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- 0:01So welcome y'all. What's up?
- 0:04What's up, What's up? Most people seem to think that
- 0:08we just like this, we just dislike people.
- 0:11That as a narcissist we just don't like certain people,
- 0:14right? No, no, that's not it.
- 0:18It is a deep burning obsessive hatred that we have for certain
- 0:24people, right? If you have ever just wondered
- 0:27why narcissist in your life like single drew out for the worst
- 0:32treatment, like why you got the worst of everything, it's
- 0:35usually because you possess something that they can't handle
- 0:39that we can't handle as a narcissist, right?
- 0:41Today, I'm telling you who is at the top of a narcissist hit
- 0:46list. The top of the list who
- 0:49narcissist hate and why they hate them.
- 0:53Who, who like an owl who who? And of course, if you're new
- 0:57here, I'm Lee Hammock. I'm a diagnosed narcissist and
- 0:59welcome to another episode of the narcissist cult, y'all.
- 1:02And we're going to hop right into it.
- 1:04People that narcissist hate, people that narcissist cannot
- 1:11stand. What's going on here?
- 1:12What up, what up, what up? People that narcissist cannot
- 1:16stand that they hate. People that get under a
- 1:18narcissist skin and they create. Look, here's the kicker.
- 1:22You don't have to do anything to make this happen.
- 1:26Sometimes it's just who you are. Like you don't have to actively
- 1:31pursue a narcissist to try to hurt their feelings, right?
- 1:34You don't have to actively go after a narcissist to try to
- 1:37just one up them or hurt their feelings or get under their
- 1:40skin. You don't have to do that,
- 1:42right? There's nothing that you have to
- 1:44do in this instance. Sometimes it's just your job.
- 1:47Sometimes it's just your the way you live.
- 1:49Sometimes it's just you you, you sometimes y'all listen to this
- 1:57sometimes you're just hateable you're just hateable you're easy
- 2:03to hate you're easy to hate hatred.
- 2:08We are easy I'm sorry. I know that sounds foolish it
- 2:16what not what's going on, but that's the way it goes right
- 2:18there. Y'all like seriously?
- 2:20That's the people. That's the way it goes right
- 2:21here. So the first category of people
- 2:24that a narcissist hate or what we're going to refer to as the
- 2:28uncontrollables, right? The other people who narcissists
- 2:31feel like they can't control the people who set boundaries.
- 2:37If you set boundaries, yo ass is on the hate list.
- 2:41You didn't think you made it did you?
- 2:42Didn't think you gonna make it, did you?
- 2:44But you did. You were on the hate list.
- 2:45Welcome. Right, 'cause when you say no to
- 2:49a narcissist, when you say, let me put myself here, when you say
- 2:52no to me, like what I hear is that I'm better than you.
- 2:59What who said that I don't hear you?
- 3:01I, I don't hear you saying no. The narcissist in your life does
- 3:05not hear you saying the word no. They hear a different voice.
- 3:08You say, look, the word no might leave your lips, but that's not
- 3:13what, what our ears receive, right?
- 3:15You say no, it travels from your lips all the way to my ears.
- 3:20And I hear I'm better than you. I can tell you what to do.
- 3:23What? Who said that?
- 3:26And that's why they hate you, right?
- 3:28That's why you're part of the hate army.
- 3:30They hate train right here 'cause you say no.
- 3:33You feel like you. It's, it's a signal to me that
- 3:35you think you're better than me. You think you're better than me,
- 3:39huh? Think your hot stuff, huh?
- 3:40Right. Like narcissist view boundaries
- 3:44as a challenge to their power, a challenge as a threat to our
- 3:50power. If we cannot move you, we have
- 3:54to take you out of here. We have to destroy you.
- 3:57And I'm not saying when I say destroy, I don't mean like
- 4:00physically destroy you, right? I harm you and what not.
- 4:02I'm just saying destroy you. They feel like they have to take
- 4:05you on up out of here, right? You know, this is what goes on.
