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"Not All Men Are Meant to Date Beautiful Women" - Joy Taylor x Clint Coley · Two Personal with Joy Taylor

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  Speaker 1: Why does agree with women mean either you're pandering or.
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  Speaker 2: You because they don't get pussy.
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  Speaker 3: When a woman says I want a man that's six
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  Speaker 3: foot you ever noticed the five to five guys be
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  Speaker 3: like you blocking your blessing?
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  Speaker 1: No, I'm not not.
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  Speaker 2: All men are meant to date beautiful women.
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  Speaker 3: That is a fact. That's another thing. Women got to
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  Speaker 3: start letting guys know, like I get niggas too.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, guys, welcome too Personal. I'm Joy Taylor. Thanks so
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  Speaker 4: much for joining us this week. If you haven't already,
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  Speaker 4: make sure you hit subscribe. Follow us on social media
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  Speaker 4: at two Personal Show. So excited to have my friend
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  Speaker 4: Clint Coley on the show today. He is an incredible
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  Speaker 4: stand up comedian. He's a writer and a producer. His
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  Speaker 4: new special Rents Do will be out in the spring.
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  Speaker 4: And I'm very, very very excited for this conversation. We uh,
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  Speaker 4: we have a time, we have a hang, so let's
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  Speaker 4: get to Clint Coley. I'm very excited to have my
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  Speaker 4: friends Clint Coley, who is an incredible stand up comedian,
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  Speaker 4: a writer, producer on the show with me Today is
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  Speaker 4: debut comedy special My Edible Kicked In is streaming on
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  Speaker 4: Peacock and his new special rentste is coming in the spring.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome to Personal.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, thank you for having me, Joy, I really appreciate it.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I saw you posted, actually, I saw you posted
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  Speaker 4: on your Instagram what's up with all the LA podcasts?
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  Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, you could pull up.
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  Speaker 3: That's the thing, right, Like I would see other people
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  Speaker 3: that I knew on the podcast and I was like, Yo,
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  Speaker 3: so why didn't you just hit me? You know what,
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  Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie to you. I got an issue
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  Speaker 3: with that, like in my mind right, like professionally, I
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  Speaker 3: don't be wanting to sound thirsty.
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  Speaker 1: Right, I got I gotta get out of that. I
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  Speaker 1: know that for a fact.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean we all we are all supposed to
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  Speaker 2: help each other. That's how this.
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  Speaker 1: I totally agree with that.
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  Speaker 3: And the crazy thing is I'm that way right, Like
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  Speaker 3: anybody can always call me and be like, yo, Clint,
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  Speaker 3: you got this going on? You got that going on? Like, yeah, bro,
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  Speaker 3: I got you, Yes, I got you. There's no problem
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  Speaker 3: we suppose. Yeah, we are a fraternity in a sense.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I just got to do better with that.
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  Speaker 3: I know that I gotta do better.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I mean I think that that's something that you're
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  Speaker 4: not from your film Philadelphia. Yeah, that's something that I
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  Speaker 4: had to get over in LA. I think when you're
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  Speaker 4: not from LA, you have this idea and when I
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  Speaker 4: say LA, I really am talking about Hollywood, like the
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  Speaker 4: city of Los Angeles in Hollywood orso different things. Let's
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  Speaker 4: call and you're not you didn't come up in Hollywood,
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  Speaker 4: which neither of us did. Obviously, you have this idea
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  Speaker 4: of how it all works, and some of it does
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  Speaker 4: work that way, but it's it can be trans you
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  Speaker 4: can be transactional and have a friendship with people. And
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  Speaker 4: I think that because there's so much pure transaction and
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  Speaker 4: so many transactional relationships that people build up this idea
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  Speaker 4: that is like why don't every want to ask anybody
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  Speaker 4: for anything? And it's like, well, what that's the post
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  Speaker 4: Like we're supposed to create a community and it's not.
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  Speaker 4: You can't just only ask people for things. To your point,
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  Speaker 4: you got to pour into people also. You got to
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  Speaker 4: do things for people also. But we can be friends
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  Speaker 4: and also have transactions, like I would rather do transactions
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  Speaker 4: with my friends.
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  Speaker 1: That's fair, no, I I again, I just got to
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  Speaker 1: do better with that.
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  Speaker 3: Like, uh, I think part of it is is like
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  Speaker 3: I always like I don't ever want to come off
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  Speaker 3: seeming like I'm only hitting you up for this or
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  Speaker 3: I only hitting you up for that. Then I think
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  Speaker 3: about it in retrospect, right, like Joey, I've known you
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  Speaker 3: for a minute, now, you know what I'm saying, Like
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  Speaker 3: I could have.
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  Speaker 1: Easily just been like, yo, let me can I jump
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  Speaker 1: on you podcasts? You know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 3: But I think that you know, I ain't gonna lie
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  Speaker 3: to be scared to shoot my professional shot, you know, gotcha?
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  Speaker 4: Like yeah, so I got to do better. I mean,
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  Speaker 4: the worst is gonna happen is no no right or
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  Speaker 4: get ignored. I'm not gonna like h yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 4: that's the same as no.
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  Speaker 3: Worse.
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  Speaker 2: I get ignored?
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  Speaker 1: Do you get you get left on scene all the time.
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  Speaker 4: I hit people all the time like Yo, I want
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  Speaker 4: you to come pull up to the podcast. I've had
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  Speaker 4: people give me their number like volunteer it to me.
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  Speaker 4: I didn't even ask them. I like volunteer, like hey,
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  Speaker 4: I want to come on the podcast, give me their number,
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  Speaker 4: and then I'll hit them the next day like yo,
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  Speaker 4: like good to see you, Like what's your email? I
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  Speaker 4: have you know, the producer set it up and like
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  Speaker 4: not hear nothing, But I don't. I don't really take
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  Speaker 4: it personally.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 3: That makes me feel better that I'm not the only
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  Speaker 3: one to be habiting to No, it happens everybody.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I don't know.
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  Speaker 4: I don't think I was saying anybody like I'm pretty
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  Speaker 4: sure Beyonce or something podcast. Yeah, of course, as you should,
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  Speaker 4: like why are you here? Yeah, but that happens to
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  Speaker 4: me all the time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I got happen to me like two weeks ago, and
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  Speaker 4: I was like, all right, cool, you know, but I
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  Speaker 4: don't take it personally because some you know, people be
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  Speaker 4: forgetting people. I know how this all works, and sometimes
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  Speaker 4: they'll be like, oh, yeah, said I was gonna go
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  Speaker 4: on this podcast and they're like, yo, we don't really
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  Speaker 4: funk with her, Like, oh, you.
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  Speaker 3: Know, I'm gonna keep it a being. I take everything personal,
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  Speaker 3: like I'm that guy. Like I'm like when Michael Jordan
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  Speaker 3: was like reading the iPad and he's like, yo, it
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  Speaker 3: became personal with me, Like for me, everything it's personal.
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  Speaker 1: Yo. I don't know why.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, like I guess yeah, like I could
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  Speaker 3: admit it. Yeah, I'm a gymnot right like.
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  Speaker 2: O, Lord, God forgive him.
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  Speaker 1: Why do we always get that reaction?
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  Speaker 4: Gemini men are are are the spawn of saying that, Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: Have you I'm assuming you've dated a Gemini man? Okay,
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  Speaker 3: that's all I need to know. Okay, I'm not trying.
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  Speaker 3: Are unwell, I'm not gonna I am unwell. I'm no
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  Speaker 3: doubt about. I don't know how my wife does it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't either.
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  Speaker 1: I am specially Libra for some reason. I get along.
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  Speaker 1: I get along for some reason. Me and liber has
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  Speaker 1: always been I can't.
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  Speaker 4: I have to have consistency. I can't deal with people
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  Speaker 4: like I can't. You can't just pop up with a
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  Speaker 4: new personality today. What am I supposed to do with that?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie, ain't gonna lie. Yeah, I don't see.
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  Speaker 3: I'm like, I definitely do pop up with I do
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  Speaker 3: have multiple personalities. I don't think I'm like I don't
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  Speaker 3: think I'm like, what's the what's the disorder? Like the
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  Speaker 3: person like, what's the person schizophrenic? Yeah, I'm not that
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  Speaker 3: guy like I don't. I don't hear.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: This is not a like AI.
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  Speaker 4: No, no, no, all Geminis are saying that's for sure,
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  Speaker 4: but it's a it's a it's a specific thing, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: tupac Okay, it's a specific thing that that Gemini men
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  Speaker 4: specifically have. And it's not like schizophrenic or bipolar, which
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  Speaker 4: we'll get to that. Yeah. Yeah, I'm not making light
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  Speaker 4: of that type of stuff, like and you know, signs
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  Speaker 4: and stuff.
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  Speaker 2: It's all.
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  Speaker 4: It's all whatever you want to believe anyway, but there
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  Speaker 4: is something where it's like one day you're this and
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  Speaker 4: the next day I'm like, who is this person?
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  Speaker 1: I think it's because I take that's my other alter ego,
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  Speaker 1: like I really.
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  Speaker 2: Want to deal with one person's personality.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I get it. You, I understand. I understand.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not Look listen, I'm going to be honest on
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  Speaker 3: this podcast. A lot of times when I cause women
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  Speaker 3: struggling strife, like it's me.
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  Speaker 1: It's me.
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  Speaker 3: I take full it's me now, don't get me wrong,
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  Speaker 3: Like every woman I did, y'all wasn't right. But I
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  Speaker 3: can seventy five percent of the time it was me.
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  Speaker 3: I can admit that seventy five.
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  Speaker 1: It was me.
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  Speaker 3: Like whether it be bad communication, whether it be me
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  Speaker 3: lying whether it me be you know, like your toothbrush
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  Speaker 3: at my house and then the next day you know
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  Speaker 3: it's not here. I threw it away. I threw it away.
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  Speaker 3: Like you see what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 4: Off If I came to your house and I am
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  Speaker 4: supposed to have a toothbrush, where's my and you don't
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  Speaker 4: have extra toothbrushes? I always have different. But when you
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  Speaker 4: don't have extra toothbrushes, no I have. It's I don't
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  Speaker 4: like playing road games. I am not a I do
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  Speaker 4: not like playing road games.
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  Speaker 2: I am at home game queen.
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  Speaker 4: I want my bed, I want my ointments and potions.
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  Speaker 2: I want my water.
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  Speaker 1: About potions, Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Like I thought a very expensive specific lotions that have
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  Speaker 4: to go on in order that you don't have, Okay,
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  Speaker 4: and then there's just a lot.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like it. I want my charger.
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  Speaker 3: Most men think they doing something because they have an
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  Speaker 3: extra wash cloth and towel, Like I'll never forget.
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  Speaker 1: A girl came over. I had an extra wash I
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  Speaker 1: had like multiple wash cloth.
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  Speaker 2: I mean that's more than most men.
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  Speaker 1: She was impressed.
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  Speaker 4: I dated this man that had everything. Everything was wonderful.
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  Speaker 4: That was the only time I would I would really
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  Speaker 4: enjoy the road game. And they would also order me coffee,
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  Speaker 4: order me coffee in the morning because he got up
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  Speaker 4: earlier before me, so you'd have like breakfast and coffee.
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  Speaker 2: That was nice.
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  Speaker 1: A great road game, actually it was, I.
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  Speaker 2: Was, but it's rare. It's hard to win on the road.
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  Speaker 1: I agree. I agree, I agree, especially when you.
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  Speaker 4: Date men, because there's very little chances that they have
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  Speaker 4: the things.
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  Speaker 2: That you need.
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  Speaker 3: You know.
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  Speaker 1: It's funny.
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  Speaker 2: I never like I could even use.
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  Speaker 4: His nighttime routine like he had, like that, he had
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  Speaker 4: like the goods. He had a good ship. It was great.
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  Speaker 4: I mean he didn't have my ship, but it was
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  Speaker 4: like it.
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  Speaker 2: Was sufficient.
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  Speaker 4: You have, like you know, we got the vasoline cocoa
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  Speaker 4: butter here for emergencies because I'm ashy every day, Like
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  Speaker 4: you can't put that on your face.
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  Speaker 3: I respect that. I respect that. That's I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 3: That's a real player though, no.
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  Speaker 5: Top top Okay, hop you you are.
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  Speaker 4: The first night the goaded Okay, the first night I
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  Speaker 4: went over his house. Right first night, I spent the
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  Speaker 4: night at his house. In his defense, he wasn't prepared
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  Speaker 4: for me. It was something I sprung on him.
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  Speaker 1: We have been for a while.
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  Speaker 4: I spent the night at his house. Yeah we're out late,
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  Speaker 4: and I was like, you know what, I'm gonna come
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  Speaker 4: over tonight.
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  Speaker 2: We went to the room because it's so crazy crazy.
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  Speaker 2: This is what's wrong with me.
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  Speaker 4: He had eye There was a strip of eyelashes stuck
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  Speaker 4: to his headboard. This is the headboard, and the eyelashes
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  Speaker 4: were stuck to the headboard, and then there was another
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  Speaker 4: one on the floor.
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  Speaker 2: And here's the tea. Bitch, I have extensions. Ain't no
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  Speaker 2: fucking strips.
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  Speaker 4: This ship was not for me, especially because I had
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  Speaker 4: never been in this house before and he gets a
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  Speaker 4: ship clean three times a week.
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  Speaker 2: So that was the night before. I was like, okay, yeah, bitches.
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  Speaker 4: Then I like that. I like a man that gets bitches.
