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- 0:00Speaker 1: Amen. Amen. Amen. Amen. While I got you standing, remain standing.
- 0:05Speaker 1: I'm going to go right into the word of God tonight.
- 0:07Speaker 1: How y'all doing tonight? Y'all feeling good tonight? If you're
- 0:12Speaker 1: feeling good, wave at me. Let me hear you. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
- 0:17Speaker 1: You're online. I want to hear from you if God
- 0:20Speaker 1: is blessing you tonight. We're going to the book of
- 0:24Speaker 1: Genesis chapter number 49 verse 5 through 7. Genesis chapter 49.
- 0:32Speaker 1: I heard Pastor Vinshart, he already knows what the story
- 0:35Speaker 1: is when I said Genesis 49. Glory to God. That's good.
- 0:42Speaker 1: When I was young, I could remember like that too.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Genesis 49, five through seven, when you have it, say amen. Now,
- 0:54Speaker 1: it's kind of unfair because in order to do this justice,
- 0:58Speaker 1: I probably should have started at one and probably read
- 1:01Speaker 1: the whole chapter. Jacob has come to the point in
- 1:06Speaker 1: his life that he's getting ready to die. And he
- 1:09Speaker 1: has gathered his sons around the bed to deliver unto
- 1:14Speaker 1: them a patriarchal blessing. And you have to understand that
- 1:18Speaker 1: in the culture in which this scripture is extrapolated, the
- 1:23Speaker 1: patriarchal blessing is important. It could decree and declare which
- 1:29Speaker 1: way your destiny was going to go. You understand what
- 1:32Speaker 1: I'm saying? It determined your birthright. It determined your destiny.
- 1:37Speaker 1: To get the blessing of your father before he passed
- 1:41Speaker 1: away was very important. After all, God has said that
- 1:44Speaker 1: he was a God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. So
- 1:49Speaker 1: Jacob is at the end of the line as far
- 1:53Speaker 1: as being identified as Isaac and Jacob Jacob is about
- 1:57Speaker 1: to die it's the end of an era it's the
- 2:01Speaker 1: end of a patriarchal dynasty and the sons the 12
- 2:08Speaker 1: sons have gathered around the bed and two grandsons have
- 2:11Speaker 1: gathered around the bed to get the blessing from Jacob
- 2:15Speaker 1: before he departs and he is dispensing that blessing but
- 2:20Speaker 1: when he comes to Simeon and Levi it takes a
- 2:24Speaker 1: turn And it reads like this. Simeon and Levi are brethren.
- 2:28Speaker 1: Instruments of cruelty are in their habitations. O my soul,
- 2:34Speaker 1: come not thou into their secret. Unto their assembly, mine honor,
- 2:39Speaker 1: be not thou united. For in their anger, they slew
- 2:42Speaker 1: a man. And in their self-will, they digged down a wall.
- 2:49Speaker 1: Can you say amen? Amen. Now, I'm going to teach
- 2:52Speaker 1: tonight on a second chance at a blessing. A second
- 2:57Speaker 1: chance at a blessing. Now, the scripture I just read
- 3:01Speaker 1: didn't sound like much of a blessing. It was more
- 3:03Speaker 1: of a curse. But if you've ever made a bad decision,
- 3:11Speaker 1: if you've ever done something that got you in trouble
- 3:14Speaker 1: and you needed a second chance at a blessing, Hopefully
- 3:18Speaker 1: before the night is over, you will be ready to
- 3:21Speaker 1: receive a fresh blessing. There is such a thing as
- 3:25Speaker 1: a second chance at a blessing. Amen. Somebody say a
- 3:29Speaker 1: second chance at a blessing. Father, in the name of Jesus,
- 3:33Speaker 1: as we go into your word tonight, let our understanding
- 3:36Speaker 1: be unlocked and open to receive the infallible word of God.
- 3:41Speaker 1: We thank you for the treasure of your word and
- 3:43Speaker 1: the power of your word. We thank you for the
- 3:46Speaker 1: articulation of your word. We thank you, Lord, for the Bible.
- 3:49Speaker 1: We thank you for everything that is written therein. We
- 3:53Speaker 1: thank you that it helps us to understand the very
- 3:55Speaker 1: strategies and doings of God. Continue to unlock that treasure
- 4:00Speaker 1: for us tonight as we study the word of God.
- 4:04Speaker 1: We do so because we don't want to be illiterate spiritually.
- 4:07Speaker 1: We want to have a deep understanding of who we are,
- 4:11Speaker 1: what we believe, why we believe what we believe, and
- 4:14Speaker 1: understand how to do this both spiritually and intelligently. I
- 4:19Speaker 1: believe you to open up the windows of heaven and
- 4:22Speaker 1: pour us out a blessing we will not have room
- 4:24Speaker 1: enough to receive. In the name of Jesus, we pray.
- 4:28Speaker 1: Somebody shout amen. You may be seated in the presence
- 4:32Speaker 1: of God. Now, first of all, I want to start
- 4:35Speaker 1: by saying, uh, I want to make a distinction between
- 4:39Speaker 1: the word of God. The Bible said in the beginning
- 4:41Speaker 1: was the word and the word was with God and
- 4:44Speaker 1: the word was God. And it says all things were
- 4:47Speaker 1: made by him. Without him was not anything made that
- 4:49Speaker 1: was made. In him was life and the life was
- 4:52Speaker 1: the light of men. The light shined in darkness and
- 4:55Speaker 1: the darkness comprehended the night. If the word was in
- 4:58Speaker 1: the beginning, then the word existed before the Bible. Some
- 5:06Speaker 1: people have reduced the word of God to just the Bible,
- 5:11Speaker 1: but the word of God existed before there was anybody
- 5:15Speaker 1: to write it down. The word of God deals with
- 5:18Speaker 1: the character of God, the integrity of God, the promises
- 5:23Speaker 1: of God, what God has said. God has said, not
- 5:28Speaker 1: what man has written, what God has said. And what
- 5:33Speaker 1: we have before us is a recording pieces of what
- 5:37Speaker 1: God said down through history. And then we had that
- 5:41Speaker 1: recorded Word of God, which we call the Bible, has
- 5:44Speaker 1: been translated from ancient languages into contemporary languages. One of
- 5:52Speaker 1: the first languages were the Word of God, which was
- 5:57Speaker 1: originally written in Hebrew, is now written in English, the
- 6:00Speaker 1: Old Testament primarily in Hebrew, a little bit of Aramaic,
- 6:04Speaker 1: but also in the New Testament, Aramaic and Greek, okay?
- 6:08Speaker 1: And then it was translated eventually into English around 1611,
- 6:14Speaker 1: actually 1525. And then the authorized King James Version comes
- 6:21Speaker 1: in 1600. This is way before that. This is way
- 6:28Speaker 1: before that. Now, the translations, we're going to talk a
- 6:32Speaker 1: little bit about translations so that we can do this intelligently.
- 6:36Speaker 1: You have to understand King James Version was actually translated
- 6:41Speaker 1: by a gentleman named William Tinsdale in about 1525. William
- 6:46Speaker 1: Tinsdale translated the ancient scriptures into into English and then
- 6:52Speaker 1: King James made it the official King James version of
- 6:57Speaker 1: the Bible. Okay. And so when I came along, I
- 7:00Speaker 1: didn't know any of that. All I knew is that
- 7:04Speaker 1: the old folks taught us if it wasn't the King
- 7:05Speaker 1: James version, it wasn't God. We didn't know where it
- 7:10Speaker 1: came from. We didn't know where it started. We didn't
- 7:13Speaker 1: know anything about it. The only word of God for
- 7:16Speaker 1: me is the King James Version. That's all they knew.
- 7:19Speaker 1: So what we learn is limited to the level of
- 7:23Speaker 1: the teacher that's teaching. Come on somebody. And so some
- 7:30Speaker 1: of the people who taught us early on couldn't even read. Okay. Okay.
- 7:37Speaker 1: And in lieu of revelation or information, they came up
- 7:40Speaker 1: with rules and regulations. You know, you got this holiness
- 7:44Speaker 1: of hell and don't wear makeup and don't wear earrings.
- 7:48Speaker 1: A lot of that was to fill in the blanks
- 7:56Speaker 1: for not really being able to study the word as
- 7:59Speaker 1: astutely as we can today. Now, as we look at
- 8:03Speaker 1: these different translations, I'm going to show you different translations
- 8:08Speaker 1: And as I show you, I want you to notice
- 8:12Speaker 1: how the word of God becomes clearer and clearer with
- 8:15Speaker 1: each translation. And I want you to understand that the
- 8:19Speaker 1: translation is not just written so that you can have
- 8:23Speaker 1: a contemporary version because you don't like old English. That's
- 8:28Speaker 1: not just why it was done. The greater reason is
- 8:32Speaker 1: as our understanding of the original language increases, we get
- 8:37Speaker 1: a more clear translation of the word than we did
- 8:41Speaker 1: at first. Okay. It's not just that we're trying to
- 8:44Speaker 1: take old King James English and make it hip. It
- 8:51Speaker 1: is that we are studying the word of God with
- 8:53Speaker 1: more precision because we are living with more information than
- 8:58Speaker 1: we ever had before. It's the same way with medicine.
- 9:02Speaker 1: The way my grandmother treated a condition is a lot
- 9:06Speaker 1: different from how my children treat a condition. Medicine has improved,
- 9:11Speaker 1: and the doctors have said, oh, we don't do that anymore.
- 9:14Speaker 1: In fact, you don't even have to go through that
- 9:16Speaker 1: many generations. You can wait five or ten years, and
- 9:19Speaker 1: the whole procedure changes. Because as you get more information,
- 9:24Speaker 1: you become better at this. Are y'all following me? I'm
- 9:28Speaker 1: going to borrow Tore's statement. Y'all tracking with me? Did
- 9:33Speaker 1: he kill us Sunday? Wasn't that amazing? Yeah, yeah. So
- 9:38Speaker 1: I'm going to borrow from him tonight. I like that.
- 9:40Speaker 1: Are y'all tracking with me? Okay. So you read the
- 9:43Speaker 1: first one and now I'm going to put it up
- 9:46Speaker 1: in the NIV and it'll give you a little clearer
- 9:49Speaker 1: understanding of because I really want to dig into this.
- 9:52Speaker 1: So it says, Simeon and Levi are brothers. Their swords
- 9:57Speaker 1: are weapons of violence. Let me not enter into their council.
- 10:03Speaker 1: Let me not join their assembly for they have killed
- 10:06Speaker 1: men in their anger and hamstrung oxen as they please. Okay,
- 10:13Speaker 1: let's go further. Let's go to the American Standard Version.
- 10:17Speaker 1: And let's see if we can get a clear vision
- 10:19Speaker 1: of it. Oh, my soul, come not thou into their council,
- 10:24Speaker 1: unto their assembly. My glory, be not thou united. For
- 10:29Speaker 1: in their anger they slew a man, and in their
- 10:32Speaker 1: self-will they hocked an ox. Okay, let's go deeper. Let's
- 10:40Speaker 1: go into the next translation, which is the Young's literal translation.
- 10:45Speaker 1: Each one's going to make it clearer. Now, clarity does
- 10:48Speaker 1: not take away from the substance of the text, but
- 10:51Speaker 1: it makes it more understandable because we have better clarity
- 10:55Speaker 1: as to the original intent of what he said. Are
- 10:58Speaker 1: you hearing what I'm saying? The Bible said in all
- 11:00Speaker 1: thy getting, get an understanding. So the difference between preaching
- 11:04Speaker 1: and teaching isn't whether I raise my voice or not.
- 11:08Speaker 1: When I grew up, the difference between preaching and teaching
- 11:10Speaker 1: was whether you could hoop or not. Oh, my God. Hallelujah.
- 11:16Speaker 1: They said, oh, he can preach. And if you got
- 11:19Speaker 1: up and you start talking like that, they say he's
- 11:21Speaker 1: a teacher, which was a nice way of saying you
- 11:24Speaker 1: were boring. You see, but the difference between preaching and
- 11:29Speaker 1: teaching isn't the voice inflection. It is the depth to
- 11:34Speaker 1: which you study and delve down into the word of God,
- 11:39Speaker 1: irrespective of your voice articulation. Okay, so when we get
- 11:43Speaker 1: into the literal translation, into their secret come not ye. Oh,
- 11:48Speaker 1: my soul, unto their assembly be not united. Don't hook
- 11:52Speaker 1: up with these guys. Oh, my honor, for in their
- 11:55Speaker 1: anger they slew a man and in their self-will eradicated
- 11:59Speaker 1: a prince. Oh, wait a minute. I thought it was
- 12:02Speaker 1: an ox. No, it's a prince. In ancient times, they
- 12:09Speaker 1: referred to princes as oxes because the burden of leadership
- 12:15Speaker 1: rested upon them. So the more you begin to understand
- 12:18Speaker 1: the difference in the terminology, it is not a disagreement.
- 12:24Speaker 1: with that which was written before. It is that now
- 12:26Speaker 1: we have a clearer understanding that the word translated there
- 12:31Speaker 1: should have been prince and not an ox. And in
- 12:34Speaker 1: the process of knowing that we're not just talking about
- 12:37Speaker 1: an ox and cutting loose a hamstring of an ox,
- 12:41Speaker 1: that we're going deeper than that, we begin to understand
- 12:45Speaker 1: that Jacob is still upset about what they did to Joseph.
- 12:53Speaker 1: And even as he is dying, he's still angry about it.
- 12:56Speaker 1: Can I go deeper? So as you can see from this,
- 13:00Speaker 1: it can mean either uproot or to sever the hamstring
- 13:05Speaker 1: in the hocks. It's in the hocks or back legs
- 13:09Speaker 1: of a large four-legged animal. What he's really talking about,
- 13:12Speaker 1: you've uprooted. You uprooted, you tore down, the King James
- 13:17Speaker 1: Version says you tore down a wall. It seems that
- 13:20Speaker 1: having decided that the Hebrew word means wall, the translator
- 13:25Speaker 1: of the King James Version decided to render the Hebrew
- 13:28Speaker 1: word in the sense of digging up the roots of
- 13:31Speaker 1: a plant as opposed to uprooting the wall resulting in
- 13:35Speaker 1: the rather awkward, I mean, how do you uproot a wall?
- 13:40Speaker 1: It's a poor translation, dig down a wall. What they
- 13:45Speaker 1: were trying to do was to understand that he had
- 13:48Speaker 1: uprooted something. He had uprooted something. And Jacob is talking
- 13:53Speaker 1: to them as he's getting ready to pass away. And
- 13:56Speaker 1: he says, I don't have a blessing for you because
- 13:59Speaker 1: I'm still upset about what you did. Now, you know
- 14:02Speaker 1: that Joseph is the beloved son of Jacob. He got
- 14:08Speaker 1: the coat of many colors. He was favored by his father.
- 14:13Speaker 1: Some Hebrew theologians suggest that Simeon and Levi, he's angry
- 14:19Speaker 1: with them about two things. One, what they did to Joseph.
