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MIDLIFE MASHUP: OVER 50 GIRL TRIPS, THE POOP CRUISE DOCUMENTARY, AND THE PASSING OF AN OLD SCHOOL TIGER BEAT ICON · Uncluttered and Unfiltered: The Podcast For Women Over 50

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  Welcome to Uncluttered and Unfiltered, the podcast urging
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  you to let it go and don't look back, with nationally acclaimed
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  professional organizer Christine Stone and self-proclaimed Hot
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  Damn Mess radio and TV personality Eden Kendall.
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  Welcome everyone to Uncluttered and Unfiltered with a podcast
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  for women over 50. We took a week off from each
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  other, but it was after we had recorded a couple in a row,
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  which means we've had a few weeks apart, Christine and I,
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  and I feel like it's been just a just a piling on of events that
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  we needed to be speaking about. So we're going to try to squeeze
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  a lot of things into this episode, and among those will be
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  the documentary on Netflix called Train Wreck the Poop
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  Cruise, and also the passing of a teen idol who a good amount of
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  you guys won't know who they are.
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  But my own husband has no excuse because he's my age.
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  And it just really depends on what side of 50s and early 60s
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  you fall on, right? And then also a couple of other
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  little things that will be add-ons to things we discussed
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  previously, like what kind of streaming service or cable you
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  have in your house or satellite, things like that.
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  We'll have to find out how things are going with Christine
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  and Mitch as far as changing over to just what was it YouTube
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  TV went with? Yeah, OK, We'll have to get a
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  good update. All right.
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  Where do you want to start? Should we get the sad part out
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  of the way? The passing of Bobby Sherman?
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  All right, so Bobby Sherman, for those who are too young to know,
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  came before we all liked David Cassidy.
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  Like my sister was even a little young to be a Bobby Sherman
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  poster girl, but he definitely was somebody we knew.
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  Oh, for sure. He was still on all the variety
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  shows, he was still the special guest on so many episodes of
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  things like Love Boat style. He was on everything.
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  Yeah, so he was on he. Had that hair.
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  He had that gorgeous hair. And the tight pants and the
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  whole deal. So he he has passed away in what
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  was he in his 70s? No eighties, 80s, by the way,
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  when someone who was a teen idol and you see they're in their
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  80s, I have to tell ya that that's depressing right there
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  'cause you're like, how could that be?
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  And then they show all the old footage and he's this like young
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  person. And then of course, you go down
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  the Google deep dive and you see what he look like.
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  Everyone wants to know, well, what do you look like now or
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  what was it? But you know, he left stardom
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  and fame to be a paramedic. Yeah, that's so cool.
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  Yeah, so cool. So he became a normal person and
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  kind of stepped out of the spotlight for the a remainder of
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  his life. So.
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  And he didn't. Pull fascinating to my
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  knowledge, he didn't even pull a Sean Cassidy and try to tour
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  again as a senior citizen. Like just he didn't get us all
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  the old biddies out for a show like Donny Osmond anymore Like
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  he's just like, you know, let's all just live our life in a
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  dignified way yes. And so it's sad to see that he
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  has passed. But when I mentioned it to my
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  husband and he said I have no idea who that is.
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  And I then showed him a compilation video that showed
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  him on a very popular at the time TV show that was before my
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  time. But 7 Brides for Seven Brothers
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  and all of these little appearances on the different TV
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  shows and him singing Julie, Julie, Julie, do you love me?
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  He still said I have still got no idea.
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  So unfortunately never had his life enriched by the knowledge
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  of the existence of Bobby Sherman.
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  But that's OK. The rest of us who are of a
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  certain age did. So we're some of you guys are
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  like you all are getting too old for even me.
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  I I also want to mention something that really irked me.
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  OK. Did you hear that the new golden
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  bachelor doesn't want to date any women over 60?
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  He. Said that he told producers that
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  he's interested in what did he say 45 to 60 something like that
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  which I'm not tuning in to see a 45 year old I'm.
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  Not no, I'm not either interested.
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  In that, well, I think already he's.
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  He's starting off on a bad foot with a lot of women because that
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  had the Internet blowing up that Why are you on the golden
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  Bachelor if you only want to date low 40s I mean.
