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388 Una terrible causa de la infidelidad. · Reflexiones cristianas con José Ordóñez

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  A study conducted by marketing consultant and the Glenden Dating site reveals that the country
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  with the largest number of unfaithful men in Latin America is Colombia, followed by
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  Brazil. In today' s podcast Christian Reflections we see the news from a
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  biblical and Christian perspective. Christian reflections. Since I have had the opportunity to
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  visit many cities around the world to be comedian, librettist, writer and argumentist,
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  you necessarily have to be a great observer. Where I come to,
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  I am always analyzing people' s behavior, including asking why certain behaviors in
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  regions and countries are influenced by cultural aspects. Even I usually ask what are
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  the main family and marriage problems? To those cities to which I come,
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  infidelity is often the predominant note in marriage problems worldwide in today' s society.
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  Seeing the report of that prestigious Colombian magazine entitled Colombia Country of Infidels,
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  I was interested in it because, along with my wife, we are advising
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  on it all the time. In fact, in our virtual community we have
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  a whole course about infidelity. Why the Colombian man today is seen as the
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  most unfaithful in Latin America. I will give you my perspective, as I
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  told you, it is based on the many years traveling and having first-
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  hand information on why infidelity in men from other countries. I will also give
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  my hands to the counseling that we have all the time and, in addition,
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  my experience of several years as a cultural shepherd, Colombians have been taught
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  to be salameros, pyroperos too expressive when it comes to admiring the feminine beauty.
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  I, at least, grew up seeing that my father all the time,
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  all the women were flatteringly, warmly, told them of his eyes,
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  of the color of his hair, of the contours of his body, of
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  the voluptuousness of the woman' s shapes, her hips, her thighs.
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  Anyway, I saw it in my uncles too, I saw it in the
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  neighborhood, everywhere I was. I saw that we Colombians were experts in being
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  ers piropos. We are very creative, we say pyropuses, funny, descriptive,
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  thinking, vulgar pyropuses. There are them of all colors and sizes and
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  they all find them in the main streets and avenues, in the main workplaces,
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  where usually the most beautiful women are the target of all these qualifiers.
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  We Colombians don' t hide when the other woman likes us and because we
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  are so creative and good talkers, we know how to sweeten a conversation with
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  adjectives that seek the goal of captivating that other woman. Recently, in orlando,
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  a Venezuelan girl told me not only the women of Colombia speak nice,
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  the men speak with that Colombian accent and a woman is only captive. The
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  art industry has largely helped this. The Colombian novels, so appetizing all over
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  the world, have fallen in love with viewers of the different Colombian accents,
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  the paisas, the bayunos, the Bogotans, as beautiful as Nashi speaks in
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  the novels. Well, Colombian singers, so famous all over the world,
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  conquer with that colorful sexa pil of our country. In Canada I was told
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  that the Colombian community does the best parties where Colombian men arrive. The meetings
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  take color ambient laughter. They are not afraid to talk, to joke,
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  to joke or to dance. The same was said to me in Sydney,
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  Australia, in the coldest cities in the United States and even in the southernmost
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  part of Chile. They all say where the Colombians arrive. The party'
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  s on. It is not the whole cause, but it has to do
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  to a large extent that it is easier for the Colombian to end up in
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  infidelity, while men from other countries are more derelict, more shy and cautious
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  when it comes to asking for a phone or establishing a friendship. The Colombian
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  is given easy, through the salamería, to start a new and dangerous friendship.
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  But here, within our country, this makes breeding ground, because Colombian
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  women are so well used to being captivating when speaking. Baby, baby,
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  baby, baby, baby, baby, baby, baby. These are expressions
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  that are not used in other countries because women who do so would be considered
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  too daring and reckless. Then there' s a reason. So far as
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  these reasons are concerned, I believe that this is an important cause. But
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  now let me add that perspective to the disastrous outcome we have in the social
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  breakdown figures. Because it does sound nice that we Colombians are gallant conquerors,
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  but it cannot be ignored that marital infidelity is one of the main problems of
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  society. Infidelity brings divorce and family destruction. That is why many children are
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  being raised without a father. In this same flirtate Colombia we talk about the
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  mothers head of household, that is, abandoned women with children who have to
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  face the difficult challenge of working and educating their children. At the same time,
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  marital breakdown brings problems such as depression, traumatic stress, not only for
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  the one who has been deceived, but for his entire family environment. This
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  is also a public health problem. But let us look at how in the
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  Bible, great men destined to do great things ended up in tremendous problems of
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  infidelity. There' s David' s case. The story of David and
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  Bethsabe is one of the best known examples of infidelity. Although David was a
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  man according to God’ s heart, his adultery with Bethsabah and the subsequent
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  murder of her husband Uria Celeteus had serious consequences for her life and her reign.
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  As a result of his sin, the sword never turned away from his
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  home, including the rebellion of his own children and the death of his newborn
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  son. And what about Samson? Although Samson' s infidelity was not necessarily
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  marital, his relations with Philistine women, especially Delilah, led to his fall.
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  Samson revealed the secret of his strength to Delilah, who betrayed him to
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  the Philistines. As a result, Sanson lost his strength, was captured and
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  finally died. And what about Solomon, the son of David, also followed
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  a troubled path. Despite his wisdom and his eye. The word of God
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  shows us that one can be very educated and wise and yet have tendencies to
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  infidelity. Solomon took many foreign wives who eventually took him away from God.
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  Their spiritual infidelity in worshiping other gods those who came along with those women,
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  brought about the division of the kingdom. After his death, Solomon did what
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  offended the Lord and did not follow the Lord completely as his father had done,
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  David says first of kings, eleven six let us conclude. I think
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  one of the tasks we owe ourselves as Colombians is to have self- control.
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  Well, as Colombians and as men in general, know how to cause
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  that flow of flattering words to the wrong person. Constantly in my lectures I
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  am telling married people not to use qualifiers, kind and sweet with people of
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  the other sex. Let your spouse, look at your cell phone that enters
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  every space of your life without restrictions, the one that nothing should, nothing
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  fears have a captive healthy sex life, the relationship from all angles so that
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  sexuality is the manifestation of all those other areas that are continually feeding in a
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  healthy way. Ha has been many years. I threw the last of my
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  compliments and saw the tears I caused in my wife, I knew that what
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  my father, my uncles, the men of my family and my surroundings had
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  done was not healthy. I invite you to do it too. Lord Help
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  every man and woman who unmeasuredly become affectionate to people of the opposite sex,
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  make them understand that those words have only one owner, one owner, take
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  care of us of infidelity in any of its manifestations, that your holy spirit
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  gives us the opportunity to emerge victorious. In this world where infidelity abounds,
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  Our home is in your hands. We ask in the name of Lord Jesus
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  Amen that you have a nice day