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Cassper Nyovest is live on Anele and The Club · Anele and the Club on 947

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  Speaker 1: Wake up with a bang.
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  Speaker 2: Hey, wake up! Anele and the club.
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  Speaker 1: On 947.
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  Speaker 2: Lock and Roll teaming up with Sketchy Bongo on 947.
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  Speaker 2: This one is Cold Shoulder. They will be sharing the
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  Speaker 2: stage with Casper Njoves. Next week, Saturday, at Joburg Day,
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  Speaker 2: there are nine headliners. We've got Morda, we've got Will Lindley,
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  Speaker 2: we've got Mikasa, we've got Lock and Roll, we've got
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  Speaker 2: Lord Kaze, we've got Casper Njoves, we've got Mikasa, we've
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  Speaker 2: got DJ Zintle, we've got Gabza the Small, we've got
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  Speaker 2: Zing Momalo. Did I count somebody twice?
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  Speaker 3: I think you might have. Might have done two. But,
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  Speaker 3: I mean, there's only one person to count. You should
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  Speaker 3: be counting twice.
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  Speaker 2: I said Casper twice.
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  Speaker 4: You said Casper twice.
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  Speaker 2: Which is important because every time Casper comes around, all
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  Speaker 2: of our net worth doubles.
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  Speaker 4: That's it.
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  Speaker 2: Give it up for Casper Jules! He's the man who
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  Speaker 2: filled up Soccer City and made history. He's the man
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  Speaker 2: who opened the life gates for Beyonce and Jay-Z. He's
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  Speaker 2: the man who can give you a hit in his
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  Speaker 2: damn sleeve.
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  Speaker 1: You must never, he ain't no small boy. He's an OG, everybody.
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  Speaker 2: Another big interview.
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  Speaker 1: On Anneli and the Club.
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  Speaker 4: Only on 947.
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  Speaker 2: Ladies and gentlemen, Casper, your message is in the news.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning, sir.
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  Speaker 1: Good morning. Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Why are you so shy all of a sudden?
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  Speaker 1: I am shy. I am shy, but I'm also just taken.
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  Speaker 1: Like every time I have to do your show, it's
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  Speaker 1: like so early in the morning. And I'm not a
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  Speaker 1: morning person. I sleep around 5, 6 a.m. Daily? Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Like 5 a.m.? A.m., yeah. Because you're gaming like that kid,
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  Speaker 2: I Show Speed, right?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. He's not really a gamer, but yeah, I stream
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  Speaker 1: and game.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. So, I always.
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  Speaker 1: I'm skeptical about the early mornings. Then I come here
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  Speaker 1: and I'm like, it's always so worth it.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, stop it. You guys are amazing.
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  Speaker 1: Just the intro, I was just like, man, this is
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  Speaker 1: so dope.
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  Speaker 2: So Casper walked into our building and literally everyone was
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  Speaker 2: not at their desks.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 2: They all gathered to do a bit of a God
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  Speaker 2: of Honor and we're like, we're just throwing money at him.
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  Speaker 4: So it was raining cash.
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  Speaker 1: It was raining cash.
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  Speaker 4: From every floor in the building down to the atrium.
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  Speaker 1: I appreciated that. That was a dope way to start
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  Speaker 1: the day.
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  Speaker 2: It's a good time.
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  Speaker 1: The rest of us have to take our kit off
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  Speaker 1: to have money thrown at us.
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  Speaker 2: Temigile, you don't work there anymore.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I did retire, yes.
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  Speaker 2: You broke the pole, Galobo, and then they shut the
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  Speaker 2: joint down. They don't make them big enough.
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  Speaker 1: I was wondering as I'm walking through the building, are
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  Speaker 1: these people forced to come out?
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  Speaker 2: No. You know what it is? Every single time we
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  Speaker 2: have somebody, I mean, we had Dr. Kumalo here. Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: We had Oskiido here after he won, not won, after
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  Speaker 2: he was honored with the Order of Kamanga by the president.