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  Speaker 3: I think every woman does. Actually, that shit is crazy,
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  Speaker 3: I think everyone.
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  Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie.
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  Speaker 4: Everywhere he was putting work fellas put work stuck to
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  Speaker 4: the headboard is NAE level if you fell a sweaty night.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just trying on. I mean, players fuck up, but
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  Speaker 3: I mean the lashes on the headboard. That should let
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  Speaker 3: you know that made that's quality. Penis right there.
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  Speaker 1: Like if your eyes are hitting the head and his house.
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  Speaker 4: Is nice like he's it was a very nice house,
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  Speaker 4: like this is not some.
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  Speaker 1: Dusty I get it.
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  Speaker 3: No, I had before me and my wife moved in together,
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  Speaker 3: I had a nice three bedroom apartment by myself. You
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  Speaker 3: gotta say that in LA, in downtown Long Beach, like
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  Speaker 3: I felt.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not gonna say more than what I should.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna reveal anymore of my sources.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, that's that's funny. That's that's that's I can't
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  Speaker 3: be Why do women like guys who get bitches?
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  Speaker 2: No, I don't because I can't deal with insecurity.
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  Speaker 4: Insecurity, and men who get bitches are very rarely insecure
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  Speaker 4: unless they have a real.
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  Speaker 2: Uh issue with narcissism.
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  Speaker 1: That's yeah. I was about to say, yeah, and.
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  Speaker 4: They they just have like a what they don't they
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  Speaker 4: don't do the annoying.
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  Speaker 2: Ship that men that don't get bitches.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real and I'm not saying this.
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  Speaker 3: No, I'm gonna say it right like you know, I'm funny,
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  Speaker 3: not get bitches absolutely or did you know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 3: And no, yeah, no, no, no, I mean even still,
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  Speaker 3: like my wife know how to me. She thinks she
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  Speaker 3: like what I like about you, Other women like about you.
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  Speaker 3: That's just the bottom line, same thing, vice versa. But
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  Speaker 3: I've never liked like I'm I'm never that guy who's
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  Speaker 3: ever went through a woman's phone, right, yes, like like
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  Speaker 3: you see what I'm saying, Like like if you don't
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  Speaker 3: get no bitches, you you.
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  Speaker 1: And her phone?
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  Speaker 3: You you trying to figure out why this person DM
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  Speaker 3: and her and stuff like that, you worry worried about it.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, the reality is not all men are men
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  Speaker 2: to date beautiful women.
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  Speaker 1: That is a fact. And you can tell when you
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  Speaker 1: his first bad chick.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't.
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  Speaker 4: I don't never want to be the first. I'm not
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  Speaker 4: dating anyone's bad chick virginity. People think that there's there's
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  Speaker 4: a couple of crazy things about me. One, I don't
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  Speaker 4: want a man that doesn't get bitches. Yeah, people think
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  Speaker 4: that's crazy.
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  Speaker 3: No, that's what.
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  Speaker 4: No.
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  Speaker 1: I respect that.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want a man who.
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  Speaker 4: Doesn't have female friends, because why don't women want to
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  Speaker 4: be around you?
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  Speaker 1: Real quick?
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  Speaker 3: When you finished, can we please talk about men and
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  Speaker 3: female friends for two seconds? M And the reason why
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  Speaker 3: I say that I'm gonna look at the camera when
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  Speaker 3: I say this, men, you have to have women friends.
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  Speaker 3: You have to have women friends.
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  Speaker 1: Yo.
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  Speaker 3: The knowledge that I receive and get put on for
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  Speaker 3: I have a whole group chat right now and it's
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  Speaker 3: nothing but men and women. But I'm just say it's
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  Speaker 3: probably seventy five to twenty five women, right and some
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  Speaker 3: of the things and some of a lot of the
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  Speaker 3: gems that they drop in this group chat.
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  Speaker 1: We called the Cutwater Crew.
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  Speaker 3: We drink. We all of us drink cut waters. We
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  Speaker 3: drinking the Cutwater Crew. But the point I'm saying is that, yes,
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  Speaker 3: there's a lot of women in that chat, and all,
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  Speaker 3: by the way, none of us are fucking none of
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  Speaker 3: us have like you know what I'm saying, Like all
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  Speaker 3: of us are like legit friends and having conversations and
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  Speaker 3: finally actually knowing where a woman is coming from. I'm
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  Speaker 3: gonna be honest with you, like that is top tier
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  Speaker 3: to use in your dating life. Bottom line, a woman
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  Speaker 3: adds so much value to you friendship wise, Like, Bro,
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  Speaker 3: you don't gotta fuck all the bitches.
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  Speaker 1: You don't have to. You don't have to do it.
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  Speaker 3: And I'm not saying that on some like you know, like,
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  Speaker 3: oh man, like women, bro like having women friends. I
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  Speaker 3: feel like age like increases your age to like eighty
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  Speaker 3: or ninety, like good women and the fact that marriage,
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  Speaker 3: your women friends will be the first ones that don't
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  Speaker 3: play about you. You talking about somebody who really got
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  Speaker 3: your back, like a woman friend.
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  Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: Well, I also think I want to I want women
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  Speaker 4: to feel safe around my person, But I also want
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  Speaker 4: a man who values women outside of people that work
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  Speaker 4: for them, right or people in their family, Like I
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  Speaker 4: need you to see women as whole human being, absol values.
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  Speaker 4: And that doesn't mean that you have to have a
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  Speaker 4: you know, all of your friends are women or you're
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  Speaker 4: on some goofy shit, but like you don't have one friend,
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  Speaker 4: You don't have one female friend that you're not trying
• 14:32
  Speaker 4: to fuck.
• 14:33
  Speaker 2: That's crazy.
• 14:33
  Speaker 3: Listen, my friend Nicole, she was my grooms woman in
• 14:36
  Speaker 3: my wedding. Yeah, Like that's that's kind of female friend.
• 14:39
  Speaker 3: She's straight as it, you know, and she get dudes
• 14:42
  Speaker 3: like you know what I'm saying. Like that's another thing.
• 14:43
  Speaker 3: Women got to start letting guys know, like I get
• 14:45
  Speaker 3: niggas too.
• 14:47
  Speaker 5: I think I assumed it was implied, but like I'll
• 14:51
  Speaker 5: be hearing some of these women dating stories and I
• 14:53
  Speaker 5: just be like, yo, like I think I think.
• 14:56
  Speaker 4: Men need to understand that that's implied, like you not.
• 14:58
  Speaker 4: People talk to me like that sometimes and I'm like,
• 15:00
  Speaker 4: I don't understand. Do we have to explain everything? Like oh,
• 15:03
  Speaker 4: like you know, you don't, you don't, you don't have this,
• 15:06
  Speaker 4: you don't have that, And like I don't.
• 15:07
  Speaker 2: Why do you think that I have a problem with men?
• 15:10
  Speaker 1: Why do you think that just because i'm again, don't
• 15:13
  Speaker 1: piss me off.
• 15:15
  Speaker 4: This is just a stupid and I don't like having
• 15:16
  Speaker 4: pointless conversations. The third thing I don't want to do
• 15:20
  Speaker 4: is I don't want to be any man's first bad
• 15:26
  Speaker 4: I want a man that gets bitches, has to have
• 15:29
  Speaker 4: some level of female friendship, and I don't want to
• 15:32
  Speaker 4: be the first one. It's too much responsibility for too much.
• 15:35
  Speaker 4: There's too much explaining. Now I'm too old for that.
• 15:39
  Speaker 4: There's for someone else's job. So that's why I want
• 15:42
  Speaker 4: a man that I know your exes are also beautiful.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: You know what's crazy? My first battie that I have
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: a pool.
• 15:48
  Speaker 3: This was I was twenty two years old, and I'm
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: not gonna lie I could not handle it. I remember,
• 15:54
  Speaker 3: like I called her one night like I'm not you know,
• 15:56
  Speaker 3: I would say her name because we friends now shries.
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: I remember nice reason I called.
• 16:01
  Speaker 3: Her like eight nine, ten times, back to back to back,
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: like wondering why, like she won't talk to me, why
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: she won't.
• 16:09
  Speaker 2: What's the movie? Was it Hits the Hitch where he's
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: No the movie it's with Vince Vaughan.
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: Was it the Breakup? No?
• 16:16
  Speaker 4: Oh my god, No, it's an old it's an older movie.
• 16:18
  Speaker 4: Someone specs you know what I'm talking about.
• 16:20
  Speaker 1: Gott to look it up.
• 16:21
  Speaker 4: It's the scene with Oh, it's gonna bug me. It's
• 16:25
  Speaker 4: such a famous scene.
• 16:29
  Speaker 2: It is Jon Favreau and no John Fareau.
• 16:33
  Speaker 4: And I guess he's in the breakup too, isn't he.
• 16:39
  Speaker 2: Vince von John Farreau.
• 16:40
  Speaker 4: It's an old movie, and it's a it's a it's
• 16:43
  Speaker 4: a specific scene where he's on the phone and he's
• 16:48
  Speaker 4: bugging and it is so awkward.
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna send it to you.
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: I was crashing out on this woman's phone right like
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: she was my first, like I could like she was
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: my first, like like I couldn't.
• 17:06
  Speaker 4: Yes, swingers, you know what I'm talking about you know,
• 17:09
  Speaker 4: the scene. It makes me sweat even thinking about it.
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: It's unbearable. But I was doing that on I was
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: on well because.
• 17:17
  Speaker 4: It's the thing women don't like pressed men. Yeah, I
• 17:20
  Speaker 4: was pressed for and and that is just going to
• 17:23
  Speaker 4: be a consequence of that situation. It's like, because you know,
• 17:29
  Speaker 4: the men are gonna start winding about how we're giving
• 17:32
  Speaker 4: them a hard time. The first bad boy that women date,
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: you're gonna be You're gonna look at You're just you're going.
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: To fall apart. They're going to ruin your life.
• 17:43
  Speaker 4: And it's you know, it's just kind of necessary if
• 17:44
  Speaker 4: that's the path that's you're going to take.
• 17:46
  Speaker 1: You know what.
• 17:46
  Speaker 3: You know, what's interesting you just said women women don't
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: like guys who's pressed? Right, And all the time I
• 17:51
  Speaker 3: see guys always asking, well, what's the fine line between
• 17:54
  Speaker 3: being pressed and actually showing some interest and effort?
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: Right, figure it out?
• 17:59
  Speaker 3: That's a I wouldn't even just say figure it out.
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: It's kind of like, you know, you you know when
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: she's reciprocating.
• 18:06
  Speaker 2: Billions of men have done it since the beginning of time.
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know, it's like, you know, when you're
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: being you know when you're pressing a shack and you
• 18:14
  Speaker 3: know when you're actually like being intentional.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: I think those I think there is a fine line.
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: But I think you.
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: Called self respect. That's the fine line.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Absolutely.
• 18:23
  Speaker 4: If you feel like you are disrespecting yourself by the
• 18:26
  Speaker 4: way that you're behaving, then you have crossed the line.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I agree.
• 18:30
  Speaker 4: If you would be embarrassed that your best friends or
• 18:33
  Speaker 4: your brother or your son, yeah, or your father or
• 18:37
  Speaker 4: any man that you hold in high regard as behaving
• 18:39
  Speaker 4: this way, you have done too much.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: I agree. I think that also.
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: I think you know with that, I think guys, we'd
• 18:45
  Speaker 3: be trying to play dumb on the internet for clicks
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: and likes.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: You know what the fuck to do?
• 18:50
  Speaker 3: Bro, Like this is not rocket science, Like any girl
• 18:54
  Speaker 3: that I've ever dated. That if for me, I would
• 18:58
  Speaker 3: ask you out two times, right, first time, I'm like,
• 19:01
  Speaker 3: all right, you free this day? Boom boom boom boom,
• 19:04
  Speaker 3: you cancel? All right, I'll even try again. Second time, Hey,
• 19:08
  Speaker 3: you free this day? Boom boom boom boom. After that, hey,
• 19:11
  Speaker 3: man to me, you're not interested or you need to
• 19:14
  Speaker 3: make the next make the next date.
• 19:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's fair.
• 19:16
  Speaker 3: One or the other I'm just I'm like, but it
• 19:19
  Speaker 3: don't have to be she a bitch or she mean
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: or anything like that. You don't like honestly, again, you
• 19:24
  Speaker 3: talk about taking things personal. That's the one thing I
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: never took personal. Like if a woman told me no,
• 19:29
  Speaker 3: I always felt like.
• 19:30
  Speaker 2: That's because you're not a fucking lame.
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: I was like, I had.
• 19:39
  Speaker 4: I mean, it's true, you can't people take rejection yeah,
• 19:44
  Speaker 4: so seriously. And it's like, there's so many different forms
• 19:50
  Speaker 4: of rejection. We just we were talking about a professional rejection. Yeah, yes,
• 19:54
  Speaker 4: And that's something that a lot of us talk about,
• 19:56
  Speaker 4: particularly in this business, because you're gonna hear a lot
• 19:59
  Speaker 4: of notes and if you if you aren't prepared mentally, emotionally,
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: financially to get a lot of those, this really is
• 20:07
  Speaker 4: not the business for you, because it is going to
• 20:10
  Speaker 4: happen no matter what, especially if you're.
• 20:14
  Speaker 2: Not a white man. Aw Men, you talk about it,
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: you're going.
