Latest / The Twenty One Clear Podcast / Hosting Family Meetings and Leaving the Company
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- 0:05Adam Hatcher: Hey there.
- 0:06Welcome to the 21 Clear podcast.
- 0:09I'm your host, Adam Hatcher, the founder of 21 Clear, a family business consulting
- 0:14firm, and our goal here is to help you chaos-proof your family business
- 0:20with each episode that we release.
- 0:22Today, we're gonna follow up on episode number 11.
- 0:26In 11, I shared an excerpt of a virtual panel I got to be part of.
- 0:33Kennesaw State University, which is in North Atlanta here in Georgia, has a
- 0:38Family Enterprise Center, and they invited me and two other next gens who had been in
- 0:44their family companies to talk about what it's like to leave your family company.
- 0:50In the last podcast, I shared an excerpt of that, and the three of us focused on
- 0:54what it feels like, because inevitably, you and all your family members with
- 0:59whom you work and own the company with will both no longer work there, and one
- 1:03day no longer own the business as well.
- 1:06So for those who had not thought about the idea, been scared to talk about it,
- 1:10were somewhere in thinking about it, or just wanted to be proactive, we talked
- 1:17about, well, what's the experience like from three people who had done it?
- 1:22Well, in this episode, I, I wanna get a little bit more into planning.
- 1:27Andrea Carpenter, uh, leads the Transition Specialist Group, and Andrea
- 1:33had me back for a second time to talk about inner family business issues,
- 1:37and this time we actually leaned again into how to leave your company well.
- 1:43But instead of focusing on the feeling of leaving and the experience,
- 1:48Andrea and I got- practical.
- 1:51We talk in this episode, or at least in this excerpt that I'm gonna share
- 1:55with you, about the importance of keeping a pulse on how it's going,
- 2:01understanding where you are in your journey in the family company that
- 2:06will begin, it will have a middle, and at some point it will end.
- 2:09And we give some practical questions to ask, particularly if you are a
- 2:13next gen working in the business.
- 2:16And then Andrea asked me a good question about how, if you don't have these kind
- 2:22of conversations, you can get them going.
- 2:26So I'm excited to share this excerpt with you, and I hope it helps you as you
- 2:30think about your inner family business.
- 2:34I was in my family's company for 13 years.
- 2:37I started as the general counsel, which is a, a mistake.
- 2:42If you ever start in your family's company, don't let them put the word
- 2:45general in your title, because then you will just end up doing everything else.
- 2:49Mm-hmm.
- 2:50So I was general counsel, and then became corporate strategy lead with a board
- 2:55member, was s- then stepped into head of corporate strategy, and then added to
- 2:59that vice president of human resources.
- 3:02So for my last seven or so years there, it was all three of those roles combined.
- 3:08But what was interesting And this was something I shared with the leadership
- 3:14when we announced, my father and I announced my exit, is that he and I
- 3:20always kept a dialogue going about what the future of my career was.
- 3:26He would openly say to me in my annual reviews, "I want you to feel
- 3:31free to think outside this company."
- 3:33Uh, and that came from his ex- personal experience.
- 3:37My dad graduated from the University of Georgia on Friday.
- 3:40He went to work in the family company on Monday, and as he said it to me, "The only
- 3:44person who ever promoted me was my father, and sometimes I had to buy my promotion."
- 3:50So he wanted me, and I have two siblings, he always wanted us to know
- 3:54that we had value outside the company.
- 3:56That's that hiring part, putting people- Mm-hmm ... through a process.
- 4:00But then we kept that alive, um, throughout, and we never
- 4:05shared that with anyone 'cause it probably could panic people.
- 4:08Like, "What?
- 4:08They're always talking about him leaving."
- 4:11But that, Andrea, was one thing that was helpful.
- 4:14Mm.
- 4:15The second thing that was helpful in helping me realize a new step
- 4:20in my career was that we had...
- 4:22Golly, what's it been now?
