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Sister Wives S4 E10 - Brown Family Confessions · My Sister Wives Podcast

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  What does the nanny do? OK, so we're done.
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  Goodbye. You shut it off.
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  Do not twist my words. Do not make me a victim,
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  sweetie. Just look at the mountain.
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  That's what you saw. That day, just the knife in the
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  kidneys over all these years and
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  love you. Brown Family confessions Have
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  you confessed? Not recently.
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  Have you been down on your knees
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  Probably not since my junior year of high school.
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  Well, I've been asking for some forgiveness, but not
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  necessarily on my knees. Season 4, Episode 10, Brown
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  Family Confessions. It's another Q&A episode now,
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  our first one, I was concerned
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  suck, and it was not lame and it
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  So we'll see where this one goes.
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  TBD because at the end of the episode we looked at each other
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  and I was like. Yeah.
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  Yeah, we show the Browns the adults are sitting on couches
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  that are like making a triangle.
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  You've got Robyn. You've got Meri Kody and then
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  you've got Janelle and Christine.
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  So they're sitting kind of like at an angle together, and then
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  So Logan's sitting on the couch
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  at the very end, on the left next to.
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  Robyn, Robyn. And then the other kids are like
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  intermixed between the parents.
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  And some on the floor. Some on the floor.
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  On the couches. And it's very odd because
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  there's just this weird little, it looks like a footstool, a
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  wooden footstool with a laptop on it.
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  And you can see the cords coming off of the laptop like they
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  couldn't even charge it in time to have it cordless and sitting
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  there or pass the tablet around like they did during the first
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  janky setup was. And it's just weird.
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  They've it's obviously a MacBook and they've got a huge black
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  sticker over the MacBook like logo over the Apple.
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  And it just looks thrown together, like haphazardly.
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  Yeah, there's like a speed up thing at the beginning of the
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  episode where they're setting up the room and it's in Janelle's
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  And yeah, they have these two couches at an angle.
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  And then even later on when they're showing the questions
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  being asked, there's some video questions, there's some text
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  questions. And they have like an over
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  shoulder shot of one of the questions being asked and it's
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  something. And it looks even at the
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  beginning. It's literally just like a
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  QuickTime MOV file where you play like it's.
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  It's definitely not high production quality I would say.
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  Like Times New Roman.
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  Yeah, yeah, even the on screens are like.
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  On PowerPoint. Copy pasted the like tweets or
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  whatever it is directly. So there's like spelling errors
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  and grammatical errors and all
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  cute. The computer is on a foot stool,
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  I would say, because the children are sitting around it
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  and you need to be able to see
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  I don't know what what to say other than the fact that it
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  looks janky and thrown together and definitely a little
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  ridiculous. I don't know if they're trying
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  to make it seem more homey by doing it in Janelle's house
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  other than doing it in a confessional style interview
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  with the couches like they normally do, but I just don't
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  understand it. It went from the first Q&A of
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  seemed very professional to this.
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  And I don't get it. I don't know.
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  And this is the second Q&A of the season.
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  The first one was episode 4, right?
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  And we were shocked that they were doing AQ and A so early on
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  in the season. So to go from that style of Q&A
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  to this is bizarre. Yeah, it makes our setup look
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  pretty good. I mean, I'm going like, wow, you
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  know, we are on the same level
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  We're rocking it. We are right up there with
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  Puddle Monkey Productions. TLC could put us on a show right
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  now and we'd fit right in with
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  We'd be better. Better even, I would say.
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  Yeah, yeah, Pretty tragic. They give us this little setup
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  and everybody's getting together
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  going to answer some questions, blah, blah, blah.
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  And then the first question comes to us from Ernesto.
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  Take it, Kimber. Ernesto has a question for the
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  children. Is anybody dating yet?
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  Silence. The teenagers are looking
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  around. Crickets.
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  Who's going to answer? Who's going to say anything?
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  Who goes first? They show Logan looking very
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  coy. Yeah, and Robyn asks Logan if
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  he's kissed her, so Logan must
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  He's been seeing somebody. Seeing a an attractive, smart,
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  funny, big tittied girl. Oh, he's quicker to describe her
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  than Kody was to describe each
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  Oh God first. Q&A.
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  Right. No, and he doesn't describe her
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  at. All No.
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  He's literally not giving us anything.
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  What's funny is when Robyn asks him if he's kissed her, he says
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  well yes. And then he I mean and then like
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  avoids answering the question.
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  pretends like, Oh, yeah, you know, I've kissed her.
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  And, you know, it's that thing
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  funny. And then he realizes that he's,
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  like, with his family. And then he has to like, rein it
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  back in. Awkward.
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  I wouldn't want to be talking about this with my family so.
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  It was odd. Maddie says no.
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  Just straight up no. Leon gives the best answer of
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  all here. Leon says that the last time
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  they were alone with a boy, it
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  Yeah. And they'll kind of laugh.
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  And then there's a close up of
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  darting side to side and kind of
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  I completely believe this too.
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  It's just funny. Yeah.
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  Absolutely, definitely awkward.
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  Meri says that dating can be safe, Dates can be safe.
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  There's no reason for them not to be safe.
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  It's like, OK, I love that we're jumping to safe and Kody says we
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  Kody gets so carried away here. And of course, all the kids say
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  like 1818. They're like 1818.
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  And then he says that he should know if they are dating or
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  kissing, and he has a right to know.
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  Yeah, he has a right to know so that he is able to counsel them
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  with his wisdom. What, Sir?
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  Oh I had a flashback to in the future when he talks about
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  passing the hormones back and forth between the mouths.
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  This is in a future episode. Passing hormones.
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  Oh, Mylanta. Kody says that these things do
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  leading to other things that they don't want to have happen,
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  of course and. Even minor things can have
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  consequences. Yes, in this chaste pure family,
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  Do you? Do you, Sir?
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  Yeah, I don't know many teenagers that are sharing the
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  of needing counseling and looking for advice from daddy
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  dearest. Like no.
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  This is a big problem with, I would say parenting of that time
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  child and the children don't have a right to privacy.
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  And I struggle with that to an extent because I feel like your
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  child does have a right to privacy.
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  If if one of my children had like a diary for say, like when
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  they're older, I would not read that diary.
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  To me, that's a violation of their privacy.
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  And if I want my child to trust me and come to me with problems,
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  individual and that they are growing and learning and they're
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  allowed to make mistakes. I don't think that going through
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  worried about drugs or something is a problem because they're in
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  your home. And I do think that you have a
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  comes to that. But I struggle with this a bit.
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  Well with the privacy bit, I
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  agree. I felt like my privacy was
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  violated a lot when I was growing up.
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  Oh yeah. Like my mom was a snooper and it
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  was annoying because like, I had
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  whatever. And I remember in 4th grade, I
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  mean when you're in 4th grade, I
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  is so mean. She's a prostitute, OK,
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  prostitute. So I obviously didn't even know
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  what a prostitute was. OK, I couldn't even tell you
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  now. Also, the weird thing about
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  being young, and maybe I don't
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  boy because I was a little homosexual, but I had a diary or
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  something, something that had like a little lock on it.
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  So it's called a diary. I wrote a bunch of stuff in it.
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  Couldn't tell you today what I
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  And then I forgot about it. Kind of like it just that was
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  that it was like a weak phase or
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  I don't even know my mom. Like months later, I remember
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  being at my grandma's house and she was like, no, Christopher,
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  I just want you to know I'm not a prostitute.
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  And I was like shocked because I
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  my diary, but I was like Oh my God, like what a how
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  violating. But then also I was like, oh
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  geez. Like am I in trouble for writing
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  And she was always looking for problems.
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  And I kind of, I hate to say it, but I kind of feel like people
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  else's. Yes, 1000 percent, 1000 times
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  yes. It's very strange because I've
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  something you don't want to know about me, I guess, you know, but
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  I don't. I'm kind of just out there.
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  So it also doesn't go well. If your child is someone who
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  expresses themselves regularly
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  doesn't have a lot to hide. You feel like, Oh my God, like
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  I'm doing something wrong and now I've been doing anything
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  wrong. I think that the parents that
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  violate their children's privacy, especially at such a
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  young age. 4th grade, you're so young, and that's before you
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  really hit puberty. And before you what?
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  Would I have even been doing? Right before you get to the
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  point in your life where there's
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  like make you feel ashamed like around sex or like your body or
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  changes that are happening in your body.
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  So if you're already doing that to your child, that's such a
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  young age, you're basically teaching them that they should
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  hide things and from you because
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  yeah, oh God, I don't get that.
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  It's weird because I understand the want to know what's going on
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  something to trigger it. And that's what's so strange.
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  It's like I had friends as well in middle school, high school,
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  something horrible. And they were the the ones that
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  ended up being the worst behaved or the ones that were
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  hiding things, the ones that were being misleading and lying
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  and doing all this stuff where if you don't have to do that,
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  then you don't have to do that.
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  Right, it's a. Little strange.
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  I would say me and my friends were super innocent, really
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  good, really good kids. We did a few things here and
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  there, but they weren't dangerous.
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  They weren't really that bad. They weren't anything that would
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  cause us to be in harm's way. And then after, you know,
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  parents crack down on my friend and like they actually you're
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  like you said, acted out and did
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  that I never ended up doing. I don't know.
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  I think that he just saying that
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  dating and kissing and he has a right to know.
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  And he got like worked up about it.
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  It's just like, Oh my gosh, calm
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  Yeah. I don't know.
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  Question #2 comes to us from Shanna and Shanna asks, compared
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  to living in Utah, how does community in Vegas differ when
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  it comes to accepting your family choices in religion?
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  Logan says people don't outright
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  are more open and accepting in
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  Yeah, people care less. It's interesting, I think people
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  our last judgy probably because there's not as much like
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  concentrated religion going on.
