: like next to me, right, So I look over and
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  Speaker 4: I saw it was a text from her ex. I
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  Speaker 4: know that I shouldn't have read it, but it popped
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  Speaker 4: up on the screen.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay, real quick, I don't think that that's the case. Like,
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  Speaker 2: I know, some people like.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, if it pops up on the screen, it's next
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  Speaker 3: to me, I'm gonna read it.
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  Speaker 1: It's hard not to.
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  Speaker 2: Like, Yeah, and that wouldn't even matter if it was
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  Speaker 2: a girlfriend, wife, friend, Like, if it's sitting right there
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  Speaker 2: in my eyesight, right, maybe I'm a bad person was
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  Speaker 2: right here.
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  Speaker 1: I'd probably just look at it because that's just our
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  Speaker 1: natural reaction.
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  Speaker 3: It's just so what what what was on it?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 4: So it popped up and it said, thanks for helping
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  Speaker 4: me out. I really appreciate it. I promised this is
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  Speaker 4: the last time I'll ask.
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  Speaker 2: Oh gosh, and this is from this is from her ex.
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  Speaker 4: Right, And so I'm like, well, now my curiosity is
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  Speaker 4: through the roof, right, yeah, like you know, I've never
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  Speaker 4: gone through her phone before, guys, but I picked it
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  Speaker 4: up and opened the conversation. She's been sending him money
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  Speaker 4: the last few months.
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  Speaker 3: Money you lying, No.
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  Speaker 4: No, now, Look it's not thousands of dollars or anything.
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  Speaker 4: It looked like, you know, it was a couple one
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  Speaker 4: hundred bucks here and there, and you know, whenever he
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  Speaker 4: got himself into some kind of a buying right. But
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  Speaker 4: right about then I heard her walking back into the room.
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  Speaker 4: So I put the phone down like nothing happened.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, so she doesn't know that you saw it.
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  Speaker 4: Right, Why is the wife secretly giving money to the
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  Speaker 4: guy who cheated on her?
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  Speaker 3: One hundred percent?
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  Speaker 2: I mean, why is your wife giving money to anybody
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  Speaker 2: who and you don't know about it?
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  Speaker 1: Secretly? Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: Secretly? Period? So did you? Yeah? Right? Because this is
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  Speaker 3: not just anyone. This is also her ex.
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  Speaker 2: It's not like it's a friend, it's some girlfriend that
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  Speaker 2: she's trying to help and she doesn't want to like
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  Speaker 2: embarrass her, right, and not saying that would be better.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it would be better, Yeah, it would be better.
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  Speaker 3: It would be better.
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  Speaker 2: So so yeah, that's going through your head right now,
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  Speaker 2: Like there's automatically an issue for sure.
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  Speaker 4: Look like the same guy who blew up their marriage,
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  Speaker 4: it can't seem to get his life together, like you're
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  Speaker 4: sending him money r right.
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  Speaker 2: Was there anything else in the text that might go wait,
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  Speaker 2: something else is going on?
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  Speaker 1: Or was it just like flirting or anything?
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  Speaker 4: No? No, no, nothing like that. I mean, there wasn't
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  Speaker 4: anything romance, nothing flirting, nothing that made me think like
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  Speaker 4: that she's cheating. But still, like, I just think it's
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  Speaker 4: so weird.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it definitely is.
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  Speaker 1: I would think it's weird too.
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  Speaker 3: So did you ask her about it?
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  Speaker 2: So?
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  Speaker 4: She never told me she was doing this, And I
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  Speaker 4: know exactly what is going to happen if if I
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  Speaker 4: do bring it up, Like I'm kind of hesitant because
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  Speaker 4: I know the first thing she's going to say is like,
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  Speaker 4: why were you going through my phone? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: But why are you sitting your ex money?
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  Speaker 2: I know what you mean, though, I've been in this situation.
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  Speaker 2: Where they're trying to turn it around on you like
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  Speaker 2: you're you're crazy, but it's like, well, yeah, it is
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  Speaker 2: what it is.
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  Speaker 1: I look, why are you doing that? You found out
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  Speaker 1: she would.
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  Speaker 2: Be deflecting, so you're worried that she's going to do that,
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  Speaker 2: so you haven't brought it up.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, totally. I mean the whole conversation then becomes about
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  Speaker 4: me instead of why she's secretly helping out her exh Like, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: so I'm kind of stuck. Do I admit like that
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  Speaker 4: I looked at her phone and that's what's going on,
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  Speaker 4: or do I honestly like keep my mouth shut and
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  Speaker 4: pretend that I never saw it.
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  Speaker 3: There's no way you can keep your mouth shut. I
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  Speaker 3: would be able to sleep at night because you're not.
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  Speaker 2: You might be able to do it for a day
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  Speaker 2: or two, or even a week or two, but there's
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  Speaker 2: no way you're gonna be able to just forget about
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  Speaker 2: this forever unless you're a special kind of human that.
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  Speaker 3: I can't relate to.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you come out and say it. First
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  Speaker 2: of all, you don't even have to say you went
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  Speaker 2: through her phone right off the bat. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 2: you should lie, but it was on her screen a
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  Speaker 2: very questionable text that was sitting there, So right away
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  Speaker 2: I would say, well, I saw this text, what's that
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  Speaker 2: all about? And let her get into it. Yeah, she
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  Speaker 2: might come out and say it right away. She might
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  Speaker 2: be honest, and you'd be like, okay, why.
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  Speaker 1: Right then you don't have to SnO.
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  Speaker 3: You know, That's what I would probably do, because I
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  Speaker 3: get it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I've been in that situation where I've been
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  Speaker 2: with someone and they've had a weird text and I
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  Speaker 2: don't want to mention it because then.
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  Speaker 3: I look psycho but it but at the end of
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  Speaker 3: the day, you have to.
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  Speaker 1: You're funding your eggs. I need to know about it.
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  Speaker 1: We're funding anybody or anything. I need to know about it.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I would talk to her and can you call us
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  Speaker 2: back and let us know what she says?
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  Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, Well good luck, and I'm sorry you're going through
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  Speaker 2: this because that does suck. Can put all these questions
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  Speaker 2: in your head.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not just a girlfriend, it's your wife. Yeah. Right,
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  Speaker 1: we'll definitely need.
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  Speaker 2: To follow up on this. I just I'm just so curious,
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, sir. I'm so curious. What is there an
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  Speaker 2: acceptable answer? And you're like, oh, that's why, because I
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  Speaker 2: can't think of one Yeah, I can't think of one
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  Speaker 2: scenario where you're like, oh, that's why you're sending him money.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, cool, right, go ahead.
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  Speaker 3: No no, no,