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Speaker 1: I can feel it coming in the air tonight. Or Lord,
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Speaker 1: I've been waiting for this moment for all of my life.
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Speaker 1: it's Valentine's Day. Just kidding. Note like me, you eat
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Speaker 1: me a kiss? Oh? Thank you? Poop mouth. I don't
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Speaker 1: And let's get back to it all right. First up,
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Speaker 1: starting with an absolute begger, is am I the skyy
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Speaker 1: wig for sending carnations to my work wife? We don't
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Speaker 1: like that dirm here, Okay, I'm scared. Let's get into it.
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Speaker 1: We all have friends at work, and mine happens to
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Speaker 1: be a woman. Okay, no big deal, right, I immediately
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Speaker 1: don't like you, just the way you're writing. I don't
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Speaker 1: like it. I'm gonna stop interrupting. I'm gonna try not
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Speaker 1: to interrupt every other sentence in this video. Okay, Well,
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Speaker 1: to my girlfriend. It is the woman in question and
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Speaker 1: I are pretty close as a result of working next
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Speaker 1: to each other for the past year. We joke that
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Speaker 1: we're work spouses, but nothing goes beyond that except for
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Speaker 1: the occasional good morning text. My crazy is gonna come
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Speaker 1: out today, I just know it. Long story short and
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Speaker 1: I were talking about Valentine's Day and she mentioned how
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Speaker 1: in high school she never got sent a carnation. This
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Speaker 1: surprised me because she's dead ass at ten. I told
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Speaker 1: her how I only ever got white one sent symbolizing friendship,
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Speaker 1: which was embarrassing, and we both bonded over the disappointments
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Speaker 1: and joked that being work spouses, maybe we could get
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Speaker 1: each other flowers this year. I decided to take her
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Speaker 1: up on this in and I gotta get my glasses.
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Speaker 1: My eyes were like, get up, because that is Chris
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Speaker 1: read screams. Also, I got new glasses. What do we think?
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Speaker 1: I feel like it goes with the fit. The fit
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Speaker 1: is fitting today, like you know, like pre like I
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Speaker 1: look like a kindergarten teacher giving kindergarten teacher realness today. Sorry.
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Speaker 1: I decided to take her up on this in an
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Speaker 1: appropriate manner by sending her a bouquet of white carnations
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Speaker 1: in the mail to express my appreciation of her and
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Speaker 1: her friendship, nothing more. But the thing is, I forgot
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Speaker 1: to change the delivery date to a week later, on
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Speaker 1: a day my girlfriend wasn't home, and they got delivered today.
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Speaker 1: Oh so you wanted to keep it a secret from
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Speaker 1: your girlfriend. Okay, picking a day my girlfriend wasn't home
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Speaker 1: is not an admission of guilt. I just knew she
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Speaker 1: would overreact because she's emotional and almost unbearably insecure at times.
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Speaker 1: I don't like this human being. So yeah, they came
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Speaker 1: to my house and my girlfriend answered the door and
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Speaker 1: was so happy until she read the tag and saw
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Speaker 1: it was wasn't her name. I told her why I'd
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Speaker 1: gotten them for my work friend, and she started crying. Yeah.
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Speaker 1: I explained the story behind it and how white was platonic.
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Speaker 1: I also told my girlfriend that I had super romantic
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Speaker 1: plans for Valentine's Day for her and red roses. Oh
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Speaker 1: that makes up for it, But I can't get through
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Speaker 1: to her. She said it's emotional cheating, which I disagree with,
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Speaker 1: and all these other buzzwords chicks throw out on Twitter,
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Speaker 1: and I can't help but think she's blowing it way
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Speaker 1: out of proportion. Me and my work friend have never
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Speaker 1: done anything, and I'm a dedicated boyfriend. But apparently one
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Speaker 1: kind and thoughtful gesture to another woman makes me a monster.
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Speaker 1: One very romantic gesture does kind of make you monster? Yeah,
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Speaker 1: kind of. I'm pretty sure my relationship is over unless
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Speaker 1: I apologize and admit I was wrong. But I also
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Speaker 1: feel like this is a matter of principle and that
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Speaker 1: I'm the victim here. Be so for real right now,
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Speaker 1: you freaking idiot? Is she just being a rational or
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Speaker 1: am I being short sighted? You are being a dumbass,
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Speaker 1: he said, inn Edit, they were white flowers, as if
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Speaker 1: that matters. Calm down. I regret posting here. You asked
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Speaker 1: for our opinion, and you suck and she deserves someone better.
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Speaker 1: Like use your tiny, tiny little peanut brain. Okay, and
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Speaker 1: understand how let's just switch it over there. Okay, she
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Speaker 1: has work husband and she gets him. Oh, I don't know,
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Speaker 1: a white box of heart shaped chocolates. Are you going
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Speaker 1: to be a little upset about that? Probably? And if
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Speaker 1: you say no, you're a liar. Man. People are so dumb,
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Speaker 1: so dumb, dumb dumb. But she now she knows, and
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Speaker 1: they should break up and she should just go just
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Speaker 1: just go eat a box of chocolates and just it'd
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Speaker 1: be better, be better than being in the same room
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Speaker 1: as this one. God, I'll tell you what. Let's see
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Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. Okay, let's see what the comments say.
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Speaker 1: This is what I felt like. I just read quote
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Speaker 1: I regularly flirt with an extremely hot woman at work.
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Speaker 1: My girlfriend doesn't feel great about this, isn't she just
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Speaker 1: so annoying and insecure? Tell me I'm the victim here
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Speaker 1: and should not be expected to be considerate of the
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Speaker 1: feelings of someone I've chosen to date. Unquote you're the
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Speaker 1: asshole dude, exactly exactly, Yes, Yeah, what stupidity. Another one
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Speaker 1: says that you're the asshole. The way you talk about
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Speaker 1: your girlfriend says a lot. Yeah, you're just mean about her.