- 14:22Speaker 1: And the other thing he's angry with them about is
- 14:24Speaker 1: what they did to the men of Shechem. And I'm
- 14:26Speaker 1: going to make that plain. I'm going to go into that.
- 14:28Speaker 1: I'm going to make that clear. Because Simeon and Levi
- 14:31Speaker 1: got together, they was like bam and wham. When they
- 14:36Speaker 1: got together, there was always some craziness going on. Now,
- 14:40Speaker 1: the Hebrew scholars suggest that it was Simeon and Levi
- 14:46Speaker 1: primarily that led the deceitfulness that was bestowed upon Jacob
- 14:52Speaker 1: in saying that Joseph was dead. So Joseph had lived
- 14:57Speaker 1: all those years in pain, mourning over his son being dead,
- 15:03Speaker 1: only to find out in his old age that his
- 15:05Speaker 1: son was alive. And it's hard to figure out how
- 15:09Speaker 1: to title this because I almost called it Family Matters.
- 15:14Speaker 1: Because anybody, how many of you got a family? If
- 15:18Speaker 1: you got a family, you got some matters. Amen. And
- 15:24Speaker 1: this is a declaration that even though this is a
- 15:28Speaker 1: family of God, even though these people are chosen by God,
- 15:32Speaker 1: they still have some issues and some emotions and some
- 15:35Speaker 1: feelings and some pain. And they're held together, but they're
- 15:39Speaker 1: still not really together because Jacob is angry with them
- 15:43Speaker 1: and he's upset with them and even to his grave.
- 15:47Speaker 1: He knows he's dying. He refuses to bless them because
- 15:51Speaker 1: they have made him miserable. And when you study what
- 15:55Speaker 1: they did, and we are going to study it in
- 15:57Speaker 1: a minute, what they did with Dinah, which was Dinah
- 16:01Speaker 1: was Jacob's daughter through Leah. And you begin to find
- 16:05Speaker 1: out what happened to Dinah when she ended up getting
- 16:08Speaker 1: raped and what they did to the men and killed
- 16:11Speaker 1: out a whole group of men, a whole nation of men,
- 16:15Speaker 1: utterly destroyed them deceitfully. Jacob is angry about that, the bloodshed,
- 16:20Speaker 1: the loss, the deceit, the betrayal, just like in your family.
- 16:24Speaker 1: There's been some betrayals and there's been some hurts. And
- 16:27Speaker 1: you have to be a strong man of God and
- 16:30Speaker 1: a strong woman of God to act like you don't
- 16:33Speaker 1: know what you know. Come on, somebody. You know what
- 16:37Speaker 1: I'm saying? That's why everybody's holiday is not a good holiday.
- 16:41Speaker 1: Because when all them relatives come around, you got to
- 16:43Speaker 1: act like you don't remember what you remember. Come on.
- 16:47Speaker 1: We're going to keep it real in here tonight. Yeah,
- 16:50Speaker 1: and so they're all gathered around the bed and they're
- 16:52Speaker 1: all related and they're all connected, but they're not really
- 16:55Speaker 1: connected because the secrets get in the way of the connection.
- 16:59Speaker 1: And Jacob is angry with them because he has endured
- 17:03Speaker 1: much pain all of his life because of what they did. Now,
- 17:08Speaker 1: and consequently, he has now embarrassed them in front of
- 17:12Speaker 1: all of their brothers. Everybody else, just about everybody else,
- 17:16Speaker 1: is getting blessings now. And promises. And this, a blessing is,
- 17:21Speaker 1: it's hard to make you understand how important a blessing is.
- 17:24Speaker 1: Jacob fought for his father's blessing. He wrestled in the
- 17:30Speaker 1: womb for the blessing. He came out and fought off
- 17:35Speaker 1: Esau and got his blessing for a bowl of soup.
- 17:40Speaker 1: A blessing was a big deal. It was a big deal. Today,
- 17:45Speaker 1: in our Western culture, it becomes difficult to translate it. Actually,
- 17:50Speaker 1: in the African, in many of the African cultures, it
- 17:53Speaker 1: is easier to translate it because there's still a great
- 17:56Speaker 1: deal of respect for a patriarchal blessing. In our Western culture,
- 18:01Speaker 1: we just run off without anybody's blessing. We don't think
- 18:05Speaker 1: that we need covering. We don't think that we need
- 18:07Speaker 1: a blessing. We don't think we need permission. We just
- 18:10Speaker 1: kind of live our lives on our own, okay? So
- 18:13Speaker 1: when we read this, we don't get the impact of
- 18:16Speaker 1: what is being said here. In front of all of
- 18:18Speaker 1: his brethren, now Simeon and Levi have to face the
- 18:22Speaker 1: scorn of their dying father. It's traumatic enough that I'm
- 18:27Speaker 1: losing my father, but in his last breath, he curses me.
- 18:36Speaker 1: That means there's no more chance for me to fix
- 18:39Speaker 1: this with him. This is over. It's done. And I'll
- 18:42Speaker 1: tell you something right now. It is much better to
- 18:44Speaker 1: have grief than guilt. I'm going to say that again.
- 18:50Speaker 1: It is much better to have grief than guilt. Grief
- 18:56Speaker 1: is painful. I'm not underestimating it. It's real painful. But
- 19:00Speaker 1: guilt will make you try to pull mama out of
- 19:02Speaker 1: the casket. Yeah. come on, come on, come on. It'll
- 19:09Speaker 1: make you scream and holler and fall out and pass
- 19:13Speaker 1: out in the floor because a lot of times when
- 19:15Speaker 1: you realize you're never going to get it straight. You're
- 19:18Speaker 1: never going to get it worked out. You're never going
- 19:21Speaker 1: to get the love you should have got. You're never
- 19:23Speaker 1: going to resolve the issue. You're never going to get
- 19:25Speaker 1: over it. And now she's gone. Now we're screaming and
- 19:28Speaker 1: we're hollering and we're chasing behind the casket. And we
- 19:31Speaker 1: used to watch a movie. You have to be a
- 19:33Speaker 1: certain age to remember Imitation of Life. Come on, talk
- 19:37Speaker 1: to me, somebody. And the girl is running behind her mama,
- 19:40Speaker 1: screaming and crying because, see, dead people can't hear. That's
- 19:44Speaker 1: why you ought to fix stuff while people are living.
- 19:51Speaker 1: you ought to fix it while they're living because once
- 19:53Speaker 1: they're gone they can't hear you they can't straighten things
- 19:56Speaker 1: out you ought to forgive them while they're living you
- 19:58Speaker 1: ought to straighten it out while they're living you ought
- 20:00Speaker 1: to get it together while they're living you ought to
- 20:02Speaker 1: pull it together while they're living so that you can
- 20:04Speaker 1: get things straight if you love somebody tell them now
- 20:08Speaker 1: If you were wrong, say it now. If you need
- 20:11Speaker 1: to repent, do it now. Don't wait till they're gone
- 20:15Speaker 1: and then live with the guilt and the grief of
- 20:19Speaker 1: losing the person. I don't know who needs that, but
- 20:22Speaker 1: somebody needs that tonight. And I'm going to give that
- 20:24Speaker 1: to you for free. Thank you. Sometimes you can make
- 20:27Speaker 1: a decision in your haste, in your youth, in your selfishness.
- 20:32Speaker 1: From your point of view, you felt justified to do it.
- 20:35Speaker 1: But then in retrospect, as you mature and you get older,
- 20:38Speaker 1: you look back at it. If you are fair and
- 20:41Speaker 1: wise and you see the other person's perspective and all
- 20:44Speaker 1: of a sudden you change your attitude because you get
- 20:47Speaker 1: wiser about things. That's why y'all not write things in
- 20:50Speaker 1: stone too early. You haven't lived long enough. You haven't
- 20:54Speaker 1: seen enough. After a while, when it's your turn, things
- 20:57Speaker 1: look different. One of the great joys about being a
- 21:00Speaker 1: grandfather is that I get to watch my children try
- 21:03Speaker 1: to do it. And I just sit there like that. Daddy,
- 21:10Speaker 1: you won't believe what you did. I said, oh yeah,
- 21:12Speaker 1: I believe it. Yeah, I believe it. Do you do
- 21:15Speaker 1: a sound, remember? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Wonder
- 21:20Speaker 1: where she got that from. Wonder where that came from.
- 21:24Speaker 1: Come on, talk to me, somebody. See, now, what we're
- 21:28Speaker 1: looking at is decisions and consequences. I'm going to move
- 21:31Speaker 1: you along. We're looking at decisions and consequences. These boys
- 21:35Speaker 1: have made some decisions. They made it with Joseph. They
- 21:38Speaker 1: made a decision because they were jealous. They made a
- 21:42Speaker 1: decision because Jacob, Jacob really, to me, this is just
- 21:47Speaker 1: my opinion, was not a great leader. Okay, he didn't
- 21:52Speaker 1: balance his love and he was very overt in letting
- 21:58Speaker 1: the other brothers know that that's my favorite one right there. Well,
- 22:01Speaker 1: what am I, Swiss cheese? Yeah, I'm gonna feel some
- 22:06Speaker 1: kind of way about that. Yeah, I'm gonna feel some
- 22:08Speaker 1: kind of way. And they got so besides themselves that
- 22:12Speaker 1: they started hating him and decided to kill him. And
- 22:19Speaker 1: then they threw him in a pit in lieu of
- 22:21Speaker 1: killing him and then dipped his coat of many colors
- 22:24Speaker 1: into blood and animal's blood and brought it up. And
- 22:28Speaker 1: when Jacob starts talking about you digged it up by
- 22:31Speaker 1: the root, you messed with the root of the family.
- 22:34Speaker 1: You messed with the root, the promise, the future, the legacy,
- 22:39Speaker 1: the reason Jacob loved. See, there was a reason why
- 22:42Speaker 1: Jacob loved Joseph so much because Jacob loved his mother, Rachel.
- 22:49Speaker 1: She was the love of his life and he had
- 22:51Speaker 1: worked 14 years to get this woman and Joseph was
- 22:56Speaker 1: the love child of their connection. And every time he
- 23:00Speaker 1: looked at Joseph, he saw his mama. And there they
- 23:04Speaker 1: have dug up a wall. They have dug up a wall.
- 23:07Speaker 1: They have uprooted him. They have destabilized him. They've broken
- 23:12Speaker 1: him down. They put him in a situation and Jacob
- 23:16Speaker 1: felt disrespected as a father. He felt betrayed. He felt
- 23:21Speaker 1: deceived because all of this time you told me he
- 23:24Speaker 1: was dead, you lied to me for years. Now, there
- 23:29Speaker 1: are people listening at me right now who can relate
- 23:32Speaker 1: to this because you were lied to for years. For
- 23:36Speaker 1: years you didn't know. You didn't know who your daddy
- 23:39Speaker 1: was for years. For years you didn't know what happened.
- 23:42Speaker 1: For years you didn't know what happened between grandma and grandpa.
- 23:44Speaker 1: For years you didn't know the real story. Sometimes they
- 23:48Speaker 1: died and didn't tell you. And it's a hard thing
- 23:50Speaker 1: when you've been lied to for years. And it affects
- 23:54Speaker 1: your heart and your self-esteem and your identity. And these
- 23:58Speaker 1: decisions have consequences. I want you to write that down.
- 24:01Speaker 1: Decisions have consequences. Decisions have consequences. It's not just about
- 24:06Speaker 1: prayer and anointing yourself with oil. Decisions have consequences. Decisions
- 24:12Speaker 1: have consequences. Elections have consequences. Marriage has consequences. You get
- 24:21Speaker 1: married to prove to your parents, I'm grown and I
- 24:24Speaker 1: can do what I want to do. That's good on
- 24:26Speaker 1: the short side. On the long side, that decision is
- 24:28Speaker 1: going to have consequences. You showed the parents a thing
- 24:32Speaker 1: or two, but now you got to live with that
- 24:34Speaker 1: thing or two. Come on, talk to me, somebody. Decisions
- 24:39Speaker 1: have consequences. Just because you're saved doesn't mean that decisions
- 24:43Speaker 1: don't have consequences. You can be saved and filled up
- 24:46Speaker 1: with the Holy Ghost, but if you go out here
- 24:48Speaker 1: and get on 30 and you start going 180 miles
- 24:51Speaker 1: an hour, decisions have consequences. So when you get arrested,
- 24:55Speaker 1: don't blame it on the devil. Because a lot of
- 25:00Speaker 1: times we spiritualize things as being demonic that aren't demonic
- 25:04Speaker 1: at all. They are the consequences of decisions. And you
- 25:08Speaker 1: can dance all over the church, but if you don't
- 25:11Speaker 1: change your decisions, you can't change your consequences. You can
- 25:15Speaker 1: fall out and be slain in the spirit. But if
- 25:17Speaker 1: you go home and keep doing what you were doing before,
- 25:20Speaker 1: your life is still going to be where it was.
- 25:22Speaker 1: We can decree and declare a blessing all we want to.
- 25:25Speaker 1: But if you don't learn how to budget your checkbook
- 25:28Speaker 1: and balance your savings account and handle your finances, then
- 25:33Speaker 1: all the blessing of Abraham is coming upon me. It
- 25:36Speaker 1: ain't going to do you any good because whatever comes
- 25:39Speaker 1: upon you is going to go to the ball. I'm
- 25:45Speaker 1: going to kill your joy preaching like that. Yeah, decisions
- 25:49Speaker 1: have consequences. That's why it's good to be slow to
- 25:54Speaker 1: make decisions. It's good to be slow to make decisions.
- 25:59Speaker 1: It don't let nobody rush you into making a decision
- 26:02Speaker 1: that you have to live with for the rest of
- 26:05Speaker 1: your life. Jacob was disrespected as a father. His consequential
- 26:11Speaker 1: patriarchal curse is a result of the pain he has.
- 26:16Speaker 1: And you have to understand that about it. But I wonder,
- 26:19Speaker 1: I wonder, could some of Jacob's dying wrath be fueled
- 26:25Speaker 1: by his own guilt? Okay. First of all, and we're
- 26:32Speaker 1: going to look at this, we're going to go to
- 26:33Speaker 1: the scripture and we're going to look at this a
- 26:35Speaker 1: little deeper in a minute. In the Torah, it clearly
- 26:38Speaker 1: says that when those two boys, Simeon and Levi, went
- 26:44Speaker 1: out and decided to bargain with the men of Shechem
- 26:48Speaker 1: and tell them they needed to be circumcised, what they
- 26:50Speaker 1: did is told the men of Shechem, you can have
- 26:53Speaker 1: our sister and marry her if all the men in
- 26:58Speaker 1: your country get circumcised. And they did it. Now, listen, brothers. Listen.
- 27:08Speaker 1: it probably ain't going to happen. You know what I'm saying?
- 27:12Speaker 1: If all of us have to get circumcised so that
- 27:15Speaker 1: one of us, that just don't seem like no good deal.