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  When I grew up in a small town in rural Minnesota, don't you
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  know, And when I moved to the big city, I, my eyes were
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  definitely open to things. And I think there's a parallel
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  supposed to be uniformed. Everyone's supposed to fit in
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  and people judge even though people might not come out.
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  I don't know. I feel like people do come out
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  It's small town people are far more judgmental than city people
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  things, it's projection. They'd rather have other people
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  looking at this person and what they're doing wrong then, you
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  know, looking in their closet and seeing their skeletons.
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  So why not call that person out for theirs?
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  And a lot of judging over things that don't matter, which is also
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  anybody, why do you care? But.
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  Then again, we are hosting a podcast where we judge people
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  so. But then why put it out there
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  too if you care if people judge you?
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  So I think it kind of goes both ways there, You know, like you
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  something to say about it. Question #3 Darling.
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  Oh, Ashley, she asks what is the issue topic that the family
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  butts heads on the most. Madison pipes up very quickly
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  and says that she doesn't like going to church.
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  Right. The kids say Kody is either
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  cranky or crying at church, which I love because he says
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  he's cranky because the kids talk too much during his church
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  services that he leads in their living room.
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  And it's funny because I can totally imagine a dad like being
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  He's trying to share the gospel. He's trying to bring his family
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  up out of the depths of wherever they are, into wherever
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  they could be the celestial Kingdom, and they're yawning and
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  they're falling asleep or they're talking to each other or
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  they don't care because they're kids at church.
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  And by church I mean their living room listening to their
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  It's different than if you're sitting in a church and
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  listening to somebody else and
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  and you're keeping yourself in
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  people around and there is judgment coming from other
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  people. I feel like I totally would
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  behave better in public than in my own home.
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  Like, come on. Yeah, there's a comfortability
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  factor. So of course they're going to
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  talk more than they would in a
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  And even when you go to church, I mean, parents are oftentimes
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  distracted or obligated with keeping their kids in line.
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  You know, there's oftentimes like kids server and then kids
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  service or they like leave halfway through or whatever.
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  It's very much like occupy the
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  brainwash them as well. So there's the brainwashing in
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  the occupation, and Kody's probably cranky because he's not
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  able to occupy their minds completely.
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  Well, if you're like me, if you were raised Catholic, there's
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  just so much up and down and kneeling and sitting and
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  standing that you know you're constantly paying attention.
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  Because by golly, if you're the only one standing when you're
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  supposed to be kneeling, what the fuck is wrong with you?
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  Shame. Absolutely.
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  Absolutely. Logan says that the teenagers
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  butt heads with the adults, and that's kind of the general
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  consensus. Yeah, Janelle says that they
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  struggle getting the teenagers
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  Yeah, no shit. Really.
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  That's a first that's definitely
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  I struggle getting my 3 1/2 year
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  Like, come on. Our next question comes to us
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  from Barbara. Barbara, please, Barbara, says
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  Kody, realistically, how would
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  being in marriages with several wives?
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  I thought this question was odd because it's like he is in a
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  polygamist marriage himself. So you're making it sound like
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  this would be other or different
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  which it's not, so whatever. But don't think that Kody's not
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  going to give us some ridiculous
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  to. Of course.
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  He has to go on and on and on about how if they marry the
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  right person, it will be the single most important decision
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  they make and blah blah blah blah blah.
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  Kimber, can you say this better than I can?
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  I He goes on and on. He says if they're the right
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  person and they have the right
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  happy. Who they marry will be the
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  single most important decision
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  entire life. Yes.
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  And then he gives this long lands of things that they need
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  to have and he's like keeps saying skills and ability and
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  the skills to do this and the ability to do that and.
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  They better marry for love and
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  can take care of them and this
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  he's going on. They could have done one of
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  those montages where he in and
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  drifting. It was like being at church that
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  Kody was leading. Christine and Robyn start like
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  cheering. They all start laughing and
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  applauding because he is going
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  You get married. Who says the only reason he
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  stopped was to take a breath? Yeah, he wasn't done yet.
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  He wasn't done yet. He would have kept going.
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  And then Kody does end it by saying that his expectations for
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  a son-in-law are very high. No touché.
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  I would say most fathers would
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  list that he says is ridiculous.
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  Yeah, it's all very typical things of a wish list, but like
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  extended version. Well like the ability to raise
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  Like every parent with their first child is a learning for
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  the first time. So unless your daughter marries
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  into a plague of his family and is like the second, third,
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  fourth wife, then good luck. He's not going to know that yet.
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  things he was saying and he was just talking to talk.
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  He was definitely filling the space, filling the room with
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  more of Kody's hot air. But leave it to Robyn to cheer.
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  And I'm shocked that Christine
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  I was actually shocked by that.
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  Yeah, I think they were more applauding on the silly side,
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  right? Like laughing that he was still
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  going, like he was going and going do.
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  You think Robyn was sarcastically doing it?
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  I doubt it. Maybe Christine joined in like
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  answer. Oh, this list of 47 things we
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  hope for our children with their spouse like good Lord.
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  Before we move on to the next question, I have to point out
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  that Christine has sunglasses on top of her head.
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  The parents kind of look half put together.
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  The children are wearing kind of matchy outfits and look very
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  nice. At one point the children will
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  the appearance of it being put together goes to shit even more
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  than it already was, and Christine's sitting there with
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  They all have open toed sandal they.
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  All have like black open toed sandals.
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  Maybe like a wedge sandal for Robyn and Meri had something and
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  huge like white stitching. On it, down the middle and then
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  like on the cuff and they're sitting right next to each
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  other. So it's so like, Oh my God,
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  they're wearing the same jeans with.
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  Their like legs kind of in the same position and like angled
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  the same way like a yearbook photo of your like class like so
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  the same jeans. Yeah, when the kids left your
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  right, it was somehow de elevated.
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  What would the word be the opposite of elevated?
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  It was diminished. Yeah.
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  It was whatever even more than it was when it started, which
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  was definitely saying something. Yeah, but the sunglasses on the
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  head bit just kind of cracked me up because it looks like she
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  just walked in off the street and they were like, oh, by the
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  weird wooden foot stool and a laptop.
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  It definitely felt thrown together.
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  So strange. Interesting that it made the cut
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  episode. When that nobody said even
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  halfway through, hey, you should take your sunglasses off of your
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  So it's not like when the kids got up and left or at any point
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  between the questions that they couldn't have have her take her
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  sunglasses off her head. It's just so weird.
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  There's even a point when the kids leave, when they're
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  resetting, where Kody starts talking and then the director's
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  like, hold on, hold on. And he's like, is everyone
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  ready? And then he's like, OK, we can
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  So it's sloppier than our podcast.
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  It is so sloppy. It's like they're trying to make
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  were going for, but it was a huge swing and a miss.
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  Yeah, very much a miss. So Dana asks, how has moving to
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  Las Vegas changed the family dynamic?
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  Hey Dana, what I want to know is do you watch the fucking show?
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  There's some of these interviews where you could tell they were
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  questions where they're filming them.
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  Some of the questions are tweets or something.
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  Some of them they show us nothing.
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  And some of them are video on this computer.
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  And the videos do look like there was like a camera person
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  the Browns? Some of them appeared to not
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  know anything. Quite literally, it's like they
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  had a camera person just standing in the lobby of or not
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  even the lobby. There's like the machines.
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  And they were like, Oh yeah, have you seen this TLC show?
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  Want to ask a question? And maybe they got a little blur
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  polygamous family. And he has this many wives.
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  And they probably even fed him the questions.
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  But gosh, that's like one of the stupidest questions ever.
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  How has moving to Las Vegas changed the family dynamic?
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  Well, Christine starts us out with her answer, though.
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  Yes, she sure does, she says. It's very challenging, very
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  challenging living in. Four separate homes.
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  As if we haven't been hearing that repeatedly on and on and
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  on. Logan says he liked it better
• 25:21
  when they were all under one roof back in Lehigh, which makes
• 25:31
  up until now, like holistically from the very beginning, we just
• 25:41
  Kody nearly as often as they used to, so I guess she didn't
• 25:47
  really see our dad much anymore. And that was kind of sad answer,
• 26:02
  Robyn surprisingly says kind of the most hear about it.
• 26:07
  And she just says that what she thought she was getting into and
• 26:17
  away. She thinks that it's slipping
• 26:20
  away. The reason that she thought this
• 26:25
  from when she first joined the family.
• 26:27
  It's slipping away through her fingertips.
• 26:31
  As if she wasn't one of the catalysts to the change that
• 26:37
  started right the slipping away. That'd be funny.
• 26:40
  She's like, ever since I started ruining this family I've seen a
• 26:43
  lot of differences. Yeah, well, when I take that
• 26:47
  back, she didn't give the most heartfelt answer here.
• 26:50
  Mckelty actually did. And that was it brought a little
• 27:00
  children's inner working relationships with the younger
• 27:13
  going to fit into the family or how she was supposed to view
• 27:17
  Robyn's kids as siblings. But now she is very close to the
• 27:25
  spiritual bond. A spiritual connection with
• 27:27
  Brianna. Yeah.
• 27:28
  And she's talking to Robyn when answering this question because
• 27:33
  obviously she's speaking about Robyn's children.
• 27:34
  And Robyn starts crying and then Mckelty starts crying.
• 27:39
  And I agree with you. It didn't touch me personally
• 27:42
  very much. Like, I wasn't like, but it was
• 27:45
  a touching moment. It was a touching moment in the
• 27:50
  fact that nobody seemed to have much of A reaction to Aspens.
• 27:54
  The answer about not seeing Kody too much anymore, which I would
• 27:58
  have thought that would have done more than this, but I think
• 28:14
  then get so emotional so quickly about Brianna in
• 28:18
  particular. But it's pretty cool that she
• 28:21
  has a close bond with her and these are as the spiritual
• 28:26
  sister. And that is very on brand for
• 28:28
  Mckelty to start speaking and sound kind of matter of fact and
• 28:32
  kind of almost flippant. I don't want to say flippant,
• 28:34
  but you know, she was like, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah,
• 28:37
  blah, blah, blah, blah. And then all of a sudden she's
• 28:38
  crying and it's like, what the
• 28:40
  Like she's and the Kelty's a weirdo.
