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THE TUBONGE SHOW-REVENGE FOR MOM???? · BLACK HOT FIRE NETWORK SHOW'S

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  Speaker 7: and let's talk about everything and nothing.
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  Speaker 4: What's nothing?
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  Speaker 8: You know?
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  Speaker 5: I mean anything is nothing?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Literally, are you doing something amazing?
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  Speaker 8: Thank you?
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  Speaker 5: I appreciate me and I'm so happy. Yeah, I've just
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  Speaker 5: been on my happy.
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  Speaker 4: More than Monday.
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  Speaker 7: I've never prayed for stuff, but like wanted something so
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  Speaker 7: bad and then it's just close.
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  Speaker 4: You're Yeah, I've.
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  Speaker 7: Been saying this for a really low because I think
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  Speaker 7: that is what is keeping my week really hard. That's
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  Speaker 7: a sad but I'm happy for you to thank you
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  Speaker 7: so much?
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  Speaker 4: You too, How are you? I'm great? Can complain? Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: just looking forward to so much that I'm supposed to
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  Speaker 4: be doing. I'm just so norvous. That's so they say,
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  Speaker 4: if it doesn't scare.
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  Speaker 7: You, it's not yeah, absolutely, Like if it doesn't scare you,
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  Speaker 7: if it doesn't bring that adrenally, because maybe it isn't adrenal.
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  Speaker 7: And I think I'm very good at a pressure. Like pressure, Okay,
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  Speaker 7: I work very well at that. I don't know how
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  Speaker 7: I find myself calm, you know you funny a maker. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: I work so well at a pressure. So I definitely know.
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  Speaker 7: If it doesn't scare you, if it doesn't give you
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  Speaker 7: that adrenaline, if it doesn't make you anxious.
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  Speaker 4: It's not worthy.
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  Speaker 7: People people like if someone doesn't give you that, that
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  Speaker 7: they're not really worth your life.
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  Speaker 4: That's so. But yeah, so you guys, that's whatever.
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  Speaker 5: It's gonna be.
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  Speaker 6: Well, it's well. Many people have been asking me I'm feeling.
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  Speaker 6: The people I'm working with, they're like, men, a scared,
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  Speaker 6: you know, the data appression.
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  Speaker 4: I'm like, man, I'm just scared. I'm never I'm excited.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know how I'm feeling, but I just know
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  Speaker 6: I'm nervous but also excited.
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  Speaker 4: So I'm looking forward every day. It's gonna be. Okay,
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  Speaker 4: it's gonna be. But I'm speaking about being Okay.
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  Speaker 3: This.
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  Speaker 6: Of red Bull not really really funny thing. I'm not,
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  Speaker 6: but I've seen this anymore different colors. I love Strawberry.
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  Speaker 6: It's really good because happened to like the what's the
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  Speaker 6: power play?
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  Speaker 4: So Red Bull?
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  Speaker 7: The blue one is basic, Yeah you're spoiler blue. Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: this one is giving more whatever it like.
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  Speaker 4: I'm pretty fer the blue one.
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  Speaker 7: He come upredator, But tis so this strawberry, this is
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  Speaker 7: like apricot and strawberry.
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  Speaker 4: Okay, so it's even better than a better taste your taste. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's really that's I'm trying. You know, I'm not gonna
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  Speaker 4: use it. Of course, I'm not buying that. Yeah, I can't.
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  Speaker 5: I don't buy.
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  Speaker 4: I took it from my friends at the time.
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  Speaker 6: Actually, I used to love Red Bull so much because
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  Speaker 6: the time and it's actually to take it like a lot, so.
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  Speaker 4: For energy drink time and then start.
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  Speaker 6: Actually taking free data like for a very long time
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  Speaker 6: because family used to reac.
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  Speaker 4: You're gonna because like man once pas enjoy you know
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  Speaker 4: either way dat Yeah, you know. So I used to
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  Speaker 4: take it a lot.
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  Speaker 6: Then when we met Nick the first time, That's why
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  Speaker 6: I was so discussed and stopped taking energy drink for
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  Speaker 6: a minutely read.
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  Speaker 4: Both specifically in some of the ingredients.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know how factuate this is, but Niche and
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  Speaker 6: I kind of do think because most of these things
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  Speaker 6: is a common factor and important or back to Africa,
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  Speaker 6: like our.
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  Speaker 4: People have the first information, first information about a lot
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  Speaker 4: of things that we do.
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  Speaker 6: Red Bull, you know, I know, I have so disgusted
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  Speaker 6: to because and cooler, then to grab some drinks and.
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  Speaker 5: Like example, I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 8: I know.
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  Speaker 4: My explanation about drinks.
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  Speaker 5: They're not healthy and people are just we do ye
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  Speaker 5: like they're not healthy.
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  Speaker 7: And Redpool is powerful because like having percentages, a lot
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  Speaker 7: of people don't like it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, thank god, it's kind of expressed the same price
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  Speaker 4: as a beer. Yeah, you know what, I'm waiting for
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  Speaker 4: red club and I like my change.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll do that, go to my friends.
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  Speaker 7: But I go to a club, but I'm still going
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  Speaker 7: outside to get the energy I'm not They don't allow it.
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  Speaker 4: He loves allowing our bag.
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  Speaker 7: I love you.
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  Speaker 4: You have to be somewhere because daughter, I'll be clos
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  Speaker 4: you are so like they don't allow drinks club club join. Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you can't get here.
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  Speaker 7: But for me, I don't buy, like I guess, go
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  Speaker 7: to my friends to keep I carry. Yeah, spuse gives
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  Speaker 7: you by two.
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  Speaker 6: People are calling around like all the colors taking them
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  Speaker 6: on fridge the blue and I don't know, I am coming.
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  Speaker 4: I know about six back, you're two thousands? Why bro
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  Speaker 4: from it's crazy? But let us know.
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  Speaker 6: For those that's on the radio, you can keep your
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  Speaker 6: comments coming via the show pages. And of course this
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  Speaker 6: is always the time when you remind you to the
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  Speaker 6: But of course if you're listening to us, I do
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  Speaker 6: believe you have the application and that's why you can
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  Speaker 6: have and clear today's conversation, I found a very funny
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  Speaker 6: posted convo and I said, I'm gonna talk about this
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  Speaker 6: a little bit because it's the audacity and I.
