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Over-posting About Your Partner = Red Flag? · Podcast - Big 98.7

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Well, man, earlier I mentioned you something that you wouldn't normally hear coming
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into my mouth, and that is that I'm considering skipping Golf League tonight.
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But however, tonight, a man, I'm thinking about skipping because tomorrow I
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have a gig and you're thinking Thursday a gig. You guys low standards don't
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usually just play on the weekends. Well, we picked up an unfortunate gig
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because my great aunt Shirley has passed away. Oh I'm sorry to hear that,
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thank you. Yeah, I mean she would listen ninety three, I
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think lived a long, full life. Now, this would be my grandma's
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sister. My grandma passed away some years ago now. But you know,
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it's one of those things where you're realizing, like what started out as thirteen
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siblings, So I had these thirteen great aunts and uncles, and growing up
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going to the family reunion, it was just always so much fun to see
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these ladies and guys. And now I think it's down. There might be
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one left. Oh that's you know, yes, one of those sad deals.
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But you're right though, along ninety three you can only wish, you
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know what I mean to have lived as long as you're healthy through that.
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Yeah, absolutely, But three was a great lady, had a lot of
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good memories growing up in her family or her you know, kids have requests
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that my me, my brother, and my sister Bobby and Danielle perform at
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the funeral. Wait wait, so a half a low standards. But then
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your sister, Yeah, my sister who doesn't play an instrument, but she
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sings, sings very well, not in a band or anything, but you
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know, just was in choir and likes to sing. Didn't realize you guys
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were the Peterson three basically you remember, like Hanson in the nineties. Of
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course I do. It's kind kind of like that. Yeah, yeah,
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we're basically Hanson, but now much older. And so they've asked that we
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perform not one, but two songs at the funeral. And who would I
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be to say no? I mean, what an honor right. And because
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of Shirley's condition, you know, she was planning her funeral, you know,
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she'd been on hospice for some time, and so I like to think
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that it was part her decision that she wanted some family because you know,
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back at their generation, family like you know, not that family doesn't matter
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now, but it was sort of different, right, Like family means a
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lot to them, even though even if they don't know us super duper well
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or still having them, Yeah, just that bloodline means a lot to them.
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And then at your funeral, I mean we both come from small towns,
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it usually is a family member who is singing of some sort, and
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or it would be like family because you've been going to the same church for
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a hundred years and it's probably the same organists or whoever it may be.
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Yes, that's the other thing we as I said, went to the baptism
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of my godson Miller's baby on the church time. You're putting it out a
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lot of church time, and they didn't have an organist. I was gonna
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did they have more of like a band, because that's where a lot of
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people quite the opposite, Amanda. They just had some recording of music,
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Okay, like literally a guy was sitting in the back hitting play on the
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sounds of an organ I don't like. I don't care for that either.
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I can't be pushing out the organists. I mean, listen, they have
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a hard enough time finding a pastor get an organ I don't think it's that
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they can't pay the organists. I think they just can't find one. So
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I hope, hope they have an organized at the funeral tomorrow, which is
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up in James Down. Okay, so what is have you guys practiced?
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What songs are you doings to say? We last night, for the first
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time, got together to run through these songs. And while we are siblings
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and I do play in a band with my brother, we don't the three
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of us don't often get the family band together, get a little karaoke going,
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not often. So I'm playing guitar and the other two are singing,
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and so yeah, we got this number planned, which just gonna crush me.
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Yeah, holly Lujah. And that was again Shirley's request. Yes,
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it's a beautiful song. It is so that way makes me cry every time
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I hear that. That And if you're about to play amazing Grace, I'm
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toast we're not doing amazing Grace. The other request was a classic came called
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how great art thou yes? Or thou art thou art? Yes, that's
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another one. I wasn't that familiar with that one, really, No,
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I know I've heard it because it is probably one of the more popular hymns
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and that generation. It's kind of those are the songs that you automatically go
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to. Yeah, so we ran through it last night. I think it
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was serviceable. I don't know. You know, it's one thing to go
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and perform at like a show or a festival and like, you know,
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the crowd is there to probably critique you. But would you say a funeral
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crowd is going to be tough. I mean it would be wild if cred
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On Shirley's kids just started going there. You had a month to plan for
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this. Just now we're practicing. So you guys have the whole car,
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right, true, I'll just sit in the back, let your sister drive.
