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- 0:00Hello.
- 0:01Hello.
- 0:01Today
- 0:02we're
- 0:02going
- 0:02to
- 0:02talk
- 0:02about
- 0:03why
- 0:03it's
- 0:03important
- 0:03to
- 0:04have
- 0:04a
- 0:04woman
- 0:04at
- 0:05the
- 0:05front
- 0:05of
- 0:05the
- 0:05room.
- 0:06Everywhere,
- 0:06really.
- 0:07Yeah.
- 0:21Welcome
- 0:21to
- 0:21Beauty
- 0:22and
- 0:22the
- 0:22gi,
- 0:22a
- 0:23podcast
- 0:23about
- 0:23Jiu
- 0:23Jitsu
- 0:24and
- 0:24so
- 0:24much
- 0:24more.
- 0:25I'm
- 0:25AJ
- 0:25Klingerman,
- 0:26a
- 0:26Brazilian
- 0:26Jiu
- 0:26Jitsu
- 0:27black
- 0:27belt
- 0:27obsessed
- 0:28with
- 0:28Jiu
- 0:28Jitsu.
- 0:29I'm.
- 0:29And
- 0:29I'm
- 0:29Jennifer
- 0:30Risser,
- 0:30also
- 0:30a
- 0:31Brazilian
- 0:31Jiu
- 0:31Jitsu
- 0:32black
- 0:32belt,
- 0:32full
- 0:32of
- 0:32nonsense
- 0:33and
- 0:33tomfoolery,
- 0:35but
- 0:35maybe
- 0:35not
- 0:35quite
- 0:36this
- 0:36week.
- 0:36I
- 0:36don't
- 0:36know
- 0:36how
- 0:36serious
- 0:37this
- 0:37one
- 0:37is.
- 0:37I
- 0:38don't
- 0:38think
- 0:38it
- 0:38has
- 0:38to
- 0:38be,
- 0:39like,
- 0:39a
- 0:39super
- 0:40heavy
- 0:40topic
- 0:41or
- 0:41anything.
- 0:42It
- 0:42kind
- 0:42of
- 0:42started,
- 0:43I'm
- 0:43gonna
- 0:43be
- 0:43honest,
- 0:44with
- 0:44an
- 0:44argument.
- 0:44I
- 0:45got
- 0:46Facebook.
- 0:48One
- 0:48of
- 0:48our
- 0:48friends,
- 0:49Joanna,
- 0:49posted
- 0:50that
- 0:51a
- 0:51red
- 0:52flag
- 0:52is
- 0:53a
- 0:53man
- 0:53running
- 0:54a
- 0:54women's
- 0:54only
- 0:55class
- 0:55at
- 0:55your
- 0:55Jiu
- 0:55Jitsu
- 0:56gym.
- 0:56I
- 0:57was
- 0:57not
- 0:57arguing
- 0:57with
- 0:57her.
- 0:58I
- 0:58was
- 0:58arguing
- 0:59with
- 0:59one
- 0:59of
- 0:59the
- 1:00men
- 1:00in
- 1:00the
- 1:00comments.
- 1:01What
- 1:01was
- 1:02really
- 1:02funny
- 1:02about
- 1:02it,
- 1:03not
- 1:03funny,
- 1:03but,
- 1:04you
- 1:04know,
- 1:04I
- 1:05guess
- 1:05also
- 1:05not
- 1:05surprising
- 1:06is
- 1:06that
- 1:07all
- 1:07of
- 1:07the
- 1:07women
- 1:07in
- 1:07the
- 1:07comments
- 1:08were
- 1:08like,
- 1:08yes,
- 1:09absolutely,
- 1:09100%
- 1:10blah,
- 1:10blah.
- 1:11And
- 1:11the
- 1:12couple
- 1:12men
- 1:12in
- 1:12the
- 1:13comments
- 1:13were
- 1:14triggered.
- 1:15Triggered.
- 1:16They
- 1:16were
- 1:16triggered.
- 1:17They
- 1:17were
- 1:17arguing
- 1:17about
- 1:17it.
- 1:18Well,
- 1:18they're
- 1:18teaching
- 1:18women's
- 1:19only
- 1:19classes.
- 1:20Yeah,
- 1:20yeah.
- 1:21And
- 1:21the
- 1:21one
- 1:22guy
- 1:22specifically
- 1:22was
- 1:23very
- 1:23much
- 1:23like,
- 1:24I'm
- 1:24not
- 1:25a
- 1:25creep.
- 1:25I'm
- 1:25a
- 1:26good
- 1:26guy.
- 1:26I
- 1:27have
- 1:27a
- 1:27wife
- 1:27and
- 1:27daughter.
- 1:28You
- 1:28know,
- 1:29I
- 1:29would
- 1:29never
- 1:29do
- 1:29anything
- 1:30like
- 1:30that,
- 1:31so
- 1:32why
- 1:33is
- 1:33it
- 1:33that
- 1:33I
- 1:34can't
- 1:34run
- 1:35our
- 1:35women's
- 1:35only
- 1:35class?
- 1:36First
- 1:36of
- 1:36all,
- 1:36lots
- 1:36of
- 1:37creeps
- 1:37have
- 1:37a
- 1:37wife
- 1:37and
- 1:37a
- 1:38daughter.
- 1:38Yeah.
- 1:39Yeah.
- 1:39And
- 1:40how
- 1:40many
- 1:40times
- 1:40do
- 1:41women
- 1:42say,
- 1:42or
- 1:42anyone
- 1:43say,
- 1:44you
- 1:44know,
- 1:44well,
- 1:45I
- 1:45didn't
- 1:45expect
- 1:45it
- 1:46to
- 1:46be
- 1:46him
- 1:46or,
- 1:47you
- 1:47know,
- 1:47he
- 1:48seems
- 1:48like
- 1:48such
- 1:48a
- 1:48nice
- 1:49guy.
- 1:50You
- 1:50know,
- 1:51it
- 1:51happens
- 1:51a
- 1:51lot.
- 1:52I
- 1:52mean,
- 1:53learned
- 1:54a
- 1:54lot
- 1:54and
- 1:54grown
- 1:54a
- 1:54lot.
- 1:54But
- 1:55this
- 1:55is
- 1:55a
- 1:55hard
- 1:56thing.
- 1:56You
- 1:56know,
- 1:56this
- 1:56is
- 1:57a
- 1:57really
- 1:57complex
- 1:57topic.
- 1:58You
- 1:58know,
- 1:59we've
- 1:59been
- 1:59on
- 2:00sort
- 2:00of
- 2:01both
- 2:01sides
- 2:02of
- 2:02it
- 2:02in
- 2:02a
- 2:02sense.
- 2:03You
- 2:03know,
- 2:03not
- 2:03necessarily
- 2:04the
- 2:04man
- 2:04at
- 2:04the
- 2:04front
- 2:04of
- 2:04the
- 2:04room
- 2:05situation,
- 2:05but,
- 2:05you
- 2:06know,
- 2:06having
- 2:06men
- 2:07who
- 2:07we
- 2:07thought
- 2:07were
- 2:08nice
- 2:08guys,
- 2:08not
- 2:09actually
- 2:09be
- 2:09nice
- 2:10guys.
- 2:10Yep.
- 2:11The
- 2:11thing
- 2:11about
- 2:11the
- 2:11loaded
- 2:12gun
- 2:12is
- 2:12something
- 2:12that
- 2:12you
- 2:13mentioned
- 2:13that
- 2:13I
- 2:13think
- 2:13is,
- 2:14like,
- 2:14really
- 2:14relevant.
- 2:15Yeah.
- 2:15Yeah.
- 2:16So
- 2:16I
- 2:16heard
- 2:16it
- 2:17basically
- 2:17as,
- 2:18you
- 2:18know,
- 2:19the
- 2:19concept
- 2:19that
- 2:20you
- 2:20should
- 2:20treat
- 2:20every
- 2:21gun
- 2:21as
- 2:21if
- 2:22it's
- 2:22loaded,
- 2:22Even
- 2:23if
- 2:23you're
- 2:23100%
- 2:24sure
- 2:24it
- 2:24is
- 2:24not
- 2:25loaded.
- 2:25You
- 2:25treat
- 2:25it
- 2:26like
- 2:26it
- 2:26is.
- 2:27You
- 2:27don't
- 2:27point
- 2:27it
- 2:28at
- 2:28people.
- 2:28You
- 2:29don't
- 2:29pull
- 2:29the
- 2:29trigger
- 2:30in
- 2:30someone's
- 2:30direction.
- 2:31You.
