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Believe in You – The Power of Self-Confidence and Self-Belief · Motivational Podcast

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  Speaker 1: It's not okay to make an excuse.
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  Speaker 2: Loses always have an excuse, take the plans and go
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  Speaker 2: for it.
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  Speaker 3: It takes a lot of courage.
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  Speaker 2: Getting out of your comfort zone is massively important.
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  Speaker 3: Above all beliefe.
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  Speaker 1: Making excuses is just another reason why you're not going
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  Speaker 1: to succeed. You know, it's not it's not a valid
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  Speaker 1: reason unless you can't physically enable yourself to train. You've got,
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  Speaker 1: you know, even having no legs, no arms. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we've seen all these wonderful stories the people not wonderful,
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  Speaker 1: but they've they've gone through trauma and they've kind of
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  Speaker 1: overcome that and they're very successful in what they do.
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  Speaker 1: So I just don't I would say I don't like it.
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  Speaker 1: I just don't agree with people making excuses because it's
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  Speaker 1: we're from a society and now I think that an
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  Speaker 1: excuse is okay. You know, we've accepted it, right, let's
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  Speaker 1: make an excuse why we can't do it. It's not
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  Speaker 1: okay to make an excuse because you know, I've got
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  Speaker 1: not enough time. I've not there's not a half hours
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  Speaker 1: in the day to this. I don't like this food,
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  Speaker 1: I don't like this. We shouldn't be saying that's okay
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  Speaker 1: to make those type of excuses. Let's not make the excuses.
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  Speaker 1: Let's kind of man up and kind of just move
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  Speaker 1: on and get on and do better for ourselves. And again, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I've never tried to make any excuses. And if I
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  Speaker 1: do rabbish in a show, I kind of mess up.
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  Speaker 1: But it's not I've got to hold myself accountable. There's
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  Speaker 1: not any reason. You know, it's not the referee's fault,
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  Speaker 1: it's not my coach is the nutritionist. It's down to me.
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  Speaker 1: If I haven't kind of lived up to my end
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  Speaker 1: of the bargain, then that's the reason why I've kind
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  Speaker 1: of not performed fully. And I think a lot of
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  Speaker 1: people should try and hold themselves a bit more accountable.
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  Speaker 1: I think self improvement and self worth, you'd feel so
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  Speaker 1: much better if you just kind of held yourself accountable
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  Speaker 1: a lot more in life.
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  Speaker 4: Don't stop because of failures, don't quit because it is
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  Speaker 4: getting hot. Success comes at a price, and you must
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  Speaker 4: be willing to pay it.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: I just I've always kind of said, you mean, like
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  Speaker 5: going through school with the thing that stuck up to
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  Speaker 5: me is like a teacher said, oh, you're not going
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  Speaker 5: to do nothing, and that kind of stuck with me
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  Speaker 5: because you know, a lot of people if people have
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  Speaker 5: additional needs, you know, if this, if if someone says that,
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  Speaker 5: they'll believe it. And I believe that for a long
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  Speaker 5: long time. So I just think you need to kind
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  Speaker 5: of keep around positive people. You know, whatever you want
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  Speaker 5: to do, whatever goal you want to set, what if
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  Speaker 5: it's the biggest goal, smallest goals, just go out and
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  Speaker 5: smash it. Because you know, I'm kind of I hope
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  Speaker 5: I'm an example of it, you know, and I proved
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  Speaker 5: hundreds and hundreds of people wrong. And that's what kind
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  Speaker 5: of I'm wanting a lot of other people to do.
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  Speaker 5: And that's what I'm trying to show people that, you know,
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  Speaker 5: just because I've got Asperger's doesn't mean I'm going to
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  Speaker 5: sit back and not achieve goals. You know, I want
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  Speaker 5: to be the best in the world, and I'm going
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  Speaker 5: to be the best in the world. So yeah, I
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  Speaker 5: just think positive, have a positive attitude everything you do,
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  Speaker 5: and just be around positive people and you'll get firing
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  Speaker 5: life for those two things.
