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WHAT MAKES SOMEONE ATTRACTIVE? · Relatables

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  Speaker 1: Coming up on Relatables. I tried to fart and then
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, we care that? Nah, that's something else, something
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  Speaker 1: that's now I gotta go. So I run upstairs and
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  Speaker 1: go to the toilet and I pulled my pants down
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  Speaker 1: and I was like, oh, good thing I decided. But dude,
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  Speaker 1: I shut it.
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  Speaker 2: Really wait when you were downstairs try yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell you shut yourself? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, And so I was like what, So I like,
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  Speaker 1: weikly got on a dress. I jumped in the shower
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  Speaker 1: and then Beth came up and she heard the shower
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, did you shut your did you
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  Speaker 1: shit your pants? And I was like no, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: Relatable relat.
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  Speaker 2: The Reliables podcast is hosted by myself, Audie Clark ak mummy.
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  Speaker 1: Oh what oh she stole my line? Sorry, keep going.
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  Speaker 2: And my partner in Crhyme is the Jake Craig aka
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  Speaker 2: do you want to say your own name? Daddy geez,
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  Speaker 2: not his mummy because he can't keep his fucking mouth
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  Speaker 2: shut and let me talk. And Jake is daddy because
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  Speaker 2: he's a loving father, yes to his loving dog Henry.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't even bring him up. I just so
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  Speaker 1: I just saw a photo of him sent into a
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  Speaker 1: group chat we have with the people looking after him.
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  Speaker 1: I think I'm going to cancel my calendar trip next year.
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  Speaker 1: With three weeks here has didn't too much. Yeah, guys,
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  Speaker 1: we're still in Bali.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, this is the final episode of Bali.
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  Speaker 1: It's been a great trip. The final week. Yeah, Patreon
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  Speaker 1: and book Club this week will also both be in Bali.
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  Speaker 2: I saw some people say they thought we were like
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  Speaker 2: changed our setup.
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  Speaker 1: No, we're in a completely different setup. This is, I mean,
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  Speaker 1: to be fair similar if you wouldn't, but even it
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  Speaker 1: could look one hundred completely different and people could just think, oh,
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  Speaker 1: that had a bit of change of mind. Yeah true,
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  Speaker 1: why not? But so, as we just said, we're in Bali.
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  Speaker 1: We've been here for so I from today, I believe
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  Speaker 1: I have like five more days, and so that means
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  Speaker 1: I've been here for just over two weeks, right, because
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  Speaker 1: my trip's three weeks? And how long have so from today?
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  Speaker 1: Do you still have better week or more than I have?
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  Speaker 1: About thirteen days left? Oh Jesus Christ, I've been here
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  Speaker 1: for like ages too. I'm doing thirty two Damn are
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  Speaker 1: you missing home? Now? He's still good no, I'm still chilling.
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  Speaker 1: I don't have a dog.
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  Speaker 2: Nah, you don't have a dog to miss and my
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  Speaker 2: mom and dad they're children.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to worry about them. You don't have
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  Speaker 1: to worry about them. But okay, so last week, do
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  Speaker 1: you remember how you were talking about in Bali, it's
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  Speaker 1: not uncommon to get you know, a little bit of
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  Speaker 1: the bubble and your tummy, and so you do defecate
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  Speaker 1: about three times more than you would at home. Deficate
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  Speaker 1: deficate Is that your word of the week. It's the
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  Speaker 1: word of the week. So I have a bit of
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  Speaker 1: a story. Okay, okay, just keeping that in mind from
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  Speaker 1: for everyone to keep in mind. So the other day
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  Speaker 1: it was it might've been like Saturday morning, Beth and
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  Speaker 1: I were about to go somewhere, and at home I
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  Speaker 1: usually do it, but here especially, I don't like to
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  Speaker 1: leave the villa or the house or whatever without like
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  Speaker 1: the first initial time of leaving the house, and most
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  Speaker 1: times leave the house, I don't like to leave without
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  Speaker 1: at least attempting to go to the toilet because it's
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  Speaker 1: one of those it's usually with a case of you know,
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  Speaker 1: you're eating all this pretty bad food for you, and
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  Speaker 1: so as soon as it comes on, it comes on quick,
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  Speaker 1: and there's no build up. I swear.
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  Speaker 2: I wake up every morning and my dummy's like.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you just you just have to ship. Yeah. So
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  Speaker 1: I don't like leaving the house about at least an attempt, okay.
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  Speaker 1: And so the other day where we have to we're
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  Speaker 1: about to leave and Beth like gets a helmet and
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  Speaker 1: stuff on, and I'm like, oh, oh no, I gotta
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  Speaker 1: try it. And she's like I just got She's got
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  Speaker 1: my helmet on. So I'm standing there and I'm like, oh,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it could I could just be a fart, right,
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  Speaker 1: I could be fat. And so I try to fart
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  Speaker 1: and then I'm like yeah that nah, that's something else.
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  Speaker 1: That's something that's now I gotta go. So I run
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  Speaker 1: upstairs and go to the toilet and I pull my
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  Speaker 1: pants down and I was like a good thing I decided,
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  Speaker 1: But dude, I shut it.
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  Speaker 2: Really wait when you were downstairs try yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell? You shut yourself? Yeah? Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: yeah yeah, And so I was like what the So
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  Speaker 1: I like quickly got a dress, I jumped in the shower,
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  Speaker 1: and then Beth came up and she heard the chair
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  Speaker 1: and she was like, did you shut your did you
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  Speaker 1: shit your fants? And I was like no, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: was it bad like a lot? No, it wasn't bad.
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  Speaker 1: Like And the crazy thing is is I've always and
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, everyone who's been alive for
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  Speaker 1: however many years, you kind of know when you shouldn't
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  Speaker 1: fart because there's going to be a follower. But to
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  Speaker 1: be fair, you did it for love your girlfriend. I
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  Speaker 1: try time and I was like, not one single bit
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  Speaker 1: of me thought that that would happen. And I was like,
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  Speaker 1: have I fully lost control? Because it didn't feel, it
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  Speaker 1: didn't sound, it didn't because you know what I mean,
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  Speaker 1: like sometimes you're about to go and then you're like, nah,
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  Speaker 1: this one and I need to sit on sweat for
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  Speaker 1: this one because it's gonna spray. And I just didn't
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  Speaker 1: even think that for a second and it just happened.
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  Speaker 1: It was you definitely lose a little bit of bower
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  Speaker 1: control and balle fucking lost all that.
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  Speaker 2: One of the downsides is like you can't eat healthy.
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  Speaker 2: Here's something about it's just not the same that your
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  Speaker 2: body's used to.
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  Speaker 1: I said, that's so true. I said the other day
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  Speaker 1: to Beth oh Man. We had just finished eating like
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  Speaker 1: two cookies each, right, And I was like, oh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: so excited to get home and just get back to eating,
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  Speaker 1: you know, my diet, my good food. And she goes
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  Speaker 1: you say that as if someone's going to a gun
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  Speaker 1: to your head forcing you to eat all these cookies.
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  Speaker 1: And I was when in Row and I was like, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, well, I'm not I refuse to eat healthy.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not you're not going to be back
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  Speaker 2: here for at least like another year, yeah, a year,
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  Speaker 2: maybe two.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you never know.
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  Speaker 2: You've got to soak it all in exactly the things
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  Speaker 2: you tell yourself.
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  Speaker 1: And so I've convinced myself that while I'm here, it's
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  Speaker 1: like a waste of time to not eat delicious food.
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  Speaker 1: And so because when I'm back home, I eat the
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  Speaker 1: most boring stuff because, as I've said before, I was
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  Speaker 1: doing that low fodmap thing for my stomach. But here,
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  Speaker 1: I mean we order, if we order four cookies, there
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  Speaker 1: is no way one's.
