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Episode 200 "Steady, Are You Ready" · The Baller Alert Show

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  Speaker 1: Hold up, hold up this here. Welcome to the Ball
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  Speaker 1: of Alert Show podcast, available everywhere you get your podcast.
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  Speaker 1: Episode two zero zero, Episode two Honey, what's up guys?
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  Speaker 1: In my first right now here. I was at the
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  Speaker 1: Booty Club last week and I just held onto it
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  Speaker 1: because that has been at all. Okay, I'll put it,
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  Speaker 1: I'll put my world back back. I'm gonna do that
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  Speaker 1: when we never don't get use not that's not that's
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  Speaker 1: not proper Atlanta etiquette. I don't give it. So who no,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not talking to get what you work for is
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  Speaker 1: not proper damn whatever ones that don't get thrown, it's
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  Speaker 1: going back into my bank. And can't introduce yourself. Man,
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  Speaker 1: you know many shot shout of got the friends on
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  Speaker 1: the day though, shipping you got going up? Yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: like yours. I'm like, we didn't see an Yeah you know,
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  Speaker 1: I haven't seen them. I've never won them. I don't
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  Speaker 1: don't the flat stop the flatting with the heir you
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  Speaker 1: got going on? Listen, look at that all alphits. I
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  Speaker 1: don't get hot shouting. Let's go and get started. So
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  Speaker 1: I g A. This is the final day for early
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  Speaker 1: voting election days December six, uh and it sounds like
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  Speaker 1: nobody here voted early, so I guess we're all going
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  Speaker 1: to vote on December six, right, Yeah, yeah, okay, have
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  Speaker 1: herschel Walker in charge of my vagina. I just can't
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  Speaker 1: do it. Like I agree with that. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: herschel Walker should be in charge, not at all. Yeah, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I don't trust that man. Those Republicans are just like,
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  Speaker 1: oh yeah, we got a dumb black man. He just
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  Speaker 1: he's a popping straight up. Yeah, that's all. I mean.
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  Speaker 1: He ain't gonna run none anyway. It ain't gonna be him.
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  Speaker 1: He's just gonna be the messenger. This is embarrassing. Please vote,
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  Speaker 1: Please vote, influencers, vote, everybody vote. Educate your followers to
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  Speaker 1: go out and vote. All Right, one of the best
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  Speaker 1: quarterbacks ever and my friend, and he followed me on
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  Speaker 1: Instagram Michael vick Uh to executive produce and host new
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  Speaker 1: documentary series on black NFL quarterbacks. What do you guys
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  Speaker 1: think about that? Because we get some snaps for that please?
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  Speaker 1: I said he changed the game, right, Yeah, definitely, he
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  Speaker 1: changed my life. First of all, He's the reason I
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  Speaker 1: moved to Atlanta because I love the Falcons so much.
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  Speaker 1: I was the only person in for the South Vorida
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  Speaker 1: that was winning the black and red uh number seven
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  Speaker 1: jerseys and um, I got the Falcon's tattoo because of
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  Speaker 1: my vits. No, he literally has the Falcons's tattoo. And yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I never forget. I saw him in the club. I
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  Speaker 1: walked up to him. I was hosting at Medus on Sunday.
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  Speaker 1: I said, listen, bro, I love you, bro, like you
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  Speaker 1: are the reason I'm here. Yeah, I said, did you
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  Speaker 1: please follow me on Instagram? My first some really only
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  Speaker 1: groupy moment, mayor groupy moment, I get. Fuck he followed
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  Speaker 1: me on Instagram? Yeah, and I still check every once
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  Speaker 1: in while I make sure he's still following me. No,
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  Speaker 1: he definitely impacted the world. Honestly. My brother has a jersey,
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  Speaker 1: autographed jersey and the frame of Michael Vick like people
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  Speaker 1: love and respect him, and I feel like he made it,
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  Speaker 1: you know, famous and okay to run out of the
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  Speaker 1: pocket because back then, at his time, nobody was running
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  Speaker 1: out of the pocket to throw them like that anything. No,
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  Speaker 1: I literally don't know what that means. So it's a pocket.