- 2:31You
- 2:31treat
- 2:32it
- 2:32as
- 2:32if
- 2:32It's
- 2:32a
- 2:32loaded
- 2:33gun.
- 2:33And
- 2:34I
- 2:34heard
- 2:34that
- 2:34in
- 2:35reference
- 2:35to
- 2:36how
- 2:36women
- 2:36kind
- 2:37of
- 2:37handle
- 2:38men,
- 2:38and
- 2:39that
- 2:39is,
- 2:39you
- 2:39know,
- 2:40we
- 2:40treat
- 2:40them
- 2:41like
- 2:41they're
- 2:41a
- 2:41loaded
- 2:41gun,
- 2:42even
- 2:42if
- 2:42we
- 2:43know
- 2:44that
- 2:44they're
- 2:44a
- 2:44good
- 2:44guy
- 2:45and
- 2:45they
- 2:45wouldn't
- 2:45do
- 2:46anything.
- 2:47Never.
- 2:47A
- 2:48hundred
- 2:48percent
- 2:48know
- 2:48that.
- 2:49Agreed.
- 2:50You
- 2:50know,
- 2:50I
- 2:50think
- 2:51Marcel
- 2:51Gonzalez
- 2:52is
- 2:52a
- 2:52great
- 2:53example
- 2:53of.
- 2:54He
- 2:54was
- 2:55arrested
- 2:55several
- 2:56years
- 2:56ago
- 2:56for
- 2:57having
- 2:57an
- 2:58inappropriate
- 2:58relationship
- 2:59with
- 2:59a
- 3:0014
- 3:00year
- 3:00old
- 3:01student
- 3:01of
- 3:01his,
- 3:02that
- 3:02he
- 3:03was
- 3:03taking
- 3:03her
- 3:04to
- 3:05tournaments
- 3:05across
- 3:06the
- 3:06state
- 3:06and
- 3:06that
- 3:06kind
- 3:07of
- 3:07stuff.
- 3:07And
- 3:08I
- 3:08knew
- 3:08that
- 3:08guy,
- 3:09that
- 3:09man
- 3:09stayed
- 3:10in
- 3:10my
- 3:10house,
- 3:10I
- 3:11stayed
- 3:11in
- 3:11his
- 3:11house.
- 3:12Like
- 3:12he
- 3:13had
- 3:13a
- 3:13wife
- 3:13and
- 3:14a
- 3:14kid.
- 3:14And
- 3:15I,
- 3:15you
- 3:16know,
- 3:16when
- 3:16I
- 3:16first
- 3:16heard
- 3:17about
- 3:17it,
- 3:17when
- 3:17people
- 3:17first
- 3:17contacted
- 3:18us,
- 3:18I
- 3:19had
- 3:19the
- 3:19moment
- 3:19of
- 3:19like,
- 3:20no
- 3:20way.
- 3:20Like,
- 3:21I.
- 3:22No
- 3:22way.
- 3:22That's
- 3:23wild.
- 3:24But
- 3:24immediately
- 3:25was
- 3:25like,
- 3:25okay,
- 3:26yeah,
- 3:26that's.
- 3:26He
- 3:27did
- 3:27it
- 3:27and
- 3:28he
- 3:28needs
- 3:28to
- 3:29suffer
- 3:29the
- 3:29consequences
- 3:30for
- 3:30that.
- 3:31But,
- 3:31you
- 3:31know,
- 3:31there's
- 3:31always
- 3:32these
- 3:32moments
- 3:32where
- 3:32people
- 3:33are
- 3:33like,
- 3:33not
- 3:33that
- 3:34guy.
- 3:35Yeah,
- 3:35it
- 3:35could
- 3:36also
- 3:36be
- 3:36that
- 3:36guy.
- 3:37Yeah,
- 3:37I
- 3:37mean,
- 3:38it's
- 3:39more
- 3:39people
- 3:39than
- 3:39we
- 3:39think.
- 3:40It's
- 3:40more
- 3:40men
- 3:40than
- 3:40we
- 3:40think.
- 3:41You
- 3:41know,
- 3:42this
- 3:42is
- 3:42anecdotal,
- 3:43but
- 3:43recently
- 3:44we
- 3:45had
- 3:45a
- 3:45woman
- 3:45attend
- 3:46our
- 3:46judo
- 3:46class
- 3:47couple
- 3:47months
- 3:48ago,
- 3:48who
- 3:48had
- 3:48never
- 3:48done
- 3:49judo
- 3:49before,
- 3:49but
- 3:49she
- 3:50had
- 3:50been
- 3:50doing
- 3:50jiu
- 3:50jitsu
- 3:51with
- 3:51us.
- 3:51Now,
- 3:51we
- 3:51knew
- 3:52that
- 3:52she
- 3:52had
- 3:52a
- 3:52difficult
- 3:53past.
- 3:53She's
- 3:53been
- 3:54through
- 3:54some
- 3:54things
- 3:55that
- 3:55can
- 3:55be
- 3:55really
- 3:56triggering
- 3:56for
- 3:57her
- 3:57in
- 3:57the
- 3:57jiu
- 3:57jitsu
- 3:58setting.
- 3:58So,
- 3:59you
- 3:59know,
- 3:59I
- 3:59think
- 3:59we'd
- 4:00been
- 4:00trying
- 4:00to
- 4:00be
- 4:00really
- 4:01careful
- 4:01telling
- 4:01her
- 4:01that
- 4:02consent
- 4:02matters.
- 4:02She
- 4:03can
- 4:03opt
- 4:03out
- 4:03of
- 4:03anything,
- 4:04you
- 4:04know,
- 4:04but
- 4:04she
- 4:04went
- 4:04to
- 4:05that
- 4:05judo
- 4:05class.
- 4:06There's
- 4:06more
- 4:06men
- 4:07around.
- 4:07It's
- 4:07a
- 4:07male
- 4:08dominated
- 4:08class,
- 4:09and
- 4:09the
- 4:10male
- 4:11instructor
- 4:11worked
- 4:12with
- 4:12her.
- 4:12You
- 4:13know,
- 4:13the
- 4:13male
- 4:13instructor
- 4:13did
- 4:14not
- 4:14do
- 4:14absolutely
- 4:14anything
- 4:15wrong
- 4:15in
- 4:15this
- 4:15context,
- 4:16other
- 4:16than
- 4:16his
- 4:17response
- 4:17to
- 4:17what
- 4:17happened.
- 4:18But
- 4:18in
- 4:18the
- 4:18moment,
- 4:19he
- 4:19was
- 4:19just
- 4:20teaching
- 4:20her
- 4:20some
- 4:20new
- 4:20stuff.
- 4:21Right.
- 4:21It's
- 4:21typical
- 4:22that
- 4:22the
- 4:22black
- 4:22belt
- 4:23is
- 4:23gonna,
- 4:23you
- 4:23know,
- 4:23work
- 4:23with
- 4:24the
- 4:24newer
- 4:24students.
- 4:25That's
- 4:25gonna
- 4:26happen
- 4:26sometimes.
- 4:27But
- 4:27for
- 4:27her,
- 4:28it
- 4:28was
- 4:29a
- 4:29large
- 4:29man
- 4:30with
- 4:30his
- 4:30arms
- 4:30around
- 4:31her,
- 4:31behind
- 4:31her,
- 4:32and
- 4:32it
- 4:33really
- 4:33triggered
- 4:33her
- 4:34into
- 4:34a
- 4:35panic
- 4:35attack.
- 4:36And
- 4:36so
- 4:37I
- 4:37don't
- 4:37think
- 4:37that
- 4:37men
- 4:38really
- 4:38appreciate
- 4:38or
- 4:39recognize
- 4:39how
- 4:39hard
- 4:40it
- 4:40is
- 4:40for
- 4:40women
- 4:40to
- 4:41enter
- 4:41spaces
- 4:41like
- 4:42this
- 4:42that
- 4:42are
- 4:43so
- 4:43male
- 4:43dominated.
- 4:44It
- 4:45takes
- 4:45a
- 4:45lot,
- 4:45takes
- 4:45a
- 4:46lot
- 4:46of
- 4:46courage.
- 4:46Takes
- 4:47a
- 4:47lot,
- 4:47takes
- 4:47to
- 4:48get
- 4:48us
- 4:48in
- 4:48the
- 4:48door
- 4:48in
- 4:49the
- 4:49first
- 4:49place.
- 4:50And
- 4:51we
- 4:51need
- 4:51women's
- 4:52only
- 4:52spaces.
- 4:53We
- 4:53just
- 4:54do.
