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Best Of Billy & Lisa: Work Wife Drama + Chad Goes Deep · Billy & Lisa in the Morning

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  Speaker 1: It's the best of Billy and Lisa in the morning.
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  Speaker 2: Saturday morning, best of Billy and Lisa. It's producer Riley
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  Speaker 2: counting down the top five moments of the week with you.
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  Speaker 2: We had a really big week full of announcements. We
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  Speaker 2: are bringing back local legends. This is the number five moment.
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  Speaker 3: You might remember, I think it was about a year ago, Lisa,
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  Speaker 3: we did local legends for the first time.
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  Speaker 4: We loved this campaign because it gives you guys who
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  Speaker 4: are listening the opportunity to nominate someone in your office,
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  Speaker 4: in your school system, in your community, someone that you
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  Speaker 4: think is going above and beyond and should be recognized
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  Speaker 4: for everything that they're doing.
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  Speaker 5: And this is what Local Legends is.
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  Speaker 3: And we really enjoyed it because all of us. would
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  Speaker 3: go out and meet the legend and surprise them and
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  Speaker 3: let them know they have been chosen, voted a local legend.
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  Speaker 3: We went to schools. We went to hospitals. God, we
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  Speaker 3: got people on the road as they were buying something
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  Speaker 3: in a store and coming out. We knew where their
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  Speaker 3: car was. It was a lot of fun, and it
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  Speaker 3: was really, really rewarding, and we met a lot of
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  Speaker 3: great people.
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  Speaker 6: So we're doing it again.
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  Speaker 7: Yes. Thanks to our friends at Harvard Pilgrim Healthcare. We
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  Speaker 7: teamed up with them. To basically go out and find
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  Speaker 7: these legends in our community. Like Lisa said, this could
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  Speaker 7: be a teacher, a nurse, people that go above and beyond.
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  Speaker 7: That's what we're looking for. And we're looking for you
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  Speaker 7: to nominate these people. And what you want to do
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  Speaker 7: is go to kiss108. com slash legend. Kiss108. com slash legend. You
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  Speaker 7: nominate them and you never know. We could go out
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  Speaker 7: and surprise them. Or maybe even bring them into the
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  Speaker 7: studio and put them on the air live with us.
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  Speaker 7: And this starts next week.
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  Speaker 8: Right.
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  Speaker 4: And we're giving $ 100 Visa gift card as a thank
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  Speaker 4: you and a pair of Jingle Ball tickets.
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  Speaker 7: Yes. The Jingle Ball tickets will go to the Legend
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  Speaker 7: sold out show.
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  Speaker 9: Right.
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  Speaker 7: Plus passes to the pre-party at Big Night Live.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, man.
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  Speaker 5: Which is awesome.
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  Speaker 7: Okay. Before Jingle Ball. And then the nominator will get
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  Speaker 7: a $ 100 gift card.
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  Speaker 5: So go to kiss108.
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  Speaker 4: Com slash legend right now and start nominating your favorite person.
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  Speaker 6: That's right. It's starting right now. Local Legends Part 2.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, this is really fun. Oh, there were so many
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  Speaker 7: great moments last year. Like, remember the lunch lady in Dorchester?
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  Speaker 10: We have something called the Local Legends, and you've been
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  Speaker 10: nominated because of all of your hard work, how much
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  Speaker 10: the kids love you, and everything you do in this school.
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  Speaker 6: Thank you so much.
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  Speaker 11: Oh, my God.
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  Speaker 6: I'm emotional.
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  Speaker 12: But we got to play some music for the babies
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  Speaker 12: so I can dance and we have fun.
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  Speaker 6: Okay, you can dance if you want. What's going on
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  Speaker 6: with your shoulder there? This is Remy. I'm going to
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  Speaker 6: show you. Good morning, Remy.
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  Speaker 13: Good morning.
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  Speaker 7: That was really fun.
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  Speaker 5: She was awesome.
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  Speaker 7: She was great. So, again, she was a lunch lady,
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  Speaker 7: a legend.
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  Speaker 3: And the cafeteria was packed with all the kids.
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  Speaker 6: When we walked in and we surprised her.
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  Speaker 13: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I mean, we did, you know, Mass General Hospital.
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  Speaker 6: That was good.
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  Speaker 7: A mailman once. We went to a nursing home.
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  Speaker 5: What the heck are you guys doing here?
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  Speaker 3: Well, Carrie, all of us from the Billy and Lisa
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  Speaker 3: Morning Show. are here in honor of you and thanks
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  Speaker 3: to your family and especially your son, Mikey, who said
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  Speaker 3: you deserve to be one of our local legends. Mikey!
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  Speaker 9: Mikey!
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  Speaker 2: Oh, my God!
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  Speaker 14: That's so awesome!
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  Speaker 7: A lot of tears, a lot of emotions.
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  Speaker 6: Not a dry eye in the house.
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  Speaker 7: But it's very important to honor these people. So, again,
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  Speaker 7: thank you to our partners, Harvard Program Healthcare, for making
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  Speaker 7: it all happen. Uh-huh. Kiss108. com slash legend. And this could
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  Speaker 7: be you.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning, Remy.
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  Speaker 5: Good morning, Remy.
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  Speaker 2: The number four moment from this week's best of Billy
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  Speaker 2: and Lisa in the morning goes to a big announcement
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  Speaker 2: that we have about the Voice of Logan contest.
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  Speaker 3: On the phone right now, we have Rich Davies, who
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  Speaker 3: is the CEO of Massport.
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  Speaker 7: Rich, you there?
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  Speaker 15: I am, Billy. Good morning.
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  Speaker 6: Good morning to you. We're very excited.
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  Speaker 3: I know you have a big announcement this morning involving voiceoflogan.com.
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  Speaker 3: But Lisa and I are sitting here talking, and we're
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  Speaker 3: trying to think back to the very first time we
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  Speaker 3: came out to the airport to start this contest.
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  Speaker 6: You remember that, Lisa? We did the videos and everything.
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  Speaker 6: I do.
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  Speaker 4: And then this contest just literally just took on new
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  Speaker 4: life and exploded, and thousands and thousands of people entered.
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  Speaker 6: Rich, could you have imagined it getting this big?
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  Speaker 15: Not at all. I think when you guys started, we
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  Speaker 15: thought it was going to be great. But the fact
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  Speaker 15: it was like wildfire nationally, I mean, I've got friends
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  Speaker 15: texting me telling me like, you know, they're not going
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  Speaker 15: to be my friend anymore if they're not in the
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  Speaker 15: final eight. So I'm like, well, I guess I got
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  Speaker 15: to get new friends.
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  Speaker 6: What did you say, eight?
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  Speaker 9: Eight.
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  Speaker 15: So that is the news. So we had 5,200 auditions.
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  Speaker 15: 5,200 auditions. And we had talked about doing a final five.
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  Speaker 15: We think we actually need a few more. So we
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  Speaker 15: are going to have a final eight, which we're going
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  Speaker 15: to bring to you next week.
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  Speaker 6: So that's really good news to all the contestants, so
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  Speaker 6: to speak.