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  Speaker 1: So you got you got the lineman in front of you,
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  Speaker 1: the little bit boys in front and say hook, go back.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And they block supposed to
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  Speaker 1: stay right in that pocket and throw that ball. He
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  Speaker 1: wasn't doing that. He was using this athletic ability to
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  Speaker 1: like Lamard Jackson, Patrick my home people they do it now,
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  Speaker 1: but then it was everybody doesn't know. I just needed
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  Speaker 1: to know what the pocket. He was one of the
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  Speaker 1: he was one of the first to kind of like
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  Speaker 1: make it super popular. It was people before him, but
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  Speaker 1: he was like he made it super popular because he
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  Speaker 1: got that they need another deal. Okay. Will Smith's Emancipation
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  Speaker 1: uh in selects theaters today, followed by a global streaming
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  Speaker 1: debut on Apple TV Plus on December ninth. Are you
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  Speaker 1: guys gonna watch Will Smith's Emancipation? Know what? What? What?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know? Man, I don't like how Will slap
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  Speaker 1: Chris Rock and didn't vanished vanished because he slapped. He
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  Speaker 1: didn't vanish because he slapped christ the ball actors vanished
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  Speaker 1: when the shooting he took a break. He just got
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  Speaker 1: done shooting alone. Did you see on the break then
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  Speaker 1: he just don't happen to slap him? Then sloping man
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  Speaker 1: standing on that? Did you did? He was getting dragged
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  Speaker 1: he needed the moment. He was all the way in
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  Speaker 1: another country after he said, keep my my wife's name
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  Speaker 1: out your mouth. Ain't that standing on it? And then
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  Speaker 1: he got up and slapped on Then he vanished. No,
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  Speaker 1: he apologized, and then he went back to shooting some
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  Speaker 1: ship for some movies. Oh that's what he did. Now,
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  Speaker 1: he apologized and he went along on his vacation. He
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  Speaker 1: just got done shooting King Richard at that time. Have
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  Speaker 1: you seen King Richard? Do you know how long that
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  Speaker 1: movie was? That movie was almost like two hours. That
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  Speaker 1: movie took me to playing rides long. But not only that.
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  Speaker 1: He You know, actors go through a lot when they
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  Speaker 1: play a character. They be emotionally drained. He just did
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  Speaker 1: the oscars, you know, and all the backlash and stuff
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  Speaker 1: like that. He wouldn't took a break, which was rightfully sod.
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  Speaker 1: Did you have a break? And come on now the
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  Speaker 1: media was dragging him, like he apologized several times. Get
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  Speaker 1: over it. Millionaires can take breaks. So are y'all going
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  Speaker 1: to watch this new more? I am I support Will Smith.
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  Speaker 1: You shouldn't try to cancel while Smith because I'm not,
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  Speaker 1: first of all, sound like, first of all, I'm not.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a big movie guy. I like Marvel and
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  Speaker 1: DC movie, So like, that's what I get excited you do?
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  Speaker 1: So how come you was all on the left side
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  Speaker 1: of the Black Panther? He didn't know? God damned daily
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  Speaker 1: you watched the new one. Yeah, I'm just saying, if
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  Speaker 1: you smack somebody, get in, don't vanish. Where do you
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  Speaker 1: want him to be at? I wanted him to do
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  Speaker 1: an interview the next day and telling us doesn't do
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  Speaker 1: interviews anyway. Anyway, did you guys see the viral sensation
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  Speaker 1: Tunisia god Free lands a deal with weight Watchers after
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  Speaker 1: Google offered her five hundred dollars to buy her sound.
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  Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm talking about? It's a chicken salad.
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  Speaker 1: You're to come up here and get one of these.
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  Speaker 1: What's that? That's a chicken salad? But that was after
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  Speaker 1: Google offered her five hundred dollars to buy her sound.
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  Speaker 1: It was Google Wow, and they offered me fiundred dollars,
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  Speaker 1: then a thousand, then two thousand, and I said, I
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  Speaker 1: just said, I have a good day five hundred and
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  Speaker 1: then try to take it up to a thousand, hundred,
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  Speaker 1: two thousand money. They're always gonna forever try to low
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  Speaker 1: ball our culture in every single scenario possible. I'm glad
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  Speaker 1: that she was smart enough to not take that deal. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm gonna say this is when I because sometimes
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  Speaker 1: I really hate social media. I'm really here because of
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  Speaker 1: what we do. But this is an example of dope
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  Speaker 1: parts of social media because I don't think she expected
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  Speaker 1: none of that ship to happen. I got goddamn deal
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  Speaker 1: with weight Watchers. That's dope. That's fine. Weight Watchers, that's crazy.
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  Speaker 1: They don't have her eating. She's gonna have to eat
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  Speaker 1: real chicken salads minus all that ranch dressing and all
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  Speaker 1: the extra stuff that blacken all the fried chicken, the
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  Speaker 1: heavy heavy ass cheese you like xact for our chicken
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  Speaker 1: sell that might be for our his favorite salad. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: just do a cop sad. No, but I do Cops salads.
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  Speaker 1: I do the Cops salad garden, and so it's no
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  Speaker 1: chicken in it. I don't I don't like the chicken.
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  Speaker 1: But you'll literally be having like hell of cheese and
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  Speaker 1: ranch and like other stuff. Remember that whatever it is,
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  Speaker 1: that chalad sandwich that's a chicken blue cheese is not
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  Speaker 1: good on on the salado. His salads are never healthy,
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  Speaker 1: especially at JR crickets. It's a chicken sandwich salad. It's
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  Speaker 1: like you got the cheese on. You got to meet
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  Speaker 1: and we're not going to debate about blue cheese and
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  Speaker 1: we're gonna past is the winner. Justice for Shanquella Robinson
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  Speaker 1: Mexico requests extradition of the alleged suspect in the murder. Suspects,
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  Speaker 1: y'all need to pick them all up. Yeah, they all
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  Speaker 1: need to get me. One of them is Mexico, the
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  Speaker 1: one that was fighting her. Um. Now, I ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: cat you go to jail in Mexico. It's wrap, it's wraps.