- 4:54You
- 4:54know,
- 4:54we've
- 4:55had
- 4:55moments
- 4:55at
- 4:55our
- 4:56gym
- 4:56where
- 4:56we've
- 4:56thought,
- 4:56you
- 4:56know,
- 4:57all
- 4:57our
- 4:58guys
- 4:58are
- 4:58really
- 4:58Good.
- 4:58We've
- 4:59really
- 4:59weeded
- 4:59out
- 4:59the
- 5:00guys
- 5:00that
- 5:00are
- 5:00not
- 5:00good.
- 5:01You
- 5:01know,
- 5:02do
- 5:02we
- 5:03really
- 5:03need
- 5:03a
- 5:03women's
- 5:03only
- 5:04class?
- 5:04And
- 5:04the
- 5:04answer
- 5:04is
- 5:05always
- 5:05yes,
- 5:05because
- 5:06it's
- 5:06not
- 5:07our
- 5:07decision
- 5:08about
- 5:09if
- 5:09the
- 5:09men
- 5:09are
- 5:09safe.
- 5:10Right.
- 5:10You
- 5:10know,
- 5:11you
- 5:11can
- 5:11think,
- 5:11well,
- 5:11I'm
- 5:12one
- 5:12of
- 5:12the
- 5:12good
- 5:12guys.
- 5:13You
- 5:13might
- 5:13be,
- 5:13but
- 5:14a
- 5:14woman
- 5:14off
- 5:14the
- 5:14street
- 5:14doesn't
- 5:15know
- 5:15that
- 5:15or
- 5:15feel
- 5:15safe.
- 5:16Like,
- 5:17this
- 5:17is
- 5:17about
- 5:17providing
- 5:18training
- 5:18opportunities
- 5:19for
- 5:19women
- 5:19where
- 5:19they
- 5:20can
- 5:20feel
- 5:20safe
- 5:21and
- 5:21like
- 5:21they're
- 5:22in
- 5:22a
- 5:22place
- 5:23where
- 5:23they're
- 5:23building
- 5:23their
- 5:24own
- 5:24strength
- 5:24and
- 5:25resilience
- 5:25and
- 5:26finding
- 5:26their
- 5:26own
- 5:26power,
- 5:27especially
- 5:27for
- 5:28women
- 5:28who
- 5:28have
- 5:28been
- 5:29assaulted
- 5:29in
- 5:29some
- 5:29capacity.
- 5:30Yeah.
- 5:31So
- 5:31this
- 5:31isn't
- 5:32an
- 5:32anti
- 5:32man
- 5:32podcast
- 5:33at
- 5:33all.
- 5:34This
- 5:34is
- 5:34not
- 5:34meant
- 5:34to
- 5:35be.
- 5:35Like,
- 5:36the
- 5:36men
- 5:36can't
- 5:36be
- 5:36in
- 5:37the
- 5:37front
- 5:37of
- 5:37the
- 5:37room
- 5:37because
- 5:38they're
- 5:38all
- 5:38creeps.
- 5:39That's
- 5:39not
- 5:39what
- 5:39we're
- 5:39saying.
- 5:40But
- 5:40as
- 5:41a
- 5:41woman,
- 5:41you
- 5:41never
- 5:42know
- 5:42which
- 5:42one
- 5:42is.
- 5:43And
- 5:44so
- 5:44when
- 5:44you
- 5:44come
- 5:45in
- 5:45as
- 5:45a
- 5:45new
- 5:45person,
- 5:46if
- 5:46there's
- 5:47a
- 5:47man
- 5:47at
- 5:47the
- 5:48front
- 5:48of
- 5:48the
- 5:48room,
- 5:49it
- 5:49can
- 5:49take
- 5:50away
- 5:50some
- 5:50of
- 5:51that
- 5:51comfort.
- 5:51Yeah.
- 5:52And
- 5:52that's
- 5:52not
- 5:52everybody.
- 5:53Right.
- 5:53There
- 5:53are
- 5:53going
- 5:53to
- 5:53be
- 5:53tons
- 5:54of
- 5:54women
- 5:54that
- 5:54are
- 5:54comfortable,
- 5:55no
- 5:55matter
- 5:55who's
- 5:55at
- 5:55the
- 5:55front
- 5:55of
- 5:55the
- 5:56room
- 5:56or
- 5:56who
- 5:56their
- 5:56training
- 5:56partners
- 5:57are.
- 5:57But
- 5:58the
- 5:58topic
- 5:58specifically,
- 5:59I
- 5:59don't
- 5:59know
- 5:59if
- 5:59we
- 5:59said
- 5:59this,
- 6:00but
- 6:00the
- 6:00topic
- 6:00specifically
- 6:01was
- 6:02basically
- 6:03men
- 6:03cashing
- 6:04in
- 6:04on
- 6:05providing
- 6:05women's
- 6:06only
- 6:06classes.
- 6:07And
- 6:07they're
- 6:07running
- 6:08the
- 6:08women's
- 6:08only
- 6:08classes.
- 6:09It's
- 6:09cashing
- 6:10in
- 6:10on
- 6:10the
- 6:10need
- 6:11for
- 6:12safe
- 6:12spaces
- 6:12for
- 6:12women
- 6:13without
- 6:13actually
- 6:13providing
- 6:14a
- 6:14safe
- 6:14space
- 6:14for
- 6:15women.
- 6:15And
- 6:16so
- 6:16that's
- 6:16a
- 6:16very
- 6:16specific
- 6:17thing.
- 6:17Yep.
- 6:18Right.
- 6:18And
- 6:18so
- 6:18it
- 6:19kind
- 6:19of
- 6:19gets
- 6:19down
- 6:19to
- 6:20your
- 6:20why.
- 6:21Like,
- 6:21is
- 6:21your
- 6:22why
- 6:22just
- 6:22because
- 6:23it's
- 6:23another
- 6:23class
- 6:24you
- 6:24think
- 6:24can,
- 6:24like,
- 6:25bring
- 6:25you
- 6:25in
- 6:26people,
- 6:26and
- 6:26that's
- 6:27why
- 6:27you
- 6:27want
- 6:28to
- 6:28do
- 6:28it.
- 6:28You
- 6:28know,
- 6:28it's
- 6:28a
- 6:28good
- 6:29marketing
- 6:29opportunity.
- 6:30Or
- 6:31is
- 6:31your
- 6:31why
- 6:31truly
- 6:32that
- 6:32you
- 6:32want
- 6:32to
- 6:33provide
- 6:33a
- 6:33safe
- 6:34space
- 6:34for
- 6:34women
- 6:34where
- 6:35they
- 6:35can
- 6:35feel
- 6:35comfortable,
- 6:36they
- 6:36can
- 6:36feel
- 6:36heard,
- 6:37and
- 6:37they
- 6:38can
- 6:38let
- 6:38their
- 6:39guard
- 6:39down
- 6:39enough
- 6:40to
- 6:40get
- 6:41into
- 6:41these
- 6:41really
- 6:42awkward
- 6:42positions
- 6:43that
- 6:43are
- 6:43jiu
- 6:44jitsu.
- 6:44Yeah.
- 6:45I
- 6:45mean,
- 6:45and
- 6:45Joanna's
- 6:46point
- 6:46was
- 6:46simply,
- 6:47put
- 6:47time
- 6:47into
- 6:48the
- 6:48women
- 6:48that
- 6:48are
- 6:48at
- 6:48your
- 6:49gym.
- 6:49Put
- 6:49enough
- 6:50time
- 6:50into
- 6:50them
- 6:50that
- 6:51they
- 6:51can
- 6:51be
- 6:51at
- 6:51the
- 6:51front
- 6:51of
- 6:52the
- 6:52room.
- 6:52You
- 6:52started
- 6:53teaching
- 6:53women's
- 6:53only
- 6:53classes
- 6:54at
- 6:54blue
- 6:54belt
- 6:54when
- 6:55you
- 6:55were
- 6:55gone.
- 6:55I
- 6:55started
- 6:56teaching
- 6:56women's
- 6:56only
- 6:56class
- 6:57at,
- 6:57like,
- 6:57three
- 6:57stripe
- 6:58white
- 6:58belt.
- 6:59Those
- 6:59women
- 6:59don't
- 7:00need
- 7:00fancy
- 7:00stuff
- 7:01that
- 7:01requires
- 7:01a
- 7:01purple
- 7:02belt
- 7:02or
- 7:02above.
- 7:03Those
- 7:03women
- 7:03can
- 7:03learn
- 7:04to
- 7:04UPA
- 7:04or
- 7:04do
- 7:05a
- 7:05scissor
- 7:05sweep
- 7:05or
- 7:06A
- 7:06guillotine.
