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Surviving the Chaos with Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko · The Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcast

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  Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I almost Famous podcast
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  Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio.
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  Speaker 2: We're here with the almost famous podcast. We have Don
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  Speaker 2: and Charity here. I will be honest and I'm not
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  Speaker 2: blowing smoke. You two are people I just really admire
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  Speaker 2: and have really thought, like you know, I was just
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  Speaker 2: telling Charity, I think my my money was on you
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  Speaker 2: to make it and not in this weird bachelor. It's
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  Speaker 2: just like, it's cool when people actually meet each other
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  Speaker 2: and find love and it's something to celebrate because if not,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know why we do this.
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  Speaker 3: You know, I don't know who you do this show.
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  Speaker 2: We were talking a little bit earlier about wedding plans.
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  Speaker 2: Obviously that's a common question probably for you two. I
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  Speaker 2: was hearing about the Nigerian wedding sounds absolutely amazing. But
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  Speaker 2: I was also looking at a photo shoot the two
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  Speaker 2: of you just recently did with I think it was
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  Speaker 2: called Mudalicha. Is that right that I get the name right, Mundaluchi,
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  Speaker 2: And I want to start with you dotten on that.
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  Speaker 2: You guys, this is such a cool shoot. It really is,
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  Speaker 2: and we were kind of talking about it as you
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  Speaker 2: walked up a little bit ago. But I want to
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  Speaker 2: hear from you why you guys decided to do this
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  Speaker 2: shoot and looking at these pictures now, like what does
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  Speaker 2: this represent to you?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean the shoot fell into our labs. I
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  Speaker 4: feel like you've probably like explained that.
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  Speaker 5: A little bit.
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  Speaker 3: How we kind of like.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, okay, okay, awesome. Yeah, So I'll start at the
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  Speaker 4: beginning kind of. They emailed us shortly after our Afar
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  Speaker 4: episode and like, let's do it. And then the funny,
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  Speaker 4: you know, whole caveat is like we weren't sure because
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  Speaker 4: we were so new and everything at the time, they
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  Speaker 4: weren't sure if it was real, so we kind of
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  Speaker 4: thought it was a scam, so we kind of left
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  Speaker 4: it ignored, and then eventually, like after like coming back up,
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  Speaker 4: we were like, oh, it's actually a real magazine. And
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  Speaker 4: then we reached our back out to them. They had
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  Speaker 4: reached out to a couple more times to like, hey,
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  Speaker 4: let's do this thing, and then luckily we did some
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  Speaker 4: more research for like, oh no, it's a real thing.
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  Speaker 4: We reached back out to them, and then they just
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  Speaker 4: put together this amazing team for this shoot and like
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  Speaker 4: such a short amount of time and it obviously like
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  Speaker 4: the big thing is it helped celebrate like my heritage,
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  Speaker 4: which was showing a little bit on the episodes, and
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  Speaker 4: you know, I think that's something it's nice to do
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  Speaker 4: something that's tied into that, you know, and adds a
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  Speaker 4: bit of purpose to it. And so that was just
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  Speaker 4: really cool to like be able to have some traditional
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  Speaker 4: and it just came out amazing. The team was unreal
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  Speaker 4: like so talented and from the people that did our
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  Speaker 4: you know, dress up wardrobe, it was just from start
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  Speaker 4: to finish videography, So just such an amazing experience and
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  Speaker 4: just super grateful that that, you know, is an opportunity
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  Speaker 4: we get to have because it's like who are we too?
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  Speaker 4: But like just feeling like really happy that we're you know,
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  Speaker 4: chosen for that, and like everybody is just so happy
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  Speaker 4: with the products.
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  Speaker 2: Where do those photo Where would those photos live now?
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  Speaker 2: At least within your lives?
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  Speaker 6: Well, I hope to get a few of them printed.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, they have like online, yeah copy and then
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  Speaker 4: they'll have I think so like pre orders now for
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  Speaker 4: like real copies and then obviously we'll probably have both.
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  Speaker 6: And yeah, the prints aren't going anywhere.
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  Speaker 7: I was like, I was telling him, it's gonna be
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  Speaker 7: hard to talk because I was like everyone basically felt
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  Speaker 7: that photo shoot was us he loping, and so they're like,
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  Speaker 7: oh my god, the wedding photos. But I'm like, no,
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  Speaker 7: our wedding photos have to be just as good, if.
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  Speaker 4: Not that, And the thing that was put together in
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  Speaker 4: like what three weeks a month, you know, like all
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  Speaker 4: getting all that together. So again, that's like a lot
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  Speaker 4: of testaments to that team they were able to do that.