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  Speaker 1: There's a lot going on in Mexico. They were like cages. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: so yeah, go ahead, mix CO and UM identify the
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  Speaker 1: others involved and go ahead and request extradition of the
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  Speaker 1: other suspects involving the murder. UH Prayers for Britain grinner
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  Speaker 1: Man because this, I'm like you, you're saying that about
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  Speaker 1: Mexican jails is making me think about what rushed through
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  Speaker 1: in Russia. I mean she disappeared, yeah the other day
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  Speaker 1: for a little bit. They ain't even know what the
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  Speaker 1: hear she was at, and they and they said that
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  Speaker 1: they putt her like in a camp. Yeah, in a
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  Speaker 1: harsh camp. And the only thing they're doing, they're really
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  Speaker 1: just kind of antagonizing American support Ukraine. And you know,
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  Speaker 1: unfortunately she she's just cross caught in the cross fired
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  Speaker 1: because people are trying to say that. You know, the
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  Speaker 1: President hasn't been trying to do anything about it, but
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  Speaker 1: he's we literally have a war criminal over here that
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  Speaker 1: He's said, Hey, y'all can get this guy back in
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  Speaker 1: Russia if y'all give us back Brittan Griner. Russia's like, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: we're fine. Think about it. She has to deal with racism,
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  Speaker 1: homophobia which is very present in you know, Russian law,
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  Speaker 1: Like this poor woman for a little bit of oil
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  Speaker 1: over there for years. Not like they didn't know who
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  Speaker 1: she was. They knew who she was. She played in
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  Speaker 1: America and she played there because a lot of the
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  Speaker 1: w NBA players have to play overseas because they don't
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  Speaker 1: make enough money in the w money. Know, they need
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  Speaker 1: to make the money. They need to make money, period, Bro,
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  Speaker 1: they don't make enough money. It's only about the upper
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  Speaker 1: one percent make good money at the w n b A.
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  Speaker 1: They don't even make money off their jersey, says one
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  Speaker 1: of the clips went viral from that. Wow, yeah, she's
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  Speaker 1: sucked up over there, you know what I mean. It's just,
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  Speaker 1: you know, it's just it's just kind of a sticky
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  Speaker 1: situation because you know, you got the people that's like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, forget it, let's just go at Russia. And
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  Speaker 1: then it's like, you know, you can't jeopardy the world
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  Speaker 1: doesn't work like that. You can't jeopardize and retire country
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  Speaker 1: over one person. And you know, I understand both ways. Man.
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  Speaker 1: It's just a real messed up situation, man. And I
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  Speaker 1: hope you know we figured that out soon. Free Brittany. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: all those people that killed Shanquala, take them to Mexico.
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  Speaker 1: They all need to go to jail, all of them.
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  Speaker 1: All of me. Feel about who that is one of
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  Speaker 1: the people, one of the purpose, one of the people
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  Speaker 1: who should be arrested as well and charged with some
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  Speaker 1: type of um charge should be the person who recorded it.
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  Speaker 1: The fact that these people felt like they were really
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  Speaker 1: going to get away scotch free, like oh, we don't
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  Speaker 1: let Mexico and the Mexican authorities for them to investigate
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  Speaker 1: and say that we didn't see any foul play and
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  Speaker 1: let these people leave. They probably really thought that they
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  Speaker 1: were safe until the power of social media and the
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  Speaker 1: love in our community decided that we were not going
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  Speaker 1: to let this, you know, just fly by. Like I
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  Speaker 1: can't wait for all of them to face the consequences.
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  Speaker 1: It's terrible, all right, un alone breaks her silence. Uh
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  Speaker 1: I thought she already did. She revealed she took her
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  Speaker 1: son out of the school out of school after news
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  Speaker 1: of uh pud Pudoka. We know you're talking about Chetah scandal.
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  Speaker 1: When it broke uh and I quote she said, I
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  Speaker 1: literally felt like my heart had jumped out of my body.
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  Speaker 1: God damn, she felt for her son. Yeah. You know
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  Speaker 1: one thing I've learned, You know, a couple of baby
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  Speaker 1: mamas in and happily married finally and uh, I would say,
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  Speaker 1: you're in a relationship with somebody that's one of like
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  Speaker 1: a that's a big thing. Is not embarrassing it, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So like we are in a
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  Speaker 1: partnership team when you have a teammate, uh And, these
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  Speaker 1: things aren't discussed and agreed upon. So if you're gonna cheat,
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  Speaker 1: you're gonna you're embarrassing your partner. So like and not
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  Speaker 1: only are your partner, if you have kids, you embarrass
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  Speaker 1: your kids. That should People don't understand how that how
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  Speaker 1: that should affects the kids too. Sometimes you could be
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  Speaker 1: doing that little you know one to you know what
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  Speaker 1: would you call school squishing the gushen and it ain't
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  Speaker 1: the person you need to be squishing the gushen with.