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  And I also didn't know that there was a Love Island going on
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  with some of our golden bachelorettes.
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  I think it was. I'm trying to think which ones I
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  saw were on there. But definitely Kathy, who is the
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  little mouthy one. Yeah.
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  So there was a whole Love Island, which is the Bachelor.
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  Or was it Bachelorette in Paradise?
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  Maybe not Bachelorette in Paradise.
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  One of those shows. Forgive me for it.
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  I'm not even going to apologize for not knowing because I'm
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  proud that I don't. But I didn't know that some of
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  them were still milking that. So good for them.
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  Yeah. OK, let's transition.
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  I I want to end on the TV thing because I think a lot of people
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  are really interested in hearing how that's going for you.
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  We also have something on our Facebook ladies only group where
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  people are letting us know what they use for streaming.
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  So that's coming up in just a few.
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  Let's talk about the poop cruise.
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  This documentary on Netflix, The next Tiger King, do you think?
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  I don't know because I was so nauseous the whole entire time.
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  First of all, I have to give you a little background.
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  My husband knows how much I hate cruises.
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  I absolutely hate cruise. To me, that's that.
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  I'd rather like get bamboo shoots up my fingernails then go
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  on a cruise. I am not a cruiser.
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  I don't like being confined on a ship.
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  I don't like that you're eating buffets 20 times a day.
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  I I just don't like it's not. For you, I've I've enjoyed many
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  cruises, but I also right. So we're all we're different
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  again. We're different.
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  We're. Always different in everything
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  we talked about. So how you said that, but I mean
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  you. Texted me and said I had no idea
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  really what it was about. Like you said, you have to watch
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  it. You have to watch it.
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  We didn't even see what it was about.
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  We just started. I said I even wants me to watch
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  this, so I'm going to watch it. And he goes, OK, I'll watch it
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  too. Oh my God.
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  OK, so this is a documentary about the very unfortunate
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  cruise that took place many years ago, not even that long
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  ago. Was it 12 years ago?
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  I want to say something like that and.
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  Not that long ago. It was the Carnival cruise ship
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  that was stuck. First, there was a fire in one
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  of the. Engineering.
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  You have to preface it by saying it was only supposed to be two
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  days. Yeah, short, short.
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  Cruise days. 2 day cruise. So, so they get out there and
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  they're in the middle of the ocean and something catches fire
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  and they're like, well we have a lot of backups, So what what
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  have you? And they have done a fantastic
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  job of picking the most colorful people to tell this.
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  Oh my God, they were the best. They were the best.
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  So that's what makes or breaks a really good documentary.
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  So regardless of how interested or uninterested you are in in
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  cruising, this documentary is well made.
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  So so they're out there in the middle of the ocean.
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  They can't move now, they lose power.
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  And because they've lost power, they've lost their toilets, they
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  are floating, and they're not just like anchored and staying
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  still. They're just out there dead in
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  the water, but floating further and further away from where they
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  would need to get tugged in. They thought they could get
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  tugged into Mexico. Turns out they had to go all the
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  way to Alabama or something crazy.
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  So then what we proceed to learn is that they're being asked to
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  pee in the shower because that's the only way that the water that
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  the urine's going away and poop in little red biohazard bags.
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  And leave them out in the hallway.
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  In receptacle bins in the hallways.
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  But here's the best part. They're on day three or four.
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  I can't even remember now. And some genius who runs the
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  cruise ship at that time on board says let's open the bar.
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  For free open bar. For free.
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  I. Was going what more did that
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  like so of course it went from bad to worse because you added
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  alcohol free alcohol into the mix and now you had fights and
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  you had people throwing up and you had, I mean, just total
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  mayhem on board. And yes, and the news person in
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  me, OK, for working in ATV station and news knows that
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  sometimes you get somebody and you're interviewing them and you
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  kind of like after hearing their big story, you're like, OK, this
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  is the part we're going to focus on.
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  Retell me this story, but through this lens.
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  So they find this one guy who is has made it almost like a bet
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  with his dad, a determination that he is not pooping in that
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  red bag under any circumstances. So you know, the camera people
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  are like, listen, this is what we want you to really dig into
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  when you're telling your story. Really disgust that you are
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  determined that you're not pooping in the red bag.
