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Remain Calm ( Jay Shetty Interview) · The Breakfast Club

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  Speaker 1: You know, you get voice to people that would be voiceless.
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  Speaker 1: good morning. How are y'all feeling out there? I am blessed,
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  Speaker 1: through the day. Take a deep breath for all of
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  Speaker 1: those who can't. Why you just gotta make it through day.
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  Speaker 1: It's only six o'clock in the morning and they just thought. Man,
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  Speaker 1: I left my current in the city all night last
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  Speaker 1: night because I went to go to Donna l Rawlings
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  Speaker 1: podcast yesterday. Then we went to some place in the
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  Speaker 1: city called Zero Bond. It's like some members only club,
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  Speaker 1: but it's really nice. I've never even heard of it before.
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  Speaker 1: Then we went to Brooklyn to Negrille. They have a
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  Speaker 1: live band every Thursday night and that was my night.
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  Speaker 1: But there you too, Mixie, are you mix well? Done
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  Speaker 1: is in town? It's a random Wednesday, both of y'all
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  Speaker 1: too mixee. Well, he was doing his podcast. Every time
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  Speaker 1: Danielle comes here. He always wants to like then after
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  Speaker 1: that we can go to dinner. After we can do this.
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  Speaker 1: He has a whole plan. Did you call with test? Angela?
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  Speaker 1: You went done the hell better at y'all age? Man,
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  Speaker 1: you gotta wait three more days to test me? Because days,
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  Speaker 1: but then I already had COVID like ten times, so
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  Speaker 1: not you not haveing donell will be on the show tomorrow. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: be at Caroline's all weekend. Don't you passed that COVID test?
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  Speaker 1: I ain't got time to be that mixing. Yeah. I
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  Speaker 1: like being at um Okay. I realized what the hour was,
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  Speaker 1: nine to five? Me, all right, those are my workouts
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  Speaker 1: after that? Then, you know, I gotta I gotta have
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  Speaker 1: my personal time. You don't go to dinner with friends ever.
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  Speaker 1: I got a family weekend. Yeah, and rarely on the weekend.
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  Speaker 1: And if it is, they'll come to the house or
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  Speaker 1: I'll go to their house, Like I got four kids,
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  Speaker 1: that is my dinner with friends at night. I don't think.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know the last time I went to a
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  Speaker 1: restaurant in New York City. Man, Wow, not much in
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  Speaker 1: your bill will be hide in mine. You got nineteen children,
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  Speaker 1: then we're friends. I just you know, especially since COVID,
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  Speaker 1: we just really haven't been out like that. So wouldn't
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  Speaker 1: You are always traveling? Yeah, but that's for work. But
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  Speaker 1: for pleasure, I just chill up the crib. What is
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  Speaker 1: the last time I've been to a restaurant. That's a
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  Speaker 1: good point. I haven't been in a long time, Not
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  Speaker 1: in America, not in America, in America. And I will
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  Speaker 1: say I've always been really intentional on supporting a lot
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  Speaker 1: of the black owned restaurants, especially in Brooklyn, because I
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  Speaker 1: know places have had a really tough time and business
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  Speaker 1: has dropped since all these vaccination requirements in order to
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  Speaker 1: even go in. So I always make sure I support
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  Speaker 1: the grill Tillies. All my spots in Brooklyn swayed footprints everything.
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  Speaker 1: Excuse you gotta use to be mixing? No I do.
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  Speaker 1: And even when restaurants weren't open, I was ordering from
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  Speaker 1: all these places on Uber eats and giving extra tips
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  Speaker 1: because they need our they do need our support. I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna sleep. Did you get last night like three hours? Lord,
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  Speaker 1: that's not good, It's not healthy. That's just simply not
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  Speaker 1: Up's one night listen. I got Ja Shetty will be
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  Speaker 1: here to day drop on a clue box with Jay Shetty.
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  Speaker 1: He's the host of the Hard Perfect podcast. I love
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  Speaker 1: Ja Shetty. I follow J Shetty a lot. Uh. You know,
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  Speaker 1: he's got a book out call Think like a Monk,
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  Speaker 1: and he always says, you gotta get sleep between the
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  Speaker 1: hours of ten PM in midnight because that's when the harmonies. Yes,
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  Speaker 1: you have to be in bed by if you're not
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  Speaker 1: sleeping between those two hours, because most most of your
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  Speaker 1: HGH is dispressed in your body between those two hours. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I was thinking, too weird. When I
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  Speaker 1: go out of town, I go out to eat because
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  Speaker 1: I'm usually at a hotel. When I'm home, I'm usually
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  Speaker 1: I'm usually doing corny stuff with the kids, playing games,
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  Speaker 1: corny being a dad. I didn't enjoy myself and I
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  Speaker 1: love that now Now I don't live here, And if
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  Speaker 1: he's in town and wants to go to dinner. I'm
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  Speaker 1: going playing Hungry Hungry Hippo, and I'm gonna go see
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  Speaker 1: him at Caroline's this weekend. That's the life I'm trying.
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  Speaker 1: I'm tired of Elsa, though, Elsa gotta go. You're not
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  Speaker 1: gonna go to Caroline and Nothing because you don't go
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  Speaker 1: out in New York. I was gonna go see now,
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  Speaker 1: it's all about the nanny. A huge storm is gonna
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  Speaker 1: be hit in New York City this weekend. But I
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  Speaker 1: wanted to see Don. Saturday said Friday night, yes, like overnight. Sure, yes,
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  Speaker 1: I thought he said Friday like eight. I said Friday
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  Speaker 1: overnight into Saturday morning. Weather. We all enjoy different things. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I'm God bless. All right, well let's get the show
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  Speaker 1: cracking front page news. What are we talking about, Well,
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  Speaker 1: you are going to talk about Joe Biden. Over eighty
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  Speaker 1: lawmakers want him to release a memo outlining his authority
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  Speaker 1: on student debt cancelation. All right, we'll get into that next.
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  Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club. Good morning. Yeah, I might. I
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  Speaker 1: might go see Don now if the weather's good and
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  Speaker 1: you gotta need a babysitter. No, I got older kids.
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  Speaker 1: The older kids that. Oh yeah, for god, damn, you
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  Speaker 1: do got old? That's what that? Oh that's a blessing.
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  Speaker 1: But they think they're gonna live rep free. Oh that's
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  Speaker 1: a blessing, school for free. I can't wait for that.
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  Speaker 1: In fin, he got a babysit. Oh that's a blessing,
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  Speaker 1: all right. Right, let's get got a young young one
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  Speaker 1: eating the new one. She's in college. Yes, I don't care.
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  Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to do that to madage. Manage might
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  Speaker 1: want to enjoy her weekend. Do that's not every weekend,
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  Speaker 1: but every once in a while. Look, how do you
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  Speaker 1: think that that that colleague gonna get paidful? Now, don't
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  Speaker 1: you have a nanny? Yes? Oh so she good? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: All right, Well let's get into front page news where
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  Speaker 1: we started. More than eighty lawmakers in the House and
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  Speaker 1: the Senate went President Biden to publicly release information on
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  Speaker 1: his legal authority to cancel student loan debt. Now, in
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  Speaker 1: the letter, they want him to direct the Department of
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  Speaker 1: Education to publicly release a memo that they ordered last
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  Speaker 1: year outlining the president's authority to cancel those loans. And
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  Speaker 1: they also want him to use all the tools at
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  Speaker 1: his disposal to deliver relief to the millions of families
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  Speaker 1: inspired by the proposal to make a debt free college
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  Speaker 1: degree within their reach by a limiting up to fifty
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollars in federal student loan debt for all families
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  Speaker 1: before payments resumed. Now, since his campaign, he has called
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  Speaker 1: for a minimum of ten thousand dollars in federal student
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  Speaker 1: loans to be canceled per borrower, and he is willing
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  Speaker 1: to go as high as well. He's pushing back on
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  Speaker 1: calls from Democrats they want him to go as high
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  Speaker 1: as fifty thousand dollars or to wipe out federal student
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  Speaker 1: loan debt entirely. They did say they've canceled fifteen billion
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  Speaker 1: dollars in student loan debt during his first year in office,
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  Speaker 1: and they released a press release from the Department of
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  Speaker 1: Education stating that now is that state college, community college,
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  Speaker 1: private college, or that's all colleges. I think those are
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  Speaker 1: the loans have to be, don't they have to be
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  Speaker 1: like a federal loans. I have no yeah, I have
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  Speaker 1: no idea what that means, but it sounds like they
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  Speaker 1: just want to know what it is he can or
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  Speaker 1: can't do because of the campaign promise that he made
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  Speaker 1: when he pledged to cancel at least ten thousand dollars
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  Speaker 1: a student debt per person, which he has reniged on.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, if they could figure out a way to
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  Speaker 1: wipe out student loans, that would be amazing. I mean
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  Speaker 1: I think, well, not you, Charlagne, But when you got it,
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  Speaker 1: when we all got out of college and we had
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  Speaker 1: to start paying that loan, it was tougher from I
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  Speaker 1: want my money back, Well, we're not gonna get that
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  Speaker 1: money back e. But it was difficult. You know, you
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  Speaker 1: had to get a job, you had to make sure
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  Speaker 1: you could pay as so a lot of times you
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  Speaker 1: can't start your career because you have to start paying
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  Speaker 1: them college loans. You know. After a while, I remember
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  Speaker 1: we had the Secretary of Education up him and we
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  Speaker 1: was asking them what happened to the you know, the
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  Speaker 1: student loans that the ten thousand dollars I was supposed
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  Speaker 1: to go to each person. And he started talking to
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  Speaker 1: us about all of the student loans that that they
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  Speaker 1: got people with disabilities out of and everything else. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's great, but what about the campaign promise or the
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  Speaker 1: ten thousand dollars per student? You know, for whatever reason
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  Speaker 1: they keep ducking that question. So it sounds to me
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  Speaker 1: like the lawmakers just want to know what it is
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  Speaker 1: they can or can't do. And let me ask you this.
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  Speaker 1: If they cancer that, so no one pays it, like
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  Speaker 1: the money doesn't come from anywhere, and what happens like
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  Speaker 1: the government takes care of it. Yeah, I'm just how
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  Speaker 1: does that because university still gotta get paid some house somewhere. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: when somebody give me a check and tell me that
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  Speaker 1: the debt is free, I don't care about where they
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  Speaker 1: got the money from it. I'm just curious, how does
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  Speaker 1: that work? Yeah, it's probably all taxpayer of dollars, more
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  Speaker 1: than likely. Now. Joe Biden is also standing by his
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  Speaker 1: campaign promise to nominate a black woman to the Supreme Court.
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  Speaker 1: They just announced that Justice Stephen Briars set to retire
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  Speaker 1: at the end of this current term, and so, according
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  Speaker 1: to Jansaki, the White House Press secretary, that is going
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  Speaker 1: to happen. There was too they played it from me earlier.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what happened. He got it hypothetically, but
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  Speaker 1: Supreme Court justice was to retire and announce it on
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  Speaker 1: his or her own terms. Does President Biden plan to
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  Speaker 1: honor his pledge to nominate a black woman to the Court. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I've commented on this previously. The President has stated and
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  Speaker 1: reiterated his commitment to nominating a black woman to the
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  Speaker 1: Supreme Court and certainly stands by that um for today. Again,
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  Speaker 1: I'm just not going to be able to say anything
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  Speaker 1: about any specifics until, of course, Justice Briar makes any announcement,
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  Speaker 1: should he decide to make an announcement. That's a campaign
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  Speaker 1: promise he has to keep because he made that. The
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  Speaker 1: you know, OG black elected officials in the Democratic Party
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  Speaker 1: like that already have a likely replacement too. Who's that, um,
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  Speaker 1: Judge Katangi Brown Jackson, a Harvard trained jurist who sits
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  Speaker 1: on the same DC Circuit Court that was home to
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  Speaker 1: Brett Cavanaugh before he was nominated to the Supreme Court.
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  Speaker 1: And you know in the court there's only been two
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  Speaker 1: black justices Thirdgood Marshall and Clarence Thomas. That black woman
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  Speaker 1: has never been nominated to the Supreme Court, let alone confirmed. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that was that was That was a campaign promise that
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  Speaker 1: he made to a lot of og black elected officials.
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  Speaker 1: They were like, yo, we're not endorsing you if you
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  Speaker 1: don't you know promise promised to give us a black
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  Speaker 1: woman on the Supreme Court. One black elected official in
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  Speaker 1: particular who really turned the tide. His name was OLDG.
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  Speaker 1: Jim Clapburn and Jim Claiburn. Well, they said he stands
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  Speaker 1: by it so good. That is your front page news.