- 7:07Right.
- 7:07Like
- 7:07they,
- 7:08they
- 7:08need
- 7:08the
- 7:08space
- 7:09more
- 7:09than
- 7:09they
- 7:09need
- 7:09the
- 7:10really
- 7:10high
- 7:10level
- 7:10technique.
- 7:11Technique.
- 7:11Right.
- 7:12Being
- 7:12in
- 7:12a
- 7:12safe
- 7:13environment
- 7:14and
- 7:14finding
- 7:15their
- 7:15strength
- 7:15or
- 7:16their
- 7:16power
- 7:16is
- 7:16what
- 7:17that's
- 7:17about.
- 7:18And
- 7:18if
- 7:18you
- 7:19can't
- 7:19listen
- 7:19to
- 7:20women
- 7:20say
- 7:21that
- 7:21to
- 7:21you,
- 7:21then
- 7:22it
- 7:22is
- 7:22about
- 7:22money,
- 7:23not
- 7:23about
- 7:24creating
- 7:24a
- 7:24safe
- 7:24space
- 7:25for
- 7:25women.
- 7:26I
- 7:26don't
- 7:26know
- 7:26how
- 7:26else
- 7:27to
- 7:27say
- 7:27it
- 7:27other
- 7:27than
- 7:28that.
- 7:28Yeah,
- 7:28yeah,
- 7:29I
- 7:29think
- 7:29you're
- 7:29right.
- 7:29I
- 7:29think
- 7:30then
- 7:30your
- 7:31reasoning
- 7:31is
- 7:31not
- 7:32the
- 7:32same
- 7:32as
- 7:32mine.
- 7:33That's
- 7:33the
- 7:33reality
- 7:34of
- 7:34it.
- 7:34And
- 7:34like,
- 7:35that
- 7:35was
- 7:35the
- 7:35purpose
- 7:35of
- 7:36the
- 7:36post.
- 7:36Yeah.
- 7:36Is
- 7:37invest
- 7:37in
- 7:38the
- 7:38women
- 7:38you
- 7:38have
- 7:38at
- 7:38your
- 7:39gym
- 7:39so
- 7:39that
- 7:39they
- 7:39can
- 7:40be
- 7:40creating
- 7:40these
- 7:41spaces.
- 7:41It
- 7:41doesn't
- 7:42need
- 7:42to
- 7:42be
- 7:42a
- 7:42black
- 7:42belt
- 7:43man
- 7:43at
- 7:43the
- 7:43front
- 7:43of
- 7:43the
- 7:44room.
- 7:44It
- 7:44doesn't
- 7:44need
- 7:44to
- 7:44be
- 7:44a
- 7:44man
- 7:45at
- 7:45the
- 7:45front
- 7:45of
- 7:45the
- 7:45room.
- 7:45Exactly.
- 7:46In
- 7:47fact,
- 7:47like,
- 7:47there
- 7:47was
- 7:48a
- 7:48local
- 7:48school
- 7:48here
- 7:49that
- 7:49was
- 7:49running
- 7:50a
- 7:50women's
- 7:50only
- 7:51class
- 7:51and
- 7:52there
- 7:52was
- 7:52a
- 7:52man
- 7:53leading
- 7:53the
- 7:53class.
- 7:54And
- 7:54we
- 7:54know
- 7:55that
- 7:55that
- 7:56man
- 7:56is
- 7:57stalker.
- 7:57Like
- 7:58he
- 7:58stalked
- 7:59his
- 7:59previous
- 7:59girlfriend.
- 8:00And
- 8:01you
- 8:01know,
- 8:01we
- 8:01saw
- 8:01all
- 8:02the
- 8:02screenshots
- 8:03and
- 8:03like
- 8:03a
- 8:04lot
- 8:04of
- 8:04the
- 8:04stuff,
- 8:04it
- 8:04was
- 8:05very
- 8:05public.
- 8:06And
- 8:06that
- 8:06man
- 8:06also
- 8:06had
- 8:07met
- 8:07that
- 8:07girl
- 8:08as
- 8:08a
- 8:08white
- 8:08belt
- 8:09at
- 8:09the
- 8:09gym.
- 8:10But,
- 8:10you
- 8:10know,
- 8:10then
- 8:10that's
- 8:11the
- 8:11man
- 8:11that's
- 8:11leading
- 8:11your
- 8:12women's
- 8:12only
- 8:12class.
- 8:13Like.
- 8:13Yeah.
- 8:13I
- 8:14mean,
- 8:14I
- 8:14don't
- 8:14know
- 8:15why
- 8:15people
- 8:16can't
- 8:16kind
- 8:16of
- 8:16look
- 8:17at
- 8:17the
- 8:17toxicity
- 8:18that's
- 8:18in
- 8:18jiu
- 8:18jitsu.
- 8:19Like
- 8:19even
- 8:19if
- 8:19you
- 8:19look
- 8:19at
- 8:20the
- 8:20Andre
- 8:20Galvo
- 8:21stuff
- 8:21that's
- 8:21been
- 8:21coming
- 8:21up
- 8:22or
- 8:22all
- 8:23the,
- 8:23the
- 8:23predecessors
- 8:24before
- 8:24that,
- 8:25you
- 8:25know,
- 8:26look
- 8:26at
- 8:26the
- 8:26big
- 8:26ones
- 8:27like
- 8:27Lloyd
- 8:27Irvin
- 8:28or
- 8:29what's
- 8:29the
- 8:29guy's
- 8:29name
- 8:30in
- 8:30Florida?
- 8:31Cyborg.
- 8:32But
- 8:32the
- 8:32reason
- 8:33he,
- 8:33you
- 8:34know,
- 8:34was
- 8:34because
- 8:34he
- 8:34tried
- 8:34to
- 8:35hide
- 8:35Marcel.
- 8:35Like.
- 8:36Yeah,
- 8:37yeah.
- 8:37I
- 8:37mean,
- 8:37so
- 8:38it
- 8:38is
- 8:39such
- 8:39a
- 8:39culture
- 8:40and,
- 8:40you
- 8:40know,
- 8:40you
- 8:41don't
- 8:41even
- 8:41have
- 8:41to.
- 8:41Okay.
- 8:42You
- 8:42know,
- 8:42you
- 8:42don't
- 8:43believe
- 8:43the
- 8:43women.
- 8:44First
- 8:44of
- 8:44all,
- 8:44that's
- 8:44a
- 8:44problem.
- 8:45You
- 8:45probably
- 8:45shouldn't
- 8:45be
- 8:45running
- 8:45a
- 8:46women's
- 8:46class.
- 8:46We
- 8:46don't
- 8:46believe
- 8:46the
- 8:47women.
- 8:47But
- 8:48go
- 8:48look
- 8:48in
- 8:49the
- 8:49comment
- 8:49section
- 8:50of
- 8:50a
- 8:50female
- 8:51blue
- 8:51belts
- 8:52reel
- 8:52about
- 8:53Jiu
- 8:53Jitsu
- 8:53where
- 8:53she's
- 8:54just
- 8:54in
- 8:54no
- 8:54geek
- 8:54gear
- 8:55or
- 8:55something.
- 8:55Like,
- 8:56go
- 8:56read
- 8:56the
- 8:56comments.
- 8:57Go
- 8:58read
- 8:58the
- 8:58comments.
- 8:58Like
- 8:59that
- 8:59should
- 8:59tell
- 8:59you
- 8:59everything
- 9:00you
- 9:00need
- 9:00to
- 9:00know
- 9:00about
- 9:00why
- 9:01women
- 9:01need
- 9:01a
- 9:01safe
- 9:01place
- 9:02and
- 9:02why
- 9:03it's
- 9:03not
- 9:03with
- 9:03a
- 9:03man
- 9:03at
- 9:03the
- 9:03front
- 9:04of
- 9:04the
- 9:04room.
- 9:04Yep,
- 9:04yep.
- 9:05You
- 9:05know,
- 9:05like,
- 9:05I,
- 9:06I
- 9:06believe
- 9:06that
- 9:07there
- 9:07are
- 9:07a
- 9:07lot
- 9:07of
- 9:07men
- 9:07out
- 9:07there
- 9:08that
- 9:08have
- 9:08good
- 9:08intentions,
- 9:09but
- 9:10when
- 9:10you're
- 9:10not
- 9:10listening
- 9:11to
- 9:11women's
- 9:12Voices
- 9:12telling
- 9:12you,
- 9:13hey,
- 9:13you
- 9:13might
- 9:14be
- 9:14well
- 9:14intentioned,
- 9:14but
- 9:15you're
- 9:15wrong.