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Speaker 1: You didn't say one nice thing about her. You said
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Speaker 1: she's insecure. You can't believe she feels the way she
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Speaker 1: does about you having a work like It's just you're
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Speaker 1: in your own little world and it's crazy. I hope
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Speaker 1: this other girl, your work wife, dodges you as well,
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Speaker 1: you know. I think she should be a little bit
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Speaker 1: more respectful of your relationship. But maybe you guys will
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Speaker 1: be happy together, you know, And then maybe you guys
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Speaker 1: will get tired of each other immediately and then chet
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Speaker 1: on each other, and I'll just be this horrible, toxic
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Speaker 1: spiral tale is all this time, you know? And another
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Speaker 1: one says, and the way he talks about the dead
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Speaker 1: ass ken work wife, yikes. Yeah, imagine being his girlfriend
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Speaker 1: reading this post. Just you know, close your mouth, stop typing,
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Speaker 1: tie your hands behind your back, and jump off. But whatever,
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Speaker 1: you know what, let me know what you guys think.
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Speaker 1: How would you handle this if this was your partner.
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Speaker 1: Let's go to the next one, all right. Next one
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Speaker 1: isn't necessarily Valentine's Day themed, but this is a relationship theme.
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Speaker 1: Am I lets Scully Wegg for breaking up with my
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Speaker 1: ex by getting married to the love of my life.
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Speaker 1: Am I the assle for breaking up with my ex
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Speaker 1: by getting married to the off of my life. So
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Speaker 1: did you just get married and then you told your X?
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Speaker 1: I think, Sar, daddy, I need to read. Okay. I
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Speaker 1: am twenty nine female and I met my ex at work.
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Speaker 1: We'll call him Brad. He was my boss's brother and
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Speaker 1: he was helping me with my project. I was hired
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Speaker 1: to be the project manager for a new vertical of
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Speaker 1: their business. We spent two months literally joined at the hip,
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Speaker 1: doing everything together, talking and catching up on coffees between
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Speaker 1: vendor runs. I started falling for him and he for me.
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Speaker 1: Cut to the launch of our projects. Seven weeks later,
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Speaker 1: he and I are constantly talking and the evening before lunch,
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Speaker 1: he tells me that he's married with a kid and
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Speaker 1: he loves me as he has never met anyone like me. Oh,
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Speaker 1: I didn't see that coming. I did not see that coming. Okay.
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Speaker 1: I reluctantly go with him for coffee to hear him out,
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Speaker 1: where he tells me how he was pressured into marrying
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Speaker 1: her and they had a kid as he was sick
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Speaker 1: on a deathbed, and how he never loved her and
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Speaker 1: they barely shared a loved bond. Why am I inclined
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Speaker 1: not to believe him, but we'll hear him out all right.
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Speaker 1: We started secretly meeting and going on dates as no
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Speaker 1: one at work or around us could know about our affair.
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Speaker 1: Do some investigating before you dive in. We did this
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Speaker 1: for three months, and every time we would go out,
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Speaker 1: he would make me buy him gifts and pay for
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Speaker 1: our dates, saying he didn't have money or had a
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Speaker 1: family to support. Oh, so he's a loser piece of
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Speaker 1: shit as well. Fantastic. I mean you're also a piece
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Speaker 1: of shit, by the way, for doing this. Well, he
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Speaker 1: has a wife and child to support. Everybody's the asshole
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Speaker 1: so far. In the beginning it was not an issue,
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Speaker 1: but then it got too much as I don't come
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Speaker 1: from money and I also needed to save our third
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Speaker 1: month in. Just before our big date on Valentine's Day,
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Speaker 1: his wife found the phone he used to talk to
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Speaker 1: me with and threatened to leave him. Yeah, you should
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Speaker 1: leave him. She doesn't know it was me, as he
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Speaker 1: didn't save my name on that phone. Throughout this ordeal,
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Speaker 1: he didn't tell me anything, just to not message him
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Speaker 1: for a while. A couple weeks later, we started to
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Speaker 1: go on dates again and kept blaming me for all
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Speaker 1: the pain that he had to go through, but in
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Speaker 1: a veiled, subtle way, how he was defying his family
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Speaker 1: to be with me, and any time I would try
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Speaker 1: to break it off with him, he would emotionally blackmail me,
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Speaker 1: saying I was the happiest thing that ever happened to him,
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Speaker 1: and how he couldn't think of living without me. Brotherless
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Speaker 1: guy sticks. I started to distance myself, going out like
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Speaker 1: how I used to getting drunk and partying as usual.
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Speaker 1: He didn't like that, as he didn't drink and in
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Speaker 1: hindsight was exceptionally boring. Right well, he chose him, not
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Speaker 1: saying what he's doing is good. It's very bad, but
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Speaker 1: you know, it's just like you made your bed and
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Speaker 1: you just be honest, Like be honest that'll set you free.
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Speaker 1: Be honest with the wife, that'll absolutely set your brain.
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Speaker 1: So we did this back and forth for a couple
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Speaker 1: of months, where I constantly kept trying to break up,
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Speaker 1: but he just knew what to say. We are now
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Speaker 1: at nine months since we started seeing each other, and
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Speaker 1: I was done. So I told him I can't see
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Speaker 1: him and that I was leaving town for a couple
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Speaker 1: of days to think through it. So my friend and
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Speaker 1: I took a trip where she introduced me to this
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Speaker 1: man who was amazing the first time I saw him.
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Speaker 1: He was everything. He was loving, kind and so so fun.
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Speaker 1: We couldn't stop talking to each other even if we tried.
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Speaker 1: And then he told me he had a wife and
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Speaker 1: a kid. I'm just kidding. He doesn't have a wife.
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Speaker 1: He doesn't have a wife, and again that I know of.
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Speaker 1: Yet when we got back from the trip, I knew
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Speaker 1: I would get married to this man. So I went
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Speaker 1: to work and told my coworker BX that I was
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Speaker 1: set to get married and it was over for real.