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  Speaker 4: But that was like like that could have been like
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  Speaker 4: a wedding shoot and still been really cool.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: So yeah, like again, could have never guessed.
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  Speaker 4: That that's something that I would be involved in personally, right,
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  Speaker 4: I mean, it's.
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  Speaker 3: Wild what happens post show.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's not like you know, I think people
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  Speaker 2: expect that, like there's this flood rush of opportunities and
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  Speaker 2: things and that happens at some level. Yeah, but it
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  Speaker 2: really didn't happened to me, I guess. And there are
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  Speaker 2: some things that really stand out to me. Because what
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  Speaker 2: stood out to me was people actually cared a little bit,
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  Speaker 2: Like they weren't just doing it to like you know,
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  Speaker 2: they saw as an opportunity for to make money. It
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  Speaker 2: was like, no, they cared enough to like take some
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  Speaker 2: time to make this special for me too. Those are
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  Speaker 2: the moments that stand out to me. Now, don we
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  Speaker 2: just talked with Charity about like kind of life since show,
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  Speaker 2: and she you know, doted on you and talked about
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  Speaker 2: how great you know you are. And I don't think
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  Speaker 2: that's any question for anybody. I don't think anybody was
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  Speaker 2: doubting it. I want to ask you kind of the
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  Speaker 2: same question though, when it comes to like the last
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  Speaker 2: you know, year of life, what are some things that
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  Speaker 2: have stood out to you as like pivotal moments obviously
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  Speaker 2: building up to where you're at today, which Charity would
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  Speaker 2: describe as a really like great place as a couple.
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  Speaker 2: So what like what moments have stood out to you
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  Speaker 2: that have separated themselves from this craziness and this chaos
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  Speaker 2: that is the Bachelor.
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  Speaker 4: I mean to start, I would say, like dance some
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  Speaker 4: of the stars, right, if you want to go post Bachelor,
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  Speaker 4: it's still in that world.
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  Speaker 3: But even for you that stood out like even that.
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  Speaker 4: That yeah, that period, that time period, for sure, it
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  Speaker 4: was really the first test us living together before we
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  Speaker 4: even like wanted to live together essentially, you know, because
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  Speaker 4: we're like we can do it soon New Year, when
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  Speaker 4: leases up, but then there was this period that she
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  Speaker 4: was going to be there, and it's like, you know,
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  Speaker 4: felt kind of right to try to do that period
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  Speaker 4: together because I'm sure anybody would want somebody special with them.
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  Speaker 5: During that time.
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  Speaker 3: And I want to pause.
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  Speaker 2: Youve though, how like, I'm sure it is a weird experience.
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  Speaker 2: I never got to do it. Like what was that
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  Speaker 2: like for you as like a spouse or a partner,
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  Speaker 2: I guess, and a spouse that'd probably be like maybe
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  Speaker 2: two steps ahead like a partner, Like what was how
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  Speaker 2: did you view that?
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  Speaker 3: Like what did life look like?
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  Speaker 5: Like?
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  Speaker 2: Would she just come home exhausted and you're just like
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  Speaker 2: there to like try to like calm the storm, or
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  Speaker 2: were you just like trying.
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  Speaker 3: To be there?
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  Speaker 4: Like what what did that look like exactly that I
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  Speaker 4: guess Just yeah, at the end of the day, like
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  Speaker 4: I especially as the season went on, it gets more
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  Speaker 4: grueling and it gets tougher, and you know, she she
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  Speaker 4: had a unique experience in some ways, and so.
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  Speaker 5: That just kind of added to it.
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  Speaker 4: But it's always, yeah, just really just trying to make
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  Speaker 4: sure that you know somebody's there and there was no pressure,
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  Speaker 4: you know that saying there was no pressure no, like
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  Speaker 4: here's what needs to have her done.
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  Speaker 5: There's time.
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  Speaker 4: We're just kind of knew that there's just gonna be
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  Speaker 4: a weird period. We talked about it beforehand and we're like,
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  Speaker 4: we don't know what's going to come from this, but
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  Speaker 4: like obviously it does. Just be relaxed about everything and
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  Speaker 4: just go through this, make it through. And so luckily
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  Speaker 4: with that mindset going into it, I think we were
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  Speaker 4: able to kind of yeah, just like actually grow during
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  Speaker 4: that period. And so like to go back to question,
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  Speaker 4: like that's that's kind of how and why that period
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  Speaker 4: was like pretty pit of it. It was like, I mean,
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  Speaker 4: living together, that's a huge step. Like I don't know
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  Speaker 4: how often that happens and now quickly, but certainly that
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  Speaker 4: so that was a good one that we can do
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  Speaker 4: these things. And you know, people talk about I guess
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  Speaker 4: like they say that that's a really difficult thing to do,
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  Speaker 4: like don't do it, but to do it and then
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  Speaker 4: be okay, it's like okay, like you know, don't put
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  Speaker 4: limits on what you can like you know, be able
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  Speaker 4: to accomplish when you really like you know, try to
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  Speaker 4: put yourself in a good position. Yeah, and that's what
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  Speaker 4: she was able to do with me.