- 4:10It is this is what happens. And somebody said I think they
- 4:12hate everyone. I don't necessarily say they
- 4:14hate a lot of people, right? And it's not that the fact.
- 4:17Look, let me let me clarify this real quick.
- 4:18What's going on, Edda? Let me clarify this real quick.
- 4:21It's not the fact that they hate you personally, It's the fact
- 4:25that they hate how you make them feel about themselves.
- 4:30You see, the fact that you is the way you make me feel, right?
- 4:37You make me not like myself. You make me look at myself
- 4:40differently. So I don't.
- 4:41I hate that. I hate that.
- 4:43So in essence, you see what I'm saying?
- 4:44It's not that you that I hate. It's not like it's not, you
- 4:48know? It's not Angela that I hate
- 4:50right here, right? It's the fact that Angela makes
- 4:53me feel bad. So I hate that about her, right?
- 4:56I hate how I feel, you know? So it's.
- 5:00Yeah. Look, I know it feels like they
- 5:02hate you directly, right? They feel like they hate you
- 5:05directly. Lee.
- 5:05It feels like I didn't hate me directly 'cause you said no.
- 5:09You set a boundary. You made me feel this big.
- 5:13Look, I'm just look, I'm 62. I'm 245 lbs.
- 5:17You made me feel like I'm five. One, $1.20.
- 5:21How dare you? How dare you, huh?
- 5:29Who do you think you are? Who do you think you are telling
- 5:34me what to do? So that's why when you tell a
- 5:36narcissist no, that's why you'll see sometimes you'll see them,
- 5:40you look, you see them switch colors sometimes, like you tell,
- 5:44you see them turn red, white, you see them turn red, white and
- 5:47blue, right? You can see them turn red, white
- 5:51and blue sometimes because you make them feel bad about
- 5:54themselves, right? So they hate people that set
- 5:58boundaries. You got you got that, number
- 5:59one. Number one, they hate the
- 6:01boundary setters. Are we clear?
- 6:07The second type of person that they hate, remember, hate how
- 6:11you make them feel about themselves.
- 6:12They hate the people who don't react.
- 6:17They hate the people who don't give them the reactions that
- 6:20they're seeking, right? Like the calmness.
- 6:24That's why y'all, y'all hear me say in a lot of my videos,
- 6:27control your reactions. That's a superpower.
- 6:30If you control your reaction, you control the narcissist,
- 6:32right? Narcissist.
- 6:34Like nothing makes a narcissist crazier.
- 6:36Nothing makes nothing makes them more angry than someone who
- 6:39stays calm while they are raging, someone who stays still,
- 6:44right? It shows us as a narcissist.
- 6:48It shows them that's the narcissist in your life, that
- 6:51you are in control of yourself, which in essence means that we
- 6:56are not. You are in control of you, which
- 6:59means that I'm not in control of you.
- 7:02You see, you are in control of you, which means I am not in
- 7:06control of you. So that's why I always preach
- 7:09stillness. If y'all ever talk to me
- 7:10one-on-one or join my support group or anything like that,
- 7:14mental illness.net, you will see me talk about being still,
- 7:18taking a breath, not giving them the reactions that they're
- 7:21seeking. Because the more reactions that
- 7:23you give them, the worse they are.
- 7:25You see what I'm saying? The more reactions you give
- 7:28them, the better they feel about themselves.
- 7:30That's typically how it goes. That's where it runs around and
- 7:35that's what it runs into. Y'all, That's literally the
- 7:37mentality. That's literally the mindset.
- 7:40That's where it goes. That's the mentality that they
- 7:43fall into. So yeah, they hate that type of
- 7:47stuff right here. The second category of people
- 7:49that narcissists hate hate are the we'll call them the
- 7:59outshanders, the overdoers, right?
- 8:01These are the people that narcissists tend to envy, right?