• 20:17
  Speaker 4: To deal with it for the rest of your career
• 20:19
  Speaker 4: because you're always gonna have to prove yourself. You're always
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: gonna have to keep leveling up. Yep, You're always gonna
• 20:24
  Speaker 4: have to watch your back. It's just like it's always always, always, always, always,
• 20:27
  Speaker 4: So you're gonna constantly hear those you're gonna audition for
• 20:30
  Speaker 4: things you're not gonna get, You're gonna be turned down
• 20:32
  Speaker 4: for jobs, you're gonna be let go.
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: Things are gonna get canceled.
• 20:35
  Speaker 4: It's the way it works so similarly in other areas
• 20:38
  Speaker 4: of life. If you cannot handle rejection, don't play the
• 20:41
  Speaker 4: fucking game.
• 20:42
  Speaker 1: There's that. I agree. I think that.
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think nobody owes you anything.
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: And I think this is where women and men really
• 20:49
  Speaker 3: be having a problem, right because men be like, well,
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: women take rejection just as hard as men. No, women
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: internalize rejection, rejection. Men want to beat you to fuck
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: up over rejection.
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not actually.
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: Right, you know what I'm saying.
• 21:01
  Speaker 3: Like, you know, I've seen plenty of times like a girl,
• 21:04
  Speaker 3: like especially growing up, a Philly girl, you know, walk
• 21:06
  Speaker 3: by your sup, she pay you no mind, blah blah
• 21:09
  Speaker 3: blah blah blah. Then it's fuck you bitch. You ain't
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: that cute anyway? Like we too, I mean at this
• 21:15
  Speaker 3: point to me, right, like I see why, Like I
• 21:18
  Speaker 3: don't want to say there's a gender war, but it's
• 21:20
  Speaker 3: like you you we we the in cells on the
• 21:24
  Speaker 3: Internet got way too popular.
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: That's what happened, you know, I do.
• 21:28
  Speaker 4: I wonder how you feel about this, because, like I
• 21:31
  Speaker 4: find myself, especially with all the like political stuff going
• 21:35
  Speaker 4: on and just the general way that people are behaving
• 21:40
  Speaker 4: that it's I'm wondering, like, is it just the Internet
• 21:44
  Speaker 4: that's making me feel this way? Because day to day,
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: you know, I don't really deal with a lot of
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: people talking shit. Nobody talks shit to me, Like to
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: be clear, nobody.
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: Does talk about it.
• 21:57
  Speaker 2: But you know, there's just like a general feeling of
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: this like gloom and doom.
• 22:04
  Speaker 4: And when it comes to the gender war stuff, I
• 22:08
  Speaker 4: wonder how much of it is actually true. Like I
• 22:10
  Speaker 4: tend to think that that part is more true than
• 22:13
  Speaker 4: how people are treating each other socially.
• 22:15
  Speaker 3: I will say this, I think the gender wars are
• 22:18
  Speaker 3: more dangerous than the race and all that other all
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: everything else is going on, because here's the thing, when
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: men and women are divided, Like that's a whole different conversation, right,
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: But now to your question is how much of it
• 22:31
  Speaker 3: is true? Here's what I realize. We don't like good news.
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: I love goodness, I do too, but good news doesn't
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: go viral. Yeah, good news does never ever goes.
• 22:43
  Speaker 4: Unless it's like look at this puppy falling with this
• 22:47
  Speaker 4: little piglet. It's got to be overtly cute.
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you know what I'm saying, Like like my
• 22:52
  Speaker 3: my daughter will go viral, right, because yeah, you see
• 22:55
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying, Like my kids go viral because it's
• 22:57
  Speaker 3: it's you know, shit.
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: My daughter, did I think had? I had a video
• 23:01
  Speaker 1: me and my best friend.
• 23:03
  Speaker 3: We were playing with her and we're playing wrestling moves
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: on her and stuff like that, and yeah, five million
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: views because it's wholesome, it's cute. But when it comes
• 23:11
  Speaker 3: to like actual beautiful dating stories, that doesn't. Nobody cares
• 23:17
  Speaker 3: about that. So that's why you see so much of
• 23:20
  Speaker 3: on the internet women and men sharing their horror dating stories.
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: And it's easy for that to go viral because we're
• 23:26
  Speaker 3: locked in. Think about the girl, what about the girl
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: that was on TikTok?
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 23:30
  Speaker 3: Uh yeah, yes, thirty part trapped in a closet series.
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: Like what a great song series.
• 23:38
  Speaker 4: I know.
• 23:39
  Speaker 3: Anyway, I know I'm missed, but that's what I'm saying.
• 23:44
  Speaker 3: That's what it was though, and we were locked up,
• 23:46
  Speaker 3: equal shit, we was locked at the trap to the closet,
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: you know, dude in the closet, I pulled out my Biretta.
• 23:51
  Speaker 1: Like you're like, oh shit, what happens.
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: On the next side, right, But like that because it's
• 23:55
  Speaker 3: so crazy. Right, So when you hear outland this shit,
• 23:58
  Speaker 3: you like, this can't be real. But you want to
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: be real now on now, on this front, right, think
• 24:03
  Speaker 3: about it like this. I met my wife. Me and
• 24:05
  Speaker 3: her been friends. We were in college back in twenty ten, right.
• 24:09
  Speaker 3: I've known her since probably like two thousand and eight, right,
• 24:12
  Speaker 3: And she came out here for dinner one night back
• 24:15
  Speaker 3: in twenty eighteen. We go out for dinner and we realize, damn, yo,
• 24:18
  Speaker 3: this is a date. And we have not stopped kicking
• 24:21
  Speaker 3: it since. That's a beautiful love story. We've been friends,
• 24:24
  Speaker 3: we have a good foundation. She also has a child.
• 24:26
  Speaker 3: I'm not one of them niggas like I can't do children.
• 24:29
  Speaker 3: I love her so much I'm willing to take on
• 24:30
  Speaker 3: her child and that child is my child.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: But does that go viral?
• 24:34
  Speaker 4: No.
• 24:35
  Speaker 3: But if I'm telling you having a conversation, we too personal,
• 24:38
  Speaker 3: and I'm talking about how my ex wife is this
• 24:40
  Speaker 3: and my ex wife is that? And fuck them kids.
• 24:42
  Speaker 3: That's going to go viral and that's a damn shame.
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, I mean if you say fuck them, because
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: it probably should go viral. But I do understand what
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: you're saying. Yeah, it's not we need like the extremes.
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: Yes we do, we need the extremes.
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: But I do think.
• 24:56
  Speaker 4: There is something to what you're saying about it being
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: more dangerous because there is some real there are some
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: real repercussions to these in cells and the political influence
• 25:07
  Speaker 4: that they're having on these young men. Because there was
• 25:10
  Speaker 4: a study recently and I'm going to chop and screw
• 25:13
  Speaker 4: it a little bit, but it was it was mostly
• 25:15
  Speaker 4: younger people like gen Z and I don't know if
• 25:18
  Speaker 4: you saw, but it was like what's important to gen
• 25:20
  Speaker 4: Z women and what's important to gen Z men, And
• 25:23
  Speaker 4: the number one thing for gen Z men was having kids.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: There was like twelve items that they ranked. The lowest
• 25:28
  Speaker 4: thing for gen Z women was having kids. So it
• 25:32
  Speaker 4: was like complete opposite, And there's a real there is
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: a real cultural shift that's having happening because my generation
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: of women is the first generation in the history.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Of this country that has full autonomy.
• 25:47
  Speaker 4: Yes, yes, I agree, with that and because of that generation,
• 25:51
  Speaker 4: right right, right, But but I'm a woman, Yeah, so no,
• 25:55
  Speaker 4: but that's that's what I'm saying, Like, we are living
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: the the you know, the struggles of the women in
• 26:02
  Speaker 4: the past has finally, for this short window, become realized.
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: And because of it, a lot of women aren't having children. Yes,
• 26:10
  Speaker 4: they are focusing on their careers first before they do
• 26:13
  Speaker 4: have children.
• 26:13
  Speaker 2: They're marrying later. They're being much more selective with men.
• 26:17
  Speaker 4: And in response to this, you have this gender war
• 26:21
  Speaker 4: essentially and this male loneliness epidemic because these fucking loser
• 26:25
  Speaker 4: lanes that were just getting women because women had no
• 26:29
  Speaker 4: choice if they wanted a roof over their head. Now
• 26:32
  Speaker 4: you actually have to have a personality and come with
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: some shit, and women are like, cool, I'd rather have
• 26:38
  Speaker 4: my fucking candles in my pillows and live by myself
• 26:40
  Speaker 4: than deal with your bullshit.
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: You know what, when you break it down, likes right,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: But it's.
• 26:46
  Speaker 4: Having a real And that's why they're rolling back abortion rights,
• 26:50
  Speaker 4: rolling back women's health, and rolling back women's rights because
• 26:53
  Speaker 4: they're like, we gave these bitches rights and they don't
• 26:55
  Speaker 4: pick us anymore because we weren't picking you in the first.
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: Lace definitely weren't.
• 27:00
  Speaker 3: But now let's let's let's go on the other side
• 27:03
  Speaker 3: of that, right, And what is the number one thing
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: most men have in common.
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: We like to feel needed, right Like? That is a
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: thing like men like I won't I'm not a man.
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: I won't speak to that.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: We like to feel needed.
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: Like it's and I don't mean it in a way
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: where it's like, oh, baby, like I can't live life
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: without you, but it's like that would help, no, But
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, even with me and my wife,
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: right like, I love the fact that like when I'm
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: not home, right, if I'm on the road doing gigs
• 27:35
  Speaker 3: or whatever, she's by herself, right, like I know for
• 27:38
  Speaker 3: in fact, and it's not even just like it could
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: be money or the kids or anything like that. It's
• 27:42
  Speaker 3: just the fact that I miss my person. So every
• 27:45
  Speaker 3: guy likes to feel needed. The problem is is that
• 27:48
  Speaker 3: now you know, our general or your generation of women
• 27:52
  Speaker 3: don't need you, right And I don't even.
• 27:54
  Speaker 4: Mean no, we don't need men for the the things
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: that men have in programmed that they have to provide.
• 28:02
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, but that's what I'm saying. But in any sense,
• 28:05
  Speaker 3: we just we we. So here's the thing. We internalize that, right.
• 28:10
  Speaker 3: So it's like you feel we feel like you don't
• 28:12
  Speaker 3: need us. So now it is fuck you, right, And
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: this is where guys are but hurt about it, right,
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: And my thing is is that the problem.
• 28:20
  Speaker 1: Here's the thing.
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: I want guys to understand that she still does need
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: you like my wife needs me.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: The thing is is that you don't hear women kind of.
• 28:31
  Speaker 3: Out really or open about it anymore, right, like even
• 28:34
  Speaker 3: in music, right, like women used to sing I need
• 28:37
  Speaker 3: you music, I need you baby, right, like.
• 28:40
  Speaker 4: Where the fucking and fucking fly on clouds talk about the.
• 28:50
  Speaker 1: Floud?
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: What are you talking about? I hear the moves. I
• 28:55
  Speaker 2: can't do that, mo.
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: No, but you're right, You're right, no doubt about it,
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: no doubt about it. I'm just saying now, like we
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: we feel like you don't need this.
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: Hey, all the time, this makes a less sense. You're
• 29:09
  Speaker 2: low key spinning.
• 29:09
  Speaker 4: I say all the time, I don't need a man
• 29:12
  Speaker 4: to do anything for me, but but love me.
• 29:17
  Speaker 2: And that's just too much to fucking ask.
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: It takes a minute. I agree.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: I'm talking so bare minimum.
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: I'm not saying like you need to to love vomby
• 29:29
  Speaker 4: in the first thirteen seconds that you mean me, although
• 29:32
  Speaker 4: I do enjoy that.
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: Do you really?
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 29:33
  Speaker 3: My love a love mom, so you love like like
• 29:37
  Speaker 3: like like after the first day.
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: And then.
• 29:42
  Speaker 2: Speaking, I'm telling you and I've talked about.
• 29:45
  Speaker 4: This many times and specifically in New York club bomb like,
• 29:47
  Speaker 4: I'm always on board for.
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: That because you're not. Oh man, you make me try
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: to go back to the streets.
• 29:53
  Speaker 4: Let me they're wonderful, but you know, in a more
• 29:57
  Speaker 4: healthy space. Yes, yes, I just think that if you
• 30:02
  Speaker 4: get that, people in general have to reprogram how they
• 30:06
  Speaker 4: look at dating. I agree because while there are still
• 30:09
  Speaker 4: plenty of traditional people who want traditional things.
• 30:14
  Speaker 2: That is that is not everyone, and.
• 30:18
  Speaker 4: That's why there's this like this like push for the
• 30:20
  Speaker 4: trad wife shit, which I think is great. My my
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: older sister was a traditional wife that in that sense,
• 30:27
  Speaker 4: and she's one of the most successful people that I
• 30:29
  Speaker 4: know to me because that's what she wanted to do.
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: And there's nothing wrong with day, right, it's.
• 30:33
  Speaker 2: Not even it's not there's nothing wrong with it.
• 30:35
  Speaker 4: It is absolutely what you should do if that's what
• 30:38
  Speaker 4: you want to do.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: We the problem is, too guys are not persecuting that's said.
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: It's such a heavy word.
• 30:44
  Speaker 3: But guys are really getting on women for now explaining
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: what they want, right.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: Like it never mattered what we wanted exactly right.