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  Speaker 1: good morning. Hi. I'm actually just going to give you
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  Speaker 1: guys a shout out. I've been trying to call you
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  Speaker 1: guys for a year now, so I'm happy I finally
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  Speaker 1: got through it. I just got married to my best friend. Congratulations, queen,
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  Speaker 1: thank you so much. Dj MB. I want to say
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  Speaker 1: that I watched your interview with Mano and you told
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  Speaker 1: the woman on there something about and she how much
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  Speaker 1: she paid for her outfit and if she was to,
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  Speaker 1: you know, devote that to buying sneakers or something like that.
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  Speaker 1: It was some lesson you gat at the end of
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  Speaker 1: the interview, and that inspired me to start my own business. Great.
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  Speaker 1: So now I'm a boutique on. I want to shout
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  Speaker 1: out my bootique. I want you guys just look into it.
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  Speaker 1: Angeline you there, yes, ma'am, can you look at my bootique? Please?
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  Speaker 1: What is it? So? My Instagram name is silent fa
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  Speaker 1: l e n b a U b au ci queu ot.
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  Speaker 1: I just wait sa l e n dot. Oh you
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  Speaker 1: didn't say that, Okay, Sorry, trying to find your girl.
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  Speaker 1: I just mentioned you in your DM, so go all right,
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  Speaker 1: I go look for that. Okay. Oh yeah, I remember
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  Speaker 1: what I told you that. I think the lady, the
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  Speaker 1: co host with Mano, I think she had like a
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  Speaker 1: two thousand dollar outfit on and she said she she
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  Speaker 1: was saving to invest and I was like, well, how
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  Speaker 1: can you be saving the investment You got a two
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  Speaker 1: thousand dollar outfit on And I was like, you should
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  Speaker 1: take that money that you spent on that and put
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  Speaker 1: it into different things that could make you a little
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  Speaker 1: bit of money instead of her to put it into
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  Speaker 1: sneakers and I was like, oh, I can't wait in
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  Speaker 1: those lines, and you was like, wow, the same money
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  Speaker 1: that you used to being here, you can pay somebody
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  Speaker 1: to wait on those lines or whatever. Whatever. It was
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  Speaker 1: a good lesson. Everybody who hasn't watched that yet definitely
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  Speaker 1: watched that interview was pretty good. Shot the Mano. He
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  Speaker 1: has Kitchen Talk. His podcast is Kitchen Talk. Definitely check
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  Speaker 1: out the brother Manolo. And thank you for calling Mama
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  Speaker 1: of course, and DELI check out my boutique. Please. All right,
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  Speaker 1: I'm trying to find a girl, all right, but you
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  Speaker 1: ain't got nothing for me. And Charlottage at your women
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  Speaker 1: and woman. Yeah, sorry, your wife's been looking through it though.
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  Speaker 1: All right, so I'll definitely check it out. Thank you?
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  Speaker 1: Ever going? All right? Hello, who's this was going on? Charlotte?
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  Speaker 1: This is a sad from New York City, but I
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  Speaker 1: live in Atlanta, King you know, I'm black man, what's
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  Speaker 1: I'm envy and I'm angela little good morning everybody. Gil
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  Speaker 1: to do my second time pulling, and I'm gonna be
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  Speaker 1: a regular Okay, welcome, well, thank you, thank you. What
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  Speaker 1: I want to get off my chest is my cousins.
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  Speaker 1: They they they've been cursing me out because me and
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  Speaker 1: one of their sisters got in a little altercation and
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  Speaker 1: they just took it a little too far. They put
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  Speaker 1: my name on Facebook and made up a bunch of
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  Speaker 1: lies about me. I'm not feeling that at all, so
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  Speaker 1: so can I can sue them for that? If they
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  Speaker 1: made up a bunch of lies, that's information, and if
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  Speaker 1: you can prove that it was a malicious intent? Yes,
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  Speaker 1: oh cost you some coins as I'm trying them. And
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  Speaker 1: if they don't have the money, you probably ain't gonna
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  Speaker 1: get it back. But you know this depends on Patty.
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  Speaker 1: You want to be well, I don't think you should
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  Speaker 1: suiting your cousins. Why not? I I know it's called
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  Speaker 1: a breakfas club. And then y'all are cash aping all right? Nah? No?
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  Speaker 1: Tryn I can I get a book aside? My mental
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  Speaker 1: health needs work on? Can I got you? I got,
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  Speaker 1: I got, I got the I got the Unapologetic Guy,
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  Speaker 1: The Black Mental Health by doctor Rita Walker. Here, I
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  Speaker 1: think we got some copies of my grandmother's hands by Resumementicum.
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  Speaker 1: Here do we got some of the old Daddie? I
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  Speaker 1: think we might have one of those but y'all get
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  Speaker 1: you that hold on all right? That's that's great literature
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  Speaker 1: for your mental health. Yo, thank you and thank you
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  Speaker 1: for something my call, y'all, word up? I'm a regular,
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  Speaker 1: all right, he's he's a regular. He's just dubbed its
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  Speaker 1: Mark Lytle Strength for the wild Mark. What up? Get
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  Speaker 1: you off her chess? Brother? So, how y'all doing this morning?
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  Speaker 1: Doing well? Brother? How you? I'm love man? On my
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  Speaker 1: way to work. I was concentrating here. And I don't
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  Speaker 1: like the term culture vulture or not sharing with the
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  Speaker 1: culture or take it from the culture. Why. I look
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  Speaker 1: at it as like to be of the culture. Right,
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  Speaker 1: Usually you're in a position to create something to share
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  Speaker 1: amongst people, and if you're sometimes you're just gonna spit over.
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  Speaker 1: You're going to share what people who aren't necessarily from
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  Speaker 1: the culture. But when you get into a certain position,
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  Speaker 1: we're asking the creators of culture based stuff to ask
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  Speaker 1: what you contributed to the culture and do more than
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  Speaker 1: the n actual purchaser of the product. I don't think
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  Speaker 1: that's fair. I think the product is the contribution to
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  Speaker 1: the culture. I look at it differently. I look at
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  Speaker 1: it like, you know, the culture was created let's say
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  Speaker 1: let's say something was created in the hip hop community
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  Speaker 1: and the black community and the Bronx right like hip
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  Speaker 1: hop right, and those brothers created that out of love.
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  Speaker 1: Then you have somebody who's not from the bronx seeing
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  Speaker 1: what they did and made billions off of it, and
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  Speaker 1: those brothers that created got nothing. And if you don't
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  Speaker 1: give back to those communities that created it, I think
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  Speaker 1: that you're a culture voture. How do you take something
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  Speaker 1: from a community and don't give anything backpacked out of it.
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  Speaker 1: That's culture vulture. Yeah, but don't you think I don't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't disagree with that, But don't you think culture
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  Speaker 1: culture is something that is just shared. Coaching can be closed,
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  Speaker 1: coaching can be slain, Coaching can be you know, exact music,
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  Speaker 1: like just people Like a lot of people will sit
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: there and bashed Kim Kardashian And I hate to say this,
• 15:17
  Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't just like the woman. But
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: it's not her who's going around and saying, hey, I
• 15:21
  Speaker 1: created this style, I came up with it. It's the
• 15:23
  Speaker 1: people who are the critics of Kim Kardashian. I don't
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: think Kim has ever said and said I got this
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: brand new off the back of my mind because its
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: influenced by the culture. Because truth be told. If that's
• 15:34
  Speaker 1: the case, based off what NB said, then everybody in
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: hip hop should be giving back money to those brothers
• 15:38
  Speaker 1: in the Bronx, Like literally everybody from every region across
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: the world should be paying those brothers back for something
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: that they started. Black white. It don't matter because they
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: every everybody profited off hip hop. But I think a
• 15:49
  Speaker 1: lot of people do. I think a lot of people
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: do give it back to the founding fault does to
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: make sure that people are straight, whether it's I think
• 15:58
  Speaker 1: how you're raised around the millionaire bro who I don't
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: disagree with you. But if that's the case, why is
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: it that people like syl So can't get their credit?
• 16:07
  Speaker 1: You know? Why is it that they can't get their masters?
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: Why do we have all? Right? But that's part of
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: the from them. But that's what I think, it's part
• 16:15
  Speaker 1: of the culture. Voters like you said, like they sign
• 16:17
  Speaker 1: them and don't give the them masters. But but that's
• 16:19
  Speaker 1: what I think people do. That's just busy. Made a
• 16:21
  Speaker 1: profit of it, made made it the business. That's it
• 16:26
  Speaker 1: is business. But I think it's it's a coach of
• 16:27
  Speaker 1: volture part of it, you know. I mean, you take
• 16:29
  Speaker 1: somebody's culture, you make a profit off it, probably because
• 16:32
  Speaker 1: they didn't know how to make a profit off of it,
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: or they didn't have the money to invest in it,
• 16:35
  Speaker 1: and then you don't give back to the yat I
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: don't listen. I don't agree. I don't. I don't agree
• 16:38
  Speaker 1: with it morally, but I understand it business wise. Isn't
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: it the part of the giving back to the business
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: of hey, this is what we did, we did this wrong,
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: this what's wrong. It's just the next generation the information
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: so they don't repeat their mistakes. Is that not giving back? Yeah,
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: that's giving back absolutely. I think, well, I think we
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: I think we all can be uh be vultuish in
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: a way. So I think the only way that you can,
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: I believe, your back is just to honestly show other
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: people how to do it, show other people how to
• 17:03
  Speaker 1: make money the way you have. I mean, that's my
• 17:06
  Speaker 1: personal opinion. It's a good conversation, like, yeah, y'all have
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: a great thing. Man, I gonna hold you up. Have
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: a good one too, brother. I was having this conversation
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: yesterday about a Black Record executive. You know who owned
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: somebody Masters, and I'm like, I can understand business wise,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: you know why they feel like they should hold onto
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: the masters, you know what I mean. But then there's
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: a part of me that's just like, yo, you black,
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: that person black. Just at least give them half, you
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: know what I mean. Make it fair and equitable. But
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: I understand if I've invested so much money into this person,
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: because it's a Gambley ten million into you and you
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: don't probably make but no, do get it back. I
• 17:41
  Speaker 1: should be able to, you know, that's the deal that
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: we made. That's where the lines get blurred when you're black,
• 17:45
  Speaker 1: because then there's there's good it's because it's really just
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: good business and bad business. Correct, bad businesses me just
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: giving you your Masters and I didn't recoup my money.
• 17:54
  Speaker 1: You know, that's just bad business. But people think you
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: should do that. No just because you're black. But I
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: think what people negotiate deals once something that works out,
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: so that it's it's something that's more fair. Who are
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: the more fan to what if I still haven't made that.
• 18:07
  Speaker 1: I know they've done that with some big artists where
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: they initially signed a deal that they were locked in
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: that artist blew up, and then they came back to
• 18:13
  Speaker 1: the table before the deal was up and renegotiate. Once
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: they made their money back, yea, once the keyword, once
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: they made their money make money back, because at the
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: end of the day is it's an investment. You know.
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: The reason the labels are able to promote artists because
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: they make money. And if they don't make money, where
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: they getting this money from, they just can't it. Hold
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: it in the back. They just can't make it in
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: the back, you know, back rooms. It oftens to make
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: their money back. The perception of it often looks bad,
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: but the reality is they probably didn't recoup off this
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: person or this individual. That's why they're still holding onto
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: their masses. Correct, get it off a few chests eight
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: D five five one O five one. Now we got
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: rooms on the way. Yes, and get ready for a
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: new documentary and DOCI series about Bobby Brown. All right,
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning,
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club. She's filling the team. This is the
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: rumor rapport with Angela Yee on the Breakfast Club. All right,
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: have you wait, wait, wait, you're not gonna spoil alert
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: right now because I fell asleep on it last night, right, No, Actually,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: I was going to talk about Ozark because a new
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: season has started. I don't know if anybody's been watching it,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: but I guess you kind of have. And you know
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: that the new season of Ozark has caused this classic
• 19:24
  Speaker 1: song to search to number one on the charts on
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: the Reggae Charts one. It plays near the end of
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: episode one. Hopefully that's not a spoiler for you. Now,
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: I fell asleep, all right. Now. What's interesting about this
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: song though, is sister Nancy actually when that song came out,
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: she didn't even know how popular it was. She first
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: recorded it in nineteen eighty two, and her producer traveled
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: the world, so he knew it was playing in other places.
• 19:58
  Speaker 1: But she said she only ever heard it one time
• 20:00
  Speaker 1: in Jamaica and she wasn't getting any royalties from that song.