- 4:24It's probably been 20 years of family meetings.
- 4:29So if you've never had one of these, I was working with a family recently, and
- 4:33our sit-down together was the first time all the people who worked in and owned
- 4:38the company, who were family members, had ever sat in a room and talked about
- 4:41the fact that they worked in and owned the company together, and the company
- 4:45had been around for over 25 years, and that's normal for a lot of us.
- 4:50It's an odd con- We figure we see you on Sunday after church,
- 4:54Yeah I see you in meetings.
- 4:55Like, what's a family meeting?
- 4:57But these are just quickly, meet...
- 4:59When you sit down, the family members who work in the business, who own
- 5:03the business, and sometimes the family members around that group too-
- 5:06Mm-hmm ... the ones impacted, sit down and work on the unique dynamic in
- 5:11how you work in and own the business.
- 5:13So I've got about 20 years of those, not just with what I do
- 5:16with other families, myself.
- 5:17Mm.
- 5:19That, I didn't know when we started those meetings that that meeting was
- 5:25where seeing a new step in my career was gonna, uh, was gonna start.
- 5:29Mm.
- 5:29But I am so...
- 5:31If you haven't had one of those, I deeply encourage them.
- 5:35It's what I facilitate for families, because I can't imagine that
- 5:39conversation having happened in an executive meeting, in my annual review
- 5:43with my dad, like, in a one-off.
- 5:46My brother and I play golf together.
- 5:47Like, just walking up the 10th fairway with my brother, that's not the place for
- 5:51that, nor did it create the space for it.
- 5:55So the- Mm ... roots, the root for me, one, was that the dialogue was always open
- 5:59to think outside of it, but then there was a fam- there were family meetings Yeah.
- 6:04And I think meetings and open communication and, and place for
- 6:09everyone to talk is important.
- 6:11There's likely people listening, maybe they don't have that structure currently.
- 6:15There's no, like, "I wanna talk about the future," whether that's
- 6:19staying, whether that's going.
- 6:21Just there are no meetings, like, to, to, to bring things up.
- 6:25Uh, so what, what advice would you give to someone who maybe is in a
- 6:30position where they're trying to open communication more as a family?
- 6:35Where would you tell them to start?
- 6:37All right.
- 6:37Where do they work in the, where do they work in the business?
- 6:39Do they have the controlling shares?
- 6:42Like, do they control the business from an ownership perspective?
- 6:44Or are they- I would think they don't ... the next gen?
- 6:46They're the next gen.
- 6:47They don't.
- 6:47Yeah.
- 6:47Okay.
- 6:47A next gen who might be listening here.
- 6:49They, they- Got it ... wanna initiate conversations about the future,
- 6:53but that, that current controlling generation, it, is maybe not...
- 6:58It, it sounds like your dad had a lot of awareness being
- 7:02the second generation already.
- 7:03He felt some of those things.
- 7:04But many successors who are the second generation, they're, they're coming
- 7:09in from that founding generation, which sometimes is a very different
- 7:12dynamic of, "Well, I built this thing.
- 7:15I worked really hard.
- 7:17I don't want my kids to be entitled."
- 7:18So how, how do you start if, if you're thinking like, "Hey, this might actually
- 7:23be a family company whether I'm gonna stay or whether I'm gonna go, but
- 7:26we should, we should talk about it."
- 7:28What advice would you give?
- 7:29Mm.
- 7:30All right.
- 7:30So it's interesting, like, some of the things you talked about
- 7:33for those of us that have a controlling interest in the company.
- 7:36I'm gonna touch that even though you told me not to, okay?
- 7:38Mm-hmm.
- 7:38And then we'll go back.
- 7:40When I talk to f- when I meet families that are needing help, th- that want
- 7:45to start having conversations and want someone there, as someone said recently,
- 7:50"They act better when you're here."
- 7:53Mm-hmm.
- 7:54Um, and, and having
- 7:55We've used facilita- we use facilitators as well.