• 28:42
  Complete 180 as far as the emotions went.
• 28:45
  She's a strange cookie. She's an odd tasting cookie.
• 28:48
  She's a cookie that you might try one in the variety pack and
• 28:51
  they'll be like, I don't need any more.
• 28:53
  But maybe that's just me. Take a half a bite of that and
• 28:56
  decide it's not worth the calories.
• 28:58
  Yes, I'm going to reference Bethenny Frankel here.
• 29:00
  Mckelty's a little like black licorice.
• 29:02
  Some people love it, some people
• 29:04
  I happen to not like black licorice, but some people do.
• 29:07
  Fucking hate black licorice. Next question comes from
• 29:11
  Deborah. Deborah.
• 29:12
  Deborah, Deborah, with all the
• 29:16
  the boys look after the girls like big older brothers?
• 29:21
  And Logan says that he is protective for sure.
• 29:25
  And Maddie shares such a cute story.
• 29:28
  Love this story. OK, am I going to attempt to try
• 29:31
  to tell this story? You're going to have to correct
• 29:33
  me if I get anything wrong. When they were very little, they
• 29:37
  were together and there was a storm happening, like a
• 29:41
  potential tornado, thunderstorm.
• 29:43
  And she was scared and she was scared and she asked Logan if he
• 29:57
  She said are you scared? And he's like, no.
• 30:01
  And he said he would protect her.
• 30:03
  And then she goes even from a tornado and he goes, I would
• 30:06
  protect you from anything. They're showing really cute
• 30:09
  pictures of them together across the screen as she's telling the
• 30:14
  story. And it's adorable and makes me
• 30:20
  Really. I mean.
• 30:21
  No, no and. Then Kody, of course, has to
• 30:25
  tell us that Logan is like, the perfect older brother.
• 30:28
  I hope that Logan hasn't experienced too much pressure in
• 30:35
  They have parentified him in many ways.
• 30:38
  And then just hearing comments like he's the perfect older
• 30:40
  brother, it's like it's hard to not internalize those things and
• 30:46
  like it's in his nature to be, you know, a leader.
• 30:50
  And it kind of fits him, But you know, you don't want to put
• 30:54
  extra pressure on your kids. Well, that's maybe a little bit
• 30:57
  why the swearing thing came up in the last episode, because
• 31:00
  it's one of the things that he does that isn't perfect.
• 31:03
  And maybe it's his one way of being.
• 31:06
  Like this is something that I'm doing.
• 31:09
  That's not what you guys want, but it's an innocent thing to be
• 31:16
  So it's like a way of him acting out without really acting out.
• 31:26
  super strict, would that really be acting out?
• 31:29
  Probably not. You'd probably be like watch
• 31:32
  your mouth kid. But you wouldn't be worried
• 31:35
  about it with the little children and leaving a bad
• 31:39
  example because most people wouldn't have a 100 other
• 31:42
  younger siblings to think about swearing in front of so.
• 31:46
  I was to say what? It's not to say it's a sign, a
• 31:51
  So even the ribbing, it's it's totally a reasonable thing for a
• 31:58
  something. I mean my God.
• 31:59
  I do think that he feels the pressure to be perfect though
• 32:01
  and have everybody looking up to him and I can't imagine that he
• 32:06
  didn't feel that way. And I can't speak to now, but it
• 32:20
  And he was the oldest in the entire family and probably had
• 32:30
  Well, KATU, today he seems well adjusted.
• 32:32
  He's married. They didn't have the wedding on
• 32:34
  the show. He has a private life and when
• 32:45
  well adjusted. Are you going to give us our
• 32:48
  next question, darling? Kathy and Stephanie want to
• 32:50
  know, of all the food you make for your children, what do they
• 32:55
  request the most? Do we truly, honestly believe
• 33:00
  this is one of the questions that somebody asked?
• 33:03
  I, well, I, I mean, considering what the show is, I do believe
• 33:08
  And I'm just going to say I am shocked that no one said Robyn's
• 33:18
  little melted like slice of cheese on the top.
• 33:22
  Oh my God, yeah. Yeah, Robyn is obviously a bad
• 33:28
  show like where she tries to make Kody eggs and it's so
• 33:32
  bizarre to watch. Like I was like, Oh my God.
• 33:34
  Like she does manage to cook them, but I don't know how.
• 33:37
  Anyway, I'm just saying it's funny that no one volunteers
• 33:40
  Robyn and and and and. No one is surprised by this
• 33:43
  either. I was a little shocked by what
• 33:50
  Her mock tapioca pudding. Yeah, it takes her 1 1/2 hours
• 33:58
  They make like 2 huge. She makes 2 huge pots full and
• 34:11
  It does remind me a little bit of when I was a kid and my mom
• 34:18
  breakfast sometimes? And it's like healthy.
• 34:20
  Oatmeal. Oatmeal.
• 34:20
  She's like, oh, I'm going to make you oatmeal before school.
• 34:23
  Turns out I feel like she made
• 34:26
  me some sort of food for like babies or like infants.
• 34:29
  Like it was like cinnamon sugar knock off of oatmeal.
• 34:33
  I know what you're talking about
• 34:37
  to be screaming it right now, but it is like the runny thin
• 34:42
  version of oatmeal and I cannot think of the name of what it
• 34:46
  is. People are literally going to be
• 34:50
  It's like all the time. It is ridiculous of us.
• 34:54
  But even like my husband bought the last time at the grocery
• 34:58
  store, a big thing of the quick oats.
• 35:00
  And I don't even like the quick oats because the texture is
• 35:04
  different. They're smaller.
• 35:05
  It's like chopped up oatmeal. No, I love making like a good
• 35:09
  hearty like thick oatmeal. I even, and this is like a
• 35:13
  little pro tip. If you want something different
• 35:15
  with your cookie recipe, if you even use the cookie recipe out
• 35:27
  food processed oatmeal. And it just adds something to
• 35:31
  the cookies. I don't even know how to explain
• 35:35
  and it's so good. Girl, I'm just getting visions
• 35:41
  these days. No, she has like white people
• 35:44
  meals that she puts online, like her enchilada casserole where it
• 35:51
  And it looks terrible. You could do cookies and we
• 35:54
  could put it on Patreon and people could make those recipes.
• 35:58
  Now this fluffy Cream of Wheat
• 36:03
  pudding I have. Wheat, that's what it is.
• 36:06
  You just said it. Cream of Wheat.
• 36:08
  Oh, that's what the cereal is the.
• 36:09
  Cereal is that you're talking about?
• 36:11
  Oh my God. Well, that's how she's
• 36:13
  describing her mock tapioca pudding.
• 36:15
  I have to admit something. Please don't shame me in the
• 36:18
  synagogue. I don't know what tapioca
• 36:21
  pudding is. It just looked to me like a
• 36:24
  breakfast cereal for kids. Like literally cream of wheat.
• 36:27
  Like something you would make for a toddler.
• 36:31
  Yeah, I've never had tapioca because I think it is a texture
• 36:34
  thing for me, which is funny because I love oatmeal, but it's
• 36:37
  like chunky pudding. And this when she says mock
• 36:41
  tapioca pudding that makes me even question it even more
• 36:44
  because I'm like what is imitation pudding?
• 36:46
  Well, that's what I kept missing.
• 36:48
  Like I when I was like, what did
• 36:51
  I just put tapioca because I'm
• 36:54
  What the fuck is that? Yeah, I'm not even sure.
• 36:57
  And the visuals they were showing on the screen were not
• 36:59
  helping me. I I literally just look like
• 37:01
  Cream of Wheat cereal. It looked like tapioca pudding
• 37:04
  and they show like a food line
• 37:10
  like Sir could I have some more?
• 37:12
  The children are going through and she's emptying the bottom of
• 37:20
  stop and takes like 2 spoonfuls of their mock tapioca
• 37:24
  pudding as like his payment and they walk by and it's so
• 37:29
  funny. He's like making each child stop
• 37:31
  and give him spoonfuls. He's like a tax collector, being
• 37:34
  like, you have to give me my bite.
• 37:35
  It looked like it. It reminded me of Oliver.
• 37:38
  Seriously. The musical?
• 37:40
  Please, Sam, may I have some more?
• 37:43
  Except for it's Kody Ask. And it reminded me of Robyn Hood
• 37:46
  when the tax collector comes around and is like, taxes,
• 37:48
  collecting your taxes. And it's just Kody being like,
• 37:51
  give me a bite of that. It's probably one of those
• 37:53
  things that if a normal, like if
• 37:58
  were to try it, it would be absolutely disgusting.
• 38:00
  But everybody else in the family
• 38:03
  their childhood thing and like it's something that their mom
• 38:06
  made. But everyone, it seemed to also
• 38:08
  be a united kind of everyone was backing it up, which is
• 38:11
  funny that everyone was all about it.
• 38:13
  So yeah, let's say it was good
• 38:18
  food. Yeah.
• 38:21
  Our next question comes to us from Alice.
• 38:24
  No, she is not lost in Wonderland.
• 38:25
  She's here asking questions of
• 38:31
  Utah to Vegas. Have the temptations changed the
• 38:34
  family at all? The drinking, the gambling, the
• 38:38
  hookers. And I wanted to know if any of
• 38:40
  the kids have been tempted to do
• 38:43
  Now this is one of those video
• 38:46
  casino floor and the fact that
• 38:50
  Hookers. Hookers.
• 38:51
  Hookers. I love the word hooker.
• 38:54
  It's so good. Like I just always want to use
• 38:56
  the word hooker like she's a hooker.
• 39:00
  Nothing to do with prostitution,
• 39:02
  just hooker. I just love it.