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  Speaker 2: Getting I always think to myself, like, I'll save one
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  Speaker 2: gets to it.
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  Speaker 1: Nah. Oh but it's fuck. It is just that's a
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  Speaker 1: good way to start. Man. I'm glad.
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  Speaker 2: I'm glad I've been waiting for a story like this
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  Speaker 2: for a long time.
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  Speaker 1: I had to let you know. I had to let
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  Speaker 1: you know, and I just I haven't. I just haven't
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  Speaker 1: even been really close to pop my pants for a
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  Speaker 1: long time. So I don't know how long it'll be
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  Speaker 1: to a proper confession session out of me, but I
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  Speaker 1: was halfway there.
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  Speaker 2: One other thing I'm keen to get back to Australia
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  Speaker 2: is the stories. When you gotta go, you gotta go.
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  Speaker 2: We can't call any.
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  Speaker 1: Batties here, No, it's just a bit tricky unless all
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  Speaker 1: the baddies are on WhatsApp. It's a bit hard.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you could do it like Facebook or Instagram, bit techy,
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  Speaker 2: but don't it. Baddie's up Next is Dilemmas. If you
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  Speaker 2: Scroll the bottom and dilemmas in is in there. And
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  Speaker 2: one other thing, one big thing, Jake, I mean, if
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  Speaker 2: you really want to get a dilemma to answered, we
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  Speaker 2: have you have your own personal dilemmas over on Patreon
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  Speaker 2: with a.
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  Speaker 1: Lot less, a lot less submissions.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, way, bigger chance that you're going to get your
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  Speaker 2: dilemma red and also on Patreon for cheeky five dollars.
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  Speaker 1: It's cheap as chips.
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  Speaker 2: You get an next episode every single week, and the
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  Speaker 2: book club early and video reacts to whatever we're watching
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  Speaker 2: at the time. We just finished the Summer Returned Pretty,
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  Speaker 2: and all the bad it is are telling us we
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  Speaker 2: should watch Bridgeton.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I do agree with that, but again, I
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  Speaker 1: think I said it last week. How many seasons of
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  Speaker 1: Bridgeton are out? And because I hate playing catch up?
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  Speaker 1: Good question.
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  Speaker 2: I think it's been out a lot longer than the
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  Speaker 2: Summer Return Pretty, but still it's got a lot of
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  Speaker 2: hYP around it.
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  Speaker 1: Bridgington reactions. Okay, let's see. I guess it's five three three,
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  Speaker 1: same as the Summer Return Pretty. Tell you what we
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  Speaker 1: could do that? I feel like that's doable. Apparently there's
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  Speaker 1: like a lot of sex in it. Yeah, Bridgeston is
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  Speaker 1: like a romantissy on screen apparently, and apparently each season
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  Speaker 1: is a different couple. You know what, fuck it, let's
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  Speaker 1: do let's do it.
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  Speaker 2: That's what we're doing on Patreon. But Dilemma's I'll kick
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  Speaker 2: things off all right. No title for this one. But
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  Speaker 2: very relatable. I related to this one quite a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I'm in my late twenties and I've been dating my
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  Speaker 2: boyfriend for about seven months. Things are going really well,
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  Speaker 2: and we're planning to move in together next year. Here's
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  Speaker 2: my dilemma. I recently told him how much I miss
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  Speaker 2: going through the gym in brackets. I've been away on
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  Speaker 2: field work and out of my gym routine, and he
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  Speaker 2: immediately said he'd love to join me once I'm back.
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  Speaker 2: The thing is, I have always been an independent girly,
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  Speaker 2: and the gym has always been my me time. I
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  Speaker 2: love waking up early and being in my own zone.
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  Speaker 2: We already share a lot of active hobbies, which tbh,
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  Speaker 2: was already out of my comfort zone because I like
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  Speaker 2: to say I am very independent. Together like biking and hiking,
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  Speaker 2: which I really enjoy, but the gym is me time,
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  Speaker 2: and him asking this makes me feel smothered. I don't
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  Speaker 2: want him to feel shut out or rejected, but I
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  Speaker 2: also don't want to give up my independence.
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  Speaker 1: How would you approach this situation?
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  Speaker 2: Also, he of course almost didn't know what, of course mean,
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  Speaker 2: I'm getting old, can still go to the gym. I
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  Speaker 2: just don't want that to be a thing where we
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  Speaker 2: go together and have to plan it.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I mean, I guess yeah. Relatable, very relatable when
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  Speaker 1: she says she felt smothered, though I was thinking smothered.
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  Speaker 1: Fuck youl Is he like controlling as fuck?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I guess it's just like one more thing and
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  Speaker 2: she's already given up like high King via King and
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  Speaker 2: they do so much together.
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  Speaker 1: It was relatable for.
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  Speaker 2: Me though we're in a friendship sense, because I would
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  Speaker 2: prefer to gym by myself. Then when my friends ask,
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  Speaker 2: I make up an excuse, not that I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to go with you, but I'm like, it is my
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  Speaker 2: me time and I'd like to put my tunes in
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  Speaker 2: not talk to people. Sometimes, like every blue moon, I
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  Speaker 2: like to go with someone that's relatable.
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  Speaker 1: I got to say, like, I mean, if I go
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  Speaker 1: with you, it's good because we'll just go to gym
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  Speaker 1: together and then ninety percent of the time do a
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  Speaker 1: different workout, so it's like it is what it is.
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  Speaker 1: But that's because you and I I guess, like we
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  Speaker 1: hang out so much that if we go to the gym,
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  Speaker 1: we don't need to do the work out together. But
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  Speaker 1: if a friend is asking you to go to the gym.
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  Speaker 1: They obviously want to work out with you and do
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  Speaker 1: the exact same workout and they want to catch up
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  Speaker 1: that ask me to go for a fucking dinner or
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  Speaker 1: something instead. But because but I'm the same, I don't
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  Speaker 1: like working out. Yeah, I feel like the gym is
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  Speaker 1: not the place. Yeah, I mean, I don't know. Beth
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  Speaker 1: and my open to the gym maybe twice together, but
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  Speaker 1: we did different workouts.
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  Speaker 2: I've been with casting, worked out with her like once
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  Speaker 2: or twice.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't like it.
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  Speaker 2: Girls work out very differently in the men and she
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  Speaker 2: gives me.
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  Speaker 1: Sh she's look, what are you doing? I'm like, what
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  Speaker 1: do you do? I'm doing? Do you want me to
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  Speaker 1: have muscles or not? Do you want me to man's playing?
• 11:49
  Speaker 1: Man's playing? How high purpose that works? Okay? Wait, okay,
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  Speaker 1: So I'm trying to think here, do you think he
• 11:58
  Speaker 1: would get offended if she just said to him I honestly,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to do this one alone.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like, because she's sent this dilemma in, she
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  Speaker 2: thinks he will yes. Yeah, okay, because in my relationship,
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  Speaker 2: I'll be like Cassie, I want to go by myself.
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  Speaker 1: A I just want to hang up with myself and
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  Speaker 1: listen to music. Yeah. Fair. She probably the same most
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  Speaker 1: of the time too. Yeah, but it.
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  Speaker 2: Also comes down to your attachment style and the relationship,
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  Speaker 2: and maybe you haven't voiced how independent you are and
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  Speaker 2: how much you value your independence to him, So he's
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  Speaker 2: unbeknownst to how you feel because he's thinking like, oh, see,
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  Speaker 2: we're going on hikes together, we're going biking, and you're
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  Speaker 2: giving something up. But he's like, oh, this is just
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  Speaker 2: what our relationship is.
