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Yoreh De’ah 199:1-5. Niddah: Bathing, Combing, Shampoo; Examining; Day Vs Night, Shabbos · SHULCHAN ARUCH YOMI: Own the Halacha in 25 minutes a day!

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  OK, good morning. We are centered.
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  We're starting with kuf saadi tet.
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  OK, there's in, you know, kafifa, getting ready for the
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  mikvah. Kuf saadi tet shatri Kaisha.
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  Leave that beta starring the DNA Kafifa, the Shabbat ubeho.
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  Here's she thinks I need. OK, you know what, we'll just
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  start out. I'm just going to point out.
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  So there's a chiev de raisa of the post came say there's a
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  chiev de Gamara. So the Gamara bhava comma pay
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  bet Ahmad Alaf. So some of the big stories here
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  where we see it from there, it's a there's a chiev minatara to
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  check for the woman or for anyone who needs to check Gaza,
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  whatever to check before they go into the mikvah because they
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  have a because they to make sure there's no hadzitza.
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  OK, so where does the fear of da Risa start?
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  So some it's a question some of the acronium want to know
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  because we learned that a mute shanomakpit is only a problem
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  Mider Abana. So how's there?
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  So are we afraid that she's going to have most of her body
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  covered up that something that bothers her and she won't notice
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  that she needs to look? But that's just a question.
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  Interesting. So I'll just point out, so
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  either a couple tirutsium are given number one, she needs
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  anytime a person needs to do something to remove their heskas
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  tamaya status to become a tahara.
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  So by definition or that's the din there.
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  I said that she needs to check some explain that really even
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  Minha Torah, this is the lavoche.
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  Even Mina Tara, there is like a din like Khila Mina Tara for
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  even mute shit, that's that she's a makbid on.
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  So even for a mute, there is an element of a alright, so that's
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  definitely a kaddish. The grass says maybe it's
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  referring to the hair is that maybe it's only Minotaur on the
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  hair and it's more possible for it's possible, you know, get
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  stuck together and knotted for the majority of the hair to be a
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  problem. Again, that's also Mahoka we're
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  showing him. But anyways, that brings us to
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  Arsiman where there's a mitzvah Dera banana and it's one of the
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  10 takanat takanat of Ezra Takanas Ezra that's in
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  Nagamarodar where one has to do Hafifa.
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  What is Hafifa? It's bathing with warm water and
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  rubbing to keep to get to make it sure it's clean, to get rid
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  of the any dirt or anything that's stuck that's stuck there
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  and undo knots. OK, la Kathila, so there's a
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  question So so 1 needs to comb their hair La fajhot Well
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  Lamaisa, we say la kathila one must comb their entire hair.
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  Sorry any hair that's on their body, not only the head, but
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  some say from Takana says or it's only the head, but lamaisa
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  is not much of a difference and but most Rishonim say it
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  included his Takana did include the hair on the entire body.
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  It's a question if that kind of included, let's say the eyebrows
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  and our eyelids, but we're going to see it does include other
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  areas of the body. OK, we're going to see the me
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  Ikaradin. The post can point out almost
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  all the Rishonim that the din of Khfifa me Ikaradin from the Din
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  of Takanas Ezra applies to hair and crevices.
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  But it's then it's a minhub to do Khfifa again, it's the minute
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  of kwaiser, but it's the minute of kwaiser to do the entire
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  body. The the rash bum holds the
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  entire bodies even from Takanis Ezra right?
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  We'll do that as a short intro. Aleph srikala diak beta shafi.
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  So 1 needs to clean bathe the armpits, obey tastarim.
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  Any areas that are right there sort of covered up normally are
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  easily shabda mayim with water, the low Bashar mushkin.
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  Not other liquids, but it needs to be water, the low Bashar
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  mushkin, the lisrok say our rosha yafa de masri.
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  And so she must use a comb to comb her hair and a fine Combs
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  generally better yafa de masri, Shiloh tiena Cerro tien vocodzo
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  bezo so that no hair is stuck to each other.
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  We don't want knots and we don't want any hair stuck to each
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  other, right? Could be anything just mention
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  it's a moose in gel is a problem, but we're going to see
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  maybe later on, but it's good to use yeah we'll get to that
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  later. Once she does the FIFA then she
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  must do want to call it a Vidika or one must check.
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  One must check her body or hair, feel it comments look however
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  possible to make sure there is no khatsitsa ubisara her body as
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  well. Where's that going to?