- 7:58Have used.
- 7:58Mm-hmm.
- 7:58Do use.
- 7:59Yeah.
- 7:59It helps.
- 8:00It really helps when a family member doesn't have to play that role.
- 8:03Yeah.
- 8:05When it's the person who has control of the business through ownership, the
- 8:10reason they typically wanna talk is because either there was a disaster
- 8:16in, or a near disaster in the previous generation, going from gen one- Mm
- 8:21to gen two.
- 8:22Like, they experienced it, and they don't ever wanna go through that again.
- 8:26Or they see people around them, family companies- Mm ... they know around
- 8:31them that are starting to go through casualty situations or c- or chaos.
- 8:35Mm.
- 8:36And they don't wanna do that.
- 8:37Sometimes things seem to be going great, and it's actually the next
- 8:42generation that picks up on it.
- 8:44I remember talking with one family, and there was a lot of anxiety.
- 8:47It was a high-debt business.
- 8:48A lot of anxiety in the next generation about what would happen if there
- 8:52was an emergency situation with the two siblings that owned the company.
- 8:57Mm-hmm And so you talk to the next gens, they say, "We don't know
- 9:00if we'd all of a sudden all be in debt or what's gonna happen."
- 9:03And then you talk to the siblings that own the company, they said, "What?
- 9:06We told them eight years ago."
- 9:08Like- Mm ... "We were at lunch, and we told them what happens.
- 9:10What more do they need?
- 9:11It's more than we had."
- 9:12So sometimes the need for the meeting comes, the next generation
- 9:16has a sense, "This could be so much better," or, "There's something I
- 9:22really need help talking about."
- 9:24Mm-hmm.
- 9:25'Cause I mean, there's an anxiety to it.
- 9:27So if that's, if that is you, this is what I have found helpful.
- 9:32When I, I sat with a family last week, and we had their first meeting,
- 9:36and when we start, Andrea, we say, "Okay, when you work with your
- 9:40family, you typically want two things.
- 9:42You wanna build a great company with a strong family."
- 9:46Mm-hmm.
- 9:46Right?
- 9:47Or a healthy family.
- 9:48A great company with a healthy family.
- 9:50Now, a great company doesn't have to be huge, okay?
- 9:53We're, we're not all gonna be Marriott.
- 9:55We're not all, not all gonna be the Waltons.
- 9:57You don't have to be.
- 9:58You can have one, two, three locations.
- 10:00You can be regional.
- 10:01Whatever it is.
- 10:02You, whatever financial and community impact you wanna have with the
- 10:05business, that's your greatness.
- 10:07Mm-hmm.
- 10:07Mm-hmm.
- 10:08But you wanna have a great company with a healthy family.
- 10:12Now, you might wanna be best friends and see each other every
- 10:14week, or you may just want to enjoy getting together when you do.
- 10:18Whatever your answer is, I love to ask families that upfront because
- 10:22when they say, "Yeah, well, yeah, of course," like, who says no to that?
- 10:25Who says, "Blah," no, some people actually.
- 10:28Um, but, but when you start there, like, so if you're a next gen, "Hey, I work here
- 10:36because I've dreamed about a great company and a really strong family around it."
- 10:41Mm-hmm.
- 10:42And we never talk about that.
- 10:45Like, that's not...
- 10:47You never sit in an executive meeting, I did that for a decade, never sat in an
- 10:51exec meeting and the vice president of operations looked at me and my father and
- 10:55said, "How are y'all working together?"
- 10:57Mm-hmm.
- 10:58"How are you working with your sister who doesn't work in the business?
- 11:00What do you communi-" Never one time asked that.
- 11:03Yeah.
- 11:03So I would like a great company, a healthy family, and I'd like to talk about it.
- 11:09Like, that's a easy way to step into it.
- 11:12Yeah.
- 11:13I, I like that framing, and it's also, it, there's nothing threatening.