- 8:05We will call it like the the better look better you, you are
- 8:07better than them. Just imagine it's me and you, Me
- 8:12and you. If you are funnier, more
- 8:16attractive, more liked, or more successful, you are a constant
- 8:22reminder of my own inadequacy. If you're more liked, funnier,
- 8:27more attractive than that narcissist in your life, you,
- 8:31just your presence, just your, your, your just you.
- 8:35Living is a constant reminder of who they actually are of a
- 8:40constant reminder that they are not better than they they are
- 8:44not who they think they are. You are the mirror.
- 8:48You show them who they really are because you're just better
- 8:50than them in a lot of different ways, right.
- 8:54So narcissist like, we don't want to be like you.
- 8:57We want to take you back and then make sure that you have
- 9:01nothing left. This is why you get narcissist
- 9:03who died in order to drain you. This is you get like they're
- 9:12like say your friends or to versus your pals in order to
- 9:19just drain you. This is what they do right here,
- 9:23right? This is what they do, right?
- 9:26And this is what's going to keep happening.
- 9:27This is why they do it. You know what I mean?
- 9:30This is how it goes. So do you.
- 9:33So I'm going to ask you, I'm going to ask you a short
- 9:34question. Do you think, do you think that
- 9:39the narcissist hated you? Do you just drop the Q&A?
- 9:48Do you think that the narcissist hated you?
- 9:53Something to think about, right? That's where it goes.
- 9:56This is just a so who said that? So, yeah, it doesn't mean that
- 9:59they're not good. This is just a feeling.
- 10:01This is what we feel like. We feel like we're not good
- 10:03enough. And that's the constant thought
- 10:05that's running through a narcissist's head, right?
- 10:07Because we can't look narcissist like you just say, even if you
- 10:11like you just say like, let's say like this, even if you're
- 10:13just a happy person, narcissists can be jealous of you.
- 10:17They can hate you for that right there.
- 10:18They can hate that the fact that you we could, we can't fake joy.
- 10:23We can fake happiness. We can't fake joy.
- 10:25So seeing someone like yourself that is genuinely happy, that is
- 10:29genuinely content with life from inside without needing external
- 10:34validation, without needing a lot of money or fame or
- 10:36whatever, Oh my God, that's like cooking a narcissist's ego.
- 10:40That's like pouring sulfuric acid on the ego of a narcissist.
- 10:45You're just cooking it. You're just cooking their ego by
- 10:48you just being alive, by you just living.
- 10:52That's what ends up happening right there.
- 10:54You just, you just outshining them naturally.
- 10:57It's nothing that you're doing differently.
- 10:58It's just like you, just you, you're just a happy person.
- 11:01So when you, this is what this is what happened right here.
- 11:03Remember I mentioned that narcissist tried to take what
- 11:05you have. They'll try to take your
- 11:07happiness just because you're happy.
- 11:08They'll do things intentionally to try to make you sad.
- 11:13They'll take your happiness away.
- 11:14You ever been you ever been happy before around a narcissist
- 11:16And all of a sudden they start an argument out of nowhere, over
- 11:19nothing, over something small and trivial.
- 11:21You ever had that happen before? You were the narcissist and all
- 11:24of a sudden you're happy. You're you're, you're skipping
- 11:26through the house like La La, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la.
- 11:29And now they're, now you're in an argument over nothing that
- 11:33happens. That really does happen right
- 11:36there. But that's something you got to
- 11:37be very wary of because narcissistic people, that does
- 11:42happen to so many people, right? The next category of people that
- 11:48a narcissist hates, we're going to call them the, the ego
- 11:53bruisers, right? The bosses and people who are
- 11:57overtly honest, the ego bruises, people that just naturally hurt
- 12:00a narcissist ego. Who are these people as y'all
- 12:06know? Oh sorry, narcissists have a
- 12:13problem with authority. So if you've ever worked with a
- 12:15narcissist before, you know that narcissists hate bosses.
- 12:20They hate being told what to do They hate having higher ups Lee,
- 12:24why do they do that Why do they hate having higher ups?