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  1 second find ubudakit Koh gufan She has to check her entire body
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  samuh let'svila TA. It must be just before she has
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  to check just before she goes into the mikvah.
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  Shaloya hey alea shumda varmius. So there shouldn't be anything
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  that's disturbing to her and that'll that's that's makes a
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  Khatziza barrier with a hoof call Gufa she must bathe her
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  entire body. The teached of the Mayan coming.
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  She must use warm water. Vishad Khifa Khifa Gufa Lucera.
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  When she is doing this, Khifa, she has to use warm water.
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  Right. The Taz writes as long as
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  you're, you can check as long at the same time we're doing the
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  kafifa, as long as it's right before you go to the mikvah.
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  OK, not sure how relevant. Sometimes you can for other
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  parts of the body that's not so critical.
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  It doesn't have crevices. Non water is OK too.
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  That's from the OK. There's a whole discussion.
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  I'll just leave it at that. If a woman is not sure if she
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  did Khafifa and to what extent if she did Khafifa, that's a
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  question mark. Let's see.
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  I think continue. Let's continue reading.
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  Base Khafifa Kafi Fashiva Malcolm CR Latia Bamayim caring.
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  OK, really, one should not use cold water.
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  Why? Because they end up making the
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  hair stuck together? I'm not sure.
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  Nodded or just stuck together? Ella Bamayim humming Only hot
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  water. Warm water doesn't matter.
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  It could be naturally hot. It doesn't have to be that you
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  heat it up. Anything that's hot will help
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  clean and separate hairs as opposed to make them get
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  tangled. They're stuck together.
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  Velo takoof, the natara nikra, the RV TAFA uglaz girda.
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  Girda. I don't know.
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  So one should not use something. So this is some kind of a soap
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  that they had in those days, the Fischer mecha Techa, Southeast
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  Arkansas, the Hosiero. Mr. Beck, because it only makes
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  it worse. The O the OL the Fischer
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  Mesabec, I say are below the Colt Varynia Misabkin I say are
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  don't use any material that's just going to make the hair
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  worse. Nowadays, everyone I think all
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  the posts can say our shampoo and conditioner is fine like
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  Hafila. It's not a problem.
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  Just make sure you rinse it out completely.
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  Get rid of the moose and gel. But yeah, as long as
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  everything's rinsed out, it's not a it's what we use is good
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  spine. It's the shock, the point that
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  you shouldn't use something that has too much shaman, I don't
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  know, too thick waxy oil. I'm not sure exactly, but OK,
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  that's not usually an issue for us.
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  OK, let's read the Haggah. The hagah, right?
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  The cold, ZE Lehatila. All of this is Lehatila, the
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  witch. Witch is Lehatila.
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  For example, you use cold water. If one uses cold water, it's a
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  problem that papila, but if you check afterwards and you make
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  sure there's no knots and everything is, you know, you can
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  comb through and there's no problem.
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  So then it it's fine. It it passed, it was good enough
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  and you do not need to do tafifa again.
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  That's even on. So on this you didn't, even
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  though you didn't go to the mikvah yet, since you already
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  did with cold water and then you checked.
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  So the postures, the shock and the hokhmah, Saddam says it's
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  fine. So too, if you use any thicker
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  kind of some kind of a thicker kind of a soap, it's not our
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  shampoo and conditioner that might create a problem.
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  But if you checked it, then it's OK.
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  Just don't do it to avoid problems.
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  Bisha should talk about our ophim shou tako for shabda mayim
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  rakbi yayim. And if the doctors told her she
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  shouldn't use water on her hair, she has to use wine.
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  Not so familiar. He actually show the Rolfim.
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  One should ask the doctors. I am a yayim A sabecha say I
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  wrote you should ask them with doctors in general.
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  Well or I don't know maybe hair specialists but stylists.
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  Does yayin cause hair to get stuck together?
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  And if they say in general it's not a problem, then one could be
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  so much on them. If there is no one to ask.
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  She can try herself at home right?
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  Not the night of Tvila, but sometime some other time during
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  the month when it's not an issue.
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  She should try with wine, see what happens.
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  OK, to see that there is no problem, Shark says if you're
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  going to do a test, you should do it at least two or three
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  times. OK, OK, I think we'll go on.
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  Fine, let's do the next one. Human Kafifa Srika Khila, some
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  of let's be later. So the shotgun Alfoskans one
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  should let Khila do Khalifa this whole baiting process when right
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  before going to the Mikhla, yeah, MENA cashier should talk
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  shila hoof niba audion like Khatila one should start doing
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  it during the day. So she starts, let's say, for
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  example, 10 minutes before shkia, then she's in there for,
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  let's say half an hour bathing. And then it gets it gets.