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is wild. He kept calling me
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Speaker 1: to go out with him one last time for old
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Speaker 1: time's sake, and I kept saying no. Two weeks later,
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Speaker 1: the BF came to my city and proposed to me.
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Speaker 1: Whoa moving quick, as Helle? What the heck? Wild? Okay,
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Speaker 1: propose to me? And we decided to get married in
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Speaker 1: two months over that weekend. So I went back to
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Speaker 1: work and handed in my four weeks notice as I
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Speaker 1: would be moving cities and told Brad the same. I mean, great,
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Speaker 1: get away from Brad. Brad's like he's a crazy person.
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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't think you're necessarily a good person.
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Speaker 1: But yeah, Brad's a psycho for sure. There was a
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Speaker 1: lot of name calling involved from his end, and he
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Speaker 1: made me feel horrible that I cried, even though he
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Speaker 1: was the one who followed me everywhere and convince me
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Speaker 1: to date him. He made it seem as if I
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Speaker 1: was the only one in the wrong here. Am I
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Speaker 1: the asshole for doing this to Bratt? No, you're not
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Speaker 1: the asshole for doing this to Brad. I mean, he's
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Speaker 1: cheating on his wife and he's a kid. Go to
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Speaker 1: the wife and tell him what you did. I think
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Speaker 1: that'll help set that free for you. But I'm sure
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Speaker 1: you're worried that it'll get back to your new husband
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Speaker 1: now and that'll make it not look good. You know,
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Speaker 1: it's very messy. Oh my goodness, Brad is just an
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Speaker 1: extra extra pos you know. I think you're both the assholes.
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Speaker 1: To be honest, what happens if you meet another guy,
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Speaker 1: You're just gonna like leave your husband and go get
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Speaker 1: married to that guy and then just like break it
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Speaker 1: to your current husband, Like how does that work? Like?
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Speaker 1: People have feelings. Maybe could have gone about it in
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Speaker 1: a nicer way, but Bread seemed like whatever you told
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Speaker 1: him he would like not listen. So I think a
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Speaker 1: lot of assholes here. What do you guys think? Let's
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Speaker 1: re the comments. You are a mess girlfriend. That's how
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Speaker 1: I feel. I just feel ichy, sticky mess. I just
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Speaker 1: feel mess. Brad was using you by demanding he buy
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Speaker 1: you gifts and pay for the dates you buy him gifts.
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Speaker 1: I think they mean I bet he never did anything
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Speaker 1: for you, you except give sweet tuck. You knew he
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Speaker 1: was married, and you didn't tell him to take a
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Speaker 1: hike when he tried to seduce you. Yeah, exactly. You're
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Speaker 1: an adult person. You got to take that one for sure.
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Speaker 1: The whole we never loved each other is a line
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Speaker 1: married men used to convince naive woman to fuck them.
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Speaker 1: I've read enough of these to know that is probably true.
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Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what he said. He's married and probably
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Speaker 1: gets a kick out of cheating on his wife, which
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Speaker 1: is why he'll never leave her. And I bet his
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Speaker 1: kid isn't sick either. Yeah. I just don't buy it,
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Speaker 1: believe it or not. I don't believe you, Brad, to decide,
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Speaker 1: after meeting a guy once that he's the love of
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Speaker 1: your life and you're going to marry him is to
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Speaker 1: me jumping from a frying pan into the fryar. Girl,
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Speaker 1: get some counseling, please. Yeah that was like, whoa. I
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Speaker 1: think you needed some time to yourself after the bradtastrophee
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Speaker 1: that happened for sure. How old was she? She's in
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Speaker 1: her Was she in her twenties? What was it? She's
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Speaker 1: twenty nine, dude, She's my age, No excuse. I thought
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Speaker 1: she might be like twenty two or something. But like
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Speaker 1: I had to do is like watch some movies to know.
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Speaker 1: But I mean, you know, I don't know the whole
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Speaker 1: This whole story has been just very very self centered
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Speaker 1: in both parts. I think another comment is info, what
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Speaker 1: the fuck? Another person says, you're the asshole to yourself here,
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Speaker 1: slow the f down. You fell for some really obvious
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Speaker 1: lines with your ex. You paid for everything because he
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Speaker 1: didn't want the affair showing up on his credit cards,
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Speaker 1: not because he was broke. Oh so true. And here
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Speaker 1: you are getting swept away by another guy and leaving
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Speaker 1: your job and support system to be with him. I
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Speaker 1: just feel like she's lost, like she puts all of
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Speaker 1: her being into who she's with. Feel like she just
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Speaker 1: really needs to take some time to herself. But now
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Speaker 1: she's married, so I don't think that's gonna happen. I
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Speaker 1: think she's gonna learn the hard way unfortunately. Let me
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Speaker 1: know you guys think, have you heard something similar to this?
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Speaker 1: What would you do? What do you think of her?
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Speaker 1: I don't know, let me know. Let's move on. This
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Speaker 1: next one is from best to reredditor updates, my favorite
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Speaker 1: subreddit because they get contact, send concllisions. But it is
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Speaker 1: another relationship one, and it is I'm tired of my
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Speaker 1: boyfriend of four years X being a ghost in our relationship.
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Speaker 1: Oh the classic thuh, we'll can't wait to dive into
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Speaker 1: this one. I like to know your guys's opinions on
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Speaker 1: this one too, because it's such like a ify topic.
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Speaker 1: Like some people are totally fine with it, it depends
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Speaker 1: and some people are like, uh that you know, so
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Speaker 1: let me know what you think before we get into this.
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Speaker 1: Let's get into it. I'm tired of my boyfriend a
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Speaker 1: four years ex being a ghost in our relationship. I
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Speaker 1: don't have any girlfriends stevin about this too, so why
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Speaker 1: not redd it? I got you quick. I want to
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Speaker 1: try to get as many details as I can and
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Speaker 1: try to keep things in order, but I apologize if
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Speaker 1: it's all over the place. I'm just fuming right now
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Speaker 1: about this situation. I have been with my twenty nine
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Speaker 1: female boyfriend thirty two male for four years. He dated
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Speaker 1: this one woman who is ten years older than him
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Speaker 1: for six years, about three or four years before we met.