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  Speaker 4: Want to which type of what would make you?
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  Speaker 6: How much do you have with clean you and anger
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  Speaker 6: for you to be to hold grade for this long?
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  Speaker 6: I'm gonna say A good example is what we discuss
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  Speaker 6: two weeks ago about the mom who figured out their
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  Speaker 6: daughter knew their dad had a side cheek and they
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  Speaker 6: have been dating for months.
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  Speaker 4: She's been planning how well they're gonna go boop in
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  Speaker 4: the hotels. The moms can't figure out. She kicked the
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  Speaker 4: daughter out and we we we said more.
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  Speaker 6: We discussed because as a parent of course we're gonna
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  Speaker 6: look at it from an angle of our parent.
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  Speaker 4: But at the same time, age she is not because
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  Speaker 4: he's not a young kid. This is someone idea or
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  Speaker 4: whatever going to the States. They leave, they're growing en up.
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  Speaker 8: You know.
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  Speaker 4: So on this case, now you have a daughter on
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  Speaker 4: the other end. So she says, my dad cheated on
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  Speaker 4: my mom and started treating us very bad when I
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  Speaker 4: was fourteen.
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  Speaker 6: When I was fourteen, So when they were fourteen, the
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  Speaker 6: dad children on their mom, and uh, he started treating them.
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  Speaker 4: And she says now that he too.
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  Speaker 6: And I traced the woman he cheated with on Facebook,
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  Speaker 6: found out she's married and started talking her husband.
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  Speaker 4: Now me and the husbands are dating.
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  Speaker 5: Thank you bad for your mom. It's a really cool
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  Speaker 5: I mean, he don't lessense, but.
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  Speaker 7: Because like I feel like for you, for you to
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  Speaker 7: go and well, for you to go and cheat on
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  Speaker 7: somebody's husband, he does nothing to do with you. He
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  Speaker 7: does nothing to do with for me, it is you.
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  Speaker 7: And then you look at the lineags but automatically when
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  Speaker 7: she grew up, goes to date. We're talking about on
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  Speaker 7: mental health, I'm talking about nature and natural right, Yeah,
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  Speaker 7: like you're a product of your environs imagine, yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 7: you're not cheating that so you I don't know, maybe
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  Speaker 7: you could take mental because she can't make a lexity.
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  Speaker 7: I'm cheating because she cheated on my guess you're just
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  Speaker 7: like when I am into because that was not your
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  Speaker 7: problem to deal with one. If your parents are cheating,
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  Speaker 7: if your mom is sitting walking my mother and the
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  Speaker 7: cool I'll come up the back and I'm just drawn
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  Speaker 7: near talking. I tell her relationship. She didn't walk away.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, So for you to come and say, oh, this
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  Speaker 4: is just the fact for me to cheat, to both
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  Speaker 4: cheat on this man's as bad that has bad.
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  Speaker 6: It's also I feel like it comes from a very
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  Speaker 6: because most of the comments go to therapy, Yes, job,
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  Speaker 6: go for therapy, because that comes from a very.
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  Speaker 4: You've lived with this from since you got fourteen until
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  Speaker 4: you that you too.
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  Speaker 6: This is like, this is something that I've been living
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  Speaker 6: in your head for the longest time, and you've been
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  Speaker 6: fine trying to to figure out how you can revenge
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  Speaker 6: on this woman.
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  Speaker 4: Where is your mom? And why why am I and
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  Speaker 4: the rest of the siblings doing the same as you?
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  Speaker 4: And I'm trying to look at the reason I was discussing.
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  Speaker 6: This is because I come from I'd say the same
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  Speaker 6: type of behavior. Then I didn't coping, Nane. My dad
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  Speaker 6: had seen him literally because my dad didn't me.
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  Speaker 4: He still has.
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  Speaker 6: Any scandals of him moving around with women. Customer AMAI
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  Speaker 6: and I here Bosona. So I remember the my mom
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  Speaker 6: being the first wife, because my dad has been married
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  Speaker 6: to the wife's three right, so.
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  Speaker 4: My mom was the first one. I'm the first born.
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  Speaker 4: So my mom was.
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  Speaker 6: Pregnant based Theaki based mango my dad cheated with based
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  Speaker 6: their manga based their mango. Okay, like she went to
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  Speaker 6: the if you don't like what a woman to do
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  Speaker 6: on a ball, take overka Nana.
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  Speaker 4: So now looking at.
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  Speaker 6: Her, how my mom had los the situation because I
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  Speaker 6: remember when she told me officially the story where I
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  Speaker 6: officially got to know this story now being a teenager,
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  Speaker 6: and I'm like, damn one, how does a friend do that?
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  Speaker 6: You know we'll see the stair of course from the
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  Speaker 6: word goal, because the fact.
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  Speaker 4: Where's it good?
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  Speaker 6: Probably from the word goal that is just a red flash.
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  Speaker 6: Then secondly when she told me and then now coming
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  Speaker 6: to meet my brother, she never told me like from
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  Speaker 6: a point of hate, Nana, she exchanged. I understood where
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  Speaker 6: I'm coming from, the background I'm coming from, and what
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  Speaker 6: happened and why they're not together. So understanding that later
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  Speaker 6: sudden we're moving moving, I now met my step mom
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  Speaker 6: are peeling, but she doesn't live there anymore.
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  Speaker 4: She's not married to someone else.
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  Speaker 6: In my time, we became actually very cool. Actually I
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  Speaker 6: just want my half anything. I'm like she's she was
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  Speaker 6: so gorgeous, like I love from coving, Like, hey, yeah,
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  Speaker 6: I'd be proud to be Actually you equally new step mom.
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  Speaker 4: I'm my mom because he apple like my dad used
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  Speaker 4: to know how to pick she They were like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: so looking at now my dad's step mom. After meeting
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  Speaker 4: her and the stories.
