Why You Still Want Him When You Know He's Not Good for You - What God Wants You to See

No More Breadcrumbs in Love: Christian Dating, Healing, and Identity for Women Ready to Let God Lead Their Love Life · Oct 15, 2026 · 8m

You know he's not good for you. So why do you still want him?

If you're a Christian woman who can't let go of an emotionally unavailable man, even after you've prayed about it, cried over it, and told your best friend you're done, this episode is for you.

Maybe you keep checking his Instagram stories, rereading old texts, and waiting for him to finally choose you. That doesn't mean something is wrong with you. In this episode, licensed trauma therapist Kim Velez shares:

Why the guy who's bad for you can feel so exciting, and the nice guy can feel boring

Why knowing better doesn't make the…