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  Speaker 15: That's exactly right. So our team, we had about a
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  Speaker 15: couple dozen judges here who listened to every submission, and
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  Speaker 15: we just got some really awesome ones. So, yeah, we decided,
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  Speaker 15: why limit it to five? Let's go to eight. And
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  Speaker 15: as you know, we'll come to you next week with
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  Speaker 15: those folks. They're going to audition, and then the public
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  Speaker 15: will vote. It will be totally up to the public
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  Speaker 15: who will be the next Voice of Logan.
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  Speaker 3: Well, you got a lot of interesting people having some
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  Speaker 3: fun with it, though. I mean, the Ben Affleck thing
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  Speaker 3: was really funny.
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  Speaker 6: The Bruins. The Edelman, the Bruins. I mean, they helped
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  Speaker 6: a lot.
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  Speaker 15: Oh, totally, totally. And, as you know, it was on
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  Speaker 15: Jimmy Fallon, for example. But, yeah, to your point, like
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  Speaker 15: the Gronk Edelman. And then you and I have talked.
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  Speaker 15: I think there's been some folks who have taken liberties
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  Speaker 15: with the script, which has been great. Some have been PG.
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  Speaker 15: Some have maybe rated R. But they've been really funny
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  Speaker 15: to watch.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Is this something that possibly we can redo every year?
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  Speaker 15: Well, I don't know if we'll do it every year,
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  Speaker 15: but I will say this. I've also got some texts
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  Speaker 15: from friends out in Worcester who also, you know, we
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  Speaker 15: own the Worcester Airport. It's a smaller airport, but still.
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  Speaker 15: And folks want a voice of the woo, so we're
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  Speaker 15: thinking about that, too.
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  Speaker 6: Oh, that could be fun. Okay, some copycats out there already.
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  Speaker 6: We can take that.
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  Speaker 7: Well, that would be good.
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  Speaker 6: Worcester? Welcome to Worcester. Dollar 25, please.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, that sounds good.
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  Speaker 6: It does.
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  Speaker 7: Rich, have you heard any of the top contenders for
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  Speaker 7: the voice of Logan?
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  Speaker 15: So I'll be honest. I have not. I am going
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  Speaker 15: to listen to the top contenders later today. I didn't
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  Speaker 15: want to put any thumb in the scale, didn't want
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  Speaker 15: to have anything to do with it, so I have not.
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  Speaker 15: But I would expect they're going to be colorful, that
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  Speaker 15: they're going to be– You know, they're going to have
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  Speaker 15: the Boston enthusiasm and probably not have a lot of
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  Speaker 15: ours in their pronunciation. That'd be my guess.
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  Speaker 3: So these well now eight finalists to understand that they're
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  Speaker 3: coming on this show into these studios Monday, right?
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  Speaker 15: That's correct. I will be there with them as well
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  Speaker 15: with you next Monday morning for their audition. And then
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  Speaker 15: we will open the voting on October 24th through the
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  Speaker 15: 28th at voiceoflogan.com. Any Massachusetts resident can vote.
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  Speaker 7: That'll be 9 a.m., 910 on Monday morning. And, Rich,
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  Speaker 7: do you know if there will be any other special
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  Speaker 7: guests on Monday?
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  Speaker 2: No.
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  Speaker 15: Well, that is a good question. So when, you know,
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  Speaker 15: there's a very important election going on, and when we
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  Speaker 15: told the governor about this, she wanted to be part
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  Speaker 15: of the voting of the voice of Logan. So she
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  Speaker 15: is expected to be with us as well to introduce
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  Speaker 15: the eight finalists next Monday as well. How cool is that?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we've been hearing things about the governor coming in.
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  Speaker 15: Yes. Yes. And I mean, maybe she'll audition for you.
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  Speaker 15: I mean, she can't she can't qualify. However, maybe she
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  Speaker 15: would she might audition as well live with you.
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  Speaker 6: I got to tell you, I was with the governor yesterday.
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  Speaker 6: Very lucky to be with the governor.
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  Speaker 7: Yes.
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  Speaker 3: She is such a cool person. Governor Maura Healey. So
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  Speaker 3: if she comes in, that'll be awesome. We'd love to
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  Speaker 3: see her.
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  Speaker 6: She's funny. A lot of fun.
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  Speaker 14: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: Well, this is what I'll call her governor, though. Governor, governor, governor,
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  Speaker 6: governor Healy, please. The governor. Well, OK, so what time
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  Speaker 6: are we doing this, Justin, on Monday?
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  Speaker 7: 910 Monday morning will be Rich Davey from from Massport.
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  Speaker 7: Eight finalists. Now we just learned that. And the governor
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  Speaker 7: in studio.
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  Speaker 9: Wow.
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  Speaker 7: This is huge.
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  Speaker 8: Wow.
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  Speaker 6: I want to do it again. Just in case, Rich.
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  Speaker 15: Maybe we won't do it every year. Maybe every couple, two,
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  Speaker 15: three years. But we'll see. I mean, who knows? Maybe
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  Speaker 15: we might choose two voices of Logan. I don't know.
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  Speaker 15: I mean, the intent is one. But if, you know,
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  Speaker 15: it's a close vote, maybe we'd have to pick two.
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  Speaker 15: The beauty about this is the public will let us
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  Speaker 15: know what they think.
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  Speaker 6: So what you're saying, Rich, is there's a chance.
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  Speaker 15: There's a chance.
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  Speaker 6: Of doing it again. And a slight chance, maybe two.
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  Speaker 3: Who knows?
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  Speaker 6: Who knows?
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  Speaker 15: Who knows? I mean, who knows, right? I mean, if
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  Speaker 15: it's a tie, the public will speak. We can't deny people.
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  Speaker 15: So we'll see what the vote and how the auditions go.
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  Speaker 15: I'm looking forward to hearing, as I said later today,
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  Speaker 15: I'm going to listen to them. But it's not about me.
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  Speaker 15: It's about what folks will start thinking next week after
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  Speaker 15: these guys audition on your show.
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  Speaker 14: So you're telling me there's a chance.
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  Speaker 6: This is so exciting. Yeah, we're ready to go, Lisa.
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  Speaker 6: We are.
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  Speaker 3: This is one of the coolest contests we've ever had.
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  Speaker 3: And still, you can go to voiceoflogan.com.
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  Speaker 2: The number three moment here, which goes to one of
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  Speaker 2: our topic times from this week, which we do every
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  Speaker 2: day at 730, by the way. We got a DM
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  Speaker 2: from a listener who needed some advice about a weird
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  Speaker 2: thing that her boyfriend is doing.
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  Speaker 4: This listener said, hey, Billy and Lisa, I need some help. Recently,
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  Speaker 4: my boyfriend has been texting his work colleague at night
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  Speaker 4: while we are in bed. I asked him last night
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  Speaker 4: about it, and he explained it was his colleague who
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  Speaker 4: was going through a separation. He said he was just
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  Speaker 4: trying to help her through it. I'm not sure how
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  Speaker 4: comfortable I feel with it. And also, doesn't she have
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  Speaker 4: girlfriends she can talk to? I trust him, but I've
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  Speaker 4: heard of affairs starting this way at work and I'm
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  Speaker 4: nervous about it.