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  Speaker 2: And when people like you come out, people even come
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  Speaker 2: early because it's Friday. Let's just start there. People will
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  Speaker 2: probably roll in here at 9 a.m. because we're also
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  Speaker 2: a creative company, right? So when people found out that
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  Speaker 2: Casper and your vest was going to be in the building,
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  Speaker 2: some people were early. Those ladies work, the ones that
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  Speaker 2: were standing next to you, they work in the canteen.
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  Speaker 1: That's crazy.
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  Speaker 2: They never come out for nobody.
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  Speaker 4: Not for nobody.
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  Speaker 2: But for you, they come out.
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  Speaker 1: It's amazing.
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  Speaker 2: Is it wild for you that you still garner that
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  Speaker 2: attention from people, you know, so long in the game?
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  Speaker 1: It does.
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  Speaker 2: It does.
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  Speaker 1: And I appreciate it because, number one, I'm... I've been
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  Speaker 1: so out there with my career. Like, I've always been outside.
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  Speaker 1: And I remember there was a whole thing that people
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  Speaker 1: would get tired of you if they see you too much.
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  Speaker 1: And you had to create this celebrity.
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  Speaker 2: The mystery.
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  Speaker 1: And I don't, I'm not that type of celebrity, you know.
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  Speaker 1: There's no mystery. Like, I'm always outside. So to be
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  Speaker 1: in the game for so long and people still regard
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  Speaker 1: me as someone worth asking a picture from or something
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  Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, it still touches me. I appreciate it
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  Speaker 1: a lot.
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  Speaker 2: Do you sometimes miss the... You know, the beginning stages,
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  Speaker 2: because every now and then for myself, I think, you know,
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  Speaker 2: if I had to be starting radio this, like, in
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  Speaker 2: this climate, you know, of the country, I don't think
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  Speaker 2: I'd want to start radio.
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  Speaker 1: Like this because.
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  Speaker 4: It's different now, right?
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  Speaker 2: It's different now. The landscape is different now. So the
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  Speaker 2: type of radio that I do can only exist because
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  Speaker 2: I'm already in it, right? But if I was 18
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  Speaker 2: years old, because I started radio when I was 18
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  Speaker 2: and I'm 42 now, right? If I was 18... You're 42? Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: That's amazing. Yeah, right? Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Click it, click it, click it. Click it, click it,
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  Speaker 2: click it. There we go. And do you sometimes feel
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  Speaker 2: like you envy the come up?
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  Speaker 1: No. I'm good.
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  Speaker 4: No, no.
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  Speaker 1: It was a good time. And I go through memory
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  Speaker 1: lane and we laugh. We had a good time. But No,
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  Speaker 1: I'm enjoying my career, man. I'm enjoying my career. I
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  Speaker 1: was doing the summers last week, you know?
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  Speaker 4: I know, you were hosting.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and things like that don't come... when you're a newcomer.
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  Speaker 1: I'm able to express myself in different ways. I put
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  Speaker 1: out music when I want to. I don't have to
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  Speaker 1: put out music. I'm not chasing hits. I put out
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  Speaker 1: the music I want to put out. I work with
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  Speaker 1: whoever I want to work with. I turn down shows
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  Speaker 1: because I don't need the money like that. So I
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  Speaker 1: definitely don't miss... The start, the hard craft. But the
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  Speaker 1: energy was amazing. The people I was around were amazing. Obviously,
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  Speaker 1: I miss people like Ricky and what we had and
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  Speaker 1: the friendships that we had. Major League is in Ibiza.
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  Speaker 1: They live in Spain. So I'm not with my homies
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  Speaker 1: that I came up with anymore. So I miss stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that. But as far as where my career is,
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  Speaker 1: I love it. I love where it is now.
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  Speaker 2: I love that. We're going to speak about the summers,
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  Speaker 2: just by the way.
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  Speaker 4: We are.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, you go from winning them to hosting them.
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  Speaker 2: That's something that not many people can say that they
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  Speaker 2: could do, right?
