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- 0:00Heidi: This is episode 290 of Teacher Approved.
- 0:06You're listening to Teacher Approved, the podcast helping
- 0:09educators elevate what matters and simplify the rest. I'm
- 0:12Heidi.
- 0:13Emily: And I'm Emily. We're the creators behind Second Story
- 0:16Window, where we give research-based and
- 0:19teacher-approved strategies that make teaching less stressful and
- 0:22more effective. You can check out the show notes and resources
- 0:25from each episode at secondstorywindow.net.
- 0:28Heidi: We're so glad you're tuning in today. Let's get to
- 0:31the show.
- 0:36Emily: Hey there! Thanks for joining us today. In today's
- 0:39episode, we will be talking about how to read the energy in
- 0:43your classroom and what to do with that information. Plus,
- 0:47we're sharing a teacher-approved tip to help you prepare for
- 0:50end-of-year testing in October.
- 0:53Heidi: But first, let's start with a try-it tomorrow, where we
- 0:55share a quick win that you can try in your classroom right
- 0:57away. Emily, what is our suggestion this week?
- 1:01Emily: Okay. This week, if your class does something well,
- 1:04praise them, but in a silly way. So you can do the classic, give
- 1:08yourself a pat on the back if you knew that answer. And kids
- 1:11like that. That's fine. But you can add a little more spark by
- 1:14trying, give yourself a pat on the nose for being so respectful
- 1:18in the library, or my favorite, kiss your brain if you tried
- 1:22your hardest on that, and then they can kiss their hand or
- 1:25their fingertips and pat the top of their head.
- 1:29Heidi: Kids really love this excuse or permission to be
- 1:32silly. You can go, you know, even wackier, like pat yourself
- 1:36on the ear, pat yourself on the elbow, pat your neighbor's
- 1:39elbow. You know, it makes praise feel like a little celebration.
- 1:44And yes, the big kids may roll their eyes, but you know they
- 1:47secretly love it.
- 1:49Emily: And this is one of those perfect examples of how adding a
- 1:51little spark can be so so small, and yet this can totally change
- 1:56the mood in your classroom and how engaged your students are
- 1:59just by doing something really little like this.
- 2:01Heidi: Yeah. We love ideas like that. And if you like this idea
- 2:04or anything else we share here, would you do us a favor and
- 2:08share this episode with a teacher friend who might also
- 2:10enjoy it? Recommendations help grow our show, so we are really
- 2:13grateful for every single one.
- 2:16Emily: Okay, picture this: you have planned a math game for
- 2:19your class. It has everything that should get kids engaged.
- 2:24They're out of their desks. They're using manipulatives.
- 2:27They get some choices. They get to talk with their friends, and
- 2:29it's a game. So you would think the kids would be all in.
- 2:34Heidi: Yeah, you would think that. And yet, you look around
- 2:37the room, and one group is playing correctly, gold star to
- 2:40them, but one group is talking about something totally
- 2:43unrelated. The group in the corner is flicking game pieces
- 2:47at each other, and one group is trying to play, but they do not
- 2:51get it.
- 2:51Emily: So, if we only look at the behavior here, the solution
- 2:55seems pretty obvious: correct the talking, take away the game
- 2:58pieces, explain the directions again, and maybe that would get
- 3:02the room under control, but we still haven't answered the more
- 3:05important question, which is why did they behave that way in the
- 3:08first place?
- 3:09Heidi: We like to talk about behavior as information. It can
- 3:13tell us that kids are bored, confused, overwhelmed, under
- 3:16challenged, overstimulated, or that something completely
- 3:19unrelated to our lesson is just affecting everyone. You know,
- 3:22like it's the day before a break, so we just have to learn
- 3:26how to read those clues.
- 3:28Emily: One thing that struck us this summer after our teacher
- 3:32summer talk summit was something an experienced teacher told us.
- 3:36She said that she had never really stopped to ask why her
- 3:40class was behaving the way it was, but thinking about
- 3:44structure and spark gave her another question: What is
- 3:47underneath this behavior?
- 3:49Heidi: So when those kids in the back are flicking game pieces at
- 3:52each other, instead of jumping to, how do I get them to stop,
- 3:56the bigger question is: What is this behavior telling me?