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  Speaker 5: Am I being too crazy? Please help me. And then
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  Speaker 5: she says, love the show. Thank you.
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  Speaker 6: Love the show. Is this a late night thing?
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  Speaker 5: It seems like it. Yeah, they're in bed. So and
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  Speaker 5: this person is probably leaning over being like, who are
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  Speaker 5: you texting?
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  Speaker 6: Oh, so he's doing it in bed.
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  Speaker 3: Yes.
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  Speaker 7: Uh-huh.
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  Speaker 6: Seems a little uncomfortable. I don't know. I think it's
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  Speaker 6: a bit much. Why not just talk when you're in
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  Speaker 6: the office? Exactly.
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  Speaker 5: I think it's, yeah, the setup is a little strange.
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  Speaker 9: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: In bed is supposed to be the, you know, intimate time.
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  Speaker 1: Right.
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  Speaker 6: You know, the door closes. It's your world. You know,
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  Speaker 6: that's your world.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: But do you think it's OK to have a work
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  Speaker 7: wife or work husband?
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  Speaker 6: Definitely. I've got one sitting next to me.
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  Speaker 9: I know.
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  Speaker 5: I've been working next to Billy for 25 years.
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  Speaker 13: Right.
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  Speaker 7: Do you ever text him, Billy? I don't text him.
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  Speaker 5: At night in bed when I'm– no, I don't.
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  Speaker 6: I text her very late at night.
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  Speaker 7: Well, you've got the dogs in between you and your wife, Michelle.
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  Speaker 6: You don't want to wake the dogs.
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  Speaker 7: We just text Lisa, see what's going on.
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  Speaker 6: Imagine in the dark just whispering, so Lisa, how you doing?
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  Speaker 2: What?
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  Speaker 6: It's crazy.
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  Speaker 4: That's the part that I'm having a problem with. It's
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  Speaker 4: not that you are friendly with someone that you work with.
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  Speaker 5: It's like the setup of at night. Show some respect
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  Speaker 5: for your partner.
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  Speaker 7: And also, he's giving her advice about a breakup. He's
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  Speaker 7: the shoulder to lean on.
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  Speaker 6: Right.
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  Speaker 7: Where can that lead to?
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  Speaker 14: Right.
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  Speaker 5: And it's late night.
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  Speaker 6: Again, like maybe over coffee. uh, in the morning at work,
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  Speaker 6: you know? Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: She might, she might even have a problem with that.
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  Speaker 7: That might even be too much as well. I think,
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  Speaker 7: I think the, really the line that sticks out is
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  Speaker 7: doesn't she have girlfriends to, to, to talk to about this? Um,
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  Speaker 7: I've a long, a long time here at the radio station.
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  Speaker 7: I've had a work wife cause I used to work
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  Speaker 7: with her, Ashley down the hall. We spent many years
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  Speaker 7: together and my wife calls her my work wife.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: You know, we text and all, you know, just like
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  Speaker 7: anybody else. But I don't think my wife's concerned. I
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  Speaker 7: think she's probably like, I don't think.
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  Speaker 3: Well, some women don't even enjoy the term work wife.
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  Speaker 9: Right.
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  Speaker 6: You know?
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  Speaker 7: Well, do you refer to Lisa as a work wife?
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  Speaker 6: I don't think so.
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  Speaker 1: No.
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  Speaker 6: We're just friends. Best friend?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I will say that several years ago, I was going
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  Speaker 7: through a very hard time in my marriage, and we
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  Speaker 7: were very close to splitting up. and potentially getting a divorce.
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  Speaker 1: What?
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  Speaker 7: Very, very close. And it was, it was a really
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  Speaker 7: tough time in my marriage and it was all me, right?
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  Speaker 7: It was all, I couldn't see it, but it was me.
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  Speaker 7: It was my head telling me things. And I leaned
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  Speaker 7: on my work wife down the hall and she talked,
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  Speaker 7: she like was very blunt with me and told me
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  Speaker 7: what I needed to hear and realize that it was
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  Speaker 7: me and basically helped save my marriage. It was in
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  Speaker 7: that conversation changed everything. And after that, we worked it
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  Speaker 7: out and I was able to kind of see what
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  Speaker 7: I was doing. So sometimes it's beneficial.
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  Speaker 6: And how was your wife dealing with it?
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  Speaker 7: With what?
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  Speaker 6: Did she know these conversations were going on?
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  Speaker 7: I told her.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 7: And she actually texted her and thanked her. Because she
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  Speaker 7: couldn't get through to me, but she could. Sometimes it's beneficial.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, I think so.
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  Speaker 7: Sometimes, but other times, you know, it can be a
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  Speaker 7: little risky.
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  Speaker 16: Hey, it's Sarah from Maine. And in terms of the
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  Speaker 16: work colleague thing, that is an absolute no. I don't
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  Speaker 16: know if anyone remembers the episode of Seinfeld where Jerry
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  Speaker 16: and Elaine go after the friends.
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  Speaker 6: That are getting divorced.
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  Speaker 16: And the line is, you go from.
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  Speaker 7: Look at that baby. She's got a newborn at home,
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  Speaker 7: if you don't know what that is. Yeah, a little Maddie.
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  Speaker 9: I'm the.
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  Speaker 16: Here for you to just, I'm here. And I feel
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  Speaker 16: like that is exactly what your husband is trying to do.
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  Speaker 6: So shut it down.
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  Speaker 3: I thought she was saying to the baby, I'm here
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  Speaker 3: for you.
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  Speaker 7: She probably should be.
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  Speaker 6: Honey, I'm here for you. No, I'm right here.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, I remember that episode.
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  Speaker 6: I'll tell you that. There for you, crap, was a
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  Speaker 6: stroke of genius.
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  Speaker 12: Oh, please.
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  Speaker 6: Never mind.
• 14:13
  Speaker 9: Come on.
• 14:13
  Speaker 6: You're a genius. All right.
• 14:15
  Speaker 8: So about your boyfriend cheating on you, like right next
• 14:20
  Speaker 8: to you in bed, like that's pretty ballsy. And I mean,
• 14:24
  Speaker 8: I think it's. exciting for him to do that because
• 14:28
  Speaker 8: clearly I mean this girl has some family that she
• 14:31
  Speaker 8: could speak to I'm sure some friends but he's like
• 14:35
  Speaker 8: getting an extra kick out of doing it right in
• 14:38
  Speaker 8: front of your face you need to leave him and
• 14:40
  Speaker 8: you need to leave him fast oh god I kind.
• 14:44
  Speaker 4: Of agree with her in some ways like he knows
• 14:46
  Speaker 4: it's probably not appropriate and he's still doing it right
• 14:50
  Speaker 4: like they're trying to push their boundaries to see how
• 14:52
  Speaker 4: far how much he can get away with.
• 14:53
  Speaker 3: And he must know that his wife's not happy about it.
• 14:56
  Speaker 7: Well, if she's writing into the Billy and Lisa show
• 14:58
  Speaker 7: on Kiss 108 asking for advice, there's clearly something going on.
• 15:03
  Speaker 6: Wow.
• 15:03
  Speaker 7: You know what I mean?
• 15:04
  Speaker 9: I don't know.
• 15:05
  Speaker 7: Riley, what do you think?