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  Speaker 6: Now she's telling me about the second wife and raising
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  Speaker 6: of course the second child of my dad.
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  Speaker 4: It all came with some sort of negative reflection.
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  Speaker 6: Then you are mean if anyone perceive, hey, hey he
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  Speaker 6: could have anything come after mama, you know, because when
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  Speaker 6: she was being married, no, no, and then the kid
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  Speaker 6: was analysing I'm not wonderful, could not be the step
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  Speaker 6: moms like raising a kid that is not theirs, and
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  Speaker 6: especially so it's like find anything possible, huzza to mark
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  Speaker 6: the territory and to also showcase and matters type shit,
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  Speaker 6: you know, because that's what my step mom used to give.
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  Speaker 6: Literally because don't after me moving in, like it was
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  Speaker 6: so difficult for me to settle in letters many humor
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  Speaker 6: like Nicole schul Is opening a book like god damn,
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  Speaker 6: she was really so hard breaking.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna like then.
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  Speaker 6: Dumps this story so looking at it like because I
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  Speaker 6: was answer, I was intelligent enough to know what she
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  Speaker 6: was doing, but may never like squing gizar jooky.
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  Speaker 4: Every time I could meet with them, called like sang Jerry,
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  Speaker 4: you know, because she was annual sang Jerry.
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  Speaker 6: Your momnt collect and then my mom the same thing
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  Speaker 6: too before our time a period of getting super super sick.
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  Speaker 6: She later on I can introduce attack too. So of
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  Speaker 6: course they are cool with my dad's step mom, but
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  Speaker 6: they're not met in a long time with it second
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  Speaker 6: wife the step mom, so like no joby and like,
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  Speaker 6: yeah we meet, we have no issue. This is how
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  Speaker 6: I came to meet my brother after high school. Funny
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  Speaker 6: thing we met after high school, then we became cool
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  Speaker 6: friends with my dad.
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  Speaker 4: Got a job please watcher.
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  Speaker 6: Then going back on the same same negative talk from
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  Speaker 6: my step mom, the dad.
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  Speaker 4: One about now my step brother the brother you like, man, bro,
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  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna do that whether you like it or
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  Speaker 4: not to siblings.
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  Speaker 5: Not sharklick because.
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  Speaker 2: We were cool.
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  Speaker 4: Man was so cooled my dreams because I'm leaking it's
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  Speaker 4: so cute. Yeah I do.
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  Speaker 6: I do love my second brother, but from tell him
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  Speaker 6: that is my favorite favorite one and another like d
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  Speaker 6: like my favorite. So it's it's it's It has to
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  Speaker 6: come from a point of you being mature enough as
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  Speaker 6: you grow up to understand. Number one, this is not
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  Speaker 6: your life. This is a part into the life of
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  Speaker 6: your parents. Come on, and my hime, it was some
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  Speaker 6: one from a very long time.
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  Speaker 4: One thing wasn't.
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  Speaker 7: Mand It has nothing to do with the woman. Trust
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  Speaker 7: me for a man to go, she don't go fight
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  Speaker 7: the woman. Honestly, the man is my friend. That's a
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  Speaker 7: grown ups man. This is we make I don't think
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  Speaker 7: it is the woman. The one was to find a job.
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  Speaker 7: But I don't know what the date this should comes from.
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  Speaker 7: The man that so a man took she was always
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  Speaker 7: a vising like it was just your dad's. He had
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  Speaker 7: nothing to do with her.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, that I actually had to understand that thing because
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  Speaker 6: I'm not standing twelve because I met my dad when
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  Speaker 6: I was eleven, so actually I was standing that team
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  Speaker 6: and I'm not never standing that team. And when I
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  Speaker 6: was twelve, so a Mary, because this is about Hanniki
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  Speaker 6: can collect them. Because I was nervous. Then my mom
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  Speaker 6: went to take me to meet my dad acuniambi here
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  Speaker 6: like it was ver twenty and then I always knew something.
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  Speaker 4: It's really fishy if my mom leaves my brother behind, like.
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  Speaker 6: How m do some things he doesn't want? My brother
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  Speaker 6: justn't call like happy this time wherever and this time.
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  Speaker 6: She then picked the clothes I'm wearing. She never used
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  Speaker 6: to do that because like hmm, moranavas cat.
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  Speaker 4: Like this cat.
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  Speaker 6: However, med cover and of course to fool me and Mama,
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  Speaker 6: she pulls Upika, I meet a guy. Me and I
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  Speaker 6: woke up and I only drew a mino dark what
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  Speaker 6: I don't even know how to ask you? So long
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  Speaker 6: sorry shots went back home. So first word come be Cberthad.
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  Speaker 6: That's my birthday twenty twelve. Yeah, so I call my
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  Speaker 6: dad since I can't even number still to date very quick.
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  Speaker 6: I don't know why, but like hey, it's a it's
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  Speaker 6: my birthday and I wanted you to send me something.
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  Speaker 6: I go get a cake or just celebrate or her
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  Speaker 6: mom hoped me something. My mom was really preparing, like
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  Speaker 6: that was the first time I had some homemade pizza
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  Speaker 6: and it was so delicious. Son, just talking crazy to me,
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  Speaker 6: you cause like number one, I don't know you like that.
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  Speaker 4: We just met. You know, you're supposed to be more nice,
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  Speaker 4: more night, be nice to you. You want to know
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  Speaker 4: me as your daughter. So now you're not.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, now you come da allowed to normably Bliza because
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  Speaker 6: now looking at the story my ALM was telling me,
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  Speaker 6: and I'm leeting my dad and he's married to a
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  Speaker 6: dead wife like this, the probably is not later on
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  Speaker 6: now he has a third wife still too, whom you
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  Speaker 6: guys might be having a brother outside one Annie.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, so that is personally that.
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  Speaker 6: Very crazy, like probably having so many unknown siblings. But
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  Speaker 6: the good parties, I'm the original one, not have little prince.
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  Speaker 6: And it's crazy because she went to say Ati and
• 20:24
  Speaker 6: if if she has a daughter, I'm most coming for
• 20:26
  Speaker 6: a husband to so you can go for there.
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: Then you are your side.