• 39:04
  Call me a hooker, I'll take it.
• 39:06
  There was a girl in my elementary school and her last
• 39:11
  That poor girl. That poor girl.
• 39:14
  Yeah, that's, that's unfortunate.
• 39:15
  But I, I would literally be like, what's up, hooker?
• 39:18
  But see, then what if she was like, no, you're driving me
• 39:20
  crazy. And I'd be like, but I mean it
• 39:26
  I love it, Oh my. God I need help.
• 39:30
  Jesus. Who loves the word hooker?
• 39:33
  It is kind. It is a good word, right?
• 39:35
  It's fun. Hooker.
• 39:37
  Hooker it's. Just got this.
• 39:39
  I just picture the word being like drawn out with two eyes in
• 39:42
  the middle of the OS, like darting back and forth.
• 39:44
  I don't know why. So good.
• 39:47
  Oh boy. Well, you know, it is Sin City
• 39:54
  that I don't know what's more prevalent.
• 39:56
  The bad things are prevalent. Yeah, it's weird because Kody
• 40:00
  immediately goes to the children and says if their school has had
• 40:08
  And Logan says he deflects at first.
• 40:11
  He goes, the kids are friendlier.
• 40:14
  And then Maddie pipes up and says that the kids are more open
• 40:22
  Drugs and alcohol, but it's just more out in the open and it's
• 40:26
  more like black and white if you're like a good kid or a bad
• 40:29
  kid. As opposed to in Utah, the lines
• 40:38
  kids were doing stuff and it was just under wraps a little
• 40:43
  more. And well, well, what do we say a
• 40:46
  lot that people lie in this religion a lot.
• 40:48
  They hide things a lot so. And alcohol and drugs being more
• 40:52
  accessible in Vegas is one thing, but being placed in front
• 40:56
  of you happens more in rural communities.
• 40:59
  And I would agree with that. I think it's easier.
• 41:02
  It could be easier to find drugs
• 41:07
  In the big city you could find
• 41:13
  jocks were popping pills. The Freako theater kids were
• 41:18
  straight laced like it was the
• 41:22
  the place. And, and those are some
• 41:23
  stereotypes, but they play true to a certain extent.
• 41:26
  And then in the city, I think people are a little bit more
• 41:28
  just open, like you can tell what people are doing.
• 41:30
  It's probably just a little more
• 41:34
  And then Kody. Have quite as big of a reason to
• 41:36
  hide it. Right, yes, when Kody asks the
• 41:39
  adults if they have any temptations with gambling, which
• 41:44
  is quickly dismissed, I think he
• 41:48
  and they don't even know what.
• 41:50
  I don't even know about gambling
• 41:53
  three cherries or make. Healthier.
• 41:55
  One of the kids says something
• 41:57
  cherries, and Kody cuts her off and goes, you shouldn't even
• 42:00
  know about that. I don't even want you to know
• 42:01
  about that. Ridiculous.
• 42:03
  It's like you'd find that in a
• 42:05
  Literally they show it like in
• 42:09
  Sometimes they like show the things.
• 42:11
  Totally ridiculous. Did Janelle say something at
• 42:14
  this point? I think she kind of laughed and
• 42:17
  was like about the gambling and maybe said like a few things,
• 42:22
  but they weren't like noteworthy.
• 42:24
  But it made me think that she has gambled maybe.
• 42:28
  And then Kody changes it and they're like done with that
• 42:31
  question quickly. Yeah, he's he.
• 42:33
  He scurries them along with the gambling.
• 42:36
  Scurries them along with quite a
• 42:40
  Yeah, well, he's very open. Speaking of scurrying them along
• 42:45
  with questions, we get a video
• 42:52
  question. Oh God, this one's a doozy.
• 42:54
  Yep, this one's a doozy. Question #9 comes from Evelyn.
• 42:58
  What does that man do to take care of all those women in the
• 43:02
  bedroom? Because I'd like some of that
• 43:04
  for my husband. Oh.
• 43:06
  My God. And all the kids are like, what?
• 43:11
  Mortified. There's this amazing.
• 43:14
  So what's great is that they first give us this question
• 43:17
  before a commercial, and then they come back from the
• 43:19
  commercial and redo it so the question gets asked.
• 43:23
  There's like an app break, like the commercial break, and
• 43:25
  there's this close up of Mckelty's face and she's
• 43:29
  mortified. She's just like, stunned.
• 43:34
  The kids are all literally like asking what?
• 43:37
  And Kody says kids, kids out. He kicks the kids out.
• 43:41
  Kids, you need to leave. And then the parents are like,
• 43:44
  so they the kids do get up and
• 43:49
  I'm done and like walks off. And then the other kids do start
• 43:54
  getting up and leaving because
• 43:56
  him out. And all the parents look pissed.
• 44:01
  And this is when they kind of regroup a little bit and then it
• 44:04
  it's kind of looks disheveled after this.
• 44:06
  And I do think that the parents were actually mad.
• 44:09
  I think that Kody was pissed here.
• 44:13
  And I think it kind of went even
• 44:17
  question because the reaction of
• 44:21
  in front of their children, I think they were very upset
• 44:24
  that they were given that question to read out loud.
• 44:28
  And like, I think it was given
• 44:33
  guard so that one of the parents
• 44:37
  decided to stop reading the question.
• 44:40
  So they did it for the shock and
• 44:43
  front of the kids. And I think the parents are
• 44:45
  really pissed. That's interesting because I was
• 44:48
  not paying too much attention to
• 44:51
  I was distracted by the kids faces because they all look so
• 44:54
  grossed out. Like they were all literally
• 44:56
  like are you effing kidding? Obviously Logan's like I'm out.
• 45:00
  They quickly move on like they
• 45:03
  setting back up for the adult only portion of this.
• 45:08
  And adults look very serious at this point.
• 45:10
  Like, I think the producers were
• 45:14
  these adult questions with the
• 45:18
  And I think that the parents were like, what the fuck?
• 45:20
  Like, we didn't sign up for this.
• 45:22
  You didn't warn us of this. Like, I really truly think that
• 45:25
  they were mad and I don't blame them.
• 45:28
  Like come on, that's like an inappropriate thing to ask in
• 45:30
  front of minor children of their
• 45:34
  Scandalous. Oh sister wise.
• 45:37
  So R rated. Well, I just think it's dumb.
• 45:40
  It's like, obviously they're doing it to get a reaction from
• 45:43
  the kids and you're talking about this religious family who
• 45:46
  has declined questions like this
• 45:49
  So it is just kind of shitty to do this to them.
• 45:52
  I don't know. Well, Kody says he's not willing
• 45:55
  to discuss it, and Meri says no way that we would discuss that.
• 45:59
  They don't even really talk about it in their family.
• 46:01
  It's like, of course, we've heard that from Meri before.
• 46:03
  Yeah, they pass. They literally say we'll pass on
• 46:07
  that one. And I like, have an asterisk.
• 46:10
  All the parents look. Pushed.
• 46:13
  And then we move on quickly. Thank God.
• 46:16
  And then our next question comes
• 46:19
  Here's an opportunity to plug our Patreon.
• 46:21
  We recently did an episode of Am
• 46:24
  discussed Karen's and am IA. Karen, Are you a Karen?
• 46:28
  Are they a Karen? So go give it a listen.
• 46:31
  And this Karen has another question that I don't think we
• 46:34
  would classify as a Karen question, but her name's Karen.
• 46:38
  So I'm going to say Karen one more time.
• 46:40
  Karen. Karen asks is there a clean the
• 46:47
  toilet wife, a shopping at the
• 46:51
  to soccer practice wife and a wife that's for the bedroom?
• 46:54
  Because I want to be a shopping wife.
• 46:58
  She's got thick white eyeshadow on.
• 47:00
  This is Karen. This is Karen, Yeah.
• 47:03
  She's definitely of the time and
• 47:06
  And Meri says we're all for. Yeah, Christine goes.
• 47:12
  We're all, all of them. But we don't have to be.
• 47:17
  And then she did not elaborate
• 47:19
  Yeah. But I kind of get it, like we
• 47:21
  all could be all of them, but like we wouldn't have to be all
• 47:24
  of them if we didn't want to be because there's more of us.
• 47:29
  Oh God. And then Robyn.
• 47:30
  Robyn, she says when Christine
• 47:36
  over to Christine's house to clean the toilet, to clean the
• 47:39
  bathroom, to clean the a bedroom
• 47:43
  And she says I was the mall wife, I was the toilet cleaning
• 47:46
  wife. And then she makes herself
• 47:49
  laugh. She starts getting really giggly
• 47:52
  and she goes, I forget all the
• 47:55
  And no one else joins in. And they're all, like, looking
• 47:58
  at her. And she puts her head between
• 47:59
  her legs, like, she puts her head down and she gets all
• 48:03
  giggly. Like she's trying to be adorable
• 48:05
  because I can't remember the rest of the things that the lady
• 48:09
  listed off that the Karen listed
• 48:11
  Which is funny because it's bedroom wife and shopping wife
• 48:14
  so she's pretending to not remember because she doesn't
• 48:19
  want to answer about having sex AKA fucking Kody Brown and
• 48:25
  shopping because she's a shopping addict.
• 48:27
  Well, she did say she was the mall wife at the beginning, so
• 48:31
  what's the other one? That she knows.
• 48:33
  Never mind. No, God damn it.
• 48:34
  My Oh no, no, no, no. What's the other one that she
• 48:38
  missed though? Clean the toilet Shopping at the
• 48:41
  mall soccer practice. Soccer practice, mom and yeah.
• 48:45
  So she's not the soccer practice
• 48:49
  she was a soccer practice mom and she didn't remember if she
• 48:52
  was a bedroom mom? Oh yeah.
• 48:54
  Good for her by the way. She gets all giggly and forgets
• 48:56
  the rest of the labels for the
• 49:02
  between her legs is just so ridiculous and you can tell
• 49:05
  she's trying to be adorable and funny here but it doesn't land
• 49:10
  no with everyone else. Yeah, it's so awkward.