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  Speaker 2: So what a good statement, Like that's like a good quote,
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  Speaker 2: like don't put limits do that?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: So yeah, it's like this is how things were supposed
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  Speaker 4: to be. And it's like no, noah, it's like we
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  Speaker 4: say this, but I don't know why people don't. We
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  Speaker 4: don't believe it like we say it, you know. But
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  Speaker 4: like anyways, it's been unique and to see it in
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  Speaker 4: this realm and how it's kind of showing its head
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  Speaker 4: like in this world too, in the same way that
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  Speaker 4: it does everyday life.
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  Speaker 2: So so that Dance with the Stars obviously a big,
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  Speaker 2: you know, pivotal moment.
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  Speaker 3: What else is stood out to you through like last year,
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  Speaker 3: I say.
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  Speaker 7: Like moving in to get like actually moving in because
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  Speaker 7: I mean it's like it was crazy because we had
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  Speaker 7: a like kind of back to back experiences of like
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  Speaker 7: two big moves like Dancing with the Stars.
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  Speaker 6: Yeah, we moved, but it was just like okay, like
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  Speaker 6: for we knew it was like a brief time to yeah.
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  Speaker 7: I was like yeah, yeah, yeah, to make our lives
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  Speaker 7: easier and you be able to be out there to
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  Speaker 7: support me. But like actually truly like moving to New
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  Speaker 7: York and getting settled with that and like him going like, well.
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  Speaker 6: Not going back to work.
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  Speaker 7: You're always working, but you know, it's just like that
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  Speaker 7: was like for me a lot. And I obviously was
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  Speaker 7: a small town girl prior to living in LA so
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  Speaker 7: like moving to a big city like New York City,
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  Speaker 7: I was like in for a shock, and so there's
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  Speaker 7: a little bit of like an adjustment period for me
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  Speaker 7: on top of like still recovering kind of from everything
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  Speaker 7: from the shows.
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  Speaker 5: Back to back shows.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely, Yeah, your New York naturally is the next
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  Speaker 4: like milestone.
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  Speaker 5: And so it's been interesting how these.
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  Speaker 4: Like not even I wouldn't say it not hurdles, but
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  Speaker 4: these events have happened at these like like really like
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  Speaker 4: feels like consistent timeline in the past year that we
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  Speaker 4: feel like we've kind of like you know, been able
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  Speaker 4: to kind of learn a lot from about each other
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  Speaker 4: and continue to like apply the things that we do
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  Speaker 4: no and you know, therapy, which is we did it
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  Speaker 4: preemptively before, you know, like when there were no issues,
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  Speaker 4: right and not even a matter of if there's issues,
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  Speaker 4: it's just getting in there and talking things out and
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  Speaker 4: having that space. And so that's been super helpful to
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  Speaker 4: like have had that too. And so Yeah, we're like
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  Speaker 4: in a really good place, like she says, in terms
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  Speaker 4: of like I don't know, just feeling very lucky that
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  Speaker 4: there's so much that can go south, you know, and
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  Speaker 4: like to be here, still still in love and like
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  Speaker 4: happy is just feels like a big achievement.
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  Speaker 5: I'm sure for both of us.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to skip over the therapy part because,
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  Speaker 2: like my wife and I have always done couple's therapy
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  Speaker 2: way before there were issues mostly because of our church,
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  Speaker 2: and some of the mentors within our church kind of
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  Speaker 2: had like guided us on, like hey, you know this
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  Speaker 2: is this is what we did, and so we just said, well,
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  Speaker 2: I trust you will do it. But it's been incredible
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  Speaker 2: for us, you know. It's like, uh, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: it keeps us one step ahead of where we could become. Really,
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  Speaker 2: but for you two, why did you decide to do
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  Speaker 2: Like where did that come from? Because you say it
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  Speaker 2: and I I hear it, and I want to make
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  Speaker 2: it something that people are like, no, we should just
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  Speaker 2: do it. It's like it's a great access point, it's
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  Speaker 2: a great place to check in. It's just a good
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  Speaker 2: place to have a third party to cure you out
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  Speaker 2: when I'm feeling crazier. When she's feeling crazier, I'm feeling
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  Speaker 2: like she's crazy. Yeah, but why did you guys decide
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  Speaker 2: to do that?