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  Speaker 3: I don't think, well, I can't think of one example
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  Speaker 3: of someone doing that, by the way, who was such
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  Speaker 3: a successful artist, but then swapped over to being a presenter.
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  Speaker 4: I'll have to think really hard about that.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, okay. Trevor got nominated for a Grammy and then
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  Speaker 2: he hosted the Grammys. He hasn't won it yet.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, he got nominated for the word one, the one
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  Speaker 2: Barack Obama's won for.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, for the podcast, all of that. Nominated, won it.
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  Speaker 2: So what I'm trying to illustrate to you is that
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  Speaker 2: Casper has put himself in a list of people where
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  Speaker 2: we can mention Casper Nyeves, Trevor Noah, WHP.
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  Speaker 4: Yes.
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  Speaker 2: Also won Osama and then hosted them as well. One
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  Speaker 2: with TKZ, one with himself as well.
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  Speaker 4: Those are big names.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. This man is in great company here.
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  Speaker 2: Send us your voice notes, 084-0000947. We are hanging out
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  Speaker 2: with one of the headliners of Joe Big Day. And guys,
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  Speaker 2: when you see Casper on stage, you actually forget you're
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  Speaker 2: a hater. Like sometimes, you do. Sometimes you're like, ah,
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  Speaker 2: he can't rap, he can't rap. And then on stage, ah, no,
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  Speaker 2: he felt that bad, he felt that bad.
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  Speaker 1: The most loved and hated person in the music industry.
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  Speaker 1: The king, Mufasa Rifilwe Kespa. I ain't got nothing to
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  Speaker 1: say to you, sir, besides that you are him or
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  Speaker 1: thee in the flesh. Kespa is blessed with stage presence.
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  Speaker 2: Listen, that guy when he jumps on stage. Good morning.
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  Speaker 2: Good morning in the club.
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  Speaker 4: Good morning, Gerspa.
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  Speaker 2: This guy smells so good. Every time I see him,
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  Speaker 2: I just make sure I pass by just to, you know,
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  Speaker 2: the scent. The guy smells so good. The guy is
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  Speaker 2: so talented.
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  Speaker 1: Hi, Anela in the club.
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  Speaker 2: I just want to find out something. Is it click it,
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  Speaker 2: click it, or is it cluck it? It was cluck
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  Speaker 2: it until Fikile Mbalula got hold of it. Now it's
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  Speaker 2: click it, click it, click it, click it.
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  Speaker 1: Click it, click it, click it. Yeah, that's in box
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  Speaker 1: for you.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I was wondering, like, when did click it now become
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  Speaker 1: a thing?
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  Speaker 2: It's in box, guys. He's literally taken something that the
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  Speaker 2: entire world says. He's like, as Fikile, we're not going
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  Speaker 2: to say it like this. Click it, click it, click it.
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  Speaker 2: Here's what, there's two things that I see you enjoy, right? Well, three.
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  Speaker 2: One of them, you enjoy being on stage. And I'm
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  Speaker 2: so scared that after today, Joburg Day is actually going
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  Speaker 2: to sell out. Because now you've just, you've invoked the
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  Speaker 2: spirit of live music for people again, right? And actually,
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  Speaker 2: that's why we have you here. Because we want you
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  Speaker 2: to help us sell out Joburg Day. Another thing you
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  Speaker 2: enjoy is social media. Yeah. You're having fun. People think
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  Speaker 2: we're not having fun. We're having fun on social media, guys.
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  Speaker 1: People think I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: Mad, angry at people going at me. I'm just like, no.
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  Speaker 1: For me, it's all jokes. It's my real personality. If
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  Speaker 1: these people had to meet me in real life, I
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  Speaker 1: would definitely have something to say back. I'm just having
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  Speaker 1: fun on social media. I like it. I like it
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  Speaker 1: a lot. I like it a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I also, especially Twitter, people are like, oh, it's so dark.
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  Speaker 2: It's so toxic. I'm like, yeah, as is the rest
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  Speaker 2: of the world. You know what I'm saying? It's fun here. Guys,
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  Speaker 2: people on Twitter make you laugh.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, sometimes I think people take social media
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  Speaker 3: too seriously.