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Speaker 1: What's the math here? Okay, she's a decade older than him.
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Speaker 1: He's now thirty two right now. If they'd be dating
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Speaker 1: for four years as of right now, so he would
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Speaker 1: have been twenty eight and they dated about so that
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Speaker 1: means he would be eighteen when she was twenty eight.
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Speaker 1: I needed to do that math for us. Okay, So
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Speaker 1: he was eighteen when he started dating this woman who
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Speaker 1: was almost thirty. I know it's legal, but it's still
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Speaker 1: what Kate? Now we have that context. My boyfriend's name
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Speaker 1: is Aarin, and he has an older brother, Nate. Nate
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Speaker 1: recently got married to Cassie. Cassie and my boyfriend's ex,
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Speaker 1: Kate have been longtime best friends. All right, So Kate,
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Speaker 1: I think I called her Kat. Kate is the ex.
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Speaker 1: Kate is the one that was almost thirty and dated
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Speaker 1: the eighteen year old who is this girl's boyfriend? At
17:32
Speaker 1: the time, got it and Nate and Cassi are together. Okay,
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Speaker 1: great Nate and Cassie met through Kate while my boyfriend
17:37
Speaker 1: and her were together. Kate has a daughter, not my
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Speaker 1: boyfriend's biological kid. For a few years though Aaron and
17:43
Speaker 1: Kate lived together, so he obviously had a good relationship
17:46
Speaker 1: with her daughter. I posted a story a few months
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Speaker 1: ago about running into her daughter while our families were
17:50
Speaker 1: celebrating Mother's Day and how uncomfortable that was because my
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Speaker 1: boyfriend's mother refused to really say who she was to
17:57
Speaker 1: my mom. My mom was just curious and kept pushing
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Speaker 1: who she was, and I knew immediately. Very weird situation.
18:04
Speaker 1: Kate is constantly brought up in random situations. I learned
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Speaker 1: to just deal with it. I can help that my
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Speaker 1: boyfriend and her dated for some time and she still
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Speaker 1: has a friendship with Cassie. It's annoying, but it is
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Speaker 1: what it is. In the four years, I have surprisingly
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Speaker 1: been able to avoid running into her, even though she's
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Speaker 1: a yoga instructor at my gym, and Cassie constantly tries
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Speaker 1: to get us to go to her end of summer party,
18:25
Speaker 1: but my family does a vacation every year around that time.
18:27
Speaker 1: Cassie sounds like a shitty friend. By the way, so
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Speaker 1: I've never gone. This has caused Cassie to get pretty
18:32
Speaker 1: upset with me, but I don't care. What the heck, Cassie,
18:35
Speaker 1: don't you know how feelings work? What Cassie is now
18:38
Speaker 1: pregnant and do in August? Okay, well, congratulations Cassie. Her
18:41
Speaker 1: baby shower is this coming Sunday. Every single woman in
18:44
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's family, including his mother, has made a comment
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Speaker 1: understanding if I didn't show up because they know Kate
18:52
Speaker 1: will be there. Gotcha. Just a couple days ago, Aaron's
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Speaker 1: cousin made a comment to Aaron saying, the baby shower's
18:57
Speaker 1: coming up. Is Danny going? Won't that be weird? I
19:01
Speaker 1: guess the op is Danny. Then proceeded to say how
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Speaker 1: she likes me better and that Kate is all about herself.
19:06
Speaker 1: I'm so tired of her being compared to me. I'm
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Speaker 1: so tired of her having a relationship with everyone in
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Speaker 1: his life. I'm tired of everyone in the family making
19:14
Speaker 1: it weird. He has a past, who cares she's around? Okay,
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Speaker 1: Erin and I have been together for four years. They
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Speaker 1: have been broken up for six or seven years. It's
19:24
Speaker 1: so frustrating. Okay, so it's not what I originally thought,
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Speaker 1: where he was like still friends with her. It's just
19:28
Speaker 1: the whole family knows her. Oh that's so annoying. I
19:32
Speaker 1: feel for the op right now so hard. This sucks.
19:35
Speaker 1: It's like and there's nothing you can really do about it,
19:37
Speaker 1: like what are you going to hold a family meeting?
19:39
Speaker 1: And being like we gotta cut Kate out, you know
19:40
Speaker 1: what I mean, She's a match. On top of all this,
19:43
Speaker 1: part of me truly believes that Cassie has been dying
19:45
Speaker 1: to get Kate and I in the same room. Yeah,
19:47
Speaker 1: she's got some sick like she like needs drama, like
19:52
Speaker 1: right in front of her. She doesn't get it like
19:54
Speaker 1: me from reddite. It could be from a far she
19:55
Speaker 1: like needs the tea in front of her, so weird.
19:58
Speaker 1: I think she wants the interact to happen. Cassie and
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Speaker 1: I do not have the best relationship. She tried warning
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Speaker 1: me about Aaron. She told Erin after meeting me once
20:07
Speaker 1: that she didn't like me. What I don't know what
20:09
Speaker 1: to do here? Why am I made to feel like
20:11
Speaker 1: the outsider? I bet no one is saying how weird
20:13
Speaker 1: it will be for her. What do I do here?
20:16
Speaker 1: How do I handle this when none of the comments
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Speaker 1: are made to me? My boyfriend obviously tells me that
20:21
Speaker 1: there is no reason for it to be weird and
20:23
Speaker 1: that I'm fine with it. But how do I make
20:25
Speaker 1: this stop? I'm sorry if this felt all over the
20:27
Speaker 1: place with info and details, but I'm just so so
20:30
Speaker 1: tired of dealing with this. Oh no, that's so fair.