- 3:59Emily: And that question matters because you need to know the
- 4:02cause of a behavior before you can really effectively address it.
- 4:05Heidi: And plus, this is a big plus: by solving the underlying
- 4:09issue, you are way more likely to prevent the behavior from
- 4:13recurring, and that is a win for everyone.
- 4:45Emily: zoom out even more and look at the circumstances. Kids
- 4:45Emily: observation
- 4:48don't experience your lesson in a vacuum, right? They experience
- 4:52it as part of a specific day. So, what happened right before?
- 4:56Did they just come back from recess or an assembly? Is the
- 4:59room too warm or too noisy? Is it a Friday afternoon or the day
- 5:05after having a substitute teacher? Is it a full moon?
- 5:10Heidi: Always the full moon, man. This isn't like a checklist
- 5:13that you have to run through with each issue that pops up.
- 5:16You would spend your whole day doing that. So it mainly just
- 5:18comes down to two big questions: What are the kids doing, and
- 5:22what factors might be influencing that?
- 5:25Emily: And I think most experienced teachers do this in
- 5:28some form naturally because we get really good at triaging
- 5:32situations. But the next step is where things can get tricky.
- 5:36What do you do with that information when you have it?
- 5:39Heidi: And you guys are never going to believe this, but this
- 5:42is where structure and spark come in.
- 5:45Emily: Oh my gosh, I can't believe that structure and spark
- 5:47is going to work into this episode. We haven't talked about
- 5:50it in so long.
- 5:52Heidi: I know I'm starting to forget, but let's see if we can
- 5:56spot any imbalances here. Too much structure means the lesson
- 6:00is too easy or too repetitive. There's no real choice and no
- 6:03real challenge.
- 6:05Emily: When that happens, the kids respond with boredom. That
- 6:08may look like zoning out, but when kids are in groups, that's
- 6:11more likely to look like off-topic talking or silliness.
- 6:15Heidi: And then on the other side, we have too much spark.
- 6:18Instead of bored, these kids are overwhelmed because the activity
- 6:21is too new or too complicated, or it's too socially demanding
- 6:25or too competitive.
- 6:26Emily: And when that happens, expect confusion, arguments,
- 6:29calling out, kids misusing materials, the same questions
- 6:33over and over again.
- 6:35Heidi: That's so fun. And if overwhelm goes on long enough,
- 6:38it can turn into boredom. When kids get too frustrated, they
- 6:41eventually give up and they just sit there, or they start causing
- 6:44problems.
- 6:46Emily: Which is why this gets tricky. From the outside, bored
- 6:48and overwhelmed can look remarkably similar.
- 6:52Heidi: Yeah, leave it to the kids to complicate things even
- 6:55more. So let's go back to our math game. You're standing in
- 6:58the middle of the room watching those four groups. Group one is
- 7:01playing correctly. Yay! Great news. That tells you that this
- 7:04activity can work.
- 7:06Emily: Right, now look at group two. They're busy, but they're
- 7:09busy talking about something else. So maybe they're bored, or
- 7:13the game is too easy. Maybe there was too much wait time
- 7:16between turns, and so they kind of checked out. Or maybe they
- 7:19don't understand what they're supposed to be doing.
- 7:21Heidi: And it really could be any of those or something else
- 7:24entirely. So don't diagnose the problem just yet. You need
- 7:29another clue first. So let's take a look at that group
- 7:32flicking the game pieces. They could be bored or wound up from
- 7:35recess, or maybe they turn the materials into a toy because
- 7:38they don't understand what they're supposed to be doing.
- 7:40Emily: And then there's group four. They are trying to play,
- 7:43but they're doing it wrong. That is a particularly useful clue.
- 7:46Those kids don't need more engagement. They're already
- 7:49engaged. They need more structure.
- 7:51Heidi: So when you can spot that clue, when kids are confused,
- 7:55take a look at your own setup. Did I model the game well
- 7:57enough? Did we play a practice round before I turned them
- 8:00loose? Are the directions posted? Are there too many
- 8:03steps? Is there one step everyone is getting stuck on, or
- 8:07is the content on the game just beyond where they are right now?