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  Speaker 1: Right?
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  Speaker 3: Because Casper was saying, we were saying off air now,
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  Speaker 3: you're like, when you meet someone like that in real life,
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  Speaker 3: They're nice. You're like, hey, but you're a cool dude.
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  Speaker 3: But you were saying that on Twitter. Because most people
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  Speaker 3: can differentiate. This is not real life.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, social media is just fun and games. And that's
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  Speaker 1: why they say such hectic. things because they don't think
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  Speaker 1: there's any repercussions I mean there's very little repercussions but
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  Speaker 1: yeah it's not that serious man some people like worry
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  Speaker 1: about me like Sumizi will call me like are you
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  Speaker 1: okay like I'm completely fine. It's just banter. People are joking.
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  Speaker 1: But also, there are not that many people on social media.
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  Speaker 1: It feels like the whole country hates you.
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  Speaker 2: It's 3% of 65 million people.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not real. It's nothing to take serious. It's
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  Speaker 1: a great platform to use for marketing, but it's not
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  Speaker 1: as real as TV, I think.
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  Speaker 3: Do you feel, I mean, because you're playing on lots
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  Speaker 3: of platforms, right? You're playing on Twitter, you're playing on Instagram,
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  Speaker 3: you're playing on Twitch, right? Which one is your favorite? Like,
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  Speaker 3: where do you feel?
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  Speaker 1: TikTok.
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  Speaker 4: Is it TikTok? Yeah. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: What about TikTok gets you going?
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  Speaker 1: It's like, it's random. Like I always say to my manager,
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, man, if it wasn't for TikTok, we would
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  Speaker 1: have never known that these people exist.
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  Speaker 2: Nah.
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  Speaker 1: That's like random funny people.
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  Speaker 2: Entertainment. South Africans are the funniest people in the world.
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  Speaker 2: They should start there. And then TikTok has allowed that.
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  Speaker 2: Another thing that I see you enjoy is marriage.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Tell me about it. What's so fun about being married?
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  Speaker 1: I'm married to a fun person. Like, yeah, I almost
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  Speaker 1: said my girlfriend. My wife, who was my girlfriend, is very, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: very hood, like very muff town. And one of the
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  Speaker 1: reasons why I fell in love with her is like,
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  Speaker 1: it's like she's very authentic, very muffing, very funny. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I enjoy being with her and she's funnier than me.
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  Speaker 1: I don't find a lot of people who are funnier
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  Speaker 1: than me. I find myself very funny.
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  Speaker 2: LAUGHTER And I agree with myself a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. And it's just the two of us. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we build our own thing. And I love it.
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  Speaker 2: What scared you about not marrying her?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. That's a good question. Because I was scared that
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  Speaker 1: she wouldn't want to marry me.
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  Speaker 2: Because I believe men propose out of love, yes, out
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  Speaker 2: of wanting this person around for the rest of their lives.
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  Speaker 2: But there's a slight fear. There's a fear that I
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  Speaker 2: have to.
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  Speaker 1: Where did you study this? Where do you get this?
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  Speaker 2: After 40.
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  Speaker 4: That is crazy. Yeah, the 40s.
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  Speaker 2: That is so true.
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  Speaker 1: I never thought of that.
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  Speaker 2: What was the fear?
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  Speaker 1: Like losing her to someone else.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Because also the lifestyle that I was living, that we
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  Speaker 1: were both living. Yeah. I was just scared of losing her.
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  Speaker 1: And I had never fallen in love that deep. And
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  Speaker 1: I'd never connected with someone like that. Just authentically, man.
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  Speaker 1: Just like she's a real person.
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  Speaker 2: Wasn't it easy to be authentic because you guys loved
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  Speaker 2: each other as teenagers?
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  Speaker 1: Um, I loved her as a teenager. She didn't like
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  Speaker 1: me at all because I was hectic. Yeah, I was
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  Speaker 1: very hectic. And she, yeah, she never gave me the
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  Speaker 1: time of day for a long time.
