379. Why wasn't I worth it to him? Why This Question Keeps You Stuck After Divorce

Dear Divorce Diary: A Fresh Approach To Healing Grief & Building A Life Of Confidence After Divorce · Sep 15, 2026 · 41m · transcript

Why wasn’t I worth it to him?

Why wasn’t I worth changing for?

Why wasn’t I worth getting sober for, telling the truth for, going to therapy for, fighting for?

Why could I love him that much, sacrifice that much, try that hard—and still not be enough to make him choose differently?

It is one of the most painful rabbit holes after divorce.

And it can keep you stuck because every time you ask the question, you are still making his choices the evidence of your worth.

Maybe you’re waiting for the apology.

The confession.

The accountability.

The moment he finally admits that you were right, that…