- 8:10Emily: So to give this group some more support, you could
- 8:13give them clarifying directions. You could post visual
- 8:17directions, simplify the steps, or do another round of modeling.
- 8:21Heidi: Yeah, we are big fans of visual directions. They can help
- 8:24you so much. And now let's swing back to groups two and three. We
- 8:29can't immediately diagnose the problem, so we need to get
- 8:32closer. And I do mean get physically closer.
- 8:36Emily: Yeah, we've talked about the power of proximity before.
- 8:39If you start walking toward the talking group, and they
- 8:41immediately get back on track, that tells you the problem with
- 8:43them is lack of spark. Maybe the game isn't challenging enough.
- 8:47So, if it's feasible, tweak the content to give this group more
- 8:50of a learning challenge.
- 8:52Heidi: But feasible is doing a lot of work here. If they're
- 8:55only five minutes before the end of the game, it's really not
- 8:58worth jumping through hoops to recreate the game, so it adds
- 9:02more challenge. So you could just add a rule like anyone who
- 9:05rolls a three has to move back three spaces instead of moving
- 9:08forward. And now those kids are way more invested in playing
- 9:11this game.
- 9:12Emily: And you didn't add any extra work to your plate. Now
- 9:16let's deal with the group flicking their game pieces. You
- 9:19head toward them, and they stop what they're doing, but they
- 9:21don't start playing. Then that helps you realize the problem.
- 9:25You put two best friends in the same group. They're busy goofing
- 9:28around and taking down the rest of the group with them.
- 9:31Heidi: That means this group also needs more structure, like
- 9:33the confused group four. But the structure needs to look a little
- 9:36different. Now, with only a few minutes left to play, you just
- 9:40might tell them to go ahead and clean up and head back to their
- 9:42seats to start on the assignment.
- 9:44Emily: Or you could break up the group and add players to the
- 9:46other groups.
- 9:47Heidi: Yeah, just make sure you split up the besties so that
- 9:50problem doesn't infect another group.
- 9:53Emily: When we talk about structure and spark, we usually
- 9:55talk about a class wide energy imbalance, but from this
- 9:58example, and probably from your own daily experience, you can
- 10:02see that sometimes different kids are out of balance in
- 10:05completely different ways.
- 10:09Heidi: And that's why observing before intervening is so
- 10:09important. If you had looked at the confused group and called
- 10:12the whole class together to re-explain the rules, you would
- 10:15have been adding even more structure to groups that already
- 10:18had too much.
- 10:19Emily: And I think before I understood this idea of
- 10:22structure and spark, my go-to would have been, Oh, there's a
- 10:24group that doesn't know what to do. They all need help. And
- 10:27doing that would have increased their boredom and off-task
- 10:30behaviors. But if you'd looked at the kids flicking the game
- 10:33pieces and decided to end game time, then you would have
- 10:36deprived 75% of the class from a meaningful and fun learning
- 10:39opportunity.
- 10:41Heidi: So before you jump in and change the whole lesson, take a
- 10:43look at the broader pattern. The more widespread a particular
- 10:48problem is, the more likely it is that the activity itself
- 10:51needs to be adjusted. And the more localized the problem is,
- 10:54the more likely it is that it's just specific students that need
- 10:57your attention.
- 10:59Emily: And of course, different kids will need different kinds
- 11:01of support, so address each issue on an individual basis.
- 11:05Heidi: Or, you know, in reality, you might just pack it in for
- 11:08the day and try again another time. That's what I did with a
- 11:12game with my second graders called Zap It to Zero. This was
- 11:15a place value game played with calculators. So the object is to
- 11:18take a two-digit number and eventually a bigger number, and
- 11:22turn one digit at a time into zero.
- 11:25Emily: Yeah, that's such a fun game. So if you have the number
- 11:2863, if you zap the three first, you would type 63 minus three
- 11:33and get 60. Now the three is a zero, but to get rid of the six,
- 11:37you can't subtract six. You have to subtract 60.