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  Speaker 3: So, you know, some people, if you allow that self
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  Speaker 3: doubt to ruin your dreams, you're never going to get
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  Speaker 3: anywhere in life. But the thing is, as long as
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  Speaker 3: you're passionate enough, as long as you're coming from the
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  Speaker 3: heart and not from the head, and your motivation is
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  Speaker 3: pure passion for what you believe in, no one can
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  Speaker 3: stop you.
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  Speaker 2: Strong mindset will take you as far as you want
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  Speaker 2: to go in life. Being everyone will wants success, they
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  Speaker 2: have to do the hard work. Some people try and
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  Speaker 2: find a shortcut, but you should never want to try
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  Speaker 2: and find a short hard work should always be like
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  Speaker 2: the main thing, and you should enjoy how hard you've
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  Speaker 2: got to work as well to get there, because it
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  Speaker 2: just makes it that much sweeter.
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  Speaker 1: In the end.
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  Speaker 4: Start blaming others. Start blaming people for the reasons you
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  Speaker 4: find yourself in now. Start blaming your your wish, stop
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  Speaker 4: blaming your parents, stop blaming the government, stop blaming your
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  Speaker 4: genetic stop blaming everybody else. The only person you can
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  Speaker 4: truly blame is you, because you are the only person
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  Speaker 4: who can get yourself out of it.
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  Speaker 5: I would just say, you know, take the plunge and
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  Speaker 5: go for that. I mean, like you sacrifice your job,
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  Speaker 5: if you're that serious about to satifice your job, you know,
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  Speaker 5: sacrifice the knights out, you know, and just get yourself
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  Speaker 5: a coach, get yourself at that nutritionist, and let's you
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  Speaker 5: go for your things to.
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  Speaker 1: Fall back on.
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  Speaker 5: If you're young enough, you know, like myself, if I
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  Speaker 5: if this failed, I have stuff to fall back on.
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  Speaker 5: But I think, just take the plunge on one hundred percent.
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  Speaker 5: Just if you want to do it, just go for it.
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  Speaker 1: You know. That's that's my attitude. It is.
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  Speaker 3: It takes a lot of motivation, it takes a lot
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  Speaker 3: of courage, and it takes above all belief.
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  Speaker 1: I don't want to be one of those guys in
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  Speaker 1: fifteen years and the partnership. Oh well, I could have
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  Speaker 1: done that, done this, I could have done that. I
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  Speaker 1: would hate myself if I turned into one of those
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  Speaker 1: people that they could have you know, I could have
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  Speaker 1: should have done it. It's not something who I am.
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  Speaker 1: I've not been brought up like that. I've been brought
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  Speaker 1: up to you know, put in the work and get
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  Speaker 1: the rewards. That's that's why I see myself. So I
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  Speaker 1: don't want to be like the naily guy.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want to get that level and I want
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  Speaker 2: to be the one that's getting in the ring now
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  Speaker 2: and I'm going to win at that level. I don't
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  Speaker 2: want to be fighting these guys thinking oh am I
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  Speaker 2: good enough or not. I want to get in there and.
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  Speaker 1: Know you need to do the hard path.
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  Speaker 5: You know, you can't just have it easy, and if
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  Speaker 5: it was easy, everyone would do it. And to kind
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  Speaker 5: of be the best like the world, you kind of
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  Speaker 5: have to, you know, go places where no one's going
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  Speaker 5: to go, take your body to places no one's going
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  Speaker 5: to go, because at the end of the day, you're
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  Speaker 5: you can only kind of the good thing of it sports,
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  Speaker 5: You've only got yourself to blame if you don't do
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  Speaker 5: things good. So I think the hard path is the
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  Speaker 5: best path to do. You know, so mentally, physically gets
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  Speaker 5: you ready and or everything's just dialing and yeah, the
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  Speaker 5: high path for me, I probably sure the easy path,
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  Speaker 5: but yeah, the high path is has helped me one
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  Speaker 5: hundred percent.
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  Speaker 2: Getting out of your comfort zone is massively important, and
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  Speaker 2: again that comes down to the same thing as obsession.
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  Speaker 1: I think you.
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  Speaker 2: Can't just be comfortable in what you're doing and it
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  Speaker 2: be out of your comfort zone.
