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DLHS Hour 2 | Should men pay for hair and nails · The D.L. Hughley Show

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  Speaker 1: See I was skipping anything else you want to say
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  Speaker 1: while I'm in the middle of did.
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  Speaker 2: You call them Stevie?
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  Speaker 3: Here's what well, here's what I can't take as well.
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  Speaker 1: I'm so tired of you all doing things to make
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  Speaker 1: it look like I do know how.
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  Speaker 3: To read or I don't speak well.
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  Speaker 2: But first of all, let's get your pronouns together, okay, because.
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  Speaker 3: I'm don't even use pronouns. Don't even say that right now.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even am I doing anything. I'm not even
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  Speaker 3: you're in.
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  Speaker 1: It right now because you decide to jump your ass
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  Speaker 1: in let me address skip without you radio people trying
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  Speaker 1: to gang up on me, and and Lanna.
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  Speaker 3: Said she ain't got your hands and your nails down
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  Speaker 3: ball in midst of them.
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  Speaker 2: You know what this The lady is supposed to be
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  Speaker 2: on my side.
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  Speaker 1: It was nothing said bad that I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Kyle. You have a woman now, yeah? And uh uh?
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  Speaker 1: Do you agree that that that's part falls partly is
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  Speaker 1: your responsibility?
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  Speaker 3: Yes?
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  Speaker 4: And no, I mean, like you said, if you have
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  Speaker 4: the means to help somebody and they need it, then yes,
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  Speaker 4: of course I think you're kind of selfish for not
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  Speaker 4: doing otherwise. Right, But she also has a career, so
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  Speaker 4: it's not like she does need me. But you know,
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  Speaker 4: if she ever did, like I would offer. I would
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  Speaker 4: obviously offer the help out right, especially if you liked
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  Speaker 4: what it was.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, especially like you like when we met when I
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  Speaker 5: wasn't paying for it, Like when we met when we said, hello,
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  Speaker 5: your hair was beautiful, your nails were beautiful, and that's oh,
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  Speaker 5: that's what.
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  Speaker 3: That might have been changed. That might have been a
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  Speaker 3: breakup haircut breakup that.
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  Speaker 4: You're always trying to look good for, like the first
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  Speaker 4: couple of weeks have to break up, and it's like
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  Speaker 4: I got you, I ain't got to do nothing.
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  Speaker 5: Does a woman pay for a man's haircuts too? And
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  Speaker 5: then for his groom?
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  Speaker 3: Why are you asking that question? Raise a blaze? I'd
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  Speaker 3: rather we could share you own one today, you know.
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  Speaker 1: Turn on Lena had skipped, like, why are you asking
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  Speaker 1: a question about haircut?
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  Speaker 3: It's her day.
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  Speaker 1: And you know so the question we're asking Eatedjem, do
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  Speaker 1: you think that it is this woman in the out
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  Speaker 1: of Let me have the adda it one more time.
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  Speaker 3: We were dating? What I need to pay for your
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  Speaker 3: hair and your nails?
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  Speaker 6: Honestly?
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, mom, I mean like if you want me to
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  Speaker 7: look good, then you gotta pay for it.
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  Speaker 4: But if you were doing it before I came into
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  Speaker 4: your life, why do I have to start doing that
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  Speaker 4: and all that.
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  Speaker 3: I'm your man, I might say, because you would want
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  Speaker 3: me to look good, so you would want me to.
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  Speaker 8: Do those thing.
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  Speaker 3: Skip do you agree. I don't think it's an obligation.
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  Speaker 5: I think you know, if you want to do something
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  Speaker 5: nice for your woman, and that's fine. But hey, she
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  Speaker 5: was that's her job keep herself looking nice. That's how
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  Speaker 5: I got the chance to know you. Anyway, you were
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  Speaker 5: looking nice.
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  Speaker 1: Then when I grew up, the older girls who dated
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  Speaker 1: the dope dealers or the older dudes always got.
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  Speaker 3: Their money for the hair. And now always that was
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  Speaker 3: the thing. They always got money for the hair.
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  Speaker 1: And now how that worked out in the loan run. Yeah, well, well,
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  Speaker 1: first off, I think they were.
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  Speaker 3: Much older than those girls that they got their.
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  Speaker 1: Nails done to remove DNA they got they got nail
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  Speaker 1: But I think that that's the thing you hear growing up, man,
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  Speaker 1: I got my girl's hair and the hair done, nails done, everything.
