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Im Not Rude Im Just Direct! Feat @TheFlyGirlCoach · So Shameless

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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so so shameless, If
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  Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, due, so shameless, If you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, socialamous, so shameless, so so so shameless.
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  Speaker 1: If you know what I'm saying, so shameless. If you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, so shameless. If you know what I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Saying, Social said, here is chaos. If you know what
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying, chaos.
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  Speaker 3: She actually said, this is the most chaotic part of
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  Speaker 3: her life.
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  Speaker 2: Actually, I said that, why did you say that?
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  Speaker 4: That's crazy?
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  Speaker 3: Can you elaborate what is? I think expound?
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  Speaker 2: No, that's a complete sentence.
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  Speaker 3: And somebody said to me the other day.
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  Speaker 5: Matter of fact, I think I said to somebody the
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  Speaker 5: other day, I said, I'm not really interesting. I'm not
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  Speaker 5: really interested in anything you have to offer to this conversation.
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  Speaker 5: I love that, And they said it was rude, and
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  Speaker 5: I was thinking of Dodge. I was literally thinking that
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  Speaker 5: I was speaking like Dodge because I was just being direct.
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  Speaker 5: I really don't care what you have to say about
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  Speaker 5: the situation. So me engaging in this with you is
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  Speaker 5: kind of doing you more favor than it is me.
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  Speaker 5: I don't give a fuck what you have to say,
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  Speaker 5: and that's that's that was the polite way for me
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  Speaker 5: to say, I don't give a fuck what you have
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  Speaker 5: to say. Nothing that you have to say will change
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  Speaker 5: anything that I'm gonna do. So why do I have
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  Speaker 5: to have this conversation you don't?
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  Speaker 6: And now they called me rude for that because people
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  Speaker 6: they direct. No, it's not rude that part. People one
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  Speaker 6: are not used to people being direct too, Like people
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  Speaker 6: don't understand that clear is kind like for me to
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  Speaker 6: sit here and pussy foot around my feelings and dope
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  Speaker 6: on it like that's actually mean, it's more fake. It's
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  Speaker 6: better for me to be very honest with you and
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  Speaker 6: be clear with you, like, hey, this is where I
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  Speaker 6: feel like you land in this conversation. Your opinion is
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  Speaker 6: not something that I'm going to hold near and dear
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  Speaker 6: to me. So why would I even allow you to
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  Speaker 6: put yourself in a position to start saying shit to
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  Speaker 6: me that I don't care about?
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  Speaker 2: Would you do that?
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  Speaker 3: You ever say that? Or would you just give the
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  Speaker 3: person just the floor and let them speak.
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  Speaker 4: I could see how that could come off being rude.
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  Speaker 4: I would say it, maybe not in the same direct
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  Speaker 4: way as you, only because I don't know I'm just
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  Speaker 4: less confrontational.
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  Speaker 6: You think that's confrontational, it could be. I think it also.
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  Speaker 6: I think it depends on what people do for a living. Also,
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  Speaker 6: And this is about to come off a little bit snobby,
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  Speaker 6: but I'm sorry. If you're not used to having direct
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  Speaker 6: conversations and making big decisions every single day, certain things
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  Speaker 6: is like above what you're used to, and you don't understand,
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  Speaker 6: like that was as clear and direct, like that is
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  Speaker 6: like boardroom conversation, Like we are sitting at a conference
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  Speaker 6: table and I'm being very clear with you, like your
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  Speaker 6: input is not needed in this space right now.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you so much? Rude about that, Like, there's nothing.
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  Speaker 3: Rude about it.
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  Speaker 4: I would just find a different way to say the
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  Speaker 4: same thing. That's just naturally who I am.
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  Speaker 5: Again, I am not particularly interested in anything you have
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  Speaker 5: to offer to this conversation.
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  Speaker 6: I think it said something like that, Why would you
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  Speaker 6: say that?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I think this conversation has made its peak and
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  Speaker 4: we're gonna go on separate ways, and so to something
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  Speaker 4: to that regard where it's not necessarily pointing at you,
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  Speaker 4: but it's like I'm gonna let you know that I'm
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  Speaker 4: done here without pointing at you. As the problem.
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  Speaker 2: Possibly, but isn't a little dismissive.
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  Speaker 4: I mean, either way, you gotta you gotta be, you
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  Speaker 4: gotta set your boundaries either way. But for me, it's
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  Speaker 4: just a different way to do it and accomplish the
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  Speaker 4: same thing. As long as I'm walking away from the conversation,
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  Speaker 4: I don't have to necessarily insult you.
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  Speaker 6: Right, I think that, Yeah, I think that that was
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  Speaker 6: a great way to put that. I inspired to do that,
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  Speaker 6: to be that direct, no, no, to be that nice
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  Speaker 6: about it. I'm direct, but not in a nice way.
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  Speaker 2: What would you say? Not that say what you would.
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  Speaker 7: Say, like a very worst version, I would say, like
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  Speaker 7: when he said, he said, I don't think you have
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  Speaker 7: anything else to offer the conversation, not particularly interested that
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  Speaker 7: you have to get like particularly particularly interested, Like those
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  Speaker 7: are all very kind ending words, like you've for me
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  Speaker 7: that made you, that made you feel like all right,
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  Speaker 7: Like you don't want to hear what I gotta say,
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  Speaker 7: But I feel okay about it, Like I don't feel
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  Speaker 7: like shit. I'm saying, like, Yo, I'm gonna be honest
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  Speaker 7: with you. I don't give a fuck, but I'm gonna
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  Speaker 7: apologize because I know that that's rue. But I don't
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  Speaker 7: have what you just did. I don't have that in
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  Speaker 7: that moment. So I'm gonna say, yo, I'm gonna be honest.
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  Speaker 7: I don't care, but I see you, but I just
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  Speaker 7: don't necessarily care. And I don't want to act like
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  Speaker 7: I care, because to me, that's fake. So I'm not
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  Speaker 7: gonna act like I care. I'm going to tell you
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  Speaker 7: I don't care and tell you that I apologize for
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  Speaker 7: not caring.
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  Speaker 3: But you know, I have a clip from this lady.
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  Speaker 3: She's been doing this thing.
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  Speaker 5: It's about code switching, and I think that's where this
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  Speaker 5: conversation kind of there's an intersection there.
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  Speaker 8: Right.
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  Speaker 9: Let me see, even when code switching is successful, even
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  Speaker 9: when it gets you the job, the promotion, the seat.
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  Speaker 2: At the table, it.
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  Speaker 10: Extracts a cost to Jenny Clark. Let's talk about what
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  Speaker 10: that cost actually is. First, there's a cognitive load. You're
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  Speaker 10: not just doing your job. You're monitoring your language, your tone,
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  Speaker 10: your body language, your cultural references, your humor. You're running
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  Speaker 10: a constant background calculation. Is this safe to say, well,
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  Speaker 10: this mark VIA's other? My code switching enough for too much?
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  Speaker 10: That takes energy, mental energy, emotional energy, energy that could
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  Speaker 10: be going towards your actual work, your creativity, your leadership,
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  Speaker 10: but instead it's going toward the performance of belonging. Second,
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  Speaker 10: there's the identity erosion, where you police yourself constantly. When
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  Speaker 10: you monitor and adjustin perform day after day, year after year,
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  Speaker 10: you start to lose touch with who you actually are.
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  Speaker 9: You internalize the code switch. It stops being something you
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  Speaker 9: do and.
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  Speaker 10: Starts being who you are, or verse, You forget that
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  Speaker 10: there was a version of you that didn't have to perform.
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  Speaker 9: You lose the thread back to yourself. Third, there's the exhaustion.
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  Speaker 9: This isn't just tiring, it's depleting. It's a kind of
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  Speaker 9: exhaustion that doesn't go away with a good night's sleep
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  Speaker 9: or a vacation, because it's not physical fatigue. It's the
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  Speaker 9: exhaustion of never fully being yourself, of always holding something back,
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  Speaker 9: of living in a state of low grade vigilance. And fourth,
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  Speaker 9: there's the loneliness. You can be surrounded by people, colleagues, clients,
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  Speaker 9: even friends, and still feel profoundly unseen because they're not
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  Speaker 9: seeing the real you. They're seeing the version of you
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  Speaker 9: that you've constructed to be palatable, acceptable, safe, and that
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  Speaker 9: version might be successful It might be l liked, it
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  Speaker 9: might even be celebrated, but it's not you. Let me
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  Speaker 9: tell you something personal. As a black woman, I've lived
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  Speaker 9: this my entire career. I often don't meet people's expectations,
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  Speaker 9: and I know that I can see it in their faces,
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  Speaker 9: in the slight surprise when I speak, when I present,
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  Speaker 9: when I challenge an assumption. But here's the thing. I
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  Speaker 9: don't just meet their expectations, exceed them every single time.
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  Speaker 5: Come on clear, I ain't gonna lie my ADHD I
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  Speaker 5: wiped out long time ago.
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  Speaker 2: It wasn't interested in what else.
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  Speaker 5: I think she Jimmy Cluster, She's I love listening to
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  Speaker 5: her and like that, but her videos is like seven
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  Speaker 5: minutes long. I was like, all right, and again, I
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  Speaker 5: think that's neuro divergenes. But I disagree. I got to
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  Speaker 5: look this up.
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  Speaker 3: I think code switching is a necessary tool to use
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  Speaker 3: to be successful in the world. I think we all
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  Speaker 3: do it. I think everybody does it. That's trying to
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  Speaker 3: I don't want to say assimilate or trying to.
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  Speaker 5: Work a room because you have natural biases.
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  Speaker 3: People.
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  Speaker 5: Everybody has natural biases, and I think that there's a
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  Speaker 5: like a whiteboard that's safe. And when you try to
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  Speaker 5: come in with too much color, with too much disk,
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  Speaker 5: with too much that it kind of irritates.
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  Speaker 3: It could just push off too many people racism exactly.
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  Speaker 2: That's basically what you just said.
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  Speaker 3: White board racism.
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  Speaker 6: White board too much color asimilation or all of this
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  Speaker 6: is racism.
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  Speaker 3: I wasn't talking about race though, what were you talking?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I was talking about too much personality, anything that
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  Speaker 5: would shape the system or irritate. If I'm walking into
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  Speaker 5: a person a boardroom, I'm not just gonna go in
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  Speaker 5: there like like this. I'm not just gonna go in
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  Speaker 5: there baseball cap whatever whatever. I'm not because that's already
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  Speaker 5: going to give them information about me that can lead
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  Speaker 5: them to a different perception of what I might want
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  Speaker 5: them to see.
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  Speaker 3: I'm gonna go in there with a suit.
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  Speaker 2: That's going to go dressing.
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  Speaker 6: The part right you're talking about when you go in
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  Speaker 6: there a certain way versus how you speak with us.
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  Speaker 6: That's cold switching what you wore. It's not close switching
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  Speaker 6: because you wouldn't go to a go in a boardroom
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  Speaker 6: with that.
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  Speaker 2: That's ridiculous, is it?
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  Speaker 5: Okay? I might be wrong, but I mean just that
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  Speaker 5: part portion it might be.
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  Speaker 2: I agree with.
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  Speaker 4: Tal about colde switching. I don't think there's anything wrong
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  Speaker 4: with it. Like I'm authentically different people. I don't know
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  Speaker 4: if it's just some Gemini should or not, but I
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  Speaker 4: feel like other people could relate that, maybe not be
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  Speaker 4: Gemini was like, I'm my authentic self in every environment,
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  Speaker 4: even though I show up differently and speak differently, as
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  Speaker 4: long as you're not like putting on like for example,
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  Speaker 4: where I'm most comfortable is either with my immediate family
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  Speaker 4: or with my close circle of friends. That's why I'm
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  Speaker 4: most comfortable. That's where I'm most myself, relaxed, jokes, care free.
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  Speaker 4: But I don't speak the same way in those two environments.
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  Speaker 4: I don't even curse around my parents, you know what
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  Speaker 4: I mean. But I'm very authentically myself, and I'm authentically
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  Speaker 4: myself around my friends, my close group of friends. And
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  Speaker 4: then there's other versions where you know, you might be
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  Speaker 4: in boardrooms or political discussions and stuff, and you gotta
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  Speaker 4: speak a little bit differently. And then it starts to
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  Speaker 4: total line of I understand where she's getting at. But
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  Speaker 4: for me, I think as long as you authentic, I
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  Speaker 4: think it's kind of good to have different versions of yourself.