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  Speaker 1: I would say unbeknownst as the word of the week,
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  Speaker 1: but I don't. I know, it's not no, it's not no,
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  Speaker 1: it's not okay. Yeah, honestly, all right. Could the issue
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  Speaker 1: be not the fact that she's feeling smothered, but the
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  Speaker 1: fact that obviously or not obviously, but I feel like
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  Speaker 1: I can put two and two together. She probably hasn't
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  Speaker 1: sat down and had a conversation with him that she
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  Speaker 1: really likes her independence.
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  Speaker 2: I think so, And the fact that it's seven months
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  Speaker 2: kind of alludes to that. And also, this is a
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  Speaker 2: great time to practice your communication skills in the relationship
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  Speaker 2: because he's unknowing, and then you're also feeling smothered as
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  Speaker 2: a result of not necessarily losing your independence, but because
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  Speaker 2: of the situation as a whole, in your relationship as
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  Speaker 2: a whole, because he doesn't really know what's going on, not.
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  Speaker 1: Giving him the benefit of that. But he's not really
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  Speaker 1: doing anything wrong either, No, I mean no, yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: mean from the information we've been given, it doesn't certainly
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  Speaker 1: doesn't sound like it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, because you see plenty of relationships he might like
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  Speaker 2: his previous relationship. He loves doing everything together. Yeah, and
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  Speaker 2: he just needs to sit down and have a conversation
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  Speaker 2: and understand he doesn't, but his.
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  Speaker 1: Previous relationship did, so that's what he thinks. Yeah, you
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  Speaker 1: guys need to maybe Okay, even though she sent this
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  Speaker 1: in because there's a good chance she is a little
• 14:00
  Speaker 1: worried about how he'll take it, that's probably all the
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  Speaker 1: more reason to talk to him about it, because if
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  Speaker 1: you if you go to talk to him about it
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  Speaker 1: and he takes it terribly, then I mean not to
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  Speaker 1: say you should end it right then and there, but
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  Speaker 1: it's like, are you very what's the word when two
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  Speaker 1: people work out together? Palatable? Palatable? Yeah, it works, soul mates? Soulmates?
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  Speaker 1: Do you work Wait? What's the word? I don't know
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  Speaker 1: when so Beth and I wear a compatible compatible maybe
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  Speaker 1: you're not very compatible.
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  Speaker 2: True, and you've probably worked so hard to get this
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  Speaker 2: independence and you shouldn't just like give that away so
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  Speaker 2: easily and worried about his feelings. Yeah, yeah, and it's
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  Speaker 2: such a valuable thing and you should really like put
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  Speaker 2: a lot of fucking now I've lost the word too,
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  Speaker 2: a lot of emphasis emphasis.
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  Speaker 1: On how how much you value it. We really well
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  Speaker 1: you finish each other sence. Okay, here's where I'm thinking. Then,
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  Speaker 1: So that's good advice. But I actually think the advice
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to give is sit him down and just say, like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, we've been together seven months blah blah blah
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  Speaker 1: blah blah, or actually, no, I've been doing this lately,
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  Speaker 1: ripped a bandit off. Don't hit him with something nice,
• 15:25
  Speaker 1: don't hit him with a compliment sandwhich fuck that shit.
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  Speaker 1: Hit him straight up with like, hey, I want to
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  Speaker 1: be more independent, and just like sit him down and
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  Speaker 1: be like, I just want to be more dependent.
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  Speaker 2: I really value my independence. We're hanging out too much.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, leg like, just I really want to be independent.
• 15:40
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I want to go do x hobby on my own.
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I want to go do why hobby on my own. Yeah, exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And if he takes that as oh, I'll just let
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  Speaker 1: to do everything on our own, then then he's kind
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  Speaker 1: of immature. Yeah exactly. But there's going to be times
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  Speaker 1: where you do want him there, and I don't know
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  Speaker 1: if he if he asked to go one time, and
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  Speaker 1: if you asked to go one time and they're just like, no,
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  Speaker 1: I just want to go on my own. I just
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  Speaker 1: feel like there's nothing wrong with that, not at all.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, right, if he reacts terribly that it's kind of toxic.
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  Speaker 2: If you go I want to go on my own,
• 16:08
  Speaker 2: he's like, well, you don't want to do.
• 16:10
  Speaker 1: Things with me? Off there, make new hobbies together. Yeah,
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: keep your old hobbies as your own, because that's where
• 16:16
  Speaker 1: you are. You what's about setting boundaries. The gym is
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: your boundary, and you need to voice that to him.
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: That's all as simple as it is.
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: And maybe you've let your boundaries down a little bit
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: with the hiking and biking and stuff, and now you
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: can also be like and look, upon reflection, I've realized
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: that I also want to bike by myself.
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: If you're holding me back. But you're allowed to change
• 16:37
  Speaker 1: your mind. Like you tested the waters. Yeah, nah, I
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: see it. And also, once you guys move in together,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: it's a pretty good chance when you say you want
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: to go to the gym, he's going to say go
• 16:47
  Speaker 1: for it, because he's also going to want to lean
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: to He wants.
• 16:49
  Speaker 2: A me time exactly. And this is good to get
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: out before you move in together.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: So I think sit him down, straight up and just
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: be like one hundred percent honest, because why wouldn't you be?
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: Honesty is some times brutal, but you're being honest. That's
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: all he could ever ask for. He doesn't want you
• 17:04
  Speaker 1: to sit there and lie to him and then not
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: enjoy and then you not enjoy yourself. No, So just
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: be one hundred cent honest. I agreed, Okay, okay. In
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: my turn dilemma, the title is how responsible should I be?
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: The past ten years, I've worked my ass off, putting
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: myself through college and then law school here in America.
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: I am now a licensed attorney, but the job I
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: work at pays me significantly less than other law firms
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: in town, and I only make half as much as
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: my roommate, who doesn't work nearly as hard as I do.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: Quit I love the people I work with, but I'm
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: extremely burned out all the time. I took off two
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: days from work for the first time in the last
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: year because I get no vacation time as a single
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: woman at twenty eight. There's a part of me that
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: just wants to quit and do something easy going for
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: a while, sorry, for a year, while I try to
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: somehow manage to pay off the hundreds of thousands of
• 18:03
  Speaker 1: dollars I now have in school debt. I've seriously considered
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: moving to Australia for a year. Basically, what I'm asking is, one,
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: should I throw away all my hard work to the
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: wind to do something unhinged for a year? Two? Do
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: I need a different job? Or Three? Am I just
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: in serious need of a vacation and a good night's rest.
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: Oh not the dilemma I thought it was going to be.
• 18:28
  Speaker 2: But honestly, this is relatable because you're looking at it
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: all wrong, completely wrong.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, you could start off with number three, to
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: be completely fair. Yeah, but I guess that's like the
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: lowest risk one you could start with. That.
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: How she's looking at it is I'm throwing away all
• 18:44
  Speaker 2: this schooling and all this money I put into myself
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: you're not throwing away anything.
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: You know, think about the experience.
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: You've still got the qualifications for one. But you had
• 18:52
  Speaker 2: to do that to learn what you like. Hmmm, Like
• 18:54
  Speaker 2: that's invaluable even though you have so much debt, even
• 18:57
  Speaker 2: though it took ten years.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: And also I think what you should do is one
• 19:00
  Speaker 2: hundred percent if you have a little something in your
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: heart that's saying go to Australia for a year, go
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: do it.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: And if you like it.
• 19:06
  Speaker 2: You don't know what opportunities will come here, but just
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: come back to a different law firm, because that one
• 19:10
  Speaker 2: sounds terrible.