• 49:14
  Yeah, I'm surprised they kept it
• 49:16
  just another moment of weird space.
• 49:20
  Her trying to be the pick me girl, get the attention and
• 49:22
  stand out. Yeah, I would never talk about
• 49:24
  being the bedroom wife talking
• 49:28
  Even her saying that after truly
• 49:32
  clean Christine's bathroom. I I was like what like 1
• 49:35
  fucking. Time.
• 49:36
  I know it felt a little like she's trying to get brownie
• 49:38
  points. Yeah, it did.
• 49:40
  It's like, OK, that's the thing that people do to help people
• 49:42
  that have newborn children. It's not that big of a deal.
• 49:45
  I always say to people if people
• 49:49
  a newborn, you don't need someone to come and hold your
• 49:53
  baby. You need someone to come and
• 49:55
  help you with things around the house.
• 49:57
  Do a load of laundry while you're here.
• 49:59
  Bring food over. You don't even bring something
• 50:06
  bottles. I don't need you coming over and
• 50:14
  thing that a new mom actually really wants you coming over to
• 50:17
  do. You're like, clean a toilet,
• 50:19
  bitch. Clean.
• 50:19
  My toilet bitch. I've been bleeding.
• 50:21
  I need some help in that department.
• 50:23
  I keep bleeding, she keeps bleeding.
• 50:26
  She needs you to clean her toilet.
• 50:28
  No, boy. You could have called Robyn and
• 50:31
  she could have came over and cleaned your toilet honey.
• 50:33
  Professional toilet cleaner Robyn over here.
• 50:35
  But this is something she does a lot.
• 50:37
  She offers up things that she has done to help the other wives
• 50:48
  tokens of things that she's done.
• 50:51
  And I've noticed it quite a few times in the couch interviews
• 50:55
  before. And this is another one of those
• 51:00
  top of my head. Obviously, she brings up the
• 51:03
  surrogacy offer like every single chance that she gets.
• 51:06
  And there's been a few other times where I've clocked it and
• 51:11
  I'm clocking it now, like, and they could have all piped up
• 51:15
  here and been like, Oh, yeah, like, you know, we've done this
• 51:17
  and that for each other, but they didn't.
• 51:19
  For all the years they lived together and took care of things
• 51:23
  done so much for each other and Robyn's.
• 51:25
  Like I can remember one time I came over and cleaned your
• 51:27
  toilet when you were after you gave birth.
• 51:29
  That's the whole point of being a sister wife, which goes back
• 51:36
  don't have to be. Yeah, Yeah, that's literally
• 51:38
  what Christine was saying, is like, we do everything for each
• 51:41
  other, and when one of us can't do the one thing, the other ones
• 51:53
  You just love her so much. Yeah, question 11 from Azar.
• 51:58
  How many wives can a man marry in your religion?
• 52:02
  I'm sorry, I'm not sure what exact religion you practice.
• 52:07
  Kody has to point out, of course, that they are actually
• 52:21
  Mormons to Catholics and Protestants.
• 52:24
  Yes, we does say that they're Mormon fundamentalists.
• 52:28
  Mormon fundamentalists. You know, splitting hairs.
• 52:30
  It's not the same as being a Mormon.
• 52:32
  Period. Yep, it's like Catholics and
• 52:35
  Protestants. And he has to say that Brigham
• 52:41
  to separate yourself from him. You cancelled Christine's
• 52:45
  holiday where they celebrated his birthday, right?
• 52:49
  And now you're bringing him up and his 27 plus wives.
• 52:53
  All right. Yeah, Kody doesn't think there
• 53:05
  Yeah, he's like, as long as I can nurture my wives, I think
• 53:09
  that I'm good. So as long as he thinks he has
• 53:20
  No, he can't even keep the four wives he has.
• 53:23
  Your child just pointed out that you who aren't even giving them
• 53:27
  enough FaceTime. Yeah, in front of you.
• 53:30
  So. In the space real time and you
• 53:36
  about the wives all the time. And like, we've brought this up
• 53:39
  before that it's not about the kids really.
• 53:41
  It doesn't seem like most of the time when they talk about the
• 53:44
  four houses, he's talking about the wives most of the time.
• 53:48
  Yeah, for him specifically, he doesn't talk about the children.
• 53:51
  So it's like, OK, you might feel
• 53:57
  left in you to pass around to another wife, but what about the
• 54:00
  children? What about the fucking children?
• 54:03
  Would. Somebody please think of the
• 54:04
  children. Quite literally though, Oh my
• 54:08
  God. Meri talks about how when they
• 54:12
  got married they knew there would be other wives.
• 54:15
  This is one of her classic tropes She's I was talking
• 54:17
  about. We got married and we knew we'd
• 54:19
  bring another wife into the family.
• 54:23
  Sorry about that voice. And Christine says 4 is a lovely
• 54:27
  number and I'm done. We complement each other quite
• 54:31
  well and then she kind of trails
• 54:34
  Yeah, she's like, we should be
• 54:36
  She's like. We should have done at 3:00.
• 54:38
  They use this as an opportunity to mention the previous
• 54:41
  courtship that Kody and Meri had
• 54:49
  has to be the right fit. We'd have gotten really close
• 54:52
  with somebody before Janelle and
• 54:56
  with this person and was like best friends with them.
• 54:59
  And it just didn't work out. And it wasn't going to be a good
• 55:01
  fit for us and it wasn't going
• 55:05
  So we're glad that it didn't work out.
• 55:07
  And he's trying to use it as an example of how particular you
• 55:11
  have to be when adding somebody into the family.
• 55:16
  But it's just kind of felt like a weird opportunity to bring
• 55:21
  this up for some reason. Yeah, I don't quite get what
• 55:24
  it's an example of. I mean, I guess discernment.
• 55:28
  The truth is, is that they, the alleged truth is that they
• 55:33
  courted someone who is underage.
• 55:35
  So like, she was 1617, whatever. So I don't even know why you
• 55:39
  would even bring it up at all. Like I just wouldn't bring it up
• 55:44
  to prove. That's why I was surprised that
• 55:46
  they brought it up and it was a weird just space to bring it up
• 55:50
  and it didn't need to be brought up.
• 55:52
  And they talk about in their book about how she was underage.
• 55:59
  date so that she would be legal.
• 56:01
  Yeah. And then they called it off
• 56:03
  before the wedding. So why would you bring that up
• 56:11
  before? It's been mentioned in their
• 56:13
  book but not in the show as far as I can remember.
• 56:15
  I feel like it's a gaffe but I don't know why.
• 56:19
  Very. Odd you would bring it.
• 56:21
  Yeah, I don't understand. Maybe just him talking again.
• 56:24
  He just always has to fucking talk.
• 56:26
  Right, like he, he and Robyn both throughout the lifetime of
• 56:29
  this show do say things that in the future end up being like,
• 56:33
  well, foot in mouth. Like, why did you even say that?
• 56:35
  volunteering this information?
• 56:38
  Just like the nachos thing. It's like nachos Sir.
• 56:42
  Not train it in. Unbelievable.
• 56:44
  Talk about your underage fiance from back in the day.
• 56:49
  But we decided not to have that happen.
• 56:51
  OK. Danny, Danny Boy, Danny Boy has
• 56:56
  a question for us. Danny, Danny, Danny, Danny, says
• 56:59
  Kody, Being that you have 4 wives, is there ever a time when
• 57:03
  someone isn't mad at you? I love this question, I love
• 57:10
  this question and I'm sorry to
• 57:14
  love this question because I grew up in a home with a mother
• 57:18
  and a father, a loving mother and a loving father, and I feel
• 57:22
  like my mom was pissed at my dad
• 57:26
  So your laughter is cute. That literally laughter, ha ha.
• 57:30
  The question gets asked and there is laughter all around, of
• 57:33
  course. Yeah, Christine's like kind of
• 57:35
  laughing and she goes, well, I
• 57:39
  of mad at him right now. Well, it starts with Meri kind
• 57:42
  of does like a a circle bit, except for Janelle doesn't
• 57:46
  respond. Meri says, well I'm not mad at
• 57:48
  you right now. And then Kody kind of looks at
• 57:50
  Robyn like well, what are you going to say?
• 57:51
  And she says, well I'm not mad
• 57:53
  And then Christine says, well,
• 57:55
  now, sorry. Is anyone shocked about that?
• 58:00
  No one is shocked. No one is shocked.
• 58:03
  Yeah, Christine might be a little mad.
• 58:05
  I do think that. I mean, we'll get into what they
• 58:08
  say, But of course, someone's always mad at him.
• 58:10
  Like give me a break, he says monogamous men stop caring if a
• 58:15
  wife is mad and I can't because I need harmony.
• 58:19
  Now I'm paraphrasing here. The stop caring bit is what I
• 58:24
  see plenty of men doing, which
• 58:29
  them or talking to them about an
• 58:32
  glossy or if something's happening, they're not really
• 58:36
  listening. There's just like AI don't want
• 58:39
  to call it a defense mechanism, but it's a mechanism to just
• 58:42
  stop the I can't, I'm not going to take it in.
• 58:45
  I'm just going to be here. Well, it's weaponized
• 58:49
  incompetence. It's not growing as a human.
• 58:51
  And like listening to your partner when they are bringing
• 58:55
  things to you that are concerning or problematic to
• 58:59
  them, and then you're just going
• 59:04
  choose to ignore it. Yeah, I don't know, weaponized
• 59:08
  incompetence. If you haven't heard of it, look
• 59:10
  it up. And if it's happening in your
• 59:12
  marriage, might be time to leave.
• 59:14
  I don't know. The drums.
• 59:17
  The drums said. Like a true uterus holder.
• 59:22
  Or what's another phrase for? A.
• 59:25
  Yes, yes, for a female identified spouse.