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  Speaker 1: And goddamn everybody embarrassed. You embarrassed. She embarrassed kids embarrassing
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  Speaker 1: you know, your kids could be getting bullied at school.
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  Speaker 1: That's mental health too. That that ship will trivier some
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  Speaker 1: mental health ship. You know how older son is. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's not a good that's that's that's that's about. That's
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  Speaker 1: about fifth grade, six great territory, little eleven in fifth grade.
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  Speaker 1: That's tough. Okay. Gucci Man said he wants to sign
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  Speaker 1: b G when he gets out. Did y'all see that
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  Speaker 1: one million? He said he got a million for b
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  Speaker 1: G D You know, Gucci looked up that's cash money, boy,
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  Speaker 1: cat money is. There's a lot of nostalgia around that,
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: so I can definitely understand that's the voice. That's that's
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  Speaker 1: that's the way everybody ready for BG. You said, that's
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  Speaker 1: the voice of cash. Yeah, a little Wayne and b
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  Speaker 1: G juven A little Wayne. B Turn was lit, Turt
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  Speaker 1: was lit. B G was outside. He was the one
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  Speaker 1: that was outside. Ju Wayne, we got there in fourteens.
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  Speaker 1: BIG's name is baby Gangster. That's what he says for.
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  Speaker 1: I'm a real cash Money fan. Do you think he
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  Speaker 1: still wraps off? He's still around? Of course? What the
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  Speaker 1: hell is he gonna do? She probably got three albums,
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: the need to say she she one time for the
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  Speaker 1: one side. Lebron James says buried story of Cowboys owner
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  Speaker 1: Jerry Jones attending the anti integration clash in favor of
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  Speaker 1: Kyrie Irvin's anti semitism. That's right controversy where when black
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: athletes do something wrong, it's on every single table that
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  Speaker 1: did you guys see it? You know what I'm talking about?
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  Speaker 1: Jerry Jones? What you know what actually happened? What Jerry Jones?
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  Speaker 1: I've seen his ass in the picture with the folks
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  Speaker 1: he needs, he ain't need to be in the picture with.
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  Speaker 1: So since now we ain't blow that up. So because
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  Speaker 1: nobody's talking about it, we ain't blow it up because
• 14:47
  Speaker 1: nobody's talking about talking about it. Right, now, come what
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  Speaker 1: happened was Jerry Jones was one of the students in
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  Speaker 1: the Little Rock nine that was going against having black
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  Speaker 1: students enter in their schools. Yeah, it did happen in Arkansas. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: it happened in Arkansas's Little Rock n And what Lebron
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  Speaker 1: is saying is why are we not talking about this
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  Speaker 1: at all? At all? I like he said that because
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  Speaker 1: he is a Cowboys fan. He definitely a big Cowboys fan,
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  Speaker 1: so I know it took a lot for him to
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  Speaker 1: say that. I mean, it's obvious why they're not talking
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  Speaker 1: about it. We all know exactly why. But this is
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  Speaker 1: the point, this is why some people have the opinions
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  Speaker 1: that they have. It is an unfair or un leveled
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  Speaker 1: playing field, period because when black people want to know
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: who we are and we want to try to figure
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  Speaker 1: out what our history is and we want the oppressors
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  Speaker 1: to acknowledge that, it's oh my god, how dare you
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: talk about us that way? But how dare you treat
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  Speaker 1: us the way that you do and expect no consequences
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  Speaker 1: and tell us to shut up? Like, come on out,
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: this is crazy. Yeah, they want to shut up, and
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: that's all they wanted because you know, being an NFL
• 15:50
  Speaker 1: owner is basically like running a slight plantation. Think about
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: how people get drafted in the NFL. They got the
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  Speaker 1: way you see, how strong you are, how you job tall,
• 16:00
  Speaker 1: you all be all. Guess what when you get hurt?
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  Speaker 1: What happened? Bye? Bye? Okay, Time for the curveball Question
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  Speaker 1: of the day? Oct what is it alright? Time of
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  Speaker 1: curb about question of the day. This comes from I
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  Speaker 1: tried to know a clip. Do you feel like we
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  Speaker 1: don't speak about this enough? Is people don't realize how
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  Speaker 1: often men are experiencing a lack of intimacy, and the
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  Speaker 1: only place that they can experience that intimacy is through sex.