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: I mean, I've always thought that the work-wife-work-husband dynamic is
• 15:10
  Speaker 2: very odd. I think if you're a coworker, you can
• 15:12
  Speaker 2: be friends with them, but sometimes it does.
• 15:14
  Speaker 6: Cross a line.
• 15:16
  Speaker 2: I actually took this as he was being honest about
• 15:19
  Speaker 2: When she asked, which I thought was at least like
• 15:21
  Speaker 2: a little bit of a saving grace, like she was like, hey,
• 15:24
  Speaker 2: who are you texting? And he was like, oh, my
• 15:26
  Speaker 2: coworker is going through this thing. He could have lied
• 15:28
  Speaker 2: and been like, oh, nothing. And then like, you know,
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: put his phone face down or whatever. So in my
• 15:32
  Speaker 2: head a little bit, I was like, oh, well, at
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: least like he's being honest about it.
• 15:36
  Speaker 5: Is it weird?
• 15:37
  Speaker 8: Yes.
• 15:38
  Speaker 14: But I don't know.
• 15:40
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm trying to say?
• 15:41
  Speaker 4: I think him being honest with it is him throwing
• 15:43
  Speaker 4: the ball in her court to see how she reacts
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: to it. I think now she's like making it like
• 15:48
  Speaker 4: her problem.
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: And now is he going to have to be honest
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: with the co-worker because he knows his wife's not happy
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: about it?
• 15:54
  Speaker 6: Oh, no.
• 15:55
  Speaker 5: That's never coming up.
• 15:56
  Speaker 6: No? I don't think so.
• 15:57
  Speaker 5: It doesn't sound like it.
• 15:58
  Speaker 6: He doesn't go in and say, look, these late night conversations.
• 16:00
  Speaker 5: It doesn't sound like it.
• 16:01
  Speaker 6: My wife's not comfortable.
• 16:02
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 16:02
  Speaker 14: They're not.
• 16:03
  Speaker 6: Oh, boy.
• 16:03
  Speaker 17: Yeah.
• 16:04
  Speaker 7: Got to put the work wife to bed, I think.
• 16:06
  Speaker 6: Well, not.
• 16:07
  Speaker 7: We'll not take her today.
• 16:09
  Speaker 6: Maybe he already has.
• 16:10
  Speaker 7: Oh, yeah. There's going to be a red flag.
• 16:13
  Speaker 18: Yeah, that's a big red flag.
• 16:16
  Speaker 6: That's insane.
• 16:17
  Speaker 9: Like, if my husband was ever texting the lady from
• 16:20
  Speaker 9: work at night like that, trying to help her, that's
• 16:25
  Speaker 9: crazy pants. I do not like the whole work wife,
• 16:29
  Speaker 9: work husband thing.
• 16:32
  Speaker 11: Absolutely not.
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: Oh, boy.
• 16:35
  Speaker 7: Well, you see these stories all the time.
• 16:36
  Speaker 9: Mm-hmm.
• 16:37
  Speaker 7: It all starts there.
• 16:38
  Speaker 9: All right.
• 16:39
  Speaker 12: This is longtime listener Oscar, like the baloney. To the
• 16:43
  Speaker 12: caller or to the emailer or whatever it was with
• 16:46
  Speaker 12: the guy texting in bed to his coworker, well, he's gone.
• 16:52
  Speaker 12: No matter how you put it, he's in bed texting
• 16:55
  Speaker 12: another person, mainly a female.
• 16:58
  Speaker 6: He's gone.
• 16:59
  Speaker 3: Oh, boy.
• 17:00
  Speaker 6: Is that the Oscar Mayer guy? Oscar Mayer wieners, baby.
• 17:04
  Speaker 7: Oscar Mayer wieners. I like that.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Welcome back into the best of Billy and Lisa in
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: the morning. It's producer Riley here counting down the top
• 17:11
  Speaker 2: five moments of the week with you. And just a
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: couple minutes ago, we were talking about this DM that
• 17:15
  Speaker 2: we got from a listener who is dealing with her
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: boyfriend texting his coworker specifically late at night when they
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: are in bed together. It's giving red flags. We wanted
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: to know what you guys think about the idea of
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: the work wife slash work husband narrative.
• 17:32
  Speaker 3: Affairs have started this way, I'm sure. But let's go
• 17:36
  Speaker 3: to Juanita. She's in Westford. Anita, you want to join
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: the conversation?
• 17:40
  Speaker 4: I do.
• 17:41
  Speaker 8: And I believe that you can't have a relationship with
• 17:44
  Speaker 8: somebody without the trust. And if he was honest with
• 17:47
  Speaker 8: her when she asked, then I believe she should trust
• 17:50
  Speaker 8: her husband.
• 17:52
  Speaker 3: And Riley pointed out, yeah, he was being honest. He said, yeah,
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: I'm talking to a co-worker. She's going through something.
• 17:57
  Speaker 5: I think it was just the timing of it and
• 17:59
  Speaker 5: where they were. That's sort of the issue.
• 18:02
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I can understand that side of it. Like maybe
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: wait until the next morning or like over lunch or something.
• 18:08
  Speaker 6: Well, Justin made a good point, too.
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: He's like, you know, when you close the door to
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: the bedroom at night, it's it's your space.
• 18:14
  Speaker 6: You know, like it's you can't share that space unless
• 18:18
  Speaker 6: it's an emergency. Exactly.
• 18:19
  Speaker 5: You know, unless it's an emergency.
• 18:21
  Speaker 7: Can't be giving breakup advice. to a woman you work
• 18:24
  Speaker 7: with in bed while you're laying next to your wife.
• 18:27
  Speaker 6: Right. It just sounds bad. It's just, yeah.
• 18:30
  Speaker 3: You know what part I love the most is that
• 18:32
  Speaker 3: the listeners actually want our advice.
• 18:34
  Speaker 14: I know.
• 18:35
  Speaker 5: I love that.
• 18:36
  Speaker 7: We welcome it.
• 18:36
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 18:37
  Speaker 7: Let's go to Robin in North Cackalacka, North Carolina.
• 18:41
  Speaker 6: Hey, Robin, how's North Carolina treating you right now?
• 18:45
  Speaker 14: It's good.
• 18:46
  Speaker 5: How are you guys doing?
• 18:47
  Speaker 6: We're doing fine. What do you think about this situation?
• 18:51
  Speaker 15: You know, my husband and I always thought if you're
• 18:53
  Speaker 15: going to make any decision in life, you should always
• 18:55
  Speaker 15: put the shoe on the other foot.
• 18:56
  Speaker 5: And how would it make him feel if she were
• 18:59
  Speaker 5: doing the same thing?
• 19:00
  Speaker 6: I bet he wouldn't feel very good.
• 19:03
  Speaker 14: Exactly.
• 19:04
  Speaker 7: So then the answer is wrong.
• 19:05
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 19:06
  Speaker 4: It's just it's slightly disrespectful to the person he's laying
• 19:09
  Speaker 4: in bed with.
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you can hear it now. It's like, who are
• 19:11
  Speaker 6: you talking to? Right.
• 19:13
  Speaker 3: Oh, I'm talking to Bobby at the office.