- 27:21Speaker 1: Excuse us, sisters. We'll be back in a minute. But
- 27:23Speaker 1: this is a brother's conversation. Just like y'all talk about
- 27:26Speaker 1: having babies and stuff, brothers, talk back to me. I
- 27:30Speaker 1: ain't about to do it, okay? You're going to live
- 27:32Speaker 1: a lonely life, man, if I have to So all
- 27:39Speaker 1: of the men got circumcised and while they were healing
- 27:43Speaker 1: and hurting, they came in and killed them. God, I
- 27:52Speaker 1: don't have time to get into this part too deep,
- 27:54Speaker 1: but God always hates people who take advantage of other
- 27:59Speaker 1: people's weaknesses. Amen. This is free. It's not going to
- 28:07Speaker 1: cost you nothing, but I'm just going to throw it
- 28:09Speaker 1: out here at you. The reason God hated the Amalekites
- 28:12Speaker 1: is that the Amalekites were known for coming in and
- 28:16Speaker 1: taking advantage of other people's disadvantage. That's why later in
- 28:21Speaker 1: the Bible, when David comes back and the Amalekites have
- 28:24Speaker 1: taken all the women and children away, They captured the
- 28:27Speaker 1: weakest part, the people who couldn't fight back. They took
- 28:30Speaker 1: them captive and God hated. The Bible said God remembered
- 28:34Speaker 1: Amalek and God hated Amalek. Anytime you take advantage of
- 28:38Speaker 1: somebody's weakness, God is always on the side of the oppressed.
- 28:49Speaker 1: So while these men are sore and trying to recover,
- 28:53Speaker 1: they came in and killed all of them. And Jacob
- 28:57Speaker 1: had made a deal with Donna's boyfriend. He had made
- 29:03Speaker 1: a deal. And these sons came along and deceived them
- 29:08Speaker 1: and caused them to be killed. And Jacob never got
- 29:11Speaker 1: over it. But the thing that stands out to me
- 29:16Speaker 1: when I studied it closely, in the Torah it says,
- 29:20Speaker 1: explicitly it comes out and says that while they were
- 29:23Speaker 1: doing it, Jacob said nothing. And though he didn't do it,
- 29:31Speaker 1: is he not complicit? Is his silence part of the
- 29:38Speaker 1: reason of his pain? has he transferred his guilt into
- 29:46Speaker 1: their hatred oh y'all ain't talking to me now sometimes
- 29:53Speaker 1: when you know you are complicit You won't deal with
- 29:56Speaker 1: your own complicity in the issue because you'd rather blame
- 30:00Speaker 1: the other person than confront the fact that you didn't
- 30:04Speaker 1: stand up like a man and speak up when you
- 30:06Speaker 1: could have. And by the way, if Joseph was dead,
- 30:11Speaker 1: why didn't you go down there and look for him?
- 30:16Speaker 1: So while you're blaming them for killing Joseph, I don't
- 30:20Speaker 1: read where you went to look for him as a man.
- 30:22Speaker 1: You just accepted that he was dead. You didn't go see.
- 30:26Speaker 1: You didn't ask for his body. You didn't have a burial.
- 30:29Speaker 1: You didn't have a funeral. You didn't have a service.
- 30:32Speaker 1: How in the world can you sit up there and
- 30:35Speaker 1: blame Simeon and Levi for something that you weren't man
- 30:38Speaker 1: enough to investigate? See, and then while we're dealing with
- 30:47Speaker 1: Jacob's reaction and the guilt of it, let us not
- 30:50Speaker 1: forget that Jacob was deceitful first. And what he is
- 30:57Speaker 1: cursing in Simeon and Levi, he was guilty of himself.
- 31:02Speaker 1: He tricked Esau out of his birthright. He put on
- 31:07Speaker 1: Esau's garment and deceived Isaac into getting this blessing. And
- 31:12Speaker 1: he was always deceitful. His mama, Rebecca, was deceitful. Her uncle, Laman,
- 31:19Speaker 1: was also deceitful. This is a generational problem. So what
- 31:28Speaker 1: we're looking at tonight is how do you cancel a culture? Now,
- 31:33Speaker 1: I know what it means in contemporary times, but I
- 31:35Speaker 1: mean it this way. How do you cancel a culture
- 31:39Speaker 1: that's running through your family? How do you break free
- 31:45Speaker 1: of something that you can see that has been modeled
- 31:49Speaker 1: in front of you, it's been demonstrated in front of you,
- 31:52Speaker 1: your mama had too much mouth, your grandmama cusses everybody out,
- 31:57Speaker 1: your Aunt Lucy barked away everybody and died by herself,
- 32:01Speaker 1: and here you come, 17 years old, acting just like
- 32:05Speaker 1: your family. There are certain things that have to be
- 32:07Speaker 1: broken in your life, and if you don't break them
- 32:10Speaker 1: off of your life, you will find yourself a victim
- 32:14Speaker 1: of a culture that exists in your family there's a
- 32:18Speaker 1: culture in your family there's a culture in your company
- 32:21Speaker 1: there's a culture in your workplace there's a way things
- 32:24Speaker 1: get done there's a culture in a church and every
- 32:27Speaker 1: now and then there's a toxic culture and if you're
- 32:30Speaker 1: not careful what was modeled in front of you you
- 32:33Speaker 1: become now you become it but you want mercy but
- 32:38Speaker 1: when I become it you're ready to stone me Come on,
- 32:43Speaker 1: come on, come on, come on. Come on, y'all see
- 32:45Speaker 1: what I'm saying? So there are a lot of dynamics
- 32:49Speaker 1: playing out here. I'm not excusing Simeon and Levi, but
- 32:52Speaker 1: I'm saying they didn't get there by themselves. Jacob had
- 32:57Speaker 1: been a con in front of them. And Rebekah, well,
- 33:00Speaker 1: in fact, Jacob's name means trickster. So the old man
- 33:05Speaker 1: who's laying there with the blessing, the only reason he
- 33:09Speaker 1: got the blessing was through deceit. And now he's looking
- 33:13Speaker 1: at it in his son and he's hating in his
- 33:17Speaker 1: son what is a reflection of himself. Oh my God.
- 33:23Speaker 1: This is Bible study. Let's study this. Sometimes you can
- 33:29Speaker 1: hate in other people what you see in yourself. You
- 33:34Speaker 1: won't judge it in you, but you'll kill it in me.
- 33:38Speaker 1: Because you don't have the gall or the gumption or
- 33:40Speaker 1: the strength to confront it in you. That's why you
- 33:44Speaker 1: do it and God covers it. But when I do it,
- 33:47Speaker 1: I need to be put out. These dynamics, the Bible
- 33:55Speaker 1: comes to us that we might learn lessons about life
- 34:00Speaker 1: as well as discover our relationship with God. It also
- 34:04Speaker 1: affects our relationship with one another. Are you hearing what
- 34:07Speaker 1: I'm saying? God is not just concerned about your relationship
- 34:11Speaker 1: with him. The Bible said, how can you say that
- 34:13Speaker 1: you love God whom you have not seen and hate
- 34:16Speaker 1: your brother who you see every day? How can you
- 34:19Speaker 1: praise God and cuss me? How can you say you
- 34:23Speaker 1: love God and walk past me and not speak? That
- 34:30Speaker 1: we only got two commandments, that we love the Lord
- 34:32Speaker 1: thy God with all your heart, your mind, and your soul,
- 34:35Speaker 1: and that you love your brother as you love yourself.
- 34:39Speaker 1: Two commandments. Jesus said, if you get these two right,
- 34:43Speaker 1: you got everything else right. If you learn to love
- 34:47Speaker 1: God with all your heart, your mind, and soul, and
- 34:49Speaker 1: if you love your brother as you love yourself, then
- 34:53Speaker 1: all of the commandments are comprised in this one pill.
- 34:57Speaker 1: You take this one pill, you got everything. It's a
- 34:59Speaker 1: multifamily vitamin. You got C, you got vitamin D, you
- 35:03Speaker 1: got vitamin E. You took one pill, you got all things.
- 35:06Speaker 1: Jesus said, if you get these two things right, So
- 35:10Speaker 1: you don't have to learn 10, you don't have to
- 35:12Speaker 1: learn 20, you don't have to learn 12. He said,
- 35:14Speaker 1: if you just focus on loving God with all your
- 35:17Speaker 1: heart and all your mind and all your soul. And
- 35:21Speaker 1: then he said, when it comes to other people, I'm
- 35:23Speaker 1: measuring that too, that you love your neighbor as you
- 35:27Speaker 1: love yourself. If you wouldn't do it to you, don't
- 35:31Speaker 1: do it to me. Now, Jacob has forgotten what he did.
- 35:37Speaker 1: but he has not forgotten nor forgiven what they did.
- 35:44Speaker 1: Can we get into this? Yeah, let's get into it.
- 35:49Speaker 1: Go to Genesis 34, one through 13. This is where
- 35:59Speaker 1: the plot thickens. First of all, Dinah, girl, if you
- 36:07Speaker 1: had just stayed over there where you were supposed to stay,
- 36:11Speaker 1: we never would have had this problem in the first place.
- 36:14Speaker 1: So when the Bible brings it up, it says in
- 36:16Speaker 1: verse one, and Dinah, the daughter of Leah, which she
- 36:22Speaker 1: bare unto Jacob, went out to see the daughters of
- 36:25Speaker 1: the land. Hold it right there. Go back. Hold it
- 36:27Speaker 1: right there. Dinah, the daughter of Leah. Let's stop right there.
- 36:35Speaker 1: Because first of all, Her mama was wounded. Her mama
- 36:44Speaker 1: was hurting. Her mama was rejected. Her mama had never
- 36:48Speaker 1: been loved. Her mama had to give up mandrakes to
- 36:52Speaker 1: get Jacob to go in to her tent to go
- 36:54Speaker 1: to bed with her. So this wandering daughter comes from
- 36:59Speaker 1: a wounded mother. I'm going to say that again. The
- 37:04Speaker 1: wandering daughter comes from a wounded mother. So the Bible
- 37:10Speaker 1: identifies Dinah as the daughter of Leah. That is no accident.
- 37:15Speaker 1: The Bible doesn't waste words when it goes into letting
- 37:19Speaker 1: you know Dinah, the daughter of Leah, not Bilhah. Okay,
- 37:23Speaker 1: not Rachel. It said, I want you to know that
- 37:26Speaker 1: she is born from the tangled-eyed consolation prize that Laban
- 37:32Speaker 1: tricked Jacob with. That was her mama. Now, the wounded
- 37:39Speaker 1: woman produces a wandering child. Are you hearing what I'm
- 37:46Speaker 1: saying to you? And when you're in pain over your own,
- 37:50Speaker 1: see the whole reason she was in pain, every child
- 37:53Speaker 1: she had, including Levi and Simeon, was an attempt to
- 37:58Speaker 1: get Jacob to love her. Levi means joined. And she said,
- 38:05Speaker 1: maybe now that I've given him another son, he will
- 38:08Speaker 1: be joined unto me. Simeon hearing, if he hears that
- 38:13Speaker 1: I've had a son, maybe he'll love me. This wounded
- 38:16Speaker 1: woman who never got to any peace until she had Judah.
- 38:23Speaker 1: Because Judah means now will I praise the Lord. I
- 38:26Speaker 1: have given up on Jacob. Now will I praise the Lord.
- 38:30Speaker 1: She had finally turned to God and given to God
- 38:34Speaker 1: what Jacob wasn't interested in. You can sit here and
- 38:37Speaker 1: act like you don't know what I'm talking about. But
- 38:40Speaker 1: this is Old Testament stuff. But it is current to
- 38:44Speaker 1: what's going on in life right now. And sooner or
- 38:47Speaker 1: later you come to a point that if I can't
- 38:49Speaker 1: give it to him.
- 38:54Speaker 1: Talk to me, somebody. The ages have changed. The clothes
- 38:58Speaker 1: have changed. The skin tone has changed. But life is
- 39:01Speaker 1: still life. And people are still people. And it don't
- 39:04Speaker 1: matter what dispensation you're in. Humanity is still humanity. This
- 39:08Speaker 1: woman has been rejected all of her life. And by
- 39:11Speaker 1: the way, what's wrong with me, daddy, that you use
- 39:15Speaker 1: me as a trick? Dinah is the daughter of Leah.
- 39:25Speaker 1: Leah was set up. Her daddy gave her to him.
- 39:30Speaker 1: as a joke. So not only did she not have
- 39:33Speaker 1: the love of a husband, she had never had the
- 39:36Speaker 1: love of a father. Can I go deeper? And it
- 39:43Speaker 1: is difficult to know how to love a husband if
- 39:47Speaker 1: you haven't had an opportunity before. To love a father.
- 39:53Speaker 1: You don't understand men's ways. So you talk to a
- 39:55Speaker 1: man like he's a woman. And you read him like
- 39:57Speaker 1: he's a woman. And you jump to conclusions like he's
- 40:00Speaker 1: a woman. And it may not even be your fault.
- 40:02Speaker 1: It may be your daddy's fault that he never was
- 40:05Speaker 1: in the house in the first place. And you're guessing
- 40:07Speaker 1: at man. But regardless, it'll make you wander. And so
- 40:13Speaker 1: you end up with somebody... that does more damage to
- 40:19Speaker 1: you already wounded because you are a wandering woman born
- 40:24Speaker 1: of a wounded woman through the rejection of a father.
- 40:30Speaker 1: And now you're wandering out there amongst these strange people
- 40:34Speaker 1: talking about you looking for the daughters of the land.
- 40:37Speaker 1: What are you doing, Dinah? You about to mess up wandering.
- 40:43Speaker 1: Listen to me tonight in this Bible class. Stop wandering.
- 40:47Speaker 1: Stop wandering from pillar to post, from here to there.
- 40:51Speaker 1: Be still and know that God is God and wait
- 40:55Speaker 1: on God to put it together and straighten it out.
- 40:59Speaker 1: I know you've been hurt. I know you've been wounded.
- 41:02Speaker 1: I know you've been ostracized and I know it wasn't
- 41:04Speaker 1: your fault. But if you wander, Dinah, you're going to
- 41:07Speaker 1: make it worse. Stand still and see the salvation of
- 41:13Speaker 1: the Lord. Stand still. I'm talking to somebody. Stand still.
- 41:17Speaker 1: You've been running all your life. You're about to run
- 41:21Speaker 1: into something you can't get out of. And God's got
- 41:24Speaker 1: you logged on to this broadcast tonight to give you
- 41:27Speaker 1: a warning to just stop running and be still. You
- 41:31Speaker 1: run from job to job, from church to church, from
- 41:35Speaker 1: man to man. You keep going because you're wounded. And
- 41:40Speaker 1: you learn how to handle your pain from your mama.
