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Spiritual Frequencies: Finding Comfort and Connection in Life · Eye Opener Society

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  Hi, everyone. Welcome back to iOpener Society. I thank you again for your hit
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  I have Jennifer Miller here with us.
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  Jennifer, you're going to be obviously the co-host and you're going to be the
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  creative source behind that talk show too as well because we've been sharing
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  a lot of ideas and I'd like to give some creative control to you as well.
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  I think that show is going to fit you in a very good way.
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  But again, no, it certainly will for sure. I know we're going to do good.
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  This episode is going to be good too. And we're going to do quick because I
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  got a couple things that I need to do.
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  But again, we were speaking just before this podcast and with all of our talks
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  and all of our words and all of our thoughts, ideas, you got me into thinking something.
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  Uh you mentioned to me you ever go into a place that just doesn't feel right
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  you're not comfortable you want to be arm's length people and I had a story
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  where I was in a place that was the complete opposite so we're just going to
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  sit here and we're going to discuss quickly um.
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  Places that you are in your comfort
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  what you feel you know do you
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  need to run away or do you need to back out so since
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  uh jennifer you um mentioned to me
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  like yeah you're sometimes in these places how many times how
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  often does that happen and how often are you
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  in places that you're actually comfortable with um you
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  know sometimes okay so like with vending it just really depends
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  with vending um like your neighbors and stuff beside you
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  like that can just affect the whole ambiance of
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  wherever you're at um festival metaphysical event
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  expo or just doing readings i mean like
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  when i do readings at home i feel perfectly fine like comfortable if i do readings
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  at shops sometimes i feel comfortable sometimes i don't um often wise um it
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  just depends on how busy i am um When it comes to being not comfortable or comfortable and you know,
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  like with a schedule, you know, vetting schedules are not set.
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  So It really just depends but when you're in those situations you feel very anxious,
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  You say things that put your foot in your mouth and it just makes it worse,
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  um And and you can sense it like you can just sense it Um,
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  maybe not when you're setting up but as soon as people start coming around and
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  that's why i'm saying like energy vampires they can cause that um People with
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  just really bad attitudes like they just have like the roughest day will add
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  to that atmosphere It it really is. It's a combination of everything like.
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  That can cause you know the discomfort and the
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  uncomfortableness i mean but you just sense
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  it you just feel it i mean you could literally probably just you know
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  cut the the room air with a knife i mean
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  and you've even said before that you felt places where you've been very uncomfortable
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  um and then very comfortable like what's your like you know does do people add
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  to that for you or yeah it's see if you apply it like for us we're talking more
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  of the metaphysical community.
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  But it could be anything. Listen, even if you're retail shopping,
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  there's certain stores you're going to go to because you're comfortable with
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  them. It's just that simple.
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  That's why all this here, reviews and all, we're looking at individuals and
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  where they feel comfortable with.
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  If I feel comfortable shopping at shop A and somebody else is more comfortable
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  shopping at shop B, what really is the difference?
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  Both places are selling the same items. So when we get into this metaphysical
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  community, people are coming to us from the retail side that might not understand
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  anything about the metaphysical community.
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  Are they going to be feeling comfortable? Are they going to be feeling welcome
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  around you? That's the key.
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  But at the same time, they don't know what they're stepping into because they
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  just simply don't understand it.
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  The entire audience knows Jen from Mind's Eye Metaphysical.
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  I talk about her all the time. She's the one who actually got me into podcasting.
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  She got my life turned around through a simple Reiki session.
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  The first day I walked into her shop, I was completely overwhelmed by such a positive energy.
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  And my wife was too. So it was two physical beings inside this store that were
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  just taking on this wonderful positive energy.
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  And that was even before Jen walked into the shop.
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  Once she did, now it added another element to where there was a human interaction
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  as well that also was just so full of positivity.
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  It was just weird. It was such a comforting feeling being in that shop.
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  And through the years, getting to know Jen even more, she's taken on this role
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  as a spirit guide in my life because anything I ask of her, she has answers.
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  And they're very matter-of-factly but at the same time
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  she allows me to interpret them in my
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  own way and that is the you know
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  for the metaphysical community that's the best way to approach any of this because
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  not everybody's going to understand it and you need to make them feel comfortable
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  and allow them to make their own interpretations because at the same time us
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  as metaphysical community members that have certain gifts or whether it be tarot
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  reading or tea leaf readings,
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  whatever it may be, we do things in our own way.