- 11:19Well, okay, you know your parents, but there's really nothing threatening about,
- 11:22I, I can see an opportunity for us to talk about how to make our family stronger.
- 11:29That's oftentimes a really big pull.
- 11:31You're talking about we ha- we have this concept of there's your family community
- 11:35and your family business community.
- 11:37Sometimes people are in both.
- 11:39Sometimes people are only in one, but you're talking about what,
- 11:43what is the integration of these?
- 11:45How do, how do we as a family want that to look and, and what does that look like?
- 11:51I, I'm curious, Adam, in your work- What percentage of the time
- 11:55are, are next gens reaching out to you as, like, the initial point?
- 11:59Because at least for, for us, I see 50 to 60% of the time it's actually the next
- 12:05generation, because you're the one with the excitement for the future, and the
- 12:10energy, and the passion a lot of times.
- 12:13Like, "I think we can make this better.
- 12:15Let's talk about what this would look like."
- 12:17And so you can empower yourself, and you can get help to find the words if you
- 12:22don't know exactly what the words are, but you can start these conversations
- 12:28about what it looks like, because it is gonna be super impactful on you and
- 12:33the next generation, whether you're actively in the business or not, so.
- 12:37Yeah.
- 12:38Uh, f- I'm similar.
- 12:40Yeah.
- 12:41Half the time I connect with a family, it's the generation that's got ownership
- 12:46control, which is- Mm-hmm ... not always, but typically the older generation.
- 12:50Yeah.
- 12:50That, that situation flips sometimes.
- 12:53Yeah.
- 12:53Uh, and then half the time it's the g- typ- it's the generation without control.
- 12:57Yeah.
- 12:57Uh, but then my goal, when you do...
- 13:01And y'all are the same way.
- 13:02When you work with a family, different than a ca- than a CPA or a wealth
- 13:07manager for you who's looking out for y- your best interest.
- 13:11Yep.
- 13:11The goal then is to bring everybody together, and you work on that
- 13:15unique dynamic of how they work in and own the company together.
- 13:19Yeah.
- 13:19For the next gens, when you...
- 13:21Okay, so if you think, "Do I need to have a family meeting now?"
- 13:26So I took some time, and you and I talked about last time, I reflected on
- 13:29everything I'd ever learned about family companies, and wrote a book called
- 13:34The Chaos-Proof Family Business, and dedicated a few chapters to leaving.
- 13:40And there were a few questions that I wrote down, and I'll share
- 13:44a few of them, 'cause they may be helpful- Mm-hmm ... to the listeners.
- 13:48So if you are not in control of the business, I think...
- 13:53Or, or if you are, it doesn't matter.
- 13:54You, you could be in control, not in control.
- 13:56You could supervise a family member.
- 13:57Those are three distinct positions.
- 13:59I think at all times you need to have a pulse on how you're doing in the company,
- 14:04'cause remember, you're on a journey that's going to end at some point.
- 14:08Mm-hmm.
- 14:08Um, and we were joking earlier, like, something's gonna force you out if
- 14:12you, if you don't do it one day.
- 14:14Mm-hmm.
- 14:14But if you're a next gen, and I sat with, thinking back to a family from
- 14:19three months ago, remember asking the next generation, a- and you
- 14:23just ask everyone equally, "Take a minute and think, is there a future
- 14:28at this company that excites you?
- 14:31Like, you can see...
- 14:33Can you see responsibilities that you can earn, a, a type of work you
- 14:37can enjoy, the compensation that you need or want for the life you want?"
- 14:43Mm-hmm.
- 14:44Like, take a breath.
- 14:46You're probably working really hard right now.
- 14:48Family companies, we, we work hard.
- 14:52But is there something five years down the road you want?
- 14:56And
- 14:59can the organization pro- can this organization provide that to you?
- 15:05Mm-hmm.
- 15:05I have seen families that sat and said, family members who thought, "Oh,
- 15:08this is the kind of thing I wanna do."