- 41:48Speaker 1: Or perhaps your daddy. Regardless of where you got it from,
- 41:53Speaker 1: it's handed to you. You don't speak English because you
- 41:59Speaker 1: were taught it in school. You speak English because they
- 42:02Speaker 1: spoke it in your house. So you never had to
- 42:06Speaker 1: learn English like somebody from another country would have to
- 42:09Speaker 1: learn it because it was modeled in front of you.
- 42:13Speaker 1: So it was easy for you to speak it. You
- 42:15Speaker 1: might have had to learn how to write it, but
- 42:16Speaker 1: it was easy for you to speak it because it's
- 42:18Speaker 1: all mama spoke to you in. Want some more milk, baby?
- 42:22Speaker 1: After a while, the baby say milk, milk, milk, milk, milk, milk.
- 42:26Speaker 1: Whatever is modeled in front of you is behavior that's
- 42:29Speaker 1: easy to repeat. If mama gets mad and throws stuff...
- 42:37Speaker 1: Then you learn when you're angry, you should throw something
- 42:42Speaker 1: or cuss them out or go into a rage or
- 42:47Speaker 1: have a drink. So a lot of what becomes our behavior,
- 42:52Speaker 1: we have adopted from the culture we are surrounded with.
- 42:57Speaker 1: Now Dinah, the daughter of Leah, let me go home,
- 43:01Speaker 1: which she bare unto Jacob. See, this is code. This
- 43:06Speaker 1: is code. I can't get off it. I got to
- 43:07Speaker 1: stay here. Dinah, the daughter of Leah, which she bare
- 43:10Speaker 1: unto Jacob is code. You have to know the story
- 43:13Speaker 1: to understand what the writer is telling you. Went out
- 43:16Speaker 1: to see the daughters of the land. It's bringing up
- 43:19Speaker 1: everything I just taught. And when Shechem, the son of Hamer,
- 43:23Speaker 1: the Habite, prince of the country, saw her, he took
- 43:28Speaker 1: her and lay with her and defiled her. If she
- 43:32Speaker 1: would have stayed her hips where she was supposed to be,
- 43:36Speaker 1: it wouldn't have happened. I know today you say, don't
- 43:38Speaker 1: blame the victim. Yes, the victim is complicit. If you
- 43:42Speaker 1: stay within boundaries, a lot of things won't happen. That
- 43:48Speaker 1: does not absolve the guilt of the man in any
- 43:51Speaker 1: way at all. What they did was horrendous and horrible
- 43:55Speaker 1: and tragic and awful, but it is also a cautionary tale.
- 44:00Speaker 1: You don't jump in everybody's car. You don't go to
- 44:03Speaker 1: everybody's hotel room at three o'clock in the morning. I
- 44:06Speaker 1: know it's not popular. Nobody's saying this kind of stuff.
- 44:10Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna get a lot of hateful emails,
- 44:12Speaker 1: but it is true. We got to go back to
- 44:15Speaker 1: raising our children You stay within boundaries. It's eight o'clock,
- 44:21Speaker 1: go to bed. You get up in the morning, you
- 44:23Speaker 1: brush your teeth. He don't bathe but once a week.
- 44:26Speaker 1: What are you talking about? No boundaries has created this situation.
- 44:36Speaker 1: The only thing about it is when Hamer saw her
- 44:42Speaker 1: and raped her, the next verse, his soul clave unto Dinah.
- 44:47Speaker 1: The daughter of Jacob. He fell in love with the
- 44:50Speaker 1: girl he raped. Let that sink in for a minute.
- 44:55Speaker 1: He fell in love with this strange Hebrew girl. And
- 45:01Speaker 1: maybe he saw her because she was strange. Come on, fellas.
- 45:08Speaker 1: You know how we like... Strange. Strange. It's not like
- 45:19Speaker 1: there weren't any daughters of Shechem, but they were used
- 45:22Speaker 1: to the daughters of Shechem. Here comes this Hebrew girl
- 45:25Speaker 1: with an accent. She talks funny. She walks different. She's
- 45:30Speaker 1: a different culture. And he raped her, fell in love
- 45:33Speaker 1: with her. And his soul clave unto Dinah, the daughter
- 45:37Speaker 1: of Jacob. And he loved the damsel and spake kindly
- 45:41Speaker 1: unto the damsel. And Shechem spake unto his father. How
- 45:46Speaker 1: you go back and tell your daddy you raped this girl?
- 45:49Speaker 1: But anyway, and Shechem spake unto his father Hamor, saying,
- 45:53Speaker 1: get me this damsel to wife. Okay. He doesn't ask
- 45:58Speaker 1: her to marry him. He goes to his father because
- 46:03Speaker 1: of patriarchal blessing. And he says, these are arranged marriages. Yes. Many,
- 46:10Speaker 1: many cultures today still arrange marriages. The parents make the decisions.
- 46:17Speaker 1: And when he goes back to his father, he says,
- 46:19Speaker 1: get me this daughter, the wife. And Jacob heard that
- 46:22Speaker 1: he had defiled Dinah, his daughter. Now his sons were
- 46:26Speaker 1: with his cattle in the field, and Jacob held his
- 46:29Speaker 1: peace until they were come. Come on. And Hamor, the
- 46:33Speaker 1: father of Shechem, went out unto Jacob. Here the two
- 46:37Speaker 1: fathers are coming together to have a conversation about their kids.
- 46:42Speaker 1: Come on. And the sons of Jacob came out of
- 46:47Speaker 1: the field when they heard it. And the men were grieved.
- 46:50Speaker 1: They were mad. And they were wroth, which means anger
- 46:53Speaker 1: with fire. So they were past mad. They were wroth.
- 46:57Speaker 1: They were angry with fire. Because he had wrought folly
- 47:00Speaker 1: in Israel in line with Jacob's daughter, they understood that
- 47:05Speaker 1: God had already commanded them not to fool with people
- 47:09Speaker 1: who were idolaters. And now he has defiled her, ruined
- 47:14Speaker 1: her from the possibility of a Hebrew man. Because now
- 47:19Speaker 1: she doesn't have any blood to ratify the covenant. Can
- 47:24Speaker 1: I go there for a minute? She's given the blood
- 47:27Speaker 1: to somebody with whom she has no covenant. Not because
- 47:31Speaker 1: she wanted to, because he defiled her. That's what defile meant.
- 47:38Speaker 1: Let me explain this. In the Bible, on the night
- 47:41Speaker 1: of your wedding, once the marriage is consummated, you would
- 47:46Speaker 1: come out and wave the bloody sheets. And that was
- 47:50Speaker 1: a part of the ceremony because marriage was not just
- 47:53Speaker 1: a word covenant. It was a blood covenant. The whole
- 48:00Speaker 1: purpose in the hymen in the body, the body works
- 48:03Speaker 1: just as good with it as it does without it.
- 48:05Speaker 1: But the purpose of the hymen in the body is
- 48:08Speaker 1: to cut the covenant. Because the blood covenant is the
- 48:12Speaker 1: strongest covenant possible. In many religions, in many traditions outside
- 48:20Speaker 1: of Christianity and Judaism, it is still true. Blood covenants
- 48:25Speaker 1: are the strongest covenants possible. Now, she has lost her
- 48:30Speaker 1: blood without her permission at the whim of Hamer. And
- 48:38Speaker 1: Hamer communed with them saying the soul of my son,
- 48:41Speaker 1: I mean Shechem, went to his father Hamer. Now Hamer
- 48:44Speaker 1: is trying to work this out because the kid's in trouble.
- 48:49Speaker 1: How many parents in here have had to work something
- 48:53Speaker 1: out because the kid's in trouble? And when the kid's
- 48:58Speaker 1: in trouble, you're in trouble. Whether you ask for it
- 49:02Speaker 1: or not, now you're in trouble. Now Hamer goes down
- 49:05Speaker 1: here to meet with Jacob to try to work this out.
- 49:09Speaker 1: The soul of my son Shechem longeth for your daughter.
- 49:12Speaker 1: I pray you give her him to wife and make
- 49:16Speaker 1: ye marriages with us and give your daughter to me.
- 49:20Speaker 1: daughters unto us and take our daughters unto you. and
- 49:25Speaker 1: ye shall dwell with us, and the land shall be
- 49:28Speaker 1: before you. Dwell and trade ye therein, and get you
- 49:32Speaker 1: possessions therein. He said, we're willing to become one with
- 49:35Speaker 1: you and be connected with you and become one people.
- 49:38Speaker 1: And Shechem said unto her father and unto her brethren,
- 49:42Speaker 1: let me find grace in your eyes, and what ye
- 49:47Speaker 1: shall say unto me I will give. He said, whatever
- 49:52Speaker 1: I have to do to calm you boys down, I'm
- 49:55Speaker 1: willing to do it. I realize I messed up. Let's
- 49:57Speaker 1: get this right. You just say what it's going to
- 50:00Speaker 1: take to straighten it out. This is a family mess.
- 50:04Speaker 1: And don't sit there and look at me like you
- 50:06Speaker 1: ain't had no family mess. Because a family mess will
- 50:11Speaker 1: keep you up all night. A family mess will have
- 50:14Speaker 1: you walking the floor at 3 o'clock in the morning.
- 50:16Speaker 1: A family mess, you can't get out of it. You
- 50:19Speaker 1: can't ignore it. You can't turn your back on it.
- 50:21Speaker 1: You can't act like you don't care because you do care.
- 50:24Speaker 1: And love will make you have to get in there
- 50:27Speaker 1: and deal with somebody that you wouldn't have to deal with.
- 50:29Speaker 1: If it wasn't for the fact that your cousin went
- 50:32Speaker 1: down in 7-Eleven and got himself into this situation. And
- 50:35Speaker 1: now there you are. I know you said you weren't
- 50:37Speaker 1: going to get him out of trouble. But there you
- 50:39Speaker 1: are at 2 o'clock in the morning trying to get
- 50:42Speaker 1: up some bail money and waking people up. Sit there
- 50:45Speaker 1: and act like you don't know what I'm talking about.
- 50:47Speaker 1: Trying to straighten out something. And now you're working overtime
- 50:50Speaker 1: trying to get some money to pay a lawyer to
- 50:52Speaker 1: straighten out. Ask me never so much diary and gift,
- 51:00Speaker 1: and I will give according as ye shall say unto me.
- 51:03Speaker 1: But give me the damsel to wife. He says, whatever
- 51:07Speaker 1: I have to do to fix this and make it right,
- 51:10Speaker 1: I'm willing to do it. We can be one people.
- 51:12Speaker 1: You can have part of our land. You can have
- 51:14Speaker 1: our women. We can work together. We can do business.
- 51:18Speaker 1: We can interact together. And the sons of Jacob answered
- 51:21Speaker 1: Shechem and Hamer, his father, deceitfully. Wait a minute. This
- 51:26Speaker 1: is where... Our Hebrew scholars say Jacob said nothing. Why
- 51:38Speaker 1: are the sons talking when the fathers are speaking? Oh God.
- 51:46Speaker 1: I could take off on that and go somewhere else. Okay.
- 51:53Speaker 1: And the sons of Jacob answered. They wasn't even talking
- 51:56Speaker 1: to you. Shechem and Hamer, his father, deceitfully and said,
- 52:02Speaker 1: because he had defiled Dinah, their sister. Okay. Go back,
- 52:07Speaker 1: go back, because I lost track of that. Go back,
- 52:09Speaker 1: go back, go back, go back, go back. Go back
- 52:12Speaker 1: to the next verse before it. Go back to verse 11.
- 52:15Speaker 1: Do we have it? And Shechem said unto her father
- 52:19Speaker 1: and unto her brethren, let me find grace in your eyes.
- 52:23Speaker 1: And what ye shall say unto me, I will give.
- 52:27Speaker 1: I will do whatever I need to do to make
- 52:31Speaker 1: this right. Okay? That's where we are. We got a problem.
- 52:38Speaker 1: We got a problem. Because I'm going to take you
- 52:40Speaker 1: to the next verse and show you where the problem is.
- 52:43Speaker 1: Go down to verse 25. Verse 25. And it came
- 52:46Speaker 1: to pass on the third day. So let me explain
- 52:49Speaker 1: what happened. So the boys told them, they said, if
- 52:53Speaker 1: you're circumcised, it'll straighten it out. Now, circumcision is a
- 52:58Speaker 1: sign of the covenant. Same thing as the hymen is
- 53:02Speaker 1: the blood of the woman. The cutting of the foreskin
- 53:04Speaker 1: of the man meant I have a covenant with God.
- 53:08Speaker 1: And what is happening here, everybody's breaking covenants. Everybody's breaking covenant.
- 53:16Speaker 1: The rape was a break of a covenant. And now
- 53:20Speaker 1: you've got these men who have no relationship with Jehovah
- 53:23Speaker 1: getting circumcised and wasting their blood like she wasted her.
- 53:28Speaker 1: You see how this is going down a hole? And
- 53:32Speaker 1: so all of the men of Shechem who are going
- 53:35Speaker 1: to be prominent throughout the scriptures. So I hope you
- 53:38Speaker 1: really listen to this because the men of Shechem end
- 53:41Speaker 1: up in so many stories throughout the Bible. You need
- 53:43Speaker 1: to know the backstory that led to it. All the
- 53:46Speaker 1: men of Shechem are sore. Now, let me say something
- 53:48Speaker 1: to you ladies. If a grown man gets circumcised and
- 53:54Speaker 1: it's just three days, sore is not a good translation.
- 54:02Speaker 1: Sore and sorry and swollen. and in pain unimaginable. And
- 54:14Speaker 1: it is into this environment that the two sons of Jacob,
- 54:17Speaker 1: Simeon and Levi, Dinah's brethren, took each man his sword,
- 54:24Speaker 1: there's the sword that Jacob is talking about on his deathbed,
- 54:28Speaker 1: and came upon the city boldly and slew all the males.
- 54:35Speaker 1: Only one man raped her. They killed, y'all don't get it.
- 54:40Speaker 1: They killed all the men in the country and they
- 54:46Speaker 1: slew Hammer who did it and Shechem, his father, and Shechem,
- 54:51Speaker 1: his son, with the edge of the sword and took
- 54:54Speaker 1: Dinah out of Shechem's house and went out. The sons
- 54:59Speaker 1: of Jacob came upon the slain and spoiled the city
- 55:03Speaker 1: because they had defiled their sister. They took their sheep,
- 55:07Speaker 1: their oxen, their asses, and that which was in the
- 55:11Speaker 1: city and that which was in the field, they robbed them.
- 55:14Speaker 1: They took all their wealth and all their children and
- 55:18Speaker 1: their wives, took they captive and spoiled even all that
- 55:22Speaker 1: was in the house. They wrecked the place. And Jacob
- 55:25Speaker 1: said to Simeon and Levi, ye have troubled me to
- 55:30Speaker 1: make me to stink among the inhabitants of the land.