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  Speaker 4: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I agree, it is good to have different versions
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  Speaker 6: of it. I mean, if I'm with my friends, I'm
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  Speaker 6: not going to speak the same way. I don't have
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  Speaker 6: the same comfortability, and I shouldn't with coworkers because you're
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  Speaker 6: not my friend.
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  Speaker 2: But in the video, she was more so talking.
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  Speaker 6: About doing it so much that you change who you
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  Speaker 6: are overall, not necessarily that code switch is a bad thing.
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  Speaker 6: She was saying that we is so ingrained in you
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  Speaker 6: that you lose who you are altogether, like you're acting.
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  Speaker 6: You're walking around acting as the person you code switch
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  Speaker 6: to and forgot who you were.
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  Speaker 3: That's the example of that.
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  Speaker 6: So, say a seventeen year old black girl from Saint
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  Speaker 6: Louis goes to a PWI and that's all she's around.
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  Speaker 6: She's never around her peers at all, and she's been
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  Speaker 6: so used to assimilating and straightening her hair out to
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  Speaker 6: look like them and look and do whatever you might
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  Speaker 6: lose her Saint Louis accent. And then by the time
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  Speaker 6: she graduates, Saint Louis is gone. You don't even know
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  Speaker 6: she from Saint Louis because she assimilated in Coastwitch so
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  Speaker 6: much that the Saint Louis is out of her. That's
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  Speaker 6: what she's saying in the video, not like, Okay, I
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  Speaker 6: went to school down south, I'm still Philly, like you
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  Speaker 6: could still hear it, see it and everything like nothing
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  Speaker 6: I could pick up and customs from somebody else.
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  Speaker 2: That doesn't make now I'm that, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 6: So I feel like in the video she was speaking
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  Speaker 6: more so into losing yourself in that and not necessarily
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  Speaker 6: like needing the ability to do it, like we have
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  Speaker 6: to do it. I mean that we have to navigate
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  Speaker 6: the world to a point to do it. I mean
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  Speaker 6: it's unfortunate, but yeah.
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  Speaker 4: What do you think that's.
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  Speaker 6: I just looked at looking at me, h colde Switching
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  Speaker 6: is exhausting, dowitch frequently all the time, and it's exhausting.
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  Speaker 6: It's it's it's a very exhausting and a daunting thing
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  Speaker 6: to have to do. You also have to when you're
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  Speaker 6: thinking about biases specifically, you have to think about all
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  Speaker 6: facets of how you show up in a space, like
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  Speaker 6: I am a dark skinned girl from Brooklyn, like I
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  Speaker 6: naturally am very direct and in some spaces or in
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  Speaker 6: some words, people will say that I'm aggressive, but I'm very,
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  Speaker 6: very very direct, Like I just I don't tolte the line.
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  Speaker 6: I don't shy away from tough conversations in tough situations,
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  Speaker 6: and that rubs people the wrong way, especially when you
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  Speaker 6: are in professional environments and you're surrounded by so many
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  Speaker 6: different people. Like I have a very amazing is a
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  Speaker 6: a mentor and coach that kind of held me to
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  Speaker 6: task for my code twitch in one day because I
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  Speaker 6: was in a meeting and I had to write somebody
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  Speaker 6: up and she was there for support and there to
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  Speaker 6: kind of like monitor the way that I did it,
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  Speaker 6: and she said, what is that voice and who is
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  Speaker 6: that person that was just sitting here? And I was
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  Speaker 6: just like, I know what I came here to do,
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  Speaker 6: and for me to use my normal voice in normal cadence,
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  Speaker 6: I don't want somebody to feel even worse about the
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  Speaker 6: fact that I'm about that this is a disciplinary conversation.
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  Speaker 2: So I tried to.
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  Speaker 6: Lighten the load by lightening the way that I delivered
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  Speaker 6: the information. And she was just like, yeah, no, I
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  Speaker 6: never want you to use that voice again, and I
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  Speaker 6: don't want you to do that again. Like you are
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  Speaker 6: you and you're in the position that you're in because
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  Speaker 6: this is the position that you worked hard for. You
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  Speaker 6: deserve to be here, and you don't need to do that.
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  Speaker 6: But then also yet same directness got me in trouble
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  Speaker 6: with some people just like I don't. I consistently have
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  Speaker 6: to tote the line, and it is exhausting, and you
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  Speaker 6: can lose yourself, and you can be sitting and having
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  Speaker 6: a conversation and one different person walk in and then
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  Speaker 6: you have to change your tone or change the way
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  Speaker 6: that you're delivering information in a quick second because somebody
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  Speaker 6: with a certain title or certain whatever just walked in
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  Speaker 6: the room.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's a very exhausting thing to do.
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  Speaker 6: And I can't wait until I'm free from being able
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  Speaker 6: to have to code switch in certain environments, when I
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  Speaker 6: can just say what I have to say and it
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  Speaker 6: just be what it is. Because if I was a
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  Speaker 6: white man, white men don't cod switch, period like full stop.
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  Speaker 6: So why do we white men do not? Can white
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  Speaker 6: men do not code switch?
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  Speaker 3: That's not true, they have to.
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  Speaker 4: I know some fat boy white boys that's crazy at
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  Speaker 4: the bar, but at work they are very poli.
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  Speaker 6: That's not how they are in a room is they
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  Speaker 6: don't have to change whoever came.
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  Speaker 2: They don't have to change.
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  Speaker 6: They don't have the boys in a certain way. They
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  Speaker 6: don't have to not look people directly in their eyes.
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  Speaker 2: They don't.
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  Speaker 6: There's the white boys do not code switch. They don't,
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  Speaker 6: even the ones at at at the lowest levels, they don't.
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  Speaker 6: They come in literally authentically themselves. They don't change their
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  Speaker 6: voices and their cadences and the way that they do think,
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  Speaker 6: they speak, the way that they speak, Like if you
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  Speaker 6: are a white man from the South, you don't turn
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  Speaker 6: over your Southern accent when you're in a boy like
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  Speaker 6: you're a Southerner.
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  Speaker 5: If you a white boy and you find yourself around
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  Speaker 5: a bunch of black people, you don't think you think
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  Speaker 5: that you act the same way you act around your
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  Speaker 5: white people. And when you go to Grandma's house for
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  Speaker 5: Thanksgiving with your black wife, you think you act the
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  Speaker 5: same way.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know how to answer that question.
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  Speaker 6: They're not necessarily a white person that's quote unquote code
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  Speaker 6: switching in an all black environment.
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  Speaker 2: They're not doing it for survival.
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  Speaker 6: They're doing it because they are. They're not doing it
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  Speaker 6: for survival because we don't have the means to take
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  Speaker 6: anything away from them. In that moment, Like when we're
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  Speaker 6: doing it at work, it's because we want to keep
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  Speaker 6: our position or status.
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  Speaker 2: They don't. They're not doing it because of that.
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  Speaker 6: If a lot of times a white person will come
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  Speaker 6: around my friend group and they're they're using slang terminology
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  Speaker 6: as a cold switch as opposed to what they would say,
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  Speaker 6: you're trying to fit there exactly like you're trying to
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  Speaker 6: fit in with us versus you cod switching because you're
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  Speaker 6: going to gain something by doing You're not gaining anything
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  Speaker 6: by as a white person cold switching to a black
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  Speaker 6: person because we don't have anything over you.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I think it's social versus professional.
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  Speaker 7: I think black people have to co switch professionally and
• 17:32
  Speaker 7: white people co switch socially.
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: So I need a little bit more understanding of what
• 17:38
  Speaker 4: is and what isn't code switch.
• 17:40
  Speaker 5: Yet, Because even when she was like, oh, the person
• 17:43
  Speaker 5: straightening out their hair, to me, that's the same as
• 17:45
  Speaker 5: showing up in a certain.
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: Outfit or whatever. But to you that's different.
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: So that because as a black woman, navigating.
• 17:53
  Speaker 6: Hair is a part of the cold switch, Like there's
• 17:55
  Speaker 6: literally there was literally laws in place where it was
• 17:57
  Speaker 6: illegal to wear our hair out. So even how you
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: walk into a room as a black woman, Like if
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: you could walk down the street with natural, curly hair
• 18:04
  Speaker 6: and somebody will say, you're here, why you're hair not done?
• 18:07
  Speaker 2: But if it's straight, it's done.
• 18:10
  Speaker 6: Even though my natural hair growing out of my hair
• 18:12
  Speaker 6: here curly is it is done?
• 18:14
  Speaker 2: You know it is what I how I did it,
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: how I tamed it. It's done.
• 18:18
  Speaker 6: But if you walk into a place that quote unquote
• 18:22
  Speaker 6: doesn't think that that's a standard of beauty, which we
• 18:24
  Speaker 6: know what America thinks the standard of beauty is, then
• 18:27
  Speaker 6: that's part of the code switch.
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: You're going to interview.
• 18:31
  Speaker 6: A woman could walk around with an afro for sea afro.
• 18:35
  Speaker 6: She want a certain job, she'll slick her hair in
• 18:37
  Speaker 6: a bun, she'll press her hair out for that job.
• 18:40
  Speaker 6: Trust me, that's a question.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:43
  Speaker 6: So code switching is the practice of alternating between two
• 18:46
  Speaker 6: or more languages, dialects, or communication styles within the same conversation.
• 18:51
  Speaker 6: People typically do this to fit in and build rapport
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: or adapt to professional expectations.
• 18:57
  Speaker 3: So in that and that's why I said it's important.
• 19:00
  Speaker 4: I think it's fine. So y'all have a seeing the
• 19:02
  Speaker 4: Keen Pill skit where they played President Obama and you
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: know he.
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: Got out, Yes, but that is a that is expectation.
• 19:13
  Speaker 4: That's a great example of it's okay. Like when I
• 19:17
  Speaker 4: walk into a room, depending on who's in their room,
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: the way I greet people is different. It might be
• 19:22
  Speaker 4: or it might be hey, how you doing, or it
• 19:24
  Speaker 4: might be hey, what's up?
• 19:25
  Speaker 7: Or like you know that's crazy, Hey, what's that's crazy?
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: So I don't think that's coach to just understand your environment.
• 19:37
  Speaker 4: I feel like, especially for what I do for a living,
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: that's part. I got to size people up. I'm going
• 19:41
  Speaker 4: to different rooms. I meet with kids, sometimes meet with adults,
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: white people, old people, young people, niggas, you know what
• 19:48
  Speaker 4: I mean. It's a different way you talk to everybody.
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: I have a question that's interesting. This video was from
• 19:55
  Speaker 4: a young older woman named Jimmy Clark. She was a
• 19:57
  Speaker 4: black woman, right. The women in the room.
• 20:03
  Speaker 5: Are genuinely like lined up with her on this and
• 20:07
  Speaker 5: how it affects the way that they present and their feelings.
• 20:12
  Speaker 5: And Dodd said white men don't have to do it.
• 20:17
  Speaker 5: The men in the room are like, yeah, I don't.
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: See no problem with it. You know, it is what
• 20:21
  Speaker 3: it is. It's a part of the game. I didn't
• 20:23
  Speaker 3: say that.
• 20:25
  Speaker 7: Okay, I don't want to be on agreeing with y'all.
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: A part of that. Sorry.
• 20:33
  Speaker 5: Can I just finish my point before you go line
• 20:36
  Speaker 5: up with the ladies today?
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: Can I just get this out you mind?
• 20:43
  Speaker 5: Is it more of a thing that is harmful to women?
• 20:48
  Speaker 5: Could it be a thing that is more harmful to women,
• 20:51
  Speaker 5: specifically Black women than black men. Do you think that
• 20:57
  Speaker 5: that's a thing and it might not be, It might
• 21:00
  Speaker 5: not be.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Yesterday, what do you think.
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: You asked this?
• 21:04
  Speaker 7: You said your last point was you said, is code
• 21:06
  Speaker 7: switching more detrimental to black women than black men?
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: Yes? That was the point I mean I was asking. Hmm, Yes,
• 21:17
  Speaker 3: I would say so.