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  I mean, obviously it's a process.
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  You're walking in and out, whatever, whatever you're doing.
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  The whole thing takes some time, but that's the idea.
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  You start during the day, whatever it is, 10 minutes, half
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  an hour, and then you continuing up to to seize and then you're
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  going to go to the Nikva Oz teeth bowl.
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  That's ideal because you're getting the daytime starting by
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  the day. We're going to explain in a
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  moment and then we're going to get to and then you're also
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  going to be doing a Khfifa right before the Tila, which is what's
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  ideal and what should be done. But then Mina Kasha and that's
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  in Menard Kasha to try and do it so that it's you're capturing
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  both you're gaining, you're doing it both during the day and
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  both some of right before the Tvila.
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  So even though she did have FIFA, she should bring the comb
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  with her to where she goes to the Mikvah, the T struction and
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  then do the combing and checking right before.
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  OK, let me take a step back. Basically the Shah points out
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  part of it, but it's the gomar just basically has 2
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  helkhatabsukas, 2 halakhas, 1 is she should be isha helkhatta,
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  Isha Khufafat bayoum, the helkhatta isha lotta hoof ella
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  belaylor. So the Gomar says was it rava?
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  I forget, but there's two statements that are handed down
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  in the Gomar and there's two allahabsukas.
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  A woman should go to do Khatifa at daytime basically not at
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  night and the other one should do it at night and not during
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  the day. So the Gemara based the basic
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  answer from the Gemara is it depends what's possible for her
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  to do. When it's possible, you do this
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  one, when it's possible, you do that one.
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  But which is which? So that's unclear.
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  So most of the Rishoni here, I think it's here.
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  So the Shieldtos Ramva Rashbhar Rif and seems to be the Ikar
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  Halakha is that the halacha means you should always do
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  Khafifa at night time. There's no Indian to do it
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  during the day, should always do it at night time.
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  And the Kumar has said when it's not possible to do it at night.
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  So that's when you do it during the day.
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  But if it's possible to do it at night, like for example Friday
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  night, Friday night is a is a prime example where it's a
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  problem to do it at night. So you do that during the day,
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  but otherwise you should always do the whole Khalifa at night
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  time. That's their opinion.
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  Rashi says no, no, the acher time is to do it during the day.
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  Why? Because then she's more relaxed
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  at night time, she's more pressured.
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  I don't know. She needs to get back home and
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  stuck. Everyone's waiting for her,
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  whatever her husband, whatever it is.
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  So at night she's going to be a little more pressured on time, a
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  little more anxious, stressed. So during the day she has all
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  day. So therefore it's much better
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  for her to do it during the day and ah, if you can't do it
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  during the day, so then like maybe Mose Chavez or whatever it
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  is. So then you should do it at
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  night. That's when it's but you have no
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  choice. So those are the two opposite
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  opinions. The Mina Kashyar is just a it's
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  just more of a Amidas Casidas from Michelle Canaris from the
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  other Rishonim's perspective where you're able to capture
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  both. So you start before and then you
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  continue later. So what normally, so generally
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  speaking, if you look in most earlier sources for Svartian,
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  the ikrallaha is to do it during the night time and it's only a
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  khumra. To do is to start during the
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  day. But you don't want to be mahumma
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  and do it, you know, 2 hours before shkia and then take a
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  break. It's only a khumra for this
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  Spartan. If they can do it, they can get
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  both. So you're going to have to pick
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  a couple hours before shkia or to do it after, do the whole
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  thing at night or it's summer, then you should do it summer.
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  Ashkenazim say Nope. Based on Rashi, we're going to
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  see it's better to do to do most of the Khafifa during the day.
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  And then you should also continue do something at night
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  so that you you can also be summer.
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  Once you do it during the day, then it's if you do it during
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  the day, then when you go to the mitzvah at night time, if you
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  have a separation of time for Ashkenazim, they should at least
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  do something at night time, like do a, a rinse, do something for
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  the Khafifa and then they don't have to spend a lot of time
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  doing it. They don't have to soak for a
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  long time. Obviously if you have something
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  that you need to soak for Khatsitsa reasons, then you you
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  need obviously to give it some time to soak, but you can make
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  it at night much quicker if you do the process during the day.
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  What's considered samoch? So one opinion is right away,
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  another one which most go by Nikard in 30 minutes.