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  Speaker 3: That's how people live their lives. They're not prepared to
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  Speaker 3: step into that discomfort knowing that on the other side
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  Speaker 3: of that is the long term gain. The way we're wired,
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  Speaker 3: and this is the way people operate basically, is everyone's
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  Speaker 3: taking short term comfort, whether that's drugs, drink, relationships, job choices,
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  Speaker 3: all the choices they make, they make knowing that there's
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  Speaker 3: a level of comfort there. And if you want to
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  Speaker 3: achieve anything in life, if you want to achieve success
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  Speaker 3: at work, successes in any aspects of your life, you
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  Speaker 3: need to take short term discomfort for long term.
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  Speaker 1: Again, I just don't think about it, just do it.
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  Speaker 1: You know. It's if you find your passion in anything.
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  Speaker 1: You know, it could be baking, it could be drawing, writing, whatever, it's,
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  Speaker 1: find that passion and just don't let it go. Don't
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  Speaker 1: have that plan B. You know, that's what I had
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  Speaker 1: for so long, So strong man, it was just a hobby,
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  Speaker 1: you know, even though we're making some money and where
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  Speaker 1: it was growing and stuff, it was just a hobby.
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  Speaker 1: So I thought, well, yeah, i'll do the offshore a thing.
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  Speaker 1: I'll maybe do a bit more of a strong man,
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  Speaker 1: but always have that plan B to go back in
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  Speaker 1: the rigs. So now I'm done. There's no no plan B, C, D.
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  Speaker 1: It's only one thing, and that strong man, don't give up.
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  Speaker 5: On your life always, just always to achieve your goals
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  Speaker 5: what you set up to do, and just kind of,
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  Speaker 5: you know, try and try and make the hard times
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  Speaker 5: as easy as possible in your heads as you can,
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  Speaker 5: being on always. Always if you're not sure if things,
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  Speaker 5: ask questions and don't ever hesitate to kind of you know,
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  Speaker 5: ask the question twice three times. You know, no one's
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  Speaker 5: going to think you're stupid. Just always, just if you're
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  Speaker 5: not sure, just do it and just attack life like
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  Speaker 5: you're there to live it, you know, and just live
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  Speaker 5: your life to feel this. That's all I have to say.
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  Speaker 1: So that your life is just so far agile. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: you don't know what's going to happen tomorrow. So treat
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  Speaker 1: each day like it's your last day. And that's what
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  Speaker 1: I've been doing, I think for the last last a
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  Speaker 1: lot of while, and it's it's you enjoy life a
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  Speaker 1: lot more.
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  Speaker 3: Doing it that way, I think allows your product of
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  Speaker 3: our imagination. We can create the life that we want
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  Speaker 3: if we believe in it, if we visualize it. So
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  Speaker 3: for me, you know, when I do that, I'm planting
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  Speaker 3: what I want, the goal that I want in my
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  Speaker 3: subconscious You would subconsciously type decisions and type and make
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  Speaker 3: decisions and take actions that we fleckt your goal.
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  Speaker 1: If you want the easy life, and fine, man, it's
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  Speaker 1: it's not going to be rewarding. You know. Doing something
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  Speaker 1: easy you get a little reward from it. Doing something
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  Speaker 1: hard and succeeding it. Doing a marathon, climbing Mount Everest,
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  Speaker 1: lifting five hundred kilos, putting two hundred and thirty kilos
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  Speaker 1: above your head, those are extremely hard things to do,
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  Speaker 1: but the reward is never ending, you know. Making that
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  Speaker 1: historic lift, the historic whatever it is, is never ending.
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  Speaker 1: You know. So for Tom and I strongest brothers in history,
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  Speaker 1: first brothers in history to ever make the world's Strongest
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  Speaker 1: Man final, that's never ending. I can. I can boast
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  Speaker 1: about that forever. And that was hard to do. That
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  Speaker 1: was ninety nine point nine nine nine nine nine percent.
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  Speaker 1: That people will never ever do that, and that's because
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  Speaker 1: too many people want the easy, easy stuff and they're
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  Speaker 1: happy with that. That's fine, but know that the harder
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  Speaker 1: way is always a bigger rewards. Nothing truer has ever
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  Speaker 1: been said. That's it's simple, you know, go down that.
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  Speaker 1: If you've got a path, easy path, hard path, hard
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  Speaker 1: path every time, every time,