- 11:41Heidi: And that is where it all fell apart for my class. Even
- 11:44though I had modeled how to play, we had discussed the place
- 11:48value strategy and had played a few rounds as a class. I turned
- 11:52them loose, and I still had kids trying to subtract 60 by
- 11:55subtracting six. Some were just subtracting random numbers, just
- 12:00figuring they'd get down to zero eventually, and some were still
- 12:03just stuck on how to subtract on a calculator, because even
- 12:07though I had introduced calculators, it's not something
- 12:09we had a ton of practice with.
- 12:11Emily: But the good news in your story is that they were all
- 12:14trying. So this is a classic overwhelm picture. They weren't
- 12:18competent enough with place value or with the calculators to
- 12:23be able to juggle both at once.
- 12:25Heidi: Yeah, clearly. So I stopped the whole thing. We
- 12:28played a few more rounds together as a class, and then
- 12:30they did their assignment. I added the structure back in, and
- 12:33you know what? We just called it good.
- 12:35Emily: But really, remember that there is often not one right
- 12:39answer. You just have to choose what feels right and manageable
- 12:43for you in that moment.
- 12:45Heidi: But whatever you choose, start with the smallest change
- 12:49that fixes the problem that you are seeing. If kids don't
- 12:52understand, you can model it again, or simplify the steps, or
- 12:56even let peers teach each other how to play. That's how you add
- 13:00in the structure to help students get their feet under
- 13:02them.
- 13:03Emily: You also need more structure if the kids are too
- 13:05wound up to focus, but in that case, the structure comes in the
- 13:09form of a guided activity to get the wiggles out, or pausing for
- 13:13gentle movement and deep breathing.
- 13:15Heidi: And of course, if the kids are bored, you need to add
- 13:17some spark. That could be increasing the challenge or
- 13:20offering a choice, or you know something as easy as just
- 13:23letting kids work together in a different part of the room.
- 13:27Emily: Right, assuming that that won't make the behavior worse.
- 13:31Heidi: Yeah, that's always the worry. But give yourself some
- 13:33grace. It's okay if you don't get the right answer the first
- 13:36time. Just notice what's happening. Try a small
- 13:39adjustment, and if it doesn't work, just revise your guess.
- 13:43Emily: And I know this sounds like this takes a lot of time,
- 13:45but the more you practice making adjustments, the easier and
- 13:49faster it gets. You'll be doing this in just a couple minutes.
- 13:52Heidi: Yeah, eventually it kind of is like a program running the
- 13:56back of your mind all day, like a computer program, and you
- 13:59catch yourself clocking things like this feels different from
- 14:03the normal Friday afternoon wiggles, or they are actually
- 14:07engaged right now. They're just being noisy about it.
- 14:10Emily: Okay, to recap. So when it feels like your lesson is
- 14:12falling apart, ask yourself, what do I see? Is that happening
- 14:16everywhere or just with a few students? What outside
- 14:20circumstances might be at play, and then identify the smallest
- 14:24adjustment that could correct the problem.
- 14:26Heidi: Reading the room is less about keeping the room calm and
- 14:30more about figuring out whether the situation is supporting
- 14:33learning. Sometimes that means more structure, and guess what?
- 14:37Sometimes it means more spark.
- 14:39Emily: And sometimes it means recognizing that it's Friday
- 14:42afternoon. They just came back from recess, and everybody needs
- 14:44a minute. The better we get at reading the room, the better we
- 14:47get at knowing what our students need.
- 14:51Heidi: If this discussion was helpful, would you please
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- 15:01the more likely it is that a new listener will take a chance on
- 15:04us. So everyone really does help us out.
- 15:07Emily: Now for our teacher approved tip of the week, where
- 15:09we share an actionable tip to help you elevate what matters
- 15:13and simplify the rest. This week's teacher approved tip is
- 15:16to start thinking about end of year testing. Yes, we are
- 15:20serious, so tell us more about it, Heidi.
- 15:23Heidi: And first up, we do know that it's only October, and that
- 15:27testing probably feels like it's years away, but it's closer than
- 15:31you think. And there is actually a lot that you can be doing now
- 15:35to make testing season a lot less stressful. Now we're not
- 15:39talking about busting out the packets, it just means adding
- 15:43opportunities for spiral review to what you're already doing.
