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OUTRO: Love Yourself · The Hauraki Big Show

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  Speaker 1: Really the yellow leather red lorry yellow lorry.
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  Speaker 4: Get a far Hi, Jason, I was just doing what
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  Speaker 4: Mike usually doesn't he.
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  Speaker 1: Right, Okay, you know back, you're looking good man.
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  Speaker 2: Thank you, Jace, Thanks man, who are you talking to?
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  Speaker 5: Don't take your eyes on the pest or something.
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  Speaker 3: Don't they are take Keysy's credit with I mean, he
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  Speaker 3: doesn't get a lot of He doesn't get a lot of.
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  Speaker 1: Praise for looking good with his ears and all that.
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  Speaker 2: He found me in there. So you actually, I actually
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  Speaker 2: do get a lot of praise for looking good when
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  Speaker 2: I'm at home. Oh yeah, my wife quite often tells
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  Speaker 2: me I'm handsome.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I guess she feels she has to
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  Speaker 3: justify her choices.
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  Speaker 2: No, not to me, she says to herself.
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  Speaker 1: I mean she just does if she says it, you
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  Speaker 1: look you look really smart today.
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  Speaker 2: Damning No, she says, she says I look handsome. She
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  Speaker 2: always says she looks beautiful. Yeah, and do I mean it?
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  Speaker 2: Of course I do.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I certainly what if I was saying that to
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  Speaker 1: your wife? Same?
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  Speaker 2: And likewise?
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  Speaker 1: Why it's an interesting thing this.
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  Speaker 3: I wouldn't call it an imbalance in our relationship with
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  Speaker 3: my wife. I call her beautiful all the time and
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  Speaker 3: hot and sexy.
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  Speaker 2: And she doesn't do it as much.
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  Speaker 1: She doesn't do it very much at all.
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  Speaker 2: My wife and I had this conversation because I think
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  Speaker 2: she likes, not loves it, but like words of affirmation, yes,
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  Speaker 2: which is a love language, pugs. And you're fluent in
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  Speaker 2: all of them, especially acts of service. Totally gross.
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  Speaker 1: You're what I call a service pugs servicer.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, I've heard that before.
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  Speaker 1: You've got a service a shirt on too, but carry on, kesy.
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  Speaker 2: But basically, she one day ages ago was just like
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  Speaker 2: I always say, you look handsome and you don't really
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  Speaker 2: sat back a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, well she's I wouldn't call her handsome though.
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  Speaker 5: Well, she means to be handsome, That's that's the thing.
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  Speaker 5: It was very much like an old sort of thing.
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  Speaker 5: She's a handsome woman.
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  Speaker 3: Do you say she's a handsome woman because they have
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  Speaker 3: a more manly.
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  Speaker 5: Vibe Maybe that's how it went back in the day.
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  Speaker 2: But so you're trying to say, Pugs that that's just
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  Speaker 2: a UNI six term for looking good. Yeah, pretty much,
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  Speaker 2: And so what about pretty is that the same?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, dudes can be pretty. I'd love to be called pretty.
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  Speaker 2: You are pretty pretty? Lie? My girlfriend one two photo shoots.
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  Speaker 2: I had one today just.
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  Speaker 1: In terms of but my you see the thing about my.
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  Speaker 3: Wife as she she'll take it on board and go, oh,
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  Speaker 3: you know, but she doesn't get fuss one way or the.
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  Speaker 2: Other totally, and I don't either, but I do. I need,
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  Speaker 2: you know, yeah, I need.
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  Speaker 3: Occasionally she'll say something like, oh, you look really nice.
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  Speaker 1: In that shit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, stuff like that.
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  Speaker 1: You know, and it's like, okay, but can we spice
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  Speaker 1: it up a bit? Can you say I look hot? Sometimes?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, I know, I don't look here you do,
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  Speaker 3: but it's it's like and then she said to me,
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  Speaker 3: because I you know, I brought this up a little
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  Speaker 3: while back, and she said, I think we just speak
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  Speaker 3: different love languages.
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  Speaker 1: Have you heard that phrase before? Pugson?
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  Speaker 4: Definitely nah, Because whatever love language they're speaking, I'm meeting,
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  Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying all of them.
