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Season 4 - Episode 244 - The tale of two teachers and Kindness · Good Morning From The Chicken Coop!

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  Hey everybody, welcome to the good morning from the Chicken
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  Coop podcast. My name is Kim Johnson and I am
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  a mastermindset coach, creative strategist, and also happened to
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  be a farmer. This is my chicken coop and I
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  come out here every day to record a podcast to teach
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  distinctions, possibilities, new ways of thinking, and just bring
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  some joy into the world. So welcome to the coop and let's
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  start your day off in a fantastic way.
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  Hey everybody, good morning from the chicken coop.
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  Well, actually it's good evening.
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  I'm recording it now because I have I'm in with all the girls
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  and they're all tucking into bed and I just love this time.
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  And in the morning it's dark now.
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  So I'm coming out here and if I can and the evening and
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  recording. So good evening from the chicken
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  coop. So we're going to talk today
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  about my first grade teacher and my second grade teacher.
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  And there's a point to this. So my first grade teacher was
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  Missus Delano, and Misses Delano was a woman who terrified me.
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  I peed my pants in her class friends.
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  And I will tell you it was because I didn't want to ask to
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  go to the bathroom because she was so angry about everything
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  all the time. She had no patience.
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  She didn't speak nicely to children.
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  She was scary, scary, scary. And I did not go to a private
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  school. I went to a public school.
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  But for kindergarten and preschool, I did go to a private
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  school and it was a very different experience.
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  And then I was switched over to this public school in the town
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  that I lived in in Massachusetts.
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  And she terrified me and I cried.
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  Most days I can't had tears over something.
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  And I remember thinking at that point in time how much I did not
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  like school. I liked learning, but I did not
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  like school. I did not have a good time.
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  And my mother just could not understand why because I had
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  always loved it. And it was an experience.
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  And I would say I didn't like her.
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  And she would say, you know, you have to try.
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  And she would always, you know, try to encourage me.
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  But what I needed was a champion in that moment.
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  And my mother just didn't have it in her to go there and say
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  something or even find out what was going on because guess what?
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  At that time in the world, it wasn't something you did.
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  Now, if my child came home crying more than a day, I would
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  have been like, completely at the school going, what the hell
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  is happening? But it was a different time now
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  Fast forward my second grade teacher when I moved up to her
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  room, I didn't even realize there would be a difference
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  between teachers. I was The summer between 1st
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  grade and 2nd grade was a very, you know, I, I worried
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  constantly. I was a warrior at that point in
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  time. I would even venture to say that
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  you could probably gather that my anxiety really started to
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  take root then. However, you know, I can't
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  remember that far back specifically.
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  So I'll just say I remember worrying through the summer
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  about going back to school and what it was going to be like and
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  how it was going to go. And it was very frustrating for
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  me because quite frankly, it was a big deal to go because I was
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  thinking I was going to get the same thing that I had before.
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  So now Fast forward to 1st day in school, 2nd grade, and I have
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  Mrs. Walker, who is possibly the kindest woman I ever knew in my
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  life. She gave students hugs.
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  She talked about imagination all the time.
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  She, you know, talked to us about how she had a ghost in her
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  classroom. And his name was Jimmy.
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  And he always sat up on the lights and he was here to help
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  us. And he was friendly like Casper.
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  And we had an empty desk in the back.
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  If he wanted to sit, he could sit at that desk.
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  It was it was so inviting and she was so fun.
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  And she would always, you know, talk to us about the things that
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  we each individually loved. And, you know, public school,
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  there was a lot of kids in the class.
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  And she remembered what everybody loved.
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  She remembered the kind of stories I loved.
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  She remembered that I loved to draw all the time.
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  And she was just like such a kind soul.
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  And it changed my, my version of how people can be different.
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  And I remember coming home and saying I want to take her to
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  every, every grade with me. I want them all to come to be
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  with Missus Walker. And of course that didn't
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  happen. And when I went up to 3rd grade,
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  I had someone who was in between.
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  And then it, you know, it progressed on and on and on
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  where every year got into a classroom with a different
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  teacher and they all had different ways of doing it.
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  But what was so fascinating to me was I remember and still use
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  things that she taught me in my own business about how you
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  should just always be kind to clients, kind to people, but
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  students, she was so kind to students.
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  And I always think about that and being kind to clients.
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  Like when they need something, don't not help them.
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  They need something they're asking.
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  Figure out how you can help them and, and do it.
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  Even if they can't do it for themselves, figure out how they
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  can help, how you can help them or how you can guide them and,
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  or maybe even do it for them. I'm, I mean, I'm, I'll admit, I
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  I jump in often and do things to help them when they can't figure
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  stuff out, especially in the realm of graphics.
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  But the point of all of this is to say, leading with kindness
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  was something that I learned way back when and that woman had
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  such an impact on my life at such an early age.
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  We have to realize that that kind of thing sticks with us.
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  We can remember all the horrible stuff, but it is also possible
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  to remember the great stuff. And she was one of the great
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  ones. So today we are honoring Missus
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  Walker, her kindness and how much that meant to me and every
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  one of the people that I work with and all my clients because
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  I bring it right back. So I hope you guys have a
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  blessed day and I will see you all tomorrow.
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  Bye.