• 19:16
  Speaker 18: What?
• 19:17
  Speaker 5: Can't Bobby wait, right?
• 19:20
  Speaker 7: I know. That is a good response, right? Like, what
• 19:22
  Speaker 7: if it was me?
• 19:23
  Speaker 5: Right, you always put the shoe on the other foot.
• 19:24
  Speaker 7: Yeah, what if the roles were reversed?
• 19:26
  Speaker 19: Okay, this is Mercedes in response to the work-wife, work-husband thing. Yes,
• 19:31
  Speaker 19: it's fine if they're, like, 30 years older. Like, a work-grandpa,
• 19:35
  Speaker 19: a work-grandma is fine, but call me crazy, but if
• 19:39
  Speaker 19: my boyfriend was texting somebody about their breakup who was
• 19:42
  Speaker 19: also their colleague, I would be like, you're dogging me.
• 19:46
  Speaker 6: Get out of here.
• 19:48
  Speaker 3: Okay, producer Riley looked at me when she said 30
• 19:51
  Speaker 3: years older.
• 19:53
  Speaker 6: She's like looking at me. Yeah, right.
• 19:55
  Speaker 10: What?
• 19:57
  Speaker 7: It was just a natural instinct. I saw her eyeballing you.
• 20:02
  Speaker 11: Work wives and work husbands are necessary, especially.
• 20:06
  Speaker 5: If you work in healthcare.
• 20:08
  Speaker 11: But I think that if you are texting in bed
• 20:13
  Speaker 11: at night, it only is allowed to be the tea
• 20:16
  Speaker 11: that's piping hot at work. It can't be... personal thing
• 20:21
  Speaker 11: that's kind of odd that's where I would draw the
• 20:23
  Speaker 11: line T.
• 20:25
  Speaker 3: Fine I can see medical profession like you're both working
• 20:29
  Speaker 3: on a big surgery the next morning or something and
• 20:31
  Speaker 3: you have some last minute notes some last minute.
• 20:33
  Speaker 4: Questions of course that's different that's.
• 20:36
  Speaker 3: Not what this was this was like I don't know
• 20:38
  Speaker 3: whether to break up with him or not what.
• 20:41
  Speaker 7: Well like she said only in bed I guess in
• 20:44
  Speaker 7: bed only if there's like good tea from work yeah
• 20:47
  Speaker 7: not personal stuff oh we love tea I mean, if
• 20:50
  Speaker 7: there's good tea.
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: Anytime of the day or night. Lisa, feel free to
• 20:53
  Speaker 6: call anytime.
• 20:55
  Speaker 7: Yeah, it's never a bad time for some tea.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: So it's one.
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: Thing to have a work wife or a work husband.
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: I have had, I've actually had a work wife and
• 21:02
  Speaker 1: a work husband. But when it crosses that line, it's
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: no longer a work wife.
• 21:09
  Speaker 18: She has every right to be concerned.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: And he's totally disrespecting her by texting.
• 21:15
  Speaker 6: Another woman while they're lying in bed.
• 21:17
  Speaker 9: Run, honey.
• 21:19
  Speaker 6: That's kind of like we're doing a poll.
• 21:21
  Speaker 9: Yeah. Right.
• 21:22
  Speaker 4: It seems overwhelmingly that everyone's on her side.
• 21:25
  Speaker 6: Bad idea.
• 21:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 21:26
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 21:27
  Speaker 6: Put down the phone.
• 21:29
  Speaker 7: It's the bed thing. That's what it is.
• 21:31
  Speaker 6: It's the setup.
• 21:31
  Speaker 7: That's the most intimate place.
• 21:33
  Speaker 6: Exactly.
• 21:33
  Speaker 7: Is to be is in bed.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: You could be watching a movie together, a TV show or,
• 21:38
  Speaker 3: you know.
• 21:39
  Speaker 6: It could be showtime.
• 21:40
  Speaker 7: And, you know, it's the same thing has probably happened
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: to many people.
• 21:44
  Speaker 19: The same exact thing happened to my now husband a
• 21:47
  Speaker 19: couple years ago.
• 21:48
  Speaker 18: I saw him texting a girl.
• 21:49
  Speaker 19: He said it was a girl from work, and she
• 21:52
  Speaker 19: was having some relationship trouble, and she was venting to
• 21:55
  Speaker 19: him about it. And I'm a woman. I know how
• 21:58
  Speaker 19: women think. I stopped that real quick. She's letting you
• 22:01
  Speaker 19: know that she is going through a breakup with her
• 22:05
  Speaker 19: now husband so that she can get with you after.
• 22:08
  Speaker 19: That stopped really quick. He never texted her after that again.
• 22:12
  Speaker 9: Hmm.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: I think it's still overwhelming that, you know, put down
• 22:19
  Speaker 3: the phone. Actually, don't even have the phone with you.
• 22:22
  Speaker 3: If you know the work person is calling, just.
• 22:25
  Speaker 6: Have the phone in another room.
• 22:26
  Speaker 7: Some people don't even bring their phone to bed.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:28
  Speaker 7: I got a bunch of messages about that. They keep
• 22:30
  Speaker 7: the phone in the kitchen.
• 22:32
  Speaker 6: Yeah, my wife, Michelle, turns hers off.
• 22:34
  Speaker 7: So she doesn't even have her phone in the bed.
• 22:36
  Speaker 7: What about you? You're on your phone swiping away, aren't you?
• 22:39
  Speaker 6: I leave it on for the alarms.
• 22:41
  Speaker 5: Right, for the alarm.
• 22:42
  Speaker 6: And she keeps saying, the alarm will go off if
• 22:46
  Speaker 6: you turn down the volume.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: What?
• 22:49
  Speaker 7: You know what? I have that same fear, so I'm
• 22:52
  Speaker 7: with you. I don't know either.
• 22:53
  Speaker 6: I can't believe it, even if it's true. I'm like, God,
• 22:55
  Speaker 6: but I have to get up early.
• 22:57
  Speaker 7: I got to put it on full volume.
• 22:58
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 22:58
  Speaker 7: I'm with you.
• 22:59
  Speaker 18: I would be suspicious that that's even why he was
• 23:01
  Speaker 18: texting her at night. Like, really? She's having a problem
• 23:05
  Speaker 18: with her spouse or whatever, so that's why she can
• 23:07
  Speaker 18: text you late at night?
• 23:08
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: Come on.
• 23:09
  Speaker 18: I'm sure they're texting about other things. That just seems
• 23:13
  Speaker 18: like an excuse.
• 23:14
  Speaker 3: And by the way, if she's calling because she's having
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: a problem with her spouse, now she has an even
• 23:21
  Speaker 3: bigger problem, right?
• 23:23
  Speaker 6: Because her spouse probably.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: Isn't happy that she's talking to her co-worker about him.
• 23:29
  Speaker 5: Yeah, very true.
• 23:30
  Speaker 2: If they're texting in bed, they're texting all the time.
• 23:34
  Speaker 14: Like, it's not just that one text.
• 23:35
  Speaker 6: Yeah, they had all day to exchange texts. Exactly.
