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你爱吵架吗？| Do You Like to Argue? · Moonlight Mandarin

• 0:00
  SPEAKER_02: Niokmeo guajian the tsing Li Chao Chia de Shiho Buji Dao Gai Shu Shenma Kushi Chao Wan Y ho Y Tura and Siang Dao Ah Watang Shu Ying Gai Chiang Shu Have you ever thought of the perfect response after the argument was already over?
• 0:24
  SPEAKER_02: Before we start, let's learn ten useful words you'll hear in this episode.
• 0:29
  SPEAKER_02: Na Chin da Di Gsu Xi Chao Chia Chao Xia This means to argue or to have a row.
• 0:39
  SPEAKER_02: It usually involves anger rather than simply having different opinions.
• 0:45
  SPEAKER_02: Pay attention to the pattern.
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  SPEAKER_02: We usually say to argue with someone.
• 0:53
  SPEAKER_02: I don't like arguing with people.
• 1:06
  SPEAKER_02: Mao duen has several meanings.
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  SPEAKER_02: When we are talking about relationships, it means conflict or tension.
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_02: You can have tension with someone without having an argument.
• 1:23
  SPEAKER_02: Or we can say something is wrong between us, but we haven't argued about it.
• 1:54
  SPEAKER_02: Some people talk a lot when they are angry, others go quiet.
• 1:59
  SPEAKER_02: You hear this phrase, to choose to stay silent.
• 2:16
  SPEAKER_02: A useful phrase is to manage your emotions.
• 2:31
  SPEAKER_02: I know I shouldn't argue, but sometimes I can't keep my emotions under control.
• 2:43
  SPEAKER_02: This is a feeling you probably know, even if you don't know the Chinese word yet.
• 2:48
  SPEAKER_02: Imagine someone blames you for something you didn't do.
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  SPEAKER_02: You want to say, that's not fair, you don't understand me.
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  SPEAKER_02: It's feeling hurt because you've been treated unfairly or misunderstood.
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  SPEAKER_02: I haven't done anything wrong.
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  SPEAKER_02: Why blame me?
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  SPEAKER_02: I feel unfairly treated.
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  SPEAKER_02: It literally means cold violence.
• 3:28
  SPEAKER_02: In relationships, this can describe deliberately ignoring someone or withdrawing communication to hurt or punish them.
• 3:36
  SPEAKER_02: So in this episode, think of the silent treatment.
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  SPEAKER_02: You speak to them, but they won't answer.
• 3:51
  SPEAKER_02: You message them, but they won't reply.
• 4:13
  SPEAKER_02: I regret saying those hurtful things.
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  SPEAKER_02: You're angry during the argument, then regret what you said afterwards.
• 4:40
  SPEAKER_02: After an argument or falling out.
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  SPEAKER_02: For example, we argued yesterday, but we've already made up.
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  SPEAKER_02: So you can remember this pair.
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  SPEAKER_02: To argue and to make up.
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  SPEAKER_02: For example, you can remember this phrase we get along well.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_02: After spending more time together, we discovered we had lots of differences.
• 5:37
  SPEAKER_02: You can use this word for friends, family, partners, and colleagues.
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  SPEAKER_02: When you're talking about how you get along with each other, or when you just literally spend time together.
• 6:01
  SPEAKER_02: A very useful phrase is ha hao go tong to talk things through properly.
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  SPEAKER_02: How hao go tong When there is a problem, we need to talk it through.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_02: When you listen today, think about your own habits.
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  SPEAKER_02: Do you speak up or go quiet?
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  SPEAKER_02: And how do you make up afterwards?
• 6:43
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• 7:09
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• 10:47
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• 10:48
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• 10:54
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