• 20:31
  Speaker 5: Your reciting goes back to and that's what I tell you.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: It goes back to mental issues.
• 20:35
  Speaker 7: Yeah, mental it's something that you are discussing in the morning,
• 20:40
  Speaker 7: and then you should question yourself the where does that
• 20:42
  Speaker 7: come from? But it comes from a perspective of nature.
• 20:46
  Speaker 7: You grew up seeing a dad whoch and you might
• 20:48
  Speaker 7: not know, but it might have affected you. And this
• 20:52
  Speaker 7: is you clear in your trauma. You're a traumatized person.
• 20:55
  Speaker 7: You need to go see a doctor because it's not
• 20:59
  Speaker 7: normal for you to go and sleep with somebody's husband.
• 21:03
  Speaker 4: That's your man, your your husband actually sleep That's.
• 21:12
  Speaker 5: It doesn't really much.
• 21:13
  Speaker 4: You are your dads in this Schoolchie.
• 21:16
  Speaker 6: Then this guy you're about to go Messa with the
• 21:19
  Speaker 6: husband has been schoolchie.
• 21:21
  Speaker 5: It's like discs.
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: At about it. So you need to go see your doctor.
• 21:29
  Speaker 7: It's not normal and you can't justify that, like I
• 21:32
  Speaker 7: love not justification your chitty Sittingever, it's a personal ship.
• 21:36
  Speaker 7: We don't say just because just because just because I cheat,
• 21:42
  Speaker 7: you will cheat if I die. I was just born
• 21:45
  Speaker 7: a chitter. That's just it has nothing to do with
• 21:47
  Speaker 7: somebody your character.
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: Yeah, it is your character. It's your personal disisue. That
• 21:52
  Speaker 4: is true.
• 21:52
  Speaker 6: The conversation go to therapy. If someone says that is
• 21:56
  Speaker 6: the issue, the same thing, not the lady. And then
• 22:00
  Speaker 6: someone says that, I mean, she ain't got she ain't.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: She ain't right or wrong. So the people are supporting her,
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: that people, she's so wrong. This is not how it's
• 22:09
  Speaker 4: supposed to be.
• 22:10
  Speaker 6: So I hope people can learn how to move on
• 22:13
  Speaker 6: from traumas, because sometimes one thing I've understood about trauma
• 22:17
  Speaker 6: and personally for me from a very traumatic point of
• 22:20
  Speaker 6: my life. I was even telling kids it was looking
• 22:22
  Speaker 6: I think, jokes about it on I think last week
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: or manly talking about how I never used to my
• 22:28
  Speaker 6: like when I joined black or time because I got
• 22:30
  Speaker 6: for a point and told me, hey, smile, that's my lily.
• 22:33
  Speaker 4: That's what I asked him blankly. Smile is also funny,
• 22:37
  Speaker 4: you know, because I really come from a very hard.
• 22:41
  Speaker 6: Point of my life and hard point of my life
• 22:44
  Speaker 6: that I don't see anything funny, you know, and find
• 22:48
  Speaker 6: a cousin and a home product or my goddamn business
• 22:52
  Speaker 6: like this the reason so if I have enough, don't
• 22:58
  Speaker 6: move home after so so we was he was making
• 23:01
  Speaker 6: a joke about it, and I'm like, man, looking at it.
• 23:03
  Speaker 6: Actually it's not because I couldn't smile. There was nothing
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: to smile about, Like there was nothing happy about my
• 23:13
  Speaker 6: life about that at that point, Like I'm yes, I
• 23:17
  Speaker 6: have a job, but I'm living in someone's house who
• 23:19
  Speaker 6: is giving me her oppression out because men a cozy
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: and because I know I'm already.
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: And you are, I'm showing off like I was.
• 23:27
  Speaker 6: I was just stressed the eff out, so looking at
• 23:30
  Speaker 6: him for like and then I remem also the patterns
• 23:32
  Speaker 6: of the time. So I used to cry a lot,
• 23:34
  Speaker 6: like lat after getting drunk still makes jokes about it.
• 23:37
  Speaker 4: I'm looking little and I'm like, man, I's so grown,
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: so so pass everything. Yeah, so past everything that used
• 23:44
  Speaker 4: to make.
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: Me cry because I could get vulnerable at sometimes I'm
• 23:48
  Speaker 6: trying to get a mark.
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: I'm a zazzy I get some so I do some
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: type of way.
• 23:52
  Speaker 6: I'm like, I started missing my mom, you know, like
• 23:55
  Speaker 6: the this happened, looking at maybe people who have close
• 23:59
  Speaker 6: relationship with that, like my dad, you know, why did.
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: You do this to me?
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: Then?
• 24:04
  Speaker 4: Like this was all trauma.
• 24:06
  Speaker 6: It was nothing because as this is why I was
• 24:09
  Speaker 6: a person. It was trauma that was making me so
• 24:13
  Speaker 6: miserable in that point of my life.
• 24:16
  Speaker 7: You know, it makes so much sense to be because
• 24:18
  Speaker 7: like today Sella, Sella, she was explaining from show you
• 24:23
  Speaker 7: and of course the brain and paid. So Stella was
• 24:26
  Speaker 7: actually explaining how trauma is related to identity and stress. Yeah,
• 24:33
  Speaker 7: and she was saying from from our discussions we discussed
• 24:37
  Speaker 7: that trauma is a reaction of stuff that might have
• 24:41
  Speaker 7: happened to your life at the time of your life
• 24:45
  Speaker 7: Kuna chronic huna una shorter trauma maybe yeh, which is
• 24:52
  Speaker 7: like stress which is shorter.
• 24:54
  Speaker 4: And then there is like and then there is trauma.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: Now pie for the longest.
• 24:58
  Speaker 7: Time on trauma and when you are under that and
• 25:02
  Speaker 7: you haven't like really got it because the more the trauma,
• 25:06
  Speaker 7: the more the time of healing time, your more you pilot,
• 25:11
  Speaker 7: the more time you take to hear that is true.