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  Speaker 2: And then what was the opening line now?
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  Speaker 1: What was it? Oh, yeah, I found out that one
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  Speaker 1: of my best friends is a cousin.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I was like, yo, tell your cousin
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  Speaker 1: to come over to see you. That's how it all started. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: And then she came over to come see her cousin.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 1: And then I got a chance to like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: lay down for the first time because she had never
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  Speaker 1: given me the time of day. She wouldn't even like
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  Speaker 1: give me a chance to have a conversation. She would
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  Speaker 1: greet me because she knows me from uptown. Keep it moving.
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  Speaker 1: So having her cousin around and I became very close
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  Speaker 1: to her cousin. I don't know if I became close
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  Speaker 1: to the cousin because of her, but that was like
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  Speaker 1: the opening. And then we shared a lot of Jokes, Mufftown. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's our foundation. That's where we're from.
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  Speaker 2: Is that the most important deal you've ever signed?
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  Speaker 1: Oh, man. What's going on with Ana? Is this dropping bombs?
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  Speaker 1: I think so.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, it is.
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  Speaker 1: Because, you know, it's a covenant with God. I'm nice too.
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  Speaker 2: All right, Kasper, your vest is in the studio for
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  Speaker 2: the next five minutes. Mamuha, we apologize. While in advance,
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  Speaker 2: we're going to run a little late on this one.
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  Speaker 3: Because this man.
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  Speaker 2: Is going to be on stage next week, Saturday, at
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  Speaker 2: Joburg Day. But right here, right now, he is in
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  Speaker 2: the studio and we're going to play a game before
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  Speaker 2: we say goodbye. Frankie, what are we playing?
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  Speaker 3: We're playing a game called For Better or For Worse.
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  Speaker 3: Both Anele and Kasper are playing together. Well, you're playing separately,
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  Speaker 3: but together. Because both of you got married.
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  Speaker 2: When did you get married? What date? I was 22nd November.
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  Speaker 1: I think... Well, I think... Yeah, I'm bad with dates,
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  Speaker 1: but the 6th of April, yeah. I think that's the
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  Speaker 1: only date I know.
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  Speaker 2: This year or last year? Last year.
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  Speaker 1: Two years ago.
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  Speaker 4: Two years ago.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, cool. So, recent, recent.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, recent, recent.
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  Speaker 2: I'm more recent than him.
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  Speaker 4: A year, two years, whatever.
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  Speaker 1: Are you more recent than me?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I got married... Well, the white wedding was 22nd
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  Speaker 2: of November.
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  Speaker 1: So, you didn't... Okay.
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  Speaker 2: You didn't say it?
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  Speaker 1: The traditional wedding, you didn't take seriously?
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  Speaker 2: No, that's the actual wedding. That was like the royal wedding... December.
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  Speaker 2: December 29th. Oh, I... Yeah. Any other questions for me? No, no.
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  Speaker 2: We'll speak offline.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: All right, here we go. So I'm going to ask
• 15:34
  Speaker 3: you a question. You both are holding paddles. The one
• 15:36
  Speaker 3: says for better, the other one says for worse, right?
• 15:39
  Speaker 3: And so I'm going to tell you, give you a
• 15:41
  Speaker 3: scenario basically, and then you tell me whether that's for
• 15:43
  Speaker 3: better or for worse.
• 15:45
  Speaker 2: Gotcha.
• 15:45
  Speaker 4: Okay. Right.
• 15:46
  Speaker 3: First question. Going through your partner's phone without their permission...
• 15:50
  Speaker 3: For worse.
• 15:51
  Speaker 4: Both of you are holding up for worse.
• 15:52
  Speaker 1: I don't want to know what's happening on the phone.
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: I didn't have to wait for permission.
• 15:56
  Speaker 4: Going through the phone.
• 15:57
  Speaker 1: Just going through the phone is a zero.