• 21:18
  Speaker 7: I would say that black women have to code switch
• 21:21
  Speaker 7: more because of this. A lot of stuff that Dodge
• 21:23
  Speaker 7: said about the the skin, the hair, the look, body type, religion,
• 21:33
  Speaker 7: where you're from. And I feel like men like some
• 21:36
  Speaker 7: of those things as far, like the beauty aspect and
• 21:38
  Speaker 7: some of the hair stuff. I know there's a thing
• 21:40
  Speaker 7: with like the locks and stuff, but it's less so
• 21:42
  Speaker 7: with men. So I think women have more of an
• 21:45
  Speaker 7: issue with it because it's that many more things that
• 21:48
  Speaker 7: they have to kind of adjust or tweak or maybe
• 21:52
  Speaker 7: tamp down on. As as with men, it's kind of like,
• 21:55
  Speaker 7: you know, you can kind of just wake up those
• 21:58
  Speaker 7: warning and face you know, walk right into the me
• 22:00
  Speaker 7: and you know th shirt on. As to where women
• 22:03
  Speaker 7: have to be a little bit more calculated in their
• 22:07
  Speaker 7: thought process.
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: So for me, like I said, I work with different
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: people from different ages. If I'm walking to a room
• 22:16
  Speaker 4: and there's like white kids that are like eight years
• 22:19
  Speaker 4: old and me being a six' five black man From
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: brooklyn with, locks dressed, casually the WAY i, am the
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: WAY i, Speak i'm very cognizant of. That AND i
• 22:31
  Speaker 4: feel Like i'm not saying that a black woman wouldn't
• 22:34
  Speaker 4: have the same, issues BUT i wouldn't say that hers
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: is a little bit more. APPARENT i feel like black
• 22:39
  Speaker 4: men physically are the most scared of and often have
• 22:44
  Speaker 4: to tone themselves down in. Rooms and this is just
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: around the. World LIKE i THINK i mentioned this once
• 22:50
  Speaker 4: on this podcast, Before i've been in places all across
• 22:54
  Speaker 4: the across the world where there's no black people, there
• 22:58
  Speaker 4: but the security guard is a black. Man security guard
• 23:01
  Speaker 4: is always a black man because he's got the presence
• 23:04
  Speaker 4: you know WHAT i. Mean people are scared of big black,
• 23:06
  Speaker 4: Men SO i feel like a big black man pause
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: has to code switch in certain situations Because i'm looking,
• 23:23
  Speaker 4: NOW i don't do. That so you, KNOW i hate
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: when we compare.
• 23:27
  Speaker 2: Struggles, YEAH i think it's.
• 23:28
  Speaker 4: EQUAL i, mean but, YEAH i would say.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: We equally struggle on different.
• 23:32
  Speaker 6: SCALES i, MEAN i can't speak how it is to
• 23:34
  Speaker 6: navigate as a black, man BUT i just know as
• 23:36
  Speaker 6: a black, woman we're already perceived as, angry like any
• 23:41
  Speaker 6: type of emotion we. Show we could literally be happy
• 23:43
  Speaker 6: and just sitting chill and somebody's, like what's wrong with?
• 23:46
  Speaker 6: You it's like, Nothing like why CAN'T i just have
• 23:49
  Speaker 6: a straight, Face LIKE i have to perform for you
• 23:51
  Speaker 6: to make you feel comfortable in my. Presence Or i'm
• 23:54
  Speaker 6: angry and IF i speak out of, Something, oh look at,
• 23:56
  Speaker 6: her she's getting.
• 23:57
  Speaker 2: Mad she's, angry like the angry black woman that whole.
• 23:59
  Speaker 6: Trope so it's like y'all have to deal with the
• 24:01
  Speaker 6: physicality of, it and we have to deal with like
• 24:03
  Speaker 6: the emotional you're already like deemed angry before you even.
• 24:07
  Speaker 6: SPEAK i have a, question you, said as a six
• 24:20
  Speaker 6: five black, man when you walk in the room with
• 24:22
  Speaker 6: like little white, kids like you have to like kind
• 24:24
  Speaker 6: of tone it down on H do you do the
• 24:28
  Speaker 6: same thing with black?
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: Kids, yeah BECAUSE i do it with kids, period kids in.
• 24:32
  Speaker 4: General.
• 24:32
  Speaker 6: Absolutely, okay that was just a question because like if
• 24:35
  Speaker 6: it's IF i walk into an elementary school with little,
• 24:37
  Speaker 6: kids like every, LIKE i am a completely like, yeah
• 24:40
  Speaker 6: that is my favorite type Of i'm a different person
• 24:45
  Speaker 6: with little, kids AND i am with big, kids AND
• 24:47
  Speaker 6: i am with middle school kids like.
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: It like.
• 24:49
  Speaker 6: It that is the type of code switching THAT i
• 24:52
  Speaker 6: like because it's about the comfort of children versus the
• 24:57
  Speaker 6: biases of.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: ADULTS i see what you that's trutely sitting here.
• 25:10
  Speaker 5: Going over my topic. List there's a young lady On reil's.
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: Show rel does his show here Called Conversations Were Real.
• 25:16
  Speaker 5: Easy one of his videos went, crazy absolutely. Nuts, right
• 25:22
  Speaker 5: there's a young. Lady she is a rapper From Eastern
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: New york.
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: Named Big.
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: Lamb she was on the Show lemonade she. Do y'all
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: remember when they was outside doing did you know it was?
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: HER i didn't know. That you never actually said who it.
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: WAS i didn't know my nigga until the ship went.
• 25:43
  Speaker 5: Viral she's in here with. Me i'm part of the, show,
• 25:45
  Speaker 5: Right So i'm in. Here whatever we, talked. Whatever this
• 25:48
  Speaker 5: nigga never told me it was. Her DID i tell your? Brothers,
• 25:51
  Speaker 5: no you wasn't.
• 25:51
  Speaker 2: Here, NO i don't. KNOW i don't. Know You well did.
• 25:55
  Speaker 5: A fucking, video so well did a podcast here with
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: the nigga BLOCKWORD. Tv that's the nigga that has the
• 26:01
  Speaker 5: mic hanging from the, sky, right and it be in
• 26:04
  Speaker 5: front of the Fucking chinese food stores and fucking mic
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: they wrap into the ship that, Right so they did the.
• 26:09
  Speaker 5: Pot they left here like, nine nine. Thirty you, KNOW
• 26:13
  Speaker 5: i wake up at three something in the, morning go
• 26:14
  Speaker 5: to work ten something in the.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: Morning why is boom boom boom boom boom boom boom.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Boom i'm.
• 26:23
  Speaker 5: Sleeping, FUCK i get, UP i go in the. Window
• 26:27
  Speaker 5: these niggas got lights in front of my. Crib that's
• 26:31
  Speaker 5: big ass speaker with the colors and. Ship the fucking
• 26:35
  Speaker 5: mike is hanging from some ship and they out there.
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: Boom boom boom.
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: Boom, yo all your family members funny as. FUCK i
• 26:47
  Speaker 2: just want you to know all of. THEM i hate the. Nigga, look,
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: yo your man is outside shooting the.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: Video fuck, Yeah i'm out.
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: Here what the fuck you mean you're out? There three
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: in the? Now it was like ten.
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: Thirty it's like on A.
• 27:04
  Speaker 5: Thursday on A, thursday you just posted up in front
• 27:07
  Speaker 5: of somebody crib on the.
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: Sidewalk at least be in the.
• 27:10
  Speaker 7: Street cars come in the video on the shit is
• 27:14
  Speaker 7: crazy it cars come.
• 27:15
  Speaker 6: In and you can't be in front of like a
• 27:17
  Speaker 6: stranger's house and you want, to you want the brownstone bedstop.
• 27:20
  Speaker 3: Feel can't just post up in front of somebody crib
• 27:23
  Speaker 3: and do.
• 27:23
  Speaker 6: That BUT i could do that in front of my cousin.
• 27:24
  Speaker 6: HOUSE i could do that in front of my cousin.
• 27:27
  Speaker 6: House because that's how niggas.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: Think this is this is this is how men.
• 27:31
  Speaker 6: THINK i personally would fucking, never but, man, BRAIN i
• 27:37
  Speaker 6: just did a pod in my cousin's. House now we're
• 27:39
  Speaker 6: about to shoot this video in the same place we
• 27:42
  Speaker 6: just did the pod.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: At i'm in front of my cousin. House i'm. Valid
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: why WOULD i? Ask this is how you? GO i
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: keep telling You i've done it in. Y'all you gotta
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: be like, yo, yo, yo you're. Good we're gonna shoot the,
• 27:53
  Speaker 2: shit right. Here, no you already went to. Sleep WHY
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: i don't want to just ha and wake you. Up
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: they went outside and it must have. Happened they must
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: have already, knew because the people get pulled. UP i
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: stand they played.
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: It so now a couple of weeks, later he comes
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: in to record something. Else shorty is. Here they leave.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: OUT a couple of weeks, later the video goes viral
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: right in front of your. House, no the.
• 28:19
  Speaker 5: Video on the. Show i'm about to play. It SO
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: i didn't know who she. Is you, KNOW i met
• 28:25
  Speaker 5: her here. WHATEVER i go to her page And i'm
• 28:28
  Speaker 5: going through a content.
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: Like, this a.
• 28:29
  Speaker 2: Rap she rapped pretty. Good this is.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Right so she got this one.
• 28:33
  Speaker 2: Ship she going off in the street with the mic
• 28:35
  Speaker 2: hanging from.
• 28:36
  Speaker 3: NOWHERE i heard the, SHIP i.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: SAID.
• 28:46
  Speaker 7: I know that background WHEN i see. It that's the
• 28:49
  Speaker 7: song that was in my head that.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: NIGHT i stand.
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: Shot motherfucking video in front of my. Crib but you
• 28:59
  Speaker 5: know they and the wolves and. Woes here we. Go
• 29:03
  Speaker 5: you all ready like to hear?
• 29:04
  Speaker 11: It here we, go boyfriend calm to the spot with,
• 29:07
  Speaker 11: me and my friend is on him. Tonight he better.
• 29:11
  Speaker 11: Knowwhere so that's up to, you big. Dog, now if
• 29:16
  Speaker 11: you come out with.
• 29:16
  Speaker 12: Us that's that's all. You everything we know is on,
• 29:22
  Speaker 12: you the, fool the. Hookah you're. Paid you knew you
• 29:27
  Speaker 12: was paying when you was. Coming you should have never
• 29:29
  Speaker 12: came if you didn't want to.
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: PAY i don't even know why you're sitting.
• 29:32
  Speaker 11: Here you're gonna make us digging.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Out with persons while you're. Here you're not going at
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: that's a game we.
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: Chatter my girl's not going for none of.
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: That that's why you're not going with.
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: Her, no IF i, go she's they're not paying for
• 29:47
  Speaker 3: all these. Bitches she's making her friends. Paid even IF i,
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: try she's, like, no that's our. Money fuck.
• 29:52
  Speaker 2: That, no but you.
• 29:53
  Speaker 11: Shouldn't but she shouldn't have you there because this girl's night. Anyway,
• 29:57
  Speaker 11: yep if that's.
• 29:57
  Speaker 13: The, case, like, no now it's girls BECAUSE i Ain't
• 30:00
  Speaker 13: before it was, okay.
• 30:02
  Speaker 11: If, buddy you gotta, pay he's not going for. That
• 30:05
  Speaker 11: me and my friend group is not going to. That
• 30:07
  Speaker 11: you's got one time because at the end of.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: The, day you know, what you aren't, here somebody else
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: would be. Paying now you making us. Pay that is
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: your fault that we're. Paying it is that's.
• 30:21
  Speaker 6: TRUE i don't see the. Problem what's the, problem it's your.
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: Fault that that's, real, yo that ship that would blow my.
• 30:30
  Speaker 5: Mind so If drew pulls, up he's paying for you
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: and all your.
• 30:35
  Speaker 3: Friends why are you?
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: There why are you?
• 30:37
  Speaker 6: Here i'm, like if you pull, up you pulling up
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: to a pick me, up then you should sit outside
• 30:41
  Speaker 6: once you come inside as a, man.
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: Have.
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: Fun this is all you wait what ARE.
• 30:52
  Speaker 4: I don't?
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: Know why is you?
• 30:53
  Speaker 5: Here but if the girl is probably the ONE i
• 30:56
  Speaker 5: didn't be like, You i'm coming with you with your.
• 30:57
  Speaker 5: Friends no nigga wants to do that said that you.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Pull up to the girls, Night, like why are you
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: pulling up to girls? Night why are you asking? Me ask?
• 31:10
  Speaker 6: You i'm not asking, you but you're asking.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: The nigga like he's, like, Yeah i'm coming with.