• 25:13
  Speaker 7: And then and then you're saying how trauma can can
• 25:16
  Speaker 7: change your identity. So because trauma is a trigger, like
• 25:21
  Speaker 7: it's like like it's just a trigger from a perspective
• 25:24
  Speaker 7: of if you see something that reminds you of them,
• 25:27
  Speaker 7: that trigger just a small.
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: Thing and through accidents wait wait, wait, wait, For example, whatever.
• 25:35
  Speaker 7: You said, like oh you had somebody talking to their
• 25:38
  Speaker 7: mouth something triggers that and then you start reacting, So
• 25:43
  Speaker 7: that is trauma, like the reaction, that's something trigger that
• 25:47
  Speaker 7: reminds you back of whatever that was. And then it
• 25:51
  Speaker 7: can actually come with your identity, so come on confidence
• 26:00
  Speaker 7: for week and stuff like that, and then you now
• 26:03
  Speaker 7: start believing like that's the norm. I'm there, like this
• 26:07
  Speaker 7: is normal, this is me. So trauma can actually affect
• 26:11
  Speaker 7: also your identity and your belief that. But and then
• 26:15
  Speaker 7: also she talked about it from a space of it's killable. Yeah,
• 26:19
  Speaker 7: she talked about it from a space of curable, from
• 26:23
  Speaker 7: a space of nature and nature because it can also
• 26:26
  Speaker 7: come from come a violence. You can come from also
• 26:29
  Speaker 7: your environs and let and starve how you are natural
• 26:33
  Speaker 7: and in a perfect in life. So you have to
• 26:37
  Speaker 7: also identify and at first acceptance. Yeah, acceptance, taky, it
• 26:43
  Speaker 7: is what it is. You don't accept it, you're always
• 26:48
  Speaker 7: drowned into not finding a solution because time in your car.
• 26:57
  Speaker 4: Your trauma.
• 26:59
  Speaker 7: And yet yeah you at But if those people who
• 27:03
  Speaker 7: like get problems and then snap out of it so fast,
• 27:07
  Speaker 7: it helps them so much to heal, It helps them
• 27:10
  Speaker 7: so much to heal from traumatic stuff. And maybe those
• 27:15
  Speaker 7: even who are not I don't care so much their
• 27:17
  Speaker 7: mental health on that.
• 27:18
  Speaker 5: But I can't sad.
• 27:20
  Speaker 7: I like instead of instead of saying guy, gotta do what,
• 27:26
  Speaker 7: I'm saying so what and what now? You know, like
• 27:30
  Speaker 7: so what is nika so entirely appen interg fear.
• 27:35
  Speaker 4: Amor now what now? What is now? What is the solution? Now?
• 27:40
  Speaker 4: What is so what?
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: And then so what is like whatever? And then like,
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: oh my god, this is the end of me.
• 27:49
  Speaker 7: I'm gonna kill email because I had a bad father.
• 27:55
  Speaker 7: I can't live with imago and stuff like that. So
• 27:58
  Speaker 7: it's about like how you get out of it, and
• 28:00
  Speaker 7: it's about so and then she explained the importance. She
• 28:04
  Speaker 7: said joy something to do with joy like joy ne
• 28:08
  Speaker 7: you're feeling it's it's how you feel joy. But she explained,
• 28:11
  Speaker 7: imagine doing something and that's how do you feel about it?
• 28:13
  Speaker 7: I feel joy, right, It's a feeling if you want
• 28:16
  Speaker 7: to get away from because you said sorry, like I
• 28:19
  Speaker 7: was so mad at myself there was no reason to smile.
• 28:22
  Speaker 7: But the small joy you get you find like things
• 28:24
  Speaker 7: that make you happy. You surround yourself around joy, and
• 28:28
  Speaker 7: then you start changing your perspective. Just find joy in anything,
• 28:33
  Speaker 7: like of course you're not going to be joyful the
• 28:35
  Speaker 7: whole day. You're not going to You're not You're not God,
• 28:37
  Speaker 7: You're not going to be joyful the whole year. There
• 28:41
  Speaker 7: does mellow perspective. But find joy in even small things
• 28:46
  Speaker 7: like just find joy. Joy helps you get a lot,
• 28:50
  Speaker 7: you know, idea away from.
• 28:53
  Speaker 4: Things that don't matter. Because like.
• 29:01
  Speaker 7: The day you call it, I had so much joy
• 29:03
  Speaker 7: compared to the sadness. I do not at a solution
• 29:06
  Speaker 7: here with too a racker compared to you if you
• 29:09
  Speaker 7: would just be sad in your own So she said, acceptance,
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: finding joy, spending joy in anything like that. Overwhelmed, not
• 29:21
  Speaker 7: because seper so much. For example, you had the job right,
• 29:25
  Speaker 7: but you were doing the same thing into your grand
• 29:26
  Speaker 7: collect job. I'm gonna take a break, com I'm overwhelmed
• 29:32
  Speaker 7: today at anthing.
• 29:35
  Speaker 5: Breathe do something to come and you overwhelming.
• 29:40
  Speaker 7: It's commonly pointing you as evolution because in Russia now
• 29:43
  Speaker 7: you have a problem. But find joy in everything. It
• 29:46
  Speaker 7: really helps because trauma. See see it in me and
• 29:49
  Speaker 7: cure reball. And it doesn't mean because your family was
• 29:52
  Speaker 7: that you're gonna be You can actually be move it.
• 29:56
  Speaker 7: It doesn't mean joby because I came from a bad
• 29:59
  Speaker 7: famil saying and to be a good mom. Nobody the personage,
• 30:04
  Speaker 7: but people have actually come from very bad familys.
• 30:07
  Speaker 4: But you see she's like the best person to their kids.
• 30:11
  Speaker 7: Their kids are listen, I'd never ask for better mom,
• 30:14
  Speaker 7: I'd never a better parents.
• 30:16
  Speaker 5: So you can naturally cut it out that.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: You need just see interesting day, I hope, yeah, it
• 30:30
  Speaker 4: was on.
• 30:30
  Speaker 7: My because it could just dreamy and where's the car? Yeah,
• 30:36
  Speaker 7: So we look on to first young she joined on
• 30:39
  Speaker 7: hair and also this she was like a very interactive conversation.