- 15:47Emily: So, if you're not familiar, spiral review is a way
- 15:50of circling back to the content you've already taught. And now
- 15:53that you're a few weeks into the year, this is the perfect time
- 15:56to get started because you've already taught some stuff.
- 15:59Heidi: Starting early matters because it's just as humans we
- 16:03forget things. So what you teach in October is going to be fuzzy
- 16:07by February, and by April it will just be a vague memory. So
- 16:11if you're waiting until the spring to start your review,
- 16:14what you're really doing is just cramming, and that is stressful
- 16:18for everyone. And the content does not stick very well.
- 16:21Emily: But spiral review is different because it supports
- 16:24how brains learn new information. When students have
- 16:27to work to pull something out of their memory, that makes it
- 16:30stick. Practicing calling up information is called retrieval
- 16:34practice.
- 16:36Heidi: And the cool thing about retrieval practice is that it
- 16:39helps even when students get the answer wrong, just the act of
- 16:43trying to remember still strengthens the memory.
- 16:46Emily: Okay, so how do you start in October without adding more
- 16:50things to your plate? We've got two easy techniques. First is
- 16:53the brain dump. In the middle of a lesson, stop and ask students
- 16:56to write down everything they remember about what you've been
- 16:59learning, and then you just keep teaching.
- 17:02Heidi: And you totally don't have to collect or grade any of
- 17:04this. It's more of a thinking exercise, and the nice thing is
- 17:08that you can do this with any age. If you teach kindergarten,
- 17:11have the kids draw, and in fifth grade they can be writing full
- 17:14sentences, although they probably won't want to do that.
- 17:17Emily: The second idea is called two things. You just ask
- 17:20students to write or share two things they learned today, or
- 17:23two things they remember from yesterday's lesson. You can
- 17:26easily use this as a warm-up or an exit ticket.
- 17:29Heidi: And if you want way more about how to prepare for testing
- 17:32in advance, go back and listen to episode 246. We've got tons
- 17:38of good information in that episode.
- 17:41Emily: And if you'd like a spiral review system that's
- 17:43already done for you, you can check out our Power Questions,
- 17:46which is a resource that we created, and it's only inside
- 17:49the Teacher Approved Club. So the way that resource works is
- 17:53after a lesson, you jot a question related to the lesson
- 17:56onto a slip of paper, and you drop it in a basket. You can
- 17:59limit the questions to just one subject, or you can mix multiple
- 18:03subjects together. Then, whenever you have a few spare
- 18:06minutes, you just pull one out, or you can make it part of the
- 18:08routine and do a five-question non-graded Power Questions quiz
- 18:13every week.
- 18:14Heidi: Our Power Questions resource includes printable
- 18:17question slips, digital slides, labels, signs, and teacher's
- 18:20guide has got kind of a fun superhero theme.
- 18:23Emily: It's cute.
- 18:23Heidi: And all of that is available in the tool section of
- 18:26the Teacher Approved Club.
- 18:29Emily: Plus, as a member, you get access to all of the
- 18:31resources that we have created for our members so far, and you
- 18:35get credits to use on other resources in our store. Which
- 18:38means, if you wanted to, you could use some of your credits
- 18:41to go get our spiral review morning work, which is a great
- 18:44routine to work into your daily schedule to keep that review
- 18:47going all year long without any extra effort from you. So, if
- 18:51you would like to check out the club, you can head to
- 18:53secondstorywindow.net/club, and we'll have a link in the show
- 18:57notes.
- 18:59Heidi: To wrap up the show, we are sharing what we're giving
- 19:01extra credit to this week. Emily, what gets your extra
- 19:03credit?
- 19:04Emily: I'm giving extra credit to little ghosty figurines. So
- 19:10our mom gave me a box of these little ghosts. They're just like
- 19:14little plastic resin, I don't know, little little ghosties
- 19:18holding a little orange pumpkin bag.
- 19:22Heidi: How big are these?
- 19:24Emily: Little, little, like bigger than the little ducks,
- 19:28but not substantially bigger.
- 19:30Heidi: Okay, very little.