• 31:18
  Speaker 6: We, Already well a girl's night in a in a
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: in a one of our friends include they, MAN i
• 31:23
  Speaker 6: want to tell you why Why if he's not paying for,
• 31:26
  Speaker 6: everything why is he? Here this is not if we
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: all bringing doing a couple Of what.
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: Is it about him paying that makes it?
• 31:33
  Speaker 6: Okay because you're already playing things like you can have
• 31:38
  Speaker 6: A god's.
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: Night i'm like go do your. Thing why is you here.
• 31:43
  Speaker 4: If he's?
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: There is it interrupting y'all that he's?
• 31:47
  Speaker 6: There, no you came here for a. Reason that reason
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: was to pull out Your.
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: It is.
• 31:53
  Speaker 6: Interrupting why have our? Conversation they have our girl time
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: and you just and and you just.
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: Trying to trick.
• 32:02
  Speaker 6: You so there's another nigga in the spot that was
• 32:05
  Speaker 6: about the.
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: Pay girlfriend's.
• 32:08
  Speaker 4: Ful y'all are having our girls not out and the
• 32:12
  Speaker 4: girlfriend invites her, boyfriend then it's her.
• 32:15
  Speaker 6: FAULT i, said we don't like when we don't she
• 32:19
  Speaker 6: does that, like so then it's her.
• 32:20
  Speaker 4: Fault why does he got to pay for?
• 32:21
  Speaker 2: This because you. Should you should discernment as a man
• 32:25
  Speaker 2: like the other niggas.
• 32:26
  Speaker 6: There why would you watch your? Man why would you
• 32:29
  Speaker 6: let your man come and? Coming, like why are you?
• 32:34
  Speaker 6: Coming and why are you inviting?
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Him it's two. Things stop you and your nigga? Go, yeah.
• 32:43
  Speaker 6: They literally literally, leave like this is if y'all want
• 32:45
  Speaker 6: to do a couple of things separate from the prick you.
• 32:47
  Speaker 2: Up this is. Nuts you let me. Staying situation was.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: Reversed all the fellas. Out somebody's, wife he pulls, up
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: she got to everybody, wife she got a like everybody,
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: That but what does She.
• 33:04
  Speaker 2: She's a woman in a, Table, okay because she's a.
• 33:06
  Speaker 4: Woman, okay so she's not interrupting. Guys Now i'm not pulling.
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: Up i'm not pulling up To god's.
• 33:11
  Speaker 4: Night. Right, well so we all agree we're not pulling
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: up to, ladies not, either but we're talking, hypothetically.
• 33:18
  Speaker 6: Right it's niggas that do they want to take probably
• 33:22
  Speaker 6: right or they want a predecene the they you out
• 33:24
  Speaker 6: with your girls or whatever they.
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: See where you.
• 33:27
  Speaker 6: At niggas be see y'all don't, Understand like there are
• 33:29
  Speaker 6: certain men in this world that are actually really disgusting
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: and they will really pop up on their girl type,
• 33:35
  Speaker 6: shit like some real controlling ship and they will pop.
• 33:37
  Speaker 6: Up but if you decide that you want to pop,
• 33:39
  Speaker 6: up you want some ike turner, ship, nigga you better spend.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: Some bread and then take her. Home get the fuck
• 33:44
  Speaker 2: out of your ruining the.
• 33:45
  Speaker 4: Visus it sounds like it's a two way disgusting street
• 33:48
  Speaker 4: because the girl that is, okay not even, okay but
• 33:51
  Speaker 4: expects some men to pay for. Everybody like To tom's,
• 33:53
  Speaker 4: point if you got a wifey that holds you. Down
• 33:56
  Speaker 4: she like you ain't spending our money on all of these.
• 33:58
  Speaker 4: Chicks fuck out it.
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: Again you should have should if that's the way you,
• 34:03
  Speaker 6: heard you should have been outside.
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: Again it's a disgusting Two Main street in that. Case
• 34:09
  Speaker 4: BUT i don't be around them types of.
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: People So i've Been i've been out with my girls
• 34:15
  Speaker 6: and niggas have pulled like, yo where y'all like, Like,
• 34:17
  Speaker 6: Oh i'm out with my.
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: Girls we having Drinks da da, dah.
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: And a nigga will pull. Up once you pull up
• 34:23
  Speaker 6: me and my, friends we're. Already we already know what's.
• 34:25
  Speaker 6: Happening we're not paying for. SHIP i have never in
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: my life had anybody pull up on with me and
• 34:31
  Speaker 6: my girls was out and they did not pay for
• 34:33
  Speaker 6: whatever they will.
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: Order all you got to do is order one. Drink
• 34:36
  Speaker 2: you order one. Drink this bill is.
• 34:37
  Speaker 5: Yours the funny thing is THAT i think this is,
• 34:39
  Speaker 5: hilarious right because for, one as y'all, KNOW i leave with,
• 34:43
  Speaker 5: Money So i'm Probably i'm gonna want. It you've done want.
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: To i'm gonna want to treat my my girls friends
• 34:51
  Speaker 5: to a good. TIME i want them to feel, like
• 34:53
  Speaker 5: oh her niggas that, nigga, RIGHT i JUST i just that's.
• 34:57
  Speaker 5: Right it just me to do that and for her
• 34:59
  Speaker 5: to feel, like, oh you, know my, man you know it's.
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: Good you treat you.
• 35:02
  Speaker 5: Right but the thing is funny to me and this
• 35:05
  Speaker 5: is just some REAL i don't. KNOW i don't know
• 35:08
  Speaker 5: if this is some blue pill of red pill. Shit
• 35:11
  Speaker 5: it's eight women at this. Table all of y'all got good.
• 35:13
  Speaker 5: Jobs y'all all make a bucket a. Year probably that
• 35:18
  Speaker 5: means it's eight hundred thousands and. Table and this one
• 35:22
  Speaker 5: ass nigga that makes one twenty has to cover the
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: eight hundred thousand the, bill.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: Not eight hundred. Thousand why we even going? That the?
• 35:28
  Speaker 5: Bill was, like why is THAT i gotta? Cover there's
• 35:33
  Speaker 5: a million at the. TABLE i only got a buck.
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: That should a. Mission you should shouldn't at the nine hundred.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: Thousands and you and your friend y'all could have split.
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: It to, me Like tahoe, SAID i. Wouldn't If i'm
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: out AND i pull up on my, girl she's with her,
• 35:50
  Speaker 4: HOMEGIRLS i would like to pay for them, too write
• 35:53
  Speaker 4: just but BUT i don't. Like WHAT i don't like
• 35:56
  Speaker 4: is the expectation they title and if any one of
• 35:59
  Speaker 4: them ain't even about to reach and they, Person i'm
• 36:01
  Speaker 4: offended and it ain't never happening. Again like it's the
• 36:04
  Speaker 4: expectation for her to be, like, oh, yeah he paid
• 36:07
  Speaker 4: for everybody out of. HERE i might decide to do,
• 36:10
  Speaker 4: that but it ain't no expectation on me to pay
• 36:12
  Speaker 4: for all of y'all. Ship that's, crazy.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: Man why would you not want to take care of
• 36:16
  Speaker 2: me and my?
• 36:16
  Speaker 4: Friends it's What i'm gonna. Do it's not you should
• 36:19
  Speaker 4: not expect.
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: That why would you want me to like Spend because.
• 36:24
  Speaker 2: What you're talking about our bro like is, like is
• 36:26
  Speaker 2: the bread gonna?
• 36:27
  Speaker 4: Dry my baby is?
• 36:31
  Speaker 6: Infinite it's not about it being, infinite but the check
• 36:33
  Speaker 6: gonna come to fit, Regardless like you're gonna get your
• 36:36
  Speaker 6: little two hunted. Back LIKE i don't never want to
• 36:38
  Speaker 6: argue with a nigga about a couple of drinks that
• 36:40
  Speaker 6: is actually really icky and.
• 36:41
  Speaker 5: Discussion, yeah but then you got the ladies that when
• 36:43
  Speaker 5: they see the nigga there they, offering they ordering the forty,
• 36:46
  Speaker 5: Two they got the whole snap of plus a.
• 36:48
  Speaker 2: Couple that's.
• 36:54
  Speaker 4: Y'all.
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: Know the women that overdo it and. UNDERPAY i don't
• 36:58
  Speaker 5: know the. Matter but y'all know that there's women out
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: there that do this.
• 37:02
  Speaker 2: And you shouldn't be around me.
• 37:03
  Speaker 3: Though i'm just saying.
• 37:07
  Speaker 5: From my lady when she she is very, protective she is.
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: Not she's gonna be like you sure know you're gonna
• 37:14
  Speaker 5: have to. Me i'm telling, you And i'm be, like,
• 37:17
  Speaker 5: NO i got to worry about.
• 37:18
  Speaker 6: It and you won't be the man in that situation
• 37:21
  Speaker 6: and be, like, YEAH i understand how you, feel baby.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: GIRL i got. It i'm your, man AND i got.
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: It my woman is gonna go to the server and
• 37:28
  Speaker 4: separate the checks BEFORE i even have.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: To say you gotta.
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: Leave he is going to make sure that, no you,
• 37:35
  Speaker 4: Know i'm not. Going she's not even gonna put me
• 37:38
  Speaker 4: in that position WHERE i have to look by not
• 37:40
  Speaker 4: paying you know WHAT i?
• 37:41
  Speaker 3: Mean systems everybody can.
• 37:46
  Speaker 6: Might have wanted to tell me about a Whoor story's.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: So funny because your girl went up there like your?
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: Checks yeah, no?
• 37:57
  Speaker 4: What?
• 37:58
  Speaker 3: Well what's wrong? That what's? Wrong everybody's paying for this else?
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: Yesterday please to be with.
• 38:07
  Speaker 6: You there's nothing wrong with.
• 38:11
  Speaker 2: It they probably would have happened if you did not know.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: Me you do not belong, man why you girl invited?
• 38:20
  Speaker 6: Me so that's that's why'll like sheared you because she
• 38:25
  Speaker 6: Already why did she invite? You and why did you show?
• 38:28
  Speaker 6: Up like both are That like there's gonna be a
• 38:34
  Speaker 6: side group chat so?
• 38:35
  Speaker 2: Fast why did she invite?
• 38:36
  Speaker 6: Her? Men like you alway like got her nigga? Here
• 38:40
  Speaker 6: like we're going to say, that like why is your nigga?
• 38:42
  Speaker 5: Here and y'all want the other? Nigga so the nigga
• 38:45
  Speaker 5: that would have paid IF i wasn't, here who's?
• 38:48
  Speaker 3: Here?
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Now it could have been a random like if we
• 38:52
  Speaker 2: said this is the.
• 38:52
  Speaker 6: Thing even plenty times when me and my girls was
• 38:54
  Speaker 6: out and we was having a good time and a
• 38:56
  Speaker 6: random guy might have came over and liked somebody and
• 38:59
  Speaker 6: says and he took care of the.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Bill there was no there was, Waiting there was no
• 39:04
  Speaker 2: it was like what he just like oh whatever.
• 39:05
  Speaker 6: He whatever they, had this.
• 39:08
  Speaker 4: Could.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: HAPPENED i love. It we would have passed, over.
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: Okay so that's what it could.
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: Happened get you in.
• 39:14
  Speaker 4: THIS i, mean so when the bill comes to y'all
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: like looking among more often than, that you're going to
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: pay your.
• 39:23
  Speaker 2: Bills so we're.
• 39:24
  Speaker 6: Staying look if we're If i'm at a table and
• 39:26
  Speaker 6: me and my friends we're doing a girl's night, thing
• 39:28
  Speaker 6: and we all set out we're going to pay our.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: Bill we not even think about a.
• 39:32
  Speaker 6: Guy and a guy comes over and he inserts himself
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: into whatever we got going.
• 39:36
  Speaker 2: On, okay he was, like, oh that's on. Me we
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: don't get a bill because he took care.
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: Of a percentage that that happens a.
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: Lot sixty a lot of, sixties and the nigga will.
• 39:45
  Speaker 4: Take care of the whole. Bill for eight, women a
• 39:48
  Speaker 4: guy that.
• 39:49
  Speaker 6: Hanging out with, women it might be me and two other,
• 39:51
  Speaker 6: people because that was by, myself the.
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: Number we started with by. Myself reason WHY i bring
• 39:58
  Speaker 4: up eight because, man a boyfriend interrupting eight women.
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: Is different crazy than if it's, like, yeah that's.
• 40:05
  Speaker 4: Crazy if it's two or, three THEN i can. UNDERSTAND
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: i played for.