• 30:52
  Speaker 3: So like when a woman says I want a man
• 30:54
  Speaker 3: that's six foot, well all the five you ever noticed
• 30:56
  Speaker 3: the five to five guys be like, you block in
• 30:58
  Speaker 3: your blessing.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: No I'm not, I just like bro, But like, that's
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: what I'm saying, right, person.
• 31:11
  Speaker 2: Long your blessings is crazy.
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: But it's like, that's what it's all like, everybody is there.
• 31:16
  Speaker 4: Is something Okay, I think there's there's a there's a
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: fine line between preference and delusion, no.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: Doubt about that.
• 31:24
  Speaker 3: But but what I'm saying is people get mad at
• 31:26
  Speaker 3: people's preferences.
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: Now.
• 31:27
  Speaker 3: I also say this for the men, black guys especially
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: who say, yo, I don't date black women, you can
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: shut the fuck up, all right. And here's why I
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: say that, not just because it's black women. I don't
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: want to hear white like it don't matter, because here's
• 31:40
  Speaker 3: why we don't need you on the internet telling us
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: what you don't want. We don't care if you're telling
• 31:45
  Speaker 3: me that, hey, I prefer a woman who has no
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: kids okay, but that doesn't mean you shoo on women
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: with kids, you know what I'm saying.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like like, that's that's the thing.
• 31:54
  Speaker 4: Well, we can always find something to ship on someone
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: else for that, and I think that is what people
• 32:01
  Speaker 4: on the internet. Yes, do not take the time to
• 32:04
  Speaker 4: consider You and I are different because we are actually
• 32:07
  Speaker 4: putting our faces and voices to the space.
• 32:11
  Speaker 3: I'd be your comments be insane, insane, insane, and you
• 32:14
  Speaker 3: know it's funny real quick? Can I just say this
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: a lot, like I be agreeing with you a lot.
• 32:18
  Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. And the only reason why
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: I agree with you because you be right. Like if
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: I don't agree with you, I'm not gonna comment. I'm
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: gonna be honest with you, right like I'm gona love
• 32:25
  Speaker 3: you in public but in private, Like.
• 32:26
  Speaker 2: Look, can we just clipped that part he says, you
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: be right.
• 32:29
  Speaker 1: I'm just saying you be right. You know what I'm saying.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: But here's the day, Like, so gods will be the comments.
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: I'll agree.
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: Niggas be like no, she's not gonna fuck you, And
• 32:36
  Speaker 3: I'm like, bro, why does every why does why does
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: agree with women mean either you're pandering or you because
• 32:44
  Speaker 3: they don't get.
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: Pussy, so everything in their life revolves around doing that.
• 32:52
  Speaker 4: So if you so this is my thing, this is
• 32:55
  Speaker 4: when I beg of my male friends. Okay, because because
• 32:58
  Speaker 4: I don't have lames around me, I beg this of
• 33:01
  Speaker 4: you guys. Stop trying to understand these fucking idiot men.
• 33:05
  Speaker 4: Stop taking up for them. There are losers and they
• 33:07
  Speaker 4: will always be losers. And I don't feel bad about
• 33:09
  Speaker 4: calling them losers because they are fucking losers. And there
• 33:12
  Speaker 4: are women that are fucking losers too. They're at a
• 33:14
  Speaker 4: whole different category and we could give them their shit too.
• 33:16
  Speaker 4: But if every time a man says something positive about
• 33:19
  Speaker 4: a woman, the first thing you do is call him
• 33:21
  Speaker 4: a simp or say that he's trying to fuck you,
• 33:25
  Speaker 4: are a fucking lame. You get no pussy, you might
• 33:28
  Speaker 4: let us change your fucking handle to I get no
• 33:32
  Speaker 4: pussy seven four six, because you don't get any whatever
• 33:35
  Speaker 4: it is number combination is. But you might as well
• 33:39
  Speaker 4: just get a tattooed on your forehead because you won't
• 33:41
  Speaker 4: ever get any pussy, and you're announcing it to the world.
• 33:44
  Speaker 4: That is not a normal response, and it is not
• 33:47
  Speaker 4: a response again for men that close.
• 33:49
  Speaker 1: Yes, And that's the thing, right, would.
• 33:52
  Speaker 2: You ever write that under someone's comment.
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: That you you you just trying to fuck she's.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: Not gonna fuck you. You ever typed that those words?
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: No, I never talked in your There are guys who pander.
• 34:01
  Speaker 3: I'm not saying, no, I am well, I would love
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: to say.
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: As they should.
• 34:04
  Speaker 1: But there's guys who actually, you know. But on the other.
• 34:06
  Speaker 4: Hand, to me, the fuck why would they not be
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: doing I got a list of things that you know.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: It's better than you know, it's better than pandering. That's
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: a step up shrending in the right direction.
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: I can't Well, here's the thing. Here's why I don't
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: like panda.
• 34:28
  Speaker 2: I'm still not gonna fuck you, but someone might. Someone might.
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: Here's why I don't like panderin.
• 34:33
  Speaker 3: I don't like panderin in this sense because you're you're
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: you're not genuine about it, right, like I like, there's
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: guys who genuinely give women relationship advice and they truly
• 34:45
  Speaker 3: mean it from the bottom of their heart. Then there's
• 34:47
  Speaker 3: other guys right who say these things and are living
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: a total, complete different life and a cold I'm not again,
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: we're not saying no names, right, but let's just hypothetic.
• 35:00
  Speaker 1: Least say your last name rams with action, right, am I?
• 35:06
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: Or wrong?
• 35:06
  Speaker 4: Though? Right?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Like that's pandering, but your that is pandering? Okay, all right?
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: But other than agreeing with women is not pandering. Agreed
• 35:14
  Speaker 3: with women means they have a take. First of all,
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: you just you just respect them, Like what are we
• 35:18
  Speaker 3: talking about here? Like you act like a greend. Women
• 35:21
  Speaker 3: is like a grand with a child, right and green?
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: Well, they don't a lot of men just do not
• 35:25
  Speaker 4: think of women as human beings.
• 35:26
  Speaker 3: That's a fact they look at They look at women
• 35:28
  Speaker 3: as we're here to y'all, here to procreate.
• 35:32
  Speaker 4: Or practice pro created, and that's it. So they really
• 35:35
  Speaker 4: do default to that. But I think it has poured
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: over because I do get scolded about just like thinking
• 35:41
  Speaker 4: gloom and doom all the time. But I do think
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: that the gender war has poured over into like real
• 35:45
  Speaker 4: tangible life.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: I know you say that, but Joey, I'm gonna be honest.
• 35:48
  Speaker 3: I think you will love a girl.
• 35:50
  Speaker 2: I'm a huge lover.
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: You got to tell you, don't you don't like you.
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: I'm like Shrek, though, you gotta you gotta peel back
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: the onion layers.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay, like that.
• 36:02
  Speaker 3: Here's the thing, it's it's really not dis hard like
• 36:05
  Speaker 3: we make it hard. We do make it hard.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: It's not hard.
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: And the only reason why I say that is because
• 36:10
  Speaker 3: the things that my wife has been through with men, right,
• 36:14
  Speaker 3: and you know, she could easily have had a rough
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: exterior or whatever, right, But.
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: My thing was we it was easy because I.
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: Wanted to do it. And you can feel when a
• 36:27
  Speaker 3: man wants to do it, and then you can and
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: men you can feel when she wants you to do it.
• 36:32
  Speaker 4: But that's an energy thing and you have to be
• 36:34
  Speaker 4: in the right state of both of you have to
• 36:37
  Speaker 4: be in the right state of mind.
• 36:38
  Speaker 2: To receive that.
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: I agree with that.
• 36:40
  Speaker 4: So and that I think is the points and the
• 36:44
  Speaker 4: moments that you find your person is when you feel that.
• 36:47
  Speaker 3: And I feel like you're in that space now, like
• 36:49
  Speaker 3: you can receive that. Maybe maybe I'm just asking. I'm
• 36:52
  Speaker 3: not just saying, no, I'm not.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.
• 36:56
  Speaker 3: Maybe, but no, But here's the thing though, right, I.
• 36:58
  Speaker 2: Know what, I'm not ready to steve.
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: Eyelashes on the hip for.
• 37:04
  Speaker 4: No, I mean I could run that back.
• 37:12
  Speaker 2: No, you know, you know what I'm talking about.
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: First of all, telling somebody to run that's a compliment.
• 37:19
  Speaker 3: Next, ladies, next time a god gives you good penis,
• 37:21
  Speaker 3: just be like, yo, let's.
• 37:22
  Speaker 1: Run that back. Say that.
• 37:23
  Speaker 2: I like that. That's so hard to find.
• 37:26
  Speaker 1: Let's just say, yo, let's run that back.
• 37:27
  Speaker 4: Why it does get run back, It's very hard to find.
• 37:30
  Speaker 4: I can believe it really bad at that.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Really.
• 37:33
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry, y'all. I'm glad I'm out the Dayton streets.
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
• 37:37
  Speaker 3: And I like, there'd be days me and my wife
• 37:40
  Speaker 3: I'll be like, yo, like who did I marry? And
• 37:42
  Speaker 3: then there's other days I'm like, damn, baby, I wouldn't
• 37:45
  Speaker 3: want to be nowhere else.
• 37:46
  Speaker 4: No, you know, I think marriage is a really uh
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: it is one of the hardest things you will do. Yes,
• 37:53
  Speaker 4: it is, But it is also, simultaneously, when it works,
• 37:58
  Speaker 4: the most rewarding.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: Thing you can I can see that.
• 38:01
  Speaker 4: And I don't have children, and I don't I'm not
• 38:04
  Speaker 4: going to have children. But when I see a good parent,
• 38:09
  Speaker 4: I think that that's a great thing. But a long
• 38:14
  Speaker 4: term successful marriage to me is like one of the
• 38:17
  Speaker 4: most impressive things and not necessarily a part.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: I don't know fresh this is me. Let me get
• 38:23
  Speaker 1: back to stop.
• 38:25
  Speaker 2: You have lots of blessings. They were a long, happy
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: life together.
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: But you know, when I see those kind of relationships,
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: I respect it so much because I look at those
• 38:34
  Speaker 4: two people as people who are very wise.
• 38:40
  Speaker 2: And people who.
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: Absolutely know how to compromise, people who are very loyal
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: in a way that most of us would think is
• 38:49
  Speaker 4: probably unreasonable. And yeah, I mean it's it's because the
• 38:55
  Speaker 4: thing about marriage to me is that it's you're choosing
• 38:59
  Speaker 4: that person every day, every day, every day, no matter
• 39:02
  Speaker 4: what mood they are in or you are in, or
• 39:04
  Speaker 4: what's happening at home, or what's happening at work, or
• 39:06
  Speaker 4: what's happening in the world, or it's happening in your family,
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: what's happening in your neighborhood.
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: It just it doesn't matter.
• 39:11
  Speaker 4: You're choosing that person every single day, and you two
• 39:15
  Speaker 4: together are choosing what kind of day you're going to
• 39:17
  Speaker 4: have facts, and the more that you get to know
• 39:19
  Speaker 4: each other, it can become even more difficult to do
• 39:22
  Speaker 4: that because you can learn like you can almost predict
• 39:25
  Speaker 4: what that person is going to do, and then you
• 39:28
  Speaker 4: have to prepare yourself for what they're going to do
• 39:31
  Speaker 4: and to be able to set yourself aside. That way,
• 39:34
  Speaker 4: it's different than parenthood, yes, because while you will always
• 39:38
  Speaker 4: be a parent once you have a child, it is
• 39:40
  Speaker 4: not the same relationship as choosing someone every day exactly.
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: You don't.
• 39:44
  Speaker 3: I don't have a choice with my children. Yes, I
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: do have a choice with my wife. And I'm gonna
• 39:49
  Speaker 3: lie it is. It is challenging, right, And when I
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: say I mean challenging, I mean like these days you
• 39:56
  Speaker 3: just don't like each other.
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: That's just that's just the bottom line. The question is.
• 40:00
  Speaker 3: The thing is everything I don't like about her and
• 40:03
  Speaker 3: everything she don't like about me is not a deal breaker.
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: That's just the end of the day, right, Like that's
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: really how our relationship works. Like everything I don't like
• 40:11
  Speaker 3: about her and everything she don't like about me is
• 40:14
  Speaker 3: not a deal breaker, right, Like my wife, like, I
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: love you, babe, but she's messy, right, She's not dirty,
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: it's just she'll leave like her shoes.
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: And I'm like o CD.
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: Like I mean when I say OCD, I'm talking like
• 40:26
  Speaker 3: military like, like you know, but it's not a deal breaker. Right,
• 40:33
  Speaker 3: I'm a Gemini. It's not a deal breaker.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: I mean, like, God bless her, it's no.
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: I think I think that's that's important to establish that too.
• 40:44
  Speaker 4: But it's also like you're going to change, we are,
• 40:47
  Speaker 4: you're going to change, You're going to be different.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: People in ten years.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 40:52
  Speaker 4: And being understanding that and being willing to go on
• 40:57
  Speaker 4: that journey with someone, I just think it's a very
• 40:59
  Speaker 4: I think it's a very very impressive thing to selfless act.
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: It's a choice, and.
• 41:03
  Speaker 4: I think that's why a lot of relations, a lot
• 41:05
  Speaker 4: of marriages fail. Yeah, because it's not so much about
• 41:09
  Speaker 4: I think you think you should love someone, being track
• 41:11
  Speaker 4: of someone and all those things is important. But the
• 41:15
  Speaker 4: understanding of this, the self sacrifice that you are committing to,
• 41:19
  Speaker 4: is one of the most key points because you are
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: going to have to set aside your own desires a lot.