• 20:03
  Speaker 1: It wasn't until twenty fourteen when she saw the song
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: in a reebok ad that she got legal advice on
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: her rights for that music. Who was getting all them
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: checks before then? Well, she actually was able to get
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: checks from the past ten years, but you know, because
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: of statute of limitations, that's as far back as she
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: could get it, so she says, now she owns fifty
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: percent of the album one two that that was on.
• 20:23
  Speaker 1: So she said, at least I'm getting something now. I
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: never used to get anything. To think about it, all
• 20:27
  Speaker 1: that time she didn't get anything. And actually, to Tibbett,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: who wrote it, never collected any royalties for it. He
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: passed away in twenty twenty at the age of seventies.
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: At the age of seventy seven, he tell me nobody
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: was getting paid all there, or what I'm saying, who
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: was getting paid over those reggae artists were getting like that,
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: like they would do those compilations and know what they
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: wouldn't know, so they would steal all that money. What
• 20:47
  Speaker 1: was she's on du now? So who was getting them checks?
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: I wonder what's getting them checks? And you know what,
• 20:53
  Speaker 1: there are one hundred and twenty eight songs that have
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: sampled that song. Oh my good. You guys remember it
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: in Belly too, right, damn right? Remember Belly like y'all
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: have to wait till Ozok to make that song number
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: one on the Reggae harks. Belly, Well it just shot
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: back to number one because of that. But you know
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: that song came out a while ago, back in nineteen
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: eighty two. So shout out to Sister Nancy. I think
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: she lives in Jersey too, don't she? Who's loot to you?
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: Sister subsist. She wants to come up here, So we're
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: gonna make that happen all right now, Master Pa has
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: sent a message to people who are questioning his success.
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: He has released a new song, look at All These Haters,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: that actually remake but yeah, it's a remake of his
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: song from before Stop Stop Hayting from the Ghetto d
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: Album nineteen ninety seven, Phoenix Shoke the shaka y'all was
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: not outside, and here is look at all these haters
• 21:38
  Speaker 1: to try to figure out how to get because the
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: same you know, all these haters surrounding me every day,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: like my polyson talking. Yeah, he sounds good, but they
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: can't stop my page sound good. I'm not gonna hating.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: I can't take getting no moan sound like. I'm just
• 21:59
  Speaker 1: trying to get him. He said, you best to get
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: jos what you're hating foth. It's crazy because it's still
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: relevant today. He sounds good. I'm not even gonna classic,
• 22:09
  Speaker 1: just a classic record. That's when the ghetto d album
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: album is hard all right now, Yo, Gotti is giving
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: one lucky person, one lucky artists a chance to appear
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: on his album and also signed to his label u
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: CM ten is dropping February fourth. He said, I want
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: to put a brand new artist in position about to
• 22:23
  Speaker 1: upload this to YouTube and SoundCloud right now. Whoever can
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: put that real pressure on here that I like, I'm
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: putting you on CM ten and possibly the label. Let's go. Yeah,
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: that's dope with with god he's doing. So if you
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: don't know he's leaving, like I know, he played it
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: on his Instagram yesterday, so he played four balls and
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: him rapping. Then you gotta wrap four balls. Then he
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: comes back and wrap four balls. Then you gotta wrap
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: four balls. Then he does a sixteen and you got
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: to do a sixteen. It's pretty dope and the song
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: is dope all right, right, So that's a good opportunity
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: for somebody, all right now. A And he has announced
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: a new documentary and docuseries about the life and times
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: of Bobby Brown. So if you're a lifelong fan and
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: follower of Bobby Brown, you'll get to look into his
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: personal and professional life soon. Thanks to those projects. So,
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: according to the press release, he'll be unveiling his struggles
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: with substance abuse, his marriage to Whitney Houston, the devastating
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: loss of Whitney Houston and his two children, and his
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: life as a devoted father and husband to his wife now,
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: Alicia Ethridge Brown. Man, y'all should read Bobby Brown's book Man,
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: Every Little Step My Story. Bobby Brown's book is incredible.
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: So it's a two night documentary, and then you also
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: get a glimpse of who Bobby is now in a
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: new twelve part docuseries, Bobby Brown, Every Little Step All
• 23:34
  Speaker 1: right Now, DARE is criticizing Euphoria. You know. DARE is
• 23:39
  Speaker 1: an anti drug education program, the drug abuse resistance education
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: program that first launched in the eighties amidst the so
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: called war on drugs. And they are saying that Euphoria
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: glamorizes substance abuse and anonymous sex and more. They said,
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: rather than further each parents desire to keep their children
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: safe from the potentially horrific consequences drug abuse and other
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: high risk behavior. HBO television drama Euphoria chooses to misguidedly
• 24:05
  Speaker 1: glorify and erroneously depicts high school student drug use, addiction,
• 24:09
  Speaker 1: anonymous sex, violence, and other destructive behaviors as common and
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: widespread in today's world. You know what day I should
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: do before they release statements like that, they should talk
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: to parents. And even when you do talk to parents,
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: you know, some parents may feel like that, some parents don't.
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: You know what that euphoria does. Euphoria actually allows you
• 24:24
  Speaker 1: to have conversations, you know, with your young children. You know,
• 24:27
  Speaker 1: your child that might be thirteen or in high school
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: that you know watches in DAYA and maybe watching that show.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: It opens up a lot of different discussions that you
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: can absolutely have with your children. And they do not
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: glorify it. Euphoria makes me be like, Lord, have mercy, boy,
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: somebody got to talk to these kids out here. It
• 24:43
  Speaker 1: does not glorify to glamorize it at all. They seem
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: like they're going through it. Yes, all right, well that
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: is your rumor report. All right, now we got front
• 24:50
  Speaker 1: page news next. What we're talking about? Yes, something that
• 24:52
  Speaker 1: got Envy excited this morning and also too, it's just
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: a it's a TV show and what happened? Why are
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: we taking that TV show so serious? It's a TV show?
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: People look crazy though they are. All right, well, we'll
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: get into it next. It's the breakfast Club. Good morning.
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• 25:44
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne the guy. We are the breakfast Club. Let's getting
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: some front page news. What we got? Are we starting? Easy? Well?
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: McDonald's they have a fan made menu hack. Now that
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: is starting. Um, I've seen that. Yes, it says beginning
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: to January thirty first, and for a limited time they're
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: gonna sell four men and you hacks that have been
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: popularized by its biggest fans, and they've been prominent on
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: social media platforms like TikTok. You want to know who
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: they are? Yes, all right, there's a hash brown McMuffin
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: So this is uh combined sausage, big muffin and a
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: hash brown for an extra crunch. Then there's the crunchy double.
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: It's six piece chicken nuggets inserted into a double cheeseburger.
• 26:21
  Speaker 1: Then there's the land air and Sea. This is a
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: chicken sandwich, a big mac, and a filet of fish
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: all on one button. All of that. They should just
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: call that the high menu. Why they're calling into the
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: hack menu call it. And there's the surfing turf that
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: puts together a double cheeseburger and a filet of fish
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: and it's only available on the app or through delivery.
• 26:37
  Speaker 1: You can advantage of everybody on edibles. How you put
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: that in your mouth? Paus Wow, Like that's a lot.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: I feel like you can handle it. I'm just saying
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: that they've taken an advantage of everybody on edibles, everybody
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: that's smoke and all this recreational marijuana out here. A
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: double cheeseburger, filet of fish and nothing for nothing. You
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: came in here and said, man, I would have ate
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: that up. When you just smush it, you gotta smo
• 27:00
  Speaker 1: that's the whole point. You smush it all together. Man.
• 27:02
  Speaker 1: Back in the day. I definitely the turk. McDonald's may
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: not be healthy for you, but boy, that thing be slapping.
• 27:07
  Speaker 1: You cannot sit here and act like that. Damn phileta
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: fish and them large hot fries. They gotta be hot.
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: No h a wt lord have mercy man, listen, McDonald's
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: fries still for me? Slap all right now. Now, let's
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: talk about the question that finally stumped Amy Schneider on Jeopardy.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: She won her thirty ninth game. She is number two
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: on the game show's consecutive wins list, and she is
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: the woman who has won the most times in a row.
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: And all of that came to an end yesterday. She lost. Yes,
• 27:35
  Speaker 1: you want to hear the question for final Jeopardy today
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Countries of the World category. Here's the clip. The only
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: nation in the world who's name in English ends in
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: an H. It's also one of the two most fuckers
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: do you not country? It's the only nation in the
• 27:56
  Speaker 1: world whose name in English ends with an H, and
• 27:59
  Speaker 1: it's all so one of the ten most populous. No go,
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: she didn't have it any that does not end with
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: the It sounds like anyway. She didn't even make a guess.
• 28:11
  Speaker 1: It was blank Bangladesh oh banglad dash shee. They should
• 28:16
  Speaker 1: have done something else. They should have said he produced
• 28:18
  Speaker 1: Little Wayne's classic track on Millie. See how would have
• 28:21
  Speaker 1: got that? Would have got it? I would have got
• 28:23
  Speaker 1: that one easily. Du club Amy. Amy had a great run.
• 28:26
  Speaker 1: How much did she make? Told? I know it's over
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: a million dollars one point three eight one point three
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: eight two million. Yeah, she got my name right. They
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: asked her a Jeopardy question about me, and she said
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Charlomagne and God with no hesitation. So salute to you, Amy,
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: thirty nine times in a row. You know who won
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: the most Ken Jennings. You know how many wins he had?
• 28:42
  Speaker 1: Seventy four? Wow? And Amy? They dropped, they robbed, and
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: they robbed Amy Man. Amy had a life, boy Amy
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: Amy Life could be a movie in just the past
• 28:51
  Speaker 1: six months. Number one Jeopardy winner of all time? Or
• 28:54
  Speaker 1: what she number one? Number woman? Though as far as winning,
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: winning and she robbed out in La y'all really thought
• 29:02
  Speaker 1: Amy was walking around with that Jeopardy money in her bag.
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: Sure did well. She did lose to Ron Talisma, who
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: was a librarian from Chicago, So congratulations to her, all right,
• 29:13
  Speaker 1: Anne as new variants are emerging. Let's turn to COVID
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: for a second. The government is thinking about doing a
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: universal coronavirus vaccine, so as the virus is continuing to
• 29:24
  Speaker 1: evolve into new concerning variants, each with a slightly different
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: genetic code. They said, current vaccines still work well against
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: new variants, but they're no longer a perfect match because
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: usually they have to find a genetic code that's a
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: perfect match for the variant. So right now they have
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: been tweaking booster shots to match omicron. But now they're
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: talking about trying to come up with a pan coronavirus
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: vaccine that would work equally well against any COVID nineteen variant.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: And that is a new approach that they are going
• 29:52
  Speaker 1: to have that they're aggressively pursuing. And also too, oh
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: with Amy from Jeopardy, do you say woman or do
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: you say trans woman too? Because no, you want all
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: representation to matter, right, I think you said Tran Well
• 30:03
  Speaker 1: I don't know, okay, because he says she represents the
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: trans community that you didn't know she was trans. All right,
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: well that is your rumor reports. All right, thank you news,
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: all right, now, when we come back, Jay Shetty will
• 30:20
  Speaker 1: be joining us. He's the host of the podcast on Purpose.
• 30:23
  Speaker 1: It's a health of wellness podcast. He's a form of
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: monk because a Purpose culture New York Times bestselling author.
• 30:29
  Speaker 1: So we're gonna talk to him when we come back,
• 30:31
  Speaker 1: all right, So don't move. It's to Breakfast Club, Go Morning,
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: the Breakfast Club Morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee,
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: Charlemagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. We got
• 30:43
  Speaker 1: a special guest in the building, absolutely, Jay Shetty, welcome.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: Thank you for having me himself. Great for to bear man.
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: He's a very familiar voice because you got the number
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: one health and wellness podcast, spiritual mind fulness podcast on Purpose.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: I've had the pleasure of being a guest on it.
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: Phenomenal guest. I loved the episode with Kobe Bryant. I
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: loved the episode with Jada Pick. You got a lot
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: of great episodes. Yeah, it's I'm really grateful. We've got
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: an amazing community. They keep showing up and we've had
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: some phenomenal guests. I was just saying, you were one
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: of our first guests and like the first three to
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: six months of the show and it was brand new,
• 31:13
  Speaker 1: so I'm so grateful that you did that. Man, I
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: really appreciate it. And I've been hearing a lot of
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: people talk about meditation lately, and so you actually help
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: guide people through how to meditate, right, Yes, yeah, So
• 31:24
  Speaker 1: I spent three years living as a monk in India
• 31:27
  Speaker 1: and across Europe, and so I was trained in how
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: to meditate from monks who've been practicing for decades, and
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: they were practicing ancient meditation techniques for thousands and thousands
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: of years. And so when I was trained in that school,
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: I felt this responsibility to want to share that with
• 31:42
  Speaker 1: the world because it changed my life. And I'm just
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: an average kid born and raised in London, and I thought, well,
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: if it can help me, then I'm sure it can
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: help a lot of people would leads the young man
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: want to be a monk. Trust me, I did not
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: grow up wanting to be a monk. And if someone
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: if someone told me that I was going to grow
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: up and become a monk, I probably would have thrown
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: a beer I'll at them that I would have been holding.