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  Well, after a couple of days they get told we've got a few
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  more days because now we have to get tugged back to Alabama
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  instead of where we thought we. Were going so now they're on
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  like day 5 they're right and. He's like food.
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  They're I don't know if I can make it.
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  I think I'm going to have to poop in the back.
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  So the whole thing. So then the toilets start
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  overflowing and now there's the, the the, the boat, for whatever
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  reason, starts to do a little bit of this and.
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  Because they don't have any electricity, so they have no any
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  power. Just the boats now, just like
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  you said, just rocking back and forth and now I'm now I'm
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  nauseous and seasick while I'm watching.
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  This and they're and some of them are trudging like ankle
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  deep through sewage in the hallways.
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  Yep. So they go up onto the to build
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  tent cities on the deck and they're like with their friends.
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  And then they're starting to realize what kind of food are we
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  going to eat? So this other ship, this
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  Carnival ship going cruises up next to them.
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  They unload some food for them. They sent out like a rescue
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  mission. But the people on board are just
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  out there taking pictures and waving hey.
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  Right at the rescue mission, people, I guess.
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  And they're like, we're going over here like and come get us.
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  And then they just keep on going.
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  They just leave. They.
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  Just go to Oh my God, people were just.
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  It was so vile. Do.
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  You know, at the end they said they cleaned that ship up and
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  reused it. I told my yeah renamed.
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  It renamed it. Torched that thing.
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  I mean, torched it, OK. And then then, and this is a
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  this is going to be the big poop part in the pun.
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  This is going to really spoil something.
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  So I still think you could watch it knowing this, but if you're
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  dead set on not having this part ruined about what they all got
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  from it after the fact, you can forward.
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  But if you're not going to be listening, I think they each got
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  like free vouchers, a refund and a $500.00 gift certificate for
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  their next cruise. Like they did not get money
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  because they signed these waivers that.
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  Waiver. The tick.
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  What did your husband, the defense attorney say when he saw
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  what the ticket said? Because the ticket basically
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  covered Carnival so well, right? And now, of course, they, they,
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  they've had to redo their thing because people don't read that.
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  And it said like, even if you get violently I'll, even if you
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  from our food, from our this, from our, that we are not
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  responsible, even if we're at the root cause.
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  Well, who reads all that? You know, is So anyway, I I just
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  thought the whole thing was wildly.
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  Entertaining, though, really entertaining.
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  Entertaining but so disgusting. Like it just kept going from
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  fat. Like, first of all, I mean, if
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  you're a Titanic fan, which I obsessed all things Titanic, not
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  just the movie, I mean, this is your worst fear come true.
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  First, there's a fire on the ship.
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  You think, oh, is there enough lifeboats?
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  Is everybody gonna be pushing and shoving women first?
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  Like you're already in your Titanic mode?
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  But then it just goes from bad to worse.
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  Like when you don't think it could because there's no air
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  conditioning, so it's a million degrees in the cabin.
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  So they can't be in their own cabin.
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  They can't go to the bathroom, in the toilet.
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  And then when you think you've seen it all, it starts coming up
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  from everywhere and they're stepping in it.
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  I mean, it makes doors open. Oh my.
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  God, the whole thing, I mean there isn't enough Purell on
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  this earth to to cleanse me from that ship.
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  I mean there that I. Still can't think about you.
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  Watched it. It's on Netflix, yes.
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  So you obviously still have Netflix?
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  But. What else do you have?
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  OK, talk. Through everything all right so
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  we're. Going to go, OK, let's go
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  through this. Here's my biggest pet peeve, and
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  I'm sure everyone out there lately can relate to this.
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  I have Amazon Prime. I pay, I'm a Prime member and I
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  pay for Prime. But now I have to be.
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  Now they're charging me to watch their movies, which some of them
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  are like 20 years old, these movies, and they're wanting me
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  to pay for it. Then I have Paramount Plus,
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  which I have to have that because everyone knows I'm huge
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  into anything. Taylor Sheridan land, man, you
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  know, Yellowstone, all those shows.
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  And then I have Netflix and then I have Hulu, but with
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  commercials because I'm too cheap right now to pay for
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  without commercials because it's like a $45.00 difference, like
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  without commercials and with commercials.