- 12:27Because a boss or a supervisor or ACEO or whoever it is that's
- 12:33telling me what to do, a line leader, whoever it is that's
- 12:36telling me what to do, represents a higher power,
- 12:40right? If we think that we are the
- 12:42highest power, A this makes my mind blow up.
- 12:48How am I the highest power? But you telling me what to do,
- 12:51right? So a narcissistic employee will
- 12:54spend all day trying to undermine a boss just to feel
- 12:57superior. They'll try to go have
- 12:58workarounds, they'll try to take the boss's place.
- 13:01They'll try to assume a role in the workplace that is that is
- 13:05boss like, even though they don't have the title, they'll
- 13:08find people that they can tell what to do just so they can feel
- 13:11good about themselves. Y'all know them.
- 13:14You work, you've worked with them before.
- 13:15You've worked with them like they're like, why you act like
- 13:17the boss? You ain't no boss.
- 13:19You're not supervisor, you're not the manager.
- 13:20Why you acting like that? Do you see what I'm saying as it
- 13:25goes on like that? So narcissists hate bosses?
- 13:27Another type of person that a narcissist hates right here is
- 13:30people who just tell the truth. Like if you see through the mask
- 13:34and you are not afraid to say it, you are like priority #1 of
- 13:39it to be hated. If you see who us for who we
- 13:41really are and you start telling people about us, you are going
- 13:44to be you. You're #1 on the hit list down
- 13:46there. You jump the, you look, you jump
- 13:47everybody else. You're #1 on the hit list
- 13:49because you are a threat to our entire like brand.
- 13:52You're a threat to the entire mask.
- 13:54You are a threat to our reputation.
- 13:56You can expose us, right? So narcissist, if the people who
- 13:59can expose the people who are the biggest threat to a
- 14:03narcissist, they can expose them for who they are, the narcissist
- 14:06will launch a smear campaign against that person just to
- 14:09discredit you before you get to other people, right.
- 14:13You have this in the workplace, you have this in relationships,
- 14:15you have this everywhere. They'll absolutely do this type
- 14:19of stuff in the workplace. And we're not just to mess with
- 14:23people. I'm going to hit Liz.
- 14:24Yeah, they'll do that type of stuff in the workplace just to
- 14:27mess with people's head, just to do things like that.
- 14:30Like just they'll just spread rumors to your friends.
- 14:32Like, y'all know, if you ever dealt with a narcissist before,
- 14:35if you've been in a relationship with one before, they start this
- 14:38smear campaign against you, even before the relationship ends,
- 14:42they're already lying to their friends and family about who you
- 14:45are and what you do and what you represent.
- 14:46They're already lying to people, y'all.
- 14:48They're literally already lying to people, you know, And that's
- 14:52what ends up happening. It really is.
- 14:55And so I think also, the last thing that's on this list I have
- 14:58written down right here, y'all, is what we, what we refer to as
- 15:00the new threat, the newest threat to narcissists, right?
- 15:04Y'all going to enjoy this. Y'all think this is funny?
- 15:07Be careful of the people out here in 2026 who use therapy
- 15:11words to tell you why your boundaries are toxic.
- 15:14They hate your strength so much they learn to use your healing
- 15:17against you. Narcissists hate that type of
- 15:20person right there. They healed the fake healed
- 15:23narcissists. They were, they were formed
- 15:25toxic bad guy, right? That's why I let you see a lot
- 15:29of people that hate me. But yeah, I'm, I've, I've been
- 15:31authentic. I've been genuine.
- 15:33Y'all know y'all in my support group, you know I'm, I'm
- 15:35genuine. Y'all see behind the scenes and
- 15:36stuff like that of my real life, but you have to be aware of
- 15:41people and narcissists hate people to actually tell the
- 15:43truth a lot. A lot of narcissists, self aware
- 15:46ones that are fake, hate the actual real self aware
- 15:49narcissists that are trying to help people.
- 15:52So that's going to conclude the list right there.