20:33
Speaker 1: The only thing you can do about this, and the
20:35
Speaker 1: only thing you can control is yourself and where you
20:39
Speaker 1: are and where you put yourself. And I just think
20:41
Speaker 1: you don't like if you're tired of hearing about this
20:44
Speaker 1: and everything. I just think you distance yourself from these people,
20:47
Speaker 1: definitely from Cassie, oh my god. And luckily you haven't
20:50
Speaker 1: been in the vicinity of Kate, which is good. I
20:52
Speaker 1: think I don't think you should force that meeting at all,
20:55
Speaker 1: and your boyfriend seems to be fine with that as well.
20:57
Speaker 1: But people are gonna talk shit, people like people like
21:01
Speaker 1: to be a part of it, and gossip and stuff,
21:03
Speaker 1: which is unfortunate. But I don't know if there's a
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Speaker 1: way you can mitigate this without ending your relationship, which
21:09
Speaker 1: I don't think that's fair. Let's see what the comments said.
21:11
Speaker 1: First comment said, wait, hold up, am I mathing the
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Speaker 1: timeline right? Did Kate start dating your boyfriend when he
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Speaker 1: was eighteen nineteen a full decade older? And the family
21:19
Speaker 1: is totally cool with this woman continuing to be entrenched
21:21
Speaker 1: in their lives and is constantly comparing you to her.
21:24
Speaker 1: Her attendance at family functions is more important than yours. Yeah,
21:26
Speaker 1: that's how I feel. It's like, what this family just
21:28
Speaker 1: has their Like this priority is mixed up? Dude, what
21:32
Speaker 1: the hell? Kate is a total creep? What the hell?
21:34
Speaker 1: I don't even think this would be a question if
21:37
Speaker 1: the genders were flipped as you do. You look at it,
21:39
Speaker 1: it's like, whoa, that's really weird predatory, Like why do
21:41
Speaker 1: you want to be with an eighteen year old? Like,
21:43
Speaker 1: that's a whole other generation at that point you skip
21:45
Speaker 1: ten years ahead, guys twenty eight and she's thirty eight.
21:49
Speaker 1: That's a different thing. I think personally depends on the personnel. Honestly.
21:53
Speaker 1: This commentary goes on to say, it wasn't very clear
21:55
Speaker 1: to me how your boyfriend feels about the situation. Yeah,
21:57
Speaker 1: it kind of glazed over this. This seems to be
21:59
Speaker 1: most just a problem with his family. Have you guys
22:02
Speaker 1: had a serious conversation about Kate. Hopefully you guys are
22:05
Speaker 1: on the same page on this. If you guys can
22:07
Speaker 1: present a united front. Hey, please stop expecting us to
22:10
Speaker 1: associate with Kate. Stop comparing opet Kate. This is super
22:12
Speaker 1: weird and uncomfortable. I think that will be more successful
22:15
Speaker 1: than you alone. That's so true. He definitely needs to
22:18
Speaker 1: lay down this groundwork and like set boundaries with his
22:21
Speaker 1: family and be like, can you guys shut the fuck up?
22:23
Speaker 1: I know I would, I'd be like, what are you doing?
22:25
Speaker 1: Like this is so awful? And if your boyfriend doesn't
22:28
Speaker 1: have your back and god forbid, isn't actually over Kate
22:30
Speaker 1: or something, well, then you notice stop wasting your time
22:33
Speaker 1: and get the hell out of there. Yeah, oh he
22:34
Speaker 1: said this, Thank you. I call her missus Robinson. I
22:38
Speaker 1: believe he was twenty or twenty one, so maybe she's
22:40
Speaker 1: got her mouth wrong, which you know, you're in your twenties,
22:43
Speaker 1: I guess, but still like, I don't know whatever, you
22:47
Speaker 1: know whatever, they're both consenting adults. I guess it's not whatever,
22:51
Speaker 1: but it still makes me like, like, rolls reverse too.
22:56
Speaker 1: Still makes me. It's like m I believe he was
22:58
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one, could not be mathing, but I know
23:02
Speaker 1: he had a year long relationship with someone else between
23:05
Speaker 1: her and I think it's so gross for a thirty
23:08
Speaker 1: to thirty one year old to go for a younger guy. Okay,
23:10
Speaker 1: so she was thirty at thirty one and he's twenty. Okay,
23:14
Speaker 1: it's the same thing. It's just like, Okay, my boyfriend
23:17
Speaker 1: ended the relationship because he couldn't see marrying her and
23:19
Speaker 1: he wants a family. Everyone in his family talks highly
23:22
Speaker 1: of her, though, so I think she's a very bubbly,
23:24
Speaker 1: charismatic person. I just think if my kid did that,
23:27
Speaker 1: I'd have an issue. Being twenty nine. Now, young guys
23:30
Speaker 1: wi repulse me. I think they don't speak about it
23:33
Speaker 1: out of respect for my boyfriend. They don't talk about
23:35
Speaker 1: their feelings much. My boyfriend hardly tells the family what
23:38
Speaker 1: is going on in his life. He has always been
23:40
Speaker 1: like that. And luckily we have an update, so let's
23:43
Speaker 1: read it. I was asked to give an update after
23:45
Speaker 1: my original post that I posted a few days ago
23:48
Speaker 1: regarding my boyfriend an ex being a ghostnart relationship. Thank
23:51
Speaker 1: you everyone who gave advice. I appreciated it all. The
23:53
Speaker 1: baby shower was yesterday and I thought about posting, but
23:56
Speaker 1: I was so frustrated yesterday. I didn't want it to
23:58
Speaker 1: be a rage post. There was no crazy, petty confrontation
24:02
Speaker 1: or drama. There actually isn't anything huge to really report.
24:05
Speaker 1: But I have officially met Kate. Oh, I'm scared. I'm scared.
24:10
Speaker 1: Like she's five ten. She has like beautiful brunette hair
24:13
Speaker 1: down to her knees. She like floats in the air
24:16
Speaker 1: when she walks. I'm scared. It was Cassie's baby shower
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Speaker 1: and her sister had actually ended up going into labor
24:22
Speaker 1: yesterday morning, so everyone was more concerned with that than
24:25
Speaker 1: anything else. I showed up about half an hour early
24:28
Speaker 1: to help my boyfriend's mom in case she needed it.