• 41:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, No, no, you do, right, Like I'm gonna be honest, right, you.
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: Know, we just had a kid, or we just had
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: a child back in November of twenty twenty four, and
• 41:36
  Speaker 3: I ain't been on the road for a year, right, Like,
• 41:39
  Speaker 3: I haven't done any like I mean, I've done a
• 41:42
  Speaker 3: show here there on the road, But I have not
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: spent a significant time on the road like I normally do,
• 41:48
  Speaker 3: and since September of last year because my wife said
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: she needed me.
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying.
• 41:54
  Speaker 3: And it's like she's like, CLI, I know you're gonna
• 41:56
  Speaker 3: be missing out on money, blah blah blah blah blah.
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but she's like, I need you here and nothing.
• 42:02
  Speaker 3: And those are moments and times that I'm never going
• 42:04
  Speaker 3: to get back. Why not be there? Right? And I
• 42:08
  Speaker 3: say that to say it's like I got to think
• 42:10
  Speaker 3: about outside of me every freaking day. I hate it.
• 42:14
  Speaker 3: That's why I missed the streets. And sometimes it's all
• 42:17
  Speaker 3: I had to do when I woke up in the
• 42:18
  Speaker 3: morning was what am I going to do next Tomorrow?
• 42:22
  Speaker 1: When I wake up, I'm thinking about what is my kids?
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: My wife? What you know.
• 42:26
  Speaker 3: I gotta take care to work, Gotta do it, her
• 42:27
  Speaker 3: to school, gotta do this, gotta do that.
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: Like then I get time to myself to work.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it was tough, Like it's hard giving up a
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: piece of yourself, Like not being on the road is
• 42:39
  Speaker 3: like that's kryptonite to a comedian, right, Like we live
• 42:43
  Speaker 3: and thrive and enjoy ourselves on the road like being home.
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: Oh God, have you felt rusty because of it? No?
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: Because I still get up around around the city.
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: Right, So, like I've been doing like even though I'm
• 42:59
  Speaker 3: home right, Like, I'm probably on stage maybe three four
• 43:02
  Speaker 3: times a week still because I leaned into my community
• 43:05
  Speaker 3: here asking I'm asking, hey, bro, you gotta show.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: Can I get on it?
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: Hey, bro, you gotta show?
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: Thanks to the invite, It's fine. We like comedy.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: No, No, it's not. They'll do that.
• 43:14
  Speaker 3: They'll do that. Don't do that, they'll do that. But no,
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is, yes, I still get up locally.
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: I'm at the laugh Factory. I've got to improv often,
• 43:21
  Speaker 3: and that that's keeping me employed or keeping me like, like,
• 43:26
  Speaker 3: I still got it?
• 43:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, do you do?
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: You find you're getting like different but you're getting different
• 43:31
  Speaker 4: material now that you're adapt.
• 43:33
  Speaker 1: This is the best stuff. I can honestly say this.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: This is like, you know, athlete enters his prime around
• 43:40
  Speaker 3: like thirty, right, and well between like twenty seven and thirty,
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: it's like his that's his years.
• 43:45
  Speaker 1: You know. I think the older comedian gets, the better
• 43:48
  Speaker 1: he gets.
• 43:49
  Speaker 3: Right, I think right now and in twenty twenty six seven,
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: I'll be doing comedy for ten years.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: Every twenty years.
• 43:56
  Speaker 3: I believe this is the sharpest I've ever been, But
• 43:59
  Speaker 3: not just because of the material that's coming with the kids, right,
• 44:04
  Speaker 3: It's like I'm able to observe what's going on and
• 44:07
  Speaker 3: not just make it jokes, but actually like tell the
• 44:10
  Speaker 3: story like you're there and invite you in so you
• 44:13
  Speaker 3: know who I am. Like that's a different level skill
• 44:16
  Speaker 3: of comedian, you know what I'm saying. Like the best
• 44:17
  Speaker 3: comedians honestly make you feel like you know them. Like
• 44:21
  Speaker 3: when you walk up on the street, I want you.
• 44:23
  Speaker 3: I don't want you to be like it's that Clint Coley.
• 44:25
  Speaker 3: I want you to walk up on the street and
• 44:26
  Speaker 3: be like, Yo, what up Clint, Like I want you
• 44:28
  Speaker 3: to feel like That's how I want my comedy. Like
• 44:31
  Speaker 3: that's where I think this material that I have right now, wife, kids, friends,
• 44:35
  Speaker 3: Like I'm talking about a lot of my male friendships
• 44:37
  Speaker 3: in this special right, Like all of these things like
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: being able to actually put pen to paper and make
• 44:43
  Speaker 3: it funny like that is that's yeah, that's.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, now it's good.
• 44:50
  Speaker 4: How do you how do you feel about comedians right now?
• 44:53
  Speaker 4: Because you know, I struggle with comedy.
• 45:01
  Speaker 2: I do.
• 45:01
  Speaker 4: I struggle with comedy, I struggle with art. I struggle
• 45:04
  Speaker 4: with music right now.
• 45:05
  Speaker 3: Okay, tell me why and then I'll explain how I
• 45:07
  Speaker 3: feel about commedies.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: I think that well. I think we're living through some
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: pretty awful.
• 45:12
  Speaker 1: Times, yes, no doubt about it.
• 45:13
  Speaker 4: And there are a few artists that are making real
• 45:21
  Speaker 4: headway Kendrick Lamar, clips Bad Bunny, Yes there are, you know,
• 45:30
  Speaker 4: and I'm obviously leaving out few.
• 45:33
  Speaker 2: Yea many other artists.
• 45:35
  Speaker 4: But I do think that there is a little space
• 45:39
  Speaker 4: of like the revolutionary artists that is kind of missing
• 45:44
  Speaker 4: in this time.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: It's full.
• 45:47
  Speaker 3: So you're saying we don't have like a generational talent
• 45:49
  Speaker 3: right now.
• 45:50
  Speaker 2: No, No, that's what I'm saying.
• 45:51
  Speaker 6: We have.
• 45:51
  Speaker 2: We have so many generational talents. I mean, like we have,
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: we have, we have so many generational talents.
• 45:57
  Speaker 4: What I'm saying is, who is there are a few
• 46:00
  Speaker 4: artists right now that are telling the story.
• 46:01
  Speaker 2: Of these times?
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's okay, Okay.
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: There are a few artists that are For as many
• 46:06
  Speaker 4: incredible artists as we have, I don't know how many
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: are telling the story of these times. And it's going
• 46:11
  Speaker 4: to cut through to other generations the way that Bob
• 46:14
  Speaker 4: Marley did, the way that the Beatles did, the way
• 46:17
  Speaker 4: that you know, Bob Dylan did, the way that Jimmy Hendrix, Okay,
• 46:22
  Speaker 4: and that way. I don't know how many artists and
• 46:26
  Speaker 4: how many visual artists are and when it comes to comedy,
• 46:31
  Speaker 4: I think there are a lot of comedians who are
• 46:33
  Speaker 4: telling who are telling the story.
• 46:34
  Speaker 2: Of this time they are.
• 46:36
  Speaker 4: But there is this space now because everyone does podcasts
• 46:42
  Speaker 4: where you can kind of cross over from being a
• 46:45
  Speaker 4: comedian to like a political commentator to this to that,
• 46:49
  Speaker 4: and I don't I don't think just just because you're
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: a comedian you have a free pass to say whatever
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: you want to know you know.
• 46:57
  Speaker 1: You do not. I totally agree with that.
• 46:59
  Speaker 3: No, you do not. You should be accountable for your words.
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: You should be held accountable for your actions. You don't
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: have to be you don't like. The problem is a
• 47:07
  Speaker 3: lot of comedians are trying to turn heel right, Like
• 47:09
  Speaker 3: they're like, you know, a wrestler, you know it's a
• 47:11
  Speaker 3: good guy. Now all of a sudden, you know he
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: wanted to competing. Now he's with the nWo, And you
• 47:15
  Speaker 3: know what, I'm saying it's like, you know, it's it's
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: that right, Like a lot of comedians are turning heel.
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: And the crazy part is they're selling out arenas, they're
• 47:24
  Speaker 3: selling out theaters, they're selling out you know, like comedy
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: clubs being that guy or that girl and.
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: That that's where they are. They're okay with that, right,
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: But you're said something interesting.
• 47:37
  Speaker 3: You just said that you don't know if there's any
• 47:39
  Speaker 3: comedians or you didn't you know, where's your artists that
• 47:42
  Speaker 3: are telling the story of these times? Comedians aren't doing
• 47:44
  Speaker 3: it well right now either. Like when I go back
• 47:47
  Speaker 3: and watch a Chris Rock special from ninety six, you know,
• 47:50
  Speaker 3: he's talking about the OJ trial, he's talking about, you know,
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: the bit between niggas versus black people. He's talking about
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: all of these things Bill Clinton like, and it's like
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: in ninety six, I was like nine, but like.
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: It was I remember.
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: And on top of that, it's like, okay, like that
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: is that like I can I can watch My daughter
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: can watch that in ten years and she'd be like, yo,
• 48:13
  Speaker 3: I get it.
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: It's funny.
• 48:16
  Speaker 3: We don't have that right now because we're afraid to
• 48:19
  Speaker 3: say it. We're afraid to talk about like if you're
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: not completely obtuse, right, like there's it's no, I don't
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: think there's not many comedians who found that fine line
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: of like teetering the left but not pissing the right off.
• 48:33
  Speaker 1: That's what has to happen. Yeah, Unfortunately, I think unfortunately.
• 48:37
  Speaker 4: I think there's Yeah, it feels like there's you're on
• 48:40
  Speaker 4: one side or.
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: The other, the one side of it, right on the other.
• 48:43
  Speaker 4: And and what I don't like is this idea though
• 48:47
  Speaker 4: that like you can't you can't make jokes anymore. It's
• 48:50
  Speaker 4: such a cop out to me, it is I bill
• 48:52
  Speaker 4: have been making. I mean, there's those stand ups like
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: there's there's they're so funny. Just be fucking funny.
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: That's joke.
• 49:10
  Speaker 4: Funny if you are a talented, clever, good writer.
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: But a lot of these guys are trying to be offensive.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: You know who I blame for that?
• 49:19
  Speaker 3: And I hate to say this, right, but Dave Chappelle
• 49:23
  Speaker 3: is the reason that a lot of these comedians are
• 49:27
  Speaker 3: doing what they think he's doing. Right, that's the thing, right,
• 49:30
  Speaker 3: Like Dave is ert that right? Right, Like, Okay, I'll
• 49:33
  Speaker 3: give you prime example. Years ago, Richard Pryor influenced the
• 49:36
  Speaker 3: whole generation of comedians and the only thing a lot
• 49:39
  Speaker 3: of those comedians took though was the cursing. They didn't
• 49:42
  Speaker 3: realize that Richard Pryor was cursing, but he had a.
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: Joke with it. Right, So you get an influx of
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: comedians who's just.
• 49:48
  Speaker 3: Like fuck blah blah blah blah blah, and now all
• 49:50
  Speaker 3: of a sudden, like they think that makes the joke,
• 49:53
  Speaker 3: when it's really the joke that makes the joke. Well,
• 49:56
  Speaker 3: Dave Chappelle, right, who put out I think within the
• 49:59
  Speaker 3: last was say, the last ten years after being gone
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: for a long time, he put out great specials to
• 50:05
  Speaker 3: where he's telling the truth in his in his jokes
• 50:08
  Speaker 3: and now. But other people feel like they can do that,
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: but they're not funny. They're trying to they're going for
• 50:14
  Speaker 3: the old shit statement, they're going for the oh, they're
• 50:18
  Speaker 3: not going for the laugh and then the oh, well.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: They also haven't put in the work in the space
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: to me.
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: Four years.
• 50:27
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's just also it's just not even the
• 50:30
  Speaker 4: ones that are really the ones that that annoy me
• 50:33
  Speaker 4: are the ones that are.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: Just like, you're saying the same white boy.
• 50:38
  Speaker 4: Shit that what about this, You're literally making jokes about
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: stereotypes and they're not even current, Like there are funny
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: ass current stereotypes. I agree that you could tell jokes about, yes,
• 50:54
  Speaker 4: that you don't know how to do because you're literally
• 50:57
  Speaker 4: not good at this, And I and they and they
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: surround themselves with a bunch of like chuckleheads.
• 51:01
  Speaker 1: Chuckleheads is fucking hilarious.
• 51:03
  Speaker 4: And it's like, it's so boring to me. I am
• 51:07
  Speaker 4: not an easily offended person. It actually takes quite a
• 51:10
  Speaker 4: bit for me to be.
• 51:11
  Speaker 1: Like, oh, I can't believe you said that, because I.
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: Say fucked up shit all the time. I don't say
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: it in front of a microphone, no, but everybody. But
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: I also don't feel like I have I have earned
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: the right to say some of the more fucked up
• 51:26
  Speaker 4: shit that I want to say that I want to say,
• 51:29
  Speaker 4: and I say a lot of shit.
• 51:30
  Speaker 3: But that takes that. But here's the thing that takes
• 51:32
  Speaker 3: skin in the game. The audience trusts Dave Chappelle, so
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: they know if he says something crazy, there's a joke
• 51:38
  Speaker 3: hopefully coming within the next two minutes of what he's
• 51:42
  Speaker 3: about to say. Again, a lot of comedians, you don't
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: have that audience yet, right, And here's the thing. Also,
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: don't be somebody or not. I'm not political on stage.