- 15:53Y'all just notice right here they're not closing advice for
- 15:57our Q&A. If a narcissist hates you, keep
- 16:00doing what you're doing. Stay in that lane right there,
- 16:02right? Don't dim your light so that
- 16:05they so that they don't. Do not dim your light so that a
- 16:07narcissist can feel brighter. Don't turn down your shine so
- 16:11that this person who is dull can look like they're shining,
- 16:14right. Keep your boundaries up and your
- 16:17ego protected, y'all. I got a few time for your fake
- 16:21heal there. Absolutely.
- 16:22I have a few minutes for your Q&A, y'all.
- 16:23And I got to have off this thing.
- 16:25Mine thought going to 3:30 sessions was all he needed.
- 16:29Yeah, at least he went, right? Decided that's what they're
- 16:33saying. At least I went to Debbie.
- 16:35Most people don't even go to Debbie.
- 16:37At least I went and he didn't win.
- 16:40Can narcissists change like you, most narcissists don't change,
- 16:42right? Most narcissists or talk to
- 16:44people are content with who they are.
- 16:47So they'll feel like they feel like they don't have a reason to
- 16:49change their behaviours. They feel like they don't have a
- 16:51need to do anything. Because if you it's kind of like
- 16:54if you deal with me, if you continuously deal with me, then
- 16:58I think everything is OK. Like why would I need to change
- 17:01something that I think that you're OK with, right?
- 17:05Why would I need to switch something up that you're OK
- 17:09with? That's how narcissist that
- 17:11that's how narcissist react right there.
- 17:13Why do I need to switch something up?
- 17:15Why do I need to change something in this situation
- 17:18right here that does this right here time.
- 17:21You said mine with the 6th. What did you say to that?
- 17:25Mine went to six therapy sessions and walked out on two
- 17:28of those. Yeah.
- 17:29So thirty 3033% of the time. I mean, he was leaving 33% of
- 17:35the time he would leave. He had he had a 66% finish rate,
- 17:39right? 67% be rounding up y'all, but
- 17:4267% finish rate everybody else. Some people have a 0% finish
- 17:47rate. At least I got 676767 like 6767
- 17:53now calling daily from text now. Some of them will, some of them
- 17:56will drag and drain you. Thank you.
- 17:58You just came across you. Appreciate you being here
- 18:00dealing with a stalker together for 10 years.
- 18:05Oh, you might want to. If you haven't got the police
- 18:07involved, you might want to go ahead and put the put the bug in
- 18:10police's ear so these stalkers get worse.
- 18:13The people that stalk you right now tend to get worse over time
- 18:16with the stalking stuff. They tend to the stalking tends
- 18:19to get worse over time. It really, really does.
- 18:22I would be absolutely be 100% careful because if they're
- 18:25stalking you, they'll take you out of here, right?
- 18:27They'll harm you, they'll do, they'll bring harm to you and
- 18:30whatnot. Do do do do do do do you tell
- 18:35truth or is it all lies? Who me?
- 18:37I don't, I don't have time to spend.
- 18:38I, I wouldn't spend time with her lying like that.
- 18:40Y'all do Narcissistic parents sabotage their kids on purpose.
- 18:44Some of them do, some of them absolutely.
- 18:46Do I think some of them do it and it's a subconscious thing.
- 18:49But there are a lot of narcissistic parents that
- 18:51absolutely blow their kids lives or try to hold their kids back.
- 18:54Absolutely. They say when you take a
- 18:56narcissist with your therapy, it gives them more leverage and
- 18:58information to use against you. Yeah, sometimes that's, that's
- 19:01absolutely what happens. Sometimes if you go to therapy
- 19:03with a narcissist, they will absolutely use use the stuff
- 19:06that you told the therapist in front of them against you.
- 19:09And sometimes they'll be angry because of how honest with the
- 19:12therapist you are, right? Some narcissists will get angry
- 19:15because you're honest in therapy, right, 'cause you're
- 19:17telling new therapists what is actually going on and whatnot.
- 19:20They are the thumbnail you see. They, they see the thumbnail
- 19:23crossing out. Crossing out the hit list.