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  Speaker 1: You know that that's the thing, that's the thing that's
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  Speaker 1: a little entree into like I'm feeling you let me,
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  Speaker 1: let me do something for you, and then you know
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  Speaker 1: my thing was always getting you a George Forman grill.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying with the grease catcher. You
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  Speaker 1: dig me, you dig me, No, you know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: But I think when you're a young girl, though, when
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  Speaker 2: you're a young woman, I think those are the kind
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  Speaker 2: of things that you ask for. You want your hair done,
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  Speaker 2: you want your nails done, things like that. But then
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  Speaker 2: as you get older to ask it gets bigger. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: because you different. You're like, no, your wants are different too.
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  Speaker 2: Your wants are different too, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: So the question we're asking ladies and gentlemen, Well, first off,
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  Speaker 1: a young lady said this we were.
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  Speaker 9: Dating, What I need to pay for your hair and
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  Speaker 9: your nails?
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  Speaker 3: Do you agree?
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  Speaker 10: Well, first of all, I mean, no man is obligated
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  Speaker 10: to pay for you to hand your beauty, you know,
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  Speaker 10: under any circumstances. But I will say this, whether it's
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  Speaker 10: your husband, your boyfriend and your significant of it, or
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  Speaker 10: even friends with benefits. Okay, let's just keep it real.
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  Speaker 10: If you want someone to look their best and you're
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  Speaker 10: very particular about it, and you don't think that they're doing,
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  Speaker 10: you know, their best job to make you happy. Then
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  Speaker 10: you need to, you know, help them make it happen.
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  Speaker 10: And if you're not willing to help them make it happen,
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  Speaker 10: you need to just like you know, be quiet and
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  Speaker 10: just be happy and just say you're beautiful no matter what,
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  Speaker 10: just say that.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
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  Speaker 7: Look here, these women, some of these women got the
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  Speaker 7: game twisted. I mean, but it ain't they fault. It's
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  Speaker 7: these simp as dude's faults out here, pants and everything. Now,
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  Speaker 7: if you my wife, yes, I will be glad to
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  Speaker 7: pay for the eight things. But if we just day
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  Speaker 7: tell mine's and to pay for your head and your
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  Speaker 7: nails to get done.
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  Speaker 11: I definitely, as a other three boys that have two
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  Speaker 11: older brothers, it is not.
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  Speaker 12: A man's responsibility to take care of someone's.
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  Speaker 9: Hand, you know, their nails and their hair, especially if
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  Speaker 9: that's not your.
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  Speaker 13: Wife, if it's your girlfriend.
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  Speaker 10: It's nice if a man wants to do that, but
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  Speaker 10: I don't.
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  Speaker 11: Feel like it's their responsibility.
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  Speaker 13: I've definitely told my sons.
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  Speaker 7: If young ladies tell you that, tell them to ask.
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  Speaker 12: Their uncle or their father, because.
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  Speaker 13: You're not their husband.
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  Speaker 11: And that's what husbands might do for their wives.
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  Speaker 9: But as far as it being their responsibility, I would
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  Speaker 9: never say that to a fan.
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  Speaker 14: I just think to myself that women have been getting
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  Speaker 14: their head done and had did before men came along,
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  Speaker 14: and they gonna keep getting their head done.
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  Speaker 8: It's no need for us to invest in that. I
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  Speaker 8: don't ask a woman when I go get my haircut
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  Speaker 8: from the barber shop to pay for it, and I'm
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  Speaker 8: shocked at DL for not a grand with us.
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  Speaker 9: I say, these tricks need to go somewhere and turn
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  Speaker 9: the corner.
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  Speaker 10: They want these men to look good?
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  Speaker 9: Are they paying for haircuts and face shoes and nice
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  Speaker 9: clothes and all the shoes and stuff.
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  Speaker 13: You take care of.
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  Speaker 9: Yourself, your personal hygiene items before you found the mate.
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  Speaker 9: You need to continue because it's not somebody else's responsibility
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  Speaker 9: to take care of your personal needs. Hair care, nails, toes, bathing.
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  Speaker 9: That's a personal care need, meaning you the person, need
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  Speaker 9: to handle your need. Otherwise, the tricks need to find
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  Speaker 9: a corner because that's what they're doing.
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  Speaker 8: Stay out here prostituting for hair and nails.
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  Speaker 7: That's all I got for you.
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  Speaker 15: I believe a man with a responsible man which the reason,
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  Speaker 15: would afford his woman even if she made the same money,
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  Speaker 15: will afford his woman outfit here or do whatever it
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  Speaker 15: needs you?
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  Speaker 14: I mean she has to you have to go with
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  Speaker 14: her in.