• 23:38
  Speaker 7: Oh, and she's complaining about her relationship and... how she's
• 23:41
  Speaker 7: not happy with him. And what's he saying back? It's
• 23:45
  Speaker 7: going to be okay. You'll find someone.
• 23:47
  Speaker 4: It's like overwhelming when people are like, this is not appropriate.
• 23:50
  Speaker 7: And then she says something like, I just want to
• 23:52
  Speaker 7: find someone like you.
• 23:53
  Speaker 6: Oh, my God. She'll say the words, I need someone
• 23:57
  Speaker 6: like you.
• 23:58
  Speaker 9: Oh, God.
• 23:59
  Speaker 6: That happens.
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:00
  Speaker 7: Oh, man. Oh, we got Pat, the couple's counselor here. Hi,
• 24:03
  Speaker 7: this is Pat, the LMHC.
• 24:06
  Speaker 13: And couples counselor and when it crosses the line that's
• 24:10
  Speaker 13: when it's not appropriate after work hours when you get
• 24:14
  Speaker 13: into personal things emotional support for going through a breakup
• 24:17
  Speaker 13: or anything that should be handled by their personal supports
• 24:21
  Speaker 13: their friends their counselors and it's crossing the line and
• 24:25
  Speaker 13: this is how affairs can start you never get connected
• 24:29
  Speaker 13: to someone emotionally and if you lie to your partner
• 24:31
  Speaker 13: about it you cross the line already.
• 24:34
  Speaker 6: Okay, I think that pretty much said it all.
• 24:36
  Speaker 7: I love having a professional listen to this show. I
• 24:38
  Speaker 7: think he really is. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 24:41
  Speaker 6: I think so.
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: Billy, why would he lie about that?
• 24:43
  Speaker 6: Well, he could have been a character for the Billy
• 24:44
  Speaker 6: and Lisa show.
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: No, no.
• 24:46
  Speaker 7: I mean, actually, I don't know. He could be made up.
• 24:49
  Speaker 6: That would be even funnier.
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: Right, the mayor of the South End is not really
• 24:53
  Speaker 5: the mayor of the South End.
• 24:54
  Speaker 7: No, he is not.
• 24:55
  Speaker 9: No.
• 24:56
  Speaker 7: And, you know, that's the beautiful thing about the Talkbacks.
• 24:57
  Speaker 7: You can be anybody you want.
• 24:59
  Speaker 6: I think Pat really is a couple.
• 25:01
  Speaker 7: He is. He's an LMHC. He sounds like it. a
• 25:04
  Speaker 7: licensed mental health counselor.
• 25:06
  Speaker 6: And we need him around.
• 25:08
  Speaker 7: Yeah, stick around, Pat, will you?
• 25:09
  Speaker 4: I think the term work wife and work husband is
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: weird and icky.
• 25:14
  Speaker 6: But yeah, sure, have friends.
• 25:17
  Speaker 16: Of the opposite sex.
• 25:18
  Speaker 15: That's totally fine. It's normal.
• 25:20
  Speaker 18: You start texting my man in bed, though, we're going.
• 25:22
  Speaker 8: To have a.
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: The number one moment of the week has got to
• 25:24
  Speaker 2: go to Chad Kroger being in studio. No, not that
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: Chad Kroger. Chad Kroger from Chad Goes Deep. was in
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: studio teaching us how to up our Stoke.
• 25:35
  Speaker 6: It's all about Stoke.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: And we're going to talk about Stoke because I think
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: I have to learn about Stoke. I want to make
• 25:40
  Speaker 3: sure I'm doing the right thing.
• 25:42
  Speaker 14: That's my mission. I want to get you Stoke today.
• 25:44
  Speaker 14: So that's my mission.
• 25:45
  Speaker 6: Okay. We'll do it before this segment is over. How's that?
• 25:48
  Speaker 14: Perfect.
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: Now, I notice you're on tour, but you're alone. You're
• 25:51
  Speaker 3: not with JT. This is a solo tour.
• 25:53
  Speaker 9: Why?
• 25:53
  Speaker 14: You know, I wrote this kind of like, it's like
• 25:56
  Speaker 14: a TED Talk on Stoke.
• 25:58
  Speaker 9: And.
• 26:00
  Speaker 14: Yeah, I just wrote this kind of one-man show. So
• 26:03
  Speaker 14: I've just been doing a solo tour. But yeah, JT
• 26:05
  Speaker 14: and I, we still work together all the time. We
• 26:07
  Speaker 14: hit city council meetings. We're still activists.
• 26:10
  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, we'll get to those.
• 26:11
  Speaker 14: Yeah, we still do the podcast, all that kind of stuff.
• 26:13
  Speaker 3: But you kind of blew up because you had a
• 26:14
  Speaker 3: show on Netflix. How the hell did you guys land
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: on Netflix?
• 26:18
  Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean, so we were doing our activism. For
• 26:22
  Speaker 14: the listeners, if you're unaware, we do like stoke activism.
• 26:25
  Speaker 14: So we go to city councils and we fight for,
• 26:27
  Speaker 14: You know, the things that we want to the change
• 26:29
  Speaker 14: that we want to see, like, you know, the biggest
• 26:31
  Speaker 14: thing was like a Paul Walker statue. More parties in
• 26:34
  Speaker 14: the Hollywood Hills.
• 26:34
  Speaker 9: Sure.
• 26:36
  Speaker 14: And these execs at Netflix were like, dude, we're totally
• 26:39
  Speaker 14: on board with the Paul Walker statue. We want to
• 26:42
  Speaker 14: help your activism like reach the world. So we're like, yeah,
• 26:46
  Speaker 14: for sure. They're like, do you want to show on Netflix?
• 26:48
  Speaker 14: And we're like, yeah, that sounds chill.
• 26:50
  Speaker 9: So.
• 26:51
  Speaker 14: That's kind of how it went down.
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: You look and you sound like a surfer dude from
• 26:55
  Speaker 3: the West Coast.
• 26:56
  Speaker 6: Are you guys actually surfers?
• 26:59
  Speaker 14: Yes. I am a surfer. JT is a bodyboarder. We don't,
• 27:04
  Speaker 14: we don't, you know, that's kind of a mix the two. Well,
• 27:07
  Speaker 14: we're star-crossed, you know. Usually you don't mix the two, but,
• 27:11
  Speaker 14: you know, in this case we made an exception.
• 27:12
  Speaker 7: JT's not necessarily in surfer shape.
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: No.
• 27:16
  Speaker 6: Okay, be careful. These guys come after you.
• 27:21
  Speaker 7: I get stoked. I'm good.
• 27:23
  Speaker 14: I can feel it from over there, yeah.
• 27:25
  Speaker 6: What is stoked?
• 27:26
  Speaker 5: Like, what is it?
• 27:27
  Speaker 14: It's that feeling of, like, where, you know that feeling
• 27:30
  Speaker 14: when you, like, you know, you're at Jingle Ball.
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 27:35
  Speaker 14: Nickelbacks playing and how you remind me comes on and
• 27:38
  Speaker 14: you just you can't stop fist pumping like involuntarily.
• 27:41
  Speaker 6: You're just so.
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:43
  Speaker 7: And you're just.
• 27:44
  Speaker 14: There we go. Yeah.
• 27:46
  Speaker 9: OK.