- 15:10And Andrea, the company could not reasonably have grown into
- 15:13that within the next 10 years.
- 15:15Mm-hmm.
- 15:16Um, in tough situations, you and I probably get a lot of phone
- 15:21calls when things are hard.
- 15:23Mm-hmm.
- 15:25Can you do your job wholeheartedly?
- 15:30Hmm.
- 15:30Can you bring your talents, your opinions, your spirit, your personality?
- 15:35Can you be you in the job you have?
- 15:39Mm-hmm.
- 15:40Which a lot of times when I start working with families,
- 15:43that's something we have to do.
- 15:44We have to, 'cause a lot of us drift into jobs over time.
- 15:48Let's define the role the company needs, and then can you do that wholeheartedly?
- 15:54Mm-hmm.
- 15:55Because what's interesting in family companies...
- 15:59So I did about seven years as the head of HR in our family's company, and learned
- 16:04that employee engagement, uh, is...
- 16:08A mentor taught me it can be really simple.
- 16:11Mm-hmm.
- 16:11Like three things, okay?
- 16:12Imagine it like, uh, if you're watching on YouTube, I've got,
- 16:14uh, my fingers in a triangle.
- 16:15Three things.
- 16:18Do you enjoy your work environment?
- 16:20Are you rewarded and recognized fairly?
- 16:22And do you have a chance to develop...
- 16:24Can you see something you wanna develop to, and are you being supported?
- 16:27All right, so let me go back.
- 16:29Do you like your work environment?
- 16:30And that's typically, do you respect your boss and feel respected, and do you like
- 16:35the way everyone behaves at the company?
- 16:37All right.
- 16:37Mm-hmm.
- 16:38Just 'cause you're working at your family's company
- 16:40does not mean that is true.
- 16:42Just 'cause you report to your uncle does not mean you all work well together,
- 16:48or you will automatically work toget- well together without being intentional
- 16:54in how- Mm-hmm ... you work together.
- 16:55Mm-hmm.
- 16:55Mm-hmm.
- 16:56So to go to the second one, rewarded and recognized fairly.
- 17:01Just because you work in your family's company doesn't mean you're
- 17:04receiving market compensation, or you might be overcompensated,
- 17:08which has its own, can have its own baggage that comes with it as well.
- 17:12Yeah.
- 17:12Just because you work with your family doesn't mean you all recognize
- 17:16each other and compliment and affirm each other for what you do well.
- 17:20And then to that last side, development, just because you
- 17:24work with your family doesn't mean you can clearly see what's next.
- 17:28Hmm.
- 17:29And doesn't mean that you're being supported in getting there.
- 17:32Yeah.
- 17:32Working in a family company does not inevitably provide reward and recognition,
- 17:38development in the work environment that will make a family member wanna stay.
- 17:42Mm-hmm.
- 17:42Mm-hmm.
- 17:42So when we talk about can you do your job wholeheartedly- You would think
- 17:46when you go to work with your family, "Oh, it's just gonna be automatic."
- 17:49No.
- 17:49Like, you have to give it just the same thought, if not more-
- 17:53Mm-hmm ... than another fam- another employee in your company.
- 17:56Yeah.
- 17:56I love that example, and we have a tool called the objectives
- 17:59matrix, which we start every single person in the family off with.
- 18:02Like, what do you really want to achieve?
- 18:04And you think about your family first.
- 18:07For you, if you have a spouse or a partner, um, if you have any
- 18:12children, what are the things that you want to accomplish in life?
- 18:16I, I love the, the triangle, and, but sometimes maybe growth is important to
- 18:23you, but maybe you're at a stage of life, you're like, "Actually, that's not, that's
- 18:27not something that is super important to me or that I'm optimizing for right now."
- 18:31And so to be able to put words behind, "Yeah, that's a deal breaker.
- 18:35I need to be compensated fairly.