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  Many also follow the three hours for this Allah unusual but for
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  this Allah Osama was three hours.
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  This is the Shavedalevi but shamed up.
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  That's the Maharshan. I'll just say there's an
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  Ashkenazi minhug in general to soak for 30 minutes during the
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  day or 60 at night time because at night just since you might be
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  more lahouts and you waited, so we give you more time so you'll
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  be less lahouts to counter balance or counteract that
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  stress. And by Ashkenazi and there's a
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  minute in general to use a bathtub.
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  And for aspartium, it's just a shower.
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  Of course, bathtub you can, everyone can do it, might be
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  better. OK.
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  And as far as Lamisa, which is better to go during the day or
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  night? So we said what we said, but
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  many postscreum say nowadays if women are busy during the day,
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  she's got kids, she has work, things are going on and she
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  she'll be more like who's during the day than at night time.
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  So then many say nowadays, again, really depends on the
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  woman. So if she's if it's much better
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  for her to do it at night time, then that's fine.
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  But she should at least do something during the day.
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  Most posts can say if she's going to do the whole thing at
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  night, she should do something during the day.
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  Start with the nails, start with the something, whatever she can
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  do to get the process started. So at least she's Nikayam,
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  Sheitasrashi and mortify. Eliyahu says to do whatever is
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  better for the woman based on her schedule.
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  So the opinions vary a little bit on the situation home versus
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  the Mikla. I think whatever is better for
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  you. I don't think there's a real
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  preference if it makes a difference of timing.
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  So then take into account what we said, right?
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  Some are important here. OK, let's do the hada.
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  We'll be shouted. But if she needs to do it means
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  earlier in the day, right? Not well, you're not gaining
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  both some of and early or she. Yeah.
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  Shell out Lahoof Bayon or she can't do it at night time.
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  When she needs to do it at night time, that's fine.
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  Also will be a vibe. She looked in my hair.
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  But she should not hurry with the hoof karat.
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  Wait and she should do a proper FIFA big wash, clean, whatever,
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  check and comb and not be stressed.
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  I'll tell you the shock says it's good to do it at home and
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  then you go to the Mikla and say no, no, I call the beats
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  America. Some of Mia let's we love enough
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  on him. He says it's best to do the
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  whole thing in the base in a in the mitfah, whatever that is,
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  because then you can do it right away.
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  All right, but it depends on the Mitzius what's good for you.
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  Also dollar call to the Mitzi Shabbat.
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  Let's say he hurts Vila the night of going to the Mitzi
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  Shabbos. She have she can't do it during
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  the day, so then for sure she should do it at night time and
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  start up the whole thing at night time, right.
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  And that's totally it's like a kila relief for MI garden of the
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  Chauhanar right, That's mostly shown Haga Omiko Malcolm,
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  however, Minagiah Fu Chavez. So the Ramaz says wait a second,
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  it's. He says it's better.
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  Again, the chauffeur is fine, but it's better to actually do
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  her Khafifa Arab Chagas and Mozi Chagas to absorb a tea stroke
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  mat. She should do a mini bathing and
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  combing. OK, obviously if she knows her
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  hair got, you know, tangled, she better do a really good job with
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  the Maastricht. Also it just OK, get more, hey,
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  he's domino latvilla, but Lil Shabbos tahuf bayon, what
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  happens if her knight one of the mikvah is Lil Shabbos?
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  So then everyone agrees she should do it by yon.
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  And that's l'hakhila according to all the rishonims.
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  That's the Gemara says is there's obviously a time in the
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  Gemara where the Gemara says it's better to do during the day
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  and there's a time where it's better to do at night.
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  And Mcclakis says, what about, you know, basically, you know,
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  six days versus that one day difference.
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  OK, so right now I'll just point out when she should go to the
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  mikvah at night. I think we we basically
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  discussed it before, but I'll just point out the generally
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  many Spartan about Yosef says you should.
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  Everyone agrees you do the bathing on Friday afternoon, but
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  they say you should try and obviously depends what's going
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  on in the house, but you should try and do it as close to she as
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  possible. And so therefore Baja says you
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  should go to the and this is what many of this fighting do.
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  They go to the mikvah immediately after shkia, before
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  it says, but most Ashkenazi suppose you still have to wait
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  till it says. The question is you're balancing
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  what's more important to go to the mikvah that must be after
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  shkia or after it says it's really based on the right Xero
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  we learned earlier and versus using hot water on Shabbos.
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  So that's really where that came in that I think we pointed that
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  out before.