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Splitsville: BBNaija Couple, Teddy A, Bambam Unfollow Each Other On Instagram Amid Marital Crisis · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to an episode of banted Lorencia.
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  How are you all doing every doing great for today's episode
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  I want to talk about Bam Bam and her husband Teddy a.
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  Now word on the street is that Bam Bam and Teddy a are heading
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  for Splitville. Now for some of you who don't
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  know Bam Bam and Teddy a met in Big Brother house.
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  Their chemistry was of the charts.
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  They were sleeping together. They were doing the do in the
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  Big Brother house. People were looking at Bam Bam
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  like, you know, immorally bankrupt, you know, lady, like
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  why would you go into a Big Brother house to be sleeping
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  with a guy who was in a relationship at that time and he
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  had a child. So people were not happy with
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  Bam Bam. But Bam Bam and Teddy a were
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  like firewood and fire. They were they, they were into
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  each other. When they came out, their
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  relationship grew stronger. Brands, we are shipping them
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  together. Before you know it, Bam Bam was
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  pregnant. They planned the wedding.
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  They went to Dubai. They had a very big wedding.
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  Bam Bam gave birth to the first child, gave birth to the second
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  child. Bam Bam at that point was
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  looking, you know, a woman that had two children who is also
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  very endowed. She decided to go for
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  liposuction. She did like PO.
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  She sucked out all the unwanted fart and transferred it to you
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  know, her bum bum and bum bum became a hot cake.
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  Before you know she became a star in Nollywood.
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  Before then she was you know when people leave Big Brother
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  house, usually they become influencers, they marry rich or
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  they start a business or they go into acting.
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  So Bum Bum chose to be a Hollywood actress after Bam
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  Bam's life. Liposuction or money or bully
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  contracted her for a movie Odugo para before you could say Jack
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  that movie. That movie has grossed over 30
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  million views on YouTube. I'm counting they had done a
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  Part 2 and it is also doing amazingly well now on Teddy A.
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  On the other hand, according to Teddy A, he was a very known
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  artist in America before he came to Nigeria to do Big Brother.
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  So Teddy A to him, he has always been a star.
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  But we did know Teddy A, Big Brother brought out Bam Bam and
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  Teddy A and because of their relationship, people were
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  interested in the two of them. So after, you know, Big Brother,
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  after the marriage, the hype and everything, Bam Bam was the one
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  getting pregnant, having children, getting the
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  endorsement deals. People were talking about her
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  body, how her body has changed, how she had gained weight, how
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  she went on liposuction. So the news was about Bam Bam.
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  Some people said Teddy E was not really doing much.
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  He started hosting a podcast and he had interviewed Bam Bam
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  sometime in the podcast and it was a success because Bam Bam
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  people like hearing what Bam Bam had to say because she's
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  controversial and all those kind of things.
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  And then when Bam Bam went from being a Big Brother star, being
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  an influencer to being a Nollywood bankable actress was
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  when they said that their marriage started having issues.
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  Bam Bam was now being booked like she is booked and busy
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  seven days a week, almost 24 hours in a day.
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  Bam Bam was busy. And because they had two
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  toddlers, according to the story, Telly A was now the house
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  husband. Although he's doing the podcast,
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  he was not happy about it because I mean, he's there
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  taking the kids to school. I mean, podcast is one or two
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  hours you shoot, but then he is there to take the kids to
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  school, bring them back home, feed them basically.
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  I know they will have nannies, but he will be the one
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  supervising the nannies and the kids.
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  And what on the street was that Teddy was not having it?
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  So when Bam Bam decided to do the Part 2 of Odugu Odugu Para,
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  I think love a camera, the name of that movie, that was the last
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  straw for their marriage, allegedly.
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  And then Bam Bam without travelling, meaning if you
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  travel, if you shoot a movie, you have to promote the movie.
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  Although all money or bully is not the type that was asked, you
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  know, actors to dance, to do crazy things to promote movies.
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  But they go to cinemas, they do all the shoots, skits, all these
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  little, little things to make sure that they keep the movie
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  alive in people's views. Bam Bam and Teddy were having
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  issues. People started talking because
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  when Odo Gopala departure was released, Teddy A wished Bam Bam
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  success. You know, he congratulated her
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  on social media. People were like what?
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  Why would he congratulate her on social media?
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  That's your wife. You should be doing that at
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  home. The first one, we never heard
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  anything from you because obviously you guys are married.
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  So all the success you hear about it, you congratulate her
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  because she is your wife. So people started digging in.