- 55:33Speaker 1: among the Canaanites and the Perizzites and I being few
- 55:37Speaker 1: in number they shall gather themselves together against me and
- 55:40Speaker 1: slay me and I shall be destroyed I and my
- 55:44Speaker 1: house Jacob is scared Jacob is scared that they have
- 55:49Speaker 1: gotten into something that they can't get out of and
- 55:51Speaker 1: that all the surrounding nations will rise up against him
- 55:54Speaker 1: and kill him but they didn't so why is he
- 55:59Speaker 1: still angry on his deathbed He's still angry. And they said,
- 56:06Speaker 1: should he deal with our sister as with the harlot?
- 56:12Speaker 1: And the scandal stops there. I want you to see
- 56:17Speaker 1: the backstory behind Jacob now being old, laying in the bed,
- 56:26Speaker 1: and he's still angry. Are you still angry? Are you
- 56:30Speaker 1: still angry? Jacob, who found the house of God and
- 56:39Speaker 1: saw a ladder descend from heaven and saw angels ascend
- 56:44Speaker 1: and descend, is still angry. Jacob, who wrestled with an
- 56:49Speaker 1: angel to the breaking of day, is still angry. Jacob,
- 56:53Speaker 1: who found out his name was Israel and he was
- 56:55Speaker 1: a prince and had prevailed with God. He prevailed with God,
- 56:59Speaker 1: but he didn't prevail with his own temper. Are you
- 57:07Speaker 1: dancing and angry? Talking in tongues but still angry. Laying
- 57:13Speaker 1: hands on people but still angry. Jacob, you don't understand.
- 57:18Speaker 1: Jacob got a blessing. He got a blessing from an angel.
- 57:22Speaker 1: Actually a theophonic manifestation of Christ in the Old Testament.
- 57:27Speaker 1: He got the blessing. But he couldn't get rid of
- 57:30Speaker 1: the burden of his own anger. And I'm teaching tonight
- 57:37Speaker 1: not just so that you will understand another Bible story.
- 57:40Speaker 1: I'm teaching tonight so that you will see what unmanaged
- 57:44Speaker 1: rage will do to your destiny. Now Levi and Simeon
- 57:53Speaker 1: are cursed in front of their brethren. And they live
- 58:00Speaker 1: with this curse. Now, the reason this is important is
- 58:04Speaker 1: because each one of Jacob's sons represents a tribe. And
- 58:10Speaker 1: now they can't inherit like they should inherit because they
- 58:15Speaker 1: are living up under a curse and denied a blessing.
- 58:18Speaker 1: You see how problems produce problems, produce problems, produce problems,
- 58:24Speaker 1: and it keeps getting bigger and bigger and bigger and
- 58:27Speaker 1: bigger and bigger. And now they're still up under the
- 58:33Speaker 1: curse until Exodus 32, verse 23 through 30. Go right there.
- 58:41Speaker 1: Exodus 32, verse 23 through 30. This is hundreds of
- 58:46Speaker 1: years have passed. Hundreds of years have passed. No massive victory,
- 58:52Speaker 1: no conquering, no massive success. In fact, the tribe of
- 58:56Speaker 1: Simeon ultimately converged with other people and became part of
- 59:01Speaker 1: the lost tribes, disappeared, untraceable, can't find them, not sustained.
- 59:09Speaker 1: Simeon never got it back. Not his descendants. Not his
- 59:15Speaker 1: children's children's children. Not his children's children's children. Wait a minute.
- 59:19Speaker 1: We're not in Genesis anymore. We're in Exodus. If we're
- 59:23Speaker 1: in Exodus. Exit us. Exit us. Exodus is where us exits.
- 59:32Speaker 1: If this is where us exits, we have been slaves
- 59:36Speaker 1: for 400 years. And we have been in Egypt for
- 59:40Speaker 1: 30 years. So we know at least 430 years have
- 59:42Speaker 1: gone by. 430 years. Am I boring y'all? 430 years
- 59:51Speaker 1: is over 10 generations. And now they're coming out from
- 59:55Speaker 1: captivity with Moses. And I'm going, oh, let me see
- 59:59Speaker 1: how I'm doing. Yeah, I'm good, okay. Yeah, okay. And
- 1:00:03Speaker 1: now they're coming out of captivity with Moses. And we're
- 1:00:07Speaker 1: about to see the breaking of a curse. And the
- 1:00:11Speaker 1: reason I want you to see it is because it
- 1:00:14Speaker 1: is possible. Touch your neighbor and say, it is possible.
- 1:00:18Speaker 1: I want you to understand it is possible to get
- 1:00:20Speaker 1: a second chance at a blessing. Yeah, you type it
- 1:00:24Speaker 1: on the line. It is possible to get a second
- 1:00:27Speaker 1: chance at a blessing. Now, this is the situation. Moses
- 1:00:32Speaker 1: has been in his own mess. He's been in his
- 1:00:37Speaker 1: own mess. Isn't it amazing how God uses messed up people?
- 1:00:41Speaker 1: Y'all ought to be shouting right now. You ought to
- 1:00:44Speaker 1: be sad right now. You know why? Because you messed up.
- 1:00:48Speaker 1: And isn't it amazing how God uses messed up people?
- 1:00:51Speaker 1: What I love about Old Testament theology is that it
- 1:00:55Speaker 1: shows us how messed up they were. And then in
- 1:00:58Speaker 1: the New Testament, it comes along to these were men,
- 1:01:01Speaker 1: we are men of like passions. That God can use
- 1:01:06Speaker 1: people that are all messed up and their stories are
- 1:01:09Speaker 1: all messed up and there are contradictions in their life.
- 1:01:12Speaker 1: And yet some kind of way, God's purpose prevails over
- 1:01:15Speaker 1: my pain. I'm going to say that again. God's purpose
- 1:01:20Speaker 1: prevails over my pain.
- 1:01:35Speaker 1: Your latter day shall be greater than your former day.
- 1:01:40Speaker 1: I speak to you right now in the name of
- 1:01:43Speaker 1: Jesus that you have a God that is able to
- 1:01:46Speaker 1: give you a second chance and a blessing. And if
- 1:01:49Speaker 1: you would just take 10 seconds and praise him for
- 1:01:53Speaker 1: a second chance. Yes. Everybody grateful. Everybody thankful. Everybody appreciative.
- 1:02:08Speaker 1: Thank God for a second chance. Thank God for amazing grace.
- 1:02:14Speaker 1: Amazing grace. Thank God for a second chance. Thank God
- 1:02:18Speaker 1: for a second start. Thank God for a new beginning.
- 1:02:22Speaker 1: Thank God that God's purpose prevails over your pain. The
- 1:02:26Speaker 1: purpose of God. He used harlots. He used hookers. He
- 1:02:31Speaker 1: used street people. He used idolaters to accomplish his purpose.
- 1:02:35Speaker 1: If God could use Ruth. If God could use Rahab. Oh,
- 1:02:41Speaker 1: y'all don't hear what I... If God could use Tamar,
- 1:02:44Speaker 1: then God can use me. Come on, somebody. Come on, somebody.
- 1:02:52Speaker 1: God used Rebecca. God used her in spite of her treachery.
- 1:02:56Speaker 1: God still used her. And if there's somebody in here
- 1:03:00Speaker 1: that wants God to use you, open your mouth and
- 1:03:03Speaker 1: begin to give God the praise. Now, let's go deeper.
- 1:03:18Speaker 1: I want to get something in. I want to get
- 1:03:19Speaker 1: something in. I want to get something in. Ooh, I
- 1:03:21Speaker 1: feel this. I feel this. I feel this. I feel this.
- 1:03:24Speaker 1: I feel this. I feel this. Somebody's about to get
- 1:03:27Speaker 1: a second chance. This is a prophetic class. This is
- 1:03:29Speaker 1: a prophetic class. This isn't just a Bible class. I
- 1:03:31Speaker 1: thought this was going to be a Bible class. But
- 1:03:33Speaker 1: this is a prophetic word. God is going to give
- 1:03:36Speaker 1: you a second chance at a blessing. You've lived in guilt.
- 1:03:38Speaker 1: You've walked in shame. God's saying, I'm going to give
- 1:03:41Speaker 1: you a second chance at a blessing. That's why you
- 1:03:44Speaker 1: had to be here tonight. That's why you had to
- 1:03:46Speaker 1: be online right now. Because God is about to open
- 1:03:49Speaker 1: up a door and give you another opportunity to correct
- 1:03:52Speaker 1: and break curses. He's going to turn it all the
- 1:03:55Speaker 1: way around. He's going to spin it all the way around.
- 1:03:58Speaker 1: God is about to turn some things in your life. Oh,
- 1:04:02Speaker 1: wait a minute. Somebody help me praise him. I feel
- 1:04:05Speaker 1: a yoke breaking. I feel a door opening. I feel
- 1:04:09Speaker 1: a curse being released. I feel the anointing of the
- 1:04:12Speaker 1: Holy Ghost. Somebody shout unto God with the voice of triumph.
- 1:04:27Speaker 1: Look at your neighbor and say, I will be triumphant.
- 1:04:31Speaker 1: I will be triumphant. That's why I'm going to shout
- 1:04:34Speaker 1: unto God with the voice of triumph. I might not
- 1:04:39Speaker 1: look triumphant right now, but before it's all over, I
- 1:04:43Speaker 1: will be triumphant. I will get it back. I will
- 1:04:47Speaker 1: get a second chance. If I'm teaching what you need
- 1:04:50Speaker 1: to be receiving, give him some glory. Online, give him
- 1:04:55Speaker 1: a praise. Type of praise. Make a joyful noise. Make
- 1:05:00Speaker 1: a joyful emoji. Make a joyful sentence. Shout unto God
- 1:05:06Speaker 1: in this place. Okay, sit down. We got to go
- 1:05:16Speaker 1: back to work. Now, whoo. Now, this is what has happened.
- 1:05:35Speaker 1: Moses has been raised with the Pharaoh in the palace
- 1:05:41Speaker 1: for 40 years. He's raised up in finery. He's educated
- 1:05:47Speaker 1: in a way he would have never been educated. He
- 1:05:50Speaker 1: has a boldness that he never would have had in
- 1:05:54Speaker 1: his mama's house as a slave. He's raised up amongst
- 1:05:58Speaker 1: kings and leaders and and he has a finesse and
- 1:06:04Speaker 1: a strength because his environment was different. You see, his
- 1:06:11Speaker 1: environment was different. And so, because God is raising him
- 1:06:14Speaker 1: up to speak to kings, and he does not want
- 1:06:18Speaker 1: Moses to end up walking up on Pharaoh talking about, yes, sir, boss,
- 1:06:24Speaker 1: I sure is glad that you made time to To
- 1:06:27Speaker 1: see me. I got a word from the Lord for you.
- 1:06:32Speaker 1: If you don't mind me telling you, I am that
- 1:06:35Speaker 1: I am sent me. No, he wants him to come
- 1:06:39Speaker 1: boldly into it and say, I'm sent by God and
- 1:06:42Speaker 1: I have a word from you. Thus saith the Lord
- 1:06:45Speaker 1: God unto you. And some of you, God had to
- 1:06:48Speaker 1: put you in a different situation. Amen. So that you
- 1:06:51Speaker 1: would have a different attitude. And that's why you don't
- 1:06:54Speaker 1: fit in with your friends. And that's why you don't
- 1:06:56Speaker 1: fit in with your family. Because God is raising you
- 1:06:59Speaker 1: up for a divine purpose. You don't think like them.
- 1:07:03Speaker 1: You don't act like them. You don't walk like them.
- 1:07:06Speaker 1: Because you got a different destiny. My God. Let me stop.
- 1:07:15Speaker 1: Who am I talking to? I'm talking to somebody tonight.
- 1:07:20Speaker 1: Down through the years, God has been good to you.
- 1:07:28Speaker 1: Now let me show you something because I'm going to
- 1:07:30Speaker 1: give you something. Sit down, sit down, sit down because
- 1:07:32Speaker 1: you'll make me get happy. If I get happy, I
- 1:07:34Speaker 1: won't get finished. Glory to God. How many glad you
- 1:07:38Speaker 1: came to Bible class? Now I want you to think
- 1:07:42Speaker 1: about this. Moses spent 40 years in Pharaoh's house. Then
- 1:07:46Speaker 1: he tries to execute his destiny here. off schedule, and
- 1:07:52Speaker 1: rises up and ends up killing an Egyptian and has
- 1:07:56Speaker 1: to go on the run for 40 years in the desert.
- 1:08:00Speaker 1: Now Moses is now in the desert with Jethro for
- 1:08:04Speaker 1: 40 years. And he's in the desert as an outlaw.
- 1:08:11Speaker 1: And he stays there until Pharaoh dies. And a Pharaoh
- 1:08:16Speaker 1: rises up that didn't know him. But even though he's
- 1:08:20Speaker 1: an outcast from the palace, God has purpose in his pain.
- 1:08:28Speaker 1: Because it's no accident that Moses has spent 40 years.
- 1:08:33Speaker 1: He spent 40 years learning how to be a Pharaoh.
- 1:08:36Speaker 1: Now he spends 40 years learning how to survive in
- 1:08:39Speaker 1: the desert. Because his destiny is tied to the desert.
- 1:08:46Speaker 1: And he's going to end up leading the children of
- 1:08:48Speaker 1: Israel through the desert. And the reason he can lead
- 1:08:51Speaker 1: them through the desert is because he spent 40 years
- 1:08:54Speaker 1: in the desert. When God is going to take you somewhere,
- 1:08:57Speaker 1: he exposes you to the things. that's going to be
- 1:09:01Speaker 1: yours before you get to it. Who am I talking to?
- 1:09:07Speaker 1: And so Moses, he's the only one that could have
- 1:09:11Speaker 1: led them out of Egypt because he spent 40 years
- 1:09:15Speaker 1: learning how to survive in the desert under the tutelage
- 1:09:19Speaker 1: of Jethro, the Cushite, which means burnt face. So the
- 1:09:27Speaker 1: burnt face Cushite man taught Moses, the Hebrew man, how
- 1:09:33Speaker 1: to survive in a hot place. And all of a
- 1:09:39Speaker 1: sudden when Moses goes down there to tell Pharaoh to
- 1:09:44Speaker 1: let my people go, he is releasing a people that
- 1:09:49Speaker 1: he's kin to but estranged from. They haven't seen Moses
- 1:09:58Speaker 1: for 80 years. And now Moses is leading them. away
- 1:10:08Speaker 1: from the familiar into the unfamiliar. And they have seen
- 1:10:15Speaker 1: the glorious power of God at the Red Sea and
- 1:10:19Speaker 1: they've had a moment of encouragement, but it was tough
- 1:10:23Speaker 1: to get it because until Pharaoh drowned, they were scared
- 1:10:28Speaker 1: to death and they wanted to go back and rightfully
- 1:10:30Speaker 1: so because they don't know nothing about Moses. They don't
- 1:10:35Speaker 1: know nothing about Moses. Now, Moses has got them through
- 1:10:39Speaker 1: the Red Sea. And now he's gone up on the
- 1:10:42Speaker 1: mountaintop and he's gone a while. And while he's gone,
- 1:10:48Speaker 1: they said this, verse 23. For they said unto me,
- 1:10:52Speaker 1: make us gods which shall go before us. For as
- 1:10:58Speaker 1: for this Moses, that's right. For as for this Moses,
- 1:11:03Speaker 1: see that statement right there, I'm so glad you threw
- 1:11:06Speaker 1: that back at me. As for this Moses, that you
- 1:11:09Speaker 1: don't say that, this Moses, if you know the guy.