• 40:09
  Speaker 2: Two, wait who's?
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: That?
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: Eight was eight in the? Original if it's not a birthday,
• 40:14
  Speaker 2: dinner you're it's gonna be what?
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: Y'all why is every time one says, something the other
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: one has something like can y'all wan at a?
• 40:23
  Speaker 14: TIME i just wanted to, know, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah
• 40:32
  Speaker 14: yeah yeah, yeah what the fuck this is why it
• 40:35
  Speaker 14: is no niggas at the girls.
• 40:36
  Speaker 2: Now is that what you'll do all?
• 40:37
  Speaker 15: Night and.
• 40:39
  Speaker 2: We actually have a ball when niggas are not.
• 40:41
  Speaker 5: Around motherfucking waiting for some other nigga to come over
• 40:47
  Speaker 5: like no.
• 40:48
  Speaker 6: See and that's that's WHY i, said you want some
• 40:50
  Speaker 6: stupid ship right. Now there was some real dumb ass
• 40:55
  Speaker 6: because you'll been passing me off because you selectively hear,
• 40:58
  Speaker 6: things and that ship really like blows my.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Mind first of, all if you just said, no shut,
• 41:03
  Speaker 2: up that's not neuro. Diversions that's sucking.
• 41:05
  Speaker 6: Annoyance at the end of the, day nobody is sitting
• 41:08
  Speaker 6: here waiting for somebody to pay for anything WHEN i
• 41:11
  Speaker 6: go out with my. Girls first of, all we're not
• 41:13
  Speaker 6: getting our own. Checks that's not. Happening somebody's gonna put
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: all that ship on their card and then you fucking
• 41:19
  Speaker 6: zell them or whatever the case may. Be or somebody
• 41:21
  Speaker 6: gonna handle the first, spot then somebody else handle the second,
• 41:23
  Speaker 6: spot somebody handling the, ubers because that's how it goes
• 41:26
  Speaker 6: because like you, said when you six figure, bitches, like
• 41:29
  Speaker 6: we're not sending here mincing words over a couple of
• 41:31
  Speaker 6: fucking lemon, drops but if a nigga decides that they
• 41:34
  Speaker 6: want to come in and they want to pay for,
• 41:36
  Speaker 6: It me and my girl, absolutely thank you so.
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: Much, sir thank.
• 41:40
  Speaker 6: You it could be you can you, can you can
• 41:44
  Speaker 6: frame it however you want to.
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: Frame you're just more soos happen to? You it's not a.
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: Need, NO i don't have money issues to.
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: Get we were going out anywhere.
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: Some random.
• 41:58
  Speaker 2: Making it seem like.
• 41:59
  Speaker 6: We're damn and, distresses like we just go out and
• 42:02
  Speaker 6: looking around for somebody like who's going to do?
• 42:04
  Speaker 2: It, hey it's your. Fault you're making us, pay that's. What,
• 42:09
  Speaker 2: no because you want to be a, man so be a.
• 42:11
  Speaker 6: Man you decided to come in here and be here
• 42:14
  Speaker 6: and sit down at a table with four, bitches all,
• 42:16
  Speaker 6: right pay for?
• 42:17
  Speaker 4: It it's really sixty.
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: PERCENT i have a ball WHEN i go, outside.
• 42:22
  Speaker 4: SO i, DRINK i, get but a nigga covering the whole.
• 42:25
  Speaker 6: Tab, AGAIN i don't be outside with fifty. Bitches it
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: would be two one something.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: Like that's.
• 42:32
  Speaker 6: Different it'll be like me and two other, girls me
• 42:34
  Speaker 6: and one other. Girl but if nigga's in a, vicinity, like,
• 42:37
  Speaker 6: oh what you're? Drinking what y'all drinking.
• 42:39
  Speaker 4: Drinking i'm talking about like let's, say y'all go in
• 42:42
  Speaker 4: the brunch or. Something now that Six, no that's.
• 42:45
  Speaker 2: It i'm not thinking About i'm not thinking about like
• 42:47
  Speaker 2: a whole.
• 42:48
  Speaker 6: Dinners i'm thinking about like, drinks, cocktails lounge drinks and
• 42:52
  Speaker 6: hookah something like. That like that's that's the, easy, yes
• 42:56
  Speaker 6: or you just Go like and the last TIME i
• 42:58
  Speaker 6: went out to a, SPOT i didn't have a bill at, All,
• 43:01
  Speaker 6: like AND i was happy as.
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: Ship yeah he was, there BUT i didn't have a
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: bill at.
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: All it also depends on where you, Are LIKE i
• 43:08
  Speaker 4: could see at the bar, six but if you're seated somewhere.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: Even LIKE i was at a lounge AND i went TO.
• 43:16
  Speaker 6: I went TO i went to pay for my hookah
• 43:19
  Speaker 6: AND i was, like, oh, like how much is the
• 43:21
  Speaker 6: Hook i'm about to pay for.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: It they were, Like, oh you don't have to pay for.
• 43:23
  Speaker 2: It it's already taking care of her said.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: Last from some random across the.
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: ROOM i think it was from the. Girl it was
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: from a. Girl it wasn't a.
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: Dude clean it. UP i, mean.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: SO i got to clean. Up my husband was.
• 43:36
  Speaker 6: There it was as the cities, EVERYWHERE i felt LIKE
• 43:38
  Speaker 6: i was at a bachelorette, party like the way that
• 43:40
  Speaker 6: they was all shaking it on me and he was
• 43:42
  Speaker 6: just sitting there watching because LIKE i love. Him but,
• 43:45
  Speaker 6: yeah like it could come from girls and can come from,
• 43:47
  Speaker 6: men like look all that day that.
• 43:52
  Speaker 7: Day, okay, yeah AS i, said clean it, up get
• 43:54
  Speaker 7: some clarification in.
• 43:55
  Speaker 4: There it would be.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: Nice, LISTEN i LOVE i really DO i have a.
• 44:01
  Speaker 2: Ball i'm outside all some of.
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: Y'ALL i. Am, yeah, MAN i Think tart nailed.
• 44:10
  Speaker 4: It.
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: Though it's the.
• 44:11
  Speaker 5: Entitlement it's the weird, entitlement especially like as a, guy
• 44:14
  Speaker 5: you got a girl she's.
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: Like, Hey i'm, going are you pulling?
• 44:18
  Speaker 5: Up are you? Coming are you saying? That she's saying
• 44:21
  Speaker 5: come that she's lining you to pay for. EVERYBODY i
• 44:24
  Speaker 5: don't believe that Because i'm telling you when my girl says, like,
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: yo you, coming she's not having me.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: Paid but that would actually be weird. Though why is why.
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: Are there because our best friends with their? Person, yeah
• 44:40
  Speaker 5: they actually like their.
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: Persons friends person time with your Friends and when.
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: She's talking and then you go immediately over. It do
• 44:49
  Speaker 5: you not hear her or you just feel what she's?
• 44:52
  Speaker 2: Saying you do? It do you not hear Because i'm
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: trying to.
• 44:55
  Speaker 3: Hear what was she saying?
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: That you only pointed out WHEN i do? It now
• 45:02
  Speaker 2: when you do?
• 45:02
  Speaker 3: It maybe maybe so do it? Now they both? Quiet
• 45:11
  Speaker 3: you got? Them you got, them.
• 45:12
  Speaker 6: GIRL i told you neural. Diversion it's only work when
• 45:16
  Speaker 6: it when it's on your.
• 45:18
  Speaker 2: Side oh is it? That what it, is? Y'all a neural.
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: DIVERSION i already said.
• 45:23
  Speaker 3: That, okay you, too your diversion.
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: Too i'm not going to diagnose. MYSELF i don't.
• 45:28
  Speaker 3: Know why are you like.
• 45:31
  Speaker 4: Makes?
• 45:31
  Speaker 3: Sense then it makes? SENSE i THINK i want to
• 45:35
  Speaker 3: get back to what you're.
• 45:36
  Speaker 4: SAYING i think you made a good, Point LIKE i
• 45:37
  Speaker 4: don't think the only reason why you're surety would invite
• 45:40
  Speaker 4: you is to pay for. It like even if she
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: went like two of her homegrows and what if you,
• 45:46
  Speaker 4: nearby you close, by come pull up on? Us you
• 45:48
  Speaker 4: know WHAT i? Mean that'll like true just because just
• 45:55
  Speaker 4: because it's it's a it's a male female dynamic like
• 45:58
  Speaker 4: friends of, friends LIKE i have male fan, IS i
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: have female. FRIENDS i could be with any group of
• 46:02
  Speaker 4: friends and if my shortues in the, Area i'll tell
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: her to pull up or vice.
• 46:05
  Speaker 3: Versa is your male friend expected to pay part of
• 46:10
  Speaker 3: your friend?
• 46:11
  Speaker 2: Group it depends on what kind of friend it.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: Is male. FRIEND i don't know what that.
• 46:14
  Speaker 6: Means it depends on what kind of friend it, is
• 46:17
  Speaker 6: because LIKE i have friends that male friends that got,
• 46:20
  Speaker 6: it AND i got male friends that don't have. It
• 46:22
  Speaker 6: if you're a male friend that don't have, IT i
• 46:23
  Speaker 6: would not put you in that. Position but if you got, it, yeah.
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: But with your friends that don't know financial, position he's
• 46:29
  Speaker 4: in what they expect him to pay because he's the only.
• 46:31
  Speaker 2: Male it's a male. Friend if it's a male, friend
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: my friends already know. Him, Okay like it's. Not it's
• 46:37
  Speaker 2: not gonna be like some new nigga case in point.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: Right can you chatter? Me can you change?
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: Idiots?
• 46:43
  Speaker 2: No, no it. Does it changes. That it changes a,
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: lot like, yo all, right, fuck let's do.
• 46:49
  Speaker 6: It like If i'm, out if it's Me Tullian davy
• 46:53
  Speaker 6: out And greg is like we all at what y'all?
• 46:56
  Speaker 6: Doing and he pull up the. Time greg's gonna pay
• 47:00
  Speaker 6: for whatever it is that we already. Had that's a male.
• 47:03
  Speaker 6: Friend that's that's just what he. Does he is the.
• 47:05
  Speaker 6: Protector he does That that's that's what he. Does same
• 47:08
  Speaker 6: thing with, You. Tahoe IF i called, You if me
• 47:11
  Speaker 6: And tully is out AND i.
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: Call, you you're. Not, no you're.
• 47:15
  Speaker 6: Not first of, all you you the last one at
• 47:17
  Speaker 6: the table all the. Time, anyway niggas will be ready
• 47:19
  Speaker 6: to go before. You taahoe is gonna pay for the.
• 47:23
  Speaker 6: Check he, Does that's what he.
• 47:25
  Speaker 3: Does i'm not paying for the.
• 47:26
  Speaker 15: Check there are there are something that there's some, there
• 47:33
  Speaker 15: there are something that when there's something that don't like
• 47:35
  Speaker 15: we used to me And tully and our broker.
• 47:38
  Speaker 6: Days now this this was a little bit, brokey but
• 47:40
  Speaker 6: it was. Fine we used to call the scammers like
• 47:43
  Speaker 6: if we was out and drinking or whatever the case may, Be, Like,
• 47:46
  Speaker 6: DAMN i really don't feel like paying his.
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: Bill, yeah me.
• 47:48
  Speaker 6: Either, Yo let's call one of them and we will
• 47:51
  Speaker 6: call him and they will pull up in like an.
• 47:52
  Speaker 2: Hour ALL i gotta do is sit. Down bill's paid for. It.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Now we're having a fucking. Time. Now we're going from
• 47:57
  Speaker 2: spot to. Spot we here there everywhere like that.
• 48:00
  Speaker 4: Is.
• 48:02
  Speaker 6: Yeah if you got, it you got. It if you,
• 48:04
  Speaker 6: don't you. Don't if you, don't, sorry we can split.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: It put it on your. Card we'll tell you.
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: What if it's your gay male, friend does he have to?
• 48:10
  Speaker 2: Pay, no he's one of the. Girls, yo he's one
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: of the.
• 48:15
  Speaker 6: Girls he's one of the girls with.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: Him this math is this is. Crazy is one of the.
• 48:24
  Speaker 7: Girls, sorry it's cooked the.
• 48:28
  Speaker 3: Rules it's cooked being the. Rules it's cooked these the.