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  Speaker 6: Yeah? I think like for the both of us.
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  Speaker 7: Obviously, like he works in like functional health, and then
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  Speaker 7: obviously before the show, I was doing therapy myself. So
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  Speaker 7: I think us just kind of both hunt having that
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  Speaker 7: mindset of like we're going to be proactive, take care
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  Speaker 7: of things and be like, you know, do things ahead
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  Speaker 7: of time. But also I think I remember asking if
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  Speaker 7: not on this show, probably like right after we got engaged,
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  Speaker 7: Like I asked him like I'm just a believer in therapy,
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  Speaker 7: like I'm in its, like I was in it myself.
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  Speaker 7: So I remember asking him, I'm like, have you ever
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  Speaker 7: done therapy? Like are you open to it? Because I
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  Speaker 7: understand like a lot of people haven't. And it's also
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  Speaker 7: like that conversation. Yeah, it's like a conversation that you
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  Speaker 7: know sometimes people are like opposed to having or it's
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  Speaker 7: just like a very like you know, you're kind of
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  Speaker 7: walking on ex SHOs to kind of feel how people
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  Speaker 7: are about it. But he like opened up a lot
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  Speaker 7: about just like his past and you know, how he
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  Speaker 7: felt about therapy. And so I was like, I absolutely
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  Speaker 7: like want to like also encourage that we like do
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  Speaker 7: this together too, Like I think it'll be really helpful
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  Speaker 7: for our relationship. And so obviously, luckily and thankfully the
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  Speaker 7: show provided it for us. So we took advantage of
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  Speaker 7: it because why not, Like, if it's offered to us,
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  Speaker 7: why are we not doing it type of thing? Like
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  Speaker 7: I don't feel like I'm greater than anything that's going
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  Speaker 7: to happen in life, and I feel like we both
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  Speaker 7: have that like perspective on it. So yeah, I mean
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  Speaker 7: we just took advantage of it, and luckily we got we
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  Speaker 7: had to shop around a little bit for a good therapist,
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  Speaker 7: but luckily we mastered with a really good one and
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  Speaker 7: we've been with him since and it's truly been phenomen No.
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  Speaker 7: I think it's helped about things that we didn't even
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  Speaker 7: think was a thing or like a problem, and we've
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  Speaker 7: just learned to navigated that. We've used a lot of
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  Speaker 7: the stuff that we've learned to tackle certain things. So yeah,
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  Speaker 7: it's just it's a win for anyone and everyone.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, this show did that, was that one of the
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  Speaker 2: things you were pushing.
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  Speaker 7: For, Like I didn't have to push for that, but
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  Speaker 7: I did push for it to be like, you know,
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  Speaker 7: can we more like why are we like stopping it
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  Speaker 7: off at like four months?
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  Speaker 6: Like we should be.
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  Speaker 7: Like, let's get help couples get to a certain point.
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  Speaker 7: If not, try to like you know, extend it as
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  Speaker 7: much as possible. And so yeah, I definitely advocated for
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  Speaker 7: as much therapy as possible for for us.
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  Speaker 2: Now the two of you obviously are sitting in a
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  Speaker 2: place where are you a year.
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  Speaker 6: Fully a year removed a year and some months.
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  Speaker 2: From like the actual final like before the filming ended,
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  Speaker 2: but like actual final.
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  Speaker 5: Yes, it's a huge deal.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't want to like just say that and
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  Speaker 3: like flash over.
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  Speaker 2: It's it's just exciting to see, you know, the two
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  Speaker 2: of you sitting here a year or later from your
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  Speaker 2: AFR announcement, knowing the year that you guys have spent together.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm sure if you like went down and wrote
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  Speaker 2: down all the stuff that's like happened in the last year,
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  Speaker 2: it would feel.
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  Speaker 3: Longer than yeah in a lot of ways.
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  Speaker 2: But it's incredible to see the two of you sitting
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  Speaker 2: here like you are today, knowing that you've gone through
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  Speaker 2: some like tough moments, maybe not just as a couple,
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  Speaker 2: but just in general life. And you've made it through.
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  Speaker 2: So obviously we talked about the wedding stuff. We don't
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  Speaker 2: have to dive into that much more. But as you
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  Speaker 2: guys look at the future, what kind of things are
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  Speaker 2: you excited about? What things are keeping you guys fired up?
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  Speaker 4: I mean, one thing is like, obviously it's like marriage
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  Speaker 4: will come and then kids.