• 15:59
  Speaker 3: All right, let's check this one then. Sharing your phone
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: password with your partner.
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: For better.
• 16:04
  Speaker 2: I mean.
• 16:05
  Speaker 4: You hesitated there.
• 16:08
  Speaker 1: It's the first time my partner has my password ever
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: in my life.
• 16:13
  Speaker 2: In your life?
• 16:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah, my whole life.
• 16:15
  Speaker 2: No partner has ever had your password? Never.
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: But I think they went through my phone.
• 16:19
  Speaker 2: No, my one partner used to hack into my phone,
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: so they didn't need my password.
• 16:24
  Speaker 4: Oh, wow.
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: Okay, but both of you held up for better. So
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: it's something, sharing your password.
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: It's a good thing.
• 16:28
  Speaker 4: It's a good thing.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: Also, the kids use my phone. You know what I'm saying?
• 16:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but you can only do things like that if
• 16:34
  Speaker 1: you're honest and you're not, you know.
• 16:36
  Speaker 4: Okay. How about this?
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: Discussing every purchase with your partner before you make it.
• 16:44
  Speaker 4: For worse. For worse? Both of you for worse?
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Why? Why must I discuss every purchase?
• 16:49
  Speaker 3: I mean, I'm not talking about eating a bacon sandwich.
• 16:51
  Speaker 3: I'm saying, like, if you're going to buy something big
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: or for the house or whatever.
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: Especially big purchases for me.
• 16:56
  Speaker 4: No discussion there.
• 16:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I just think if we're buying a big
• 17:00
  Speaker 2: purchase together, then we discuss it. But if I'm buying
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: a big purchase for me.
• 17:04
  Speaker 4: With your own money?
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: I'll let you know. Like, this is what's up now.
• 17:07
  Speaker 4: Okay.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: I tell her after. Yes. Okay. I mean, I definitely
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: tell her.
• 17:13
  Speaker 4: But after. When it arrives. When take a lot delivers it.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: As if you know, I've got a very big online
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: shopping problem.
• 17:23
  Speaker 2: Oh, really? Like a big, big problem. What's the last
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: thing you bought?
• 17:28
  Speaker 1: A controller stick.
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, you streamers.
• 17:31
  Speaker 1: And this was yesterday.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: Amen. How much was it?
• 17:35
  Speaker 4: The question is not how much was it. The question
• 17:37
  Speaker 4: is how many does he have?
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: I've got like 20. Yeah.
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: You see, that's the issue. All right.
• 17:41
  Speaker 3: How about this one? Spending Christmas with your partner's family
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: every year.
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't matter.
• 17:49
  Speaker 4: For better.
• 17:50
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: Both of you are holding up for better. All right.
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: I like this.
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: Bringing up something your partner did three years ago during
• 17:56
  Speaker 3: a current argument. Casper held up for worse so fast there.
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: For better. Bringing up something from the past.
• 18:04
  Speaker 1: She's a woman.
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to lie. I'm going to be honest
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: with you guys. Really?
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: They're like this.
• 18:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 18:12
  Speaker 1: This is who they are. But God made them, by
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: the way. I don't know.
• 18:17
  Speaker 2: Friends, I want to ask you guys. You guys have
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: hard drives, right? To store what? Information.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: Why would I not use my hard drive?
• 18:25
  Speaker 4: Why would you bring up information?
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: She tapped into her, like. Nonsensical woman thinking. This is unreasonable.
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: What is this?
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Because I must remind you.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: For better or for worse is the question. How is
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: that going to help?
• 18:37
  Speaker 2: The reason we are here, I must remind you is
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: because that is what we learned three years ago.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: How does that help?
• 18:42
  Speaker 2: Because I want to remind you how we got here.
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: You're making it worse.
• 18:46
  Speaker 2: I'm making it better to remind you.
• 18:48
  Speaker 4: With your own money?
• 18:49
  Speaker 2: I'll let you know. This is what's up now.
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: I tell her after. Yes. Okay. I mean, I definitely
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: tell her.