- 1:11:13Speaker 1: If I say as for this Robinson, that means I
- 1:11:16Speaker 1: don't know him. For as for this Moses, the man
- 1:11:21Speaker 1: that brought us up out of the land of Egypt,
- 1:11:24Speaker 1: we would not what has become of him. Moses is
- 1:11:29Speaker 1: just some dude. who brought them up out of the
- 1:11:34Speaker 1: land of Egypt and he has no roots with them.
- 1:11:40Speaker 1: And anytime you're trying to lead somebody that you are
- 1:11:44Speaker 1: not rooted in, it becomes difficult for trust to be
- 1:11:54Speaker 1: sustained where there are no roots. And I said unto them,
- 1:12:03Speaker 1: whosoever hath any goal, let them break it off. So
- 1:12:06Speaker 1: they gave it to me. This is Aaron. Then I
- 1:12:09Speaker 1: cast it into the fire. He lied. And there came
- 1:12:11Speaker 1: out a calf. That's like a seven-year-old lie. I don't know.
- 1:12:18Speaker 1: I just walked past the kitchen and the kitchen door
- 1:12:21Speaker 1: came open and the ice cream just jumped out the freezer, mama.
- 1:12:25Speaker 1: That's the stupidest lie. They gave me the earrings. I
- 1:12:28Speaker 1: threw it in the fire and the calf came out.
- 1:12:30Speaker 1: Come on, dude. And when Moses saw that the people
- 1:12:35Speaker 1: were naked, for Aaron had made them naked unto their
- 1:12:38Speaker 1: shame among their enemies, then Moses stood at the gate
- 1:12:41Speaker 1: of the camp and said, who is on the Lord's side?
- 1:12:45Speaker 1: Let him come unto me. And Levi said, oh my God,
- 1:12:48Speaker 1: this is my chance. All the 12 tribes of Israel
- 1:12:57Speaker 1: were gathered around and Moses just left it open and said,
- 1:13:01Speaker 1: who is on the Lord's side? And Levi said, I'm
- 1:13:06Speaker 1: going to jump in right here. And I came to
- 1:13:09Speaker 1: tell somebody tonight, you can jump in right here. You
- 1:13:14Speaker 1: don't hear what I'm saying to you. You've been cursed
- 1:13:18Speaker 1: all your life. Let me stop. You've been cursed all
- 1:13:23Speaker 1: your life. You always had to take a backseat to
- 1:13:27Speaker 1: everybody else. But God said, this is your chance. Who
- 1:13:32Speaker 1: is on the Lord's side? Somebody holler, I am. Go
- 1:13:38Speaker 1: back to my who is on the Lord's side scripture.
- 1:13:41Speaker 1: And he said, who is on the Lord's side? Let
- 1:13:43Speaker 1: him come unto me and all the sons of God.
- 1:13:49Speaker 1: Come on, that's right. All the sons of Levi gathered
- 1:13:52Speaker 1: themselves together unto him. They said, we're on the Lord's side.
- 1:13:57Speaker 1: And they said unto him, thus saith the Lord God
- 1:13:59Speaker 1: of Israel, put every man his sword by his side
- 1:14:02Speaker 1: and go in and out from gate to gate throughout
- 1:14:05Speaker 1: the camp and slay every man his brother and every
- 1:14:09Speaker 1: man his companion and every man his neighbor. And wait
- 1:14:14Speaker 1: a minute. They reversed the curse. with the same thing
- 1:14:24Speaker 1: that brought the curse in the first place. Y'all don't
- 1:14:28Speaker 1: wanna talk to me. Y'all don't wanna talk to me.
- 1:14:30Speaker 1: Y'all don't wanna talk to me. Y'all don't wanna talk
- 1:14:32Speaker 1: to me. God's gonna take what was working against you
- 1:14:37Speaker 1: and turn it around and let it work for you.
- 1:14:40Speaker 1: Who am I talking to tonight? And the children of
- 1:14:45Speaker 1: Levi did according to the word of Moses. And there
- 1:14:48Speaker 1: fell of the people that day about 3,000 men. For
- 1:14:55Speaker 1: Moses has said, consecrate yourselves today to the Lord, even
- 1:15:00Speaker 1: every man upon his son and upon his brother, that
- 1:15:03Speaker 1: he may bestow upon you a son. Y'all don't hear
- 1:15:11Speaker 1: this word. Y'all don't hear this word. God bestowed on
- 1:15:15Speaker 1: them a blessing that they couldn't get from their father,
- 1:15:18Speaker 1: that they couldn't get from their mother, that they couldn't
- 1:15:21Speaker 1: get from their brethren, that they couldn't get in captivity,
- 1:15:24Speaker 1: that they couldn't get from Pharaoh, but God has decided
- 1:15:28Speaker 1: to bless you. Type on the line, God has decided
- 1:15:32Speaker 1: to bless me. Say it to your neighbor, God has
- 1:15:35Speaker 1: decided to bless me. Tell your other neighbor, God has
- 1:15:38Speaker 1: decided to bless me. Tell your haters, God has decided
- 1:15:43Speaker 1: to bless me. Tell your neighbors, God has decided to
- 1:15:47Speaker 1: bless me. And it came to pass on the morrow
- 1:16:04Speaker 1: that Moses said unto the people, ye have sinned a
- 1:16:06Speaker 1: great sin. And now I will go up unto the Lord. Peradventure,
- 1:16:10Speaker 1: I shall make an atonement for your sin. And that
- 1:16:14Speaker 1: was how they broke the curse. Now, this is what
- 1:16:19Speaker 1: I want you to get in. I'm done. I'm done.
- 1:16:21Speaker 1: I'm going to show you this. Moses' problem is that
- 1:16:27Speaker 1: he's leading a people with whom he's not been rooted.
- 1:16:30Speaker 1: And when there is no root, every time you leave,
- 1:16:34Speaker 1: they doubt you. When there is no root in the relationship,
- 1:16:43Speaker 1: every time you step aside, they doubt you. And you
- 1:16:46Speaker 1: say they're needy. They're not needy, they're doubtful. They're doubtful
- 1:16:53Speaker 1: because there is no root. And you are in a
- 1:16:57Speaker 1: position for which there is no root. Now you came
- 1:17:03Speaker 1: back into the boy's life and he's 30. And you
- 1:17:08Speaker 1: want to pick up where you left off. It's not
- 1:17:12Speaker 1: that he hates you. There's no root. You got to
- 1:17:17Speaker 1: build a root system. You remember when they said that
- 1:17:28Speaker 1: Levi and Simeon had digged up a wall. And then
- 1:17:34Speaker 1: the next translation came along and said that he had uprooted.
- 1:17:38Speaker 1: You remember that? It said he had uprooted. See, when
- 1:17:41Speaker 1: you are not connected to who you're trying to lead,
- 1:17:44Speaker 1: you uproot things. And a rooting system is important in
- 1:17:49Speaker 1: order for there to be fruit. And some of you
- 1:17:52Speaker 1: are trying to get fruit out of a relationship where
- 1:17:55Speaker 1: you have no root. So Moses had no root with them.
- 1:17:59Speaker 1: So every time he left, they wanted to leave. We
- 1:18:03Speaker 1: don't know what has become of this man called Moses.
- 1:18:07Speaker 1: Let us make us some gods and go back to
- 1:18:12Speaker 1: something that we have roots to. No root in the relationship.
- 1:18:24Speaker 1: No root in ministry. You're trying to lead people that
- 1:18:28Speaker 1: you're not rooted to. If there's no rooting system, if
- 1:18:32Speaker 1: there's no rooting system, if you can't talk to a
- 1:18:34Speaker 1: crowd like this, you can't talk to the stadium. People
- 1:18:42Speaker 1: who have been in this church a long time know
- 1:18:44Speaker 1: that I taught for years and years and years every
- 1:18:48Speaker 1: Wednesday night. And we would have fasts. of people in
- 1:18:51Speaker 1: here every Wednesday night because I knew that you cannot
- 1:18:55Speaker 1: just lead a church from Sunday morning. You have to
- 1:18:58Speaker 1: root it on Wednesday. See, right now, you know what
- 1:19:04Speaker 1: I'm doing? I'm digging amongst the roots. I'm digging amongst
- 1:19:08Speaker 1: the roots. Yeah, yeah. Sunday morning, I'm going to talk
- 1:19:11Speaker 1: to the branches and the fruit and the leaves and
- 1:19:14Speaker 1: everything else. Wednesday night, I'm digging amongst the roots. And
- 1:19:21Speaker 1: if you're listening at me right now, you need a
- 1:19:23Speaker 1: rooting system. You need to build a rooting system. Your
- 1:19:26Speaker 1: marriage isn't over, you just need a rooting system. Your
- 1:19:29Speaker 1: career isn't over, you just need a rooting system. You're
- 1:19:32Speaker 1: an entrepreneur, you need a rooting system. You can't be
- 1:19:36Speaker 1: uprooted and then every time you move away, they leave,
- 1:19:39Speaker 1: you get mad, you can't figure out why they left.
- 1:19:41Speaker 1: They left because they don't know you. They don't have
- 1:19:44Speaker 1: your spirit. they don't have they don't know your voice
- 1:19:47Speaker 1: my sheep know my voice a stranger they will not
- 1:19:50Speaker 1: follow in order for your sheep to know your voice
- 1:19:53Speaker 1: you have to stick around long enough for them to
- 1:19:56Speaker 1: have some root you need roots in your marriage you
- 1:19:59Speaker 1: need roots in your family do you hear what i'm
- 1:20:01Speaker 1: saying to you i'm gonna give you one more scripture
- 1:20:04Speaker 1: and i'm gonna close can i give you one more
- 1:20:06Speaker 1: scripture go to the gospel of saint mark chapter 4
- 1:20:09Speaker 1: verse 1 through 9 and i'll be done this is
- 1:20:12Speaker 1: good is this good I thought it was good. It
- 1:20:15Speaker 1: was good when I got it. Yeah, it was good
- 1:20:19Speaker 1: when I got it. Mark chapter 4 verse 1. This
- 1:20:22Speaker 1: is important because this is what Jesus is teaching and
- 1:20:25Speaker 1: all of this is ultimately tied back to this blessing.
- 1:20:30Speaker 1: Why you get it or don't get it really comes
- 1:20:33Speaker 1: down to how you're rooted. That's why the Bible said,
- 1:20:37Speaker 1: be ye steadfast, unmovable, and always abounding in the work
- 1:20:42Speaker 1: of the Lord. Because in order to be rooted, you
- 1:20:44Speaker 1: got to be stable. You got to get someplace and stick.
- 1:20:49Speaker 1: You got to stick it out when it's good and
- 1:20:51Speaker 1: stick it out when it's bad and stick it out
- 1:20:53Speaker 1: when it's working and stick it out when it's not working.
- 1:20:57Speaker 1: Because even when it's not working on the surface, it's
- 1:20:59Speaker 1: working underground. Amen. Oh, my God. I helped somebody. I
- 1:21:05Speaker 1: don't know who it is, but I helped somebody. You
- 1:21:07Speaker 1: up there looking for leaves and stuff, but let me
- 1:21:09Speaker 1: tell you something. Bad weather will kill all the leaves
- 1:21:12Speaker 1: and all the branches, but if it don't kill the roots,
- 1:21:15Speaker 1: it's going to come back up again. You're trying to
- 1:21:18Speaker 1: produce fruit so you can put it on Instagram. Don't
- 1:21:21Speaker 1: worry about putting fruit on Instagram. Put roots underground. If
- 1:21:26Speaker 1: you put roots underground, the fruit's going to take care
- 1:21:29Speaker 1: of itself. Listen to that Jesus teaching. Fourth chapter, Gospel
- 1:21:32Speaker 1: of St.
- 1:21:32Speaker 2: Mark.
- 1:21:33Speaker 1: And he began to teach by the seaside. And there
- 1:21:36Speaker 1: was gathered unto him a great multitude, so that he
- 1:21:40Speaker 1: entered into the ship and sat in the sea. And
- 1:21:43Speaker 1: the whole multitude was by the sea on the land.
- 1:21:46Speaker 1: Jesus sitting in the boat teaching. And he taught them
- 1:21:48Speaker 1: many things by parables and said unto them in his doctrine, Hearken, behold,
- 1:21:54Speaker 1: there went out a sower to sow. and it came
- 1:21:58Speaker 1: to pass as he sowed, some fell by the wayside,
- 1:22:02Speaker 1: and the fowls of the air came and divided it up,
- 1:22:06Speaker 1: and some fell on stony ground where it had not
- 1:22:10Speaker 1: much earth, and immediately it sprang up because it had
- 1:22:13Speaker 1: a little bit of earth because it had no depth
- 1:22:16Speaker 1: of earth. Come on. But when the sun was up,
- 1:22:20Speaker 1: It was scorched, and because it had no root, and
- 1:22:24Speaker 1: because it had no root, and because it had no root,
- 1:22:28Speaker 1: it withered away. This time, if you're going to win,
- 1:22:32Speaker 1: you're going to have to be rooted. I'm telling you
- 1:22:36Speaker 1: the battle you lost before, you can win now if
- 1:22:40Speaker 1: you get the rooting system in place. You didn't lose
- 1:22:44Speaker 1: it because the seed was bad. You didn't lose it
- 1:22:46Speaker 1: because God didn't love you. You didn't lose it because
- 1:22:49Speaker 1: the devil had more power. You lost it because you
- 1:22:52Speaker 1: didn't have no root. And some fell amongst thorns, and
- 1:22:56Speaker 1: the thorns grew up and choked it out, and it
- 1:22:58Speaker 1: yielded no fruit. Come on. And others fell on good
- 1:23:01Speaker 1: ground and did yield fruit that sprang up and increased
- 1:23:05Speaker 1: and brought forth some thirty, some sixty, and some a hundredfold.
- 1:23:11Speaker 1: And he said unto them, He that hath, let him
- 1:23:15Speaker 1: hear what the Spirit is saying. That's what God wants
- 1:23:19Speaker 1: you to know. He that hath an ear, let him hear. Okay?
- 1:23:24Speaker 1: Let me do this. I'm going to take, sit down
- 1:23:26Speaker 1: for a minute. I'm going to take, I'm going to
- 1:23:28Speaker 1: follow Cora's lead. Pastor Cora did something last week. I'm
- 1:23:31Speaker 1: going to do it this week. Yeah, I know. I know.
- 1:23:34Speaker 1: I saw it. I was watching too. I was watching too.