• 51:51
  Speaker 3: I may get away with here and there like a
• 51:53
  Speaker 3: you know, a joke, but for the most part, no,
• 51:55
  Speaker 3: like my my I talk about like me like I'm
• 51:58
  Speaker 3: usually the butt of the damn joke or or how
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: I'm feeling at the time. But like, like, I don't
• 52:05
  Speaker 3: dip into I don't dab into a space that I
• 52:07
  Speaker 3: know for a fact, Like that's not my strong point.
• 52:09
  Speaker 3: A lot of comedians don't even know what makes them funny.
• 52:12
  Speaker 3: That's why you see them searching and trying to be
• 52:14
  Speaker 3: this and trying to be that, trying to be this
• 52:16
  Speaker 3: instead of just being themselves. Like that's why I love
• 52:19
  Speaker 3: guys like like people you know talk shit about Kevin
• 52:21
  Speaker 3: on stage or they talked shit about Tony because they're
• 52:23
  Speaker 3: positive and these guys are but they know who they are.
• 52:27
  Speaker 2: Well, we love keV.
• 52:28
  Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I mean, Like, you know, I
• 52:30
  Speaker 3: saw you had jazz with on the podcast.
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: Again, she's a great Like, that's that.
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: Is of my life.
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: That's what And by the way, Tony definitely pushed back
• 52:38
  Speaker 4: tremendously on the fact that he was positive he does
• 52:40
  Speaker 4: not like to be called wholesome.
• 52:41
  Speaker 3: Well, I mean, he's a Tony. I was sorry, it's
• 52:45
  Speaker 3: not that you're that you're wholesome. But first of all,
• 52:48
  Speaker 3: I've never seen or Okay.
• 52:52
  Speaker 4: To be clear, I actually he fought back pretty well,
• 52:55
  Speaker 4: and I have seen one of his shows in person. Yeah,
• 52:57
  Speaker 4: I don't mean he talked about he didn't want to.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: Die on the soft I don't know how wholesome that is.
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: Okay. So here's the thing.
• 53:03
  Speaker 3: I'm talking like the Tony that we all know and love,
• 53:06
  Speaker 3: right Like in the comedy community.
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: I've never heard anybody say anything bad.
• 53:10
  Speaker 2: About No, But you don't have to be a bad person.
• 53:14
  Speaker 1: But that's why wholesome.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: That's that's why I call him. He is a legitimately
• 53:19
  Speaker 2: great person, That's what I mean.
• 53:21
  Speaker 4: But I don't think that you have to be a
• 53:23
  Speaker 4: dick to be a be a heel.
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: No, I agree.
• 53:28
  Speaker 4: Some of the best on stage heels are great kind people.
• 53:33
  Speaker 4: Some of the people that I've worked with in my
• 53:35
  Speaker 4: career that are that people despise don't are the most
• 53:39
  Speaker 4: soft spoken, non con conversational people on earth that I know.
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: I believe it's really.
• 53:46
  Speaker 4: About your It's really about your art, and I just think,
• 53:51
  Speaker 4: like the whole like, oh, we can't tell jokes anymore,
• 53:54
  Speaker 4: and everyone's so sensitive, like you're just not fucking funny.
• 53:58
  Speaker 2: You're just not funny, You're not clever. Can you don't
• 54:00
  Speaker 2: have you don't have the skills?
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: Can I tell the story the skills?
• 54:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah?
• 54:04
  Speaker 3: I fucked up last year. I never told this story
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: on camera either. All right, it's Detroit, Detroit, Michigan, July
• 54:14
  Speaker 3: thirty first or August first, twenty twenty four.
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: I remember this, like I do you remember the date?
• 54:19
  Speaker 3: Because this was one of the only times that I
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: got booed in my career and I actually deserved it, right,
• 54:26
  Speaker 3: I actually deserved it.
• 54:28
  Speaker 1: So I never told the story. PJ Morton can confirm this, right.
• 54:33
  Speaker 3: So we're on this is like so me and PJ
• 54:35
  Speaker 3: been cool for a minute and I'm like, yo, bro,
• 54:37
  Speaker 3: like you know, we see each other at the Father's
• 54:39
  Speaker 3: that he was doing a Father's Day event or whatever
• 54:41
  Speaker 3: for his album, and I pulled up. We was talking
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: and he was like, hey, man, let's go, you know.
• 54:44
  Speaker 3: I was like, yo, man, let me let me know
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: before you man. He was like, yeah, over, you know
• 54:48
  Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So hooked up with his with his manager,
• 54:52
  Speaker 3: we got the dates. I was damned on every date right.
• 54:55
  Speaker 3: The first date was was Detroit. So I'm backstage. You know,
• 54:59
  Speaker 3: I come in. I'm arrogant, right, I've been doing this
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: a long time, Like this crowd is nothing right.
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: So I go out there.
• 55:04
  Speaker 3: My job is to do five minutes up top, bring
• 55:07
  Speaker 3: on Kenyon Dixon, and then I had to follow Kenyon
• 55:11
  Speaker 3: Dixon and do a fifteen minutes afterwards. Now real quick,
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: Kenyon Dixon ain't no slouch like that dude can sing.
• 55:19
  Speaker 3: He was singing untitled D'Angelo. How does it feel women
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: in the amphitheater going crazy? Blah blah blah blah blah.
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: So now I get back on stage. I'm doing well
• 55:28
  Speaker 3: and then I'm dying up there because the band that
• 55:30
  Speaker 3: they're trying to set up right and it's hot, right,
• 55:33
  Speaker 3: So I'm like, all right, man. The crowd I can
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: tell they getting restless. They want to see PJ. So
• 55:38
  Speaker 3: I'm trying to I try some new jokes. And the
• 55:40
  Speaker 3: first new joke I said, well, yeah, y'all, I'm about
• 55:42
  Speaker 3: to have a baby in November. And I was like, yeah, man,
• 55:47
  Speaker 3: this bitch is already expensive when I tell you the
• 55:51
  Speaker 3: air and the Aretha Franklin Amphitheater, like when boom, I
• 55:58
  Speaker 3: can't believe you will talk about your thought like that,
• 56:00
  Speaker 3: blah blah blah.
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: I mean it made TikTok. I'm looking at it like,
• 56:06
  Speaker 1: I don't.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: I don't think that that's not bad.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: I mean, but you know, I guess p J. Board's
• 56:13
  Speaker 3: audience as well, right, Like we're talking to somebody who
• 56:16
  Speaker 3: you do have to you do have to know your
• 56:17
  Speaker 3: audience went from being you know, he's a gospel dude
• 56:19
  Speaker 3: outside of being an R and B D, but he's
• 56:21
  Speaker 3: rooted in gospel. His dad is Paul Morton Senior. Right, yeah,
• 56:25
  Speaker 3: So but I don't know, man, I thought I could.
• 56:28
  Speaker 3: I thought they understood. They didn't understand that night and
• 56:31
  Speaker 3: I got I mean, I've never been booed off stage
• 56:35
  Speaker 3: like somebody.
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: Came and got me.
• 56:40
  Speaker 3: Oh no, but Detroit, real quick, that is on the
• 56:43
  Speaker 3: next tour that I'm doing.
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: We gotta I gotta get my lick back. I can't.
• 56:47
  Speaker 1: I can't let that be my legacy in Detroit.
• 56:50
  Speaker 3: Like I had some great I had some great shows
• 56:52
  Speaker 3: in Detroit, but that was the last.
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: The last one.
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't.
• 56:56
  Speaker 3: Yeah, PJ, and I know this is the first show
• 56:58
  Speaker 3: with PJ.
• 56:59
  Speaker 1: I know this, motherfucker.
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well, would you would you for that joke?
• 57:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: Did you do it again?
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: No? No, would you do would you?
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: Would you tweak it?
• 57:11
  Speaker 3: Yes? Like the it was the bitch, Yeah, it was
• 57:14
  Speaker 3: the bitch.
• 57:15
  Speaker 4: The bitch was you didn't have to call your unborn daughter.
• 57:18
  Speaker 4: But I mean, the the premise of it is true,
• 57:21
  Speaker 4: kids are expensive.
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah that was.
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: And I could have just said that, like she's already expensive.
• 57:25
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 57:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, but I thought, but here's the thing, right, coming
• 57:29
  Speaker 3: up at a time where you thought the cusp work
• 57:31
  Speaker 3: could make it funny.
• 57:34
  Speaker 1: No, they let me.
• 57:35
  Speaker 4: That's good though, I think I think accountability is really
• 57:38
  Speaker 4: I was like, it was wrong, it's in.
• 57:40
  Speaker 2: Well maybe you were Maybe you were wrong.
• 57:42
  Speaker 4: Maybe I needed some more massaging. Maybe it wasn't the
• 57:44
  Speaker 4: right time to try a new joke.
• 57:45
  Speaker 3: It was that part. And then also again right like
• 57:48
  Speaker 3: I had to. I had to remember this, and this
• 57:49
  Speaker 3: helped me throughout the rest of the tour. Right, like
• 57:51
  Speaker 3: I'm used to Clint Coley and everybody else, this time
• 57:55
  Speaker 3: I'm otis right.
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: They come to see me, They came to see PJ Morton.
• 57:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, this PJ Morton show, right, Like I had to
• 58:02
  Speaker 3: do the same thing when I used to open for
• 58:03
  Speaker 3: DL Hewley, right, like Clint, you're they didn't come to
• 58:06
  Speaker 3: see you.
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: They came to see DL. Same thing. They didn't come
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: to see me. Yeah, they came to see PJ.
• 58:12
  Speaker 4: No. I mean that's important though there's there's different times
• 58:14
  Speaker 4: in your career where you you aren't it's not necessarily
• 58:18
  Speaker 4: about you, and that actually is a really good opportunity
• 58:21
  Speaker 4: to win over new fans, to establish yourself in spaces
• 58:26
  Speaker 4: that you know you you haven't been in before. And
• 58:31
  Speaker 4: it's it's good, Like it's a good lesson.
• 58:33
  Speaker 3: I want to give PJ his flowers for that for
• 58:35
  Speaker 3: a second, man like because he said he had never
• 58:37
  Speaker 3: had a comedian open form before. And you know we're
• 58:41
  Speaker 3: just like we just we just cool, right, like we're
• 58:44
  Speaker 3: just friends, right, And he looked out for me in
• 58:46
  Speaker 3: a time where I really needed it too, write like
• 58:49
  Speaker 3: I was, you know, I didn't have no other gigs
• 58:51
  Speaker 3: and going on the road and traveling with him like
• 58:53
  Speaker 3: in a band, like I felt like and I felt
• 58:55
  Speaker 3: like one of the one of the like guys of
• 58:57
  Speaker 3: girls on the tour right, you know what I'm saying.
• 58:59
  Speaker 3: And after the Detroit show, I got right in Philadelphia
• 59:03
  Speaker 3: the next like two days later.
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: Damn.
• 59:05
  Speaker 3: It also helped me throughout the toy to realize, Okay,
• 59:08
  Speaker 3: I'm supporting him.
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: My job is to make his show better.
• 59:11
  Speaker 3: And if people feel like his show is better because
• 59:13
  Speaker 3: I helped, then yes, that does help me with new
• 59:16
  Speaker 3: fans people.
• 59:18
  Speaker 4: I'm thinking of a story now of a comedian that
• 59:22
  Speaker 4: bombs bomb can off stage.
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: I'll tell you it is. I'll tell you it is.
• 59:27
  Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say it is, but he bombs because
• 59:31
  Speaker 4: he did the same set from one setting to the
• 59:36
  Speaker 4: next setting, and one was an appropriate setting, and it
• 59:39
  Speaker 4: was it was like edgy, but it was funny. And
• 59:44
  Speaker 4: and I don't really like when I go to a
• 59:45
  Speaker 4: comedy show. If I don't think something's funny, I just
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: don't laught.
• 59:49
  Speaker 3: But like I'm first of all, can I just say,
• 59:51
  Speaker 3: that's worse to be getting booed. I want to just
• 59:53
  Speaker 3: let y'all know, no, like Detroit boo with me, let
• 59:55
  Speaker 3: me know that they like me. And then it was
• 59:57
  Speaker 3: like we don't fuck with you no more, but not
• 59:58
  Speaker 3: laughing as we don't fuck with you at all.
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but this is sometimes it's not funny, it's not
• 1:00:04
  Speaker 4: I'm not like I'm not going to that setting and
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 4: being like like I like, they'd have to just be
• 1:00:10
  Speaker 4: completely unhare going to last well for me to like
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 4: get offended, like the people who go to comedy shows
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: and then get offended at comedy shows, I'm like, there's
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 4: other ship you could do with your.
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 2: Time, So why would you?
• 1:00:23
  Speaker 4: And if you're not going to research any of the
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 4: comedians beforehand, it's really your fault, Like this.
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 2: Is a this is a free space.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 3: Yo. I had to show an Ogden utah at this
• 1:00:33
  Speaker 3: comedy club club called Wise Guys. On the website it
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 3: said I'm rated R. They had it for nobody else.
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 3: That was the first time. Like if you going to
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 3: see Clint Coley rated R like I was, I was
• 1:00:44
  Speaker 3: low kids. Utah, Yeah I was offended. Yeah, utah, got
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 3: a lot going on right now.