• 32:01
  Speaker 1: But I was born and raised in London and I
• 32:04
  Speaker 1: would go in my teens to go and hear from
• 32:06
  Speaker 1: people who'd gone from nothing to something. So I was
• 32:10
  Speaker 1: fascinated by rags to riches stories. I'd go and hear CEOs, entrepreneurs, athletes, celebrities,
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: and this is before podcasts and YouTube, so you actually
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: had to go to events. And so I'd go to
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: these events. And once my friends told me that a
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: monk was speaking, and I was skeptical. I was like,
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: what am I going to learn from someone who's gone
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: from nothing to nothing? Like, you know, what are they
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: going to teach me? And so I said to my friends,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: I'd only go if we go to a bar afterwards.
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: I was eighteen years old, and they were being very persuasive,
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: so they agreed. So I end up at this event
• 32:41
  Speaker 1: at my university waiting to hear this monk speak. I
• 32:45
  Speaker 1: go there, I'm looking at the clock, like just waiting
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: to leave, and I was just mesmerized. And I don't
• 32:51
  Speaker 1: mean that in like a spiritual experience, where I just
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: mean like I was captivated by every word that he said.
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: And there was nothing externally attractive about him. He was
• 32:59
  Speaker 1: wearing robes, he was from India, he wasn't connected to
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: me in any other way, but he spoke about service
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: and he spoke about purpose, and he spoke about how
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: serving others and helping others with your skills and your
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: strengths is the greatest thing you can do. And my
• 33:13
  Speaker 1: eighteen year old self was just completely penetrating my heart
• 33:18
  Speaker 1: and I was just like, that's what I want. And
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: now when I look back, I realized that when I
• 33:23
  Speaker 1: was eighteen, I'd met people who were rich. I've met
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: people who are famous, and met people who are beautiful
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: and strong, but I don't think i'd met anyone who
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: is truly happy. And that day I felt like I
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: met someone who was truly happy and that you just
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: felt that energy in this space of being a monk.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: So the process is you wake up at four am
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: every day, and what is a monk? Okay, So a
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: monk is someone who dedicates themselves to a particular spiritual
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: tradition and you genuinely practice celibacy during the time that
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: you're a monk. But beyond that, you're waking up every
• 33:57
  Speaker 1: day four am meditating for four to eight hours. So
• 34:00
  Speaker 1: the morning meditation finishes about eight thirty, then you get
• 34:03
  Speaker 1: some breakfast, then you do your daily chores, and then
• 34:06
  Speaker 1: the rest of the day we were out serving, So
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: we were serving food to the homeless, building sustainable villages,
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: helping out in schools, and this was all out in India,
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: so a lot of the philanthropy work as well. So
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: the morning was about self mastery and the afternoon was
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: about serving others. And so that's kind of like the
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: rough framework of what a day looks like. You know,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: you said you wanted to be a monk because it
• 34:27
  Speaker 1: led you to public service. I feel like that's our
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: two purpose in life. Service to others. Yes, you can
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: do that without being a monk, So what made you
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: want to go full fledge and be a monk? Absolutely?
• 34:36
  Speaker 1: And I think the truth is that I didn't see
• 34:39
  Speaker 1: anyone living a life of service at that time who
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: wasn't living from a spiritual place. It just wasn't as common.
• 34:46
  Speaker 1: And now I feel so happy that this conversation is
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: happening in the mainstream. But when I was eighteen, that's,
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: you know, roughly sixteen seventeen years ago, that wasn't there.
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: You didn't see that. You saw the Forbes Rich List,
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: you saw that list. You didn't really a service list
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: or a purpose list. And I think that's changing. But
• 35:04
  Speaker 1: it was also the idea that the self mastery part
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: was you're actually going to work on purifying your ego.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: You're actually going to work on your own mind, so
• 35:13
  Speaker 1: you're not just going to go out there and try
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: and help other people, but you're actually going to deal
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: with everything that's going on in here. And I think
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: that attracted me that, Wow, I'm going to get X
• 35:22
  Speaker 1: amount of time every day to figure out the mess
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: that's in here? When am I ever going to get
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: that time again? Like? Who's going to give you the two? It? Like?
• 35:31
  Speaker 1: You know, because if you want to be if you
• 35:32
  Speaker 1: want to join the army, you can enlist in the army.
• 35:34
  Speaker 1: If you want to be a police officer, you can
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: fill out that application if you want to be there.
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: So where do you go to be a monk? So
• 35:40
  Speaker 1: there are lots of different monks schools, if I can
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: use that word, across the world. There's Tibet, there's India,
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: there's you know, there's multiple ones, and I've visited many
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: of them. I think it's about finding as always, it
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: is a teacher, a guide that you connect with. And
• 35:55
  Speaker 1: so for me, I speak about this gentleman Garangadas in
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: my book. He was the monk that I felt and
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: affection and affinity with and so I wanted to study
• 36:03
  Speaker 1: in his school, and so when I was part of
• 36:05
  Speaker 1: his institution two hours outside of Mumbai in India, in
• 36:09
  Speaker 1: that space, they had a system of what you have
• 36:13
  Speaker 1: to practice, what you have to process why. So for example,
• 36:15
  Speaker 1: a big part of it was, you know, practicing silence.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: And when you practice silence, people think, oh, that sounds terrible,
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: and it does for like seven days, and then after
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: that you stop worrying about all the noise outside. You
• 36:29
  Speaker 1: start hearing the noise inside, and then you go deeper
• 36:31
  Speaker 1: and deeper and deeper. A part of it was practicing fasting, right,
• 36:34
  Speaker 1: we were practicing fasting for since control and being able
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: to master the tongue and master the desire to eat
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: and talk. And so there's so many practices and methods
• 36:42
  Speaker 1: that were set up, and service was a big part
• 36:45
  Speaker 1: of it to help us actually grow as humans. And
• 36:48
  Speaker 1: I really feel that those three years amongks school have
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: massively impacted how I lived that life now and I
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: left nine years ago, so it's been a fair amount
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: of time. Once you're out of school, what was the
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: first thing you did, Like, what do you how do
• 36:59
  Speaker 1: you apply for positions, What did you do after three years?
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: After three years as being a monk, so I thought
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: I was going to do it for the rest of
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: my life, and after three years it almost felt like
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: a failure, like I felt like I messed up, because
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: all of that self awareness led me to the feeling
• 37:15
  Speaker 1: that I wasn't meant to be a monk, that I
• 37:17
  Speaker 1: wasn't actually qualified to live the life of a monk.
• 37:20
  Speaker 1: I realized that monk life required a certain sense of
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: letting go of the rebellious nature that I had inside
• 37:28
  Speaker 1: of me, and also that this calling and desire I
• 37:31
  Speaker 1: had in my heart to want to share this wisdom
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: and message in a certain way. I always when I
• 37:36
  Speaker 1: learned about all these ancient teachings and scriptures, I was like,
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: how cool would it be if we could share that
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: in a modern, relevant, practical way for the people that
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: I grew up with, who maybe wouldn't do this, who
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: wouldn't go as far as I did. And so when
• 37:48
  Speaker 1: I shared that with the monks, they said, you know,
• 37:50
  Speaker 1: they were like, yeah, you know, we agree that we
• 37:52
  Speaker 1: think you might be able to help people more if
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: you left. I think they were like saying, yeah, it's cool.
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: Leave get out of it, but they encouraged it. For me,
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: moving on as was actually really difficult. So when I left,
• 38:04
  Speaker 1: the first thing I did was come back start listening
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: to Drake m Yeah. I did that. First thing. I
• 38:11
  Speaker 1: ate a load of chocolate that I hadn't eating for
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: three years. I went back into all my old bad
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: habits for the first month that I was back, and
• 38:17
  Speaker 1: moved back with my parents twenty six years old because
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: I felt like I'd failed and I was losing this
• 38:22
  Speaker 1: life I'd committed to. Yeah, I was in debt twenty
• 38:26
  Speaker 1: five thousand dollars in debt eighteen thousand pounds. School no no, no,
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: no no from my university days, like going to college.
• 38:32
  Speaker 1: I've gone to college before. Yeah, what did your parents
• 38:34
  Speaker 1: think about you going to Monk School and then coming
• 38:37
  Speaker 1: back home? So when I first told them, my mom
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: was like, where did we go wrong? Right? You know,
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: like what did we do wrong? And luckily my you know,
• 38:45
  Speaker 1: my parents are very forward thinking and they supported me
• 38:48
  Speaker 1: because they could see my heart was in it. And
• 38:51
  Speaker 1: I can't really you know, I can't really blame them.
• 38:52
  Speaker 1: They did a great job and they were really really supportive.
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: But my extended family was like you're never going to
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: get a job again, you've been brainwashed. You're never gonna
• 38:59
  Speaker 1: get my money again, You're never gonna be you know,
• 39:01
  Speaker 1: all that noise from society basically saying you've just committed
• 39:05
  Speaker 1: career suicide, and what are you gonna do when it
• 39:08
  Speaker 1: doesn't work out? So when it didn't work out, I
• 39:11
  Speaker 1: almost felt like I had made what they were saying true,
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: and so I kind of came with a lot of
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: pain and a lot of stress and pressure thinking all
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: these people were right and maybe I was wrong. We
• 39:22
  Speaker 1: have more with Jay Shetty when we come back, of course.
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: He's the host of On Purpose. It's the number one
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: health and wellness podcast. He's a former monk, and we'll
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: talk through some more when we come back. It's the
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: Breakfast Club for morning morning. Everybody is DJ Envy, Angela Yee. Charlomagne,
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: the guy we are to Breakfast Club was still kicking
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: it with Jay Shetty. He's the host of the On
• 39:40
  Speaker 1: Purpose podcasts, a health and wellness podcast. He's a former monk.
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: He's a New York Times best selling author, and he's here. Charlomagne.