- 1:23:38Speaker 1: She taught on the names of God, didn't she? Yeah,
- 1:23:42Speaker 1: so what she did, somebody get a mic. What she did,
- 1:23:45Speaker 1: I'm going to do it for about 10 minutes. And
- 1:23:47Speaker 1: you that's online, if you get a good question online,
- 1:23:51Speaker 1: you all send it to me. I'll answer a couple
- 1:23:53Speaker 1: of questions online. I'm going to take about 10 minutes.
- 1:23:56Speaker 1: Who's got the first question? Okay, where's the mic? Where's
- 1:23:59Speaker 1: the mic? I asked for the mic. Somebody ought to
- 1:24:01Speaker 1: be moving with the mic. Yeah, thank you. She's coming.
- 1:24:04Speaker 1: She's coming. She's coming. I'm excited. Calm down. Okay, yeah.
- 1:24:10Speaker 1: I have everybody running. Yeah. Here we go. Yeah. Yes.
- 1:24:21Speaker 1: How do we build a rooting system? How do we what?
- 1:24:25Speaker 2: How do we build a rooting system? You're teaching we
- 1:24:29Speaker 2: need a routine system.
- 1:24:31Speaker 1: R-O-O-T-I-N-G. How do we build that? In what area? Are
- 1:24:36Speaker 1: we talking about families or business or?
- 1:24:37Speaker 2: Family, business, personal relationships, just kind of.
- 1:24:41Speaker 1: Does it depend? The answer is different to every question.
- 1:24:46Speaker 1: A lot of times in business, our businesses don't succeed
- 1:24:51Speaker 1: because we go for the glam and we don't have
- 1:24:54Speaker 1: the infrastructure. So you want to build an infrastructure and
- 1:24:58Speaker 1: if you only got limited resources, you want to put
- 1:25:01Speaker 1: it in the legal infrastructure of the business more than
- 1:25:04Speaker 1: the glam. There are delis that are open in New
- 1:25:07Speaker 1: York that still have the furniture they had 100 years
- 1:25:10Speaker 1: ago and they're still open. And if we owned it,
- 1:25:13Speaker 1: we would have redecorated it and blinged it out and
- 1:25:16Speaker 1: put chandeliers in it, and they put it in the profit,
- 1:25:19Speaker 1: and they have a rooting system. In a personal relationship,
- 1:25:22Speaker 1: I'm coming, I'm coming, I'm going to get there too.
- 1:25:24Speaker 1: In a personal relationship, the rooting system has to be
- 1:25:28Speaker 1: built deep by not making demands before you're in demand. See,
- 1:25:38Speaker 1: we go in making demands of people that we don't
- 1:25:41Speaker 1: have enough demand to make demands. And so you want
- 1:25:46Speaker 1: to build a rooting system of stability, of loyalty, of connectivity,
- 1:25:51Speaker 1: of understanding and transparency. All of that is your underground
- 1:25:57Speaker 1: work that has to be built. So you know why?
- 1:26:00Speaker 1: So when something goes wrong, you have something to hold
- 1:26:04Speaker 1: on to. You understand what I'm saying? Okay, so for example,
- 1:26:09Speaker 1: you can go through midlife crisis. I can go through
- 1:26:12Speaker 1: midlife crisis. You can go through menopause. We can withstand
- 1:26:16Speaker 1: it if we had roots. I can love you now
- 1:26:23Speaker 1: over who you used to be.
- 1:26:24Speaker 2: Come on.
- 1:26:25Speaker 1: Yeah. And I know you would do different if you could. Yes.
- 1:26:29Speaker 1: But if there's no, if I marry you in the
- 1:26:32Speaker 1: middle of the crisis, then I don't have enough roots
- 1:26:36Speaker 1: to have anything to hold on to, to stabilize me
- 1:26:40Speaker 1: in the storm.
- 1:26:40Speaker 2: So would you say compatibility?
- 1:26:42Speaker 1: Compatibility is a part of it, but longevity is better. See,
- 1:26:48Speaker 1: longevity is better because trust takes time. We are never
- 1:26:54Speaker 1: commanded to trust another person. We are commanded to forgive them,
- 1:26:59Speaker 1: but we're not commanded to trust them because trust is
- 1:27:03Speaker 1: not something I can make myself do. I can make
- 1:27:06Speaker 1: myself forgive you, but I can't make myself trust you.
- 1:27:09Speaker 1: You can make me trust you, By consistency. If you
- 1:27:15Speaker 1: just be consistent, if you just be there long enough,
- 1:27:19Speaker 1: eventually trust is going to be a result of your consistency.
- 1:27:24Speaker 1: Consistency is important. And you have to build a rooting system.
- 1:27:29Speaker 1: You have to build a rooting system by being there
- 1:27:32Speaker 1: when I'm in trouble. Being there when I'm in a
- 1:27:35Speaker 1: crisis and you have to build a rooting system, not
- 1:27:38Speaker 1: only by giving love, because I can already see people
- 1:27:41Speaker 1: typing on the line, though I can't see it. I
- 1:27:43Speaker 1: can see them say, I did all that and it
- 1:27:44Speaker 1: still fell apart. Not only is it important that you
- 1:27:48Speaker 1: give it, but that you find somebody who can receive
- 1:27:51Speaker 1: it and reciprocate it. Because it has to be mutual.
- 1:27:56Speaker 1: It has to be mutual. It can't be one-sided. This
- 1:27:59Speaker 1: is not witchcraft. You can't make me love you. You see,
- 1:28:05Speaker 1: and some of you have made good investments in bad ground. Okay,
- 1:28:12Speaker 1: so the first thing in a relationship you want to
- 1:28:14Speaker 1: know from a companion, and you can't just ask them this,
- 1:28:18Speaker 1: you have to observe this. Are you safe to love?
- 1:28:24Speaker 1: Are you safe to love? And one of the ways
- 1:28:27Speaker 1: you can observe it is watching how they handled other
- 1:28:30Speaker 1: people they say they love. If you've divorced everybody that
- 1:28:34Speaker 1: came into your life and you can't get along with
- 1:28:37Speaker 1: nobody else in your life, what in the world would
- 1:28:39Speaker 1: make me think that I'm going to be the one
- 1:28:42Speaker 1: exception in your life that's going to beat the odds?
- 1:28:45Speaker 1: The best predictor of future behavior is past practice. If
- 1:28:51Speaker 1: you see somebody who has had several long-standing, loyal relationships
- 1:28:58Speaker 1: that continued over a period of time, you begin to
- 1:29:01Speaker 1: understand it is within your ability To be loyal. Some
- 1:29:07Speaker 1: people don't have the ability to be loyal. And Jesus said,
- 1:29:11Speaker 1: in essence, you are casting your pearls before the swine.
- 1:29:15Speaker 1: I'll take two more. Here's a question from online. How
- 1:29:18Speaker 1: do I block out other voices and focus on God's voice?
- 1:29:23Speaker 1: That's a good question. That's a good question. One of
- 1:29:28Speaker 1: the things, and I could spend a long time on this.
- 1:29:33Speaker 1: One of the reasons we have worship services is to
- 1:29:37Speaker 1: feed your spiritual ears to hear. We have spirit, just
- 1:29:44Speaker 1: like we have five senses in the flesh, we have
- 1:29:49Speaker 1: five senses in the spirit. He that hath an ear,
- 1:29:52Speaker 1: let him hear what the spirit is saying to the church.
- 1:29:55Speaker 1: That doesn't mean he that hath a physical ear, that's everybody.
- 1:30:00Speaker 1: That means somebody who has an ability to hear what
- 1:30:05Speaker 1: the spirit is saying. How do I get my spiritual
- 1:30:08Speaker 1: ear exercised? By worship. Because worship makes you practice communicating
- 1:30:14Speaker 1: with somebody you cannot see with your natural eye nor
- 1:30:17Speaker 1: hear with your natural ear. And as that relationship becomes strong,
- 1:30:21Speaker 1: prayer does it. Worship does it. Communication with God does
- 1:30:26Speaker 1: it until he becomes more and more voluminous in your life.
- 1:30:30Speaker 1: But you can't watch TV all day, scroll through Facebook,
- 1:30:35Speaker 1: interact with friends, listen at crazy music all day, and
- 1:30:39Speaker 1: expect to hear God's voice. If you want to hear
- 1:30:43Speaker 1: God's voice louder than other voices, spend more time with God.
- 1:30:48Speaker 1: Get a rooting system with God. Let's get you on
- 1:30:51Speaker 1: a prayer diet. Let's get you on a prayer diet.
- 1:30:55Speaker 1: Let's get you on a worship pattern where every day,
- 1:30:58Speaker 1: I know you're busy. If you don't do it, but
- 1:31:00Speaker 1: when you're in the shower, let's make that time God's time.
- 1:31:04Speaker 1: While you're driving to work, cut off the music and
- 1:31:07Speaker 1: start commuting with God until it becomes something that becomes
- 1:31:11Speaker 1: routine to you. And then God's voice will be louder.
- 1:31:15Speaker 1: The other voices will always be there. Because God intends
- 1:31:21Speaker 1: for there to be a trial in your Garden of Eden.
- 1:31:27Speaker 1: If you kill the other voices, then you don't choose him.
- 1:31:34Speaker 1: So it's not about killing the other voices. It's about
- 1:31:38Speaker 1: calming them down so that you can say, God, I
- 1:31:42Speaker 1: hear them, but I prefer you. I'll take another, am
- 1:31:47Speaker 1: I helping somebody? How long did it take for the
- 1:31:53Speaker 1: descendants of Levi to be blessed again? We know it
- 1:31:56Speaker 1: had to be at least 400 and some years before,
- 1:32:00Speaker 1: because they went into idolatry. They went into Egypt and
- 1:32:03Speaker 1: they started seeking other gods. It's not that it took
- 1:32:06Speaker 1: God 400 years to do it, but they had turned
- 1:32:08Speaker 1: away from God. And this is why. They had become
- 1:32:12Speaker 1: enslaved by the Egyptians and they took on the ways
- 1:32:16Speaker 1: of the Egyptians. And so God had to separate them
- 1:32:20Speaker 1: from the environment that had infected them to purify them
- 1:32:26Speaker 1: in the wilderness. The Bible said he proved them in
- 1:32:29Speaker 1: the wilderness. So the word prove is to test. He's
- 1:32:33Speaker 1: pruning them. He's untangling their roots from their, they had
- 1:32:38Speaker 1: become so much like the Egyptians that when they got
- 1:32:41Speaker 1: ready to build a god, they built the Egyptian god
- 1:32:45Speaker 1: as an image. You become who you hang around. Okay.
- 1:32:53Speaker 1: And that's why it took so long. So there is
- 1:32:56Speaker 1: no specific length of time. It's how fast do you turn?
- 1:33:00Speaker 1: God said, if you return unto me, I will return
- 1:33:03Speaker 1: unto you and I shall be your God and you
- 1:33:06Speaker 1: shall be my people. So it's not how long does
- 1:33:08Speaker 1: it take God to do it? It's how long does
- 1:33:11Speaker 1: it take you to do it? Next question. I'll take
- 1:33:14Speaker 1: one more question.
- 1:33:16Speaker 2: How do you truly surrender?
- 1:33:18Speaker 1: I am literally.
- 1:33:22Speaker 2: the willing vessel. I'm the spiritual curse breaker.
- 1:33:27Speaker 1: I am the one.
- 1:33:30Speaker 2: And I always got blamed for things when I was
- 1:33:33Speaker 2: young because I didn't know certain things. I didn't have
- 1:33:36Speaker 2: that model before me. And so now in the last
- 1:33:40Speaker 2: past couple of years, it feels like I get all
- 1:33:44Speaker 2: the backlash. I get all the rejection. And I've been
- 1:33:50Speaker 2: independent for a while. But there get times where I
- 1:33:54Speaker 2: need help and I'm just tired of having to be
- 1:33:58Speaker 2: the strong friend all the time. I pour into people
- 1:34:02Speaker 2: every single day, even when I'm empty. And I know
- 1:34:05Speaker 2: that some people say you can't pour from an empty cup.
- 1:34:08Speaker 2: It's just in me to pour into people no matter
- 1:34:11Speaker 2: of my circumstance. I've put myself in places, you know,
- 1:34:16Speaker 2: where I aspire to be. I invest in myself even
- 1:34:19Speaker 2: when I can't even finish paying my bills. Like, I believe.
- 1:34:23Speaker 2: But how do you truly, and I guess that's the
- 1:34:25Speaker 2: second question, but how do you truly keep believing when
- 1:34:29Speaker 2: your own family really just don't believe in you? They
- 1:34:31Speaker 2: see you for who you are now, but not who
- 1:34:35Speaker 2: you are becoming.
- 1:34:37Speaker 1: You don't need them to believe it. You don't need
- 1:34:41Speaker 1: them to believe it. You really... A prophet is without
- 1:34:47Speaker 1: honor in his own country. And it's not unusual for
- 1:34:51Speaker 1: the people closest to you to not see you in
- 1:34:54Speaker 1: that light because that's not the relationship that they have
- 1:34:57Speaker 1: with you. The relationship that they have with you has
- 1:35:01Speaker 1: nothing to do with your destiny. It has something to
- 1:35:03Speaker 1: do with your history. And their connection to you is
- 1:35:07Speaker 1: as a family member, not a vision supporter. So stop
- 1:35:14Speaker 1: going to people who don't see it, trying to get
- 1:35:18Speaker 1: support from them. I'm not saying leave them alone. Still
- 1:35:23Speaker 1: love them as a family member, but don't connect your
- 1:35:26Speaker 1: spiritual destiny to somebody who is just a family member.
- 1:35:33Speaker 1: And I hear pain in your voice. Yeah, I hear
- 1:35:37Speaker 1: pain in your voice. And there's two things I want
- 1:35:40Speaker 1: to say to you. Oh, glory. there's two things I
- 1:35:45Speaker 1: want to say to you. The reason everybody uses you
- 1:35:52Speaker 1: up is because you draw people who need you and
- 1:35:59Speaker 1: not people who feed you. When you get in a
- 1:36:03Speaker 1: room with people who can feed you, you don't feel
- 1:36:06Speaker 1: worthy of being in the room that you're in. So
- 1:36:10Speaker 1: you find yourself gravitating toward people who need you because
- 1:36:15Speaker 1: then you can lead them, but they leech off of you, okay?
- 1:36:20Speaker 1: So what I'm saying to you, what I want you
- 1:36:22Speaker 1: to do is to go into rooms where people are
- 1:36:28Speaker 1: above you and resist the temptation to run until you
- 1:36:34Speaker 1: own the new you on the inside. You're trying to
- 1:36:39Speaker 1: get everybody else to believe something about you that you're
- 1:36:43Speaker 1: struggling to believe about yourself. And you're hurting for support
- 1:36:48Speaker 1: because you need reinforcement because the voice on the inside
- 1:36:52Speaker 1: says you're not worthy of what you believe in God
- 1:36:55Speaker 1: to do. And I want you to receive this for
- 1:36:58Speaker 1: yourself because I believe I can help you. I believe
- 1:37:01Speaker 1: I can help you. I believe I can help you.