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  Speaker 6: The street to wear, so you want her to look
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  Speaker 6: as best as possible at all times. Child, By my
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  Speaker 6: wife's underwear, I'm like, because I don't I want to
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  Speaker 6: be it's whatever she wears to bed. I want to
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  Speaker 6: know what it is because if it looks crazy, I
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  Speaker 6: don't want it, you know, so I that too.
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  Speaker 15: So like I said here, the shouldn't be an issue.
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  Speaker 1: The question we're asking ladies and gentlemen. Well, first off,
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  Speaker 1: a ye, lady said this we were dating.
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  Speaker 3: What I need to pay for your hair and your nails?
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  Speaker 8: Honestly?
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  Speaker 16: Yeah, I mean like, if you want me to look good,
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  Speaker 16: then you gotta pay for work.
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  Speaker 4: But if you were doing it before I came into
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  Speaker 4: your life, why do I have to start doing that
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  Speaker 4: and all that?
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  Speaker 6: I'm your man, I'm I would say, because you would
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  Speaker 6: want me to look good, so you wouldn't want me.
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  Speaker 10: To do this thing.
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  Speaker 3: All right, we're going through the phones.
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  Speaker 17: I would have to say. Look, as a man, I'm
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  Speaker 17: not gonna mess with no woman that ain't got it
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  Speaker 17: going on?
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  Speaker 7: Like me.
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  Speaker 17: You know, I'll step up and be the man, But
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  Speaker 17: I get along better with women that got a job.
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  Speaker 17: Because if you want your nails done every now and then,
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  Speaker 17: I'll step up and be a man to have it
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  Speaker 17: down for you sometime. But you gotta have it going
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  Speaker 17: on because if you don't, you'd be walking around looking
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  Speaker 17: like but.
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  Speaker 18: We that's what separates young girls from women. When I
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  Speaker 18: was younger and didn't have a true sense of self
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  Speaker 18: and put a price tag on my work and value, yeah,
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  Speaker 18: you're supposed to get my.
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  Speaker 8: Hair and nails done.
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  Speaker 18: But now it's forty nine and can look past what's
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  Speaker 18: on the outside knowing that pretty much everything that you
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  Speaker 18: do is going to eventually fade with time.
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  Speaker 13: We don't worry about that.
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  Speaker 8: My mama always taught me back with with phones, always
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  Speaker 8: leave home with a quarter so you can call home.
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  Speaker 8: So these new school women, y'all need to always leave
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  Speaker 8: whateverything that you can take and take care of for yourself,
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  Speaker 8: and stop asking men to take care of you. A
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  Speaker 8: real man won't have to be asked.
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  Speaker 13: When I first met my wife, she wore a point
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  Speaker 13: till every day and I told her, see what that
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  Speaker 13: poont tells you and I cut it off. Heir done
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  Speaker 13: every week. But she's a lord maintenance woman. She just
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  Speaker 13: want to hurt done, need nails done because she's the
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  Speaker 13: hospital feel so wanlaw maintenance woman to keep it looking good.
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  Speaker 13: It don't cost you a lot of money, that's what
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  Speaker 13: you do.
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  Speaker 11: I think that yes, men should contribute, But also, as
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  Speaker 11: a grown woman, why don't you want to these things
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  Speaker 11: for yourself? Why don't you want to already look apart,
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  Speaker 11: not just for the man that you're dating, but for yourself.
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  Speaker 14: I do not believe that it is a man's obligation
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  Speaker 14: to pay for a woman's self care. She wants to
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  Speaker 14: look good, of course I want to look good. But
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  Speaker 14: if she wants to look good, she has to pay
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  Speaker 14: for that herself, because that's her self care. That's like saying,
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  Speaker 14: if you want me to be shit physically fit, are
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  Speaker 14: you gonna pay for my gym membership?
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  Speaker 16: So I think that a woman should pay for her
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  Speaker 16: own hair or nails to get done, because that's part
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  Speaker 16: of her upkeep, that's part of her looking like a
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  Speaker 16: woman and presenting herself and making herself presentable. However, if
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  Speaker 16: her man does complain, or if he offers to say, hey, baby,
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  Speaker 16: why don't you go get your hair and nails done?
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  Speaker 16: Then that's okay.
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  Speaker 14: Yes, I think a man should take care of this
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  Speaker 14: woman Aaron nails, or even if it's a girlfriend.
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  Speaker 8: She represent you at the end of the day.
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  Speaker 12: If you want an entitled mindset, then so be it.
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  Speaker 6: I feel like.
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  Speaker 12: That is just the stupidest thing ever to oblige another
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  Speaker 12: human to take care of something that you were already
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  Speaker 12: doing before you met the person, Like we're hustling ass
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  Speaker 12: backwards with that type of mindset. No, I don't agree
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  Speaker 12: with that at all, So no,