• 59:28
  Let's go with that. A female identified spouse.
• 59:31
  They say that most women when they leave a marriage, it's
• 59:36
  unexpected to the husband or it doesn't seem expected because
• 59:41
  they're not angry anymore and they've slowly fallen out of
• 59:44
  love over a long period of time.
• 59:47
  Because it's the small things that add up.
• 59:50
  It's the small things that aren't being done that are being
• 1:00:00
  noticing this thing. You just kind of get fed up.
• 1:00:05
  Yeah. And so the rest of their answer
• 1:00:09
  is very problematic to me. Oh, yeah.
• 1:00:12
  Because, well, for many reasons, Robyn's saying that there's less
• 1:00:21
  lesser amount of time. And Kody says quite a bit of
• 1:00:27
  word salad, and he ends it with saying that they have to exploit
• 1:00:41
  fucking awful. Sounds like they're not solving
• 1:00:44
  too many problems. No, and you're saying that oh,
• 1:00:50
  You were literally just fucking said that you have to ignore the
• 1:00:57
  It's true, he's like this is what monogamous men do, but not
• 1:01:02
  me because I need harmony. I do what I just said other men
• 1:01:08
  do like crazy. Now Robyn detail about what she
• 1:01:11
  said that I want to highlight for for those of us who are
• 1:01:15
  little too into the Brown family and Oh my God, we need help.
• 1:01:19
  She gives an example about how her mom provided a wonderful
• 1:01:23
  environment for her stepdaddy uncle.
• 1:01:26
  And this is the whole thing with where Robyn.
• 1:01:29
  She definitely saw this example, in my humble opinion, from her
• 1:01:42
  He doesn't have to lift a finger.
• 1:01:44
  We love dad. We're going to put on a show for
• 1:01:47
  happy. Life here is wonderful.
• 1:01:48
  Dad. You want to come here and be
• 1:01:51
  with us, Dad and spouse. So Robyn, throughout the show
• 1:01:55
  and we'll talk about it as it goes on.
• 1:01:58
  You know, she hires out to get everything solved.
• 1:02:01
  She has a nanny. She makes sure Kody doesn't have
• 1:02:12
  happening where you might have to depend on your significant
• 1:02:17
  other to be available emotionally, physically, in so
• 1:02:21
  many different ways. It's manipulative and it's a way
• 1:02:26
  Yeah, 100 more favorable to Kody.
• 1:02:28
  And she learned it from her mother, that hooker.
• 1:02:32
  Hooker. She does say, yeah, that when
• 1:02:37
  her mom was, when her dad was there, her mom basically like
• 1:02:41
  put it on, like lay it on thick for him when they're there.
• 1:02:44
  And it's obvious that she does that.
• 1:02:46
  And then you get to the other households and these wives are
• 1:02:52
  they're expecting a partner that's with them on things and
• 1:03:00
  And so of course, that's more exhausting, that's more mentally
• 1:03:12
  Getting Dick wet, barely has to pay attention to the children,
• 1:03:19
  She doesn't lay a problem on him at all, ever.
• 1:03:22
  It's just very weird and it is very manipulative.
• 1:03:26
  And that would very quickly sour you against your other wives.
• 1:03:31
  If you're like, well, why can't you just?
• 1:03:33
  Yeah, be like. Blah blah blah blah, you know?
• 1:03:38
  Be careful what you wish for. Because Robyn, you know what?
• 1:03:41
  You might end up spending a lot of time with Kody Brown in the
• 1:03:47
  And then it gets harder and harder to pretend that
• 1:03:50
  everything is OK because you see him more and more often.
• 1:03:53
  And eventually the looks start to fade, the body starts to
• 1:03:58
  decompose. Decompose, the children go
• 1:04:01
  insane, the household is falling apart, and you're like, I'm just
• 1:04:08
  Oh, jump to Season 20 and you'll know what we're talking about.
• 1:04:16
  He just said it all in question #12 yeah.
• 1:04:18
  And notice how the only thing we get from Christina's a little
• 1:04:22
  chuckle, a little joke about how she's kind of mad at him.
• 1:04:25
  She doesn't provide any details. Another thing overall, it's
• 1:04:28
  funny because I think we're going to talk about Janelle
• 1:04:31
  here, but very little Janelle. Very little from her.
• 1:04:34
  Very few opinions from Janelle so, and I think that's par for
• 1:04:44
  cool with letting things fly under the radar In a little bit.
• 1:04:49
  to Robyn and she's she's not part of the Robyn fan club and I
• 1:04:53
  love it. But yeah, we haven't heard much
• 1:04:55
  from Janelle at this point. Now in this next question
• 1:04:58
  though, we will. From Lisa With so many kids, how
• 1:05:04
  is college going to be paid for when the show has shown how
• 1:05:07
  hard finances are for the Brown family?
• 1:05:12
  And they do kind of start by someone, I don't remember who
• 1:05:15
  says something like, well, college is hard for everybody
• 1:05:17
  like that. This is a consistent, this is
• 1:05:19
  across the board problem. Yeah, like a Brown family
• 1:05:22
  problem. However, they obviously have a
• 1:05:24
  shit ton of kids so. Janelle and Kody are like all
• 1:05:27
  gung ho that the kids are going to go to college.
• 1:05:30
  They keep going and they're both
• 1:05:33
  while the kids are all going to go to college.
• 1:05:36
  Robyn mentions that it's hard to
• 1:05:40
  go to college, so they're going to have to make it work and do
• 1:05:44
  what they can for the kids. But she kind of laughs and makes
• 1:05:49
  a comment and says like, well,
• 1:05:52
  to college. And then Janelle and Kody look
• 1:05:55
  at her and say, no, all the kids
• 1:06:00
  And they kind of like heaven hog, both of them saying that
• 1:06:04
  like on repeat. And you can tell that Kody is
• 1:06:08
  irritated with Robyn and he says, I hope I don't get any
• 1:06:13
  pushback on that because it's wise.
• 1:06:16
  Yeah. That is awkward.
• 1:06:18
  Janelle makes a statement at the
• 1:06:20
  this question. She says, I worked my way
• 1:06:22
  through college and I paid my tuition.
• 1:06:24
  And so she's so I think she's trying to demonstrate how it's
• 1:06:28
  not necessarily parents obligation to like give their
• 1:06:31
  children a ride through school.
• 1:06:32
  At some point someone does say something like what?
• 1:06:34
  We would love to be able to help as many, as many kids, all of
• 1:06:37
  our children, as much as we can for college.
• 1:06:40
  It's unrealistic for most people to put their kids to college, so
• 1:06:45
  And that's where Robyn does this whole no matter how much we
• 1:06:49
  push, not everyone will go to college.
• 1:06:50
  And I hate to say it, but Robyn's right.
• 1:06:53
  She is right. I.
• 1:06:54
  Mean they have a whole brewed of children.
• 1:06:55
  It's not like every one of them is going to go to college just
• 1:07:02
  Forced education. Yeah, and then you got Kody and
• 1:07:05
  Janelle, like, very like, Nope, they're all going to go to
• 1:07:07
  college. Oh.
• 1:07:07
  Yes they will. And Robyn makes another comment
• 1:07:10
  and she's like, well, when they're eighteen, you don't
• 1:07:13
  really get a real say in that. Yeah.
• 1:07:15
  And then, yeah, that's like when Kody is like, I hope I don't get
• 1:07:23
  Yeah, he won't even look at her. No, he's like saying it broadly,
• 1:07:29
  He's putting her in her place. It's about her and her comments,
• 1:07:35
  right next to him kind of doing the same thing.
• 1:07:37
  Like she didn't have to say it, but she was she was doing a
• 1:07:39
  little bit of the like. It reminded me of like how the
• 1:07:44
  Like Kody's saying it, but she and he have already discussed
• 1:07:47
  this. It is very important to them.
• 1:07:49
  And there's no if ands or buts. It's very awkward to watch
• 1:07:54
  because Robbins had a few moments in this where she's been
• 1:08:04
  and a few other things. And then there's this and she
• 1:08:08
  gets shot down again and there's something going on right now in
• 1:08:13
  the family. This whole Q&A is tense and
• 1:08:19
  weird. There, I think the word that I
• 1:08:27
  about their problems because they don't really have any, and
• 1:08:30
  if they do, they don't want to talk about them.
• 1:08:33
  It's best to just ignore things. It's best to just snub each
• 1:08:36
  other on camera and try to make someone look like a fool.
• 1:08:39
  Yes. Yes, they're literally making
• 1:08:41
  each other look like fools. If my husband did that to me in
• 1:08:47
  front of friends, said a comment like what Kody just
• 1:08:51
  said, well, I hope I don't get any pushback on that.
• 1:08:54
  And it was obviously about me to our friends.
• 1:08:57
  You better believe that we'd be fucking fighting.
• 1:09:00
  Later on you'd be giving him some pushback.
• 1:09:03
  Yeah, there is no way that I would like, and I know me and my
• 1:09:14
  But if I was like out in public or if there was like an
• 1:09:17
  interview that was going to be posted and my husband did
• 1:09:19
  something like that to kind of like snubby and belittle me, I
• 1:09:28
  statement when everyone knows who it's about.
• 1:09:32
  That wouldn't fly. That would not fly with me and I
• 1:09:40
  should. Be.
• 1:09:41
  A united front in front of people.
• 1:09:43
  It does seem that they're not on the same page about this in a
• 1:09:48
  way where it's almost another thing about that, another thing
• 1:09:51
  that makes it awkward is almost like Kody and Janelle are
• 1:09:55
  adamant about this. They're on the same page,
• 1:09:57
  they're United front, and Robyn is talking about it in an
• 1:10:01
  almost, if you don't recognize what I'm saying, like almost
• 1:10:04
  dismissive, Like it's super obvious, like whatever.