• 48:31
  Speaker 4: Rules the interesting thing Is tahoe AND i actually participate
• 48:36
  Speaker 4: with the rules, because like you, said we would pull
• 48:38
  Speaker 4: up and WHAT i, know we also don't like the.
• 48:40
  Speaker 6: Expectations you don't you just don't you want us to
• 48:43
  Speaker 6: look like we're gonna do, it like we're gonna pay
• 48:45
  Speaker 6: for it, ourselves and as, women like we, know we
• 48:48
  Speaker 6: know that that's what y'all. Want y'all want us to pump.
• 48:50
  Speaker 6: Fake we always got a pump. Fake we're gonna we
• 48:52
  Speaker 6: all play in the same. Game i'm gonna definitely pump
• 48:55
  Speaker 6: fake like the. Bill come all righty, y'all So i'll
• 48:57
  Speaker 6: put it on my car And i'll go over like, no, no, NO
• 48:59
  Speaker 6: i got.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: OKAY i was waiting for y'all.
• 49:01
  Speaker 4: Better wait for. THAT i got. It don't assume, yeah because.
• 49:04
  Speaker 6: That's just it's already assumed in the in the Mind
• 49:06
  Speaker 6: i'm telling you what's in the mind out.
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: Loud i've give him about three different type of.
• 49:11
  Speaker 5: Niggas all three of these niggas gotta pay the, man
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: the male, friend the gay. Friend how are you making?
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: This are you aligned with this as? Well the gay friend?
• 49:22
  Speaker 2: Doesn't, no my.
• 49:24
  Speaker 6: Gay, well my gay friends have, paid but they wasn't
• 49:27
  Speaker 6: necessarily like because we thinking they one of the one of.
• 49:32
  Speaker 6: Us now WHEN i go, out like with one of
• 49:34
  Speaker 6: my male friends and it's just, US i don't. Pay
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: is that like the men in my in my friend,
• 49:39
  Speaker 6: group we all we all split it with. Them but
• 49:43
  Speaker 6: When i'm one on one with my male, friends they
• 49:45
  Speaker 6: don't let me do.
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: That they just.
• 49:47
  Speaker 6: Don't that's not only going even going out with. Them
• 49:50
  Speaker 6: i'm not expecting them, to but they. Do they always.
• 49:53
  Speaker 5: Do are you do you feel a way if your
• 49:56
  Speaker 5: man goes out with his homegirls and he pays for, them.
• 50:00
  Speaker 2: Do you feel?
• 50:01
  Speaker 5: Away CAN i speak to excuse? Me do you feel
• 50:07
  Speaker 5: away if your man has a girl a friend group
• 50:10
  Speaker 5: with mad girls in it and he pays for them
• 50:13
  Speaker 5: when they go.
• 50:13
  Speaker 6: Out, no not as long as it don't affect the.
• 50:16
  Speaker 6: Household Pay go. Ahead that was dipping in long as our.
• 50:22
  Speaker 6: Bills the billing is like you not dipping into you
• 50:24
  Speaker 6: paying for bitches drinks and we got a bill do
• 50:27
  Speaker 6: or something like it can't be, that BUT i don't.
• 50:30
  Speaker 2: Care go, ahead pay for your, girl your female. Friends go.
• 50:32
  Speaker 3: AHEAD i feel like my girl's not going for that.
• 50:33
  Speaker 6: EITHER i don't run a tight ship at, all But
• 50:36
  Speaker 6: i'm trying to see a scenario on which my nigga
• 50:38
  Speaker 6: is out with a bunch of, Bitches like where y'all going.
• 50:44
  Speaker 2: A tight?
• 50:44
  Speaker 5: Ship i'm trying to think about it like that you did,
• 50:47
  Speaker 5: That thank, You thank.
• 50:48
  Speaker 3: YOU i really appreciate Because i'm telling you my girl's
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: not going for.
• 50:50
  Speaker 7: That BUT i think this is you just, yo that's
• 50:55
  Speaker 7: WHAT i.
• 50:55
  Speaker 3: Said that's WHAT i, said like when.
• 50:56
  Speaker 7: Your, Girl like when your girl is calling you to
• 50:58
  Speaker 7: the spot and you're, Like i'm a pay for all your,
• 51:00
  Speaker 7: Friends it's like whoa.
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: World could have? Been like a, friend one, friend two
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: friends is one? Thing, yeah but THEN i, know but like, groups.
• 51:10
  Speaker 5: She would never feel the way IF i paid for.
• 51:12
  Speaker 5: Dog we've done this time never thinking about.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: IT i feel the same. Way you're just out gallivant
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: a group of. Crazy it's just. Crazy you just.
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: But there are groups of women with groups with male,
• 51:25
  Speaker 3: friends and they don't think.
• 51:27
  Speaker 2: Of one versus like, seven like you just the.
• 51:31
  Speaker 16: Tab for like most of my adult, YEARS i had
• 51:34
  Speaker 16: a lot of female friends and they almost one time
• 51:37
  Speaker 16: and we'd all go out or, like, YEAH i corders every.
• 51:41
  Speaker 4: TIME i kind of what, YESTERDAY i don't.
• 51:45
  Speaker 7: KNOW i don't know what the hell was THAT i held,
• 51:49
  Speaker 7: it BUT i heard.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: IT i heard the.
• 51:54
  Speaker 4: Stories i'm SORRY i couldn't help but, think.
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: You, know what is that scenario? Though i'm just really.
• 52:00
  Speaker 5: Think about we have a social circle most times in
• 52:04
  Speaker 5: when you're, out you'd rather be around a bunch of
• 52:06
  Speaker 5: chicks than. Niggas you've seen them being in and out of.
• 52:10
  Speaker 5: Relationships whatever y'all are friends is. Nothing these just shit
• 52:14
  Speaker 5: you're in In New york or in the crowd That
• 52:18
  Speaker 5: i've come up. In, yes there's ten, girls maybe. More,
• 52:24
  Speaker 5: yeah because they sometimes one girl comes and the other one.
• 52:27
  Speaker 5: Doesn't the next time that one that did, come she
• 52:29
  Speaker 5: stays home and the other one comes with her. Friends
• 52:32
  Speaker 5: you know all of these. Girls you're just out with.
• 52:34
  Speaker 5: Girls that's WHY i said eight.
• 52:36
  Speaker 2: Girls.
• 52:37
  Speaker 6: Yeah, NO i think my experience has always been the
• 52:40
  Speaker 6: inverse of. That Like i'm always the only, girl AND
• 52:44
  Speaker 6: i think that that's where maybe that's where my entitlement comes,
• 52:46
  Speaker 6: from because like even thinking about like my outside, time
• 52:50
  Speaker 6: my twenties and stuff like, that it was always two three,
• 52:52
  Speaker 6: girls mad as, madmen AND i. DON'T i don't hang
• 52:58
  Speaker 6: out with a lot of, girls like not many times
• 53:00
  Speaker 6: you want to catch.
• 53:01
  Speaker 2: Me with more than four? Girls like?
• 53:03
  Speaker 6: Eight, OH i have an attitude. ALREADY i have an attitude.
• 53:08
  Speaker 3: Already too many, personalities.
• 53:11
  Speaker 2: Too many, personalities too, much too much, ship.
• 53:14
  Speaker 6: Like too many decision makers or Non you know how
• 53:19
  Speaker 6: hard it is for women just to figure, out like
• 53:21
  Speaker 6: what the fuck you want to? Eat AND i got
• 53:22
  Speaker 6: to deal with that times. EIGHT i don't even like
• 53:25
  Speaker 6: girl trips with too many. BITCHES i be. Irritated mm, hmm,
• 53:29
  Speaker 6: no thank, you damn.
• 53:33
  Speaker 5: Yesterday how are you feeling about? This we haven't ever
• 53:35
  Speaker 5: really tapped in with you about this. Convo this shit is.
• 53:39
  Speaker 7: FUNNY i Just i'm really trying to say why the
• 53:41
  Speaker 7: gay guys don't have to pay.
• 53:42
  Speaker 3: Too i'm really trying to, understand like what happened to.
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: The science be one of the girls.
• 53:50
  Speaker 4: You know who secretly be winning the gay dudes that
• 53:52
  Speaker 4: be on the load be knocking down chicks, too because
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: they'd be out, there but they but they still get
• 53:57
  Speaker 4: the homegirl treatment if you are.
• 54:01
  Speaker 6: Flamboyant but if you're like, trade, nah you. Don't you
• 54:06
  Speaker 6: don't get, that you're a.
• 54:07
  Speaker 2: Nigga. Trade everybody uses it so different.
• 54:16
  Speaker 6: If that was the, case, said it's just how you present.
• 54:20
  Speaker 6: Like you don't present as a. Flamboyant, yeah homosexual, man
• 54:23
  Speaker 6: you present masculine. Presented it's called trade trade the. Table, yeah,
• 54:30
  Speaker 6: yeah you don't have like the mannerisms like you're not you're.
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: Not you don't you're not doing.
• 54:36
  Speaker 6: THIS i know that's gay boyant.
• 54:41
  Speaker 2: Exactly that's my cousin is not. Trade my cousin is.
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: NOT i don't know what you're.
• 54:47
  Speaker 6: Doing if a gay man was in the room and
• 54:49
  Speaker 6: they would they would identify him as, trade that's.
• 54:53
  Speaker 4: True but he would only be trade if he was.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: Good, yes say. That, no.
• 55:00
  Speaker 6: It could be, trade like that's just you don't have
• 55:02
  Speaker 6: to be getting this is what.
• 55:05
  Speaker 4: Man, yeah so that's just a term for a masculine.
• 55:08
  Speaker 6: Presenting, yes, yes in in the the gay that terminal.
• 55:12
  Speaker 2: Terminology so that don't mean you are you know.
• 55:16
  Speaker 3: All, right, Fine i'm not doing this, Again, BRO i don't,
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: know you know what. Happened they must be.
• 55:24
  Speaker 6: Trading, no like you, like if it was a gay guy,
• 55:27
  Speaker 6: here you leave like.
• 55:27
  Speaker 2: Girl trade was in. There it was some trade in.
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: There it.
• 55:31
  Speaker 6: Was but so we're just saying it was a guy
• 55:33
  Speaker 6: that's that looks masculine and he's just not a flamboyant looking.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: Guy, yeah like a little like a little, tang a
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: little fine little. Tang it's fine as long as they're
• 55:44
  Speaker 2: not calling you. Ugly be happy they mentioned you exactly
• 55:46
  Speaker 2: because you're talking about.
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: Cold, right we only got about seven minutes. Left, right.
• 55:55
  Speaker 5: This stopped snitching thing, right snitching with the male and
• 56:00
  Speaker 5: the codes with the trade. CODES i saw an interview
• 56:05
  Speaker 5: With VLAD, tv And i'm gonna play it because it's
• 56:10
  Speaker 5: actually quite. Ridiculous but then it leads into a real
• 56:13
  Speaker 5: situation that's going on right, now AND i just want
• 56:15
  Speaker 5: to hear your opinion on it before we. Exit, right
• 56:18
  Speaker 5: where's the phone, At? Nigga AND i did not expect
• 56:23
  Speaker 5: this to happen where there would be a real situation
• 56:26
  Speaker 5: that comes up out of.
• 56:27
  Speaker 17: This we check it, out so there's no situation where
• 56:30
  Speaker 17: you would. Stitch, No carl none at. All, okay let
• 56:36
  Speaker 17: me ask you a. Question we leave out of, Here,
• 56:40
  Speaker 17: yeah and we jump.
• 56:41
  Speaker 3: In my car.
• 56:41
  Speaker 2: Together.
• 56:42
  Speaker 17: Yeah we get pulled over and they find my, car all.
• 56:47
  Speaker 3: Right AND i, SAID i don't know whose it?
• 56:49
  Speaker 17: Is you, Though, Smie, yeah and you, Don't, smie you
• 56:52
  Speaker 17: don't you don't you Bring?
• 56:54
  Speaker 3: Yeah AND i, SAID i don't know whose it.
• 56:56
  Speaker 4: Is.
• 56:57
  Speaker 17: Yeah would you say that's? BLAD i would never tell on. You,
• 57:01
  Speaker 17: kelly both going to. Jail we're both going to. Jail
• 57:04
  Speaker 17: so you go to jail Because i'm not taking responsibility
• 57:09
  Speaker 17: for street street.
• 57:10
  Speaker 18: Code of my morning life to the DAY i.
• 57:13
  Speaker 2: Die it's to.
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: Stand on siousness through fifty fifth straight the rest of my.