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: I honestly, I'm also thinking, like why not just change
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: law firms and get double the money? Yeah, because she
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: says she's making half as other law as half the
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: amount of money of other law firms. People. My thinking
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: about this, right is so I would consider what she's
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: done to be followed through, right, Yeah, Like she has
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: followed through. She finished the schooling. She has the debt
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: that sucks, yeah, but like she finished the schooling and
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: now she is an attorney and where she's currently at
• 19:39
  Speaker 1: she's not enjoying it, or she does. She likes people,
• 19:41
  Speaker 1: but it's too much work, which is fair. We weren't
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: made to work for that long. And if you go
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: to Australia, it just if you want to go with
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: the thought of being there for a year, but keep
• 19:56
  Speaker 1: in mind you're allowed to fucking go home. Everyone everyone
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: always is like, I want to go and I want
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: to follow through on my travels that I said I
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: was going to do, or like the year in Australia
• 20:07
  Speaker 1: or the year abroad, and I have to say, you've
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: put too much pressure on yourself. We always say it.
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: This whole dilemma is kind of feeling like you're a
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: failure if you don't continue with this thing you've studied for,
• 20:20
  Speaker 2: or if you go to Australia and then come back
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: six months early, you feel like a failure.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: But you're not failing anyone, Yeah at all.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: Genuinely, who do you fail? Yeah, it's a good question.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: It's kind of like the point, it's like what other
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: people will think of you? Yeah, oh no, yeah, you're
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: Everyone does everything based off what other people think.
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: Because you say I'm going to go to Australia for
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: a year and then you come back six months later
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: and you're thinking your head, I told everyone a year,
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: they're gonna think'm gonna loseer, Like it's relatable, and like
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: who's actually going to come up to you and say, oh,
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: I can't believe you didn't finish the year. What a failure?
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: And also like who's going to say to you like
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: I can't believe you're a lawyer anymore?
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Like you could just be like I wasn't happy, legit. Yeah.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: Imagine if some one says the couple, if you're not
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: a lawyer anymore, you've wasted your time, and then you're
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: just like, yeah, well I wasn't happy. If that's not
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: a good enough answer for someone, that person needs to
• 21:08
  Speaker 1: fucking get it. It also comes down to like.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: How you view life and what you want out of
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: life and kind of like your morals, because to me,
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: happiness takes over all. Like I would prefer to be
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: happy making coffees five times a week, then studying my
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: ass off for something I don't believe in or that
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: stresses me out just because that's what society has told
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: you to do, yeah, or it's.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: What you started and then you were like, I don't
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: want to I don't want to fail it. It's about
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: finding like happiness and balance I guess because you can
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: do these things and push yourself to the limits, which
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: I really really like.
• 21:42
  Speaker 2: But then also you have to find the line where
• 21:45
  Speaker 2: you're pushing too hard and your body is like, oh no,
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: I don't want to go down this route, but you
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: just keep pushing and pushing and pushing. It is funny,
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: and your body's telling you something like I need to
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: get out of here and try something new.
• 21:54
  Speaker 1: I would listen to it. Yeah, facts you know, it
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: would be scary as if one of us was just like,
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: it's podcast something just stain its podcasts just ain't it,
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: and we're just fucking to take our own advice. It's
• 22:12
  Speaker 1: not hard, No, it's not. It's really not. It's not
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: like hard work. I guess. I'm thinking about it like,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: if I started to dislike it, I would definitely just
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I would push through for a bit. But then I
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: guess it's within our power to change a few things
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: to make it enjoyable. If we stop joy it's in
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: our power because we're our bosses. I think, baby steps,
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: go take a fucking six week holiday and then come
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: back and reassess. Have some time for your brain to think.
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: Opposite end of the spectrum life's about perspective or whatnot,
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: and this might change how you view your career or
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: what you want to do. I always like when I
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: was gardening or doing something like, I didn't like it
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: that much. I enjoyed it to a certain extent, but
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: I always thought like, maybe it's not the healthy his technique.
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: But I used to lab when I was like, that sucked.
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: At least I'm not doing that, and that that would
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: help me through the day. And like maybe if you
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: have six weeks off and you're thinking like, oh, I
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: could do this, I could do that. If you think
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: fuck lawyering is the worst thing I could ever be doing,
• 23:13
  Speaker 2: I'm as well do this. Or if you might think,
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: oh I used to I don't know, I used to
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: work in hospitality.
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: That was the worst thing ever. It's all about your perspective.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: It's a good point. Yeah, Like what are you passionate about?
• 23:24
  Speaker 2: I guess the I reckon baby steps. Six weeks off,
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: maybe longer.
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: See what you want to I agree with, So I
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: say I can quit. Yeah, Like, I think what you
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: should do is quit the firm you're at right, go
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: for a holiday. You might even be able to kill
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: every single bird of one Stone about it, right, So
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: quit the firm you're at, go for a holiday to Australia,
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: and then if you love Australia, just don't buy a
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: fucking return ticket or you have to get a visa.
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: You'd have to work at your visa. But from America
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: to Australia, that's got to be easy. Yeah, I reckon
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: the holiday is the way to go. And I also
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: want to put emphasis on society and the government. I
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: guess it is the education systems put so much pressure,
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: so much pressure on young adults because like, right now,
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: I bet you what's in the back of her head
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: is I can't quit because I've got such a big debt. Yeah,
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: that's such a good point. That my start and that's
• 24:18
  Speaker 1: for everyone. Every single person who studies claout just always
• 24:20
  Speaker 1: over your head, doesn't it.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: They finish with their degree and then they're like, ooh,
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: I've got I've never even seen sixty thousand dollars, eighty
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: thousand dollars, a hundred thousand dollars, but now I've got
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: it in debt.
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: That thinks you know what is actually crazy that the
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: government lets kids without a job get into hundreds of
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: thousands of dollars of debt. Yeah, and then they go, well,
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: there's a housing crisis, so if you don't have a
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: million dollars, you can't buy a house either. Yeah, like
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: they'll let a kid get into hundreds of thousand dollars
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: of debt. I was lucky.
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: I was doing exercise physiology before I quit for this podcast.
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: When I started to work, I had a five grand debt.
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: I did three months five k.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, that doesn't seem like that much, to be
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: completely fair, I guess it's not like a fucking law degree.
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: No, no, no, but I think it accumulates over time. I
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: think at the end of it, mine was going to
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: be like sixty eight or something.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: Shit, that is so much money. It might have been
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: a subsidized one.
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: And that's type of thing. Yeah, and it's a hex.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: It's called a hex's that. I assume every country has
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: the equivalent.
• 25:20
  Speaker 1: It's good. I'm so glad. I think that's one of
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: the perks of trades. Yeah. They pay you to be there. Yeah. See,
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: I got paid to go to tape. Yeah. I get
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: paid to go to my school. I don't know why
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: education isn't that And there's too many people going to
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: university now because our parents and their generation has said,
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: if you've got to UNI, you're going to be successful.
• 25:42
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And now there's all these people getting these degrees
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: and they're coming out of it, and I really like
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: that anymore.
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: It's not many jobs I think, like back in the day,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: it used to be like that though, right, if you
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: were properly educated, you actually did very well. Now everyone's
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: probably educated, but true, I guess, like everyone from high
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: school is pretty well educated. But also it's just more
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: of a maybe the Internet change things, no idea AI,
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: who the fuck knows, but I mean, I guess think
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: about it, the Internet did change things YouTube, oh fucking Spotify, music,
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: being a podcast, Like you don't actually need a degree
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: to make money anymore. Oh yeah. From our perspective, I saw,
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I don't know if it was a dilemma or a
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: DM and someone was saying, we've never experienced this, and
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: we like AI because it makes our lives easier. But
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: these people who have been through this mainstream education system
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: have learnt something that's already out of date. And then
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: someone's coming in.