• 39:46
  Speaker 1: You know it's so interesting, man. You became a monk
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: because you felt like it gave you a sense of purpose. Yes,
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: but then as you were being a monk, you felt
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: like you might have been suppressing your purpose. You felt
• 39:56
  Speaker 1: like something was big out there. So that's got to
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: be psychologically that's a great observation. That is a great
• 40:02
  Speaker 1: You phrased it way better than I did. That is
• 40:04
  Speaker 1: a great observation. And that's a psychological mind mess because
• 40:07
  Speaker 1: you're like, wait, this is And that's when I realized
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: that your purpose is not what you wear, where you live,
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: what you think everyone thinks of you, because to some degree,
• 40:19
  Speaker 1: I'd become attached to living as a monk and that
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: becoming my purpose. So when I had to disconnect from that,
• 40:23
  Speaker 1: It's like how we say, oh, my marriage is my purpose,
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: and then when you get divorced, you're like, oh, well,
• 40:27
  Speaker 1: I don't have an identity anymore, or my job is
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: my purpose. When you get kicked out of your job,
• 40:32
  Speaker 1: you go, oh, I don't have an identity anymore. That's
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: what it felt like. It felt like a divorce or
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: losing the job of my dreams, which actually led me
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: to find my real purpose, which is what I get
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: to do today, And what was the voice that you
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: heard told you this is what you should do, this
• 40:46
  Speaker 1: is the direction you should go with. I feel like
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: I had it even when I was there where it
• 40:51
  Speaker 1: was just like, there are people who will never ever
• 40:55
  Speaker 1: think And this is why I love what you all
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: do and what you've done with your work, is there
• 41:00
  Speaker 1: are people that will never ever think about their mental health,
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: their mental world being about the word meditation or mindfulness
• 41:07
  Speaker 1: because it wasn't part of their upbringing. It wasn't a
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: word that they heard, same as me. And if I
• 41:12
  Speaker 1: can help make that accessible and relevant and practical and
• 41:17
  Speaker 1: simple for that person, then my life's going to feel
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: like a success. And so I just started to share
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: it with everyone. So now I came back. My friends
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: were all working, they were making money, they were buying homes,
• 41:29
  Speaker 1: they had nice cars. Maybe they were in a relationship,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: but a lot of them were stressed. They were working
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: in big city jobs, but they were burnt out. And
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: so they started coming to me for advice. And this
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: is back in twenty twenty fourteen, and they were saying,
• 41:41
  Speaker 1: which you learned about mindfulness and meditation, can you help
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: us with out stress? And so very naturally I started
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: working with people inside big corporate organizations because that was
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: my background, and so now I was seeing that impact
• 41:52
  Speaker 1: on these people. And so I was speaking at companies,
• 41:54
  Speaker 1: working with people, coaching people, and then finally I took
• 41:58
  Speaker 1: a corporate job back to understand and what the setup
• 42:01
  Speaker 1: was like. And my executive that was my lead, she
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: discovered that I learned meditation. So she put me on
• 42:08
  Speaker 1: in front of all my peers to teach meditation to
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: a thousand people at our company event. This is before
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: any of my online work, and I'm stressing out because
• 42:17
  Speaker 1: I'm no one. They're like, this is one of our guys,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: where he's our peer. What are we going to learn
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: from him? And it was just a beautiful experience where
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: everyone appreciated it, and so I got to see how
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: this work could be practical with people from all different
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: backgrounds and walks of life. Meditation is a game change.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Could tell people just some of the benefits of meditation. Yeah,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: I mean meditation as a ton of benefits. Some of
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: my favorites are that, of course a boost your moods,
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: immune system. One of the most interesting parts about meditation
• 42:48
  Speaker 1: that people don't obviously realize is our life is completely
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: infiltrated by dopamine. Right, whether it's our phones, whether it's money,
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: whether it's purchases, whether it's instant buying dope. Mean, is
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: that constantly being released. A meditation helps us balance because
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: it creates serotonin and oxytocin. So those are the three
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: chemicals that your brain needs to balance, and meditation is
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: one of the key things that actually brings about the
• 43:12
  Speaker 1: other two. It helps with making sure that your brain's
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: in sync. It makes sure that you sleep better. I mean,
• 43:18
  Speaker 1: meditation benefits go on and on and on of course
• 43:20
  Speaker 1: with anxiety, stress and pressure. But to me, that balancing
• 43:24
  Speaker 1: of the chemicals we need is it's probably one of
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: the most powerful. And you know, it's very hard to
• 43:28
  Speaker 1: find that stillness and that that silence, you know, on
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: your own. I tried it for years and couldn't grasp
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: the concept until like the symbol of twenty twenty, but
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: you helped with the Carmat. Yeah. So I literally just
• 43:43
  Speaker 1: two days ago we launched the Daily Jay only on
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: Calm and it's a daily meditation for seven minutes that
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: I truly believe is going to be a meditation that
• 43:53
  Speaker 1: each and every person on the planet can tune into
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: and start their practice, and the goal of it was
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: to make it as simple so that you can actually
• 44:00
  Speaker 1: to say, while you're folding your laundry, while you're doing
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: your dishes, while you're making your bed. The goal was,
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: how can we bring meditation into people's lives rather than saying,
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: take out time out of your day to do this.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: And so we build this program and it's exciting. I'm
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: really excited that it's out there. What is meditation? Right?
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: And the reason I'm asking is, like Charlemagne said, it
• 44:18
  Speaker 1: took him a while to get it. Yeah, So for
• 44:20
  Speaker 1: people out there, what is getting meditation? What should they
• 44:22
  Speaker 1: be feeling? What should they be seeing? What should they
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: be doing? What should they you know, should they be
• 44:26
  Speaker 1: sitting in the corner, should they be you know, criss
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: cross apple cross apple sauce? So they have their hands
• 44:32
  Speaker 1: up like, what is it? Yes? So no, it's a
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: great question. It's a great question. I think it's so important.
• 44:37
  Speaker 1: I think the first thing I'd like to say is
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: that meditation is making time to spend with yourself, as
• 44:42
  Speaker 1: simple as that. Right. You make time to check in
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: with your friends, your family, your partners, your kids. When
• 44:47
  Speaker 1: was the last time you checked him with yourself. Some
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: people to say I meditate what I drive because I'm
• 44:50
  Speaker 1: just driving. That's and that's a great example. And that's
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: a great example, and I actually agree with you. I
• 44:56
  Speaker 1: love thinking about life when I'm driving and talking to
• 44:58
  Speaker 1: myself and figuring things out. That is a form of meditation.
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: That is a beginning step towards meditation. Now, when you
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: start getting into meditation as a tool, it goes beyond
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: that because now you're bringing your awareness to three different
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: types of things in the way I was trained. So
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: you have breathwork. When you're focusing on your breath, you're
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: learning to navigate your emotions. Second one is visualization. A
• 45:19
  Speaker 1: lot of athletes use this before big games. Lewis Hamilton,
• 45:23
  Speaker 1: I've heard, used it before he's driving a car. Soccer
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: stars use it before they take a free kick. Where
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: you're visualizing what's happening in your life or what you're
• 45:30
  Speaker 1: about to do. What it does is it prepares your body,
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: It prepares the mind, right, So visualization is a way
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: of meditating. And the third one is mantra or sound.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: So we all know, I mean, you're in the heart
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: of music. We all know that music can make you
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: feel different things. Music can make you feel like you
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: want to beat someone up, and music can make you
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: feel calm. Sounds and mantra really are defined to help
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: you have sounds that bring peace and calm to the
• 45:55
  Speaker 1: mind and body. So those are three different types of meditation.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: Doesn't matter where you're sitting, It doesn't matter how you're sitting,
• 46:01
  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter whether you're wearing a yoga suit or
• 46:04
  Speaker 1: on a yoga mat. That really isn't the point. The
• 46:07
  Speaker 1: point is are you taking time to build that practice
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: in that habit. Yeah, mantra su my good sister deVie
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: Brown mantra and the bees is what got me to
• 46:17
  Speaker 1: able meditation. So I count my bees and I do
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: my mantra and it's just like that's what got me.
• 46:22
  Speaker 1: Like oh okay. When you come to and you're like,
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: where was That's how it feels like. You're like like
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: you went into a sleep while you're sitting up, like
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: you just like like everything just went still for a moment,
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: like nothing is on your mind. You just hear yourself
• 46:38
  Speaker 1: repeating your mantra over and over and over, and it's
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: just like I call it like a sinking feeling almost.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: I feel like you're just sinking, sinking, sinking, And I
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: always jump before I go too deep. That's that's what
• 46:49
  Speaker 1: makes me come back. Yeah, imagine, imagine you actually felt
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: like you are where your feet are? Like, imagine you
• 46:54
  Speaker 1: actually felt like that that we right now, if we
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: all put our feet on the ground and you actually
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: felt like I was And what Charlomagne saying about sinking.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: If I actually felt like I was actually here? How
• 47:03
  Speaker 1: many times doing this conversation while I've been talking and
• 47:05
  Speaker 1: we've been thinking about what have I got for lunch
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: later on? Or what am I doing later on? Or
• 47:09
  Speaker 1: who am I meeting? Or what's this going? What if
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: I was actually here? How much could I actually have
• 47:14
  Speaker 1: an impact on the people around me? How much could
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: I actually feel people's energy? How much power and strength
• 47:20
  Speaker 1: would I have if I was actually where my feet are?
• 47:24
  Speaker 1: Which is a common phrase and statement that's used in
• 47:27
  Speaker 1: meditation language. If like be where your feet are, if
• 47:30
  Speaker 1: we were actually here, just how powerful would that be?
• 47:33
  Speaker 1: And that's what you feel. You actually feel like, I'm
• 47:35
  Speaker 1: happy to be here. I am only here because think
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: about it. When you wake up in the morning, how
• 47:40
  Speaker 1: many times have you over woken up and your mind
• 47:42
  Speaker 1: is ahead of your body. Your body's like I don't
• 47:45
  Speaker 1: want to go anywhere, and your mind's like racing trying
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: to do a million things. Or you experienced the opposite.
• 47:50
  Speaker 1: You wake up and your mind is like, come on,
• 47:53
  Speaker 1: I can't do this, but your body's like, come on,
• 47:55
  Speaker 1: we gotta go, we gotta go. So what we're experiencing
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: at all times is our body and mind completely out
• 48:00
  Speaker 1: of sync, completely out of seen. They're never in the
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: same place. So meditation and it's simplest for him is saying, well,
• 48:07
  Speaker 1: let's start here, Let's bring them back into sync. Let's
• 48:09
  Speaker 1: start with them being aligned, and imagine how powerful we
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: could do. All Right, we have more with Jay Shetty
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: when we come back. Of course. He's the host of
• 48:17
  Speaker 1: On Purpose. It's the number one health and wellness podcast.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: He's a form of monk and we'll talk to him
• 48:20
  Speaker 1: someone when we come back. It's a breakfast club. Good
• 48:23
  Speaker 1: morning e j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne, the guy. We
• 48:26
  Speaker 1: are to breakfast club. Were still kicking it with Jay Shetty.
• 48:29
  Speaker 1: He's the host of the On Purpose podcasts, a health
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: and wellness podcast. He's a former monk. He's a New
• 48:34
  Speaker 1: York Times best selling author and he's here, Charlomagne. I
• 48:37
  Speaker 1: feel like we skipped a step right. Yeah, you went
• 48:39
  Speaker 1: from being a monk um sir for a monk for
• 48:41
  Speaker 1: three years. You couldn't find a job, he said. You
• 48:43
  Speaker 1: got rejected about forty different forty companies. Yeah, at what
• 48:47
  Speaker 1: point did the on Purpose podcast start? Between that and
• 48:51
  Speaker 1: the So I left being amongk in twenty thirteen, I
• 48:54
  Speaker 1: started in twenty ten, unpurposed LUNs in twenty nineteen, okay,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: so six years later, and my online video content started
• 49:01
  Speaker 1: in twenty sixteen. So in twenty sixteen, after I'd been
• 49:05
  Speaker 1: sharing meditation and mindfulness with corporations, coaching people behind the
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: scenes and never made any content, I just felt that
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: I was sitting in a lot of boardrooms, which was fantastic,
• 49:15
  Speaker 1: but I felt this message had to get further than
• 49:17
  Speaker 1: the boardroom. And at the time I was thinking how
• 49:20
  Speaker 1: do I do this? And so I was applying to
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: media companies that I was like, Hey, if these guys
• 49:26
  Speaker 1: give me a job, then I can make content about
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: mindfulness and meditation. And I was rejected from three media companies.
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: I remember chasing an exact on his bike in London
• 49:33
  Speaker 1: and saying hey, give me a job. And he was like,
• 49:35
  Speaker 1: you're too old? Is that after you said that? I
• 49:38
  Speaker 1: guess it was the president or CEO asked you to
• 49:40
  Speaker 1: do that, correct, So that's when you felt like that
• 49:42
  Speaker 1: was your calling? Yeah, because I was like, Wow, I'm
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: being asked to do this. It's working, but it needs
• 49:47
  Speaker 1: to reach more people, and it needs to reach more
• 49:50
  Speaker 1: people without just their organization being involved. What if it
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: could read to person on this street? Right? How do
• 49:56
  Speaker 1: you get to that person? And so I thought media
• 49:58
  Speaker 1: is the way. And so I was appli to all
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: these media jobs, but everyone kept telling me you're not
• 50:03
  Speaker 1: You're too you're too old. I was twenty eight years old.
• 50:05
  Speaker 1: They're like, you're too old. Everyone's twenty one who wants
• 50:07
  Speaker 1: this job? They were like, you don't have any background
• 50:09
  Speaker 1: in media, You've never been in communications. And so I
• 50:12
  Speaker 1: ended up at a TV training day run by the
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: BBC in London in Pinewood Studios and it was run
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: for ethnic minorities. So there were just six brown and
• 50:20
  Speaker 1: black people in that room and I'm one of them
• 50:23
  Speaker 1: and they tell me, Jay, you're you're good, like you're engaging,
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: you can present well. So I'm like, give me a job,
• 50:27
  Speaker 1: like I just want to shot. And they're like, Jay,
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: there's no jobs in media. And so I'm like, come on,
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: you brought me all the way here, like you know,
• 50:33
  Speaker 1: six brown and black people to tell us there's no
• 50:35
  Speaker 1: jobs in media. What was what was the point of this?
• 50:38
  Speaker 1: And they're like, well, you should start a YouTube channel.
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: And in my head, I'm thinking, yeah, that works for
• 50:42
  Speaker 1: Justin Bieber. That's not going to work for me, you know,
• 50:45
  Speaker 1: And I'm having that limiting I was like, thank you,
• 50:51
  Speaker 1: maybe not maybe not yea and that uh and literally
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: it was like I was like, maybe that worked for
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: Justin Bieber, like that's and I had that limiting belief.
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: I was like, that's not going to work for me.