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  Speaker 5: I guess it's like, you know, in somewhat of that order,
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  Speaker 5: but we both.
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  Speaker 4: Always feel like being a parent or something that we
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  Speaker 4: want to do, and so that's certainly something that we
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  Speaker 4: look forward to, right Like to have a partner that
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  Speaker 4: you feel comfortable with, that you know, even even before
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  Speaker 4: like you are married, is nice, you know, and that's
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  Speaker 4: a really cool bonus. And so I think that's definitely
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  Speaker 4: one of the things that that sticks out.
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  Speaker 5: Not that we're looking for that writing like.
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  Speaker 4: Wild to make that clear, but like, you know, it's
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  Speaker 4: cool to like at least feel very comfortable then when
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  Speaker 4: the time comes, it'll be good.
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  Speaker 5: And so I know that's one of the more serious things.
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  Speaker 7: Yeah, but it's something like just like experience, like I
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  Speaker 7: think just experiencing life. We've also like, yes, things like
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  Speaker 7: post show, but like just also like finding things that
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  Speaker 7: we both like that's not related to this show and
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  Speaker 7: like diving into that, like traveling a lot more, experiencing
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  Speaker 7: all these things together and like for me, like that's
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  Speaker 7: just something again like you said, it's exciting when it's
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  Speaker 7: just like Okay, I don't mind, or like I want
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  Speaker 7: to do these Like I love doing this with this
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  Speaker 7: person and it makes it just so much more fun.
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  Speaker 7: So obviously like we can talk about work and like
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  Speaker 7: creer things, but like that's just a given, I think almost,
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  Speaker 7: But when you look at our relationship together and what
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  Speaker 7: we want from each other, just like I said, just
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  Speaker 7: experiencing life and being happy and being in a good
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  Speaker 7: place to where we know like no matter what, like
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  Speaker 7: whatever's done our way or just like if we decided
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  Speaker 7: to do this, we're going to have a blast doing
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  Speaker 7: it and being content.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah done.
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  Speaker 2: Charity had a moment that reminded me of my wife earlier.
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  Speaker 2: They're sneaky, They're sneaky, and I want to tell you
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  Speaker 2: what I saw you before he came. Blake had showed
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  Speaker 2: up with his baby and I was holding Heath. It
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  Speaker 2: was a great moment and Charity I could hear Charity
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  Speaker 2: say I would love to hold a baby, and I
• 15:36
  Speaker 2: was like, I get the hint, you can hold this baby.
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  Speaker 3: So I walked heath over to Charity. So Charity gets it.
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  Speaker 2: By the time I walked, I handed the baby off
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  Speaker 2: and I walked back to my seat.
• 15:45
  Speaker 3: I heard Charity say, where's dot At. I need to
• 15:47
  Speaker 3: see this. I needed to see this.
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  Speaker 6: I was like, I also want to see you.
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  Speaker 8: It's crazy, that's insane to be careful, that's not very vocal.
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  Speaker 6: I don't have it. I do have It.
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  Speaker 2: Reminded me of my wife because I've had those moments
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  Speaker 2: where I walk in the room and all of a
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  Speaker 2: sudden there's this really cute baby in her lap and she's,
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: you know, like it smiling at me, and I'm like,
• 16:25
  Speaker 2: I get what you're trying to do here.
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  Speaker 5: The pupils dilate.
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  Speaker 2: I got to get out of here fast. I know
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: exactly what I'm about to do. Well, hey, I'm just
• 16:40
  Speaker 2: pumped for the two of you. Thinks are coming on
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: hanging out.
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  Speaker 1: Uh.
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  Speaker 3: I look up to you guys.
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  Speaker 2: I respect you to I can't wait to see what
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: what's next, just in terms of like great things of life,
• 16:51
  Speaker 2: and I think a lot of people probably are looking
• 16:53
  Speaker 2: up to you that are listening and just admiring how
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: do you guys handle life? And so I appreciate yours
• 16:58
  Speaker 2: hanging out and just can in it with us. And
• 17:02
  Speaker 2: uh and you know, playing golf today, I mean, what
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: a day to show you.
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  Speaker 6: I gotta see it.
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  Speaker 2: I did see all the girls in the eighteen fairway
• 17:13
  Speaker 2: when I was done doing a TikTok. I thought they
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: had forgotten that they were playing golf today. But they're
• 17:17
  Speaker 2: dancing and naturally, yeah, they were doing it.
• 17:21
  Speaker 5: I took the eighteen hole.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sure there's about there's a couple. There's a couple
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  Speaker 3: of cheering down. You guys are great.
• 17:30
  Speaker 6: Thanks again, thank you, thank you.
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