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: With AI and it makes their job completely irrelevant or
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: many of the roles in their job, which they've been
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: taught for three four years irrelevant and you're like, holy shit,
• 26:44
  Speaker 2: it's so terrible in that type of version.
• 26:48
  Speaker 1: Fuck, dude, that is so true. On the topic of AI,
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: have you seen that there is an AI actress no
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: and human being managers and agents want to sign her, really,
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: an AI actress. It's crazy. And I was just thinking
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: as I found out about it. Maybe I think it
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: was the other day. I think I was with like Beth,
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: Cassie and Viv at that market and they were talking
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: about this. So do you see that, you know that actress,
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: that AI actress wants that people want to sign And
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I was just thinking, that is at least three steps
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: too far from ridiculous. That is three steps too far
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: from me open AI or whatever it's called a chatjebyt
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: I am fully on board with Chatgebeyt. I'm so fine
• 27:37
  Speaker 1: with that. Yeah.
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Well, I think that's an extension of Google exactly.
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's like it is my new Google. Yeah.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: But once they make a literal digital AI human that
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: is an actor and people want to sign it. But
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: like when you pay the actor, right, So let's just
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: say some manager gets signed by this AI person or
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: this manager signs the AI actress. First of all, is
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: the AIE actual artificially intelligent enough to actually make that
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: decision for herself? Or is it whoever created the AI actress? Right?
• 28:09
  Speaker 1: And then once she does become sentient, what's she gonna do?
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: Fucking She's probably gonna file a lawsuit because they were
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: just making decision for her for a whole life and
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: the whole world's gonna crumble.
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: Well, that is a big moral dilemma, terrifying. If she
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: can make decisions for herself or if it's the creator.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: If she can make decisions for herself and she's AI,
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: she's also already the smartest thing on the planet. Yeah, exactly.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: I think we're very far away from that, but I
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: know if we are, it's kind of scary. We are
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: flying cars before that. I don't want all this stuff, honestly,
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: I would much. I want flying cars too. That stuff
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: scares me. Hey, I would prefer interplanetary fucking what's it
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: called civilizations?
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like a colonization, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: Like a colony on Mars.
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: I want to be like Red Rising. So if they
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: made slaves, but I hope we gave you some good advice, baddie. Yeah,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: what were we talking about? AI?
• 29:08
  Speaker 2: All right, Batties, we are back with Field versus Field,
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: and today Jake, we're talking all about relationship expectations. Let's
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: goay alrighty, So on regular apps, we're exclusive right after
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: three dates.
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: And how you own a toothbrush at their place.
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: Compared to Field looking for casual, open or long term.
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: Everyone's on the same page. Field's about connection on your terms,
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: there's no pretending. There's no need to write your profile
• 29:41
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• 29:44
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• 29:47
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• 29:56
  Speaker 1: Batties up next, you got ig question? We switched up
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: the order this week on you Sneaky Sneaky. We weren't
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: where where we might have been where we weren't going
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, we always do it, always do it.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: This week's question is beyond appearance? What makes someone truly
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: attractive out of that surface level stuff? Yeah? Okay, a
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: little bit deep, okay, okay, this one. Let me know
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: if you even understand this hand placement where they placed
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: their hand in all capitals as well do you get it.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: I have no idea what hand placement means. I think
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: it means where they place their hand when they interact
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: with you, maybe on himself or herself. I was thinking
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: her or on I don't know her. I don't know.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: I have no idea it was. I have no idea.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: That's why I asked you, well, I think, yeah, I
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: think it's hand placement to like lower back, upper quad
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: like that quad.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, were touching it, fucking kneecaps.
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: No, I'm like a here type with permission of callse
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: I'm like a here type of guy.
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: Yeahah yeah yeah, behind closed doors, it gets to me higher, okay,
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive?
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: How they treat other people facts? Yeah, agreed, How they
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: treat a server, yeah, waitress, A lot of those ones.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: I think it tells a lot about a person, just
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: like how much they value the interaction and other people's
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: lives around them. Yeah, and just like kind of general respect.
• 31:35
  Speaker 2: It puts a sour taste in my mouth when you
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: see someone treat like a wayter in particular, or anyone
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: any interaction and they like do something bad or a
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: rude or obnoxious and you're.
• 31:44
  Speaker 1: Like, Oh, you're a weird person, aren't you. I be honest,
• 31:48
  Speaker 1: I like it would make me anxious to be rude
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: because of the confrontation of it. I've had people be
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: rude to me when I worked at a restaurant, and
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I just think, like it makes me anxious to think
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: that they can just like do that.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: I don't know why I could never hate, Like, even
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: if someone was rude to me, Like something within me,
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: isn't there.
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: To be like, hey, yeah, don't do that. I don't
• 32:14
  Speaker 1: know if for something that's just like kind of maybe
• 32:17
  Speaker 1: like being scared a confrontation, But even if a waiter
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: like spilt a drink on me, I'll be like, oh,
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: like sorry, I got on your way.
• 32:27
  Speaker 2: I'm even this is in the digital world. I'm too
• 32:30
  Speaker 2: scared to say something in person because we're in BALI.
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: I've been leaving a lot of reviews. Oh yeah, and
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: even if it's not the best, holy a great review.
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: I like to support the business because I'm thinking, like,
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: this could really impact the business if I leave at
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: four instead of five, So I'm like five out of
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: five best experience.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: She talks about when she gets reviews at the cafe
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: she manages, and every now and then she gets a
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: bad one. Maybe they had an off day or something,
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: and it's just it is the funniest thing to me
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: that people will go in and write a bad review.
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: I know, and I one time got when I had
• 33:06
  Speaker 1: my Troopie. I went to a smash repair place to
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: get some rust fixed and they said that so I
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: paid like thousands of dollars. It was a four thousand Troopies,
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: a big full driver in early here. Yeah, so four
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: thousand dollars right, And when I picked it up, they go, yep,
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: you know, it's probably last night, another five years, and
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: I was like sick. Six months later, rust back. But
• 33:31
  Speaker 1: right after I picked it up and he said it's
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: gonna last five years, and it looked great. I left
• 33:34
  Speaker 1: a good review and it went back, and so I
• 33:37
  Speaker 1: didn't go back. But when the rust came back, I
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: wanted to go change my review, but it was locked
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: in and Google wouldn't let me. I should have left
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: another one update. Six months later, I couldn't. Fuck. I
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: was trying my best. I was like, fuck, these guy's
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: a fucking I never really bad reviews either.
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: I guess it's where your line is so like at
• 33:57
  Speaker 2: a cafe, for example, if it's a bad experience, I've
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: lost twenty dollars. If I've lost four thousand, I'm leaving
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: a bad review. I think my line's maybe like yeah,
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: over two fifty, okay, that's my life.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: Also for something in Bali, they ask for reviews, a
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: Google review. That's what I look for when I'm done
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: a cafes or restaurant. Good reviews. Yeah. And even so
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: when they ask, I think, like, even if it wasn't
• 34:24
  Speaker 1: that good, I say yeah, yeah, yeah, and so I go.
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: I leave five stars. The vibes were great, the atmosphere
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: was great. I just say great about everything, just because
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: I'm thinking, like what they may yeah, why not?
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: The business needs longevity and you can help.
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: So I think that tells a lot facts, all right,
• 34:44
  Speaker 1: Beyond appearance, What makes someone truly attractive Their voice. I
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: saw a lot of them. Do you think girls like
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: a kind of maybe you know, like you and I
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: or they're.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: Like, hold hold on to the headboard, hold on, hold on.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: Can do it? You can't do it when you're laughing,
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: hold look at me, look at me, take your parents off.