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  So I hardly ever watch Hulu unless it's something I'm dying
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  to watch. And then I have HBO Max without
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  commercials and they don't charge me to watch things.
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  But I am so confused what's going on because in my opinion,
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  I have all these streaming services and there isn't
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  anything to watch. I mean, when you hadn't watched
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  the poop duck thing. I'm like, finally I have to.
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  I'm watching something that maybe will peak my if there is
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  so much junk on these streaming services now that I feel like
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  I'm just throwing money down the drain.
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  But anyway, enough of that. So we got rid of Comcast and
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  switched to YouTube TV. The worst week of my life after
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  we switched because my poor husband could not get the hang
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  of YouTube TV and he kept yelling from the living room.
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  Why is it doing? I can't.
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  I don't understand. And then I did this.
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  Can you come out? And this went on for a week.
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  Finally. We're on what, week 3-4?
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  And he's finally understood it. Oh, good.
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  Finally. But it has been the joke in our
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  family. Like, he is he.
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  He asked my daughter, can you record on this?
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  Like, she's like, yeah. And he, he's like, really how?
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  This because the running joke for me is and it's not even a
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  joke. I can't turn on ATV in this
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  house. I have no clue.
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  I watch everything on my phone if my husband isn't home because
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  I just don't know how to do it. And even to the point where my
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  son's girlfriend came over when the boys were in Indiana to
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  watch game four of the NBA Finals, they went.
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  So the girlfriend, so lovely, amazing.
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  She comes, we go to dinner and then we're like, let's go back
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  to the house and we'll watch the game that they're at.
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  Which we, by the way, got blamed for that loss because we had
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  never watched before. And so now I.
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  Believe in that that's a whole person so we.
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  Weren't allowed to watch, but it took us a really long time and
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  thank goodness after going Upstairs, Downstairs, back
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  upstairs, and then finally she figured it out.
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  And my husband always tells me don't bring me a show without
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  telling me what it's on because I'll come up to him and I'll be
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  like, hey, we're going to watch blah, blah, blah.
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  And then he's like, and what is it on?
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  I'm like, I don't know. So he can usually say something
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  to the remote and it will find what it's on.
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  But now if I come armed with what the streaming service is, I
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  get bonus points for being a little bit of a more prepared I
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  guess. And then.
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  I don't know about you, but I'll be on something.
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  I'll go, oh, I want to watch that.
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  And then like 8 hours will go by and I'll go, what was that on?
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  Was that on Prime? Was that on Hulu?
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  Was that on Amazon? Was that on?
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  And I'll spend 20 minutes trying to find that same show that I
• 19:32
  wanted to watch. And I finally give up.
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  I'm like, I don't know what it was on.
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  I I mean, it's just gotten so unbelievably we.
• 19:42
  Just watched. We literally just watched The
• 19:45
  perfect couple with Nicole Kidman.
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  I mean, that's how behind we are on Oh, You're.
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  Behind Yeah Way. Behind because we couldn't find
• 19:51
  anything else and I was like well you know we love white
• 19:53
  Lotus and and the resort so we'll watch it and they said had
• 19:56
  that same kid from the white Lotus last season as the sound
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  I'm like is he going to be extra weird in this too but it turned
• 20:03
  out no I don't want to give anything away it's good it was
• 20:06
  it was light it was very light considering that it was also a
• 20:10
  murder mystery but. It was also very light.
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  I liked it so I just the. Best thing that I'm watching
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  right now. Give me, give me, give me.
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  Feed me, feed me. We are liars.
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  Oh wait, is that by Lisa Jewell? Who?
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  Who's? Yes.
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  It was a book. It was.
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  Yes, I. Read that book I.
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  Didn't but so I didn't know. OK so I never read the book so
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  I'm thinking it's one of my cheesy like I love like high
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  school. Oh no.
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  It's college. OK, I think it was a book
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  because my yeah, I don't. Think I have it right?
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  I don't think it's the book I was thinking it was.
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  But it doesn't. Matter.
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  And. Is it we were liars or we?
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  Were liars OK, that's. The different yeah, we Lockhart
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  and. I thought it was going to be one
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  of my kids shows that I watch because I like all those type of
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  shows, but I just find them fascinating.