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: Lists we're both going to.
• 57:19
  Speaker 3: Jail wive.
• 57:21
  Speaker 4: You we're going.
• 57:22
  Speaker 17: Back there is a serial kid to be next to,
• 57:25
  Speaker 17: you and you know that he just?
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: Kid would you call the? Police Artimt?
• 57:29
  Speaker 13: Never, really that's a serial. K, never there's no, form
• 57:36
  Speaker 13: just a snitch ever in. Life, okay you can't come
• 57:41
  Speaker 13: cap from it matter get home by crying their. GRAVE
• 57:47
  Speaker 13: i never want. That jesus put some ether on. Yours,
• 57:53
  Speaker 13: yeah would you tell the?
• 57:56
  Speaker 2: Cop?
• 57:57
  Speaker 3: Hell?
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: No is That? Telly? Yes on the. Cop anybody?
• 58:03
  Speaker 4: Really, yes do you realize.
• 58:07
  Speaker 3: This puts you in a disadvantage of?
• 58:08
  Speaker 18: Life you're okay with that is what it. Is come
• 58:12
  Speaker 18: stay on this crip until the damn. Gone, okay that's
• 58:15
  Speaker 18: why real so even go standing all. Sense even though
• 58:19
  Speaker 18: people told on, you would never tell on, them neighbor.
• 58:22
  Speaker 18: Crip never so you would tell someone who just told on.
• 58:25
  Speaker 18: You never once your, right you're.
• 58:27
  Speaker 19: GONE i live by streaking walls and, colds earning, stripes gang,
• 58:34
  Speaker 19: banging can your face and jail cracking, enemies, damn and,
• 58:38
  Speaker 19: also can't let you be homeboys are fair than they.
• 58:41
  Speaker 2: Prave i'm never telling.
• 58:42
  Speaker 13: Nobody i'll never bring my dead homeboy's cries or.
• 58:47
  Speaker 3: Sad you have a, daughter, RIGHT i?
• 58:51
  Speaker 17: Have, okay somebody maybe let's just say somebody your daughter
• 58:56
  Speaker 17: and you can't get To you can't get to.
• 58:59
  Speaker 2: Them you have to, cooperate cooperating with The.
• 59:02
  Speaker 8: Feds someone kidnaps your daughter and they want to ransom
• 59:05
  Speaker 8: and you have to the only way to get out
• 59:07
  Speaker 8: of this is to cooperate with The. FEDS i could
• 59:09
  Speaker 8: never your own, Daughter. DAMN i can't. Tell we'll never.
• 59:15
  Speaker 8: Snitch there's more to this gang.
• 59:18
  Speaker 17: Baggage somebody steals your car and you have to follow
• 59:22
  Speaker 17: a police report to get the insurance.
• 59:24
  Speaker 19: Money't doing you can't do it your own.
• 59:27
  Speaker 3: Car so the, wait why did he ask you about the?
• 59:31
  Speaker 3: Car the daughter, yo the niggas, said says.
• 59:36
  Speaker 5: At some, Point first of, ALL, LA i keep calling
• 59:41
  Speaker 5: y'all to the y'all or some on some real. Bullshit i'm,
• 59:46
  Speaker 5: sorry AND i know y'all gonna want to kill. Me
• 59:51
  Speaker 5: cool y'all own some bullsh this is your. Culture at
• 59:56
  Speaker 5: what point is we really gonna say, yo.
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: Y'all niggas need to be. Clear ain't that for?
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: Real?
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 3: Bro y'all don't kill Po, Nipsey uh.
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 2: Pop big.
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 3: Pop, smoke he, said what's the second nigga?
• 1:00:12
  Speaker 20: Do?
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: Uh?
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 3: Draco? Bro what are we? Doing?
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: Bro what are we?
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 3: Doing? Bro and what this is your big? Homie this not.
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: Homie oh that's not. Homie it's because you.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 5: Create and y'ah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Had there's so much
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 5: culture out there in The. West there's gotta be a
• 1:00:39
  Speaker 5: way to. Change this is. Nonsense i'm, sorry am my.
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 5: Bugging this is not. Nonsense why are you looking at
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 5: me like? That she's trying to get you trying.
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 6: To i'm actually Not i'm gonna let the internet do
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 6: it this.
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: Time i'm just going to say and agree with. YOU
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 2: i agree with.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 3: You but why you said that you're trying to get.
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 2: ME i didn't say.
• 1:00:58
  Speaker 3: That you said you're going to let the internet get
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 3: me this.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 6: Time WHY i have nothing to add to. THAT i
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 6: agree with you one hundred. Percent friend in?
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 2: Totality what AM i missing?
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 7: YESTERDAY i feel like this is a callback to what
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 7: was that last week when we were talking about the
• 1:01:20
  Speaker 7: snitching thing and we were on the side of not
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 7: telling and viehma lely not telling AND i don't know
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 7: exactly what it is Because dodge is very good at cloaking.
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 7: It but it's something. There so she's waiting like there's
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 7: something that you've stepped in and she got you. SOMEWHERE
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 7: i just don't. KNOW i just can't tell with. Nothing
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 7: she may she may think that you have.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 5: You, yes If i'm If i'm not going to tell
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 5: on my friend, first that's not, snitching that's not a snitch.
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 5: Code that's actually just. Friendship i'm not going to be
• 1:01:53
  Speaker 5: the reason That nigga's going to the death. PENALTY i
• 1:01:55
  Speaker 5: don't know if you saw That i'm not going to
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 5: be the reason That nigga's going, Definitely i'm, not, hey
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 5: and my, boy would.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 2: You don't tell? Me don't tell? Me what would you?
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 3: Tell do not tell?
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: Me why would you?
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 3: Tell would you?
• 1:02:06
  Speaker 2: Tell i'm Not i'm not going.
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 6: Down i'm not going to be no. Necessory i'm going
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 6: to be after the. Fair you already told me that
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 6: you were. ONCE i Know i'm going to what AM
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 6: i going?
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 2: LIKE i know?
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 6: WHAT i didn't say anything now because they're gonna go
• 1:02:18
  Speaker 6: through your phone workers and all that after the, fact
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 6: and they will see.
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: You called.
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 3: Question, Me, Amy you're gonna Tell.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 2: I'm TELLING i worked as A.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 6: Ceo they all tell on your best dangerous like come on,
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 6: now they ain't just all just catching them because they
• 1:02:31
  Speaker 6: called them niggas being there telling of, course that's.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: The only way he was looking at me like.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 6: THAT i Just i'm just listening to the. Message, Friend
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 6: i'm just trying to listen to the. Message you was
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 6: always talking about.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 5: This i'm talking about just the whole, ship that, sizziness
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 5: and it's just the whole.
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 6: NONSENSE i just don't understand the difference between last week
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 6: and what he said according to y'all rationale when y'all
• 1:02:53
  Speaker 6: tried to destroy, me, like oh.
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 2: My, god you're. Stitching you're Telling why would you tell
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 2: on your? Friend is not like This the different define
• 1:03:02
  Speaker 2: it from. Me snitching is.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 5: Trying to get out of a crime that you that
• 1:03:07
  Speaker 5: you did by telling on somebody else that did something.
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 2: That's not Necessarily that's not true.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 3: Because the, police you fucking you live in this.
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 5: Community you want to do your community to not have
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 5: this crime in, it and you tell on. It that's not.
• 1:03:21
  Speaker 5: Snitching i'm going to work. TOMORROW i know what these
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 5: niggas on the corner selling.
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 6: Drugs, no according to what he just, said he said
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 6: that all of that ship is.
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: Snitching he just said that said he's.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 6: Nonsense but What i'm saying is, like why is what
• 1:03:35
  Speaker 6: he's saying? Nonsense but WHAT i said was. Wrong he
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 6: said that he wouldn't even tell if somebody kidnapped his.
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 6: Kid he said that he would not tell if a
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 6: serial killer just killed a child in the neighborhood and
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 6: it was his next door.
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: Neighbor he will not. Tell this niggas said got into a,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: car the serial killer.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 5: Car i'm either going to part of me we don't.
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 5: Do Say i'm either going to kill him or he's
• 1:03:58
  Speaker 5: going to. Jail i'm gonna tell if he if he's
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 5: a serial killer killing, Kids i'm either going to kill my.
• 1:04:03
  Speaker 5: Friend i'm, sorry, Bro i'm, sorry or he's going to.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: President but if he mistakenly hit somebody with a, car
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 5: mistakingly hit somebody with a, car AND i know he's
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 5: going to.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: Die if they catch, him they're going to put him to.
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 6: Sleep they already killing somebody else that, NIGGA.
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 7: I said that. TRAUMATICY i literally said that last. Week,
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 7: NO i said that last. WEEK i, SAID i they
• 1:04:36
  Speaker 7: throw somebody else in. Jail that means that they're not
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 7: doing their. Job why AM i helping them do their?
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 4: Job SO i think that the problem in this video
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 4: is he broad in the definition of, snitching like, said
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 4: all of that ship ain't. Snitching all of that ship
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 4: he talking. About so you're just saying you don't want
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 4: to relate with anything that has to do with law.
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 4: Enforcement you don't want to give them any information regarded
• 1:04:57
  Speaker 4: that's not the same the. Snitching like To talas points
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 4: snitching as if we're doing. Crimes we are in the
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 4: criminal life. Together And i'm not going to take no
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 4: responsibility for What i'm. Doing that's different than if you're a.
• 1:05:09
  Speaker 6: Civilian because last week WHEN i Said i'm a civilian
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 6: and y'all all, said so you?
• 1:05:14
  Speaker 2: Snitching so you?
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: Snitching oh, yeah MAYBE i? Did y'all?
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 6: DID i literally said on this, COUCH i was, Like
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 6: i'm a, civilian what do y'all? Mean and you're, like, oh, so,
• 1:05:23
  Speaker 6: y'all so you're gonna. Snitch so you're gonna. Snitch so
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 6: why was it?
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 5: DIFFERENT i actually never said. THAT i, said you're telling
• 1:05:29
  Speaker 5: on your best, friends.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: And then it's.
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 5: Police it's not about telling the. Police, NO i never said.
• 1:05:35
  Speaker 5: That IF i, did then Ship i'm absolutely. Wrong IF
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 5: i said, THAT i, believe maybe not believe you're telling
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 5: on your best.
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 4: Friend you're calling the, HOTLINE i got some info for your,
• 1:05:46
  Speaker 4: Game like were you volunteering? Information?
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 6: Like the funny thing is the funniest thing is ALL
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 6: i said was why would you put me in that?
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 6: Position you forced me to be in a position WHEN
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 6: i have to do. SOMETHING i, SAID i said right
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 6: there yesterday called me a.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: Snitch you called me a. Snitch y'all did call it, back? Y'all?
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 6: All it was it was a it was a brigade of,
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 6: snitch and then it was like, snitching and.
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: THEN i said the. Clippers there after.
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 6: Y'all, y'all y'all berated snitching into, me AND i didn't
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 6: even say WHAT i would. Do ALL i said, was
• 1:06:28
  Speaker 6: you are putting me in a position THAT i have
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: to do. Something and then it was just like, Boom
• 1:06:33
  Speaker 6: so you snitching on your. Friend y'all just attacked me
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 6: with snitching to the point THAT i, said, yeah.
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 5: YEAH i, said you're telling on Your my point is
• 1:06:42
  Speaker 5: more me telling on my best. Friend it's about. Loyalty
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 5: it's about my best friend coming to me with something
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 5: heavy on.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 2: Their heart.
• 1:06:52
  Speaker 5: And THEN i take it and, say, well don't put
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 5: that on, me and then call the police and lock them,
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 5: up and they go to.
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 2: This beyond heavy on it. That let me tell your,
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 2: mom is it you're talking about?
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 6: Loyalty you're not loyal to me that you can put
• 1:07:06
  Speaker 6: me in a position like, that because now you're doing
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 6: something that could ruin my. Life you ain't care about.
• 1:07:09
  Speaker 6: Me why you ain't just keep it to, yourself but
• 1:07:11
  Speaker 6: turn yourself into. Something keep it to.
• 1:07:15
  Speaker 2: Yourself wait are?
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 5: You because BECAUSE i don't know if y'all, understand MAYBE
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 5: i don't have the you're you was A. Ceo MAYBE
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 5: i don't understand the court the justice. System, right you're telling.
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 5: Me IF i knew that you hit somebody with a
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 5: car AND i don't, Tell i'm going to. Jail, yes
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 5: you've seen, this That's i'm going to.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 3: Jail, yes that's not.