• 50:59
  Speaker 1: But literally, there's a beautiful statement by Thomas Edison. He said,
• 51:03
  Speaker 1: when you believe you've exhausted all options, remembered this you haven't.
• 51:08
  Speaker 1: And that's how I felt. I felt I had exhausted
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: all options and the only option that I had left
• 51:12
  Speaker 1: was YouTube if I really cared about this, So I
• 51:15
  Speaker 1: made a video and I kept making videos every week
• 51:17
  Speaker 1: and they're doing okay, They're getting like a thousand views
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: or something like that. And in three months, Arianna Huffington
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: saw my videos from the Huffing and Post and so
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: she really connected with them, and they said, hey, j look,
• 51:28
  Speaker 1: we're not gonna pay you anything, We're not gonna do anything.
• 51:30
  Speaker 1: We're gonna take your videos. We're gonna put them on
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: the Huffing in Post page because we like your content.
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: What do you think. I'm like, great, let's get them
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: out there, right, like, that's what this is about. Smart
• 51:38
  Speaker 1: you recognized the opportunity when it wasn't a pache. Yeah, yeah,
• 51:40
  Speaker 1: there was no pageckets nobody. They put it out. The
• 51:42
  Speaker 1: first video did a million views in a week, The
• 51:45
  Speaker 1: second video did a million views in twenty four hours.
• 51:48
  Speaker 1: And those three or four videos I made for them
• 51:50
  Speaker 1: did like a hundred million views across that year. And
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: literally it just changed everything because now the message was
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: reaching people. And then I sent her right hand man
• 51:59
  Speaker 1: who's a good friend of mine now, Danny Shay. He
• 52:01
  Speaker 1: was the one who'd come out to make this contact happen.
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: I message him every day saying, when an't you giving
• 52:07
  Speaker 1: me a job? When he gave me a job, when
• 52:09
  Speaker 1: are you giving me a job? Finally, after thirty days,
• 52:11
  Speaker 1: he sent me a visa sent me a job off
• 52:13
  Speaker 1: for a move to New York City in twenty sixteen
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: September to work at The Half Post as a senior
• 52:17
  Speaker 1: hosting producer. That lasted around six months. I mean, the
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: way you're speaking is great because it's not even about
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: the meditation and what you're speaking, it's just about a
• 52:25
  Speaker 1: lot of people don't have that drive. You were told
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: no a thousands of times, but still did it. You know,
• 52:31
  Speaker 1: you did something that you had no idea about YouTube.
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: Then when they came with a situation, most people now
• 52:36
  Speaker 1: would be like, well, how much am I getting paid? Now?
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: You want to use my contact? And he was like, nah,
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: I understand what this could be and congratulating. I love
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: I love stories like that. Thank you, and thank you
• 52:45
  Speaker 1: for highlighting that. I really appreciate the way you're looking
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: at it over time, Like, yeah, you come up here
• 52:49
  Speaker 1: and be like how much I'm getting paid? But I'm
• 52:50
  Speaker 1: not doing this because I ain't get no money if
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: the tests. But somethings ain't about the money. We came
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: from a place where we both worked for a long
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: terms about the opportunity, but we knew hopefully well we
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: didn't even know. We did it for love. I did
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: it for love, and it just grew into what it
• 53:02
  Speaker 1: grew into. So I really respect and appreciate that. We
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: thank you for highlighting that because I think sometimes, you know,
• 53:07
  Speaker 1: we get lost in, especially when people talk to me,
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: we get lost in like the meditation and the mindfulness,
• 53:11
  Speaker 1: and it's like, that is my heart of what I
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: want to share. But the way I've got there has
• 53:15
  Speaker 1: not been normal or easy or you know, it's but
• 53:19
  Speaker 1: that's been the most fun part about it. Like I
• 53:22
  Speaker 1: think I always wanted to serve. My whole goal was
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: how can this reach more people? And when half Post
• 53:27
  Speaker 1: or anyone came with that opportunity and thankfully after six months,
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: I built in myself. I got to do it my way,
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: on my own, and I got to build it on
• 53:34
  Speaker 1: my first guest. My first big guest was Russell Brand
• 53:37
  Speaker 1: who I've known for a long time. We have the
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: same meditation teacher. We've been friends in London for a while.
• 53:43
  Speaker 1: So Russell Brown was my first big guest. My first
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: ever guest was my wife. It was my first episode.
• 53:47
  Speaker 1: Well she was your first big guest. Yeah, that was
• 53:49
  Speaker 1: my first yeah, oh yeah, thank you. Yeah I messed
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: that up. Yeah, I messed that up. Yeah, my wife
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: was my first big Yeah. Russell Brown was my first
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: well known guest. Novak Djokovic tennis player who I've known
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: for a while as well, he was one of my
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: first big guest. Uh And then you know, since then,
• 54:02
  Speaker 1: it's just been a joy to sit down with people
• 54:05
  Speaker 1: that yeah, I had till this day. And I'm not
• 54:10
  Speaker 1: just saying it because of what happened, and I don't
• 54:13
  Speaker 1: I wish I didn't even have to say that, but
• 54:14
  Speaker 1: I do because I think people try and make things
• 54:17
  Speaker 1: a certain way. But I have never felt someone more
• 54:22
  Speaker 1: present and grounded in his feet apart from monks, than
• 54:26
  Speaker 1: Kobe Bryant. Like when I spoke to him, I choose
• 54:29
  Speaker 1: there was so much gravity around him, and when he
• 54:33
  Speaker 1: spoke his voice as well, it had so much presence.
• 54:36
  Speaker 1: And that was two three months before the tragic event.
• 54:42
  Speaker 1: So his his team had reached out and they said, Jay,
• 54:44
  Speaker 1: we want Kobe to have a conversation with someone who
• 54:47
  Speaker 1: isn't only obsessed with basketball. And I said to him,
• 54:51
  Speaker 1: I liked basketball, but I didn't grow up like soccer
• 54:54
  Speaker 1: is my first sport, right football. I'm from England, That's
• 54:56
  Speaker 1: that's my thing. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's why I
• 54:59
  Speaker 1: had to try it's late for because then my British
• 55:01
  Speaker 1: friends make fun of me for saying Suker, so I've
• 55:03
  Speaker 1: got to you know. But yeah, Christiano Ronaldo, like, that's
• 55:06
  Speaker 1: that's my goat, right, Like that's the person I go to.
• 55:09
  Speaker 1: But obviously have so much respect for Kobe. Obviously I
• 55:11
  Speaker 1: love I love basketball, genuine enjoy watching it. And so
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: they said, but we want someone who talks to him
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: about storytelling about him, about his heart, about meditation, about
• 55:20
  Speaker 1: the stuff that he doesn't get to talk about because
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: every time he goes to an interview, people just to
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: ask him basketball questions. What was he like to play
• 55:26
  Speaker 1: in that game? What was he like to learn from this?
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: So they they've reached out to him, and I said,
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: this is a dream, like I feel honored, and so
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: we did that. That's how the podcast came about. I
• 55:35
  Speaker 1: didn't I didn't know him or I didn't have a
• 55:36
  Speaker 1: relationship with him, but in that short time that we
• 55:39
  Speaker 1: spent together, he walked into the room and he came
• 55:42
  Speaker 1: around to my whole team and he introduces Kobe Kobe
• 55:47
  Speaker 1: like to my video, and you know, everyone's geeking out
• 55:49
  Speaker 1: because everyone knows who he is. It doesn't have to,
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: but he was so respectful, so wonderful with the whole team.
• 55:54
  Speaker 1: They'll never forget that experience. Jay, we appreciate. I was
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: going to ask, can we meditate? But we really can't
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: because we need seven I mean it will be deadier
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: for seven minutes. Oh we can do it for lesson seven.
• 56:02
  Speaker 1: We can do it. Yeah, yeah we can. How long
• 56:04
  Speaker 1: do you give me your time limit? And then I'll
• 56:05
  Speaker 1: stick to that. Let's do a minute. Yeah, let's do it. Yeah, okay,
• 56:09
  Speaker 1: let's do it. And everyone who's listening can join in
• 56:11
  Speaker 1: as well. So what I wanted, okay, okay, so what
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: do whatever you want to do is just take a
• 56:18
  Speaker 1: moment to look around wherever they are. So keep your
• 56:20
  Speaker 1: eyes open, and I want you to just notice five
• 56:24
  Speaker 1: things in this space. Choose five things in your environment
• 56:30
  Speaker 1: and bring your awareness to them. The colors, the textures,
• 56:35
  Speaker 1: the fonts, whatever it may be, just five things, and
• 56:39
  Speaker 1: when you found them, close your eyes, taking a deep breath. Now,
• 56:44
  Speaker 1: what are four things that you can touch and just
• 56:48
  Speaker 1: be present with it. It could be your jacket, the
• 56:51
  Speaker 1: chair you're sitting on, your own hands. Four things that
• 56:56
  Speaker 1: you can touch notice the difference in the coolness and
• 57:00
  Speaker 1: a texture. Taking another deep breath, what are three things
• 57:05
  Speaker 1: that you can hear there? Maybe some white noise, the
• 57:10
  Speaker 1: sound of my voice, maybe even a voice in the
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: back of your head. Three things you can hear, Just
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: observe and be present, don't fight them. Just bring your
• 57:23
  Speaker 1: awareness back to your breath, breathe in. What are two
• 57:28
  Speaker 1: things you can smell? Maybe the beautiful sage that we
• 57:31
  Speaker 1: have here in the studio or the palace center. Maybe
• 57:35
  Speaker 1: a fragrance, it diffuses some food. Taking a deep breath,
• 57:41
  Speaker 1: And what's one thing you can taste? Maybe water breakfast?
• 57:47
  Speaker 1: And now, in a moment, when you gently and softly,
• 57:51
  Speaker 1: in your own time, at your own pace, you open
• 57:53
  Speaker 1: your eyes, you'll experience full presence. Can open your eyes, man,
• 58:00
  Speaker 1: I love to sound a white noise. I love the
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: things you see behind your eyelids. And I've been stressing
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: to my heart that we need a mindfulness minute on
• 58:11
  Speaker 1: all radio stations, like we need whether it's j could
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: be Jetty, it could be Debbie Brown. We need a
• 58:16
  Speaker 1: mindful this minute, like a few times throughout the day,
• 58:21
  Speaker 1: especially during like the ten am the two pm slot,
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: when it's mid days and people at work every nine
• 58:26
  Speaker 1: and then you just got to take a break, like
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: we got to do exactly what we did just now.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: So when we call you, Jay, answer the phone the opportunity.
• 58:34
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Go get j Stty's book, Think Like a
• 58:37
  Speaker 1: monk Um, subscribe to them on Purpose podcast with Jay Setty,
• 58:42
  Speaker 1: and check out the app. One of my favorite people
• 58:44
  Speaker 1: to just follow and continue to be a great leader, Jake,
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so grateful. It's the Breakfast Club morning.
• 58:51
  Speaker 1: Oh it's a wrong. But after being ordered to pay
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: CARDI b upwards of four million dollars, bloggerd Taisha Kay
• 59:09
  Speaker 1: is saying that it was the machine and corporate interests
• 59:13
  Speaker 1: that was the reason why she lost. Here's what she
• 59:15
  Speaker 1: had to say. We called bluff against a machine that
• 59:20
  Speaker 1: wanted to bully me for not wavering from my personal beliefs.
• 59:24
  Speaker 1: A machine that has corporate interests to protect prostitution, drug
• 59:29
  Speaker 1: youth promiscuity, and to glorify the violence that rex having
• 59:34
  Speaker 1: on our society and in our neighborhoods. It's sold to
• 59:38
  Speaker 1: our children as the it factor. Although the court hasn't
• 59:43
  Speaker 1: instructed us to take the videos down, I've always said
• 59:46
  Speaker 1: that I would comply with any court or jury. The
• 59:49
  Speaker 1: videos have been taken down to show good faith to
• 59:52
  Speaker 1: the courts. This machine has tried to have me arrested,
• 59:56
  Speaker 1: threatened my life, and created a fake narrative about I mean,
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: I mean you lied. You know what I'm saying. You
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: lied about somebody maliciously, with malicious intent. Cardi B's records.
• 1:00:08
  Speaker 1: She had to go and get tested to see if
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 1: she had herpes because you were spreading this rumor and
• 1:00:13
  Speaker 1: it wasn't true. That's a lie, right, And sometimes you
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: just got to take a step back and really see
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 1: what God is trying to show you. You know, it's
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: not about likes, it's not about going viral, it's not
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 1: about donating now, subscribe now. Sometimes just take a step
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 1: back and see what God is trying to show you.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: Weapons for him to getst You will not prosper, but
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: they will if you are the weapon. And it's sad
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: when people simply can't take accountability or simply admit when
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: they're wrong. It shows a lack of integrity and reminds
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: folks while you're in the position you are in now.