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  It was probably one of the most intense, sad shows I've ever
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  seen. At the end I was sobbing my eyes
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  out. Oh, I don't want to stop.
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  Well, it just was so, so, so good.
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  People that have read the book, they already knew the ending
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  because I never read the book. I didn't know the endings though
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  it's I thought it was very well made and I binge watched that in
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  two days. I was I couldn't stop watching.
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  It was that good. So that is OK.
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  Well, that is one good thing I. Will definitely take you up on
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  that suggestion. I still have to watch the Osama
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  bin Laden documentary, I think. I think we're going to be doing
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  that soon because you know, you are so accommodating and
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  watching the poop cruise. I feel like I.
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  Know I mean. I got to be watching the stuff
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  you recommend, although I am I just, I'm just a year behind
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  after you recommend it. So I but I was out of town this
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  weekend. I was at a Bachelorette weekend.
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  It was very lovely and nice because the youngest person
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  there well, let me go back. So it wasn't there were there
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  were people in their early 30s there so you know it, but but
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  she wasn't she was a fit, fit girl.
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  She wasn't about going out and partying like and and so the
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  bride very just amazing at bridging all of her different
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  groups of friends. I've never seen any.
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  She's in her 40's. The only thing that didn't
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  happen as planned was we were supposed to go on this
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  bioluminescent paddle trip at night.
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  And this is what I thought that you'd appreciate.
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  They moved to the location of the launch by to an hour away.
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  And we're like, we booked this Airbnb close and you've moved it
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  away. That should have been the first
• 22:53
  hint that something was wrong. Then we try to follow the
• 22:55
  directions they've given us and it takes us to a closed
• 22:58
  drawbridge and we're like in the middle of nowhere, stuck at a
• 23:01
  bridge. Meanwhile, there's phone calls
• 23:03
  going back and forth in another car where he's saying, OK, well,
• 23:06
  we'll get you at 10 instead of 9.
• 23:08
  Just get there and we'll pick you up at 10 and, and the the
• 23:12
  ladies over 50, we're all like, oh, after 10 what?
• 23:16
  10 at. Night, it's bioluminescence.
• 23:19
  You got to see the glow. We're like 10 at night.
• 23:22
  Then they change it and say actually we can't get back by
• 23:25
  10, we'll pick you up at 11. And now my heart is racing.
• 23:28
  I'm like, can we just bag it? Can we just not go paddle
• 23:32
  boarding at 11 at night? Anyway, Long story short, the
• 23:36
  the woman that set the whole thing up basically told the guy
• 23:39
  to fuck off and. I was going to say 11:00 at
• 23:44
  night, but we then. Still had to turn around and get
• 23:46
  all the way home. So we didn't get home until
• 23:48
  pretty late and it was just a wild little adventure.
• 23:52
  But but the whole weekend was just really lovely.
• 23:54
  It was, it was not. There was one night of going out
• 23:57
  and drinking and I still and partying and dancing and I still
• 24:00
  think we all got home by 11. It was.
• 24:03
  It was fine. So OK.
• 24:05
  You're my hero, fears. I know.
• 24:07
  But I, yeah, I, I was, I was 100% the oldest one there.
• 24:11
  OK, absolutely the oldest. How did that?
• 24:13
  Feel being the oldest one, I. Felt it.
• 24:16
  I took a nap. There was a nap that happened by
• 24:19
  me during that Saturday I feel like.
• 24:21
  You had to keep up though, like you had to show them like almost
• 24:25
  like a competitive spirit. No, I didn't.
• 24:28
  And the only reason I didn't feel that way was because I did
• 24:31
  get up both mornings with a couple of the girls and run
• 24:34
  several miles. So of course you did.
• 24:36
  So I felt like that was my ace in the hole.
• 24:39
  I was like, oh right, I'm going to, I'm going to go take a nap
• 24:41
  now. I did run 8 miles already this
• 24:44
  morning, so I felt like I was good.
• 24:46
  The next day I ran again. So I felt like that was my kind
• 24:49
  of like secret little come for me, what are you going to say?
• 24:52
  But they were all very much not about partying like crazy.
• 24:57
  I mean, there was definitely just just the right amount.
• 25:00
  It was very, very lovely. Is I guess the best thing I
• 25:04
  could I do it again before a year from now?