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  And we don't have to follow any kind of rules because regardless of what anybody
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  says, and no matter the backlash you and I might get from this episode,
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  there are no rules to this.
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  Each individual person is an individual person who's learned to do things through their own way.
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  Spiritual world does not have instructions well yeah i mean there's some instructions
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  for certain things like you know.
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  Uh you know making candles and stuff you know
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  i mean not technically just always candles but
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  like you know if you're putting essential oil in
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  i mean you kind of need to know that because you don't really want to like cause
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  anybody to have like a toxic reaction or anything but um
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  like you said yeah like there really is no specific
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  rule on on things um
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  and usually it's people that are like the gatekeepers um
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  are usually that way that things are just done
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  this way and if you don't do it that way then you're not really you're not really
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  into it um there are those people um and some people like that some people really
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  like the you know very schedule very you know things go a certain way.
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  And then there's other people that are just really happy and open to just,
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  you know, whatever feels right. It just, it's, and then there's people that
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  are kind of in the middle of the road.
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  I mean, with that, sometimes they really like some rigid things and they like
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  really like open and willing to just allow things to be how they feel.
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  So, I mean, yeah, I mean, you get those.
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  It really is though, like there's just a combination of how you feel like welcome
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  Um, and I mean like atmosphere like your ambiance That really adds to it.
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  Um, the people that show up like if you have a shop or if you're at an event
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  That really brings to the you know energy Um,
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  and what people sell Um, if it's laid out really well, it kind of has like a
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  feng shui like a flow to it So like there are like a lot of things that really
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  add to Being welcome welcoming.
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  Um And just it being a good atmosphere i
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  mean all around and there's just times that
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  you will run into the uncomfortableness i mean
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  unfortunately and it's really um
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  you know unfortunate because we do as humans work off of physical energies so
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  you're never going to go and get any type of metaphysical service from someone
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  whom you're just not comfortable with and it doesn't mean you don't like the
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  person it just means the energies are just not connecting.
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  And when you're going to connect, you're going to connect somebody with something
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  that's energetic to begin with.
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  You shouldn't have any bad energies between each other.
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  It's something I always bring my wife. If I'm going to meet somebody,
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  you know, new within the community, I bring her with me because she'll be the
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  first one, like, put it off.
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  There's a bad energy here. You know, she's able to sense that.
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  So yeah, I, but at times I've also felt comfortable around people where she
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  didn't feel comfortable around, you know, it's, it's all that turn out.
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  Yeah. I've,
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  I've really did. I've run into people before that I said, oh,
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  wow, they're great. They're wonderful.
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  And then turns out down the road, they really are not. And then you lose that
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  energy. You lose that spiritual connection at times. So there's always going to be a difference.
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  It's something we need to start feeling more comfortable with ourselves.
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  It's not rejection. It's just there is a lack of good energy between the people.
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  And we don't want that for the people that we're servicing.
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  We want to have something very clean open
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  as far as energies this way everything works for
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  as far as what we are doing transparency huh yep
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  for sure i get that i mean
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  yeah like if you don't if your chemistry is off and you're not aligning yeah
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  that can really i mean i've done readings like that and i'll say i felt really
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  dirty afterwards you know i and i hate to say this but But I was very open to
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  giving them a reading and I just got very weird energy off them.
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  Like, I wouldn't say, I mean, there's times I've got negative energy.
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  I've got really bad, like they just, they have the resting bitch face or,
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  you know, resting hard ass that nothing you say or do is going to...
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  Affect them and they're very i don't want to say like skeptical or you know think you're,
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  kind of like a scam artist but there's sometimes that you feel that vibe off
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  them and when even if you give them the reading to show them like hey i'm open
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  like you know like try to see if they're just one of those people that have
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  a hard looking exterior but are very soft.
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  Sometimes that energy though just right off the bat really it does not flow
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  it does not it it does not do well and and you end up feeling very dirty and
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  very just i don't know the ick.