• 27:46
  Speaker 14: It's that feeling of like total oneness with the world
• 27:50
  Speaker 14: where everything feels awesome.
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: Now, I know you explained in detail Stoke to Kimmel
• 27:56
  Speaker 3: the other night.
• 27:56
  Speaker 6: You were on the Kimmel. God, you guys are everywhere.
• 27:58
  Speaker 6: You were on Stern.
• 27:59
  Speaker 3: I mean, you were with Jesse Waters on Fox.
• 28:01
  Speaker 14: Yeah.
• 28:02
  Speaker 6: I think we have your explanation on Kimmel right here.
• 28:05
  Speaker 6: What is Stoke exactly?
• 28:06
  Speaker 17: It's like a feeling in your body of eternal optimism
• 28:10
  Speaker 17: and abundance. You know, it's kind of hard to put
• 28:12
  Speaker 17: into words, but lately I've been sort of saying that
• 28:15
  Speaker 17: Stoke is like this feeling like, That feeling when you
• 28:19
  Speaker 17: shotgun a Monster Energy and then redline your Toyota Supra
• 28:22
  Speaker 17: in the Mojave Desert.
• 28:24
  Speaker 6: Okay, you lost me on Monster.
• 28:26
  Speaker 7: Kimmel was confused, too.
• 28:27
  Speaker 14: Are you a NOS Energy guy?
• 28:28
  Speaker 6: I don't know.
• 28:30
  Speaker 5: He doesn't know anything about this.
• 28:31
  Speaker 6: What is it?
• 28:33
  Speaker 14: Monster?
• 28:33
  Speaker 6: Yeah. It's a drink. Yeah, I've had the drink. Yeah. Okay.
• 28:38
  Speaker 14: It doesn't get you amped?
• 28:39
  Speaker 5: He doesn't drink it.
• 28:40
  Speaker 14: Oh, you don't?
• 28:41
  Speaker 6: I've seen it.
• 28:42
  Speaker 18: Yeah.
• 28:42
  Speaker 15: Yeah.
• 28:45
  Speaker 3: I think I actually endorsed it. I was doing the
• 28:48
  Speaker 3: commercials for Monster.
• 28:51
  Speaker 14: Well, maybe after this segment, we'll shotgun one, and you'll
• 28:54
  Speaker 14: know what.
• 28:55
  Speaker 6: I'm talking about. I would love to see that. All right. Riley,
• 28:57
  Speaker 6: can we get some Monster drink in here? Let's go, man.
• 29:00
  Speaker 7: I like the white Monster. Is that to me? I'm
• 29:02
  Speaker 7: a white Monster guy.
• 29:03
  Speaker 14: Are those the sugar-free?
• 29:06
  Speaker 7: Yeah, I only drink the sugar-free. I don't do the sugar. Well,
• 29:09
  Speaker 7: you do that one.
• 29:10
  Speaker 6: No, no.
• 29:10
  Speaker 14: I mean, I'll do the blue. I'm not really sure
• 29:13
  Speaker 14: what the blue is, but I just like blue.
• 29:14
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: You're wearing all blue.
• 29:17
  Speaker 14: I'm wearing all blue.
• 29:17
  Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah.
• 29:18
  Speaker 6: Yeah, you blend beautifully. Thank you. I just want to
• 29:20
  Speaker 6: say that to you. You are definitely stoke.
• 29:22
  Speaker 15: Oh, dude.
• 29:23
  Speaker 6: That's coming from me who doesn't even know what stoke means.
• 29:25
  Speaker 14: Are you for real right now?
• 29:26
  Speaker 6: I'm being for real. You got it.
• 29:28
  Speaker 14: Thank you.
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: I want to borrow that sweater. Oh, thank you.
• 29:30
  Speaker 14: Because it would make me more stoke. Yeah, I mean, yeah,
• 29:33
  Speaker 14: I feel like this, yeah, it's nice. You know, I
• 29:35
  Speaker 14: come from California, so I was in a t-shirt when
• 29:37
  Speaker 14: I'm in sweater weather.
• 29:38
  Speaker 9: Oh, yeah.
• 29:38
  Speaker 14: I'm blending in nicely.
• 29:39
  Speaker 6: Sweater weather.
• 29:40
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 29:40
  Speaker 14: I love it. Dude, rocking a sweater, that gets me stoked.
• 29:45
  Speaker 6: I'm rocking a sweater right now.
• 29:46
  Speaker 14: Yeah, you look good.
• 29:46
  Speaker 6: I don't know if you happen to notice.
• 29:48
  Speaker 14: Yeah, it looks good.
• 29:48
  Speaker 6: It's not as blousey as yours, but, you know, I'm
• 29:51
  Speaker 6: rocking it. Okay. This city council meeting thing. I don't
• 29:58
  Speaker 6: know how that began, but you guys, you and JT,
• 30:00
  Speaker 6: you basically invade city council meetings.
• 30:03
  Speaker 9: Right.
• 30:03
  Speaker 6: How do you choose which ones?
• 30:06
  Speaker 14: Whichever one is happening that night. We live in L.A.,
• 30:09
  Speaker 14: so there's like 100 council meetings within the county. So
• 30:14
  Speaker 14: you can hit West Hollywood, Beverly Hills. Sometimes we go
• 30:17
  Speaker 14: down to Orange County. We hit San Clemente, Newport, Laguna Beach,
• 30:20
  Speaker 14: whichever one is happening. Sometimes we hit planning commission meetings.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Mm-hmm.
• 30:24
  Speaker 14: Which we didn't really realize at the time because we
• 30:27
  Speaker 14: would speak on issues that the city could change, but
• 30:29
  Speaker 14: we didn't realize that the planning commission, they basically had
• 30:31
  Speaker 14: no power to enact what we were asking for.
• 30:35
  Speaker 6: So you had a whole plan in place.
• 30:37
  Speaker 14: Yeah.
• 30:38
  Speaker 6: And they couldn't do anything about it.
• 30:39
  Speaker 14: Yeah, we were just talking to the planning commission. We're like, hey,
• 30:41
  Speaker 14: can you allow more parties in Newport? And they're like,
• 30:46
  Speaker 14: we're just trying to build a Hilton. I don't know.
• 30:48
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: We actually have a clip of you guys at one
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: of the city council meetings, and I think you're looking
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: to give them a new anthem?
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Justin, we have that? Here we go.
• 31:03
  Speaker 14: Chad Kroger.
• 31:04
  Speaker 6: Council, what up?
• 31:05
  Speaker 14: JT just brought the heat there, and I'm here to
• 31:08
  Speaker 14: boost his message with an acoustic rendition of Smooth, just
• 31:12
  Speaker 14: to further wet your beaks on this proposal. First time singing,
• 31:17
  Speaker 14: by the way.
• 31:17
  Speaker 6: Okay. Man, it's a hot one.
• 31:21
  Speaker 14: Like seven inches from the midday sun. I hear you
• 31:26
  Speaker 14: whisper and the words melt everyone, but you stay so cool.
• 31:32
  Speaker 14: That's pretty good, right?
• 31:34
  Speaker 6: Carlos Santana, Rob Thomas. That's a classic.