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  Speaker 2: And he's in a he's early interrelationship where whatever her
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  Speaker 2: love language is, he's he's found, he's finding it and
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  Speaker 2: he is speaking it back.
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  Speaker 5: She does like words of information actually, and some service gifts.
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  Speaker 2: What does she like gifts?
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  Speaker 3: Not?
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  Speaker 5: She's not really too emotionally attached to give, so honest, that's.
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  Speaker 2: Not a love language then, so yeah.
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  Speaker 4: She in terms of compliments and stuff like, obviously I
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  Speaker 4: let her know all the time.
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  Speaker 2: What do you say to be honest?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean as much as she should be praised,
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  Speaker 4: as much as possible. But even then, no matter how
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  Speaker 4: much I do say it, there is still the occasional.
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  Speaker 5: Do you think I look I think I look nice today?
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  Speaker 2: From her?
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  Speaker 5: I think I look pretty today?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 5: Usually outfit related The whole.
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  Speaker 2: Arky Big Show week days from four on Radio Hurarchy,
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  Speaker 2: The Warky Big Show Podcast.
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  Speaker 3: If we can bring it back to me, you know,
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  Speaker 3: especially if I've made an effort.
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  Speaker 2: When's the last time we did that?
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  Speaker 3: Like you know sometimes you know, sometimes if I put
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  Speaker 3: on like a suit jacket or something, I'm going out.
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  Speaker 2: Hello, like to Pugs the thirtieth you had your blazer on.
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  Speaker 2: You look good man, You're looking handsome.
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  Speaker 3: No, we have a nice shirt underneath. You know, it's
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  Speaker 3: funny because I do like that. I'll dress like that
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  Speaker 3: sometimes in the office to be going somewhere and people
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  Speaker 3: will be like, holy.
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  Speaker 5: Off the rack and there.
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  Speaker 3: But my wife she's I mean, she's very supportive and
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  Speaker 3: very loving, don't get me wrong, she's just not big
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  Speaker 3: on the.
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  Speaker 2: And because that, and because you are, we all are.
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  Speaker 2: We're all in media, right, so we need to be
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  Speaker 2: told that we're great. Yes, And so you do you
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  Speaker 2: want me to maybe have a word to your wife
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  Speaker 2: and say, hey, can you just prop Jo's up a
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  Speaker 2: bit because he's feeling a bit down in the dance.
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  Speaker 2: He's feeling a bit Can you telling me looks pretty?
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  Speaker 4: Do you guys think there's any anything worth us working on?
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  Speaker 5: You know, loving ourselves a little more so while it's
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  Speaker 5: nice to hear from.
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  Speaker 1: Our partner.
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  Speaker 4: Can think pervy here, I think loving ourselves is really important.
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  Speaker 5: Like you know, I'd like to think that how do
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  Speaker 5: you do that?
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  Speaker 3: Well?
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  Speaker 4: Well, just by just by not relying on words of
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  Speaker 4: others things so much in validation from others. You know,
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  Speaker 4: you know, it's important.
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  Speaker 1: It starts with the self.
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  Speaker 3: You can't love other people, keezy, if you don't love yourself.
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  Speaker 5: Is being on Jason.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you can't help other people if you don't
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  Speaker 3: look after yourself.
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  Speaker 2: I hear you, big dog.
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  Speaker 3: That's why I never help anyone, or do you because
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  Speaker 3: I hate myself.
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  Speaker 2: That is true, though, isn't it. Yes, it is because
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  Speaker 2: I personally, I am quite pleased with myself. Is that
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  Speaker 2: weird to say?
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  Speaker 5: We can tell?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: We know, man, you know what I mean?
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  Speaker 3: And you come and just the way you walk into
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  Speaker 3: the the weekend shops.
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  Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying? Is this show in particular? Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: fifty breaks in with Keysy doing a steamer or having
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  Speaker 2: ears on the purse or having meat petty nips. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: you can't put up with that shit unless you're all
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  Speaker 2: g with yourself.
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  Speaker 5: That's a very good you know what I mean.
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  Speaker 2: I really respect and I'm happy with the fact that
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  Speaker 2: I've got giant nipples and my ears are massively on
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  Speaker 2: the purse, and so am I. I'm on the purse
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  Speaker 2: too all the time, So you know, like so good
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  Speaker 2: as gold over here, man, whereas pugs. Yeah, man, he
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  Speaker 2: bristled today when I said a shirt look like he
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  Speaker 2: worked at Turner's.