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  You get that really gross feeling um
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  and that that's a hard thing to shake after you've given a reading
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  like that i mean it's a really hard thing just to get
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  right off you and um and then you
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  know like your your whole day kind of just doesn't align it
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  doesn't go smooth then i mean because you have that dirty
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  energy then and it's
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  it's not fun yeah it's not but this
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  is what we need to recognize and we need to recognize it early so
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  even before that reading takes place um there's
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  nothing wrong saying i don't think our energies are
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  aligning i don't think i could give you a reading that's all
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  i have done that before too and and i
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  was so grateful because i know like some events i've
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  gone to like metaphysical expos they'll go
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  to somebody else four you know tables five
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  tables down that did terry and they come up and they're
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  like i just did this reading and i should not have done and
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  it felt gross and i'm i'm always
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  like yeah i kind of passed i passed them up just because i felt it was it was
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  just not gonna fit and i find it strange when it doesn't fit for other people
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  too like you know that your energy with that person will align but because they
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  gave that bad reading things just feel so wonky um.
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  It, uh, yeah. So if you're going to a metaphysical event or reading,
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  make sure you go in open-minded and relaxed and just ready to have an experience
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  and not, if it's going to be any way bad, don't, don't go.
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  Cause it really does the dirty energy.
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  Just, it doesn't, you know, it does bad for the reader too.
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  I mean, they feel that as well. Mm-hmm.
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  And this also applies not only to metaphysical, just to everyday people that
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  are out there when you're going about your daily life.
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  Remember, we are physical beings. We are going to judge people immediately by
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  looking at them from looks and the way they dress and all that.
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  But on a spiritual level, even though a lot of people are just not conscientious
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  of it, there is an entire spiritual realm that's going on.
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  So when you're coming in contact with other people, you are dealing with their
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  energies, their spiritual energies, and you have your own spiritual energies,
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  we may not be conscientious of it if you're not in the whole metaphysical realm.
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  You may not understand that. So you may feel off. You may start judging people more.
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  If we take the time out to understand that there's more than just that physical
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  connection, that there is that spiritual and energetic connection between people,
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  that is why we lose trust on people. This is why we get negative feelings.
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  This is why we think, oh, maybe I shouldn't be around this person.
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  There's a bad vibe or whatever.
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  It's happening. It happens every day, every single person we come in contact with.
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  And we need to start connecting, I think, a little bit more that way on a spiritual
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  or energetic level than just taking people for face value.
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  We connect only with those that we vibe with.
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  Our vibrations need to match that person. Sometimes we have to deal with someone
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  who's not on that same vibrational frequency.
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  We can find ways around it. We can tune into certain spaces within that vibrational
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  frequency just enough so we can deal with that person for a shorter period of time.
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  But those people that we connect with, those people that we want to connect
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  with, we need to vibe with them. And we just need to find that person that's
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  still operating on the same frequency as us.
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  Right. I mean, yeah, I agree with that.
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  I mean, I think sometimes people, though, when you first meet them,
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  they do go based off looks and they make that conscious effort to not purposely
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  get along with you because of, you know,
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  certain things, the way you look, like if you look like you have money or if
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  you look like you're a hobo or,
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  you know, I think people make those conscious decisions
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  sometimes though i mean their energy
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  could be really good but they see how this person looks and they're
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  like meh i don't want to be associated with someone like that so they purposely
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  are very short and make that very you know just very blocked off you know arms
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  distance i think people do that sometimes consciously it's you know not always you know yeah we don't.
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  I believe we actually sit there and we change our own
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  vibrational frequencies because we can do that and that's what
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  emotionals do they change those frequencies and we can change our frequency
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  to either get away from somebody just because we're judging them or whatever
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  this is why we are really spiritual beings but we are not connected with it
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  enough to understand it where we can actually make changes that would be positive rather than a negative,
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  Right. I mean, right. I think some people just, yeah, they, they want to shut
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  certain areas off for just very shallow reasons. Exactly.
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  And I mean, if they were to do it in a more positive, just, you know,
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  getting along with someone that might have better results, people will probably be happier for one.
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  Cause I know there's times like I've really wanted to just
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  really get along with someone i mean really get
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  along really vibe with them i mean we didn't
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  have to be around each other all the time but like i was really just trying
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  to and they were just very like
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  now um and
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  it was mostly work work stuff
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  um it just it kind
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  of sucks when you're trying to put that effort in there and
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  they're just so i think
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  i think it would go a long way if people would just
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  keep an open mind with positive energy instead of just
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  shutting people off and and going towards a
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  dark negative place do and that's the lesson i think that's the lesson we all
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  need to learn is to get more in tune with our spiritual and our energetic selves
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  and to understand that everyone is operating on a different vibrational frequency.
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  Once we understand that, we can open up the lines of communication much better.
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