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She can sing, You play the guitar. What do you brother do
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it? Also, he's just singing. Yeah, they're going to trade off
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and do some harmonize. So really it is kind of on you because they,
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yeah, got it, They got it exactly. It's you making I'm
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not saying it's easy to sing, but definitely learning the chords and strumming patterns
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and things and keeping the tempo. You're right, there's a whole nother ballgame.
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So do you tap your foot? Do you? Guys? Have like
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a heel an I thing like, hey, I'm well, they are good
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at following my temple because I'm not saying I'm a human metronome by any means,
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but I try to keep it, you know, relatively close. We'll
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see how it goes. It's just going to be awkward because it is like
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a dead, silent room of people just staring at you. And to be
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fair, and I don't. I mean, yes, she lived a good
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life. But as soon as you start playing either of these songs, this
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is where the tears flow. This is where, no matter what is going
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on, no matter how close you were to gram or Shirley Graham, Shirley
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whoever it is, you're gonna bust into tears. I think so and so
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you got to keep your eye on probably the guitar, you know, because
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I'm the type I'll cry at a wedding like my wife's friend from college.
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I don't even know the people, and I'll get teary eyed at a wedding.
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Well you already know I can't contain my emotions. You're horrible, too
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off you would you listen? You're at my dad's funeral like sobbing worse than
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I ever. Did I know you'd probably cry at Grahama Shirley's funeral too.
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Probably right on? You got me calling a gram great aunt Shirley, my
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Grandma's sister. I wear my heart of my sleeve? How you do?
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And I like that. Maybe I'll bring maybe I'll bring you up to Jamestown
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for emotional support. No, I don't think they need my my cries.
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It'll be like who is this? Who is wa? A Man in the
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morning, Big ninety eight point seven, Big Natty eo point seven Today's Variety
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miking A Man in the morning? What the heck? H? I mean,
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how's the weather? Wow? I have not heard this song in years,
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But all right, I just thought I would use as a little,
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uh little bumper music. I kind of like it. Have you heard the
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new song that we're playing on Big ninety eight point seven, also called Tipsy,
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It's called a bar song. It's my shaboozy parenthetical tipsy. Yeah,
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it's my Shaboozi. Oh you know Shaboozi? I sure do? Are you
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kidding me? Country? Goal is shaboozy A country guy? I'm like ninety
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five percent. I know it's a country ish som but it's good enough to
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play on this station, so it must be must be good whether today it
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is going to be great, A suns high seventy two, a little to
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no wind. You know, it's one of those things where I'm gonna say
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this and you're gonna go, dear God, how a year has flown by?
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Because it was one year ago on this very day, there's a frantic
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search through the Atlantic, the depths of the Atlantic. Never in my life
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have you taken me on such a journey. We were just playing everybody in
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the club getting tipsy into the Titanic. I mean, I know you're a
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professional DJ, but whoa. I know it's a journey, but it's nothing
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like the journey that five billionaires went on one year ago to the bottom of
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the ocean to see the Titanic when suddenly we think poof it imploded. Well,
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we're one hundred percent sure that's what happened. Well you're seeing at one
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point, Amanda, they say that one year ago was when it happen.
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Now a year later, investigators and there is still an active investigation, they
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are still unsure of what exactly happened to the ocean Gate submersible that again with
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five people aboard went down below to see the Titanic, and days later,
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it was June twenty second, they finally called off the search because they found
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debris a mere sixteen hundred feet from where the debris of the Titanic was,
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which is shocking to me that they were able to even find anything, because
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in comparison to the ocean and the Titanic, that submersible was so tiny.