- 9:15Well,
- 9:16yeah.
- 9:16And
- 9:17you
- 9:17know,
- 9:17we
- 9:17have
- 9:17learned
- 9:18from
- 9:18past
- 9:19things.
- 9:19You
- 9:19know,
- 9:20at
- 9:20our
- 9:21women's
- 9:21only
- 9:21camp,
- 9:21we
- 9:22have
- 9:22had
- 9:22men
- 9:23in
- 9:23the
- 9:23past
- 9:23that
- 9:23have
- 9:24taught.
- 9:24But
- 9:25then,
- 9:25you
- 9:25know,
- 9:25some
- 9:26of
- 9:26them
- 9:26got
- 9:26up
- 9:26in
- 9:26the
- 9:27front
- 9:27of
- 9:27the
- 9:27room
- 9:27and
- 9:28made
- 9:29jokes.
- 9:30Yeah.
- 9:31And
- 9:31it
- 9:31was
- 9:31like,
- 9:32I
- 9:32think
- 9:32it
- 9:32was
- 9:32maybe
- 9:3320,
- 9:3319,
- 9:342020,
- 9:34the
- 9:35last
- 9:35time
- 9:35we
- 9:35had
- 9:35a
- 9:36man
- 9:36teach.
- 9:36And
- 9:37it
- 9:37was
- 9:38so
- 9:38gross
- 9:39that
- 9:39we
- 9:39were
- 9:39like,
- 9:40this
- 9:40is.
- 9:40This
- 9:41isn't
- 9:41it,
- 9:41this
- 9:41isn't
- 9:42it.
- 9:42And
- 9:42well,
- 9:42that
- 9:42wasn't
- 9:43even
- 9:43on
- 9:43purpose.
- 9:43It
- 9:43was
- 9:44like
- 9:44the
- 9:44person
- 9:44canceled
- 9:45last
- 9:45minute,
- 9:45Right?
- 9:45Yeah.
- 9:46So,
- 9:47you
- 9:47know,
- 9:47that
- 9:48was
- 9:48not
- 9:48an
- 9:48ideal
- 9:49situation
- 9:49in
- 9:50any
- 9:50sense
- 9:50of
- 9:50the
- 9:50word.
- 9:51But
- 9:51like,
- 9:51that
- 9:51man
- 9:51was
- 9:52a
- 9:52real
- 9:52jerk
- 9:53and
- 9:53he
- 9:53continues
- 9:53to
- 9:53be
- 9:53a
- 9:53jerk.
- 9:55Yeah.
- 9:55So
- 9:56at
- 9:56the
- 9:57time
- 9:57we
- 9:57thought,
- 9:58this
- 9:58guy's
- 9:58good
- 9:58at
- 9:58jiu
- 9:59jitsu,
- 9:59he
- 9:59can
- 10:00be
- 10:00a
- 10:00good
- 10:01replacement
- 10:02last
- 10:02minute.
- 10:02Cause
- 10:02it
- 10:03was
- 10:03the
- 10:03week
- 10:03of
- 10:03camp
- 10:04that
- 10:04we
- 10:04had
- 10:04to
- 10:04replace
- 10:05the
- 10:05instructor.
- 10:06And
- 10:06I
- 10:06think
- 10:06it
- 10:07would
- 10:07have
- 10:07been
- 10:07better
- 10:08had,
- 10:08you
- 10:08know,
- 10:09I
- 10:09taught
- 10:09or
- 10:09something
- 10:10at
- 10:10purple
- 10:10or
- 10:11brown,
- 10:11whatever
- 10:11I
- 10:11was
- 10:11then,
- 10:12you
- 10:12know,
- 10:12I
- 10:13think
- 10:13I
- 10:13was
- 10:13brown
- 10:14because
- 10:14I
- 10:14didn't
- 10:14get
- 10:14it.
- 10:142019.
- 10:15No,
- 10:15I
- 10:15got
- 10:16in
- 10:162020.
- 10:16You're
- 10:16right.
- 10:16Sorry.
- 10:17Anyways,
- 10:19but
- 10:19you
- 10:19know,
- 10:20I
- 10:20think
- 10:20it
- 10:20would
- 10:20have
- 10:20been
- 10:20better
- 10:21to
- 10:21have
- 10:21a
- 10:21woman
- 10:21in
- 10:22the
- 10:22front
- 10:22of
- 10:22the
- 10:22room
- 10:22that
- 10:23cared
- 10:23about
- 10:23the
- 10:23women
- 10:24there.
- 10:25And
- 10:25so,
- 10:25you
- 10:25know,
- 10:25we've
- 10:26learned
- 10:26from
- 10:26this
- 10:26as
- 10:26well.
- 10:27Like,
- 10:27I
- 10:27think
- 10:28that's
- 10:28something
- 10:28that
- 10:29we're
- 10:29asking
- 10:30for
- 10:30is
- 10:30just
- 10:31learn
- 10:31and
- 10:32do
- 10:32better.
- 10:33Yeah.
- 10:33I
- 10:33mean,
- 10:33I
- 10:33don't
- 10:34think,
- 10:34I
- 10:34don't
- 10:34think
- 10:34we're
- 10:35asking
- 10:35for
- 10:35perfection.
- 10:36I
- 10:36think
- 10:36most
- 10:36people
- 10:36aren't.
- 10:37Like,
- 10:37we
- 10:37have
- 10:37certainly
- 10:38made
- 10:38mistakes
- 10:38in
- 10:38this
- 10:39realm
- 10:39which
- 10:40we
- 10:40own.
- 10:40But
- 10:41if
- 10:41you,
- 10:41if
- 10:41you're
- 10:42not
- 10:42listening,
- 10:42if
- 10:42you're
- 10:42not
- 10:43trying
- 10:43to
- 10:43do
- 10:43better,
- 10:44what
- 10:44are
- 10:44you
- 10:44doing?
- 10:45You
- 10:45know
- 10:45what
- 10:45I
- 10:45mean?
- 10:46Like,
- 10:46you
- 10:46know,
- 10:46it's,
- 10:47it's
- 10:47one
- 10:47thing
- 10:48to
- 10:48say,
- 10:48you
- 10:48know,
- 10:48I've
- 10:48made
- 10:48a
- 10:48mistake.
- 10:49I'm
- 10:49listening.
- 10:50But
- 10:50most
- 10:50of
- 10:51the
- 10:51men
- 10:51in
- 10:51those
- 10:51comments
- 10:51were
- 10:52just
- 10:52doubling,
- 10:52tripling
- 10:53down.
- 10:54And
- 10:55that's
- 10:55just
- 10:55wild
- 10:55to
- 10:56me.
- 10:56Like,
- 10:56you're
- 10:56cashing
- 10:57in
- 10:57on
- 10:57us
- 10:57without
- 10:58hearing
- 10:58our
- 10:58voices.
- 10:59Yeah.
- 10:59You
- 10:59know,
- 11:00we
- 11:00were
- 11:00at
- 11:00an
- 11:00open
- 11:01mat
- 11:01this
- 11:01weekend.
- 11:02We
- 11:02were
- 11:03supposed
- 11:03to
- 11:03go
- 11:03to
- 11:032.
- 11:04We're
- 11:04both
- 11:04black
- 11:05belts.
- 11:06I
- 11:06am
- 11:06of
- 11:06a
- 11:07fair
- 11:07size.
- 11:08I
- 11:08mean,
- 11:09same.
- 11:09We're
- 11:09both
- 11:09in
- 11:09the
- 11:10heavyweight
- 11:10division.
- 11:11Yeah.
- 11:11I
- 11:11consider
- 11:12myself
- 11:12a
- 11:12high
- 11:12calorie
- 11:13grappler,.
- 11:13As
- 11:13some
- 11:13might
- 11:14say.
- 11:15And
- 11:15we
- 11:16were
- 11:16still
- 11:16really
- 11:16nervous
- 11:17about
- 11:17going
- 11:17to
- 11:17open
- 11:18mats,
- 11:18you
- 11:18know,
- 11:19especially
- 11:19ones
- 11:20with
- 11:20men
- 11:20at
- 11:20them,
- 11:21because
- 11:21you
- 11:21just
- 11:21don't
- 11:22Know
- 11:22what
- 11:23you're
- 11:23going
- 11:23to
- 11:23get,
- 11:23you
- 11:24know,
- 11:24what's
- 11:24the
- 11:24setting
- 11:25going
- 11:25to
- 11:25be
- 11:25if
- 11:25you've
- 11:26not
- 11:26been
- 11:26to
- 11:26that
- 11:26gym?
