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Everything is From Hashem | Pele Yoetz | Hachzek Day 108 · The Torah Sparks Podcast

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  SPEAKER_00: Kevra, how are you?
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  SPEAKER_00: Today we continue Peleoic the section of Teva.
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  SPEAKER_00: Here we go.
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  SPEAKER_00: Vihin MS Janhayim Nachman Gamkin Badara Savishon continue what we were discussing yesterday, certain things you should or n shouldn't say to people when they're going through um a struggle.
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  SPEAKER_00: So he he was saying that this is the what the way they used to comfort others in previous generations.
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  SPEAKER_00: And he says if somebody, Law Linu, has a loss, there's uh somebody died, barminan, we should be spared.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sha'az bhavadin matt stik, um Allah the Sadin vize, a person shouldn't necessarily say, oh, the reason why this person died is because of your sins or because of the guy's sins.
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  SPEAKER_00: People are naturally gonna think come to think of um this anyways on their own.
• 0:48
  SPEAKER_00: If you tell this to your friend, Shavunsev harghes nefesh, imagine someone pays a Shiva call and says, Oh, it was because of the guy's sins, that's why he died.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like that's crazy.
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  SPEAKER_00: Tsar Olav Yikha, Vinafalov Tevamoid, he's gonna be so flustered and so broken.
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  SPEAKER_00: Viachulovisakona, it's uh leads to sakona, chasashar because of the abundance of grief, just adding to his grief.
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  SPEAKER_00: Therefore, it's incumbent upon you to be manachim him, to comfort him with words of consolation, with something that's gonna soothe his heart, not something that's gonna stick daggers.
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  SPEAKER_00: But digressing, let's say we're not dealing with somebody who passed away, but we're dealing with a person who's struggling financially, something health-related, right loy my loath, and it is befitting Shino Derach Mikra.
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  SPEAKER_00: A person should say to again, we have to be close enough friends or family to be able to say this that this is not happening by chance.
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  SPEAKER_00: Right?
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  SPEAKER_00: People don't just um lose a ton of money or or get a sickness.
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe it's coming from this reincarnation or a previous one, you know, because of something that they did, etc.
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  SPEAKER_00: Or didn't do.
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  SPEAKER_00: Like we find in Gamar de Avhuna, Takifol, Ma'adani, the Khamrav Huna, he had 400 barrels of wine that soured.
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  SPEAKER_00: In our generation, which are it's a generation of orphans.
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  SPEAKER_00: We're lacking so much.
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  SPEAKER_00: Kigonan Yasmi Diasmi, ain't sorry.
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  SPEAKER_00: Almost like it's not funny, but he says you don't need to even examine for uh why not, because we're filled with things that we shouldn't be doing.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_00: There's no place without blemish.
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  SPEAKER_00: Whether a person experiences something monetarily or something with his body, being bhodo, or something that's degrading to his honor, take of chai vlogs batsmo, yes to look at inwardly.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sho marriage mika, yes to feel this is not happening by chance.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh to evade el adonov, and this way he'll be reconciled with his master.
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  SPEAKER_00: Sho take of amor yomer event no so balaz.
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  SPEAKER_00: He should say in this word, or meaning in the following words, or in his own language that he understands, the following type of tfilo, master the universe.
• 3:34
  SPEAKER_00: I know my shame, my embarrassment, my disgrace.
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  SPEAKER_00: I've angered you.
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  SPEAKER_00: And you you've afflicted me, or my money, or you know, or my honour.
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  SPEAKER_00: Oh no, Shemala King of Givesin Hashem, please.
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  SPEAKER_00: Table of Nechad Sain, accept my defeat of who Adviatna, everything you do is righteous.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's for a kapala jikino to teach me.
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  SPEAKER_00: Uh shem, please, merciful father, Krachim of Albona, be like a merciful father, or his children Rachim, Lane, have mercy on us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Please help us.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hashem, our our king, for the sake of your name.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_00: Um, did I just read that twice?
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  SPEAKER_00: Okay.
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  SPEAKER_00: Um, right, I did read that twice.
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  SPEAKER_00: We should go on the right path.
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  SPEAKER_00: And we should be guided on the path of the righteous.
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  SPEAKER_00: Wow, that's a tfila.
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  SPEAKER_00: Hashem will rejoice in his creations, and he's gonna say, Behold, wow, this creation that I have in my world, wow, look at him.
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  SPEAKER_00: Look how this person accepts the judgment that I put upon him.
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  SPEAKER_00: Vishav, let him do Teshuva Vrafalo, and he'll be healed.
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  SPEAKER_00: But if a person doesn't heed the calling, he doesn't pay attention, Vitela Tavar Bimikra, and he just says, Ah, these things are just natural.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just hevah.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's just happenstance, chance.
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  SPEAKER_00: Kvar mefarsh me pyaguribashbachukasays, if you walk with me thinking that everything's just natural and everything's just happenstance, and no rhyme, reason, no order.
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  SPEAKER_00: Then that's how I'm going to treat you.
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  SPEAKER_00: It's not going to be good, Khasash.
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  SPEAKER_00: We know from the commentaries.
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  SPEAKER_00: The Sfarim teaches us that the Gematri, the numerical value of Hateva is 86, right?
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  SPEAKER_00: The same as Elochim.
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  SPEAKER_00: Even that which we think is teva is really happening from the Abishri.
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  SPEAKER_00: When a person sees that he's going through a struggle, an affliction of some sort, you kabel Allah because he should try to draw.
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  SPEAKER_00: Where is this coming from?
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe he didn't do something good.
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  SPEAKER_00: How can I improve myself?
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  SPEAKER_00: What can I do that is good?
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  SPEAKER_00: Maybe I have something I should have done.
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  SPEAKER_00: And by taking upon himself something, by giving something up, being most enough, giving, you know, deleting that app or stop doing this, or avoiding that place, and adding something of Kedusha, something good, that's gonna be Kemakriv Korbanisha.
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_00: It's like somebody who brings an offering to Hashem.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_00: What better time to talk about this than now during the Sarasmita Shuvah, who doesn't want to bring um an offering of sacrifice to baru, and the sacrifice today is not a sheep, it's not a cow.
• 7:06
  SPEAKER_00: But it's it's something that we're struggling with and and getting rid of that, and something that I could do more and bring that into my life.
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  SPEAKER_00: Have a fantastic, wondrous rest of your day.