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Yeah, so tiny. It was a size of like a like one of
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those rubber balls they have in that thing of McDonald Walmart, you know,
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like that big bin of rubber balls. As a kid, you would grab
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one out and play with them, and your mom would go like, stop
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it, but go back. Do you remember hearing about how it was set
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up because there were five people in there. Would you agree it's the size
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of one of those rubber balls? No? I cannot agree. I cannot
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agree with which kind of breeze fast because I feel like it's actually smaller than
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that, because I remember them saying that a couple of the guys it had
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to lay down the whole time or there wasn't enough room to maneuver. And
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then on for them to take this all the way down there, they only
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had like a little peep hole like the size of somebody's head, so they
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would have had to have taken turns to see what was really down there anyway,
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and then to try to maneuver it. The way it sounded was like
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wasn't worth it. Yeah. They had to lay on top of each other
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like you would stack yoga mats, and these guys paid millions of dollars to
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do that. And then the poor guy brought his son, like, Hey,
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we're going on a field trip kid. I mean, oh wow,
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would you say the same thing if you got on a plane with your you
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know what I mean? Like, this is a little different than taking my
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kid to Disney World on an airplane. Chances are pretty good we're gonna survive.
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Yeah. But speaking of that, I forgot to talk about this totally
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roller coaster here. Did you see that amusement park? Did you see that?
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You know, the thing that goes up in the air, flips upside
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down and then you can hang there, but then they shoot you back down.
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I think it was in Ohio that they got stuck up there for like
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twenty minutes yesterday. Did you see this? I know I've ever seen you
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so excited about anything though, to think I was in the middle of a
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story. But no, we can pivot. Sure, do you have the
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information or are you just gonna give us the headline? Because I had a
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lot more about the Titanic thing you continue with the Titanic. I'm not information.
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You have deemed this more interesting, and so we'll go down this road.
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Okay, so there was I apologize. I really do, I really
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do, But this is what happened in Oaks Park. Officials aren't sure yet
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how it got stuck, but there were thirty people that were stuck upside down
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for like twenty minutes. Can you imagine that, I mean that this happens
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like every day. No, it does not. It does. It happens
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more than you think constantly. I lived in Orlando. I was every day
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there was a headline about one of these theme parks roller coasters getting stuck.
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Okay, it's just this is not People magazine. There was an eighteen year
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old that thought she was gonna die. What was the body count? How
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many dead? None? Don't say zero because that would not be that interesting.
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How many dead in your story? Five? Including the teenage boy who
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thought he was just going on a little father son trip. Okay, yeah,
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I guess you win this round. Pike. He's not around to tell
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People Magazine that he thought he was going to die, so I guess it's
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not all that interesting. He wishes People Magazine was calling him sad. It
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is sad. Thank you for letting me share that. Sorry for the roller
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coaster ride. I mean everybody in the club getting tipsy to the Titanic,
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to the amusement park. We just appreciate you guys joining us for this journey.
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I'm just glad you got something to get excited about. In the morning,
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seven, we were just talking about how me Pike had an unfortunate gig.
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Come up tomorrow with my brother Bobby and my sister Danielle and I a
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little family band get together for our great on Surely, who sadly passed away
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at the age of ninety three, lived a great life. It was my
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grandma's sister. And so last night we're scrambling to rehearse the two songs that
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we're gonna do, and Amanda's talking about how she would just sob hearing oh
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gosh every time, every time, and so seven, what's her phone number?
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One? Ninety seven? Oh yes, good morning. Can you give
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Amanda a message? I'm right here along, I'm right there. Hey,
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I was going to tell you that if Amazing Grace makes you cry, you
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should try listening to Amazing Grace. My Chains are Gone? Was it like
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the sequel? It's just basically saying that your chains are gone, they are
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holding you to earth, saying I'll save that one for when I'm home by
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myself and have my pillow next to me so i can just cry into it.
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Is it to the same like melody or Yeah, there's parts of it
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that are the same, but then the like the chorus breaks into the part
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that'll kill you, I hope not for one more up there, it will
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make you cry like no tomorrow? No would you? My name is Jen
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Jen. Okay, thanks for calling. Do you have any advice from me
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from my big funeral gig tomorrow? You know, everyone is going to be
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focused on crying, like you guys said earlier, and they're not going to
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pay attention to if you guys are off or not. And the other thing
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is, most of the time funerals are throwing together and they don't expect people
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to be like actor either, you know what I mean? Even though you
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have had a month we have, even though you waited until the day before
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the funeral, the back I hope. I still was holding out hope that
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there wouldn't be a funeral. But now and here we got say you never
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know, No, I know, I didn't want to face the reality.