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  Speaker 1: We've created a society where men are so afraid to
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  Speaker 1: be vulnerable with each other, to be you know, sensitive
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  Speaker 1: with each other, to care for each other, to love
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  Speaker 1: each other. You're even saying that as a guy, you
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  Speaker 1: always have to change and be like you can't just
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  Speaker 1: say I love you, I love you, you know what
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  Speaker 1: I mean? You gotta throw it like you can't just
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  Speaker 1: say it. And and it's interesting because that that is
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  Speaker 1: where I do feel women have done a much better
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  Speaker 1: job of being they intimately for each not sexually, but
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  Speaker 1: intimately and I think we change for granted, how much
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  Speaker 1: in society. Men who say sex is the thing they're
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  Speaker 1: not getting are actually struggling with a lack of companionship,
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  Speaker 1: of intimacy, of being in a space with a person
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  Speaker 1: with it where there sharing you know, everything from serotonin
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  Speaker 1: to endorphins to what to what humans need to feel.
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  Speaker 1: Do you think men lack intimacy and only experience it
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  Speaker 1: during sex? I agree, And I think, uh mainly is
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  Speaker 1: Black men because I feel like the Black culture has
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  Speaker 1: this whole idea of being homophobic because I've have white friends.
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  Speaker 1: Now you tell each other, I love you, I love you,
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  Speaker 1: be safe, and you get any situations to where you know,
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  Speaker 1: it's so much homophobia with with the black community that
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  Speaker 1: you can't just tell your home with I love you,
• 17:57
  Speaker 1: what you mean you love me? Like wouldn't it didn't
• 17:59
  Speaker 1: even And if you look at the situation, well, August
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: I was saying that talking about love and all these things,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: and then you see him hugging man atomatically and they
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: automatically assume that this man is gay. So I don't
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: think it's just you know, just with me with men,
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: because I see other cultures are a lot of different
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: you gets some cultures work men keeps each other on
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: the cheek, you know what I mean. Like, I just
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: think it's mainly the Black culture have this idea of
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: being homophobic, and you know, we we don't get that
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: type of intimacy with other human beings other than a woman.
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: Uh shouting to my therapist. I think, uh, that's something
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: that doesn't really get spoken about in our community as
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: well as long as a therapy and um opening it
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: up as a man um sometimes fathers may not be
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: the shout out to my dad for being able to
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: talk to me and teaching me to communicate wisely. And
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: shout out to my wife. She's the first woman I've
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: opened up all the way completely too, and she has
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: taught me to communicate to a point where our arguments
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: aren't arguments, the debates. So I've learned how to debate
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: and then shout out the suit even though I really,
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: I rarely really uh agree with her, Like I always
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: call her. I really call her because I know she's
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: gonna tell you what I don't want to hear. Right,
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: So shout out to the shout out to the people
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: that are named, because you gotta and you gotta start
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: surrounding yourself around people who would challenge you mentally, and
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: I think sometimes as men, we don't really like to
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: open up, and we suffer from a lot of traumatic things,
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: especially growing up impoverished and not being able to get
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: whatever you want, and um, just not having good examples.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Like the dude that I liked that I looked up
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: to growing up. I mean, I looked up to my dad,
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: but my dad was working a lot, my mom's working
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: a lot, And not gonna be too long winded, but
• 19:47
  Speaker 1: the person I looked towards was to do that was
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: across street selling we because he had that BMW. I
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: thought that ship will fine. Hell O, hear my ship
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: with the he he got going on? You know what
• 19:57
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. My dad at work buzzing his ass, come
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: home tied a head. They for right here across the street.
• 20:01
  Speaker 1: You pulled up in the convertible. What the hell going
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: on you got? I'm being told that damn you can't
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: get another that that's a good out to cut in
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: laws to get some Jordan's so like we've got all
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: that ship going on. But yeah, I think, um, it's
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: definitely something that requires some type of therapy and we
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: got to start communicating almost each other. But I think
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: it starts slowly, starting to wash in a little bit
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: because I tell these BT I love them, and I
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: tell BTV safe, so it happens. I've never done that before,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: so when I was growing up, I never did that.
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: But now I see a lot of guys doing that
• 20:34
  Speaker 1: towards each other. So I consider myself multicultural. Um I'm
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: first generation American by way of tick Eye, which is
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: the northern region of Ethiopia. So I grew up not
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: seeing in my household homophobia, like I grew up seeing
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: men be close to men, um not having a problem
• 20:52
  Speaker 1: saying I love you, or supporting each other, allowing each
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: other to cry to each other if they needed to.
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: I remember the first time I actually traveled back home,
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: I saw men hold of hands, and I thought that
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: was so wild, because at that point, I'm a teenager.
• 21:06
  Speaker 1: I've grown up in America. I'm learning what homophobia is
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: and how it affects us in so many different ways.