- 18:37And that's a deal breaker for me because if I am not compensated
- 18:40fairly, then I'm gonna walk away."
- 18:42Or, if my siblings are working in the business and they're being compensated
- 18:46the same as me, but they're not working, they're not actually working, they're
- 18:50just getting compensation because they're part of the family and, and
- 18:54that's how it was set up, that could feel like a deal breaker to you.
- 18:58And any of those things are valid, right?
- 19:00It doesn't, your impression of what is a deal breaker or what is not
- 19:04doesn't really matter to other people.
- 19:05You just need to have conviction around what are the things
- 19:08that are most important to you.
- 19:10Because then as you start to explore, "Should I stay?
- 19:14Should I go?
- 19:15Um, how fast is it gonna go?
- 19:17What is the timeline gonna look like?"
- 19:19All of these other pieces that can start to come out as you make decisions on, on
- 19:24all of that, you can actually make them grounded in, "Okay, I actually know what
- 19:29are the most important things to me."
- 19:32And so I, I just wanted to bring in, I think there's some inner
- 19:35work, too, to do as well before you're just in a family meeting.
- 19:40Like, I'm assuming you put a lot of thought in before you went into the
- 19:44family meeting and said, "I think I'm ready to, to go kind of do this thing."
- 19:48Like, like, you had, you had really thought about what that would look
- 19:51like and what the case would be so that you could come with a compelling
- 19:55case to start a conversation.
- 19:56So maybe can you take us a little bit- Mm-hmm ... to that moment
- 19:58around wh- how, how you told, um, and what that conversation looked like?
- 20:03Yeah.
- 20:04What I l- liked, even hearing the way you asked that, is because we were in family
- 20:10meetings, again, these meetings focused on how we work in and own the company
- 20:15together, it wasn't a surprise topic.
- 20:18Mm-hmm.
- 20:20And it actually evolved over time.
- 20:23It wasn't an acute moment.
- 20:25And so- Mm ... this is something that I like to do with families.
- 20:28Our family consultant did it with us.
- 20:30Before we got to the meeting, he emailed out a prompt, and
- 20:35he had us imagine headlines.
- 20:38And he said, "Think three..."
- 20:40It was either three or five.
- 20:41"Think three to five years out."
- 20:44What headlines would you want the local newspaper to be writing about you,
- 20:51about the family, about the company?
- 20:55Mm-hmm.
- 20:56And you were supposed to do it independently.
- 21:00So my siblings, my parents, and you're not supposed to look- Mm-hmm ... or
- 21:04send them to anybody ahead of time.
- 21:06And of course, he would talk with us before the meeting.
- 21:08Yeah, yeah.
- 21:09And I didn't write, "My time is now."
- 21:12Like, that was not one of my headlines.
- 21:15But in doing that, it gave me space to reflect.
- 21:18So I need to tell you a little bit about me.
- 21:21I believe if you work in your family's company, that you need to
- 21:25always be working yourself out of a job, just like any other company.
- 21:30If, if you, if your family's company depends on you, that company is as
- 21:35vulnerable as any non-family company.
- 21:38Mm-hmm.
- 21:39That is why succession and development exists.
- 21:43And so if I'm going to teach that in the company, I had to live it.
- 21:48Mm-hmm.
- 21:48And so over time, Andrea, we were growing the company.
- 21:52I was always working to replace myself with people that were better than me.
- 21:57So that's going on when I have to answer this question.
- 22:01And in answering it, I realized that it was time for me to
- 22:06start letting go of my roles.
- 22:09Mm-hmm.
- 22:11And I wrote that, and as we sat in the meeting...
- 22:14But then, a- and so that was it.
- 22:15I just said- Mm-hmm ... "My time in these roles has ended because there
- 22:19are people ready to take them."
- 22:22Mm-hmm.
- 22:23"And the company will be better for that."
- 22:25Now, I didn't think the headline all the way through from there.
- 22:29But what was nice about it, and was not threatening and didn't make that scary
- 22:33to say, is one, there were no executives.