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Yeah. Thanks, you appreciate you listening. Yeah, thank you. Trending.
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Now, here's what you need to know. While we're being told Kim
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John ungeve Putin a lavish welcome yesterday. This is Putin's first time to North
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Korea in twenty four years. The Russian pre in his meeting with the North
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Korean leader in a rare visit as he seeks ammunition for his war in Ukraine
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and vows to back the nuclear armed regime against the United States. You get
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to go on a week vacation. You get two choices, Russia or North
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Korea. Where you going, ruh, Russia's probably the right pick. Go
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go Russia. Which what's a city in Russia? I don't know. Every
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time I hear Russia, and this is so ridiculous, I think of armageddon.
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When the guy goes, I'm from the Russian space station. You always
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say that I've never seen that movie, so I don't know. I don't
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get the reference. Is that with Will Smith? No, the one with
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Ben Affleck and Live Tyler and Bruce willis Armageddon? Ben Affleck is an Armageddon.
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I have no idea. Is that the one with that? You don't
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want to miss a thing? Okay? I know the song from Armageddon?
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I know Aerosmith. You've got to be kidding me. I've never seen it.
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I think I saw it six times in the theater. What you already
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to come out? D nine is? Oh see that was right in the
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middle of the Austin Powers craze. Oh so I was just kind of busy
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watching that. Oh so look that up. See what year it came out.
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Okay, see how good I am if I remember that right. But
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tonight they are going to be starting at eight o'clock the Cast County Vector Control.
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They're actually going to do a truck mounted ground sprain for rural cities and
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subdivisions usually do the aerial sprain. They are saying that this product is safe
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for people pets, but residents urged to not follow around the spray truck.
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Yeah, I don't just trail behind with your mouth open. Now Armig and
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I knew this too. I was gonna say arm Again was released in nineteen
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ninety eight. I only know that because I don't want to miss the thing
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was number one in the year nineteen ninety eight, and I knew that,
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So I figured, how did you know that? Oh? I study the
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charts slow dance at DGF High School with a gal or No, does that
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take you back? That doesn't mean that known I was a child. I
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was seven years old. I'm just saying I've looked back and I knew that.
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You know, One Sweet Day from Mariah and Boys to mend was number
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one for fourteen weeks in ninety seven. I mean, there's just things I
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know. Cow who knew what? I'm a student of the game. I
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live for this. Apparently today is June teenth. Each day each year on
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June nineteenth we celebrate Juneteenth. I can remember the end of slavery in the
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US. It did become a federal holiday three years ago. So there are
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going to be things that are closed today and it is going to be beautiful.
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Finally, it doesn't look like I'm gonna hit refresh. And just so
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you know, a lot of people raz me about the weather because I'll say
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today, like right now, it says sunny and basically no wind three to
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seven miles per hour wind and seventy two. Yes, reading, yeah,
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just reading the national weather so you're getting your weather information. If you're relying
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on Amanda's forecast, I'm sorry, you've got big problems. Can't help you.
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Huge problem and Amanda in the morning on SIG seven. You know,
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it's long been the belief that couples you see online posting constantly about each other,
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tons of photos, long paragraphs about how much they love each other,
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odds are they're covering something up, right? That's what people seem to think
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that the more you post, the more issues behind the scenes you actually have.