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 2: Well yeah, so that's kind of the that's kind of
• 1:00:52
  Speaker 2: the thing with that. So I kind of lost my chin.
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 4: Thought, Oh so he did the he did an edgy
• 1:00:59
  Speaker 4: set and then and he did another set the exact
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 4: same set at a charity.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 2: Event and I'm I'm I went to both of them.
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: So I remember he's starting to tell the joke, and
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: I remember the joke from the night before, and I'm like,
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 4: what not here, no joke, that's not the joke to
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: stay here?
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 2: And he said it and it was and it was
• 1:01:23
  Speaker 2: crypt quiet, and I was like, why the fuck would
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: you say that? It's an insane thing to say. It
• 1:01:29
  Speaker 2: was like a dead soldier joke children, Like I was.
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 1: Like, what dead soldier joke is crazy?
• 1:01:36
  Speaker 4: Crazy?
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 2: A dead soldier joke.
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 4: Is crazy in itself, but like in the comedy club,
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 4: like okay, you can kind of, I guess, get away
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 4: with that, but like what it was crazy. Someone had
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 4: to go on stage and get him. And then afterwards
• 1:01:50
  Speaker 4: he talked to me and he was like, how do
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 4: you think I did? And I was like, have you
• 1:01:57
  Speaker 4: talked to anyone yet? Like am I the first person?
• 1:02:00
  Speaker 2: And you're asking? He's like, oh, well, I don't know.
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 2: I was like, maybe she's just ask somebody else. I
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 2: don't know.
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 4: I'm not I don't want to be the person to
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 4: have this conversation with you, but like the setting, and
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 4: I bring that up off piggybacking off of your story
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 4: because I think a lot of times. Also when it
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 4: comes to comedy, when it comes to art, when it
• 1:02:16
  Speaker 4: comes to music, when it comes to.
• 1:02:19
  Speaker 2: Expression, there's like this thing where you always.
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 1: Got to keep it real.
• 1:02:26
  Speaker 2: You who does that?
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 3: It's you're selling.
• 1:02:30
  Speaker 2: Out, Like suck my dick. I'm selling out. First of all.
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 3: First of all, can I just say I love I
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 3: told you, I told you I love, curse and joy.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 3: Suck my dick, yo, like, suck my dick.
• 1:02:40
  Speaker 4: But please do do it right, okay, because what are
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 4: you talking about? Like it's like they're doing this, this
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 4: whole thing with bad money because I'm performing at the
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 4: at the super Bowl, Like, oh, like you didn't want
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 4: to do it any shows here? Now the NFL comes
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 4: like he does yes, yes, yes, dummies, of course he
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 4: does the super Bowl. Of course he does the super Bowl.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 3: Absolutely.
• 1:03:03
  Speaker 2: Why would he not do the super Bowl?
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 3: What?
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what reason would you have for him to not
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: do the super Bowl?
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: Where's the conic It is.
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 2: So much more of a statement.
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 4: It is so much more of a smack in the
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: face to to to everything that's happening to the Latino
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 4: community that he is doing the super Bowl than if
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 4: he was to not do Oh he's not I'm not
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: going to do the super Bowl, right, So there's like
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 4: this this, this, this preciousness about it as well. And
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 4: you have to know the setting, like you understanding that
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 4: that joke may work in like LA because it is
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 4: so expensive, but it's not working on a gospel tour
• 1:03:41
  Speaker 4: in Detroit.
• 1:03:43
  Speaker 3: Well that and I also think, so what I started
• 1:03:45
  Speaker 3: doing adjusted, right, So that's another thing. So after the
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 3: after that show, right, So at the beginning, when I
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 3: would come out there, I would always say, all right,
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 3: or to scale of one to ten, how saved are week?
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 3: Like that that automatically, so because what I would do
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 3: is I would sod it. I needed to know because
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 3: like going up, going up, I have to do that
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 3: in LA. I didn't do the LA show with him.
• 1:04:15
  Speaker 3: I did, like I did, Oh you know, okay, so
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 3: you did that on that tour. Yes, yeah, So I
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 3: started PG so like, all right, let me give you
• 1:04:22
  Speaker 3: a run of the show real quick. I'd start off
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 3: five minutes just basically asking like who's in here?
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: Makes some noise hack shit?
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 3: But then right exactly so then I'm like, okay, I
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 3: would I would say, hey, I'm about to bring on
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 3: your opening act.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 1: But in between the opening act and PJ.
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 3: Morton, there's gonna be like a fifteen minute window where
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 3: they're gonna be setting up the stage, so the Bag
• 1:04:46
  Speaker 3: and coome on during that time. No, this is going
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 3: to turn into a comedy show. So I'm letting you
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 3: know that right now. So once I open them, you know,
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 3: once I bring them on, just know when you see
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 3: me again, it's joke time. And then when I came
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 3: out on stage second time, reintroduce myself because it's hacked,
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 3: but it gets the crowd going. And then I would say,
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 3: on a scale of one to ten, how saved are we?
• 1:05:08
  Speaker 3: So now if I say some bullshit, right, I know
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 3: where they at. You know what I'm saying. Like I
• 1:05:12
  Speaker 3: had some audience was cursing right like Houston was like
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 3: nah fuck that, go ahead, tell you jokes. Then I
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 3: had audience like Memphis where it's like nah, no, no,
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 3: we're at ten.
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 3: Or I like and when I go into my set,
• 1:05:28
  Speaker 3: right like, the first thing I say is is this
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 3: a safe space? People yell yes, some people say no,
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 3: But again I prep you for what's getting ready to come.
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's because you're a professional.
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that, but you know, I respect it though, because
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 4: there are there are some people that just try to square.
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 2: Peg ground hole A yeah, yeah, all the time, and
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 2: and I just I don't.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 4: Respect that because then they get mad at the audience
• 1:05:50
  Speaker 4: or everybody's sensitive, and it's like, no, everybody doesn't have
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 4: to think. I think it's perfectly fine to be a
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 4: clean comedian. I think it's perfectly fine to be a
• 1:05:59
  Speaker 4: dirty comedian. I think anything in between. And likewise, if
• 1:06:05
  Speaker 4: somebody doesn't like that comedy or doesn't like those kind
• 1:06:08
  Speaker 4: of jokes or that type of stuff makes them uncomfortable,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 4: but there don't go.
• 1:06:12
  Speaker 2: But it also they're entitled to that. Like everyone doesn't
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 2: think everything is funny.
• 1:06:15
  Speaker 4: Some people are more sensitive than other people, and that's
• 1:06:18
  Speaker 4: okay for them to be conservative people.
• 1:06:21
  Speaker 2: I don't think it's right for them to force everyone
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: to be concerned.
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: Problem.
• 1:06:25
  Speaker 3: That's the problem. That's the problem with with even the
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 3: right and the left. Right, like the right is forcing
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 3: us to think the way that they think. Right, So
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 3: you're thinking about that, like think, you know, we just
• 1:06:34
  Speaker 3: talked about bad Bunny, right, Like, well, you know, you
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 3: don't like if you're just watching the Super Bowl for
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 3: the Super Bowl, right, turn off the super Bowl halftime.
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 3: If that's how you feel, you don't, we don't need
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 3: to fucking know, right, you don't need like I don't
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 3: like every super Bowl act.
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 1: I didn't.
• 1:06:50
  Speaker 3: I wasn't like in love with like every super Bowl
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 3: act was not like, oh yeah, I can't wait to
• 1:06:55
  Speaker 3: see this person, to see that person. It's okay, right,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 3: But just why you got to be saying ignorant sh
• 1:07:01
  Speaker 3: it is what bothers me?
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I mean, of course that bothers me too,
• 1:07:04
  Speaker 2: But I mean those people can read.
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 3: You know what I realized I said this to somebody earlier.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 3: The reason why we be arguing with in cells because
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 3: back in the day, the people who were in the
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 3: other part of the school, they were in the other
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 3: part of the school, right, they didn't interact with No.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: No, I mean this is this is this is everybody
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: like everybody.
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: We used to we used to be segregated for for
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 4: various reasons, intentional, purposeful reasons, and now we're all in the.
• 1:07:34
  Speaker 1: Same instagram for them, like their needs they.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 2: Tried, what was that? What's the thing?
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 3: What is it?
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: Like true social or something? But like stay over there?
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: Why why you gotta come over.
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 1: This is for you.
• 1:07:49
  Speaker 4: No, well, we'll wrap it up on this that when
• 1:07:52
  Speaker 4: I was in high school, I was in a P
• 1:07:55
  Speaker 4: English excuse me, and you're right. The first day of
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 4: class senior year, there was a person and this person
• 1:08:09
  Speaker 4: was being very disruptive in class and he was like
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 4: or she was making fun of the teacher and like constant,
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 4: like just cracking jokes at everything, not funny, like we're
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 4: and eventually it's just like everyone was just annoyed, and
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 4: I was like, hey, why are you doing this, Like
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 4: why are you making some much noise? Like stop with
• 1:08:33
  Speaker 4: the noise. And he's like, oh, nerd, Like what are
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 4: you trying to study? I was like, yeah, this is
• 1:08:38
  Speaker 4: this is AP English. You signed up for the wrong class.
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 4: Regular English is in another room. We are trying to
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 4: get good placement at college and learn at a higher
• 1:08:50
  Speaker 4: be able to read and write at a higher level
• 1:08:52
  Speaker 4: than you. So you're in the wrong class. We're in
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 4: the right class. And by the way, you're the nerd
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 4: like we are cool for trying to be smarter. You
• 1:09:02
  Speaker 4: are disrupting and taking up time, So stop making noise,
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 4: shut the fuck up, let the teacher teach, and go
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 4: tell your guidance counselor to put you in the other
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 4: class that part.
• 1:09:11
  Speaker 1: Now, let me ask you this, is it disruptive if
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 1: you're funny?
• 1:09:15
  Speaker 2: Not in a p English?
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 4: No?
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: No, English ain't shit funny.
• 1:09:19
  Speaker 2: Nothing's funny. Everyone was just staring up them, like why,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 2: what is wrong? How did he get in here?
• 1:09:28
  Speaker 5: I wasn't in a p English? We we did what
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 5: BeO wolf? And BeO wolf is funny. But I'm bragging
• 1:09:35
  Speaker 5: about my my English. Obviously, I'm an excellent writer and speaker,
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 5: So that's what I'm saying.
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 2: But I science math. I was in the other.
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: Classes for that other classes.
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we had no no, I was, I was.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 3: I was.
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 2: I was making sure people weren't getting bullied.
• 1:09:50
  Speaker 3: You know, you sound like you can fight, yo. I
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 3: mean I've never I've never seen said hands are you okay?
• 1:10:00
  Speaker 3: All right, I'm sorry. That's my bad.
• 1:10:02
  Speaker 2: You know where I went to college.
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, my bad, my bad. You're right, Okay.
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 2: I'm trying not to fight.
• 1:10:08
  Speaker 1: People that can fight don't want to fight.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 2: I don't want to fight because I don't want to
• 1:10:12
  Speaker 2: go to jail.
• 1:10:13
  Speaker 1: Oh well again, people that like like I don't, I
• 1:10:16
  Speaker 1: don't when I.
• 1:10:17
  Speaker 4: Fight I'm not trying to fight to like prove it.
• 1:10:20
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to murder. I want you to be when
• 1:10:23
  Speaker 4: this is over, one of us is no longer alive.
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 4: I'm trying to underlive you. Which is why, which is
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 4: why I don't fight. Because prison seems awful.
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 1: Prison. My dad worked at a prison for thirty years.
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: My dad worked at a prison too.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 3: My dad worked there, he worked there, he works on
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 3: death row. My dad didn't work on death row. But
• 1:10:42
  Speaker 3: my dad was a counselor at s c I Greaterford.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 3: And that's so bad. That Greater for not even around?
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 1: No more?
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: Does that not exist? Shoot movies and that bitch and
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 2: they have to tear it down.
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 1: The Greater for It no longer is actually Wallow actually
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 1: used to was that Greater It that? But not? My
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: dad wasn't his counselor. He don't the show.
• 1:11:03
  Speaker 3: Yeah, But what's funny is is that, like my dad's
• 1:11:07
  Speaker 3: whole life was like, yo, I'm trying to keep you
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 3: out of jail. But he would tell me random stories
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 3: about jail, like this one time you tell it now,
• 1:11:14
  Speaker 3: mind you. My dad graduated college in seventy six. That
• 1:11:17
  Speaker 3: was his first job out of costle. He was working
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 3: at a prison seventies, eighties, nineties. He's seen everything, he tells.
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 3: I'm like sixteen at the time. He tells me this
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 3: story about this guy on Valentine's Day, Apparently he bought
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 3: his cell made a pair of panties and told him like, yo, man,
• 1:11:34
  Speaker 3: you need to put these on, and probably like later
• 1:11:38
  Speaker 3: on that evening, the guy stabbed me with a pair
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 3: of scissors and killed him.
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 2: And my thing is a penny giver or receiver.
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 3: The panny receiver had him stabbed him stab the giver.
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 3: My thing is, it's like, damn, I don't ever want
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 3: to be in a situation in life where I'm roommates
• 1:11:55
  Speaker 3: with a guy who's buying me underwear, like to me
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 3: like that, let me know, I don't need to be
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 3: nowhere near prison.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 2: Have you ever been inside of a prison?
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 4: Yes?
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: My mom had me do Scared Straight. Y'all remember Scared Straight.