• 25:07
  No chance. Before a year, I haven't been to
• 25:10
  a Bachelorette party. God.
• 25:13
  I mean, it's been over, God, it's been almost 1520 years
• 25:19
  since I've been to a bachelor party I took.
• 25:22
  Today off to recover. I got in yesterday and I've I.
• 25:25
  That. Explains.
• 25:26
  The whole weekend, yeah. I had to recover from it.
• 25:30
  Yeah. There was no chance I could have
• 25:31
  worked today. Yeah.
• 25:33
  I'm so tired. Yeah.
• 25:34
  I'd say people don't understand. It's not that people say you're
• 25:39
  such a lightweight. No, I'm 63.
• 25:43
  I'm not. You know, I'm 62.
• 25:44
  I always forget. AM I-6260I.
• 25:46
  Keep adding up to I've made myself 60 even though I'm really
• 25:50
  almost 59. So yeah, by the time everyone
• 25:52
  hears this, I'm 59, so yes. But I've rounded up whenever it
• 25:57
  is to my dinner tomorrow. Is the big day or yesterday?
• 26:01
  Yes, aren't you? Excited I'm.
• 26:03
  Am I excited? It's not as, I mean, it's a
• 26:07
  countdown to 60. I think at that point it's nice
• 26:10
  because you get to, you're not quite over that hump yet.
• 26:14
  You're not in your 60s. You can still say you're in your
• 26:16
  50s. You can do whatever serves you
• 26:18
  best. You can say a.
• 26:19
  Whole episode, that is. A whole episode because.
• 26:23
  We talked about that, yes, we're.
• 26:25
  Going to talk about the way you can gauge your age.
• 26:27
  There was a an amazing video of a woman saying how she looks at
• 26:32
  her age now and we absolutely have to do this as a whole
• 26:36
  episode because it's amazing. And I always say, you know, you
• 26:42
  think we're so close in age, but I always tell you when I was
• 26:45
  5859, it's not like 62. And you're like, how could that
• 26:50
  be? And I'm like, you'll see.
• 26:52
  It's just you're every, you know, everything about it is
• 26:56
  different. And I can't describe it other
• 26:59
  than to say, like I said, enjoy every year of every age that
• 27:04
  you're at because you'll look back one day and go, I wish I
• 27:07
  would have appreciated 51 or 48 or you know, it's just, it's
• 27:13
  part of getting older and learning that, you know, every
• 27:17
  year you should have appreciated that, especially whether it's
• 27:23
  your mind, your, your physical appearance, whatever it may be,
• 27:28
  it just changes year to year, not every 10 years, but year to
• 27:34
  year to year you're. Correct.
• 27:36
  You're correct. And I think that the year of 59
• 27:41
  is, I mean, it's 60 Eve, it's 60 Eve, but it's still my 50.
• 27:46
  So you know, I don't mind hanging out with the old Broads
• 27:50
  like you. Hey, I bring you.
• 27:55
  I bring you your humor. You are my you're my beacon of
• 28:00
  light. There was nobody I wanted to
• 28:03
  talk about that documentary with more than that.
• 28:05
  Nobody. Oh my God, It just delighted me
• 28:08
  to know that you were watching it too.
• 28:11
  Just just knowing we were having that moment.
• 28:13
  Shared experience with the best to.
• 28:17
  Kill Eden the next time I see her.
• 28:21
  I mean, we were both like Oh my God, my stomach hurts.
• 28:26
  Oh, I know. Oh my gosh.
• 28:27
  Well, OK, so I guess I guess a really good thing we can end
• 28:33
  this episode on is appreciating what you have, you know,
• 28:36
  appreciating the age you're at, right?
• 28:38
  Appreciating your toilet that flushes and your your bed that
• 28:42
  isn't rolling around appreciate that you're not somewhere on an
• 28:48
  island with other golden bachelorettes are being turned
• 28:51
  down by the latest NFL former player who says 16 up.
• 28:55
  He's not even going to consider you.
• 28:57
  That's a red flag by the way. So anyway, all of these things
• 29:01
  remember like when it comes to booking, when it comes to
• 29:05
  booking a cruise that you don't want to go on, maybe you'd be
• 29:09
  better off if you just let that go and.
• 29:12
  Don't look bad.