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: But after. When it arrives. When Take a Lock delivers it.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: As if you know, I've got a very big online
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: shopping problem.
• 19:07
  Speaker 2: Oh, really?
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: Like a big, big problem.
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: What's the last thing you bought?
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: A controller stick.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Oh, you streamers.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: And this was yesterday.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Amen. How much was it?
• 19:19
  Speaker 4: The question is not how much was it. The question
• 19:21
  Speaker 4: is how many does he have?
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: I've got like 20. Yeah.
• 19:23
  Speaker 4: You see, that's the issue. All right. How about this one?
• 19:27
  Speaker 3: Spending Christmas with your partner's family every year.
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't matter.
• 19:33
  Speaker 4: For better.
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 19:34
  Speaker 4: Both of you are holding up for better.
• 19:35
  Speaker 2: All right.
• 19:36
  Speaker 4: I like this.
• 19:38
  Speaker 3: Bringing up something your partner did three years ago during
• 19:40
  Speaker 3: a current argument. Casper held it for worse so fast there.
• 19:45
  Speaker 4: For better. Bringing up something from the past.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: She's a woman.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to. gonna lie I'm gonna be honest with.
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: You guys really they are like this yeah this is
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: who they are but God made them by the way
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: I don't know.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Good friends I wanna ask you guys you guys have
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: hard drives right to store what information yes why would
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: I not use my hard drive.
• 20:09
  Speaker 4: Why would you bring up information that.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: She tapped into her, like, nonsensical woman thinking. This is unreasonable.
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: What is this?
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: Because I must remind you.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: For better or for worse is the question. How is
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: that going to help?
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: The reason we are here, I must remind you, is because...
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: How does that help? Because I want to remind you
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: how we got here.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: You're making it worse.
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: I'm making it better to remind you. Are you still watching? Okay.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: I love this. All right.
• 20:39
  Speaker 3: Being completely honest when your partner asks, do you think
• 20:42
  Speaker 3: I've gained weight? Aye.
• 20:44
  Speaker 4: It's for worse, eh? It's for better.
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: No.
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: Anela says for better. Casper says for worse.
• 20:50
  Speaker 1: No, women don't want to hear the truth.
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: I agree. See, I agree with you there.
• 20:55
  Speaker 2: But now it's the way you say it.
• 20:56
  Speaker 4: Now you say you. No, no, no, no, no.
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: You say you want to hear the truth, but you
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: can't handle the truth.
• 21:01
  Speaker 4: No, no, no, no.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay, Tom Cruise.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: I find nice ways to like.
• 21:05
  Speaker 2: Huh?
• 21:07
  Speaker 4: How do you do it?
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: I motivate my wife to train and eat. She just
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: had a kid, you know? And this is the first
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: time in her whole life she was out of shape.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: And she had to learn what we have been learning
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: for years, that you gain weight and eating right and training.
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: She's always had a slim waist.
• 21:26
  Speaker 2: She's been hot her whole life.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: Her whole life.
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: Now she knows what it's like. Now she's on our side.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: So it's been difficult.
• 21:33
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 21:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have to... At first.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I was just dishing it out. But you know, man,
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: it's bad. And then I realized this thing is not
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: going to work for me. I might just end up
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: in a moshari.
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: There's more for you to love, baby. There's more for
• 21:48
  Speaker 2: me to hold on to.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: Those are the words I use. That's not the right words.
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: I don't care about your weight. I do.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: Please don't die before Jobo K. We need you. Do
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: you have one more? Are you done?
• 22:03
  Speaker 4: Okay, last one. Last one.
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: Discussing Your marriage problems with your parents.
• 22:09
  Speaker 2: 100%.
• 22:11
  Speaker 4: For worse. With anybody.
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: With anyone.
• 22:14
  Speaker 4: Anyone.
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:15
  Speaker 4: You discuss it together. You don't go outside.
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: No.
• 22:17
  Speaker 4: If you've got problems, don't step outside.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Especially parents.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: Especially your parents.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 22:23
  Speaker 4: But what about your friends? Would you discuss it with
• 22:25
  Speaker 4: your friends?