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: And I respect Cardi B so much because that that
• 1:00:41
  Speaker 1: that court case took time. It took money. She had
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  Speaker 1: don't give the day for Thursday, January twenty seven goes
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 1: to thirty four year old Travis Nearly. Now. I'm sure
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 1: everyone listening to my voice has heard that Albert Einstein quote.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again
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  Speaker 1: and expecting different results. Well, because I've gotten old, I
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  Speaker 1: see that statement differently. There's a lot of things we
• 1:04:48
  Speaker 1: do over and over again and expect different results. Like
• 1:04:51
  Speaker 1: played a lottery I played Mega millions in Powerball over
• 1:04:54
  Speaker 1: and over again, expecting different results. Okay, I'm used to losing.
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  Speaker 1: Sometimes I went four dollars, sometimes I win seven. Last
• 1:05:02
  Speaker 1: week I bought a Mega million and Powerball ticket and
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  Speaker 1: I won nine dollars, career high for me. Drop one
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  Speaker 1: of Ko's bombs for my career high of nine dollars
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  Speaker 1: with the Mega million powerball. Okay, all right for me,
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: those were all different results, and I will continue to
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  Speaker 1: play over and over again because I want that ultimate result,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 1: which is all five numbers and the powerball that jackpot baby.
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  Speaker 1: So yes, we do things over and over and expect
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  Speaker 1: different results. Sometimes folks do the same things over and
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  Speaker 1: over again because they know exactly what they are going
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  Speaker 1: to get. They do the same thing over and over
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  Speaker 1: again because they know what the result is going to be.
• 1:05:38
  Speaker 1: And that's what happened in Jersey City. See Travis Nearly
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: robbed the spot called Augie's Grocery Delhi. He didn't rob
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 1: it once, he didn't rob it twice. He didn't rob
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 1: it three times. He robbed it four times. Why did
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: he keep doing the same thing over and over Not
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 1: because he expected a different result, but because he knew
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 1: what the result was going to be. He thought it
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  Speaker 1: was an easy lick. Let's go to source twelve report
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  Speaker 1: police in his thirty two years running Aggie's Delhi Grocery
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  Speaker 1: on Old Bergen Road. This was a first surveillance video
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  Speaker 1: from January tenth shows a masked man coming behind the
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  Speaker 1: counter and charging at seventy seven year old Aggie Lopez
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  Speaker 1: and came on top of me and the banging me,
• 1:06:17
  Speaker 1: and I'm saying what. Then he says he stole a
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  Speaker 1: few cigars, but it wasn't enough. He came back five
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 1: days later, knocked Aggie to the ground and got away
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  Speaker 1: with cash. He then came back the very next day
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 1: again more money. Then for the fourth time in eleven days,
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  Speaker 1: he came back, same guy, same clothes, and this time
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  Speaker 1: he jumped over with a counting but this time he
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  Speaker 1: had as a bride. We had a police officer here
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  Speaker 1: and they grabbed him. I saw this in passing on
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  Speaker 1: the news because of course I live in Jersey, and
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  Speaker 1: the first thing I thought was what a coward robbing
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  Speaker 1: that old man, hitting that old man over the head.
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  Speaker 1: Then I heard the Delhi on and say we will
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  Speaker 1: be ready when he comes back. But I said, he's
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  Speaker 1: not coming back, because I didn't realize he already had
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  Speaker 1: came three times. Pause, whoa, whoa, hey, yo, Now here's
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  Speaker 1: the thing. Travis Neely might be insane, all right, this
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  Speaker 1: is who Albert Einstein wrote the quote for. Because when
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  Speaker 1: you talk about doing the same thing over and over
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  Speaker 1: and expecting different results. I'm positive Albert Einstein wasn't talking
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  Speaker 1: about crimes, all right. He might have been talking about workouts, Okay,
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 1: not about crimes, all right. If he was robbing people,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: if he was robbing places, you wouldn't continue to rob
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  Speaker 1: the same individual, would you. You wouldn't continue to rob
• 1:07:27
  Speaker 1: the same place, would you, Because eventually that person our
• 1:07:30
  Speaker 1: place you keep hitting, it's gonna prepare for your arrival.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what happened here. The funniest thing about this
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 1: news report to me is when it says the Robert
• 1:07:37
  Speaker 1: Travis Neely was stunned when off duty police officer Maurice Johnson,
• 1:07:42
  Speaker 1: who had stopped by the check on the store that
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: already got robbed three times, jumped out from the back
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  Speaker 1: of the store. I know what you're thinking, Okay, what
• 1:07:50
  Speaker 1: drug was Travis on? All right? This ain't normal. You
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  Speaker 1: don't rob the same store four times and then I
• 1:07:56
  Speaker 1: surprised when the officer pops out on the fourth time.
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 1: That's how that's like. I went. Taylor Swift, you know,
• 1:08:02
  Speaker 1: acts fake surprise that she's winning an award. Taylor, you
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  Speaker 1: know you were winning. Okay, wait, Uncle Charlotte don't get distracted.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: What drug was Travis on? Well, he was rushed to
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 1: the Jersey Jersey City Medical Center after his arrest due
• 1:08:15
  Speaker 1: to possibly being under the influence of CDs. Now I'm old.
• 1:08:18
  Speaker 1: I see acronyms. I don't know what they mean. The
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 1: more I saw CDs, I was like, under the influence
• 1:08:21
  Speaker 1: of CDs. But what the hell drug is CDs? I
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: had no idea, So I did some research and by
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 1: research I mean Google and all it means it's controlled
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 1: dangerous substance. Okay, I just thought it was something new.
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 1: But it's the same old, same old heroin, opioid dope,
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 1: dog food. Okay, look, it sounds to me like Travis
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  Speaker 1: nearly needs to change his daily routine. You robbed the
• 1:08:41
  Speaker 1: same Delhi four times in eleven days. You probably need
• 1:08:44
  Speaker 1: to change your routine. Actually, you need to change your life,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 1: your whole life, Travis. But it starts with changing your routine,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 1: and robbing shouldn't be part of your routine. Okay. Moral
• 1:08:55
  Speaker 1: of this story for everyone listening is you will never
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 1: change your life and tell you change something you do daily.
• 1:09:03
  Speaker 1: The secret of your success is found in your daily
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 1: routine routine, especially if your routine is Robbing the same
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 1: person multiple times is not progress. Please let me give
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 1: Travis nearly the biggest he hall he ha, he ha,
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  Speaker 1: You stupid mother? Are you dumb? Now? I wish the
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  Speaker 1: old man would have had a gun and shot his ass.
• 1:09:22
  Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you. Come to the store four times,
• 1:09:25
  Speaker 1: you hit me over the head every now and then
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 1: you're asking to get that shot. I don't like to
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 1: promote violence, no, but I promote self defense and defended
• 1:09:33
  Speaker 1: yourself and property. Hit me over the head. I could
• 1:09:36
  Speaker 1: have hit my head and died. Now, you should have
• 1:09:37
  Speaker 1: got shot. He lucky. Ain't your shot a good time?
• 1:09:39
  Speaker 1: And he deserved the bullet. And the hood should have
• 1:09:41
  Speaker 1: beat his ass for going into the store beating up
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 1: an old man like that. I'm sure they will. He's
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 1: probably enjailed. Like man, you robbed all. He's all. He's
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 1: got the best sandwich is said Daly too. God damn it,
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: I just burned my finger, My dumb ass, talk about
• 1:09:52
  Speaker 1: doing the same thing over and over. I keep flicking
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 1: the damn light and knowing it's hot as hell. Don't
• 1:09:55
  Speaker 1: burn your finger, Yeah, I'm sure all right? Well next,
• 1:09:58
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• 1:10:06
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• 1:10:34
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• 1:10:36
  Speaker 1: New York, Good morning, good morning, Good morning world. Yeah, yeah,
• 1:10:40
  Speaker 1: there we go. All right, So what happened was all right,
• 1:10:44
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• 1:10:48
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• 1:10:51
  Speaker 1: Mavbie now, but when I first started talking to her,
• 1:10:54
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• 1:11:01
  Speaker 1: find out she had her boyfriend, baby daddy, and so
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 1: I left alone. Okay, so we've been cool. All emotions,
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 1: you know, rang out. We've been cool over the years.
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  Speaker 1: But the problem is recently talk about twenty nineteen. You know,
• 1:11:20
  Speaker 1: you don't know what to do. She's going through counsel
• 1:11:23
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• 1:11:26
  Speaker 1: she's still married, right, okay? And are you doing anything
• 1:11:31
  Speaker 1: with her? Okay? So here's my thing. It feels a
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 1: little messy over there. So how's your life outside of that? Well,
• 1:11:41
  Speaker 1: you know, the only person I fired that like go
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  Speaker 1: out on the DAP for empty life. So I'm kind
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  Speaker 1: of right, it feels too messy. I wouldn't voluntarily put
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  Speaker 1: myself in a situation with somebody who already when you
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  Speaker 1: first met her, was involved and you had to step
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  Speaker 1: away from that. And you know, now she's married, she
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 1: has to make some decisions, and so I don't feel
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 1: like I would want to put myself in the middle
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 1: of that. You know, that's kind of like and I
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 1: could tell you're asking about it because you care about her,
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  Speaker 1: you miss her, But yes, right, But you know, I
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  Speaker 1: think that you just can't accept certain things for yourself,
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 1: and your standards have to be high enough that you say, look,
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  Speaker 1: as a friend, you know, I'm hoping to everything you
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  Speaker 1: got you get it together. If you're not in a
• 1:12:28
  Speaker 1: relationship anymore. If you're not married anymore, then that's a
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 1: consideration we can take. But I don't think you should
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 1: put yourself that's you know, that's just not a situation
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 1: you should voluntarily be in. True right now, right you
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 1: know a lot of options are coming my way at
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 1: the moment, you know, because of the pandemic. To all
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  Speaker 1: of that, you know, don't make your life more complicated.
• 1:12:50
  Speaker 1: And I also feel like sometimes when you do that,
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 1: you kind of block out what could be with some
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  Speaker 1: with the right person. And she may not be the
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 1: right person you, but she has a responsibility also and
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 1: for herself to figure out what she's doing in her
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 1: life and her relationship before she can even move on, right, true.
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 1: And I just don't want you to get hurt. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: I ain't gonna get hurt. It's okay. It's somebody that
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 1: you care about, that's with somebody else, that's already done
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 1: something that, whether or not you admit it, hurt you
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 1: in the past because you ended up having a step away,
• 1:13:22
  Speaker 1: and then because you care about her, she's come back.
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 1: But it's not ideal for you exactly. Thank you, man,
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  Speaker 1: I really appreciate your info. You're welcome. You sound like
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  Speaker 1: a great guy, Tony, and I'm sure there's a lot
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  Speaker 1: Good morning, some real advice with Angela yet, ask ye morning?
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  Speaker 1: guys got together, you know, the past really don't matter.
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  Speaker 1: But you know something, it might bother some people when
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  Speaker 1: they get into the relationship and they might find out
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 1: or they girl or boy frand teller whatever, that they
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  Speaker 1: byted you? You know what. It did bothered me for
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: a minute because her when we were asking, when we
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 1: were talking about it, when we was you know how
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 1: relationships start, y'all just friends, you know, y'all getting to
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 1: know each other and everything is kind of like spoke freely.
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 1: So when she first you know what, she asked me
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 1: if I had one? I'm like, yeah, I had about
• 1:15:23
  Speaker 1: four maybe five. Then I asked her, she comes she
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 1: never had one. Then we got, you know, in the relationship,
• 1:15:31
  Speaker 1: things got, you know, been together for a by the year,
• 1:15:35
  Speaker 1: there's all the sudden that she tells me that she
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 1: did have one. You know, it came up again and
• 1:15:39
  Speaker 1: she tells me that she did. So I did feel
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 1: a way about it, for sure. Did you feel a
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: way that she lied to you initially or did you
• 1:15:46
  Speaker 1: feel a way that she had a three seth It
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  Speaker 1: was it was a little bit of both. It was
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 1: a little bit of both. She probably didn't want you
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  Speaker 1: to judge her because people look at women differently all
• 1:15:55
  Speaker 1: the time. On our sexual experiences, there's a lot of judgment.
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  Speaker 1: But I do you feel like when somebody tells you
• 1:16:01
  Speaker 1: something that places a lot of trust in you and
• 1:16:04
  Speaker 1: in the relationship, and you can't really hold things over
• 1:16:06
  Speaker 1: people's head from when they met, were from what happened
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  Speaker 1: before you, right, you know, the only issue is that
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 1: she didn't tell the truth initially. But you guys were
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 1: just friends then, right, Yeah, you know, were at that
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 1: stage where you know, you're getting to know each other.