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Yeah, it is very interesting when people like send each other like right
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on each other's wall when they're married or are communicating that way. It's just
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odd to me sometimes, well not right, not so much that I'm just
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posting in general, posting photos of each other nastally right, you're like,
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oh, everything's perfect or is it doomed? Dun dun dun dum Well in
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intimacy coach, I guess you can uh, oh you can hire one of
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those bad boys. I think you probably can. I mean, here,
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I'd considered coaching wrestling maybe, but if I could intimacy wrestling, I guess
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I'm a little more versed in one than the other. But they say this
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intimacy coach. She's a lady, and she says it's not exactly the red
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flag you think it is. She said, couples who post a ton together
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isn't necessarily mean that they have issues behind the scenes. In fact, it
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might just mean that wait for it, they're happy together. Oh wow,
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that they actually just love each other. It could be, it could be,
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she said. Basically, there's not enough information to know which way one
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way or the other, which obviously is true. It's not as fun to
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just say, oh, yeah, you don't really know, because I think
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more often than not, wouldn't you say, more often than not if you're
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seeing somebody over the top posting, especially when it's somebody you know, and
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it's like, uh, you know, this is not a true representation of
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what really is going you know, I saw, I know, you know,
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there are some red flags like that, but I think it's probably I'm
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missing. It's fifty to fifty. There are people that are genuinely happy.
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But I know I've been in situations where you think everything is great, but
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ultimately it's not. Yeah, and you're just like showcasing your life at that
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moment, not realizing it's about to implode in front of the public size or
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whatever it may be, right, you know, and that's what happens.
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You know, some people really enjoy watching that unfold on social media. Oh,
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every once in a while you'll deep dive in something. You're like,
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what is going on here? Even if you don't know it's just a real
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life reality show of course. But yeah, I mean it also comes down
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to like how much do the does the person post? In general? Like,
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you know, you post a lot, of course, so you bost
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naturally post a lot about your relationship, but it's just you know, part
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of your personality. You know, it's not like you're over doing one thing.
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You post a lot about your kids. I'm not over here thinking,
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boy, there must be some issues with those kids with that much she posts
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about and think like is she actually is she? Does she even know these
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kids? She doesn't even have custody. That's really not even funny. But
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know us of course she has them on Sundays and she just takes a bunch
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of photos. I'm like, okay, kids, we're gonna go here and
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do a photo shoot and then we're gonna go there. But you're right.
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Like my husband, he is on social media often but never never posted.
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It's hilarious, Like he'll just look at me. Like the other day I
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did a Father's Day post and he he he's not going to write thank you
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so much, honey, I love you. He literally looked at me and
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goes, oh my gosh, that was really sweet. I love you.
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Thank you for that. I'm sweet to hear him saying. And it's knowing
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that. But a lot of the things that I'm doing is like for my
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own like and I say this time and time again. But it's like a
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baby book. It's in my scrap book. It's just easier for me to
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post there. And I have a lot of family and friends that want to
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see my kids grow up instead of sending group texts every day of all the
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things they're doing and listen. If you don't like it, keep scrolling.
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That's the deal. And there's also a thing called the unfollow button. Sure,
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go ahead snooze me if you want. And my wife is sort of
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like your husband, and that she doesn't really post like she's of course or
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all on social media. She's scrolling just next to me in the bed,
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just not posting. So I used to think, like, boy, she
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never really posts about me, like she must not love me. But now
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I think she just doesn't really doesn't really post. I mean, I think
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there may be in ten years of being together, now this may be been
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like, you know, I'll get the birthday post here or there. That's
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about it. I see, I'd be lucky to even get that. Really,
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yes, I will tell you if we're going red flag alert. And
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I'm no intimacy coach, but if a guy or gal is not on any
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form of social media, yeah, that's given me a red flag alert.
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I know a few. It's like I don't. I don't do social media.
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It's like, yeah, but you're doing a lot of things in the
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morning. No, Amanda fills the seat. Let's see FRONTI my valley service
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mechanical. All right, here's what we know about Justin Timberlake's arrest. It
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happened at twelve thirty seven am. Justin was at a hotel having some drinks.
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He claims only one martini that's what he told the cop with his friends.
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Yes, he ended up getting in the car and driving. He was
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following his friends to their place when he did not stop at a stop sign
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and he failed to maintain crossing. He was in his he wasn't in his
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lane, he wasn't staying in his lane. He was, and then he
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wasn't, and he was he wasn't. Yes, So what ended up happening
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is according to his friends, they turned back around when he got pulled over,
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and they were telling this cop, let him go, let him go,
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kind of the aga know who he is. And we're being told that
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this cop was so young, claims to have not known who Justin Timberlake is,
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and even if he did, who cares not a law pathetic to think
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that they were going to let him off. You know who he is.