• 1:10:06
  And it's like, oh girl. She is, and it's almost like
• 1:10:10
  they've never had this conversation with her before and
• 1:10:22
  Yes, it's not like she's saying like our kids should not go to
• 1:10:27
  But they're acting like that's what she's saying.
• 1:10:30
  And so they're kind of making her look, like I said, like an
• 1:10:41
  making her look dumb like well, Robyn wouldn't get it so.
• 1:10:45
  Well, did Robyn graduate from high school?
• 1:10:48
  Unknown. Did Robyn graduate from middle
• 1:10:52
  Like she might literally have been like an eighth grade.
• 1:10:56
  I'm not going to cross any lines.
• 1:10:59
  Well, when you're homeschooled, you can kind of flub that with
• 1:11:05
  very religious, like, strict upbringings where the parent is
• 1:11:10
  homeschooling, and I'm putting that in quotes.
• 1:11:14
  Their children, yeah. You get to pick and choose what
• 1:11:17
  your kids are learning, and you're not going to be teaching
• 1:11:19
  them what you don't think they're going to use, like
• 1:11:22
  arithmetic. Arithmetic, I say.
• 1:11:24
  That wrong, You got arithmetics. Arithmetics.
• 1:11:27
  Arithmetics such as arithmetics and seance.
• 1:11:32
  Aerodynamics. Aerodynamics and social
• 1:11:35
  sciences. Yeah, Robyn, but she doesn't
• 1:11:38
  know, could fill a lot of football fields the way that she
• 1:11:45
  Desai coming down the Pike like she is not a bright girl.
• 1:11:52
  from Rita. Rita like making a Margarita.
• 1:11:56
  Rita. And Rita says since there's more
• 1:12:01
  This one kind of seemed like an obvious question.
• 1:12:04
  Like, duh, depends on the child. And that's what Meri says.
• 1:12:08
  Yeah, she literally is like depends on the child.
• 1:12:11
  Janelle says she does with her bio kids.
• 1:12:14
  Duh. Kody of.
• 1:12:16
  Course. Kody, this question is for the
• 1:12:22
  jump in and say, well, I pull rank.
• 1:12:24
  Of course I do course corrections.
• 1:12:27
  And then they like do flashback to Kody reprimanding Gabe and
• 1:12:31
  from the past that it is so funny.
• 1:12:33
  He's like tormenting Savannah or something.
• 1:12:35
  And he's like, I can't remember what Gabe says, but something
• 1:12:39
  like, oh, it's self-defense. Kody's like, it's just like,
• 1:12:44
  it's clearly not self-defense. Yeah.
• 1:12:46
  And I just love it cuz there are these moments from when Gabe is
• 1:12:48
  really young that they show, like with the flushing or the
• 1:12:51
  like thing in the toilet, the dolls in the toilet.
• 1:12:54
  There's so many things that he does that are like, oh, that
• 1:12:57
  little shit, that little troublemaker.
• 1:12:58
  And you know, I guess as far as pulling rank, it's really just
• 1:13:17
  Like you said, course correction.
• 1:13:20
  I don't think I would ever use that term, but OK.
• 1:13:23
  And they do show a bunch of like, like, a montage of clips
• 1:13:30
  like they're him stepping in, but also the kids not listening
• 1:13:34
  to him right in each clip. So it's funny because he's
• 1:13:37
  trying to say I pull rank, but then they're kind of clowning
• 1:13:40
  him by showing clips where the kids aren't listening.
• 1:13:42
  Yeah, it was funny. That is funny, and Meri wraps up
• 1:13:49
  Teamwork makes the dream work. Had to wrap that up with a nice
• 1:13:53
  little bow on the end there, didn't you, Mayor?
• 1:13:56
  Nice little bow from mayor. 3 college girls sent this video in
• 1:14:06
  hair products Kody uses. All the parents laugh, all the
• 1:14:15
  understanding of his answer. Darling, I'm looking forward to
• 1:14:18
  this. Kody says that that's an easy
• 1:14:21
  question. Then they show a clip of him
• 1:14:24
  taking a towel and like, aggressively roughing his hair
• 1:14:32
  He says that he uses a cleanser, not a shampoo.
• 1:14:37
  He doesn't call it a shampoo. He says I use a cleanser and
• 1:14:42
  then I use a a scalp therapy and then I simply use a follicle
• 1:14:49
  boost that is supposed to keep him from going bald.
• 1:14:53
  Sounds pretty simple follicle. Boost.
• 1:14:56
  And the cleanser instead of a shampoo while they're showing
• 1:15:01
  these flashbacks to him doing his hair.
• 1:15:04
  And you're right. And as he calls it, it's pretty
• 1:15:06
  simple. And then they show him in this
• 1:15:11
  things, and I'm like, he has such a showboat.
• 1:15:13
  Like he literally can't even do his hair without drawing the
• 1:15:17
  attention of everyone around him.
• 1:15:18
  He flips his hair back in the clip, too, and he's like, let's
• 1:15:21
  just leave it like that. It looks good like that.
• 1:15:23
  Like trying to be funny, like, as if we really would believe
• 1:15:26
  that's what he's doing. I know exactly what he's doing
• 1:15:32
  system. He's probably using like Nioxin
• 1:15:35
  or Bosley shampoo. And then there's like a scalp
• 1:15:39
  spray that you use that is supposed to, you know, stimulate
• 1:15:49
  figure out what it is that he's saying, even though he says it's
• 1:15:54
  But then he's roughing his hair up so hard with that towel and I
• 1:16:03
  are negating everything that you are doing right now to keep
• 1:16:05
  your hair because you are not supposed to rough your head up
• 1:16:11
  fragile hair and you're. Concerned about losing it.
• 1:16:14
  Like, don't rough it up. Yeah, pretty common sense.
• 1:16:16
  And then also the convertible vibe.
• 1:16:18
  His hair's constantly blowing in the.
• 1:16:20
  Wind he's doing this stuff for his hair, but then he's also
• 1:16:24
  like not really taking care of it.
• 1:16:26
  But I, I will say that if you do start using something like this
• 1:16:31
  to prevent hair loss, you have to continue using it like you
• 1:16:35
  can't stop using it or you will lose the hair because it's
• 1:16:39
  actually a hormone that comes out through the hair follicle
• 1:16:42
  and it like suffocates the hair. It's like a whole thing.
• 1:16:45
  So you're cleansing the follicle like out when you're using these
• 1:16:53
  So, oh, I don't know, good to know.
• 1:16:56
  It's interesting that he's like pretending that it's like this
• 1:17:03
  process, even though he claims it is, because he's doing many,
• 1:17:06
  many things. Right.
• 1:17:07
  And Robyn says it's quite the process to watch.
• 1:17:11
  Turner fucking laughs. Imagine like watching your
• 1:17:15
  husband do that every day. Oh boy.
• 1:17:19
  Yeah, it's weird being one of those homos.
• 1:17:21
  Like we've talked about. I'm not a hair homo like I am.
• 1:17:26
  anything on it to keep the follicules doing whatever
• 1:17:29
  they're doing, right? Follicles doing whatever they're
• 1:17:33
  But if I was, then I wouldn't be like abrasively scrubbing my
• 1:17:37
  head with a towel and letting it blow and high, I was gonna say
• 1:17:45
  Yeah, like in a convertible, like, I would be like, you know,
• 1:17:51
  It's his fifth wife.
• 1:17:54
  Because it's vain. It's like vanity when it comes
• 1:17:56
  to him. It's not like just a simple like
• 1:17:59
  I'm trying to look nice for the day and get ready.
• 1:18:01
  It's like a showboat thing, like
• 1:18:04
  that like. There's a soundtrack to it, like
• 1:18:07
  when he leaves the house and he goes out, he's hoping people
• 1:18:10
  see the hair and recognize it's Kody Brown, like it's a
• 1:18:14
  billboard on his head. He used to sell signs.
• 1:18:16
  It's, it's literally look at me,
• 1:18:19
  You, you see it when he's out and about and he's doing his
• 1:18:22
  little like toss his little hair
• 1:18:25
  Head toss, Yeah. And so I think that's why it
• 1:18:27
  bothers me to like watch him do the hair routine because it is
• 1:18:30
  like such a the God, OK, like we
• 1:18:33
  this. The thing I don't know.
• 1:18:35
  Yep, Kody's gross. Yeah, well, yeah, I do
• 1:18:39
  appreciate the fact that he does
• 1:18:42
  though. Like, I don't know, some guys
• 1:18:45
  don't even wash their butts so.
• 1:18:47
  Yeah, let's not talk about that. That's disturbing.
• 1:18:51
  It is very disturbing, so I will give him that.
• 1:18:55
  Yeah, I'll give him that. Let's hope he cleans his butt.
• 1:19:03
  amazing Q&A session with the Browns?
• 1:19:05
  Oh, so titillate at all. We're about to end on a high
• 1:19:10
  note. Oh God, get ready everybody, you
• 1:19:17
  Wives, if one of you passed away, would another wife assume
• 1:19:22
  parental rights of the children?
• 1:19:27
  So that would be the topic would
• 1:19:32
  And Meri says absolutely. And then she starts sharing the
• 1:19:36
  story of her sister's passing away from colon cancer, which
• 1:19:40
  we've heard a few times. And it is a sad story.
• 1:19:43
  And Meri starts getting emotional.
• 1:19:45
  And as she's telling this story,
• 1:19:49
  heard this story. I'm familiar.
• 1:19:51
  Her sister dies and then her sister wives raise her children.
• 1:19:55
  OK. And of course, it's you bring it
• 1:19:57
  up and you might get emotional.
• 1:19:58
  It's your sister. And she's, you know, even kind
• 1:20:12
  really touching. It is very touching and I almost
• 1:20:19
  share some information with Chris.
• 1:20:21
  Like she says that her brother-in-law went to his other
• 1:20:29
  could move in with her. And the sister wife said no,
• 1:20:33
  that she would move into their home and raise them in their
• 1:20:38
  house because they've been through enough already.