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  Speaker 1: You guys are asking each other question. Right, it was
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  Speaker 1: like really no expectations, There was no judgment and then
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  Speaker 1: you know what, it was probably the lie you know
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 1: at first, and then it was you know, I'm thinking
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  Speaker 1: about the three from I'm replaying it in my mind,
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  Speaker 1: you know, like damn and she were lied to me
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  Speaker 1: about it, Like what kind of three from what? Like?
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, I just I let my mind get
• 1:16:43
  Speaker 1: the best them. Right, Well you have four of them,
• 1:16:45
  Speaker 1: so you know, but yeah, I get it that it
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  Speaker 1: was a lie. But you have to also understand that
• 1:16:51
  Speaker 1: women are judged constantly all the time to this day.
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  Speaker 1: It's really bad. And so sometimes when you don't know
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  Speaker 1: somebody well enough, you don't know if we're gonna end
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  Speaker 1: up together. I don't want to tell you too much,
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  Speaker 1: and then you take this and then you know it
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  Speaker 1: comes back up. I also got to see how you're
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: gonna treat me. Are you gonna look at me crazy?
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  Speaker 1: So I'm sure that she felt a little bit like,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sure if I could trust him enough to
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  Speaker 1: share this with him? Right right, right right? But you
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  Speaker 1: over right now right? Oh yeah, I've been over when
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  Speaker 1: you asked me. When the person asked me right what
• 1:17:23
  Speaker 1: you're gonna ask you, I'm like, uh, yeah, I didn't
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: feel away about this, So yeah, let me ask you
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  Speaker 1: about this. Are y'all gonna have a threesome? No? We
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  Speaker 1: probably she probably is not gonna have a threation with me.
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: I'm not even interested in having no threesothing like that.
• 1:17:38
  Speaker 1: That's that's that's I have better sex with with, you know,
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 1: with just one woman, then then I've had any three them,
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: all right, And that's real. And at least you have
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  Speaker 1: the chance to experience those things before to know that
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: you know you live your life and then you settle
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  Speaker 1: down with the person who you want to be with,
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  Speaker 1: right right, Okay, thank you, Yeah, I appreciate y'all. Love y'all,
• 1:18:02
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  Speaker 1: This documentary, a two night documentary event, is primaring tomorrow.
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  Speaker 1: We'll tell you some more that you can expect to see.
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  Speaker 1: There's a surprise appearance. All right, we'll get into that next.
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  Speaker 1: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This
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  Speaker 1: is the Rumor Report with Angela Ye. Well, Kanye wants
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  Speaker 1: to help out with the homeless crisis in LA and
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 1: he wants to get them to model some clothes. Okay.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 1: He is working with streetwear brand skid Roll Fashion Week
• 1:18:46
  Speaker 1: on a new collab and fashion show. The ultimate goal
• 1:18:48
  Speaker 1: is to help out the homeless. David's Bashion, who is
• 1:18:51
  Speaker 1: the founder of skid Roll Fashion Week, told tim Z
• 1:18:53
  Speaker 1: he met with Kanye earlier this month while he was
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: recording Donda two at his studio and they decided to
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: create a easy skid Row Fashion Week clothing collab. He
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  Speaker 1: said the company donates a portion of all sales to
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  Speaker 1: helping those living on skid Row, and the factory that
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: makes the clothes employees the homeless, and that Easy collabor
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 1: use one hundred percent of the proceeds to help the
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  Speaker 1: homeless on skid Row. In the Drop February twenty second,
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  Speaker 1: that's dope. I didn't know skid Row had a fashion show.
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  Speaker 1: Skid Role we having a fashion I didn't know they
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  Speaker 1: had a fashion And how does that work? And am
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 1: I thinking about this correctly when I say when I
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 1: hear skid roll fashion show? Or am I is that
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 1: just the name for something? Well, it's the name of
• 1:19:27
  Speaker 1: it's a it's a clothing line. And then they're doing
• 1:19:30
  Speaker 1: a fashion show, so they don't take actual you know,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know, it's placed people and let them walk
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  Speaker 1: the runway. Yeah, I don't know if they've done a
• 1:19:38
  Speaker 1: fashion show before. Dope, though, if they paid the homeless
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  Speaker 1: people to actually to do a fashion show and bring
• 1:19:43
  Speaker 1: people to where they from and make sure that they
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 1: keep those clothes and pay them I think about stuff
• 1:19:48
  Speaker 1: like that, it would be dope. But that's like a
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 1: one time payment, Like, how do you hope those people
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 1: permanently is you know what I mean? So well, they
• 1:19:54
  Speaker 1: already have them working in the factory for a skid
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 1: Row Fashion Week, so that's one of the things that
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 1: they do. And like we said, the p of the proceeds.
• 1:20:01
  Speaker 1: But they're saying one hundred percent of this clothing collab
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 1: is going to go to help out the homeless, I hope.
• 1:20:05
  Speaker 1: So because you don't want them to be homeless anymore,
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 1: that that should be the goal, right, m Absolutely, And
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 1: they're saying that one thing that they're kicking around as
• 1:20:13
  Speaker 1: an idea is a trash bag puffer jacket. So I
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 1: mean that's dope. And the reason another reason that because
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: folks you know, would make jokes and say the clothes
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 1: that Kanye may look like homeless folks to whim anyway,
• 1:20:23
  Speaker 1: they do say that, But I think that would be
• 1:20:25
  Speaker 1: dope if you could pay the homeless people to do
• 1:20:27
  Speaker 1: it and have people come down. It's dope to flip
• 1:20:30
  Speaker 1: that narrative. Correct, you make the jokes about me, but
• 1:20:32
  Speaker 1: watch what I'll do with this, all right? Nick even
• 1:20:34
  Speaker 1: Nach has confirmed that she has a collab but little
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  Speaker 1: Baby that is arriving On February fourth, she posted a
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  Speaker 1: picture on set with little Baby and said, do we
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  Speaker 1: have a problem baby times barbe pink Friday, February fourth, Okay,
• 1:20:48
  Speaker 1: so get ready for that. I want to hear that,
• 1:20:51
  Speaker 1: all right. Janet Jackson, you know her documentary, that two
• 1:20:54
  Speaker 1: part documentary is coming out tomorrow. Oh, no, tomorrow's tomorrow Friday. Yes,
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know what day it is. Yeah, so that's
• 1:21:00
  Speaker 1: going to be coming out. It's two parts of a
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  Speaker 1: lifetime in A and E documentary called Janet, and there's
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 1: a lot of things that will be discussed. Now. Janet
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  Speaker 1: Jackson said her brother teased her about her weight game,
• 1:21:13
  Speaker 1: Michael Jackson, and called her names, and she said there
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 1: were times when Mikey said, tease me and call me pig, horse, slaughterhog, cow.
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 1: He would laugh about it and I'd laugh too, but
• 1:21:23
  Speaker 1: there was something down inside that it would hurt. And
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 1: she said, when you have somebody say you're too heavy,
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 1: it affects you. She said she and her older brother
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 1: drifted apart as they grew older, starting with the release
• 1:21:34
  Speaker 1: of his album Thriller in nineteen eighty two. She said,
• 1:21:36
  Speaker 1: I really I remember really loving a Thriller album, but
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: for the first time in my life, I felt like
• 1:21:40
  Speaker 1: it was different between us. A shift was happening. That's
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 1: the time Mike and I started going our separate ways.
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 1: He just wasn't as fun as he used to be.
• 1:21:47
  Speaker 1: And when they worked together on Scream in nineteen ninety five,
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: she felt frozen out by him. She said, Michael shot nights,
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 1: I shot days. His record company would block off his
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 1: set so I couldn't see what was going on. They
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 1: didn't want me on set. That really hurt me because
• 1:21:59
  Speaker 1: I felt like I was there fighting the fight with him,
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 1: not to battle him. I wanted to feel like old
• 1:22:04
  Speaker 1: times between he and I, and it didn't. Old times
• 1:22:06
  Speaker 1: had long passed. She who knew, I had no idea now.
• 1:22:10
  Speaker 1: She also shut down rumors of a secret baby with
• 1:22:13
  Speaker 1: her ex James Debarred. She said, that is not right.
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 1: Back in the day, she said, how could I keep
• 1:22:17
  Speaker 1: a child from their father? I could never do that.
• 1:22:19
  Speaker 1: That's not right. So also, how old were they when
• 1:22:22
  Speaker 1: they were making these jokes on each other? I mean,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 1: if you got brothers and sisters, you make jokes on
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  Speaker 1: your brothers. I was gonna say the same thing. I'm
• 1:22:27
  Speaker 1: an only child, but you know, Madison and Logan, they
• 1:22:29
  Speaker 1: make old times got an old, two younger brothers and
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: younger sister, Like how old they were? Never do you
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  Speaker 1: remember when she gained weight? Like she was a little
• 1:22:37
  Speaker 1: older when that happened. So she's saying it was it
• 1:22:39
  Speaker 1: was when the weight gain happened. It sounds like it
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 1: was when they were kids. When she was penny, she
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 1: wasn't big, she was really small. When I get in
• 1:22:47
  Speaker 1: a little way, my kids made fun of me too.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 1: They told me a way I need a bra like well,
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 1: she said, she laughed, but she said it did hurt her.
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 1: She's right. Why do I feel like? Why do I
• 1:22:57
  Speaker 1: feel like? I remember Michael saying one of the reasons
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 1: he got an old because he used to get teased
• 1:23:01
  Speaker 1: about his nose, about his family members. So there must
• 1:23:04
  Speaker 1: have been some great jokes in that house. Then there
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  Speaker 1: must have been all snapping on each other. I think
• 1:23:08
  Speaker 1: you have to understand the way that it does hurt
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 1: people when you say things. They might try to laugh
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  Speaker 1: it off in the moment, but it can really have
• 1:23:14
  Speaker 1: an effect on you. I agree. But you know what
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 1: that is that that has been a big part of
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: our culture for time, playing the dozens. That's right, snapping
• 1:23:22
  Speaker 1: on people. Team metal mouth and four eyes and brace face.
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  Speaker 1: So I got all that shrimp not just something to
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  Speaker 1: be aware of. Right, we still tease folks. All right,
• 1:23:33
  Speaker 1: let me come here with all that Beijing on his face.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 1: You're gonna get these Stop it, man, leave me a little.
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• 1:23:59
  Speaker 1: salute to doctor Tanya Matthews, the CEO of that amazing project.
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  Speaker 1: thank you and shout out to all of you guys.
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  Speaker 1: You know, me and the wife. We have a book
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  Speaker 1: it's right fighting, it's uh cheating and fighting. Yeah, it
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  Speaker 1: to the end because I just want to win the fight.
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  Speaker 1: When sometimes you learn it's it's not about winning or losing,
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  Speaker 1: it's about understanding each other. Y'all. Y'all are just in therapy.
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  Speaker 1: That's therapy talking. I mean, we have to get to
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  Speaker 1: hope sincerely that y'all get to go on a book tour.
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  Speaker 1: I hope that you know COVID clears up because Clovid
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 1: COVID has really stopped a lot of book tours, you know,
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  Speaker 1: see all those people in all those different cities that
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 1: really really support you in a different ways. It's one
• 1:26:44
  Speaker 1: thing when you're in the clubs and all of that
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 1: stuff like that. But when you go to a bookstore
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  Speaker 1: I could do what y'all need to do. But excited
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  Speaker 1: about that. If we get an advanced copy, yeah, I
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  Speaker 1: digico copy. I hate the digital copy sometimes, but I'll
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  Speaker 1: send you the digital cop because pure the pictures, because
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  Speaker 1: there's pictures in there. It really shows up. You got
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  Speaker 1: that picture that you had a little short time with
• 1:27:16
  Speaker 1: this knee high sicks. I did not put that picture.
• 1:27:18
  Speaker 1: You should. I'm not gonna lie as their time. No.
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  Speaker 1: And the picture she's talking about is my mom showed
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 1: ANGELI a picture, you know, the Jamaican shirts with all
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 1: the holes in it, called the Jamaica shure. I had
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  Speaker 1: that on. But back in the day, guys were short shorts,
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 1: and it was like, you know what, I'm not even
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 1: gonna explain it. That pictures going who you wear short shorts,
• 1:27:40
  Speaker 1: big glasses on, to wear biker shorts and stuff. Back
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 1: in the day, that like that was regular, especially in Florida, priceless.
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  Speaker 1: You should have put it in there. I'm good. It
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