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I mean, just that line of thinking is just annoying the worst. I'm
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glad that, not that I hate Justin Timberlake, but I'm just glad that
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he's being punished like the rest of us would exactly. His lawyer did say
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that he was charged with one single count because he refused to take a breathalyzer
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test, and then, of course the two other court citations for running the
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stop sign and not traveling in the correct traffic lane. Some people who were
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at the hotel that night say that it was kind of closing down, and
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I guess somebody went to the bathroom and left their drink justin Timberlake was so
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wasted. He was drinking that person's drink, kind of shugging before he left.
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He does have to appear in court on July twenty sixth. But now
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here is where all the nonsense is starting. There are some sources saying that
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he's had alcohol issues, and this goes way back. It's not a secret.
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Everybody knows that he does have a real drinking problem. He smokes a
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lot of weed, and he's been masking it for years. He's been in
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a dark place ever since the Brittany book, and that he has been worried
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that his reputation would never be able to come back from that. Now there's
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a whole other set of people going he's living his best life right now.
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He's out on tour, he's selling out these shows. He quit drinking because
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he wanted to live a healthier lifestyle, so he maybe slipped up and had
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some drinks that night, and because he hadn't been drinking, it maybe affected
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him differently. Who knows. Bottom line is he got arrested for a UI.
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That's right. Nobody was hurt, thank god, you know, not
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just himself but somebody else of course. But his mudshot, I mean for
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the end that part it looked great. It was a good looking mugshot.
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If we were to rate his mug shot, these are there still? Do
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you remember? This was in like the glory days of Twitter, where there
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was a there was a handle that would give all the hot mug shots on
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there. Yeah, I told you bout did a mug shoties s H A
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W T Y S mug shotties And it was just basically every random mugshot of
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a lady who's even remotely attractive, and it would just list whatever they were
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arrested for and it would just be their photos. So would you put JT
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on the mug shoties? I wouldn't have a mug shoties was returved for women?
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Oh I got it? Was there a male version of that? You
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know, I don't know what they would call that, mug shorties. I
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guess I'm not cool enough to know. I don't I don't know the people
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going around saying shody anymore. But it was funny. He get a plan,
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mug shot got it, and there was something about, you know,
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the mugshot thing kind of kind of worked in your favor. I guess you
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could say for some of these ladies. I don't know, not that I
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absolutely not. Just did you see this yesterday? It kind of got buried
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with all the Justin Timberlake stuff. But I I'm not in that roller coaster
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story. No, I'm not letting this one slide. Bill Belichick. He's
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seventy two years old and he is officially dating Jordan Hudson, who is now,
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by the way, twenty four. Okay, where's the crime. When
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they met, she was twenty one. He was still in a relationship with
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Linda Holiday. And the reason that this is all becoming I guess out there
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and in the news this last week is because, first of all, they
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showed up together at Tom Brady's ceremony when they retired. It was together,
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So why wouldn't they I don't know. But then we found out how they
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met. They met on a flight back in this is some tea February twenty
25:37
twenty one. They were chatting about logic. He ended up signing her book,
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and one of her friends sold it to the tabloids yesterday, so we
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got to see Bill Belichick signing her book. They were just having a friendly
25:47
conversation over logic and now they're dead. That got you going, huh it
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did seventy two years old in twenty four. That's that's newsworthy. Yeah,
25:56
it's gross to imagine, but hey, if they're both on board with it,
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maybe it's beneficial to them both. She's getting financially benefited and he's getting
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well hugs and kisses from a twenty four years old. Instantly, I go
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and look at her Instagram and then the first thing for her Bioline says that
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she's a glamorous girl scout. I can't well, that's annoying either way.
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Now, how would you rate her on mug shoddies? Do you think she'd
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make the cut? I haven't seen a photo of her. I mean,
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she's cute for a twenty four year old girl. Yeah, okay, I'm
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just saying I Bill Bill, Bill, don't change a hint. But she's
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doing the growth like he's doing all of it, the whole thing. Can
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we just shock it up is you, you Jack, I will not go
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there with you. Man. Do not try to drag me down to Judgmentville.