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  That was when they realised that Bam Bam and Teddy A had actually
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  unfollowed each other on social media.
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  Big Brother fans lost it because they said this is crazy.
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  These are people we criticised from the beginning, but we later
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  fell in love with them because of the way that they loved each
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  other. So what are we going to do now
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  that they are no longer together?
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  Where do you want us to stand? How do we even start judging
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  this matter? A lot of people said that the
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  problem was because Bam Bam was busy when he married Bam Bam or
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  when he got married, Bam Bam was more or less jobless, so she
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  wasn't really doing anything. He was the one who felt he was
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  the star, he was a music artist, he was this, he was that.
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  He was providing for the family. But now that Bam Bam has stepped
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  away from his shadows and not just stepped into the light, but
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  stepped into stardom. Teddy A allegedly is having
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  issues. He couldn't cope.
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  He couldn't just fathom that bam bam that everybody was
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  criticising. Calling names is now the star of
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  their marriage. This is actually not new.
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  A whole lot of marriages or relationship or partnership
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  starts when the woman is maybe under the man.
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  Because most times Nigerian men, especially Nigerian men because
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  of their ego, they will always go for somebody they can take
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  care of, somebody who would, you know, ask them for something,
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  Somebody that they know that if she need certain amount of
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  money, they should be able to provide that money for them or
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  provide some of that money for them.
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  Like if you're dating somebody who is very rich and their
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  problem is probably $20,000, I mean where do you start from?
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  So they prefer to date people who their problem is probably
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  2K. So even if they don't have 2K,
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  they will have 1K or 200 naira that they can give.
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  So that is the mentality of some Nigerian men, which is why most
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  times relationship starts with the man having the upper hand,
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  the upper financial hand. And then women, these days we
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  are online, you can make money, there's so many things, even
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  married women with children, you can sit in your home and make
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  money. So things have changed, things
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  have changed. So I think Nigeria may need to
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  update their, I don't know their CV or their mind or their,
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  their, their operating system. Because if they continue like
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  this is going to be a problem. This will be a massive problem
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  because if you're getting married to somebody who you
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  think, OK, at this point I am providing for them and you don't
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  have that, you can't see beyond the fact that this person might
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  grow up or along the line they may be very successful.
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  If you would not be happy for that person, don't get married
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  to them. Go to the village.
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  Even if you go to the village, there are village people who
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  would still. Just because you're in the
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  village doesn't mean you don't have hustling spirits.
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  Even if you're not educated, there are so many people who are
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  not educated who are making millions, millions of dollars.
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  OK, so it's not even about going to the village.
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  It's just the mindset of I, I, I, I married you.
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  You can't. You have to be under me
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  financially and otherwise. Times have changed.
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  People should update their mentality, update everything.
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  I am not saying that TDA is the problem.
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  I am not even saying that Bam bam is the problem.
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  Because at the end of the day, two people, two good people can
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  come together and have this idyllic mindset or have an idea
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  of what they think marriage should should be.
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  And then they come together and it is absolutely not what they
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  thought it was going to be. Or maybe they wanted what their
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  parents had, or maybe they wanted something, you know, I
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  don't know. Maybe they've seen an example of
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  marriage that they want for themselves and now they are not
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  getting it all that their partner is not giving them that
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  exact thing that they want. So it is very difficult for most
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  people to then decide to come together and figure out how to
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  to to rearrange or reorientate themselves to fit into the
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  current reality. That is where the problem is.
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  This is still allegedly, it is still allegedly that Bam Bam and
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  Teddy A is over. But I wish them all the best.
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  I mean, listen, Bam Bam is very young.
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  Teddy A is also young. They have their future ahead of
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  them. They have two kids that they're
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  going to raise. Bam Bam.
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  I mean, she is booked and busy. I don't even think she has time
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  to sit down and kind of process everything.
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  But I just hope if it is true, I wish them all the best and if it
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  is not true or if they're still trying to work things out, I
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  also wish them all the best. Now let me know what you think.
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  It's really this question goes to Nigerian men.
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  You, do you think that you guys, some of you have problems
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  allowing women fly? Or do you think that the women
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  when they get that level of success change?
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  Is it that they change or is it that your perception of them
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  change? Let me know what you think.
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  And the woman, would you would you want to marry somebody who
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  at the end of the day, you're going to be more financially
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  successful? Listen, some women don't like
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  it, but let me know what you think.
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  Thank you very much for watching today's episode.
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  watching. Bye bye.