- 1:37:02Speaker 1: If you listen to what I'm telling you, it will really,
- 1:37:04Speaker 1: really help you. You're going to go into the room
- 1:37:07Speaker 1: and you're going to feel unworthy and you're going to
- 1:37:08Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable and you're going to feel incapable and you're
- 1:37:11Speaker 1: going to feel scared. Stay anyway. Stay there. The only
- 1:37:16Speaker 1: reason you feel uncomfortable, unworthy, it's not because you're not
- 1:37:19Speaker 1: worthy of it, it's because you haven't rooted yet. If
- 1:37:23Speaker 1: you stay in the room long enough, it will become
- 1:37:26Speaker 1: your norm and you will have a rooting system to
- 1:37:30Speaker 1: support you. Instead, you're trying to root with your family
- 1:37:36Speaker 1: and not with your destiny. You don't have to try
- 1:37:40Speaker 1: to root with your family because your family is supposed
- 1:37:44Speaker 1: to love you for who you are, not what you have,
- 1:37:47Speaker 1: not what you drive, not how many degrees you have.
- 1:37:50Speaker 1: They're supposed to love you just because you are. Okay?
- 1:37:55Speaker 1: We should never prostitute our family where we make our
- 1:38:01Speaker 1: relationship with them predicated on their performance. Amen. You don't
- 1:38:06Speaker 1: have to earn my love to be my child. I'm
- 1:38:11Speaker 1: going to love you anyway. I can't help it. I'm
- 1:38:13Speaker 1: going to love you if you're a drug dealer. I
- 1:38:16Speaker 1: might be hurt, but I'm going to love you if
- 1:38:18Speaker 1: you're a drug dealer because you're my child, okay? That's
- 1:38:21Speaker 1: a whole different relationship. I am not the supporting system
- 1:38:26Speaker 1: necessarily that's going to take you into your destiny. I
- 1:38:31Speaker 1: am the supporting system that got you here. What got
- 1:38:35Speaker 1: you here may not be what takes you there. You understand?
- 1:38:39Speaker 1: You see that? You see it, don't you? Okay? Now
- 1:38:42Speaker 1: watch this. The way you see yourself make certain types
- 1:38:49Speaker 1: of people drawn to you. And they are drawn to
- 1:38:53Speaker 1: you because they are reflecting how you see you. Okay? Now,
- 1:38:59Speaker 1: I'm not saying get rid of all of those people
- 1:39:00Speaker 1: who need you because there's a certain degree of gratification
- 1:39:04Speaker 1: you get out of serving and helping and doing all that.
- 1:39:06Speaker 1: I'm saying to irrigate your desert and put streams in
- 1:39:12Speaker 1: your desert By streaming water into those dry places. The
- 1:39:17Speaker 1: reason you are drying out is that you don't have
- 1:39:20Speaker 1: no water coming into your desert. And that water is
- 1:39:23Speaker 1: going to come from other places. But the funny thing
- 1:39:25Speaker 1: about the water when it comes, you're going to be
- 1:39:27Speaker 1: scared to drink it. Because it's unfamiliar. And you're a
- 1:39:32Speaker 1: little bit scared of it. And so you go back
- 1:39:34Speaker 1: and get more people who need you. And then you're
- 1:39:36Speaker 1: empty and you're draining. You say, I keep pouring out
- 1:39:39Speaker 1: and I keep pouring out. And you say, they say
- 1:39:41Speaker 1: you can't pour out, but I can. There's nothing wrong
- 1:39:43Speaker 1: with pouring out if you're taking in. So I want
- 1:39:47Speaker 1: you to be intentional. Here's your homework. I want you
- 1:39:50Speaker 1: to write down all the people in your life who
- 1:39:53Speaker 1: need you. And then I want you to write down
- 1:40:00Speaker 1: all the people in your life who feed you. And
- 1:40:06Speaker 1: I want you to notice how short the list is
- 1:40:09Speaker 1: of the people who feed you versus the people who
- 1:40:13Speaker 1: need you. And I want you to, here's your homework,
- 1:40:16Speaker 1: is to lengthen that list of people who feed you.
- 1:40:20Speaker 1: And it doesn't always mean that you have to be
- 1:40:22Speaker 1: in their face. It can come through podcasts. It can
- 1:40:26Speaker 1: come through going to operas and plays. It can come
- 1:40:29Speaker 1: through going through places off the beaten path where you
- 1:40:32Speaker 1: have never been before and wouldn't think to go. You
- 1:40:36Speaker 1: should go. And you should go and you should meet
- 1:40:39Speaker 1: people and you should make friends until you become comfortable
- 1:40:42Speaker 1: in the conversation in places where you've never been before. Okay?
- 1:40:47Speaker 1: I want you to remodel your life, your wardrobe, your appearance,
- 1:40:52Speaker 1: your vernacular, your tone, your temperament to where you're going.
- 1:40:59Speaker 1: Not where you've been. Amen. When you go back into
- 1:41:05Speaker 1: the areas where you've been, you can always speak that language.
- 1:41:09Speaker 1: You know that language. You didn't have to learn that language.
- 1:41:11Speaker 1: You know how to speak that language. But I want
- 1:41:13Speaker 1: you to adopt the language of your destiny and not
- 1:41:18Speaker 1: just your history. And this is going to take time.
- 1:41:24Speaker 1: Here's the good news. It can start in church. You
- 1:41:29Speaker 1: know why? In a church like this, there's all kind
- 1:41:33Speaker 1: of people. There's people from the shelter. There's people that
- 1:41:36Speaker 1: are homeless. There are people that are entrepreneurs. There are
- 1:41:40Speaker 1: people who are coming up from the shelter going to
- 1:41:42Speaker 1: be entrepreneurs. There are people with degrees. There are people
- 1:41:46Speaker 1: with doctorates. There are people who can't read. In a church,
- 1:41:49Speaker 1: there are all kinds of people. You get to choose
- 1:41:53Speaker 1: where you sit. You get to choose who you connect with.
- 1:41:58Speaker 1: You get to choose who you go to eat with.
- 1:42:01Speaker 1: And get in some small circles. If it's one or
- 1:42:04Speaker 1: two people, it don't need to be 20. Just one
- 1:42:07Speaker 1: or two people that are going in the direction you're
- 1:42:10Speaker 1: going and hop in the car. Hop in the car.
- 1:42:15Speaker 1: Go along for the ride. Get into something that is positive.
- 1:42:19Speaker 1: And I'm going to go a little bit deeper because
- 1:42:21Speaker 1: I think I'm talking to you and I'm talking through you.
- 1:42:26Speaker 1: Get into an environment of people who feel whatever it
- 1:42:35Speaker 1: is that you're trying to be. If it's artsy, go
- 1:42:39Speaker 1: to art shows. You're entrepreneurs. Okay. Okay, give her the
- 1:42:47Speaker 1: mic back so they can hear.
- 1:42:48Speaker 2: Yes, so I'm an entrepreneur. I actually did network marketing
- 1:42:51Speaker 2: starting in 2020 of a health and wellness franchise. I'm
- 1:42:55Speaker 2: a life coach getting my life together, but I have
- 1:42:58Speaker 2: been able to just grow in different aspects. I do
- 1:43:02Speaker 2: credit repair as well, and I just... I just became
- 1:43:06Speaker 2: a member not too long ago and I love you
- 1:43:08Speaker 2: because you are just so unorthodox. And I feel like
- 1:43:11Speaker 2: if I want to go be a doctor tomorrow and
- 1:43:13Speaker 2: I want to be able to be a photographer the
- 1:43:15Speaker 2: next day, then that's what you could do. God has
- 1:43:17Speaker 2: placed so many gifts in me that is like so amazing,
- 1:43:21Speaker 2: you know, and I struggle sometimes with that because I
- 1:43:23Speaker 2: need to figure out how can I impact people through
- 1:43:26Speaker 2: what God has blessed me, but also how can I,
- 1:43:30Speaker 2: how can it be sustainable?
- 1:43:31Speaker 1: Yeah. So you're a life coach and you're an entrepreneur.
- 1:43:35Speaker 1: Is that the entrepreneur part? What else do you do? Yes.
- 1:43:38Speaker 2: So credit repair and a health and wellness franchise.
- 1:43:41Speaker 1: Okay. Everything you're doing is fixing people. Right. Right. Okay.
- 1:43:46Speaker 2: Right.
- 1:43:46Speaker 1: That's telling me something. That lines up with the profile.
- 1:43:51Speaker 1: What you chose to go into is what you're complaining about.
- 1:43:57Speaker 1: Because if you're a health and wellness coach and if
- 1:44:01Speaker 1: you're a credit repair person, you're making your money from
- 1:44:06Speaker 1: people who need you. I want you to pick something.
- 1:44:10Speaker 1: Don't have to give that up. But I want you
- 1:44:13Speaker 1: to pick something that feeds you to balance that out. Okay,
- 1:44:19Speaker 1: to balance that out, to balance that out. I don't
- 1:44:23Speaker 1: hear you talking about being connected with groups of people
- 1:44:27Speaker 1: that feed you, that you can be a little girl
- 1:44:33Speaker 1: in the room.
- 1:44:35Speaker 2: Yes, so when I say I've been investing in myself,
- 1:44:38Speaker 2: I have literally been putting my, like two weeks ago
- 1:44:41Speaker 2: I went to Atlanta for a mastermind. Neil's mastermind, and
- 1:44:46Speaker 2: literally just uncomfortable. My last two years of my life
- 1:44:49Speaker 2: have been uncomfortable. Two years ago, I was homeless. I
- 1:44:52Speaker 2: lived in California, grew up in Compton on Proud Root Street,
- 1:44:55Speaker 2: and literally took a step of faith and moved here
- 1:44:57Speaker 2: about almost two years ago. So, it's a long story.
- 1:45:02Speaker 1: And I don't want to hold you. Hold up. Let
- 1:45:04Speaker 1: me tell you something that you are not getting. You
- 1:45:07Speaker 1: are doing good. You... are doing good. You are doing good.
- 1:45:22Speaker 1: I want that to break through the wall that you
- 1:45:26Speaker 1: have built in front of yourself. You don't clap for you.
- 1:45:30Speaker 1: You need to clap for you. You need to celebrate you.
- 1:45:34Speaker 1: If you were homeless, you grew up in Compton, and
- 1:45:38Speaker 1: now you're doing all of that stuff, you are doing
- 1:45:41Speaker 1: much better than you are feeling. Your emotions are still homeless. Yes.
- 1:45:48Speaker 1: Your emotions have not caught up with where you're at yet.
- 1:45:52Speaker 1: And I want to bring your emotions into where you
- 1:45:55Speaker 1: are right now. You are doing good. You deserve to
- 1:46:00Speaker 1: be here. You belong here. You're in the place you're
- 1:46:04Speaker 1: supposed to be. Your emotions eventually will get the memo.
- 1:46:09Speaker 1: They don't get the memo at first because they're still
- 1:46:13Speaker 1: carrying the scars of from all the things you said
- 1:46:16Speaker 1: and didn't say that happened to you in your life,
- 1:46:22Speaker 1: your emotions are still back there. And we're gonna bring
- 1:46:27Speaker 1: them up here by celebrating where you are right now. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 1:46:40Speaker 1: And I don't know what your financial level is now,
- 1:46:44Speaker 1: But when your financial level gets strong enough, I want
- 1:46:46Speaker 1: you to get therapy. And I actually just.
- 1:46:50Speaker 2: Hopped into the therapy here at T.D.
- 1:46:52Speaker 1: Jake's Ministry. Good, good. I'm trying. Good, good. Get the therapy.
- 1:46:57Speaker 1: And the reason you get the therapy is not to
- 1:46:59Speaker 1: say you're crazy. No. It's not to say anything. I
- 1:47:01Speaker 1: need to move on. Yeah, yeah. You need to move on.
- 1:47:04Speaker 1: Your emotions need to come out of that. You know why?
- 1:47:07Speaker 1: You've been traumatized. You've been traumatized. And the reason you
- 1:47:11Speaker 1: don't clap for yourself is the walls that you built
- 1:47:15Speaker 1: to keep the pain out also won't let the love in. Okay.
- 1:47:21Speaker 1: So you build the wall to protect yourself to survive
- 1:47:25Speaker 1: the vicissitudes of life. The problem with the wall is
- 1:47:31Speaker 1: now nothing comes in. Okay. Nothing comes in. And you
- 1:47:36Speaker 1: don't know how to tear down your own wall. Therapy
- 1:47:39Speaker 1: helps you to brick by brick tear down the wall
- 1:47:44Speaker 1: so that you can receive the sunlight on the other side.
- 1:47:48Speaker 1: The wolves are gone, but the sunlight can't get in.
- 1:47:54Speaker 1: Love can't get in and the clapping doesn't come from
- 1:47:57Speaker 1: another person if it doesn't come from you. Okay, so
- 1:48:02Speaker 1: that's a process that's gonna take time, that's gonna take
- 1:48:06Speaker 1: going back to the trauma and let's see how deep
- 1:48:09Speaker 1: it is and how bad it is and why you
- 1:48:11Speaker 1: can't cough that up and get that out and get
- 1:48:14Speaker 1: you on wellness so that your emotions can catch up
- 1:48:18Speaker 1: with where you are now. you got it clap your
- 1:48:22Speaker 1: hands give God a praise how many people got something
- 1:48:29Speaker 1: out of that yeah If you're watching online, you stayed
- 1:48:37Speaker 1: online all this time, I must be speaking your language.
- 1:48:40Speaker 1: I spoke something tonight that I pray touches your heart,
- 1:48:43Speaker 1: touches your soul, touches your spirit, and changes your life.
- 1:48:47Speaker 1: I'm so glad that you chose to watch tonight the
- 1:48:50Speaker 1: Potter's House here in Dallas so I could teach you
- 1:48:53Speaker 1: a second chance.
- 1:49:16Speaker 1: My Father and my God, as
- 1:49:27Speaker 1: I stand here tonight, I thank you for your goodness.
- 1:49:29Speaker 1: I thank you for your mercy. I thank you for
- 1:49:31Speaker 1: your grace. I thank you for your word being sure
- 1:49:34Speaker 1: and being absolute. I thank you for what we learned
- 1:49:36Speaker 1: tonight about your word, what we learned, Lord, what we
- 1:49:39Speaker 1: learned about Jacob, what we learned about Levi, what we
- 1:49:42Speaker 1: learned about Simeon, what we learned about Moses. Most importantly,
- 1:49:46Speaker 1: what we learned about you. And lastly, what we learned
- 1:49:50Speaker 1: about ourselves. Amen. I pray, God, that we go home
- 1:49:53Speaker 1: better than we were when we came in and that
- 1:49:56Speaker 1: the word of God would dwell in our hearts richly
- 1:49:59Speaker 1: by faith. In Jesus' name, amen. God bless you. Go
- 1:50:04Speaker 1: in peace. Love you.