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: I can't say it, And I say, I need to
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: say it really quick, because what.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: Did Casue say there was he He's like, do you
• 35:30
  Speaker 2: have my finger, my tongue, oh yeah, my cock?
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: Yeah yeah? And she goes and then she goes, I
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: need She points at his dick and she goes, I
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: need that in me right now. Damn it.
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: Bro Well, we're either both blessed or curse because everyone
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: thinks we sound the same.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: I know, body just said that we do need to
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: get better at using each other's names and be like,
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: oh yeah, Jake's talking. It's kind of people do say.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: It's really difficult. Also, people think we're brothers here more
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: than in Australia. Yeah, well that's a cultural thing, I guess.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: I mean I get. But I told you about how
• 36:10
  Speaker 1: you and I haven't been to that were room. So
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: it's a little restaurant, right, that's funny where you're get nicey,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: goying and other stuff. You and I hadn't been there
• 36:17
  Speaker 1: together this trim all right. You went the night before me,
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: and when I went, they said you want the same
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: thing as yesterday, and I was like, I was like,
• 36:24
  Speaker 1: they have to be talking about audio and I was like,
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: oh no, I haven't been here. Oh really, it. I
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: was like talking about not being able to leave bad reviews.
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: I might use this to my advantage. Why, like, if
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: you go to a restaurant, I know.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: You're going somewhere, I'll go there before and be like
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: a dick.
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: To me?
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive? Making you feel safe?
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: How can someone make you feel safe?
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: Is it more of a I would say for me,
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: it's like a feeling secure. That's how I would feel.
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: I feel like it's different for a girl, though, Yeah. Yeah, yeah,
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: for a girl because they actually actually can be in
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: danger that it would probably feel really good and they
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: would be more attracted to you if but when they're
• 37:19
  Speaker 1: with you, they feel genuinely safe. I feel about their safety. Yeah.
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: It's like or it is not the right word, like
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: what you put out into the world, just like your being,
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: how you feel. Yeah, you feel I feel different ways
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: around different men.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: It's just that fear, that vibe some dude puts off
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: into this world and you feel safe and secure.
• 37:38
  Speaker 1: Sometimes you feel vibes around dudes where you think I
• 37:40
  Speaker 1: don't feel safe. Yeah, And it's not always like it's safety.
• 37:43
  Speaker 1: It's just like unpredictability. You don't know what they're gonna do.
• 37:47
  Speaker 1: So yeah, and it's like we experience it with mate.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: It's not to the same magnitude, of course, but you're like, oh,
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: I don't know, especially when they start drinking, like, oh,
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know what these guys are gonna do.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna exit the scenario. No for real, Okay. Beyond appearance,
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: what makes someone truly attractive? Quote, I'll take care of it. Oh,
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: let me take care of it. So they do like
• 38:14
  Speaker 1: that apparently, Yeah, I'll do that. I'll take care of it.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: I'll book it about it, I'll book it. I love
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: the book it little. I like booking stuff as well.
• 38:28
  Speaker 1: I like it. It's a control thing.
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive?
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: Confidence? Without being cocky? I saw that right, and I
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: was thinking, where's the line. There's a fine line.
• 38:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like it's your actions speak for themselves, okay.
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: Or you're not verbally confident, Yeah, you're physically confident. I guess,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: just like how you walk around life and what you do,
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: how you carry yourself. Yeah, Cassie said, I put off
• 39:07
  Speaker 1: shy vibes. Yeah yeah, yeah, but I mean you're a
• 39:10
  Speaker 1: confident person still, yeah, in my own head, I don't know.
• 39:13
  Speaker 1: I wonder what I give off, I mean, shy vibes.
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: Did she mean that as an insult?
• 39:17
  Speaker 2: Was she like, no, we're planning one of those games,
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: and it was like it was like a deep questions
• 39:24
  Speaker 2: game and like a card came out. I was like,
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: how would you like think that person is if you've
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: met them for the first time, And she said shy.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's valid. Yeah, yeah, that's valid. I would say
• 39:33
  Speaker 1: as well, you mean what do I give off? I
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: don't know.
• 39:37
  Speaker 2: Actually, probably like you're like a combination of either confident
• 39:41
  Speaker 2: or like you could give off very like airheady.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what like first time. I actually I
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: don't even take that as an insult. I mean, I
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe it's meant as an insult. I don't know.
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: But my parents they used to say, like they used
• 39:59
  Speaker 1: to say that I can Jake's off with the fairies. Yeah,
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: and then I live in my own world. I think
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: you do. I think that's what it is.
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: And it was a fire line between confident or like
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: he's not even on our planet.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: True, yeah, like he he's like there's a fine line
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: between confident and oblivious. Yeah, I would find if I'm
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: on my own, not confident, not confident. But if I'm
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: with a group of people, I think then if someone
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: looking in would think, yeah, he's a confident person.
• 40:26
  Speaker 2: What's the best thing about this podcast? We wouldn't have
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: been able to do it about each other.
• 40:30
  Speaker 1: Hell no, I don't know how people. I did passenge
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: Princess for a couple of times, and I was like,
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: fuck doing this on my own. Bro. I get a
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: message every now and then like when's it coming back? Guys,
• 40:39
  Speaker 1: it's not coming about I can't do it. Like the
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: events we go to and stuff like all alone my
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: I was going to go to one on my own
• 40:48
  Speaker 1: and not long ago, and then but I asked Beth
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: and she wanted to go. Yeah, fucking like the brand also,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: but she she tries to get me to talk to people.
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: She goes, I was like, we should leave, Like we came,
• 40:58
  Speaker 1: we did our thing, we should leave. She goes, is
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: not not until you, not until you what's it called network?
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Until you do networking? All right? And I was like, watch,
• 41:06
  Speaker 1: she goes, two new people. You have to talk to
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: two new people? Flat out? I said, no, that's a
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: that's a great thing from her. Also, she's not coming
• 41:13
  Speaker 1: when I'm there. I was straight up. I was like no,
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: because if that was me, I would have been like, yeah,
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: let's go. No. Yeah, you and I feed off each other,
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: like we've been here. If one of us we came,
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: we've been here long enough. Oh we have been no evidence,
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: there is phono evidence on our story that we were here.
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: She was like, no, no, need a network talk to
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: two new people, and yeah, I just flat I was like, no,
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: not that me. Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive?
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: A slutty watch? A slutty watch? Is that from a dude?
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: Like I was, I'm pretty sure she means like a watch, Like, yeah,
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: how does a dude have a slutty watch? How's a
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: girl have a slutty watch? How could a watch be slutty?
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: A lot of gold, a lot of diamonds. I don't
• 41:59
  Speaker 1: like watches. I don't mind him to a certain extent.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: There's a time and a place for a good watch,
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: but not the big, chunky ones. I don't I don't
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: know how you can have a slutty watch either, don't agree.
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: I'm not a nah who I feel like wouldn't it
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: be sludy it'd be naked? Well, I mean by definition, yes,
• 42:19
  Speaker 1: it would be. By definition it would be slutty.
• 42:22
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: Wouldn't it be more slutty than not wear a watch
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: or like lefs skin? Yeah? Like more so more skin showing. Yeah, yeah,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: I just not a watch guy. There's wrisk bleat bringing baddies.
• 42:33
  Speaker 1: Do you like seeing a guy in a watch? I
• 42:36
  Speaker 1: feel like I feel like no one would care. Also
• 42:38
  Speaker 1: my okay, so you know those people that will buy
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: like a fucking five hundred thousand dollars watch or thirty
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: thousand or something. Yeah, if you're wearing a watch over
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: I want to say anything over two thousand dollars, right,
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: this could be a hot take, but I think if
• 42:58
  Speaker 1: you're wearing a watch over two thousand dollars, it's the
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: same reason that you buy a super expensive car, or
• 43:05
  Speaker 1: the same reason that you maybe drive super fast in
• 43:10
  Speaker 1: a slow area and rev the shit out of your car.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: It's just to show off. Because also, I'm not gonna
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: look at a watch that's fifty thousand dollars and be like,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: I can't believe that guy's wearing a fifty thousand dollars watch.