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: No, I mean, I complain about my wife to my
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: friend or friends.
• 22:29
  Speaker 2: Friend. But.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Not discussing Sira's marital issues.
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I complain about my husband to his friends. Like the
• 22:37
  Speaker 2: friends that he has gifted me. Like his best man
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: is our both our like.
• 22:41
  Speaker 4: Yeah, good friend.
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: You gifted me your best man because he's going to
• 22:43
  Speaker 2: be there for the rest of our lives. And I
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: know that that's my husband's vault.
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: So that's like your back channeling.
• 22:49
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing. You can complain about your wife to
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: people who are always on your wife's side.
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: Always. And my husband's best man is always on my
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: husband's side. Come hell or high water. So it doesn't
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: matter what I say to Lufefe about Bazaar. Lufefe is
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: always going to have Bazaar's back.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: So that's the only place I take it.
• 23:05
  Speaker 1: You can't complain to people who don't like your wife. Yeah.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Because for them it's I've been telling you. Yeah.
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: You see.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: So I complain to her mom. who's always on her side.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Her side. It's her child, yeah.
• 23:20
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: So regardless, she's never going to. And then my best friend.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I would never tell my mom or my sisters about
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: my wife if I'm not happy. Like, nah.
• 23:31
  Speaker 4: Oh, that's interesting, eh? Nah. I love this game.
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: Do you have to sing next week? We could just
• 23:35
  Speaker 2: sit there and have marriage, like marriage seminar with you
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: to 20,000 people. What do you think?
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: And plus I'm too much.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: I love it.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: Because I've been married longer than you.
• 23:43
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: I am the wisdom. At the church, he's the one
• 23:48
  Speaker 2: who counsels the other couples. They're like, no, just go
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: see Casper and his wife.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: No, but I do have to mention, we went for
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: marital counseling.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Us too.
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: Before we got married. And it was the best decision
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: we ever took. Not only did we get to know
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: each other more, but we were equipped with tools to
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: And with things to expect. And we went to a
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: Christian one. Gabelo Mabalani is actually like my spiritual father.
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: And it's one of the best things I ever did. Yeah.
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: To me, they gave us the language.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: How to speak.
• 24:22
  Speaker 2: How to speak when you're disagreeing. Right. That's not something
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: that I had. I wasn't equipped with language to disagree
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: with my husband. And that's what we got.
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah. But I also learned that if she does something wrong,
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: it's my fault.
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: Yes, it is. And if she does something right, it's hers.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: It's hers. She's the one. It's her fault.
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: If there's one thing men can learn is that if
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: she does something wrong, it's your fault.
• 24:45
  Speaker 4: You did something to cause that.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: And you have to figure it out together. That's one
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: of the best things you could ever learn. I'm saying
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: this because a lot of times as human beings, we
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: think that if someone does something wrong, they need to
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: fix it. And in marriage, it doesn't work like that.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: If someone does something wrong, we need to fix it.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: Oh. And that's where we're going to leave it. He
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: will be giving more of these pearlers next week, Saturday. PrimeMediaPlus.com.
• 25:11
  Speaker 2: Please come and watch. Caspar Nioves, the headliner. If you
• 25:14
  Speaker 2: haven't seen him in a few years, things have evolved.
• 25:16
  Speaker 2: He's got more energy. He's hotter.
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: He's looking great.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: The beard is longer.
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: It's shinier.
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: It's fuller. He's happier. He's Caspar Nioves-ier.
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: All right?
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: You get what I'm saying? I'm not usually out of words,
• 25:30
  Speaker 1: but Anneli's killing it right now. I wanted to add
• 25:32
  Speaker 1: that I can have good teeth. Maybe I must go
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: back to school because this thing, it requires a degree.
• 25:37
  Speaker 1: Do you have one?
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: No, I've got my trick.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Okay, shut up, guys. I love
• 25:43
  Speaker 4: You.