- 19:25My name is at the top of the hit list.
- 19:27Not you. Like narcissist trait.
- 19:29People lie about everything. Oh, I mean narcissist.
- 19:31Yeah, there are a lot of pathological or compulsive
- 19:33lying. Narcissist.
- 19:34Yeah, absolutely. Police have been made aware
- 19:38daily. Unfortunate.
- 19:39You might want to. Well, if you haven't armed
- 19:41yourself because Cassie, you might want to arm yourself
- 19:45because you, I'm not. I'm not trying to even be funny.
- 19:47You might even have to put him down because people like this
- 19:50start to act because like, if you try to try to move on and
- 19:52this person has this ownership mindset, they might try to hurt
- 19:55you. You know what I'm saying?
- 19:56They might try to harm you. So I don't even you don't know
- 19:58if you believe in arming yourself, but you might have to.
- 20:03If I'm keeping it hot and ready with you, I'm keeping it real
- 20:05with you. They might, you might have to
- 20:07arm yourself. I have court next week.
- 20:10I'm worried it will ruin his life if I go and I feel guilty.
- 20:13I'm worried if you you have court next week and it will ruin
- 20:16his life. If he's guilty, he's guilty.
- 20:18But this is what happens if you don't go to court, if you don't
- 20:20press charge, if you don't hold them accountable, then not only
- 20:24will they get off with no punishment, you will feel bad
- 20:27later on. You'll feel bad later on because
- 20:30this opportunity has passed. You know how many people I've
- 20:32talked to in my one on ones and whatnot that regret not pressing
- 20:36charges, but I regret press. They regret not pressing charges
- 20:39and they regret dropping charges, right.
- 20:43They regret dropping charges because there's no
- 20:45accountability. Why would they change the
- 20:47behavior if they feel they don't feel like they need to be held
- 20:50accountable for? Like, I've never, I've never got
- 20:52in any trouble. Yeah, but yeah, bust yeah, punch
- 20:55you in your damn mouth. But I never got in any trouble
- 20:57for. So what?
- 21:00What? You deserved it.
- 21:01That's why you deserved it. That's why you dropped those
- 21:03charges. You deserved it.
- 21:04That's why you didn't come to testify.
- 21:06You deserved it. That's why you didn't.
- 21:08That's why you didn't call the police.
- 21:09That's what goes on right there. So you have to be careful as
- 21:11hell. Yeah, you really have to be
- 21:12careful. You know, I think some of us
- 21:14already know what we would do if they physically attacked us.
- 21:16Yeah, some of them. You you think you would know.
- 21:18But sometimes you get physically attacked, you freeze.
- 21:20You might fight flight fawn. Some people might fawn and
- 21:24freeze. Right.
- 21:27What kind of a narcissist faces a pregnancy?
- 21:29She did this to me. Very, very scary one, right?
- 21:33You've read those stories before about these narcissistic women,
- 21:36these psycho psychopathic women faking pregnancies and then
- 21:39going to find it, going to find an actual pregnant person and
- 21:42cutting the baby out of the stomach, taking the life of the
- 21:45mom, the expectant mom, just to fake a pregnancy.
- 21:48That's the only people who take it.
- 21:49Some people take it too far. As a narcissist, do you really
- 21:53think we are OK with the bad behavior just because we're
- 21:55saying yes? Yep, Yep.
- 21:58Simply put, Simply put, 'cause they don't see it as look, it's
- 22:03not, it's black and it's a, it can be very black and white
- 22:06thinking if it's, if I'm so bad, why are you with me?
- 22:12If things are so bad, why are you here?
- 22:15If you don't like it, why don't you just leave or you don't
- 22:18leave, then you must like it. You see what I'm saying?
- 22:21It's very black and white. It's very black and white.
- 22:25It really, really is. I'm an empath.
- 22:29I attract narcissists to people. How do I see them coming?
- 22:31So you might not attract narcissists.