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: But then I go to Europe and I see white
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: men holding hands too, and it's genuinely just a friendship.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: There's there's nothing, there's nothing gay about it. They're not
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: attracted to each other. They are just close friends and
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: they understand that humans are made to connect, We are
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: made to be loved and surround surround ourselves with love.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: Um So, I can't talk about it coming from a
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: black man, but just hearing what y'all are saying, I mean,
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: I I applaud y'all for acknowledging that and sharing that,
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: and I do hope that we grow as a community
• 21:46
  Speaker 1: to learn to just let go of these ideas that
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: something means this or and even if it did, why
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: is this so bad? You know? Why? Why is it
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: so bad? Um? So, I'm praying that that we are
• 21:58
  Speaker 1: able to just come together, come closer than I am
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: seeing changes. I do see a lot more people talking
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: about it, whether it's because we're open about going to therapy,
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: whether it's because somebody decided I'm gonna break this generational
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: curse and I'm going to leave my family out of
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: these thoughts. I love where we are, and I respect
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: trevor Or for saying that. I think it's on accurate.
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Stay tuned with more of the
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: ball or Alert Show. Is it Love? In the minute
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I met you, baby, I knew I wanted to marry
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: the love of money money. It's love versus money. Let's
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: say you can't put a price tag on law I
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: love you on the ball or alert show back to
• 22:39
  Speaker 1: Moor the brother Onlert show love versus Money. I'm gonna
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: give a couple of you let me know if they're
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: there for the love or the money. Today we have
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: congratulations to them as well. Porsha Sigmon. I believe that
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: initially it was Funitia and I thought it was a
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: publicity stunt for the show and for the money. But
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: then you getting married. I think they really love each other.
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: Now now I am a firm believer you ain't faking
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: it all the way to the altar. I believe that
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: now they love each other. It's a tricky subject for me.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I feel like I've been getting dodged in the city
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: straight up. Like I was out one night at Republic
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: and it was like we locked eyes and it was like, oh,
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: I was just like, I'm the nice person in media.
• 23:37
  Speaker 1: I don't ever say anything bad. I never say anything
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: bad or crazy about anybody. But I've been getting dodged,
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: at least at least that's my perception of it. Soo
• 23:48
  Speaker 1: by the subject at hand. So what I will say is, um,
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: you know five five by one who you know. I
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: wish it could be a different situation. You know. I
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: love women, I love you know. And I was like, damn,
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: like I literally never say anything crazy, So, UM, I
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: want to put this out here on the record. I
• 24:11
  Speaker 1: am a girl's girl. I support my women, and I
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: believe that it's love. I believe there was a genuine
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: interest from the jump, whether it was you know, we're
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: having fun together like that. A lot of relationships started
• 24:25
  Speaker 1: out that way. Like you you don't always go into
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: something maybe like thinking that there might be marriage. Sometimes
• 24:31
  Speaker 1: you're enjoying the moment. And I think that's okay. Um,
• 24:34
  Speaker 1: but I do think that they love each other. I
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: think it may have been a surprise to both of them.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: But nonetheless she looked amazing because that wasn't at your
• 24:42
  Speaker 1: home girl, man, That was not that was that wasn't
• 24:47
  Speaker 1: my home girl. According to them, they were not friends,
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: they were fun. She wanted that man, and she went
• 24:54
  Speaker 1: and got that man. I mean, listen, man, are't gonna
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: go no where he don't want to go. So it's love.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: But had it would have just happened. You would ask
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: me that question, I'd be like, hey, nah, hell so
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: you think it's snowballed. Literally, I think it's turned into love.
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: What was the interest at first? What do you think?
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: What's going on at first? Well, we're in Atlanta, so
• 25:14
  Speaker 1: you know this ship all about rich Africans and girls
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: over here, like sh let me go ahead and make
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: sure I'm secure. You know what I'm talking about. Let
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: me go slide over here to the light, make sure
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: everything paid and succur. You feel me that way, I
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: think be going on in the eight and i'd be
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: seeing them boy because I know them. Boy, can they
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: be any six? Turn me up. I'm trying to find
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: one tonight to put on the roster. That's what happened.
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: Just saying is there something wrong with black women wanting
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: to find love insecurity? Like like why why we see
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: Indian people talk all the time about how it's important
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: to marry someone who was financially but for some reason
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: when black women want loves diggers, Like what, there's nothing
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: wrong the problem, no problem, there's nothing wrong with a
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: woman want a man that's financially secure. But it's like
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: the right, But y'all don't say that. You don't say
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: that about Asian women. You don't say about Indian women.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: Y'all want to do it all the time, don't You
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: don't think that's that's not I told you that's not.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: That's not race specific. That's any woman. Listen, that's I
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: don't hear it often. I mean I am literally watching
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: an Indian catchmaking show right now. The thing is about
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: how much money they make. Family guy don't know abouty's name?
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: Old you a gold digger? Like? I feel like that
• 26:41
  Speaker 1: happens the most. Well, I'm on that type of time
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: to wait. First of all, ship the men that say
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: women are gold diggers is the niggers that ain't got
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: no money camera. But it happened so often that black
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: women are considered gold diggers when they do find someone
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: with money. That's how about this, I found me somebody
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: with money, Tnicia, I love you baby, Yes suh. My
• 27:05
  Speaker 1: wife would made more way more money than me. I'm
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: a happy camper at my household. How about that? How
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: about that we're talking about you, we're talking about other
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: black I find comfort and luxury. I like it over there.