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I'm not doing that. Sorry, we're not in the judgment were not,
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so I will not judge. It's perfectly legal. And as long as
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they're happy that I don't care. Even if they were unhappy, I wouldn't
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care all that much either. In the morning, Big Natty eight point seven,
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what is the normal age to assume Let's say your kids have a birthday
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party? Okay, and your kids are only five and three? Correct?
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So I feel like this is why I won't involve you. Because somebody online
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was wondering out loud, what the normal age to assume a birthday party is
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a drop off birthday party, as in, you the parents aren't gonna have
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to stick around. Oh gosh, Yeah, here's the situation, all right.
27:18
So this guy said his kiddo's birthday party was at a public pool.
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Okay, lazy raver slides the works, everybody invited, All the kids had
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just finished third or fourth grade. Okay. Now, this parent said that
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they knew the kids and the parents all pretty well. So they brought the
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kid and when they started to leave, the parent of the birthday party kid
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said whoa, whoa, this isn't a drop off party just kind of stared
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at him and said, listen, you know I would have put on their
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drop off if that was the case, which I think that should be the
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case, whether it's pick up or drop off or whatever it may be,
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I think should be within the invite. But for me, it's kind of
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goes without saying I'm not dropping my kid off at a public pool, well
28:00
water involved or anything. That's just like, U, duh, No,
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I'm gonna be there. I mean, that was their argument that you know,
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I'm not I'm not comfortable having all these kids in a public pool,
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right, But again, public pool, there's a lifeguard, you know,
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You're not like in the middle of a river, the Red River, And
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I guess that is a parentine choice. But I'm still going to be there
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to watch my kid because I know that there's not going to be and nobody
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loves my kid more than me, so I'm not going to be sitting here
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allowing another parent to just hopefully you got eyes on them. But especially the
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fourth grade though, I remember, I mean not to be this guy,
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but my how times have changed. Yeah, thirty fourth grade and I haven't
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crossed that bridge where I but you remember when we were in third and fourth
28:42
grade, like it was, anything goes unsupervised even at times, you know,
28:48
like I told you, we said. We also weren't in like small
28:49
town whatever. We weren't going to a big water park. Even worse,
28:52
so I told the story not long ago, my buddy and I outside of
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Glennon would just go to his house and then ride bikes down a trail like
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a mile into the Buffalo River where we would swim around. And it was
29:03
fun because there were currents in the river and they would suck us underwater.
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Imagine I meant to be the parent at home just going, oh boy,
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I hope that. I hope the boys are having fun down there in the
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currents of the Red River or the Buffalo River. And this guy can't even
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can't even drop his kid off at a public pool. But I mean for
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a birthday party situation, I just I'm usually going to stick around. If
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I'm in fourth grade and my mom's sticking around, get out of here.
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I just bring it home. Mom, No, don't be reading sitting over
29:33
there reading with your son tan oil. No and now, what age would
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you say for a drop Again, every situation is different. If if it's
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at somebody's house, then I'm probably not going to stick around unless I was
29:45
invited to stay, because that'll be weird, Like, hey, just you
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know, I'm just going to be hanging on your couch. Okay, But
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so third or fourth grade, it's fine. If they're at the home,
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it's a public pool part of it. Again, I think it totally.
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I'm putting in asterisks on the setting and what it is and how many kids
30:00
are involved if they need help. I mean, it's not like I'm throwing
30:03
helping you throw this birthday party either. But if you're at a birthday party
30:06
and somebody's like, oh, you're gonna help him out? Really, I
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think I would. Yeah, I'm also very weird. I just think about
30:12
those kids of yours and how they might I can already hear my husband bringing
30:17
the kids to school right now going like she's such a helicopter mom. Oh
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yeah, because he'll drop them off seven blocks down and be like, kids,
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let's race see who can get to the party first. That's what he
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would do. I just made that up, but yeah, he just I
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don't know what that man just meaning like he's such a loose parent, like
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he's gonna he's gonna raise the he's just gonna drop him up. Traffic's a
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little congested. I'll just drop you off here. Kids, hopefully you get their saf