• 30:43
  Speaker 7: Today we're talking about emotions, trauma, emotional control, identity and stress.
• 30:51
  Speaker 4: Nice.
• 30:52
  Speaker 5: So next week, so they all eight weeks, you have
• 30:54
  Speaker 5: different topics.
• 30:55
  Speaker 7: So next week we have a different that we have
• 30:59
  Speaker 7: we have candles, that is a counselor who comes and
• 31:03
  Speaker 7: gives the exper That is really such.
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: A dead conversation because it's literally true. I've never thought
• 31:09
  Speaker 6: about it that way.
• 31:10
  Speaker 4: But I didn't know. I didn't know.
• 31:12
  Speaker 6: Actually trauma can actually change your personality because again astrology me,
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: I'm reaving on astrology somewhow, and some messages I used
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: to receive was still receive about my past. You find
• 31:25
  Speaker 6: the people reading the tarots that you went through a
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: certain traumatic point of your life and it kind of
• 31:32
  Speaker 6: changed who you are.
• 31:33
  Speaker 4: Because looking at for like them really really did. It
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: really changed me.
• 31:37
  Speaker 6: Because looking at how I grew up with my mom
• 31:39
  Speaker 6: and before she passed away, I was such a joyful
• 31:42
  Speaker 6: person by the way, impossible, you know, like I used
• 31:49
  Speaker 6: to see life from a very full every angle like
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: wasn't abia, There's nothing I'm not gonna get and with
• 31:56
  Speaker 6: my mom by my side, like my mom of course
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: now disappearing, and of course bring up with someone was
• 32:03
  Speaker 6: being a father figure and another figure to you.
• 32:06
  Speaker 4: And a friend to you.
• 32:07
  Speaker 6: Because my mom I could approach at first as a
• 32:10
  Speaker 6: friend that even my mom like I could call about
• 32:13
  Speaker 6: shake even I really know co call Evenjack home even
• 32:17
  Speaker 6: you know, and the same thing like if I'm telling
• 32:19
  Speaker 6: her something is wrong and you pense like she all
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: you don't mess with their kids. That was my mom literally,
• 32:27
  Speaker 6: so now losing her, it felt like I've lost her
• 32:30
  Speaker 6: father and a mother at the same time, because of
• 32:33
  Speaker 6: course even her been alive and my dad now being
• 32:36
  Speaker 6: in my dad's presence, he was not still showing that love.
• 32:40
  Speaker 4: Protection from what I expected now that I have met
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: at that you know.
• 32:44
  Speaker 6: Also, I'm like, man, my mom still remains being the
• 32:47
  Speaker 6: father figure to me because she listened to me more,
• 32:50
  Speaker 6: understanding more than you do. So that really crushed me
• 32:53
  Speaker 6: so bad and then making it towards Nicole Shule. I'm
• 32:58
  Speaker 6: supposed to perform the best grade. If I don't, I'm
• 33:00
  Speaker 6: getting all types of abuses left right and centers school
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: physically like all type of just diminishing and undermining wander
• 33:11
  Speaker 6: mine too, and literally broke so much in me because
• 33:14
  Speaker 6: my mom, Like, but I was someone who's got uplifting
• 33:17
  Speaker 6: you sn't someone you talk about your mom like she
• 33:19
  Speaker 6: that was my mom because my mom and mind when
• 33:21
  Speaker 6: I turned it and.
• 33:24
  Speaker 4: I'm really poor why I thought it as opposed to me,
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: it was to boost to his tom I'm not talking really.
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: Poor like that, I don't know what I'm meaning and
• 33:35
  Speaker 6: all and on, and then she kept from just praising
• 33:37
  Speaker 6: everything I'm doing utterly failed.
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: She's like, you did the best on this other end.
• 33:44
  Speaker 6: All this is being killed where someone is making you
• 33:47
  Speaker 6: less believe in your sair.
• 33:50
  Speaker 4: Time I'm getting eighteen nineteen.
• 33:52
  Speaker 6: Man, so much in me was so crushed and then
• 33:54
  Speaker 6: trying to make things right thinking I'm the problem. You know,
• 33:57
  Speaker 6: the same pattern continually into like man, I'm not the problem,
• 34:01
  Speaker 6: you are the problem.
• 34:03
  Speaker 4: People. I've really done my.
• 34:04
  Speaker 6: Best to be a good daughter to you. I've gone
• 34:07
  Speaker 6: even way beyond so to you and health that's not
• 34:10
  Speaker 6: like men, and I'm like I'm given up so now
• 34:15
  Speaker 6: looking at now fast forward now the early twenties becuse,
• 34:19
  Speaker 6: like man, I even used to sit in places like
• 34:25
  Speaker 6: Lisa because me and never I know, I used to
• 34:27
  Speaker 6: drink back then like.
• 34:29
  Speaker 7: He had to.
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: But I'm not looking from a point of like I enjoyed.
• 34:32
  Speaker 6: Being in that social space. I'm thinking about my life
• 34:36
  Speaker 6: because like the talking is my n e me because
• 34:41
  Speaker 6: every time we could go back toward my dad has
• 34:43
  Speaker 6: done so it's really wasted so much much of my time,
• 34:48
  Speaker 6: but so much in me. You know, it took so
• 34:51
  Speaker 6: much out of me, and gaining all that back really
• 34:55
  Speaker 6: took me a lot of effort.
• 34:56
  Speaker 4: But I always saying Sha to kid as well. He
• 34:58
  Speaker 4: kind of really really helped we rebuild it back.
• 35:03
  Speaker 7: And that is what Selah was saying, Like, you mean,
• 35:06
  Speaker 7: spaces were because like you're loss confident in yourself, believe
• 35:10
  Speaker 7: that people can actually love and people can actually.
• 35:13
  Speaker 4: Care for you.
• 35:14
  Speaker 5: Genuinely or they're not genuine people or not, and then
• 35:17
  Speaker 5: you're in spressed.
• 35:18
  Speaker 4: You're that ship, that ship let me whatever you keep on.
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: If it is always.