24:30
Speaker 1: It was just my boyfriend's mom and Kate there when
24:32
Speaker 1: I showed up. He's showing up early with your ex
24:35
Speaker 1: boyfriend's mom, dude, also her current boyfriend. Okay, we love that.
24:39
Speaker 1: She immediately introduced herself and I started helping anyway I could.
24:43
Speaker 1: She was very kind, She was literally an angel. Why
24:47
Speaker 1: does that make it worse? Somehow? That's good though. Whatever.
24:49
Speaker 1: As people started showing up, though, she made a comment saying, oh,
24:52
Speaker 1: I should introduce myself to everyone who showed up. My
24:55
Speaker 1: boyfriend's aunt showed up and they hugged and chatted a bit,
24:57
Speaker 1: along with Aaron's cousin. It felt so strange to watch
25:00
Speaker 1: them all interact. She still very much has a good
25:02
Speaker 1: relationship with them all. Oh again, just I feel sticky
25:05
Speaker 1: and messy and yucky. I can't imagine how you feel.
25:08
Speaker 1: I didn't let that get to me. We had a
25:09
Speaker 1: couple more interactions where she complimented my outfit and made
25:12
Speaker 1: small talk about the food, but I didn't let the
25:15
Speaker 1: conversation go long. I stayed at a table with all
25:17
Speaker 1: my boyfriend's family, his mom, his mom's friend, his aunt, cousin, etc.
25:21
Speaker 1: I felt her eyes on me most of the day.
25:23
Speaker 1: Her daughter was there too. Okay. For some reason, it
25:26
Speaker 1: stuck out to me again that my boyfriend's mom was
25:28
Speaker 1: talking to her friend about Kate and her daughter and
25:31
Speaker 1: the colleges she got into. My got her daughter's in college. Crazy,
25:34
Speaker 1: But all of my mom's friends were mostly chatting to
25:36
Speaker 1: me about the house my boyfriend and I are building.
25:39
Speaker 1: One of them had even said, Wow, the last name
25:42
Speaker 1: boys really know how to pick beautiful women. It was
25:45
Speaker 1: just something nice to hear in that really odd situation. However,
25:48
Speaker 1: I guess she would be included in that in some capacity. Yeah.
25:52
Speaker 1: I got home and my boyfriend had asked me how
25:54
Speaker 1: it went because his mom mentioned her and I chatting.
25:56
Speaker 1: I crashed out on him. Oh, I'm excited just as bad.
26:00
Speaker 1: For some reason, it just hit me that this woman
26:03
Speaker 1: is not going anywhere, and I have absolutely no control
26:06
Speaker 1: of that. If we have kids down the road one day,
26:08
Speaker 1: she will most likely meet them, and for some reason
26:10
Speaker 1: that bothers me. It's okay, that makes sense. The family
26:13
Speaker 1: views her in a positive light when she was about
26:16
Speaker 1: thirty to thirty one and dated my boyfriend at twenty.
26:18
Speaker 1: I know some people struggled with that math in my
26:20
Speaker 1: original post, but they had to be broken up when
26:23
Speaker 1: he was twenty six. He dated someone between the two
26:26
Speaker 1: of us, and then I met him when he was
26:28
Speaker 1: twenty eight turning twenty nine. Her current boyfriend is eight
26:31
Speaker 1: years younger too. I don't want to judge, but like
26:34
Speaker 1: I'm I'm on op side, So I'm like, that's fu weird.
26:40
Speaker 1: I'm on her side. But you know, she's what she's like,
26:43
Speaker 1: almost in her forties now, and that person would be
26:44
Speaker 1: in their thirties, So like, in hindsight, it's perfectly normal.
26:48
Speaker 1: I guess. I know it's kind of irrelevant, but I'm
26:50
Speaker 1: so annoyed at the situation. I'll be seeing her again
26:53
Speaker 1: before the end of the summer at Cassie's party. I'm
26:55
Speaker 1: going once and never going again. Lol. I think I'm
26:58
Speaker 1: allowed to not want to be around her. Yes, absolutely,
27:00
Speaker 1: my boyfriend feels the same. Good. We both know we
27:03
Speaker 1: can't do anything about the rest of the family having
27:05
Speaker 1: a relationship with her, but from here on out we
27:08
Speaker 1: don't want to hear about her or have contact. Good,
27:11
Speaker 1: then your boyfriend needs to say something. I know quite
27:13
Speaker 1: a bit about my boyfriend and Kate's relationship. I think
27:15
Speaker 1: she corrupted him in so many ways. I want so
27:18
Speaker 1: badly to tell his mother all the things I know
27:20
Speaker 1: so she understands exactly what kind of person she is.
27:23
Speaker 1: He should tell her he needs to grow up and
27:26
Speaker 1: talk to his mom. Me. But at the end of
27:28
Speaker 1: the day, she got the boy and I got the man.
27:31
Speaker 1: Ooh yeah, I like that. A relevant comment said, how
27:36
Speaker 1: did Kate corrupt erin during their relationship, and Opee answered with,
27:40
Speaker 1: without going to too much detail, let's just say they
27:42
Speaker 1: had a type of open relationship. Oh yeah, so she's
27:45
Speaker 1: just like just does whatever she wants, takes advantage crazy.
27:49
Speaker 1: Another comment says, Honestly, it feels like Cassie wants Kate
27:53
Speaker 1: to be her sister in law instead of you. This
27:55
Speaker 1: isn't over, but it's still weird as oh p He says,
27:58
Speaker 1: this isn't over, ug, That's what I'm of. Cassie and
28:00
Speaker 1: her sister got pregnant like the same week. They live
28:03
Speaker 1: on the same street and are both besties with Kate.