- 19:31Emily: Yes, they're little. So for April Fool's Day a couple
- 19:36years ago, I hid those tiny ducks all over my house, and my
- 19:38kids just loved it. So when my mom gave me this box. I'm like,
- 19:41well, I don't know what else to do with all these ghosts except
- 19:43stick them around the house. So it's been so fun to find little
- 19:47places, and because they're ghosts, they look so cute, like
- 19:50peeking out from behind something. So there's there are
- 19:53a lot they have not found yet. They found the ones that I
- 19:56dropped in their shoes really fast.
- 20:01Heidi: That reminds me of a fun idea I saw, where at the
- 20:03beginning of October the family would get plastic spiders in
- 20:06like four different colors. So each person had their own
- 20:08assigned color, and then their task was to hide it around the
- 20:11house. And then anyone that came across one of the spiders would
- 20:16return it to a bowl. And then on Halloween, whoever had the most
- 20:19spiders still hidden won a prize.
- 20:21Emily: So you want the least of your color in the bowl.
- 20:23Heidi: Yes, that means you're the best hider.
- 20:26Emily: Yes, I love that. I don't believe in spiders, even fake
- 20:30plastic spiders. So I would have to adapt that idea, but it is a
- 20:34very cute idea.
- 20:34Heidi: Yes, that is why I've never bought spiders for your
- 20:37kids to do.
- 20:38Emily: Oh, thank you.
- 20:40Heidi: With the ghosties, if you could get some different colors.
- 20:42Emily: I can't find the exact ones that Mom got. Like, she
- 20:45probably got them on TikTok shop. Let's be honest, but I did
- 20:49find some on Amazon that are similar idea. And actually, they
- 20:52have some sets that have multiple different ghosts. Like
- 20:55some have hats. So if you wanted variety in your ghosts, they're
- 20:59very cute. I will link to those in the show notes. What are you
- 21:03giving extra credit to, Heidi?
- 21:05Heidi: Well, my extra credit goes to Darling Desi on YouTube,
- 21:09and I'm gonna guess that some of our listeners are already
- 21:12familiar with her because she has close to 500,000 followers.
- 21:16But if she is new to you, you are in for a treat. So she makes
- 21:21kind of like home life videos, and the production value is
- 21:27really incredible when you consider, especially this is
- 21:29probably filmed on a phone. It reminds me of watching Martha
- 21:33Stewart Living in the '90s. You know when she would be in her
- 21:35kitchen or walking around the farm, not the studio series that
- 21:39she did later.
- 21:40Emily: Yeah, I saw her at her studio series. Remember? Oh
- 21:43well, that was her talk show, I guess. Yeah, that's not the same
- 21:45as the studio series, but I remember all this. I remember
- 21:48exactly what you mean-the ones that she filmed in her house.
- 21:51Heidi: Yes, and it would be, and that's a good thing. It's a good
- 21:54thing. So, kind of think of Darling Desi as the Gen Z
- 21:58version of this. She does recipes and book recommendations
- 22:02and decorating ideas, and everything is cozy and bright.
- 22:05It reminds me of what warm apple cider might be if it were a
- 22:08video.
- 22:11Emily: I can picture it.
- 22:11Heidi: Yeah, and if you want to check her out, the fall is the
- 22:14best time because she really shines with all the leaves and
- 22:16pumpkins. So definitely check her out if you want something
- 22:19cheery to watch while you know you tidy up your classroom after
- 22:22school. And if you do like her, you should also check out My
- 22:26Moonstone Kitchen, which is also on YouTube. has a very similar
- 22:29vibe, and I will put links to both of those channels in the
- 22:32show notes.
- 22:33Emily: Well, I don't know either of those, so I'm going to check
- 22:35them out.
- 22:35Heidi: Well, you have to tell me if it looks like warm apple
- 22:38cider.
- 22:40Emily: I will report back.
- 22:42Heidi: And that is it for today's episode. Next time the
- 22:45energy in your room feels off, ask why before you react, and
- 22:49remember that this is the time to start adding more spiral
- 22:52review to your lessons.
- 22:56We hope you enjoyed this episode of Teacher Approved. I'm Heidi.
- 23:00Emily: And I'm Emily. Thank you for listening. Be sure to follow
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- 23:12Bye for now.
- 23:13Emily: Bye.