• 1:20:41
  And I thought that was really special and a good, you know,
• 1:20:48
  tidbit to share when somebody has small children.
• 1:20:52
  The tears were welling up in my eyes.
• 1:20:55
  I was. Literally very touched by this
• 1:21:02
  sister had four young kids. It's been 6 years since her
• 1:21:05
  sister passed away. And the kids were really young
• 1:21:12
  the children going through such a hard and devastating loss and
• 1:21:17
  then to be taken out of your home and move into a new home
• 1:21:21
  and be put into new family dynamic.
• 1:21:24
  Granted, it's your sister, wife, other mother, other mom.
• 1:21:29
  Yeah, it's still a different household and different rules.
• 1:21:44
  I would want my children to stay in our home and be at least
• 1:21:48
  in one aspect of their life, not not having one aspect of
• 1:21:54
  their life upended. Yeah, yeah.
• 1:21:55
  I really appreciated that they shared that.
• 1:21:58
  It was actually very touching. It really was.
• 1:22:01
  And Meri reiterates that her sister's sister wife is raising
• 1:22:06
  these kids as if in the same manner that Meri's sister would
• 1:22:11
  have wanted. And that was very important.
• 1:22:13
  And she's talked, she's touched on this before in the show.
• 1:22:17
  We knew this, but the whole idea of being like, no, I'm not going
• 1:22:22
  I'm going to move into their home.
• 1:22:24
  It's really, really, really beautiful thing.
• 1:22:29
  It is, and it's not something that a lot of people would
• 1:22:33
  probably think of and you would hope that the person that's
• 1:22:36
  going to be taking care of your children would have them in the
• 1:22:40
  forefront of their mind and make a decision like that.
• 1:22:43
  If you didn't offer it up yourself before passing that you
• 1:22:51
  somebody to offer and just do. And that just goes to show how
• 1:22:59
  And hopefully she's raising the kids as her sister wife would
• 1:23:03
  have wanted. And it sounds like it just based
• 1:23:11
  know, pretty good. And I feel like as a human, I, I
• 1:23:17
  If you're in the situation of your sister, wife died, your
• 1:23:21
  sister died, a close person, you're going to take care of
• 1:23:24
  their children. I feel like I would default to
• 1:23:29
  I don't want to live in my dead sister's home.
• 1:23:31
  I don't want to live in my dead friend's home because of the
• 1:23:34
  memories and the things and what it would mean.
• 1:23:36
  I mean, clearing out all their stuff or keeping their stuff.
• 1:23:40
  There's just so many things where I feel like that doesn't
• 1:23:50
  talking about, even though what you're talking about is great
• 1:23:54
  and what Meri's sister's sister wife did is great.
• 1:23:57
  Well, you're still going through a loss yourself, right?
• 1:23:59
  But it's not about you. It's about the kids.
• 1:24:03
  And it's about their loss is more significant than your loss.
• 1:24:09
  you make that loss a little easier on them?
• 1:24:13
  And moving into their home would
• 1:24:17
  How can you keep life as normal as possible for them?
• 1:24:23
  And that would be a huge part of
• 1:24:26
  their environment on top of everything that's happened.
• 1:24:30
  And Meri makes a comment that it's times like this and it's
• 1:24:34
  conversations like this that make her realize what a blessing
• 1:24:37
  this lifestyle is for reasons like that.
• 1:24:40
  Because she already knows that
• 1:24:44
  Leon and she would want them to take in Leon and raise Leon as
• 1:24:49
  she would. And she drew it back to them and
• 1:24:55
  that's kind of how they wrap it up, is her touching on the fact
• 1:24:59
  that her sister wives are a blessing.
• 1:25:02
  And why do we end on this fucking question?
• 1:25:07
  I don't know. Why do they end on the saddest
• 1:25:11
  question of all? I do not know.
• 1:25:15
  This whole Q&A was tragic from
• 1:25:21
  The setup, the outfits, the questions, the obvious tension
• 1:25:28
  between them, the. Inappropriate question with the
• 1:25:33
  children in the room. Yeah.
• 1:25:36
  The sloppy editing, the sloppy
• 1:25:39
  terrible. This episode was it's
• 1:25:42
  interesting because once again, we have talked about it at
• 1:25:44
  length, right. So when we before we started
• 1:25:47
  recording, we're like this one
• 1:25:48
  We might be like whatever. Nope, sorry.
• 1:25:50
  You're in for another full episode here folks.
• 1:25:53
  But there's an underlying like
• 1:25:55
  This negativeness, yeah, there
• 1:26:00
  entire time and I was like, oh
• 1:26:04
  Well, Kimber, now is your time
• 1:26:06
  brevity and happiness into people's lives by providing our
• 1:26:10
  listeners with who your mustard seed is for this episode.
• 1:26:14
  Who really moved you in a beautiful, positive way.
• 1:26:19
  That voice was ridiculous. I've been making some weird
• 1:26:22
  voices lately. I need to.
• 1:26:23
  I need to chill out. You know, I'm going to give it
• 1:26:29
  to Maddie for the cute story that she shared about Logan and
• 1:26:32
  her and Logan protecting her from the tornado.
• 1:26:36
  And they gave us that light, cute moment.
• 1:26:41
  Yes, that was actually very cute.
• 1:26:42
  So that was kind of the rainbow in this shitstorm for me.
• 1:26:52
  I'm going to give my mustard seed to Meri, and any faithful
• 1:26:56
  listener of this show will know that it pains me to do so, but
• 1:27:01
  I'm giving it to Meri because it's a very touching story about
• 1:27:04
  what happened with her sister.
• 1:27:08
  transparency that I appreciate.
• 1:27:10
  And I mean, she almost made me cry in this episode.
• 1:27:14
  So like, I guess that means I got to give Meri my mustard
• 1:27:17
  seed. Yeah I agree that was probably
• 1:27:24
  Now who is going to be your shit stain?
• 1:27:29
  My shit stain is going to go to Robyn Brown.
• 1:27:32
  She left a smear in my underwear that I was not happy about.
• 1:27:37
  It wasn't my smear, it was Robyn's.
• 1:27:39
  And when she talked about going over to scrub Christine's toilet
• 1:27:48
  wasn't dirty enough. It needed to be more filthy.
• 1:27:51
  And Christine's house is always filthy, so she could have had
• 1:27:54
  her work cut out for her. She needed double time.
• 1:27:57
  She needed to go to a rest stop. We should have brought Robyn to
• 1:28:00
  the rest stop on the side of the highway and been like clean
• 1:28:02
  it with a toothbrush. Robyn, you are a shit stain.
• 1:28:06
  Yeah, she was being real weird this entire time.
• 1:28:10
  She was trying to be so cute and so funny and coy and flippant
• 1:28:15
  with her answers, like, oh, just like flying up the seat of my
• 1:28:19
  pants trying to be cute. And it was not landing.
• 1:28:23
  And she didn't catch it. And then when she finally did
• 1:28:26
  kind of catch it, it was just so awkward.
• 1:28:29
  And that is why I'm going to give my shit stain to Kody Brown
• 1:28:46
  her. And then I feel like he
• 1:28:49
  belittled like his children a few times with some of his
• 1:28:53
  answers and not maybe treating them with respect.
• 1:28:57
  Like you still need to treat your children with respect.
• 1:29:01
  And some of the answers made me question if he really does that,
• 1:29:11
  chattel. Yeah.
• 1:29:12
  I don't think he looks at them as individuals like real people
• 1:29:15
  like no. Yeah, I feel like he had more
• 1:29:19
  than a few times in this where he was angry, like obviously
• 1:29:26
  upset, and then talked down upon people.
• 1:29:31
  It was odd. And something is going on here.
• 1:29:37
  There is tension.
• 1:29:39
  There's not a lot of answers from Janelle and Christine.
• 1:29:43
  There's not a lot of depth to most of their answers that were
• 1:29:48
  given, and I don't know why they
• 1:29:55
  Yeah, I don't get it. Yeah, definitely felt like weird
• 1:29:58
  filler and last minute and poorly executed.
• 1:30:01
  Very strange. Yeah, our real shit stain is
• 1:30:04
  going to go to the producers because what the fuck?
• 1:30:07
  What the? Fuck was that?
• 1:30:09
  What was it? Why?
• 1:30:13
  Why Our keep Sweep moment this
• 1:30:18
  Carrie 11. Hi, Aunt Carrie 11 Kimber, say
• 1:30:22
  hi. Hi.
• 1:30:25
  And Aunt Carrie 11 says the commercial broke in for me just
• 1:30:28
  as you started to say your kids won't pick up their effing.
• 1:30:30
  And it sounded like you were getting censored and I freaking
• 1:30:35
  cracked up. It was so funny.
• 1:30:38
  I love you too. And thank you, Aunt Carrie 11,
• 1:30:42
  for the love. We love you too.
• 1:30:45
  That is ironic that it would cut
• 1:30:47
  I love it. Your kids don't pick up their F
• 1:30:50
  and bleep. I hope we don't get any more
• 1:30:54
  Q&A's in the near future. Same.
• 1:30:58
  Next episode is the final episode of season 4 and I think
• 1:31:02
  it's something about Logan, his next step in life like leaving
• 1:31:05
  high school, going to college,
• 1:31:07
  Something off in a convertible
• 1:31:12
  Oh my gosh, into the. Sky hang up into the sky and
• 1:31:15
  code is convertible. And who's in the car with him?
• 1:31:20
  This girlfriend that he doesn't have, that he hasn't kissed
• 1:31:22
  them. And she puffs her hair and turns
• 1:31:25
  around and gives us a little wink as they drive off.
• 1:31:28
  Yes, and if I could ask for anything it would be more
• 1:31:32
  hookers and less. Q&A.
• 1:31:35
  'S less Q&A's and more hookers.
• 1:31:37
  Do you hear me puddle monkey? More hookers.
• 1:31:40
  God bless.