• 1:12:10
  Speaker 2: You didn't do the actual show.
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 1: I didn't do the show. No like I did Scare Straight.
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 1: That's not on TV. That's worse.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 3: I used to love that, yo, No like I did
• 1:12:20
  Speaker 3: Scared Straight. Not no cameras, none of that. Now they
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 3: wouldn't beat me up and nothing like that. But Mom,
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 3: she follows me. She can confirm this story put me
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 3: in in scared straight. I never forget nigga.
• 1:12:34
  Speaker 1: Dude showed me his penis. I swear to god showed hold.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 3: I was about fourteen because I just got I just
• 1:12:42
  Speaker 3: got kicked out of school.
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 4: Okay, so she made a good decision that it wasn't random.
• 1:12:47
  Speaker 4: I deserve to be to see, like, not to see
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 4: a penis, but I deserve. I mean, you're gonna see
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 4: a lot of penis right like. It's I mean, that's
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 4: that's part of being Yeah, I mean it. If you've
• 1:12:58
  Speaker 4: never been inside of a jail, it's like the walls
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: are alive, Like there's so much negative energy.
• 1:13:07
  Speaker 2: Inside of a jail or prison.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 4: It's like, I don't it's I really commend people that
• 1:13:15
  Speaker 4: are able to do a big keep their minds together
• 1:13:18
  Speaker 4: because it's it's really an awful place and I don't
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 4: want to go there.
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 1: No, I don't blame you.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 2: I don't.
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 4: I like my life. And yeah, although I will try
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 4: to kill you, so just don't push me. Not a killer,
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 4: but don't push me. Thank you so much for coming
• 1:13:38
  Speaker 4: down and doing the show. I encourage you to go
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 4: on more shows.
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yo, can I shoot my shot?
• 1:13:43
  Speaker 4: Like?
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 3: Yo, man, if you you need me on your if
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 3: you want me on your podcast, man, I'm you know,
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 3: ask joy, I'm great in my great greatat Okay, don't
• 1:13:51
  Speaker 3: you know because it was because you know, like I
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 3: do podcasts too, you know, how to interview is like
• 1:13:54
  Speaker 3: it was ass like this was a this is a
• 1:13:56
  Speaker 3: bad I'm not dropping no clips from.
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: This episode, like no getting a lot of clips from
• 1:14:00
  Speaker 2: this episode.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: So I'm saying, like I will say that I regularly
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 1: want you.
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 2: To cut the part where I say that I want
• 1:14:05
  Speaker 2: to everyone to sack my deck.
• 1:14:06
  Speaker 1: Oh you want you want to cut that? No?
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 2: No, no, like I want to post that right now.
• 1:14:10
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no we're not.
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 3: Yo, I'm not gonna lie.
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 2: Huh.
• 1:14:15
  Speaker 3: Yeah. My dick is top five most disrespectful things you
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 3: can say to somebody.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 2: Oh for sure.
• 1:14:21
  Speaker 3: If we're on a like on the football field or
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 3: some shit and you say, suck my dick, like give
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 3: me the fifteen yard penalty.
• 1:14:26
  Speaker 2: Just by let's just do okay, let's just do a
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: quick ranking.
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 4: I think the number one most insulting thing, and I
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 4: don't I'm so specific, I don't even know if I've
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 4: used it yet.
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 2: But like, calling someone a coward is such a thick
• 1:14:46
  Speaker 2: Like is that a you thing?
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  Speaker 3: Or is it just?
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  Speaker 4: No? No?
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  Speaker 2: No, Like I if I call someone a coward.
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  Speaker 1: You mean that like from the bottom of it, Like
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  Speaker 1: you ain't ship.
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  Speaker 2: You don't. I don't even need to curse, Like you
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  Speaker 2: don't stand for nothing.
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  Speaker 4: If you're a weak ass bitch in your bones like
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  Speaker 4: in your your ancestors were soft.
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  Speaker 2: If you're a coward, we don't use that word enough.
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  Speaker 2: We don't use that.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, maybe I just it don't it don't
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  Speaker 3: hold no like for me, right, I'm not saying but
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  Speaker 3: like that's your thing if you if you call no
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  Speaker 3: one's ever called me a coward.
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  Speaker 4: But but if I'm going to call someone a coward,
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 4: like you're never coming back from this. You don't have
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  Speaker 4: you don't have nothing about you that's worthy. Like if
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 4: you think coward, coward for sure is like a top
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: tier insult. Don't it's not used enough? You need to
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  Speaker 4: run that back.
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: Yes, that's that's to me.
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  Speaker 3: It's like if you're telling me to suck your dick,
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  Speaker 3: you're calling me you're indirectly calling me a bitch.
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're telling me like I because everyone.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: Knows I have a big dick, So there there's gonna
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 2: be a lot of work for you. And I I.
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 4: Mean it.
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  Speaker 6: I mean that no, but that is though, like I
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 6: I also saying, like don't don't if you say that.
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  Speaker 6: But it's like you gotta get on your knees. It's
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 6: like it's meant to be disrespectful.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 3: Yea, my dick calling me a bitch period, right, like
• 1:16:11
  Speaker 3: calling me a bitch like I remember my last fight
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 3: was in college.
• 1:16:14
  Speaker 1: He said, matter of fact, I was sticking up for
• 1:16:16
  Speaker 1: a chick that he was about to hit. He said, you're.
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 3: Getting in the middle of this, you a bitch, and
• 1:16:21
  Speaker 3: immediately like you know, and I immediately immediately.
• 1:16:26
  Speaker 1: It wasn't even like you.
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: There's also there's two other words you could put after that.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 1: Not only comes from like so if a guy calls.
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: Me any time I hear that and like those three
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: words together, I'm like.
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  Speaker 3: No, if a guy says you about if a god
• 1:16:47
  Speaker 3: calls me that, I'm not that bad. But if a
• 1:16:49
  Speaker 3: woman calls me a bit because man call you that,
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 3: I won't let him call me that.
• 1:16:54
  Speaker 1: It just hits harder. From a woman because you like
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: her and she really don't.
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  Speaker 2: Respect like a guy. If a woman says that to
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 2: a man, it's a rap.
• 1:17:01
  Speaker 3: Yeah that's what I'm saying. Like I've been called that
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 3: and she still has spoken to me this day. Yeah,
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 3: well that was a bit chazz, nigga, I was being
• 1:17:09
  Speaker 3: a bit.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's up there for sure.
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  Speaker 4: One day I'm going to I don't even know if
• 1:17:17
  Speaker 4: I want to say it, because it's it might take
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 4: a little bit of the venom out of.
• 1:17:20
  Speaker 1: It say it.
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 2: But saying someone pisses on their balls.
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 3: Is like, this is is the littlest dick you have.
• 1:17:30
  Speaker 3: You can't have a smaller dick than peeing on your balls.
• 1:17:33
  Speaker 3: You literally have to hold your balls back so you
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 3: can at least pee on your hand, like and then
• 1:17:41
  Speaker 3: at that point, what's worse, Peter, you gotta sit down to.
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: Pee, bro, You have to.
• 1:17:45
  Speaker 4: You have to. You have to.
• 1:17:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna use that, Okay, I'm gonna use it.
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 1: It's in my but see you know, and then gout.
• 1:17:53
  Speaker 1: I don't know, you got a little Yeah, yeah, that's.
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 2: Because you got a little dick. Is It's not effective?
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 1: It's really not. It's not because thing.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 2: I fucked though, right, especially if especially if he hit like.
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 4: Especially, it's not it's not like you dealt with this
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 4: like you saw it and just continues moving forward with
• 1:18:13
  Speaker 4: the plan.
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 2: So it just doesn't. It doesn't hit the same. It
• 1:18:17
  Speaker 2: does not hit the same.
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 1: Joey, why don't we hang out more?
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 4: Yo?
• 1:18:20
  Speaker 3: You are fucking hilarious. Yo, Yo, No, no, my next fight.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 3: I'm calling you coming over. I'm inviting fight parties. Like
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 3: we had fight parties.
• 1:18:29
  Speaker 2: I was like to fight. I'm calling to fight.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 3: We just went over.
• 1:18:31
  Speaker 2: I don't want to get a jail. Did you watch
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 2: Did you watch Canella Crawford?
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 1: Absolutely I did. It was a great fight, so incredible.
• 1:18:38
  Speaker 3: That made first of all, growing up, I was like,
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 3: I was a fight party guy like me and my
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 3: family we did.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 2: That's what parties are fun.
• 1:18:45
  Speaker 3: It's the best because no matter who, like, everybody's not
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 3: going for the same person.
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 4: But fight parties had a different feel when you had
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 4: when you all had to put in on the pay
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 4: per view.
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 3: That's what I'm talking about right Like now, we had
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 3: the chip growing up, but that's neither here nor there.
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: But we had the chip like we was. We was fortunate, but.
• 1:19:04
  Speaker 3: All I'm saying no, no. But fight parties was like
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 3: because it was here's the thing. Fight parties were special
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 3: because it brought everybody together. Yeah, Like it's not like
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 3: a random Eagles game, right, it's a it's a fight.
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 3: Like fights don't happen every day, good fights, right, like
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 3: you we may get one good fight a year these days,
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 3: maybe like we're about to get Tyson versus fucking who
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 3: is he fighting again?
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: Floyd Mayweather? Are you kidding me? That's what this is.
• 1:19:34
  Speaker 3: I'm not having a fight party for that. I would Yeah,
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 3: that's not like Canoel Crawford. Those are two serious.
• 1:19:41
  Speaker 2: It was a brilliant fight.
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: It's a great fight, and and and it was like
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 1: it could go either way because we both we like
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: both boxers.
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's like if it really goes, if it
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 4: goes all the way. Yeah, Yeah, it was entertaining. Yes, well,
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  Speaker 4: thanks so much for coming down.
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: You have cl on the show.
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 4: Follow him on Instagram at Clint Coley. His new Many
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 4: tour special is coming in the spring yes called Rents Do.
• 1:20:04
  Speaker 4: He performs all around Los Angeles as well, and his
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 4: debut comedy special My Edible Kicked In is streaming on
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 4: peacock right now, yes, awesome, Well thanks for coming now,
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 4: thank you having all.
• 1:20:16
  Speaker 2: Right, Thanks so much to Clint for stopping by.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 4: Make sure you check out his new special Rents Do
• 1:20:22
  Speaker 4: that'll be out in the spring. Follow him on social
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 4: media as well. Samy gets another two personal. This week's
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 4: question is do you think men are scared to show emotions? Now?
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 2: In general?
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 4: I don't speak on men's business because I don't really
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 4: like when men were.
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 2: Speaking on women's business.
• 1:20:39
  Speaker 4: So I will say, from my experience, Okay, this is
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 4: not everyone everywhere, This is not all men, This is
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 4: not all women's experience with men. I think that it
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 4: depends on the maturity level of the man.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 2: However, I also think as a society.
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  Speaker 4: We have overall done a very bad job of allowing
• 1:21:01
  Speaker 4: men to be emotional.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 2: We often shame men when they cry.
• 1:21:04
  Speaker 4: We always do it with little boys, you know, telling
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 4: little boys not to cry. We don't encourage them to
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 4: explore the range of their emotions.
• 1:21:11
  Speaker 2: We don't talk with them.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 4: When they're angry about what it is that's making them angry.
• 1:21:15
  Speaker 4: I think that the just the numbers in reflecting of
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 4: mental health and violence would speak to that. We don't
• 1:21:25
  Speaker 4: allow men to experience their emotions and the fullness and
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 4: health that they need to So I don't know that
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 4: it's men are scared to share their emotions. Insomuch is
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 4: that we as a society do not allow men the
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 4: space to explore their emotions the way that we.
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: Allow women to explore their emotions.
• 1:21:44
  Speaker 4: It's okay for a little girl to cry, It's not
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 4: okay for a little boy to cry. It's okay for
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 4: a woman to say that she's feeling sad. A man
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: can't say that, or he's being soft, or if he'll
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 4: bring it up around a bunch of other men, they'll
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: tease him, or if you say in front of a woman,
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 4: she'll tease you. That's not an encouraging space to explore emotions.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 4: So we all often just label men as cold or
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 4: angry when they really don't have the space or place
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 4: to express their emotions without being accused of not being
• 1:22:14
  Speaker 4: a man. So I think that is a real problem.
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 4: I think that is what creates and breeds young men
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 4: who do not know where or how to express their
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 4: emotions in a healthy way.
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 2: I think it leads to a lot of violence.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 4: I think it leads to a lot of mental health
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 4: issues and overall in society. I think it reflects how
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 4: we deal with families, how we deal with dating, how
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 4: we deal with our careers. Because men and women are
• 1:22:36
  Speaker 4: just growing up on different planets. We are allowed to
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 4: express our emotions, we are allowed to be free in
• 1:22:42
  Speaker 4: that way, and we don't give men the same space.
• 1:22:44
  Speaker 4: So I'm not defending men. I'm not defending them. I'm
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 4: just saying there could be a better way for us
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 4: to approach it. So I don't think that men are
• 1:22:52
  Speaker 4: scared to show their emotions. I think that we have
• 1:22:54
  Speaker 4: created an environment that doesn't allow for a safe space
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 4: for them to be emotional.
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  Speaker 2: So that is my that is my experience. I'm not
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 2: speaking on men's business. That's just what I think A
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 2: great question.
• 1:23:08
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• 1:23:09
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• 1:23:14
  Speaker 4: joining us, and we'll catch you next week.