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Season 4 - Episode 293 - The emotions on the path to finding what makes you unique! · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Hey everybody, welcome to the good morning from the Chicken
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  Coop podcast. My name is Kim Johnson and I am
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  a mastermindset coach, creative strategist, and also happened to
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  be a farmer. This is my chicken coop and I
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  come out here every day to record a podcast to teach
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  distinctions, possibilities, new ways of thinking, and just bring
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  some joy into the world. So welcome to the coop and let's
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  start your day off in a fantastic way.
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  Hey everybody, good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Have you ever had a hard time describing yourself to somebody
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  or describing what you do? I, so I, I did a, an exercise
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  this past week with a client where she actually was helping
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  me out and she had me do an interview with her and so that
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  she could give me some descriptions of things.
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  And I was blown away by the outcome of it, which led me to
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  go into saying, OK, it's the end of the year.
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  I want to clean things up. I want to tighten things up.
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  I want to really get things nailed down.
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  And I started, you know, redefining because we never
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  really nailed down the YouTube channel stuff.
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  It was that we were testing things.
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  We were seeing how I enjoyed it, if I was going to keep doing it
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  and what not. And so I was trying really hard
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  to figure stuff out. And I sat there and I said, you
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  know what, I need to get a really solid description for the
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  channel because it's different. It's not how most people do
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  things, hence the story of my life.
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  And I, I sat there and I, I felt myself going back into this
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  place that I used to have when I was in middle school, high
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  school, when someone would say, you know, you know, describe
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  something about yourself, describe about your work.
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  And I would sit there and I would be like, well, doesn't it
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  speak for itself? And I remember in high school,
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  there was this art teacher and it's the reason I dropped out of
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  art, which was stupid. You know, in retrospect, in, in
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  like what you know, to be true, like you shouldn't quit.
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  You shouldn't do all of that. But then there's a part of me
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  that says, well, I'm glad I did it because it kept me to be my
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  original self and I didn't adapt to what they were trying to show
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  me. Now there is a happy medium
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  somewhere in between, but I am very stubborn and I didn't want
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  to follow what they were telling me.
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  So I was like, no, this is this is my original stuff, but
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  because I couldn't explain it, but because I couldn't own it, I
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  struggled with that. And so I felt that same feeling
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  coming up this week when I was trying to describe stuff and get
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  stuff on, you know, the, the paper, get stuff typed into the
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  computer. I, I mean, we were going through
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  all of it. I had markers, I had paper, I
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  had type, I was typing, I was using my ChatGPT to brainstorm
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  with. I was doing all kinds of stuff
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  and I was still in that place of going huh, And then I did this
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  thing with my client and then I had more like oohs.
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  So I went from huh to oh, and that was just like an
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  interesting distinction. I was like, oh, the emotions are
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  flowing, They're moving and they're not like, oh.
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  So yes, it's a it it today is all about those emotional sounds
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  like you can't even give words to them.
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  It was like, you know how sometimes you just can't
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  describe it, but you're like, I'm not quite there.
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  So I felt like I was getting to the oh part, yes, that's right.
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  And as she's like concurring with me right at my feet right
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  now. And I I kind of got to this
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  place where I was like, yeah, my world isn't going to fit into
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  anything. I'm not going to fit in that
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  box. I've never fit in that box.
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  I've never been what other people expected or what was, you
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  know, just common. I just have not fit in.
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  And it used to really bother me and it used to make me feel out
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  of place. And now I just don't care.
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  So I'm like, why am I doing that again?
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  Why am I trying to conform instead of being like, you know,
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  looking for what, what's going to work, what's going to bring
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  something here or there? And instead I have to work on
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  being me. I have to work on doing that
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  original piece, which is what I teach everybody that I coach.
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  But at the same time, when you're in the midst of of doing
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  it, you find yourself going in the trap.
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  And the trap is insane, my friends, because you start
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  really looking at stuff and going, oh, well, maybe this or
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  maybe that, or I shouldn't do this or what is this person
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  doing? That's the bigger part of the
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  trap. What is this person doing?
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  Constantly looking at other people's stuff and saying, well,
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  that's what works because we're told often go see what works.
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  And I believe this, go see what other people are doing and then
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  follow their, their steps to the path of greatness.
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  Well, that that is true. But even the master who teaches
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  this, Tony Robbins himself, he was building the plane while he
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  was flying it there. When you are back at the
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  beginning, like I was back at the beginning with them, there
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  was nobody putting on events like he was doing, not one
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  person. Everybody who who came after
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  copied him. So he was creating these events
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  that were rock star events. They were, it was like going to
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  a concert, but you were getting this, this stuff that was
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  incomprehensible, immediate coaching on the spot, learning
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  how to change your wiring, doing all of this in the moment.
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  And nobody else was doing that. So he was building a plane while
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  he was flying it. We knew it.
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  It was it was crazy working at that time because you could
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  expect anything from the back of the room.
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  And all of a sudden it hit me like he even says follow the
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  path of people who have already done the work and use it, but
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  you have to go other steps further.
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  You can't just follow their path.
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  You have to go other steps further.
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  You have to go to another level. You have to try doing other
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  things because that's what pushes you to the next level.
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  So with that all in mind, that's what I'm doing this weekend.
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  I'm pushing myself and going to the other level seeing like, OK,
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  so someone hasn't done this, but guess what I'm going to.
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  So with that being said, I'm back at the pad and back at the
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  computer and I hope you guys have a blessed day and remember
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  your original. Find your original Ness and
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  share that. All right, my friends, have a
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  blessed day and I'll see you tomorrow.
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  Bye.