- 22:32You might attract a lot of people and you might pick the
- 22:35narcissist. That's something you have to
- 22:36look internally for right there. If you have a certain type of
- 22:39person that you yourself are attracted to, you might be
- 22:41choosing the narcissist out of the out of the, the literal, the
- 22:45the bunch of people that you have to choose from.
- 22:47You might any many might need narcissist, right?
- 22:51You might do that. So something you got to look at
- 22:53it internally and whatnot. Why do narcissists black know
- 22:57you into silence? Because you have boundaries that
- 22:59they feel like they look, they don't want to be exposed.
- 23:02They want to control the narrative.
- 23:03That's why I was saying earlier about the people that they hate.
- 23:06They don't want to be exposed. Life is not black and white.
- 23:10It is. It is when you're with a
- 23:12narcissist. That's the way it go.
- 23:16Consequences are important. That's hard when you care and
- 23:19they turn it around. Yeah, consequences are
- 23:21absolutely important. That's why if you don't press
- 23:23charges, if there's no if there's no consequence, then
- 23:26there's no changed behavior. There's no accountability.
- 23:28They will just keep doing the same thing over and over again.
- 23:31You promise you I'm going to drop these assault charges?
- 23:34You promise not to hit me again? I promise.
- 23:38And then see I'm dropping the charges.
- 23:40As soon as the charges are dropped, they might be good for
- 23:43a day or two, but then they back to beating your ass and now the
- 23:46police don't take you. Now the police might not take
- 23:48you as seriously because you've called the police 10 times to
- 23:51the same house for the same person to press charges, but
- 23:54then you drop the charges. Police are going to be a step
- 23:57slower getting there. Oh, that's Lee's house, Lee, Lee
- 24:01and his Lee and his girlfriend, they always fighting.
- 24:04Don't even worry about it. Let's take your time getting
- 24:06there. There's other important people
- 24:07to go like there's other calls before this.
- 24:10And then one time you actually need help you get, you lose your
- 24:13life because you keep dropping charges because you go away from
- 24:17the consequences and things like that.
- 24:18You see what I'm saying? So that's the mindset sometimes.
- 24:23That's exactly what happened the last two times I dropped the
- 24:25charges and this is the third time.
- 24:27Yeah, do not drop the charges. You see what I'm saying?
- 24:29She said yeah, she see what you just said.
- 24:30She says he dropped charges 2 times previously and he got
- 24:35worse. You see what I'm saying?
- 24:39He got worse, He got worse. He he did.
- 24:43Third time the charm. You gotta stop dropping.
- 24:46You gotta stop dropping charges because I'm just telling you.
- 24:49It just in their minds. It enables me.
- 24:51It's just like, OK, yes, I'm not going to get any.
- 24:53I can beat your ass or lie to you or break break everything in
- 24:56this house and not get in any trouble.
- 24:59Hell yeah. You gonna call the police?
- 25:01Hell yeah. You know what I'm saying?
- 25:03Police just going to leave. Yeah.
- 25:04She's crazy, guys. You know, that's what happens.
- 25:07She's this crazy officer and she keeps calling y'all wasting
- 25:10y'all this time. Sorry about that.
- 25:11Sorry about that. And they snap on you.
- 25:16You see what I'm saying? You got to be say about there.
- 25:19Y'all gotta be say about there. We have to ask God for an arc
- 25:22radar, some kind of sign or something that allow us to
- 25:25recognize emotional will. Yeah, the emotional abuse can't
- 25:28make you can make you ill right there, right.
- 25:31You know, somebody said my kids and I are in a domestic violence
- 25:35shelter. I just shared a video to my
- 25:37timeline on on Instagram, a woman when she was in the
- 25:41domestic violence show that she left with her five kids.
- 25:43You know, I mean, sometimes you have to take a step back to, you
- 25:47know, be going forward safety, right?
- 25:49Anyway, y'all, I do have to hop off this thing.
- 25:52I have to do some other work today.
- 25:55I appreciate all of y'all. Like I said, mental illness.net
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