- 11:26If
- 11:27you
- 11:27don't
- 11:27really
- 11:27know
- 11:27those
- 11:27people,
- 11:28you
- 11:28just
- 11:28don't
- 11:29know.
- 11:29Yeah,
- 11:29yeah.
- 11:30So
- 11:30even
- 11:31at
- 11:31black
- 11:31belt,
- 11:32we're
- 11:32telling
- 11:32you,
- 11:33like
- 11:33we're
- 11:34nervous
- 11:34sometimes
- 11:35to
- 11:35step
- 11:35into
- 11:35a
- 11:35new
- 11:35room
- 11:36to
- 11:36roll
- 11:36with
- 11:36new
- 11:37people.
- 11:37Like,
- 11:38if
- 11:39we're
- 11:39nervous,
- 11:40the
- 11:40woman
- 11:41that's
- 11:41coming
- 11:41in
- 11:41for
- 11:41the
- 11:42first
- 11:42time
- 11:43might
- 11:43be
- 11:43terrified.
- 11:44Some
- 11:45people
- 11:45are
- 11:45very
- 11:45outgoing,
- 11:46very
- 11:46into
- 11:46new
- 11:47things.
- 11:47They're
- 11:47not
- 11:47going
- 11:47to
- 11:47have
- 11:48a
- 11:48problem.
- 11:48But
- 11:49some
- 11:49women
- 11:50are,
- 11:51you
- 11:51know,
- 11:51really
- 11:52going
- 11:52to
- 11:52struggle
- 11:53and
- 11:54having
- 11:54a
- 11:54woman
- 11:54at
- 11:55the
- 11:55front
- 11:55of
- 11:55the
- 11:55room
- 11:56is
- 11:56going
- 11:56to
- 11:56make
- 11:56them
- 11:57more
- 11:57comfortable.
- 11:58Now,
- 11:58I
- 11:58would
- 11:58like
- 11:58to
- 11:59also
- 11:59argue
- 11:59that
- 11:59those
- 12:00women
- 12:00should
- 12:00be
- 12:00at
- 12:00the
- 12:00front
- 12:01of
- 12:01the
- 12:01room
- 12:01in
- 12:02your
- 12:02co
- 12:02ed
- 12:02classes.
- 12:03But
- 12:04if
- 12:04you
- 12:04are
- 12:04running
- 12:05a
- 12:05women's
- 12:05only
- 12:05class,
- 12:06it
- 12:06needs
- 12:06to
- 12:06be
- 12:07run
- 12:07by
- 12:07a
- 12:07woman.
- 12:08Yeah.
- 12:08And
- 12:08I
- 12:08hope
- 12:08that
- 12:08nobody
- 12:09takes
- 12:09this
- 12:10as
- 12:10anti
- 12:10man.
- 12:10It
- 12:11certainly
- 12:11isn't.
- 12:12There
- 12:12are
- 12:12tons
- 12:12of
- 12:13well
- 12:13intentioned
- 12:14men.
- 12:14There
- 12:14are
- 12:14tons
- 12:14of
- 12:15great
- 12:15men
- 12:15in
- 12:15jiu
- 12:15jitsu.
- 12:16We
- 12:16know
- 12:17a
- 12:17lot
- 12:17of
- 12:17them.
- 12:17You
- 12:18know,
- 12:18we
- 12:18know
- 12:18that
- 12:18they're
- 12:19out
- 12:19there.
- 12:19We're
- 12:20not
- 12:20saying
- 12:21men
- 12:21are
- 12:21creeps.
- 12:22We
- 12:22are
- 12:22saying
- 12:23that
- 12:23women
- 12:24have
- 12:24to
- 12:24protect
- 12:24themselves.
- 12:25You
- 12:26know,
- 12:26like
- 12:27they're
- 12:27coming
- 12:28in
- 12:28for
- 12:28a
- 12:28safe
- 12:28space,
- 12:29some
- 12:29of
- 12:29them,
- 12:30because
- 12:30they've
- 12:31been
- 12:31attacked,
- 12:32they've
- 12:32been
- 12:32assaulted,
- 12:33they
- 12:33deserve
- 12:33to
- 12:34have
- 12:34a
- 12:34comfortable
- 12:35space
- 12:35to
- 12:35train.
- 12:36Yep,
- 12:36yep.
- 12:37And
- 12:38if
- 12:38you
- 12:39are
- 12:39committed
- 12:39to
- 12:40doing
- 12:40this
- 12:40and
- 12:41all
- 12:41you
- 12:41have
- 12:42is
- 12:42one
- 12:43blue
- 12:43belt
- 12:43woman
- 12:44that
- 12:45is
- 12:45able
- 12:45to
- 12:45teach
- 12:46the
- 12:46class,
- 12:46work
- 12:47with
- 12:47her,
- 12:47you
- 12:47know,
- 12:48work
- 12:48with
- 12:48her
- 12:48on
- 12:48like
- 12:49what
- 12:49the
- 12:49curriculum
- 12:50is
- 12:50going
- 12:50to
- 12:50be
- 12:50and
- 12:51you
- 12:52know,
- 12:52make
- 12:52sure
- 12:53she
- 12:53knows
- 12:53the
- 12:53moves
- 12:54to
- 12:54teach
- 12:54anything
- 12:55like
- 12:55that.
- 12:55But
- 12:55give
- 12:56her
- 12:57the
- 12:57opportunity
- 12:58to
- 12:58be
- 12:58a
- 12:59leader
- 12:59for
- 12:59those
- 12:59women.
- 13:00Yeah,
- 13:00absolutely.
- 13:01And
- 13:02honestly,
- 13:02sometimes
- 13:03someone
- 13:04newer
- 13:04to
- 13:04jiu
- 13:04jitsu
- 13:05can
- 13:05be
- 13:05a
- 13:06better
- 13:06instructor.
- 13:06They
- 13:07may
- 13:07not
- 13:07be
- 13:07getting
- 13:07all
- 13:08the
- 13:08details
- 13:09exactly
- 13:09right,
- 13:10but
- 13:10they
- 13:10remember
- 13:11what
- 13:11it's
- 13:11like
- 13:11to
- 13:12be
- 13:12new
- 13:12and
- 13:12they
- 13:13can
- 13:13be
- 13:13very
- 13:13helpful
- 13:14because
- 13:14of
- 13:14that.
- 13:14Yeah.
- 13:15They're
- 13:15closer
- 13:15to
- 13:15the
- 13:15struggle.
- 13:16Yep,
- 13:16that's
- 13:17true.
- 13:17Yeah.
- 13:17So
- 13:18as
- 13:18we're
- 13:18kind
- 13:18of
- 13:18wrapping
- 13:19this
- 13:19up
- 13:19here,
- 13:19I
- 13:20have
- 13:20an
- 13:20overall
- 13:21question
- 13:21for
- 13:22you
- 13:22and
- 13:22for
- 13:23our
- 13:23audience.
- 13:24What
- 13:24is
- 13:24your
- 13:24thought?
- 13:25Like,
- 13:25is
- 13:25it
- 13:25better
- 13:26to
- 13:26have
- 13:27no
- 13:27women's
- 13:28only
- 13:28class
- 13:29or
- 13:29is
- 13:29it
- 13:29better
- 13:29to
- 13:29have
- 13:30a
- 13:30woman's
- 13:30only
- 13:31class
- 13:31led
- 13:31by
- 13:32a
- 13:32man?
- 13:32That's
- 13:33a
- 13:33tough
- 13:33one.
- 13:33I
- 13:33mean,
- 13:34I
- 13:34think
- 13:34if
- 13:34you're
- 13:34going
- 13:34to
- 13:34have
- 13:34a
- 13:35man
- 13:35led
- 13:35women's
- 13:36class,
- 13:36you
- 13:37need
- 13:37to
- 13:37be
- 13:37really
- 13:37clear
- 13:37about
- 13:38it,
- 13:38you
- 13:38know,
- 13:38because
- 13:39like,
- 13:39you
- 13:39don't
- 13:39want
- 13:39people
- 13:39showing
- 13:40up
- 13:40Thinking
- 13:40they're
- 13:41going
- 13:41to
- 13:41be
- 13:41in
- 13:41this
- 13:41women's
- 13:41space
- 13:42and
- 13:42they're
- 13:42not.
- 13:42Yep.
- 13:43You
- 13:43know,
- 13:43like,
- 13:43that's
- 13:44still
- 13:44run
- 13:44by
- 13:44a
- 13:44man.
- 13:45It's
- 13:45just
- 13:45different.
- 13:45It
- 13:46just
- 13:46is.