28:05
Speaker 1: They'd love if my boyfriend and Kate got back together
28:07
Speaker 1: and they could all be sister in law's. Cassie and
28:10
Speaker 1: Nate used to be the only two who would come
28:12
Speaker 1: over with my family dinners, and now her sister comes
28:14
Speaker 1: every time, which I guess is a way my boyfriend's
28:17
Speaker 1: parents are still family, but when they come, all they
28:19
Speaker 1: do is talk about being pregnant, and I'm just kind
28:21
Speaker 1: of excluded. It's such a complicated and odd dynamic. It
28:24
Speaker 1: just feels like Cassie wants to push me out. Yeah,
28:26
Speaker 1: Cassie's toxic. Eight don't hang out with her anymore, absolutely, Like,
28:31
Speaker 1: I know you want to be close with everybody involved. Sorry,
28:33
Speaker 1: not that you want to be close, but you know
28:34
Speaker 1: you want to maintain a relationship with a boyfriend's family
28:36
Speaker 1: and everything. But Cassie is like, you don't need to
28:39
Speaker 1: do that. Oh but we have a new update. Yes,
28:42
Speaker 1: and the title of the update is I think I
28:44
Speaker 1: might be getting engaged this weekend. There might be a
28:47
Speaker 1: better sub breddit to post this too, but I don't know.
28:50
Speaker 1: I don't have girlfriends to talk to about this, so
28:52
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna post about it here. My boyfriend I
28:55
Speaker 1: went on vacation a couple of weeks ago, and he
28:56
Speaker 1: already told me. He asked my dad if he could
28:59
Speaker 1: ask me. Last Friday was my birthday, and I really
29:02
Speaker 1: thought he'd do it then, but he didn't. He didn't
29:04
Speaker 1: get me a birthday gift either, no card, no flowers,
29:07
Speaker 1: which is not normal for him. Maybe he spent a
29:09
Speaker 1: lot of money on our route. Today he told me
29:11
Speaker 1: after I vent about work to get a manny petty tomorrow.
29:14
Speaker 1: I said, no, it's Wednesday. I'll go this weekend, but
29:17
Speaker 1: he was insistent that I go tomorrow because he wants
29:19
Speaker 1: your nails to look good. He also said I made
29:21
Speaker 1: sure we got a bunch of work done on the
29:23
Speaker 1: house last weekend, so we had a nice, chill weekend together.
29:26
Speaker 1: He's acting very odd. I feel like it's going to
29:28
Speaker 1: happen soon. I'm so excited. I don't want to ruin it,
29:31
Speaker 1: but I'm like giddy about it. He's definitely gonna ask.
29:33
Speaker 1: Common says. The thing that sealed the deal for me
29:35
Speaker 1: is him insisting on you getting a manicure. Congrats. Okay, yeah,
29:38
Speaker 1: I don't care. I just want to go to the
29:39
Speaker 1: next update. Oh, the next update is my man did
29:41
Speaker 1: so good and I can't believe. I'm agage. Oh happy ending.
29:44
Speaker 1: We even got a picture of the engagement ring. Oh
29:47
Speaker 1: that's beautiful. Look at that beautiful. We both have like
29:50
Speaker 1: little circles. I have like a little circle, one too,
29:53
Speaker 1: circle circle queens love that all cute. That's it. That's
29:59
Speaker 1: all we get. Well, you know, I hope it works
30:02
Speaker 1: out for her. I hope it works out. Coma says,
30:04
Speaker 1: methinks this shit show is just getting started. Yeah with
30:08
Speaker 1: the wedding stuff. Oh, I hope we get an update
30:11
Speaker 1: like a year from now with like or are we
30:14
Speaker 1: inviting Kate to the wedding. Not I hope they don't,
30:17
Speaker 1: you know, I hope they just make it about them
30:19
Speaker 1: that Kate's not invited. Maybe not even Cassie. I don't
30:22
Speaker 1: even care if she's a sister. I hope that they
30:24
Speaker 1: really focus on themselves for their wedding and they don't
30:27
Speaker 1: get wrapped up and like mom saying that Kate has
30:30
Speaker 1: to come and all this stuff. We will see. Some
30:33
Speaker 1: people are like a little confused as to why I
30:36
Speaker 1: didn't get her a gift for her birthday. But you know,
30:39
Speaker 1: I mean everybody has different financial situations. Maybe he literally
30:42
Speaker 1: put all of his money into this engagement ring. I think,
30:44
Speaker 1: like a card something, make her a meal, Like there's
30:49
Speaker 1: things you could do that don't assert that. So people
30:51
Speaker 1: are a little bit like, why didn't he do that?
30:53
Speaker 1: But let me know what you guys think. I'm going
30:55
Speaker 1: to read one more. Okay, okay, this one is a
30:58
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day one, and it is am I the Scullywig
31:02
Speaker 1: for getting my boyfriend a dishwasher for Valentine's Day. I
31:06
Speaker 1: would be very happy. My dishwasher just crapped out and
31:09
Speaker 1: I had to get anyone a shit experensive. Why is
31:12
Speaker 1: it so expensive? It's so annoying. I'd feel great about this,
31:16
Speaker 1: but let's read it anyway. My boyfriend four to two
31:19
Speaker 1: male and I forty one female are big Dungeon Crawler
31:23
Speaker 1: Carl fans. I don't know what that is, but all right,
31:25
Speaker 1: you do. You don't worry. No spoilers in this post. Recently,
31:28
Speaker 1: boyfriend has been rereading the series and brought up a
31:30
Speaker 1: part in Dungeon's Anarchist Cookbook where the characters banter about
31:34
Speaker 1: how Carl bought his girlfriend an automatic cat litter box
31:37
Speaker 1: for his girlfriend's birthday. Carl doesn't understand why his girlfriend
31:40
Speaker 1: was mad because the litter box was very expensive and
31:43
Speaker 1: she literally asked for it. The other female characters admonish
31:47
Speaker 1: him for this. Last week, boyfriend asked me if I
31:49
Speaker 1: would be mad if I was Carl's girlfriend, and it
31:52
Speaker 1: devolved into an argument because boyfriend agrees with Carl. So
31:56
Speaker 1: this is all about a fictional character getting like a
31:58
Speaker 1: you know, quote unquote practice coal household gift. Yeah, I
32:02
Speaker 1: don't think that's like something you'd give for like a
32:05
Speaker 1: birthday or Valentine's Day, coming from someone who got a
32:08
Speaker 1: sandwich maker for a birthday gift one year, not recently.