• 35:28
  Speaker 4: You know you are.
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: There's chronic in but nothing is impossible.
• 35:33
  Speaker 7: But if it was always because like groups like that,
• 35:37
  Speaker 7: dreaming environments where people believe in genuinely love you and
• 35:41
  Speaker 7: when you checking.
• 35:46
  Speaker 4: Me like you again.
• 35:49
  Speaker 7: Whatever, like couldn't that confident? You always that when you
• 35:54
  Speaker 7: have people who care for you and build you up.
• 35:57
  Speaker 7: So I feel like I feel like black on fire
• 36:00
  Speaker 7: or rather kids for you was that person who helped
• 36:03
  Speaker 7: you through your joy because like you could speak about
• 36:05
  Speaker 7: it and exactly you're the best. He was wrong and
• 36:11
  Speaker 7: then and then over time you found yourself. When I
• 36:15
  Speaker 7: do over time you found yourself and then you identified
• 36:18
  Speaker 7: who you are and it has never gone back. And
• 36:21
  Speaker 7: you have had some type of about him the other
• 36:24
  Speaker 7: because like when the worst like because I put the
• 36:29
  Speaker 7: work for my it's crazy.
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: When I called me last week on Thursday, I don't
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: know what of the days and then.
• 36:37
  Speaker 6: Called because I was working so by the time Africa
• 36:40
  Speaker 6: who wanted to tell him back and called him like
• 36:45
  Speaker 6: my Shahiti. He made me laugh like, like, what the
• 36:49
  Speaker 6: hell do you mean because of the demonstrations, because I
• 36:54
  Speaker 6: really laughed so much, like you been just catch you enough?
• 36:57
  Speaker 6: So talking actually called like and we're really so much.
• 37:02
  Speaker 6: We really both much, you know, like because the fact
• 37:06
  Speaker 6: that I can be able to tell Rache calla worried
• 37:09
  Speaker 6: if I don't call you back.
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: It's really concerning.
• 37:12
  Speaker 6: But at the same time, I'm like, man, serre, actually
• 37:15
  Speaker 6: it's not in me. There's so much I could I could,
• 37:19
  Speaker 6: I could, I could, I.
• 37:21
  Speaker 4: Could trigger, but it's gone, Like the trauma is gone,
• 37:25
  Speaker 4: and that is not I don't think it's much. I
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: think it's healing.
• 37:28
  Speaker 6: Healing and also my treaty because trustling that people have healed.
• 37:32
  Speaker 6: They have healed, but they don't want.
• 37:33
  Speaker 4: Anything to do with it. Yeah, but when you real
• 37:36
  Speaker 4: you leave, you don't have anything. You just live it.
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: You live it like you live it. I don't get better.
• 37:44
  Speaker 4: We didn't give because you really have.
• 37:49
  Speaker 7: An interest for another, all your interest have gone. I
• 37:52
  Speaker 7: feel like that's that's youre heal because when when.
• 37:56
  Speaker 4: To him on a trigger, I'm a the process.
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: You're still I'm here, You're not completely here, but there's
• 38:06
  Speaker 7: still some trigger that makes it. But feel completely and
• 38:10
  Speaker 7: this journey looks like we're cool, man, I know that's that's.
• 38:14
  Speaker 6: It even made me one because of course there were
• 38:16
  Speaker 6: good days. Not every day was a bad you know,
• 38:19
  Speaker 6: we don't talk about that every single time. I always
• 38:22
  Speaker 6: love reflecting lives about the negative. Pa, there was good days.
• 38:26
  Speaker 6: There are days we could laugh, make jokes in the house.
• 38:29
  Speaker 6: We had like our own codes, use it on people
• 38:31
  Speaker 6: and each other in the house.
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: It was just beautiful. So it even made me like,
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: remember these.
• 38:35
  Speaker 6: Are times and people like Whenami is home, every time
• 38:38
  Speaker 6: my dad calls me, my siblings, one of them want
• 38:40
  Speaker 6: to talk to me, talk like them.
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: This now makes me mes real for real because and
• 38:46
  Speaker 4: I need him and all of them.
• 38:52
  Speaker 9: Young gave music a snapchat. It's always so crazy. I
• 39:00
  Speaker 9: was telling, it goes back to enjoy. Yeah, you find
• 39:03
  Speaker 9: the thing that made sense.
• 39:05
  Speaker 7: Yeah, you actually based yourself or not the joyful style
• 39:09
  Speaker 7: instead of the all the negative stuff. But like there
• 39:13
  Speaker 7: was a little bit of yeah that tells you, like, yo,
• 39:17
  Speaker 7: it's gone. And still was saying self awareness not grow
• 39:28
  Speaker 7: whether it's a journey, like it's not. You can't be
• 39:31
  Speaker 7: saying I'm aware of myself. No, you're not it's a journey.
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  Speaker 7: You learn every day for your last week. I'm a
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  Speaker 7: last year. It's not the same job with this year
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  Speaker 7: people by the end of the year, even just some
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  Speaker 7: people of next week. Because you might think you know yourself,
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  Speaker 7: still something you've never you've never gone through experience. Experience comes.
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  Speaker 7: But again, when your self aware, you can foresee and say, oh,
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  Speaker 7: I'll be able to identify and it will be able
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  Speaker 7: to ground me on decision making. So self awareness me
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  Speaker 7: journey secret self awarenes did you by yourself aware? It's
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  Speaker 7: like you're only answer able to you alone. You're your
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  Speaker 7: own god, but you're not a god.
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  Speaker 4: You're like if.
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  Speaker 7: Yourself you give space for other people to listen to
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  Speaker 7: them to also be aware that, oh I.
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  Speaker 4: Have made a mistake. I'm self aware. This is how
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  Speaker 4: it's supposed to. Self awareness goes back to life. It's
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: a journey. It's never complete human we're existing for the
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  Speaker 4: first time, giving us pressures. If you live a thousand years,
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: you know.
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  Speaker 5: Maybe you reincarnated.
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  Speaker 7: We're experiencing life and let this body is your only
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  Speaker 7: for like the next money might be a man, please
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  Speaker 7: bring it a woman.