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: Because I don't know what that looks like. I don't
• 43:23
  Speaker 1: know what watch is fifty thousand dollars. Most people don't know.
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: It's a big thing in America. It's like they wear
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: I can already hear I can hear the rebuttals from
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: some men. Oh yeah, I don't think they're listening to this,
• 43:35
  Speaker 1: but I can hear bottles, and I know exactly what
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: someone hearing this who wears an expensive watch would say.
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: They would say, well, you're not the person I'm trying
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: to impress, am I. But also that's the line. They're cocky,
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: not confident. They're trying to show how successful they are,
• 43:51
  Speaker 1: when in reality, just them walking and they're being should
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: be confidence enough. Yeah, it's a bigger thing in America.
• 43:57
  Speaker 2: How they all like they like those birds in the
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: davidad Brouh documentary, how they're like put their cocking, they're
• 44:03
  Speaker 2: peacocking their feathers and like, I've got a big watch,
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: I've got a big chain. Like in reality, like if
• 44:08
  Speaker 2: it was just a nice, well dressed man, that's confidence enough.
• 44:11
  Speaker 2: Jacob A LORDI, for example, that guy confidences.
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: True, he is kind of pretty good. Yeah, I reckon,
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: does he dress good? Or is he just hot? Does
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: he dress good? Or is he just tall? I reckon?
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: I reckon he dresses good because he's long and to
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: dress that good and be long.
• 44:28
  Speaker 1: As had tall. Yeah, I meant both cons hopefully. I
• 44:33
  Speaker 1: don't know. I've never seen it. Actually, Yeah, what do
• 44:36
  Speaker 1: you reckon? Checkob a lordie O can ickon he's decent
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: looking but also has style. No, I was actually I
• 44:43
  Speaker 1: was asking about how do you think his dick ish hue?
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: I reckon it is he's actually is he like six seven?
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: He's tall? Yeah, everything's proportioned, quite slim, everything's proportional, I reckon, Yeah,
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: I reckon. Yeah. True. I guess it's like if you
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: get the a lot of gross gene in one area
• 45:01
  Speaker 1: or no, you're gonna get it in every area. Yeah,
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: I would think so. Yeah.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive? Being good with kids?
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can totally see that. I'm not great, you see,
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: I am open, open and honest about not really liking
• 45:18
  Speaker 1: kids very much. But when I'm with them, because it's
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: always for like a short amount of time, I do
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: have fun and play with them. I have fun. Do
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: I always feeling a little bit out of place and awkward.
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: I guess I need like exposure therapy though true, yeah
• 45:31
  Speaker 2: a baby still never held one.
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: It's so funny, Like I find it so funny she
• 45:37
  Speaker 1: never held a baby. But to be fair, it's like,
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: you have a pretty small family. I should just go
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: off to someone. I am that cold. Could you imagine
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: having a kid? Could you imagine you have your kid
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: right and you're out and someone kinds up, he goes, look,
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: I'm twenty five. I've actually never held a kid. You
• 45:51
  Speaker 1: might help hold it. I'd be like, no, you're not
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: stuck with mine.
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: No, yeah, you need someone who's like a blood relative. Yeah,
• 46:00
  Speaker 2: so they can't say no.
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: But so baby baby No. Like I don't think I'm
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: bad with them, but I don't hold him, really be
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: bad with him, true, don't do anything. But I don't
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: like holding him because death if you fall, like literal death.
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: And then but a kid that's old enough to run around.
• 46:18
  Speaker 1: I like little boys because they love fucking around. I
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: like to entertain.
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: I am look, I have a cousin with a kid
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: named Riley, and he's very funny because.
• 46:41
  Speaker 2: He is a very boyish boy, and.
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: I like to witness it.
• 46:50
  Speaker 5: No, no, I like, I don't even like him. I
• 46:59
  Speaker 5: hate it, Actually, I hate him him.
• 47:02
  Speaker 2: I like the baby sit my cousin's kid.
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: You better better my time. Beyond appearance, what makes someone
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: truly attractive? This one is the smell. Oh yeah, something
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: about a smell. I love it too. Actually, I've I've
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: always questioned whenever you walk past someone, and for me,
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: it's always like a man, right because obviously pretty much
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: all women smell good for some reason, it's because they're clean.
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: Because but when a man walks past me and he
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: and I can smell his cologne and it's not too much,
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: it's it actually smells good. I just think, how the
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: hell can I do that? And I'll do like five sprays.
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: I never get complimented.
• 47:54
  Speaker 2: I think my skin absorbs it more a I really
• 47:58
  Speaker 2: think it does. I feel like it comes down to that.
• 48:00
  Speaker 2: I just soak it up and then it's gone.
• 48:02
  Speaker 1: I just can't. Yeah, Harry said that he does like
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: eight sprays. I've never once thought he smelled really nice
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: when he I've only one time thought he smell really nice,
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: and that was when he came to your birthday lunch
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: and probably sprayed right before. Yeah, you know, he would
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: have yeah. But I was like, I was like, fuck,
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: you smell good, and he goes, yeah, it's spread like
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: eight sprays ship and I was like, that's yeah. I'm
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: like too when I do it. Yeah, I'm a I'm
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: a I've been doing this four four certainly not enough.
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: Beth does not ever compliment me. I've never once exactly,
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: you never once thought it smell good? If anything, I
• 48:36
  Speaker 1: can smell like you're detergent from your clothes. Yeah, I rolled, wait,
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: I rolled recent on me. Doesn't last, It doesn't last.
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: It's not very good.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: Maybe it needs that spray of effect of the particles
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: like enter your bloodstream.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: How the hell do we smell good? I need? I
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: want to up my scent game. At least you're trying
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: like I want to. I want to do a live
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: show and have a meet and green. And then in
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: the Facebook group, a couple of the baddies are like,
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: how fucking good did they smell? Is that what you want?
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: That's what I want? You here you go?
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: That would actually make me feel every fifteen minutes, we'll
• 49:11
  Speaker 2: go back and spray.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: You know what, though, that might be what people do.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: Maybe they might have one with them when they when
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: they get some water.
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: They maybe maybe beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: when the goal in bed is to please the woman?
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah? I like that. Yeah I do too. And you
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: know what would require that? A frontal low.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah I like it too because it kind of like
• 49:37
  Speaker 2: turns me on.
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: When that was one of my answers, by the way,
• 49:39
  Speaker 1: front of low front development that was too seamless went
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: over my head.
• 49:44
  Speaker 2: Like me again, beyond appearance, what makes someone truly attractive
• 49:49
  Speaker 2: the drive to accomplish something.
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: Oh damn, yeah that is kind of sexy. I like
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: it when they get passionate. Yeah, yeah, I reckon. Maybe
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: I need to be more unapologetic in my passions. Who
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: are you apologizing to? I wouldn't say, like, I apologize, right,
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I like golf. I wouldn't say I apologize.
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: I should say that too fair. But let's say I
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: am Maybe that comes out. I was going to say
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: we like work life balance. Yeah, I agreed, and so
• 50:28
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't say I work you know, sixty hour weeks,
• 50:32
  Speaker 1: no on the pod. And I was going to say,
• 50:36
  Speaker 1: maybe I should be more unapologetic in my passions and grinding,
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: grind and grind. But then that's going to take the
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: love out of it. So I was that's why I
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: didn't say it. Oh so yeah, I thought you were
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: going to. I was gonna say, like, maybe I should
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: start grinding apology in eighty hour weeks, nothing but the pod.