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  Speaker 4: I think you'll find my words where I take that
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  Speaker 4: as a compliment because I love Tina from Turner's.
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  Speaker 2: No, but you had there was some spice there when.
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  Speaker 1: You say, oh yeah, and I love the shirt.
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  Speaker 4: It's a national and it's the most blue shirt you've
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  Speaker 4: ever seen in your life. Like I said, it's a
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  Speaker 4: fishing shirt.
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  Speaker 3: Like I said before, it's it's a service shirt.
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  Speaker 2: It is. It's like you're going in for a service.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you're going in for a service.
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  Speaker 3: And these old packs arm with us, pretty fluffy here,
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  Speaker 3: and there's beautiful and all his rings on and beautifully
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  Speaker 3: manicured nails.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm just trying not to bite them.
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  Speaker 1: Are you a nail bite it massively?
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  Speaker 4: I got it from my dad. He Yeah, it's an
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  Speaker 4: anxiety thing I had.
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  Speaker 3: I still have a mate that's so bad at it
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  Speaker 3: that he would chew them down to blood.
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  Speaker 1: Jesus fingers all the time.
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  Speaker 2: Well stressful, look at that.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, this is a I got the ship in Vietnam, fellas,
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  Speaker 4: I know you didn't ask. Got it from a how
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  Speaker 4: we went vintage chunting in Vietnam.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, but just getting back to the love language, it
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  Speaker 3: was quite fascinating Chad. Actually, yes, definitely physical touch. A
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  Speaker 3: lot of like and again again, I'm a very physical guy,
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  Speaker 3: you are with everyone, and you know she's not so much.
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  Speaker 2: She's not much of a physical guy.
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  Speaker 3: She's an affectionate person, right, she's affectionate.
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  Speaker 2: See, I would say your wife is quite a loving person,
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  Speaker 2: very and very like. Yeah, but not in a physical way,
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  Speaker 2: but in everything else way.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, you know, you know what I think it is.
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  Speaker 3: I think I'm just and I've been really working on
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  Speaker 3: this too needy.
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  Speaker 2: You're clingy?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah I am.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that's fine, and I have been in the past,
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  Speaker 3: but I'm way better with that now.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean, be okay with She must
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  Speaker 2: not just be okay, she must not she must like that.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's not even necessarily that I'm clingy and needy.
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  Speaker 3: It's just that I need validation sometimes and I.
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  Speaker 1: Need a response.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, And.
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  Speaker 3: I don't always get that, and that leaves me feeling.
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  Speaker 1: Vulnies. Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: You want your bid for connection to be met, to
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  Speaker 4: be met halfway?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you get that, man, I feel that way, right.
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  Speaker 2: So if you and so this is like with your
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  Speaker 2: even your ship steering it so.
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  Speaker 3: Like when I'm in the lounge, is keezy, I've got
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  Speaker 3: a semi, I'm nude. I put my leg up on
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  Speaker 3: the edge of the couch with my semi.
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  Speaker 1: I want some acknowledgment.
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  Speaker 2: Right and where she sees that so often that she
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  Speaker 2: literally just can't be bothered even reacting.
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  Speaker 1: Oh she'll go and make a herbal tea or something.
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  Speaker 2: Or go through throw up. Yeah, I see you. So
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  Speaker 2: what you want from her? Just because I'm writing this
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  Speaker 2: down and I have a yant later on the phone.
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  Speaker 2: When you do that and you've got to see you
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  Speaker 2: want her to say like, oh, well done, I'm getting
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  Speaker 2: a simi, or like, what.
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  Speaker 1: Do you want to say now you're talking?
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  Speaker 2: Do you want to say like that?
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  Speaker 5: To say, now you're talking?
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  Speaker 1: Now you're talking, I'll pass that on.
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  Speaker 3: Look at you stud with your massive fatus.
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  Speaker 2: Yes please, you're like that's only halfway. Look at those
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  Speaker 2: moon hot measure if I could get it all the
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  Speaker 2: way up, but I don't want to pass out. Hey,
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