- 13:46You
- 13:46just
- 13:47have
- 13:47to
- 13:47take
- 13:47our
- 13:47word
- 13:47for
- 13:47it.
- 13:48Yeah.
- 13:48What
- 13:48do
- 13:48you
- 13:48think?
- 13:49Yeah,
- 13:49I
- 13:50think
- 13:50that
- 13:51best
- 13:51case
- 13:52scenario,
- 13:52you
- 13:53have
- 13:53a
- 13:54woman
- 13:54that
- 13:54can
- 13:54teach
- 13:54it.
- 13:55Next
- 13:55best
- 13:55thing
- 13:56is
- 13:56you
- 13:56can
- 13:57teach
- 13:57another
- 13:58woman
- 13:58how
- 13:59to
- 13:59teach
- 13:59the
- 14:00class.
- 14:00And
- 14:01at
- 14:01least
- 14:01you
- 14:01can
- 14:02have
- 14:02a
- 14:02space
- 14:03and
- 14:03a
- 14:03time
- 14:04when
- 14:04the
- 14:04women
- 14:05can
- 14:05get
- 14:05together
- 14:05and
- 14:06train
- 14:06together,
- 14:07even
- 14:07if
- 14:07it's
- 14:08not
- 14:08specifically
- 14:08a
- 14:09class.
- 14:09You
- 14:09know,
- 14:09maybe
- 14:10it's
- 14:10a
- 14:10women's
- 14:11open
- 14:11mat
- 14:11on
- 14:11a
- 14:12Saturday
- 14:12or
- 14:12something
- 14:12where
- 14:13they
- 14:13can
- 14:13train
- 14:13together.
- 14:14But
- 14:14I
- 14:14think
- 14:15all
- 14:15of
- 14:15those
- 14:15things
- 14:15are
- 14:16better
- 14:16than
- 14:17having
- 14:18a
- 14:18man
- 14:19lead
- 14:19the
- 14:19class
- 14:20and
- 14:20a
- 14:20woman
- 14:20anticipating
- 14:21that
- 14:21she's
- 14:22coming
- 14:22into
- 14:22a
- 14:23women's
- 14:24only
- 14:24place
- 14:25and
- 14:25it's
- 14:25actually.
- 14:26No.
- 14:26Yeah,
- 14:27I
- 14:27agree.
- 14:28You
- 14:28know,
- 14:29probably
- 14:29you're
- 14:29not
- 14:29starting
- 14:29a
- 14:30women's
- 14:30only
- 14:30class
- 14:30with
- 14:30zero
- 14:31women
- 14:31at
- 14:31your
- 14:31gym.
- 14:32Right.
- 14:32You've
- 14:32probably
- 14:33got,
- 14:33like,
- 14:34one
- 14:34to
- 14:34two
- 14:34at
- 14:35least
- 14:35before
- 14:35you're
- 14:35going
- 14:36to
- 14:36start
- 14:36a
- 14:36women's
- 14:36only
- 14:37class.
- 14:37Yeah.
- 14:38Why
- 14:38can't
- 14:39that
- 14:39one
- 14:39or
- 14:39two
- 14:39teach
- 14:40a
- 14:40setup
- 14:40sweep?
- 14:41Yep.
- 14:42Or
- 14:42like
- 14:42you
- 14:42said,
- 14:42hold
- 14:43a
- 14:43women's
- 14:43open
- 14:43mat.
- 14:44Yeah.
- 14:44I
- 14:44think
- 14:44having
- 14:45a
- 14:45women's
- 14:45only
- 14:45space
- 14:46is
- 14:46more
- 14:47important
- 14:47than
- 14:47having,
- 14:48like,
- 14:48a
- 14:48class
- 14:49that's,
- 14:49like,
- 14:49perfectly
- 14:50run
- 14:50and
- 14:50taught.
- 14:50You
- 14:51know,
- 14:51I
- 14:51think
- 14:52that
- 14:52if
- 14:52you're
- 14:52going
- 14:52to
- 14:52have
- 14:52a
- 14:52man
- 14:52run
- 14:53it,
- 14:53you
- 14:53need
- 14:53to
- 14:53be
- 14:53really
- 14:54clear
- 14:54that
- 14:54that's
- 14:54what's
- 14:54happening.
- 14:55But
- 14:55I
- 14:55would
- 14:56vote
- 14:56you
- 14:56allow
- 14:56a
- 14:56women's
- 14:57only
- 14:57space
- 14:57rather
- 14:58than
- 14:58agreed.
- 14:59Have
- 14:59a
- 14:59man
- 14:59lead
- 15:00it.
- 15:00Yeah.
- 15:01I
- 15:01started
- 15:02our
- 15:02women's
- 15:02only
- 15:03class.
- 15:03I
- 15:03think,
- 15:03like,
- 15:04the
- 15:04week
- 15:05I
- 15:05got
- 15:05my.
- 15:06It's
- 15:06like
- 15:06the
- 15:06next
- 15:07week
- 15:07I
- 15:07started
- 15:07the
- 15:07class
- 15:08and
- 15:08I
- 15:08was
- 15:09very
- 15:09nervous
- 15:10about,
- 15:10like,
- 15:11can
- 15:11I
- 15:12teach
- 15:12this?
- 15:13Like,
- 15:13do
- 15:13I
- 15:13know
- 15:13enough
- 15:13jiu
- 15:14jitsu?
- 15:14And
- 15:15sometimes
- 15:15I
- 15:15would,
- 15:15like,
- 15:15run
- 15:16over
- 15:16to
- 15:16the
- 15:16other
- 15:16mat
- 15:17and
- 15:17grab
- 15:17a
- 15:17coach
- 15:17and
- 15:17be
- 15:17like,
- 15:18okay,
- 15:18I
- 15:18was
- 15:18gonna
- 15:18do
- 15:18this.
- 15:18Is
- 15:19that
- 15:19how
- 15:19I
- 15:19do
- 15:19that?
- 15:19Is
- 15:19that
- 15:20right?
- 15:20And
- 15:20then
- 15:20I'd
- 15:20run
- 15:21back
- 15:21to
- 15:21the
- 15:21women's
- 15:21mat
- 15:22and
- 15:22be
- 15:22like,
- 15:22okay,
- 15:22I've
- 15:22got
- 15:22this.
- 15:23I'm
- 15:23ready
- 15:23for
- 15:23it.
- 15:24But
- 15:25all
- 15:25in
- 15:25all,
- 15:25it
- 15:25just
- 15:25mattered
- 15:26that
- 15:26I
- 15:27cared
- 15:27about
- 15:27the
- 15:27women
- 15:28and
- 15:28that
- 15:28I
- 15:28cared
- 15:29about
- 15:29their
- 15:30comfort
- 15:30level
- 15:30and
- 15:31trying
- 15:31to
- 15:31help
- 15:31them
- 15:31progress.
- 15:32And,
- 15:33I
- 15:33mean,
- 15:33Here
- 15:34we
- 15:34are
- 15:3413
- 15:35years
- 15:35later
- 15:36into
- 15:36our
- 15:36women's
- 15:36program,
- 15:37and
- 15:37I
- 15:37think
- 15:37it's
- 15:37going
- 15:38pretty
- 15:38well.
- 15:38Yeah.
- 15:40Having
- 15:40a
- 15:40good
- 15:41time.
- 15:41Yeah.
- 15:41Yeah.
- 15:42So
- 15:42that's
- 15:43my
- 15:43thought.
- 15:43Yeah.
- 15:44So
- 15:44invest
- 15:44in
- 15:45your
- 15:45women.
- 15:45Find
- 15:45a
- 15:46way
- 15:46to
- 15:46empower
- 15:46them.
- 15:47Yeah.
- 15:47Send
- 15:47them
- 15:47to
- 15:48camp
- 15:49yes.
- 15:49Yeah.
- 15:50Send
- 15:50them
- 15:50to
- 15:50camp.
- 15:50We'll
- 15:51help
- 15:51them
- 15:51build
- 15:51their
- 15:51women's
- 15:52community.
- 15:52Was
- 15:52this
- 15:53a
- 15:53long
- 15:53con
- 15:54for
- 15:54a
- 15:54Role
- 15:55Model
- 15:55camp?
- 15:55When
- 15:56is
- 15:56it
- 15:56not?
- 15:59Every
- 15:59podcast
- 16:00ends
- 16:00with
- 16:01all
- 16:01the
- 16:01women
- 16:01should
- 16:02come
- 16:02to
- 16:02Role
- 16:02Model
- 16:03Camp.
- 16:03That's
- 16:03just
- 16:04Truly,
- 16:04though.
- 16:04You
- 16:05should.