• 31:38
  Speaker 14: If he brought Rob Thomas in, I think he'd be stoked.
• 31:42
  Speaker 7: With Adam in.
• 31:44
  Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 31:45
  Speaker 7: Well, they just announced a new tour.
• 31:47
  Speaker 6: Rob Thomas?
• 31:48
  Speaker 7: Matchbox 20?
• 31:49
  Speaker 6: Oh, that's right. We talked about it yesterday. They were
• 31:51
  Speaker 6: on Kimmel last night. Yeah. So will you go to
• 31:54
  Speaker 6: that show? Yeah.
• 31:56
  Speaker 14: I mean, I'm going to try and sneak up there and,
• 31:58
  Speaker 14: you know, do a duet with him, I think.
• 32:00
  Speaker 6: Why not? I mean, you were a natural in the
• 32:01
  Speaker 6: council meeting. Thank you.
• 32:03
  Speaker 14: Yeah, it was the first time.
• 32:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:04
  Speaker 14: Yeah, imagine if I got some tutelage from, you know.
• 32:07
  Speaker 14: the other Chad Kroger, something like that.
• 32:08
  Speaker 3: Now, how are they receiving you guys at the city
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: council meetings? Like, did they see you coming at this point?
• 32:15
  Speaker 14: They, you know, when we come in, they kind of like,
• 32:18
  Speaker 14: they can feel it. They can feel our vibe and
• 32:20
  Speaker 14: they're like, okay, it's time to rock. Like these guys
• 32:23
  Speaker 14: are ready to bring the heat.
• 32:24
  Speaker 6: You really believe that?
• 32:25
  Speaker 15: Yeah.
• 32:26
  Speaker 14: I mean, you know, you can see it on the
• 32:27
  Speaker 14: mayor's face, mayor of Newport. He was so, he's so psyched,
• 32:31
  Speaker 14: you know, he's like, and I'm trying to think of, um, Yeah,
• 32:35
  Speaker 14: at first, like we went to San Clemente, we petitioned
• 32:38
  Speaker 14: for a Paul Walker statue.
• 32:40
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 32:41
  Speaker 14: And they just totally wrote us off. You know, they're like, yeah,
• 32:44
  Speaker 14: we'll get you a statue. They got us like an
• 32:46
  Speaker 14: eight inch statue. Just so much disrespect.
• 32:49
  Speaker 6: Yeah, I believe in the Paul Walker thing.
• 32:51
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 32:51
  Speaker 6: Thank you.
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 32:52
  Speaker 14: And I still do. I still want the statue. And
• 32:55
  Speaker 14: then once they gave us that eight incher, there were
• 32:58
  Speaker 14: more shark sightings in San Clemente and even a shark attack.
• 33:02
  Speaker 14: So I was like, yeah, you don't. they kind of realize, oh,
• 33:06
  Speaker 14: we shouldn't mess with these guys.
• 33:07
  Speaker 6: Okay.
• 33:08
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 33:08
  Speaker 6: Well, you bring Paul Walker into the mix.
• 33:10
  Speaker 9: Exactly.
• 33:11
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean?
• 33:11
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 33:12
  Speaker 6: What's the show like tonight?
• 33:14
  Speaker 14: So it's basically like a TED Talk on Stoke. So
• 33:17
  Speaker 14: imagine me as Tony Robbins. I'm going to teach you
• 33:20
  Speaker 14: how to get stoked for life.
• 33:21
  Speaker 3: All right.
• 33:22
  Speaker 6: Here we go.
• 33:22
  Speaker 14: We all need this.
• 33:23
  Speaker 6: Yeah. We all need it.
• 33:25
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 33:26
  Speaker 14: The world needs it. I feel like, you know, nowadays
• 33:30
  Speaker 14: people have been more bummed than ever. And, you know,
• 33:33
  Speaker 14: I think My show is basically an antidote to that,
• 33:36
  Speaker 14: to try and lift everyone out of this funk.
• 33:39
  Speaker 18: Okay.
• 33:39
  Speaker 6: Well, Lisa and I are sitting right here. Can you
• 33:41
  Speaker 6: lift us up in some way?
• 33:43
  Speaker 13: Yeah.
• 33:43
  Speaker 14: Let's see. Okay. So I have the chill method. So
• 33:47
  Speaker 14: I teach three things. I teach a mantra, surrender, and manifestation.
• 33:53
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 33:55
  Speaker 14: You know, something I use– can I say– Can I
• 33:59
  Speaker 14: say boobs on here?
• 34:00
  Speaker 6: Yes, go ahead. You just did.
• 34:02
  Speaker 14: I just did.
• 34:02
  Speaker 6: Okay, cool. You say it all the time.
• 34:06
  Speaker 14: Okay, so a mantra. So something I use is everyone
• 34:09
  Speaker 14: has a mantra, a mantra to get you out of the,
• 34:11
  Speaker 14: a lot of lack of stoke comes from thinking too much.
• 34:14
  Speaker 14: You want to get present in the moment. So my
• 34:17
  Speaker 14: personal mantra is boobs. You know, if I'm thinking too much,
• 34:19
  Speaker 14: I'll look at a pair of boobs or a bulge. So,
• 34:24
  Speaker 14: you know.
• 34:24
  Speaker 6: Boobs or a bulge, either one.
• 34:25
  Speaker 14: Yeah, which do you guys have a preferred mantra?
• 34:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: Well, I mean, I have boobs.
• 34:34
  Speaker 6: We noticed. But I have.
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: Okay, I was going to say something.
• 34:38
  Speaker 6: Go ahead. But I like a bulge.
• 34:40
  Speaker 14: So that's your mantra.
• 34:44
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 34:45
  Speaker 6: Now we're getting there. I'm feeling it.
• 34:47
  Speaker 4: So, yeah.
• 34:48
  Speaker 14: Okay. So I imagine boobs for you?
• 34:51
  Speaker 6: Well, it's hard for me because I'm looking directly at
• 34:53
  Speaker 6: your boobs.
• 34:54
  Speaker 13: Right.
• 34:54
  Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
• 34:55
  Speaker 7: See what I mean?
• 34:56
  Speaker 14: I've been working on them, but yeah.
• 34:58
  Speaker 6: A little pectoral development. Yeah.
• 35:00
  Speaker 9: Yeah.
• 35:01
  Speaker 6: OK.
• 35:01
  Speaker 14: So maybe picture in your mind, you know, let's say
• 35:04
  Speaker 14: you're like, oh, man, I'm so tired today. It's going
• 35:07
  Speaker 14: to rain. Oh, no, I'm starting to feel bummed.
• 35:10
  Speaker 12: Boobs.
• 35:11
  Speaker 6: So it's like a keyword, like a Q word. Yeah.
• 35:14
  Speaker 9: Boobs.
• 35:15
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 35:16
  Speaker 6: OK.
• 35:16
  Speaker 14: Did that get you stuck?
• 35:18
  Speaker 6: It's so funny because just saying it does, right?
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: Well, those are the top five moments of the week
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: from the Billy and Lisa in the morning show. Counted
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: down by me, producer Riley. I got to get it
• 35:28
  Speaker 2: out of the way because the countdown with Billy and
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: Justin is up next.