• 27:20
  Speaker 1: I'm hitting right over that exactly what she did. She
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: did what I did. I saw something nice and I
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: stood over there, wait in the line, and said, hey, baby,
• 27:29
  Speaker 1: I want to be with you. Do you want to
• 27:30
  Speaker 1: be with me? I like what you got going on
• 27:32
  Speaker 1: over here. I want pieces that I want to be
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: old man. All I was saying was all I said
• 27:41
  Speaker 1: was okay, ship that what she did? She saw, Hey,
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: she saw a situation that was identical for us, be
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: fitting right another slide right on over the over there.
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: There's nothing wrong with that and sue what you were saying.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I think that a lot of times. The reason why
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: black women get so much slack about one of man
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: with money because they're so vocal about it, because our
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: white women so are Asians the other culture saying I
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: want a man with money. That's because you're not in
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: their household. This has this kitchen talk, table table talk
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: the way. They also don't wrap either exactly. Now if
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: an Asian woman was wrapping talking about on the scammon girl.
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back with more of the Baller Alert show.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: It is tied for Bawler mail. Dear Baller Alert. I'm
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: a day one fan of the show. Anyway, I'm married
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: to my high school sweetheart, and we have been together
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: for fifteen years. Yes, that's a long time, but we
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: are both only thirty years old, and I am feeling
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: bored in the marriage slash relationship. We've been together since
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: fifteen and got married at the age of twenty one,
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: But I am bored ferrari, I'm sure you'll want me
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: to stay and work it out, so I'm interested in
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: what you're non married co host like sueing BT thinks
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: thank you first, I mean, what are you bored about? Like?
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: You're bored about sex? Are you're bored about a lack
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: of adventures? You're bored about living in your same financial like?
• 29:18
  Speaker 1: What are you bored about that? This is a little vague,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: but I'm gonna assume sex. I'm gonna I'm gonna assume
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: your ain't gonna see you y'all need to. Your desires
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: have probably changed quite a bit from the time that
• 29:32
  Speaker 1: you were fifteen to the age that you are now. Um,
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: you probably wish that you know, you can have a
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: little bit of different sex, whatever that looks like or
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: means to you. I think that we live in a
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: day and age where people are learning to be honest
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: about their sexual desires and they're learning to be a
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: little more free about that. So I think you should
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: have a conversation. Be honest about what you want, what
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: you need, what you want to try, what you want
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: to explore, be very honest about that, and if your
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: partners un to give you that, then you have to
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: consider can I do this for the rest of my life?
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Because it's a lot of women, it's a lot of
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: people that are sex deprived. They're married and they are
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: sex deprived. And I'm yes, what yes, lots of people
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: stay in I'm not gonna say sex sexless. They're having sex,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: but they ain't having good sex, and that's rough, rough
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: your whole life. Well, if you've been with your high
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: school sweetheart, imagine you don't know how to fun. He's
• 30:26
  Speaker 1: been sucking the same way since he was fifteen. That's
• 30:28
  Speaker 1: some childis ship. That was the whole thing with DJ
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: Mvy's wife. She you know that she wasn't able to
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: come from sex. He had to give her head for
• 30:37
  Speaker 1: her to come. We want to come from sex to Okay,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: you can't be sucking a grown woman like you was
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: sucking the little girls when he was fifteen. I'm sorry
• 30:45
  Speaker 1: for cussing so much. But this is a passionate subject.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: First of all, I know what he's talking about. This
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: is she Oh, this is a woman. It's a woman.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: I know what she talked about too. She told about
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: he ain't he ain't putting it down like he supposed
• 30:59
  Speaker 1: to be putting down. And I feel like a lot
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: of times and I had a conversation with a woman
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: about this. Women need to start telling men what's gonna
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: make them come. And that is the problem. Women are
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: having sex and they're not having good sex, and they
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: then they don't want to have sex them legs ain't shaking,
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: the knees ain't aching, but ain't good. But I think
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: that men should try to do their best to create
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: a safe space for women to have these conversations. When
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: you come off very selfish, a woman kind of thinks
• 31:31
  Speaker 1: sometimes like damn, hen't really care. I don't really know
• 31:33
  Speaker 1: if I can get in on this conversation. I don't
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: know how he's gonna receive it. Is he gonna take it?
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: As if you know I'm missing him? Create a safe
• 31:41
  Speaker 1: space for a woman. Ask her, I say one more
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: thing before we tam stop faking orgasm. If you didn't come.
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: You need to tell them we're nurturers. We don't want
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: to hurt you feelings. Man, Listen, I don't give a
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: damn Listen if I if I bust start whissen, you
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: won't know guy. He ready. I don't even think it's
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: now want what you're talking about. I think she want
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: to go off and frolic because she ain't go through
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: her whole phase yet, and he didn't go through his
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: phase either. Everybody went through their face exactly and they
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: didn't squishing the gush into the same little situation, the
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: same It's almost like sixty five year old couple. Well
• 32:24
  Speaker 1: you know, go ahead and let me. They're just doing
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: the same thing. They ain't watch the old watching. Listen, bro,
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: that don't mean nothing. You know what I'm talking about?