• 50:49
  Speaker 1: This is my passion. Make it big, make it big,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: make it big. But then I was like thinking about
• 50:53
  Speaker 1: it while I was about to say it, and I was, well,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I feel like I can't say it.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: I was going to say, being facetious, we've grinded the
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: pod enough already that it's in a place where we're happy,
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: true but contempt, Yeah, where we could definitely get bigger.
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: N that's yeah. We need word of mouth. Yeah, that's
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: our goal. So every single batty listening to this, go
• 51:14
  Speaker 1: tell a friend, to tell a friend about the pot.
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: I've always wanted so sometimes like I've never wanted to
• 51:24
  Speaker 1: be the person that you know, so we promote Patreon.
• 51:27
  Speaker 1: We've been forgetting to promote five stars. We're not very
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: good at.
• 51:30
  Speaker 2: Five star two guys, while you're yeah, yeah.
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: But people that are really good at that and do
• 51:35
  Speaker 1: it consistently, I d say it works. It does work.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: We know it works when we say it. Yeah, I'm
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: going to start telling all the baddies. Tell a friend,
• 51:43
  Speaker 1: to tell a friend. I'm going to make you feel guilty.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: If you love us, prove it well. The best thing
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: is when someone you know says they're really good. That's
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: better than any fast of you anywhere.
• 51:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I would one hundred percent trust someone saying you know, oh,
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: like the way I started listening to Shits and Gigs
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: was as someone said, I recommend them, they're really good.
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: But also, if you were to tell me about someone
• 52:12
  Speaker 1: about a podcast, I would go and give it a chance.
• 52:14
  Speaker 1: There's lots of times where I just wouldn't even give
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: a podcast a chance unless it's from someone exactly agreed. Okay,
• 52:19
  Speaker 1: I'm going to rattle a couple off. Beyond appearance? What
• 52:22
  Speaker 1: is something that's truly beyond appearance? What makes someone truly attractive?
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: Keeping their home clean? But I can see that. I
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: can see that as well. The look girls, if you
• 52:35
  Speaker 1: know you know what was that?
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: I could see your grin in the background.
• 52:44
  Speaker 1: I couldn't hold it. You do what you do it?
• 52:47
  Speaker 2: Look, bro, I am talking about trying to be attractive change. Yeah,
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: and I've tried it, and it's not good. It's not good.
• 53:00
  Speaker 2: You got those baby blue eyes.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: But all right, last one, someone who isn't jealous or
• 53:06
  Speaker 1: insecure in a relationship that's actually really good.
• 53:09
  Speaker 2: Okay, let me rattle a few off too. Beyond appearance,
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: what makes someone truly attractive?
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: Five star aftercare? Oh wait, after care like post sex.
• 53:20
  Speaker 1: That so I was thinking, yea, yeah, after cares like
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: five starfter care. I think looking after yourself in the partner.
• 53:24
  Speaker 1: Hey girl, here, let me give you a towels jump
• 53:26
  Speaker 1: in the sauna. We just had to workout. Let's get
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: let's get a massage. Not taking themselves too seriously.
• 53:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love that when he does not give his
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: opinions on topics he has no idea about, but is
• 53:41
  Speaker 2: willing to learn.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: Oh that's a good one. I reckon. When I was younger,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: I reckon I was a lot more opinionated than I
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: am now.
• 53:52
  Speaker 2: Well, you can always think of those people who are
• 53:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know is know it all? It's the right thing,
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: Like they think they know everything and they want to
• 53:59
  Speaker 2: have an opinion on everything, and they're very uneducated.
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: On everything, and they're like, this is how it is.
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: You don't know anything. Shut up. Learn. But something as
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: simple as I used to have this mindset that so
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: when it comes to say, losing weight, right, I used
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: to have this mindset where it's like, literally, just be
• 54:21
  Speaker 1: in a calorie deficit, right, and not that that isn't
• 54:24
  Speaker 1: the right answer. But I've come to kind of think
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: like that's a bit of an maybe an ignorant answer.
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: I think it's maybe a bit naiven, a bit ignorant,
• 54:32
  Speaker 1: and it's not always that simple. So now whenever the
• 54:35
  Speaker 1: topic comes up, I'm not like I try and keep
• 54:39
  Speaker 1: my mouth shut. Well, you just answer that there.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: It's maturing and the people who are so opinionated when
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: they aren't educated aren't for sure.
• 54:46
  Speaker 1: Did I tell you last time I was at my
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: dad's place in Queensland? Yeah, yeah, you told that. He
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: was talking to my stepmom and Beth and I was
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: eating dinner while they were talking, and he was talking
• 54:58
  Speaker 1: about how he was doing no alcohol trying to lose
• 55:02
  Speaker 1: a bit of weight. And then he goes, yeah, like
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: he goes, it's not just about the food though, it's
• 55:07
  Speaker 1: mainly about the exercise. And to be fair, I do
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: know for a fact it's the opposite. But I was like,
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: and Bet said after it, she goes, you you were
• 55:17
  Speaker 1: really trying to get a nushut then were I was
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: like yeah, I was just like he'd lost a bit
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: of weight and they didn't want to take away from
• 55:23
  Speaker 1: his progress, and I didn't want to be like dad,
• 55:25
  Speaker 1: shut the fuck.
• 55:26
  Speaker 2: Well, the most relatable thing is all about he's listening's
• 55:29
  Speaker 2: parents aren't educated on how to lose weight, and they
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: all with those fads, those like magazine articles with all
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: these different things that never were to be fair.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to fat at the moment. Actually in Australia,
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: the low FOMMT, I wouldn't say that's a actually a
• 55:45
  Speaker 1: good point. That's more of just like cutting out something
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: because that sucks. Like fads are meant to be all
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: right still, you know a fad is where it's like
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: eat what you want and lose weight. Yeah, okay, bad
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: is This week in the studio we have Radid say hello,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: Radid hello hello. So this week we wanted to try
• 56:10
  Speaker 1: and learn to say have a wonderful day. In Indonesian,
• 56:15
  Speaker 1: I have a wonderful or have a good day, whatever
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: is easier. Smog damn it.
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: No no, no, no, well okay, so in Indonesian we've
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: been stuffing up I think our phrases don't translate. If
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: you wanted to say to someone walking on the street,
• 56:32
  Speaker 2: like have a good day, what would you say In Indonesian.
• 56:37
  Speaker 1: You would say that, you would say that. Actually, I
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: have a question that in Indonesia is it common to
• 56:42
  Speaker 1: leave a cafe or a venue or maybe you were
• 56:46
  Speaker 1: having lunch with a friend. Is it common to say, like,
• 56:49
  Speaker 1: you know, have a good day. Is that a common
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: thing you would say to someone? Ah, maybe it's common thing.
• 56:58
  Speaker 1: But know what is many people use English too? Yeah?
• 57:04
  Speaker 1: Very by Yeah, a very bilingual country, isn't it.
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: What about baddie, I didn't know that's the one that three?
• 57:13
  Speaker 1: Also he was like, it didn't really translate. Ok, baddie
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: doesn't translate? How about super simple? What's your welcome summer? Summer?
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: We know that one? And Arry mccasy is thank you?
• 57:27
  Speaker 1: What about yes? If we say what about this? You're beautiful? Okay,
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: we can do this. Okay, come come chick, you're beautiful
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: for the women or is it different for men? Call
• 57:45
  Speaker 1: if we say you're hands two men? Is okay? For
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: the baddies out there? Thank you so much? Thank you?
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: And BADDI is that that's it? For today Yeah, stay bad, enjoy,