32:12
Speaker 1: This was not Caleb, by the way, obviously. Anyway, yesterday
32:15
Speaker 1: I got fed up with hand washing boyfriend's dishes and
32:18
Speaker 1: frankly my own too. I remembered boyfriend mentioned he wanted
32:21
Speaker 1: to get a dishwasher, so I pulled the trigger and
32:23
Speaker 1: bought one. It's expensive and it was something he asked for,
32:26
Speaker 1: so I'm going to give it to him for Valentine's Day. Okay, Well,
32:29
Speaker 1: he agreed with like it being like okay for the
32:32
Speaker 1: cat litter box fictional thing, so this should be fine.
32:35
Speaker 1: It arrives on Wednesday, so I got the spot ready
32:37
Speaker 1: for install and it for context. We do live together.
32:40
Speaker 1: I told him what I got him, and now he's furious?
32:43
Speaker 1: Am I the asshole? Oh? Interesting? Oh, because he agreed
32:45
Speaker 1: that the cat litter box, like he asked for it.
32:48
Speaker 1: It's practical and he agreed to that, And now you
32:50
Speaker 1: got him that and now he's mad. Interesting. Oh. I
32:53
Speaker 1: don't know. I can only speak from my experience, but like,
32:56
Speaker 1: I wouldn't personally get like an appliance that we're both
32:59
Speaker 1: gonna use for Valentine's Day. I don't think that's not
33:02
Speaker 1: that has to be romantic, but it's not very like
33:04
Speaker 1: I mean, it's nice, it's expensive. I don't know. It's
33:06
Speaker 1: just like, I mean, you agreed that the cat litter
33:09
Speaker 1: box was silly, so you understand that, and now you're
33:13
Speaker 1: showing him even though you think that it's not good
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Speaker 1: that you're doing it anyway. It almost feels like a
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Speaker 1: little bit like a little caddy pun intended with the
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Speaker 1: cat litter box. But am I mad at it? Not really,
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Speaker 1: because he was like, no, that makes sense. So it's like,
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Speaker 1: all right, here's a dishwasher. You know, shit, I don't know.
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Speaker 1: I think it's kind of funny. I'd take a dishwasher personally.
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Speaker 1: I don't know, what do you guys think. I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: read the comments, not gonna lie. I'd be stoked if
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Speaker 1: I got an appliance as a homeowner. Yeah, yeah, for sure,
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Speaker 1: best gift ever imo. But if boyfriend still wants to
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Speaker 1: be a whiny baby, maybe OP should just take it
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Speaker 1: for herself and buy him some dishwashing liquid and gloves.
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Speaker 1: I love Reddit. Oh that's awesome. Yeah, like okay, let's
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Speaker 1: be real. I want to say it's a petty gift,
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Speaker 1: but it's very expensive. But it's very nice. Also that
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Speaker 1: there's like a sprinkle of pettiness there, But I'm okay
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Speaker 1: with it because if based off the argument they had before,
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Speaker 1: Common says, I don't understand why boyfriend is mad. He
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Speaker 1: said he agreed with an appliance as a gift or
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Speaker 1: did he mean only for women? Not the asshole? True?
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Speaker 1: The one hundred percent meant only for women. His reaction
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Speaker 1: shows that, Yeah, the more I just think about it,
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Speaker 1: the more I'm just like, mm, I think that that
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Speaker 1: just just shows him right there. It's like, here's a
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Speaker 1: very nice, expensive gift and it's an appliance? Are you
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Speaker 1: happy about it? Like? Oh, it took you to receive
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Speaker 1: an item to understand that mentality? Grow up. Another comment says,
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Speaker 1: I got my wife a vacuum cleaner for her birthday
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Speaker 1: one time, and she was ecstatic. And you know, everyone's different.
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Speaker 1: But the fact that they had the conversation before and
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Speaker 1: he agreed that it was like totally fine. It's just yeah,
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Speaker 1: this is like cherry on top in my opinion, not
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Speaker 1: the asshole? Why is he mad? He already argued and
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Speaker 1: doug his heels in to say that there was nothing
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Speaker 1: wrong with receiving an appliance as a gift, and it
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Speaker 1: was expensive too, so shouldn't he be pleased with it?
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Speaker 1: You literally just bought him a gift based on his
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Speaker 1: own definitions of what a good gift is. Yeah, this
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Speaker 1: is this is I think this is just pure misogyny.
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Speaker 1: I think it's just purely like, well, a woman can
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Speaker 1: get like a vacuum or like a broom or a microwave.
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Speaker 1: But I don't want that. I don't want that. I
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Speaker 1: want a lego set of dungeon Crawler Carl, you know
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Speaker 1: whatever that is. I don't know what that is. I
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Speaker 1: kind of like the petty news and I'll soo you
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Speaker 1: got a new dishrusher. I feel like there's just double
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Speaker 1: standards and it's just it's not making sense on his part.
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Speaker 1: So let me know what you guys think. Maybe I'm
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Speaker 1: just being a little petty, little little SaaS Pot right now,
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Speaker 1: but that's how I feel. But that's it for me.
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Speaker 1: Hopefully you guys enjoyed this video. Hopefully you just got
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Speaker 1: to relax, grab a snack and chill out for a
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Speaker 1: little bit. If you like these types of videos, I
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Speaker 1: make a ton of them over on my second channel.
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Speaker 1: Call me Chris too if you want to listen to
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Speaker 1: more of these types of videos, and I will see
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Speaker 1: in the next one. All right, bye, beautiful bye, and
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Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day. Happy Valentine's Day.