- 16:05Truly.
- 16:05Yeah.
- 16:06If
- 16:06you
- 16:06haven't
- 16:07booked
- 16:07your
- 16:07hotel
- 16:08room
- 16:08for
- 16:08camp,
- 16:08you
- 16:08should
- 16:09do
- 16:09that.
- 16:09The
- 16:09cutoff
- 16:09is
- 16:10June
- 16:109th.
- 16:11Ninth.
- 16:11So
- 16:12that's
- 16:12very
- 16:12soon.
- 16:12When
- 16:13this
- 16:13podcast
- 16:13comes
- 16:14out,
- 16:14you
- 16:14won't
- 16:14have
- 16:14that
- 16:14much
- 16:14time
- 16:15left.
- 16:15So
- 16:15make
- 16:15sure
- 16:15you
- 16:15get
- 16:16that
- 16:16booked.
- 16:17That's
- 16:17really
- 16:17important
- 16:18because
- 16:18we'll
- 16:18lose
- 16:18our
- 16:18discount
- 16:19at
- 16:19that
- 16:19time.
- 16:20Yes.
- 16:20And
- 16:20the
- 16:21rooms
- 16:21regularly
- 16:22are
- 16:22about
- 16:22a
- 16:23hundred
- 16:23dollars
- 16:23more
- 16:23a
- 16:23night
- 16:24than
- 16:24what
- 16:24we
- 16:24get
- 16:25their
- 16:25deal
- 16:25for.
- 16:26So
- 16:26make
- 16:26sure
- 16:26that
- 16:27you
- 16:27are
- 16:27getting
- 16:27your
- 16:27room
- 16:28booked
- 16:28before
- 16:29June
- 16:299th.
- 16:30Yeah.
- 16:30Please
- 16:30register
- 16:31if
- 16:31you
- 16:31haven't
- 16:32contact.
- 16:33If
- 16:33you
- 16:33could
- 16:33use
- 16:33a
- 16:33scholarship,
- 16:34we
- 16:34have
- 16:34some
- 16:34of
- 16:34those
- 16:34available.
- 16:35Specifically,
- 16:36we
- 16:36would
- 16:36love
- 16:36some
- 16:37help
- 16:37with
- 16:37our
- 16:37booth
- 16:38and.
- 16:38Or
- 16:38putting
- 16:38the
- 16:38mats
- 16:39down.
- 16:39I
- 16:39know
- 16:40we've
- 16:40got
- 16:40a
- 16:40couple
- 16:40people
- 16:40helping,
- 16:41but
- 16:41it's
- 16:41always
- 16:42easier
- 16:42when
- 16:42we
- 16:42have
- 16:42multiple
- 16:43people
- 16:43helping.
- 16:44If
- 16:44we
- 16:44have
- 16:44a
- 16:44whole
- 16:44crew,
- 16:45it
- 16:45just
- 16:45comes
- 16:45together
- 16:46in
- 16:46no
- 16:46time.
- 16:46So
- 16:47we
- 16:47would
- 16:47love
- 16:47some
- 16:48help.
- 16:48I
- 16:48promise
- 16:49it'll
- 16:49be
- 16:49me
- 16:49and
- 16:49not
- 16:50mean
- 16:50aj.
- 16:52I'm
- 16:52not
- 16:52mean.
- 16:53That's
- 16:54what
- 16:54makes
- 16:54me
- 16:54so
- 16:54nice.
- 16:56AJ
- 16:56will
- 16:56be
- 16:57busy
- 16:57running
- 16:57just
- 16:57every
- 16:58workshop,
- 16:58apparently,
- 16:58or
- 16:59something.
- 16:59I
- 16:59don't
- 16:59know.
- 16:59Maybe.
- 17:00Maybe.
- 17:01But
- 17:02yeah,
- 17:02usually,
- 17:02like,
- 17:02we
- 17:03on
- 17:03Friday
- 17:03morning,
- 17:04we
- 17:04throw
- 17:05the
- 17:05mats
- 17:05up
- 17:05in
- 17:05the
- 17:05morning,
- 17:05so
- 17:06you'd
- 17:06still
- 17:06be
- 17:06able
- 17:06to
- 17:06attend
- 17:07the
- 17:07workshops.
- 17:07And
- 17:08then
- 17:08sometimes
- 17:09we
- 17:09ask
- 17:09for
- 17:09some
- 17:09help
- 17:09at
- 17:10the
- 17:10booth
- 17:10at
- 17:10various
- 17:11times.
- 17:11So
- 17:11you
- 17:12would
- 17:12still
- 17:12get
- 17:12to
- 17:12train
- 17:13a
- 17:13lot.
- 17:13It
- 17:13wouldn't
- 17:13be
- 17:13the
- 17:13kind
- 17:14of
- 17:14thing
- 17:14where
- 17:14you're,
- 17:14like,
- 17:14working
- 17:15through
- 17:15all
- 17:15of
- 17:15training.
- 17:16So
- 17:16we
- 17:16would
- 17:16love
- 17:16some
- 17:17help
- 17:17with
- 17:17that.
- 17:17Yes.
- 17:18Yeah.
- 17:19I'm
- 17:19getting
- 17:19excited.
- 17:20When
- 17:20this
- 17:21podcast
- 17:21comes
- 17:22out,
- 17:22we'll
- 17:22be
- 17:22right
- 17:22at
- 17:23five
- 17:23weeks,
- 17:26so
- 17:26it
- 17:26is
- 17:27right
- 17:27around
- 17:27the
- 17:27corner.
- 17:28Right
- 17:28around
- 17:28the
- 17:29corner.
- 17:29Holy
- 17:29crap.
- 17:30Right?
- 17:30We
- 17:30got
- 17:30a
- 17:30lot
- 17:30to
- 17:30do.
- 17:31We
- 17:31got
- 17:31a
- 17:31lot
- 17:31to
- 17:31do.
- 17:32Okay,
- 17:33well,
- 17:33how
- 17:33does
- 17:33this
- 17:33thing
- 17:34end?
- 17:34I
- 17:34think
- 17:35we
- 17:35just
- 17:35say,
- 17:36where
- 17:36do
- 17:36they
- 17:36find
- 17:36us?
- 17:37Yeah.
- 17:37Okay.
- 17:38They
- 17:38can
- 17:38find
- 17:39us
- 17:39at
- 17:39Beauty
- 17:39and
- 17:39the
- 17:40Ghee
- 17:40podcast
- 17:41on
- 17:41Instagram,
- 17:42which
- 17:43I
- 17:43have,
- 17:43I
- 17:43think,
- 17:43fully
- 17:44taken
- 17:44over
- 17:44now.
- 17:44I
- 17:45think
- 17:45we've
- 17:45released
- 17:46Jen
- 17:46of
- 17:47all
- 17:47of
- 17:47those
- 17:47duties.
- 17:48So
- 17:48if
- 17:49you
- 17:49message
- 17:49us,
- 17:50I'm
- 17:50doing
- 17:50my
- 17:50best.
- 17:51Yeah.
- 17:52So.
- 17:52And
- 17:52I'm
- 17:52AJ
- 17:52Klingerman
- 17:53everywhere
- 17:53you
- 17:53go.
- 17:53And
- 17:54we
- 17:54just
- 17:54got
- 17:54a
- 17:54hold
- 17:55of
- 17:55the
- 17:55YouTube,
- 17:55so
- 17:56we're
- 17:56going
- 17:56to
- 17:56post
- 17:57some
- 17:57of
- 17:57these
- 17:57videos
- 17:58now
- 17:58that
- 17:58we
- 17:58have
- 17:58the
- 17:58YouTube
- 17:59back.
- 17:59Yes.
- 18:00Get
- 18:00registered
- 18:01for
- 18:01camp@role
- 18:01models
- 18:02wanted.com.
- 18:03All
- 18:03right,
- 18:04well,
- 18:05until
- 18:05next
- 18:05time,
- 18:06we'll.
- 18:06See
- 18:06you
- 18:07on
- 18:07the
- 18:08mat.
- 18:08Beauty
- 18:09and
- 18:09the
- 18:09Ghee
- 18:09is
- 18:09a
- 18:09production
- 18:10of
- 18:10the
- 18:10Whiny
- 18:11Pibble
- 18:11podcast
- 18:11Company
- 18:12and.
- 18:12Brought
- 18:12to
- 18:12you
- 18:13by
- 18:13Role
- 18:13Model
- 18:13Grappling.
- 18:14I
- 18:14was
- 18:15going
- 18:15to
- 18:15suggest
- 18:15Whiny
- 18:16Pibble.
- 18:23Ra.