- 22:37Mm-hmm.
- 22:37That wasn't a team meeting.
- 22:39There was no...
- 22:39That was just us- Mm ... the fam- the family members, the ownership,
- 22:44like, just my siblings and my parents.
- 22:47Mm-hmm.
- 22:47And then everyone else did the same thing.
- 22:50So I got to hear what was important to each of them, and
- 22:53what they hoped for and imagined.
- 22:56Yeah.
- 22:56So i- i- if it sounded like it was some, you know, bomb
- 23:00shock in a meeting, it wasn't.
- 23:00It was actually very gradual, and it started with everybody
- 23:04thinking three to five years out.
- 23:08Mm-hmm.
- 23:09I love that, and I think just the space, there's so many different activities and
- 23:13questions and conversation structures.
- 23:16Like, the world is, is so infinite in how these things might come up, so
- 23:20you can figure out what works best for you, what works best for your family.
- 23:23But I love that it came up in a natural way, that it came up around, uh,
- 23:29ambitions, and it was rooted in, in what was important to you, that you were gonna
- 23:33be able to do that, and that was already a value- that they, that they knew you had.
- 23:39And that is just an excerpt of a much longer conversation
- 23:44that Andrea and I have.
- 23:46I'm gonna link to the transition specialists in the show notes.
- 23:51You'll be able to get to the full version of the podcast, and I am excited for
- 23:57you to hear the whole conversation.
- 23:58I hope this was helpful to you.
- 24:01Every month when we put out this podcast, we wanna give you somewhere
- 24:08between 20 and 30 minutes just to think about how your family works
- 24:12in and owns the company together.
- 24:1421 Clear, when you look at us from an entire content perspective,
- 24:19each month we publish a podcast, a newsletter, and somewhere between
- 24:2312 and 15 posts on LinkedIn.
- 24:26If you take all those together, it's about an hour of your time each month,
- 24:30and all that content is meant to help you think about the dynamics of how you
- 24:35work in and own your company together.
- 24:38There's a lot of stuff about how to deal...
- 24:40You know, develop yourself personally.
- 24:42There's a lot about how to set smart business strategy, but
- 24:45that inner family business is something that's hard to focus on.
- 24:49So our hope is that each of the things that we publish helps you do that.
- 24:53In the show notes, you can subscribe to the newsletter and follow me on LinkedIn.
- 24:58Here's some of the stuff you'll see too.
- 25:00I had a former CEO of his family's company jump into the comments on a
- 25:06post that I wrote, and it actually relates to leaving your family company.
- 25:10So I want to close us with this, and I hope this is an endorsement to you for
- 25:14spending more time just thinking about and reading and listening to things
- 25:19about how you work with your family.
- 25:20All right.
- 25:21So in response to a post I had put up on LinkedIn about leaving,
- 25:25Pete stepped in and wrote this.
- 25:28He says, "Eight years ago, I hired a succession coach to begin
- 25:32transitioning the business to my son.
- 25:35Thirty days in, the coach met with me and said, 'You need to leave.
- 25:42Your voice is simply too big, even though you don't carry the title.'
- 25:47So I was there on Friday and gone on Monday, and the next year of
- 25:52my life was at best difficult."
- 25:57And then Pete goes on to share practical advice that he has learned
- 26:02in reflecting on his exit that he would give to anyone else, particularly if
- 26:07you are the controlling generation, either by title or by ownership
- 26:12or both in your family company.
- 26:14That, y'all, is the value of engaging this deeper inner
- 26:18family business work and thought.
- 26:20So I hope this podcast has helped you.
- 26:22I hope LinkedIn and the newsletter help you, and every part of
- 26:28this is about helping you better chaos-proof your family company.
- 26:32I appreciate you joining us.
- 26:34I look forward to the-- being with you in the next episode, and as my
- 26:37grandfather would have said, thank you so very, very much for listening.