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Like the body count is just one and one even
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: wanted to do she didn't say all that. Now seems
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: like they're both faithful. Now, you know how you get
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: she's bored. If she won't boyd goddamn she she wouldn't
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: even had DMP me man. And she needs to be
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: telling him what she needs him to do. She definitely
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: needs to do that. But I also do think that
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: she had hasn't been outside, and I think she wants
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: to be outside. And the good thing is she has
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: plenty of time, only thirty years on the internet, not
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: going going anywhere anytime soon. Okay. So I'm just saying, so,
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: do you think that they should have a conversation about
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: maybe like being open to like having other sexual partners,
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: or maybe open just be open to have a conversation
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: about what both of y'all said. But what's the solution
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: should be? What are you bored about? Why are you bored?
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: And how can we make this? Not make this go away?
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: If it doesn't go away, let's figure let's figure out
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: another alternative to what we're talking about. Okay, agree, that
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: definitely definitely needs to be a conversation. Hey, hey, she
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: want to be outside, big dog? Yeah you think she
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: want to get flip? Yeah, flipping flipping in deal, let's
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: t tie for us to get up out of here,
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: try to get flip. What his penut size hasn't grown?
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, happen man just stop growing after a
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: certain time, you know in their mind? Like, yeah, that's
• 34:05
  Speaker 1: I'm saying, what if his penis sizes hasn't grown? Like,
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: what if that's just it, what I'm saying, because all
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: married the medicine, Like Toy was like she was shocked
• 34:15
  Speaker 1: to learn that, you know, the man's penis don't grow
• 34:17
  Speaker 1: no more. And I'm like, what if? What if it's
• 34:19
  Speaker 1: just really this and there's just nothing he could do? Yeah? Yeah, okay,
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: that give me a shout out, Give me some shout out,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: Give me some shoutouts, guys before we get into a
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: pep talk. Shout out to everyone who is taking the
• 34:29
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• 34:33
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• 34:38
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• 34:40
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• 34:42
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• 34:46
  Speaker 1: y'all some crazy responses. Listen, man. Shout out to everybody
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: is still eating a turkey leftover? Um, you know what
• 34:53
  Speaker 1: I'm saying. I know, are you gonna be sick? Some
• 34:55
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• 34:59
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• 35:02
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• 35:05
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• 35:06
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• 35:09
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  Speaker 1: kick it with us today. Shout out the core. Shout
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  Speaker 1: the Jay Rock. She don't have to figure out a
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  Speaker 1: way to insert Jay Rock on the show because he
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  Speaker 1: was talking to Talk. You were talking to that Talk today. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: and Amory, what's up? Man? Make sure you download the
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  Speaker 1: Memick app, especially if you have some youngsters in the household.
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  Speaker 1: Generation Z. It's a generation Beta nets. I can't remember
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  Speaker 1: the Generation Z, Generation Beta than Generation Alfred. You got
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  Speaker 1: those generations and head download the app. M E M
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  Speaker 1: I K OCT. Today's step Talk is coming from Will Smith.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, since BT want to hate so bad, you
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  Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, we just insert some positivity. Go ahead,
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  Speaker 1: Will I love this one? Fail early fail often fell forward. Um.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it's always a little bit frustrating to me
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  Speaker 1: when when Will have a negative relationship with failure. Failure
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  Speaker 1: is a massive part of being able to be successful.
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  Speaker 1: You have to get comfortable with failure. You have to
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  Speaker 1: actually seek failure. Failure is where all of the lessons are.
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  Speaker 1: You know, when you go to the gym and you
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  Speaker 1: work out, you're actually seeking failure. You want to take
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  Speaker 1: your muscles to the point where you get to failure
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  Speaker 1: because that's where the adaptation is, that's where growth is successful.
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  Speaker 1: People fail a lot, they fail a whole lot more
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  Speaker 1: than they succeed, but they extract the lessons from the
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  Speaker 1: failure and they use that the the energy and they
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  Speaker 1: use the wisdom to come around to the next phase
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  Speaker 1: of success. You gotta take a shot. You have to
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  Speaker 1: live at the edge of your capabilities. You gotta live
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  Speaker 1: where you're almost certain you're gonna fail. That's the reason
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  Speaker 1: for practice. Practice is controlled failure. You're getting to your limit,
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  Speaker 1: getting to your limit. Getting to your limit. You can't
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  Speaker 1: lift that, you can't do that. You until you get
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  Speaker 1: to the point that all of a sudden, your body
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  Speaker 1: makes the adjustment and then you can do it. Failure,
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  Speaker 1: uh actually helps you to recognize the areas where you
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  Speaker 1: need to evolve. So fail early, fail often, fail forward.
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