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  Speaker 4: But it's crazy.
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  Speaker 6: But as literally gets winding, up with today's conversation. This
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  Speaker 6: is what you get when you keep up with our time.
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  Speaker 6: Literally actually I know little bit as you come back back.
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  Speaker 6: I've experienced appearance this month.
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  Speaker 7: No, I think the lead mind you, yeah, I think that,
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  Speaker 7: but I saw somebody, isn't it saying yeah it's the weather.
• 41:31
  Speaker 4: Though, No, it's mercury. Oh really yeah? Okay marcur retal great,
• 41:38
  Speaker 4: retal great. I'm pronouncing correct. Actually I didn't know. It's crazy.
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  Speaker 7: What is.
• 41:45
  Speaker 4: Legal woman, Marc? What is the marc introgration? Like engine?
• 41:55
  Speaker 4: So it's affecting us like yeah, discycles, especially the market. Yeah,
• 42:00
  Speaker 4: it's really not at all, mister grandson. As you only
• 42:07
  Speaker 4: miss because like yeah partly level that is no science.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah so in cases, but of course you have sex
• 42:20
  Speaker 7: throw sex sometimes, Marque, I knew what you as you.
• 42:30
  Speaker 10: Think something three months lady, have you seen your menstrow?
• 42:36
  Speaker 10: How is your instual cycle? Like there's something that I've
• 42:39
  Speaker 10: seen appear twice last month. There's something that I've.
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: Missed, like me, I have missed my I don't know
• 42:45
  Speaker 1: what's going on.
• 42:46
  Speaker 4: Are you experiencing the same have you had someone experiencing
• 42:48
  Speaker 4: She's talking like trying to for life this one. Let
• 42:54
  Speaker 4: me see.
• 42:54
  Speaker 8: Periods still harm on me, like the fatigue. The most things,
• 43:02
  Speaker 8: the pain, my period pain has become so bad.
• 43:09
  Speaker 4: Have been extremely plainful than normal. Than the normal.
• 43:13
  Speaker 8: Yeah, I literally had to see an ecologist on Friday,
• 43:16
  Speaker 8: and we're figuring out any treatment plan in my pops year,
• 43:20
  Speaker 8: which I do every year. Doesn't it any more comfortable?
• 43:23
  Speaker 8: But I figure touching my big age no in my forties,
• 43:27
  Speaker 8: but the pain of fatigue, and we're not doing.
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: This at the tail end of my period journey, but
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: I did it.
• 43:34
  Speaker 8: It's like my body talking to me. My hormonal changes everything.
• 43:38
  Speaker 8: I try to listen and be like, Okay, you're trying
• 43:42
  Speaker 8: to tell me something. You're trying to tell me how
• 43:43
  Speaker 8: to see a guide me, let's get a paps, me,
• 43:45
  Speaker 8: let's do an ultra stud so our normal I think
• 43:48
  Speaker 8: in a couple of weeks. I have lived with the
• 43:50
  Speaker 8: endometriosis literally since I started my period.
• 43:54
  Speaker 4: So but what are these It's crazy, man.
• 43:58
  Speaker 6: The last time I had really really, I say one
• 44:00
  Speaker 6: of the comments, and it reminds me of that every
• 44:02
  Speaker 6: single time. The time I ever had intense spirals, I
• 44:05
  Speaker 6: think it was in twenty twenty four years.
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: It was before I moved out of here. Yeah, I
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: was crawling like yeah in one month. The hair it's
• 44:21
  Speaker 4: it's crazy, man, my painful.
• 44:24
  Speaker 6: To a liqual and I took my whole See it
• 44:27
  Speaker 6: was such a hassle. It like I'm puking, like when
• 44:32
  Speaker 6: I add log of kid to and it's been long. Yeah,
• 44:41
  Speaker 6: crambling for almost two hours and especially nanstop yoh. The
• 44:46
  Speaker 6: pain reduction in the injection. I know it's not really
• 44:49
  Speaker 6: it's not advisable to rely on it, but it's a.
• 44:51
  Speaker 5: Quick, quick giving man, I wonder quick imagine.
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  Speaker 7: I don't mean that means maybe, but some sometimes it's
• 45:01
  Speaker 7: a lot and I would not even something to do it.
• 45:04
  Speaker 6: If it's too much, I'm gonna go for return to
• 45:07
  Speaker 6: a classmates try to dancer.
• 45:10
  Speaker 4: She she used to go for that injection killer Kila.
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: Other people like them girl tattoo. Yeah, So sometimes.
• 45:20
  Speaker 7: Misconceptions if you're fat, if you are not supposed to,
• 45:26
  Speaker 7: we don't really need part of your body. So if
• 45:31
  Speaker 7: you're living healthy process exactly. So it's just a matter
• 45:40
  Speaker 7: of how you take care of your body and yourself.
• 45:43
  Speaker 4: But that has been our time today.
• 45:45
  Speaker 6: That has been too bong and show with us every Wednesday,
• 45:48
  Speaker 6: we get to do this talk about training, conversations and
• 45:52
  Speaker 6: update coming from Africa or maybe even from your part
• 45:56
  Speaker 6: of the world. It depends on what is training well
• 45:59
  Speaker 6: here to serve you and I hope you drink it.
• 46:02
  Speaker 6: So have this as a beautiful respect of you. Evening,
• 46:05
  Speaker 6: it's thirty six minutes past top of the hour. I'll
• 46:07
  Speaker 6: be coming back, of course later at eight pm to
• 46:10
  Speaker 6: ten pm with the Africa Today Show. We have an
• 46:13
  Speaker 6: interesting conversation to catch up with the make it fun
• 46:16
  Speaker 6: remember and of course little it's historical and tomorrow it's
• 46:22
  Speaker 6: a culture show.
• 46:23
  Speaker 4: But peace and we're out. My love amazing people.
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  Speaker 5: See you on Wednesday next week. Sentence and place beautiful.
• 46:30
  Speaker 4: One next day. Now what I and that was that
• 47:01
  Speaker 4: he got the store, he got
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: To find me that we must see being and the
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  Speaker 1: cont