• 1:07:36
  Speaker 2: True for a. Murder.
• 1:07:38
  Speaker 6: Okay IF i know about a murder AND i don't
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 6: tell the, authorities.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: Murder it's not you, said somebody got hitting, somebody it's not.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 5: Murder murder is actually you meant to kill. Somebody. Murder murder,
• 1:07:59
  Speaker 5: is but once you drive off and by the, way the,
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 5: murder she's cool with the intentional, MURDER i.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: SAID i, Said i'm cool with certain types of what it.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 2: Was thank.
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 6: YOU i am, too thank, You because if it was
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 6: his self defense or something like, that then, yeah.
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 5: Real, quick before we already passed, out right real, quick
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 5: see the, problem real.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 3: Quick there's a rapper that took his baby mom of the.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 5: Court he got full custody of the, child the, baby the,
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 5: baby the baby mom AND i don't, know somebody else
• 1:08:32
  Speaker 5: show up in the middle of the night and try
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 5: he like left his kids in the car for a.
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 5: Second the rapper got. OUT i guess he went to
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 5: THE atm to get some. Money the baby mom pulls,
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 5: up opens the, car tries to take the. Baby they
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 5: get into a whole. Scuffle him and whoever else was
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 5: in the car getting to a whole. Scuffle while the
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 5: baby mom is trying to put the the baby in the,
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 5: car he stops.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 3: It people come grab the, baby whatever.
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: Whatever.
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 5: Leave the baby mother gets arrested for kidnapping and burglary
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 5: as well for opening the car whatever it may. Be
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 5: he's online saying. This the rapper is online saying.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 2: Please, open please open right one more.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 20: Time i'm not allowing y'all waiting on me to make a.
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 20: STATEMENT i just got a call from The District attern's.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 2: Office.
• 1:09:32
  Speaker 20: Man they asked me to come, in sit down and
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 20: give him a detailed statement of everything that.
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 3: HAPPENED i hung up the phone and call my.
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 21: People tell Them i'm not going down there making no
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 21: statements and shit like. That my family, say if you
• 1:09:49
  Speaker 21: don't go down there and makes statements to make sure
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 21: your children are, safe they ain't fucking with me no.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 21: More but IF i go down, there they make a,
• 1:09:59
  Speaker 21: Statement i'm a. Rat the reason they needed me to
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 21: make a statement.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 22: Is because they had to look into the paperwork as
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 22: far as custody consigns to say that she categorized for
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 22: kidnapping and due to the fact that she lost custody
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 22: AND i have full, custody it's.
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 3: Kidnapping i'm just.
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: So that's where it. Saw she does the whole video
• 1:10:26
  Speaker 2: and that was.
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 4: Smart but he just gave all the information without. Written
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 4: but he basically is writing because you're on the, internet
• 1:10:34
  Speaker 4: they'd be using the information in.
• 1:10:35
  Speaker 2: Court that is, right.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 4: Said what he needed to say already without to the
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 4: DA sa dry. Station, yeah, yeah that's what it.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 6: Is that's, Like, yeah he indirectly give up because you
• 1:10:50
  Speaker 6: could have he could have just said. Nothing he's not
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 6: obligated to tell the scenario to the, internet but he
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 6: chose to say certain details that we wouldn't have known
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 6: unless he said it so without.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 3: The.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 2: Cops, no, well my bugget what AM i?
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: Think it's?
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 15: Not?
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: This that is?
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: Nuts like, Bro, LIKE i DON'T i don't even know
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: what the argument.
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 4: Is, wait would you would?
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: You would you lock your big mother for?
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 4: That? No SO i don't understand why his family would be,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 4: Like i'm cutting you off if you don't go to
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 4: the D like even if she does go to, jail
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 4: she's going to get out at some, Point, like all,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 4: right she's a fucked up. Parent you got full, custody
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 4: get a restraining on it and all. That she don't
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 4: got to go to, Jail LIKE i don't have to
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 4: be the one to send you to, Jail LIKE i
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 4: don't think That my family would be LIKE i can't
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 4: funk with you if you don't send your baby mom
• 1:11:43
  Speaker 4: to prison or. Jail feel that so and then obviously
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 4: these are short. Clips we don't know the full. Context but,
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 4: well he got full. Custody if she.
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 6: Already tried to abduct the, kids it wouldn't. Work she
• 1:11:57
  Speaker 6: already literally tried to take THE.
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 4: I was how long is she going to jail?
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 3: For like?
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 4: Whatever if she's really that fucked up that she's gonna
• 1:12:05
  Speaker 4: come out and do it, again she's.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 2: Gonna get her maybe a little.
• 1:12:08
  Speaker 6: Bit but you don't know if for a court to
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 6: take the kids away from my, mom she had to
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 6: really be messed.
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: Up you are.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 6: Really, custody, Right so it's something that the family know
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 6: that we don't know that's in that clip.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 2: Trying to say that she should have been abused the,
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: child all of, That, like assuming she's going down, charges.
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 6: Are you trying to and you could have got you
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 6: could have killed me and the baby or. SOMETHING i don't.
• 1:12:37
  Speaker 6: Know you can have somebody try to and you say.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 4: NO i, mean, Obviously i'm not thinking about how extreme
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 4: the situation could have. Been in my. Mind i'm not
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 4: picturing all the other mess that could be going. To
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 4: What i'm thinking is the mother of my. CHILDREN i
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 4: don't necessarily want to go, jail, prison they could avoid.
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 3: It rikers for. WOMEN i get.
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 4: IT i get it either, WAY i get.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 3: It yes to, Jail i'm going down FOR i want to.
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 3: SODA i want to slice your.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 6: Kill like if she could do, that she would get you.
• 1:13:11
  Speaker 6: Killed if she's gonna come abduct and.
• 1:13:13
  Speaker 2: Do all that she's and also.
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 6: Like she don't care about your your, safety order, Kids
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 6: so why DO i care if you go to jail or?
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 5: Not AND i had to fight this other nigga while
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 5: and you're literally, killed if.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 2: Our kids could have got, killed you don't, Care so
• 1:13:28
  Speaker 2: why DO i? Care, jail don't. COLLECT i don't even.
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 4: Think about it like.
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 7: That i'm, chicken whole chicken. Dinner, YO i got, something,
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 7: SAD i got something to tell, Y'all come, on let's do.
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 7: It oh for, sure for?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 3: Sure i'm oh for sure being a ziplock IN phillyu
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: who get check it in a?
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: Bag who get chicken in the bag of jail and white? Kers?
• 1:13:52
  Speaker 2: Oh that's you know?
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 5: What it might not? Be maybe that's HOW i carried
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 5: it back to. MYSELF i think you have to put.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 5: It you go to the calf and then you it
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 5: in the little plastic.
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: Bag she worked at that you worked in the kitchen
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 2: or something.
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 3: Worked what you got going? On?
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 5: INSANE i really don't know to stop snitching, this this
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 5: snitching culture ship is kind of.
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 4: Weird.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 2: Bro i'm not telling my best.
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 5: FRIEND i want you to Stop yesterday'm not telling them
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 5: my best.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 2: Friend What, okay your first not?
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 3: Snitching, okay that's not it has nothing to do with, Snitching, okay.
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 4: Honey y'all know The Samity bull sam The bull. Story, Yes,
• 1:14:35
  Speaker 4: LIKE i THINK i wonder how the crypto will feel about,
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 4: that Because i've Read Semity bull's book when you wrote years,
• 1:14:42
  Speaker 4: ago And i'm, LIKE i kind of understand why he did.
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 4: It LIKE i, understand like, culture no sh taking old
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 4: and all of that ship was.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: Trying to kill.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 4: Me, yeah they played phone taps of got in them
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 4: plotting to Kill Samity. Bulls so he's, like, oh, Okay
• 1:15:00
  Speaker 4: i'm loyal to. Niggas that's about the murk. Me so
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 4: at what point does your loyalty? Change like you know
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 4: to THE Dj ladd, INTERVIEW i got some. Point there
• 1:15:09
  Speaker 4: gotta be some circumstance where all that's your.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 5: Guard now you gotta kill you gotta kill got. It
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 5: you can't tell on. Him you have to kill. Him
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 5: y'all are.
• 1:15:19
  Speaker 4: Gangsters but the way that should have set, up you
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 4: can't kill him without getting. Killed just just gotta you
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 4: live by this cold for all this. Time you can't
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: just be, like oh well he's gonna kill me all.
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 3: Right fuck the, cold your, RAT i get.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 5: It the idea is to catch him the same Way
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 5: sammy caught the boss and bosses going into the. Restroom
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: you got to catch him and you put him out
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 5: of his. Misery whatever contracts was out while he was
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 5: alive is. Done now you figure it out from. There
• 1:15:49
  Speaker 5: but you are a bigger gangster there than you will
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 5: Ever sammy The bull is going down as the biggest
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 5: rat in.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 6: History but he's also, alive his kids are, grown he
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 6: was allowed to see his, Kids he's allowed to like
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 6: have a different. Life like they're like there there has
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 6: to be levels to, again, Morality Like i'm really willing
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 6: to ride and die with you to a point because
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 6: when it starts getting too, much fuck me and you
• 1:16:12
  Speaker 6: okay with my kids growing up without a, dad and
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 6: you okay with my wife growing up with like living
• 1:16:17
  Speaker 6: without her, Husband like you okay with that because you
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 6: mad BECAUSE i did, Something and y'all not willing to
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 6: have a conversation with. Me you just gonna talk shit
• 1:16:24
  Speaker 6: and try to off. Me, Nigga fuck you and your
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 6: whole family and your whole. Lineage i'm taking you. Down
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 6: don't cross, me cross.
• 1:16:31
  Speaker 3: You but see that's the.
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 5: Difference well we're talking about it's two civilians versus two
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 5: street or gangster's crime. Family y'all have killed mad. People
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 5: this is your lifestyle to me that it is completely
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 5: different than two. Civilians get, it that's not snitching him
• 1:16:55
  Speaker 5: telling on his baby. Mothers that's. Snitching you just protecting
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 5: your kids and, yourself and you're putting it on paperwork
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 5: just in case you have to want to wind up
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 5: gotte a clapper and you're, like, YO i had no.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 5: CHOICE i wasn't stopping her Right, like it is what
• 1:17:11
  Speaker 5: it is versus two niggas that live by a certain
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 5: code and then when you get caught up or when
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 5: shit go wrong for you go running the police help
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 5: save me or, yo give me less time to let niggas,
• 1:17:21
  Speaker 5: out to let me out and take.
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 4: Him now that those two complete, Different so back to
• 1:17:25
  Speaker 4: my original. Point it's technically not, snitching but it's part
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 4: of the. CODE i hear street nigga just not to
• 1:17:31
  Speaker 4: talk to the. Cops don't talk TO da under any.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 4: Circumstances the. Ridiculous but, YEAH i see. That you, know
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 4: if you're, police no police content can't give them. Information
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 4: so even if it's helpful from my, FAMILY i totally
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 4: agree this Is and that's where it's, conflicting because it's
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 4: gonna help me to me if.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 5: It doesn't have nothing to do with the crimes That i'm,
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 5: Creating i'm doing like serial? Killer what or handle it right?
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 5: Right or it's my?
• 1:18:02
  Speaker 4: Daughter handle.
• 1:18:03
  Speaker 3: It if it's my, DAUGHTER i don't give a tuk
• 1:18:06
  Speaker 3: about none of this other ship this should be.
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 6: Levels there has to be, levels, right that's.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 2: All for.
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 3: Sure for, sure it has to be some type of.
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 6: There has to be a cap on, morality like what
• 1:18:16
  Speaker 6: where's the line? When where are you really willing to
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 6: draw the? Line And i'm really willing to draw the
• 1:18:22
  Speaker 6: line when my freedom is imposed because of your. Stupidity,
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 6: SORRY i have my own kids to dig.
• 1:18:27
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• 1:18:30
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• 1:18:34
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• 1:18:36
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• 1:18:40
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• 1:18:43
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• 1:18:46
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• 1:18:49
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• 1:18:52
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• 1:18:54
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• 1:18:57
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• 1:19:00
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• 1:19:05
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• 1:19:07
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• 1:19:10
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• 1:19:13
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• 1:19:19
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• 1:19:20
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• 1:19:22
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• 1:19:23
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• 1:19:23
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• 1:19:27
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• 1:19:42
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• 1:19:45
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